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ImaginaryAI | 2014-11-17 15:00:12 | 1,416,236,412 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2mk9s1 | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2mk9s1/after_a_few_dates_i_almost_feel_like_trying_is/ | 18 | I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I've met two girls that have pretty much the same interests as me, with potential for good chemistry. I'd meet a lot of them off tinder, and get their number and plan a few dates. The first girl showed up, except it was kind of a bad date since the line to get to the event... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After a few dates, I almost feel like trying is futile at this point. | 18 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2mk9s1/after_a_few_dates_i_almost_feel_like_trying_is/ |
Realistic0ptimist | 2016-08-17 05:02:32 | 1,471,410,152 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 4y3v95 | null | null | 94 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4y3v95/men_of_color_how_do_you_feel_when_you_see_on/ | 0 | I've noticed this a lot more than I would like to believe is acceptable or appropriate in 2016. While I understand everyone is free to have their preferences I do think it's a shame that entire races are getting excluded over preconceived stereotypes or rooted beliefs on what is attractive. I will say though that this ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of color, how do you feel when you see on dating sites women putting Caucasian only as their preference whether or not they themselves are Caucasian? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4y3v95/men_of_color_how_do_you_feel_when_you_see_on/ |
Sunlitstream264 | 2020-09-20 14:07:28 | 1,600,610,848 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | iwegmt | true | Other | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iwegmt/they_arent_real_until_you_meet_them_physically/ | 51 | I’m changing my perspective of seeing people I meet online as not real until we meet. Doesn’t just apply to dating apps, also applying it to a girl I met on a groupchat and have been talking to. I think everyone should do this for a few reasons. 1) It prevents attachment until there’s something really there 2) If they ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | They aren’t real until you meet them physically | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iwegmt/they_arent_real_until_you_meet_them_physically/ |
Kagamine154 | 2022-01-25 07:27:59 | 1,643,095,679 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | sc82c2 | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sc82c2/go_to_dating_apps/ | 1 | What is the top preferred dating app that is used now? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Go to dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sc82c2/go_to_dating_apps/ |
morpheuslurks | 2020-04-19 14:47:05 | 1,587,307,625 | null | null | 0 | g48u5b | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/g48u5b/i_29f_am_always_initiating_the_chat_with_him_29m/ | 2 | We matched on Tinder because of Tinder Passport since quarantine and lockdown happened in a lot of countries. He initiated the initial conversation and he seems like a pretty cool dude I am becoming attracted to. Aside from the physical distance, since we are 8,000 km apart, I think it’s going pretty well. I’ve read on... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I (29F) am always initiating the chat with him (29M), is that a good thing or bad thing? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/g48u5b/i_29f_am_always_initiating_the_chat_with_him_29m/ |
AdDry7951 | 2023-05-20 10:11:28 | 1,684,577,488 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 13mnybb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13mnybb/what_should_i_do_on_a_date_if_i_mostly_get_friend/ | 2 | I am 29/M. I am really into online dating. We meet, and like each other's look in most cases, but in the end of the date, in most of the cases, nothing happens, there is no chemistry. I know this is something I should not force, but I am not looking for something serious. What I usually do on a first date: keep eye con... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do on a date, if I mostly get friend vibes, instead of attraction? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13mnybb/what_should_i_do_on_a_date_if_i_mostly_get_friend/ |
helpsheeks | 2021-07-27 01:39:10 | 1,627,349,950 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | osd7uy | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/osd7uy/where_do_people_find_people/ | 5 | I just moved across the country a few months ago and I have no idea how people meet people other than online dating. It burns me out just going out and meeting person after person and having nothing substantial come out of it. I feel like time is passing and nothing is really changing. Does anyone have any advice? Do I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do people find people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/osd7uy/where_do_people_find_people/ |
ThrowRA_6784 | 2024-08-25 21:48:18 | 1,724,622,498 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f17vau | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f17vau/whats_a_normal_dating_range_for_2526m/ | 1 | Had my ranges set to 23-up. I went on a date recently with a 22F and I felt she was too young. Now I’m running out of options since I’m getting older, about to be 26, and I’m horny as hell and lonely. I’m in a college town, so as soon as I set the age range to 22 on dating apps, I get lots more options. What do you all... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What’s a normal dating range for 25-26M? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f17vau/whats_a_normal_dating_range_for_2526m/ |
throwawayRA_c0nfused | 2023-01-17 13:50:19 | 1,673,963,419 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 10ecqix | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ecqix/how_to_be_nonchalant/ | 0 | Hello fellow daters! I (30 something F) have an issue where by, when I like someone we are instantly married in my head. For context I am dating men. So yeah, its always been like this and I get hurt way too early. When it comes to online dating, ghosting is a norm, time wasters is a norm and generally I feel like its ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to be nonchalant? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ecqix/how_to_be_nonchalant/ |
bM177j | 2020-01-08 13:49:16 | 1,578,491,356 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | elsxrz | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/elsxrz/should_i_stop_or_try_to_restart_it/ | 1 | Met a girl on tinder and to put it simply I'm a terrible texter I really struggle to keep a convo interesting. Long story short she sent me her snap texted back and forth for a day or two, I basically just threw it out there that I'm terrible at this texting shit and I left it there. A few days later and here I am, she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I stop or try to restart it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/elsxrz/should_i_stop_or_try_to_restart_it/ |
Ok-Plastic-62 | 2021-04-13 05:32:23 | 1,618,291,943 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mpvy02 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mpvy02/im_tired_of_the_invisible_labour/ | 57 | Rant time: I'm a little all over the place but please bear with me. I'm absolutely tired of doing all this invisible labour to keep the house running. Now, with two COVID patients in the house, both who are above 60, the workload has only doubled for my mum and I. And my brother, man, where do I even begin? I'm tired o... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I'M TIRED OF THE INVISIBLE LABOUR | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/mpvy02/im_tired_of_the_invisible_labour/ |
James1579 | 2024-08-18 18:15:32 | 1,724,004,932 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1evfwlo | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1evfwlo/supposed_to_have_a_first_date_and_i_didnt_go/ | 1 | So for context I matched with an older woman than me on Hinge which i'm not used to but i'm all for it. I initially asked her out on Tuesday (on hinge) but it wasn't a concrete plan I just suggested the day. Then as the week went on we were talking on whatsapp and I wanted to plan something more definitive so I said Th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Supposed to have a first date and I didn't go because I didn't hear from her until last minute. Am I an asshole or justified? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1evfwlo/supposed_to_have_a_first_date_and_i_didnt_go/ |
frombrianna2briemode | 2022-11-22 23:44:51 | 1,669,160,691 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | z295kf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z295kf/how_do_you_have_indepth_conversations_with/ | 1 | I’ve been talking to a guy I met on an app for a few weeks and we decided to finally meet up after the holiday. So far we’ve had quite a few in-depth and deep conversations. But I’ve gotten to a point where I feel like we either won’t have anything to talk about once we meet up (as in no physical chemistry) or my mind ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you have in-depth conversations with someone on a dating app before you meet them? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z295kf/how_do_you_have_indepth_conversations_with/ |
ulpt-throwaway62 | 2020-01-03 18:38:10 | 1,578,076,690 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | ejjl9x | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ejjl9x/i_23f_definitely_messed_up_with_this_tinder_crush/ | 1 | So I was recently broken up with and ended up on a road trip and decided to reactivate my tinder. After swiping a few times I match with this cute guy in the army who was staying with his grandparents on vacation around the area I was visiting. We immediately hit it off and texted/sexted furiously for a week before I w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (23F) definitely messed up with this Tinder crush and I need a post-mortem | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ejjl9x/i_23f_definitely_messed_up_with_this_tinder_crush/ |
cruelpain | 2020-04-20 10:38:58 | 1,587,379,138 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | g4qhmc | true | Venting | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g4qhmc/any_guys_on_here_struggle_finding_datebale_women/ | 0 | It seems very easy for women but any other guys on here struggle a bit i meet girls off dating apps but out of all the girls i met there was 1 i seemed to hit it off with. We had similar interests (gym) and i liked her personality . But other than that i haven't had much success. There are lot of girls i just sleep wit... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any guys on here struggle finding datebale women? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g4qhmc/any_guys_on_here_struggle_finding_datebale_women/ |
Sanatani_Hitl3r | 2021-04-23 10:58:48 | 1,619,175,528 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | mwsowd | true | Giving Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mwsowd/a_few_pieces_of_enlightenment/ | 13 | Its been a few weeks since I joined this sub. As far as I have seen, most of the questions revolve around same things. Some are exhausted of trying on online dating apps, or not finding a good partner, or having a bad dating experience in general. Here are a few pieces of enlightenment: Why so desperate?: I have seen m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A few pieces of Enlightenment! | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mwsowd/a_few_pieces_of_enlightenment/ |
Bi-times-2 | 2017-06-19 08:40:55 | 1,497,861,655 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6i565w | null | null | 158 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6i565w/am_i_his_cash_cow_need_advice_please/ | 90 | Hi ladies. I met the love of my life recently. It was one of those moments that you hear about where you know you love someone when you first meet. The issue I have found is that everyone is telling me he is just using me. After a week he asked me if he can move in... I said I'd think about it but he kept dropping hint... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Am I his "cash cow"? Need advice please | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6i565w/am_i_his_cash_cow_need_advice_please/ |
unnaturalcauses24 | 2021-06-23 13:39:20 | 1,624,455,560 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | o6d0i1 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o6d0i1/i_am_literally_so_confused/ | 3 | So for some backstory, I (26F) matched with a guy (24M) a few weeks back on a dating app. We hit it off straight away, have loads in common and have just generally been getting on really well. We had our first date a little over a week ago and it was great He said he'd never clicked with anyone like this before, talked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am literally so confused... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o6d0i1/i_am_literally_so_confused/ |
Spectralpoetess | 2019-08-27 21:38:57 | 1,566,941,937 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | cwb0ad | true | Frequently Asked | 20 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/cwb0ad/guys_of_reddit_whats_your_worst_tinderonline/ | 1 | We all hear women's stories of bad guys they meet online/on tinder, but I want to hear some stories from men as well on this subject. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Guys of Reddit, what's YOUR worst tinder/online dating experience? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/cwb0ad/guys_of_reddit_whats_your_worst_tinderonline/ |
Master_Cheesecakez | 2021-12-06 23:42:41 | 1,638,834,161 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ral5vs | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ral5vs/why_some_men_can_be_hypocritical/ | 0 | After more than a year of my breakup, I finally decided to return to the dating scene. So far all my dates have been horrible to a point where I want to delete all my dating apps and I had a burnout a couple days ago. I keep encountering men that are either seeing me as a sexual object, they think I’m a foreigner in th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why some men can be hypocritical? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ral5vs/why_some_men_can_be_hypocritical/ |
Whale_Tune | 2019-05-23 23:43:22 | 1,558,655,002 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bs9yhe | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bs9yhe/does_gen_z_know_how_to_break_up/ | 5 | I'm a 20 yo woman. I've dated two guys in my life. One was freshly 20, all over me, super enthusiastic and we connected over a month. Then I went home for break, and he just dropped off the face of the Earth-- ghosted after two months. The second one really hurts. He's also 20, sweet, intelligent, attractive. He was al... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does gen z know how to break up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bs9yhe/does_gen_z_know_how_to_break_up/ |
[deleted] | 2013-03-06 00:18:05 | 1,362,529,085 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 19qpzi | null | null | 42 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/19qpzi/why_do_men_pose_as_women_on_dating_sites/ | 7 | As a woman, I don't get it. I've had several other "women" message me on OKCupid, only to find out that they are actually guys. Seriously, why?! | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why do men pose as women on dating sites? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/19qpzi/why_do_men_pose_as_women_on_dating_sites/ |
mrmoorer32 | 2021-02-26 20:25:25 | 1,614,371,125 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lt6y7q | true | Giving Advice | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lt6y7q/a_little_piece_of_advice/ | 14 | I just thought I would share my strategy/advice. Last year I deleted my dating apps and have been much happier overall, my self esteem is better, I have better confidence, and I’m not checking my phone every two minutes. Also, I found someone to date naturally, and we had a great connection, but it ended up fizzling ou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A little piece of advice | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lt6y7q/a_little_piece_of_advice/ |
Nuarmstrongjetcannon | 2019-04-02 08:39:18 | 1,554,194,358 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | b8gjba | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b8gjba/i_35m_went_out_on_a_date_after_two_weeks_of/ | 1 | Long story short, I hit it up with someone on Bumble and met up with them after two weeks of texting for an incredibly short 'date'. There are certain things she has said that have confused me and I wanted some second opinions on whether this is a waste of time or is just people being awkward. During texts: She said th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [35M] went out on a 'date' after two weeks of texting. Am I barking up the wrong tree? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b8gjba/i_35m_went_out_on_a_date_after_two_weeks_of/ |
SgnSyndicate | 2022-08-01 17:10:07 | 1,659,373,807 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | wdmq8t | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wdmq8t/dating_in_this_day_in_age/ | 0 | I'm a 20 year old straight male. I've been out of school since I was 15, I dropped out after a lot happen in life. During that time in school it felt like the only way to meet anyone was obviously in school. With me being out and about working 45hour weeks how do people meet anymore. Sure I'm on dating sites but it doe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in this day in age. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wdmq8t/dating_in_this_day_in_age/ |
No-Vacation797 | 2021-05-22 02:27:51 | 1,621,650,471 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ni8qv3 | true | Casual Conversation | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/ni8qv3/excited_about_my_first_date_with_the_overtexting/ | 314 | So I posted the other day about being overwhelmed by the frequency and lack of substance with texting from a man I met OLD. I got so many different perspectives and suggestions that truly helped my attitude and responses to him. I wound up asking him to dial back his enthusiasm and frequency a bit, and made sure I foll... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Excited about my first date with the “overtexting” guy. Thanks to everyone in this subreddit who gave me advice! | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ni8qv3/excited_about_my_first_date_with_the_overtexting/ |
feedmepussy1 | 2024-01-04 05:39:05 | 1,704,346,745 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18y5jby | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18y5jby/what_dating_app_has_had_the_best_results_for_you/ | 1 | I'm in Colorado and looking for a woman to have some fun with. There are plenty of dating apps, I just prefer a larger woman that is confident and comfortable with her body but struggle to find any interested. Is there an app that caters to this group? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What dating app has had the best results for you? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18y5jby/what_dating_app_has_had_the_best_results_for_you/ |
dudeab1des | 2021-03-14 19:59:31 | 1,615,751,971 | null | null | 0 | m52tpb | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m52tpb/distance_settings/ | 0 | What is your current OLD distance setting, and if you'd like, leave a comment why | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Distance settings | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m52tpb/distance_settings/ |
Garyfisherrigenjoyer | 2024-03-31 15:47:30 | 1,711,900,050 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1bsdhjx | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bsdhjx/mixed_signals/ | 1 | I matched with someone on a dating app. She was super flirty, and immediately initiated plans. The next day, she barely responds and I’m trying to figure out what we are doing for our plans and I’ve been on delivered since early yesterday evening. I’m having a hard time dealing with these mixed signals, is this person ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed signals. | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bsdhjx/mixed_signals/ |
Ok_Elephant1053 | 2024-09-29 07:17:57 | 1,727,594,277 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fryt61 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fryt61/bpd_and_the_cycle_of_abuse/ | 5 | When I was 18, I ran away from home and started my own life away from my family. My older brother, eight years older than me, who had been in run-ins with police constantly, used me as a punching bag for years. I would go to school with bruises and eventually reported him. My mother let him back in the house and she an... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | BPD and the cycle of abuse | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fryt61/bpd_and_the_cycle_of_abuse/ |
Chinpoko2 | 2021-06-10 07:36:16 | 1,623,310,576 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | nwht4f | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nwht4f/matched_on_tinder_with_a_high_school_crushish/ | 14 | I don't know if it's the right sub to ask that quedtion, but here we go. I (26M) matched on Tinder with a girl that I liked in high school, but never really pursued her because of my shyness. We knew each other from kindergarten so we talked few times but that was it. Now that I'm out of my shell, healed from past rela... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched on Tinder with a high school crush(ish?) | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nwht4f/matched_on_tinder_with_a_high_school_crushish/ |
SomethingFr0mThePast | 2019-07-17 23:52:53 | 1,563,407,573 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | cekvk0 | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cekvk0/question_how_would_you_date_if_you_had_to_only/ | 0 | NOTE: Please read and actually give me some real and serious opinions. Hey. I have given up on meeting people in person. It costs too much time, effort, money, and investment ... I have tried 1. Dating In Person and 2. Online Dating Sites [Meant for dating]. This is NOT for those types of dating. IF you HAD to date som... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Question: How would you date if you HAD to only date ONLINE ONLY!?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cekvk0/question_how_would_you_date_if_you_had_to_only/ |
_PowerGurl84_ | 2019-07-08 06:25:10 | 1,562,567,110 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cahgi5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cahgi5/consider_joining_tinder_but_nervous_when_are_you/ | 3 | I(35f) filed for divorce 5 months ago. My life is busy with work and 2 kids and agonizing divorce. I want grown up company but I’m nervous about dating. When do you consider yourself “ready” to start dating again? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Consider joining Tinder but nervous. When are you ready? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cahgi5/consider_joining_tinder_but_nervous_when_are_you/ |
money_do | 2024-09-12 17:34:04 | 1,726,162,444 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ff8cv5 | true | Question ❓ | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ff8cv5/what_is_worst_red_flag_on_tinder/ | 1 | People who have been on some dates, what in their profile is the warn you that they can be red flag? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is worst red flag on tinder? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ff8cv5/what_is_worst_red_flag_on_tinder/ |
yrmjy | 2022-02-12 08:23:13 | 1,644,654,193 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | sqmrnv | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/sqmrnv/how_do_you_avoid_repeating_the_same_conversations/ | 4 | Before meeting someone for a date I'll often have fairly extensive conversations with them beforehand. This isn't my preference, but some women aren't prepared to meet until we've messaged for a while, and sometimes there's also a wait before our schedules line up (mainly on her end). The trouble is that by then I've u... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you avoid repeating the same conversations in person you had over messages? | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/sqmrnv/how_do_you_avoid_repeating_the_same_conversations/ |
Tiny-Shape-2106 | 2024-09-28 01:35:28 | 1,727,487,328 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1fr3i4l | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fr3i4l/my_first_and_last_bumble_experience/ | 0 | Sorry if this is long lol Hi, I´m a 20F who never really had much experience with guys, most of the ones I knew I quickly spotted they were liars or weirdos, I rarely have male friends cause most of them just want to see if I am willing to date them, which honestly, doesn´t make me feel like they see me like a person a... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My first and last Bumble experience | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1fr3i4l/my_first_and_last_bumble_experience/ |
Amirasalam123 | 2021-06-07 00:42:48 | 1,623,026,568 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | ntzy2v | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ntzy2v/dates/ | 4 | I am on a dating site and these guys want to go out on a date but they come up with bad ideas for dates. This one guy wanted to take me to watch his friend play in a soccer game and I do not like sports. How do I convince a guy to take me out on a nice date without sounding pushy? I am not expecting anything fancy I wo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dates | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ntzy2v/dates/ |
mzboj00 | 2022-06-08 05:24:09 | 1,654,665,849 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | v7hrv5 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v7hrv5/opinion_on_a_girl_not_going_to_the_gym/ | 0 | TW: ED This is something that was brought up in my last relationship a lot and I constantly see it with online dating. Nearly every guy I see is looking for a "cute gym buddy" or it will be brought up in the first few conversations, and once I say I don't go it's like they aren't interested?? My ex also consistently pu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opinion on a girl not going to the gym? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v7hrv5/opinion_on_a_girl_not_going_to_the_gym/ |
Psychoticangel5 | 2021-03-16 23:42:18 | 1,615,938,138 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | m6mqkk | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/m6mqkk/overwhelmed/ | 12 | So I matched with this guy on a Monday and we met on Wednesday and again Thursday. We’ve spent no more than 4 hours total together. We just talk about random things, but I feel as though I’m being “lovebombed” through the the words of affirmations and no signs of narcissistic behaviour. Could that be his love language ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Overwhelmed | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/m6mqkk/overwhelmed/ |
Sufficient-Ice6123 | 2024-04-12 17:54:18 | 1,712,944,458 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c2fn2j | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c2fn2j/found_pictures_of_the_guy_ive_been_talking_to/ | 1 | I've (23F) been talking to one guy (24M) for nine months - I also don't know how I've ended up in this situation for so long - who I met on a dating app but we've barely been able to meet in person due to long-distance (I'll talk about this more later). Until the end of last year, we spoke around once a week. Since Jan... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Found pictures of the guy I've been talking to with another girl... Really don't know what to do from here. | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c2fn2j/found_pictures_of_the_guy_ive_been_talking_to/ |
Fabzulous | 2021-09-05 20:10:24 | 1,630,872,624 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pikcbf | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pikcbf/how_to_get_initial_contact_with_women_online/ | 1 | Reposted from askwomen because apparently asking women for advice on why men get ignored isn't allowed, ironic huh? Anyway... To be clear, I've got no problems if, when I get talking to a woman and she says no to me for whatever reason, I don't expect anything. All I would like is a chance to put my best foot forward. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get initial contact with women online? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pikcbf/how_to_get_initial_contact_with_women_online/ |
yoftn_Aghulas | 2019-07-31 12:18:06 | 1,564,575,486 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ck7qhu | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ck7qhu/is_appearances_everything_in_a_relationship_or/ | 2 | I never had luck or matched with anyone, solely for being a little bit overweight....all that stuff about the core of the person is important felt like crap to me because I've seen a pattern, if you weren't hot, you won't get the chance to date anyone. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is appearances everything in a relationship or before delving into one? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ck7qhu/is_appearances_everything_in_a_relationship_or/ |
Mrdream992000 | 2018-02-17 09:33:25 | 1,518,860,005 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 7y5rfm | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7y5rfm/on_dating_sites_to_keep_from_messaging_an_ex/ | 3 | So, I just had this gem happen. Been talking with beautiful woman, who messaged first, whom I have a lot in common with. It goes days of talking and she drops the bombshell. She says it hopes it doesn’t affect our talks but she’s only on here because it was free and she just got out of a relationship and is trying to o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | On dating sites to keep from messaging an ex | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7y5rfm/on_dating_sites_to_keep_from_messaging_an_ex/ |
memyselfandme582 | 2019-08-14 19:57:29 | 1,565,812,649 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | cqeyua | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cqeyua/why_did_his_friend_match_me_on_the_dating_app/ | 1 | 2 weeks ago I broke it off with my bf of 2 years. He made Facebook posts about how he is sad he lost the love of his life, but he says he is giving me space since I told him I wanted to be on my own to find myself His friend since childhood made a fb post about breaking up with his gf the same day my bf made his post. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did his friend match me on the dating app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cqeyua/why_did_his_friend_match_me_on_the_dating_app/ |
Superb-Pattern-1253 | 2023-04-08 23:19:52 | 1,680,995,992 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12g1soa | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12g1soa/is_it_time_to_end_my_pursuit_am_i_justified_in/ | 0 | so there is a girl im interested in. truth be told ive always been interested in her. this is not some girl i met in the gym or on a dating app but someone ive know for i would say ten years now. we both use to have feelings for each other in the past but due to dif circumstances it would have never worked out ie me li... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | is it time to end my pursuit? am i justified in how im feeling or is being to close to the situation making me take things more seriously then they are | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12g1soa/is_it_time_to_end_my_pursuit_am_i_justified_in/ |
datthrow12 | 2018-05-17 03:59:13 | 1,526,529,553 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipes', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8k18r3 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8k18r3/is_tinder_meant_to_be_this_bad_in_a_small_uk_area/ | 2 | When I first got Tinder in the US over 3 years ago, I matched at a good rate - often with very attractive girls. Everybody seemed polite and the experience was a bit of a confidence boost. I never tried to meet up with anybody, but maybe I should have. Here in the UK, I get one match a week if I’m lucky. My last match ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is Tinder meant to be this bad in a small UK area? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8k18r3/is_tinder_meant_to_be_this_bad_in_a_small_uk_area/ |
Future-Cheesecake594 | 2024-04-29 13:24:45 | 1,714,397,085 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1cfz1ri | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cfz1ri/exclusive_but_no_labels_20f/ | 2 | Found this guy on bumble, we have been doing exclusive no labels for 15 months now every time i bring up labels he doesn’t wanna do it. But he does everything for me … everything a normal boyfriend does. I m pretty okay with not having labels cause we’re pretty much like bf/gf but here are a few red flags i have notice... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Exclusive but no labels (20f) | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cfz1ri/exclusive_but_no_labels_20f/ |
greenarrow118 | 2015-12-23 05:35:45 | 1,450,848,945 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3xxhr8 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3xxhr8/tinder_question/ | 1 | Is it safe to use? I have never used it before and dont really know that much about. Is this a good way to meet girls? I just want to try it and see what its like. Ive tried face to face and would like to try something different | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder question? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3xxhr8/tinder_question/ |
astraypolaroid | 2022-07-04 15:42:42 | 1,656,949,362 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vra97l | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vra97l/should_i_23m_end_6_months_old_relationship_with/ | 2 | Brief Context - I am going to USA for higher studies in 1 month which would put me and my partner in an inter-contitenental LDR for atleast 2-3 years. I do have genuine feelings for her and I believe its same from her side and we are in a committed relationship with an aim to get married one day. But, Certain actions o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I 23(M) end 6 months old relationship with my 22(F) Girlfriend? Advice Needed. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vra97l/should_i_23m_end_6_months_old_relationship_with/ |
Friendly_Sea8570 | 2021-07-07 13:25:49 | 1,625,664,349 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ofiufr | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ofiufr/no_luck_with_apps/ | 0 | Slow to get matches.. and all that. I’m a 25 year old female.. Any tips on how you all navigate it? I kinda just wanna get off it all and just focus on me lol… but given working from home I just get so bored.. can’t wait to go back to office next week 😩 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No luck with apps | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ofiufr/no_luck_with_apps/ |
SuperSecretAccount50 | 2023-09-02 11:57:19 | 1,693,655,839 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1680lp5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1680lp5/im_looking_for_lifelong_partner_and_idc_if_its/ | 1 | I’m (21M) a bit of homebody as I don’t like to party, drink, and have never done drugs. I’m a very “Online” person and my main hobbies are playing video games, singing, and playing 2 instruments. I’m not near good enough with the instruments to join a band or ensemble, and all other in-person activities bore me unless ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m looking for life-long partner and idc if it’s long distance at first, what’s the best way to meet compatible people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1680lp5/im_looking_for_lifelong_partner_and_idc_if_its/ |
boouwhor3 | 2019-04-30 22:01:11 | 1,556,661,671 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bj9b8l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bj9b8l/should_i_give_him_another_chance/ | 1 | So I met 2 guys from a dating app. I had planned to go on a date with guy 1 but due to scheduling conflicts, I had went on another date with another guy, guy 2, first. Guy 2 and I had a great first date. We talked each other’s ears off. So naturally, I felt less excited about guy 1 now. The date with guy 1 was fun, but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I give him another chance? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bj9b8l/should_i_give_him_another_chance/ |
InState | 2013-08-01 09:11:38 | 1,375,348,298 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1jhfd2 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1jhfd2/have_you_ever_bailed_on_a_tinder_date_if_so_what/ | 0 | I would like to take advantage of the anonymity of the internet to find out the real reasons why you have bailed or would bail on dates you had enthusiastically prearranged via Tinder. What caused the change of heart? Was it something the guy did? Did your personal circumstances change? Mod asked me to explain what Ti... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Have you ever bailed on a Tinder date? If so, what made you change your mind? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1jhfd2/have_you_ever_bailed_on_a_tinder_date_if_so_what/ |
rkhulinator | 2019-01-30 19:54:52 | 1,548,878,092 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | algozo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/algozo/how_to_maintain_a_relationship_that_has_started/ | 1 | I met this girl on a dating site a little less than a week ago and since then I feel like we’ve bonded very quickly and I’d say our courting is progressing very quickly. We’ve already covered a gambit of topics from tastes in food to things we’re into sexually. We’ve video chatted and talked on the phone a couple times... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to maintain a relationship that has started off very quickly | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/algozo/how_to_maintain_a_relationship_that_has_started/ |
DarkFite | 2023-07-10 23:05:15 | 1,689,030,315 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 14w9hip | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14w9hip/how_to_approach_a_very_modest_and_intelligent_girl/ | 1 | This weekend, I'm(m27) going on my second date with a girl(26f) I met on Bumble. Our first date was pretty simple. We met after work, had dinner at an Asian restaurant, and had a lot of conversations. It went well, but as I mentioned, it was quite basic. After dinner, I walked her to the train station, we hugged, and w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to approach a very modest and intelligent girl? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14w9hip/how_to_approach_a_very_modest_and_intelligent_girl/ |
Caesar2013 | 2013-07-27 17:42:11 | 1,374,946,931 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1j6440 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1j6440/female_tinder_users_do_you_ever_actually_message/ | 3 | Saw a friend of mine using tinder and saw her get a match. When I asked her if she was going to send this match a message she said, "No wayy". Why is this? Do you just take it as an ego boost? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Female Tinder Users: Do you ever actually message "matches"? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1j6440/female_tinder_users_do_you_ever_actually_message/ |
Owl1379 | 2020-08-07 21:45:40 | 1,596,836,740 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | i5mu7s | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/i5mu7s/first_non_old_date/ | 65 | I posted a week or two ago about dating a younger man. That problem has solved itself as he has gone MIA. That being said, I was asked on my first NON OLD date since I starting dating a year ago. This one is interesting to me and I’m writing this down just in the case that something ends up working out because the circ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | First NON OLD Date. | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/i5mu7s/first_non_old_date/ |
monogramgolden | 2019-01-23 19:04:21 | 1,548,270,261 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | aj35kj | true | I Need Advice | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aj35kj/i_think_hes_getting_too_invested_too_quickly/ | 3 | I've been talking to this guy for a couple weeks now (met on Hinge). He lives in a different city but is moving here soon. We talk pretty consistently throughout the day and I'm fairly attracted to him based on his photos/snapchats. We've set up tentative first date plans for after he gets here. My worry is that he's f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I think he's getting too invested too quickly | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aj35kj/i_think_hes_getting_too_invested_too_quickly/ |
throwaway80804040 | 2022-03-13 16:23:04 | 1,647,188,584 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | tdae2s | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tdae2s/can_anyone_tell_me_if_i_should_put_out_that_ive/ | 1 | I'm M27 and I'm trying to get back into online dating after taking some time off from being discouraged. I think I already know the answer and to not put that info out there. Just worried that I'll be 2 or 3 dates in, if I even get that far and that some women wouldn't want to know that. Idk, trying to be transparent a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can anyone tell me if I should put out that I've never had any dates or a relationship in my dating profile, or would it be too odd? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tdae2s/can_anyone_tell_me_if_i_should_put_out_that_ive/ |
cerebral23 | 2016-04-16 17:52:42 | 1,460,829,162 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 4f2xd4 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4f2xd4/dating_profiles_why_do_women_do_this_are_men/ | 1 | I messaged a girl on pof, and she eventually told me she knows me because I go to her work about 10-12 times a year. I was having a hard time remembering who she was until I had to go there today and recognized the tattoo. The reason I could only recognize her that way was because she gained probably 60 ( 5'2") lbs sin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating profiles: Why do women do this? Are men guilty too? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4f2xd4/dating_profiles_why_do_women_do_this_are_men/ |
spangleddangle | 2024-03-09 21:13:13 | 1,710,018,793 | 0 | null | 0 | 1basdow | true | null | 95 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1basdow/do_conservative_politically_dating_sites_actually/ | 1 | I've googled it and signed up to some. But the demographic always seems to be 60+. I'm a 36F who just moved to a new city. This is tough. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do conservative (politically) dating sites actually exist? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1basdow/do_conservative_politically_dating_sites_actually/ |
bbstar23 | 2022-09-03 18:43:25 | 1,662,230,605 | null | null | 0 | x51mp8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x51mp8/question_about_this_girl_im_dating/ | 0 | I’ve been dating this girl for 2 weeks now. She’s really cool. I like her a lot she likes me too. She told me on the first date after we made out. My question is I really like this girl. I think about her a lot and I’m always eager to see her and I have feelings for her. Can I tell her that or is that needy. I’m curren... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question about this girl I’m dating | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x51mp8/question_about_this_girl_im_dating/ |
Malequanimity | 2023-05-18 22:19:11 | 1,684,448,351 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13lcpqq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13lcpqq/top_10_lessons_in_dating_to_my_younger_self/ | 3 | After commenting elsewhere and posting on my blog (link in bio), I have been messaged about some advice on dating for men. I thought the best way to express this is through what I would've have taught myself back when I needed guidance on the fairer sex. Admittedly, it's more centred towards men (although some points a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Top 10 Lessons in Dating to My Younger Self | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13lcpqq/top_10_lessons_in_dating_to_my_younger_self/ |
Ma_1ik | 2021-11-12 04:16:29 | 1,636,690,589 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qs34v1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qs34v1/was_this_weird_to_do/ | 1 | So me and this girl started talking and we went on one date and both had a great time. We started talking about love languages and she told me to take the test online. So I told her I will and asked her to take the BDSM test if she wanted to. My sister always tells me to take the test but I see no point because I’m a v... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was this weird to do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qs34v1/was_this_weird_to_do/ |
NotNexus1 | 2023-12-25 05:47:58 | 1,703,483,278 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18qchp9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18qchp9/im_over_my_last_ex_and_i_want_to_start_getting/ | 1 | So it’s been about 7 months since my last ex and i really wanted to take time and level up my life and focus on myself so got a new job make more money got a promotion lined up soon and yeah. Now my problem is in my line of work it’s mostly men and yeah it was huge mistake at my last job with my ex I had dropped my sta... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m over my last ex and I want to start getting back out there but it’s complicated | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18qchp9/im_over_my_last_ex_and_i_want_to_start_getting/ |
confusedwitdating | 2018-02-28 14:47:42 | 1,519,829,262 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 80wjtv | false | null | 40 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/80wjtv/how_to_not_make_women_uncomfortable_when/ | 21 | As a dude working full-time post-uni, for whom online dating apps/sites aren't giving the results I want, I think that meeting women in real life is something I gotta focus on. Really need some pointers tho - I'm a 6'4" black dude with sub-par looks who probably intimidates a lot of women. Any pointers as to how to mak... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to not make women uncomfortable when approaching them? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/80wjtv/how_to_not_make_women_uncomfortable_when/ |
Amberbythesea93 | 2023-07-27 17:03:10 | 1,690,477,390 | 0 | null | 0 | 15b79gm | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15b79gm/bad_at_hedging_my_bets/ | 1 | Just wondering if anyone struggles talking to multiple people at once? My head immediately starts panicking that I will end up in a situation where: either I like multiple people the same and can’t make a choice, or that I won’t know how to let one person down. I have attachment issues as well so I don’t know if this h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bad at hedging my bets | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15b79gm/bad_at_hedging_my_bets/ |
Rocwal1 | 2021-02-03 08:30:40 | 1,612,341,040 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | lbj5av | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lbj5av/guy_is_taking_a_long_time_to_respond_is_he/ | 0 | So I’ve been been talking to this guy on bumble for a week (we’ve exchanged about 20 messages each) but he takes a really long time to respond. I don’t think I’ve ever really noticed how long it takes a guy to respond, but I do with him. At first it was responding after 4-5 hours, and then today is was 12 hours. In his... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy is taking a long time to respond. Is he uninterested? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lbj5av/guy_is_taking_a_long_time_to_respond_is_he/ |
Acerrebrum | 2023-10-19 22:18:19 | 1,697,753,899 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17bvd3u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17bvd3u/not_so_much_advice/ | 1 | So I feel like I’ve had the best conversations on this app. So I’m just wondering if there’s any women in eastern Ontario Canada that are interested in getting to know me. Please go ahead and check out my profile. I’m just kinda tired of the conventional aspect of tinder. Because it’s just not working. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not so much advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17bvd3u/not_so_much_advice/ |
throwmybitchassaway | 2022-12-01 13:47:32 | 1,669,902,452 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | z9ob4x | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z9ob4x/im_so_tired_of_talking_to_people_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I’m so fucking bored. I was on hinge and it just doesn’t seem like there are that many people on there so I am now trying bumble and dear lord men do not really engage in conversation much, do they? I can only think of so many questions to ask when all I have to work with is the shit on your profile. I just feel like I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m so tired of talking to people on dating apps | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z9ob4x/im_so_tired_of_talking_to_people_on_dating_apps/ |
NosoyPuli | 2021-10-01 18:08:16 | 1,633,111,696 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pzdmji | true | null | 172 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pzdmji/it_is_not_your_height_nor_your_wealth_nor_your/ | 95 | I have had it with this complaints: If I were taller If I were richer If I were buffed Really? You think that's all women care about? You do really see women as nothing but shallow foreign beings that will be swayed as easily by such mere things such as height, money, and muscles? For the complains you guys rant about ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It is not your height, nor your wealth, nor your body, it's your attitude. | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pzdmji/it_is_not_your_height_nor_your_wealth_nor_your/ |
Inf229 | 2023-08-07 23:28:08 | 1,691,450,888 | 0 | null | 0 | 15l0s9c | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15l0s9c/getting_back_into_old_after_a_long_time_off/ | 1 | My god. I spent the last 9 months just learning to be happy single again, finally get to the point where I want to start sharing my life with someone and get back on the apps. Match with a handful of girls who seem interesting, have short chats, and ask them out. They all say yes. "This is easy and fun", I think, "why ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting back into OLD after a long time off. Remember why I hate it. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15l0s9c/getting_back_into_old_after_a_long_time_off/ |
Salty-Prompt-5514 | 2023-10-15 19:37:11 | 1,697,398,631 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 178n4tc | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/178n4tc/how_to_flirt/ | 1 | So I [m24] recently been taking dating more seriously and joined hinge. I dont get many matches, but atm I went on a date with 2 girls and both said yes to a second date. I seem to make the girls laugh but I dont know how to flirt. How do I flirt? and does anyone have any general flirting lines? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to flirt? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178n4tc/how_to_flirt/ |
[deleted] | 2019-10-28 23:44:08 | 1,572,306,248 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | dohlij | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dohlij/dating_app/ | 1 | Hello people of the internet. I'll get straight to the point so I don't waste your time. I want to find a dating app that doesn't require a picture or a phone number (I'm a little camera shy and worried about people I know seeing me on there). Any advice? Thanks | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating app | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dohlij/dating_app/ |
kevolig2 | 2019-11-21 04:54:07 | 1,574,312,047 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | dze8wz | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dze8wz/did_she_lose_interest_or_should_i_give_them_the/ | 2 | Hey all so I (M 27) matched with this girl (F 24) on a dating app a little over a month ago. We went got coffee a few days after we matched, and thought it went really well with some first time meetup awkward silences of course. Fast forward to a week after that where I hadn’t heard from her thinking I was ghosted and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did she lose interest or should I give them the benefit of the doubt? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dze8wz/did_she_lose_interest_or_should_i_give_them_the/ |
Living-Individual-64 | 2022-12-28 23:46:57 | 1,672,271,217 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zxp4tq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zxp4tq/how_does_an_introvert_find_love_without_dating/ | 3 | I want to go out and date (but not hookup) but I don't want to use any dating apps, and I also don't have any social media. I also don't really have any hobbies, especially ones that involve a community (at least in real life). My only hobby that may count is hiking, but 1) I heard that's not a great way to meet potent... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How does an introvert find love without dating apps/social media? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zxp4tq/how_does_an_introvert_find_love_without_dating/ |
PatrickStarWarsaw | 2018-02-04 10:28:27 | 1,517,740,107 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7v61sw | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7v61sw/everything_about_this_situation_screams_get_out/ | 1 | I've (M,26) been seeing this girl (F,24) for about 2 months now. We hit it off almost instantly, with a lot of common interests. We both have the same type of silliness and sense of humor. We are pretty sexually compatible, as well. When we first started seeing each other, we both agreed that we don't really have time ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Everything about this situation screams "Get out!", but... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7v61sw/everything_about_this_situation_screams_get_out/ |
[deleted] | 2015-08-02 22:31:41 | 1,438,554,701 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3fjy1d | null | null | 21 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3fjy1d/i_learned_a_valuable_lesson_today_getting_your/ | 12 | Now I know the title may seem very negative and discouraging but it's in no way intended to mean that. I gave up on online dating. I'd say I'm an average looking guy: ( http://i.imgur.com/vFIpJKs.jpg ) and as a result have gone on a few dates here and there. Some where good, and some were meh but nothing terrible. One ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I Learned a valuable lesson today: Getting your hopes up is setting yourself up for some serious heart ache and here's why. | 12 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3fjy1d/i_learned_a_valuable_lesson_today_getting_your/ |
Apprehensive_Fruit24 | 2021-01-15 08:02:13 | 1,610,697,733 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | kxq292 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kxq292/should_i_bring_up_the_dtr_talk_or_let_it_floooow/ | 4 | I’ve [22F] been dating this guy [22]since last October. We met on bumble, and both of us were new users and the first person we dated from online. He comes over and we hang out have dinner watch shows, we’ve taken a weekend trip too. He never lets me pay, he definitely spoils me, and we always have a good time! I reall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I bring up the DTR talk or let it floooow | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kxq292/should_i_bring_up_the_dtr_talk_or_let_it_floooow/ |
clint_watters | 2024-03-03 12:53:31 | 1,709,470,411 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1b5gia3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b5gia3/met_a_girl_whos_a_bit_fucked_up_she_brings_me_joy/ | 1 | Hello, Met her in the streets of my hometown on the 18th of February, we had a good eye contact, a good laugh and I felt like she had an incredible sense of humor. It was easy to laugh with her. 1st date: We went for a coffee on our first date set at 1pm and we ended up at 11pm. Time went by so quick it was great. She ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a girl who's a bit fucked up... She brings me joy and pain | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b5gia3/met_a_girl_whos_a_bit_fucked_up_she_brings_me_joy/ |
gorlwithaquestion | 2024-09-02 00:32:43 | 1,725,237,163 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1f6tmgq | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1f6tmgq/when_is_it_okay_to_double_text_a_guy/ | 0 | I had a crush on this guy in my class (25M) when I was in college (25F), who I actually only talked to once. I graduated 3 years ago and recently visited that same city (3 hours away from my home) for the weekend and matched with him on a dating app as he's still doing a masters there. He actually seemed interested and... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | When is it okay to double text a guy | 0 | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1f6tmgq/when_is_it_okay_to_double_text_a_guy/ |
PoorAxelrod | 2023-06-27 00:21:35 | 1,687,825,295 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | 14jy4bt | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14jy4bt/should_i_take_a_shot_or_let_it_go/ | 4 | I realize that I'm opening myself up to a lot of different commentary by posting on Reddit at all... but I'm curious what to do. I encountered somebody that I know through work on a dating app. We don't work together, but we do work in similar fields. I haven't swiped right on her because I don't think that would be ap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I take a shot or let it go? | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14jy4bt/should_i_take_a_shot_or_let_it_go/ |
miftygx_ | 2024-07-17 06:02:56 | 1,721,196,176 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e5auuv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e5auuv/i_dont_understand_him/ | 0 | Met a guy on hinge, we hit off and hooked up in first meeting. He told me he was interested in second meeting, since he didnt reach me out for couple days, I texted him 4 days later, asking if he wanna hang out. He said yes and arranged the date which was yesterday. When we met yesterday, I made a joke about how I had ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I dont understand him | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e5auuv/i_dont_understand_him/ |
freezer_man24 | 2021-04-28 21:09:34 | 1,619,644,174 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | n0ow22 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n0ow22/a_close_female_friend_let_me_know_that_my_ugly/ | 11 | So I’ve never had much luck in dating. I’ve tried a lot of thing. I even seemingly conquered my fear of rejection and started cold approaching women. They would be all friendly etc but would block me later. These women expressed no fear and always told me that they were comfortable with giving me their number and would... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A close female friend let me know that my ugly face is probably the reason for my dating struggles. Any advice? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n0ow22/a_close_female_friend_let_me_know_that_my_ugly/ |
myxleanaxxount | 2023-12-22 00:44:06 | 1,703,205,846 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18o267h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18o267h/2nd_date_rescheduled_then_cancelled_due_to/ | 1 | I (23f) matched with this girl (22f) on Tinder last Monday. She messaged me first and we were having good conversation. She was initiating a lot of the conversation and eneded up offering me her number. I was supposed to go to a concert Wednesday with a friend but they got sick so I asked her to go with me and she acce... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 2nd date rescheduled then cancelled due to sickness | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18o267h/2nd_date_rescheduled_then_cancelled_due_to/ |
SupremeMystique | 2018-08-04 04:34:35 | 1,533,357,275 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 94ghyf | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/94ghyf/how_do_i_break_out_of_being_an_incel/ | 0 | I'm short (5'6), average looking. I work out often, medium weight. Women don't like me. I get zero matches on tinder and datings apps. My expectations aren't that high. I usually like atleast half of the girls I see on dating apps, yet no girl seems to like me. I try to talk to girls but they usually ignore me or give ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I break out of being an incel? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/94ghyf/how_do_i_break_out_of_being_an_incel/ |
[deleted] | 2015-01-18 14:20:57 | 1,421,590,857 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2stxqm | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2stxqm/choosing_between_falling_in_love_and_my/ | 3 | Normally have a really hard time meeting people and I'm a skeptic when it comes to love, but I recently met this guy on okcupid and there was immediate chemistry between us. We've only been dating for a couple weeks but I really like him. The problem is I'm trying to get a job in a far away state because I'm not happy ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Choosing between falling in love and my career/family. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2stxqm/choosing_between_falling_in_love_and_my/ |
Big_Bit_1136 | 2024-02-23 15:24:53 | 1,708,701,893 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ay35g5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ay35g5/shaming_people/ | 1 | Which sub is appropriate to post horrible dating app experiences? Like post the persons profile with text etc hopefully shaming them in the process | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Shaming people | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ay35g5/shaming_people/ |
WinnieThePooh6 | 2024-04-14 02:25:29 | 1,713,061,529 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c3iug9 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c3iug9/21_m_i_didnt_date_a_girl/ | 2 | First of all, I live in a country located in North Africa, and dating is a little difficult, but let’s get to the heart of the matter. I have never dated a girl in my life, but I was very in love with a girl and I wanted to share my feelings with her 😕 but she refused without saying anything.But my life did not stop a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (21 M) I didn't date a girl | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c3iug9/21_m_i_didnt_date_a_girl/ |
homemade_adult | 2023-10-16 19:28:24 | 1,697,484,504 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 179edq5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/179edq5/unsure_about_showing_affection_in_dating_need/ | 1 | I (F24) have been on three dates with a guy (M27) I met on a dating app. Everything is very nice, we have a lot of fun, feel quite comfortable around each other and we communicate very clearly about how things are going. The one thing we don’t really communicate about is showing affection. I am very inexperienced, have... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure about showing affection in dating. Need some advice. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/179edq5/unsure_about_showing_affection_in_dating_need/ |
CulturalSpecial3812 | 2022-08-01 21:23:09 | 1,659,388,989 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | wdsxa4 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wdsxa4/wtf_do_i_tell_my_friend_22f_that_i_22m_have/ | 1 | Hey, I tried posting this on r/relationshipadvice but I barely got any response. So there’s this friend of mine that I’ve known for a few years that I’ve recently developed feelings for. Idk why it didn’t happen for a while, maybe because we just got a lot closer during this time period, but whatever. I feel like I sho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wtf do I tell my friend (22F) that I (22M) have feelings for if neither of us wants a serious relationship right now | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wdsxa4/wtf_do_i_tell_my_friend_22f_that_i_22m_have/ |
ttttt2511 | 2015-09-13 07:30:11 | 1,442,129,411 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3krct4 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3krct4/trouble_with_messaging/ | 2 | Story: So I've meet this girl via online dating, OkCupid about 2 months ago. It was holiday season so I was away, then she was away, after like 3 weeks we managed to set and go on a date. She also deactivated her OkCupid account before we met. Date went well, I would say (and she said that as well), we talked for like ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trouble with messaging | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3krct4/trouble_with_messaging/ |
msssst | 2020-04-13 13:25:02 | 1,586,784,302 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g0ivxo | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g0ivxo/why_is_dating_so_hard_for_me_but_not_for_others/ | 1 | The question I have asked myself for the better part of a decade is why dating is so hard for me but not for others? I have only had short term relationships (less than 6 months) and have not yet had a bf and I’m 30. I’m in shape, attractive, educated to postgraduate level and have a relatively successful career. I am ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is dating SO hard for me but not for others? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g0ivxo/why_is_dating_so_hard_for_me_but_not_for_others/ |
ProcedureJunior2597 | 2024-03-21 01:01:10 | 1,710,982,870 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1bjtzvv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bjtzvv/seeking_stars_embarking_on_a_dating_journey/ | 2 | Hey Reddit, I’m navigating the dating scene after a life-changing event in June 2020—a car accident that resulted in paralysis. This journey has not just reshaped how I see things and how I do things, but it's also challenged how I approach dating. Despite venturing into online dating for the past three years, I've fou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Seeking Stars: Embarking on a Dating Journey Post-Paralysis | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bjtzvv/seeking_stars_embarking_on_a_dating_journey/ |
buddhavt | 2020-02-27 18:15:50 | 1,582,827,350 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | fag9fx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fag9fx/did_the_meaning_of_dating_change/ | 0 | So this has been bothering me for a few years and I never get a good answer, but did the definition of Dating change? When did people start attaching exclusivity to it? I've seen this more and more over the last decade. I'm 39 and always known it to the non-exclusive phase or type of relationship where you participate ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did the meaning of Dating change? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fag9fx/did_the_meaning_of_dating_change/ |
adamdejames | 2023-11-29 20:51:26 | 1,701,291,086 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 186zq1f | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/186zq1f/i_22m_am_starting_to_feel_like_its_pointless_to/ | 8 | To give a bit of back story, I'm almost 23 and I've only had a couple relationships. Only one was serious, and I ended it 2 months ago due to her consistent mood swings and deciding every other week we're not compatible, but never saying anything and just distancing. I've tried and tried to talk to her, she'd just gasl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (22m) am starting to feel like it's pointless to even try to date anymore. | 8 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/186zq1f/i_22m_am_starting_to_feel_like_its_pointless_to/ |
Frequent_District_69 | 2022-03-12 20:51:11 | 1,647,118,271 | null | null | 0 | tcqk1x | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tcqk1x/should_i_go_see_the_girl_ive_been_dating_online/ | 1 | So, here it goes: I matched with this girl from Europe (Lithuania) in 2020. We talked for a while and then lost contact. We follow each other on ig, so there was some interaction during this time (mostly from my side). However, we started talking again in February. It’s been going quite well and kinda feels like there’... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I go see the girl I’ve been “dating” online? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tcqk1x/should_i_go_see_the_girl_ive_been_dating_online/ |
wing_growingpains | 2022-06-09 13:47:40 | 1,654,782,460 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | v8h8lf | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v8h8lf/where_do_people_go_nowadays_to_meet_other_single/ | 1 | Anyone know of any speed dating lounges? I think a great idea to go to speed dating lounges and meet like 5+ people in a night that are also there to meet people for dating. Heres the issues nowadays: 1. Bumble is weird and inorganic 2. Bars and clubs are too risky with "hitting on" ppl aka u might hit on someone taken... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do people go nowadays to meet other single people... im over bumble and bars are too hit or miss, is there like speed dating lounges? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v8h8lf/where_do_people_go_nowadays_to_meet_other_single/ |
SmoresPies | 2023-07-31 23:29:56 | 1,690,846,196 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15evnmh | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15evnmh/just_had_an_hour_long_call_with_a_girl_on_hinge/ | 83 | The call went well, really well. We were both laughing. At the end, she told me she liked my perseverance and I told her that I go after what I want. When she asked me what I want, I told her it was to take her out on a date. She said she would like that and that she had a lot of fun talking with me and was curious how... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just had an hour long call with a girl on hinge. Give me hope that she will meet me. She's otherworldly. | 83 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15evnmh/just_had_an_hour_long_call_with_a_girl_on_hinge/ |
DustBux | 2015-06-07 23:17:36 | 1,433,719,056 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 38ymgc | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/38ymgc/tired_of_this_uncertainty/ | 1 | What's up guys! Listen up because I really need your view on this. Last month I met a girl on Tinder. We both are friends with the same few persons (her sister is a gf of a friend) so that seemed to be a handy starting point. We chatted quite nicely the first day. The next few days the texting went downwards. After a f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tired of this uncertainty | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/38ymgc/tired_of_this_uncertainty/ |
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