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-rainbow_road- | 2021-12-14 04:44:33 | 1,639,457,073 | null | ['swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | rfzg7e | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rfzg7e/move_on_or_wait_a_bit/ | 0 | I [21F] met this guy [27M] on bumble 2 weeks ago. We’ve met up a couple of times and I’ve slept over at his place and he’s slept over at mine. I told him straight up that I’m looking for a serious relationship and he responded by saying his end goal is a serious relationship but he just got out of one that lasted six y... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Move on or wait a bit? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rfzg7e/move_on_or_wait_a_bit/ |
Feeling-Donkey-8739 | 2024-01-17 23:16:58 | 1,705,533,418 | 0 | null | 0 | 199axiz | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/199axiz/how_often_do_you_check_you_dating_app_profile/ | 1 | Personally I check them multiple times a day and every time I get a notification. Right now I'm talking to this girl since yesterday and she would reply in an hour or two. Until she texted me around midnight, but I was asleep. I replied to her as soon as I woke up, but I haven't heard anthing back from her today. I've ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How often do you check you dating app profile? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/199axiz/how_often_do_you_check_you_dating_app_profile/ |
tosser91459 | 2020-09-09 04:14:48 | 1,599,624,888 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ip95if | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ip95if/never_been_in_a_relationship_considering_just/ | 2 | 23M I've never managed to be in a relationship before, i'm overweight and extremely introverted. Ive spent a lot of my life socially isolated and i just moved to a new state for college where classes are online and there's no one to talk to. I've tried dating apps, and it never goes anywhere. I typically don't even get... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never been in a relationship, considering just getting an escort | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ip95if/never_been_in_a_relationship_considering_just/ |
bacteria_music | 2023-06-27 18:19:13 | 1,687,889,953 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 14kl8p0 | true | Question ❓ | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14kl8p0/how_often_do_you_feel_fuck_yes_about_a_person_you/ | 4 | Mark Manson (I know he's controversial in some circles, so apologies if you're not a fan) wrote about the concept of "Fuck yes": > The Law of Fuck Yes or No states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them. Th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How often do you feel "Fuck yes" about a person you go on a date with? | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14kl8p0/how_often_do_you_feel_fuck_yes_about_a_person_you/ |
frontpage2 | 2021-04-20 18:16:01 | 1,618,942,561 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | muwnyr | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/muwnyr/what_is_wrong_with_hikingoutdoor_first_dates/ | 4 | I (35f) talked to this guy on Facebook dating (35m) and he said he wanted to meet up for dinner, but I am not fully vaccinated so I said let's go hiking instead and mentioned a local trail and sent him the link and he responded "got it". I told him I didn't want to do anything indoors because of COVID cases going up in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is wrong with hiking/outdoor first dates? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/muwnyr/what_is_wrong_with_hikingoutdoor_first_dates/ |
BadUsername_Numbers | 2019-05-01 18:02:14 | 1,556,733,734 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bjkb5v | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjkb5v/your_experience_with_tinder_gold/ | 3 | Hey folks, considering getting TG for a month. Now, I feel like this might be walking down a path I'm not sure I want to for some reason - I can't quite put my finger on it. What's your experience with TG - was it worth it? Would you consider getting it again? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Your experience with Tinder Gold | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjkb5v/your_experience_with_tinder_gold/ |
Dry_Butterscotch3672 | 2023-11-20 08:33:10 | 1,700,469,190 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17zjyfd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17zjyfd/venting/ | 1 | I (26F) been single for three years and I am ready to be in relationship; However, I don’t want to be on dating apps and not a lot of guys shoot their shot in person anymore. So long story short, I’ve been in one serious relationship for 5 years with my ex. I had never experienced real dating until I got to college and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Venting | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17zjyfd/venting/ |
Last_Years_Man | 2018-01-27 00:31:52 | 1,517,013,112 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7t90yo | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7t90yo/just_a_guy_in_ny_region_what_should_i_do/ | 1 | So I'm in my mid 20s and would like to date someone. I have virtually no experience with women, maybe 3 somewhat close friends that I'll hang out with maybe every other week unless we go through a busy period, and basically just work. They're all home bodies and I don't really go anywhere socially on my own, I just chi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just a guy in NY region. What should I do. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7t90yo/just_a_guy_in_ny_region_what_should_i_do/ |
cutefrenchguy2828 | 2021-06-14 00:35:23 | 1,623,630,923 | null | null | 0 | nzaalp | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nzaalp/online_dating_atlanta_i_give_up/ | 6 | I recently moved to this city not too long ago and my experience as been very depressing. I consider myself an average looking guy who had many attractive gfs in the past in Michigan… Dating in Michigan versus Atlanta is totally different… it actually suck here.. I lowered my standard and every single date I had been I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating Atlanta I give up | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nzaalp/online_dating_atlanta_i_give_up/ |
After-Hamster-2316 | 2024-02-28 16:56:28 | 1,709,139,388 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b2axtl | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b2axtl/mixed_signals_possible_avoidant_personality/ | 1 | Me (27M) met a a girl (28) from Hinge. We hit it off, went to Gallery, several bakeries etc the date lasted 6 hours from morning until the afternoon. We share a brief kiss and exchange numbers. I text her later when I am at the club, she replies, seems interested. Next day she wakes me up with a text to ask me how my n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed Signals- possible avoidant personality? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b2axtl/mixed_signals_possible_avoidant_personality/ |
Fed555 | 2023-06-29 01:28:36 | 1,688,002,116 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14lrcc7 | true | null | 75 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14lrcc7/met_a_girl_on_plane_home_from_vacation_this/ | 97 | The airports were a mess this weekend between canceled flights and delays. So I had a few drinks at the airport bar before going home. This cute girl happened to be at the same bar as me but was sitting on the other side and I didn’t want to get up because I had to leave in a few to start the boarding process. So after... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a girl on plane home from vacation this weekend what to do now feels like a movie M(30) F(29) | 97 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14lrcc7/met_a_girl_on_plane_home_from_vacation_this/ |
_jkim12 | 2022-08-06 11:54:54 | 1,659,786,894 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | whmkxn | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/whmkxn/tipsadvice_with_girl/ | 1 | Forewarning: I had confidence issues in high school, I was a pretty big (as in fat) kid and was an offensive linemen. COVID did not help much with my socialization either, but I started to take the gym more seriously and have made a lot of progress from the previous gains from football. I went from an obese 220 to a ch... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips/Advice with Girl | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/whmkxn/tipsadvice_with_girl/ |
GDpizzapug26 | 2024-03-06 00:57:37 | 1,709,686,657 | 0 | null | 0 | 1b7m82j | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1b7m82j/does_anyone_know_any_actually_free_dating_sites/ | 2 | All the ones I’ve found so far are either pay to get access to everything or they just don’t seem to follow your location settings I literally am getting recommended people in Vietnam | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does anyone know any actually free dating sites that actually work? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b7m82j/does_anyone_know_any_actually_free_dating_sites/ |
zizidx98 | 2022-07-27 09:50:48 | 1,658,915,448 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | w9ahl8 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w9ahl8/if_a_guy_doesnt_take_initiative_unless_pushed_is/ | 3 | TLDR: Been seeing a guy 1x a week for nearly three months now i really like his personality and every time i have an issue he’s understanding. However, it’s always me pushing things forward and although he responds positively it leaves me thinking if I hadn’t said anything would he have taken this step himself? Is he r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If a guy doesn’t take initiative unless pushed, is he interested? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w9ahl8/if_a_guy_doesnt_take_initiative_unless_pushed_is/ |
just_a_firenope | 2020-02-11 14:18:59 | 1,581,430,739 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | f28xcj | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f28xcj/i_think_i_messed_up/ | 1 | Matched with a lonime crush a few weeks ago on tinder. Asked her how she’d been and what she’s doing now (we haven’t talked in like half a year). She replied as expected to the first two messages, but by the third she ignored me. A fe weeks later I asked her how her studies was going, just to get a convo goin, no reply... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I messed up. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f28xcj/i_think_i_messed_up/ |
Fooyou2 | 2021-02-22 19:31:20 | 1,614,022,280 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lpxhvt | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lpxhvt/stuck_between_a_hookup_and_a_date/ | 0 | I'm 27 and I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I have been active on tinder and found two different women how have sparked my interest. One who sounds like the perfect match for me in terms of music interests, shows, lifestyles. Let's call her (A) The other flat out whats to hookup, NSA. This woman will be called ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stuck between a hookup and a date | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lpxhvt/stuck_between_a_hookup_and_a_date/ |
ZakCloud44 | 2024-04-23 19:20:20 | 1,713,900,020 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cbda86 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cbda86/34m_w_fulltime_job_dating_apps_are_insufferable/ | 1 | I have commitment issues due to multiple relationships going wrong, thanks to ex-girlfriends cheating on me. Women seem to enjoy sex with me more than they do having a meaningful relationship or friendship. I’m incredibly friendly and somewhat introverted. Have no issues talking to people. But have hard time meeting ne... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 34M w/ full-time job, dating apps are insufferable. Haven’t dated for years, friends with benefits with two different married women (ya idk) but not sure where to meet new (single) women. Where do y’all meet people at?? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cbda86/34m_w_fulltime_job_dating_apps_are_insufferable/ |
hello010101 | 2024-01-23 03:36:23 | 1,705,980,983 | 0 | null | 0 | 19df0xn | true | null | 72 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/19df0xn/how_should_i_respond_to_men_who_get_angry_that_i/ | 12 | Should I just block them or text them something? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How should I respond to men who get angry that I don't respond quickly? | 12 | 0.68 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/19df0xn/how_should_i_respond_to_men_who_get_angry_that_i/ |
theshebear | 2021-10-30 11:56:30 | 1,635,594,990 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qizziq | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qizziq/am_i_wasting_my_time/ | 1 | I (27f) met this guy (27m) on a dating app a month ago. We immediately hit it off and had a call on the second day of talking, he seemed really interested and was eager for another call. Two days later on our second call he asked me on a date. The date went well, we continued to message every day and call every few day... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I wasting my time? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qizziq/am_i_wasting_my_time/ |
tezzeret2000 | 2019-10-01 10:35:13 | 1,569,926,113 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dbrgc1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dbrgc1/need_some_advice/ | 1 | Hey everyone I met this girl a little over a year ago on tinder, and we've been good friends ever since. We've cuddled and slept in the same bed(not sex) several times now. I haven't had strong feelings towards her until recently, and now that I look at it, the situation is confusing, at least for me. On one hand, she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dbrgc1/need_some_advice/ |
Wu-Tang96 | 2019-12-27 02:31:36 | 1,577,413,896 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | eg4ztk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eg4ztk/online_dating_advice/ | 1 | I’m a 19year old male; I just got out of my first relationship about 2 months ago. The relationship lasted 4months and was super unhealthy for me. Im wondering should I even bother with online dating apps where it leads to the same old “talking stage” but nothing comes out of it. I don’t miss my ex because she wasn’t a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eg4ztk/online_dating_advice/ |
vnfxj | 2020-01-14 18:15:04 | 1,579,025,704 | null | ['dating sites', 'hinge'] | 0 | eooztq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eooztq/is_there_any_hope_in_hinge/ | 2 | I'm just popping my head around the door from the room full of people who have gave up. I tried hinge once but admittedly I didn't invest much time in it. I am not an attractive man so the other dating sites rarely work. Do you believe that I could more likely find a woman on there than anywhere else. Because I gave up... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there any hope in hinge? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eooztq/is_there_any_hope_in_hinge/ |
mayerrokitansky13 | 2020-09-13 14:36:33 | 1,600,007,793 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | irzc77 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/irzc77/for_people_on_the_apps_do_you_guys_take_text/ | 1 | Maybe I'm just burnt out from OLD but it seems that Im getting bored really fast from conversing with men on the apps and I tend to quickly write them off if I'm not feeling a "chemistry" or banter per say while messaging them? I know this isn't 100% fair but with the amount of stimulation on the apps and how long I've... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For people on the apps, do you guys take text chemistry/banter into account when deciding to go on a date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/irzc77/for_people_on_the_apps_do_you_guys_take_text/ |
Isopod20 | 2021-04-05 01:28:14 | 1,617,586,094 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | mk9mbn | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mk9mbn/new_to_online_dating_dont_know_how_to_proceed/ | 2 | I matched with this guy a few days ago and our conversation has been good, but slightly superficial. How do I turn the conversation to more serious topics to actually get to know each other without out right asking him? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to Online Dating, don’t know how to proceed | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mk9mbn/new_to_online_dating_dont_know_how_to_proceed/ |
Lonely_Fondant | 2024-08-23 00:23:46 | 1,724,372,626 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1eyz2a7 | true | null | 105 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1eyz2a7/first_dates_2nd_dates_but_cant_get_myself_to_be/ | 36 | I seem to be able to get matches and dates, I’ve even had a few first dates that went well and I asked for a second. But I’m finding that it’s easy for me to lose attraction over small things (I think these women were still attracted to me and I could have gotten another date if I wanted). One woman was really excited ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | First dates, 2nd dates, but can’t get myself to be interested after that | 36 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1eyz2a7/first_dates_2nd_dates_but_cant_get_myself_to_be/ |
qPec5 | 2019-10-13 11:51:01 | 1,570,967,461 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | dh9lo2 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dh9lo2/guys_what_platforms_do_you_use_for_online_dating/ | 3 | I'm wondering what platforms do you find the best for OLD. I'm unsure what works on OLD anymore... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Guys what platforms do you use for Online Dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dh9lo2/guys_what_platforms_do_you_use_for_online_dating/ |
fagotzim | 2021-12-20 09:25:07 | 1,639,992,307 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rkjcqd | true | Support Needed | 62 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rkjcqd/why_exactly_age_matters_that_much/ | 60 | Unfortunately yesterday was a pretty fucking sad day to me. I met a girl online (dating app), was one of the most interesting persons i ever met, stimulated me intellectually and artistically, beautiful, good to talking to... my expectation was on the moon ( oh boy, what a mistake) and i was definitely super happy when... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why exactly age matters that much? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rkjcqd/why_exactly_age_matters_that_much/ |
HonMyChest | 2020-01-11 17:14:38 | 1,578,762,878 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | ena3ms | true | Question | 40 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ena3ms/dating_with_herpes_a_potential_series_of_stories/ | 12 | I recently ended a 2 year relationship with my partner I was monogamous with and have entered the ever-so dreaded world of online dating. Having tested positive for genital HSV (herpes simplex virus), it's important that whoever I date is aware of that early so I put it on my dating profiles. I'm okay, both from the br... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating with Herpes - a Potential Series of Stories with this Being Part 1 - What are your thoughts when you see a persons STI status in their dating profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ena3ms/dating_with_herpes_a_potential_series_of_stories/ |
Additional-Penalty57 | 2022-08-01 10:55:16 | 1,659,351,316 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | wdehbk | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wdehbk/have_i_dodged_a_bullet/ | 1 | So I (30M) matched with this girl (35F) on bumble like 2 months ago. The chat was nice so she gave me her number and after another week of writing we decided to meet for a date. On the weekend of the date she was on a city trip and she was not sure if she would make it, so we resheduled for the following weekend. The c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have I dodged a bullet? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wdehbk/have_i_dodged_a_bullet/ |
GreenHornetzz | 2024-04-19 15:33:48 | 1,713,540,828 | 0 | null | 0 | 1c7zu0i | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1c7zu0i/would_yall_pay_for_an_online_group_date/ | 2 | Need quick advice - would you pay for dinner for a blind group date? So basically this girl hit me up on hinge and suggested that I go on a blind triple date, her friends are bringing guys they haven’t met too. Sounds like a fun idea but I asked where and she suggested a place. It’s fairly cheap for sit down but it’s s... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would y’all pay for an online group date? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c7zu0i/would_yall_pay_for_an_online_group_date/ |
FairCandyBear | 2024-09-19 15:08:24 | 1,726,758,504 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fkn5iy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fkn5iy/going_slow_physically/ | 1 | I (32F) started seeing someone (29M) who told me he wants to go slow physically until we know each other better and are more comfortable together. We have a ton in common and have similar life goals, sense of humor, education, hobbies and family upbringing. He tells me constantly how beautiful I am and we've made out a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going slow physically | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fkn5iy/going_slow_physically/ |
CultofFelix | 2022-09-26 17:51:08 | 1,664,214,668 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xoqgel | true | null | 290 | 1 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xoqgel/some_conservative_men_say_they_hate_liberal/ | 3,291 | I encountered one of these recently, and I found it pretty hilarious. I met one man who could be described as some sort of textbook conservative. He would tell me out of the blue without any context that he hates liberals, and would do so as often as possible. Because of his strong attitude and because I am a liberal m... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Some conservative men say they hate liberal, progressive women but then are angry that liberal women don't want to date them | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xoqgel/some_conservative_men_say_they_hate_liberal/ |
Lovelypeachesndcream | 2024-09-24 00:41:46 | 1,727,138,506 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1fo0238 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 117 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fo0238/im_a_woman_who_almost_always_initiates_and_want/ | 51 | Hi all, Im 26F using a mix of online dating apps and going to events to meet people. I know its never personal, but I find it so frustarting to hear guy friends and people online complain about women never initiating things and blaming that for the young male loneliness crisis (which I know is very real I'm not discoun... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm a woman who almost always initiates and want to vent about something | 51 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fo0238/im_a_woman_who_almost_always_initiates_and_want/ |
TheTruthMatters9 | 2019-10-10 19:49:07 | 1,570,736,947 | null | ['swiping', 'online dating'] | 0 | dg3gnt | true | Question | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dg3gnt/getting_so_burned_out_from_rejection_you_cant/ | 8 | When I was younger, I believed all the lies people tell about "looks not mattering for men" and personality being more important. I was raised to believe this as a child. Then in my early 20s I drank the PUA Kool-Aid on the same subject. Even though I was seeing evidence to the contrary my whole life, I suppose I wante... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting so burned out from rejection you can't even try anymore? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dg3gnt/getting_so_burned_out_from_rejection_you_cant/ |
princepuru | 2024-05-07 14:58:26 | 1,715,093,906 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cmdxao | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cmdxao/need_dating_advice_22m/ | 1 | Hello guys , I'm 22 M and currently working as a Software Engineer in a US based company. I had a GF in 1st and 2nd year of my clg but since then I have been single. After my breakup I lost interest in getting into relationship but now again my interest is back. It's not that I can't talk to girls or something but the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need Dating Advice - 22M | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmdxao/need_dating_advice_22m/ |
CloudsNeverSleep | 2020-03-09 18:42:36 | 1,583,779,356 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | ffzguk | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ffzguk/an_observation/ | 4 | A general observation and comment regarding a small proportion of men who contact me on a particular dating site - out of the blue - offering to be my personal slave. When I say my kitchen needs cleaning, why do you suddenly lose interest? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | An observation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ffzguk/an_observation/ |
perpetualwalnut | 2019-03-20 02:20:23 | 1,553,048,423 | null | null | 0 | b36djf | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/b36djf/how_is_my_bio/ | 9 | I'm not sure if it's against the rules here for these types of posts. 26M "I like bike riding and rainy weather. I'm a student pilot. I'm also terrified of heights but that doesn't stop me! I'm a service tech working 40 hours a week while going to school, but I have weekends off. I wish to leave this world a little bit... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How is my bio? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b36djf/how_is_my_bio/ |
Refinedsid | 2020-01-08 09:39:39 | 1,578,476,379 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | elqlyt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/elqlyt/dating_tips_by_refined/ | 0 | well guys are nowadays so into dating app and online stuff that they are loosing their social skill . HI ,my name is siddharth gupta and i have shared my views about growing your personality and shared a few dating tips after carefully analysis of this field. thats my channel on dating tips | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dating tips by refined | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/elqlyt/dating_tips_by_refined/ |
newhelm | 2021-11-06 04:18:32 | 1,636,172,312 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qnslzn | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qnslzn/should_i_break_up_with_someone_i_love/ | 6 | So, my gf is absolutely amazing, and I literally cry thinking of how great she is and how much I care about her. She is without a doubt one of the greatest people I've ever met. I care and love this woman deeply. We met broken, I was going through divorce and change of job, she out of an abusive relationship. Met on ti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I break up with someone I love? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qnslzn/should_i_break_up_with_someone_i_love/ |
Rich-Crab-8729 | 2023-10-23 17:16:34 | 1,698,081,394 | 0 | null | 0 | 17epoj2 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17epoj2/you_know_whats_worse_than_getting_no_matches/ | 1 | Being love bombed/gaslighted by people into thinking they actually give 2 shits about you. 2nd girl in a row now. This sucks big time and I wish people ceased playing mind games and went straight to the point "I want LTR, but not right now", instead of dragging someone as a side jester. I'm aware this is also happening... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | You know what's worse than getting no matches? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17epoj2/you_know_whats_worse_than_getting_no_matches/ |
Theunlol | 2016-08-25 13:50:41 | 1,472,133,041 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 4ziksf | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4ziksf/amazing_first_date_scheduled_the_second_will_she/ | 4 | Hi All, So I (25M) had an amazing first date on last weekend with this girl (23F). We met on one of the more serious dating sites (think match/eharmony). We had dinner, went out for dessert at another place, walked around holding hands and soon after I went for the kiss. After that we kept walking around and kissing fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Amazing first date, scheduled the second. Will she flake? Help calm my anxiety? | 4 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4ziksf/amazing_first_date_scheduled_the_second_will_she/ |
boredasheck123 | 2024-06-24 23:52:53 | 1,719,273,173 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dns7fz | true | Question ❓ | 64 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dns7fz/is_it_wrong_that_i_dont_want_to_date_men_who_dont/ | 1 | Hey there! I'm very curious to know what you think about it. After meeting the last guy I (24F) had a romantic connection with, I feel like I've found my ideal type of man (physically) and I have a VERY hard time wanting to talk to men who don't meet those physical characteristics that attract me. This, in fact, leads ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it wrong that I don't want to date men who don't physically meet my expectations? | 1 | 0.51 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dns7fz/is_it_wrong_that_i_dont_want_to_date_men_who_dont/ |
cfc99 | 2023-03-08 22:57:04 | 1,678,316,224 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11mb1j8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11mb1j8/girl_is_very_into_me_but_i_dont_feel_the_same_way/ | 1 | So, I’ve (M23) recently been seeing this person (F21) and they’re quite into me, and I did quite like them, but I’m not sure if I feel the same way about it now. We’ve been talking since July/August 2022 but didn’t start seriously talking until maybe January this year. We met up in February and we met up again last wee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl is very into me, but I don’t feel the same way back | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11mb1j8/girl_is_very_into_me_but_i_dont_feel_the_same_way/ |
almondjoybar | 2023-07-19 23:12:51 | 1,689,808,371 | 0 | null | 0 | 154a40o | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/154a40o/texts_from_my_ex_gpt_relationship_analysis/ | 1 | Hi guys, we just launched this dating AI tool that analyzes your iMessage or WhatsApp conversations using ChatGP & gives super funny relationship insights - we are 4 right now on Product Hunt and would love get to 1 Product of the day so would LOOVE your support 💜 Try it out -- it'll give you a really funny analysis o... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Texts From My Ex - GPT Relationship Analysis | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/154a40o/texts_from_my_ex_gpt_relationship_analysis/ |
Anxiety_Throwaway94 | 2019-09-22 16:48:32 | 1,569,170,912 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d7t1b5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d7t1b5/girl_ive_been_dating_seems_to_be_losing_interest/ | 1 | Hi, Title explains it all really. I had been dating this girl for the past 2 months, been on a total of 5 dates and hung out together around 6-7 times, I have stayed over at her place, we've been intimate, had deep conversations etc and everything was honestly (in my eyes) going really well. We both would text daily an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I've been dating seems to be losing interest, texting less frequently - is there still hope? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d7t1b5/girl_ive_been_dating_seems_to_be_losing_interest/ |
vichussmith | 2018-02-27 17:03:14 | 1,519,750,994 | null | null | 0 | 80o1go | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/80o1go/watch_out_for_scam_on_pure_app/ | 6 | There are similar scams on other apps, but this is the first time I've encountered it on this one. I'm In NY. This girl is allegedly in Manhattan. She's asian, and she's pretty attractive. Luck! She chooses me, and we talk. It's a hookup app, but she's acting kinda shy, like she doesn't know that this is purely a hooku... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Watch out for scam on Pure app | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/80o1go/watch_out_for_scam_on_pure_app/ |
MFRobots | 2020-03-12 11:15:14 | 1,584,011,714 | null | null | 0 | fhepqt | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fhepqt/pof_goes_haywire_with_want_to_meet_you_messages/ | 4 | I have noticed, every time I log in and currently browsing POF...I get a constant influx of women wanting to "meet me" which of course triggers the having to PAY For a POF subscription. I wonder if POF is behind this and not just some typical scammer from NIgeria? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | POF goes haywire with "Want to meet you" messages | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fhepqt/pof_goes_haywire_with_want_to_meet_you_messages/ |
NannersBoy | 2023-07-24 13:15:19 | 1,690,204,519 | 0 | null | 0 | 158ae6c | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/158ae6c/should_i_like_my_exs_friend_on_facebook_dating/ | 1 | We dated 2 years is this girl fair game? She’s pretty hot and we always had a vibe | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I like my ex’s friend on Facebook dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/158ae6c/should_i_like_my_exs_friend_on_facebook_dating/ |
Butterscotch_love24 | 2021-01-02 12:42:37 | 1,609,591,357 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | kowwcx | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kowwcx/no_contact_after_amazing_first_date/ | 1 | Hi fellow daters, I’m not too sure why I’m taking this so hard. I had an amazing date with an OLD match a few days ago. I’m 32 (f) and he’s 30 (m), we were chatting every day non stop for two weeks before our first date. He is very similar to me in personality and incredibly intelligent, when we met in person we had an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | No contact after amazing first date? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kowwcx/no_contact_after_amazing_first_date/ |
alangq21 | 2021-03-06 23:21:34 | 1,615,072,894 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lzdu5t | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lzdu5t/want_to_start_a_conversation_with_someone_who/ | 2 | So basically this girl is on one of my classes and since we have to use the camera I saw her and the first impression was quite good. After a few weeks hearing her talking on the class she seems to be a very interesting girl. So what happens is that I need advice on how to start a conversation with her, since we don't ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Want to start a conversation with someone who doesn't know me (not on tinder or similar) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lzdu5t/want_to_start_a_conversation_with_someone_who/ |
heyitsmehere1 | 2023-09-11 14:26:45 | 1,694,442,405 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16fwoxo | true | null | 66 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/16fwoxo/the_girl_first_hurts_me_calling_me_tinder/ | 1 | Found a girl on tinder, she called me a tinder swindler, too gd to be true and wanted my full name and date of birth on the first day of chatting as she said she's got insecurities due to previous bad experiences, I told her I'll video call her later on but I got upset with what she said and told her we'll talk tomorro... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | The girl first hurts me calling me tinder swindler n too gd to be true then blocks me so what do I make of it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16fwoxo/the_girl_first_hurts_me_calling_me_tinder/ |
JustAThrowaway62 | 2021-01-14 17:47:46 | 1,610,646,466 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | kxan5l | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kxan5l/where_to_go_from_here/ | 2 | I want to preface this post with the statement that I'm not great at dating. I was a weird fat kid that didn't take care of himself and only made a real effort to fix those problems (successfully) in the last couple years, I'm picky too so I'm not interested in a lot of people. I've never been in a real relationship (u... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to go from here | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kxan5l/where_to_go_from_here/ |
Sunapr1 | 2023-10-11 17:02:03 | 1,697,043,723 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 175j43w | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/175j43w/i_am_introverted_and_try_to_be_a_lot_social_but/ | 1 | First of all I acknowledge that that there are too much posts on this subreddit regarding dating, but here me out because I want to know am I doing okay so far and what can I do more . I am 28th 2nd Year phd program and was very very introvert, until my early 20s until the covid hit and was packed back in my home with ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am introverted, and try to be a lot social but struggle with the cold approaching | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/175j43w/i_am_introverted_and_try_to_be_a_lot_social_but/ |
Deloadthekingxi | 2018-03-23 02:44:46 | 1,521,773,086 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 86hf79 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/86hf79/why_is_it_so_hard/ | 2 | Im a 20 yr old guy in Virginia beach and it is impossible to get anywhere ive tried dating sites and going places im not even picky i have no standards lol but i do love the thicc girls | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it so hard | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/86hf79/why_is_it_so_hard/ |
CuriousCarrot4 | 2022-07-30 16:47:12 | 1,659,199,632 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wc1sj1 | true | I Need Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wc1sj1/any_advice_for_the_first_date/ | 2 | I am a 23-year-old girl who has no experience in relationships and dating. There is a boy who asks for a date but I am afraid that I will make some mistakes. I met him via Tinder. Any good advice will be appreciated. 🙂 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any advice for the first date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wc1sj1/any_advice_for_the_first_date/ |
No-Possibility-TA | 2020-12-15 15:15:51 | 1,608,045,351 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | kdnid1 | true | Venting | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kdnid1/so_unlucky_lately/ | 2 | I’ve matched with so many women but it never goes anywhere. Why has having a conversation the most difficult aspect of trying to meet someone? As a male, I feel I have to take the lead in the courtship (whether it’s dating or just meeting someone). But the hardest part is understanding whether my efforts are being reci... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So Unlucky Lately | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kdnid1/so_unlucky_lately/ |
AyeAyeCaptain | 2019-06-10 22:31:46 | 1,560,205,906 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | bz4bok | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bz4bok/have_a_date_lined_up_this_saturdayneed_to_keep/ | 2 | Matched with a guy on Bumble and have a date lined up for Saturday. Do I keep the conversation going until then? Was thinking of reaching out mid-week to say hi and I'm totally over thinking this. Thoughts? We're both 39, one female and one male. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Have a date lined up this Saturday...need to keep the conversation going until then? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bz4bok/have_a_date_lined_up_this_saturdayneed_to_keep/ |
snappleluv | 2020-05-09 07:09:45 | 1,589,008,185 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ggatbm | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ggatbm/advice_for_a_hopeless_romantic/ | 1 | Soo I move around a lot and it's hard to keep up with dating apps. Anyways I swiped right on this guy and we matched back in Sept 19. He lived a few hours away from me and it wasn't feasible at the time to meet up. We have good chemistry over text and got to know each other pretty well. We still keep in touch periodica... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice for a hopeless romantic | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ggatbm/advice_for_a_hopeless_romantic/ |
wickedvideos | 2021-09-03 07:21:23 | 1,630,653,683 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ph09vd | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ph09vd/yall_think_a_girl_would_lose_interest_in_going_in/ | 3 | So this is my second attempt at setting up a date with a girl from bumble, she seems like she has a pretty high interest in me. But the first time she didn’t get back to me the day before we talked about doing something so I just assumed the plans were off. Hit her up again a week later and she asked for my snap and se... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Y’all think a girl would lose interest in going in a date after realizing I have a broken arm? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ph09vd/yall_think_a_girl_would_lose_interest_in_going_in/ |
throwawayghost1112 | 2020-07-13 19:21:52 | 1,594,668,112 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | hqluez | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hqluez/am_i_25m_treating_her_22f_fairly/ | 0 | We matched on OKCupid and immediately I was engaged. She's my kind of nerdy, real cute and full of charisma. She's putting as much effort into the conversation as I am, things are awesome Two days into talking, she tells me that she just got out of a four year relationship with someone (her first relationship) and they... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I (25M) treating her (22F) fairly? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hqluez/am_i_25m_treating_her_22f_fairly/ |
PenRoyal6255 | 2024-02-02 00:31:24 | 1,706,833,884 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1agqfuu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1agqfuu/mixed_signals/ | 2 | Matched with this boy (23M) on tinder before Christmas, we got talking and he told me he wanted to take me (23F) on a date. I was going away for Christmas to see my family so wasn't going to be back until after so we couldn't do anything until after then. We were messaging everyday, seemed to get on well. Once I was ba... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Mixed signals | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1agqfuu/mixed_signals/ |
___mouse | 2019-12-24 13:10:09 | 1,577,193,009 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | ef15yx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ef15yx/how_do_i_even_start_dating_again/ | 2 | So I broke up with my ex about 7 weeks ago and I feel like I’m ready to throw myself out there. I’m currently on OLD sites such as tinder and POF but either get ghosted or they’re after one thing. I’d love to meet someone in person but I don’t even know how to begin that. How do I avoid getting ghosted and actually mee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I even start dating again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ef15yx/how_do_i_even_start_dating_again/ |
Lynne1996 | 2020-01-18 13:10:44 | 1,579,353,044 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eqg7ju | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eqg7ju/any_tinder_date_success_stories/ | 6 | Out of curiosity, does anyone have any online success stories? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any Tinder date success stories? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eqg7ju/any_tinder_date_success_stories/ |
gwhh | 2018-04-01 16:00:23 | 1,522,598,423 | 0 | null | 0 | 88rsd5 | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/88rsd5/what_companies_do_a_good_job_building_a_real/ | 3 | I am not too good about talking about myself and my grammar skills are poor. I just recently found out you can have a company redo your on-line dating profile for you. I have looked at several of them. They seem to be over priced and under deliver for your money. Anyone ever used any of these services (what type of res... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What companies do a good job building a real profile for you? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/88rsd5/what_companies_do_a_good_job_building_a_real/ |
AmbitionDesigner540 | 2024-01-16 05:46:30 | 1,705,383,990 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 197vf98 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/197vf98/not_sure_of_what_i_want/ | 2 | I am a 45 year old woman from Chennai, India. I work as a content marketer for a IT org. And I have a 17 year old son. I lost my dear husband to covid in April 2021. I am still coping but kind of hitting normalcy now. While am actively grieving am also living actively. I have that need to connect to someone emotionally... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not sure of what I want | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/197vf98/not_sure_of_what_i_want/ |
Key-Ad6154 | 2024-01-03 14:04:07 | 1,704,290,647 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 18xk51t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18xk51t/went_on_3_dates_with_a_guy_but_thing_fizzled_out/ | 1 | I'm (24F) fairly new to online dating and dating in general, so I'm trying to learn through this experience. Apology in advance for the lenhy story-telling. Met a guy (27) on dating app, had a pretty good conversation on app (exchanging paragraphs) which led to a decent first date. It was platonic, and he didn't try to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went on 3 dates with a guy but thing fizzled out. Is it because I didn't show enough interest? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18xk51t/went_on_3_dates_with_a_guy_but_thing_fizzled_out/ |
Pomeranian111 | 2024-03-08 18:14:24 | 1,709,921,664 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b9uybx | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b9uybx/saying_youre_a_virgin_on_dating_apps_but_playing/ | 1 | Not sure if that's a good strategy or not, instead of fooling someone or hoping they don't ask about it in general. Everything I've heard about dating is Men should be confident about everything, so why feel the need to disclose this info? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Saying you're a virgin on dating apps, but playing it off confidently? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b9uybx/saying_youre_a_virgin_on_dating_apps_but_playing/ |
[deleted] | 2017-01-01 02:46:16 | 1,483,238,776 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5ld5ud | null | null | 29 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5ld5ud/35f_feeling_pretty_bummed_this_nye_i_had_a_great/ | 5 | He responded 'hahahahaha and you're welcome ;)'. Somehow after that text I knew in my gut I wouldn't see him again. After not hearing from him at all- and after reading and ignoring Reddit posts that said to wait 72 hours before being considered ghosted- I checked tinder and he had unmatched me. So I sent him another t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | (35F) Feeling pretty bummed this NYE. I had a great afternoon date yesterday. I text him a couple hours after saying thank you for the drinks and for meeting me. And added in how I jinxed myself talking about my coat zipper getting stuck because it happened when I got home... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5ld5ud/35f_feeling_pretty_bummed_this_nye_i_had_a_great/ |
[deleted] | 2020-05-06 23:39:48 | 1,588,808,388 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | gevd1r | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gevd1r/do_i_have_a_still_shot_with_her_or_not/ | 1 | Kinda a long story, and I know these probably get thrown in here a ton, so sorry if you've seen enough of these. I met this girl on a dating app and ended up getting her Snapchat. We started texting on Snapchat and shortly after I asked her on a date (doing something that she said she liked). I got a "maybe, but I want... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I have a still shot with her or not? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gevd1r/do_i_have_a_still_shot_with_her_or_not/ |
doriangraiy | 2023-12-07 15:31:46 | 1,701,963,106 | 0 | null | 0 | 18cy470 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18cy470/is_your_anniversary_the_day_you_started/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is your anniversary the day you started talking/match or the day you first meet IRL? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18cy470/is_your_anniversary_the_day_you_started/ |
ashu1605 | 2024-09-27 14:05:52 | 1,727,445,952 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fqoj90 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fqoj90/what_sort_of_hobbies_and_communities_have/ | 0 | Sometimes I feel pretty isolated as an introvert and while I push myself to improve on my own, it's hard finding romantic people who are committed to improving themselves to the best version that they can be. I'm only 21 but whenever I interact with most people my age, they seem to be extremely complicit in being subop... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What sort of hobbies and communities have intelligent woman? Not specifically book smart or emotional intelligence, but a high capacity to grow and improve as a human being in all aspects. | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fqoj90/what_sort_of_hobbies_and_communities_have/ |
liverstews | 2020-04-07 07:14:06 | 1,586,243,646 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fwg0yi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fwg0yi/is_he_planning_to_cheat_or_just_making_drunk/ | 1 | my boyfriend(22M) and I (20F) have been dating for four months now. For the past 2 weeks something has been off. first off some backstory, he has kind of an angry drinking problem and will sometimes start fights with me when he’s drinking. prior to our relationship he lived in texas while i lived in oklahoma and he mad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he planning to cheat or just making drunk decisions? (long read im sry pls help) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fwg0yi/is_he_planning_to_cheat_or_just_making_drunk/ |
DandyDan2 | 2022-09-20 19:01:44 | 1,663,700,504 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xjhd4s | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 54 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xjhd4s/stop_posting_pictures_w_masks_on/ | 160 | This is honestly getting so ridiculous, so many of the people on dating apps have pictures of them in masks which is fine if you have other pictures showing a clear face but literally some people have only pictures of them in masks AND sunglasses on. Dating apps should automatically ban these photos. Rant over | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Stop posting pictures w/ masks on | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xjhd4s/stop_posting_pictures_w_masks_on/ |
Fancy-Fly1727 | 2024-01-23 05:22:05 | 1,705,987,325 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 19dgxqe | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19dgxqe/confused_about_my_dating_goals/ | 1 | I'm a 30 yr old man but inexperienced (never dated, never had a relationship, etc.) And there's moments in my life where I wanted to go out on dates to eventually meet someone to start a relationship with. But at the same time, I'm very introverted with low functioning autism so being social and catching social cues ar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused about my dating goals | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19dgxqe/confused_about_my_dating_goals/ |
zheshizhongwen | 2022-06-07 23:41:33 | 1,654,645,293 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | v7b9mx | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/v7b9mx/feel_like_dont_belong_anywhere_as_a_woman/ | 20 | (English is not my first language, please excuse my errors) Brief background: I am a Chinese with different political opinions from the government, which means I could easily be arrested in my country, even if I post shit online :D I also have a terrible relationship with my parents, especially since my grandfather pas... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Feel like don't belong anywhere as a woman | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/v7b9mx/feel_like_dont_belong_anywhere_as_a_woman/ |
AltMatrixs | 2021-05-09 13:18:58 | 1,620,566,338 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | n8e3g3 | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/n8e3g3/31_m_hinge_profile_review/ | 18 | Was wondering if I can get a review of my pics, and profile. Joined last Monday, and no matches yet. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | [31 M] Hinge Profile Review! | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n8e3g3/31_m_hinge_profile_review/ |
Dallascaligirl21 | 2023-09-06 04:12:51 | 1,693,973,571 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16ba7yy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16ba7yy/needing_to_explore_my_sexuality/ | 1 | I’m a 26f and I have only ever been with men, and to be honest I have never really enjoyed sex and penetration, I have had my fair share of experiences to know that even with a great experience that i just don’t enjoy it or seek it out. For example, currently I haven’t had any sexual intercourse in about a year and a h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Needing to explore my sexuality | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16ba7yy/needing_to_explore_my_sexuality/ |
DueMacaron7789 | 2021-10-12 22:10:28 | 1,634,076,628 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | q6wyhs | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q6wyhs/back_into_dating_after_awhile/ | 0 | So I am in my early 30s and have tried to start dating again by online dating in the past year. My life with dating has not always been easy. I have never had ridiculous standards for men. All I have ever wanted in a man was that I was attracted to him, he had goals and was career oriented, not messy, sexual Chemistry,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Back into dating after awhile | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q6wyhs/back_into_dating_after_awhile/ |
Resident-Law-6719 | 2022-07-07 09:36:20 | 1,657,186,580 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | vtenjg | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vtenjg/i_matched_with_this_girl_but_i_dont_know_what_to/ | 1 | So i (28M) matched with this girl (26F) on Tinder. We had some cool things in common and talked for a while, but here is the thing. Years ago i went out with a girl who posted pics and she seemed to be a normal weight person but turns out she showed up to out date and she was REALLY different from the pics. I had the d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I matched with this girl but i dont know what to do now with her lack of full body pics | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vtenjg/i_matched_with_this_girl_but_i_dont_know_what_to/ |
Devin-Chaboyer223 | 2023-11-30 10:39:14 | 1,701,340,754 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 187fnbz | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/187fnbz/how_am_i_supposed_to_date_and_why_have_i_never/ | 1 | I (20M) have never been in a relationship and a virgin, and I've never had luck with women &x200B; I have tried asking out my highschool crush back in grade 9, that ended with rejection and me being emotionally devastated, and I haven't asked anyone out since, girls in highschool never showed any intrest in me whatsoev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how am I supposed to date and why have I never had any luck with women? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/187fnbz/how_am_i_supposed_to_date_and_why_have_i_never/ |
[deleted] | 2012-08-10 01:59:40 | 1,344,563,980 | 1 | ['online dating'] | null | xz2o8 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/xz2o8/shy_guy_here_going_on_a_first_date_after_some/ | 2 | Hi guys, I'm a 26 (M). I've only ever been in 1 proper relationship which lasted 7 years (Ended it a little over a year ago) and I haven't really been on any dates since. I'm ready to get back out there, I've been doing some online dating recently and found 2 girls that seem pretty cool.... One of them wants to meet up... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shy guy here, going on a first date after some online dating.. Need some tips! | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xz2o8/shy_guy_here_going_on_a_first_date_after_some/ |
shitepool666 | 2021-11-29 14:53:32 | 1,638,197,612 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r4xig6 | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r4xig6/meeting_people_without_dating_apps/ | 36 | This one might sound silly. I’m 25 and recently deleted all of my dating apps as they just seem way more toxic and superficial the older I get. So basically I gotta meet people in person now which is gonna be hard. One because most of my friends are married / partnered and don’t really like to go out much and those tha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting people without dating apps? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r4xig6/meeting_people_without_dating_apps/ |
lemlemsabi | 2023-12-22 16:33:31 | 1,703,262,811 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18oixq7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18oixq7/the_guy_im_talking_to_keeps_hinting_toward_sexfwb/ | 2 | For context: I have never dated nor had relationships with anybody my whole life but since entering university, I wanted to know what it's like to be in a relationship so I have been on dating apps. and recently, I have started talking to a guy. However, I think he has a different expectation/ view on a casual relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The guy I'm talking to keeps hinting toward sex/FWB relationship | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18oixq7/the_guy_im_talking_to_keeps_hinting_toward_sexfwb/ |
American_viking91 | 2020-09-04 01:04:47 | 1,599,181,487 | null | null | 0 | im6ajo | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/im6ajo/how_to_converse/ | 2 | I'm just getting back in the dating scene after 5 years. I tried a couple dating apps earlier this year, since its pretty much the only option with covid, but I'm having a lot of issues talking to people once I match with them. I never know how to talk to strangers without being face to face with them, which makes it r... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to converse | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/im6ajo/how_to_converse/ |
franckJPLF | 2022-11-05 12:24:02 | 1,667,651,042 | null | null | 0 | ymsh7s | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ymsh7s/serious_question_here_how_do_you_make_it_easier/ | 0 | Edit: wasn’t clear enough but the question is about finding/filtering out before matches. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Serious question here: how do you make it easier to find a GF who likes anal sex without turning off all potential matches? | null | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ymsh7s/serious_question_here_how_do_you_make_it_easier/ |
Alarming-Introvert44 | 2024-01-10 05:12:01 | 1,704,863,521 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1930dky | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1930dky/guy_who_keeps_postponing_date_matched_with_me_on/ | 1 | I met a guy through hinge, we went on 3 dates and ended up having sex. Since then we haven't seen each other in over a month because we've postponed our date 4 times - only once was because of me when i was sick. The 4th time he asked me to reschedule was almost a week ago and he hasn't followed up with a new date. His... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy who keeps postponing date matched with me on tinder | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1930dky/guy_who_keeps_postponing_date_matched_with_me_on/ |
sikadelicsexfunk_90 | 2020-12-13 21:18:25 | 1,607,894,305 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | kcj0yc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kcj0yc/why_do_people_date_when_theyre_not_ready_great/ | 0 | Sorry for the long post... I (29M) Met a girl (28) on an app, and we got on really well straight away. She declined my asking for her number as she wanted to ‘feel me out’ for a bit. We had a few chats about things that were important to her, after which she gave me her number. I said hello on WhatsApp then called it a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do people date when they’re ‘not ready’?? Great first date/ rejected after. Bit of a rant/ could use words of encouragement... | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kcj0yc/why_do_people_date_when_theyre_not_ready_great/ |
TintinDansLaBoue | 2022-01-28 10:50:19 | 1,643,367,019 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | seo3gf | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/seo3gf/taking_our_time/ | 0 | I(22M) met a nice girl(20) on tinder from my city. To begin I’m really happy about that because I haven’t dated anybody for a long time and wasn’t really confortable about it.I had problems of attachment with previous girls because I always rushed everything and have never stayed in a relationship more than a month. We... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Taking our time | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/seo3gf/taking_our_time/ |
PossibilityNo6286 | 2021-08-13 23:36:11 | 1,628,897,771 | null | ['dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | p3wxou | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/p3wxou/how_do_women_feel_if_they_find_a_transgender/ | 0 | I suppose I should clarify and ask how do cisgendered women feel about finding a transgender woman in a women seeking women search filter of a dating site or app? This seems like it should be acceptable but I wonder if it is in actuality. Edit\ I worded that poorly. I 'm not trying to broadly generalize all women, I wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do women feel if they find a transgender female in the "women seeking women" section of a dating app/site? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p3wxou/how_do_women_feel_if_they_find_a_transgender/ |
bored8999 | 2024-06-22 14:54:35 | 1,719,068,075 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dlxgoa | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dlxgoa/if_you_have_contacted_hinge_support_how_long_did/ | 3 | I’ve had the issue where I was banned and unbanned after deleting and creating my account straight away. Since being unbanned I’ve been seeing the same profiles every day and I get a few likes once every two weeks which was completely different before I was banned. I’ve been contacting the support but no response. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you have contacted Hinge support, how long did they take to get back to you or did they ever reply to you? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dlxgoa/if_you_have_contacted_hinge_support_how_long_did/ |
Affiliate1646 | 2021-11-15 09:40:58 | 1,636,969,258 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qucsmy | true | Support Needed | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qucsmy/i_am_finally_burnt_out_from_dating_and_this_is/ | 18 | I have not really experienced this before. Nobody probably remembers my username on here, but I've posted a few periodic "rants" here (and in other places) after having the feels due to some fails, and taking a break, sometimes feeling like giving up and mentioning that in the post. Those breaks ended up only being a c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am finally burnt out from dating, and this is... interesting. | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qucsmy/i_am_finally_burnt_out_from_dating_and_this_is/ |
SherlockFoxx | 2019-03-20 18:34:42 | 1,553,106,882 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | b3fm3t | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b3fm3t/30m_seeking_advice_as_i_get_back_to_dating_after/ | 1 | Hello, after many toxic soul crushing relationships I took a break, kinda decided I needed to get my shiite together, went back to school for engineering (4 weeks to graduate) figured out what I want to do with my life, pay off debt (almost got enough saved for my own place), and kinda reflect personally to figure out ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 30(M) Seeking advice as I get back to dating after a few years. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b3fm3t/30m_seeking_advice_as_i_get_back_to_dating_after/ |
Clear_Life7885 | 2024-02-22 04:54:38 | 1,708,577,678 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1awxx40 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1awxx40/fk_love_i_want_lovei_love_love/ | 7 | I love hard and my heart has been mended by God far more than I can count. My heart hasn’t grown cold or hardened gratefully . Damn dirty thirty is vastly approaching will my husband find me? I long for the kiss that awaits when you get in from work. want to cook for you , lay your pajamas out for you. When you get hom... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | F^k Love/ I want love/I love LOVE | 6 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1awxx40/fk_love_i_want_lovei_love_love/ |
Excellent-Fee-7514 | 2023-09-20 06:26:12 | 1,695,191,172 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16ndyvk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16ndyvk/the_guy_im_dating_is_still_seeing_his_ex/ | 1 | I met (let’s call him) “John” on hinge about two and a half months ago. We’ve been on a date four times. The most recent one, we had such a good time. We had dinner, went to a bar and then went back to his place. We’ve had sex three times before but I never slept over. This time I did and everything was fine. He made m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The guy I’m dating is still seeing his ex | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ndyvk/the_guy_im_dating_is_still_seeing_his_ex/ |
LemonyArtist | 2015-04-28 17:32:18 | 1,430,242,338 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 346che | null | null | 6 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/346che/help_me_be_less_of_a_bitchgain_patience/ | 0 | Yo Tl;dr, I get increasingly frustrated with my friends for doing stupid shit, and then treat them badly (not on purpose, just with looks, body language, etc), and when they ask me for advice and NOT do what I suggested, and then come back to me for advice, I get real fucking annoyed. Examples: 1) Buddy of mine (closet... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Help me be less of a bitch/gain patience? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/346che/help_me_be_less_of_a_bitchgain_patience/ |
Yety2010 | 2019-11-02 07:11:14 | 1,572,678,674 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dqgvlf | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dqgvlf/tinder_date_went_well_but_hes_losing_interest/ | 1 | Matched with a guy on tinder (me F, both 29). Texted for a about a month before we met up about several deep and important topics and exchanged song and movie recommendations. Second date started to get physical, I initiated making out. This was his first time in a while getting physical with someone. I thought he was ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder date went well, but he’s losing interest | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dqgvlf/tinder_date_went_well_but_hes_losing_interest/ |
Glittering-Lead-007 | 2023-08-24 06:40:16 | 1,692,859,216 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15ztu8u | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15ztu8u/how_do_i_meet_a_guy_if_i_cant_do_online_dating/ | 1 | Are there ANY other options? I make a dating profile but I delete it after 2 days, every time. I don’t know how to meet someone. | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How do I meet a guy if I can’t do online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15ztu8u/how_do_i_meet_a_guy_if_i_cant_do_online_dating/ |
LotusLen | 2023-09-08 23:03:54 | 1,694,214,234 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16dp94q | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16dp94q/he_saying_that_he_likes_me_a_lot_but_doesnt_want/ | 1 | I have met a guy on a dating app. We hit on, move in together, traveled together overseas, did everything. And he said that he likes me so much but he doesn’t want to date me. He is not the only one doing something like this to me. Almost all the guys I have dated said the similar things: you are really good, but I don... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He saying that he likes me a lot but doesn’t want to commit | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16dp94q/he_saying_that_he_likes_me_a_lot_but_doesnt_want/ |
advwench | 2017-01-01 14:17:09 | 1,483,280,229 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5lfadl | null | null | 21 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5lfadl/nye_first_date_didnt_crash_and_burn/ | 22 | I started talking to someone on OkCupid mid-week and since neither of us had plans for last night we decided to take a chance and have our first date on New Year's Eve. We figured regardless of whether it was good or failed spectacularly, we'd have a story to tell afterward. There was a street party/mini ball drop in a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | NYE first date didn't crash and burn | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5lfadl/nye_first_date_didnt_crash_and_burn/ |
Main_Jerry | 2024-03-13 02:32:52 | 1,710,297,172 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'badoo'] | 0 | 1bdga00 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bdga00/33m_cant_land_a_date/ | 3 | Where to start... TLDR alert Been alone for almost 7 years after my (only) ex ditched me to hang with women instead, she's a fully committed lesbian now it seems. I've had a very rough time recovering from that break up, thought about becoming a statistic but ended up in therapy for 6 months. Between 2017 and now, I've... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 33M can't land a date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bdga00/33m_cant_land_a_date/ |
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