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wordsfromghost
2022-11-05 22:16:11
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yn83bb
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3
I have been messaging this guy on bumble for two weeks. We have a date set for tomorrow. I am pretty shy and reserved with new people and i feel like he keeps trying to fish weird answers like how often I am expecting to see him? When do i gove my phone number? What is my relationship timeline? I have chalked it up to ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When a guy fishes for comments.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yn83bb/when_a_guy_fishes_for_comments/
stay_true_to_you
2019-05-01 16:35:15
1,556,728,515
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['OLD', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
bjj8tw
true
null
41
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjj8tw/first_time_with_old_and_it_doesnt_actually_suck/
19
This is just my experience but I wanted to share what OLD is like for a 31-year-old newbie ... and I'm kind of finding that it's not as terrible as I thought it would be? I'm a recent divorcee. EXH and I were separated for some time but I didn't want to date until I got my new life in order. I did all my dating in coll...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
First time with OLD ... and it doesn't actually suck that much?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjj8tw/first_time_with_old_and_it_doesnt_actually_suck/
Braskiki
2023-02-14 11:41:25
1,676,374,885
null
['tinder']
0
1123d9u
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1123d9u/how_do_you_pickup_girls_in_public/
0
Hello, i became comfortable and ised to only meeting girls in tinder and other platforms. I decided that i wanna try to talk to girls and maybe meet someone in daily life? What do you say and how do you start interaction if you see girl you like?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you pickup girls in public?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1123d9u/how_do_you_pickup_girls_in_public/
golfking124
2021-02-20 08:06:53
1,613,808,413
null
['dating apps']
0
lo2il3
true
null
48
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lo2il3/27_male_virgin_i_feel_like_my_life_is_over/
119
Hey everyone, so I need some real advice on how to get better at dating, a little about me: I’m a 27 year old virgin guy, am relatively successful outside of dating (I work in finance, live on my own with roommates, and would say look above average) My problem is I would say I struggle with social anxiety (I can manage...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
27 male virgin - I feel like my life is over, suicidal thoughts and anxiety about life is overwhelming, Please help!
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lo2il3/27_male_virgin_i_feel_like_my_life_is_over/
Electrical_Report841
2024-09-18 12:16:38
1,726,661,798
0
['dating site']
0
1fjrcad
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjrcad/i_28f_need_advice_on_what_to_do/
1
Okay so I’ve joined a dating site and I’ve started speaking to someone who seems to want the same things as me albeit a bit more extreme. For context I’m a lazy girl by nature, I don’t like to cook, clean or work. I enjoy sleeping, watching tv, reading a book and travelling to new places. My dream man, would work and m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I 28f need advice on what to do
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjrcad/i_28f_need_advice_on_what_to_do/
Fun_Strict
2023-07-25 17:39:53
1,690,306,793
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
159fbdc
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/159fbdc/a_girl_made_fun_of_me_behind_my_back/
1
I matched with one girl on a dating app. We had brief conversation and we started flirting as well over instagram. I never cared about dating her being completely honest, it was just that i wanted to make new friends and improve my social skills. And theough the texts our vibes were reciprocating, she said she has a go...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A girl made fun of me behind my back.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/159fbdc/a_girl_made_fun_of_me_behind_my_back/
rangamatchstick
2014-10-14 08:05:08
1,413,273,908
0
['online dating']
0
2j763d
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2j763d/cant_achieve_a_second_date_out_of_a_huge_number/
2
This year since learning pickup (r/seddit) I have gotten a huge number of dates with different girls, I think its around 40 now but this issue is that only one or two have gotten to second date with the rest stopping at first. As I said I use pickup too meet these girls (I have no other option and am not doing online d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Cant achieve a second date out of a huge number of dates
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2j763d/cant_achieve_a_second_date_out_of_a_huge_number/
ChoirMinnie
2020-09-11 18:59:34
1,599,850,774
null
['dating app']
0
iqww4e
true
null
22
0
/r/AskMen/comments/iqww4e/whats_attractive_and_gives_you_a_possible/
9
What stands out to you that’s special? Edit: Maybe I should’ve added before you meet up, I mean the conversation exchange you have leading up to deciding if you want to go on a date
AskMen
t5_2s30g
What’s attractive, and gives you a ‘possible relationship’ vibe after you match with a woman on a dating app?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/iqww4e/whats_attractive_and_gives_you_a_possible/
TheLepelaar
2019-05-13 11:51:42
1,557,748,302
null
['tinder']
0
bo2hgu
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/bo2hgu/seems_like_shes_not_interested_anymore/
2
Last week I asked a girl, that I knew from Tinder, out on a first date. Because she was busy this weekend we made plans for tonight. After not speaking during the weekend, due to her being on a festival, I asked her if we were still on for tonight. After a few hours she replied: 'Sorry, but this weekend was killing and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Seems like she's not interested anymore..
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bo2hgu/seems_like_shes_not_interested_anymore/
Dribbler365
2022-03-05 02:43:44
1,646,448,224
null
['online dating']
0
t6zm4w
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/t6zm4w/im_at_a_crossroads_and_cant_make_up_my_mind/
0
Sorry for the long post TLDR at the end. First off I just wanna say that I (24M) don’t want to hurt anyone unintentionally by leading them on which is why Im here to ask for advice. I’ve never tried dating anyone who I haven’t developed feelings for before in my life, never been a fan of online dating and all past rela...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Im at a crossroads and cant make up my mind
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t6zm4w/im_at_a_crossroads_and_cant_make_up_my_mind/
Ichigoichi-e
2024-05-02 12:38:53
1,714,653,533
0
['hinge']
0
1ciemqt
true
I Need Advice 😩
8
0
/r/dating/comments/1ciemqt/is_he_just_looking_for_sex_or_actually_taking_it/
2
I (29, F, South Asian) have been on a couple dates with a guy (30, M, Irish). Both our Hinge profile states- looking for long term relationship, open to short. We had an instant connection and incredible chemistry. In the past 3 weeks, we have met 4 times, been to multiple gigs, dinners, met my friends and had a movie ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is he just looking for sex or actually taking it slow?
2
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ciemqt/is_he_just_looking_for_sex_or_actually_taking_it/
Both_Simple924
2024-05-29 15:08:30
1,716,995,310
0
['hinge']
0
1d3ehlr
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d3ehlr/do_i_stop_talking_to_him/
1
I met this guy on hinge, and we’ve really hit it off although it’s only been about a week that we’ve started talking. We are supposed to go out to dinner this weekend. I feel like I should just stop talking to him because I have a child. I have not told him I have a child yet so I feel guilty. I don’t know how to bring...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do I stop talking to him?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d3ehlr/do_i_stop_talking_to_him/
crayZpants
2023-03-14 13:42:22
1,678,801,342
null
['matched']
0
11r6fys
true
null
77
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/11r6fys/2nd_update_appropriate_or_not/
25
This is an update on 2 previous posts. I apologize in advance for its lenh… There were a couple of red flags before I went on the second date but I chose to go anyway. As usual, you all gave me a lot to consider. Being we live three hours apart, he invited me to his area and offered me my own house to stay in on his pr...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
2nd Update Appropriate or Not
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/11r6fys/2nd_update_appropriate_or_not/
DarthSpinster
2020-07-22 15:23:59
1,595,431,439
null
['matched', 'swipe']
0
hvvpiu
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hvvpiu/i_dont_know_how_to_change_my_mental_attitude/
4
I'm 30 years old. In the span of 10 years I've had probably 1 year total combined of dating experience. I have never been anyone's girlfriend (including the guy I dated for 8 months). I've been left to feel like I'm just something to sleep with and open up to, while never showing me to the light of day. It's made me fe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I don't know how to change my mental attitude
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hvvpiu/i_dont_know_how_to_change_my_mental_attitude/
rosalynnstar81
2020-11-26 07:55:23
1,606,377,323
null
['dating apps']
0
k1b4uv
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/k1b4uv/how_do_i_get_over_this_kind_of_hurt_can_i_trust/
9
NSFW I’m not really sure where to post this, maybe I just want someone to talk to, or maybe I just want to get my story out there, or someone to agree with me that I shouldn’t care about this guy and I shouldn’t be hurt by what he did but I am. I met a guy in August, he was a really great guy, he was very attractive, h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I get over this kind of hurt? Can I trust others again?
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k1b4uv/how_do_i_get_over_this_kind_of_hurt_can_i_trust/
rrlady
2013-05-14 15:58:49
1,368,547,129
0
['plenty of fish']
0
1ebjk4
null
null
9
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ebjk4/wellplayed_move_or_just_not_interested_20f27m/
1
So I [20F] have gone on 3 dates with a great guy [27M] I met on Plenty of Fish. 1st date, we just went out to get ice cream to get a first impression of each other. We have similar interests and get along well. The date ended with a hug and a plan for another date the following week. 2nd date, we went rock climbing and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Well-played move or just not interested? [20F/27M]
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ebjk4/wellplayed_move_or_just_not_interested_20f27m/
altfangirl
2022-05-07 04:40:58
1,651,898,458
null
['dating app']
0
uk5og9
true
Giving Advice
494
0
/r/dating/comments/uk5og9/height_differences_are_overrated/
828
i don’t understand women who are on the shorter side and are so adamant about wanting a 6ft+ boyfriend. i’m. 5’0 girl and my bf is 6’2. i didn’t seek him out for his height, i wouldn’t care if he were 5’3. it just makes sex SO annoying. like he can’t just bend me over the counter and fuck me because our genitals don’t ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
height differences are overrated
null
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uk5og9/height_differences_are_overrated/
[deleted]
2014-12-01 01:34:35
1,417,397,675
0
['tinder']
0
2nwa7j
null
null
24
null
/r/AskMen/comments/2nwa7j/28m_have_the_opportunity_to_hook_up_with_45f_for/
20
Been doing the tinder thing for a few weeks. Saw an attractive woman much older than me. Within 24 hours numbers have been exchanged. She has quickly turned the texts sexual including sending me nudes. She even called to prove she wasn't a dude trying to trick me or anything. I know she is divorced for over a year and ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
28/m have the opportunity to hook up with 45/f for one night stand. Should I? Anything I should be concerned about? More info inside.
20
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2nwa7j/28m_have_the_opportunity_to_hook_up_with_45f_for/
Small-Engineer
2019-12-16 21:37:14
1,576,532,234
null
['matched']
0
eblljo
true
null
26
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/eblljo/keeping_spark_alive_while_messaging/
41
During finals week I M/21 matched with a amazing girl F/21 from my school. I got her snap and I attempted to setup a date but with finals we were both super stressed and couldn't get anything to work but based on her snaps she is interested in me. We have both left for winter break and I want to do my best to keep the ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Keeping Spark alive while messaging
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eblljo/keeping_spark_alive_while_messaging/
gabbielou
2023-11-05 19:37:58
1,699,213,078
0
null
0
17ojsfe
true
null
36
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17ojsfe/match_then_unmatch/
1
My suspicion is most guys just swipe right on every girl. It really kills my confidence 🤦‍♀️
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Match then unmatch
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17ojsfe/match_then_unmatch/
pickupyour_trash
2021-02-03 18:22:51
1,612,376,571
null
['tinder']
0
lbu970
true
Support
4
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lbu970/i_think_of_myself_as_a_sex_positive_person_but_im/
8
Using a throwaway account so that nobody can use any of this against me. So I grew up without a father, and my mom was always at work trying to support us but would then come home and get super stoned on the couch. I had my first sexual experience in 7th grade, it was really just a very awkward interaction and not even...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I think of myself as a sex positive person, but I'm having trouble with feeling ashamed of my past.
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/lbu970/i_think_of_myself_as_a_sex_positive_person_but_im/
VIOLENTPIGEON_
2024-07-01 05:32:08
1,719,811,928
0
['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
1dslbac
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dslbac/is_tinder_a_red_flag/
0
Idk if it’s just me but I’m 20 and every now and then I get a match in the app but literally 9/10 times there’s no response or anything like they just swipe the profile or sum but past that, do women see men with tinder or other dating apps as a red flag for using/having?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is Tinder a red flag?
0
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dslbac/is_tinder_a_red_flag/
RegretSubstantial365
2022-05-31 05:20:02
1,653,974,402
null
['online dating']
0
v1iw7z
true
null
71
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/v1iw7z/when_is_a_deal_breaker_actually_a_deal_breaker/
31
1, (36f) have tried online dating for several months. Some men Ive talked to, will say something that I automatically assume it won't work due to what Info they give. Sounds like a deal breaker. For example, I met a really nice guy that I could talk to and was bummed when the date ended. One thing I learned was that he...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
When is a deal breaker actually a deal breaker?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/v1iw7z/when_is_a_deal_breaker_actually_a_deal_breaker/
aanomnomymous
2019-09-23 07:18:29
1,569,223,109
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
d8347c
true
null
27
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/d8347c/im_tired/
11
So. I'm f(19) and I've been single my whole life, and I'm just tired. I've given up. I've accepted that I'm going to be alone forever. My friends think I wont be. And that I'm still really young. And that I'll find someone. But honestly. What's going to change where suddenly guys like me and are into me? Ya know, like ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm tired
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d8347c/im_tired/
bigdreamer999
2017-07-23 21:47:07
1,500,846,427
null
['tinder']
0
6p43tq
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6p43tq/do_you_think_having_pink_hair_thats_a_wig_will/
0
So I wear a wig and I want to get a pink wig but I'm worried that people will notice it's a wig and think it's less sexy than brunette hair. I've been dating people on tinder but it goes wrong and they ignore me and the last guy I was dating we broke it off like 3 times then he blocked me and I wonder if it's because h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do you think having pink hair that's a wig will make people want to date you less?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6p43tq/do_you_think_having_pink_hair_thats_a_wig_will/
Bojangle_88
2023-11-12 18:47:31
1,699,814,851
0
['okcupid']
0
17tqp4w
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17tqp4w/our_connection_feels_better_online_than_irl/
1
We met over a week ago on OkCupid, within a few days of texting it became clear that we shared a connection more so than anyone I had been messaging before. We have the same hobbies, like the same TV shows and even think similarly about things. Then and there it felt like I could stop searching because I found my perso...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Our connection feels better online than irl
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17tqp4w/our_connection_feels_better_online_than_irl/
ThrowRA_isitjustmee
2023-01-13 05:01:18
1,673,586,078
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
10alre3
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
5
0
/r/dating/comments/10alre3/this_was_deleted_from_another_sub_because_it_cant/
6
Here's the timeline so this makes sense: \- September '22: I deleted my dating profiles. Thought I could find someone without them lol. \- October '22: I create new dating app profiles (Hinge and Bumble). Bumble seems to be working just fine. For the first week back on Hinge I receive 2 likes and no responses to any li...
dating
t5_2qhb1
This was deleted from another sub because it can't handle the truth
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10alre3/this_was_deleted_from_another_sub_because_it_cant/
Pulling_Them_Off_
2020-08-03 16:00:46
1,596,470,446
null
['dating apps']
0
i2zmxa
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i2zmxa/when_is_it_ok_to_ask_somebody_what_they_do_for/
4
A lot of guys don’t post their jobs on dating apps, which is fine, I get it. I used to not have my own job posted for privacy reasons (I have a unique name as it is) but then eventually put something vague because I was tired of being asked. However, I’m in my late 20s and looking for a life partner. While I don’t nece...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When is it ok to ask somebody what they do for work?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i2zmxa/when_is_it_ok_to_ask_somebody_what_they_do_for/
cammerz
2018-12-04 18:09:24
1,543,946,964
null
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
a336p4
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a336p4/please_could_some_rate_my_profile_and_give_me/
3
I’ve been on various dating apps for years now and only had two dates with one girl that unfortunately didn’t work out. Could someone rate my Bumble profile and let me know how to improve it? It’s pretty much the same across other dating apps. I know that I could lose some weight and get in better shape but other than ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please could some rate my profile and give me advice?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a336p4/please_could_some_rate_my_profile_and_give_me/
wasntexpectingthatho
2021-07-11 03:14:41
1,625,973,281
null
null
0
ohwrge
true
null
19
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ohwrge/what_would_you_do_if_you_saw_this_bio/
0
What is your reaction to this bio? "I'm looking for someone who will give me a LOAN so I can buy a car" or "I don't have a car, but you can give me a small LOAN so that I can buy one and come see you anytime" I put loan in all caps because I want emphasis that it's not a handout and will be payed back. I just got a new...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
what would you do if you saw this bio?
null
0.28
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ohwrge/what_would_you_do_if_you_saw_this_bio/
DisregardTheDiscard
2022-07-07 23:47:43
1,657,237,663
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
vtwk5v
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vtwk5v/as_a_24_year_old_whos_never_had_a_girlfriend_how/
8
Hey Reddit, so as the title says I'm a 24 year old kissless, relationshipless virgin. Nothing to be done about that, but hey, I'm trying not to let that number tick over to 25. Needless to say, my experience and knowledge when it comes to relationships isn't the best. I've used dating apps in the past, and had only ver...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
As a 24 year old who's never had a girlfriend, how do I know if I'm ready to enter into a relationshop?
null
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vtwk5v/as_a_24_year_old_whos_never_had_a_girlfriend_how/
Extension-Product848
2024-07-15 06:17:28
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I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1e3nq88/fed_up_with_old_any_tips/
0
I’ve been on the dating apps for about 2-3 months, and honestly haven’t been attracted to any of the guys who have liked me. I’ve met plenty of them, but i haven’t found someone I’ve liked yet. Even out of the options that I can see in my liked section. I’m on three apps. There was one guy I really liked, but we decide...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Fed up with OLD, any tips?
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e3nq88/fed_up_with_old_any_tips/
TheAmbiguousAnswer
2024-01-17 00:17:02
1,705,450,622
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null
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198ik4s
true
null
55
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/198ik4s/is_this_what_winning_feels_like/
20
I use exclusively Hinge now. Used to use Facebook Dating, Tinder, Bumble, etc. at random intervals, but I deleted them all but, Hinge. I tracked my stats for Hinge in 2023, and I had, on average, a 10%+ match rate (200 or so likes a month, 20-30 matches a month). Of those matches, very few ever respond when it's "Their...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Is this what "winning" feels like?
20
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/198ik4s/is_this_what_winning_feels_like/
ace1244
2020-06-30 12:51:37
1,593,521,497
null
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
himrg2
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/himrg2/i_finally_realized_i_had_to_wait_and_be_more/
1
When I go shopping for a suit I know what I’m looking for and very seldom do I go to five or six stores before I find the right suit. If I see a suit I like, I buy it now. But this strategy has not worked for me in the dating scene. I find that if I wait for what I really want I get better results and I’m happier in th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I finally realized I had to wait and be more selective when it comes to dating even if the competition is fierce.
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/himrg2/i_finally_realized_i_had_to_wait_and_be_more/
[deleted]
2014-08-13 03:40:40
1,407,901,240
0
['tinder']
0
2dekmt
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2dekmt/i_27m_just_got_stood_up_by_my_date_anyone_have/
4
i met her on tinder. usually when i message girls on tinder, i don't get my hopes up too much. i realize that for girls, talking to men online is a bit risky. i get that. so i'm okay when our conversations die out. so anyway, i'm chatting with a girl and we end up exchanging numbers. i also ask her out to dinner, and s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
i [27m] just got stood up by my date. anyone have some insight on why people do this?
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2dekmt/i_27m_just_got_stood_up_by_my_date_anyone_have/
Wrong_Engineer_4629
2023-08-15 18:41:14
1,692,124,874
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
15s0x5e
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15s0x5e/just_matched_on_a_music_dating_app_wondering/
1
Do you think this would be an good opening message? Is this too long/too overbearing? Basically I decided to listen to an album from one of her listed bands, and give my opinion, following up with a question if she could recommend me more similar bands "Hey, I just listened to [insert band - album] and I quite liked it...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Just matched on a music dating app, wondering about opener
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15s0x5e/just_matched_on_a_music_dating_app_wondering/
WhoIsUnorthodox
2021-10-05 13:15:13
1,633,439,713
null
['dating app', 'dating site']
0
q1w5w9
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/q1w5w9/should_i_be_worried_if_i_am_being_loyal_during/
2
I met this guy online and we have been talking constantly for a little bit more than a year now. He lives in a different country and sadly he can’t really travel over here because of the pandemic but now he will since it’s getting a bit easier to travel. We would talk for hours almost every day and share so much vulner...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should i be worried if i am being loyal during the talking stage?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q1w5w9/should_i_be_worried_if_i_am_being_loyal_during/
whatalife33
2020-04-10 15:18:18
1,586,531,898
null
['online dating']
0
fyhpyk
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fyhpyk/am_i_just_not_cut_out_for_modern_dating/
3
I’m a 24 (F) and really struggling with online dating right now. I was previously in two long term relationships (5 and 1.5 years) and trying to date again online is challenging. I just find it exhausting to start conversations through texting and get to know someone. I want to have fun, be flirty, be spontaneous, but ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I just not cut out for modern dating?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fyhpyk/am_i_just_not_cut_out_for_modern_dating/
Zestyclose_Animal_18
2020-10-29 22:06:15
1,604,009,175
null
['tinder']
0
jkjxfk
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jkjxfk/the_art_of_leading_on/
1
i met this guy on tinder about a month ago. I think we clicked and one thing leads to another it seems like we were dating ... but not really. We would study together call everyday for hours. In weekends we would plan out places to go together but one thing that should've be a BIG ASS red flag was that we had sex basic...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
the art of leading on..?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jkjxfk/the_art_of_leading_on/
MangoIce2020
2021-11-27 21:57:24
1,638,050,244
null
['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder']
0
r3o0wg
true
I Need Advice
1
0
/r/dating/comments/r3o0wg/23m_where_to_find_people_if_my/
2
I've been on Tinder for a while now and I do get some matches, not in some high volume or anything, but a bit more than what guys usually complain about here. It doesn't really amount to anything though, it just has all the run of the mill OLD problems, like convos going dry, dates standing you up at the last moment, e...
dating
t5_2qhb1
23M Where to find people if my interests/job/standard stuff doesn't give options
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r3o0wg/23m_where_to_find_people_if_my/
Cavebearclan
2021-05-30 01:39:37
1,622,338,777
null
null
0
no0wi6
true
null
10
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/no0wi6/physical_compliments_is_it_me/
1
I set up a date with a guy after talking on an app for a few days. We seemed to be chatting well. He makes a few comments on my appearance, and they're very nice, not misogynistic or anything. But it feels off, I'm not used to it. We haven't met yet and I don't know how to respond. I'm worried he might just be interest...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Physical Compliments - is it me?
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/no0wi6/physical_compliments_is_it_me/
Number-Minute
2021-01-16 18:54:44
1,610,823,284
null
['tinder']
0
kyou59
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/kyou59/blocked_due_to_confusion/
0
So I used an App called Anyto to use for Tinder and when I tried to explain to a girl that I wasn’t near her and that I was in a another country she seemed to get confused and blocked me. How would I explain this to a potential match in the future?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Blocked due to confusion
null
0.17
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kyou59/blocked_due_to_confusion/
trow1377
2020-01-12 12:29:43
1,578,832,183
null
['online dating']
0
enmwqi
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/enmwqi/trying_to_arrange_a_date/
4
Hi reddit, won't bore you with my life story but for background purposes I (26M) am very new to the dating scene, trying to get over some serious self-confidence issues that have held me back in the past. I honestly have no idea what I'm doing and I'm looking for some advice please. So I asked out this girl from work a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Trying to arrange a date...
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/enmwqi/trying_to_arrange_a_date/
-my_throwaway_life-
2021-05-07 05:33:22
1,620,365,602
null
['tinder']
0
n6ra4t
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/n6ra4t/should_i_reach_out_or_just_move_on/
2
I met a guy on Tinder, he gave me his phone number, we texted a bit that day, then I texted a few days later and didn’t get a response. It’s been like a month and he just randomly popped into my head. What are people’s thoughts on me double texting? And what should I say if I do text?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I reach out or just move on?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n6ra4t/should_i_reach_out_or_just_move_on/
it_works_every_time
2021-11-11 18:55:04
1,636,656,904
null
null
0
qrs75u
true
null
15
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/qrs75u/looking_for_your_take_on_my_hinge_prompts_please/
8
I (25M) recently re-installed Hinge. I’ve refreshed some photos and prompts and would be great to get your take please For the record, I’m looking for something serious with someone who is genuine, comfortable being themselves and up for a laugh. Thank you! 1: My simple pleasures Early morning walks, empty gyms, black ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Looking for your take on my Hinge Prompts please? (When in doubt, ask the Internet for help!)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qrs75u/looking_for_your_take_on_my_hinge_prompts_please/
Giova1809
2022-06-02 11:23:05
1,654,168,985
null
null
0
v36m1r
true
null
9
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/v36m1r/best_date_ever/
7
Now I wanna know about your best online date and good experiences 💕
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
BEST DATE EVER 💕
null
0.73
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/v36m1r/best_date_ever/
susbakduba
2023-03-01 18:11:26
1,677,694,286
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
11fati0
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11fati0/want_to_text_a_girl_on_snapchat_but_we_havent/
0
So I matched with this girl on Tinder almost 6 years ago. We talked for a bit, exchanged Snapchats and then fell out of contact without ever meeting up. I was going through my snap as I've been out of a long term relationship for over a year and I feel I want to get back in the dating game. I came across this girl and ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Want to text a girl on Snapchat but we haven't spoken in 5 years. she was a match on Tinder, we never met in person. Advice on what to say?
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11fati0/want_to_text_a_girl_on_snapchat_but_we_havent/
kristoll1
2022-10-19 03:23:19
1,666,149,799
null
['dating apps']
0
y7rgmz
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/y7rgmz/being_the_perfect_match_on_paper_does_not/
3
I've been on several dates from dating apps this fall, and I've found myself lacking in-person chemistry with the people who seem most compatible on paper, in terms of their interests, cultural background, diet, texting style, life goals, etc. It's kind of like dating yourself, and I know myself already, so it gets bor...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Being the perfect match on paper does not translate into being the perfect match in person
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y7rgmz/being_the_perfect_match_on_paper_does_not/
krkrkrow
2024-06-09 08:43:27
1,717,922,607
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1dbp7vj
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dbp7vj/texting_someone_when_youre_both_friends_with_a/
1
Tonight at a party, I met a friend of a friend who I happened to have matched with on tinder a few times, but we had never chatted. However, in person, there was chemistry, she kept looking intensely and finding excuses to start conversation and come close. We talked about having matched just when she was running to ca...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Texting someone when you’re both friends with a past fling
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dbp7vj/texting_someone_when_youre_both_friends_with_a/
strawberrygazelle
2022-07-26 16:46:29
1,658,853,989
null
['swiping', 'dating apps']
0
w8omne
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/w8omne/is_it_normal_not_to_click_with_most_people_you_go/
1
I have been "actively" dating meaning that I'll be swiping on dating apps and going on dates and generally up for meeting someone regardless of preconceptions just to see if there is a connection. Yet, I've been finding that most people I go on dates with I am not interested in them after meeting or don't see them as a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
is it normal not to "click" with most people you go on first or second dates with?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w8omne/is_it_normal_not_to_click_with_most_people_you_go/
Kentnation1
2018-11-21 04:14:08
1,542,773,648
null
['matched']
0
9yzri3
true
I Need Advice
12
0
/r/dating/comments/9yzri3/twin_sister_match/
2
So a few weeks ago I matched with this girl and she seemed pretty chill. I asked for her snapchat and she gave me her snap. I asked her if she was down to hangout but she said she’s busy every time so I get it, shes not interested however, we still have our snap streak going and we still communicate every so often. Jus...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Twin sister match
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9yzri3/twin_sister_match/
VenomSanke
2021-07-24 12:38:01
1,627,130,281
null
['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
oqp7sa
true
null
32
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/oqp7sa/am_i_unattractive_m21_uk/
3
Please have a look at my preview for my Tinder Profile, it shows all the photos I have etc.: https://tinder.com/@kstafford So I somewhat recently got back into using dating apps (I've had them work for me in the past) and I've noticed that I'm getting next to no matches. I'd just like to get some advice on what I can d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I Unattractive? (M21, UK)
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oqp7sa/am_i_unattractive_m21_uk/
vinicius23466
2023-11-18 21:16:36
1,700,342,196
0
['tinder']
0
17yg9uh
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17yg9uh/what_to_say_when_the_first_date_with_a_girl_wasnt/
1
Sorry if sounds dumb. Was in a big relationship until early this year and I’m starting to get back in the game. Just had a date with a girl I’ve met on Tinder 2 days ago, and I didn’t feel anything particularly good, no chemistry. How do I proceed if I don’t want to be talking all the time anymore since I know it won’t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What to say when the first date with a girl wasn’t good?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17yg9uh/what_to_say_when_the_first_date_with_a_girl_wasnt/
Designer_Try_7103
2024-05-30 21:20:03
1,717,104,003
0
['dating apps']
0
1d4esc5
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1d4esc5/dating_as_a_curvy_woman_need_advice/
1
I (F23) have been both skinny and curvy. The past five years, I’ve gained significant weight but im not considered overweight or obese. I live in a very fat phobic country, and as i was skinny all my life, the drastic change in people around me after gaining weight caught me by surprise. I had a few very short term rel...
dating
t5_2qhb1
dating as a curvy woman. need advice.
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d4esc5/dating_as_a_curvy_woman_need_advice/
Rach1943
2023-12-11 13:47:45
1,702,302,465
0
['dating sites']
0
18fux75
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18fux75/does_anyone_else_here_have_the_completely/
2
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. All I hear about is how real life is a WAY better way to meet women (and I agree, for the note). stories about men doing horrible on online, transitioning into real life more and making friends at groups/hobbies and suprisingly meeting women that are into them. going out to bars/coff...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does anyone else here have the completely backwards experience of doing incredibly incredibly well online but absolutely horrible in real life?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fux75/does_anyone_else_here_have_the_completely/
Thr-OhAway22
2015-08-05 00:13:20
1,438,733,600
0
['online dating']
0
3ftbmp
null
null
1
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3ftbmp/25m_overcoming_anxietydepression_not_sure_how_to/
4
My first serious GF was someone I met in college. We had a great, mature, and loving relationship. All of the sudden after 4 years the entire thing blew up quickly, with me walking away in order to preserve what was left of my confidence and deciding not to live her life anymore. Fast-forward to now. In the time since ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[25M] Overcoming anxiety/depression, not sure how to start meeting people again.
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3ftbmp/25m_overcoming_anxietydepression_not_sure_how_to/
SnooCats2028
2023-03-28 08:24:53
1,679,991,893
null
['matches', 'dating site', 'tinder']
0
124hwiz
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
27
0
/r/dating/comments/124hwiz/single_dad_2/
15
It’s been 26 days since my post on this sub. In that time I’ve had 0 dates, 0 matches on any dating site, from tinder to stir. I’ve literally tried them all. I’m Not being superficial or extra picky. I tend to look at all the pictures and read what they took time to write. I have all the ranges set for 33-42 years old ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Single dad -2
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/124hwiz/single_dad_2/
aards
2021-05-08 22:31:21
1,620,513,081
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
n805yv
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/n805yv/rejecting_newer_matches_when_you_dont_want_to/
3
How do y’all tell someone you’re no longer interested in talking to them? I’m working on getting over the feeling of feeling bad or that I didn’t give them a fair shot when in reality, I did and I’m just no longer interested. I’m not looking to ghost them and would rather just tell them. I’m on dating apps and there’s ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Rejecting newer matches when you don’t want to continue talking?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n805yv/rejecting_newer_matches_when_you_dont_want_to/
Syrup_Known
2024-01-30 04:11:05
1,706,587,865
0
['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1aefj66
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1aefj66/how_to_ask_a_girl_to_have_sex_over_a_dating_app/
1
How can I convince a girl over a dating app to have casual sex? I know when you first read that it probably sounds shallow but I have been using dating apps for a couple years now and have not gotten a single date. I do well as far as matches go - I'd say a few every week. Nothing has every translated into a relationsh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to ask a girl to have sex over a dating app?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aefj66/how_to_ask_a_girl_to_have_sex_over_a_dating_app/
bmanfromct
2018-10-31 01:06:44
1,540,948,004
null
['online dating', 'tinder', 'okcupid']
0
9su3rx
true
Tinder/Online Dating
16
0
/r/dating/comments/9su3rx/online_dating_is_confusing_as_heck/
4
I recently decided to try out OKCupid, mostly because Tinder is far too superficial for me and irl dating is surprisingly difficult as an adult. I got a few likes but the conversations immediately fizzled out, and I'm not sure why. I'm not going about it aggressively, I just want to get to know someone new and see wher...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating is confusing as heck.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9su3rx/online_dating_is_confusing_as_heck/
unsocial2015
2015-04-13 02:24:41
1,428,891,881
0
['online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'okcupid']
0
32ecd1
null
null
26
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/32ecd1/quiet_guy_high_standards_what_should_i_do/
0
I'm a pretty quiet sort of guy. Social recluse most of the time. Have high standards for dating (virgin, beautiful, educated, doesn't weigh over 130 etc). Didn't have a problem in Japan. Now I'm back in America, having trouble finding the kind of women i like. Okcupid and tinder seem like they don't have my type. What ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Quiet guy, high standards. What should I do?
0
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/32ecd1/quiet_guy_high_standards_what_should_i_do/
Salerino
2020-07-05 03:24:30
1,593,919,470
null
['tinder']
0
hlfxne
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hlfxne/dating_multiple_women/
2
I'm a guy (21) who's been on tinder for a while and have had multiple dates with different girls at different times. but now I have some dates set up that are in the same week. I'm meeting one girl for the first time and another for the 2nd. is this okay? Does that make me an asshole? Should I tell them that I'm also d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating multiple women?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hlfxne/dating_multiple_women/
Th_rowa_wa_y
2024-01-16 01:33:37
1,705,368,817
0
['swiping']
0
197qc5u
true
I Need Advice 😩
10
0
/r/dating/comments/197qc5u/how_do_i_get_past_the_youre_a_great_guy_but_i/
1
So far in dating, I've been decently capable of getting the occasional match while swiping selectively, getting to a first date (coffee shop, tea shop, something like that usually unless she suggests something else), and having what seems to be to be fun and engaging conversation. We talk about hobbies, career, interes...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I get past the "You're a great guy but I felt no spark" wall of rejections? (25M)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/197qc5u/how_do_i_get_past_the_youre_a_great_guy_but_i/
sleeplessbearr
2022-09-09 13:29:36
1,662,730,176
null
['dating app']
0
x9vl9x
true
Question ❓
22
0
/r/dating/comments/x9vl9x/dating_girls_with_mental_health_problems/
7
Any thoughts ? I was having second thoughts about a girl I was seeing regardless because we met om a dating app and she didn't exactly look like some of her earlier pictures. She told me was having mental health problems was getting then sorted out. She gave me the whole story and I agreed that it was difficult I felt ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating girls with mental health problems.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x9vl9x/dating_girls_with_mental_health_problems/
Cleanatwork
2016-07-15 10:14:04
1,468,577,644
0
['tinder']
0
4syfmz
null
null
1
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/4syfmz/getting_over_obsession/
2
10 years ago, I met an amazing girl a few years younger than me; a friend of a couple I know. We got on extremely well and always had a great laugh together. She was away at University at the time, so months would pass without seeing her, but I've never been so attracted to someone. She's very religious and I'm anythin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Getting over obsession
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4syfmz/getting_over_obsession/
monetaesthetics
2021-11-20 23:39:41
1,637,451,581
null
['matches', 'online dating']
0
qyhuns
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/qyhuns/how_do_i_get_into_the_dating_world/
3
Im pretty sure a million people asked this question already... but how do i get into dating Im 25 yo and had like 2 first dates in my life. They were okay and just happened by coincidence (one was a roommate the other one i met by luck on reddit). Since then i feel like i grew and that im ready to build a real relation...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I get into the dating world?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qyhuns/how_do_i_get_into_the_dating_world/
Evening-Mongoose-686
2024-07-27 20:39:54
1,722,112,794
0
['dating apps']
0
1edq1wf
true
null
45
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/1edq1wf/red_flag_on_meeting_friends/
5
Dating for 10 weeks, having a lot of fun & pretty compatible. There’s two semi red flags that I’m wondering if I think we have more going on than we do & need advice. We’re both mid 40’s, divorced 2+ years each and have a reasonable amount of free time to spend together. We’ve been seeming each other 1-2 times a week c...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Red flag on meeting friends?
5
0.69
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1edq1wf/red_flag_on_meeting_friends/
ThrowRAiambrown
2020-08-09 09:11:18
1,596,964,278
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
i6geyo
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i6geyo/need_advice_on_how_to_textkeep_her_engaged_amid/
2
(I am 21M and she is 19F) This is a long story about how I "met" this girl on Tinder about a year ago (summer of 2019). Basically one year ago I matched with her on Tinder and got her number and we started texting - she was about to start college and so understandably she was super busy and the texts slowly became semi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need advice on how to text/keep her engaged amid COVID
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i6geyo/need_advice_on_how_to_textkeep_her_engaged_amid/
iambadvibes93
2022-12-25 01:56:32
1,671,933,392
null
null
0
zuo4e6
true
null
45
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/zuo4e6/i_have_no_intentions_of_meeting_up_with_any_of_my/
0
It’s not that they’re all bad guys or they’re unattractive. I know they want to hook up. My pictures attract that kind of attention. But I just can’t be bothered to leave my house and let someone get on top of me for 15 minutes. And then I kinda feel self conscious about my weight. I have full body pics but still. what...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I have no intentions of meeting up with any of my Tinder matches.
null
0.43
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zuo4e6/i_have_no_intentions_of_meeting_up_with_any_of_my/
lmfaogetoffher
2021-03-28 05:35:07
1,616,909,707
null
['dating apps']
0
mevdg3
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mevdg3/feeling_kinda_negative_towards_women_based_on_my/
0
Nothing works or changes I think women have a vendetta against me and don’t like me and want to ruin my life dating apps and being positive don’t work either I think I was born to suffer tbh
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Feeling kinda negative towards women based on my experiences
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mevdg3/feeling_kinda_negative_towards_women_based_on_my/
Karmalistia009
2021-11-27 11:06:54
1,638,011,214
null
['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
r3bes6
true
null
72
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/r3bes6/is_distance_is_a_dealbreaker/
27
I (32m) have been using OLD on/off for a couple of years now and barly get a match every 3 month or so. I live around 30km from the capital where most women i can find on Tinder, bumble and etc are. And when i do get a match i can barly get a response from them (sometimes im completely ghosted). I'd like to add when i ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Is distance is a dealbreaker?
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/r3bes6/is_distance_is_a_dealbreaker/
claritysage1238
2024-03-21 13:16:32
1,711,026,992
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
1bk6aej
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bk6aej/age_gap_advice/
1
TLDR: Met the man of my dreams, our connection is amazing, he asked me to be his gf but we have a huge age gap. Despite being 30(F), I look very young for my age. People comment I look like I’m in my early 20s. After my divorce, I resorted to Hinge where I could put my age next to my age because dating doesn’t work out...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Age gap advice
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bk6aej/age_gap_advice/
yuekikas
2024-08-18 10:41:26
1,723,977,686
0
['swiped', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
1ev69ze
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1ev69ze/hopeless_romantic/
1
so for some context, I (18F) decided that this summer was going to be my hot girl summer and not give two fucks and just go on fun dates for the summer. problem being, it’s sort of contradictory with my nature as a hopeless romantic and I met someone guy (19M) who I ended up liking more than I thought I would. I’ve nev...
dating
t5_2qhb1
hopeless romantic
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ev69ze/hopeless_romantic/
wowcool941
2018-10-21 05:34:55
1,540,100,095
null
['online dating']
0
9q17jf
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9q17jf/i_feel_trapped_by_my_home_town/
1
Im gay, and I live in a pretty conservative town. I have a nice personality, but unfortunately it’s not a very attractive one, I think. Essentially everyone likes being my friend, but nothing more than that. I k ow most of the gay people in town, and the surroundings towns, but I just can’t seem to be interesting. I’ve...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I feel trapped by my home town
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9q17jf/i_feel_trapped_by_my_home_town/
surfpenguin
2012-07-03 03:32:55
1,341,286,375
1
['okcupid']
null
vylnt
null
null
21
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/vylnt/guy_asks_me_on_a_date_theres_a_catch_hes_married/
0
Me: 21, female. Him: 29, male. I just got out of a 2.5year lived-together relationship, before that it was a 2.5 year highschool boyfriend. I have never gone on a legitimate 'first date', I've always dated people from highschool. I've been working at a company for 2 months, and this guy I talk to a few times a week and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy asks me on a date. There's a catch. He's married O__o.
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vylnt/guy_asks_me_on_a_date_theres_a_catch_hes_married/
MFRobots
2020-10-23 10:34:40
1,603,449,280
null
null
0
jgkn8c
true
null
68
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/jgkn8c/boasting_about_your_political_candidate_in_your/
29
Was browsing through my area on Match. Match has one of those canned questions that someone can answer. She choooses, "What am I most politically passionate about?: She answers, TRUMP 4 more years!" What's even sadder, is that she's a woman. In general, I never understood why people bought merchandise and cheered on po...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Boasting about your political candidate in your profile
null
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jgkn8c/boasting_about_your_political_candidate_in_your/
Storyofalonelyguy98
2020-07-27 21:19:35
1,595,884,775
null
['tinder']
0
hz14tz
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hz14tz/when_to_initiate_a_conversation_and_when_to_wait/
1
I (21M) met this girl (20F) on tinder last week and we have a lot in common. We chatted a bit and she was slow to answer via tinder, but that's normal for some people. However once adding her on Facebook, she replies just as slow and rarely initiates much conversation. She barely has any Facebook pictures so I can only...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When to initiate a conversation and when to wait?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hz14tz/when_to_initiate_a_conversation_and_when_to_wait/
LuckyTaco_
2022-03-21 22:18:58
1,647,901,138
null
['hinge']
0
tjnmqu
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/tjnmqu/how_can_i_not_feel_discouraged_by_dating/
2
I’m probably way too into my own head and overthinking, but I may have a date this Thursday meeting this woman off Hinge for drinks and she said she’s very busy this weekend when I initially offered to go to the aquarium and so she counter-offered for drinks. I’m just thinking that a woman like her must have so many op...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I not feel discouraged by dating?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tjnmqu/how_can_i_not_feel_discouraged_by_dating/
Professional-Bug2305
2022-12-19 03:40:16
1,671,421,216
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
zpgx42
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zpgx42/new_girlfriend_is_friends_with_a_previous_date/
1
So awkward.... Went to church this morning with the newly defined Girlfriend. One of her friends recently had a baby and was sitting next to us, after the service abunch of people come over and start meeting the baby. Low and behold over walks a girl I went on one dinner with. I saw her coming and made the excuse to ru...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
new girlfriend is friends with a previous date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zpgx42/new_girlfriend_is_friends_with_a_previous_date/
Jasmin_021
2022-02-12 03:56:57
1,644,638,217
null
['plenty of fish']
0
sqi9nj
true
Support Needed
5
0
/r/dating/comments/sqi9nj/what_i_learned/
2
I've always been a kind, pretty, smart, healthy lady at 21. I do love myself, I just want to add someone to it. I wanted to be loved, cared for, feel wanted to someone and to love them back too. I wanted to come home to someone and see their face, talk to them, hold them, ask about their day or plan a fun day together....
dating
t5_2qhb1
What I learned
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sqi9nj/what_i_learned/
lemonberry67
2022-04-05 18:04:32
1,649,181,872
null
['tinder']
0
tx107l
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/tx107l/does_this_make_me_a_bad_person/
1
so idek where to begin with this one. About 6 months ago I met a guy on tinder he immediately asked to hangout and usually I don't go because I'm not into hookups and that seems to be all tinder is. he kept asking so i straight up said i'm not looking for a hookup and im actually looking for a relationship (tinder prob...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does this make me a bad person?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tx107l/does_this_make_me_a_bad_person/
waitingformyAIGF
2023-11-22 18:11:33
1,700,676,693
0
['OLD']
0
181fnes
true
I Need Advice 😩
33
0
/r/dating/comments/181fnes/why_cant_i_get_a_single_date/
1
No matter what I do I cannot get to the point of just casually dating, and I'm kinda at my wit's end. I'm 30 and for years I've been trying to do everything to improve myself, but it never makes dating any easier. From running 3x a week and being in good shape, volunteering, creating grooming routines, dressing really ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why can't I get a single date?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/181fnes/why_cant_i_get_a_single_date/
VideoGameHazard
2024-06-25 03:55:10
1,719,287,710
0
['matches', 'dating apps', 'hinge', 'okcupid', 'eharmony']
0
1dnwvp4
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1dnwvp4/22_year_old_man_straight_looking_for_dating_advice/
2
Hi all! I want to preface that this may be a fairly long post. As the title suggests, I’m looking for suggestions on how I can best approach dating. There are a number of factors that I feel limit my prospects, and I genuinely am at a loss for what to do, so any advice would be much appreciated. For some context, I’d l...
dating
t5_2qhb1
22 year old man (straight) looking for dating advice
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dnwvp4/22_year_old_man_straight_looking_for_dating_advice/
Naive-Historian-2110
2021-06-26 22:06:55
1,624,745,215
null
['hinge']
0
o8k56v
true
I Need Advice
7
0
/r/dating/comments/o8k56v/this_girl_messages_me_every_few_weeks_and_this/
1
I went on a date with a girl a couple of months ago that I met on Hinge. I liked her but I put her off by my tendency to overshare on the first date (I assume.) She continues to message me every few weeks and I generally respond when I find the time- this time I did not respond. The next day she texted me asking if I w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
This girl messages me every few weeks and this time I didn’t respond.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o8k56v/this_girl_messages_me_every_few_weeks_and_this/
Throwaway47571428
2022-04-23 22:51:37
1,650,754,297
null
['online dating']
0
uagw76
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/uagw76/how_to_proceed/
1
Throwaway bcs I am not sure if shes on reddit. So I (M24) know this woman (F24) from a job about 8 months ago. Never really thought about her in a romantic way until I walked home with her from a party like 2 months ago and got talking. Invited her to a date about 5 weeks ago, we talked a lot and hugged afterwards. Sin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to proceed?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uagw76/how_to_proceed/
spacemangocado
2022-12-31 12:43:50
1,672,490,630
null
['OLD']
0
zztc5y
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/zztc5y/any_other_way_to_practice_other_than_going_on/
1
I'm currently recovering from dating a woman that really fits my criteria, really interested me, and then her rejecting me after a slow fade. In retrospect, I can see a lot of mistakes I did that might have brought us further in the process of dating. I mostly have these issues exclusively with women I'm very intereste...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any other way to practice other than going on real dates?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zztc5y/any_other_way_to_practice_other_than_going_on/
kruppkake
2023-11-27 03:08:51
1,701,054,531
0
['tinder']
0
184szj7
true
null
29
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/184szj7/went_on_a_date_can_someone_explain_what_this/
1
Ok i M 23 went on a date with F22 from tinder. Date started off slow because we missed our bus but we got coffee and chatted for like an hour or two, it was really fun. Afterwards I sent a text saying I had fun and would love to do it again soon. They responded a few hours later with: “Heyyy It was so so nice meeting y...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Went on a date Can someone explain what this means? I’m not good at this stuff
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/184szj7/went_on_a_date_can_someone_explain_what_this/
Fit_Photograph9247
2024-06-12 08:03:36
1,718,179,416
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1de1by8
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1de1by8/missing_someone_i_never_met/
1
I (F24) matched with this guy (M40) on a dating app last year. Surprisingly, we had a lot in common. I like his personality and we’re such great match. However, I ghosted him. We tried to meet up but I had a lot going on and couldn’t meet. I explained to him that I needed a break to get some things in order, my life wa...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Missing someone I never met
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1de1by8/missing_someone_i_never_met/
YetnotherThrowway
2023-02-27 14:46:06
1,677,509,166
null
['dating apps']
0
11ddjt9
true
null
215
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11ddjt9/its_the_second_time_that_i_38f_meet_a_guy_35m/
367
Here are the details for the last one: We both go to the same fitness club. It's a pretty amazing club, they offer coffee and tea for free and there's seats and table footballs to pass time (smart move, all the folks, especially on the older side, use it to socialize and are loyal clients). We used to say hello to each...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
It's the second time that I (38F) meet a guy (35M this time) with whom I have good chemistry, until I ask them out on a date and they tell me they have no experience and are done trying.
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11ddjt9/its_the_second_time_that_i_38f_meet_a_guy_35m/
MotivatedStudent
2021-11-13 17:03:27
1,636,823,007
null
['facebook dating']
0
qt5e6r
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qt5e6r/she_expressed_a_lot_of_interest_in_going_for_a/
1
As the title says. I (25m, if it is important at all lol) have been talking with this girl (22) for awhile on facebook dating, and for the first couple days, we connected super well We shared tons of interests, went on and on about horror movies, and generally connected well. So, I asked her on a date after 3 days of t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
She expressed a lot of interest in going for a date, and when I asked "this weekend?" She ghosted?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qt5e6r/she_expressed_a_lot_of_interest_in_going_for_a/
MaddMB
2024-09-17 15:36:56
1,726,587,416
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1fj2dxt
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1fj2dxt/im_getting_tired_of_dating/
1
(This will be long but I just need to vent) I’m 26m feeling tired and a bit frustrated with dating these days, I’m not perfect by any means, I have trauma, got used and taken advantage of by a family member and someone who pushed themselves into my life, which led me to have trust issues, be depressed, had dark thought...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Im getting tired of dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fj2dxt/im_getting_tired_of_dating/
crusthrow11
2018-04-10 00:20:53
1,523,319,653
0
['matches', 'tinder']
0
8b3dse
false
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8b3dse/invisible_99_of_the_time_and_then_on_the_rare/
10
99% of my life I’m invisible. I don’t get any attention from girls - no looks in public, no casual flirting, no nothing. I just feel completely ugly. The thing is: I’m not. Some days I like how I look, I tell myself I look handsome, and I genuinely feel like I look attractive. I try so, so hard to love myself, but I ju...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Invisible 99% of the time, and then on the rare occasion a girl seems into me it goes wrong anyway. Feeling lost.
10
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8b3dse/invisible_99_of_the_time_and_then_on_the_rare/
Unlucky_Substance_35
2023-03-01 23:06:09
1,677,711,969
null
['online dating', 'dating app']
0
11fl9ak
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11fl9ak/did_i_screw_up_34m_26f/
1
So recently, I had connected with this girl via an online dating app, we clicked really well and progressed to chatting via text and snapchat, etc. We'd talked on the phone and whatnot (nothing sexual just a really genuine connection) we had arranged to try and meet up, and here's where it gets a bit rough. I live very...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
did I screw up? 34m 26f
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11fl9ak/did_i_screw_up_34m_26f/
ZookeepergameOk5729
2023-08-20 03:31:28
1,692,502,288
0
['hinge']
0
15w08v0
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15w08v0/will_i_scare_him_if_i_bring_up_exclusivity/
1
I (23F) met a guy (24M) on hinge and I think we’ve really hit it off. Our dates have been really long and we text every day, not just a hey but we will offer each other updates on our days without even asking the other. He is currently in military training so seeing each other during the week is essentially impossible,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Will I scare him if I bring up exclusivity?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15w08v0/will_i_scare_him_if_i_bring_up_exclusivity/
stassia888
2019-06-21 13:25:35
1,561,123,535
null
['tinder']
0
c3aj70
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/c3aj70/dating_and_talking_regularly_but_hes_still_using/
8
This is probably going to make me sound deranged but I need some perspective. I have been seeing a guy I met on Tinder for 2 months. He’s 23 and I’m 18. We’ve been on 2 dates so far. He did mention to me that he doesn’t use Tinder “seriously” and that he’s only ever hung out with one other girl from Tinder before and o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating and talking regularly but he’s still using Tinder
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c3aj70/dating_and_talking_regularly_but_hes_still_using/
AnnaBee72
2020-03-20 17:47:22
1,584,726,442
null
['tinder']
0
flzaik
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/flzaik/he_is_unavailable_but_keeps_in_touch/
1
Hi everyone, I come to see if some of you have been experiencing a similar situation. Sorry in advance for the long story. I am a 44 yo F and I met a 45 yo guy on Tinder last year in March. I wasn't looking for anything serious at that time. He didn't either I believe. We were supposed to meet up for a drink (and more ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He is unavailable but keeps in touch
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/flzaik/he_is_unavailable_but_keeps_in_touch/
Machine_Fabulous
2022-06-11 15:27:42
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v9zvar
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/r/dating_advice/comments/v9zvar/i_think_this_girl_is_too_much_for_me/
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sorry if this is hardly readable but i'm not a native english speaker and also i'm super stressed because of this. Context, me (19M) and this girl (20F) have been talking for a week or so, we matched on a dating app. We haven't met yet, but we are planning to meet this week, and i think she is a bit too much for me, i ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think this girl is too much for me
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v9zvar/i_think_this_girl_is_too_much_for_me/
Alternative_Grand214
2023-04-05 22:09:56
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12czp17
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Question ❓
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/r/dating/comments/12czp17/iso_raya_code/
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hey guys I am fresh out of a long-term relationship and hate every single dating app. However, I have not tried Raya and I am very curious to as if it is different from others/if I would like it more. I would GREATLY appreciate some help figuring out how to join Raya. Thanks
dating
t5_2qhb1
ISO: raya code
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12czp17/iso_raya_code/
nm0710
2016-12-10 05:21:34
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['tinder']
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5himkp
null
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/r/dating_advice/comments/5himkp/tinder_gone_right/
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I'm a 21 year old female talking to a 24 year old male. We met on tinder, not proud of that. Turns out we go to the same college but just didn't know each other. We've been talking for about a week or so and I can't get a good read from him. I think he might be into me but I can't tell through my cell phone. -we text 2...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder gone right?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5himkp/tinder_gone_right/
rockycopter
2023-08-12 03:28:58
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null
0
15otjjo
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null
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/15otjjo/question_what_happened_to_the_online_dating_space/
1
26M broke up with gf two years ago. We were dating for over 7 years. Matched each other from a dating app when I was 17. And I was only using the app for a month or two Now for the last two years I've been on dating apps and rarely get matches. And when I do, it's always just people promoting their onlyfans. Every prof...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
[Question] What happened to the online dating space in the last 8 years?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15otjjo/question_what_happened_to_the_online_dating_space/