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scifibutterfly | 2020-01-19 22:30:32 | 1,579,473,032 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | er3id1 | true | Venting | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/er3id1/hot_and_coldits_not_just_women/ | 1 | I was chatting with a guy (34) on a dating app. It was going well, so we moved to text. I felt that he was coming on too strong. I even asked about half through the conversation why he was laying it down so thick. He took the question well, had an answer, didn't sound offended. Next he says he'd like to move on to the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hot and Cold...It's not just women. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/er3id1/hot_and_coldits_not_just_women/ |
thisisdy | 2023-11-07 11:36:21 | 1,699,356,981 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17psc63 | true | Long Distance ✈️ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17psc63/getting_butterflies/ | 3 | Does anyone still get butterflies? Im 31 F , living in nyc. I travel for work and so I will from time to time change my hinge location. Dating in other cities is always a lot nicer. ( in my opinion) anyways I matched with this guy a few weeks ago in TX. And let me tell you , it feels like I’m in in high school. We talk... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting Butterflies ? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17psc63/getting_butterflies/ |
SuperMassiveBighorse | 2019-07-04 22:56:59 | 1,562,281,019 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | c98tyc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c98tyc/building_self_confidence_after_multiple/ | 1 | Hiya, so I'm a 23 year old guy. I've had issues with my mental health for a while now, and although I've made good strides on my self worth in relation to friends, i really struggle with women. Since my first abusive relationship with a girl when I was 15 I haven't ever gotten my confidence very far. In short I was ver... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Building self confidence after multiple rejections and emotionally abusive past. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c98tyc/building_self_confidence_after_multiple/ |
einherjar81 | 2014-06-03 03:29:14 | 1,401,766,154 | 0 | ['plenty of fish', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 2767om | null | null | 17 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2767om/best_alternatives_to_okcupid/ | 6 | I've registered and created profiles on a lot of different dating websites, including Match and Plenty of Fish. My favorite site that I've used is OkCupid, because I find the "Questions" tab very useful for weeding out people with whom I would be incompatible. However, I find that I very rarely find the type of person ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best alternatives to OkCupid? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2767om/best_alternatives_to_okcupid/ |
peanutjez | 2023-12-17 06:00:34 | 1,702,792,834 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'dating site'] | 0 | 18kan52 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18kan52/looked_through_my_bfs_deleted_email_folder_and/ | 1 | I (22F) found a deleted dating app notification called Pinalove — a dating site in the Philippines in my bf’s (37M) emails. We live in Canada and he went on a trip in the Philippines way before we met. It happened a few months ago and I still think about it on and off. I decided to look through his emails out of curios... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Looked through my BF’s deleted email folder and found a dating app notification | 1 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18kan52/looked_through_my_bfs_deleted_email_folder_and/ |
TiredHumum | 2022-12-01 17:18:57 | 1,669,915,137 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | z9th87 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z9th87/is_this_moving_too_fast/ | 0 | Okay so I've been out of the dating game for a long time, just came out of a long term relationship. I thought I'd get tinder just to have a no strings attached little fling. Obviously I want to chat a little before anything happens because I'm not a whore and also don't want to get murdered. I met the guy one time, ju... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this moving too fast??? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z9th87/is_this_moving_too_fast/ |
MarketLittle625 | 2023-07-26 19:59:38 | 1,690,401,578 | 0 | null | 0 | 15ag1j9 | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15ag1j9/had_someone_reach_out_on_hinge_after_4_months/ | 1 | I got hinge premium back in March just for the hell of it. Lots of matches came from it and a couple dates but nothing noteworthy. I usually don't unmatch on Hinge unless it's a negative conversation because it makes you proceed through 3 prompts to unmatch. So, we had only exchanged 3 messages back and forth proceeds ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Had someone reach out on Hinge after 4 months | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15ag1j9/had_someone_reach_out_on_hinge_after_4_months/ |
KforB | 2019-05-23 03:14:53 | 1,558,581,293 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | bry66m | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bry66m/self_conscious_being_seen_in_public_with_thisngirl/ | 0 | I matched with a woman on Bumble and we both want to meet up. Issue is that she's not normally the type of girl I'd sleep with, let alone date but our conversation got pretty hot which turned me on. I live in the downtown of a big city so I run into people I know almost every time I leave my condo so I don't wanna go o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Self conscious being seen in public with thisngirl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bry66m/self_conscious_being_seen_in_public_with_thisngirl/ |
A_nice_Redditor_ | 2022-06-22 12:23:25 | 1,655,900,605 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | vi3zwg | true | Support Needed | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vi3zwg/i_just_want_to_give_up_but_i_cant/ | 1 | I\[26M\] always struggle in dating for my whole adult-life. I mean I'm dating really actively for about 4 years now and only got dates with maybe 5 different girls. With one of them it worked out. I had a relationship for 5 weeks until we broke up because of her mental issues. About 6 weeks ago I met a really nice girl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just want to give up - but I can't | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vi3zwg/i_just_want_to_give_up_but_i_cant/ |
NostalgicStarfish | 2019-08-13 01:27:36 | 1,565,659,656 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | cply4m | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cply4m/found_a_guy_ive_known_since_childhood_on_tinderhe/ | 2 | So I (22F) recently just got out of a 4 year relationship and I haven’t been on tinder (It’s been inactive and blank). So I logged back into tinder now that I’m single, updated it and then left it for almost a week. It basically said not looking for anything serious (obviously I have no idea what I want immediately aft... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found a guy I’ve known since childhood on tinder—he unmatched me after liking me first. Although hilarious, what just happened? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cply4m/found_a_guy_ive_known_since_childhood_on_tinderhe/ |
causticcuck | 2019-06-28 21:19:32 | 1,561,756,772 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | c6pwfj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c6pwfj/is_it_just_me_or_is_tinder_snobby_af/ | 0 | Not here to flex or self loath myself, all my peers n coworkers are telling me I’m a good looking guy, and nobody matches with me.... Tinder honestly makes me feel like trash n unwanted, like a wholesale boy... my profile is solid, I show my personality in my photos I.e. doing outdoorsy things TLDR: is it just me? Or i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it just me or is Tinder snobby af? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c6pwfj/is_it_just_me_or_is_tinder_snobby_af/ |
Monstin26 | 2021-03-18 05:06:34 | 1,616,043,994 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | m7jn73 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m7jn73/26m_i_need_dating_advice/ | 2 | Okay, so I'm 26 and I've never had a serious girlfriend. I never socialized much growing up so I have a hard time connecting with people. I live on my own and have a job so I have that going for me. But I want to find a girlfriend. Online dating has been absolutely awful for me, all I match with are fake accounts, and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 26M I need dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m7jn73/26m_i_need_dating_advice/ |
TheLSDavinci | 2024-04-22 13:28:37 | 1,713,792,517 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1caasnq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 426 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1caasnq/does_every_woman_have_a_boyfriend/ | 297 | Sorry for that intro but it just seems like every single woman I meet, talk to or approach has a boyfriend. Do they really? or do they just say to let you down politely? My older friends/colleagues, even my parents, noticed that things are not as they were 20+ years ago. "You wanna meet somebody? Go to a club. Go bar h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does EVERY woman have a boyfriend?!? | 297 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1caasnq/does_every_woman_have_a_boyfriend/ |
ancientandtired | 2023-12-09 04:58:28 | 1,702,097,908 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18e5xph | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18e5xph/is_this_a_red_flag/ | 1 | Planning to meet up with a bumble match for the first time. Conversation seemed nice and considerate, but the way he was trying to drive it home that he's a protector and that it's scary out there for women feels like a red flag. Sometimes I feel like people actually are what they go out of their way to tell you that t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this a red flag? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18e5xph/is_this_a_red_flag/ |
mwolfff | 2020-11-15 02:59:51 | 1,605,409,191 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | juesvn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/juesvn/i_just_want_her_so_bad/ | 1 | So her (20F) and I (19m) have been friends for a few months and we have been pretty good friends for a while. I should mention I'm high functioning autistic as that does have a huge impact on dating and relationships. We text pretty much everyday and hang out a couple times a week. When we started hanging out she was i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just want her so bad | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/juesvn/i_just_want_her_so_bad/ |
Kaalia22 | 2023-07-16 18:50:09 | 1,689,533,409 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 151e49q | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/151e49q/am_i_borderline_fkboy/ | 1 | I recently engaged in a conversation on Reddit with a woman who expressed frustration over the constant sexual advances from men she encounters on online dating apps, whom she referred to as "f\\kboys" or con artists solely interested in sleeping with women. This made me question whether or not I fit that description. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I borderline "fkboy"? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/151e49q/am_i_borderline_fkboy/ |
LoyalWingman | 2022-04-15 15:04:19 | 1,650,035,059 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | u4a28w | true | null | 216 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u4a28w/im_not_interested_in_dating_anyone_right_now_can/ | 954 | So yeah, I learned the hard way that “I’m not interested in dating anyone right now” can and perhaps should be interpreted as “I’m not interested in dating YOU” The context: I met this girl through mutual friends probably about 6 months ago and I felt like we hit it off big time. We started hanging out on our own quite... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | “I’m not interested in dating anyone right now” can and perhaps should be interpreted as “I’m not interested in dating YOU” | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u4a28w/im_not_interested_in_dating_anyone_right_now_can/ |
saveherashes_ | 2023-12-06 04:18:48 | 1,701,836,328 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18bvn4u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18bvn4u/do_any_other_women_ask_guys_on_a_date_on_social/ | 1 | I’m a 29 year old woman. I’m generally considered conventionally attractive but I’m shy and super awkward. I’ve had a few local online friends (some I knew vaguely from high school or have mutual friends etc) that I had crushes on (and I think reciprocated) but because of my personality and issues after a traumatic lon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do any other women ask guys on a date on social media? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18bvn4u/do_any_other_women_ask_guys_on_a_date_on_social/ |
timeshifter76 | 2024-03-19 05:54:50 | 1,710,827,690 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bid7vf | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bid7vf/anyone_feel_that_online_dating_is_like_a/ | 13 | At times, you get that dopamine rush when you get a new match or when they are messaging you back. But when you get stood up, unmatched, ghosted, no response, etc, it makes you feel disposable. Then the cycle repeats. When things are going good, you feel like the top of the world from all that validation. But when thin... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone feel that online dating is like a rollercoaster? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bid7vf/anyone_feel_that_online_dating_is_like_a/ |
lemonwater761 | 2019-07-27 03:15:58 | 1,564,197,358 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | cichlq | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cichlq/how_to_respond_to_tinder_profile/ | 2 | So I matched with a cute girl on Tinder today. Her profile is fairly sparse, her about me says: “only here for the validation”. What in the world is a good line to start a conversation with her? I don’t want to sound like a douche or a broken record. I can’t think of anything original Please help your boy out Reddit | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to respond to tinder profile! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cichlq/how_to_respond_to_tinder_profile/ |
SpeedLimitsSuck89 | 2021-02-26 20:04:20 | 1,614,369,860 | null | null | 0 | lt6h8s | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lt6h8s/tinder_is_so_glitchy/ | 2 | Holy fuck is this annoying! I can't message anyone. when I try to message it says "error a message failed to send" and when I try to resend it doesn't work. I've tried on wifi, cellular, I've closed the app, and I've deleted and redownloaded the app. All not working. How the hell can I fix this so I can actually messag... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder is SO glitchy | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lt6h8s/tinder_is_so_glitchy/ |
NatTheGreat- | 2021-10-12 07:45:50 | 1,634,024,750 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | q6gz2s | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q6gz2s/no_luck_getting_into_relationships/ | 1 | M23 here. Been dating for 5yrs mainly through OLD and have had plenty success getting dates. But failed 100% at finding a partner. We date for a month or 2 then they usually lie to me and say, “ive got a lot going on in my life and cant do focus on someone” or “im not ready for a relationship right now” and then litera... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No luck getting into relationships | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q6gz2s/no_luck_getting_into_relationships/ |
Born-Attorney5441 | 2024-03-27 01:38:46 | 1,711,503,526 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bopsub | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bopsub/its_difficult_to_get_over_my_ex/ | 2 | I (29F) broke up with my ex boyfriend (27M) of 2.5 yrs last May and it was the second time for me to break up with him. But I really miss him and wanna get him back… I had to break up with him cos the relationship with him was a burden. Around that time, my mum’s cancer got transmitted to her lungs and diagnosed with t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It’s difficult to get over my ex… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bopsub/its_difficult_to_get_over_my_ex/ |
Heavy_Carpet6365 | 2023-07-13 13:57:09 | 1,689,256,629 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14yllg7 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14yllg7/short_guy51_looking_for_advice/ | 1 | Hello Sensei's, I am a short guy(smart), I have difficulty finding girls.. i do match on dating apps but I kind of stand up people because I think girls would be turned off. Any advise.. is there any hope for me.. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Short guy(5'1) looking for Advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14yllg7/short_guy51_looking_for_advice/ |
Toxic_Playa | 2024-06-13 05:14:11 | 1,718,255,651 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1der7i9 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1der7i9/girl_i_was_talking_to_said_she_was_too_anxious_to/ | 1 | This might be long and sorry but I want to give as much detail as possible to help paint a picture as well as messages for extra help. So there is this girl that I have known for the last year. We matched on Hinge last year but nothing ever came of it except adding each other on snap. Fast forward a week ago, I message... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I was talking to said she was too anxious to date. What does it really mean? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1der7i9/girl_i_was_talking_to_said_she_was_too_anxious_to/ |
livingwell1332 | 2020-12-04 06:07:47 | 1,607,062,067 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | k6f8f0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k6f8f0/20m_with_little_to_no_experience_looking_for/ | 2 | I am a 20 year old guy with basically no dating experience. In the past I was quite shy (always worried about making a mistake or just being too scared to even reach out!), but have begun opening up throughout the pandemic. I have tried online dating but haven't found much success. What other strategies would you all r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 20M with little to no experience looking for advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k6f8f0/20m_with_little_to_no_experience_looking_for/ |
No_Solid8613 | 2021-12-14 01:28:06 | 1,639,445,286 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | rfvnmd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rfvnmd/nyc_where_to_meet_people/ | 0 | My friend and I (mid-20s Fs) are looking for advice as to where to meet guys in NYC. We're both hardworking young professionals who have had our fair share of experiences meeting guys in bars and on Hinge, Bumble etc. We are at a lost. WHERE IN NYC CAN WE MEET SOME RESPECTABLE MEN? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | NYC WHERE TO MEET PEOPLE | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rfvnmd/nyc_where_to_meet_people/ |
deezseeds | 2021-03-08 23:09:33 | 1,615,244,973 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | m0ssn2 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m0ssn2/i_cant_tell_if_shes_into_me/ | 2 | Matched a girl on hinge 3 weeks ago. We’ve pretty much messaged every day, and had 2 video calls with the most recent one being yesterday. She said it was really nice to see me and she’d like to see me again next week. I ask her today if Friday would be a good day, and she said “Maybe, I’m sorry for being up in the air... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can’t tell if she’s into me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m0ssn2/i_cant_tell_if_shes_into_me/ |
cyclepoet77 | 2022-05-31 02:23:18 | 1,653,963,798 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | v1fwxx | true | Question | 55 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/v1fwxx/old_or_in_the_real_world/ | 12 | I (44 M) had some issues come up several years ago that wrecked my self-confidence regarding dating. Now that I'm finally getting my life back in order, I feel somewhat more confident about getting myself out there without feeling like a walking dumpster fire. I very recently signed up on a couple OLD apps, but haven't... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD or in the Real World? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/v1fwxx/old_or_in_the_real_world/ |
[deleted] | 2015-07-06 00:30:29 | 1,436,142,629 | 0 | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 3c8y4q | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/3c8y4q/how_do_my_perpetually_single_peeps_keep_their/ | 4 | My first post, so exciting Don't worry, there's a TLDR at the bottom :) Anywho, I'm a 24 y.o. male living in Bowling Green, OH (lots of corn fields, BGSU, 30 mins south of Toledo, nothing particularly exciting) and in the second year of my Master's program. Been here since 08 (did my undergrad here too), and haven't re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do my (perpetually) single peeps keep their minds off dating? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3c8y4q/how_do_my_perpetually_single_peeps_keep_their/ |
Forsaken-Tell-8954 | 2023-11-22 17:36:20 | 1,700,674,580 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 181et2k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/181et2k/any_party_goers_who_potential_wingmen_in_nl/ | 1 | As a slightly introverted guy who was never really into parties or going to clubs or bars, nor did I really knew people who often go there. I’ve tried dating apps before but I absolutely despise them, they just feel so fake and unnatural. So I prefer approaching women in person, showing immediately who I am and what I’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any party goers who potential Wingmen in NL? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/181et2k/any_party_goers_who_potential_wingmen_in_nl/ |
msfitness28 | 2020-09-20 04:15:29 | 1,600,575,329 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | iw75g7 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/iw75g7/should_we_stay_friends_or_should_i_let_go/ | 2 | This is my first post in this group (long time lurker and I’ve really enjoyed reading some of the content in here so far). I met a guy on Bumble this past February. We hit it off immediately since we had a lot in common, great chemistry, and I could gather that we are both attracted to each other. I’m 30f and he is 36m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Should we stay friends or should I let go... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iw75g7/should_we_stay_friends_or_should_i_let_go/ |
EVILRAFFAM | 2024-08-20 11:44:07 | 1,724,154,247 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ewtd8n | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewtd8n/should_i_message_or_am_i_cooked/ | 3 | A girl messaged me a few days ago and we talked up to Friday. She said she was off camping with her mates and would be slow replying. Before she left we kind of agreed a date and I have not heard anything in 4 days. Should I message her again or an I just cooked and being ghosted? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I message or am I cooked? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewtd8n/should_i_message_or_am_i_cooked/ |
VegetableUpstairs978 | 2023-09-16 12:46:05 | 1,694,868,365 | 0 | null | 0 | 16k6pzj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16k6pzj/online_dating_is_dead/ | 1 | Online dating is dead. The internet is a cloak anyone can wear to appear any way they want. We all end up getting played and getting our feelings hurt. Online dating is a fantasy we all play into; it’s a game and an amusing pasttime. We don’t know a person unless we know them irl. The internet leaves out the most vital... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating is dead | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16k6pzj/online_dating_is_dead/ |
Exact-Capital401 | 2024-03-02 05:26:27 | 1,709,357,187 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b4gj2j | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b4gj2j/rant_about_men_wanting_to_see_me_but_not_planning/ | 1 | I’m actually really annoyed with myself for a being a fool, not once, but twice - with the same person. Many years ago I decided to have sex with someone on the first date as I was horny and hadn’t had my needs fulfilled in a while. Plus there was intense chemistry between us. There was just no way it wasn’t going to h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Rant about men wanting to see me but not planning anything | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b4gj2j/rant_about_men_wanting_to_see_me_but_not_planning/ |
bobbyboiR6 | 2022-12-11 13:05:22 | 1,670,763,922 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | zir61l | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zir61l/dating_help/ | 1 | Okay so by the title, you all know why you’re here. I’m 23M. Matched with a girl on hinge, you know the standard but she was keen to flirt and talk back so I quickly asked her on a date there and then. We’re going bowling and a couple drinks! So all good. I also got her number, she doesn’t have mine. Do or how do i tex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating help! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zir61l/dating_help/ |
Only-Monitor937 | 2024-07-30 07:13:56 | 1,722,323,636 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1efn3db | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1efn3db/i_20f_am_stuck_in_a_mess_with_2_people_both_21m/ | 1 | so guy 1 is my best friend who i had been in love with for a very significant amount of time. after his breakup he showed interest in me but left me saying he cant date anyone because hes hurt cause of his last relationship and he needs to focus on himself. that left me completely heartbroken because giving me the hope... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (20F) am stuck in a mess with 2 people (both 21M) and its becoming unbearable. What should i do? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1efn3db/i_20f_am_stuck_in_a_mess_with_2_people_both_21m/ |
Sirmikesalot | 2019-11-10 16:47:42 | 1,573,404,462 | null | ['swipe', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | dudt67 | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dudt67/third_date_curse/ | 1 | Mostly just a vent but looking to see if I'm doing something blatantly wrong that I'm overlooking. Background on myself. I'm a 27M in the a large city in the Midwest. I got out of a 3 year relationship in the beginning of June and started using Hinge and Bumble at the beginning of August. This is my first time "dating"... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Third Date Curse | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dudt67/third_date_curse/ |
quixoticalerotical | 2024-03-04 07:55:41 | 1,709,538,941 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1b65eyj | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1b65eyj/what_to_think_of_this/ | 1 | Long story short, he’s cheated on me on and off in the 4 1/2 years we’ve been together. We got married. We got pregnant and we had a baby. I thought everything was okay but I found out about a tinder 2 weeks before our baby was born. He got oral from the crack head at work a year ago. 3 months ago he resigns because th... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What to think of this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1b65eyj/what_to_think_of_this/ |
kenziecrowe | 2022-06-07 21:08:37 | 1,654,636,117 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | v77r48 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v77r48/found_out_my_43f_boyfriends_40m_last_relationship/ | 2 | Met a guy online and we have been dating for 3 months. We hit it off really well and we're really excited to spend time together. We are about the same age and both divorced with children. We were married for about the same amount of time and divorced a while (me 10+ years, him 5 years) I told him I wasn't ready for a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found out my (43f) boyfriend's (40m) last relationship was with a 19yo, and I'm thinking of ending it. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v77r48/found_out_my_43f_boyfriends_40m_last_relationship/ |
throw_away2398 | 2015-04-04 20:24:24 | 1,428,179,064 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 31gabc | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/31gabc/so_confused_is_it_the_bench_or_the_friendzone_she/ | 5 | TL;DR- She [24] is giving me [32M] subtle mixed signals. Should I pursue or is it not worth it? Background- We are co-workers (IDC, I date co-workers) and have worked together about 10 hours a week since she was hired in Nov. After the Christmas season I gave her my number and then asked if we could go on a date over t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So Confused Is it the bench or the Friend-zone? She is super flirty, but doesn't let me in to her life, whats the deal? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/31gabc/so_confused_is_it_the_bench_or_the_friendzone_she/ |
UIOUZ | 2023-04-11 19:49:17 | 1,681,242,557 | 0 | null | 0 | 12ivals | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12ivals/is_there_a_way_to_get_your_deleted_badoo_account/ | 0 | I deleted a badoo account and it’s not more than 30 days, is is possible to get it back? No message came when I tried to restore Password. Also is there a way to contact badoo support without filling up the form on their website as it doesnt work because my account is not active, thus They cant find it and it wont work... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is there a way to get your deleted badoo account back with phone number? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12ivals/is_there_a_way_to_get_your_deleted_badoo_account/ |
PosadosThanatos | 2019-04-28 09:45:11 | 1,556,444,711 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bi9mz9 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bi9mz9/if_getting_a_gf_in_college_has_been_completely/ | 0 | Of course dating and the conditions of the world will just continue to get worse till I die, so 15 years from now the first Blue Ocean Event would’ve happened and mass migration would be underway, so, when I’m 35 the world will literally be ending, so there’s that. Plus I’ll be fucking old. As it stands now, dating in ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If getting a gf in college has been completely impossible and it only gets harder from here will I basically be completely alone until I’m 35? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bi9mz9/if_getting_a_gf_in_college_has_been_completely/ |
2019istheworstevr | 2020-07-14 05:21:08 | 1,594,704,068 | null | null | 0 | hqvkn4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hqvkn4/not_a_shit_post_genuine_question_about/ | 8 | Twice now, within 6 months, I’ve had this exact exchange with two different men Me- how was your weekend Him- just got done with surgery Me- what was the surgery for Him- to get circumcised Me- ok, Uhm, well did it go well? Him- yeah! You like cut guys right? Immediately unmatched. Mind you, no mention of ANYTHING sexu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Not a shit post. Genuine question about “circumcision surgery” conversation | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hqvkn4/not_a_shit_post_genuine_question_about/ |
Bakka_girl | 2024-08-17 18:26:23 | 1,723,919,183 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1euofft | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1euofft/did_he_just_abuse_me_for_nothing/ | 0 | I am shocked by what I have just experienced. I started talking to a guy on a dating app. Initially, he didn’t want to share his Instagram ID, but then he agreed. To my shock, the Instagram account had a random superhero name, and all the posts were about food. He had only 7 followers. It felt like a fake account. I st... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Did he just abuse me for nothing? | 0 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1euofft/did_he_just_abuse_me_for_nothing/ |
Dagons_Realm | 2020-01-28 03:56:41 | 1,580,183,801 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | ev05sm | true | Venting | 60 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ev05sm/alcoholdrugsmarijuana_required_for_dating_these/ | 2 | Maybe it's just where I live, or maybe I'm the odd one, but are these things required for dating or even just hooking up? I don't drink alcohol, smoke, or consume drugs or marijuana. Yet, it seems most people around me indulge in at least one of those things and sometimes more or all of them. I go on Tinder and other d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Alcohol/Drugs/Marijuana Required For Dating These Days? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ev05sm/alcoholdrugsmarijuana_required_for_dating_these/ |
lostasianguy | 2017-07-24 00:20:28 | 1,500,855,628 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | 6p4y3t | null | null | 29 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6p4y3t/when_online_dating_is_not_an_option_what_is_the/ | 4 | First off, let me explain why online dating is no longer an option for me. I am a 34 year old, 5'5 Asian-American guy. I am not trying to turn this into a woe-is-me thread. Besides my height, I'm a very accomplished person and I know I have good things to offer as a partner. I have a solid career. I make over six figur... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When Online Dating is not an option: What is the alternative in the digital world we live in? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6p4y3t/when_online_dating_is_not_an_option_what_is_the/ |
athenaxx | 2015-08-12 16:38:47 | 1,439,397,527 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3gqnpo | null | null | 457 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3gqnpo/as_a_woman_how_should_i_state_my_height/ | 179 | I'm a rather tall lady, so when I say I prefer someone my height and up, that's like saying " no one under 6'0. " But I've never actually said that, because that's kind of a dick way to phrase it. Is there a polite way to state a height preference on an app like Tinder? For the record no I don't care if the woman is ta... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | As a woman, how should I state my height preference when online dating without sounding like an ass? | 179 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3gqnpo/as_a_woman_how_should_i_state_my_height/ |
Reafricpysche | 2024-05-30 01:41:18 | 1,717,033,278 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d3sk0r | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d3sk0r/is_all_dating_now_online_is_approaching_all_dead/ | 1 | I do frequently hear from friends and acquaintances that meeting someone outside of a dating app is weird and no longer cool. I've used dating apps, and it has been good overall. However, as someone (in my 30s) who grew up in an era when approaching was the norm, this is sad. I'm used to approaching and I find it natur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is all dating now online? Is approaching all dead? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d3sk0r/is_all_dating_now_online_is_approaching_all_dead/ |
almondtree2018 | 2020-11-11 05:44:37 | 1,605,073,477 | null | null | 0 | js2gk8 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/js2gk8/after_the_first_date/ | 0 | It was fun. And we are still exchanging texts, but I saw him online on the dating site. How am I supposed to proceed? This feels like a dumping game. If he finds someone else he is attracted to, I will get dumped/ghosted? He is talking to me while he is looking for someone else? How does online dating work? It is going... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | After the first date | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/js2gk8/after_the_first_date/ |
HomeSuccessful8408 | 2024-07-04 00:08:11 | 1,720,051,691 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dut9sy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dut9sy/gutted/ | 2 | I don't understand people who talk to someone then ghost them. Like share super personal life stories and shit, and then after a week or so just never text back... Met girl on Tinder, went well got her number, text back and forth non stop, shared our life's stories and shit then just... Not text them.back. nothing happ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gutted... | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dut9sy/gutted/ |
ffb_throwaway | 2015-06-15 18:29:54 | 1,434,392,994 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 39xyl8 | null | null | 22 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/39xyl8/single_women_when_was_the_last_time_you_had_sex/ | 3 | The last time I had sex was end of October 2013. It's slowly dawning on me that actually that's nearly 2 years ago and it's quite a long time. I was in a casual FWB type relationship for 6 months in 2013. But I caught feelings and got ghosted which messed me up pretty bad. I was dealing with some personal stuff and job... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Single women - when was the last time you had sex? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/39xyl8/single_women_when_was_the_last_time_you_had_sex/ |
Ponceludonmalavoix | 2019-03-13 21:19:25 | 1,552,511,965 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | b0rin9 | true | Other | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b0rin9/a_bit_of_levity_for_rdating_stupid_ad_i_keep/ | 21 | So I don't know if everyone is seeing the ad pop up, might be regional advertising, but I keep getting this stupid ad for some real estate app which claims that it is "Just like Tinder for houses" I don't think they understand how that reads to someone who frequents r/dating: 1. You swipe right on tons of houses and no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A bit of levity for r/dating (stupid ad I keep getting on Reddit) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b0rin9/a_bit_of_levity_for_rdating_stupid_ad_i_keep/ |
[deleted] | 2014-04-05 03:59:25 | 1,396,670,365 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 228yco | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/228yco/is_he_not_interested/ | 0 | I have been dating this guy for 2 months. He has been really into me and has even brought up that it doesn't seem like I'm as interested in him. We just started to make it sexual the other week, and after he would text me non stop almost. Then the other day we went out for dinner and he really wanted me to go back with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he not interested? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/228yco/is_he_not_interested/ |
swinefish | 2020-03-05 17:09:51 | 1,583,428,191 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fdye2c | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fdye2c/how_do_i_explain_a_long_gap_in_my_dating_history/ | 1 | Due to a combination of severe anxiety and terrible self esteem, I (31M) haven't been in a relationship in 11 years, and haven't been on a date in six. I've been in therapy lately, and as part of that I'm going to start online dating. However I know that at some point, past relationships will come up and I have no idea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I explain a long gap in my dating history? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fdye2c/how_do_i_explain_a_long_gap_in_my_dating_history/ |
jennamimi | 2021-03-03 01:41:25 | 1,614,735,685 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lwi39w | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lwi39w/falling_deep/ | 1 | Over the summer I dated this guy I met from tinder. We had such a strong connection like nothing I ever felt before. I’ve been on so many dates with different guys but the connection I had with this guy was like nothing I ever felt before. Sadly, it didn’t last. He decided to focus on work and the relationship fizzled ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Falling deep | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lwi39w/falling_deep/ |
randomfartz | 2021-03-01 13:59:57 | 1,614,607,197 | null | null | 0 | lv9vsx | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lv9vsx/old_has_made_it_hard_to_trust_people/ | 81 | After all my experiences with bad behaviour on OLD - ghosting, slow fade, etc; it has now become really difficult for me to trust people. I recently started dating this guy, everything is great - we have both communicated our interest in each other, and have agreed to be honest if things change (not feeling it anymore,... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | OLD has made it hard to trust people | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lv9vsx/old_has_made_it_hard_to_trust_people/ |
Ok_Squirrel_7509 | 2023-09-26 20:22:30 | 1,695,759,750 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16sytp6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16sytp6/secretly_dating_39m_and_caught_feelings_for_23m/ | 1 | I’m 21F and I’m fed. TLDR; I am in love with two guys simultaneously keeping this secret from everyone I know. I met a man 18 years older than me when I was 20 on a dating app. Initially flirty banter - I didn’t think I’d meet the guy and didn’t take it seriously. A few months later he has work in my city and we decide... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Secretly dating 39M and caught feelings for 23M | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16sytp6/secretly_dating_39m_and_caught_feelings_for_23m/ |
Pigeondrake | 2022-11-11 14:28:42 | 1,668,176,922 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ysc3m6 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ysc3m6/feeling_like_im_being_ghosted_suspecting_myself/ | 1 | Hi, 28M here. Yesterday I met a woman at a board game bar, we spent some time playing together, we talked a bit about our personal lives, and before I had to leave she accepted that we exchange our phone numbers, and even mentioned the possibility of meeting again in the near future. Personally I consider it as an achi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling like I'm being ghosted, suspecting myself of having been a bit too pushy early after meeting her. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ysc3m6/feeling_like_im_being_ghosted_suspecting_myself/ |
FlowerNo5207 | 2024-01-11 22:19:35 | 1,705,011,575 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 194ea6p | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/194ea6p/should_i_26f_say_anything_to_this_guy_25m/ | 1 | Confused on where we stand but I don’t want ask… For some context, I’m 26F & he’s 25M. We’ve seen each other around multiple times over the course of 3ish years, as he works with one of my best friends & will come to her yearly parties/events (Christmas party, Halloween party, etc.) I am a serial monogamist so at 90% o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I (26F) say anything to this guy (25M)? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/194ea6p/should_i_26f_say_anything_to_this_guy_25m/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-07 20:30:14 | 1,407,443,414 | 0 | ['badoo'] | 0 | 2cx0hj | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/2cx0hj/spanish_major_looking_to_date_latinas_need_your/ | 0 | Hi. I have a degree in Spanish and I really would be interested in dating someone who shared this language with me. I am interested in the culture as well. I've tried Badoo.com, but that seemed really gimicky though I had some success with it. I have thought about going to Salsa nights at dance clubs or Spanish mass at... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Spanish major looking to date latinas. Need your help. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2cx0hj/spanish_major_looking_to_date_latinas_need_your/ |
BiffyNick | 2024-06-18 20:27:20 | 1,718,742,440 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1dj0m4h | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dj0m4h/why_am_i_getting_ghosted/ | 1 | Why do girls ghost (me) so much? It’s happened a few times in the past, and a couple times recently. For context, I (26m) matched with this girl on Tidner (27) a couple days ago. The vibes were good, we exchanged numbers, chatted all day the next day. We were vibing really well and making plans to meet up later in the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why am i getting ghosted? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dj0m4h/why_am_i_getting_ghosted/ |
throwawai07 | 2024-01-08 21:43:36 | 1,704,750,216 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 191wz3i | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/191wz3i/in_told_something_about_me_feels_weird_or_off/ | 1 | I'm a 21 year old male and have been on dating apps dating girls in my age range 18-22 for some time and never got beyond a first date. Whenever I ask after the date what the problem is I'm told that the date was great and I'm a nice guy that knows how to make a girl laugh but they always end it with the fact that at m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In told something about me feels weird or off... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191wz3i/in_told_something_about_me_feels_weird_or_off/ |
commeilfaut26 | 2023-10-28 07:47:33 | 1,698,479,253 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 17i8sdb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17i8sdb/am_i_getting_played/ | 1 | I (26F) matched with a man (41M) a month ago. He lives far away + had a few circumstances preventing a meet so we FaceTimed the few weeks. He ended up getting a hotel room for his stay to visit me —-before this he made sure to tell me that he doesn’t want me to think anything is implied by him staying up here for the w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I getting played? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17i8sdb/am_i_getting_played/ |
Oma266 | 2015-05-14 01:23:36 | 1,431,566,616 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 35wb6f | null | null | 31 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/35wb6f/do_some_guys_look_better_in_person_than_in_photos/ | 0 | Hey ladies, college guy here. I've been trying to get my tinder game up, but I've noticed I look really bad in pictures lol. I think I'm a decently handsome guy, but I have rough/boyish features (Like forhead lines) that dont look good when caught in a still photo, but aren't noticeable when my face is moving. Is there... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Do some guys look better in person than in photos? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/35wb6f/do_some_guys_look_better_in_person_than_in_photos/ |
miji6 | 2017-06-23 19:32:21 | 1,498,246,341 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6j3hrj | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6j3hrj/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | Hey guys so a little while ago I matched with a girl on tinder who happens to be friends with my younger brother and we started talking and the conversation was going pretty good then I asked for her number and we've had like 2 conversations but it just died out. She hasn't ever texted me first but I've tried not to te... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6j3hrj/what_should_i_do/ |
LivingDeadNoodle | 2022-04-11 14:28:57 | 1,649,687,337 | null | null | 0 | u191y8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u191y8/badoo_desktop_mode_on_tablet/ | 0 | I'm using Badoo on tablet but it's going into mobile mode and I really hate that. Is there any way to force it to use desktop version? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Badoo - desktop mode on tablet? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u191y8/badoo_desktop_mode_on_tablet/ |
2468throwawayacct | 2017-07-17 18:27:24 | 1,500,316,044 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 6nuzcr | null | Support | 2 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6nuzcr/im_28_weeks_pregnant_and_need_advice/ | 0 | So, Here I am, feeling pretty helpless. I have a story that many probably wont finish reading, but I have to get it out of my head and off my heart. November of 2016 I decided to cheat on my husband with a guy I barely knew. Lets call him Andrew. I was full of passion where as Andrew was full of need. A need to discove... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Im 28 Weeks Pregnant and Need Advice. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/6nuzcr/im_28_weeks_pregnant_and_need_advice/ |
idie1983 | 2020-10-21 03:23:36 | 1,603,250,616 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jf58tz | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jf58tz/pretty_specific_to_old_formats_how_do_you_respond/ | 3 | I feel like more times than not, when I match with someone on OLD, I am the party that has to carry the conversation. Initially, if I am the person trying to match, I never just send a like. I always try to pull something from their profile that looks like we might have common ground and comment on this. I feel like it... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Pretty specific to OLD formats, how do you respond when a match isn’t initially active in trying to get to know you? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jf58tz/pretty_specific_to_old_formats_how_do_you_respond/ |
Nicosemuta | 2021-10-17 01:26:15 | 1,634,433,975 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | q9ozct | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/q9ozct/rural_colorado_and_dating/ | 33 | (42M) Living in on the west slope of Colorado has been a dating dead end or more like a dating gauntlet of rejection. I'm not the most attractive nor unattractive but have all my teeth(rare thing here), workout regularly(4 days a week for years), good job, educated, no criminal history, no drugs, don't party like I use... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Rural Colorado and dating. | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/q9ozct/rural_colorado_and_dating/ |
10lbpancake | 2020-02-05 13:00:07 | 1,580,907,607 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ez975s | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ez975s/dating_apps_are_destroying_my_life/ | 0 | Through excessive lonliness and anxiety, I've found it harder to communicate/meet other people. My experience with dating apps can be summarized with: "Women are the final say, and wield the ultimate relationship power." On my quest to meet that SO, I've realized that men are typically the creeps of the world. Why are ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps are destroying my life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ez975s/dating_apps_are_destroying_my_life/ |
Sea_Engineering_9659 | 2024-03-29 19:38:55 | 1,711,741,135 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bqxpuv | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bqxpuv/being_unfollowed_after_matching_in_dating_apps/ | 1 | Had anybody been there once when you match somebody and you get to add each other on instagram and then you just realize that she unfollowed you aftet a while not talking . I personally talk to them for a short period of time and i get distanced once i realized that we have physical distance or something isn’t matching... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being unfollowed after matching in dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bqxpuv/being_unfollowed_after_matching_in_dating_apps/ |
wevie13 | 2022-09-27 15:09:38 | 1,664,291,378 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xpjdg0 | true | Question | 66 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/xpjdg0/a_woman_i_briefly_dated_messaged_me_after_almost/ | 6 | About two years ago I met a woman on a dating app. We went out a handful of times as well as hooked a few times (which was good) then just sort of faded away..... Yesterday out of the blue I get one of those "Hi Stranger how are you" messages. So we text back and forth throughout the day and I'm like why not so I tell ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A woman I briefly dated messaged me after almost two years? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/xpjdg0/a_woman_i_briefly_dated_messaged_me_after_almost/ |
clesteamer23 | 2016-11-30 15:18:34 | 1,480,519,114 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 5fq4i8 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5fq4i8/unexplained_ghosting_m26yo/ | 2 | So I recently matched with a girl on bumble and one on tinder that proceeded past the apps to casual texting and making plans to hangout. I was supposed to get a drink with the bumble girl 2 weeks ago and an hour before I was going to pick her up she told me her dog was vomiting when she got home. She later texted me s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unexplained ghosting m/26yo | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5fq4i8/unexplained_ghosting_m26yo/ |
Perdidas | 2017-07-18 05:15:02 | 1,500,354,902 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6nypzi | null | null | 16 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6nypzi/updates_from_your_ugly_correspondent/ | 37 | Hi everyone, it's me, the My situation's changed a little since that last post, so I figured I should give the kind folks of DOT a bit of an update. Semester finished a few weeks ago and I found myself with more disposable time and energy on my hands than any time in the previous six months, so decided to make a Tinde... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Updates from your ugly correspondent | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6nypzi/updates_from_your_ugly_correspondent/ |
tarawatermelon | 2020-03-22 02:14:27 | 1,584,843,267 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fms0of | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fms0of/coronaivrus_ruined_what_could_have_been/ | 1 | Dramatic title, I know, but I am feeling dramatic tonight. I'm a first time redditer looking for some solace, advice, kind words, anything. I started talking to this guy on Tinder about a month ago. We hit it off, had a lot in common, and eventually added each other on Snapchat (he doesn't use any other social media). ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Coronaivrus ruined what could have been... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fms0of/coronaivrus_ruined_what_could_have_been/ |
vegetarian99 | 2020-04-29 17:49:06 | 1,588,182,546 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | gadyfg | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gadyfg/casually_dating/ | 1 | I'm a 20-year-old (F). I haven't tried hard enough on dating apps like Bumble. I really want to casually date though, but often wish it could be with ppl I could meet through mutual friends or uni. I had a thing with someone when I travelled to visit my friends in another country (it was purely physical no feelings inv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Casually Dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gadyfg/casually_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-01 19:34:44 | 1,317,497,684 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | kxpfu | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/kxpfu/im_incompetent_at_getting_dates_feedback/ | 2 | I'm 27M. I split up with my wife about 6 months ago. About 3 months ago I made an OkCupid profile. I've sent messages to various girls, some local, some in Boston, and my reply rate is abysmal, even with the local girls and worse with anyone in Boston. I did get a few dialogues going, but nothing clicked for the most p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm incompetent at getting dates... Feedback? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kxpfu/im_incompetent_at_getting_dates_feedback/ |
Sekigahara_TW | 2021-04-16 08:20:13 | 1,618,561,213 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mrys5m | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mrys5m/need_some_advice_between_me_32m_and_her_35f_and/ | 1 | So here goes. In October I met a girl through OLD who lives nearby. We get along great, same hobbies same preferences you name it. From the start she told me that she is in the process of becoming a mother on her own. She had met a gay guy who also wanted kids and they had decided to do it together through insemination... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Need some advice between me (32m) and her (35f) and kids. | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mrys5m/need_some_advice_between_me_32m_and_her_35f_and/ |
WilliamDanz | 2021-02-22 21:07:47 | 1,614,028,067 | null | null | 0 | lpzy64 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lpzy64/34m_profile_pictures/ | 34 | Can I get some honest opinions on these pictures and what order they should be in? The first six are the ones I'm currently using (that includes the video). I've gotten likes on the dog picture and the cooking picture where I'm not looking at the camera. https://imgur.com/a/aC8uueW | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 34/m Profile Pictures | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lpzy64/34m_profile_pictures/ |
HangryChickenNuggey | 2024-02-14 04:40:05 | 1,707,885,605 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1aqegux | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aqegux/idk_how_start_dating_with_how_the_dating_pool/ | 1 | Like I tried apps and in person (hobbies, parties, big group gatherings) but I’m genuinely unsure where else to look because I haven’t found anyone in person that’s single who’s peaked my interest. OLD is just too weird because I can’t tell whether or not people are interested more in looks or what’s written in profile... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Idk how start dating with how the dating pool currently is | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aqegux/idk_how_start_dating_with_how_the_dating_pool/ |
JaButch11 | 2023-09-18 23:21:20 | 1,695,079,280 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16margs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16margs/are_women_into_single_dads/ | 1 | Im 28, I’ve been a single dad for a little while but I don’t feel like I’m desirable. I live in a small town with not much around. Closest to me is two hours with a population of 100,000. I do go to the gym so I look fairly decent with good muscle tone, have a good paying job. Own my own house, truck, you name it. But ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are women into single dads? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16margs/are_women_into_single_dads/ |
Pitiful-Iron-9336 | 2022-03-14 13:44:52 | 1,647,265,492 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | tdxu2b | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tdxu2b/what_is_this_nonsense/ | 2 | A girl I know from real life, no online dating context, we have good rapport, perhaps chemistry, when we see each other in person, currently on “friends” level. We don’t see each other very often, but we do message each other in litttle flurries, very friendly and engaged, and then whoosh, gone. Left on unread in the m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is this nonsense? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tdxu2b/what_is_this_nonsense/ |
Big-Secret9197 | 2024-07-22 22:47:49 | 1,721,688,469 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1e9rwnf | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e9rwnf/im_starting_to_feel_like_im_not_good_enough_for_a/ | 0 | I’m f 22 almost 23 and recently looking on Facebook dating. I feel like I have the looks and personality but feel like I’m either gonna be used for a hookup or judged based on the most petty things like living with my dad or living too far away. I just got stood up on a date. I keep texting the guy and it keeps saying ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m starting to feel like I’m not good enough for a boyfriend | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e9rwnf/im_starting_to_feel_like_im_not_good_enough_for_a/ |
SombreLook | 2020-04-24 06:52:35 | 1,587,711,155 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g73n2f | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g73n2f/is_it_weird_to_ask_someone_out_even_if_weve/ | 3 | Most of my dates in my life (I'm a 22M) have been arranged through Tinder or some social media outlet. I'm trying to move away from that but have hit a pretty big wall, this wall is that day to day... I may meet someone briefly or even have a flirty interaction but I don't know if there is ever a good time to just ask ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it weird to ask someone out even if we've barely spoke? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g73n2f/is_it_weird_to_ask_someone_out_even_if_weve/ |
AllDayErryDey | 2018-08-01 17:24:38 | 1,533,144,278 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 93r0fm | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/93r0fm/sliding_into_the_dms_has_it_ever_worked_for/ | 13 | Anyone ever slide into the DMs or reach out to someone you didn't know or meet in person through social media and had it work out? And turn into a real relationship? Ex. Instagram, eHarmony, Twitter, Youtube you name it. Got a crush. Wanna reach out. Too scared to try. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Sliding into the DMs, has it ever worked for anyone via relationships? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/93r0fm/sliding_into_the_dms_has_it_ever_worked_for/ |
echoesssss | 2021-04-12 08:20:39 | 1,618,215,639 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | mp9h47 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mp9h47/girl_was_concerned_for_her_safety_when_meeting_me/ | 0 | To start, we are M20, F19. I met this girl on Tinder, and we recently had a date where we met up at a smoothie place, then went to a park. Everything wasn't bad, but there was something that was sort of bothering me in the back of my head, and that was how concerned she was with the fact that I could potentially kidnap... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl was concerned for her safety when meeting me | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mp9h47/girl_was_concerned_for_her_safety_when_meeting_me/ |
BluePsychosisDude2 | 2022-01-21 17:34:36 | 1,642,786,476 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | s9g57y | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/s9g57y/im_glad_i_went_on_a_second_date_with_her/ | 272 | I went on a first date with a girl last week I met on Bumble. It was alright, but I was pretty on the fence about it. Some women I know immediately in the first 10 seconds that I’m not attracted to them so it wouldn’t work out, others I’m super attracted to…this girl I just wasn’t sure. I’ve tried to date women I wasn’... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I’m glad I went on a second date with her | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/s9g57y/im_glad_i_went_on_a_second_date_with_her/ |
n0namm3 | 2018-08-02 14:24:53 | 1,533,219,893 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 93zpje | true | Other | 34 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/93zpje/dating_is_complete_hell/ | 0 | I never get notifications on facebook, friend requests, messages. I used Tinder for over half a year and never even got a match. I'm stuck at home. So how am I supposed to find "the one". The one my ass. Why dating is so hard like wtf. I'm getting desparate as fuck, I've got absolutely no perspective of going on dates.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating is complete hell. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/93zpje/dating_is_complete_hell/ |
ActRepresentative530 | 2023-04-13 16:02:38 | 1,681,401,758 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12ktyff | true | Giving Advice | 122 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/12ktyff/finally_got_my_swipe_data/ | 101 | Been online dating for 5 years across 3 platforms at various times. This is just for Bumble over the last year or so. Only used services one at a time. This data is for US and Canada Outgoing yes: 737 Outgoing no: 11685 Incoming yes: 393 Incoming no: 12387 Matches: 15 One girlfriend (current) who is "it" in my opinion ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | finally got my swipe data! | 101 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/12ktyff/finally_got_my_swipe_data/ |
basslineheart | 2024-02-10 10:26:03 | 1,707,560,763 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1anddyh | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1anddyh/how_do_i_stop_closing_myself_off_because_im_scared/ | 2 | Hi all! Im in my mid-30s and never had a relationship. I dated around some but nobody ever held my interest. I slept with a few people but it was never good experiences, so I feel very sexually inexperienced too. On a whim I tried a new dating app and matched with a guy. We had our first date last week and sat and talk... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I stop closing myself off because I’m scared? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1anddyh/how_do_i_stop_closing_myself_off_because_im_scared/ |
Maelstrom4 | 2019-07-19 06:08:09 | 1,563,516,489 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cf3vzo | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cf3vzo/how_do_i_keep_the_relationship_alive/ | 1 | I (18M) have been chatting with this girl (18F) I met on tinder for about a month now, and recently I tried asking her on a date. She said yes, but an hour before we were supposed to meet she said she had to cancel because her friend had gotten extremely drunk the night before because of 'boy issues'. During this she m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep the relationship alive | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cf3vzo/how_do_i_keep_the_relationship_alive/ |
throwawaypines | 2020-02-16 21:56:55 | 1,581,890,215 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | f4y0i8 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f4y0i8/breaking_the_ice_app_chatting/ | 1 | Any tips on breaking the ice? So many profiles are bare. I can usually come up with something fun but it’s tough to do. I have sooooo many matches where nobody says anything, or it’s just two ‘hey’ and then dies. Ughhhhh | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Breaking the ice? (App chatting) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f4y0i8/breaking_the_ice_app_chatting/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-17 03:42:24 | 1,318,822,944 | 6 | ['okcupid'] | null | leqmy | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/leqmy/so_how_do_you_even_find_someone_youd_like_to_talk/ | 1 | I've been browsing OKCupid and such and I can't find a single person I find interesting in the slightest. All crazy polyamorous vegans, simple religious girls, girls way too traditional and lame for me, girls into stuff like astrology--not intelligent enough for me, so on and so forth. I can't even find women in real l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So how do you even find someone you'd like to talk to anyway? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/leqmy/so_how_do_you_even_find_someone_youd_like_to_talk/ |
FalsePremise8290 | 2021-11-22 20:13:12 | 1,637,611,992 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | qzul2m | true | Question | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qzul2m/do_you_attempt_to_punch_above_your_weight_class/ | 23 | Since I've been here I've noticed several people asserting they have a hard time getting with someone they are attracted to. The last time I heard this was all the way back in college. My gamer friend was okay looking. Skinny, glasses, lots and lots of body hair, unibrow. Sometimes girls in our circle would like him, b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do You Attempt to Punch Above Your Weight Class? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qzul2m/do_you_attempt_to_punch_above_your_weight_class/ |
Emotional-Bug-565 | 2024-08-30 02:43:03 | 1,724,985,783 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f4kpay | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f4kpay/i_need_your_opinion_on_the_date_i_had_today/ | 11 | So I’m seeing this guy, it was our 4th date today. We didn’t kiss on the other dates, he didn’t seem to take the initiative so today when I hugged him goodbye, I took the change and kissed him. The kiss was great and it made me like him more, but after that he didn’t mention anything about on texts, now I’m wondering i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I need your opinion on the date I had today | 11 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f4kpay/i_need_your_opinion_on_the_date_i_had_today/ |
SilentBet9 | 2019-04-07 23:23:38 | 1,554,679,418 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | bamk91 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bamk91/did_i_lose_her/ | 2 | I(28m) met this amazing girl (F27) on OKCupid and went on four dates so far. For the first date we went for coffee and talked for couple of hours. Then did an escape room and dinner. For our 3rd date we went for dinner and an arcade bar. Did a road trip for the 4th date. I was afraid to make a move and still haven't ki... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I lose her | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bamk91/did_i_lose_her/ |
NotInOnYourLie_ | 2020-07-09 02:08:13 | 1,594,260,493 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | hnuljo | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hnuljo/guy_m23_that_ive_been_seeing_just_told_me_f24/ | 5 | Been talking to a guy that I met on Hinge. Texted almost every day for over a week. Past three days we’ve been talking over the phone for hours and just yesterday did a video call for the first time. I complimented him on his looks a few time during the chat in hopes he would feel comfortable complimenting me. He didn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy (M23) that I’ve been seeing just told me (F24) that he is currently not attracted to me but wants to continue getting to know me | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hnuljo/guy_m23_that_ive_been_seeing_just_told_me_f24/ |
nntgrr | 2022-08-18 19:06:43 | 1,660,849,603 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | wrrvdl | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wrrvdl/fellow_girlies_trying_online_dating_do_you_guys/ | 1 | Because I do, I feel like the guys on dating apps are way above my league. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Fellow girlies trying online dating, do you guys feel intimidated by all the good looking guys on there? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wrrvdl/fellow_girlies_trying_online_dating_do_you_guys/ |
jtlde | 2022-01-29 14:33:49 | 1,643,466,829 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | sfjb2u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sfjb2u/dae_feel_downresentfulhopeless_before_going_on_a/ | 0 | I (34F) have been single for a long time, I swipe with a lot of men and even have good chats, but by the next day, I'm just totally over it. I never get excited about going out with anyone. I get all anxious and it ruins my whole day because I have to plan what time I shower, worry about my hair and shaving my legs, an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | DAE feel down/resentful/hopeless before going on a date? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sfjb2u/dae_feel_downresentfulhopeless_before_going_on_a/ |
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