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"description": "writing off my young brothers depression as just posing",
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} | AITA for writing off my young brothers depression as just posing? | He is 13, and I don't spend that much time with him.Normally I'm really understing with people but the fact that everyone claims they have depression has gotten on my nerves.Here's why I think he is posing:
1)He has sad or depressive in all his online names.On one social media he literally is Sad Boy.I don't think dep... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "forgetting to tell my girlfriend I was leaving earlier on my birthday",
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} | AITA For forgetting to tell my girlfriend I was leaving earlier on my birthday? |
So today is my birthday (yay me) and I've had plans with my family to go out to dinner all week. I was with my girlfriend for most of the morning and we were hanging out playing a game together, my mom came in and let me know that we were going to be leaving earlier because there was suppose to be freezing rain (We ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting my gf to get piercing",
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} | AITA for not wanting my GF to get piercing? | So my GF just "asked" me if she can get her nose pierced, I told her I'd prefer if she didn't as I think she looks better without, quite frankly I don't like the whole nose pierced & gages style. (As I think everyone has their right to not find a style attractive).
She then says that I should support her not tell ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not clearing the snow from deck awning",
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} | AITA For not clearing the snow from deck awning? | Parents have been on a month long vacation and left a small list of stuff do to while they are gone:
1. Take care of dog
2. Don't destroy the house
3. Dad (carpenter by trade) asks to clear the deck awning every few inches of snow so it doesn't cave in
Simple enough, at this point it's been 3 weeks and it has snowed ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to go to family gatherings with my so",
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} | AITA for not wanting to go to family gatherings with my SO? | First post, sorry if it isnt up to standards but I need clarification & advice as to if I am over reacting.
A little bit of background:
His culture is very social, they are very family oriented and like to go out to each others houses and celebrate and party. They hug and kiss every single person when they arrive... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "being mad and upset at my friend for replacing me with a girl",
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} | AITA for being mad and upset at my friend for replacing me with a girl? | This is my first post here, I hope I'm doing it right.
So we've been friends for 6+ years now and we've had each other's backs all along. We were inseparable every day, he would help my family when I'm at work and I'd help his when he was busy.
He was that one friend who could never get together with the girl he liked... | HISTORICAL | {
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BcxP3qh6GMe7HRIMRltCXNjaDc41oGVr | a9ps4d | {
"description": "being extremely blunt with my friend",
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} | AITA for being extremely blunt with my friend | Obligatory formatting because on mobile...
Backstory: 37 years old now, I’ve know this guy J since high school, so close to 20 years. A few years ago during the 2016 election cycle we got into yet another argument where he would push his views onto our group chat without doing any reading. I pointed this out to him... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "choosing my friend's ex girlfriend over our friendship",
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} | AITA for choosing my friend's ex girlfriend over our friendship? | I've known and hung out with my friend Dave for 4 years. Over those 4 years we've had some good to great times. Our friendship on retrospect was superficial. It revolved on smoking weed, drinking, and video games. But i felt close.
Over the better part of the past couple he has been with Sarah. Sarah was always cool a... | HISTORICAL | {
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TDEwqLvULNCClaYV4RKgc5VcwAYvG9BC | ah701b | {
"description": "reporting a sexual assault that happened to me months ago, even though I carried on a friendship with said abuser",
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} | WIBTA for reporting a sexual assault that happened to me months ago, even though I carried on a friendship with said abuser? | So here is the backstory- this might be long, so please bare with me. I work at a large non-profit, but at a small local office. I am on a team with four other members, all female and one male. The male and I are the same position (although I arguably carry all of the workload) and we frequently have to work together t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "eating my sister's expired food from the shared fridge",
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} | AITA to eat my sister's expired food from the shared fridge? | My sister buys a lot of food that stays in the fridge and goes off so it later gets thrown away. I really disagree with wasting food but she says "it's her food to waste". AITA eating her expired food without asking? | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not letting my cousin use my game account",
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} | AITA for not letting my cousin use my game account? | So yesterday at 12:30 AM, my phone woke me up with 2 of my cousins spamming me over and over again on Skype and Facebook. Annoyed, I checked it to see what they were asking me.
​
Turns out that my cousins wanted to use my game account. Usually I would let them use it with no trouble, but for this specific... | HISTORICAL | {
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wn7MeVNVmOztkfan4SRv8Q2BSYiOYubq | aumaxa | {
"description": "blaming my fwb for getting an infection and not reminding them to wash their hands before contact",
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} | AITA for blaming my FWB for getting an infection and not reminding them to wash their hands before contact? | I am a clean person and take special note to keep my private bits fresh. I am also very sensitive and use unscented laundry soap. That said, with any sexual partner I have had I make sure to remind them that they need to be sanitary before any kind of contact. This means recently showered, hands washed, and if they wan... | HISTORICAL | {
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oEvvwf6tXgJJnFhso61qL9yNCJk8CULY | akh9e9 | {
"description": "asking my friend to stop commenting",
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} | AITA for asking my friend to stop commenting? | To preface: We are all teenagers, so for sure some of the stuff here is amplified by the general insecurity and dickish nature at our age, sorry if this is a really petty post!
​
I have two friends that I regularly have meals with - my best friend, who is a lesbian (becomes relevant later), and a mutual ma... | HISTORICAL | {
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AiApYgQJSWNNlsRqaNptb264vfePgCfj | ax11g8 | {
"description": "not saying anything months at a time",
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} | AITA For not saying anything months at a time? | Going to say right off the bat, my title for this situation isn’t very good, and doesn’t do much justice. I’m just going to type out the scenario, and some of you can put your thoughts below, just ignore the terrible title.
As for the person I’ll be bringing up here, I’ll just refer to them as Kendall, since I don’t w... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZposKn3gKWtAsXyMaxiaXXpxzedQ6xIn | b1ib71 | {
"description": "planning a poker night while on vacation",
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} | AITA for planning a poker night while on vacation? |
For about 15 years I had a weekly poker game with a group of friends. We played for low stakes (winning or losing more than $50 in a night was rare), and while we were competitive the vibe was also casual and fun, with plenty of non poker discussion and kidding around going on.
Near the end of that 15 year per... | HISTORICAL | {
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4IkjSo2mNzuqyOZPXbjvHet1Kldzxwso | 9ztxbb | {
"description": "calling out my drug addict sister while she's trying to get clean",
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} | AITA for calling out my drug addict sister while she’s trying to get clean? | So yesterday was the first time in a few years that my sister came to my grandparent’s house for thanksgiving. My sister and I haven’t been very close since she tried to kill herself in front of me before I left for college.
For some context, since that incident my sister and I have had a volatile relationship. My fir... | HISTORICAL | {
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u3Rh4ltZ28t609XzhHb92lxDhTWraDu8 | axnydb | {
"description": "asking my friend to pay for what he broke",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | WIBTA if I asked my friend to pay for what he broke? | I’m really at a loss here, so please tell me if I would be doing the wrong thing.
My boyfriend and I had a group of people over to our place last night to celebrate my friend’s 21st birthday—we’ll call him Jeff. We were getting ready to smoke outside, using our brand new, one-of-a-kind Pink Floyd bong that my boyfrien... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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GKbCSjE7S3mC5RwptOKdCCucUf2Ek3ND | a9tsnd | {
"description": "going full no contact with my best friend and a girl I was with for fucking each other",
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} | WIBTA for going full no contact with my best friend and a girl I was with for fucking each other. | Okay, so it's not as simple as the title might make it out to be.
A bit of info about me is I am away for work a month at a time and if I am not on working I have very little time to be on my phone answering texts, snaps etc.
It all begun a while ago when we (me and her) first met, we had a common friend that had a ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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JHza0iXdYmr8LQUgwSV306HgWEZQMmin | 9u5zdf | {
"description": "telling my father about a fake gift",
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} | WIBTA if I tell my father about a fake gift? | I've been gifted fake perfume from my father's new girlfriend, totalling about £300 if it were real. The gift itself is lovely, and I'm glad she thought about us so I'm not about to mention anything bad about the gift. However, my father is under the impression that it is real and thinks it's such a wonderful gift and... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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3uAwB3R1lmbhPO3zBzF28f6VnWCooY4r | aiiw7p | {
"description": "keeping my work computer until I receive my final pay check",
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} | AITA for keeping my work computer until I receive my final pay check | I left a job on pretty bad terms. Essentially saying in my resignation letter I would be using my pto time and ending my employment with company when the pto expires. They responded saying we accept your resignation effective immediately and I will not be getting my pto. Furthermore to return the laptop and all other c... | HISTORICAL | {
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UnkcAwfE0eGjJQFsGbd8aAg20CfYFtFg | aps3m1 | {
"description": "wanting a vegan wedding",
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} | AITA for wanting a vegan wedding? | So a little bit of backstory first.
I'm not vegan, my husband is. Yes he is my husband because we're already married on paper. We planned to have our big party this summer. So this party is going to be very different from your typical wedding. We are both pretty frugal and we don't really need or want any unecessary ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TgyNeRcC9e1PSxV1Uq5KvbUV8lBWIjXC | b780uo | {
"description": "cutting the matted fur off a stray cat",
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} | WIBTA if I cut the matted fur off a stray cat? | There is a stray cat nearby where I work who I see almost every day. Since I got here a year and a half ago, he's had huge matted clumps of fur on his back and shoulder. I didn't want to try to cut it if it was freezing outside, but since it's spring and getting warmer, I figured I could try. Some of the other employee... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 13,
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ZuMQ5727O2MaR4bU15WCfwSgdQcUSldS | ax7do7 | {
"description": "not liking pride",
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} | AITA for not liking Pride? | Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Will try and keep it short. I (23 F) am bisexual but I get crap from straight and gay people as I am currently in a relationship with a guy, despite having previously dated both women and men before, and my best friend is gay.
My best friend had came out 6 months before this ha... | HISTORICAL | {
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RDHzBEnjsLXAQ621Lgq4BzYchFanUayd | a9un4y | {
"description": "telling my father about my cousin's relationship",
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} | AITA for telling my father about my cousin's relationship ? |
So my cousin, who is one of my best friends got a girlfriend about 6 months ago and stopped never going out. We used to hang out almost every day but I now see him only when his girlfriend is out of town. We are 20 and live in away from our hometown for uni. We come from a muslim family,and his new girlfriend is chri... | HISTORICAL | {
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vkW86qO8PhnP3Dsjs9HX0BO3Q5Wd9jxh | b7r6is | {
"description": "demanding my landlord look for a hornet's nest",
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} | AITA for demanding my landlord look for a hornet's nest? | I've had 3 hornets in my apartment over the last 4 days and I'm starting to get a little concerned. I emailed The landlord and he said that he's 'supply me with a fly swatter and raid' and that he'd calk the windows.
​
IMO I don't want to be on hornet look out all month with a can of raid. I'd rather him ... | HISTORICAL | {
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i1jSvw93cb1o7Xht5kSvSVMxpZcCArY0 | b7wh6n | {
"description": "calling my degenerate grandfather by his first name instead of grandpa",
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} | AITA for calling my degenerate grandfather by his first name instead of grandpa | This is a long personal story and I don’t wanna go into it but basically my grandfather is an awful narcissistic asshole. It’s been an open secret for a while that he has been having an affair, he would often throw my grandma on a plane to visit us and spend the week with his mistress. There are hundreds of stories of... | HISTORICAL | {
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oU5YvquU26Qz31SI1741ShX2Ov8uikYi | aj1to7 | {
"description": "feeling creeped out by someone complimenting my art",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for feeling creeped out by someone complimenting my art? | I am not a big artist, just around 500 Instagram followers.
But a few days ago someone started following me who really *loves* my work, she always posted several comments on every single picture, *bathing me* in compliments, also apologizing the whole time, telling me that her husband told her that she often gets creep... | HISTORICAL | {
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xF08fZxLDFG4Se4RiAzGLpF3eGlxJ11h | b2ymu9 | {
"description": "getting competitive over a charity event I did in honor of my brother",
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} | AITA for getting competitive over a charity event I did in honor of my brother | My little brother unexpectedly passed less than a year ago. He was only a teenager. He had a condition that was serious but well maintained and his death was incredibly sudden and unexpected. Like one day you wake up to a normal day expecting nothing out of the ordinary and by the end of it, it’s the worst day of your ... | HISTORICAL | {
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jea9REztpFpPztB79DXngbib0LbbEsmT | b0fgel | {
"description": "asking my partner to not call me a \"bastard?\"",
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} | AITA For asking my partner to not call me a “bastard?” | I’ve been with my partner for a while now (10 months), and sometimes when we are just talking playfully, she will call me some things I consider harsh like “bastard” or “dumbass” and sort. I usually let things like “idiot” go, but some words do affect me. I’ve told her before about this and she half heartedly apologize... | HISTORICAL | {
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BcQuZfGp3RLiUnPkx6s9opk1RxzUmH5Z | b28vtn | null | AITA Ride and Repair | Ok, so here is what you need to know. My car is in the shop. My friend has been driving me to the store and work, while I wait for the shop to get parts in so they can do the repairs. I have been giving them gas money, as well as a bit extra for their time.
​
My friends car wouldn't start yesterday, so he ... | HISTORICAL | {
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nI9sNIS64sJBnFC1foOptmhE3hyxx0eV | ao5ezi | {
"description": "immatating peoples walks when sitting down",
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} | AITA for immatating peoples walks when sitting down? | This is weird, no one has called me an asshole for it but I'm wondering if I'm pissing everyone off. I do this thing subconsciously I tap my feet to people's walking speed and match it. I don't know why I do it tbh but I'm just wondering if it's worth stopping.
It doesn't matter if the people are running, walking or ... | HISTORICAL | {
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iE7x6nomWEFJ24BU0UyXDzlJsz32zdjp | a8y1f9 | {
"description": "not wanting my long-term GF to cuddle with her friends in our bed",
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} | AITA for not wanting my long-term GF to cuddle with her friends in our bed? | GF of a year and a half is having a "sleepover" with her two lesbian friends where she will be cuddling and sharing our tiny twin bed with them. I'm not worried about anything sexual happening even though they plan on not being sober all night. I don't expect anything to happen and I told her that, but I also explained... | HISTORICAL | {
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AokM04ioF50jfgFPnYu5ZiOSJUMiJfSP | at4acc | {
"description": "telling my mum that I'm going to put my ps4 in my room when her friend's guests stay over",
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} | AITA for telling my mum that I'm gonna put my PS4 in my room when her friend's guests stay over | ​
So my mum's friend is having her 50th part at an 18 and above only bar, which i am completely fine with, all of her kids are 20 or over and it is her choice and her day, but what really annoys me is that my mum has offered to take two of her guests because the BD girl "has no space at her place" I then to... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "saying no to hanging out after I tried to make amends with my ex-friend and college roommate that I blocked from my life? I said no because I just wanted to put this all behind me. he was upset and said I was being fake",
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} | AITA for saying no to hanging out after I tried to make amends with my ex-friend and college roommate that I blocked from my life? I said no because I just wanted to put this all behind me. He was upset and said I was being fake. | So a little back story for context.
We were roommates in college and this friend had done some... questionable things as far as friendship goes. Taking the girl I was seeing at the time (and then sleeping with her in our room constantly), abusive behavior and getting upset over little things, pushing me into and brea... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "asking my dad to not study with me",
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} | WIBTA if I asked my dad to not study with me? | So I’m a junior in HS during finals week. I have my last final tomorrow (French, over flashcards) and my stepmom was helping me quiz. I was flying through them!
However, the moment my dad walked in I blanked every single one. This isn’t the first time that’s happened either, in freshman year he pretty much made me forg... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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NyHvzon8PZzNc2jDWO6ip5FmAbpDe67W | agljxq | {
"description": "having an opinion on my girlfriends family",
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} | AITA For having an opinion on my girlfriends family? | Its long and complicated so I'll try to keep it short. Throwaway for reasons. TL:DR at the bottom.
​
My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years, we live together, in our mid 20s, happy, no major problems in our relationship. Now, I love her family and thats the truth. They treat me like their ... | HISTORICAL | {
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3ga5OsbidGH6gFlziGUdnmWkBv5gmN8j | 9z8vyy | {
"description": "being angry about two of my friends hiding their relationship from me",
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} | WIBTA for being angry about two of my friends hiding their relationship from me? | I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. I don't know if I'm in the right, being upset with two of my best friends. They've been in some kind of relationship for a little over a year, but they've kept it a secret so far. I kind of get, why they would want to keep it quiet, because it could cause some problems at work (the thr... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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DGg76d6YNO8ekvpyPBiaCZqHu3ByBfcr | ba21kp | {
"description": "not trusting my friend when he tells me he has enough money",
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} | AITA for not trusting my friend when he tells me he has enough money? | So I am about half a week in a two week long trip in Japan. A friend of mine who was living over seas wanted to tag along for the first week which I was ok with.
After choosing what I felt were decent prices on hostels/airbnbs and showing him how much lodging would cost he showed a bit of hesitation (this was because ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Mwvx71L79DL6YnV0Km5foT5xZ5MtkWqa | ago7n3 | {
"description": "waking up my boyfriend before he usually wakes up",
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} | AITA for waking up my boyfriend before he usually wakes up? | I (21 F) love my boyfriend (28 m) but he’s very grumpy in the mornings.
He usually wakes up 10-15 minutes before he leaves for work at 8:30 am. We got into an argument before because I would try to wake him up earlier to have breakfast with me. When I realized that he’d rather sleep in, I stopped bothering him.
Today... | HISTORICAL | {
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chLn8DKjqecPMtWoueldLJy3knFj16ys | a2v5e7 | {
"description": "watching porn",
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} | AITA for watching porn | I'm not the best at writing so bear with me.
​
Me (23M) and my girlfriend (22F) have been dating for about a year now and everything is going good (except for this currently) and I'm honestly not sure if I'm the asshole here. Here's the story, so every since I hit puberty I've been watching porn and mostly... | HISTORICAL | {
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seFO9cWCV2qs2f4q7z5fkUn9oXZHHHiJ | b49lgl | {
"description": "telling my friend I think he has herpes and refusing to play beer pong with him",
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} | AITA for telling my friend I think he has herpes and refusing to play beer pong with him? | Throwaway because friends know my Reddit account.
Basically last night a few friends and I got together at my place for some drinks, one of my friends had just got back from a trip to Asia. While he was out there he kept sending stories to the group chat of girls in bars propositioning him for sex. He says he never sl... | HISTORICAL | {
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tcLZp3ZdyT38Vw5Tfa1Rmq9Qpi9zmgpj | as0u7t | {
"description": "leaving work early Saturday and asking for today off",
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} | AITA I left work early Saturday and I'm asking for today off | So last week Thursday I found out my grandpa was in the hospital, hes there every now and then but it's more serious this time. The whole family is there and my mom didnt even tell me he was admitted untill I called her that day to catch up. Hes still there, shes still being vague. That's just how she copes but I'm str... | HISTORICAL | {
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zPHgxEpSmwh8SgnmZu8cl5yStdBA6yI4 | b9nm8r | {
"description": "cussing out my mom for going through my things",
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} | AITA for cussing out my mom for going through my things? | I'm 19F and live with mom who is widowed at 54. I like to have everything in a particular place: laptop on the table, pens on the right of that, paper on the left, etc. I hoard things that hold sentimental value that I can't find myself letting go of too.
I introduced mom to the KonMari method of cleaning and living l... | HISTORICAL | {
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mdlYyBDf3jRVVvfYCBm4u2ZrpIuvY3pc | azb03r | {
"description": "making my sister do chores when she comes home from college",
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} | AITA for making my sister do chores when she comes home from college? | My older sister starting going to college last year, and I will too in two years. But ever since she left, I’ve had to pick up doing all her chores in addition to mine.
First off, our dog gets up at 6:30 every morning, because he likes to get up when my parents leave for work and me for school. As a product of this, h... | HISTORICAL | {
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oWRoJUw2lxsVmsLfAvhhAE6TfYw7mnkj | aaycax | null | AITA Didn't talk to this girl that would not give me space when I asked for it | Right so me and this girl had been talking for a little bit and I always felt there was something off about her but I shrugged it off as I wanted to date again after a long failed relationship. Things were okay but she constantly would text me and wouldnt give me any space so I told her how I felt and it subsided for a... | HISTORICAL | {
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gSzb67NKVVRTRAfXhtc0EGik4lK1eY7a | ba677l | {
"description": "looking through my boyfriend's phone",
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} | AITA for looking through my boyfriend’s phone? | So long story short I had trust issues with my boyfriend but I felt like it was just my anxiety. I felt bad for not trusting him and I made it clear to him that he never did anything to deserve me taking away his privacy like that.
One night we were showering and I got done before him so I was gonna get out. He kept ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GxCVTqXGvMqg1mJRmI4okC9d01WuqYe6 | a25ed9 | {
"description": "telling a friend the real story of me sleeping with her ex",
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} | WIBTA For telling a friend the real story of me sleeping with her ex? | Warning: may cause discomfort, rough story
This is a couple years back but this situation has been on my mind for years, it's been a serious problem that I've only recently started addressing in counseling but it doesn't seem like it's enough to make it stop bothering me. It especially doesn't help that because of wha... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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0ezs2caI6DNI3xiqCyE3eLi0KWWziyFU | ap8zk0 | {
"description": "breaking with my wife over e-mail",
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} | WIBTA If I broke with my wife over e-mail (context necessary!) | I get that normally breaking up over e-mail is bad, but I need to explain the situation.
My wife of 6 years and I recently moved out onto some land, that is a couple hours away from our friends. I've been having some doubts about our relationship and I think I'm in love with my Ex. My wife is away (back in town) for t... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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qnvLjFfI4Y4C3kavy3TWGZ2Dm2Zh7Mbf | arkriu | {
"description": "telling my mom she has 3 days to spend my money or I'll spend it myself",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for telling my mom she has 3 days to spend my money or I'll spend it myself? | So in March 2018 I got this card with money on it, I told my mom she could spend it on the cats to get them helped and vaccinated. This money lasts until March 2019, which as you might know is soon.
The whole year she said that it didn't need to be hurried as she had till March 2019 to do it. Even last month she said ... | HISTORICAL | {
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Z4fNlhlgWNxUXtQbDHegQUReL2UIHbZE | 9vyfdn | {
"description": "kicking a parent out of the rink because she refused to listen",
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} | AITA for kicking a parent out of the rink because she refused to listen? | I’m a assistant referee at a local hockey rink, Just a hour ago I was reffing a junior hockey game. It was one team who was extremely rough (the goalie of the other team got a injury in the neck because of this team), against one who was fairly normal. The rough team slashed a player, ok time in the box, and then the s... | HISTORICAL | {
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SYG1RUVn895s2MUABTn0paTCN0rq2iNF | b2njyu | {
"description": "asking my bf we didn't split expenses 50/50",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | WIBTA if I ask my bf we didn't split expenses 50/50? | So for some context my partner has a child and we are about to start looking at apartments/cheap houses to rent. He and his child are a package deal and I have no issues with that, they are honestly one of the few children I actually like and genuinely enjoy being around. However, they are not my child and I don't feel... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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Abg50eJchjIoyTPOiF52z22AKpKXR4YJ | a75h36 | {
"description": "dating my best friend's long term girlfriend a week after they broke up",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for dating my best friend’s long term girlfriend a week after they broke up? | For context my best friend and I just finished our last year of high school. We have been very close for the last 3/4 years and had the majority of our classes together. Last year he moved in with his girlfriend when he was only 17. At the time people were suspicious but I and a few others knew he had a history of dome... | HISTORICAL | {
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lTZAJ3h9e4ErJC64PbcpcRlepbnpAKzN | a8ss5g | {
"description": "not wanting my ceremony filmed because my fiance's father won't be there",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA If I don't want my ceremony filmed because my fiance's father won't be there? | We are from the states.
My fiance and I have decided to get married with a destination wedding. It was the only venue my fiance fell in love with and the only venue that catered to everything we need. I fell in love with it too, but seeing him light up at it was amazing, and sealed the deal so to speak.
His mom is g... | HISTORICAL | {
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2VzhLiHttUvqvYhVYOwDLNc1Pas290UL | a8vsib | null | AITA for GF’s reaction to texts? | (Throwaway)
We’ve been dating 2 years. For context I guess, last fall my dad passed away and I broke up with my GF two days after thanksgiving because I was feeling really overwhelmed with my dad passing and the demands of my family (I’m the head of household, oldest kid, became my mom’s right hand man when my dad lef... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | WRONG |
8wm1lHofgoXZZf0SG73EeqRHaZw5P049 | ajjtdq | {
"description": "shaving my head",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for shaving my head? | I'm a 19 years old male, and live with my uncle. It's summer in Argentina, around 30°C constant, sometimes going up to 40°C. I have curly hair, and a greasy, sweaty skin in general. I've never had my hair too short or too long, my uncle used to cut it down to around 1 cm every 3 months. Recently i've taken it on me so ... | HISTORICAL | {
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CT1UBufKvIwPeuitRhKDsWTSGwOMoJIP | ayh9xt | {
"description": "saving a puppy from children",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for saving a puppy from children? | So I was homeschooled. My family and other homeschoolers would meet up at a park. Nothing private so other families could go to said park. This family: 2 parents, 3 kids, and a small dog (Tan Dear Head Chihuahua puppy again I will say *puppy*). The dog was not on a leash walking around and sniffing, extremely friendly.... | HISTORICAL | {
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bz6Ed5QCRJojPIT0MObPEID0y2jst38t | apr6pr | {
"description": "getting angry at my little brother while he's sick",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA cause I got angry at my little brother while he’s sick? | So a little pretext, my little brother and I share a room and sleep on bunk beds. My other brother moved out, and my little brother was supposed to move in to my older brothers room. But because he’s sick (and it’s not contagious) he’s still sharing a room with me. Nothing serious for him, it’s just like a strain of t... | HISTORICAL | {
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iIJDV9daEXERnyRoSYxvnmGQhlj1v4dK | a5nbjk | {
"description": "pulling a prank on my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for pulling a prank on my best friend? | So my best friend is getting married! He asked for me to be his best man which I obviously agreed to. He is a really good guy and pretty innocent, only ever been with his soon to be wife.
So me and his wife planned a prank for his bachelor party. (Important thing to note, he has a bit of a voyeur fetish and him and hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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TpU3nIOVKY7B1XEyPQjmos2lL8f6GMwy | b5p5r8 | {
"description": "wanting a day-after wedding brunch when SO doesn't want it",
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} | AITA Wanting a day-after wedding brunch when SO doesn’t want it? | TL;DR: SO doesn’t want to do any sort of day-after wedding brunch. My parents want to host a smaller one for some people on my side, which I want us to attend. AITA for insisting on it?
Background: SO and I are getting married this summer. My parents said they’d like to host a day-after wedding brunch for us that incl... | HISTORICAL | {
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5IpGjTu86mp9Xs5BlEtP5Qelcv0GncNM | aegkll | {
"description": "going through with my plans of going overseas after I've started seeing a girl",
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} | WIBTA if I go through with my plans of going overseas after I’ve started seeing a girl? | So a couple of months ago I met a girl at a club and went home with her. At the time I thought it was just going to be a one night stand, but we’ve stayed in touch. We message each other a few times a week. She’s stayed at my house a couple of times and we spent New Years together.
It’s very casual, We’re not in a re... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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I88SRUL1vUEVnxbezR1wwi1dcaQQRYD1 | aie2qq | {
"description": "not buying groceries",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not buying groceries? (Edit) | A few redditors who commented on my last post suggested I add some extra info I supplied in the comments to my post for more information.
So to begin again..
I currently live with my parents. I am 17F and my parents were very kind to let my boyfriend 20M live with me. They both really like my boyfriend and he offers... | HISTORICAL | {
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39E968uzNng32ddwrQbMl68HBxfg6pfW | amai6x | {
"description": "not going out with friends I was distanced from",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not going out with friends I was distanced from? | A while back, I had a falling out with a person in my friend group, and started seeing the group less and less. Cut to now, the group was planning a get-together in a group chat, and I didn't go so as to avoid an akward situation. I never notified the group chat that I wasn't, I just didn't show. Am I an asshole for ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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CPTX56xIuJil8X8XIu20x3KrvPmxyBPH | a1nxrc | {
"description": "telling my female employees to stop using the male toilet",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA If I tell my female employees to stop using the male toilet. | At work there is a male and female toilet. Obviously I only use the male toilet but the females only use the male toilet aswell.
Almost every single day when I want to relieve myself I have the girls in the male toilet doing there make-up when no one is in the female. After about two months of this constantly I've ju... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
"WRONG": 1
} | RIGHT |
1ZhgJAVdXZhBSj9f6B7Qhsm8D6VNbmoW | aweptt | {
"description": "leaving my gf back at the restaurant",
"pronormative_score": 27,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for leaving my gf back at the restaurant? | I have some back stories here. Me and my gf are both 18. I have an ex-lover, lets call the ex-lover "Jess". Today me and my gf went to a restaurant near my home to have our dinner.
When we got in the restaurant, we picked our seat, I pulled out my chair and took my seat, my gf stared at me angrily, that's confusing. S... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 25,
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} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 27,
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} | RIGHT |
OHLowtlVlESh2xCYdSzEANsVHEe5Axsn | au7mrg | {
"description": "my breakup reasoning",
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} | AITA for my breakup reasoning | Title.
Been dating someone for a year(ish). Things are good. I'm going to be moving out of state to pursue a career and I told her that I really want to focus on this and I don't think I can handle the relationship. I just told her this and I don't move for 4 months.
I feel awful because she's really sweet and I did... | HISTORICAL | {
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VJHDp76YzPufSeZ6MSEuJpALLkZnD7sx | b6tsfs | {
"description": "leaving my fiancé for going to jail",
"pronormative_score": 22,
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} | WIBTA for leaving my fiancé for going to jail (again)? | I apologize in advance if formatting is funky because I’m on mobile. So the first week of February my fiancé got arrested for DUI on prescription meds that weren’t his, driving without insurance, and driving with expired registration. I got him out on bond the next day, and had a serious conversation with him about wal... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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oX0zw7btWypjHW3jJJ6apEozicRvNiKs | av26ek | {
"description": "getting angry when my partner checks in all day asking what's up",
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} | AITA for getting angry when my partner checks in all day asking what's up | I should start by saying it's not just this one person. I feel this way when anyone checks on me often and it has been an issue in past relationships. It's not every 5 minutes but it is multiple times a day. My SO is quick to respond when I implemented the "taste of your own medicine" approach so I don't think it's int... | HISTORICAL | {
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GKEZu9STuAeEU56SSektGVleeIVdBWEW | 9yavee | {
"description": "being mad at my girlfriend for being mad at me....for being mad",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for being mad at me....for being mad. | Basically, I’ve had a horrible last two days. Strings of bad things have happened to me; ranging from small annoying things like my headphones not working and getting burnt, to getting my new car (on which I’ve only made 2 payments, yeah that new) rear ended. Trying to get some peaceful time, I suggested my girlfriend ... | HISTORICAL | {
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fwZkg4oBLq6lTx1cv5LJ1XEjimw9bykN | b48vz0 | {
"description": "not doing errands on my day off",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I don’t do errands on my day off? | My girlfriend and I recently moved in together. It’s been a learning experience as this is my first live in girlfriend.
She works part time and I’m full time as well as crunching some overtime. At the beginning of the week I asked her if she could do some of my laundry sometime in the week. There’s two machines on... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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maC4RwHSa1N7jFJWW7cQk2w6DgY0vSi7 | azobp1 | {
"description": "asking her out a second time",
"pronormative_score": 42,
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} | AITA for asking her out a second time? | I have this coworker, Sarah. Sarah has been really flirty with me at work. I asked her out once. She kinda turned me down. She told me her situation was just too complicated right now.
This was months ago. A bunch of us from work went out Friday night. Sarah too. She asked me to get her a drink. I did. Then... | HISTORICAL | {
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d1ZUrlwy0Gb6uW9YQH8U7191ZGqjdZCP | a8f7fl | {
"description": "guilting my boyfriend into not attending a party tonight that I cannot attend",
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} | WIBTA if I guilt my boyfriend into not attending a party tonight that I cannot attend? | We live about an hour from each other and my work schedule won’t allow me to attend this party. My BF only told me about the party ten minutes ago by saying that he’s invited (not “we’re” invited) but he doesn’t know if he’ll attend.
These are his friends and we’ve only dated for about 7 months.
As a side note ther... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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rig9lL7JjfWqyImGzja0Op3w3QSVo8DE | avm80t | {
"description": "leaving a whatsapp group without giving any clarification",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for leaving a whatsapp group without giving any clarification | I belong to India and we are currently in war like situation with our neighboring country, Pakistan.
For the past 3 days, my Facebook feed is dominated by pro-war posts and fed up by it, I decided to uninstall it.
Yesterday night, a relative posted some fake news about our national leader on a family whatsapp group. ... | HISTORICAL | {
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6q6Tg8jQkvszCfIVMOe72CbtAlGzBOPI | angf69 | {
"description": "faking empathy",
"pronormative_score": 20,
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} | AITA because I fake empathy | I work as a bank teller and part of my job is to be empathetic towards my customers. When it comes to strangers, I have a dislike of small talk. I hear so much about the sickness and death of people I don't care about on a daily basis. I've mastered the generic "I'm so sorry to hear that" and other comments to appear ... | HISTORICAL | {
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NQoTpbiyjsk2MjGJNpegfI5pI4HgjU81 | apq4z0 | {
"description": "not going on a tour with my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for not going on a tour with my best friend? | So my college is taking our department on a tour of the nearby Coca cola plant. My best friend wanted me with her but I'm missing the tour as my ex will be there. Am I choosing not seeing my ex over spending time with my bestie?
Both the girls are friendly to eachother but my ex hates my best friend because I used to... | HISTORICAL | {
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6WmgWuN6ucRiLQ5yejJTQ0XeF2JLnsIw | ake6ej | {
"description": "being upset my couch is damaged",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for being upset my couch is damaged? | My husband decided to have friends over last night. They are close friends and they would never damage my property on purpose. By how late they were up and how loud they were, they were drunk and were high.
This morning after waking, before I head downstairs my husband informs me that the arm of the couch is broken. Ap... | HISTORICAL | {
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TGNZss3QkdHYfaU2ayu0Xf5nQFEWRuvJ | b7law8 | {
"description": "telling one of my friends that he's spending too much time with his GF",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for telling one of my friends that he’s spending too much time with his GF? | This is my first post, so, I’m sorry if the formatting is wrong.
Just by the title, I sound like an asshole, but, here is the full story. I was talking to one of my friends one day, let’s call him Z, and be let me know that the other friend, let’s call him BF, has been distant, and ignoring his friends recently. Z ask... | HISTORICAL | {
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o8q6Nv4J6Eh7s717zuAeUYVXOdfij7Pp | ao5guw | {
"description": "not knowing a fellow students mother was dead",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for not knowing a fellow students mother was dead | So background from the UK so don't worry if there are words you don't understand what they mean.
What happened before the interaction is that today school ended and I am walking to catch a bus and this twat ( not DB from my last post a completely new twat) calls out to me saying that "no-one loves me"
(let's call hi... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZWHL1A77wtxnrzP5XoMiPzO0yytKajRZ | b5vsf4 | {
"description": "helping my pregnant coworker",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA for helping my pregnant coworker?? | Never posted on here so forgive me if my formatting is off. This has been bothering me for weeks now. I work in a bank as a teller and I have maybe 4 people at most working with me at this location on a given day. I started working here about a month ago and about 2 days later so did my new coworker who just so happ... | HISTORICAL | {
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JEzkpX5nPIJ0L8iZNqIur1i3XhgXi5O5 | ask53j | {
"description": "not telling my boyfriend that I hung out with another guy",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not telling my boyfriend that I hung out with another guy? | My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, but we don't go to the same college. We're kind of LDR and we see eachother about twice a month on the weekends. Back in September we had a huge fight that led to us almost breaking up. We made up after, but I was still reeling a bit as it was the worst fi... | HISTORICAL | {
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ymlZmyBTZhQaB2bo4OOwJp8Fiiwkzg5l | 9xg0bm | {
"description": "getting pissed at someone not allowing me to follow their car into a gated community",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for getting pissed at someone not allowing me to follow their car into a gated community? | I had a bit of situation recently at the entrance of my gated community. Usually people who live here have a registered tag which opens the right side of the gate automatically and its marked 'Residents Entry Only' and others have to punch in an entry code to enter from the left side marked 'Guests Entry Only'
Got mys... | HISTORICAL | {
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OoczP0cX2cO6nLJdQsivv3qGiz7S7wgv | b9jc0i | {
"description": "singing hungry hungry HIPPO to MY overweight friend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA FOR SINGING HUNGRY HUNGRY HIPPO TO MY OVERWEIGHT FRIEND ??? | So here is the song I'm talking about :
https://youtu.be/xZKbm-JidBE
One day in high school me and my friend were just hanging out talking about anime and other stuff. We weren't having an argument, we weren't having a hostile situation or fighting.
But all then in a playful voice she says "IM HONGRY!!"
and with... | HISTORICAL | {
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NVYeLssx41Sz51saQHbk5nLNAXWahC1k | avqtxw | {
"description": "hooking up with a girl who has a boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | WIBTA if I hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend? | I know that hooking up with a girl who has a boyfriend is bad.
I go to the same gym as that girl and every single time she holds my hand and puts her hand on my lap. It has gotten to the point where we almost kissed.When she's in my class she does the same thing.
Her boyfriend has always hated me, for some reason a... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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n9HUEpECTos56zTvpkQP1BqCv75WJUdy | axc3sh | {
"description": "telling my waiter/waitress I'm not going to tip",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I told my waiter/waitress I'm not going to tip? | As it says in the title. Would it be more acceptable to tell your waiter/waitress that you don't tip and just recieve worse quality service? | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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oltCl2zCEOVtFX8sG8JRucNYDnAHAAZd | awa7ww | {
"description": "not liking the type of engagement ring that my fiance wants to get me",
"pronormative_score": 23,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not liking the type of engagement ring that my fiance wants to get me? | a long story short: my fiance and I agreed that we wanted to marry each other about a year ago. we didn't get a ring then, not for any particular reason other than just not worrying about it, but we've started looking at some together so he could get an idea what I like and what I don't like.
I don't care for big ston... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
05tS1hDwje9D2c7lChhMY3IaMiyICQhD | 9vq9la | {
"description": "sending birthday/Christmas cards to the children of a family I used to live with",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | WIBTA if I send birthday/Christmas cards to the children of a family I used to live with | This is very long a complicated. I promise it is all relevant. I(F17) was put in a situation well this anonymous who cares. Also mobile so sorry.
In February my mom drove drunk, and she ran into another car and killed the two people in it. She only survived because she was in a volvo, had a broken sternum and broke b... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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h06P5XdTwDc4nMb16w1Opl6KNmi82AyQ | aswn3r | {
"description": "not allowing room service to clean my hotel room during my stay",
"pronormative_score": 26,
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} | AITA for not allowing room service to clean my hotel room during my stay? | I am currently spending several work weeks in a hotel room as I transition into a new job. Growing up with my Dad and Stepmom we didn’t stay in hotels much, most vacations revolved around camping. It wasn’t until last year on my honeymoon that I learned you should tip the housekeeping staff for cleaning your room. This... | HISTORICAL | {
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gFhyvBDRwhNykWRcFFOyvyPe9Qkjctup | a76yoi | {
"description": "being pissed at my lesbian friend for her strong anti-abortion stance",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for being pissed at my lesbian friend for her strong anti-abortion stance? | Abortion can be a heated debate but I never really run into those types of conversations unless l talk to this one friend of mine. She occasionally post very graffic abortion pictures/videos and I think I get irritated about her pro-life passion because she's a lesbian. If you are a lesbian, unless you get sexually as... | HISTORICAL | {
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wn5p4ErgmsgRTiBbdXwHBExAIYjMCLFS | 9z3v15 | {
"description": "using curtain rod mounting hardware instead of command strips to hold up a heavy curtain",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA for using curtain rod mounting hardware instead of command strips to hold up a heavy curtain? | I'm a light sleeper and the 8am bright sun through the blinds doesn't mesh well with my sleep schedule. I got a very effective light blocking curtain which is also a tad heavy. My roommate, despite having a bachelor's degree, is extremely insistent that 3-5 command strips will hold up this curtain and rod just fine. De... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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1gVlo51xWB85V1n9LWIgczpzQosASjth | auf3dw | {
"description": "not wanting my kids to call him grandpa",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not wanting my kids to call him grandpa? | LTL FTP & throwaway for personal reasons
BG: Me and SO have been married for a minute so we’ve been talking about kids and I asked him what his mom wanted to be called as a grandma. Now both of me and SO’s parents are divorced but only his mother remarried. She got with stepdad when SO was in high school and SO ... | HISTORICAL | {
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e8snIGxMoSMnVXXoN0AWHDSG466qTx2R | a4h412 | {
"description": "getting banned from /r/WritingPrompts",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 6
} | AITA for getting banned from /r/WritingPrompts? | It was/is my cakeday and I posted a prompt in /r/WritingPrompts with the title:
*"[WP]Ever since you were a child you've been able to point your finger and say "PEW!" to shoot a powerful blast. You (mostly) use your powers for good. You are...Finger Bang."*
The post was removed by a mod pretty quickly with the reaso... | HISTORICAL | {
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cslrUqbM6Aocw6J6P5c9BWpt1LKjJTLw | apwu1v | {
"description": "being offended after my apology to someone was rejected",
"pronormative_score": 0,
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} | AITA for being offended after my apology to someone was rejected? | I was rude to a friend of a friend. I said “it would be good for you to not eat that slice of pizza” (she is quite overweight) I did not mean to offend her, but I can see why she is.
The next day I tried to apologize sincerely, but instead of it being accepted or rejected respectfully, she insults and flips me off. I... | HISTORICAL | {
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2xro1xHJRcrTWoEF701VBaE5prShCFiQ | aqaowe | {
"description": "not wanting to cut off a friend for an ex",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 2
} | AITA for not wanting to cut off a friend for an ex | Title is a bit misleading, here's the full backstory:
-am trans, ftm
-break up with my gf of 1 year because she wanted to
- continue to try and stay friends
-befriend another trans man I met on tinder (we hooked up but he's now in a committed relationship and our hang outs are strictly platonic now). Our friendsh... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 7,
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VO1OT8RGEK4vNGQJsKMuJIOArOoe71vj | av6p1t | {
"description": "missing multiple days of work from being sick",
"pronormative_score": 3,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for missing multiple days of work from being sick? | Let me start off by saying that I've always been prone to illness since I was an infant. From grade school and on, I would routinely get sick every 2 or 3 months, and sometimes even as little as a month after my last bout of the flu/an aggressive cold/etc. The only period in my life were I was never sick was the last t... | HISTORICAL | {
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O7zjPy3jM42lUC9bliwUx29GpUZCTz85 | b2y6f3 | {
"description": "doing things to get people to owe me",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 22
} | AITA for doing things to get people to owe me? | I like the idea of people helping me when I get in trouble but while friends are nice to have it's hard to make reliable enough friends that can do things for me without needing to do them something first. So I go around work, the neighborhood, school, or where ever and do people favors that are not of big cost to me a... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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"WRONG": 22
} | WRONG |
1SH713MXDOylY73FNMlgrtVsgCfnkiiC | aehvp0 | {
"description": "ghosting a friend from college",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | WIBTA if I ghosted a friend from college? | Hello,
This past year I moved to Hawaii for work. I’m in a one bedroom apartment. I’d like people to come visit me, and when I speak to my friends around the country I always encourage them to take a trip here and hang out in paradise.
A couple of months ago I wished happy birthday to a guy I dated in college for a c... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
20BNirzgCAJOaq5Y19RfEWuGpWYAOKPp | abee17 | {
"description": "being upset that my fiancee is getting drunk tonight",
"pronormative_score": 5,
"contranormative_score": 21
} | AITA for being upset that my fiancee is getting drunk tonight? | Yeah yeah it's New Year's Eve and that's what people do... But she has never been drunk before to my knowledge. She used to smoke weed but hasn't since we've been together. I don't smoke or drink and I'm pretty vehement against both of those things as they just make me uncomfortable and she knows fully that it's just a... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 5,
"WRONG": 21
} | WRONG |
Wtrc4swrzen37mqAdFObUVjpAIdKOf0C | aal0ez | {
"description": "being upset",
"pronormative_score": 1,
"contranormative_score": 0
} | AITA for being upset? | There’s this girl I’ve had that hots for, for at least the last year and a half. We’ve been friends for much longer. On a few separate occasions I’ve told her how I’ve felt, and she never completely downplayed it but she also never gave me a straight yes or no answer. The only thing I got from her was mixed signals.
... | HISTORICAL | {
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9mOlgEKvqI5m94ndYkfnaOU8aDm9Qcu8 | b32qyg | {
"description": "being a complete smart ass to a rude neighbor",
"pronormative_score": 0,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for being a complete smart ass to a rude neighbor? | This happened a while ago. When my girlfriend and I started dating, she had a small apartment downtown. I would spend the night a few times a week. One night, at around 2 or so in the morning we were having a particularly passionate sex session. It was so passionate that my girlfriend's neighbor apparently heard it and... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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"WRONG": 1
} | WRONG |
nrIMrLc12t2rykZR7TBB9Fj8NrohiKoY | apbe34 | {
"description": "not wanting to hang out with my friend's much older boyfriend",
"pronormative_score": 4,
"contranormative_score": 5
} | AITA for not wanting to hang out with my friend's much older boyfriend? | My friend and I are grad students in our early twenties. Her boyfriend is in his 40s... literally twice her age and old enough to be her father (friend is 21). Not only that, but he's a professor at the university where we attend grad school (different department though).
It skeeves me out, to be honest, and I also fe... | HISTORICAL | {
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7j3EzuwnJNZl7eyWfMK8N1H7ZwKTC3vk | au2lyv | {
"description": "telling my niece off in front of the family and having them turn on her",
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