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RuleOfBlueRoses | 2021-01-07 19:48:35 | 1,610,048,915 | null | ['coffeemeetsbagel', 'okcupid'] | 0 | ksl2dv | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ksl2dv/i_thought_he_liked_me_he_took_advantage_of_me_and/ | 12 | So, I was talking to this guy on OKCupid for a while, and a couple weeks ago, he asked me to talk through Instagram instead, because he was more active there. And you know, I was like sure why not because OKC's messaging system sucks ass and I hate it there too lol. Then we started talking even more, and even made plan... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I thought he liked me; he took advantage of me and I let it happen. | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ksl2dv/i_thought_he_liked_me_he_took_advantage_of_me_and/ |
disgurlisonfyre | 2020-08-05 06:14:23 | 1,596,608,063 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | i402ni | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i402ni/takes_3_to_tango/ | 1 | Hi! I just wanted to ask if anyone has used dating apps specifically to find a threesome? I know some people use tinder but are there actual non creepy apps for that anyone has experience with or hear of ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Takes 3 to tango | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i402ni/takes_3_to_tango/ |
FancySpottedPony | 2020-12-09 12:14:45 | 1,607,516,085 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | k9qtfu | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/k9qtfu/being_single_during_the_holidays/ | 28 | Good morning. I have never posted before. I’m a 58 year old woman with very little family . Having to really try hard to enjoy the season alone. I’ve been single 5 years. Does anyone do anything besides volunteer work to stay optimistic? I’m a Christian but not affiliated with a church. I live in the Coastal Bend of Te... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Being Single during the Holidays | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/k9qtfu/being_single_during_the_holidays/ |
brp549 | 2021-11-17 05:46:28 | 1,637,127,988 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qvsaer | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/qvsaer/what_is_old/ | 2 | I see people reference it often. Am I missing out? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | what is OLD? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/qvsaer/what_is_old/ |
Frogcopter | 2017-12-10 22:27:14 | 1,512,944,834 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7ixe3k | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7ixe3k/nerves/ | 1 | It seems that tinder is my only option when it comes to getting dates. I rarely encounter girls I could potentially be interested in, there's absolutely no way I could approach them and even if I could, I wouldn't be able to try and take it any further without some sort of clear acknowledgement from them. I get a reaso... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Nerves | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7ixe3k/nerves/ |
Mefirstplease | 2021-09-11 00:49:40 | 1,631,321,380 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | plxetc | true | Question | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/plxetc/do_guys_even_want_anything_serious/ | 0 | 24 (F) - Been single for almost 2 years; I've lived the single life meaning I hooked up, went out on dates, had lots of fun. However, now hooking up has become jaded. I'm over just putting energy into something temporary and I deleted my Tinder as well. I'm basically pretty much full on submissive so approaching men is... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do guys even want anything serious? | null | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/plxetc/do_guys_even_want_anything_serious/ |
Jac1596 | 2019-11-03 08:56:42 | 1,572,771,402 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | dqxvoh | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dqxvoh/are_dating_apps_worth_the_time_and_effort/ | 2 | With a full time job and going to school full time it’s been tough finding time to meet girls. It feels like I really don’t have much free time for myself so I decided to try dating apps. I’m currently on bumble, tinder, and POF. I have friends that tell me they’ve met plenty of girls on these apps and made it sound qu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are dating apps worth the time and effort? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dqxvoh/are_dating_apps_worth_the_time_and_effort/ |
redheadkills | 2022-02-25 07:15:00 | 1,645,773,300 | null | ['swiped', 'swipes'] | 0 | t0xuzk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t0xuzk/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_didnt_answer_your/ | 2 | basically caption… i’m 22f and he 22m and he hadn’t answered my text today but swiped up on two insta stories saying things??? am i over thinking tbis or is this a hint | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what does it mean when a guy didn’t answer your texts but swipes up on insta and has convos | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t0xuzk/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_didnt_answer_your/ |
[deleted] | 2022-09-12 06:52:19 | 1,662,965,539 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | xc5qli | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xc5qli/question_for_women/ | 0 | 23M here. I have always had a thing for women older than me let's say 35+ married or divorced don't care. I have been in relationships before in my life with girls my age but it doesn't seem right to me. I have always fancied older women more not in a creepy way but in a serious way where i could find someone, fall in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Question for women | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xc5qli/question_for_women/ |
DyingByDegrees | 2017-12-01 00:56:39 | 1,512,089,799 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7gr93g | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7gr93g/new_to_this_lots_of_questions/ | 6 | And when I say new, I mean new - never really dated before. All my past relationships have been with people I already knew very well before anything started. So, I finally decide to take the plunge and go on an OLD site. Work up the nerve to send someone a message (I'm really shy - still can't believe I did it). I hit ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | New to this - lots of questions... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7gr93g/new_to_this_lots_of_questions/ |
katidee93 | 2018-03-22 20:05:16 | 1,521,749,116 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 86elbs | false | null | 50 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/86elbs/so_over_online_dating_im_becoming_extremely/ | 13 | I've been back in the dating game for months. I've finally learned how to be happy and self sufficient on my own but, companionship is nice. However, dating around my age while relying on dating apps is absolutely hellish. I work from home though, so it's kind of hard to meet people otherwise. I get a lot of matches bu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So over online dating. I'm becoming extremely cynical, SOS | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/86elbs/so_over_online_dating_im_becoming_extremely/ |
i__cant_go_on | 2020-09-03 10:36:15 | 1,599,129,375 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ilqze5 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ilqze5/im_scared_of_screwing_up/ | 23 | So I (24M) started talking to a girl (23F) on tinder. She recently gave me her number so we now talk more frequently. But I'm so scared of screwing up the conversation and her getting bored of me. I'm kind of a disappointment my family, ugly and overweight. And she is getting a master's degree and she's super cute. Usu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm scared of screwing up | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ilqze5/im_scared_of_screwing_up/ |
doctorpocahontas | 2020-02-10 21:01:14 | 1,581,368,474 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f1wu3n | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f1wu3n/24_f_in_need_of_advice/ | 11 | I'm 24 years old. Never had a valentine, never had a serious relationship and it's not like I'm okay with that. It really is tough out there. For men and women. Guess I can only vent about what it's like for am too tall (1.82m) , too sensitive and slightly anxious woman. I've tried dating. I've given up on dating. Only... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24 F in need of advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f1wu3n/24_f_in_need_of_advice/ |
VoltaicSketchyTeapot | 2021-08-20 09:29:17 | 1,629,451,757 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | p81qq3 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p81qq3/starting_a_conversation_isnt_pandering/ | 2 | There are plenty of posts here by guys complaining about how they never get responses on dating apps. Women will then reply with the basic truth that they flat out ignore all the "Hi, Hey, and How are you?" messages in order to prioritize messages that feel more personalized. Swiping right doesn't really mean matches. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting a conversation isn't pandering | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p81qq3/starting_a_conversation_isnt_pandering/ |
AmazingGrocery | 2018-02-18 02:45:16 | 1,518,921,916 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7ybiz6 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7ybiz6/dating_a_friend_of_my_ex_who_doesnt_know_i_used/ | 2 | So I dated this girl Deirdre for a little over a year and we ended things back in November 2016. After taking some time to myself I decided to get back into the dating game and rejoined Tinder. I matched with this girl named Ali who seems really cool and I'd like to pursue something with her, but after getting to know ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a friend of my ex who doesn't know I used to date her friend | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7ybiz6/dating_a_friend_of_my_ex_who_doesnt_know_i_used/ |
SghnDubh | 2024-08-19 12:07:45 | 1,724,069,265 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1ew02a8 | true | null | 330 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ew02a8/matching_just_to_tell_me_youre_a_proud_maga/ | 150 | At the very bottom of my (57m) OLD profiles it says, "Please, no MAGA." Once or twice a week I'll get a match where the cleanest comments are like "proud MAGA here, I'll never date you" and they degenerate from there. It's ok to hold a conservative viewpoint, but the MAGA movement is extreme. So I don't consider it "ba... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Matching just to tell me you're a 'proud MAGA.' | 150 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ew02a8/matching_just_to_tell_me_youre_a_proud_maga/ |
muzbazooka | 2018-02-23 14:36:44 | 1,519,396,604 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7zoggs | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7zoggs/should_i_keep_giving_him_chances/ | 3 | So I met this guy off tinder last August, first month of talking we saw each other twice, just hung out, got drinks and food. I thought we got along really well and both nights ended with a pretty good kiss. We were still texting most weeks and spoke about catching up again but he’d always make excuses last minute desp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I keep giving him chances? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7zoggs/should_i_keep_giving_him_chances/ |
ThrowRA2024 | 2020-09-30 21:02:01 | 1,601,499,721 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | j2unhx | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j2unhx/i_18m_am_completely_defeated_with_girls_and_i/ | 9 | I’m (18M) a freshman in college and I have no confidence in myself at all when it comes to meeting girls. My friends have met girls, flirted with girls, and basically done everything. I have two of my classes in person but due to my major of electrical engineering, there really aren’t many girls. Then on the off chance... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (18M) am completely defeated with girls and I just don’t know what to do anymore. | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j2unhx/i_18m_am_completely_defeated_with_girls_and_i/ |
Suitable_Ad_2843 | 2023-02-22 04:40:13 | 1,677,040,813 | null | null | 0 | 118p2tp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/118p2tp/bubu/ | 1 | Is bubu legit ? It seems lots of people are getting scammed by bubu. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bubu | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/118p2tp/bubu/ |
kikiswirline456 | 2020-05-09 10:46:06 | 1,589,021,166 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ggdd1x | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ggdd1x/am_i_right_to_want_to_end_my_relationship/ | 1 | I am currently dating this guy I met on Tinder. The past couple of months I dated him has been the best month of my life. He is the first guy I could call an actual “boyfriend“. We said, “I love you” to each other and he is the first guy I was physically intimate with even though we never did the actual deed....Just so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I right to want to end my relationship? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ggdd1x/am_i_right_to_want_to_end_my_relationship/ |
GetSmarterOrShutUp | 2024-05-20 04:37:15 | 1,716,179,835 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cw78kk | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cw78kk/badoo_credits/ | 1 | I’ve been using badoo and have credits and it keeps trying to sell me more but when I look around the app I don’t see any option to actually use the credits. What are they for? How do you spend them? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Badoo credits? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cw78kk/badoo_credits/ |
Correct_Fruit8492 | 2023-07-28 20:18:54 | 1,690,575,534 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15c80mg | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15c80mg/social_anxiety_with_girls_should_i_go_to_the/ | 1 | Hi community, I'd like to have some advice from you. I'm a 26M that never had a relationship or sexual experience in my life, I'm an average looking guy, 165cm, skinny, I work and study, traveled a lot, definitely not too boring but maybe not being interesting enough and/or not showing interest in the correct way. &x20... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Social Anxiety with Girls, should I go to the psychologist? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15c80mg/social_anxiety_with_girls_should_i_go_to_the/ |
starsinpurgatory | 2022-06-25 22:32:11 | 1,656,196,331 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vkq67f | true | Support Needed | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vkq67f/do_you_find_youre_at_a_disadvantage_in_dating/ | 2 | I’m 29 this year and could probably pass for 18 if I wore a hoodie and carried a backpack. In business attire, people would likely assume I’m 22-25, tops. I feel like because of this, I have had almost no luck in dating/relationships because in real life as opposed to online dating, I am normally attracted to guys that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you find you’re at a disadvantage in dating because you look a lot younger than your age? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vkq67f/do_you_find_youre_at_a_disadvantage_in_dating/ |
ChucoTeacher | 2024-03-08 16:28:22 | 1,709,915,302 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b9s8zc | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9s8zc/can_you_get_addicted_to_online_dating/ | 38 | So the last two years I haven’t been in a relationship but have been casually dating using the apps. I’ve been lucky enough i guess to have had some nice times and meet people that I enjoyed. Now it looks like I might be on the road to something exclusive and serious and I’m happy but it hurts to let go of what I had. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can you get addicted to online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b9s8zc/can_you_get_addicted_to_online_dating/ |
gbird8295 | 2019-04-17 15:30:30 | 1,555,515,030 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | be95r5 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/be95r5/a_little_help_or_an_opinion/ | 1 | Hi people I'm a guy and i'm involved in online dating (ugh). At this point it's hard for me to say exactly what i'm looking for since the lack of genuinely decent people kind of muddles expectations. Having said this, i'm talking to two girls that both seem really nice I've gone on one date with both and felt attractio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A little help? Or an opinion | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/be95r5/a_little_help_or_an_opinion/ |
unrequited_526372 | 2021-06-03 19:07:36 | 1,622,747,256 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nrl8cx | true | Venting | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nrl8cx/i_feel_im_emotionally_too_weak_for_dating_world/ | 3 | Tried to use dating app because I felt so lonely, turns out I feel even more lonely. I've been talking to this guy I met from dating app for 3 months. He was studying abroad so we never met in person. He came back home recently and we have set a date to meet up soon. I've also prepared a handmade gift for him. I feel I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel I'm emotionally too weak for dating world | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nrl8cx/i_feel_im_emotionally_too_weak_for_dating_world/ |
wannabemarketerg | 2024-05-08 19:16:34 | 1,715,195,794 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cnctya | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cnctya/should_i_come_clean_or_wait_first_date_mess_up/ | 1 | So my dating history is quite new! I met a girl on an app and we agreed to meet. I went on the date and spoke too much about myself. She was just such a good listener. We had an awkward silence at the end and I said we should be friends after. We texted a bit after and I saw her unmatched on the dating app/it’s likely ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I come clean or wait? First date mess up 😌 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cnctya/should_i_come_clean_or_wait_first_date_mess_up/ |
breemarie_16 | 2024-01-24 15:31:05 | 1,706,110,265 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19ejqcu | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19ejqcu/how_to_nicely_reject_guy_who_reminds_me_of_my/ | 1 | I met a guy on a dating app and we met in person for the first time last night. It didn’t take me long to realize that he reminded me A LOT of my cousin; the mannerisms, voice, and I stg they wear the same cologne. My date was super sweet and nice, and expressed that he had a lot of fun and would like to see my again. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to nicely reject guy who reminds me of my cousin? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19ejqcu/how_to_nicely_reject_guy_who_reminds_me_of_my/ |
Do2eR | 2023-12-07 04:58:43 | 1,701,925,123 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18cny8o | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18cny8o/im_terrified/ | 3 | Im a 19. Im a pretty good looking guy not 6’ tho so I guess im average Im pretty good at socialising. For some reason tho im terrified of doing anything romantic related I can roast the fuck out of my female friends but im terrified of even saying “hey” to a pretty girl I see outside. Recently I made a tinder and reali... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im terrified | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18cny8o/im_terrified/ |
Still-Show | 2024-03-19 22:41:27 | 1,710,888,087 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bixq68 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bixq68/how_am_i_supposed_to_meet_people_organically/ | 4 | If anyone has any advice for meeting people please drop it. I (21f) have been on dating apps on and off for a couple years now and they are just so soul sucking. I'm so incredibly sick of them but it feels like there's no other option. I've only ever been in one "relationship" with someone i met on a dating app, it was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how am i supposed to meet people organically 💀 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bixq68/how_am_i_supposed_to_meet_people_organically/ |
fyrefly1984 | 2011-12-20 08:35:21 | 1,324,370,121 | 1 | ['online dating'] | null | njnj1 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/njnj1/online_dating_im_in_the_texting_zone_and_dont/ | 2 | 27 (F) started chatting with 30 (M) on OKC last week. Friday afternoon we decided to start texting and get to know each other better. We chatted back and forth all night Friday (he was surprisingly forward and warned me that he might drunk text me, which he did). Chatted again starting first thing Saturday morning in o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating - I'm in the texting zone, and don't want to stay here too long. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/njnj1/online_dating_im_in_the_texting_zone_and_dont/ |
chichix4 | 2019-10-05 19:06:41 | 1,570,302,401 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ddrpmy | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ddrpmy/would_this_make_you_uncomfortable/ | 1 | I met a guy on Tinder and we had our first meeting over coffee this morning. I liked him and we had good conversation, then at one point he mentioned that he had done a search on me and referenced a picture of me he had seen online. He only knows my first name, which is rather unique, and the city I live in so I’m not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would this make you uncomfortable? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ddrpmy/would_this_make_you_uncomfortable/ |
BakedBare_ | 2020-01-13 18:12:41 | 1,578,939,161 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eo7uv4 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eo7uv4/how_do_i_find_a_guy_who_wants_to_be_with_me_or/ | 0 | I'm 23 and have had terrible luck dating guys. I've never been in a relationship that lasted longer than two weeks and a couple of guys now don't want to date me because of it. The most recent guy I was with I have class with all day every day. We started hanging out at the beginning of winter break and we talked to ea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I find a guy who wants to be with me or how do i get my ex back?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eo7uv4/how_do_i_find_a_guy_who_wants_to_be_with_me_or/ |
boyseaaron | 2018-04-15 19:54:55 | 1,523,822,095 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'badoo'] | 0 | 8chqbn | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8chqbn/no_luck_with_dating_apps/ | 1 | I've tried every kind of dating app imaginable. I've tried Tinder, Bumble, Badoo and Match, no results from it whatsoever. Is it just me or are there others in this position also. Looking for advice on this matter more so than anything else. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No luck with Dating Apps | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8chqbn/no_luck_with_dating_apps/ |
Anon19171816 | 2022-04-06 21:34:35 | 1,649,280,875 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | txwwp1 | true | Support Needed | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/txwwp1/dating_app_depression/ | 3 | Hi 25 (m), excuse me for being a bit negative toward tinder/hinge/etc, (I have OCD and anxiety) but dating apps are really starting to get me down, I used to consider myself above average looking like a 7/10, 6 foot 2, dark hair, work out 6 days a week and when I go out in person as a rule I don’t do too badly and seem... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating App Depression | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/txwwp1/dating_app_depression/ |
atwhatcostyamihere | 2021-04-15 13:18:19 | 1,618,492,699 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | mreh2y | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mreh2y/does_this_man_wanna_date_me_or_nah/ | 2 | So when I date I tend to hyperfocus on someone very early (thanks adhd) and stop dating other people because the interactions make my brain feel good with overflowing serotonin and dopamine. Recently I started dating this guy I met on bumble and we’ve been on a couple of dates that have been good and we have great phys... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does this man wanna date me or nah?? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mreh2y/does_this_man_wanna_date_me_or_nah/ |
jxisbxisbbz | 2020-02-12 06:29:26 | 1,581,488,966 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | f2my8m | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f2my8m/did_i_push_her_away_does_she_seem_interested/ | 1 | Will she message first or should I? I matched with a girl a few weeks ago and we’ve been chatting non-stop (now in FB) til the wee hours of the morning sometimes. Whenever we talk, she seems pretty engaged. When conversation goes to a lull and I try to end it, like saying hahaha or yeah, she’s going to say something to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I push her away? Does she seem interested? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f2my8m/did_i_push_her_away_does_she_seem_interested/ |
bengalifury84 | 2018-06-06 02:02:17 | 1,528,250,537 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 8owsg9 | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8owsg9/men_do_brief_generic_greetings_work/ | 7 | Genuine question: Men who send one word (e.g., “hi”) or generic messages (e.g., “how are you?”) on OLD, what percentage of the time does this strategy lead to an engaging conversation? Is your objective to engage or simply to get a response? Do you approach women in real life or is OLD a substitute for that? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Men: do brief, generic greetings work? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8owsg9/men_do_brief_generic_greetings_work/ |
Resident-Platypus254 | 2024-05-28 03:21:09 | 1,716,866,469 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1d29vnk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d29vnk/some_guy_has_her_ig_name_in_his_bio_written_next/ | 3 | Met this girl on Hinge who has been talking with me quite a bit and seems really interested in me. Last weekend, however, some guy who is a mutual friend of her's on IG watched my Instagram story and when I clicked on his page I noticed that which you see in the title. How this guy found me is a mystery, as this girl a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Some guy has her IG name in his bio written next to "My love 🥰" should I treat this as a red flag? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d29vnk/some_guy_has_her_ig_name_in_his_bio_written_next/ |
lizard_brains | 2015-03-18 02:29:41 | 1,426,645,781 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2zfbv8 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2zfbv8/went_on_a_pretty_good_first_date_he_hinted_at_a/ | 2 | So I recently went on a coffee date with this guy that I met on OKCupid. He's my age, he was really cool, he asked me a lot of questions about myself, showed me some music he's into, and it helped that he was REALLY attractive to me. Towards the end of the date, he said we should hang out again sometime. I got his numb... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a pretty good first date... he hinted at a second, but so far no dice. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2zfbv8/went_on_a_pretty_good_first_date_he_hinted_at_a/ |
hellokitty-444 | 2023-02-28 00:06:35 | 1,677,542,795 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 11dr9du | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11dr9du/i_know_im_dumb/ | 2 | I met this guy (23M) on tinder in November. I’m (20F) btw. We snap chatted for a bit and then we both were so busy we mutually just stopped. Fast forward to end of January beginning of February and we start talking again. We hung out once and just talked for 2 hours about random stuff. He was very respectful and we jus... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I know I’m dumb | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11dr9du/i_know_im_dumb/ |
cearulean_stormss | 2024-07-28 09:15:29 | 1,722,158,129 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ee3e66 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ee3e66/overthinking/ | 1 | Hello, this is my first Reddit post ever, so be patient with me. Over a month ago I (30F) started talking to a guy (31M) via a dating app. We have been on a few dates, and I’ve hung out at his house and spent the night a few times. I am extremely attracted to him, similar interests, and I think we have great chemistry.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Overthinking. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ee3e66/overthinking/ |
DearDiary700422 | 2024-09-06 12:16:54 | 1,725,625,014 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fadpt4 | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fadpt4/is_dating_like_fishing/ | 0 | A guy told me today that dating apps are like fishing. You put out your bait and wait for bites. Sometimes you get a fish you like and want to keep (meet up with/date). Sometimes you get a fish you just play with for a bit before throwing back (time wasters/people who change their mind). And sometimes you get one you t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Dating like Fishing? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fadpt4/is_dating_like_fishing/ |
pinkholla | 2019-12-28 16:16:30 | 1,577,549,790 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | egsjho | true | null | 209 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/egsjho/does_anyone_ever_actually_swipe_right_on_the/ | 259 | My current situation, I just seeking some casual endeavors. Let’s hang out, smoke, make some food, and have sex... maybe take the dogs for a walk or go to dinner once in a while. Just chill and I still would never swipe on these people. I can only imagine how people feel that are looking for something long term and see... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone ever actually swipe right on the “married with kids, looking for some NSA fun on the side”???? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/egsjho/does_anyone_ever_actually_swipe_right_on_the/ |
SoUhhNowWhat | 2012-08-06 19:16:42 | 1,344,280,602 | 4 | ['online dating'] | null | xs3m9 | null | null | 48 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/xs3m9/i_hate_the_backwards_logic_of_dating/ | 12 | Mid-twenties male. I'm stumped. The general consensus seems to state that I'm not supposed to go looking for a girl. I'm supposed to let it happen. If I'm interested in finding a relationship, it's seen as being desperate. I can't be too forward lest I'll scare a girl off because it comes off as being desperate, and/or... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I hate the backwards logic of dating. | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xs3m9/i_hate_the_backwards_logic_of_dating/ |
r_toxiicx | 2023-07-22 22:37:22 | 1,690,065,442 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 156xin2 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/156xin2/he_rejected_me_but_i_still_want_to_hookup/ | 1 | I (25F) met this guy on a dating app and we clicked instantly. He wanted a long term relationship and so did I. We went on a couple outings together (I definitely wouldn’t call them dates) and we ended up hooking up twice. The sex was great. But I received a text that he didn’t think it would work out between us and I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He rejected me but I still want to hookup | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/156xin2/he_rejected_me_but_i_still_want_to_hookup/ |
yoyoma_666 | 2021-12-04 22:48:40 | 1,638,658,120 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r9191x | true | Support Needed | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r9191x/no_success_on_dating_apps/ | 2 | I’ve been on dating apps since what feels like their inception (2011, 2012?). I had one boyfriend since then that lasted for a year. I’ve gone on mainly first dates from dating apps. I must also preface this by saying that I am an attractive, smart, and funny 29F from a good family and have a good education… yet, I’ve ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No success on dating apps | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r9191x/no_success_on_dating_apps/ |
dixon_321 | 2023-01-25 11:32:13 | 1,674,646,333 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10kwkwo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10kwkwo/tinder_date_success_and_another_one_planned_this/ | 1 | So since the start of December I've been talking to this guy off Tinder. He had a really lenhy bio, and I loved everything I read. We are both into pretty niche interests (spirituality), so we hit it off really well. Sending paragraphs to each other, and talking every day (still after all this time too) The only downsi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder date success, and another one planned this weekend I can't believe it | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10kwkwo/tinder_date_success_and_another_one_planned_this/ |
amccrady1 | 2016-11-21 12:03:40 | 1,479,729,820 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 5e3oy0 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/5e3oy0/m21_having_trouble_meeting_and_finding_anyone/ | 1 | I got out of a long term relationship and just want to find people to go out with and have good conversations. My issue is I'm not meeting anyone in public due to lack of time to socialize and these dating apps aren't generating any leads. What do people do to put themselves out there? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [M21] Having trouble meeting and finding anyone. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5e3oy0/m21_having_trouble_meeting_and_finding_anyone/ |
hikaris_demon | 2021-12-11 04:42:48 | 1,639,197,768 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rdrscx | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rdrscx/nigh_work_and_finding_someone_to_get_with/ | 1 | I work night for about 60 hours a week on 5 days 22 of those being in the weekends. It's fairly obvious dating apps are complete shit and don't work for me even when I'm apparently the only fleshed out profile on the whole dam' thing as far as I can see. I have time on Monday and Tuesday but there's nothing to do nearb... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Nigh work and finding someone to get with | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rdrscx/nigh_work_and_finding_someone_to_get_with/ |
Consistent_Grape7858 | 2024-09-03 13:55:03 | 1,725,371,703 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1f80k4k | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f80k4k/video_dates/ | 1 | I (‘F35’) have been divorced for a few months now and I’m running into an issue.. time. I’m ready to start dating again and have gone on a few that I’ve met through bumble and a couple set ups from friends. Aside from work and having kids it’s the driving to the date location that’s getting to me. My neighborhood is ab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Video dates | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f80k4k/video_dates/ |
AWitchsTit | 2021-01-03 16:35:40 | 1,609,691,740 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | kpnm69 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kpnm69/online_dating_meet_up/ | 2 | I'm getting tired of always being the one to throw hints that I want to meet up and making suggestions for a first date with dudes I'm talking to on bumble. I usually get a response like "that sounds great" but then they don't take the initiative and make concrete plans. I don't want to waste my time talking to someone... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating meet up | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kpnm69/online_dating_meet_up/ |
cruelyouth1002 | 2024-08-27 12:35:57 | 1,724,762,157 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1f2fyaz | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f2fyaz/should_i_consider_paying_subscription_for_bumble/ | 1 | I’m a Asian woman who’s in her early 20s. I have a specific type of men that I want to date so I’m thinking of paying subscription for Bumble because it might make the whole dating thing easier for me. I’m thinking of dating men in different countries cause I’m pretty jaded with the dating scene in my city. Would love ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I consider paying subscription for Bumble? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f2fyaz/should_i_consider_paying_subscription_for_bumble/ |
underthecoversofit | 2024-03-08 10:42:16 | 1,709,894,536 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b9l7va | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b9l7va/not_sure_if_im_sending_mixed_signals_or_not/ | 1 | I'm kind of freaking out because i had a "date" where this guy i met on a dating app and we got ice cream, walked around town for about an hour then went back to his place - we agreed on this beforehand and i didn't think much of it since we had an activity planned- and he taught me how to play some guitar parts of a f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | not sure if i’m sending mixed signals or not | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b9l7va/not_sure_if_im_sending_mixed_signals_or_not/ |
alsmodia | 2023-05-14 17:52:43 | 1,684,086,763 | 0 | null | 0 | 13hinwe | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13hinwe/just_discovered_how_to_have_a_great_experience_on/ | 107 | I deleted my account and left a 1 star review. It was the most satisfying experience I’ve ever had on that app | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just discovered how to have a great experience on Tinder as a guy | 107 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13hinwe/just_discovered_how_to_have_a_great_experience_on/ |
askingthrowawayques | 2021-07-24 03:51:49 | 1,627,098,709 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | oqif5c | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oqif5c/after_a_breakup_is_it_okay_to_reach_back_out_to/ | 0 | I (mid-20s F) was on Hinge and Bumble and seeing my options and going out on dates earlier this spring. There were a few guys I was talking to at varying levels (some I had gone on dates with, others video chatted, and others just texting). I was interested in a couple, but ultimately I decided to pursue one guy exclus... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After a breakup, is it okay to reach back out to someone else (not an ex) who showed mutual interest in dating? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oqif5c/after_a_breakup_is_it_okay_to_reach_back_out_to/ |
TCK1996 | 2017-07-18 05:56:20 | 1,500,357,380 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6nyw9y | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/6nyw9y/going_to_get_lunch_with_a_girl_i_met_from_online/ | 1 | I plan to try to talk about simple things, like: family, occupation/hobbies, travel, movies/tv, dreams, etc. Originally this was suppose to be bowling but we switched over to getting lunch together. Just need some more tips on what kind of things to talk about I guess and how to handle this. This is my second date ever... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going to get lunch with a girl I met from online dating tomorrow, needs some tips and advice. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6nyw9y/going_to_get_lunch_with_a_girl_i_met_from_online/ |
Cuevanation | 2017-05-01 20:10:44 | 1,493,669,444 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 68oee2 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/68oee2/meeting_a_new_girl_from_tinder/ | 1 | This really isn't your typical tinder find, but I added a girl on League of Legends through her tinder bio and I can safely say this girl is really cute and right up my alley. She's a nerd who loves what she does, but seems a bit sassy and hard to get a hold of. I have only talked to her through the league messenger an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting a new girl from Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/68oee2/meeting_a_new_girl_from_tinder/ |
throwawayyy_69 | 2019-12-26 06:04:48 | 1,577,340,288 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | efrqsq | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/efrqsq/how_should_i_28f_move_forward_after_hooking_up/ | 1 | I matched with a guy last week and we met up twice under a hook up type of pretense (I was and am fine with this). I'm supperrrr attracted to him and I just ended up having a great time. He's one of the cutest guys I've ever met and just has a kind face if that makes sense to anyone. I felt so at ease with him consider... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I (28F) move forward after hooking up with this guy (32M)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/efrqsq/how_should_i_28f_move_forward_after_hooking_up/ |
MFRobots | 2020-08-29 11:22:58 | 1,598,700,178 | null | null | 0 | iiqt0p | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/iiqt0p/strange_or_contradictory_things_in_dating_profiles/ | 0 | Saw a dating profile of an attractive, down-to-Earth, well-traveled woman. Mid-50s, never married, no kids. She mentions in her profile that although she likes to hike...she doesn't like to hike in the state where she resides (where I reside, too) in as she misses the more rockier areas. I also recall seeing a woman th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Strange or contradictory things in dating profiles | null | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/iiqt0p/strange_or_contradictory_things_in_dating_profiles/ |
AnomicAge | 2024-06-06 06:07:21 | 1,717,654,041 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d9bcus | true | Question ❓ | 16 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1d9bcus/what_the_actual_fuck_happened_to_online_dating/ | 8 | For what it's worth (a lot) I'm 29, 6'5, conventionally handsome, muscular. My photos showcase me engaging in a range of hobbies and travelling and hanging out with my dog. My bio is wholesome and my prompts are amusing. I NEVER send effortless dogshit messages like 'hey wyd' and I NEVER send anything sexual or disresp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What the actual fuck happened to online dating? | 8 | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d9bcus/what_the_actual_fuck_happened_to_online_dating/ |
KaiBuTsu91493 | 2024-03-09 07:07:21 | 1,709,968,041 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1babuee | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1babuee/should_i_keep_texting_someone_after_we_agreed_on/ | 1 | So I matched with this nice girl on tinder and we immediately hit it off, we kept talking for like one and a half hour and then we agreed to meet next Saturday. But to be honest at the end of the conversation I had that feeling that the conversation is dying so I told her I had work and needed to go. Now what? Usually ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I keep texting someone after we agreed on a date in a week? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1babuee/should_i_keep_texting_someone_after_we_agreed_on/ |
doodlebob_786 | 2020-06-02 02:23:53 | 1,591,064,633 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | guymtp | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/guymtp/am_i_over_reacting/ | 1 | Hello ladies and gents of reddit. Hope everyone has been staying safe lately. I'd like to know if I'm over reacting and looking too deep into a situation that has me very annoyed rn. So I'm 23, girl I've been talking to is 26. We met on a dating app and have clicked very very well. Because of Corona and social distanci... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I over reacting? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/guymtp/am_i_over_reacting/ |
ComplexCaterpillar5 | 2019-03-04 07:56:40 | 1,551,686,200 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ax4m7g | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ax4m7g/my_experience_with_online_dating/ | 2 | Throwaway for obvious reasons. Before I start, I'm an asian guy who came out of a 2 year relationship and just started online dating for a few weeks. I don't want to be on r/niceguys or r/asianidentity, I would like to say that most of my matches are other asian girls which I found a bit weird. I don't think I look too... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My Experience with Online Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ax4m7g/my_experience_with_online_dating/ |
TigerWiger7 | 2022-09-10 16:38:50 | 1,662,827,930 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xatsbg | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xatsbg/is_paying_for_tinder_worth_it/ | 1 | I made a tinder this morning and I ran out of likes and I’m already getting tons of likes from others and I’m not a patient person what should I do? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Paying for Tinder worth it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xatsbg/is_paying_for_tinder_worth_it/ |
DataSittingAlone | 2023-12-28 03:33:24 | 1,703,734,404 | 0 | null | 0 | 18sjxn6 | true | null | 110 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18sjxn6/how_would_you_rank_all_the_dating_apps_youve_tried/ | 36 | You can choose the criteria for how you rank them | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How would you rank all the dating apps you've tried? | 36 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18sjxn6/how_would_you_rank_all_the_dating_apps_youve_tried/ |
KeanuReevesNephew | 2023-01-24 05:44:00 | 1,674,539,040 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10jyehs | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10jyehs/guy_sends_me_20_instagram_reels_every_day/ | 3 | So this is a past story but I once met someone from my uni on a dating app, pretty decent guy, and he was nice, but he wasn't exactly someone I clicked with when I started talking, rather he was one of the few people who was actually decent to me while making conversation. Anyway we got talking and we texted every day ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy sends me 20 instagram reels every day | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10jyehs/guy_sends_me_20_instagram_reels_every_day/ |
Muchmoss | 2021-12-18 22:19:09 | 1,639,865,949 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | rji2dt | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rji2dt/first_date_ideas_for_online/ | 1 | Whats your go to first date ideas for online matches? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date ideas for online ? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rji2dt/first_date_ideas_for_online/ |
fkkm | 2022-02-02 14:18:21 | 1,643,811,501 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | sipt97 | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sipt97/if_we_build_up_sexual_tension_online_do_i_need_to/ | 2 | So we are having pretty flirty conversations, and they build up some sexual tension for sure. I met her on bumble a few days ago, and we seem to have a lot of shared interests and have interesting convos. We are meeting up for the first time in the next few days. But having these type of conversations make me a bit wor... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If we build up sexual tension online, do I need to immediately act it out when we meet the first time? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sipt97/if_we_build_up_sexual_tension_online_do_i_need_to/ |
CrisCrossExe | 2023-06-24 18:17:45 | 1,687,630,665 | 0 | null | 0 | 14hzpf4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14hzpf4/should_i_just_block_her_cuz_too_many_redflags/ | 1 | So I am starting college in a few months and we have a groupchat made by the teachers of the study with around 200 future student where you can ask questions and socialise ect. So a girl started responding in private to me telling me that I have a nice profilepicture and how it was going. Redflag 1 & 2 So the same day ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I just block her cuz too many redflags? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14hzpf4/should_i_just_block_her_cuz_too_many_redflags/ |
lunar_444 | 2023-08-05 22:23:08 | 1,691,274,188 | 0 | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15j8n01 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15j8n01/for_those_doing_online_dating_what_are_people/ | 1 | Out of curiosity, are we mostly encountering people who want a relationship, a hookup, or nothing? I ultimately want a relationship but am also open to something more casual which I tell people. I’m just curious if that’s the majority or if it’s something else. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | For those doing online dating, what are people mostly looking for on hinge? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15j8n01/for_those_doing_online_dating_what_are_people/ |
Realistic-Mix5116 | 2023-12-03 20:19:53 | 1,701,634,793 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 18a29lq | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18a29lq/why_do_people_always_defendact_oblivious_about/ | 146 | When I was 13, I had a really creepy gym teacher who of course was also the softball coach. One morning, I felt really sick and left early. My friend texted me saying that he asked her FIVE TIMES in the span of like 30 minutes “How’s OP doing? Can you let her know I hope she’s okay? Has she responded yet?” When I told ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Why do people always defend/act oblivious about the creepy guy | 146 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18a29lq/why_do_people_always_defendact_oblivious_about/ |
macaronmelodies | 2024-01-07 23:36:47 | 1,704,670,607 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1916a04 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1916a04/love_bombing/ | 1 | About a year ago, in March, I decided to use Hinge to go on dates. I met one guy who seemed to be a green flag at first, but then, a few weeks in, I realized I was being love-bombed. This dude bought me makeup, a puppy, and a lot of other stuff, as well as having said, "I'm in love with you," after a month of having kn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Love Bombing | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1916a04/love_bombing/ |
WelcomeToMyNewLife | 2021-05-25 19:49:43 | 1,621,972,183 | null | null | 0 | nkyedp | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nkyedp/dating_profile_review/ | 5 | Hey there! I'm usually pretty good at the OLD game. But I just got out of a relationship and figured I'd try to optimize what I have. I'm an engineer, it's my thing. Would love some constructive feedback. I'm not witty in text, so help there is welcome. http://imgur.com/gallery/BRQSLsm Also qualifier... I know I'm a th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating Profile Review | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nkyedp/dating_profile_review/ |
Aniolel1 | 2022-10-12 07:18:26 | 1,665,559,106 | null | null | 0 | y1x3m0 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y1x3m0/men_what_are_you_currently_looking_for/ | 0 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | [Men] What are you currently looking for? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y1x3m0/men_what_are_you_currently_looking_for/ |
Guinevere22 | 2020-09-11 18:36:34 | 1,599,849,394 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iqwfrb | true | Venting | 155 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iqwfrb/a_weeks_worth_of_dates_or_not/ | 1,049 | So I need to send out a thank you to this sub because without it I would not have been prepared for this week. I arranged to have four 1st dates this week. The 1st one was on Tuesday and it was lovely, he was kind, sincere, smart and funny and we had lovely banter and chemistry. Then Wednesdays date came around and he ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A week's worth of dates... Or not? | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iqwfrb/a_weeks_worth_of_dates_or_not/ |
Chance_Scholar8584 | 2024-02-23 15:52:12 | 1,708,703,532 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ay3tt9 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ay3tt9/messaging_on_app_but_no_date_scheduled/ | 1 | This guy and I have been messaging on a dating app for a week now. He messages me everyday and the conversation has been good however I don't want to keep chatting on the app, I want to meet in person. I typically like the guy to lead so I have been waiting to see if he would ask me out but he hasn't yet (I am also not... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Messaging on app but no date scheduled | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ay3tt9/messaging_on_app_but_no_date_scheduled/ |
Virtual_Clothes_5790 | 2024-05-27 16:10:27 | 1,716,826,227 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d1v488 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d1v488/ive_never_really_had_a_good_experience_with_women/ | 2 | I’m 29. Throughout high school, I had a small group of guy friends, and didn’t have any girls who I was close with. Some crushes sure, but not many girls who had things in common with me that led to friendships. In college, I made an effort to befriend girls in my dorm. I tried getting to know them, and do activities w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’ve never really had a good experience with women, even as friends | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d1v488/ive_never_really_had_a_good_experience_with_women/ |
Subie- | 2020-08-18 20:31:49 | 1,597,782,709 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ic93d3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ic93d3/why_is_ghosting_and_flaking_so_common_is_there/ | 2 | Matched with someone on tinder, set up a date to watch some Netflix and share a bottle of wine. Date went well, but I did not have a bottle opener so instead we had a few beers. Good conversation, and shared a few laughs over the Tiger King. Anyways, she mentioned she would be free Sunday, and she'll bring a bottle ope... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is ghosting and flaking so common? Is there any solution to prevent this? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ic93d3/why_is_ghosting_and_flaking_so_common_is_there/ |
Ibimseinsanis | 2019-02-07 13:49:57 | 1,549,547,397 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ao3wsj | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ao3wsj/what_does_this_message_mean/ | 2 | Okay, maybe iam \[M25\] overthinking again, but i still find her \[F22\] message a little bit odd. We matched on tinder a few days and i get her phone number. We texted a little bit (not too much) and i asked her if she wanted to meet up to which she happily agreed. We are scheduled to meet up next Tuesday for the firs... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does this message mean? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ao3wsj/what_does_this_message_mean/ |
aehjayy | 2019-11-06 00:08:30 | 1,572,998,910 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ds80xq | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ds80xq/i_feel_like_at_this_point_in_my_life_i_wont_find/ | 4 | Sometimes I get sad thinking about my future. I'm a 29F over a year ago I got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm very happy I'm still not in it. However all I want to do in life is find my soulmate and get married and just make memories together and have fun. I just think that I won't find that person. I've done onli... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like at this point in my life I won't find the one. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ds80xq/i_feel_like_at_this_point_in_my_life_i_wont_find/ |
Masked_Demon | 2024-09-01 02:08:52 | 1,725,156,532 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f63nav | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f63nav/i_miss_being_in_a_relationship/ | 1 | I've been single for 2 years now. I miss the romantic touch of another person, the feeling of their arms wrapped my body in a protective embrace. Watching videos or movies together, and making bad jokes. I love making drawings for the person I love of the two of us, how much I appreciate them. When I had a job, I would... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I Miss Being in a Relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f63nav/i_miss_being_in_a_relationship/ |
nancyxxu | 2021-01-22 04:11:35 | 1,611,288,695 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD', 'dating platforms', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | l2fqox | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/l2fqox/what_is_the_best_old_platform_for_someone_looking/ | 14 | Hey guys This is my first post here but long time lurker. I noticed people here have a ton of experience with the dating scene as it is now and figured I could glean some insight since it's been forever since my friend has had any dating experience. A little about my friend, we'll call him J. He had a pretty healthy lo... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What is the best OLD platform for someone looking for a life partner rather than hook-ups (nothing wrong with hook-ups)? Any out there that are more personality based rather than physical? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/l2fqox/what_is_the_best_old_platform_for_someone_looking/ |
chasingmountainss | 2024-03-17 21:00:23 | 1,710,709,223 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bh8hfe | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bh8hfe/when_do_i_know_if_im_ready_for_dating_post_divorce/ | 3 | I’m 38 and I had been married since 19. We’ve been split up for two years now, officially 1 year. Sometimes I want the touch and sex, but I go on dating apps and it’s so awkward. I doubt everything everyone says. I haven’t gone on a date but I don’t even know what people do on dates? I don’t even know how to make guy f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When do I know if I’m ready for dating post divorce? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bh8hfe/when_do_i_know_if_im_ready_for_dating_post_divorce/ |
eatinsomepoundcake | 2022-12-20 01:45:11 | 1,671,500,711 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | zqalbv | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zqalbv/is_it_ever_ok_to_ask_why_someone_doesnt_want_a/ | 2 | Hey everyone, new to this forum because I’m very lost at the moment. I (23 M) have not always had the best luck with women, but in the last few years I have learned a lot, gotten better at the online dating game and have been on a number of dates with my matches. For most of the last year or so, I have not gotten past ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ever ok to ask why someone doesn’t want a second date/to see you again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zqalbv/is_it_ever_ok_to_ask_why_someone_doesnt_want_a/ |
EnvironmentalEgg5309 | 2023-09-28 23:58:17 | 1,695,945,497 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16uw30h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16uw30h/dating_app_conversations/ | 1 | What’s up with the dry ass conversations on these dating apps? Do men not try anymore? Do we as women have to do all the heavy lifting? Maybe I’m old school but I feel like some of the men these days don’t even try anymore. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App conversations | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16uw30h/dating_app_conversations/ |
Flodo_McFloodiloo | 2024-09-30 21:58:54 | 1,727,733,534 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ft7vtn | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ft7vtn/the_stereotypical_outdoorsy_women_of_dating_apps/ | 1 | I've been wondering about this for well over a decade now. It concerns a sort of person whom I generally am not "into". It's not a negative judgment of them; I'm fine with acknowledging it's just a "me thing", but I'm at least curious why a very specific sort of profile keeps showing up on dating apps. The women I'm de... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The stereotypical "outdoorsy women" of dating apps. Are they a product of my region, a standard tactic of "fishing" for men, or something else? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ft7vtn/the_stereotypical_outdoorsy_women_of_dating_apps/ |
Asdanor | 2023-06-27 21:43:17 | 1,687,902,197 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14kqii0 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 313 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14kqii0/hahaha_im_gonna_tell_you_a_funny_story_that_i_had/ | 510 | Like why would you lie then? We were talking for a while and he was always telling me when it comes to sex that he was so good at it, and it was stupid that some men don’t think of women’s pleasure bla bla. He could do foreplay for a very long time.. and he could last very long. But nothing of these happened. after he ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hahaha I’m gonna tell you a funny story that I had with one of my tinder dates. He told (without I even asked) that he was so good at sex( could last it very long) and at giving pleasure to women but he neither tried to orgasm me nor gave me any pleasure and finished in 3 mins 😅 | 510 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14kqii0/hahaha_im_gonna_tell_you_a_funny_story_that_i_had/ |
InspectorCertain9634 | 2024-03-30 17:04:09 | 1,711,818,249 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1brmpds | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brmpds/22_and_never_been_in_an_relationship_what_can_i_do/ | 1 | All my encounters have been guys who don’t want anything with me. I’m just tired. Last night I deleted everyone who I knew for a fact just wanted entertainment. I met this guy who I matched with on 2 different dating apps who I currently hang out w occasionally on my college campus. He’s cute and all but it’s still ver... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22 and never been in an relationship, what can I do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brmpds/22_and_never_been_in_an_relationship_what_can_i_do/ |
chipotleluver69 | 2024-07-18 20:27:33 | 1,721,334,453 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e6l989 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e6l989/how_do_i_send_this_message/ | 1 | been talking to this man i met on a dating app since december. he cool and all and we met a couple times but we live far from each other so we facetimed and texted a lot. hes cool and would listen to all my rants and we talked a good amount. came back for summer and saw him a couple days ago and he is just so different... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how do i send this message | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e6l989/how_do_i_send_this_message/ |
pyramidsofgeezer | 2022-04-29 00:35:46 | 1,651,192,546 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ue9iuo | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ue9iuo/when_do_you_talk_to_the_person_you_are_seeing/ | 3 | Do you even discuss it? Or do you assume exclusivity? I've been seeing a guy for 2 months (not a long time, I know), but we see each other most days of the week and have spent a lot of time together. I knew we hadn't talked about being exclusive, but I figured we were only seeing each other- largely because with the am... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When do you talk to the person you are seeing about exclusivity? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ue9iuo/when_do_you_talk_to_the_person_you_are_seeing/ |
MediumComfort9702 | 2024-05-31 08:20:24 | 1,717,143,624 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d4qm6z | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d4qm6z/the_guy_28_i_f28_have_been_chatting_with_deleted/ | 1 | I've been chatting with a guy I met on a dating app. He was the first to reach out and we've been in contact for three weeks. Yesterday I noticed that he deleted his profile picture. He had stated that the picture is a few years old and that there aren't any recent pictures of him. The style of his messages has not cha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The guy (28) I (F28) have been chatting with deleted his profile picture | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d4qm6z/the_guy_28_i_f28_have_been_chatting_with_deleted/ |
whengoatscry | 2019-12-09 17:56:48 | 1,575,914,208 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | e8de6x | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e8de6x/need_help_with_texting/ | 1 | I know, I know. Anyway, I matched with this guy on okcupid early last week. We chatted for a bit on there and then he gave me his number. We’ve been texting back and fourth the past couple of days. It’s been a pretty good back and fourth and I’m digging our texts. However, I’ve initiated a lot of the messages. I was pl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help with texting. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e8de6x/need_help_with_texting/ |
Infamous_Potato3198 | 2024-04-07 03:45:15 | 1,712,461,515 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bxuriz | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bxuriz/i_am_starting_to_see_why_women_are_into_tall_guys/ | 1 | 2 times and she is 5 10 and i am 6 ft. It just feels weird. I know this sounds so superficial and I really hate myself at the moment but i think i like women who are at least 4 inches shorter than me. this sucks because we are totally getting along. perhaps i need to bite the bullet and realize that there is no perfect... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I am starting to see why women are into tall guys - i have a dated a women | 1 | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bxuriz/i_am_starting_to_see_why_women_are_into_tall_guys/ |
InterestingCode6080 | 2024-08-13 02:18:18 | 1,723,515,498 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1eqwg93 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eqwg93/what_did_i_do_wrong/ | 1 | I'm not trying to bash my ex or anything shes so sweet. I, Steve M (20), met my second ex-girlfriend (18) at work. She was shy and quiet, but I liked her because she’s emo, cute and seemed really sweet. Since we're both shy, it took some courage to talk to her (im a nonchalant dreadhead). I asked for her Instagram so w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | what did i do wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eqwg93/what_did_i_do_wrong/ |
Hemotherapy | 2019-10-29 19:05:11 | 1,572,375,911 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | douhct | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/douhct/start_as_friends/ | 2 | I'll try to make this as brief as I can but I had a weird night this last weekend with a "date" I went on. Some quick backstory, this happened with a girl that I matched with on multiple apps last years. One time she unmatched me after having what was objectively a great conversation. Later we match one another and sh... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Start as friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/douhct/start_as_friends/ |
dobos13579 | 2022-01-21 23:41:47 | 1,642,808,507 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | s9ofrk | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s9ofrk/need_help_with_offline_dating/ | 2 | Hello everyone Online dating made me miserable. Just check my post history for proof... It really bringed me down. Now I try to improve myself. I started a diet, planing on doing exercises, but I have no idea, where to meet women offline. I don't drink, and generally feel bad about bars, and my interests (motorsport, h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need help with offline dating! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s9ofrk/need_help_with_offline_dating/ |
swerkingforaliving | 2016-11-21 00:30:37 | 1,479,688,237 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5e15qz | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5e15qz/superliked_matched_unmatched_bummed/ | 1 | Oh man. I fired up my Tinder account last night after a few weeks break... and was surprised and excited to find that a GREAT guy had superliked me. Woo hoo Attractive, same age, decent job, looking for "intellect and substance" (I think I can fake it). I like him, we match. Then, because I'm an idiot, I put my phone d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Superliked ... matched ... unmatched ... bummed ... | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5e15qz/superliked_matched_unmatched_bummed/ |
drowninginmizery | 2023-10-16 13:47:47 | 1,697,464,067 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1796djv | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1796djv/is_this_a_red_flag_in_a_potential_date/ | 1 | I was on bumble and matched this guy that we had a lot in common. I got his IG and messaged him and mentioned I’m into fitness and he said something like oh that’s great and I said yeah so many benefits and he said yeah plus plus keeps the booty nice, I’m definitely an ass guy. I know it’s just a small casual comment b... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Is this a red flag in a potential date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1796djv/is_this_a_red_flag_in_a_potential_date/ |
newusername00777 | 2019-07-16 04:46:02 | 1,563,252,362 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cdsgx4 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cdsgx4/19m_have_a_hunch_my_19f_gf_lied_about_sexual_past/ | 2 | So I met this girl off Tinder months ago. She swore I was the only person she'd met on there and that a friend had downloaded it for her to try out, and she only had it for a day. I later found a Tinder activation code on her phone that confirmed this. We had sex the first night we met. She became completely smitten wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [19M] Have a hunch my [19F] GF lied about sexual past. Am I being rational? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cdsgx4/19m_have_a_hunch_my_19f_gf_lied_about_sexual_past/ |
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