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Stolenartwork | 2018-11-29 04:09:03 | 1,543,464,543 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a1dwld | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a1dwld/please_help_me_understand_where_things_are_going/ | 5 | -I’m going to preface this by saying that some of the things I’m putting down will sound like I’m tooting my own horn, but I’m not and I'm really stuck and it’s my first time reaching out so I figure transparency is for the best.- I’m 24, male, and recently graduated from college (woo). In 2014 my girlfriend and I brok... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Please help me understand where things are going wrong [Long read but pls] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a1dwld/please_help_me_understand_where_things_are_going/ |
cat_friend_55 | 2023-05-23 16:32:11 | 1,684,859,531 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 13pthjx | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/13pthjx/comparing_our_relationship_to_his_ex_wife/ | 114 | Hey folks, So, I've been seeing this lovely man since April. There have been lots of green flags - our communication is very clear and open, we definitely have a wonderful emotional and physical connection, and our effort is equally matched which is wonderful. He has been very open about his divorce and co-parenting si... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Comparing our relationship to his ex wife | 114 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13pthjx/comparing_our_relationship_to_his_ex_wife/ |
tocutetobetrue | 2023-05-30 02:20:25 | 1,685,413,225 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 13vdqh7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13vdqh7/ghosted_or/ | 0 | I’m a 21f and he’s a 25m. Met this guy on tinder about 2 weeks ago. We texted for a while. Phone called a lot. Planning on linking up for a date on a Tuesday. We linked and it went well Got drinks and talked. Got in his car and hugged for a while when we reached my house. We planned on seeing a movie the next day. He g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | ghosted or? | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13vdqh7/ghosted_or/ |
Unusual_Table | 2019-09-27 01:59:18 | 1,569,549,558 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d9tpjb | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d9tpjb/what_are_the_mechanics_of_an_emotional_partnership/ | 2 | I have two, what I consider to be, very close friendships. One person I met when we were four years old and the other I met when we were eleven. The three of us remained close throughout our schooldays before going off to college where we still kept in touch and followed the trajectory of each others lives. I feel like... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are the mechanics of an emotional partnership? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d9tpjb/what_are_the_mechanics_of_an_emotional_partnership/ |
ReaperOfProphecy | 2023-10-28 14:20:55 | 1,698,502,855 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 17iesl9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17iesl9/living_with_parents_as_30_when_do_i_tell_her/ | 1 | Living with parents as a 30/M. Going on a 4th date. When do I bring up my red flags? She [34/F] hasn’t exactly asked about my living situation, directly but I haven’t lied about any of this. My situation is a tad bit different. I think I realize that for most people, they will care and for some, they won’t. My situatio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Living with parents as 30. When do I tell her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17iesl9/living_with_parents_as_30_when_do_i_tell_her/ |
awkwardsilenceuhhh | 2020-07-25 23:11:06 | 1,595,718,666 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | hxw8gu | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hxw8gu/those_who_met_their_significant_other_on_a_dating/ | 8 | Just curious on if anyone here has met a significant other on a dating app, and if so how did you guys interact before you met , and how did you know it would work out ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Those who met their significant other on a dating app, how did your first interactions go and how did you know it would work out ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hxw8gu/those_who_met_their_significant_other_on_a_dating/ |
qwilliams92 | 2020-03-27 00:34:52 | 1,585,269,292 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fpn7yi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fpn7yi/off_the_wall_vs_standard/ | 1 | In this day and age off dating apps is it better to start off when some off the wall starter, like almost fuck boy territory. Because it seems like if you try the standard conversation starter about something in thier bio that you also have intrest in thats what every one else is doing so youre less likely to get a rep... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Off the wall vs Standard | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fpn7yi/off_the_wall_vs_standard/ |
Incognito_comma_Guy | 2018-08-25 21:19:49 | 1,535,231,989 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9aa95k | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9aa95k/broke_up_with_someone_i_really_liked_because_she/ | 45 | Been lurking for a while, and I need to rant. I (30M) split up with a person I genuinely fell for (35F) because she just stopped acting into me. It hurt, and I hated doing it, but I couldn’t take being pushed away anymore. She stopped texting me unless I texted first and she would give me one word responses, she never ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Broke up with someone I really liked because she wouldn’t put in the effort...doesn’t get easier | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9aa95k/broke_up_with_someone_i_really_liked_because_she/ |
Acceptable_Decision | 2022-11-04 17:51:01 | 1,667,584,261 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ym5ifn | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ym5ifn/books_on_dating/ | 1 | Hi, I am wanting to get a book about dating/seduction. I'm in my early 40s and haven't dated since the early 00s, so I'm very out of the loop What do you think about online dating? I'm exceptionally apprehensive about it Just wondering if you guys think it's a bad idea to look into a dating book or if there are any boo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Books on Dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ym5ifn/books_on_dating/ |
depak7891 | 2023-12-03 15:46:01 | 1,701,618,361 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 189w6h8 | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/189w6h8/i_built_a_data_tool_to_find_the_best_city_for/ | 81 | "So are you going to kiss me or what?" This was the last question a beautiful woman asked me at the end of our second date. As a fellow visiting traveler, it was her last day in Charleston, South Carolina, and I wouldn’t be seeing her again. We shared a brief, delightful kiss but since I had somewhere to be, I had to c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I built a data tool to find the best city for dating, then I visited it for a month | 81 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/189w6h8/i_built_a_data_tool_to_find_the_best_city_for/ |
HighlySuspect_Me | 2020-10-29 16:06:12 | 1,603,987,572 | null | null | 0 | jkculs | true | null | 15 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jkculs/were_you_just_as_surprised_as_me_to_find_this_out/ | 4 | When I joined Tinder I was surprised to find out how many couples are okay with having open relationships; finding unicorns as they call it! It could be a lie but I will see profiles with both of them in it saying how they have an open marriage or open relationship. No wonder why the bond of marriage is becoming a thin... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Were you just as surprised as me to find this out? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jkculs/were_you_just_as_surprised_as_me_to_find_this_out/ |
dcjohnson50 | 2019-12-06 19:08:18 | 1,575,659,298 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | e72zz4 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/e72zz4/walk_away/ | 6 | I (49M) have been on 7-8 dates with a (43F) I'd met via OLD. We're both separated 5 years, divorced just over 4 years, both no kids. Our dates are rarely just dinner and drinks, I like activity dates -- bowling, hiking, pool, live music, etc -- they usually last 6-7 hours. It took her 3 full dates to give me her phone ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Walk away? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e72zz4/walk_away/ |
6eatass9 | 2020-02-13 14:09:18 | 1,581,602,958 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f3ahu6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f3ahu6/tinder_help/ | 4 | OKAY so i’m a guy, 20, bi, just broke up with my gf, and never went through a he phase despite always having the feeling of wanting to. I’m going through the back-and-forth of thinking it would be fun, and then seeing everyone on the app and even though I know I don’t look terrible, i feel like nobody would want to eve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | tinder help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f3ahu6/tinder_help/ |
National-Active9665 | 2023-12-01 04:48:19 | 1,701,406,099 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1883abx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1883abx/22m_what_am_i_supposed_to_do_at_bars_i_only_have/ | 1 | I'm graduating this summer and have no job lined up so I might be with my parents for a while when I graduate. I've always wanted to be a bar person and am lucky my off-campus college apartment is walking distance to a few dive bars that are popular with students but my friends don't really want to go with me because w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [22M] What am I supposed to do at bars? I only have access to bars for 6 more months. How do I become a bar person? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1883abx/22m_what_am_i_supposed_to_do_at_bars_i_only_have/ |
luthienxx97 | 2024-03-10 02:14:27 | 1,710,036,867 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1baz0i5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1baz0i5/could_this_still_work_out/ | 1 | could this still work out?? hello so basically I (24f) started talking to this girl (22f) on hinge last may and we went on a few dates in june-july. we started texting in super thick paragraphs pretty early on (esp after exchanging instas) and by mid june it took me like 2 hrs to reply to everything lol (we both replie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | could this still work out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1baz0i5/could_this_still_work_out/ |
noonaslayer | 2020-09-12 08:05:06 | 1,599,897,906 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ir8ne7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ir8ne7/how_can_i_be_not_dry_when_talking_to_a_girl/ | 1 | I have been on tinder on/off, and I found myself matching with this girl that I genuinely had an interest in. She seemed super caring and nice, but I feel like I am so dry. It's hard for me to make friends because I was bullied throughout HighSchool, and it really made me insecure about who I am. My confidence levels w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I be not "dry" when talking to a girl? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ir8ne7/how_can_i_be_not_dry_when_talking_to_a_girl/ |
BubblyCity | 2023-06-06 22:58:12 | 1,686,092,292 | 0 | ['swipes', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 142w55p | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/142w55p/being_undateable/ | 3 | I am extremely languished at my life. I am 26 years old and I have never been able to land a single date in my life. I have tried everything from downloading 10 different dating apps and messaging and swiping on thousands of people to going out and asking people out. Ofcourse I get no swipes and in the rare occasion I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Being undateable | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/142w55p/being_undateable/ |
HinoTariBird | 2022-12-28 13:31:01 | 1,672,234,261 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zx9n6z | true | null | 322 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/zx9n6z/when_do_you_ask_their_last_name/ | 117 | When seeing someone from a dating app when should you ask their last name? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | When do you ask their last name? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/zx9n6z/when_do_you_ask_their_last_name/ |
cottagecoresimple | 2024-04-18 20:35:18 | 1,713,472,518 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c7dv8q | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c7dv8q/im_scared_of_dating_men_rejection/ | 1 | I've (24F) been single for over a year. Before that I spend 4 years dating on and off my ex, who I now realise wasn't good for me. He wasn't out right abusive but definitely toxic. He made me second guess every decision I made and criticised my looks, my personality, my goals, my hobbies. It got to the point where I ju... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im scared of dating? Men? Rejection? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c7dv8q/im_scared_of_dating_men_rejection/ |
Lifes_Debris | 2018-05-18 10:34:53 | 1,526,639,693 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8kc65q | false | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8kc65q/my_greek_goddess_agreed_to_a_3rd_and_4th_date/ | 10 | Our first date was about a week ago. Saturday afternoon drinks. Her Bumble profile wasn't the greatest but she had this exotic look. Of course being that it was Bumble, she asked about my Saturday. I was at my daughters theatre performance at the time. We text a little that day and she had to travel, so I didn't hear f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | My Greek Goddess agreed to a 3rd and 4th date | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8kc65q/my_greek_goddess_agreed_to_a_3rd_and_4th_date/ |
rawdogonlycrew | 2022-12-06 03:05:52 | 1,670,295,952 | null | null | 0 | zdt8nr | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zdt8nr/keep_meeting_girls_off_apps_with_no/ | 0 | IDK if it's just me. JUst went on another date where the girl just sat there and barely said anything. Girls used to be different. Girls were a lot chattier and more flirty back in the day. No idea what's going on but it's like 95% of women I meet these days. It's frustrated because I feel like I have to take on the fe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | keep meeting girls off apps with no socialskills/game? | null | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zdt8nr/keep_meeting_girls_off_apps_with_no/ |
IndieCurtis | 2013-09-16 14:18:33 | 1,379,341,113 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1mi2lp | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1mi2lp/is_it_ok_to_just_not_hang_outbarely_talk_for_up/ | 5 | x-posted from /r/dating, this sub seemed more appropriate. I'm seeing this girl, nothing serious, but we met on okcupid and texted a lot at first, and we've hung out a few times. We've made out a bit. She told me I'm cute, a good kisser, and that she likes me. We've opened up to each other about a lot of things and she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ok to just not hang out/barely talk for up to a week? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1mi2lp/is_it_ok_to_just_not_hang_outbarely_talk_for_up/ |
DrewcyJuice | 2021-01-20 04:35:11 | 1,611,117,311 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | l11shy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l11shy/how_do_i_push_the_relationship/ | 0 | So me (21m) has been talking to someone (19f) for about 2-3 weeks, we met on bumble and she has thrown around the friend word a few times and I’d like to know how to make a definitive stance that I’d rather not just be friends | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I push the relationship | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l11shy/how_do_i_push_the_relationship/ |
aussie6896 | 2022-04-19 02:01:52 | 1,650,333,712 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | u6tszh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u6tszh/how_to_start_dating/ | 1 | Hi all, just looking for some advice on the best way to start out dating. Ive been using some of the dating apps but they all have paywall that are overly expensive. Im still a student and haven't got the largest budget. Looking for some recommendations on how i should go about looking for a partner. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to start dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u6tszh/how_to_start_dating/ |
ConstrainedBliss | 2022-04-09 15:02:11 | 1,649,516,531 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tzuzp0 | true | null | 89 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/tzuzp0/old_lie_about_age/ | 31 | I’ve noticed that more than a few men use a lower age (below 60) for “search purposes.” They fess up in their narratives, but it never sits well with me. OTH…. I am wondering if I’d be getting more attention if I listed 58 instead of 61? 😕 🤫🤥 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD: Lie about age | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/tzuzp0/old_lie_about_age/ |
adjectives_is_gud | 2019-02-27 12:57:27 | 1,551,272,247 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | avd77w | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/avd77w/f35_need_advice_on_how_to_cool_things_with_35m/ | 1 | I (F/35) am in a bit of a pickle with a guy (35/M) who I am not interested in seriously, but I think might be interested in me seriously. Essentially I want some advice as to how to rein him in, while hurting his feelings minimally. A little backstory first. I am two years out of a ten-year relationship, very happily s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | f/35 need advice on how to cool things with 35/m casual hook-up in the kindest possible way | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/avd77w/f35_need_advice_on_how_to_cool_things_with_35m/ |
LunarColors | 2018-02-08 19:09:00 | 1,518,116,940 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 7w78tg | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7w78tg/is_the_majority_of_dating_apps_people_looking_for/ | 1 | I don't want to waste my time with apps if all I'm going to be faced with is people looking to hookup once and never talk to you again. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is the majority of dating apps people looking for relationships or just to hook up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7w78tg/is_the_majority_of_dating_apps_people_looking_for/ |
dude17479 | 2015-05-06 22:21:18 | 1,430,950,878 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 353yts | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/353yts/how_to_meet_girls_worth_dating_in_the_real_world/ | 3 | Hey reddit people, I'm [21/m] a little unsure of how to go about meeting girls that are worth dating. I was in a serious relationship for most of college and we broke up right at the very end so I only had time to date a couple of other girls before graduating. Now that college is pretty much over it seems like the onl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet girls worth dating in the real world (I'm not resorting to online dating...yet.) | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/353yts/how_to_meet_girls_worth_dating_in_the_real_world/ |
Just_jordyne | 2016-02-11 03:59:48 | 1,455,163,188 | 0 | ['dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | 456y1d | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating/comments/456y1d/good_or_bad_boyfriend/ | 3 | I've been dating Zach for one year and 7 months now. I am 17 years old and Zach is 19. The first 3 months was great. He took me out anywhere I wanted. After that we started to stay home more I would ask him if we could go out on holadays. He'd always say next year. I got him a gift for valantines day, I ended up not ge... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Good or Bad Boyfriend | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/456y1d/good_or_bad_boyfriend/ |
coralearring | 2018-01-07 15:41:51 | 1,515,339,711 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7or7p5 | false | null | 37 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7or7p5/background_checks/ | 4 | Do you do background checks on new dating prospects? Last night, I was headed out to a third date with a guy I met OLD. My girlfriend has Spokeo, so in my Uber over I texted her to run his name. Two assault and battery charges came up more than 10 years ago. I asked him about them, and he said it was only one and he wa... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Background checks | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7or7p5/background_checks/ |
Support150 | 2019-07-07 16:23:23 | 1,562,516,603 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ca8mit | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/ca8mit/gay_men_of_this_subreddit_what_apps_do_you_use_to/ | 0 | PLEASE DO NOT SAY GRINDR. I am being told by many people to try different apps. I have experienced so much abuse on Grindr that I am debating just not using dating apps in general. What gay dating apps have the least amount of nude pictures, verbal abuse, and physical abuse? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Gay men of this subreddit, what apps do you use to find relationships? (not hookups) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/ca8mit/gay_men_of_this_subreddit_what_apps_do_you_use_to/ |
Professional-Farm-19 | 2020-06-30 07:17:21 | 1,593,501,441 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | hiiflv | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hiiflv/ex_sent_me_a_message_not_sure_whats_going_on/ | 1 | Last year I (M28) met someone on a dating app and we went out for a few months. On our last date, she said that she wasn't sure if she wanted to continue, since she was confused by her feelings towards me. I was fine with it (and was struggling from severe anxiety/depression at the time), so we agreed to stop seeing ea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ex sent me a message, not sure what's going on | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hiiflv/ex_sent_me_a_message_not_sure_whats_going_on/ |
m-after-dark | 2024-01-31 12:04:04 | 1,706,702,644 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1afgb7i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1afgb7i/how_do_i_25nb_slow_things_down_with_him_m25/ | 1 | I've been texting a lot with this guy I matched with, and while I really like his personality and think there's definitely potential for a great relationship here in the future, I want to see him in person first to confirm my attraction for him. He's not my usual type face-wise (not that hes unattractive He just doesnt... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I (25nb) slow things down with him (m25)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1afgb7i/how_do_i_25nb_slow_things_down_with_him_m25/ |
DiggityDog22 | 2018-01-06 16:25:15 | 1,515,255,915 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7ok5d3 | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7ok5d3/i_just_need_some_stats/ | 9 | Regarding online dating, what are your 2nd date batting averages? I will tell you that I probably went out on 50 or so dates last year, and maybe 5-7 went on past the first date (either I didn’t like her or she didn’t like me). | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just need some stats... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7ok5d3/i_just_need_some_stats/ |
reythewolf | 2023-01-24 18:49:04 | 1,674,586,144 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10kcufp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10kcufp/does_she_26f_like_me_or_just_waiting_for/ | 2 | Created an account as a throwaway and need some fresh perspectives. I'm super new to dating in general, I almost never get past 2 dates and so this is new territory for me. So I live in NYC and I've been on the dating apps in the last month, swiping, chatting, you name it. I swiped on this girl and we matched on Hinge,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does she [26F] like me or just waiting for something better? [M30] | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10kcufp/does_she_26f_like_me_or_just_waiting_for/ |
fuckanarcassist | 2017-12-05 04:19:40 | 1,512,447,580 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'swipes', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7hn8lo | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7hn8lo/matched_with_a_coworker_on_tinder/ | 2 | I've been working at this restaurant for about 4 months, and at first I kind of discounted him for not really being my type, but after a while of working over time together, I developed a crush. I decided to mess around on tinder tonight and lo and behold he pops up. I kind of freaked out and swiped right, and it said ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with a coworker on Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7hn8lo/matched_with_a_coworker_on_tinder/ |
Messi2345Best | 2022-07-20 01:08:46 | 1,658,279,326 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | w390t0 | true | I Need Advice | 247 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/w390t0/girl_i_met_hinge_sent_me_more_pics_and_i_dont/ | 584 | So I matched this girl on Hinge and we texted for a couple days a lot and it felt like she was awesome. Feels like we are very similar people. Her pictures weren't really good so today i asked her for a few more pictures and I don't find her attractive at all. I feel like such an asshole, I really don't want to ghost h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I met Hinge sent me more pics and I don't find her attractive, I don't want to ghost her | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w390t0/girl_i_met_hinge_sent_me_more_pics_and_i_dont/ |
BiscuitStripes | 2023-11-26 00:26:15 | 1,700,958,375 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 183xv50 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/183xv50/third_date_she_says_not_over_her_ex_what_should_i/ | 1 | 33M weed my way through several first dates on OLD to find a woman (29F) that’s actually worth my time. First date is great, second date is decent, third date was probably one of the best dates I’ve ever had. We laughed, danced, sang, and shared our first of many passionate kisses. As we left the bar after the third da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Third date she says not over her ex, what should I have done? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/183xv50/third_date_she_says_not_over_her_ex_what_should_i/ |
alysoncuriousland | 2023-07-11 08:49:08 | 1,689,065,348 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14wllfj | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14wllfj/what_are_some_positive_experiences_you_had_when/ | 1 | I want to try it soon but wanted to hear some positive stories. The process feels unnerving. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are some positive experiences you had when you first started online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14wllfj/what_are_some_positive_experiences_you_had_when/ |
StarbucksMommy | 2023-10-09 09:35:22 | 1,696,844,122 | 0 | null | 0 | 173nojg | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/173nojg/creepy_encounter/ | 1 | I’ve been using Facebook Dating for a few weeks now and until recently it’s been okay. I matched with this guy and his very first message to me was “can I ask you a question?” so I replied with a question mark. He then replies “have you ever been asked a question before, jeez!” I informed him that I was still waiting o... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Creepy Encounter | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/173nojg/creepy_encounter/ |
Mountain_Judge_7071 | 2024-07-13 14:49:39 | 1,720,882,179 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e2c6fg | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e2c6fg/are_we_texting_too_much_22m_and_22f_weird/ | 2 | So this girl on Hinge reached out to me a little over 3 months ago. I got her number and the rest is history. She lives 8+ hours away and from me and is transferring to my school this Fall. We have been texting/snapchatting/instagram DM (memes and stuff) every day since then. It’s been 102 days according to snap. We bo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are we texting too much? 22M and 22F. Weird situation lol | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2c6fg/are_we_texting_too_much_22m_and_22f_weird/ |
Jaspyprancer | 2024-09-10 00:12:51 | 1,725,927,171 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fd4p3o | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fd4p3o/having_a_strange_old_experience_curious_if_anyone/ | 6 | I've been checking out the apps for a while now, and currently have a subscription to Tinder Platinum, which has exploded my matches, but I'm also working with all the other apps. Tinder and Hinge seem to work the best, but I'm noticing something weird with the Match Group owned apps, specifically Tinder and Match. I D... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Having a strange OLD experience. Curious if anyone else is experiencing this... | 6 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fd4p3o/having_a_strange_old_experience_curious_if_anyone/ |
kth925 | 2017-07-23 13:33:05 | 1,500,816,785 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 6p1ax1 | null | Venting | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/6p1ax1/flakes/ | 0 | Starting to realize through Bumble and Bagel meets coffee that people are hella flakey. Anyone else notice this? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Flakes | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6p1ax1/flakes/ |
jabrohn | 2015-12-08 08:34:07 | 1,449,563,647 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3vwoas | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3vwoas/first_date_with_a_model_thats_out_of_my_league/ | 4 | pros: i've been told i'm somewhat funny, interesting, cute, and well-educated. cons: i'm pretty short (5'7"). i've been on dates with attractive women, but this girl is gorgeous. met on tinder and we're setting up a first date. the problem is, i think she's around the same height as me and would tower me if she wears h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | first date with a model that's out of my league and possibly taller than me... | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3vwoas/first_date_with_a_model_thats_out_of_my_league/ |
Sundalo | 2020-05-29 16:29:16 | 1,590,769,756 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | gsw592 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gsw592/great_dating_experience_during_covid_but_how_to/ | 8 | Hi everyone, This is my first time positing to r/dating. I've been lurking for some time and thought this experience was worth sharing. I've been dating this girl since early February. For context, we matched on CMB January, went on our first date on Feb. 9 (coffee date) and a second date (hiking) on March 8th. (Note: ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Great dating experience during covid, but how to approach the exclusive conversation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gsw592/great_dating_experience_during_covid_but_how_to/ |
YouFkingNub | 2023-03-13 22:00:41 | 1,678,744,841 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11qna7d | true | Success Story 🎉 | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11qna7d/can_we_all_agree_snap_is_the_best_app_to_find/ | 0 | I got 2 dates in 1 week that were successful and every other dating app goes to shit. Most ppl arent looking for proper connections cuz they dontbhave the commitment. Snap girls are a different breed | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can we all agree snap is the best app to find dates? | null | 0.22 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11qna7d/can_we_all_agree_snap_is_the_best_app_to_find/ |
CanForsaken5405 | 2022-10-18 17:02:23 | 1,666,112,543 | null | null | 0 | y7cl5a | true | null | 112 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y7cl5a/feeling_old_and_leftover/ | 53 | Recently turned 30 and back in the dating pool. I always thought I’d be married at this point so it is hard. I’m also trying not to let messages about single 30 year old women being “old” and “past their prime” but it’s hard not to feel much less attractive and desirable than I did in my late twenties | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Feeling old and “leftover” | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y7cl5a/feeling_old_and_leftover/ |
xholyangelcakex | 2023-10-23 00:45:38 | 1,698,021,938 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17e7zt9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17e7zt9/why_dont_guys_like_pregnant_women/ | 1 | I get that it’s someone else child but to me it just doesn’t feel fair that I can’t get the time of day from men on dating apps anymore. What’s the difference between dating while pregnant or dating with kids? I had one guy tell me that there’s a huge difference but is it really? It’s kids either way. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why don’t guys like pregnant women? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17e7zt9/why_dont_guys_like_pregnant_women/ |
MustangSallie | 2011-08-23 16:02:41 | 1,314,115,361 | 1 | ['OLD'] | null | jrsh5 | null | null | 20 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/jrsh5/make_me_not_be_stupid_and_jealous/ | 3 | My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, and last night, he tells me he wants to change his fb status to "in a relationship" but doesn't know how to do it (which is why he hasn't done it yet). I got to thinking about why all of a sudden he's so intent on changing his status so quickly. Funny thing is,... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Make me not be stupid and jealous... | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/jrsh5/make_me_not_be_stupid_and_jealous/ |
gogogaga_girl | 2021-10-08 10:54:24 | 1,633,690,464 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | q3vbth | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q3vbth/how_would_you_respond_to_meeting_someone_who/ | 1 | I (24F) matched with a guy (27?) On Bumble some time back. We exchanged some banter. We never met or had any plans to at this point. However I began seeing another guy who I was speaking to at the same time on Bumble (how that turned out is my last post btw, but in essence badly) and wanted to focus on him so I unmatch... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How would you respond to meeting someone who unmatched you on OLD, IRL? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q3vbth/how_would_you_respond_to_meeting_someone_who/ |
lbecca94 | 2024-06-27 14:59:02 | 1,719,500,342 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dptc0b | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dptc0b/i_like_the_people_i_meet_online_dating_but_i_dont/ | 1 | I am meeting guys from online dating that are nice, fun, attractive. Things go well enough but I am having a hard time getting feelings for them and am wondering if it’s just an online dating thing - or if it takes longer getting these feelings with people you don’t know. I never had this problem in real life (I’ve alw... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I like the people I meet online dating but I don’t have deep feelings and can’t fall in love | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dptc0b/i_like_the_people_i_meet_online_dating_but_i_dont/ |
Melimelo3220 | 2024-06-26 05:53:54 | 1,719,381,234 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dorcyd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dorcyd/you_wouldnt_ignore_the_texts_of_someone_you/ | 1 | I (27f) met him (30) on a dating app around a month, we have been on 5 dates and at the beginning he was very sweet and attentive, trying to reply to my message at least once every day (he has a very hectic job) he even called me to make sure I was fine when I was having cramps, one message every day is more than ok fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | You wouldn’t ignore the texts of someone you actually like, right? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dorcyd/you_wouldnt_ignore_the_texts_of_someone_you/ |
everythingrosegold | 2018-11-18 00:51:31 | 1,542,502,291 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 9y1qtr | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/9y1qtr/why_do_you_super_like_on_dating_apps/ | 0 | do you choose women (or men!) who seem like theyre actually real and not bots? do you pay for the premium service and superlike lots of people for best chances? do you choose the people you genuinely think are the hottest? let me in on your secrets because i never use the superlike option except by accident lol | AskMen | t5_2s30g | why do you "super like" on dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/9y1qtr/why_do_you_super_like_on_dating_apps/ |
throwaway3902847 | 2024-02-27 21:09:45 | 1,709,068,185 | 0 | ['swipe'] | 0 | 1b1n4fs | true | Success Story 🎉 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b1n4fs/making_it_work/ | 1 | I decided after almost two years of searching for a companion online scrolling and endless empty dead ends , that it wasn't working , and I needed to try a different approach. I read an article that men just swipe right if they would "hit that " when they were drunk . That they don't want drama, or depth. I decided to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Making it work | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b1n4fs/making_it_work/ |
[deleted] | 2020-08-27 20:59:46 | 1,598,561,986 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ihtgp1 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ihtgp1/how_long_should_i_date_someone_before_asking_for/ | 4 | How long does it take before dating turns into a relationship? It seems like people want to date for months before getting into a relationship. Further, they want to date several people at the same time. At first I despised this behavior, and simply avoided dating until women grew up. Then, I got pissed off, and decide... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long should I date someone before asking for a relationship? [29M] | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ihtgp1/how_long_should_i_date_someone_before_asking_for/ |
Klement_3y1nG | 2022-07-13 02:50:11 | 1,657,680,611 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vxsnz5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vxsnz5/how_to_find_someone_with_similar_nonsocial/ | 1 | The only social activity I can tolerate grouping up for (and potentially meeting new people at) is theatre. Therein, speaking purely for my personal experience and age bracket, the only people who seem to attract attention outside of workshopping a project are the bright, colorful, flamboyant types. And I'm a grim bloo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to Find Someone with Similar, Non-Social Interests? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vxsnz5/how_to_find_someone_with_similar_nonsocial/ |
clearlycold | 2021-07-22 07:34:19 | 1,626,939,259 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | op930c | true | Question | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/op930c/is_anyone_else_having_an_extremely_tough_time_in/ | 20 | I'm no stranger to online dating. I'm 28 and have met well over 20 people in the last 10 years from apps. I don't know if it's just me getting older, or something in the water, but dating feels extremely tough right now. People are so jaded, nobody is honest and nobody wants the real thing.. has anyone else felt this l... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is anyone else having an extremely tough time in the dating world right now? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/op930c/is_anyone_else_having_an_extremely_tough_time_in/ |
Ok-Hurry-4761 | 2023-12-22 07:47:57 | 1,703,231,277 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18o9mif | true | Discussion | 66 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18o9mif/would_you_move_for_love_also_an_update/ | 15 | So this is part discussion and part update to a post I made about a month and a half ago. Some of you may remember my post about how I was just seeing a new dating partner and just bought a new house, thought my life was going pretty well actually... then BOOM! My mom who lives across the country had a heart attack, th... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Would you move for love? Also an update. | 15 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18o9mif/would_you_move_for_love_also_an_update/ |
RedCedarRadical | 2018-12-08 05:08:58 | 1,544,245,738 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a47vsa | true | Question | 64 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a47vsa/is_it_possible_to_date_a_woman_while_always_going/ | 5 | You hear women all the time talk about how they don't expect a guy to spend money on them. But then....they do. It's like complete denial. "Him buying me dinner is not spending money on me". If I did an online dating profile stating that I prefer a woman pay for herself and likewise I pay for myself, is there a chance ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it possible to date a woman while always going Dutch? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a47vsa/is_it_possible_to_date_a_woman_while_always_going/ |
Xtoxiczombie | 2021-02-16 07:01:48 | 1,613,458,908 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | lkybdz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lkybdz/im_starting_to_think_im_just_better_off_alone/ | 1 | 25m and Iv always struggled with talking to girls meetin new people and dating especially. I think I'm one of those people who will always be alone and might be better off alone. I'm on 3 dating apps now and I barely have any matches Iv tried all the popular ones with little success am I ugly am I just not interesting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm starting to think I'm just better off alone because i will never find anyone. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lkybdz/im_starting_to_think_im_just_better_off_alone/ |
theweirddane | 2019-11-23 23:18:47 | 1,574,551,127 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | e0pye6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e0pye6/dating_in_my_50s_male/ | 5 | I became single almost a year ago, spent some time figuring things out, and I now I feel ready to date again. Downloaded Tinder and Bumble plus I'm also using Facebook dating. Okay, getting matches is no problem but damn things fizzle out quickly And then there are the scammers who always pretend to be very attractive ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in my 50s (male) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e0pye6/dating_in_my_50s_male/ |
Soilmolida | 2021-02-20 05:55:24 | 1,613,800,524 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lo0lqa | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/lo0lqa/thinking_of_breaking_up_due_to_social_distancing/ | 2 | I started dating this guy (31M) 3 months ago. We met from a dating app. We really hit it off. We share similar values, and he is smart, caring and we can talk hours without getting bored. However, disagreement on social distancing is an issue for me. In the beginning, he told me that during this pandemic, he only saw 3... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Thinking of breaking up due to social distancing disagreement. What should I (31F) do? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/lo0lqa/thinking_of_breaking_up_due_to_social_distancing/ |
samstopss | 2023-04-04 14:59:19 | 1,680,620,359 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12bloda | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12bloda/girl_29_broken_things_off_with_me_m27_after_4/ | 1 | So just posting on here to try make sense of the situation and get some perspective. I met her last November off a dating app and for the first few months I was very happy keeping it casual and I think if anything she was a lot more into it than I was. I really enjoyed her company but for me I just wasn't feeling a 'sp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl (29) broken things off with me (M27) after 4 months dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12bloda/girl_29_broken_things_off_with_me_m27_after_4/ |
TheConfusedGreenBear | 2023-07-18 07:21:48 | 1,689,664,908 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 152rdhc | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/152rdhc/dating_apps/ | 1 | I've been on dating apps for 3 years and each time I thought I've found "the one" or really clicked with someone, it ends. Recently, I (26F) matched with someone (26M) on a dating app and we hit it off really well. We spoke every day for a week and played online video games. We would play for hours and time went by so ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating Apps :/ | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/152rdhc/dating_apps/ |
Plutorush2me | 2023-03-07 00:00:30 | 1,678,147,230 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 11kiqln | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11kiqln/stood_up_by_a_catfish_ghosted_after_4_months/ | 2 | Met this guy online a couple of months ago. He lived in the states and I in Canada, living approximately 10 hours away from each other by car. Things progressed fairly quickly. We talked every day, multiple times a day. We talked about a future together and he even brought up marriage 3 times. We remained talking via t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Stood up by a catfish? Ghosted after 4 months. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11kiqln/stood_up_by_a_catfish_ghosted_after_4_months/ |
[deleted] | 2015-07-21 01:56:04 | 1,437,443,764 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 3e0ree | null | null | 22 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3e0ree/ladies_what_type_of_message_is_most_likely_to_get/ | 1 | Ok so I deleted my last post because it was getting pretty negative and re-reading it I probably could have asked the question better. This one I'm keeping regardless of upvotes or downvotes. This excludes the obvious "DTF?" and other similar messages guys can send. I want honest opinions. What sort of things can and s... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Ladies what type of message is most likely to get a good response on a dating site? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3e0ree/ladies_what_type_of_message_is_most_likely_to_get/ |
dnaisdmt | 2020-11-22 08:54:25 | 1,606,035,265 | null | null | 0 | jysmie | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jysmie/people_say_stop_looking_and_you_will_find_someone/ | 73 | It’s such a common thing to hear something along the lines of ‘you will find someone when you least expect’ or ‘stop looking and you will find someone’. Does anyone have a relationship story that defies this? In that you actively sought out a relationship via online dating and were successful? I want to know it’s okay ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | People say ‘stop looking and you will find someone’. What’s your story that proves this wrong? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jysmie/people_say_stop_looking_and_you_will_find_someone/ |
[deleted] | 2014-10-26 04:36:42 | 1,414,298,202 | 0 | null | 0 | 2kchgi | null | null | 0 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/2kchgi/indiegogo_project_for_online_dating_site/ | 1 | Im trying out an indiegogo project for online dating. Check it out and donate if you'd like to help out. http://igg.me/at/FWB/x/8904498 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | IndieGoGo Project for Online Dating Site | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/2kchgi/indiegogo_project_for_online_dating_site/ |
Reiahx01 | 2019-06-28 01:27:38 | 1,561,685,258 | null | null | 0 | c6dw9r | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c6dw9r/match_its_pretty_goodfor_making_you_feel_even/ | 8 | So I actually put effort into making a profile that is approachable and could spark interest. I get views sure but when I reach out I get one word answers if any. Maybe a simple "hey" after I take the time to write a thoughtful post or a hello with an emoji and their name. I'm not even sure why I thought this Match cou... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match - It's pretty good...for making you feel even more lonely than ever... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c6dw9r/match_its_pretty_goodfor_making_you_feel_even/ |
AltAccount231123 | 2024-05-11 19:03:32 | 1,715,454,212 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cpom68 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cpom68/i_got_28_matches_overall_in_3_dating_sites_tinder/ | 9 | I don't know what I'm doing wrong honestly.I think the amount of matches is good considering I only registered to the apps around 1.5 weeks ago. But most of them didn't reply, a few of them I had a short convo with, 2 ghosted me after texting for a while and now I only talk to 2 girls.What am I doing wrong?I try to be ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I got 28 matches overall in 3 dating sites (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo) and out of them I only talk to 2 girls still? | 9 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cpom68/i_got_28_matches_overall_in_3_dating_sites_tinder/ |
bleubleublob | 2024-05-20 07:18:05 | 1,716,189,485 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cw9lqo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cw9lqo/i_think_i_got_love_bombed_again/ | 5 | So I met this guy on a dating app and we started to talk and we found out that we had soo much stuff in common. It went on for a week we used to talk a lot and trust me it was not one sided because I've had my fair share of that and doing the bare minimum that I was quite surprised to how this guy was treating me. It m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I think I got love bombed again. | 5 | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cw9lqo/i_think_i_got_love_bombed_again/ |
ByBlondie | 2018-11-18 17:40:14 | 1,542,562,814 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9y7x8e | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9y7x8e/your_online_dating_nonos/ | 11 | Im just really curious from everyone's viewpoints (male, female, trans, etc) what your online dating no-nos are? For me, it's horrendous vocab/spelling and text talk. I can cope with bits of it but seriously it grates one me being called bbe or them saying u r amazin and stuff. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Your Online Dating No-Nos | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9y7x8e/your_online_dating_nonos/ |
Direct-Secret-524 | 2024-09-02 01:57:17 | 1,725,242,237 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f6v9r2 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6v9r2/a_guy_asked_about_my_phd_lol/ | 0 | I am a 30sF on Hinge and I matched with a 30sM who proceeded to ask me: "Can I ask about your PhD? And about nothing romantic? Is that ok?" Why are you on a dating site if you don't want things to get romantic? Either he doesn't find me attractive, and is being weird, or he's aromantic and just wants to talk to ppl. Ei... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | a guy asked about my PhD lol | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6v9r2/a_guy_asked_about_my_phd_lol/ |
rockettdarr | 2021-11-14 21:36:17 | 1,636,925,777 | null | ['matched', 'swiped'] | 0 | qu03n3 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qu03n3/im_21f_attached_to_someone_21f_who_seemingly_isnt/ | 1 | Can someone please give me some advice?I’m rather new to dating and have a hard time letting go. I’ll make it brief. Swiped right on a girl in January, matched in March, told me in March she’s not ready for a relationship after a couple days of talking and getting along really well, I got attached to the idea, I kept f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m (21F) attached to someone (21F) who seemingly isn’t attached to me but likes me?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qu03n3/im_21f_attached_to_someone_21f_who_seemingly_isnt/ |
whyisyourwaterpink | 2019-07-09 11:10:38 | 1,562,670,638 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cazgws | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cazgws/how_do_i_even_start/ | 1 | Hello. I'm a 19F currently in college. Ever since I was a little kid, I always naturally liked playing alone, disliked being in large friend groups, and preferred older friends than friends my own age. I've never had a strong and constant male role model (only child, no close male relatives my own age, my dad is a text... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I even start? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cazgws/how_do_i_even_start/ |
Rosiekiins94 | 2023-08-12 18:00:03 | 1,691,863,203 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15pb3a7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15pb3a7/best_starter_messages_for_girls_to_get_a_guys/ | 1 | I (28F) am a little socially awkward and struggle to meet guys out and about in person. I can have a good chat with someone once it’s started but I just don’t know how to initiate interesting conversations 🤷🏼♀️ I’m looking for something serious so don’t want to be too flirty upfront and give the wrong impression abo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best starter messages for girls to get a guys attention (in a good way) on dating apps! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15pb3a7/best_starter_messages_for_girls_to_get_a_guys/ |
CatSusk | 2020-07-09 21:14:25 | 1,594,329,265 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | hobhg3 | true | Seeking Advice | 102 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/hobhg3/wanting_to_see_more_and_more_photos/ | 89 | I 49/F met an interesting guy (46M) online Sunday and we hit it off really well, on the phone too. We have a lot in common. I have 6 photos on OKCupid and I sent him another from a place we both traveled to last year. Yesterday he asks to see even more photos of me, apparently a head to toe shot which I don’t have. I d... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Wanting to see more and more photos | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/hobhg3/wanting_to_see_more_and_more_photos/ |
angryamericangyopo | 2022-09-01 15:15:59 | 1,662,045,359 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | x3a8e0 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x3a8e0/wasted_6_months_in_a_situationship/ | 6 | I need to take this as a lesson learned and talking about this here helps solidify the lesson (or I think). Been in and out of LTRs most of my adult dating life (26F). Six months ago, after being single for 2 months, I met someone who had “looking for I don’t know yet” label on bumble (meaning he didn’t know what he wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wasted 6 months in a situationship | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x3a8e0/wasted_6_months_in_a_situationship/ |
TifaLockharts | 2022-12-22 18:57:30 | 1,671,735,450 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zstu26 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zstu26/im_30_f_new_to_dating_culture/ | 1 | Not to say I haven’t had relationships I’m experienced in that regard and most of them have been long term.. I just never met any of them through dating apps. Now I’m trying dating apps and have no idea how to read guys. Don’t get why people are playing games and ghosting, can’t tell what’s genuine and what isn’t. That... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m 30+ (F) new to “dating culture” | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zstu26/im_30_f_new_to_dating_culture/ |
OnceInABlueMoment | 2024-03-29 14:35:46 | 1,711,722,946 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bqqsy3 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bqqsy3/why_did_he_unmatched_me_after_i_didnt_respond/ | 2 | I was talking to this guy on a dating app for 3 days. I thought we got along well, he seemed into me, he said he wanted to take me out, we shared personal things about our families, he said he wanted to help me move into my apartment, all these things. We usually speak in the morning for a couple hours then at night fo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why did he unmatched me after I didn’t respond? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bqqsy3/why_did_he_unmatched_me_after_i_didnt_respond/ |
Asdanor | 2023-12-02 17:46:47 | 1,701,539,207 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1898y5p | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1898y5p/do_you_even_go_on_second_or_third_date_with/ | 1 | I’m a 25 years old female. Based on what people tell me I’m beautiful. I have a good job and I think I’m a easy going person. But my dates doesn’t take longer than first date or second date. I suspect myself If I am doing some things wrong. I write on my bio that I only want friendship or date. Not casual stuff. But ye... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you even go on second or third date with people you matched on apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1898y5p/do_you_even_go_on_second_or_third_date_with/ |
antifragile_lotus | 2024-03-13 17:20:09 | 1,710,350,409 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bdx2l4 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bdx2l4/i_tried_breaking_my_boundary_and_its_the_worst/ | 15 | I'm 21 (F) currently in university and have never been in a relationship. I lost my virginity almost 5 months ago to a fuckboy and have been laying low to anything associated with dating esp dating apps. Since I expected my first to be romantic and with a boyfriend, I've been feeling guilty with myself these past month... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I tried breaking my boundary and it's the worst | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bdx2l4/i_tried_breaking_my_boundary_and_its_the_worst/ |
VCamaFury | 2016-05-29 00:16:48 | 1,464,481,008 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4li9mi | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4li9mi/i_an_in_need_of_a_social_life/ | 2 | I am a 31F. I live with my parents while saving for a house of my own and I am not putting myself out there basically to save money, but I have no personal life and I have two job and I am working my ass off. What should I do besides online dating to get a more involved dating life? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I an in need of a social life. | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4li9mi/i_an_in_need_of_a_social_life/ |
hhkhkhkhk | 2022-11-10 18:31:38 | 1,668,105,098 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipe', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel', 'okcupid'] | 0 | yrnnv7 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yrnnv7/which_dating_apps_to_use_a_masterpost_on_how_to/ | 20 | Hey all. This subreddit has got me thinking about which dating apps are best for certain situations/people. So, seeing as I'm home sick with the flu, I thought I would compile a masterpost on how to select the best dating app for you Tinder Easily the no. 1 dating app, Tinder boasts an easy set-up process. While Tinder... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which Dating Apps to Use? (A Masterpost on how to find your best Dating App!) | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yrnnv7/which_dating_apps_to_use_a_masterpost_on_how_to/ |
mintylaced | 2020-03-27 16:28:09 | 1,585,326,489 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | fq01ce | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fq01ce/matched_again_with_someone_i_went_on_dates_with/ | 1 | Has this happened to you guys? I keep matching with people I’ve been on dates with, and I wonder if they remember... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched again with someone I went on dates with? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fq01ce/matched_again_with_someone_i_went_on_dates_with/ |
max885 | 2018-08-02 09:21:07 | 1,533,201,667 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 93xrfe | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/93xrfe/am_i_asking_too_much/ | 1 | It seems to me \[30M\] that I attract wrong women. Year ago I was in a serious long term relationship (7 years). I broke up with my girlfriend because I didn't see our future together. We just had different priorities and it wouldn't work out. Most of my close friends don't live near me, and those who live are in serio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I asking too much? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/93xrfe/am_i_asking_too_much/ |
lovvveeeeeeeeee | 2024-09-29 12:38:19 | 1,727,613,499 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1fs3dzs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fs3dzs/i_feel_like_im_getting_played/ | 1 | So I met this guy from an online dating site. He lives in Nevada and I live on the east coast. We talked for 3 weeks and it was going VERY well, like just very friendly conversation and I didn't take it seriously since he lives so far away. Anyways, zoning down into week 4 we exchanged numbers and started talking more ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like I'm getting played | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fs3dzs/i_feel_like_im_getting_played/ |
HopefulSpark940 | 2021-01-31 14:58:17 | 1,612,105,097 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | l9dtxf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l9dtxf/how_do_i_keep_things_going/ | 2 | I (25F) matched with this guy (24M) on Bumble. A week into us talking we planned to hangout at this art pop up exhibit for the following week. We had a good time and even went out to eat after. We’ve talked everyday from our initial match (3 wks now), just getting to know each other and checking in on how our days are ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep things going? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l9dtxf/how_do_i_keep_things_going/ |
LowIQperson | 2024-03-14 18:54:25 | 1,710,442,465 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1besuov | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1besuov/21m_and_virgin/ | 1 | Hi I’m 21 and virgin boy (i know rare at this point) looking for Partner (i know not good place to ask but) I am not handsome at all. Tried dating apps but just time pass no real connections. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 21M and virgin | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1besuov/21m_and_virgin/ |
Hot-Construction-811 | 2023-11-13 09:29:26 | 1,699,867,766 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 17u713d | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17u713d/im_curious_what_is_it_like_for_single_never/ | 1 | So, I've been hitting POF of late and I got into this chat with a lady because I spontaneously messaged her with something quirky which then sparked a conversation. Anyway, the conversation was flowing and she was rather flirty, and of course, I liked it. After awhile, she wanted to know what I was seeking so I told he... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I'm curious. What is it like for single (never married, no kids) men who date single women with kids? See explanation below. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17u713d/im_curious_what_is_it_like_for_single_never/ |
Lower-Fisherman4167 | 2024-01-03 04:39:00 | 1,704,256,740 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18xam3f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18xam3f/should_i_28_f_pursue_dating_with_him_28_m_or_take/ | 1 | TL;DR I have been interested (& what I consider dating) in guy I go to graduate school with since July 2023. I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from his and don’t know if I should cut my losses at this point based on some of the comments he has made to others and me over time. These comments all center around how we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (28 F) pursue dating with him (28 M) or take a hint | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18xam3f/should_i_28_f_pursue_dating_with_him_28_m_or_take/ |
okcthrowaway3483 | 2020-09-24 01:49:35 | 1,600,912,175 | null | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | iynucc | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iynucc/late_20s_male_1st_year_of_online_dating_summary/ | 31 | Posted this on the okcupid subreddit, but think this makes sense to post it on here as well Late 20s male here, decided to take dating seriously in the last year (I know great timing with covid). For various reasons, I had pretty minimal dating experience before this last year. I decided to track the dates and provide ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Late 20s Male 1st year of online dating summary, conclusion: dating is hard, confusing but there are fleeting moments when it is great! | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iynucc/late_20s_male_1st_year_of_online_dating_summary/ |
MonotremeSalad | 2019-10-29 10:44:48 | 1,572,345,888 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | doo2j9 | true | null | 155 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/doo2j9/update_i_met_a_guy/ | 159 | Update on my post from earlier this year: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bj2dav/at_this_critical_time_i_dont_know_what_to_do_36f/?utm_source=shareandutm_medium=ios_appandutm_name=iossmf So I never thought this would be me, but after years of rising panic I’ve finally met someone? It was a lucky fluk... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Update: I met a guy | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/doo2j9/update_i_met_a_guy/ |
Lostsoul2496 | 2023-09-26 03:22:22 | 1,695,698,542 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16scndi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16scndi/love_bomber_or_narcissist/ | 1 | So I matched with this guy on hinge and totally kicked it off. We connected in such an amazing way that we literally FaceTimed every single day for two weeks before we met. He literally gave me his location since I told him I had a hard time trusting people. He was so good with communication. He was so promising. He bo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love bomber or narcissist? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16scndi/love_bomber_or_narcissist/ |
outtathewoods | 2020-02-19 18:24:11 | 1,582,136,651 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | f6ewlq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f6ewlq/i_just_asked_a_guy_out_via_text_and_it_makes_me/ | 52 | So I’ve been trying out online dating and complaining about a lack of good men in my group chat with four friends. Guy A replied, asking what I was looking for in a guy and said he’ll try to introduce me to someone. I listed out all the attributes and the two other friends replied that Guy A is exactly who I’m looking ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just asked a guy out via text and it makes me really happy! :) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f6ewlq/i_just_asked_a_guy_out_via_text_and_it_makes_me/ |
Prudent_Situation872 | 2023-09-02 12:06:57 | 1,693,656,417 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1680sxp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1680sxp/first_failed_date_using_hinge/ | 1 | I (M22) have had Hinge now for 6 days and went on the first date I’ve been on through an app. Matched with a cute girl, spoke for 5 days, called for an hour, and messaged back and forth. Went on the date today and it didn’t go so well. I felt we didn’t vibe like I had imagined when we called and then even more so on th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First failed date using Hinge | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1680sxp/first_failed_date_using_hinge/ |
BuddhaAndG | 2015-08-20 01:20:25 | 1,440,033,625 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 3hnuaz | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/3hnuaz/is_this_normal/ | 1 | So I meet a guy Sunday from POF, we went for a walk on the beach. I think it went OK. Before the date we texted pretty much all day off and on. He would send good morning texts around 7am,we both get up super early for work. On and off we would reply to each other all day. Good conversation and we would throw owlut cut... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this normal? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3hnuaz/is_this_normal/ |
CTERetrograde | 2022-04-02 08:43:46 | 1,648,889,026 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | tuea7v | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tuea7v/are_dating_apps_worth_anything_if_you_are_looking/ | 3 | So, it increasingly looks like that I (23M) am back to not having any potential romantic partners anywhere near sight. I have never tried dating apps, because I always had the impression that people don't look for anything serious there. I am also terrified of people I know finding it out and making fun of it. But, I s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are dating apps worth anything if you are looking for something serious? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tuea7v/are_dating_apps_worth_anything_if_you_are_looking/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-14 17:33:39 | 1,628,962,419 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | p4cdgl | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/p4cdgl/profile_names/ | 7 | I wish men would use their real first name. A lot of guys use cringe-y profile names that make me swipe past them. I won’t state specifics on the off chance someone is on this subreddit. One guy used a band’s name and misspelled the band, another misspelled heart in his hokey profile name. The guys who include the word... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Profile names | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/p4cdgl/profile_names/ |
FaithlessnessIll5194 | 2023-03-21 03:46:07 | 1,679,370,367 | null | ['bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11x5vub | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11x5vub/just_redownloaded_bumble_and_hinge_and_it_has/ | 0 | I have been out of the dating game for roughly a year now, and I redownloaded some apps and jeeeeesus Christ I’m out of everyone’s league. Every girl I’ve seen is just way more attractive than me and it has destroyed my self confidence. I don’t know if I should be on the apps considering maybe it’s just for attractive ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just redownloaded bumble and hinge, and it has killed my confidence | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11x5vub/just_redownloaded_bumble_and_hinge_and_it_has/ |
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