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Amped92 | 2019-03-30 20:53:54 | 1,553,979,234 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'happn', 'pof', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | b7fvwr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b7fvwr/finally_succumbing_to_online_dating_m27/ | 1 | After years of organically trying to meet people or meeting them through friends and then either just not clicking with potential relationships or them turning into friendships (which I'm not bitter about at all because I've made some really good friends but I also want something more in my life) I've finally turned to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finally Succumbing to Online Dating (M27) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b7fvwr/finally_succumbing_to_online_dating_m27/ |
National_Bumblebee | 2019-11-13 03:47:44 | 1,573,616,864 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'swipes', 'tinder'] | 0 | dvlx17 | true | I Need Advice | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dvlx17/tinder_has_caused_me_heavy_emotional_pain/ | 11 | I just realized how incredibly much emotional pain tinder has caused me two days ago, when sitting with a couple of female friends at dinner, we were talking about tinder, and they were talking about all the different perfect looking guys they could choose from, while I just remembered how I wouldn't even get a match a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder has caused me HEAVY emotional pain | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dvlx17/tinder_has_caused_me_heavy_emotional_pain/ |
caramelmacchiato28 | 2023-12-28 15:59:24 | 1,703,779,164 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18sx7nr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18sx7nr/been_dating_this_girl_for_6_weeks_and_im_afraid_i/ | 3 | So I’m in my early twenties and only started dating recently. Everything went great, we got along well. Talked every day and saw each other each week consistently. On our last date I got her flowers as a token of appreciation. But that night she said something that kind of caught me off guard. Well she said that her ti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Been dating this girl for 6 weeks and I’m afraid I scared her away | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18sx7nr/been_dating_this_girl_for_6_weeks_and_im_afraid_i/ |
MathematicianOk9060 | 2024-08-20 18:26:46 | 1,724,178,406 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1ex328u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ex328u/i_unmatched_from_a_guy_on_a_bumble_for_making_a/ | 0 | 34F, he was 34M (and we both work in healthcare!) Just thought I would drop this here 😂 I told a guy I was home today replacing the tail-light housing on my truck because I backed up into a stump. The guy told me “drinking and driving wasn’t good for anyone”. I thought the joke was just so……cringe. Especially because ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I unmatched from a guy on a Bumble for making a casual drinking and driving joke… | 0 | 0.35 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1ex328u/i_unmatched_from_a_guy_on_a_bumble_for_making_a/ |
renaissance_witch | 2020-10-19 16:21:26 | 1,603,124,486 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | je4spr | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/je4spr/my_eye_makeup_and_my_mask_didnt_get_along_today/ | 8 | So, I had a written exam this morning and because I don't like to take the public transportation, I took a walk. The place I had to go to is a 30 minute walk away from my apartment, most of the way is through a street next to a river and trees on both sides. I love it We have to wear masks outdoors, too, so I had my ma... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My eye makeup and my mask didn't get along today | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/je4spr/my_eye_makeup_and_my_mask_didnt_get_along_today/ |
flamesjames | 2022-01-08 12:47:30 | 1,641,646,050 | null | null | 0 | ryz3xd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ryz3xd/how_to_know_if_the_date_went_well/ | 0 | I’m not sure how this date went at all, I’ve barely done any dating like this before so I’m in the deep end + my first really date with another girl (22F and I’m 24F) So I went on a date the other night, I knew it was gonna be shortish as we both had early plans the next day. She asked to take me out originally but I w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to know if the date went well? | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ryz3xd/how_to_know_if_the_date_went_well/ |
bakewellroyal | 2021-12-29 04:02:59 | 1,640,750,579 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | rqymrk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rqymrk/worth_dating_him_again/ | 2 | Started seeing someone I met off Hinge during the summer and really hit it off. However, after 3 dates he got pretty busy so he would cancel dates and we ended up fading each other (but kept in touch over social media). Then out of the blue, 2 months later he messages me asking to hang out again. Since it had been 2 mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Worth Dating Him Again? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rqymrk/worth_dating_him_again/ |
kjbkjkvj | 2021-04-05 09:20:59 | 1,617,614,459 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | mkgkk0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mkgkk0/help_what_do_i_say_next/ | 1 | Me: Hey. How are you? Her: Hey, yeah I’m good thank you. What about yourself? I have 0 experience lol. This is on Eharmony btw. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | HELP! What do I say next? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mkgkk0/help_what_do_i_say_next/ |
Dolphinfucker5000 | 2024-04-30 05:13:29 | 1,714,454,009 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cgkv3s | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cgkv3s/how_do_i_20m_reach_out_to_someone_i_had_a_great/ | 1 | So, to put it simply, I messed up. Back in February, I matched with this girl and we had a great conversation. Our sense of humor was compatible and it was genuinely one of the best conversations I’ve had. Unfortunately, I did a shitty thing, which I don’t condone and take full responsibility for. I ended the conversat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I (20M) reach out to someone I had a great conversation with (on hinge) months ago but never responded to? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cgkv3s/how_do_i_20m_reach_out_to_someone_i_had_a_great/ |
VVDRR | 2022-05-15 20:32:51 | 1,652,646,771 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | uqeufa | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uqeufa/just_trying_to_figure_out_what_went_wrong_here/ | 1 | I guess I need some advice on how to continue on from this because I feel really hurt and confused right now. I’ve (26M) have been talking to this girl (27F) on Hinge for the past three weeks, one of which was by text once I got her number. Our conversations have always been very energetic, flirty, and we’ve been getti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just trying to figure out what went wrong here | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uqeufa/just_trying_to_figure_out_what_went_wrong_here/ |
ThadFTTG | 2022-04-11 22:14:35 | 1,649,715,275 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | u1j7od | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/u1j7od/does_tinder_and_bumble_each_have_subscriptions/ | 2 | So just like the title asks, Does Tinder and Bumble each have subscriptions where you can pay to get your profile ranked high in the algorithm? I’m just asking because I tried both of these apps a while back and got shit luck. I only got a couple likes and matches on each(I probably just need to improve my profiles) Bu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does Tinder and Bumble each have subscriptions where you can pay to get your profile ranked high in the algorithm? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u1j7od/does_tinder_and_bumble_each_have_subscriptions/ |
Longjumping_05_ | 2024-07-27 12:44:10 | 1,722,084,250 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1edfjc0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1edfjc0/i_am_confused_is_he_a_green_flag_or_am_i_a_red/ | 2 | I met him for a second date after a month. I took a step back after our first date when he started saying that my bumble account is still active and that is not good on my part. I told him very clearly that we just met once and he barely replies to my texts. I am neither rushing nor I am complaining that you leave me o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am confused. Is he a green flag? Or am I a red flag now? Or he is just manipulating me | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1edfjc0/i_am_confused_is_he_a_green_flag_or_am_i_a_red/ |
porukotNINE | 2024-03-13 14:09:28 | 1,710,338,968 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bdsdps | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bdsdps/m21_dating_seems_hopeless_feeling_despondent/ | 15 | pretty much the title. i genuinely don’t think i will ever be attractive to women. i am 21 years old and throughout my life, i have never been in a relationship. i have acquaintances that happen to be women, but no friends or anything significant. i have approached women in the past, and my interactions have generally ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M21 dating seems hopeless. feeling despondent | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdsdps/m21_dating_seems_hopeless_feeling_despondent/ |
mmmmmNope | 2020-11-11 17:41:33 | 1,605,116,493 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jscoyf | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jscoyf/is_this_a_theres_obviously_something_wrong_with/ | 6 | I've been talking to this guy who lives about an hour away for about three weeks now. Everything seemed pretty normal at first. We weren't really getting to know each other though. It was mostly surfacey kind of back and forths ("how was your day" "what are you up" etc) Then he brought up sex. Ok, fine. We're adults an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is this a "There's obviously something wrong with him" situation? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jscoyf/is_this_a_theres_obviously_something_wrong_with/ |
WumpusFails | 2024-05-06 20:56:06 | 1,715,028,966 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1cltvuj | true | null | 201 | 1 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cltvuj/wheres_all_the_homebodies_are_they_just_not/ | 88 | I've spent much of the last 24 hours trying out dating site after dating site, trying to find the friend/date who matches my sedentary lifestyle. Instead of finding dozens, I don't think I've found even three. All the profiles are "I love the outdoors, I love working out, etc." Where are all the fluffy women hiding?? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Where's all the homebodies? Are they just not listing it in their profiles? | 88 | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cltvuj/wheres_all_the_homebodies_are_they_just_not/ |
AdministrativeKey160 | 2022-06-15 17:55:43 | 1,655,315,743 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vd0gqg | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vd0gqg/how_to_meet_other_singles_post_college/ | 4 | I am trying to get into the dating scene post graduation and just absolutely do not know how to. I am 22F and hate dating apps, and want to meet people outside of my college friend circles. Meeting guys at bars is just not it— how do I meet other singles post college? Do I just go up to anyone and ask for their number/... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to Meet Other Singles Post College? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vd0gqg/how_to_meet_other_singles_post_college/ |
darkmatterxiii | 2018-02-03 01:52:00 | 1,517,622,720 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7uweah | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7uweah/how_to_end_things/ | 2 | I met this guy on tinder a couple weeks ago, we texted for a bit and really hit it off however in person it’s a whole other story. He’s quite and I feel like I’ve got to keep the conversation going. The biggest issue however is that I’m not sexually attracted to him. On our last date (our 3rd) he suggested we play mini... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to end things | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7uweah/how_to_end_things/ |
jenrro | 2020-04-04 10:18:25 | 1,585,995,505 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | furb4k | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/furb4k/advice_on_dating/ | 1 | i’m a 19 yr old female, currently trying to get into dating. trouble is, i don’t really understand how dating works, where to draw the line with feelings etc. i went to an all girl’s school n never talked to a straight guy for 6 years, only last year did i experience my first infatuation (with a regular customer at my ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | advice on dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/furb4k/advice_on_dating/ |
65sickelk | 2024-02-27 01:31:39 | 1,708,997,499 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1b0z8gz | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1b0z8gz/first_date_already_planning_future/ | 21 | 57F Started OLD 3 weeks ago. Have had dates with 4 men, all of them are close to my age one younger, 3 older They were all nice, respectful, appear sincere, and I enjoyed their company, but they all had one thing in common, within an hour or so they’re talking about future plans. These aren’t plans for going to dinner ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | First date, already planning future? | 21 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1b0z8gz/first_date_already_planning_future/ |
Pongs222 | 2024-03-23 00:09:50 | 1,711,152,590 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1blegq3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1blegq3/what_will_tinder_possibly_do_after_this_reply/ | 1 | ot a reply from tinder after submitting a request. But i have not recieved any other reply or help since then. The following is the messege i got last time. Will they help me out? Ot thats just AI replies... Thank you for contacting us. I’ll need to escalate this ticket to a team member who can better investigate this ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What will Tinder possibly do after this reply? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1blegq3/what_will_tinder_possibly_do_after_this_reply/ |
spacecadet517 | 2021-04-01 20:42:23 | 1,617,309,743 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | mi4jl0 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mi4jl0/i_had_a_one_night_stand_with_a_guy_that_moved/ | 1 | I (F, 27) matched with a guy (M, 29) 3 months ago on Hinge in my new PNW city prior to moving there from the south. I have now been here for a little over 2 months. We exchanged numbers but never ended up meeting up. (A maybe not so relevant side note, I deleted all dating apps 2 weeks into moving here) Flash forward t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I had a one night stand with a guy that moved 2,400 miles away 36 hours later. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mi4jl0/i_had_a_one_night_stand_with_a_guy_that_moved/ |
purp_app_man | 2021-04-14 07:01:54 | 1,618,383,714 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mql80j | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mql80j/all_this_dating_advice_only_works_if_someone_is/ | 3 | I’ve read so much online and tried to stay on the straight and narrow. I don’t approach women in public because it’s apparently creepy. I don’t ask women out unless I receive strong signs that she’s interested so I don’t harass her (I’ve never received any signs). I’ve never received a match in 5 years of using OLD dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | All this dating advice only works if someone is already into you | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mql80j/all_this_dating_advice_only_works_if_someone_is/ |
Prestigious_Bed_8297 | 2023-09-25 03:20:50 | 1,695,612,050 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16rh3wt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16rh3wt/im_autistic/ | 1 | So I'm kind of on the spectrum. If you knew me in real life and were friends with me you'd probably have no idea that I was autistic unless I told you since I actually have charisma and seem "normal enough" However I do have some quirks (having really niche interests, doing repetitive things, obsessive with work, prett... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm autistic | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16rh3wt/im_autistic/ |
Sorry-Coast-9277 | 2023-09-30 00:49:03 | 1,696,034,943 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16vsxfa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16vsxfa/is_this_going_anywhere_or_am_i_sabotaging_again/ | 1 | I (32f) have now been on 3 dates with a guy I met on a dating app. We have loads in common and when we message the conversation flows. We have met up for afternoon drinks twice and been bowling once. They've been fun but largely felt like a afternoon spent with a friend rather than dates. Which is nice but I'd like to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this going anywhere or am I sabotaging again? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16vsxfa/is_this_going_anywhere_or_am_i_sabotaging_again/ |
cokeiscool | 2017-10-26 20:18:11 | 1,509,049,091 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 78y9uk | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/78y9uk/whats_the_longest_youve_gone_in_between_dates/ | 6 | So I am a bit of mess and I just need some outside perspective to maybe help me feel better. So let's start by saying iv been very bad at picking potential SO, all but one has crashed and burned miserably and I meet pretty much the girl of my dreams from an online dating site and things go amazing. Our first date went ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What's the longest you've gone in between dates with a new partner in your life? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/78y9uk/whats_the_longest_youve_gone_in_between_dates/ |
gdf122 | 2018-10-19 23:58:42 | 1,539,993,522 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9ppcy2 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ppcy2/has_anyone_here_tried_to_become_funnier_for_the/ | 4 | Early 30s M here and have obviously noticed one of the first/biggest things women put in their OLD profiles is that they appreciate if a potential partner can make them laugh. Now clearly if you're particularly attractive and/or have other very advantageous characteristics then you probably don't need to be a comedian ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Has anyone here tried to become funnier for the purposes of dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9ppcy2/has_anyone_here_tried_to_become_funnier_for_the/ |
meemers8 | 2020-08-06 00:03:22 | 1,596,672,202 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | i4gzw4 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/i4gzw4/how_to_break_up_during_covid19/ | 4 | This is my first post, so apologies if I do this wrong I (43F) have very very little experience dating. I got bold and started OLD in February, right in time for the pandemic. I met one man (43M) and had two dates but since the outbreak we have been just texting due to us both having elderly parents and trying to be re... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to break up during COVID-19? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/i4gzw4/how_to_break_up_during_covid19/ |
Euphoric-Eggplant-49 | 2024-01-27 11:58:26 | 1,706,356,706 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ac9b5h | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ac9b5h/idk_what_to_do/ | 2 | So I (22f) have been seeing a guy (25m) for like 2 months but only really have met like 7 times? Anyway I really did not fancy him at first but we just got on really well and eventually started to really like him. A couple of weeks ago we had made plans and he had cancelled and lied about why & when I questioned him he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Idk what to do | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ac9b5h/idk_what_to_do/ |
tgalvin1999 | 2024-05-07 18:30:23 | 1,715,106,623 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cmixlg | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cmixlg/had_a_first_date_today_i_thinkhope_it_went_well/ | 1 | Title pretty much. After a year of zero success on dating apps, I finally was able to snag a first date today. It was just a coffee date but we spent close to 2 hours just talking and she seemed open to the idea of a second date. When I asked her she said "yeah, possibly." Obviously that could mean it totally crashed a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Had a First Date Today, I Think/Hope It Went Well | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cmixlg/had_a_first_date_today_i_thinkhope_it_went_well/ |
FitWriter6549 | 2024-05-07 22:59:38 | 1,715,122,778 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cmpfd9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cmpfd9/how_do_people_turn_tinder_matches_into_dates/ | 1 | Hello Reddit! 29M here - I consider myself fairly attractive. Solid career. Live in major city. Pretty normal dating history. Very introverted, but my job has forced me to artificially gain social skills as I work in leadership. However, I feel like I lack a natural “fun” personality that’s conducive to successful onli... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do people turn Tinder matches into dates?! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cmpfd9/how_do_people_turn_tinder_matches_into_dates/ |
adoely | 2022-10-04 00:32:12 | 1,664,843,532 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xv0b2w | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xv0b2w/is_it_a_bad_sign_if_he_skips_a_day_of_texting/ | 0 | I (26F) texted with a dating app match (32M) for about a week after he initiated plans for a first date while we were still on the app. Date itself went really well and he asked to start making plans for a second date the day after. Our texting conversations are mostly sarcastic banter with sprinkling of getting-to-kno... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it a bad sign if he skips a day of texting? | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xv0b2w/is_it_a_bad_sign_if_he_skips_a_day_of_texting/ |
BurnerBoi123454321 | 2019-10-22 20:53:59 | 1,571,777,639 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dloai2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dloai2/im_20_started_talking_to_a_girl_but_didnt_know/ | 1 | So recently i met this girl off tinder and things were going very well. We arranged a date tomorrow, thing is i didnt know how old she was, i looked through her fb and she put a post up just iver a week ago saying shes 18 in 3 minths. Problem is im a male, 20, and ill be 21 in 6 minths. I dont really know what i should... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im 20, started talking to a girl but didnt know she was 17, what should i do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dloai2/im_20_started_talking_to_a_girl_but_didnt_know/ |
aahmed3688 | 2016-08-30 16:31:26 | 1,472,574,686 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 50c0ef | null | null | 42 | null | /r/dating/comments/50c0ef/i_28m_still_cant_get_over_the_girl_32f_i_was/ | 3 | I apologize for formatting and if this comes off a bit unorganized, kind of an emotional rant. A few years ago, Janurary 3rd 2012 to be exact, I fell in love with a girl. It was something truly special, love at first sight type of thing. Things were fantastic for quite some time, it was the happiest I had been my entir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (28m) still can't get over the girl (32f) I was supposed to marry. Emotional abuse. Long Post | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/50c0ef/i_28m_still_cant_get_over_the_girl_32f_i_was/ |
Flashy-Appearance988 | 2023-10-21 22:31:09 | 1,697,927,469 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17dece9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17dece9/when_women_on_dating_apps_keep_replying_but_not/ | 1 | It confuses me how to proceed when they keep replying, but the response is dry and really all they're doing is just answering what you say point blank. I look for certain things in conversations, like if the girl seems enthusiastic and asks follow up questions like "what about you?" it seems like she's interested and f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When women on dating apps keep replying, but not really making effort? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17dece9/when_women_on_dating_apps_keep_replying_but_not/ |
PetiePal | 2011-08-02 19:24:00 | 1,312,313,040 | 0 | ['plentyoffish', 'okcupid', 'eharmony'] | null | j6z2o | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/j6z2o/29m_dating_but_getting_discouraged/ | 1 | Hey /r/Dating So here's the deal. I'm 29 and live in Central New Jersey. I have an excellent job, do well for myself. Non-drug user, not an alcoholic. Funny, intelligent, family-oriented, (I'm an excellent uncle and Godfather) and pretty social guy. I got out of a nearly 3 year relationship last April. I ended it becau... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 29/m dating but getting discouraged | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j6z2o/29m_dating_but_getting_discouraged/ |
ASMRbartender | 2023-10-13 02:05:35 | 1,697,162,735 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 176nuky | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/176nuky/datingmeeting_people_advice_needed/ | 1 | Hey, I need help getting out of my shell and figuring out how to date again. I'm almost 27(F), built up my confidence, lost some weight and my hair and skin has never looked better. Basically I look and feel the best I've ever felt in my life. I'm scared I might plateau or decline in the nearish future especially as I ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating/Meeting People Advice Needed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/176nuky/datingmeeting_people_advice_needed/ |
CIRNO9000 | 2022-12-08 19:13:41 | 1,670,526,821 | null | null | 0 | zg8ca1 | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zg8ca1/am_i_just_not_very_attractive/ | 35 | I’m a 34 year old male who’s been on OLD for a couple years now, and I can count the amount of dates I’ve gotten on one hand. I’m on all the major apps but it seems like getting even one match is nearly impossible, and when I do get a match they almost always ghost or flake. Do I just have to accept that I’m not attrac... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I just not very attractive? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zg8ca1/am_i_just_not_very_attractive/ |
kategr7 | 2021-04-11 21:55:26 | 1,618,178,126 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | mp0cxo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mp0cxo/desensitised_to_online_dating/ | 2 | Desensitised to online dating I don’t know how else to meet someone but everyone on there is either super sterotypicwlly attractive and probably a cat fish, or most men post the weirdest selfies and poses and shirtless photos on their profile.. it’s hilarious and I’m not gonna match. When I’m out and about eg at the su... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Desensitised to online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mp0cxo/desensitised_to_online_dating/ |
GalickBanger | 2022-11-16 20:50:39 | 1,668,631,839 | null | null | 0 | yx5tlx | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yx5tlx/i_swipe_left_if_you_have_in_your_profile/ | 5 | … so just swipe left then? Lol. Idk why people tell you what you shouldn’t have in your profile if you want to match with them. Am I supposed to base my profile on what one person likes? Just comes off really entitled. Especially when there’s nothing else in your profile.. I don’t get it. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | “I swipe left if you have …. In your profile” | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yx5tlx/i_swipe_left_if_you_have_in_your_profile/ |
CN122 | 2022-09-19 02:31:34 | 1,663,554,694 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | xhzgaj | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xhzgaj/i_have_an_active_social_life_but_not_an_active/ | 1 | The other day I was walking and realized that I have a really active social life but pretty much no dating life. I have a good amount of friends and hang out with at least one person if not more in a week. The other night I was hanging with a friend and he was asking me what's up with my dating life. I told him what's ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have an active social life but not an active dating life | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xhzgaj/i_have_an_active_social_life_but_not_an_active/ |
Fred_Foreskin | 2019-09-18 18:22:10 | 1,568,830,930 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | d61vro | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d61vro/should_i_try_online_dating/ | 1 | I have an hour commute to college, so I usually rush home when I'm done with class and don't get many opportunities to talk to women. My hometown is also really small and the dating scene there is just terrible (by that I mean there isn't anywhere to meet people). Should I try online dating? If so, what are some good a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I try online dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d61vro/should_i_try_online_dating/ |
dank69420_ | 2023-12-30 10:11:45 | 1,703,931,105 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | 18ucj0s | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ucj0s/the_problem_is_im_just_not_attractive_enough/ | 2 | I’m a below average guy and I have mild Asperger’s so socialising is very difficult for me as is. I’ve struggled to use online dating platforms because I’m not attractive and because I struggle to “market” myself to women. Most of them aren’t interested in me and my last date was over 6 years ago. How do you date as an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The problem is I’m just not attractive enough | 2 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ucj0s/the_problem_is_im_just_not_attractive_enough/ |
worldstrongestace | 2023-02-27 19:50:26 | 1,677,527,426 | null | null | 0 | 11dkz2h | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11dkz2h/whats_the_rationale_behind_not_responding_but_not/ | 6 | I was chatting with someone for a few days, we met. I thought it went well. We were both talking and laughing the whole date. She said she had a great time and would like to do it again and I agreed. I messaged her on Sunday and she didn't say anything, and same with today. I'm not really bothered with people aren't in... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's the rationale behind not responding, but not unmatching either? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11dkz2h/whats_the_rationale_behind_not_responding_but_not/ |
Tawfok | 2019-04-23 17:33:06 | 1,556,040,786 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | bgj7ix | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bgj7ix/is_a_first_date_gift_too_creepy/ | 0 | I've [32m] been talking to someone on bumble [22f], and conversation flows pretty easily. She said she would be down to grab drinks. We talked about smoking and she mentioned she had a glass piece she liked (glass cigar, the twisty one) that got broken. I thought it would be a nice little surprise to get her a new one ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is a first date gift too creepy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bgj7ix/is_a_first_date_gift_too_creepy/ |
bluecheezpls | 2021-07-06 00:00:34 | 1,625,529,634 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | oejhkv | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/oejhkv/labels_and_timelines/ | 29 | I am curious about how people label their relationships after certain periods of time, or if time has anything to do with it at all. I have almost zero relationship history, certainly have never been with someone I call a ‘boyfriend’. I recently have been seeing a guy I met on OLD and it’s going well. It’s been about t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Labels and timelines | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/oejhkv/labels_and_timelines/ |
rndmdarC | 2020-12-14 00:39:00 | 1,607,906,340 | null | ['dating app', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | kcmpye | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kcmpye/i_thought_this_would_be_my_year/ | 5 | I thought this would be my year to get into dating. For background, I really suffered from low self esteem and likely depression/anxiety (undiagnosed) in college. I was not confident enough to date and didn’t see why anyone would want to date me. My last year of college I went on a couple of dates but I was a nervous w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I thought this would be my year. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kcmpye/i_thought_this_would_be_my_year/ |
Upset-Bee-5324 | 2024-04-11 20:49:35 | 1,712,868,575 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1c1pw1s | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c1pw1s/help_me_match_with_this_girl_on_hinge/ | 1 | I just downloaded Hinge, and I see this girl’s profile. She’s beautiful, with a smile that could hang stars and light the darkest spots on Earth. She also loves cheese and wants someone to worship the ground she walks on. Will she destroy me? Probably. Am I okay with that? Probably. Help me match with her by upvoting t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help Me Match with This Girl on Hinge | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c1pw1s/help_me_match_with_this_girl_on_hinge/ |
madeli4981 | 2017-12-20 21:13:42 | 1,513,804,422 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7l4gw8 | false | null | 185 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7l4gw8/found_out_guy_ive_been_talking_to_is_married/ | 21 | I’m supposed to meet this guy I met off tinder. I googled him and found out he is still married. What do you think the best approach would be? Ghost him? Ask him about it? Go on the date and see what his agenda is? Ugh I feel like I’m the one who is doing something wrong here. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Found out guy I’ve been talking to is married. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7l4gw8/found_out_guy_ive_been_talking_to_is_married/ |
Defiant-Library-6156 | 2024-05-28 01:40:27 | 1,716,860,427 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1d280pb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d280pb/is_it_bad_if_a_guy_takes_34_hours_to_respond_to_a/ | 1 | I (F21) matched with this guy (M22) and he takes 3-4 hours to respond to a text, the replies are normal and nothing super interesting. He seems like the type to not use his phone and be kinda mundane so i don't really know. I cant tell if he's interested or making an attempt I guess? I also responded before in 10 minut... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it bad if a guy takes 3-4 hours to respond to a single text? | 1 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d280pb/is_it_bad_if_a_guy_takes_34_hours_to_respond_to_a/ |
senzuuubean | 2018-09-01 07:13:51 | 1,535,786,031 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 9c17ky | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9c17ky/how_to_get_another_date_how_to_meet_people/ | 1 | Hi Redditers, I have posted a few days ago about how to get a second date with a guy hooked up on the first date.. So it turned out he did come see, drove an hour right after his 8 hours shift and slept over my apartment, took me to work 5 in the morning next day and went work right after. He took off to California tod... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get another date/ how to meet people outside work/school? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9c17ky/how_to_get_another_date_how_to_meet_people/ |
31andlooking | 2011-11-10 05:10:18 | 1,320,901,818 | 2 | ['okcupid'] | null | m72uy | null | null | 3 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m72uy/month_2_update_im_single_and_31_im_starting_to/ | 7 | tl;dr, I'm 31 and single and blogging about my search for love. I update at least once a day every day. Yikes, it's been a rough month. I moved, and we didn't have internet service for some time, so there were a few days I couldn't update the blog. The bad news. I've occasionally been so busy that I haven't had time ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Month 2 Update: I'm single and 31. I'm starting to feel like I've wasted my life and I'm trying to get back on track and find love. I need your help. | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m72uy/month_2_update_im_single_and_31_im_starting_to/ |
Dense-Temperature122 | 2022-06-19 09:38:38 | 1,655,631,518 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vfrl1i | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vfrl1i/bf_surrounds_himself_with_girls_that_hadhas/ | 1 | I'm a 24y/F from India in a one year relationship with 25y/ M from NY. He's originally from India but grew up in NY and now is back in India for his undergraduate degree. He also has adhd, bipolar and hlpd and on meds. We met thro tinder, he immediately had a liking for me and fell for me in two months. He calls me per... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | BF surrounds himself with girls that had/has feelings for him. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vfrl1i/bf_surrounds_himself_with_girls_that_hadhas/ |
mimi_trixabelle | 2015-04-24 21:57:55 | 1,429,912,675 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 33rcom | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/33rcom/set_up_an_online_profile_and_was_honest_about_my/ | 6 | I just got out of a 5 year relationship and made an online dating profile. I'm a size 14 and I'm pretty (so I'm told). I specifically said I was "overweight" in my description, mentioned in my bio that I was overweight and working on getting back in shape (down 30 lbs) and my profile pictures are current. Is it safe to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Set up an online profile and was honest about my weight. Done need to clarify to potential dates? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/33rcom/set_up_an_online_profile_and_was_honest_about_my/ |
summerjammies | 2021-05-25 16:51:58 | 1,621,961,518 | null | null | 0 | nkucxg | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nkucxg/hot_and_cold/ | 0 | Hi! I’m fairly new to OLD and wanted some advice on this guy. I matched last week on a Muslim dating app (muzmatch) and he was very responsive, would reply almost immediately, appeared to know what he wanted and seemed very interested in getting to know me - what I had to say etc and complimented without being sleezy. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hot and cold | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nkucxg/hot_and_cold/ |
hhoo40 | 2023-05-30 11:15:06 | 1,685,445,306 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 13vnfqf | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13vnfqf/online_dating_apps_suckes/ | 4 | I am on tinder and Facebook dating for a while and I didn't get any matches like or any response | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating apps suckes | 4 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13vnfqf/online_dating_apps_suckes/ |
Ok_Scratch6300 | 2024-03-11 15:26:24 | 1,710,170,784 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bc5syp | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bc5syp/found_a_condom_under_the_girls_bed/ | 1 | 28M met 27F on a dating app. We met once. On the second date we ended up going to her place. She had already told me that she was dating other men. She also warned that her house would be messy cus her 'friend' had been there last night. As we started sipping wine.. our cigarette pack fell down and I picked it up to sm... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Found a condom under the girl's bed. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bc5syp/found_a_condom_under_the_girls_bed/ |
M4C10 | 2023-02-24 22:54:17 | 1,677,279,257 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 11b4oil | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11b4oil/i_think_im_acting_too_keen_conversation_seems_dry/ | 1 | So whenever I try to chat to someone (online) that I have just matched with or met I feel like I’m acting too keen to find out things about them I tend to ask questions and they don’t usually ask back or answer very shortly, sometimes even with one word. Does this mean they have no interest in me or I’m being to pushy/... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I’m acting too keen! Conversation seems dry sometimes. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11b4oil/i_think_im_acting_too_keen_conversation_seems_dry/ |
one_cornerstone | 2022-06-28 09:23:49 | 1,656,408,229 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | vmj01p | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vmj01p/interested_in_getting_to_know_him/ | 1 | I met a guy on hinge and after some inconsistent replies he asked for my insta. We moved to insta, had a brief exchange and then nothing. He reached out a few days later with a gif, we had another small conversation and again nothing. I am attracted to him but I obviously want someone a little more consistent. He’s als... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Interested in getting to know him | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vmj01p/interested_in_getting_to_know_him/ |
Mysterious_Dhoti | 2024-05-12 14:19:59 | 1,715,523,599 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cq8x8y | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1cq8x8y/how_many_of_you_were_gayly_matchable_but/ | 0 | So a while ago I was bi-curious and set my filters to everyone as friends . I used to get 38 likes from guys on an average everyday. Wtf moment But now that I hv realised I am not bi but just a straight person , No girl matches me . Maybe bcz I look too skinny and weak | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How many of you were gayly matchable but unmatachable as straight on dating apps? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cq8x8y/how_many_of_you_were_gayly_matchable_but/ |
TheRarestLamborghini | 2024-01-23 21:59:59 | 1,706,047,199 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 19e0azj | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19e0azj/it_was_a_bad_idea_to_try_to_reach_out_to_an_old/ | 1 | I'm sure there are many stories like this but I'm posting to get some outsider perspective, instead of just talking to friends about it. This is mainly venting but some advice would also be good if any comes to mind. So there's this girl I matched with, last summer around the beginning of August. We hit it off really w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It was a bad idea to try to reach out to an old Hinge date... | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19e0azj/it_was_a_bad_idea_to_try_to_reach_out_to_an_old/ |
StuartSmiles | 2015-10-19 23:44:24 | 1,445,298,264 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 3pf5yh | null | null | 51 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3pf5yh/to_women_on_dating_sites_why_do_you_suddenly_stop/ | 0 | I have sent a single harmless sentence and people block me. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | to women on dating sites: why do you suddenly stop responding for no reason? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3pf5yh/to_women_on_dating_sites_why_do_you_suddenly_stop/ |
Illogicalpanda | 2016-10-06 17:58:36 | 1,475,776,716 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 566pz4 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/566pz4/should_i_not_use_dating_appsservices_if_i_am/ | 2 | So. Here's where I'm coming from. I'm 19 male, and the college I attend is about an hour drive from where I live. I don't have my own car, and I don't have steady income. This makes casually going out on a date a little difficult for me. Is it wrong for me to use dating apps/services if going out is going to be a chall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I not use dating apps/services if I am mostly unable to go out on a date? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/566pz4/should_i_not_use_dating_appsservices_if_i_am/ |
Orchid1480 | 2022-09-05 03:41:15 | 1,662,349,275 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | x65z5y | true | Success Story 🎉 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x65z5y/is_anyone_else_just_so_excited_to_date/ | 2 | Let me just preface with that I actually hate dating. I hate the beginning moments of meeting people and figuring out what to talk about. BUT I went on an amazing date last weekend and then got stood up by the same guy who told me he needed to figure himself out and wishes it was the right time that he could date me. S... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is anyone else just so excited to date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x65z5y/is_anyone_else_just_so_excited_to_date/ |
PivotalPosture | 2023-01-21 12:29:20 | 1,674,304,160 | null | null | 0 | 10hq61j | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10hq61j/enough_is_enough/ | 50 | I have been on the dating apps for almost fifteen years; enough is enough. While many of the experiences I’ve gained through these apps have been revolutionary, I’ve also seen first hand what it can turn us into: Extremely picky and numbers oriented. Once you’re in, you’re hooked. While a plethora of options seems appe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Enough is Enough! | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10hq61j/enough_is_enough/ |
hheellppmmee1 | 2020-03-31 13:26:57 | 1,585,661,217 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | fscvvo | true | I Need Advice | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fscvvo/i_f22_feel_like_im_losing_the_interest_of_the_guy/ | 4 | As the title says, I’m afraid the guy I’m speaking to is slowly losing interest. I started talking to him on bumble and due to corona we haven’t met irl. It’s been a few weeks and I noticed the past couple of day’s he’s been answering with one word responses, acting sort of disinterested. Is there anything I can do to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (f22) feel like I’m losing the interest of the guy (m26) I’ve been speaking to for the past week weeks. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fscvvo/i_f22_feel_like_im_losing_the_interest_of_the_guy/ |
SoulEater9882 | 2021-06-13 03:43:02 | 1,623,555,782 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | nynyid | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nynyid/subreddit_for_improving_your_profile/ | 5 | I don't know if this question would be better here or in r/AskReddit but I was wondering if anybody knows of a subreddit where you can describe yourself or post samples of your dating profile, Bumble, Hinge, ect. To get critiques or find better ways to say things? I have tried to look up sample ideas online but they al... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Subreddit for improving your profile? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nynyid/subreddit_for_improving_your_profile/ |
712am | 2024-07-08 23:06:24 | 1,720,479,984 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dyn1gv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dyn1gv/how_do_i_interpret_this/ | 1 | Okay, so I met a girl on hinge, we went on a date, it was fun. Afterwards we kept talking and we had been talking for literally the entire last month of June. She's invited me to game nights with her friends, and then she's also invited me to hangout 1 on 1 with her and we did painting one day and then also checked out... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I interpret this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dyn1gv/how_do_i_interpret_this/ |
Loccyskillz | 2020-09-12 18:27:27 | 1,599,935,247 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | irhvqn | true | Venting | 47 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/irhvqn/throwing_in_the_towel/ | 32 | So I am officially done with dating apps, I deleted every app I had, idk what is but I keep running into the same type of women, that ether ghost you after sex, don't want anything serious, talk to you for only for few days and lose interest, leave you on read, it very stressful and overwhelming, if anyone is going thr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Throwing in the towel | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/irhvqn/throwing_in_the_towel/ |
Used-Being5295 | 2024-05-01 08:26:05 | 1,714,551,965 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1chgy8n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1chgy8n/have_i_met_a_walking_red_flag_or_am_i_just/ | 1 | i met this guy on a dating app, he seems cool and amazing and i can’t tell if he’s lying about certain things. He told me he deleted the dating app for me, but i went to check if he did and he didn’t, and then DURING our conversation he went and deleted it, and asked me to check and insisted he deleted it earlier that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Have I met a walking red flag or am I just paranoid ??? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1chgy8n/have_i_met_a_walking_red_flag_or_am_i_just/ |
OriginalTacoMoney | 2022-07-12 03:51:18 | 1,657,597,878 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | vx1pep | true | null | 141 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vx1pep/so_if_hinge_is_starting_to_become_the_new_tinder/ | 68 | So like the topic title says, it seems to me based on my own observations and whatever others have said that Hinge is slowly becoming a app for people looking for hookups and not relationships . And hey if you want to hookup, more power to you. But some of us do want a actual relationship, but it seems we are drowned o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So if Hinge is starting to become the new Tinder, what is app is becoming the new Hinge ? AKA the app for actual relationships , but doesn't gauge you every step of the way for premium. ........ Looking at you Match and OkCupid | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vx1pep/so_if_hinge_is_starting_to_become_the_new_tinder/ |
Repulsive-Engineer37 | 2023-09-13 17:56:57 | 1,694,627,817 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 16htwio | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16htwio/how_can_i_possibly_be_this_hopeless/ | 1 | I am in my mid thirties, and have been single for 90% of my life. I have been in three-ish real relationships in my life, and I didn't really instigate any of them. The first gave me my first kiss when I was 18. The second lived on my hall freshman year of college, and literally climbed into my bed after we had been dr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I possibly be this hopeless? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16htwio/how_can_i_possibly_be_this_hopeless/ |
xantexhunter | 2015-05-17 13:34:08 | 1,431,869,648 | 0 | ['online dating', 'pof'] | 0 | 369e7f | null | null | 196 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/369e7f/men_online_dating_just_a_frustrating_timewaster/ | 107 | I been using POF since Feb. this year. So far, it has been a fruitless venture. I been getting around 20 replies each month to a uncountable amount of messages sent out. Only recieved 3 first contact messages since I created my account and only been on 1 date. When I flip through profiles, I read them. I look at the in... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men: Online Dating just a frustrating Time-Waster? | 107 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/369e7f/men_online_dating_just_a_frustrating_timewaster/ |
wannaGoBack6788365 | 2019-06-13 13:23:09 | 1,560,432,189 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c05rmg | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c05rmg/me_and_my_ex_are_dating_in_all_but_the_label_how/ | 1 | Recently I've been getting back together with my ex. We have gone on several dates, had sex a few times. We have also been telling each other we love each other and holding hands. So pretty much a relationship without commitment. The problem comes is that she's on tinder. She is sometimes looking and sometimes not. I w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me and my ex are dating in all but the label, how do I ask her to commit? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c05rmg/me_and_my_ex_are_dating_in_all_but_the_label_how/ |
ZestycloseVehicle315 | 2024-01-22 17:58:01 | 1,705,946,281 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | 19d1rv8 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/19d1rv8/stop_me_from_self_sabotaging/ | 3 | Hi all Recently matched with gent in 40s on OLD & we had a couple of calls, then progressed to a facetime that went really well. He suggested we meet for coffee when we were face timing which I agreed to as we were having fun and did the verification check so neither party is catfished when it comes to IRL. Said gent h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Stop me from self sabotaging! | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/19d1rv8/stop_me_from_self_sabotaging/ |
dhc23 | 2012-02-14 15:40:55 | 1,329,234,055 | 1 | ['matched'] | null | pp6s5 | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/pp6s5/can_you_help_fellow_redditors_find_love/ | 3 | I’ve just posted on /r/foreveralone looking for volunteers who want to be helped to find love. I’m posting here in the hope I can find the helpers. The basic principle is this: people who describe themselves as foreveralone will keep themselves in this state through a belief system and set of actions to match. If someo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can you help fellow Redditors find love? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pp6s5/can_you_help_fellow_redditors_find_love/ |
kategr7 | 2021-06-20 10:23:18 | 1,624,184,598 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | o42ovz | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o42ovz/girls_how_often_do_you_feel_a_crazy_attraction_to/ | 2 | Like to the point you get excited and can’t stop fantasizing about them. ?? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls how often do you feel a crazy attraction to a guys dating app photos ? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o42ovz/girls_how_often_do_you_feel_a_crazy_attraction_to/ |
Safe-Jeweler-3820 | 2024-08-13 17:38:26 | 1,723,570,706 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ere37c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ere37c/need_advice_bf_went_on_a_planned_hike_with_a_girl/ | 1 | I'm feeling really conflicted right now. My boyfriend recently revealed that he went hiking with a girl he met on Bumble. They matched before we started dating, and they'd planned the hike before we became exclusive. He didn't mention it until today. I know they planned this before we were together, and he did tell her... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice: BF went on a planned hike with a girl after we were exclusive | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ere37c/need_advice_bf_went_on_a_planned_hike_with_a_girl/ |
sfomonkey | 2020-06-22 16:49:43 | 1,592,844,583 | null | null | 0 | hdvxbi | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hdvxbi/anyone_else_run_out_of_matches/ | 5 | I've been on Bumble for a month or so. I'm out of matches, it tells me to edit filters or remove them. I'm looking for men 44 to 65, within 30 miles (that's like 1.5 million population or more). I think that's a big age range and I dont want a relationship outside of 30 miles. Does this happen to you too, and what do y... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone else run out of matches? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hdvxbi/anyone_else_run_out_of_matches/ |
deankeaton83 | 2019-09-27 02:57:09 | 1,569,553,029 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | d9ucvt | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d9ucvt/i_need_to_change_things_up_is_this_approach/ | 4 | So I am convinced OLD is a waste of time for the most part and feel it's important to meet someone organically IRL. I am an introvert, though have friends, I do struggle in meeting new people. Read here and elsewhere do what interests you, naturally the first thing I thought of was some weekly movie club. Makes sense f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I need to change things up, is this approach correct? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d9ucvt/i_need_to_change_things_up_is_this_approach/ |
sunsetpuppy | 2020-06-17 20:31:17 | 1,592,425,877 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hazhpz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hazhpz/should_i_drop_him_or_keep_talking_to_him/ | 1 | I started talking to this guy I met on Tinder a couple months ago and we have been talking everyday since. We have had some good conversations and seem to have a lot in common. I like him and he seems like a good guy, but I can’t tell how interested he is in me. He told me he had just gotten out of a relationship only ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I drop him or keep talking to him? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hazhpz/should_i_drop_him_or_keep_talking_to_him/ |
[deleted] | 2019-12-22 21:33:22 | 1,577,050,402 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | eeanye | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eeanye/online_dating_conversations/ | 2 | I've (33F) recently decided to try some online dating apps, as I haven't been able to date much. I'm also very shy, so I'm not the best at keeping conversations going. I like that most guys initiate the conversation, but many of mine begin like "Hello. How are you?" I tell them I am doing well and ask how they are doin... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Online Dating - Conversations | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eeanye/online_dating_conversations/ |
One_Pie9304 | 2024-07-10 23:27:34 | 1,720,654,054 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e0abg8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e0abg8/hello/ | 2 | Im 20M living in rabat morocco i been single for almost 3years and i cant find my partner im a good looking guy ngl but im to shy to approach a girl in street and i dont like dating apps any ideas how i can get my life partner im feeling very lonely lately | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hello | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e0abg8/hello/ |
yeeyup | 2022-11-22 02:05:31 | 1,669,082,731 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | z1hdc0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z1hdc0/what_apps_are_you_using/ | 1 | Well, here I am after a few hookups on the apps, and a few in-person meetups. I'm feeling a bit stuck in the middle - I want to give online dating another try, but I might just need a break. Looking for an app that I might have missed... some I haven't explored a lot, but I just looked at my entire phone and I am looki... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What apps are you using? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z1hdc0/what_apps_are_you_using/ |
Ghostrider_001 | 2024-05-27 02:56:43 | 1,716,778,603 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d1hujy | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d1hujy/dont_even_know_what_to_do_19m/ | 5 | I’m almost 20, 5’9, athletic, with a good job and my own place and I wouldn’t consider myself an ugly guy. I’ve tried those dating apps but they just don’t work for me. The girls I like never match, or when we do match either it doesn’t go anywhere or it turns out they aren’t what I’m looking for. I’m tired of coming h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t even know what to do (19M) | 5 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d1hujy/dont_even_know_what_to_do_19m/ |
Breath-Wooden | 2022-07-03 21:44:32 | 1,656,884,672 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | vqrvci | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vqrvci/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ | 21 | Age 24, Indian living in Uk. 5,6. Gym 3-4 days, working as pharmacist. I am still a virgin, I have of course liked girls but I have been rejected all the time. I have tried online dating tinder, hinge, and bumble (£160 per month). And over the past year I have got one 1 date which ended with kiss and that was it. I'm r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What am I doing wrong? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vqrvci/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ |
Particular-Attorney9 | 2024-01-06 23:11:25 | 1,704,582,685 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 190d3iz | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/190d3iz/need_dating_advice_for_a_30f/ | 1 | Is it me? I’m single nearly 3 years. My last relationship ended very badly and I’ve worked on myself and put in that work during that time. I’ve just turned 30 and have chosen my career over a relationship. A lot of my friends have now settled down or have found partners. A lot of my social circle also have partners. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need dating advice for a 30(f) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/190d3iz/need_dating_advice_for_a_30f/ |
thisEngineer | 2021-05-16 23:59:36 | 1,621,209,576 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ne1jys | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ne1jys/tinder_paradox/ | 3 | Hi, me 24m, getting bunch of superlikes in tinder but none of them reply to my message when I reach out. Why superlike someone when you don't want to engage? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | tinder paradox | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ne1jys/tinder_paradox/ |
samiam12555 | 2022-03-06 22:38:58 | 1,646,606,338 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | t8afn9 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t8afn9/girl_told_me_she_is_a_ho_when_she_drinks/ | 47 | Im not sure what the psychology of this is. So I matched with a girl on Tinder a few days ago.. we have plans to hangout soon. Last night we were talking a bit. The topic of alcohol comes up. She says "when I drink I'm not responsible for anything that happens after that." In my head I was like Then she says "I got too... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl told me she is a ho when she drinks? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t8afn9/girl_told_me_she_is_a_ho_when_she_drinks/ |
princesszmoney | 2024-03-29 04:10:35 | 1,711,685,435 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bqg3yx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bqg3yx/help_me_with_dating_life/ | 4 | 24 year old female trying to date and get out there again. used fb dating and matched with a guy couple weeks ago. it was going really good to the point he would call/ft me. talk daily and flirt and be excited when he would call/text and he said he was the same. the passed couple days it’s been less and less. also text... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | help me with dating life | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bqg3yx/help_me_with_dating_life/ |
williampett | 2023-12-26 21:25:03 | 1,703,625,903 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18riop9 | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18riop9/is_dating_app_still_relevant/ | 2 | I have try major payed app like tinder and bumble and didn't find any matches. If I did they wouldn't respond when I texted them. I am not the kinda of guy who wanna play game . | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating app still relevant ? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18riop9/is_dating_app_still_relevant/ |
Pure_Usual5852 | 2024-08-15 09:24:07 | 1,723,713,847 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1esqsi6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1esqsi6/guy_im_seeing_still_on_dating_app_for_chats/ | 10 | f23 and M28 & dating for 2-3 months so, me and this guy have met on a dating app a few months ago, had our first date and it went really well. We're still doing pretty good, we're really close, talk everyday, see each other on the regular, its romantic, etc. I'd say we're doing pretty well? We've had the exclusivity ta... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | guy im seeing still on dating app "for chats" | 10 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1esqsi6/guy_im_seeing_still_on_dating_app_for_chats/ |
duchovmeme | 2019-08-09 22:56:05 | 1,565,391,365 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | co9x8g | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/co9x8g/whats_a_good_first_message/ | 1 | Tried to post this on r/tinder but no one answered so hope it’s ok I post it here I (22F) have tried different openers over the years whether that’s gifs, a basic “hey! What’s up” or asking about their day, to more suggestive/sexual messages to get their attention but not much seems to work. I’ll be like wow this perso... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s a good first message? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/co9x8g/whats_a_good_first_message/ |
vizaster | 2023-12-30 17:11:36 | 1,703,956,296 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18ukcqb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ukcqb/if_you_dont_seem_interested_arent_girls_gonna/ | 1 | I am a 25-year-old guy from Bangalore, and I recently went on a date that greatly disappointed me. We had really hit it off on the dating app but after we met something seemed to have really set her off. I’m not that ugly (I’m really honest). Maybe it was my scooter – maybe she judged me on the basis that not having a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you don’t seem interested, aren’t girls gonna think, this guy is not interested and shut themselves off for any possible good outcome? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ukcqb/if_you_dont_seem_interested_arent_girls_gonna/ |
infloatsamniac | 2020-04-26 22:13:12 | 1,587,939,192 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | g8norf | true | Other | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g8norf/thanking_quarantine/ | 1 | Thanks to quarantine, I met the person that I had given up on finding. There are so many unexpected factors that contributed to this...it’s wild! I’m in college, and if spring break hadn’t been extended, I wouldn’t have swiped right on him (I would’ve been in a different area). If not for school getting transferred onl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Thanking Quarantine | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g8norf/thanking_quarantine/ |
AthleteProfessional3 | 2022-02-24 01:52:36 | 1,645,667,556 | null | null | 0 | szyi6u | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/szyi6u/is_it_weird_to_reach_out_to_someone_you_dated/ | 3 | Saw a guy for about 2 months. I asked him where were stood. Things felt too serious for him and he decided that it was best me and him don’t keep seeing each other but that he was open to being friends. I told him no problem appreciate the honesty and open to being friends. It’s been a while. I did enjoy his friendship... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it weird to reach out to someone you dated just to catch up as friends? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/szyi6u/is_it_weird_to_reach_out_to_someone_you_dated/ |
[deleted] | 2021-05-20 14:04:12 | 1,621,519,452 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nh13by | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nh13by/do_guys_care_that_i_still_wet_the_bed/ | 3 | I’m a 25 year old woman who suffers from overactive bladder. I wet the bed almost every night (and wear adult diapers to bed) and during the day usually wear a panty liner to catch leaks. During a flare up sometimes my symptoms get worse and I wear depend underwear for a hot minute until my issues get better. Anyways, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do guys care that I still wet the bed? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nh13by/do_guys_care_that_i_still_wet_the_bed/ |
Mendizzy7 | 2021-06-27 08:39:15 | 1,624,783,155 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o8t6fk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o8t6fk/help/ | 1 | I always told myself i was going to to find the one but that has not been the case. Should I try dating apps and what is the luck on not being a scam profile. Should I continue to live in LA LA LA land or try something new. Let me know | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | HELP | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o8t6fk/help/ |
premedcrying21 | 2023-07-29 18:06:02 | 1,690,653,962 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 15cypff | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15cypff/possible_fbw_being_weird/ | 1 | I’ve been taking this guy through hinge for 3 months already and he’s been acting weird. We haven’t met, but im in Miami rn and he keeps telling me to hook up with someone there and even asked me to send photos of “me and my mans.” Idk what this even means lol and before he was like “well what if you pull a hot guy in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Possible fbw being weird?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15cypff/possible_fbw_being_weird/ |
Jrock12345 | 2023-08-15 19:47:49 | 1,692,128,869 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 15s2voc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15s2voc/did_i_do_the_right_thing/ | 1 | 2 years ago I was going on dates with this girl I met on tinder, it was honestly going very well but I soon realized she was one of my friends ex girlfriends, out of respect for him I backed off but I was sad because i did like her, I slowly faded away from her and told her why and felt really bad Fast forward to moder... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I do the right thing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15s2voc/did_i_do_the_right_thing/ |
Sufficient-Ant-3991 | 2024-03-22 23:15:47 | 1,711,149,347 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bld8hn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bld8hn/i_need_advice_i_cannot_get_a_gf_or_female_friends/ | 1 | Hello, I'm 26 year old virgin who can not get a gf or really even female friends. I know what you guys are thinking that I must be needy or desperate. Or I lack confidence. Well, I'm none of those things. I don't walk around timid and I have no problem approaching a woman. The only problem is that they all lose interes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need advice! I cannot get a gf or female friends | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bld8hn/i_need_advice_i_cannot_get_a_gf_or_female_friends/ |
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