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I think my daughter is stressing too much"When my daughter is stressed about a silly thing from school she starts crying and freaking out. She is a bright student always has a . but I am afraid she is stressing too much. I\'m afraid it\'s going to break her. I don't know if I should get her to a doctor or someone becau... | "I agree with your observation about your daughter feeling stressed. \'a0Are you able to open this topic in conversation with her?Also, reflect on your own expectations as a parent. \'a0It is possible that your daughter is trying to please you by getting consistently high grades.If your daughter prefers talking in conf... | "Its hard to answer this question based on the information presented but I shall give it a go, Is it possible that your daughter is afraid of failing, I've seen many children and kids who get stressed out over grades or performance in sports, can you tell me ""what was your grade in fourth grade English? Or what was th... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... | "Hello, I am sorry to hear about you feeling verbally abused, trapped without an escape, and emotionally drained. Sounds to me like you are being treated more like a child than an adult. \'a0It's time to learn about healthy boundaries and being treated like an adult. This process will take time, but beyond elevating yo... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... | "I am so sorry this is happening to you.\'a0 One thought I have is for you to create a mantra or a soothing statement to say over and over to yourself as you are being bombarded with this negativity and abuse.\'a0 For example you could say ""Living here is temporarily, one day I will have my own place"".\'a0 Or you cou... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... | "Your situation is a difficult one, but I would encourage you to start considering how to set boundaries for yourself and your family members. Often, times we believe we have to allow a certain behavior because a person is family. This is not true. It sounds like you could use some help understanding finding your voice... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. \'a0Considering that you mentioned not having a place to go, it may be best to address the problem as oppose to \'93just take all of it\'94. Confrontation can be done in a healthy and effective way. \'a0Being able to communicate your feelings with the intent of improv... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "The first step is realizing your value and establishing firm boundaries. When your parents cross that boundary and are verbally abusive, you have to have a plan to stand your ground and act upon it. That plan may include a better job to afford a place of your own, a domestic violence shelter if you are unable to provi... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I can't imagine what you are feeling but I can tell you that you are right to be concerned about your children baring witness to this abuse. \'a0This is a great teachable moment for your kids. \'a0How you handle yourself will be very important for your children to see. \'a0Your ""REACTION"" is what you should focus on... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... |
I get verbally abused everyday by my parents in front of my child and I cannot take it anymore"I'm being verbally abused on a daily basis by my parents in front of my child. I feel like I\'m trapped and I have no escape. I feel like I have to listen to the horrible things they say and just take all of it.\
I need so... | "I think one of the best things to pass on to our children, or simply one of the best lessons in life, is to learn when to internalize (it's an issue in me) and when to externalize (it's an issue in them), as well as always finding the balance of the two.In this case, you don't seem to be the issue. Sure, living with y... | "When their verbal abuse starts, tell them you are exiting the conversation because the way they're talking to you is unacceptable.Explain you are willing to hear their point of view only not when it is expressed as abuse.They may not agree with your opinion and also may not want to change.Even if they do not change, y... |
My fianc\'e's ex-husband shows up unannounced"he just walks in the house whenever he wants to see his kids. My fianc\'e tells me it makes her angry and doesn't like it but she seems afraid to say anything to him about it for some reason. Is it okay for him to do this?" | "The kids are actually her Property, and he does have a claim to them as he wishes;The house is yours, I presume;So require that if he wishes to see his Property, it be done off of your Property;And, that as long as it remains your Property, you have jurisdiction over all those, therein;Require compensation for visits,... | "The obvious answer is no, it's not okay.\'a0 There are other you should be asking though.\'a0 You said your fiance ""seems afraid"" of her ex.\'a0 Did you ask her about that?\'a0 Is there a reason he still has a key to the\'a0 home?\'a0 Has there been any discussion of appropriate boundaries?\'a0 I work with a lot of ... |
My fianc\'e's ex-husband shows up unannounced"he just walks in the house whenever he wants to see his kids. My fianc\'e tells me it makes her angry and doesn't like it but she seems afraid to say anything to him about it for some reason. Is it okay for him to do this?" | "The kids are actually her Property, and he does have a claim to them as he wishes;The house is yours, I presume;So require that if he wishes to see his Property, it be done off of your Property;And, that as long as it remains your Property, you have jurisdiction over all those, therein;Require compensation for visits,... | "Do you know the reason your fianc\'e9 puts up with the ex's behavior?If not, then ask her.The answer could be anything, from some agreement the two of them made either formally or informally before you came into her life, to residual sense of obligation she feels toward him as a parent, or that she genuinely does fear... |
My fianc\'e's ex-husband shows up unannounced"he just walks in the house whenever he wants to see his kids. My fianc\'e tells me it makes her angry and doesn't like it but she seems afraid to say anything to him about it for some reason. Is it okay for him to do this?" | "Do you know the reason your fianc\'e9 puts up with the ex's behavior?If not, then ask her.The answer could be anything, from some agreement the two of them made either formally or informally before you came into her life, to residual sense of obligation she feels toward him as a parent, or that she genuinely does fear... | "The obvious answer is no, it's not okay.\'a0 There are other you should be asking though.\'a0 You said your fiance ""seems afraid"" of her ex.\'a0 Did you ask her about that?\'a0 Is there a reason he still has a key to the\'a0 home?\'a0 Has there been any discussion of appropriate boundaries?\'a0 I work with a lot of ... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "At times when a child is not displaying milestone behavior at the same rate that is average for their peers, this should raise concern, so you are correct in reaching out for advice. Speaking with your child's pediatrician, as well as school staff may be the first places to start. You can request that she receive an a... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Kids develop in different ways and different speeds. It can sometimes feel like your kid has a delay because of these different ways of development. If you have concerns about your child\'92s development then addressing it with the school is the best solution. They will be able to provide a full assessment if needed w... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Contact your daughter\'92s school and ask for an occupational therapy evaluation. An occupational therapist can determine if your daughter struggles with eye-hand coordination, visual processing or sensory motor difficulties. The therapist will develop a plan of care if your daughter demonstrates delays or difficultie... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "Developmentally, there are ages where not coloring in the lines, writing words that are jumbled together, and leaving big spaces or skipping lines are completely normal.\'a0 I have seen children in 3rd and in\'a0some cases, 4th grade who do not have learning disabilities write in the manner you have described.\'a0\'a0... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "It sounds like it might be worth asking the school for an evaluation to determine whether your daughter has any learning disabilities such as dysgraphia or dyslexia or seek an evaluation through an educational neuropsychologist.\'a0 I would also suggest having her vision checked by a developmental optometrist.", | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "If your daughter is the same age as most of the other students in her class, and the other students easily complete the tasks you list here, then there is a problem in the performance of these tasks for your daughter.Without knowing more about the context of your daughter's life, for example, is she a new student to t... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
Does my daughter have a mental disability?My daughter is in later elementary school. She can't color in the lines. Her words jumble together when she writes unless there are big spaces or she skips lines. | "There could be a number of things going on here. For instance, have her eyes been checked by an optometrist? She might just not like writing or coloring. She could be rushing through assignments so that she can spend time with friends, play games, or do something else. She might need some extra help with fine motor sk... | "It's hard to tell from the information that you were able to provide here, but talk with her elementary school a guidance counselor. Someone working with the school (usually a school psychologist) should be able to evaluate her to see if she needs extra help and to tell you more clearly what may be happening.", |
My daughter isn't acting her ageMy daughter seemed to be developing at a normal rate until about the age of . She then started to act younger than she is. Now she only wants to play with younger kids and she doesn't act her age. I don't know why this is happening. Is this normal? | "Your daughter is fortunate to have an observant parent, who is willing to seek out help in this regard.\'a0Regression can be indicative of some stress in your child's life, so the issues she is facing should be examined.\'a0Seeking advice from your daughter's pediatrician, as well as a practitioner familiar with adole... | "Hello.It sounds like you are really concerned about your daughter because you have noticed a significant change in her behavior . \'a0 It's really a great first step that you are reaching out to get some ideas about what might be going on . \'a0You are clearly an observant and hands on \'a0mom who wants to be sure tha... |
My daughter isn't acting her ageMy daughter seemed to be developing at a normal rate until about the age of . She then started to act younger than she is. Now she only wants to play with younger kids and she doesn't act her age. I don't know why this is happening. Is this normal? | "Your daughter is fortunate to have an observant parent, who is willing to seek out help in this regard.\'a0Regression can be indicative of some stress in your child's life, so the issues she is facing should be examined.\'a0Seeking advice from your daughter's pediatrician, as well as a practitioner familiar with adole... | "Good for you to know your daughter's friendship circles and to notice when these have changed.While friendships are key relationships, they are not the only indicator of someone not developing normally.Is your observation and opinion that your daughter isn't normal based on other factors or just this one?If this is th... |
My daughter isn't acting her ageMy daughter seemed to be developing at a normal rate until about the age of . She then started to act younger than she is. Now she only wants to play with younger kids and she doesn't act her age. I don't know why this is happening. Is this normal? | "Good for you to know your daughter's friendship circles and to notice when these have changed.While friendships are key relationships, they are not the only indicator of someone not developing normally.Is your observation and opinion that your daughter isn't normal based on other factors or just this one?If this is th... | "Hello.It sounds like you are really concerned about your daughter because you have noticed a significant change in her behavior . \'a0 It's really a great first step that you are reaching out to get some ideas about what might be going on . \'a0You are clearly an observant and hands on \'a0mom who wants to be sure tha... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Your child is not part of your past, he or she is part of your present and future. Your child needs you. Statistics about fatherless children are staggering. Research shows children raised in a father-absent\'a0 home experience the following: 4x greater risk of poverty, more likely to have behavioral problems, 7x more... | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "Hi, your situation sounds very complicated and sensitive. \'a0It is important to handle it with care as it involves your children. \'a0When parents are attempting to co-parent, the clearer the boundaries and expectations are the easier it gets to effectively co-parent. \'a0Parenting your child is not \'93living in the... | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "The thing that confuses a child the most is for a parent to come and go from their life. Children have a way of making things their fault, even when they have done nothing wrong. Because of this, when parents cut off contact, the child thinks it's their fault.\'a0As hard as that already is for a child, it is even wors... | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "What are the ways your ex-wife uses your child as a pawn?This answer determines the best ways to handle particular situations.Basically, distinguish that your father relationship to your child lasts has great meaning for your child and as the adult, the responsibility for managing this relationship falls on you.Your r... | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "I am really glad you reached out. When parents get divorced, they still need to figure out how to have relationship so that they can parent their child. We might divorce our partners, however, we don't divorce our children. If anything our children need to know that we are still a stable force in their lives. Unfortun... | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... |
How should I handle the child I had with my ex-wife?"My ex-wife married and used me to have a child. She now uses that child as a pawn. I know my child misses me but I need to move on and not live in the past. How do I do this? Do I see my child as much as possible or very little? Is it more confusing for the child?" | "You're in a difficult situation and on behalf of you and your child, I commend you for trying to find the right thing to do.Short version: your child needs you as much as possible. period. Always. We used to think that children were almost always harmed by divorce, unless there was extreme conflict or violence. More r... | "If you have a good relationship with your child then you have already accepted and been accepted as this child's parent and you have a commitment and an obligation to play that role. \'a0If you suddenly absent yourself from this child's life then you may be doing real damage. Working out an arrangement with the child'... |
"I lied to my mom then felt bad and told her the truth""She cried because she lost all trust in me. Now I feel disgusting and like my heart just got stabbed what do I do?" | "Hey! Sounds like the part of you that knows the RIGHT thing to do won here! I am so proud of you for admitting that you lied to your Mom! Sometimes lies come out of our mouths before we can even catch them because we are trying to say what the other person wants to hear. I bet that, as you begin to show her that you a... | "It sounds like you've already learned that just being honest is often the best approach.\'a0What do you think about telling your mom how you're feeling? \'a0She might really appreciate it if you also let her know that regaining her trust is really important to you.", |
I don't know how to communicate with my adult daughter"There is just no communication at all between us. She sleeps constantly all day (not at night). She acts angry and unfocused and stays in her very messy room all the time. The only time she comes out is to eat. She has aches and fatigue weight gain hair loss and... | "Hello,\'a0I know that your situation is frustrating and debilitating.\'a0 It sounds like she either has a medical or mental condition.\'a0 She needs help, and for the sounds of it, you want to help her.\'a0 I suggest that you take the time to contemplate the best way and time to approach her.\'a0 Rehearse ahead of tim... | "I'm sorry for what sounds like a frustrating situation.For how long has your daughter lived the way you describe and did it start all of a sudden or more gradually come on?What you write sounds like a major depressive disorder and this can start for a variety of reasons and improve in just as many different ways.Start... |
I don't know how to communicate with my adult daughter"There is just no communication at all between us. She sleeps constantly all day (not at night). She acts angry and unfocused and stays in her very messy room all the time. The only time she comes out is to eat. She has aches and fatigue weight gain hair loss and... | "Hello,\'a0I know that your situation is frustrating and debilitating.\'a0 It sounds like she either has a medical or mental condition.\'a0 She needs help, and for the sounds of it, you want to help her.\'a0 I suggest that you take the time to contemplate the best way and time to approach her.\'a0 Rehearse ahead of tim... | "1. She's an adult.2. She lives in your house? She follows your rules.3. What you're describing could be any number of things, but could potentially be a medical issue that needs attention. Thyroid issues, autoimmune diseases - there's a ton of medical possibilities for her symptoms. I'm not a doctor; this is a forum o... |
I don't know how to communicate with my adult daughter"There is just no communication at all between us. She sleeps constantly all day (not at night). She acts angry and unfocused and stays in her very messy room all the time. The only time she comes out is to eat. She has aches and fatigue weight gain hair loss and... | "I'm sorry for what sounds like a frustrating situation.For how long has your daughter lived the way you describe and did it start all of a sudden or more gradually come on?What you write sounds like a major depressive disorder and this can start for a variety of reasons and improve in just as many different ways.Start... | "1. She's an adult.2. She lives in your house? She follows your rules.3. What you're describing could be any number of things, but could potentially be a medical issue that needs attention. Thyroid issues, autoimmune diseases - there's a ton of medical possibilities for her symptoms. I'm not a doctor; this is a forum o... |
Is it normal to dislike one child?I have three children. The oldest is nine and not my biological child. The middle child is three and the youngest is one. I have a great relationship with the oldest two children but I haven't developed the same level of attatchment to the youngest child. I rarely want her around and l... | "Congrats on being honest about the way you feel!Many people state having a favorite child so the reverse would also be possible, of having a least favorite child.Try to understand your own reasons for not liking your youngest child as much as the others.One point to consider is whether it is the child' personality or ... | "This is a common response parents can have.\'a0 There are many reasons for attachment disruption.\'a0 \'a0But attachment is\'a0 important for the child as well as your long term relationship with them.\'a0 \'a0 I would want to know more about the history of the child and any stressors you have gone through during the ... |
How do I kick my stepdaughter out of our house because she isn't honoring boundaries set for her?"She's in her early s and she has a toddler." | "It may be helpful to first have a discussion about what you are expecting and put a timeframe on it that if she is not doing certain things by a certain date, she will have to leave. If you don't know where she can go, there is probably a list of shelters for the county that you live in.", | "This is something you will have to discuss with your husband. \'a0It should be a joint decision if you value your marriage. \'a0You can mention your frustration about your stepdaughter not honoring boundaries. \'a0After you talk to your husband you both can have a talk with your stepdaughter about expectations in orde... |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "Yes, this emotional abuse. \'a0There is no abuse without emotional abuse. \'a0His abuse is demeaning and can have lasting negative impact on your perspective of your self and people around you. \'a0Please find someone support to talk to.", | "I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this.It's a little difficult to answer your question because the laws that define child abuse are different from state to state. But usually, things like what you describe your dad is doing are not considered to be child abuse.The more important thing is how you feel... |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Having said that, everyone gets upset once in awhile and may yell or scream, which can be disrespectful. You said ""always, and I mean always"" and that is troubling. If your dad curses and screams at you on a regular and consistent basis, it can (as you stated... | "I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this.It's a little difficult to answer your question because the laws that define child abuse are different from state to state. But usually, things like what you describe your dad is doing are not considered to be child abuse.The more important thing is how you feel... |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this.It's a little difficult to answer your question because the laws that define child abuse are different from state to state. But usually, things like what you describe your dad is doing are not considered to be child abuse.The more important thing is how you feel... | "Yes, screaming and cussing at your child is considered abuse.Here are two points I suggest you consider for your situation.If your dad is ever calm when you and him are with one another, \'a0ask for some time to talk about your relationship with him.Schedule it for sometime in the near future from your request. \'a0 T... |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Having said that, everyone gets upset once in awhile and may yell or scream, which can be disrespectful. You said ""always, and I mean always"" and that is troubling. If your dad curses and screams at you on a regular and consistent basis, it can (as you stated... | "Yes, this emotional abuse. \'a0There is no abuse without emotional abuse. \'a0His abuse is demeaning and can have lasting negative impact on your perspective of your self and people around you. \'a0Please find someone support to talk to.", |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "Yes, this emotional abuse. \'a0There is no abuse without emotional abuse. \'a0His abuse is demeaning and can have lasting negative impact on your perspective of your self and people around you. \'a0Please find someone support to talk to.", | "Yes, screaming and cussing at your child is considered abuse.Here are two points I suggest you consider for your situation.If your dad is ever calm when you and him are with one another, \'a0ask for some time to talk about your relationship with him.Schedule it for sometime in the near future from your request. \'a0 T... |
Is screaming and cussing at your child considered emotional abuse?"My dad is always and I mean always cussing and screaming at me for no reason at all. He makes me feel stupid. He also compares me to my other siblings in a negative way and demeans me. Is this abuse?" | "Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Having said that, everyone gets upset once in awhile and may yell or scream, which can be disrespectful. You said ""always, and I mean always"" and that is troubling. If your dad curses and screams at you on a regular and consistent basis, it can (as you stated... | "Yes, screaming and cussing at your child is considered abuse.Here are two points I suggest you consider for your situation.If your dad is ever calm when you and him are with one another, \'a0ask for some time to talk about your relationship with him.Schedule it for sometime in the near future from your request. \'a0 T... |
My mother is trying to control my life and I don't know what to do"I am in my early s and I still live with my parents because I can't afford to live alone.\
My mother says that if I live under her roof I have to follow her rules. She is trying to control my life. What should I do?" | "Unfortunately you seem to have yourself in a double bind. By living with your mom she is not going to stop her attempts at what you perceive as ""controlling"". There is no use in trying to debate or get her to ""see your point"". As long as your there and you personalize her attempts at control, then you will find yo... | "Hello. Even though legally you are an adult, it is a matter of courtesy to respect the homes of your parents. As long as you live there, you should be considerate of their needs. At the same time, there should be conversation about what each of you considers appropriate as it pertains to communication between a parent... |
My mother is trying to control my life and I don't know what to do"I am in my early s and I still live with my parents because I can't afford to live alone.\
My mother says that if I live under her roof I have to follow her rules. She is trying to control my life. What should I do?" | "Unfortunately I think most of us have heard this, so you are not alone. \'a0If you are still under her roof she has leverage as to what her expectations are while you are living there. \'a0I would consider therapy for the both of you to see if there could be a middle ground that could be agreed upon. \'a0Often times a... | "Hello. Even though legally you are an adult, it is a matter of courtesy to respect the homes of your parents. As long as you live there, you should be considerate of their needs. At the same time, there should be conversation about what each of you considers appropriate as it pertains to communication between a parent... |
My mother is trying to control my life and I don't know what to do"I am in my early s and I still live with my parents because I can't afford to live alone.\
My mother says that if I live under her roof I have to follow her rules. She is trying to control my life. What should I do?" | "Hello. Even though legally you are an adult, it is a matter of courtesy to respect the homes of your parents. As long as you live there, you should be considerate of their needs. At the same time, there should be conversation about what each of you considers appropriate as it pertains to communication between a parent... | "Hello. It sounds like you and your parents are not balanced in your communication and awareness\'a0of\'a0expectations. Your growth is not only reflected in your ability to understand and apply new knowledge and skills, it is also reflective of your parents acceptance of your understanding and application. Have you tri... |
My mother is trying to control my life and I don't know what to do"I am in my early s and I still live with my parents because I can't afford to live alone.\
My mother says that if I live under her roof I have to follow her rules. She is trying to control my life. What should I do?" | "Hello. Even though legally you are an adult, it is a matter of courtesy to respect the homes of your parents. As long as you live there, you should be considerate of their needs. At the same time, there should be conversation about what each of you considers appropriate as it pertains to communication between a parent... | "That is a really tough situation that a lot of young people are experiencing right now. The first thing to under is that you can\'92t change who your parents are and cannot change their behavior. The thing to keep in mind is that you can control your responses and actions. \'a0You may need to keep living at home with ... |
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