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[deleted] | 2023-04-29 05:06:18 | 1,682,744,778 | 0 | null | 0 | 132ju62 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/132ju62/i_need_a_girlfriend/ | 0 | Please respond I am a good man | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I need a girlfriend | 0 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/132ju62/i_need_a_girlfriend/ |
greymatter-_- | 2023-08-04 18:58:54 | 1,691,175,534 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15i8kd1 | true | null | 301 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15i8kd1/is_this_normal_in_a_committed_relationship_am_i/ | 1 | After the pandemic hit, I moved cities and started living with my folks. In the Sept of 2020 my bf visited me. We booked a nice hotel in my city to spend time with each other. During our stay, I found out that a lady has been sending him her pictures and texting him. I could only see one picture that she sent him and i... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is this normal in a committed relationship? Am I overreacting? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15i8kd1/is_this_normal_in_a_committed_relationship_am_i/ |
ohbabypop | 2024-07-08 01:51:55 | 1,720,403,515 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dxx2gz | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dxx2gz/are_dating_apps_worth_a_try_for_old_school_people/ | 1 | Never been on any dating app and was wondering if shy/old school people may find luck. I don’t mind chatting and getting to know the person but I do mind other (known to be normal) aspects of dating. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Are dating apps worth a try for old school people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dxx2gz/are_dating_apps_worth_a_try_for_old_school_people/ |
JesusChristSupers1ar | 2022-12-04 17:47:41 | 1,670,176,061 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | zcg7vu | true | null | 117 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/zcg7vu/do_you_ever_start_the_chat_on_hinge_without/ | 29 | This is something I’ve seen a couple times now, including today, but I never know what’s going on. I’ll send a like and a message to a woman. She’ll like me back or whatever and the chat will start but she won’t respond with a message. I have no idea if this is intentional or not but it’s confusing as shit. Did she int... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Do you ever start the chat on Hinge without sending a message? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/zcg7vu/do_you_ever_start_the_chat_on_hinge_without/ |
9gg6 | 2023-12-17 19:41:29 | 1,702,842,089 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 18kpbxg | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18kpbxg/first_date_chatting_with_another_date/ | 7 | Hey, just met a girl today. We met on online dating app. we have been texting only two days. She is living little bit outside of the city (15 min away). Last night we were chatting and she said that she would be coming to the city for something and she had time to see me. It sounded like it would be a short time and if... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date - chatting with another date | 7 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18kpbxg/first_date_chatting_with_another_date/ |
puddingsparkles | 2021-04-01 01:18:45 | 1,617,239,925 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mhkfun | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mhkfun/consistent_communication_about_concrete_things/ | 37 | Long time lurker here and finally worked up the nerve to ask you lovely people for some advice because I am stumped. I (38F) have been seeing a lovely man (37M) that I match really well with . It's been about 6 months now. We met on OLD and spent a tone of pandemic time together. We have a lot of weirdly specific thing... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Consistent communication about "concrete things" like moving in together but total absence of relationship stuff like saying "I love you" --so confused | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mhkfun/consistent_communication_about_concrete_things/ |
green_boar | 2023-10-13 01:07:28 | 1,697,159,248 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 176mqhy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/176mqhy/waiting_for_2nd_date/ | 1 | Question: What do you guys make of this situation? Last week I (28f) had a great time with a guy (25m) I met off a dating app. To be honest I wasn't expecting anything meaningful or long term to come out of it but after the long date I realized I'm really infatuated with him which doesn't happen too often for me since ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Waiting for 2nd date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/176mqhy/waiting_for_2nd_date/ |
Experimentalphone | 2022-04-30 12:14:02 | 1,651,320,842 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uf9v6q | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uf9v6q/31m_marriage_window_closing_in_need_to_find/ | 0 | Non-native English speaker here. I live in Bangladesh. I have seen that women here would talk to you over text or audio but would not meet you in real life. They want you to be their time-pass. But they don't say it outright. Also once you meet someone in real life, you find that they are so different then on text or v... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 31M: Marriage window closing in, need to find someone real fast. Most women don't want to meet up and just want to chat to pass the time. After how many days of texting or talking should I ask them out? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uf9v6q/31m_marriage_window_closing_in_need_to_find/ |
yeetusmcnuggethands | 2020-12-31 14:04:24 | 1,609,423,464 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | knqjab | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/knqjab/dating_anxiety_after_a_recent_breakup_any_help/ | 1 | Around 2-3 weeks ago me (23M) and my partner (22F) had a mutual breakup due to different life goals. She wanted to stay friends, I was against this but I'm quite glad that all that really meant was that I didn't delete her on socials and block her number (we never message anyway). I know 2-3 weeks might seem like a sho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating anxiety after a recent breakup, any help? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/knqjab/dating_anxiety_after_a_recent_breakup_any_help/ |
wildgoose3 | 2022-11-14 23:06:25 | 1,668,467,185 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | yvfox4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yvfox4/i_23m_met_a_girl_21f_on_bumble_and_the_first_date/ | 2 | So the other night, I had a first date with this girl on bumble. It went really well, we both had a lot of fun, the conversation never stopped, we stayed out til like 1:30. Next afternoon, I text her that I had a lot of fun last night and I’d like to do it again sometime, she replied back “yes me too” I replied back to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (23m) met a girl (21f) on bumble and the first date went seemingly very well but haven’t really heard from her since | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yvfox4/i_23m_met_a_girl_21f_on_bumble_and_the_first_date/ |
ranoutofideaz | 2023-09-06 14:46:25 | 1,694,011,585 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 16bm6pu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16bm6pu/should_i_give_a_narcissist_and_love_bomber_a/ | 1 | I matched a guy on OLD. A woman who dated him for two years said to run far from him as he's a narcissist and a love bomber. Another woman said he wanted to make out right away and rushes thing. He's also been divorced twice, the second time with a woman from overseas and 20 years younger than him. I guess the only thi... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Should I give a narcissist and love bomber a chance? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16bm6pu/should_i_give_a_narcissist_and_love_bomber_a/ |
Mday2006 | 2018-07-24 17:25:47 | 1,532,453,147 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 91jf8l | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/91jf8l/any_starters_advice_to_online_dating_for_a_17/ | 1 | Pls no "get off the app, too young" comments. Anything else - appreciated :) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any starter's advice to online dating for a 17 year old? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/91jf8l/any_starters_advice_to_online_dating_for_a_17/ |
MoistressPlz | 2023-09-08 17:15:15 | 1,694,193,315 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16dgb22 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16dgb22/falling_for_my_fwb/ | 1 | I (26F) recently started hooking up with a childhood friend(24M), we hadn't talked in years because of life stuff, but earlier this year I came out as trans and he immediately messaged me looking to hook up since he was curious. I denied at first because I thought he was being creepy. 6 months later I reached out and a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Falling for my FWB :( | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dgb22/falling_for_my_fwb/ |
Ayiansh | 2019-03-01 06:13:42 | 1,551,420,822 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | aw1hmp | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aw1hmp/my_roommate_sexually_assaulted_a_girl/ | 19 | Hey guys, so this is a throwaway for obvious reasons, and I just really need some advice/guidance. We're both in college, for some background. A couple months ago, my roommate brought a girl over, and she was really drunk. Like, blackout drunk on the toilet murmuring incoherent words. I brought her water and took care ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My Roommate Sexually Assaulted a Girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/aw1hmp/my_roommate_sexually_assaulted_a_girl/ |
sugar_cube_1 | 2019-07-14 02:35:16 | 1,563,071,716 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ccxvlx | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ccxvlx/first_date_with_his_friends/ | 24 | I'm back on the dating scene 9 months after a breakup. (He and I dated for only 3 months.) Last night, I went on a first date - nearly 6 hours long. This one felt very natural (except for the handshake at the beginning). Three hours of food, drinks, and conversation flew by. He invited me out for dessert in a different... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | First date... with his friends | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ccxvlx/first_date_with_his_friends/ |
PhilharmonicPursuit | 2024-04-22 23:00:13 | 1,713,826,813 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1caow9n | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1caow9n/i_feel_like_a_woman/ | 1 | You often hear that men swipe yes on most profiles because they're desperate or only looking for sex. Well.....I'm sort of an anomaly there. After much rumination, I joined Tinder yesterday, and I have never ever dated before. I feel like a woman. I have scrolled through 50+ profiles now, and I've only liked 3 in total... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like a woman | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1caow9n/i_feel_like_a_woman/ |
imaginaryaardvark_ | 2023-12-16 22:20:49 | 1,702,765,249 | 0 | null | 0 | 18k270d | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18k270d/reaching_out_again/ | 4 | I (28F) was talking to someone on bumble and we had some really great conversation for a few days. I’m talking multi-paragraph engaged back and forth and I allowed myself to feel a slight glimmer of hope. Then of course randomly he stopped responding and has just been sitting in my chats for a week, and I haven’t tried... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Reaching out again | 4 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18k270d/reaching_out_again/ |
Outdoorsy_Cynic | 2024-07-16 02:08:09 | 1,721,095,689 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e4d02f | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e4d02f/dating_apps_are_causing_my_confidence_to_slip/ | 1 | I’m 27 and clueless in case you were wondering..I’d like to meet someone that I click with and want to spend a good amount of my time around. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are causing my confidence to slip. Where do I meet women my age that isn’t a bar or nightclub? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e4d02f/dating_apps_are_causing_my_confidence_to_slip/ |
bm12930 | 2023-12-20 11:26:03 | 1,703,071,563 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18msfm4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18msfm4/should_i_keep_my_options_open_or_fully_focus_on/ | 1 | I recently finished with a relationship where certain things happened that have effected me mentally. I essentially got used for money and cheated on. I'm hoping it won't effect future relationships as I know not all people are the same. To my friends advice, I went on tinder to look for casual relationships while I so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I keep my options open or fully focus on this one girl? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18msfm4/should_i_keep_my_options_open_or_fully_focus_on/ |
Flopcandy | 2023-11-01 15:30:34 | 1,698,852,634 | 0 | null | 0 | 17leq5t | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17leq5t/is_12_days_enough_time_to_officially_become/ | 2 | Went on my first online date Monday night. I got back at 1 AM (so Tuesday morning), messaged her that I got back safely, and she answered back shortly after as like a typical "glad you got back ok & thanks for a fun night" kinda message. Yesterday (Tuesday), I messaged her at like 3 PM & nothing since then. Even before... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is 1-2 days enough time to officially become ghosted? (We are still matched on Bumble) | 2 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17leq5t/is_12_days_enough_time_to_officially_become/ |
Aloo13 | 2023-07-23 23:18:33 | 1,690,154,313 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 157tjvd | false | null | 159 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/157tjvd/im_just_so_frustrated_with_men_and_online_dating/ | 1 | Matched with a guy that seemed reasonable. I was straightforward about needing to take my time and not wanting to get sexual too soon (after he invited me to his house on a third date). I was very very clear that I was not ready for it. He seemed okay with that. Then he goes on to tell me to wear something ‘light’ and ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I’m just so frustrated with men and online dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/157tjvd/im_just_so_frustrated_with_men_and_online_dating/ |
No-Book-9412 | 2023-12-26 16:35:43 | 1,703,608,543 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18rc0cq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 92 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18rc0cq/im_single_no_matter_what_i_do_something_has_to_be/ | 18 | Woman in 20s. I’ve been single for years, everyone around me has gotten in multiple or one relationship in this time. I genuinely would love to know what my problem is but can’t pinpoint it. Men never talk to me so all I have are dating apps. Personality wise I like to think I’m kind and open to all types of guys. Not ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m single no matter what I do, something has to be wrong with me right? | 18 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18rc0cq/im_single_no_matter_what_i_do_something_has_to_be/ |
fineapple__ | 2016-07-03 23:15:13 | 1,467,587,713 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4r4cq5 | null | null | 57 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/4r4cq5/what_do_you_think_about_women_who_live_with_their/ | 10 | Hi! I lived by myself for 3 years after college in a smallish town with a low cost of living. I needed to move to a bigger city though, so I got a new job but the cost of rent here is double what I was paying before. Soooooo I moved in with my parents. I'm in my mid-20s. I joined Tinder and I'm in great physical shape ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you think about women who live with their parents after college? | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4r4cq5/what_do_you_think_about_women_who_live_with_their/ |
WayEducational2241 | 2022-09-15 01:33:39 | 1,663,205,619 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | xejgvo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xejgvo/i_dont_find_girls_attractive_anymore/ | 0 | I moved back to my home country a couple months ago, I work for a big consulting firm and there was an opening in my home country that allowed me to be closer to my parents. While living in the US I had a pretty good dating life, now that I moved back home I don't find anybody attractive, I tried Tinder, Bumble, catchi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't find girls attractive anymore... | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xejgvo/i_dont_find_girls_attractive_anymore/ |
File_to_Circular | 2024-07-23 06:51:53 | 1,721,717,513 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ea16rf | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ea16rf/nsfw_for_language_have_you_noticed/ | 0 | ...that women (as well as MG match group & the like) expect men to pay to further interaction. i've seen it over and over, "message me can't see likes". what the fuck? why am i expected to pay? haven't even entered into a relationship and the coming out of pocket/simp behavior has already been forcibly initiated. so ei... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | (nsfw for language) Have you noticed... | 0 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ea16rf/nsfw_for_language_have_you_noticed/ |
FleetwoodMackin | 2019-09-17 03:27:22 | 1,568,690,842 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | d5bde9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d5bde9/how_do_you_meet_someone_without_going_through_the/ | 1 | Is there a way for me to meet someone without going online to do it? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you meet someone without going through the online dating game? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d5bde9/how_do_you_meet_someone_without_going_through_the/ |
SleepingWillow1 | 2024-09-02 15:16:40 | 1,725,290,200 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f799xv | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f799xv/my_matches_arent_responding_to_me/ | 0 | I'm on bumble, hinge, tinder. Tinder seems to be the only place I get matches but none of them respond. The one that did only sent one message back and then nothing else. I don't know what else to do. I would like to be in a relationship by the end of the year. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My matches aren't responding to me | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f799xv/my_matches_arent_responding_to_me/ |
AphasicRhetoric | 2015-09-13 17:19:19 | 1,442,164,759 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3ksxx4 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3ksxx4/first_date_pda_and_embarrassment/ | 0 | I went on a Tinder date with a guy last night. We were bar hopping in my new neighbourhood and getting increasingly buzzed. We seemed to be getting along well and there was considerable PDA, first starting small and getting hotter and heavier. We were still in the midst of bar hopping, and eventually returned the place... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | First date, PDA and embarrassment | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3ksxx4/first_date_pda_and_embarrassment/ |
minoclaster5 | 2024-04-14 09:40:43 | 1,713,087,643 | 0 | ['swiping'] | 0 | 1c3prcj | true | Question ❓ | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c3prcj/toughest_deal_breaker_for_swiping_right/ | 1 | Here's all the worst of the worst possible examples I could think of. No teeth Down syndrome No legs or arms albino skin Missing a eye Face burn victim Best friends with their mom and looking for someone to match her love said on a profile. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Toughest deal breaker for swiping right? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c3prcj/toughest_deal_breaker_for_swiping_right/ |
metulhedcentral | 2024-04-14 00:28:41 | 1,713,054,521 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c3gm3n | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c3gm3n/kinda_just_need_to_rant_date_went_south/ | 1 | I met a girl a few nights ago in a record store who was perfect for me. We had everything in common and we talked for like 2-3 hours. I realized we had seen each other on Tinder before and we both laughed about it and I asked if she was free tomorrow. She said yes and from the way she was talking about it she seemed re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Kinda just need to rant (date went south) | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3gm3n/kinda_just_need_to_rant_date_went_south/ |
InaNutshell210 | 2017-06-30 23:44:11 | 1,498,866,251 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 6kjpyl | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6kjpyl/what_is_your_favorite_dating_siteapp/ | 9 | What dating site has been the most successful for you? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is your favorite dating site/app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6kjpyl/what_is_your_favorite_dating_siteapp/ |
019775 | 2017-06-13 22:27:40 | 1,497,392,860 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6h3dk1 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6h3dk1/i_20m_have_a_date_with_someone_19f_but_we_both/ | 1 | Hello everyone, I [20M] have been using tinder for a little while and had marginal success (a couple of dates but nothing much beyond that) but matched with a girl [19F] about a week ago now. We've exchanged a lot of messages and have been having regular conversations every couple of days, wished each other look with e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [20M] have a date with someone [19F] but we both are going away for a few months immediately afterwards, what would you advise? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6h3dk1/i_20m_have_a_date_with_someone_19f_but_we_both/ |
throwaway23dating | 2023-12-10 19:18:16 | 1,702,235,896 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18fayrb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18fayrb/im_24_how_can_i_find_3550_women_to_date/ | 1 | I feel like I would miss out from dating apps because they would set it above 24. I would like to date a woman who is around 15 years older than me if possible but I’m not a model who can go around getting everyone’s attention and it’s hard to meet people who aren’t your age. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m 24. How can I find 35-50 women to date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18fayrb/im_24_how_can_i_find_3550_women_to_date/ |
Nurselackluster | 2020-02-17 17:03:24 | 1,581,959,004 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | f5brp2 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f5brp2/ruining_a_good_thing_need_perspective/ | 2 | 35f, divorced for over two years been doing the OLD thing on and off for the last year. I’ve had a bad habit of going after emotionally unavailable guys that don’t push me out of my emotional comfort zone but always turn to dust and leave me questioning my entire life. Anyway I am trying to break away from the hot flak... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Ruining a good thing? Need perspective. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f5brp2/ruining_a_good_thing_need_perspective/ |
hi_there_goodbye | 2023-02-04 10:09:55 | 1,675,505,395 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10tcrbj | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10tcrbj/no_matter_how_much_love_i_put_out_to_the_world_it/ | 94 | This post is more like a rant I guess. I believe I'm at the peak of my fatigue when it comes to relationships (familial, platonic and romantic). This rant was triggered by some new friends/dating app matches ghosting me. When I don't reach out and initiate, I have zero connections. When I do initiate, however, the conn... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | No matter how much love I put out to the world, it doesn't come back. | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/10tcrbj/no_matter_how_much_love_i_put_out_to_the_world_it/ |
dna1025 | 2019-06-09 17:13:58 | 1,560,100,438 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | bymhx8 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bymhx8/the_talk/ | 3 | In your experience (s), when is it best to have the relationship talk? Been seeing a man for about a month. Probably 7 dates in that time. He deleted his online dating profile. We've established we are not seeing anyone else, and don't want to. He canceled plans with a friend last night because I asked if he wanted to ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | The "talk" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bymhx8/the_talk/ |
Omahogs24 | 2024-07-23 14:31:33 | 1,721,745,093 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ea9ayy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ea9ayy/girl_ive_been_talking_to_for_6_weeks_adds_bumble/ | 3 | So this isn't a long story but just trying to gather some thoughts. Girl (29) and I (35) met on Hinge 6 weeks ago. We've spent at least 3-4 nights a week together for all of these 6 weeks. Each time being for several hours. She spent the fourth of July at my sisters with all our family and friends. We just got back fro... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I've been talking to for 6 weeks adds Bumble | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ea9ayy/girl_ive_been_talking_to_for_6_weeks_adds_bumble/ |
Veeelicious | 2022-06-22 18:37:33 | 1,655,923,053 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | vic40s | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vic40s/posting_for_the_first_time_i_need_advice/ | 1 | Okay so I met this guy on bumble, we had a great conversation and he soon became insistent on meeting me. I am usually a very shy person and I avoid meeting guys I meet online but since he was insisting, I agreed. We met the first day and it went fantastic, he was super talkative and kept calling me cute and all, when ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Posting for the first time I need advice! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vic40s/posting_for_the_first_time_i_need_advice/ |
Amazing_Pattern_ | 2023-03-31 16:45:47 | 1,680,281,147 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 127rdev | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/127rdev/started_everything_good_suddenly_it_changed/ | 0 | So, I met girl on bumble, like everything was clicking perfectly we had fun talking like 3-4 nights, suddenly I felt like I was always starting convos and stopped texting her for 2 weeks, she also. After I replied her story, she got back, felt like starting times, I also want, but like can't start convo after dry spell... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Started everything good suddenly it changed | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/127rdev/started_everything_good_suddenly_it_changed/ |
IGNSolar7 | 2022-06-30 21:49:36 | 1,656,625,776 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | vojw5z | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/vojw5z/former_dates_roommate_liked_me_on_hinge_what/ | 0 | So, this is a continuation of sorts of the story with the woman I was seeing that was getting a divorce. We remained "friends" and still text or share Instagram memes, and I went over to her house a few weeks ago where I didn't make a move, but met her roommate and another guy she seemed to be kinda dating. I still enj... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Former date's roommate liked me on Hinge - what should I read into this? | null | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/vojw5z/former_dates_roommate_liked_me_on_hinge_what/ |
zxreu | 2024-09-07 00:36:14 | 1,725,669,374 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1fauk2b | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fauk2b/how_do_you_reconnect_with_someone_you_matched/ | 0 | Hello! So I matched on a dating app with someone two years ago. We texted for a few weeks but then it was the holidays and we didn’t get a chance to meet up, then it just fizzled out and then I met someone else. Fast forward, I saw him last night at a concert but don’t think he saw me and I couldn’t approach him becaus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you reconnect with someone you matched with before? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fauk2b/how_do_you_reconnect_with_someone_you_matched/ |
NZwineandbeer | 2018-11-19 10:04:49 | 1,542,621,889 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9yfh3z | true | Frequently Asked | 69 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/9yfh3z/im_single_for_the_first_time_ever_at_26_what_the/ | 96 | Hi, So I've been in a relationship with the same girl since i was 15. Crazy I know. Long story. We broke up about 6 weeks ago now and im just about ready to try hook up with someone but hella not ready for a relationship. The question is. Ive never been through any of this. Not even in high school cause i was seeing so... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | I'm single for the first time ever at 26. What the fuck do i do now? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/9yfh3z/im_single_for_the_first_time_ever_at_26_what_the/ |
pinkbluepurple1 | 2024-04-07 15:44:25 | 1,712,504,665 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1by7j59 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1by7j59/a_guy_im_talking_to_keeps_pushing_for_a_roadtrip/ | 1 | Ok so about 2 months ago. I met a guy off a dating app. He lives 2 hours away so he drove down to my city to come and meet me. It was actually a really good date. He was so sweet. He had a beautiful energy about him and I really liked him. I felt super safe with him. I left feeling great. But after that date everything... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy I’m talking to keeps pushing for a road-trip | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1by7j59/a_guy_im_talking_to_keeps_pushing_for_a_roadtrip/ |
deviantkink | 2019-08-04 15:37:20 | 1,564,933,040 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | clxnbm | true | null | 178 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/clxnbm/what_are_some_things_i_can_do_at_bars_and_social/ | 76 | I'm not a model by any means, but I'm a reasonably attractive woman who can turns heads when I put some effort into it. I've never had trouble getting matches on dating apps, but I've never had much luck with them either. I'm much more about feeling someone's in-person vibe - their demeanor, confidence, approach, our b... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What are some things I can do at bars and social events as a single woman to signal to men that I WANT to be approached? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/clxnbm/what_are_some_things_i_can_do_at_bars_and_social/ |
D1390_DIEgO | 2023-10-24 14:46:39 | 1,698,158,799 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17fej8r | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17fej8r/23m_never_had_a_girlfriend_despite_many_efforts/ | 1 | I feel at a loss. Ever since I was 12 I've been wanting a relationship, but today I still can't find someone. It wasn't until college I started asking out girls because I never knew how too do it in high school. I've met and asked out many girls after getting to know them, but they're either taken or not interested. It... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 23M never had a girlfriend despite many efforts | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17fej8r/23m_never_had_a_girlfriend_despite_many_efforts/ |
semmel1 | 2021-07-02 15:12:39 | 1,625,238,759 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | occ4nv | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/occ4nv/should_i_text_my_tinder_date_that_i_dont_want_to/ | 3 | So I had a second date with someone from Tinder and yeah she was nice but I didn't saw any chemistry between us, so I do not want to meet her again. After the date we hugged and said goodbye to each other but we did not talk about the possibility of a third date. And I am not so sure if she thinks that I will text her ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text my Tinder Date that I don't want to meet her for a third date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/occ4nv/should_i_text_my_tinder_date_that_i_dont_want_to/ |
Kindredspirit13 | 2020-09-05 12:11:27 | 1,599,307,887 | null | null | 0 | in02ry | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/in02ry/guy_wants_to_bring_his_dog_on_our_first_date/ | 49 | I'd love to meet his dog eventually but the first few dates I feel like should be just the 2 of us, so we can get to know each other without running into the possibility of the conversation just being about the cuteness of the dog all the time. Like babies, that is what tends to happen. Does that make sense to anyone? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy wants to bring his dog on our first date | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/in02ry/guy_wants_to_bring_his_dog_on_our_first_date/ |
Appropriate_Ad_5713 | 2023-11-18 02:59:13 | 1,700,276,353 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17xwrqf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17xwrqf/role_reversal_relationship/ | 1 | Ive always been heavily into role reversal manga/comics and feel thats what works for me, How would I approach the dating scene as someone who doesn’t seek the traditional roles of what a man does in the relationship dating scene? Are dating apps worth trying ive heard many horrible stories 🐱 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Role reversal relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17xwrqf/role_reversal_relationship/ |
cincinattimynigga | 2018-01-31 06:55:52 | 1,517,381,752 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7u83nb | false | null | 41 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/7u83nb/what_do_you_guys_think_about_the_bro_code/ | 2 | My big bro dated this girl for a few years before they broke up and i matched with her on tinder a few days ago. Now we talking and all but i dunno. She wants to fuck. Is it a pity fuck cause she dated my bro, who knows? Should i just ask my bro about her? Theres no blood in my brain anymore its all in my dick. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you guys think about the bro code? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7u83nb/what_do_you_guys_think_about_the_bro_code/ |
cryptank | 2019-05-02 05:32:57 | 1,556,775,177 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | bjrbyv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bjrbyv/tinder_match_texts_me_all_day_everyday_for_a/ | 2 | I (34M) installed Tinder a month ago again... have to say I always end up deleting the app because I get bored of texting with low quality girls (sugar daddy huntress and desperate for attention/followers babes or super hot scorts) and the really interesting ones, are taken really fast. Like the next day or 10min after... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder match texts me all day everyday for a month... but wont date. HALP! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bjrbyv/tinder_match_texts_me_all_day_everyday_for_a/ |
PersonUsingRedditt | 2022-05-20 17:26:47 | 1,653,067,607 | null | null | 0 | uu2zc5 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uu2zc5/talking_about_past_dates/ | 15 | Is it normal for a girl to be talking about past dates? For the first couple of dates? It doesn't make me feel jealous or anything it's just hard to make a conversation out of it. It usually leads to weird instances or recanting and I can't help but wonder "is she attracted to this? She seems to be drawn to guys that j... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Talking About Past Dates | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uu2zc5/talking_about_past_dates/ |
SirCookieMonsterXV | 2019-09-22 21:18:46 | 1,569,187,126 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | d7wpdh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d7wpdh/i_22m_feel_like_im_undateable/ | 5 | I don't know why exactly but I feel like I'm undateable. A little bit about me, I'm an introvert. My hobbies are much more introverted hobbies. Reading, watching movies, video games, working out. I do like going out to hikes, arcades, bowling alleys, and other places but I don't like doing those things alone. I've neve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22M) feel like I’m undateable | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d7wpdh/i_22m_feel_like_im_undateable/ |
MrFlyingKitty | 2018-04-21 14:44:27 | 1,524,321,867 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8dw5r1 | false | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8dw5r1/cant_suppress_my_needs_anymore_need_help/ | 3 | Hello guys hope you're having a good weekend so far. I need advice on how to find some girls that are down to have some good fun sex or potentially casual dating. Here's my story: I'm 21, live at home, in college, height is 6'3", decent looking. I would rate myself a 6.5 and a 7 on a good day. I've been single for 6 mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't suppress my needs anymore. Need help portraying my intentions. | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8dw5r1/cant_suppress_my_needs_anymore_need_help/ |
wenevergetfar | 2023-11-27 13:19:42 | 1,701,091,182 | 0 | null | 0 | 1852sdd | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1852sdd/waste_of_time/ | 3 | Im really sick of being not responded to or flaked on literally all the time. Its making me jaded towards literally everyone, nobody is giving me the time of day. Been online dating on and off for like 6 years and absolutely nothing has come out of it once other than making 1 friend. Pretty sure im just undatable or so... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Waste of time | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1852sdd/waste_of_time/ |
[deleted] | 2011-12-04 22:56:32 | 1,323,039,392 | 1 | ['dating site'] | null | n0928 | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/n0928/theres_a_girl_i_like_on_a_dating_site_whats_the/ | 4 | I'm a guy who came across this really cute girl on a dating site who is only a year older than me (I am currently 19, she's 20). She is listed in the same town as me too, so meeting her in person should not be an issue (hopefully if it comes to that). However, I am currently racking my mind over what sort of message I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | There's a girl I like on a dating site, what's the best thing for me to say to get a conversation started? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n0928/theres_a_girl_i_like_on_a_dating_site_whats_the/ |
Apprehensive_Meet_51 | 2024-01-02 03:09:43 | 1,704,164,983 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18wey9y | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18wey9y/guy_im_talking_to_changed_his_dating_goals_on/ | 1 | Ive been talking to this guy from Hinge for 2 months now and ive noticed theres been a lack in communication. One day i saw that he was VERY active on insta but still chose to not respond for the whole day. Now thats one of many concerns. The main concern is i went back on his hinge profile and he changed his dating go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy im talking to changed his dating goals on Hinge | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18wey9y/guy_im_talking_to_changed_his_dating_goals_on/ |
Few_Neighborhood7984 | 2024-08-31 00:31:50 | 1,725,064,310 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f5ao73 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5ao73/nervous_for_a_first_date/ | 1 | I’ve been dating very casually and not taking it too seriously but I got asked out by a guy I actually really want to click with… I’m kind of surprised by myself tbh. We matched on hinge and he’s SO cute and successful. Our views heavily align with each other. He wants to take me shooting and then to dinner afterwards ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Nervous for a first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5ao73/nervous_for_a_first_date/ |
DesperateToNotDream | 2023-12-06 03:19:30 | 1,701,832,770 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18buixd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18buixd/why_does_he_only_text_at_night/ | 1 | I’m somewhat new back into dating and I hate the aps but it is what it is. I’m in my 30s and absolutely hate when a guy gets too sexual too quick- asking for pics, trying to get dirty in convos, asking me to come over versus going on a date etc. I matched with a guy a few days ago. We’ve been having decent conversation... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does he only text at night? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18buixd/why_does_he_only_text_at_night/ |
DaGoatBoi-2510 | 2022-07-23 00:57:55 | 1,658,537,875 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | w5ql69 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w5ql69/online_dating_advice/ | 1 | (18m) I'm new to the whole dating thing as a whole and wanting to try my luck online. Any good apps/sites or advice to get started would be appreciated. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating advice? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w5ql69/online_dating_advice/ |
Pacman0928 | 2020-02-27 17:07:33 | 1,582,823,253 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | faf7o2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/faf7o2/she_had_her_sister_tail_us_on_our_first_date/ | 1 | So I met this girl on a dating app. We hit it off and decided to meet up. On the date, we went to a mini golf place. She showed up, we had a good time, and got dinner after. She gave me her number afterwards (because she was skeptical of giving it out to strangers). We've been on dates since and things are going well. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She had her sister tail us on our first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/faf7o2/she_had_her_sister_tail_us_on_our_first_date/ |
FrothySolutions | 2019-06-16 02:38:02 | 1,560,652,682 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c158p2 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c158p2/what_do_i_do_if_i_46m_am_making_lots_of_friends/ | 1 | People are wont to throw around the advice that you shouldn't go to bars or Tinder or whatever trying to coast on your looks if you're not very attractive. And I'm not very attractive. They say to hook up with people based on your interests. Crazy, but it just might work. But, see, I've pursued interests before. Back w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do if I (46M) am making lots of friends, but not having any sex? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c158p2/what_do_i_do_if_i_46m_am_making_lots_of_friends/ |
rmmariee | 2019-06-09 14:11:24 | 1,560,089,484 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bykl14 | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bykl14/does_he_just_want_sex/ | 3 | So I started talking to a guy about 3 weeks ago. We talked for 2 weeks before we went on our first date which went exceptionally well. Since then we have hung out about 4-5 times. I say hangout because some of these were supposed to be dates, but just ended up being sleepovers due to it being late in the evening (after... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does he just want sex? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bykl14/does_he_just_want_sex/ |
RaisingDrama | 2021-11-17 20:17:55 | 1,637,180,275 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qw7z34 | true | null | 144 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/qw7z34/damn_this_is_hard/ | 89 | I haven’t dated in forever and I have been on dating apps for years. Been approached countless times, interacted with some men but quickly lost interest cause we just couldn’t hold a conversation or they went straight to sex. Finally, finally found a man that I absolutely vibed with. I loved his texts and our banter….n... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Damn this is hard. | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/qw7z34/damn_this_is_hard/ |
aznroylty986 | 2023-04-23 01:29:46 | 1,682,213,386 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 12vqrxf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12vqrxf/any_advice_for_dating_after_college/ | 1 | Hi, about to graduate college soon and I realized that my chances of meeting women dip unless I find another job right after. I prefer meeting women in person as I can have a more organic interaction and see your personality irl. Never done online dating before, and honestly it’s something I’m gonna consider. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any advice for dating after college? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12vqrxf/any_advice_for_dating_after_college/ |
starrydusk290 | 2022-08-27 15:47:30 | 1,661,615,250 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | wz62of | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wz62of/dating_advice_for_an_inexperienced_21f/ | 0 | i recently got used for sex by this guy (it was my first time too) and now i have severe trust issues bc idk how to filter out good ones from the bad. I also have legit no experience with dating aside from that terrible experience. Is my only hope through dating apps? i heard tinder sucks. For what it's worth, i've bee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dating advice for an inexperienced 21F? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wz62of/dating_advice_for_an_inexperienced_21f/ |
Egregon | 2022-05-19 10:36:49 | 1,652,956,609 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ut0hp1 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ut0hp1/how_do_i_25m_start_finding_a_romantic/ | 2 | I’m very anxious when it comes to close relationships. I guess I tend to avoid them and I direct my desires toward emotionally unavailable people. most of the guys I would get into a more intimate relationship with nowadays (also when I was a teenager) were married, dating, or straight. If they were into me I’d ignore ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I (25M) start finding a romantic relationship? I feel like I have taboo regarding those dating apps, but I really wanna get into a relationship since I’ve never beencin one. How do I even do that? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ut0hp1/how_do_i_25m_start_finding_a_romantic/ |
BooopityBooop | 2020-07-26 20:50:50 | 1,595,796,650 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hyej9z | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hyej9z/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_ive_developed_some/ | 1 | Over the past 5 years I've steadily gained more weight, going from a size 4 to a size 8 two years ago, and over the past year and especially during the lockdown I've gained more weight and now I'm a size 10. I've been trying to lose it by getting more active despite having little time or energy with work and depression... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For the first time in my life I've developed some major body image issues and insecurity about my weight gain, and it's interfering with my ability to date. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hyej9z/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_ive_developed_some/ |
Playful_Way1815 | 2024-09-27 19:03:08 | 1,727,463,788 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fqvdi8 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fqvdi8/on_upward_ive_matched_with_the_same_girl_three/ | 9 | It makes me curious why someone would match multiple times. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | On Upward I’ve matched with the same girl three times. Have you experienced this on other apps? | 9 | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fqvdi8/on_upward_ive_matched_with_the_same_girl_three/ |
1m3vil4a | 2019-05-21 21:26:27 | 1,558,473,987 | null | ['dating app', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | brg5ea | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/brg5ea/is_this_relationship_worth_pursuing/ | 1 | In September of last year, I started dating this guy I met on a dating app. We clicked automatically. Dating was smooth and comfortable. After two months of dating, he told me that he did not renew his lease and will be moving out of the state in December for career/professional reasons. He had a job offer ready lined ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this Relationship worth pursuing? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/brg5ea/is_this_relationship_worth_pursuing/ |
JjDonating | 2020-07-28 00:54:09 | 1,595,897,649 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hz4u7u | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hz4u7u/would_you_use_a_dating_app_that_randomly_match/ | 0 | You wont know the person, until after the limit. Then you can choose to date or pass. Kinda like the dating episode on black mirror. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you use a dating app that randomly match you with someone for 1 day? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hz4u7u/would_you_use_a_dating_app_that_randomly_match/ |
VivaLaBella | 2020-05-12 10:26:48 | 1,589,279,208 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | gi8n1b | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gi8n1b/am_i_cursed_to_being_single_for_the_rest_of_my/ | 1 | I’m a 30 year old female. I am solidified with knowing myself, having my career, and having hobbies I love. I’ve only had one boyfriend, and it wasn’t until I moved to a new city post grad school. I was 26 when we met and we were together for a year and a half. I broke up with him three times before I finally broke it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I cursed to being single for the rest of my life? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gi8n1b/am_i_cursed_to_being_single_for_the_rest_of_my/ |
Tattedqueen94 | 2022-02-17 16:13:36 | 1,645,114,416 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | sushis | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sushis/how_do_people_date_nowadays/ | 5 | I’ve been single for 2 years and feel like I’m ready to date but I don’t want to just hook up or even start with that. I want to start out as friends first and see where it goes. I’m 27 and live somewhere where it’s cold, leaving not many places to go out to meet people. I’ve tried tinder it sucks, I’ve tried other dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do people date nowadays ?? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sushis/how_do_people_date_nowadays/ |
AcceptableRemove2158 | 2024-09-07 23:13:14 | 1,725,750,794 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fbjvzb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fbjvzb/am_i_overthinking_it/ | 1 | Long story short I met a girl (foreign student) on a dating app and she asked to hookup while me filming her getting it from me. It was weird but I accepted anyway. So I pull up to her place, and we do it. She was quite shy and seemed very innocent that’s why I accepted I did have protection on but remember at some poi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I overthinking it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fbjvzb/am_i_overthinking_it/ |
bob65368 | 2020-04-09 01:48:46 | 1,586,396,926 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | fxjjcf | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fxjjcf/why_would_i_choose_one_of_these_girls_showing_up/ | 5 | The whole thing is so one-sided and it’s not even trying to pretend it’s not. Guys are expected to be DOing things, to talk about what they DO. And it just so happens I do things, so that’s no problem. 95% of the girls on OLD don’t seem to DO anything. They’re just along for the ride. Well, sorry, but I’m not gonna be ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why would I choose one of these girls showing up for me on OLD as a girlfriend exactly? I think I’m good. Ffs | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fxjjcf/why_would_i_choose_one_of_these_girls_showing_up/ |
Affectionate-Sweet-4 | 2020-09-06 14:37:10 | 1,599,403,030 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | inn20c | true | null | 72 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/inn20c/interesting_exchange/ | 58 | Long term lurker and member of this community. I just created this account to post. I (29F) went out on a coffee date with a guy (38M) I had been texting and spoke to on the phone. We seemed to have a lot in common. One of my hobbies is doing bikini comps. I am in good shape, and I had prefaced this to him, and he’s se... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Interesting exchange | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/inn20c/interesting_exchange/ |
ask_women_throwaway_ | 2017-08-17 21:27:36 | 1,503,005,256 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 6ud6m9 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6ud6m9/how_to_discuss_meeting_for_the_first_time_in_a_ldr/ | 3 | So, I (guy) met a girl via online dating app. We live across the country from each other and thus we've never met in person. Still, we've been chatting for a couple months now, texting, had skype dates, yada yada. She seems cool, I like her. But, y'know, it's hard to tell having literally never met her. I'd like to bro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to discuss meeting for the first time in a LDR | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6ud6m9/how_to_discuss_meeting_for_the_first_time_in_a_ldr/ |
david2descent | 2020-09-14 18:26:07 | 1,600,107,967 | null | null | 0 | isqrks | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/isqrks/advice_on_girl_who_got_a_arrest_charge/ | 2 | So I need advice. I like this girl, she is a single parent. I am planning on going out with her. She just told me about a charge for 2nd degree child abuse she just got a couple months ago. she is really upset about it. She was drinking. She got mad at her kid because he wasn’t listening. Her kid told her mom and her m... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Advice on girl who got a arrest charge | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/isqrks/advice_on_girl_who_got_a_arrest_charge/ |
Underpaidartist | 2019-01-31 16:41:20 | 1,548,952,880 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | alrc9u | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/alrc9u/i_feel_like_i_might_be_doing_it_wrong_or_dude_is/ | 2 | So, some back story. 35. female. hetero. I've been off the dating scene for a minute. This is my first foray into its depths as a mother... so there's more at stake and I'm still trying to navigate the boundaries of potential SO and child. Scenario: I went on a second date with a lovely fellow whom I met off tinder. We... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like I might be doing it wrong or dude is just lame? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/alrc9u/i_feel_like_i_might_be_doing_it_wrong_or_dude_is/ |
Alt_SWR | 2023-11-22 19:13:09 | 1,700,680,389 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 181h3t2 | true | Question ❓ | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/181h3t2/how_do_i_23m_actually_meet_people_when_most_of_my/ | 5 | Honestly don't really wanna try dating apps but probably gonna cause, how do you meet people when your hobbies consist of videogames, anime, music, movies, reading, cooking, etc, etc? Basically all solo activities unless you know someone into it already. Like, I've met a few people in my college classes but, eh, they w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I (23M) actually meet people when most of my hobbies are very introverted? | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/181h3t2/how_do_i_23m_actually_meet_people_when_most_of_my/ |
Dangerous_Island_310 | 2023-09-20 18:17:25 | 1,695,233,845 | 0 | null | 0 | 16nsd3r | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16nsd3r/weird_guys/ | 1 | TW: BAD GRAMMAR Ok so I'm texting 2 guys rn (nothing very flirty just trying to get to get to know them) and out of all the guys that I'm trynna make a connection with they're the weirdest. Guy 1 just answers with like max 3 word sentences idk how that's possible tbh and he's a bit dry. He's in the military but ok what... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Weird guys | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16nsd3r/weird_guys/ |
lynn99fd | 2016-10-15 23:16:39 | 1,476,573,399 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 57op6s | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/57op6s/should_i_end_things/ | 1 | 24F/28M I met a guy on Okcupid a month ago, since then we met twice a week. Every meeting we talked a lot and had fun. And we only kissed. He is gentleman and always pays, remember what i said and what I like. But there are red flags: When i ask is he looking for long-term or other relationships he said “I am open to a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | should I end things? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/57op6s/should_i_end_things/ |
Lalaland_92 | 2023-07-25 21:16:40 | 1,690,319,800 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 159lbzk | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/159lbzk/met_his_family_after_four_months_but_he_doesnt/ | 1 | I (30f) have been seeing a 34(m) for the past four months but we live in different cities about three hours drive apart (or quick flight/train). We've talked every day and he's brought me on a trip with his family for a few days and to his family's house - i've essentially met everyone. So when I asked if he saw us bec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met his family after four months but he doesnt know what he wants? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/159lbzk/met_his_family_after_four_months_but_he_doesnt/ |
SupperSecreteaccount | 2018-11-10 17:20:30 | 1,541,870,430 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 9vw17e | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9vw17e/socialprofessional_rating_doesnt_match_with_looks/ | 3 | Just curious to see if anyone else has anyone experienced this? I want to start by acknowledging that online dating is a bit unnatural in that you often filter potential partners before actually getting to know them. I also believe that "leagues" and "dating up/down" are a little ridiculous, but I think we can all agre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Social/professional "rating" doesn't match with looks "rating" (24f) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9vw17e/socialprofessional_rating_doesnt_match_with_looks/ |
meldavis99 | 2022-02-07 15:01:02 | 1,644,246,062 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | sms8mf | true | Seeking Advice | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/sms8mf/how_soon_is_too_soon_for_a_weekend_trip/ | 13 | Met late last year through OLD...actual dating for about a month and a half, although there've only been 4 dates. Unusually inclement weather and a bout of covid happened. Established exclusivity, literally yesterday evening. And sidebar: it was one of the easier conversations I've had about that. Basically - are you s... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How soon is too soon for a weekend trip | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sms8mf/how_soon_is_too_soon_for_a_weekend_trip/ |
Prestigious_Tip397 | 2024-02-19 19:58:13 | 1,708,372,693 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1auww1t | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1auww1t/have_i_been_ghosted/ | 1 | I (25F) started talking to a guy (30M) a week ago. We matched on Bumble and hit it off, started texting and then talking on the phone. Our first phone call was 5 hours and we fell asleep on the phone together, which he'd told me the next day that he hadn't done that since high school, if ever. We made plans over the ph... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have I been ghosted? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1auww1t/have_i_been_ghosted/ |
raaayxox | 2019-11-13 14:30:25 | 1,573,655,425 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dvsjj7 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dvsjj7/traumatising_tinder_date/ | 1 | I [22F] started speaking to a guy on tinder [21M] two years back, wasn't that attracted to him but he was funny so continued to talk. Decided to just talk to him as a friend but dated other guys during this period, he would ask me several times to meet up and I would give excuses because I didn't know how to say I wasn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Traumatising Tinder date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dvsjj7/traumatising_tinder_date/ |
67678912 | 2018-09-03 18:12:43 | 1,535,998,363 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9cnrp3 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9cnrp3/night_of_misunderstandings_help/ | 4 | Hi, A little background here. I (20F) met a guy (20) on Tinder last week. Ever since we started talking, we got along right away. We talked pretty much every single day all day on Snapchat with him always initiating the conversation. Very early on, we both agreed that neither of us wanted anything serious both for our ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Night of misunderstandings. Help. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9cnrp3/night_of_misunderstandings_help/ |
Cursed_Creative | 2024-01-15 16:45:34 | 1,705,337,134 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 197d9gj | true | Seeking Advice | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/197d9gj/seeking_tips_for_avoiding_being_used_friend_zone/ | 1 | I've had a series of women who are either 1) not ready to date at all or 2) forever "need to get to know me better". I think I know how to handle number one, which is basically end it immediately at any sign or indication of it at all. Easier said then done but I just need to keep my antennae up for this and also quiz ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Seeking tips for avoiding being used / Friend zone epidemic? | 1 | 0.37 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/197d9gj/seeking_tips_for_avoiding_being_used_friend_zone/ |
idclmao | 2020-07-06 21:55:09 | 1,594,072,509 | null | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | hmhfjn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hmhfjn/ive_19f_never_initiated_much_especially/ | 1 | I just got the app today, I'm honestly very sick of talking phases that go nowhere so I don't wanna mess this up! Some of the matches actually look pretty promising I just have no clue what to say, I'm a relationship person not a casual/hook up person if it helps | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've (19F) never initiated much, especially romantically. What do I msg a Bumble match? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hmhfjn/ive_19f_never_initiated_much_especially/ |
PM_UR_ANOREXIC_BELLY | 2024-03-14 00:09:09 | 1,710,374,949 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1be7bnr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1be7bnr/is_there_any_dating_app_on_which_a_man_who_isnt/ | 1 | I'm a well above average looking dude, but not sufficiently above average to attract interest on dating apps. We all know the 80/20 rule. I've meticulously maxed out my dating profile and pictures but remain at the bottom of the algorithm everywhere, with zero likes for weeks, much less matches. Has anyone in this boat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there any dating app on which a man who isn't garnering any interest can pay his way to success? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1be7bnr/is_there_any_dating_app_on_which_a_man_who_isnt/ |
Pendragon83 | 2018-09-27 05:39:08 | 1,538,026,748 | null | null | 0 | 9ja6z5 | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9ja6z5/just_got_blown_off_and_not_sure_why/ | 7 | In my most recent attempt at online dating, I went out on two dates with a girl that seemed pretty cool and she seemed to enjoy her time with me. On a Friday night we were texting and she asked if I had plans this weekend. I said I’m free Saturday night. She said she should be free Saturday night too. So I asked if she... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just got blown off and not sure why | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9ja6z5/just_got_blown_off_and_not_sure_why/ |
Prog_Metal_Nerd | 2017-05-22 15:18:28 | 1,495,466,308 | null | ['matches', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 6cnv7d | null | null | 18 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6cnv7d/whats_the_best_dating_site_these_days_for_my_demo/ | 1 | Male, 40, no kids, college-educated, creative professional, more of a hip/urban/alternative style, reasonably fit (not gym rat jacked), secular, politically on the liberal side of the spectrum, looking for long term. Ok Cupid seems to be the go-to advice, and the demographic seems right there, but I only get interest f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What's the best dating site these days for my demo? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6cnv7d/whats_the_best_dating_site_these_days_for_my_demo/ |
Beneficial-Claim8036 | 2023-06-29 07:19:15 | 1,688,023,155 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14ly648 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14ly648/dating_advice/ | 1 | Hi everyone I’m 25 years old and I met this 31 years old guy on hinge. He texted me first and we got along really well so he asked me out after 3/4 days of texting and knowing each other more. I let him choose the location of our first date and he chose a lovely French cafe with a view and everything was so lovely He’s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14ly648/dating_advice/ |
92Hajo92 | 2021-04-07 19:42:20 | 1,617,824,540 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mma6k7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mma6k7/should_i_talk_to_other_ladies_at_this_stage/ | 2 | Hey guys, I posted a while ago, I will link the thread at the bottom, about having a chat with a girl I met on Tinder. This conversation has been going on for about 5-6 months now. Although I asked her out for a walk numerous times (everything is closed here due to COVID), something always came up and we never got arou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I talk to other ladies at this stage? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mma6k7/should_i_talk_to_other_ladies_at_this_stage/ |
theattackofzach | 2016-04-11 23:16:43 | 1,460,416,603 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4edcxq | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4edcxq/matched_on_tinder_with_a_girl_in_my_class/ | 15 | I (20m) matched with a girl(19m) on tinder who happens to be in one of my classes. I didn't recognize her at first but neither did she. We've exchanged 2 messages I think. How should I approach her in person and avoid any awkwardness? I've never talked to her in person but she seems pretty cool. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched on tinder with a girl in my class | 15 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4edcxq/matched_on_tinder_with_a_girl_in_my_class/ |
Throwingawayagain91 | 2024-06-20 00:58:56 | 1,718,845,136 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1djz5hr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1djz5hr/should_i_pull_back/ | 1 | I have (25F) been seeing this guy I met on hinge (25M) for about two months now and I really like him. We have good dates and communicate through text throughout the day. I am totally attached, and a lovergirl at heart and I think it is coming across to him. He is an avoidant attached person, and I really don’t want to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I pull back? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1djz5hr/should_i_pull_back/ |
HeinrichderGeile | 2022-04-04 14:41:19 | 1,649,083,279 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | tw3omz | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tw3omz/what_are_your_experiences_with_dating_coaches/ | 1 | So I (m, 24) am not having that much success with online dating, which is why I stumbed upon a dating coach online who offers a video course which he guarantees will help anyone get more successful with matching, women writing back and dating irl, no matter what body type you are or how big your wallet is. The course i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are your experiences with dating coaches? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tw3omz/what_are_your_experiences_with_dating_coaches/ |
Omario169 | 2019-03-11 12:48:52 | 1,552,308,532 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | azt2l7 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 62 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/azt2l7/hate_investing_time_on_dating_apps/ | 90 | I met this really cool girl on Bumble a few weeks ago. We talked constantly when we first matched and I just asked for a date. She said yes, but she was going to uni so asked to meet at the end of the month when she was back. Obviously, we tried to keep the conversation going. I still enjoyed it, it was clear we were b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hate investing time on dating apps. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/azt2l7/hate_investing_time_on_dating_apps/ |
7_City_Thrifter | 2021-11-17 14:08:25 | 1,637,158,105 | null | null | 0 | qw01z6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qw01z6/have_you_seen_the_show_upload_on_amazon_prime/ | 0 | Why can't there be an app designed to find hook ups like the one on that show? Most people would say that Tinder and POF are the exact same thing. But are they? Neither of them help with recording each other's consent. Idk it just seemed like an interesting design. Thoughts? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have you seen the show Upload, on Amazon Prime? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qw01z6/have_you_seen_the_show_upload_on_amazon_prime/ |
[deleted] | 2017-03-09 01:51:38 | 1,489,024,298 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5yc9i3 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5yc9i3/thought_i_27f_was_ghosted_but_the_guy_28m_called/ | 1 | Went out with this guy once a few weeks ago, met on OKCupid, had a great time, he called me a week after the date and we set up a second date for dinner last weekend... We're friends on snapchat and we were communicating frequently. I even snapped him pics of potential things to make for dinner and he screen shotted it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thought I [27F] was ghosted but the guy [28M] called me saying he lost his phone? Should I believe him? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5yc9i3/thought_i_27f_was_ghosted_but_the_guy_28m_called/ |
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