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jay73398 | 2015-12-06 08:09:59 | 1,449,389,399 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3vn2sy | null | null | 22 | null | /r/dating/comments/3vn2sy/this_is_the_second_time_my_date_has_walked_out_on/ | 2 | I have been talking to guys on tinder because I wanted to get back into the dating game after my breakup 4 months ago. I have met with a total of 3 guys over the past few weeks and two of them have made a trip to the 'bathroom' or made a 'phone call' outside and never came back... I feel absolutely humiliated. I was wo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This is the second time my date has walked out on me [21/f]... | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3vn2sy/this_is_the_second_time_my_date_has_walked_out_on/ |
Sting-Grey | 2024-01-24 05:19:29 | 1,706,073,569 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 19e9iha | false | Seeking Advice | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/19e9iha/why_do_i_do_this/ | 13 | I’m DOF, in a healthy relationship and I still struggle at times when my expressions of love are not matched. I’m stupid to think people will love and express love the same way as me but I keep feeling shitty about myself. You all can roast me, prop me up, both it’s all good. I know I am setting unrealistic expectation... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Why do I do this. | 13 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/19e9iha/why_do_i_do_this/ |
overscore_d | 2018-09-15 08:26:25 | 1,536,999,985 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9fzy6f | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9fzy6f/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ | 1 | So I figure I’m a good looking guy, I have a lot going for my future, but why don’t I have any success? I’ve tried the bar scene, online dating, talking to people out and about (grocery store, work etc) it seems to go good, but never pans out. Idk what I’m doing wrong at all. It’s just frustrating because I feel like I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What am I doing wrong? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9fzy6f/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ |
ksoheregoes | 2019-02-25 18:24:43 | 1,551,119,083 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | auofdr | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/auofdr/i_met_a_guy_from_tinder_last_night_we_had_a_great/ | 0 | I went out on a guy last night. We met on tinder. We’d been talking for a while, like for around 2 months before we met. We don’t really flirt much on text, we just send each other memes and mainly joke around and we’d make plans that never get to happen since we both have really busy schedules (he’s an executive chef,... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I met a guy from tinder last night. We had a great time. Now isn’t as responsive on text. Does he not like me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/auofdr/i_met_a_guy_from_tinder_last_night_we_had_a_great/ |
RedditReboot77 | 2018-05-31 12:25:33 | 1,527,769,533 | 0 | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | 8nhztg | false | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8nhztg/would_you_consider_excessive_effort_on_old/ | 1 | I had been completely avoiding OLD (after my one weekend on swipe-based apps), but a few people said I should try profile-based ones, so I've been giving OKC and Match a try. A few times now, I've run into someone who has answered over 1000 questions on OKC. The first one was full of red flags, so I didn't even worry a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Would you consider excessive effort on OLD profile to be a red flag? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8nhztg/would_you_consider_excessive_effort_on_old/ |
sunflower246 | 2016-07-01 16:10:12 | 1,467,389,412 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 4qsj1d | null | null | 38 | null | /r/dating/comments/4qsj1d/im_a_woman_on_matchcom_and_guys_dont_reply_to_the/ | 8 | I've been using match.com for over a month and only recently started sending emails to guys, but so far no responses from any of them. I've only gotten messages sent to me by guys I don't like. What kind of message should I send to receive a reply? (I have a good job and am well educated. I assume it's because of how I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm a woman on match.com and guys don't reply to the emails I send, why is that? (26, ca) | 8 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4qsj1d/im_a_woman_on_matchcom_and_guys_dont_reply_to_the/ |
LondonerDan | 2022-06-09 04:34:55 | 1,654,749,295 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v88ogw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v88ogw/handling_face_to_face_rejection/ | 1 | I’m 25M and I’m about to ask a slightly younger F out for a few drinks when I see her. Long story short is that she works in the same office square as me, she always walked past my office and looked in at me, saw her on a night and we danced some, I gave her a kiss on the cheek and when I did she giggled. Saw her the f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Handling face to face rejection | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v88ogw/handling_face_to_face_rejection/ |
mariposarobotico | 2018-12-22 12:37:39 | 1,545,482,259 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | a8ki96 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a8ki96/struggling_with_heartbreak_in_residency/ | 3 | Hi All, I want to start by saying I matched at a program about halfway down my rank list, and I have honestly really enjoyed the people and my program, but it's across the country in a state where I know virtually nobody, and in a small-ish town in the southeastern United States. It's faster to go to Europe than to see... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling with heartbreak in residency | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a8ki96/struggling_with_heartbreak_in_residency/ |
Life-toLearn-777 | 2023-06-13 15:36:25 | 1,686,670,585 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 148i7as | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/148i7as/im_not_if_i_can_do_it_anymore/ | 9 | I (29F) just got dumped again. I really don’t think I want to ever date again. I was seeing someone (34M) for 3/4 months. Everything was going great I thought. He even invited my on a trip with his friends in a few months. We’ve been spending full days together going on dates and I usually stay the night. We spend time... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m not if I can do it anymore | 9 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/148i7as/im_not_if_i_can_do_it_anymore/ |
derelick1984 | 2022-02-26 16:12:34 | 1,645,891,954 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | t20kx3 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/t20kx3/hinge_confusion/ | 4 | Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but I'm not really sure where else to ask. I'm male and on hinge and I see some female profiles that identify as queer. Are these ladies looking for men? Shouldn't their profile be filtered out from my feed? Are they looking for men and I don't know what the new term for queer... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Hinge confusion | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t20kx3/hinge_confusion/ |
Global_Stomach9571 | 2024-01-12 03:29:05 | 1,705,030,145 | 0 | null | 0 | 194l3n7 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/194l3n7/what_are_the_best_free_dating_apps/ | 1 | I am 18F and am interested in women from the age range of 25 to 45. What are the best apps for that? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are the best free dating apps. | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/194l3n7/what_are_the_best_free_dating_apps/ |
PossibleLuck7337 | 2024-04-17 14:06:12 | 1,713,362,772 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c6arvy | true | null | 108 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1c6arvy/distraught_tired_and_feeling_hopeless/ | 23 | Not sure where to begin in this whole dating escapade I’m in. Me (41F) - so I host game nights at different bars and took an interest in one of the bartenders (43M), thought we were dating but turns out he’s a bit of a scoundrel and insecure. After 3 weeks he said no thanks. No big deal. Fast forward 4.5 months (no pen... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Distraught, tired and feeling hopeless 😩 | 23 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1c6arvy/distraught_tired_and_feeling_hopeless/ |
DragonflyTurbulent32 | 2021-02-04 06:35:38 | 1,612,420,538 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | lc9m8y | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lc9m8y/genuinely_would_like_to_know_how_men_swipe_through/ | 14 | I have everything on my profile, relationship, have kids and don't want more(literally can't have more) and still 98% of men that "like" me, want kids and/ or want something casual or don't know. Do you all just look at pics and swipe away? I feel like I put alot of thought into it we are a good match before I waste so... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Genuinely would like to know how men swipe through | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lc9m8y/genuinely_would_like_to_know_how_men_swipe_through/ |
Ok-Promotion9226 | 2023-07-31 19:13:13 | 1,690,830,793 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15ep4pq | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15ep4pq/trying_to_figure_out_my_life/ | 1 | So. Me (26F) an my boyfriend (36M) have been dating since 2017. I met him in college as we both were in the same major. We never actually went on conventional dates before getting together. We just kind of always hung around each other, and then one day he kissed me. My boyfriend is the first person I've ever dated in ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to figure out my life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15ep4pq/trying_to_figure_out_my_life/ |
Friendly_Sport_1745 | 2022-03-17 17:08:44 | 1,647,536,924 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | tgf190 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tgf190/first_message/ | 0 | So I’m not good with sending first messages on Dating apps. Me and this girl matched and all I know to really say is “Hey! How are you doing?” I need help and yes I’m always shy at first. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First message | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tgf190/first_message/ |
Delmitus1 | 2023-03-22 04:06:58 | 1,679,458,018 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11y6d4p | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11y6d4p/just_got_into_an_argument_with_a_friend_over_my/ | 1 | I told my friend [F25] that I [M24] kinda just gave up on dating for a while. She kept mentioning that I shouldn't be looking for quality relationships on dating apps and I should try spots like the book store or malls. I've seen rejection and it looks really shitty not to mention I'm average so I have to try extra har... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just got into an argument with a friend over my dating life. | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11y6d4p/just_got_into_an_argument_with_a_friend_over_my/ |
insertunusedname | 2020-02-08 09:19:09 | 1,581,153,549 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | f0pbnl | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f0pbnl/a_d_v_i_c_e/ | 1 | So I was on tinder several days ago, matched w a guy and we've gone on two dates this week and they've gone super well. On the second date two days ago he told me his dad's famous, a retired person from their industry. (just wanna be super ambiguous and maintain anonymity) I told my work friend that his dad is retired ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A D V I C E ? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f0pbnl/a_d_v_i_c_e/ |
harderready | 2015-04-28 17:01:52 | 1,430,240,512 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 34685b | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/34685b/the_power_of_getting_out_there_and_hooking_up/ | 10 | So recently this girl faded on me and I was absolutely crushed. Like really stressed out over the whole ordeal. Finally hit up a few girls that have messaged me on Tinder. Went on a date last night with a new girl that turned out to be hotter in person. Had a lot of fun and hooked up. Also got texts from a couple girls... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The power of getting out there and hooking up. | 10 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/34685b/the_power_of_getting_out_there_and_hooking_up/ |
Agitated-Aioli-2504 | 2024-03-28 23:21:18 | 1,711,668,078 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bq9y97 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bq9y97/do_i_reach_out_or_leave_it_alone/ | 1 | I (27F) matched with a guy on hinge (33M) about a month ago. Our first date was mid week drinks and it lasted about 4 hours. We have so much in common and the conversation flowed naturally. And when I say so much in common, I don’t just mean music and pop culture interests. We share a lot of the same foundational value... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I reach out or leave it alone? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bq9y97/do_i_reach_out_or_leave_it_alone/ |
ItMeAedri | 2017-03-06 15:28:30 | 1,488,814,110 | null | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 5xtt2x | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/5xtt2x/i_want_to_start_putting_myself_out_there/ | 2 | After a long while I'm starting to feel confident enough to start looking out for someone else in my life. Thing is, I have near to no experience to dating. Perhaps it's me, but I have the feeling that using a dating app isn't the right choice for me. I have tried it in the past and after a few matches where I got ghos... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to start putting myself out there | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5xtt2x/i_want_to_start_putting_myself_out_there/ |
Nazarax | 2018-10-03 22:32:00 | 1,538,605,920 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9l62xz | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9l62xz/realized_im_a_terrible_kisser_is_there_any_point/ | 3 | I'm male, 22 years old and have had intense social anxiety since the age of 18. I've never had success with girls mostly due to avoiding any sort of romantic interaction and belief that I'm ultimately unattractive. I had my first kiss when I was 16. It was on home party with a girl who I barely knew at the time and it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Realized I'm a terrible kisser, is there any point in continuing to go on dates? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9l62xz/realized_im_a_terrible_kisser_is_there_any_point/ |
appsmashing | 2019-06-20 22:12:53 | 1,561,068,773 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | c32eyt | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c32eyt/she_reaches_out_to_call_me_5_months_after_she/ | 1 | I matched with this girl (25F) on Tinder last November, and after exchanging some texts for a week, we agreed to meet for coffee. I guess the very first red flag appeared, when she cancelled on our date not once, but twice, before we finally managed to meet. It was quite clear to me from that we clicked very quickly an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She reaches out to call me 5 months after she ended our short "relationship" because she found someone else. Now what? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c32eyt/she_reaches_out_to_call_me_5_months_after_she/ |
MashedSoccerPotatoes | 2024-02-08 16:12:09 | 1,707,408,729 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1alz92h | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1alz92h/dont_settle_for_bad_sex_if_sex_is_important_to_you/ | 52 | I've been seeing a woman for about a month now & our sex life is electric. I have had a good amount of sexual partners in my life and thought I'd had the best sex already in my late teens. I'm in my mid twenties and I was dead wrong.. This current "relationship" started as a casual date as I got out of a 5 year relatio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Don't settle for bad sex (if sex is important to you). | 52 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1alz92h/dont_settle_for_bad_sex_if_sex_is_important_to_you/ |
incandenza11 | 2015-11-16 03:56:44 | 1,447,646,204 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3sza6p | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/3sza6p/went_for_drinks_with_someone_last_night_wasnt/ | 1 | I haven't properly dated or been involved with anyone since I was 18 or 19 (now 21f) and they were all people I'd known previously very well. I matched with a guy on tinder and had a decent conversation with him, so when he asked for drinks I said sure. Went last night, had a good conversation and everything I just was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went for drinks with someone last night, wasn't feeling it, don't know what to do from here [no real dating experience] | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3sza6p/went_for_drinks_with_someone_last_night_wasnt/ |
Kihster | 2018-11-08 22:35:21 | 1,541,716,521 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9veq7k | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9veq7k/is_he_no_longer_interested/ | 2 | I met this guy through Tinder. We texted for a good week before we went on our first date. He was away on his vacation too so we couldn’t meet sooner. But I think that gave us enough time to have conversations too. I liked that. The guy was very eager during our chats. He kept bringing up things that I found way too so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he no longer interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9veq7k/is_he_no_longer_interested/ |
[deleted] | 2015-01-22 22:09:32 | 1,421,964,572 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 2tc35j | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2tc35j/having_a_hard_time_keeping_a_positive_attitude/ | 16 | I'm a 32 male, have a degree and a decent job, dress well, in good shape, have a car, and so on. It's been almost 2 years since I've had a girlfriend, and I haven't had anything go past 2 dates in the last 2 years. Some of my dates have been downright horrendous. I actually had a girl start talking shit about me to som... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having a hard time keeping a positive attitude about dating. | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2tc35j/having_a_hard_time_keeping_a_positive_attitude/ |
IntoADarkAbyss | 2019-03-23 19:29:59 | 1,553,369,399 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | b4n616 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b4n616/f20_i_have_a_first_date_tomorrow_morning_with_f18/ | 1 | Hello my friends, So as the title says, I have a date tomorrow morning, and it’s our first date together. I met her on Bumble, and so far everything seems great. We have a good amount of stuff in common (so far at least). And from how our text conversations have gone thus far, I’m thinking we will get along quite well ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [F20] I have a first date tomorrow morning with [F18] and I’m freaking nervous, I’ve been alone for 3 years | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b4n616/f20_i_have_a_first_date_tomorrow_morning_with_f18/ |
justyceq | 2019-01-07 04:37:54 | 1,546,835,874 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ade3j6 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ade3j6/i_need_help_with_initiating_conversations_with_a/ | 3 | I started seeing a guy from a dating app. I feel as though he's usually initiating conversations through text when we're not hanging out. I can't think of anything other that "how was your day?" or “how was work?”. He has been initiating more than me so I want to also initiate conversations in between. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need help with initiating conversations with a guy I’ve been dating. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ade3j6/i_need_help_with_initiating_conversations_with_a/ |
hogans_02_gators | 2023-05-30 23:49:13 | 1,685,490,553 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 13w65i9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13w65i9/how_to_give_up_and_be_happy/ | 3 | 31m, 5’7 When I was 21, met my ex wife. The only woman I have slept with or been in relationship when. Last year, she cheated on me and left me. It’s been about 10 months. I have been trying to date the whole time, with no success. I work from home everyday, so pay for dating apps to get matches and try and meet woman.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to give up and be happy | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13w65i9/how_to_give_up_and_be_happy/ |
BsaciallyBasic | 2021-03-19 01:40:36 | 1,616,118,036 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | m86b1r | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m86b1r/my_story_recovery_in_this_hellish_world/ | 2 | I am a guy in his later twenties. I have been unsuccessful with my dating life. I always went into a relationship with the mindset of "This is the one". I have been looking for such a long time for the right person to be with, however I have had such a hard endeavor. My problem is that I went from being the kid in the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My Story - Recovery in this hell-ish world | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m86b1r/my_story_recovery_in_this_hellish_world/ |
Gulf-Shark | 2024-04-19 04:07:26 | 1,713,499,646 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c7no13 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c7no13/give_up_or_just_impatient/ | 1 | I have been talking to this girl on a dating app, originally I gave her a compliment and then we started talking, I asked for her number and she said she was probably gonna delete the app and then she'd keep me in mind if she wanted to give her number before she left. Ok whatever, basically means no. A few days later I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Give up or just impatient | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c7no13/give_up_or_just_impatient/ |
kewlkid77 | 2024-06-23 02:00:57 | 1,719,108,057 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dmbguc | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dmbguc/why_do_i_feel_worthless_without_a_gf/ | 2 | Im not trying to make this a sob story or looking for validation. I'm 24 single , live with my parents who I'm very close to. Past couple years I didnt do anything I had bad anxiety and stayed inside. I decided to change that. I'm working. I'm a volunteer fireman I've been playing socialy at a card shop made a couple f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do I feel worthless without a gf? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dmbguc/why_do_i_feel_worthless_without_a_gf/ |
ramitavi | 2023-08-06 08:09:39 | 1,691,309,379 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15jk1iw | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15jk1iw/my_brothers_dating_life/ | 1 | Hi there, My older brother 23M has never dated a girl in his life, he never seemed interested. Recently he has been trying but no luck, he has been mainly focusing on dating apps such as Tinder, Bumble and Hinge but no luck. He is hoping to go to dating events but the age range is 23-35, so I am not sure if he will hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My brothers dating life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15jk1iw/my_brothers_dating_life/ |
Fozzie1988 | 2019-10-29 04:06:18 | 1,572,321,978 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | dokpw5 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dokpw5/if_you_are_hurt_by_a_last_relationship_or_one_in/ | 12 | Some questions I’ve seen on here this week. Is it common among OLD to have guys that are hurt over a relationship? Is there a reason why they jump into a relationship still hurt? Do they think that someone is going to come along and take that pain away and fix them? Let’s face it we have all been hurt at one time or an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | If you are hurt by a last relationship or one in your past | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dokpw5/if_you_are_hurt_by_a_last_relationship_or_one_in/ |
YogurtclosetNo7932 | 2023-02-05 21:06:17 | 1,675,631,177 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 10unira | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10unira/need_advice_so_i_dont_look_creepy/ | 1 | Hi, so i’m a 24 year old guy in university (i made a change in career paths so im atill in school), and there is this pretty girl in my accounting lecture. Here is the plot. The room has seats and desks raised on three different platforms that form a U shape that seat about 40 students. I sit the very back corner where... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice so i don’t look creepy | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10unira/need_advice_so_i_dont_look_creepy/ |
Random_weirdo8 | 2024-08-31 18:41:05 | 1,725,129,665 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f5uaqi | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f5uaqi/was_my_ex_lovebombing_me/ | 0 | I have been reading up more and more about love-bombing over the last few months. And reading a few examples of it, reading a few explanations of it, I find a lot of common things between what happened with me, and what love bombing was explained to be. My ex and me matched on tinder and the chemistry was undeniable- i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was my ex love-bombing me? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f5uaqi/was_my_ex_lovebombing_me/ |
Abetterman2day | 2019-09-11 21:34:42 | 1,568,237,682 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d2xfet | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d2xfet/why_is_it_so_hard_for_me_to_find_mutual_attraction/ | 3 | For example. I have had alot of likes on tinder. But these woman I would say I was never really that attracted to. They were okay and not ugly but very rarely would they turn my head. Thing is, they were really into me. However, I was either sitting on the fence or did not feel the same way about them at all. There was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it so hard for me to find mutual attraction? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d2xfet/why_is_it_so_hard_for_me_to_find_mutual_attraction/ |
neuro__crit | 2022-08-14 15:01:00 | 1,660,489,260 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wo8e0k | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wo8e0k/prospects_for_a_nontrad_med_student/ | 7 | UPDATE: Three weeks later and not one single date so far, even after paying for premium access on multiple dating apps and living in Manhattan (surrounded by millions of people). Definitely not for lack of trying. \---------------- Just interested in feedback here, I need a reality check. I'm an older male medical stu... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Prospects for a non-trad med student? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wo8e0k/prospects_for_a_nontrad_med_student/ |
nouseforaname888 | 2020-01-11 06:39:46 | 1,578,724,786 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | en42l9 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/en42l9/online_dating_goes_nowhere_for_most_people/ | 11 | A lot of people on online dating remind me of hiring managers on LinkedIn that post jobs with a laundry list of requirements that a senior level candidate has but claim the job is entry level. They want some unicorn who is a rock star at everything and passionate about everything but only want to pay them $60k a year t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating goes nowhere for most people because most people on the apps are either inactive or are unbelievably indecisive. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/en42l9/online_dating_goes_nowhere_for_most_people/ |
wise_owl68 | 2022-04-17 20:15:56 | 1,650,226,556 | null | ['swiped', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | u5v83y | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/u5v83y/odd_recurrence_of_removed_people_on_old/ | 12 | Weirdly, after I've swiped left on Bumble, those particular people are showing up again. Has anyone experienced anything like this? It's my same account. Nothing new. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Odd recurrence of removed people on OLD | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/u5v83y/odd_recurrence_of_removed_people_on_old/ |
Otherwise-Annual-331 | 2023-12-10 05:22:17 | 1,702,185,737 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18ewc85 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ewc85/is_she_still_interested_after_the_first_date/ | 2 | Okay this might seem really silly and i might just be insecure/overthinking it but my worst fear is being pushy after a first date and to ”not pick up the clues” so i just have to be sure because i feel im getting mixed signals. This friday i was on a first date with a woman after we’ve been talking for a week over soc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she still interested after the first date? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ewc85/is_she_still_interested_after_the_first_date/ |
EliteMultitasker99 | 2024-08-10 06:20:31 | 1,723,270,831 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1eom7dw | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eom7dw/what_dating_apps_actually_work/ | 1 | Those of you (especially those in Canada) who met your S/O through a dating app which one was it? And how long were you using it before you found them? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What dating apps actually work? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eom7dw/what_dating_apps_actually_work/ |
No_Design6162 | 2024-05-10 02:58:28 | 1,715,309,908 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1coffe4 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1coffe4/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_a_man_i_can_actually/ | 1 | I have never been on a dating site. I’m 52 and was married to a man 7 years younger than me for 24 years. Music, psychology, hot yoga, hiking, anything with water, skiing, cooking, dancing. Should I get try a dating site and which one? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What is the best way to meet a man I can actually connect with? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1coffe4/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_a_man_i_can_actually/ |
kad1102 | 2015-09-10 23:59:18 | 1,441,929,558 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'pof'] | 0 | 3kh5u4 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3kh5u4/is_it_over_with_this_guy/ | 2 | Hi everyone. Thank you for reading and responding to my thread in advance. I met this guy on POF ( an online dating site ) about a month ago. We exchanged numbers the first day of conversations on the site and he texted me everyday since then. We went on a total of 4 dates together in two weeks. After the first date, h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it over with this guy ? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3kh5u4/is_it_over_with_this_guy/ |
Jani_1998 | 2021-05-03 18:19:33 | 1,620,065,973 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | n4390r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n4390r/got_unmatched_after_a_day_of_good_conversation/ | 0 | Is this common? I matched with this girl, started talking and it was pretty easy. Didn't even a need a pick up line or a clever opener (how about that!?). I usually wait a day or two before asking to get off the app so we talked on the app. It was going well, we talked about our fasting, our studies. She even got me to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got unmatched after a day of good conversation | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n4390r/got_unmatched_after_a_day_of_good_conversation/ |
HowAmIHere2000 | 2020-02-22 21:27:29 | 1,582,406,849 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | f7z5aw | true | I Need Advice | 36 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f7z5aw/im_just_exhausted_i_cant_play_the_games_of_online/ | 2 | I'm 31 m. I'm just sick of all those games that girls play. Who writes first, they write with a delay to show that they're not desperate, long texting periods (+3 weeks) before meeting, or even they unmatch after 2 weeks of writing (what a waste of time), etc. How do people even get to the second date let alone marriag... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm just exhausted. I can't play the games of online dating with girls. What should I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f7z5aw/im_just_exhausted_i_cant_play_the_games_of_online/ |
ColinHalter | 2018-05-04 12:48:59 | 1,525,438,139 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8gyz98 | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8gyz98/too_big_of_an_age_gap/ | 2 | So I matched with a girl on tinder. She's 18, but still in high school. I'm 20, and two years into college. Is that weird, or am I worrying about nothing? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too big of an age gap? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8gyz98/too_big_of_an_age_gap/ |
babydolph | 2021-12-01 22:16:43 | 1,638,397,003 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | r6quop | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r6quop/had_an_amazing_long_distance_bumble_date_should_i/ | 2 | I went to San Diego for Thanksgiving weekend and already knew I was going to be extremely bored for the entire duration of my 4 day stay. So, I downloaded Bumble and after a few minutes of swiping, I matched with the most gorgeous dude who was very successful and honestly someone I thought was out of my league. Precurs... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Had an amazing Long Distance Bumble date! Should I go back?? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r6quop/had_an_amazing_long_distance_bumble_date_should_i/ |
RandyUpOnReddit | 2021-05-06 17:52:13 | 1,620,323,533 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | n6d6aj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n6d6aj/mentally_broken_but_still_ready_for_love/ | 1 | Hi there. I’m usually not on Reddit that much, but I felt the sudden urge to come here and ask for some advice.It’s a pretty complex issue, so I’ll try to be as straight forward as I can be. I’m a 21-year old gay dude living in a tiny apartment in The Netherlands. I’ve been out since I was fourteen and my love-life bee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mentally broken, but still ready for love | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n6d6aj/mentally_broken_but_still_ready_for_love/ |
berrysauce | 2022-05-07 03:45:09 | 1,651,895,109 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | uk4srq | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uk4srq/what_does_it_mean_when_an_eharmony_message_says/ | 1 | I went out with a guy, had to cancel second date last minute due to a serious medical problem I had no control over and asked to reschedule. He wrote "sure', then the next day our message thread says "says goodbye". ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What does it mean when an eHarmony message says "says goodbye"? What did the match do to make it say this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uk4srq/what_does_it_mean_when_an_eharmony_message_says/ |
noosa80 | 2024-05-29 21:53:53 | 1,717,019,633 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d3nrs6 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d3nrs6/help_me/ | 0 | My shein Can you guys help me win the shein game I'm so close | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help me | 0 | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d3nrs6/help_me/ |
Siddy111 | 2024-07-16 11:42:15 | 1,721,130,135 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1e4mhmy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e4mhmy/monkey/ | 0 | I want to sign up for a subscription to the media/dating site monkey.app. It costs about GBP15 a month. However, I cannot do this personally as my partner would see the payment on our bank statement, and I don't want that. Would someone be willing to pay the sub on my behalf (just have to register a gmail address and p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Monkey | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4mhmy/monkey/ |
lmcookedfish | 2024-01-16 12:58:33 | 1,705,409,913 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1982bpk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1982bpk/how_to_meet_new_people/ | 5 | I'm an introvert, and my routine is pretty much a cycle of home and work. I'm more comfortable with dates that are indoors. Going out on a date to a restaurant or walking around town can make me feel a bit awkward. I understand that people might assume I'm comfortable with having sex within the first few dates, but tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet new people? | 5 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1982bpk/how_to_meet_new_people/ |
Battler83 | 2024-01-05 01:47:45 | 1,704,419,265 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18yunso | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18yunso/dating_apps_2024/ | 1 | (31M) I think you can guess where this is going. I have tried the free dating app and have even tried paying for some over the years, but find all of them just to be barely functional messes of fake profiles, no matches, and the best I can hope for is to be ghosted. Are there any dating apps that are actually worth spe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Apps 2024 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18yunso/dating_apps_2024/ |
n00bmaister | 2020-08-03 14:09:28 | 1,596,463,768 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | i2xomh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i2xomh/you_think_with_will_work_with_dating_apps/ | 0 | You think with will work with dating apps 👨+👩+🍻+🍕= 💏 ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | You think with will work with dating apps | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i2xomh/you_think_with_will_work_with_dating_apps/ |
herheiniedanger | 2021-02-25 21:44:37 | 1,614,289,477 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | lshr80 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lshr80/good_timing_on_asking_girls_for_date_on_dating/ | 0 | I've been getting decent amount of matches from attractive women that I would like to date. I usually avg 5 a month. However, I havent been able to get a single date since i started. It seems i ask too soon and they get creeped out or they ghost before I have a chance. Is there a good rule to the number of messages I h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good timing on asking girls for date on dating apps? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lshr80/good_timing_on_asking_girls_for_date_on_dating/ |
harrohamtaro | 2021-08-23 15:33:40 | 1,629,732,820 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pa28yz | true | null | 83 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pa28yz/how_do_you_move_on_from_someone_whos_incompatible/ | 156 | OLD has been fun, but what I find absolutely dreadful is to connect with someone and find them great company with strong potential, but they would turn out to have some kind of dealbreaker or incompatibility (on their part or mine) that makes a relationship untenable. I tend to get sentimental about that connection, an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you move on from someone who’s incompatible with you? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pa28yz/how_do_you_move_on_from_someone_whos_incompatible/ |
dorepensee | 2024-03-23 17:06:01 | 1,711,213,561 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1blx6bq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1blx6bq/4_months_since_we_matched_found_his_instagram_do/ | 3 | i (23f) matched with someone on hinge and we texted a bit, he (26m) seemed to check all of my boxes, and we had planned to meet, he even picked out a cute restaurant and seemed genuinely interested. we’re both busy grad students so i had to cancel our date bc of a deadline and texted him on hinge (we hadn’t exchanged n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 4 months since we matched— found his instagram, do i text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1blx6bq/4_months_since_we_matched_found_his_instagram_do/ |
jduubz | 2023-03-13 02:59:27 | 1,678,676,367 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11py7na | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11py7na/i_dont_know_what_i_should_do/ | 1 | Some of these details are a bit wacky as this has been over the course of about 18 months and it is hard to remember everything so bear with me. I had being seeing this girl for a bit last year and we immediately clicked, but I definitely tried to escalate things between us too fast despite the clear fact it was headin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I dont know what I should do | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11py7na/i_dont_know_what_i_should_do/ |
lespritdelescalier11 | 2017-10-16 02:36:26 | 1,508,121,386 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 76nl8i | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/76nl8i/dot_im_looking_for_some_help/ | 4 | Hey DOT, I apologise, as this might be a bit long. I'm a 36 year old straight male, and despite trying to date since I was 15, I've never had a date. Of all the women I've asked out (even for just coffee), only two have said yes, but both canceled before we ever went out. Looking back, I understand why I may have had i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | DOT, I'm looking for some help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/76nl8i/dot_im_looking_for_some_help/ |
PivotalPosture | 2022-11-28 11:49:19 | 1,669,636,159 | null | null | 0 | z6ui6n | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z6ui6n/why_do_people_that_say_communication_is_important/ | 35 | Seriously. I’ve matched with women who talk about how much communication is important, but when you match with them and discuss various things, it comes off as the complete opposite of that | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do people that say Communication is important but they’re the complete opposite? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z6ui6n/why_do_people_that_say_communication_is_important/ |
godisinthischilli | 2023-08-09 00:15:58 | 1,691,540,158 | 0 | ['swipe', 'feeld'] | 0 | 15lz9b5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15lz9b5/what_have_been_your_experiences_with_feeld_app/ | 1 | My therapist strangely suggested I use FEELD (despite me saying I'm monogamous and want something serious) because she thinks there would be better and more sex positive partners on FEELD. I've also been seeing the name float around on Tik Tok and just wondering what experiences others have had with it? I always swipe ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What have been your experiences with FEELD app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15lz9b5/what_have_been_your_experiences_with_feeld_app/ |
mysticICE1 | 2019-12-31 18:28:01 | 1,577,816,881 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ei6q07 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 105 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ei6q07/got_stood_up_not_even_mad/ | 410 | (22F)Talking to this guy(24) on tinder for a while, he was eager to meet . I was not cause have some issues. We decided to meet today , but he didn’t show up . I waited for 3 hours called him but he wouldn’t respond. Was not even pissed cause I have this thought process , if it didn’t happen probably it was for my best... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got stood up ... not even mad | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ei6q07/got_stood_up_not_even_mad/ |
Pure-Midnight1660 | 2021-02-24 05:16:27 | 1,614,143,787 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | lr4ihh | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lr4ihh/i_hate_dating/ | 1 | (18M) Recently I've lost a bunch of weight and decided I wanted a relationship, I've never had what I'd consider a real relationship and I dropped out of school so this is really my first go at dating. I've matched with girls and got to know a few but none of them make me feel anything when we talk. I've been doin this... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I hate dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lr4ihh/i_hate_dating/ |
No-Advertising-8694 | 2023-11-09 23:59:38 | 1,699,574,378 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17rqx3b | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17rqx3b/why_would_a_guy_lie_about_this/ | 1 | I 21F, had a thing with 22M a few months ago (we are currently trying again) & i don’t know if i’m missing a huge red flag on lying. We got into a argument around june, we stopped talking and took eachother off socials. I was curious and looked at his social media the next day after we stopped talking (i know) & he pos... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why would a guy lie about this? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17rqx3b/why_would_a_guy_lie_about_this/ |
WeekendJedi32 | 2024-01-10 15:25:12 | 1,704,900,312 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 193ashs | true | Question ❓ | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/193ashs/girl_im_talking_to_sent_pictures_of_myself_to_me/ | 1 | I (23 M) matched with this girl (23 F) on Bumble about a week ago. We went on a date a couple nights ago and had a great time. We clicked on almost everything and even found out we have some of the same friends. Right after the date she told me she had a great time and asked if there was any hope for a second date, and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I’m talking to sent pictures of myself to me by mistake | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/193ashs/girl_im_talking_to_sent_pictures_of_myself_to_me/ |
Satouros | 2019-02-24 05:55:37 | 1,550,987,737 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | au5159 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/au5159/just_got_done_with_my_first_tinder_date_it_was/ | 2 | Took a 40min drive out to meet her at a big plaza style marketplace and was going to take her to Dave and Busters. I got there a bit early and called to let her know that I would get us a table and coins/tickets but she seemed kinda annoyed. After briefly talking with her she texted me that she can't stay long and if w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just got done with my first Tinder date... it was terrible. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/au5159/just_got_done_with_my_first_tinder_date_it_was/ |
betterthansavage3000 | 2023-09-24 11:27:30 | 1,695,554,850 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16qve9q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16qve9q/dating_someone_in_the_public_eye/ | 1 | Long story short, I matched with this great guy on a daring app, but I found out he's Tik Tok famous. Im talking like millions of views on his videos. Any advice on how to deal with dating someone in the public eye? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Someone In The Public Eye | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16qve9q/dating_someone_in_the_public_eye/ |
sootime3 | 2022-12-02 18:46:09 | 1,670,006,769 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'hinge'] | 0 | zatz4v | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zatz4v/if_you_swipe_left_on_someone_in_standouts_on/ | 2 | I'm new to Hinge and was wondering about this the other day. I accidentally swiped left on a profile in Standouts and wasn't sure if I'd see that profile again. Thanks all! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If you swipe left on someone in Standouts on Hinge, will they reappear in your swipe deck later? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zatz4v/if_you_swipe_left_on_someone_in_standouts_on/ |
anon1213435 | 2019-07-26 09:09:15 | 1,564,132,155 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ci0j9r | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ci0j9r/has_he_ghosted_me/ | 0 | Sorry again for the dumb question. Went on a “date” on Saturday night. Had a great time. Ended up back at my place etc etc. I thought it was good. I ended up messaging him on Tuesday night because he hadn’t messaged me. He messaged right back and we had a quick exchange “how’s your day” etc etc. this was at like 8.30pm... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Has he ghosted me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ci0j9r/has_he_ghosted_me/ |
blackqueen_sam | 2024-03-28 18:31:18 | 1,711,650,678 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bq2vzq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bq2vzq/went_two_dates_with_two_close_friends/ | 1 | Hey guys, I find myself in quite the intriguing scenario and could really use some guidance. About a week ago, I had a coffee date with a guy named John (not his real name) whom I met on Bumble. Although it was pleasant, we didn't have a 2nd one as he was traveling to Asia the next day. Fast forward to yesterday, feeli... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went two dates with two close friends | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bq2vzq/went_two_dates_with_two_close_friends/ |
Lambears | 2022-09-30 05:16:23 | 1,664,514,983 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | xrt0mq | true | Seeking Advice | 186 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xrt0mq/ghosted_with_a_twist_workplaceadjacent_edition/ | 31 | UPDATE: Thank you, everyone, for sharing your experiences and advice with me. I took it to heart and will be much more cautious and self-aware of my own healing process going forward. I decided to spend the day taking better care of myself, so I went to the gym and then got my eyebrows done. As I was leaving the brow p... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Ghosted with a twist, workplace-adjacent edition | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xrt0mq/ghosted_with_a_twist_workplaceadjacent_edition/ |
Victoria1721 | 2019-10-01 19:20:42 | 1,569,957,642 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'eharmony'] | 0 | dbyam9 | true | Casual Conversation | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/dbyam9/hail_mary_to_the_world/ | 25 | I’ve (48F) been on eHarmony for a year now, and after a couple of decent relationships that didn’t turn into “the one” I’ve decided that when my one year subscription is up, I’m out of the OLD game. However, I also just threw caution to the wind and set my distance parameters for “the whole world,” LOL My challenge is,... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Hail Mary to the world! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/dbyam9/hail_mary_to_the_world/ |
darnyoulikeasock | 2020-07-07 23:33:05 | 1,594,164,785 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | hn5sc4 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hn5sc4/how_the_hell_do_you_cope_with_being_horny_all_the/ | 18 | I haven’t had sex in over three months after having had consistent sex for three years. Nearly every man I see on the street turns me on now. Guys in my office. Anyone who gives me the time of day on bumble. I’m worried that I’m gonna sabotage any new relationships that might form by being too horny and moving too fast... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How the hell do you cope with being horny all the time. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/hn5sc4/how_the_hell_do_you_cope_with_being_horny_all_the/ |
cartstanza | 2021-09-02 02:36:03 | 1,630,550,163 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | pg8vn4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pg8vn4/great_article_on_how_dating_inequality_for_men_is/ | 4 | https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ '' But while the situation for women is something like an economy with some poor, some middle class, and some millionaires, the situation for men is closer to a world with a small number of super-billionaires surrounded by huge masses who po... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Great article on how dating inequality for men is comparable to the social inequality of South Africa | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pg8vn4/great_article_on_how_dating_inequality_for_men_is/ |
onelucky_mf | 2022-03-19 20:55:51 | 1,647,723,351 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ti4neh | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ti4neh/ex_boyfriend_wants_us_to_marry_each_other_asap/ | 1 | My (18F) now (ex?) boyfriend (19M) are long distance. I knew him in person but wasn't dating him yet. He moved abroad for his undergrad and that's when we started dating. So our romantic relationship has been a 100% online so far. We gave online dating a shot. We were managing really really well. So well to the point t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (ex?) Boyfriend wants us to marry each other asap | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ti4neh/ex_boyfriend_wants_us_to_marry_each_other_asap/ |
dooogle | 2019-11-05 14:48:04 | 1,572,965,284 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | ds051h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ds051h/does_not_having_a_private_vehicle_be_a_dealbreaker/ | 5 | So I matched with this girl on a dating app like a month ago, and we set up our first date last weekend, and it was great! We seem to hold similar perception of things and we both value physical presence a lot more. Towards the end, we held each other's hands and hugged and things started to look good. We didn't talk m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does not having a private vehicle be a deal-breaker? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ds051h/does_not_having_a_private_vehicle_be_a_dealbreaker/ |
greatestshow111 | 2023-03-18 13:07:22 | 1,679,144,842 | null | null | 0 | 11uo1eg | true | null | 115 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11uo1eg/online_dating_culture/ | 29 | I recently got back onto dating apps after a 2 year break to check out how the scene is like. Despite indicating that I'm looking for a long term relationship and matching with men that state the same, requests for dates come so last minute - they'd text to meet me in the same day or ask to meet the next day, like a bo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online Dating Culture? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11uo1eg/online_dating_culture/ |
Reeddddit | 2018-02-20 05:56:02 | 1,519,106,162 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7ytogx | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/7ytogx/autists_or_schizophrenics_of_raskmen_who/ | 14 | I am often paranoid and disorganized, and some extremely nerdy/awkward girls who seem to flirt/try smalltalk with me at highschool, but idk how to ask them out without disturbing/distracting me from my “intellectual pursuits and ideas”, but I wanna gf! (This minute at least) Please, i dont know what to do because i don... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Autists or schizophrenics of /r/AskMen who sucessfully got a SO without online dating, What are some tips/tricks? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7ytogx/autists_or_schizophrenics_of_raskmen_who/ |
officebarista | 2024-02-12 04:45:03 | 1,707,713,103 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1aorqut | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aorqut/how_to_approach_a_cancelled_date/ | 1 | I (25F) matched with this girl (24F) about two weeks ago. She’s a busy music student, and I’m a paralegal and night law student. We seem to have very similar tastes in music and books, and she’s been nothing but green flags so far. We text pretty sparingly, and after the first week, I got her number and spontaneously a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to approach a cancelled date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aorqut/how_to_approach_a_cancelled_date/ |
FrancoNore | 2019-06-30 14:22:12 | 1,561,904,532 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | c7eox2 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c7eox2/should_i_abandon_it_if_shes_hesitant_about_taking/ | 3 | We met on a dating app and met up about a month later and had sex, met up again a month later and had sex again. We’ve talked to each other all day everyday for over a year. The problem is we live 2 hours apart so i never made a move because i was planning on moving back to the area we met. Some things happened and i s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should i abandon it if she’s hesitant about taking the next step? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c7eox2/should_i_abandon_it_if_shes_hesitant_about_taking/ |
mydogismybff4ever | 2020-12-04 21:57:49 | 1,607,119,069 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | k6uk2d | true | Seeking Advice | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/k6uk2d/meeting_people_winter_pandemic_ack/ | 9 | All right, I caved and bought a month of Bumble. (Cuffing season is here) So, my red flag alert has been triggered and just want to make sure I’m remaining open to new experiences. Situation 1: Been chatting with a man who claimed divorced in his profile, but then revealed in later conversations that they’re separated,... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Meeting people, winter, pandemic... Ack | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/k6uk2d/meeting_people_winter_pandemic_ack/ |
NorwEnt | 2017-06-13 13:20:20 | 1,497,360,020 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6gztcf | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating/comments/6gztcf/first_tinder_date/ | 3 | Hey, guys. Im going on my first tinder date in 3 hours, she asked me out for bowling. What are some good first date topics, should i expect anything out of the ordinary? Should i bring my plate armor, and +10 heart defence shield and mace? Thanks for your time. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First Tinder date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6gztcf/first_tinder_date/ |
MillsIsMyName | 2023-09-07 14:39:02 | 1,694,097,542 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 16chjt9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16chjt9/thoughts_on_using_a_ghostwriter_to_start_dating/ | 1 | My least favorite part of online dating is starting the convo after matching. I came across this Craigslist ad for a writer who helps you come up with some fun opening lines - seems fun and legit, but what are your thoughts? https://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/crs/d/new-york-dating-app-opening-lines/7663220168.html | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on using a ghostwriter to start dating app convos? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16chjt9/thoughts_on_using_a_ghostwriter_to_start_dating/ |
animatrix37 | 2018-08-12 00:55:54 | 1,534,035,354 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 96lf9b | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/96lf9b/are_the_odds_of_finding_a_girlfriend_through/ | 4 | I’m 22, 5’6”, have red hair, not athletic, and I guess I have an okay face. I rarely get any matches and I’ve tried messaging everyone I match with, and I’ve only gotten responses from people trying to scam me or just trying to get me to follow their profiles on other sites. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are the odds of finding a girlfriend through online dating stacked against me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/96lf9b/are_the_odds_of_finding_a_girlfriend_through/ |
myfeelies | 2020-10-21 02:11:08 | 1,603,246,268 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | jf43sa | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jf43sa/nonpretentious_way_to_say_im_seeking_intelligence/ | 0 | Backstory: I’ve (28F) had a tough time dating. I’m super easy to talk to and get along with, objectively cute, healthy, have good hobbies and am kind, but dating has been a major drag. Mostly I feel after a couple dates that they just don’t “get it” and I move on out of frustration and confusion that I can only seem to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Non-pretentious way to say I’m seeking intelligence? | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jf43sa/nonpretentious_way_to_say_im_seeking_intelligence/ |
gaydatingquestion | 2015-06-16 17:14:38 | 1,434,474,878 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 3a2544 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/3a2544/whats_going_on/ | 2 | I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half. We're two mid-20s gay men who met on a dating site, and whenever we hang out we have a good time. We've been on dates that range from dinner and drinks, to cuddling in bed watching movies. For clarity-sake, physical stuff has occurred, but hasn't happened every ti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's going on? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3a2544/whats_going_on/ |
ThePenTester88 | 2022-05-24 16:15:26 | 1,653,408,926 | null | null | 0 | uwuiix | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uwuiix/superlikes_and_boosts_work_better_in_different/ | 1 | I've found that superlikes on Bumble are next to useless, whereas superlikes on Tinder have net me quite a few matches that turn into more. boosts on bumble tend to work better than they do on tinder though. strange. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Superlikes and boosts work better in different apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uwuiix/superlikes_and_boosts_work_better_in_different/ |
heyitsel10 | 2019-11-02 18:10:00 | 1,572,718,200 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | dqnytb | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dqnytb/struggling_to_get_back_into_dating_following_a/ | 0 | Hey! After a lot of first dates and meeting some generally terrible guys, I took a break from dating about 6 months ago as it was beginning to affect my self esteem. I now feel ready to date again, however I'm really struggling to get back into it and the thought of it makes me feel quite anxious. I'm a lot more anxiou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to get back into dating following a break (26F) Any advice?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dqnytb/struggling_to_get_back_into_dating_following_a/ |
RRR92 | 2021-05-09 13:20:16 | 1,620,566,416 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | n8e492 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/n8e492/what_practical_steps_or_habits_can_i_implement_so/ | 24 | I am sure many other men can relate to the exact mindset or feeling I am trying to convey…. But im terrible with words, so please bear with me. To begin, this feeling has not stemmed from being unsuccessful with women. I am 29 now, but from age 20-26 I really enjoyed the relationships I had with the opposite sex, wheth... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What practical steps or habits can I implement so I can live my life in such a way that I don’t get my self-worth and my self-esteem from my relationships (or lack of) with women? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/n8e492/what_practical_steps_or_habits_can_i_implement_so/ |
thrillsnfrills | 2018-05-22 17:30:58 | 1,527,010,258 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 8lbu57 | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8lbu57/unsure_how_to_read_this_guy/ | 1 | I (28f) recently matched with a guy (27m) on a dating app after we had previously met in person about 6 months earlier at a party. We hit it off in person, but I had recently had a bad break up and wasn’t looking for anything. Fast forward to recently, we matched on a dating app and set up a date because we both expres... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure how to read this guy | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8lbu57/unsure_how_to_read_this_guy/ |
yourgirlkeeko | 2024-06-20 02:25:39 | 1,718,850,339 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dk0uml | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dk0uml/dating_advice/ | 1 | Hey y’all so I’ve been talking to this guy on and off again for a year. We met on a dating app and starting off it was good we went on dates and stuff. I was busy for the summer working away from home so when I would come home we would hang. I saw our texting slowing down and when he went away to school he blocked me o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dk0uml/dating_advice/ |
Not_What_I_Meant0000 | 2023-12-16 19:20:16 | 1,702,754,416 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18jyfv6 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 153 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18jyfv6/pretty_sure_i_just_got_rejected_and_i_might_have/ | 397 | I (27F) have been using dating apps lately, and it's been a mixed bag. Not as bad as some of the horror stories I've seen, but I'm still single--obviously what I'm doing hasn't worked yet. I decided to try meeting people in person, so I went out with a friend last weekend. I saw a cute guy, gave him my number, y'all kn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Pretty sure I just got rejected, and I might have deserved it. 😂 | 397 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18jyfv6/pretty_sure_i_just_got_rejected_and_i_might_have/ |
asshat0987 | 2021-01-16 05:09:23 | 1,610,773,763 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | kyckdv | true | Question | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kyckdv/i_m25_offered_to_pay_for_something_she_f25/ | 0 | Girl I met on a dating app messaged me late at night for a booty call. She wanted me to go to her place and I wanted her to come to my place. This went back and forth for a while until I eventually told her to get a taxi to my place and I offered to pay for it. She wasn't impressed and accused me of mansplaining. In re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [m25] offered to pay for something. She [f25] accuses me of mansplaining. Yay or nay? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kyckdv/i_m25_offered_to_pay_for_something_she_f25/ |
fenster39 | 2023-07-07 15:36:36 | 1,688,744,196 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14tangc | false | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/14tangc/advice_please/ | 10 | long time lurker here, my son recently told me i need to start dating. i’ve been single/alone for 6 years. i love being alone and although i would love to meet other singles to do stuff with is a dating app really the place to do that? i joined our time 🙄 are those even real people lol i’ve sent out numerous messages ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | advice please | 10 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/14tangc/advice_please/ |
Historical_Seat_447 | 2024-08-27 11:31:02 | 1,724,758,262 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f2epk7 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2epk7/asking_men_chatting_with_a_girl_you_like_but/ | 0 | I'm a guy too. We're chatting back and forth and it's nothing special, and she shares that she's seeing another guy right now and she says it in a way that she thinks is just fun. Am I a simp for putting up with that? Granted we've only chatted for 2 days. Should I run the other way? I hate feeling like this | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Asking Men. Chatting with a girl you like but.. | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2epk7/asking_men_chatting_with_a_girl_you_like_but/ |
ask_nae | 2023-12-03 01:50:40 | 1,701,568,240 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 189iq84 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/189iq84/i_feel_sad_about_my_sexual_experiences_in_life/ | 2 | I feel sad, and dissatisfied and disappointed after my sexual experiences from age 22-30. I had my first time at 22 I experienced physical attraction with him I liked the kissing but he was so aggressive pushy for a bj I caved and then went on with life but then I found out he was seeing someone else this cremated so m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel sad about my sexual experiences in life | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/189iq84/i_feel_sad_about_my_sexual_experiences_in_life/ |
ContradictFate | 2018-03-18 23:29:57 | 1,521,415,797 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | 85f59c | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/85f59c/is_male_smv_upswing_a_lie/ | 0 | I was riding high, thinking now is my time, as an old burnt out codger, I just turned 30 and I've been in the average looking guy, discarded by society, prison for my entire life but things would be changing right? I seen all of those charts where women's SMV plummets in their late 20's and men's rise with the help of ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is male SMV upswing a lie? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/85f59c/is_male_smv_upswing_a_lie/ |
Oliviaheart | 2019-07-23 22:10:15 | 1,563,919,815 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cgzawk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cgzawk/will_i_have_another_oportunity/ | 1 | This is my story. I met a guy on a dating app and we've been talking for 3 months.. we only had a date because we live in different cities and he works a lot of hours. Since the beginning he showed me interest, writing me sweet things, telling me how glad he was to find a girl like me, he told me everything about his l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Will I have another oportunity? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cgzawk/will_i_have_another_oportunity/ |
ThisIsMaybeAnAlt | 2024-04-01 14:02:19 | 1,711,980,139 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bt4imt | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bt4imt/im_tired_and_just_lost/ | 2 | I'm 22m. I'm naturally a really skinny person. I also have the unfortunate experience of being pretty baby faced. At best I look 16 at the oldest. Irl hasn't worked. Dating apps of course don't work either. No matter the photo selection or bio. I've had girl friends choose pictures and bio. Yet here I am. It feels awfu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm tired and just lost. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bt4imt/im_tired_and_just_lost/ |
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