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{ "description": "rejecting men who have slept with a high number of women", "pronormative_score": 32, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for rejecting men who have slept with a high number of women?
Title. I've been single for a little while and have been doing some online dating. I've had matches where, in casual conversation, the number of women the man I've matched with has come up. In one particular case he had told me he'd slept with 80+ women in the space of 9 years. This made me incredibly uncomfortable and...
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{ "description": "not understanding the duties of a groomsman", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for not understanding the duties of a groomsman?
So one of my oldest and best friends is getting married, and I was asked to be a groomsman. I'm in my late 20s but have never been in a wedding before. I pictured planning a bachelor party and that was about it. Today we went to a suit fitting which I thought I might have to pay for some of, but the suit rental is $2...
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{ "description": "leaving my friend to walk on his own because he is late", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for leaving my friend to walk on his own because he is late?
Ok so a bit of backstory here. Me and my three friends walk to a school everyday let's call my late friend friend one (F1) my friend who is never late F2 and the one who is late but has a valid excuse as he lives far away from the meeting spot. Every day we meet at F1's House to walk to school our original time to meet...
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{ "description": "causing my sister move out", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for causing my sister move out?
Some context: my older sister is almost 30, and I’m 24. We both used to live with my parents. Our parents don’t ask much, they don’t charge us for rent, but they do ask to to pick up bills here and there, clean the house for them, and run errands for them. It’s not unreasonable in the slightest, seeing as they don’t ch...
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{ "description": "not taking a \"friend\" to a concert anymore", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 3 }
WIBTA if I don’t take a „friend“ to a concert anymore.
I had a major fight with a friend, because he was being dishonest and lying a lot to me. Despite the fact that I still believe I was right to confront him about the lying and deceiving, I realized I could’ve handled the situation better and that I fucked up. So I apologized multiple times but he said he is done with t...
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{ "description": "not feeling greatful", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not feeling greatful?
At my work we did a secret Santa. For my giftee I took time and got her things that suited her and her interests (A coffee mug, some chcolate, a book on coffee and a candle). My Santa got me a generic candle, and managed to spell my name wrong. Am I the asshole for feeling ungrateful? It just feels like no thought or...
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{ "description": "not wanting to pay my friend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not wanting to pay my friend?
So I know this sounds weird but my friend and I decided to do a slime business thing (yeah that thing that stopped being popular in 2016) because a lot of people in our school are obsessed with it and we want to make some cash money. Well my friend and I planned this out a few months ago and recently just said screw it...
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{ "description": "swearing in front of an old lady", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for swearing in front of an old lady?
I really hate my job. It takes everything in my power to get through with my days. I enjoy what I actually do, it’s the interacting with other people part that gets to me. I also tend to have a potty mouth. Are usually keep it in check, but occasionally things will just come flying out. Most of the people I work with ...
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{ "description": "expecting them to donate", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for expecting them to donate?
Our service club held a fundraiser one night where we rented out our university's bowling alley and charged a $15 fee to allow people to bowl for a few hours (we also provided snacks and refreshments). We were raising money to purchase wheelchairs for children in Tanzania who weren't able to afford a wheelchair. We cal...
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{ "description": "responding to misandry with misogyny", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For responding to misandry with misogyny?
I was at a family gathering this Friday. My mom and aunt were talking about women and feminism, when I heard my aunt say something along the lines of "..yeah women are just generally smarter than men.." to which I responded "I've never heard a man talk about astrology"- this was followed by 10 minutes of berating by...
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{ "description": "getting my mom to get my gay coworker to stop hitting on me", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for getting my mom to get my gay coworker to stop hitting on me?
I [22M] used to work at Target a few months back and had a male coworker who was about mid 20s. We weren’t exactly friends but we talked sometimes and we were cool. As someone who has Asperger’s and struggles with communication and have doubts about working with people, I asked him if I was awkward, and he said no. I g...
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{ "description": "not texting back", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not texting back?
so i’ve been talking to a girl for about 4 months now, asked her out, got rejected, continued talking to her regularly. this was over winter break, where i has tons of free time and could sleep whenever i wanted. now in school, i have no free time so i haven’t texted her in 2 weeks. we’re still friends but don’t talk n...
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{ "description": "kicking out my best friend of 7 years for disrespecting my boyfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA For kicking out my best friend of 7 years for disrespecting my boyfriend?
So some back story. I met my best friend my sophomore year of high school in the girls locker room. I had BRIGHT pink hair at the time and her favorite color was pink. So is was instant best friends from there on out. And were inseparable. Fast forward 7 years, we have both graduated and have jobs. And still...
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{ "description": "possibly quitting my job right after I've had an augmentation", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for possibly quitting my job right after I've had an augmentation?
I'll do this quick since I'm on the pooper. I got a raise yesterday for my good work and many other employees have given good words of me to the bosses resulting in this raise. But I have an interview this afternoon elsewhere, at job a I'd much rather like. Plus the salary difference would only be of 1$. I guess my cur...
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{ "description": "refusing to attend my Ex-Husbands Funeral", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Refusing To Attend My Ex-Husbands Funeral?
So, we had a messy divorce. My Ex, William changed after 10 years. He went from kind to this bigoted monstrosity of a human being. the final straw happened two years ago when he told my brother he should go kill himself for dating an immigrant and when I confronted him about his behavior he full on hit me. I called ...
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{ "description": "asking for proper training for my dog", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA if I asked for proper training for my dog?
My parents separated in September 2017. When my parents separated, they both decided that neither one of them wanted the family dog (hes 7 now) however they would pay for his food and vet bills if I kept him. As time goes on, I've learned how poorly behaved my dog is. He doesnt listen, if I dont pay attention to him he...
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WIBTA Hey wants me to pay him back $1200 for money he gave to me
Me and ‘x’ have known each other for 6 years and have been on and off for about 3.5. In the beginning it was fine but after a while he started to manipulate, lie, emotionally abuse, and verbally attack me. It ended up with him cheating on me twice and a whole lot of break downs until I finally broke up with that x. We ...
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{ "description": "mocking a disabled person", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for mocking a disabled person
Sorry for bad formatting, I’m on my phone Ok so this just happened. My friend and I were playing tennis for a while until we had to pick up the balls. Not wanting to pick them up manually, we decided to go get a ball sweeper, which is basically like a lawnmower. We get the sweeper, but being the idiots we are, my fri...
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{ "description": "telling my coworkers someone they worked with before I got there is possibly a predator", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for telling my coworkers someone they worked with before I got there is possibly a predator?
I just graduated college in May so I’m a brand new 22 year old teacher. My school is urban and very small- there are 60 kids and 10 teachers. I’m the only English teacher. I’m very sarcastic and make a lot of jokes. However, there are certain things I don’t joke about. We do not make jokes about race, gender, gender or...
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{ "description": "not giving a pregnant woman my food", "pronormative_score": 209, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for not giving a pregnant woman my food.
I was at a Super Bowl party, with another guest is the pregnant wife of a close friend. There is a ton of food at the party, but I have allergies, and chose to bring my own food, to avoid any cross contamination. One of the things I brought for myself was a bowl of chili, everyone else was eating pizza. The pregnant wo...
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{ "description": "keeping things real", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for keeping things real
I have some leaders at church that I have over heard call me "worthless", "loser", "cocksucker", etc. We ended up meeting about it because it was complete bullshit that someone in charge was talking about a member like that. He never apologized (after I wrote him a page long paper apologizing for anything I might have ...
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{ "description": "liking Instagram posts about cars and somewhat sexual women", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for liking Instagram posts about cars and somewhat sexual women?
Well, I have to explain that one further. I (m) follow a few car related Instagram accounts, one of which is focused on one specific brand. They upload anything from shots of the Logo to women "posing" in front of the cars. And this is where the AITA comes in. Over the last few months I've liked just about all posts t...
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{ "description": "asking my wife if nearly 2 years how to get her to like living here more than she has", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for asking my wife if nearly 2 years how to get her to like living here more than she has?
So this has been brewing in my head for a week or so and on & off for a while in general. The thoughts all started when I brought up having a will and she said she would immediately take the pets and go back to Germany if I died tomorrow. I'm from a major city in America and she's from a major city in Germany. Ev...
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{ "description": "hating my mom for making me share a bed with her", "pronormative_score": 347, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA For hating my mom for making me share a bed with her
So my mom and I have been living in a 1 bdrm for some years. I turn 17 in a few months. My mom first couldn’t afford to get a second bed when we first moved but i was young (9) so it didn’t matter. Once I turned maybe 13-14 I started to speak up at how most kids my age at least sleeps in their own bed. Let me clarify ...
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{ "description": "wanting to call the police on my neighbor", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to call the police on my neighbor?
So I go to college in the South and I live in our university’s apartments. At the beginning of this semester this new girl, we’ll call her G, moved in above me during the early days of January and made SO much noise.The walls are incredibly thin, so if someone talks loud you can hear them, if they walk loud you can hea...
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{ "description": "not even trying to get out of my apathy", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not even trying to get out of my apathy
M(24)Don't like talking about this, so I guess this is the reason for a throwaway. It's been more than 6 years since then, but this still bothers me a lot. We were a prefect family, me and my sister both top of our classes, I went to elite high school and was doing great, never in my life any problems etc. Then I got ...
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{ "description": "agreeing that my gf asking for a selfie is being unreasonable when she refuses to take a photo herself", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for agreeing that my gf asking for a selfie is being unreasonable when she refuses to take a photo herself?
My girlfriend is going through some fairly erratic emotions in the last few weeks and so sometimes she is really happy and good to chat to and then, almost like a switch has been flicked, she changes to being upset or annoyed. Earlier my girlfriend asked me in a very confident manner If she could have a selfie from m...
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{ "description": "asking my boyfriend to tell his friends to not smoke out around me, or for him to give up the friends that keep disregarding my severe allergy", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for asking my boyfriend to tell his friends to not smoke out around me, or for him to give up the friends that keep disregarding my severe allergy
So, I should probably put the title into context here... My boyfriend of 3 years is well aware that I'm highly allergic to weed. As in, can't stop coughing up a lung with body wracking coughs long enough to catch a breath, both types of asthma constriction kick in, and mucus glands kick into high gear, filling my lung...
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{ "description": "not wanting to be friends with someone anymore over a concert ticket", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 7 }
AITA for not wanting to be friends with someone anymore over a concert ticket
This happened awhile ago and my friends think I'm petty for disowning him, but awhile back me and 3 friends were going to a concert to see an artist that we like. We all buy tickets at the same time and the concert is in 5 months. Fast forward 4 and a half months later , one of my friends (michael) gets a girlfriend (s...
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{ "description": "not supporting my sister's efforts to emigrate to Canada from <third world african country", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not supporting my sister's efforts to emigrate to Canada from &lt;third world african country&gt;
Background: My sis is married with two kids - four and six years old. She's 33, eleven years older than me, and is the first of four kids while I'm the last. I recently moved to the US from the same TWAC (third-world african country) for work, and I'm earning earning relatively well, and am able to support family back ...
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{ "description": "telling a joke about tearing an acl", "pronormative_score": 10, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for telling a joke about tearing an ACL?
I really can’t tell if I was being too insensitive or not. A few friends and I were invited to play some touch football at the beach one day with some random people we met who were throwing around a football. After a while we were getting out of breath from all the activity and one of the guys made a joke saying some...
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{ "description": "banning my \"future BIL\" from my house", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for banning my “future BIL” from my house?
This issue has divided my family and has just become urgent as I heard the guy is ring shopping. My sister started dating this guy she met at a strip club. In my mind, he was just some new dude until my mom commented on how serious they seemed and her concern with how he makes money. Met him at my mom’s and... weird ...
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{ "description": "questioning my wife", "pronormative_score": 21, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for questioning my wife?
She spends a LOT of time outside work with her male co-workers. A lot of these times is with 1 coworker in particular. In addition to just going out after work together, some of these times she comes home at 3AM (9 hours after the end of their shift) and tells me she "fell asleep watching TV". Other times, he will ca...
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{ "description": "telling my brothers girlfriend to mind her own business", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
WIBTA for telling my brothers girlfriend to mind her own business
Little bit of background, my dad left my mom about a year ago because he cheated and we have all since given him an earful about it. He feels terrible but in the long run him leaving was the best choice for everyone. My brothers girlfriend is not well liked by the family for various reasons. I found out she messaged ...
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{ "description": "asking my so to stop talking to her abusive ex-partner", "pronormative_score": 16, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my SO to stop talking to her abusive ex-partner?
I started dating this girl a couple months ago. Things are going well, but she definitely has some major baggage from her past relationships. Her ex-partner and her talk sometimes, but she acknowledges that they are bad for her, and very abusive towards her. She's a good person, and cares about the person because they...
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{ "description": "refusing to pick up my gf from work at 6am on Saturday", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA if I refuse to pick up my gf from work at 6am on Saturday?
Our 1 year old relationship has a lot more going on that I won’t post here, but the gist of it is: my gf comes from a less financially capable family than mine, so she has to work and study. She can also be very childish, probably my fault as the result of coming to see her everyday and buying her almost everything she...
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{ "description": "backhand thumping my wife in the Vagina when we were play fighting", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for backhand thumping my wife in the Vagina when we were play fighting?
Earlier I went up to her an playfully tapped her head like a drum. She got up and elbowed me in the back. Then we did the "stay out of each other's reach" dance until I accidentally backhanded her...pretty hard with good contact in the vagina. The reason I think I'm not the asshole is because she got me decently in the...
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EVERYBODY
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WRONG
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{ "description": "not letting my girlfriend move in", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not letting my girlfriend move in?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. I'm 26 and work full-time from home, and she is finishing her final semester of university. We live less than a mile away at the moment, and we go to each others places typically 5 or 6 nights per week. I really need the 1-2 nights per week to myself to rechar...
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{ "description": "telling my husband to stop caring obsessively for our deaf daughter", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for telling my husband to stop caring obsessively for our deaf daughter.
Our daughter is 16. It really broke our hearts when we learned that our daughter was deaf. But as her parents, we did everything to raise her like a normal child. On the other hand, my husband this is that he needs to do everything for her. He has a very stressful job and feels obligated to spend every second of his f...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "telling my ex to grow up", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for telling my ex to grow up?
I recently left my first relationship with a trans male. We're both in high school and we have a class together. I broke up with him cause I don't like guys saw that he frequently whined about going nowhere in life and hating himself over it, but doing nothing about it. I try to make him feel better and tell him he nee...
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NOBODY
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "consulting my friend about her immature behavior", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for consulting my friend about her immature behavior?
So a friend of mine (18) who absolutely loves k-pop idols, asked me to tell me which idol i ship her the least with (which i did with the reason 'he kinda ugly'). This resulted in her consulting me about how mean i am to this 'poor teddy' and he gets all the hate and she didn't ask me to insult anyone and reacted immat...
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{ "description": "wanting my best friends not to divorce", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 16 }
AITA for wanting my best friends not to divorce?
My best friends are a married couple that have been married for a 5-6 years. My wife and I are very close with both of them. My wife works with them (how they met) and they've carpooled together for a while now. The wife has a son that is my sons age and they are also very close. They had an incident happen last week a...
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AUTHOR
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WRONG
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{ "description": "telling my dad to get over his feud with his in-laws", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my dad to get over his feud with his in-laws?
My dad is usually a very sociable person who is friends with what seems like literally everyone, but he refuses to be in the same room as any members of my mom’s family (her sister, brother, and their parents). I have always been a bit bothered by this because I haven’t seen any of them do anything that could warrant s...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "turning down someone", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA, for turning down someone
I was at a Christmas night out with a local theatre group and for a amount of time I was aware of a particular member of the group having feelings towards myself but at the time I just thought it was just playful actor banter. That is until later that night when we were traveling to different venues and more people le...
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{ "description": "getting angry when the group chat I was in and its leader became toxic", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for getting angry when the group chat I was in and its leader became toxic?
So to preface this, this is my first AITA and I’m on mobile right now, so sorry for formatting. So this first started around a year ago when I joined a group chat all my friends just made (We were 13 and it was an iPhone group chat). Everything was nice and we chatted from time to time and were generally positive. Bu...
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{ "description": "being upset with my parents for getting a new dog", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset with my parents for getting a new dog?
My family used to have a shitzu and it was the most miserable thing ever, bit and growled, etc. Since said dog passed away, I was given a cat for my birthday and graduation. He is four years old, used to having the reign of the house, and doesn’t do well with other animals from what I have seen. He also hides from my...
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NOBODY
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{ "description": "not wanting my future in-laws to gps track my fiancée and I", "pronormative_score": 17, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not wanting my future in-laws to gps track my fiancée and I?
Throwaway because I don’t want to stir up more drama. My fiancée has, let’s say, an interesting mother... constantly breathing down her neck, highly critical of every decision she makes from career, hobbies, college major, choice in men (ahem, me), etc. I’m talking crazy manipulative. She used find my friends to track ...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "yelling at two highschool girls because they talked throughout an entire movie", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for yelling at two highschool girls because they talked throughout an entire movie
I just watched "Us" and it was awesome except for the two highschool girls that texted, whispered, and chuckled throughout *the entire film*. I'm only 24 so it wasn't some old-man rage thing. These young ladies were causing the other people in the theater to shift and look back. It was honestly the second worst experie...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 5 }
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{ "description": "not feeling bad for my Aunt", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA For Not Feeling Bad for my Aunt.
So my Aunt is 31 years old (I'm 18). She failed out of college despite her parents paying for all her needs, refuses to work, and never tried to work hard to improve after high school. Last year without consulting anyone, she decided to try for a baby with a "rich" man she had only been dating for a month and unsurpri...
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{ "description": "wanting my dad to pay a portion of our netflix subscription", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 11 }
AITA for wanting my dad to pay a portion of our netflix subscription?
I'm currently in university, and I have a limited budget. I have a Netflix account that can have 4 devices watching at one time, on that account I have me, my girlfriend &amp; my brother. My girlfriend, my brother &amp; I each pay for ⅓ of the cost of the account, which is too expensive for me to pay on my own, yet thi...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend?
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years. We live together and grew up together (she is 22 and I am 21) everything was nice but we argued a lot over stupid things and I feel like I am still too young to be in a serious relationship. I broke her heart and she begged for me not to do it and that she would be bett...
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AUTHOR
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{ "description": "wanting to cut off ties with a friend who really likes me platonically", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for wanting to cut off ties with a friend who really likes me platonically?
I've known this friend since freshman year of high school, and I'm about to graduate. We started being friends at the end of the school's summer program, and ever since she's been sitting at lunch with me and all my free periods. It was nice at first, because she always wanted to hang out and help me out with schoolwor...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 2, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "reporting a coworker to hr after she wouldn't take no for an answer for a date with me", "pronormative_score": 24, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for reporting a coworker to HR after she wouldn’t take no for an answer for a date with me
I am a male employee at a fairly well known technology company in Silicon Valley and we have a policy about dating that goes something like this: if you are interested in dating a coworker you can request once and only once if they’d like to hang out after work or on a weekend. If they decline for any reason, even if t...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 24, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "not wanting to by with my friends", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA I don’t want to by with my friends
They’re annoying and unfunny.They weren’t like this when I became friends with them we had the same interests but over time I got over those interests and they haven’t changed.How am I suppose to enjoy being around them when I am bored out of my mind and not interested with anything they’re talking about.I have other f...
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{ "description": "being mad at my boyfriend for getting a lap dance", "pronormative_score": 375, "contranormative_score": 182 }
AITA for being mad at my boyfriend for getting a lap dance?
My boyfriend's twin brother had his bachelor party on Saturday. We discussed boundaries before he left, I said I didn't mind if he went to a strip club, but I did not want him to touch any of the dancers or get a lap dance. No problem, he readily agreed and I thought we were done with it, I totally trusted him. Su...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "demanding payment", "pronormative_score": 12, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for demanding payment?
OK a bit of background - I do occasional commission illustration work either for framing or for tattooing, it seemed to pick up after my last Inktober run got a bit of attention from my social media circle. At the end of October last year a friend passed me onto someone who wanted a custom tattoo piece designed, “great...
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{ "description": "asking my friend for his applied companies list", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my friend for his applied companies list?
I know a senior from my university. I knew him before also as he used to work in the same company as mine, but he left a few days after I joined to pursue his degree. Fast forward one year and coincidentally, I got an admit in the same university and program as he did and ended up joining the same course, with him my s...
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OTHER
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{ "description": "asking my friend to take a video down from social media", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for asking my friend to take a video down from social media?
AITA? A couple weeks ago, my first long term relationship of 5 years ended. We agreed to end it on good terms and try to be friends after a couple weeks of no contact. Since we have only been with each other our entire adult lives, all of our friends are mutual. We agreed to make sure we don’t do anything to make them ...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 4 }
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{ "description": "using a group text", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for using a group text?
So here’s the gist of it. I’m in a supervisory position at work, and in order to pass on some important info to my direct reports the other day (because I was going to be off the next day and this not able to pass the info on directly), I used a group text to send it to them. I did this because frankly, I didn’t want t...
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{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "refusing to let my fiancé's father give away my fiancé at our wedding", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 38 }
AITA for refusing to let my fiancé's father give away my fiancé at our wedding?
My fiancé does not care, but wants her father to give her away for his sake because he has always wanted to, but I find it perverted that a fifty-year-old man has been fantasizing about his daughter's wedding, so I will refuse to let him, in that I will refuse to stand at the stage and receive her and participate if he...
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 0, "WRONG": 38 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "possibly getting someone kicked out of university", "pronormative_score": 9, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for possibly getting someone kicked out of university?
So this wasn’t recent but I always get mixed reactions on this when I tell people this story. Pretty sure most people think I’m an asshole snitch, but I’m still not 100% convinced that what I did was wrong. College history course, large lecture of about 250-300 people, pretty difficult. I won’t lie, I started out the ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 9, "WRONG": 2 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "being upset with my girlfriend kissing her female friends", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for being upset with my girlfriend kissing her female friends?
Throw away account :) So some back ground: My girlfriend and I (m19) have been happily dating for 8 months. I have been 100% supportive of her being bisexual and that is no problem to me. However, one issue that has arisen is our views on kissing others. While she says she would never kiss another random girl because ...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 8, "WRONG": 3 }
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{ "description": "ghosting my unstable friend for 5 years", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for ghosting my unstable friend for 5 years?
It's not what you think. I mean, it's probably not what you think. She wasn't in her right mind, and I kind of panicked. Let me backtrack a bit: It's high school, I was a closeted lesbian and we kinda had a homoerotic friendship(?) thing going on (small homophobic town, etc etc). We would text constantly, cuddle exces...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 4, "WRONG": 1 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "not being able to have stability with friends", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not being able to have stability with friends?
Please read through this all. &amp;#x200B; I have social anxiety, and abandonment issues. The social anxiety is caused by autism and I've been "Betrayed" (I felt, i misread social situations all the time) several times by people I thought were friends. I'm extremely insecure about everything about me from my voice ...
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{ "description": "continuing relationship with my ex-stepdad", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for continuing relationship with my ex-stepdad?
My mom married my stepdad when I was 10. My bio dad was an abusive and OD’ed when I was little, so my sister and I took to our new stepdad really quickly and started calling him “Dad” etc really quickly. My mom didn’t stop us but she didn't actually encourage this behavior, in hindsight I actually think she either felt...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 7, "WRONG": 2 }
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{ "description": "limiting my friends time with our dog because of his ex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for limiting my friends time with our dog because of his ex
So weird situation. My friend and I are raising a puppy in which we split our time watching her and taking care of her. However, I'm the overall sole parent and spend the most time training and taking care of her. Though the coparenting is really helpful with a busy schedule, I'm worried his time with her may become to...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 3, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "rejecting a girl because she rejected me in before", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for rejecting a girl because she rejected me in before?
So, I'm not the most popular with girls, but I try. This last year I made an effort to care about what I wear and what I eat, and I'm proud of the results. I look a fair bit better. About 1.5 years ago I made friends with and developed a crush on a girl called Misty, but she rejectted me. I took it pretty hard, since s...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 9 }
WRONG
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AITA?
OK, so get ready to read. I'll tl;dr at the end... So... A few weeks ago, I was living at a friend's place in another state. They're all good people, his family. But an incident occurred that is causing me to start to feel hate towards my friend, regardless of how much I'm trying to rationalize the incident in his fa...
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{ "description": "not telling my now ex boyfriend about being bi", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not telling my now ex boyfriend about being bi?
I recently broke up with my first boyfriend, and during the second to last month of our relationship, I realized that I am actually bisexual. It was hard for me to accept, as I grew up with a homophobic father and religious mother. When I finally accepted myself, I started thinking about whether or not to tell my (then...
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{ "RIGHT": 5, "WRONG": 1 }
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{ "description": "hating the reactions to these posts", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 5 }
AITA for hating the reactions to these posts?
It seems like anytime someone posts in here, GENUINELY wondering if they are the asshole or not, answers have been accompanied by severe judgement based off of limited knowledge of the situation except what is provided. It’s starting to make me resent this sub and 99% of those responding. AITA?
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AUTHOR
{ "RIGHT": 1, "WRONG": 5 }
WRONG
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{ "description": "not giving right of way to car at crosswalk", "pronormative_score": 11, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not giving right of way to car at crosswalk?
So I was starting to cross this street at crosswalk, with the walking lights green. This car starts turning into the street from intersection while the light is green. I didn't notice him before my foot touched the road, so I keep walking. I figure, since I'm already crossing, might as well finish crossing - he can wa...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 11, "WRONG": 0 }
RIGHT
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{ "description": "taking a guys spot when he wasn't there at a barber shop", "pronormative_score": 6, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for taking a guys spot when he wasn’t there at a barber shop?
So, I’m in a barber shop today and when they get busy they have customers take numbers and wait to get called. Pretty normal. I get number 13 and wait for like 20-30 minutes when 12 gets called and I’m finally about to get a seat. Next thing I know this guy walks in with number 9, and tries to make it apparent that he...
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OTHER
{ "RIGHT": 6, "WRONG": 0 }
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{ "description": "distancing myself away from my bestfriend because of her TOXIC relationship", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for distancing myself away from my bestfriend because of her TOXIC relationship?
My bestfriend has been knowing this man for less than a year. Within that timeframe many obstacles occur where TRUST becomes the fire starter to begin their arguments. I might add that he has a two crazy baby mommas that have vandalized her vehicle and other belongings. So my bestfriend has recently started going th...
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AITA FOR BREAKING UP WITH HIM??
Been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and although we had SO many ups and downs, and he was very hard to be in a relationship with (very petty about everything, temperamental, emotionally abusive, etc) I always deeply loved him and always thought we would be okay. When we were good we were amazing, and when we were bad, ...
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{ "description": "confessing to the almost-gf of a good friend", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for confessing to the almost-gf of a good friend (kinda but theres more can't shorten it good)
Soo, I Have a friend group that I met about 2-3 years ago. (they already knew each other for like 2 years i guess). I met this girl before the dude and I instantly liked her quite a bit. After that i met the dude and we got along really good and he eventually told me that he had a crush on that girl and from that poin...
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{ "description": "not agreeing to cover my co-worker's shift for an important event", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for not agreeing to cover my co-worker's shift for an important event?
My coworker who is also a friend of mine has a vacation coming up for an important event. She was unable to get the day before her vacation block approved due to schedule conflicts with other co-workers, but the event includes this day. She asked me to cover it since we work the same shift, but I said no because I also...
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{ "description": "trying to pressure my boyfriend into reporting his abuse", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for trying to pressure my boyfriend into reporting his abuse?
Also posted on relationships. My boyfriend was abused for pornography when he was about 8 for a year or so. He doesn't remember every detail, but he remembers the location and some of the people involved. When he first told me about this, it didn't even occur to me that this shit could still be ongoing with other kids ...
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{ "description": "not texting the girl I hookup with back", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 9 }
AITA for not texting the girl I hookup with back?
I wanna preface this by saying that 1. I’m using a throwaway and 2. This situation is a little bit similar to a popular post on here from the other day. However, my situation is a little bit more nuanced and I was wondering if I’m still an asshole. Four months ago, I met a girl on tinder (she’s 22, I’m 23). We texted f...
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{ "description": "trying to fix a problem download", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 1 }
AITA for trying to fix a problem download?
In a movie lesson, I was set up to edit this unique movie that YouTube had to do. I've been looking for someone to do me and my Demanding Instructor (DI) to tell me and to make the decision. When I try to explain to him what I'm doing that I can do to make a mistake without it, I have been told to only make a diarrhea...
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{ "description": "playing a Weezer song at a party", "pronormative_score": 7, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for playing a Weezer song at a party?
I've been a lurker for a while, but decided to post because of how much this situation irks me. So I'm a pretty heavy Weezer fan, as my post history and username show (kudos if you get the song reference), and my friends and I decided to throw a party on a Saturday night. It was just going to be 10-15 of us, and so th...
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{ "description": "not telling a potential girlfriend about being transgendered", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 9 }
WIBTA if I didn't tell a potential girlfriend about being Transgendered.
So title pretty much explains it but I'll give some more detail here as well. I met this woman on a dating app. I don't normally use them but had downloaded and more less forgotten about it, after telling myself to focus more inwardly. As things would go. I got a message and one of my coworkers saw and convinced me...
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{ "description": "insulting my aunt to defend my other aunt", "pronormative_score": 4, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for insulting my aunt to defend my other aunt?
So I'm 19 living with my grandmother, my aunt and her 2 daughters. Both of them are from my mother's side of the family. My Dad got my mom pregnant when she was still in high school. They never got married and they aren't together anymore. Needless to say my mother's side of the family isn't particularly fond of my dad...
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{ "description": "not going to SIL's wedding", "pronormative_score": 45, "contranormative_score": 0 }
WIBTA for not going to SIL's wedding?
My SIL is going to be getting married next year and they have chosen to have a destination wedding. She just sent us the details, and it's going to cost us $2500 each to go. We hinted to her that we might not be able to go due to costs, and she totally freaked out. For some background: husband is still a student and I...
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{ "description": "not responding to a coworker", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for not responding to a coworker
Me and my coworker had a crush on each other, went on a couple of dates, but it didn’t work out between us. Several months after everything blew over, we started having a good report again and I asked her out to play pool as a friend—she agrees. The day comes around and nothing. I sent a text then called later and sa...
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AITA Dnd edition
Ok so I'm conflicted about something, so I'm doing what any reasonable person would do...asking a bunch of strangers on the internet their opinion. So here's the deal... a group of friends and I meet semi regularly to play Dungeons and dragons 5th edition together. For me, getting into dnd was mostly a no brainer since...
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{ "description": "doing a sort of silent treatment to my gf", "pronormative_score": 2, "contranormative_score": 4 }
AITA for doing a sort of silent treatment to my gf?
Ok so I am on mobile please don’t hate me I have been dating this one girl for about two months now and it has been overall fine. Whenever we go on a date together, she is really talkative and we both seem to be engaging but whenever I text her or call her she either waits to respond or responds negatively and seems ...
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{ "description": "telling my gay housemate my friend who he said was cute was also gay", "pronormative_score": 28, "contranormative_score": 3 }
AITA for telling my gay housemate my friend who he said was cute was also gay.
This argument involved me and my housemate (H), we have not had the best relationship in the past but we're civil and still talk to each other. Earlier today I had lunch with a couple of friends, one of whom was gay. I posted on a picture my story with only the gay friend in the shot as it was mostly about the food. H...
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{ "description": "snitching on my friend's friend for hurting her", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for snitching on my friend’s friend for hurting her
OKAY my english isn’t very good take that in mind while reading this I will refer to my friend as “lia” And her friend as “bob” and *his* friend as “tim” got it? Okay Sooo every other week we have this lesson in a specific room that has a desk and chair in the corner of the classroom (the classroom layout was pr...
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AITA? My boyfriend broke up with me after I had a fight with my friend
My friend and I stopped talking for a week after I got upset when she disappeared in the middle of the night in a dangerous neighborhood (where we were staying at the time) without her phone. She ignored me for a while, I reciprocated, and things escalated. That night I was so on edge I called my boyfriend to calm me...
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{ "description": "asking my long-term girlfriend when she was going to clean her shit from the toilet", "pronormative_score": 13, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for asking my long-term girlfriend when she was going to clean her shit from the toilet?
We've lived together for over 6 years and she seems to have a real issue with cleaning up after herself in general, for example leaving food all over the kitchen when she's done cooking and used tissues all over the house. In particular though, I find it disgusting that she can go for a shit and leave it all over the t...
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{ "description": "completing a project so fast that the others in my group didn't get a piece of it", "pronormative_score": 8, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for completing a project so fast that the others in my group didn't get a piece of it?
Idk who is. The project was on animating, and I was excited about doing it, so I just speeded through it without letting my partner do anything else. The project is due tomorrow, and I'm scared my friend will get in trouble because it looks like he didn't do anything, when I didn't mind doing all the work. I can see ho...
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{ "description": "not telling my gf I love her", "pronormative_score": 5, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for not telling my gf I love her?
I’ve been talking to this girl in a long distance relationship — before anyone says it’s a bad idea and it’s hard, I know the risks so it’s alright — both me and this girl are Muslims but we ended up liking each other through a group chat we’ve known each other on for about 2 years. We’ve been dating for 5ish months;...
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{ "description": "cheating on a girl who's cheating on me at the same time", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 8 }
AITA for cheating on a girl who's cheating on me at the same time?
I was dating a girl who i knew for a fact that she with somebody else but i gave her the benegit of the doubt when she told me she was single then, one day we were having lunch and she went to bathroom and left her phone with me, and her otger boyfriend rexted her and called here that's when i decided to cheat as well,...
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{ "description": "saying no to co-signing a Loan to refinance my girlfriends debt", "pronormative_score": 27, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA, because I Said no to Co-signing a Loan to refinance my girlfriends debt?
AITA, Said No to Co-Signing a loan to refinance my financially irresponsible girlfriends Student Loans Let me give some background, Sorry for the poor punctuation in advance! \- we have been dating for 8 years \- she threatened to dump me if I said no, I felt this only reinforced my decision to say NO \- BEFORE ...
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{ "description": "breaking up with my girlfriend over her constant farting", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 6 }
AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend over her constant farting?
Throwaway because she knows my main. My (now ex) and I have enjoyed a pretty wonderful relationship for about 8 months, and all seemed to be well until about a month ago, when she accidentally farted for the first time in front of me. She was very embarrased but I tried to make her feel better by laughing it off, but...
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{ "description": "using my baby's fathers card to buy a stroller", "pronormative_score": 0, "contranormative_score": 18 }
WIBTA if I(f26) use my baby's fathers card to buy a stroller?
Some background: My ex and I split up about 6 months ago and I moved in with my mom. While pregnant we moved in together I gave him 15k to pay off his debt so his credit would improve (since I have none), helped with repairs of the place we were leasing, furnished it and paid for most of day to day needs. We had agree...
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{ "description": "being angry and yelling at my son for losing our cow", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA for being angry and yelling at my son for losing our cow?
Hello friends, I have been a subscriber to r / aita for some time, and there is no reason to release it to the present. I don't speak English, so it's not good to talk to me. I live with my wife and children in a very rural farm in East Asia. We don't have a dairy farm, but we do have cows. My son, I will call dicky, i...
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{ "description": "picking graduating over friendship", "pronormative_score": 55, "contranormative_score": 2 }
AITA For Picking Graduating Over Friendship?
Little background, I'm a 5th year senior who's graduating in December 20th (so like eight days). Me and three other fraternity brothers were taking a course together. This course was notified early on that there would be a group project worth 65% of our grade and that we should pick 1 - 2 partners accordingly. I ask...
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{ "description": "assuming sex", "pronormative_score": 3, "contranormative_score": 0 }
AITA for assuming sex?
Text conversation I wasn't suppose to see. Her: does she know everything? Her: about that night Him: no ... missing info but was about her cheating bf hitting on me and getting shut down.... Her: i'm glad she could do that because I didn't.. Him: didn't what? Her: lol. Stop you.... Him: I don't know what you'r...
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{ "description": "leaving a small dent on someone's car bonnet", "pronormative_score": 1, "contranormative_score": 10 }
AITA for leaving a small dent on someone’s car bonnet?
This happened today on my way to school and the only way I can get to school (without being 30 mins late) is by going through a short cut at the end of a small street. There was this guy who parked his car right up against the entrance to the shortcut ( a little wider than a person) and wouldn’t move his car on the exc...
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