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pajkenis | 2020-03-23 14:18:30 | 1,584,973,110 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fnkp5w | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/fnkp5w/how_do_i_actually_change/ | 4 | As the title says, I want to change, I want a relationship, someone that I can be close with, but at the same time I really enjoy living my own life, doing my own things and living the way that I want to live and these things will not work with a relationship and I don't know how to change. I really love spending time ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I actually change? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fnkp5w/how_do_i_actually_change/ |
WeirdSpaceCommunist | 2022-08-24 21:52:11 | 1,661,377,931 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wwvwo1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wwvwo1/would_you_date_someone_who_seems_lost_in_life/ | 0 | I didn't expect i would have trouble putting this to actual words. but this took me like 20 minutes to think what i want to write. And im sorry if i sound a bit self pitying, its not my intention. \- - - - So, im currently in a place in my life where i feel im kinda lost. Im doing two college courses for the third time... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you date someone who seems lost in life? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wwvwo1/would_you_date_someone_who_seems_lost_in_life/ |
DigitalBagel8899 | 2024-03-03 18:22:45 | 1,709,490,165 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1b5nxvm | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b5nxvm/ghosted_immediately_after_what_i_thought_was_a/ | 4 | I (32m) matched with this girl (26f) on tinder a week ago. She actually super-liked me and messaged me first, which has never happened to me before. Her messages were always long, detailed, and thoughtful. It was such a relief to talk to someone who actually seemed engaged and put in effort. We had a ton in common, so ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted immediately after what I thought was a great date. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b5nxvm/ghosted_immediately_after_what_i_thought_was_a/ |
Barbablanca1961 | 2020-12-04 23:48:31 | 1,607,125,711 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | k6wkj4 | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/k6wkj4/birds_of_a_feather/ | 7 | I'm a male (59), never married, never had children. Actually, I've never been in a relationship because as far as I could tell, no woman has ever been attracted to me. If they WERE, the signals weren't overt enough for me to pick up on the cues. I've tried OLD and seldom get any responses, short of scammers from foreig... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Birds Of A Feather?? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/k6wkj4/birds_of_a_feather/ |
coffeewriter77 | 2021-07-27 22:31:16 | 1,627,425,076 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | oswuly | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oswuly/im_30_male_and_ive_never_dated_where_do_i_start/ | 39 | So I’ve tried the dating apps like tinder, bumble, PoF and honestly I don’t even get Matches and for the once in a while occasion when I do, the girl never responds. I decided to look at tinder- the guys on there to see what I was up against and honestly, I figured it out. It’s mostly people who are spontaneous, go on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m 30, male, and I’ve never dated, where do I start? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oswuly/im_30_male_and_ive_never_dated_where_do_i_start/ |
jdaenvon | 2024-03-17 03:05:00 | 1,710,644,700 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bgnj9c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bgnj9c/slightly_concerned_after_a_great_date_and/ | 1 | Hello everyone, Lately, my game on Hinge this time around has been much improved from previous times and I am pleased with the results so far. Going on dates almost every week/weekend for about over a month now. Not to say I am a player but just referring to the dating game as a whole. Anyways... I am a bit taken back ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Slightly Concerned After a Great Date and Connection but now Radio Silence/Ghost? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bgnj9c/slightly_concerned_after_a_great_date_and/ |
deltapapa1 | 2022-07-19 14:43:53 | 1,658,241,833 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | w2ufxq | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/w2ufxq/bumble_travel/ | 15 | I am a 51M and live in rural New Hampshire and I’m down in NYC on business. Bumble has been pretty quiet back home, but overnight my account has blown up (26 in my beeline so far). I can’t help but get a little ego boost. Maybe I’m not chopped liver! 😂 And, no, I’ll not be connecting with anyone with hopes of sparking... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Bumble travel | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/w2ufxq/bumble_travel/ |
glostickglows | 2017-12-09 07:53:15 | 1,512,805,995 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 7iljsd | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7iljsd/23f_any_suggestions_or_advice_for_online_dating/ | 1 | I have been using bumble/tinder for the past four months since my last breakup. However, I haven’t had any success yet because I do not know how to continue a relationship after the first excitement of “matching” fades away. And really don’t exactly know what to do after the “it’s a match” message. I tried talking to m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [23F] any suggestions or advice for online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7iljsd/23f_any_suggestions_or_advice_for_online_dating/ |
er1425 | 2023-12-04 16:19:55 | 1,701,706,795 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 18anop7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18anop7/women_of_this_subreddit_which_qualities_do_you/ | 4 | My question is geared mostly towards women of this subreddit but men are also welcome to give their insights. I have had mixed results when it comes to dating. Mostly it's through OLD since my attempts IRL have been not successful so far. To give a bit of a perspective about my character, I'm a stright forward, logical... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women of this subreddit, Which Qualities do you notice and like in the very first couple of dates? | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18anop7/women_of_this_subreddit_which_qualities_do_you/ |
escapedmelody11 | 2023-01-26 18:30:20 | 1,674,757,820 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10lyry7 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10lyry7/is_this_guy_35m_lying_to_me_34f_about_not_dating/ | 2 | Early in December the guy I was seeing for four months got a notification from a dating app. Since then, he was going on dates with her (he’d tell me when I asked) and putting me on the back burner. When I asked him about going out with me, he kept telling me that the holidays and his new job were keeping him from seei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this guy (35m) lying to me (34f) about not dating anyone? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10lyry7/is_this_guy_35m_lying_to_me_34f_about_not_dating/ |
Happy-Diamond1063 | 2023-03-24 06:47:28 | 1,679,640,448 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 120bvyo | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/120bvyo/questions_for_men_pet_names/ | 3 | I've met a few guys OLD, and in conversation, they call me things like "love", "sweetie", "hunn", "hottie", or "babe" when we haven't exchanged more than a few messages, and end sentences with an "x". It makes me super uncomfortable because these are strangers, and they're speaking to me like I'm their girlfriend... bu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Questions for men: Pet names? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/120bvyo/questions_for_men_pet_names/ |
Sensitive_Winter7092 | 2024-04-13 12:37:55 | 1,713,011,875 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1c30zbe | true | Casual Conversation | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1c30zbe/conspiracy_theory_this_is_for_entertainment/ | 34 | I like and meet up with person A. Person A has particular traits that do not align with me. Date over, back to swiping. However, more people I like i.e. the people coming on my thread have this particular trait. How can that be? I am of the opinion that dating sites are doing what social media does. If you engange with... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Conspiracy theory. (This is for entertainment purpose only only) | 34 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1c30zbe/conspiracy_theory_this_is_for_entertainment/ |
PengoPlays | 2022-11-03 00:51:52 | 1,667,436,712 | null | null | 0 | yknoio | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yknoio/review_my_bumble_profile/ | 6 | I’m thinking about dipping my feet into online dating, but I want to make sure I’m making a good shot while doing so. I’m still in the process of getting a variety of photos, so I’m not sure if I should cut down on some of the same ish ones in the mean time. I also want to make sure I have enough there that someone cou... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Review my bumble profile | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yknoio/review_my_bumble_profile/ |
Plus1User | 2023-03-16 20:04:37 | 1,678,997,077 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | 11t4o77 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11t4o77/third_shift_dating/ | 1 | So I (m36) had mostly given up on dating due to my work schedule (11pm-7am, Thursday to Tuesday), social anxiety, and poor communication skills. I had trouble meeting people and connecting, so I figured I’d work on self improvement until I could get a better schedule and try again. However, I still had an active but un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Third Shift Dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11t4o77/third_shift_dating/ |
lilacmoonlwt | 2021-06-15 15:18:50 | 1,623,770,330 | null | ['matches', 'dating sites'] | 0 | o0gspu | true | I Need Advice | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o0gspu/how_do_i_date_when_im_not_considered_attractive/ | 11 | I’m in my early 20’s. I only had one relationship when I was 15 with a 23 year old guy and we broke up after a week because I got scared when he wanted to take the next step. Since then I’ve never dated again. I’m not sure why. I know I’m not considered attractive and my personality isn’t great, I’m shy and closed off ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I date when I’m not considered attractive and my personality doesn’t make up for it. | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o0gspu/how_do_i_date_when_im_not_considered_attractive/ |
Mark--P | 2024-04-24 21:14:35 | 1,713,993,275 | 0 | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1cc9udv | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cc9udv/ghosting_hurts_can_we_collectively_agree_to_not/ | 1 | Literally the title I matched with this attractive woman on OkCupid who initiated the conversation with me, I jokingly said she was out of my league at the start but she insisted otherwise and that I was very handsome. The conversation goes swimmingly over the course of the afternoon, I'm putting in a lot of effort to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosting hurts, can we collectively agree to not do it? | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cc9udv/ghosting_hurts_can_we_collectively_agree_to_not/ |
Da8balljunkie | 2017-03-20 21:20:21 | 1,490,044,821 | null | ['matches', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 60jc1g | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/60jc1g/getting_called_hot_but_low_confidence/ | 3 | Hi all I'm a 31 year old male, I'm on a couple of dating sites and have I get a good response from women, either from messages I've sent or received. I get a good amount of "matches". The thing is, that in reality my confidence is pretty low, girls send me messages calling me hot but I just don't feel it let alone feel... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting called hot but low confidence | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/60jc1g/getting_called_hot_but_low_confidence/ |
lavendertail | 2023-01-10 04:20:58 | 1,673,324,458 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1080baz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 71 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1080baz/he_33m_acted_like_i_30f_was_his_long_term/ | 54 | This one has me totally lost. Matched with a really attractive guy on Tinder yesterday morning, and he asked for my number pretty quick then wanted to meet for a few minutes when he got off work that same evening. I made it clear I wasn't the type for casual hookups, and he said he wasn't looking for a hookup. I assume... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He (33m) acted like I (30f) was his long term girlfriend on our first meeting? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1080baz/he_33m_acted_like_i_30f_was_his_long_term/ |
wolfpackalpha | 2016-03-27 22:36:57 | 1,459,118,217 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 4c7jvq | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/4c7jvq/dating_sites/ | 0 | Hi so I'm a guy and I'm trying my luck with dating sites and wanted to see if anyone had any suggestions. At the moment I've been trying okcupid, but have almost no luck at all with people responding back. I was wondering if anyone could suggest a free dating site where they've had some luck or know of people having go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating sites | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4c7jvq/dating_sites/ |
SnowBurns | 2021-04-02 08:13:53 | 1,617,351,233 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | mifv29 | true | Venting | 81 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mifv29/how_the_hell_am_i_supposed_to_meet_anyone/ | 75 | Mid-late 20’s guy here. Been dating on and off seriously for like 6 years now and all of that was done through tinder and bumble. After finally having enough bad experiences on those apps and watching them continually go downhill I’ve decided to drop online dating permanently. But now I’m faced with the problem of actu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How the hell am I supposed to meet anyone? | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mifv29/how_the_hell_am_i_supposed_to_meet_anyone/ |
airportcreator | 2023-04-07 22:45:34 | 1,680,907,534 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 12f2c2z | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12f2c2z/romance_scammers/ | 2 | I'm just venting. I've been on a couple of dating sites, one of which I use the most. So far, I have been contacted about 5 times by 5 different romance scammers. It always sucks when you start talking to someone you like, and they turn out to be fake. I can tell pretty early on that it is a fake account. They almost a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Romance Scammers | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12f2c2z/romance_scammers/ |
Efficient_Ad_5310 | 2021-06-18 22:30:51 | 1,624,055,451 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | o31xtu | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o31xtu/help/ | 3 | Hey, I’m a 33-year-old male with Asperger syndrome, and I want a relationship in the worst way. I have trouble meeting women. I don’t feel comfortable approaching them. The dating sites never work for me. I feel depressed all the time for not having someone. I just don’t know what to do. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help! | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o31xtu/help/ |
Clynnhof | 2024-03-31 14:03:52 | 1,711,893,832 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bsb5c4 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1bsb5c4/how_do_i_make_friends_with_single_men_without/ | 1 | I (32f) went through a breakup recently and nearly all of my close friends are people in long term relationships. With nearly all of these couple friends, I was friends with the guys before their relationships and even before my last relationship, so I don’t really have an issue being platonic friends with guys. Howeve... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I make friends with single men without seeming like I’m interested in them. | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1bsb5c4/how_do_i_make_friends_with_single_men_without/ |
gorglob444 | 2023-10-18 22:13:39 | 1,697,667,219 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17b2yfc | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17b2yfc/how_to_tell_guys_that_i_23f_dont_hookup_on_the/ | 1 | I just recently started using dating apps and the first couple times I've gone on dates, it's always expected that we go back to their place and hookup. I understand this is what most people are looking for night one, but I'm not sure how to go about making it clear that that's not what I'm looking for beforehand (with... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to tell guys that I (23F) don't hookup on the first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17b2yfc/how_to_tell_guys_that_i_23f_dont_hookup_on_the/ |
rkf0x | 2021-02-25 01:03:53 | 1,614,215,033 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | lrss8i | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lrss8i/how_to_get_a_date/ | 5 | I am a 29 year old male. I haven't dated since I was 18. It is really difficult for me to talk to strangers, and I never managed to get a date through online dating. I go through pages and pages of potential matches and no one really seems that interesting. I still liked a lot of profiles because I feel like I really n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get a date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lrss8i/how_to_get_a_date/ |
ellar0609 | 2023-01-30 22:16:50 | 1,675,117,010 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10pfv4i | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10pfv4i/phone_numbers_on_dating_apps/ | 0 | Hi guys, I'm new to the online dating scene and was wondering what is normal for exchanging numbers on dating apps? I joined bumble a week ago and there was one guy who offered me his phone number by the 4th message to arrange for coffee Another guy I've had a great date on with was just happy to liaise everything thro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Phone numbers on dating apps | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10pfv4i/phone_numbers_on_dating_apps/ |
saenticr | 2021-05-04 16:33:37 | 1,620,146,017 | null | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | n4sqm6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n4sqm6/how_to_online_dating/ | 1 | I went back to online dating and met a guy on Hinge who I thought was really nice and had great energy. We hit it off on the first date. I gave him my number (which I don’t usually do often but why not, I like him) so we could text and get to know each other more. Oh man, I found texting him awkward There just wasn’t a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How To: Online Dating | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n4sqm6/how_to_online_dating/ |
DeplorableStorm | 2023-10-12 16:00:16 | 1,697,126,416 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 176aehr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/176aehr/i_dont_know_if_i_should_tell_him_i_like_him/ | 1 | I've been taking fitness classes for awhile, there's this guy I train with that I've been crushing on for months. We are both early 20s. A few weeks ago I asked for his instagram under the guise of training help, he happily gave it to me and we've been messaging back and forth a bit about training and our sport. He is ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know if I should tell him I like him | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/176aehr/i_dont_know_if_i_should_tell_him_i_like_him/ |
Full-Statistician-75 | 2021-09-03 12:41:41 | 1,630,672,901 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ph4dyk | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ph4dyk/rate_and_or_critique_my_bumble_profile/ | 0 | Looking for a adventure/gym/music critique partner who doesn't mind a sarcastic sense of humor. I might annoy you with a bit of car talk since I love cars, but I'll happily learn about your hobbies in exchange! Radiation therapist/day trader | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Rate and or critique my bumble profile | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ph4dyk/rate_and_or_critique_my_bumble_profile/ |
Holla211 | 2018-01-09 15:01:41 | 1,515,510,101 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7p7lxn | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7p7lxn/time_limit_phone_calls/ | 4 | Does anyone before they meet someone off OLD and they talk on the phone set a time limit on the calls? If so, why? (and I understand if you set a time of night to end it because of work or an early rise.) This question is more so if you decide to call but in your head 15 minutes is tops! | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Time limit: Phone Calls? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7p7lxn/time_limit_phone_calls/ |
Leading-Scientist380 | 2023-07-16 22:31:11 | 1,689,546,671 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 151jrco | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/151jrco/loads_of_guys_putting_no_brunettes_on_their/ | 1 | So in the past week I’ve seen 5 guys do this, two of which actually tried to match me (I’m brunette). I matched the second guy and asked why he matched me since he put ‘no brunettes’ and he replied ‘good point’. Not sure why guys even feel the need to state this if you don’t fancy someone you don’t have to match them, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Loads of guys putting ‘no brunettes.’ on their dating profiles | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/151jrco/loads_of_guys_putting_no_brunettes_on_their/ |
greysunlightoverwash | 2023-11-28 16:10:52 | 1,701,187,852 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 185znal | true | null | 182 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/185znal/dae_find_the_inclusion_of_sex_positivity_on_their/ | 47 | I agree with the "textbook definition" of sex positivity (acceptance of all sex and gender expression without shaming). But I'm not sure some of the people putting it on their profiles understand what it means. Someone will say they "hate pronouns" and "swipe the same direction as your politics" and "no fatties" but "s... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | DAE find the inclusion of "sex positivity" on their top five bumble interests confusing or cringe or just plain red flaggy? | 47 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/185znal/dae_find_the_inclusion_of_sex_positivity_on_their/ |
tindle26 | 2021-07-26 13:55:25 | 1,627,307,725 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | orz77a | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/orz77a/just_start_dating_again_and_dont_know_what_the/ | 3 | I (25 M) broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years 2 months ago and trying to get back into dating. I'm not going to make this a god damn story book so I'll keep it short. I went on a couple dates that seem to go well. Both of us laughed, shared experiences, and we even hugged (big play) at the end of the date. But nothin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just Start Dating Again and Don't Know What The Hell I'm Doing? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/orz77a/just_start_dating_again_and_dont_know_what_the/ |
3CrabbyTabbies | 2024-04-10 19:45:39 | 1,712,778,339 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1c0ulqn | true | null | 150 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1c0ulqn/what_traits_do_you_overlook/ | 17 | My biggest pet peeve in OLD, especially as a “woman of a certain age” is being asked my measurements. I am curious to know, what traits are you more likely to overlook when dating: physical or personality when looking at a LTR? I see a lot of “they are the whole package….but this “one thing” is a deal breaker posts her... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | What traits do you overlook? | 17 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1c0ulqn/what_traits_do_you_overlook/ |
Off-Camera | 2024-01-29 18:31:06 | 1,706,553,066 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ae2eto | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ae2eto/how_to_cope_with_being_single_forever/ | 1 | I’m (F24) trying to accept and come to terms that I might not ever find a life partner, or at least until my mid 30’s. I’m not into casual dating, dating apps, hook-ups. I want a stable, fulfilling life partner who also shares my values and future goals. But the dating market now just seems impossible. I know I’m still... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to cope with being single forever? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ae2eto/how_to_cope_with_being_single_forever/ |
hamsandwich-69 | 2023-06-29 22:01:46 | 1,688,076,106 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14mhx3l | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14mhx3l/is_he_inexperienced_at_sex_or_am_i_reading_too/ | 3 | I (f31) Started talking to a guy (30m) from tinder. Spent the first couple days talking all day, conversations got deep & personal quickly. Now idk if it’s because I’ve dated assholes but he’s super sweet. Good morning, good night, telling me how beautiful I am, butterflies, the whole 9 yards. I started getting like se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is he inexperienced at sex or am I reading too much into it? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14mhx3l/is_he_inexperienced_at_sex_or_am_i_reading_too/ |
ColdCole8 | 2019-08-22 13:39:02 | 1,566,481,142 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ctxkum | true | Giving Advice | 50 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ctxkum/just_use_free_tinder/ | 30 | I had Tinder Gold for a month because I'm impatient and want to see who liked me. I had about 90+ likes after being on the App for about 4 weeks. From my 90+ likes I had maybe one person I matched with all the likes were from very undesirable women. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just use Free Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ctxkum/just_use_free_tinder/ |
breby1 | 2019-11-17 18:34:04 | 1,574,015,644 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | dxqde6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dxqde6/facebook_message/ | 1 | Hi all, this is the situation. I introduced myself to a girl I've seen on a dating site, I see her at the store occasionally (once or twice a month), and decided to say hello in person. It went well, she told me her name and said to message her. I sent a message on the dating site but she hasn't logged in for ages. I f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Facebook message | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dxqde6/facebook_message/ |
DonoVR | 2018-04-16 23:39:15 | 1,523,921,955 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8cs4l2 | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8cs4l2/should_i_move_on/ | 1 | Posting from an alt for privacy I matched with a girl on tinder and had some good conversation, and then asked to hang out this (past) weekend. Unfortunately, she said her mom was visiting and was busy. We messaged for a couple days and it seemed to be doing well still, so last night I asked again if she would want to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I move on? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8cs4l2/should_i_move_on/ |
Norkadesigns | 2024-05-21 04:45:38 | 1,716,266,738 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cwzpwt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cwzpwt/stopped_talkingdating_other_people_because_i/ | 2 | I met this guy one night at trivia and had recently gotten back on hinge and into the dating scene, so I wasn't really thinking too much into it when we exchanged numbers. We hit it off immediately the night we met, I gave him my number and he texted me about 20 minutes after leaving the bar. We didn't actually go on o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stopped talking/dating other people because I started seriously developing feelings for a guy I've been talking to for a month and a half | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cwzpwt/stopped_talkingdating_other_people_because_i/ |
Wxmike94 | 2022-11-19 19:18:15 | 1,668,885,495 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | yzjp3p | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yzjp3p/what_could_i_be_doing_wrong/ | 0 | Years and years being single. Countless of dating apps. Hundreds of matches. A handful of dates. But nothing has ever gotten past 2 dates. Either the person wasn’t feeling the connection or they ghosted. Could I just be trying too hard? Any advice would help! Thanks :) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What could I be doing wrong? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yzjp3p/what_could_i_be_doing_wrong/ |
[deleted] | 2020-09-15 02:51:47 | 1,600,138,307 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | it07sb | true | Venting | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/it07sb/being_single_is_making_me_depressed_and_having/ | 8 | I (23 f) has been single for a year now. my last ex dumped me and left me for someone else, I suspect cheating as well. anyways, this has really taken a toll in me. I want nothing but a healthy, loving, relationship but everywhere I look on dating apps bumble tinder hinge etc. most just want casual sex at my age. its l... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | being single is making me depressed and having negative thoughts. | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/it07sb/being_single_is_making_me_depressed_and_having/ |
3dsg3rd1jkstr4 | 2019-03-12 08:18:30 | 1,552,378,710 | null | ['matches', 'swipes', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | b059nw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b059nw/tinderbumble_advice_tldr_at_the_bottom/ | 1 | Hi guys, I’m pretty embarrassed to be having to ask this and I hope you all don’t judge me too harshly for some of what I’m about to say as I’m not sure how to quite articulate this correctly. Basically, my girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. It was a loving relationship, 3 of the best years of my life. However,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder/bumble advice (tldr at the bottom) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b059nw/tinderbumble_advice_tldr_at_the_bottom/ |
Correct_Diamond_9476 | 2022-09-11 22:36:53 | 1,662,935,813 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xbvyep | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xbvyep/does_this_sound_like_more_than_casual/ | 1 | We've been friends (met at work) for about 4 years but only started hooking up for the past 2 months. We didn't really talk for a year or so but we saw eachother on a night out and started hooking up regularly from there. We've always got on well and the sex is really great. But as we've started seeing other more regul... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does this sound like more than casual | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xbvyep/does_this_sound_like_more_than_casual/ |
Joshua109 | 2020-09-23 19:56:59 | 1,600,891,019 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | iyhq67 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iyhq67/help_im_2_weeks_from_21_and_scared_to_talk_to/ | 2 | So yeah I have never gone up to a woman and sparked a conversation. Ever. I use dating sites but those kinda of women aren't the ones I'm looking for, and I want to connect with real people. I just have no confidence because of my past and being raised in an abusive home where I was shamed for how I dress and how I hol... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | HELP - I'm 2 weeks from 21 and scared to talk to women. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iyhq67/help_im_2_weeks_from_21_and_scared_to_talk_to/ |
[deleted] | 2020-10-16 20:07:29 | 1,602,878,849 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | jch8d7 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jch8d7/a_question_about_indian_men_to_the_women_of_india/ | 1 | I am an Indian from India. I had a lot of women freinds from reddit, regardless of race, in the past and one online dating relationship with a white woman through Reddit r4r. Ive posted multiple times in r4r seeking a solid friendships or more than that (if we were mutually compatible). Each time i had to declare that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A question about Indian men to the women of India and from other races? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jch8d7/a_question_about_indian_men_to_the_women_of_india/ |
Jolly-Disk-6289 | 2023-12-19 22:12:48 | 1,703,023,968 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18me2u6 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18me2u6/how_do_i_approach_people_or_make_myself_more/ | 1 | I really do feel like this needs some information, so, I am 19 y/o cis female, I have a daughter who’s a bit under a year and a half old. (Her dad is completely out of the picture if that’s relevant?) when I first found out I was pregnant I became a hermit and have stayed a hermit. I don’t leave my house often unless i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I approach people or make myself more approachable? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18me2u6/how_do_i_approach_people_or_make_myself_more/ |
snappysister | 2019-06-15 13:00:07 | 1,560,603,607 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | c0x18p | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c0x18p/another_one_bites_the_dust/ | 312 | I was dating this guy since the beginning of March. I really liked the guy, but he got more and more unsure, I believe, as time went by. Eventually, around the last week of May, I brought up the topic of whether or not we liked each other and would like to continue to see each other. He said he needed time, so I gave h... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Another one bites the dust | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c0x18p/another_one_bites_the_dust/ |
Ecakk | 2024-05-29 17:05:51 | 1,717,002,351 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d3h8b9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d3h8b9/me24m_and_classmate_24f_i_kind_of_fked_up/ | 1 | So heres the things.. I really wanted to continue being friends with her but at the same times I liked her at that times. (4 months ago). Me and her knew each other at semester 3 at first, we talked in chat it was during covid at that time, classes were online. Fast forward to semester 5 classes are physically again an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me(24M) and classmate (24F) I kind of fked up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d3h8b9/me24m_and_classmate_24f_i_kind_of_fked_up/ |
Sweet-Letter5784 | 2023-12-04 15:58:20 | 1,701,705,500 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18an7mh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18an7mh/one_week_until_first_date_what_now/ | 3 | We Matched on tinder and vibed together. We exchanged Snapchat to confirm Esch ihrer we‘re no catfishes (she thought I was, Thats a first) I asked her out for a Date on the weekend and she said yes Now I don‘t know what my next move should be. Should I Text her or just wait to have More to speak about in Person? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | One week until First Date. What now? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18an7mh/one_week_until_first_date_what_now/ |
FrickinNormie2 | 2022-08-25 17:48:46 | 1,661,449,726 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | wxko9a | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wxko9a/why_the_sudden_change_in_texting_patterns/ | 2 | Can somebody, preferably women, explain when someone has a sudden shift in their texting patterns? I can think of many instances when somebody responds to my text within a couple hours of me sending it, and we're able to carry out a conversation throughout a whole day or two, but then go dark for days, up to an entire ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why the sudden change in texting patterns? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wxko9a/why_the_sudden_change_in_texting_patterns/ |
dhfhdbdbfhz | 2020-08-21 05:40:00 | 1,597,988,400 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | idr075 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/idr075/how_old_do_you_have_to_be_before_it_becomes/ | 3 | I’m 19M and I’m still a virgin. Until I got to college, I’ve had a decent amount of girls interested in me, and talking to them came very easy, but I was never ready to be in a relationship. Now that I’m about to be 20, I feel incredibly far behind. All of my guy friends have been with multiple woman, and none of my gi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How old do you have to be before it becomes strange to be a virgin? How do you learn how to talk to women? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/idr075/how_old_do_you_have_to_be_before_it_becomes/ |
shdfjhjdhajkfh68 | 2022-04-26 05:43:07 | 1,650,951,787 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | uc5i33 | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uc5i33/is_anyone_else_only_capable_of_being_attracted_to/ | 6 | 21F, I've been single for almost 3 years and have been on so many dates just to rarely ever catch feelings/have my interest piqued by any of these guys because I cannot be attracted to someone that is not exactly/close to exactly like me. I'm worried I'll be single forever because of it but I can't help what I'm attrac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is anyone else only capable of being attracted to someone that is a carbon copy of themselves or close to a carbon copy? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uc5i33/is_anyone_else_only_capable_of_being_attracted_to/ |
gymnapfoodjunkie | 2018-08-23 22:16:18 | 1,535,062,578 | null | null | 0 | 99rsty | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/99rsty/how_long_does_it_generally_take_to_switch/ | 7 | I am completely new to online dating and I’ve come across a few interesting people so far but there is one in particular with whom it’s been easy to open up and we are exchanging messages almost every day. However, I think we are falling into the pen pal trap. What’s the quickest you have gone to meeting offline after ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How long does it generally take to switch conversation offline? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/99rsty/how_long_does_it_generally_take_to_switch/ |
sammychi1 | 2019-11-01 23:40:13 | 1,572,651,613 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dqcfbe | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dqcfbe/how_do_you_meet_people_organically/ | 5 | When you’re trying to find someone to date, dating apps seem so unnatural and sometimes ingenuine. Where else do people find possible partners in their lives? I’m 21F but i’m asking for in general and for future references as well. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet people organically? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dqcfbe/how_do_you_meet_people_organically/ |
Romans8-26 | 2021-03-05 07:19:28 | 1,614,928,768 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ly6l4n | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ly6l4n/what_do_i_tell_him/ | 2 | This guy and I have been talking for about 2 weeks. We found each other off of a dating app but haven’t met up yet. Which is my fault since I’ve been nervous to do it. The conversations we have are great and I really enjoy talking to him. I can tell he enjoys talking to me as well. We both are pretty interested in each... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I tell him?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ly6l4n/what_do_i_tell_him/ |
Snowcat910 | 2024-06-27 07:08:37 | 1,719,472,117 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dpl6uh | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dpl6uh/am_i_overthinking/ | 1 | Have been single for 6 years, settled at a brand new country, have been meeting this guy from a dating app for a couple times. Nothing special happened, just chatting, drinking, we get along quite well. I have a surgery coming up, no supporting person or someone can come with me. He suddenly suggested he will go with m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I overthinking? 🥺 | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dpl6uh/am_i_overthinking/ |
Either-Sun691 | 2022-11-07 12:00:28 | 1,667,822,428 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yokp9m | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yokp9m/women_who_have_found_success_in_old_how_long_did/ | 1 | I know in a lot of ways dating (especially online) is a different experience for women especially given the nature of hookup culture. I'm in the dating scene now and have been met with so many surprise dead ends, I cannot seem to avoid emotionally unavailable men. Curious about the success stories, and the not-so-succe... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Women who have found success in OLD - how long did it take? What's your best advice? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yokp9m/women_who_have_found_success_in_old_how_long_did/ |
LemonMinute | 2024-03-14 07:08:33 | 1,710,400,113 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1befa4c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1befa4c/should_i_move_on/ | 1 | I (22f) started talking to this guy (23m) from Hinge a month ago, and I don't know if he's ghosting me or what. For the first few days, we bonded a lot over our music tastes and other common interests. After that, he asked me if I had an Instagram so we could send pictures and memes, and I shared my profile. We discove... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1befa4c/should_i_move_on/ |
unheavenlycreatures | 2020-01-17 00:29:34 | 1,579,220,974 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | epsg3j | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/epsg3j/how_to_get_started_again/ | 5 | (M26) I have been single for almost 2 years now. The last relationship really scarred me, and the anxiety of trying to learn how to meet someone now that I am out of collage has held me off from putting my self out there. I really don't know were to begin, I just moved to a different city for work, and I dont have my f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get started again | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/epsg3j/how_to_get_started_again/ |
themistoklesofathens | 2019-07-15 00:53:28 | 1,563,152,008 | null | null | 0 | cdard6 | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cdard6/when_looking_for_a_boyfriend_women_are_primarily/ | 0 | If you believed that enough to click can I also talk to you about this great Pyramid-selling scheme... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When looking for a boyfriend women are primarily looking for a guy who is intelligent, funny and kind... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cdard6/when_looking_for_a_boyfriend_women_are_primarily/ |
though- | 2024-02-13 12:51:43 | 1,707,828,703 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1apsqdz | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1apsqdz/what_are_some_of_your_first_date_questions_that/ | 1 | This is with people you meet via online dating apps. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some of your first date questions that really open up the conversation and build emotional connection? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1apsqdz/what_are_some_of_your_first_date_questions_that/ |
Low-Abbreviations-38 | 2023-09-03 16:47:42 | 1,693,759,662 | 0 | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1691sja | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1691sja/the_cute_woman_i_want_to_match_with_on_hinge/ | 1 | Do I ask her out in person? She knows who I am but as an ex-service industry worker I refuse to ask a person out who’s working, or do I attempt to match with her on hinge and risk embarrassing myself at a coffee shop I go to very regularly, or do I just sit around with my thumb up my bum and hope she attempts to match ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The cute woman I want to match with on hinge works at the coffee shop next door to my house | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1691sja/the_cute_woman_i_want_to_match_with_on_hinge/ |
bnlftw | 2013-08-19 01:03:31 | 1,376,874,211 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1kmydo | null | null | 28 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1kmydo/how_do_i_get_a_girlfriend/ | 0 | So I haven't been with a girl since I was 18 (21 now) and I was wondering how the whole real life, go out and get girls thing works. In high school it was way less hard than it is out here. How do you just... like go out and talk to girls? It just seems so foreign to me, like how the hell am I supposed to just strike u... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I get a girlfriend? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1kmydo/how_do_i_get_a_girlfriend/ |
tostipeanutbutter | 2020-03-15 22:06:43 | 1,584,310,003 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fj9hrg | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fj9hrg/tinder_coincidence/ | 7 | I desperately need advice on what to do; My best friend matched with this guy about two months ago and they have talked ever since. They have been on a date and while they still do talk, she did say that the guy was not fully her type (which is totally fine ofc). Then in the picture comes me, about a week ago, and I ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder coincidence | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fj9hrg/tinder_coincidence/ |
lolalin92 | 2021-08-01 22:12:12 | 1,627,855,932 | null | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ow1kb1 | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ow1kb1/i_have_some_questions_about_modern_day_dating/ | 1 | I have taken 2 years of a break after a 5 year relationship before going back into dating however I am finding it increasingly difficult to even meet with a guy that isn’t trying to hook up on the first date. I genuinely want to have a wholesome time enjoy the growth aspect, doing some kind of activity together or dinn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have some questions about modern day dating. Please help? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ow1kb1/i_have_some_questions_about_modern_day_dating/ |
labscientia | 2022-02-19 19:43:23 | 1,645,299,803 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | swi50f | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/swi50f/i_asked_a_girl_out_on_a_date_but_shes_friends/ | 1 | I’m new to the dating scene and have matched with a few women on a dating app. I organised to meet with one of my matches for a drink next week. I also asked a second match out on a date. She was very nice to reply saying that I already have a date planned with her friend (my first match) and that she would ordinarily ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I asked a girl out on a date but she’s friends with another girl I asked out on a date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/swi50f/i_asked_a_girl_out_on_a_date_but_shes_friends/ |
gummydavidson | 2018-09-27 18:13:57 | 1,538,072,037 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9jf9d8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9jf9d8/dating_advice_for_the_socially_anxious/ | 4 | Hi all, I am striving myself to get into the dating scene more but due to social anxiety it is a pretty difficult task for myself. I do like to keep busy with my various interests and go to a lot of events. That ranges from wrestling shows, gigs, comic cons, gym e.t.c. Is there any tips for getting a single womens atte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice for the socially anxious | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9jf9d8/dating_advice_for_the_socially_anxious/ |
Arrow1141 | 2023-02-22 17:10:43 | 1,677,085,843 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1195679 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1195679/online_vs_real_dating/ | 2 | Throughout my life I've tried online dating but always seemed to be scammed which really annoys me I've come to believe real dating is better because most women I've met scam me mostly for money and BS no one is ever honest | dating | t5_2qhb1 | online vs real dating | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1195679/online_vs_real_dating/ |
Even_Firefighter_455 | 2021-10-27 03:53:21 | 1,635,306,801 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | qgnw0i | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qgnw0i/high_school_fling_checks_in_but_wont_commit_to/ | 0 | M(25) Main question: What does it mean when old flings message on Insta, swipe up on stories, and say they have thought about you but the mood changes once the idea of hanging out comes up? We had a fling many years ago back in High school but both got into long term relationships during college years. We are now both ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | High School fling checks in but won’t commit to hang out | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qgnw0i/high_school_fling_checks_in_but_wont_commit_to/ |
Actual_Brother6692 | 2022-04-16 15:41:47 | 1,650,123,707 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | u50fuq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u50fuq/coworker_friend/ | 1 | So I 20m have this coworker 20f that I’ve been talking to for half a year. We are definitely pretty close on a friendship level. We talk in Snapchat and send snaps as well. At first I never thought of her for anything more than just a friend, but now that I’m not talking to anyone (recently got friendzoned by a bumble ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Coworker friend | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u50fuq/coworker_friend/ |
ValentineVision2020 | 2023-08-31 21:50:56 | 1,693,518,656 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 166o8ws | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/166o8ws/unmatched_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | Matched with a young woman earlier today on Hinge after we match I asked to use the call feature of the app with her and talk more and she said thats perfectly fine and we chatted for a few minutes before she had to go back to work. After our quick convo she messaged me "It was nice to talking to you" and I said the sa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Unmatched On A Dating App | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/166o8ws/unmatched_on_a_dating_app/ |
[deleted] | 2022-04-20 21:39:29 | 1,650,490,769 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | u878ya | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/u878ya/cant_be_bothered_anymore_she_was_cool_but_it_was/ | 3 | Getting fed up with online dating. Met a girl last year, foreign, here for work. Things started off well, then she just lost interest. Met another girl online soon after, turns out we had mutual friends. Things became heated fast. She then starts seeing her “guy friend” before ending things with me. Another girl from o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t be bothered anymore. She was cool but it was just like hanging with a friend | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u878ya/cant_be_bothered_anymore_she_was_cool_but_it_was/ |
Neuskeutels | 2023-05-22 14:07:26 | 1,684,764,446 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13orxus | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13orxus/lovebombing_or_narcism/ | 0 | Hello Everyone, I am a man of 31 years old and I met a lady via Tinder 4 weeks ago. I have some questions about this date. When I met her on Tinder she talked about herself all the time, there was absolutely no interest in things I said or did. After 5 days I thought it was time to say something about that instead of g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Lovebombing or narcism? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13orxus/lovebombing_or_narcism/ |
CoachToughLove | 2016-12-16 23:59:35 | 1,481,932,775 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 5irm0y | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5irm0y/for_both_men_and_women_what_online_dating_site_do/ | 3 | It seems like all I ever see on here is Tinder, Tinder, Tinder, Bumble, Tinder... Anyone still use Match or eHarmony? I have the Farmersonly.com jingle stuck in my head, so they must be doing pretty good to afford all the advertising. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | For both men and women. What online dating site do you prefer and why? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5irm0y/for_both_men_and_women_what_online_dating_site_do/ |
Rehya | 2019-08-11 21:39:47 | 1,565,559,587 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cp2tg0 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cp2tg0/how_do_i_get_the_girl_back/ | 1 | I started talking to this girl from tinder two weeks ago and things were going amazing, we had 2 dates that she planned and we kissed a bit on the second and it honestly felt like a dream. Shes an Au pair from Germany and I really like her and I don't want to mess things up with her. English isn't her first language so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I get the girl back? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cp2tg0/how_do_i_get_the_girl_back/ |
Fickle_Association14 | 2024-01-17 07:49:14 | 1,705,477,754 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 198radg | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/198radg/m25_where_can_i_meet_women_other_than_dating_apps/ | 1 | I have used every Dating App you could imagine, and absolutely nothing has worked, it feels hopeless that I’ll meet anyone, I don’t know what else to do. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M25 Where Can I Meet Women Other Than Dating Apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/198radg/m25_where_can_i_meet_women_other_than_dating_apps/ |
Embarrassed_Round_99 | 2021-01-28 18:55:00 | 1,611,860,100 | null | null | 0 | l756ri | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/l756ri/dating_question_am_i_really_such_a_lost_cause_any/ | 12 | I am 36F and live in Europe. And today, I got rejected again. It hurts but I want to know if being unemployed (not due to COVID) but because of reasons not under my control, is such a turn off to a man? Yes, I certainly don't have my life in order not because I didn't want to but a lot of things went down in my life. I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating question - Am I really such a lost cause? Any stories of hope? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/l756ri/dating_question_am_i_really_such_a_lost_cause_any/ |
Escaides | 2013-10-01 22:55:51 | 1,380,668,151 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1njm7q | null | null | 14 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1njm7q/good_chemistry_good_kisser_bad_lover/ | 9 | I'm sure the sexully experienced among us have all had this same kind of letdown at some point: That feel when you have wicked awesome chemistry with a person who turns out to be terrible in bed. So here's the story (skip to the bolded part if you don't care): I met a guy off OkCupid last Sunday who I had actually talk... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Good chemistry, good kisser, bad lover. | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1njm7q/good_chemistry_good_kisser_bad_lover/ |
SoupedUpSpitfire | 2023-04-18 20:56:44 | 1,681,851,404 | 0 | null | 0 | 12r43fc | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12r43fc/are_my_openers_weird/ | 2 | I’m 46f, average to slightly above-average attractiveness, fit, no filtered or heavy makeup or sexy photos, no kids in my pictures, etc. with a thoughtful and quirky bio that got a strong rating from Roast. I’m finding that 75% or more of people I match with (so people who clearly swiped right on my profile) are either... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are my openers weird? | 2 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12r43fc/are_my_openers_weird/ |
CloserToTheSunInAz | 2022-06-04 23:59:10 | 1,654,387,150 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | v51d2y | true | null | 140 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/v51d2y/i_lied_about_my_age_on_my_old_profile/ | 14 | On my OLD profile, I stated that I was 55. All pics on profile are recent and accurate. I’m actually a 60 year old female (look closer to 50). Joined OLD about a year ago after literally 30 years of not dating. I panicked about turning 60 thinking no one would want a 60 year old woman. Recently have been talking with 6... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | I Lied About My Age On My OLD Profile | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/v51d2y/i_lied_about_my_age_on_my_old_profile/ |
guacemmole | 2020-06-13 02:19:23 | 1,592,014,763 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | h7ylbo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h7ylbo/research_what_are_your_biggest_struggles_with/ | 1 | Not enough matches, too many people just looking for hook ups, never meeting up? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Research: What are your biggest struggles with dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h7ylbo/research_what_are_your_biggest_struggles_with/ |
WaitNormal1655 | 2023-03-21 06:29:12 | 1,679,380,152 | null | null | 0 | 11x8vay | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11x8vay/i_like_a_girl_but_she_has_a_kid/ | 0 | [M 25, India] I like a girl from quiet some time and I knew she was divorced, but never knew that she had a kid from her previous marriage, and yesterday it came up, it came like a shock to me. I don't know how to deal with this. We have known each other from 4-5 months but it never came. I really like her a lot, I mea... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I like a girl but she has a kid | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11x8vay/i_like_a_girl_but_she_has_a_kid/ |
atripleyikes | 2019-08-30 19:35:11 | 1,567,193,711 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | cxlqyi | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cxlqyi/a_24f_whos_never_dated_considering_the_app_life/ | 1 | Hey everyone I’m just really confused right now and though you guys could help me out. I’ve been single my entire life, and have never even gone on a date. I was really shy as a teen and told myself I would just wait until college. I went to a really tiny college and only had friends who were girls and never ran into a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A 24F who’s never dated considering the app life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cxlqyi/a_24f_whos_never_dated_considering_the_app_life/ |
Immediate_Bicycle_20 | 2022-06-16 03:14:04 | 1,655,349,244 | null | ['matches', 'matched'] | 0 | vdc5l0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vdc5l0/am_i_doing_something_wrong/ | 0 | Hello there! I’ve read many stories about guys wishing that girls would say more than just “hi” or weren’t so dry in conversation. I consider myself outgoing and love getting to know new matches. However, it seems like the past couple of matches I’ve had none of the guys care to continue the conversation and eventually... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I doing something wrong? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vdc5l0/am_i_doing_something_wrong/ |
Messedupsikh | 2024-04-04 18:35:25 | 1,712,255,725 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bvuvci | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bvuvci/dating_can_be_so_harsh_for_some_people_and_for/ | 5 | So there is this friend of mine medium tan skin complexion, pursuing his MBBS for which he went to china and then came back in India due to corona so for his studies he used to stay in Delhi. He found a match on bumble there and he got the date set. Now the most important part which explains the tilte he went on that d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating can be so harsh for some people and for some like Heaven | 5 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bvuvci/dating_can_be_so_harsh_for_some_people_and_for/ |
razyells | 2023-12-09 17:11:57 | 1,702,141,917 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18ei3o4 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ei3o4/is_she_losing_interest_or_am_i_just_impatient/ | 1 | So I (M29) met this girl (f36) on a dating app in November. We went out on a date very quickly after talking on the app. The date was great we talked for over 4h and at the end kissed and planned a second date. She never really texted between the first and second date. When the day of second date came she confirmed wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she losing interest or am I just impatient? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ei3o4/is_she_losing_interest_or_am_i_just_impatient/ |
LehighValleyLover | 2023-05-15 14:25:20 | 1,684,160,720 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13i9uc9 | true | Seeking Advice | 200 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13i9uc9/what_is_it_with_these_super_busy_people_treating/ | 225 | I'm sorry that you don't have any time for a relationship, but now you're wasting my time. I'm very specific about what I'm looking for. I feel like it doesn't matter. I put in my bio what I'm looking for, then I state it again once we start talking. And they will agree. Then after we've actually spent time getting to ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What is it with these "super busy" people treating dating apps like it's a human companionship delivery service? | 225 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13i9uc9/what_is_it_with_these_super_busy_people_treating/ |
Super_Cod2200 | 2023-06-01 12:04:21 | 1,685,621,061 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13xfs67 | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/13xfs67/i_32f_started_dating_guy_32m_for_2_months/ | 0 | I am newly dating a guy (nearly 2 months exclusive and both deleted dating apps) who is going away soon to work for 2 months. I am worried about us when he goes and I told him about my worry and he said not to worry and not to put pressure on it. He said a few weeks ago he has access to wifi, to use fb messenger and we... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (32f) started dating guy (32m) for 2 months (exclusive and both deleted dating apps) but he goes away to work for 2 months, how do I navigate this? | 0 | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13xfs67/i_32f_started_dating_guy_32m_for_2_months/ |
Girly321 | 2023-09-16 13:56:29 | 1,694,872,589 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16k87en | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16k87en/he_32m_wants_to_be_friends_before_getting_into_a/ | 1 | The guy I met wants to be friends for now. He claims he needs some connection before getting into a relationship. We both don't use dating apps, we met through common friends. We don't have sex or anything relationship-like however we meet and keep in touch regularly. He is not dating anyone and expects me not to date ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He (32M) wants to be friends before getting into a relationship. Is it worth it or am I wasting my time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16k87en/he_32m_wants_to_be_friends_before_getting_into_a/ |
NoKarmaHalp | 2023-12-25 06:31:43 | 1,703,485,903 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 18qd4cy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18qd4cy/bad_joke_red_flag/ | 1 | Matched with a girl, talked to her all day on a dating app, we exchanged numbers, she sent her first text as a response to what we were talking about on the app but then she decided to send another text using a different guy’s name asking how she should put me in her contacts. “Hey Jake (not my name), should I put you ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bad joke red flag? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18qd4cy/bad_joke_red_flag/ |
JamesW4TheWin | 2022-12-29 00:31:27 | 1,672,273,887 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | zxq8zx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zxq8zx/help_please/ | 2 | I haven't dated in... well I've never dated at all, never been on a date and have had 3 girlfriends yet none got serious as I was still young (started around 14 last relationship was when I was 15-16 and now I'm 18 going on 19). I've tried 4 dating apps and eventually gave in and gave tinder a go. The week before I del... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help, please! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zxq8zx/help_please/ |
travelingwhilestupid | 2022-10-24 17:52:08 | 1,666,633,928 | null | null | 0 | ychtc6 | true | null | 116 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ychtc6/flew_to_see_her_ghosted/ | 77 | So a while back I matched with a girl, traveled to see her and it went really well In October I flew to see a girl. She seemed super excited - was coming to meet me at the airport. I got to the departing airport and ... she'd unmatched me. Still had a good trip, but ... ufffff | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | flew to see her; ghosted | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ychtc6/flew_to_see_her_ghosted/ |
ProgressivePr0gramm | 2022-04-20 14:37:33 | 1,650,465,453 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | u7xzmj | true | null | 92 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u7xzmj/how_do_i_indicate_my_sexual_preferences_on_my/ | 114 | I'm 27, female and I like to Top in queer- and well as BDSM sense. The current Top Post implies that stating one is dominant in profile comes across as unserious and less trustworthy. Additionaly it invites people who just want to have an adventure, though I can deal with that. I am looking for something serious and lo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I indicate my sexual preferences on my Dating Profile? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u7xzmj/how_do_i_indicate_my_sexual_preferences_on_my/ |
Antoniodabom | 2014-08-07 18:42:59 | 1,407,436,979 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2cwoie | null | null | 78 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2cwoie/saw_my_close_friends_gf_on_tinder_but_i_dont_know/ | 89 | I hate getting involved in these types of situations because they always end badly. My friend and his GF have been dating for 3 years+. He's about to head off to college while she is heading into senior year of HS. They hope to make their relationship work. My buddy has cheated on her before (spring break weekend) she ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Saw my close friend's GF on tinder, but I don't know what to do! | 89 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2cwoie/saw_my_close_friends_gf_on_tinder_but_i_dont_know/ |
YTK9000 | 2023-09-16 20:36:00 | 1,694,896,560 | 0 | null | 0 | 16khd54 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16khd54/what_could_i_be_doing_wrong_on_first_dates/ | 1 | So, I do pretty well on Hinge. I have an easy time getting matches, having good conversation on text, and arranging dates; however, I rarely make it to the second date. Out of my last 5 dates, 4 lasted only an hour, while the other lasted for three hours but still no second date. I have really nice photos on my profile... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What could I be doing wrong on first dates? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16khd54/what_could_i_be_doing_wrong_on_first_dates/ |
realestgorl | 2023-11-29 04:48:52 | 1,701,233,332 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 186h7yb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/186h7yb/28f_need_advice/ | 1 | Hi all I’m 28F, I have been active on dating apps and match with this guy 28M, we hit it off on our first date. We have our second date tomorrow at this expensive KBBQ restaurant. We also agreed to meet up before, he agreed to go shopping with me. He’s also been planning and sending cute places we should also visit. I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28F need Advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/186h7yb/28f_need_advice/ |
Architect9gr43 | 2017-04-18 18:01:41 | 1,492,538,501 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 664ioa | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/664ioa/enthusiastically_agreed_on_m24_a_date_through/ | 1 | So I (m24) matched with a girl on Tinder while I was out of the city just a week ago, and we talked through facebook 10-15 minutes every day and we agreed to a date as soon as I would have returned on Monday (yesterday). She told me she was new to dating and meeting new people, because she always was in a relationship.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Enthusiastically agreed on (m24) a date through Tinder, but eventually the girl (23) "disappeared" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/664ioa/enthusiastically_agreed_on_m24_a_date_through/ |
SweatCleansTheSuit | 2024-01-11 19:56:33 | 1,705,002,993 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 194asfs | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/194asfs/am_i_infodumping_too_much/ | 1 | I'm a practicing criminal lawyer, defense specifically. The only legit responses I get on apps like Hinge is when the girl has something to do with True-Crime on her profile. I've worked on murder files and usually will lead off with that. Usually the girl will then ask about it and I'll reply with a run down of the fi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I info-dumping too much? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/194asfs/am_i_infodumping_too_much/ |
TheOverthinkingGuy30 | 2018-04-10 09:45:59 | 1,523,353,559 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8b6ekp | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8b6ekp/where_does_men_who_dont_go_to_clubs_and_partys/ | 1 | Is it even possible to find someone? I (M19) was once (and the only time) on a home party of a friend, where I almost hooked up with a girl from my class back then (2 years ago), but it didn't felt right bc of her being under the influence of alcohol...I didn't want to do it, cause we would see us every day... Also I d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where does men, who don't go to Clubs and Partys, find a casual partner? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8b6ekp/where_does_men_who_dont_go_to_clubs_and_partys/ |
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