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TigerAgreeable6809
2021-03-21 11:00:04
1,616,324,404
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['tinder']
0
m9ubu7
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/m9ubu7/help_the_being_a_nice_guy_dilema/
1
Ok, so before anything i would like to say that where i live is going to be in a lockdown situation pretty much the whole year. Im 27, male. That being said, flirting is going to be through Tinder, talking on instagram DM's and online talk only. No parties, college or clubs involved in my post. Im in a fine body, i can...
dating
t5_2qhb1
HELP: The "being a nice guy" dilema
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m9ubu7/help_the_being_a_nice_guy_dilema/
simha41992
2015-07-27 03:39:56
1,437,968,396
0
['tinder']
0
3eqd22
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3eqd22/m23_talking_to_a_f21_havent_dated_anyone_in_a/
2
Hi everyone, I just recently started talking to this girl I met from Tinder. We had an instant connection, made out, had a blast and I went on 2 dates with her and like 3 casual hangout with friends all within a matter of a week. I've met her friends and she met mine and we spent a lot of time together. This weekend we...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[M23] talking to a [F21]. Haven't dated anyone in a while and can't get her out of my head.
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3eqd22/m23_talking_to_a_f21_havent_dated_anyone_in_a/
Over-Example-1341
2021-12-23 10:47:49
1,640,256,469
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
rmt2zo
true
I Need Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/rmt2zo/i_met_this_girl_i_have_great_chemistry_with_today/
0
I[15M] met this girl [17F] today. We matched on Tinder and we called and played Roblox. She was on there out of boredom, I was on there to find a guitar player for my orchestra (long story.) We ended up matching and she had something about Roblox in her bio. We called and played and it turns out both of us are still in...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I met this girl I have great chemistry with today. Should I ask her out on a date?
null
0.43
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rmt2zo/i_met_this_girl_i_have_great_chemistry_with_today/
Initializee
2019-09-14 21:35:34
1,568,496,934
null
['bumble']
0
d4behi
true
Tinder/Online Dating
9
0
/r/dating/comments/d4behi/date_unmatched_with_me_after_we_scheduled_to_meet/
3
Met this girl on bumble and it seemed like we had a lot in common. We both want a long-term relationship and are looking for something serious. She said all the usual stuff, she was tired of meeting guys only looking to hook up and blah, blah, blah. Well, I log back onto that now and she has unmatched me. Luckily I did...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Date unmatched with me after we scheduled to meet me in two hours
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d4behi/date_unmatched_with_me_after_we_scheduled_to_meet/
iampretzel
2022-01-06 05:10:43
1,641,445,843
null
['OLD']
0
rx6bsf
true
null
42
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/rx6bsf/how_to_deal_with_kinks_as_a_very_inexperienced/
26
This is kind of a tricky situation for me and I don't know how to navigate through. I was hoping I can get some insight from this community. I just started to slowly warm up to the idea of going back to OLD after a bit if a hiatus. The first guy I was chatting with seemed sweet, no hi or hello and started off with a go...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
how to deal with kinks as a very inexperienced person?
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/rx6bsf/how_to_deal_with_kinks_as_a_very_inexperienced/
dromance
2017-09-12 17:18:56
1,505,236,736
null
['tinder']
0
6zoerd
false
null
22
0
/r/dating/comments/6zoerd/my_ex_girlfriend_i_cheated_on_had_lied_to_me/
0
FYI see my post history I cheated on my GF. We brokeup. she made me feel like shit. I tried to get her back, didn't succeed. I decided to go on tinder. Low and behold, I came across her profile. Which is fine, because we are broken up...but then I noticed one of her photos was from while we were dating. She contacted m...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My ex girlfriend I cheated on had lied to me about using Tinder all along...is it safe to say she lied about more, too?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6zoerd/my_ex_girlfriend_i_cheated_on_had_lied_to_me/
Not_Main_Account_69
2020-10-22 08:57:47
1,603,357,067
null
['matched', 'OLD']
0
jfw3vn
true
null
43
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jfw3vn/discussion_topic_humor_old/
1
What are your thoughts about dating profiles that say they are looking for someone with a sense of humor? Are there people who don’t like humor? What do you think it means to have a sense of humor? Do you ever feel that humor is more subjective than we treat it? How much of a part does compatibility play? Are we puttin...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Discussion topic: Humor and OLD
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jfw3vn/discussion_topic_humor_old/
sweatydenny
2017-11-12 20:44:05
1,510,519,445
null
['tinder']
0
7chz4x
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7chz4x/opinions_on_dating_someone_who_looks_similar_to/
1
I've been out with this guy from tinder twice now and didn't really think anything would come out of it, but we hit it off Really well. However I notice something about him maybe his love for computers or his glasses that reminds me of my ex. My ex was/is an asshole and I really like this guy. and I'm not going for him...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Opinions on dating someone who looks similar to an ex.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7chz4x/opinions_on_dating_someone_who_looks_similar_to/
NeroMc
2020-02-14 22:11:43
1,581,718,303
null
['tinder']
0
f3zqn8
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f3zqn8/any_recommendations_on_a_decent_app_to_meet_new/
1
Hi peeps, So I've tried tinder but it's literally pay to do anything plus half of the people are not even active (I believe). Can anyone recommend me any application (like tinder but better)? I am simply looking to meeting new people, have fun, go out and party. Thanks guys, appreciate any input on this.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any recommendations on a decent app to meet new people (UK based)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f3zqn8/any_recommendations_on_a_decent_app_to_meet_new/
Revotur
2023-05-31 18:26:56
1,685,557,616
0
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
13wtyf7
true
Success Story 🎉
1
0
/r/dating/comments/13wtyf7/the_unlikely_connection/
2
I'd just signed up for Cupid Hive, not expecting much. I'd been through the mill with dating apps and wasn't holding out much hope. Then, I matched with this beautiful woman, Sarah. I was a bit intimidated by her profile—she was stunning and had an impressive job in finance. But we started chatting, and soon I was surp...
dating
t5_2qhb1
The Unlikely Connection
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13wtyf7/the_unlikely_connection/
mildlypanicking
2015-08-08 22:19:34
1,439,072,374
0
['tinder']
0
3gackp
null
null
4
null
/r/dating/comments/3gackp/i_fear_hes_pulling_the_fade_and_im_really_sad/
5
So I met a guy on Monday on Tinder, he was very cute and funny so I gave him my number. We've been texting and snapping pretty much non stop until yesterday. He's been travelling for weddings all month and went down to Houston (I'm in Dallas) on Th afternoon. The texts were less frequent yesterday and not as flirty or ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I fear he's pulling the fade and I'm really sad about it
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3gackp/i_fear_hes_pulling_the_fade_and_im_really_sad/
mitsuha2015
2024-05-25 21:42:03
1,716,673,323
0
['hinge']
0
1d0mayz
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0mayz/should_i_reach_out_to_my_ex/
1
My ex and I broke up April 1 and it was a mutual break up. I’m 20 F and he’s 21 M. We were only together for 3 and a half months officially. Our break up wasn’t because of a fight or anything toxic in the relationship but we both felt that we were not right for each other. Before we finally broke off we have already ta...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I reach out to my ex?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0mayz/should_i_reach_out_to_my_ex/
Unable_Pie_1770
2021-12-19 16:04:07
1,639,929,847
null
['bumble']
0
rjzoei
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/rjzoei/how_would_you_react_if_your_date_messaged_i_also/
0
tl;dr : Guy I have been seeing messaged one of my girl friend's saying "I also want to come" in response to her story at a bar. The night I had introduced to her over drinks, he had only spoken to her. And later kept teasing me with her name. longer version: been seeing this guy for a month, slept over at his place for...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How would you react if your date messaged "I also want to come" to your girl friend's story at a bar?
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rjzoei/how_would_you_react_if_your_date_messaged_i_also/
Fast-Ear-542
2024-03-25 16:40:39
1,711,384,839
0
['swiping', 'bumble']
0
1bni8qq
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bni8qq/winning/
1
I dated a woman a while back, 31YO really pretty, has an 11 year old son. Super crazy woman but I didn’t know it at the time. Started out good until a month and a half in when she asked if she got pregnant would I marry her… then she based the entirety of the relationship on my hesitancy to answer. I let that slide and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
winning
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bni8qq/winning/
MisterNappa
2020-07-12 16:26:07
1,594,571,167
null
['online dating']
0
hpx5l2
true
null
8
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hpx5l2/looking_for_advice/
1
I'm not much of a reddit person but I'm looking for advice of sorts. A little background on me, I'm a 32M who has a hard time with the dating scene. I'm a bit of an awkward nerd, and tend to have a bit social anxiety when I'm talking to women I'm attracted to, but in normal conversation with everyone else I do fine. I'...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Looking for advice
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hpx5l2/looking_for_advice/
[deleted]
2014-10-17 16:36:53
1,413,563,813
0
['tinder']
0
2jj2ky
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2jj2ky/any_chance_i_can_get_this_girl_back_26m/
1
Hi It's probably ridiculous that I'm even posting this, but here we go. I met this girl on Tinder back in April and she broke it off at the end of July. I believe that the reason for the problems we had were not incompatibility with us but because of enormous stress I was having from work which turned me really moody a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any chance I can get this girl back? (26M)
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2jj2ky/any_chance_i_can_get_this_girl_back_26m/
computerlovepodcast
2021-09-02 13:40:29
1,630,590,029
null
null
0
pgi3xo
true
null
3
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/pgi3xo/from_tinder_to_engagement_to_marriage_one_day/
1
The Journey is just beginning, its not all roses, but it does seem to be possible. Just sharing some positivity this morning.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
From Tinder To Engagement to Marriage one day hopefully
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pgi3xo/from_tinder_to_engagement_to_marriage_one_day/
AndreeSmothers
2023-11-15 16:58:44
1,700,067,524
0
null
0
17vy184
true
null
3
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17vy184/dating_sites/
6
What dating sites are the best for finding soulmate from Russia or Ukraine? I want to find serious girls ready and settle if this goes well. Any suggestion?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Dating Sites
6
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17vy184/dating_sites/
bloodygood91
2017-07-06 16:07:32
1,499,357,252
null
['dating app']
0
6lmr36
null
null
6
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6lmr36/how_long_should_i_wait_to_tell_her_i_love_her/
0
I met this woman recently on the Clover dating app. I messaged her, we started talking, hit it off, started talking on the phone, and then met in person on 4th of July weekend for a weekend date. The weekend was a great success and I'm going back to see her again in a couple days. I already have the feeling in my heart...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How long should I wait to tell her I love her?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6lmr36/how_long_should_i_wait_to_tell_her_i_love_her/
coyoteeasy
2024-08-09 18:50:57
1,723,229,457
0
['dating apps']
0
1eo7q5b
true
null
4
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eo7q5b/is_it_mean_to_mess_with_guys_on_dating_apps/
0
and i dont mean playing with their feelings or lie and say i think they're attractive but i guess i'll say really weird things or flirt but its all in fun, i dont take it serious. i try not to do it to the men that specifically say their looking for a serious relationship. but i'll send guys weird memes if the app allo...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
is it mean to mess with guys on dating apps?
0
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eo7q5b/is_it_mean_to_mess_with_guys_on_dating_apps/
KrypekGaming
2021-08-06 11:58:41
1,628,251,121
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
oz5650
true
Tinder/Online Dating
3
0
/r/dating/comments/oz5650/i_wanna_be_like_a_dad_joke_i_wanna_be_come/
0
Hey, sorry for the corny joke but I’m seriously tired of wasting my time on tinder or bumble If there any females interested in a 25 year old Hispanic male from eastern Us please feel free to comment haha or just be my friend and we can meme and have a good time
dating
t5_2qhb1
I wanna be like a dad joke! I wanna be come Apparent
null
0.43
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oz5650/i_wanna_be_like_a_dad_joke_i_wanna_be_come/
butterbeansmom
2022-02-06 23:34:18
1,644,190,458
null
['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
smb3ni
true
null
65
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/smb3ni/deleted_another_dating_app_today/
68
So, I have been on and off dating apps for about a year now. Divorced for two. I will receive matches, message back and forth a couple times and then nothing.. I will randomly get someone to chat with that eventually lead to finding red flags or things that would not make us a good fit. I have only met a few in person ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Deleted another dating app today
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/smb3ni/deleted_another_dating_app_today/
lazytej
2024-03-08 18:23:13
1,709,922,193
0
['bumble']
0
1b9v6nl
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b9v6nl/amia_for_ignoring_a_girl_who_i_think_liked_me/
1
I am a 23 year old guy who has a pretty busy life for context i am a lawyer, i had been talking to a girl whom i met on bumble, same age as me and pretty work oriented as well, just like me. Ive had terrible relationships in the past and i had mentioned that i wish for things to be platonic for now and even she wanted ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
AMIA for ignoring a girl who i think liked me.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b9v6nl/amia_for_ignoring_a_girl_who_i_think_liked_me/
Venting_about_dating
2017-12-27 22:58:19
1,514,415,499
null
['dating sites']
0
7mihxw
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7mihxw/ventingneed_advice_how_do_you_date_girl_gamers/
0
Short info about myself: My job involes a decent bit of acting and working with people all day. So when I (male, 23) have nothing planned and go home, I cook and then play online games to relax. I've been single for 5 months and recently 2 of the girls (both 20) I was interested in were pretty big nerds / gamers from d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Venting/Need advice: How do you date girl gamers?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mihxw/ventingneed_advice_how_do_you_date_girl_gamers/
TheCarbageGan
2020-09-08 03:09:02
1,599,534,542
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
iom0gi
true
null
42
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iom0gi/should_i_give_him_a_chance_and_meet_in_person_or/
1
Briefly I am a 35F and matched with a 31M on a dating app. Definitely an attractive guy and is passionate about his career, which is something that's big for me. We spoke over the phone and there were a few things that concerned/annoyed me: -He does these verbal impressions of different accents (racial and otherwise) I...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Should I give him a chance and meet in person? Or cut my losses now?
null
0.55
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iom0gi/should_i_give_him_a_chance_and_meet_in_person_or/
malynorbi
2024-08-15 22:26:21
1,723,760,781
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1et8fmg
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1et8fmg/do_i_leave_or_stay_weirdest_friendzone_ever/
0
Hey I'm jan [M21] and this is my story... 2 years ago I had a tinder mostly for fun with friends... I had a surgery one day and while laying in the hospital I matched probably the most beautiful girl(1) (I'm bodybuilder and she was into fitness as well which helped it a ton) but her face was so angel-ish and her eyes w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Do I leave or Stay? Weirdest friendzone ever...
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1et8fmg/do_i_leave_or_stay_weirdest_friendzone_ever/
ThrowAwaytheCJ
2018-12-12 05:02:53
1,544,590,973
null
['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
a5f0hl
true
Question
11
0
/r/dating/comments/a5f0hl/why_has_dating_become_more_difficult/
5
It seems with multiple things added up such as the rise of dating apps, the metoo movement, and the fact that social media and technology in general have made people of a younger generation seem to not go outside as much, and smaller social circles- that dating has became more difficult within lets say...the past two y...
dating
t5_2qhb1
[Why] Has Dating Become More Difficult?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a5f0hl/why_has_dating_become_more_difficult/
Ya_boi_cringeface
2023-07-18 04:31:41
1,689,654,701
0
['dating apps']
0
152o97j
false
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/152o97j/think_imma_give_up_for_a_little_while/
1
I'm just not having any fun and I wasn't before my last relationship either. I don't have a car so my transport is very limited. I don't have that much money although I'm trying to be better at putting some back. Still in college so that's a bit more difficult. Dating apps suck. I have decent pictures that show off my ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Think imma give up for a little while
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152o97j/think_imma_give_up_for_a_little_while/
bnortongiron
2023-10-05 15:25:00
1,696,519,500
0
['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
170ksom
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/170ksom/is_it_weird_that_i_am_on_dating_apps_but_have_no/
1
I don’t have twitter, instagram, facebook, TikTok or anything other social, but I am on dating apps like tinder, bumble, hinge, and change. I am 25(m) with some social anxiety but still want to date. I get a couple matches everyday after hours of swiping and go on one or two dates a week. The dates go well until the to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it weird that I am on dating apps, but have no social media?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/170ksom/is_it_weird_that_i_am_on_dating_apps_but_have_no/
hellorobin13
2018-07-04 07:29:35
1,530,689,375
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
8vzs6l
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8vzs6l/friend_w_benefits_dilemma/
0
I lost my virginity to my fwb when we matched on Tinder and we’ve been fwb for 5 years (on and off). I have confessed that I wanted to date him but he is hesitant because he sees me as his best friend. He does not want to ruin what we have in case dating does not work out. Any advice on what should I do? Continue to be...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Friend w benefits dilemma
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8vzs6l/friend_w_benefits_dilemma/
Pristine_Assistant29
2024-05-27 06:43:16
1,716,792,196
0
['dating app']
0
1d1lei2
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d1lei2/how_should_i_deal_with_man_ghosters_from_past/
3
Hey yall, this is so weird. I made my single status public on fb profile and a couple men I went on a couple dates a couple of years ago and then was ghosted just added me out of nowhere. My friends were like just add them to build your friend list and get more connections. But I'm like no, he ghosted me, chose another...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How should I deal with man ghosters from past that have come back?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d1lei2/how_should_i_deal_with_man_ghosters_from_past/
KinkyFitKim
2024-06-22 20:28:33
1,719,088,113
0
['matches', 'matched', 'dating app', 'hinge']
0
1dm4qx0
true
Question ❓
9
0
/r/dating/comments/1dm4qx0/what_is_with_the_lack_of_initiating_conversations/
1
I’m 42f and a confident, attractive woman. I’m heavily tattooed, fit, “tall” (5’9”) and I have the “alt” woman look. I’ve heard that can be intimidating to some men. I hear it, a LOT. I also hear often how incredibly attractive I am. I am humble so I don’t boast or think I’m the shit by any means. I don’t expect anythi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What is with the lack of initiating conversations on hinge?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dm4qx0/what_is_with_the_lack_of_initiating_conversations/
Wrong_Elderberry947
2024-03-16 15:37:42
1,710,603,462
0
['online dating', 'okcupid']
0
1bg8tbb
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bg8tbb/help_meeting_a_girl_from_brazil_in_london_for_the/
1
I need some advice. So, I met this amazing girl on OkCupid a few 2 weeks ago, and we've really hit it off. The only catch? She lives in Brazil, and I'm here in London. But get this – she's planning to come visit me in 9 months time for just under two weeks Now, here's the thing: I've never done anything like this befor...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Help Meeting a Girl from Brazil in London for the First Time, Need Date Ideas
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bg8tbb/help_meeting_a_girl_from_brazil_in_london_for_the/
caramelpost
2019-11-02 12:39:46
1,572,698,386
null
['tinder']
0
dqjlil
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dqjlil/is_my_fwb_19m_playing_me_20f_or_has_he_caught/
1
Hi I’m new to all this reddit stuff but I just needed an opinion since it’s driving me insane. Please be nice because I’m new to the whole ‘FWB’ situation/dating in general. This might be long but the timeline helps paint the full picture. I met this guy from tinder 6 months ago. I normally bin my ‘FWB’ after a few wee...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is my FWB (19M) playing me (20F) or has he caught feelings?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dqjlil/is_my_fwb_19m_playing_me_20f_or_has_he_caught/
[deleted]
2013-10-15 14:15:03
1,381,846,503
0
['dating site']
0
1oi2l2
null
null
10
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1oi2l2/did_i_fuck_up_how_bad_20m_20f/
0
Oi mate, I registered to a dating site 2 weeks ago, had big success this far. But something happened. A week ago a girl messaged me, some random shit, I had no idea what she talked about because it was so random so I just replied some flirty comment back. This led us to chat this whole week, and I really like her, she'...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I fuck up? How bad? 20m 20f
0
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1oi2l2/did_i_fuck_up_how_bad_20m_20f/
Upstairs_Prompt_792
2024-05-07 13:26:39
1,715,088,399
0
['dating apps']
0
1cmbvy7
true
I Need Advice 😩
20
0
/r/dating/comments/1cmbvy7/as_a_woman_on_early_20s_dating_life_can_be/
1
Are there genuine men out here been on dating apps for like 3 years but nothing seems like moving im stuck.Dating apps can be tiresome.Im not someone who likes going out more often im more of an introvert so finding someone outside dating apps is not easy
dating
t5_2qhb1
As a woman on early 20s dating life can be difficult.
1
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cmbvy7/as_a_woman_on_early_20s_dating_life_can_be/
Illustrious_Boss_69
2023-07-12 12:34:28
1,689,165,268
0
['facebook dating']
0
14xncot
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14xncot/im_not_sure_how_to_handle_this_please_help_first/
1
I have been talking with a girl (girl 1) I met on Facebook dating for about 3 weeks and we have been hitting off pretty well. We have been talking pretty much everyday. We just haven't got the timing down for a first date yet, but have our first date planned in about 10 days. Out of nowhere a old crush of mine (girl 2)...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm not sure how to handle this. Please help First time posting on Reddit so hopefully it makes sense.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14xncot/im_not_sure_how_to_handle_this_please_help_first/
matlab2019b
2020-08-25 13:57:35
1,598,363,855
null
null
0
igcour
true
null
88
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/igcour/im_talking_to_a_girl_on_hinge_and_she_only/
53
She does reply to all of my messages though and I always make sure to reply back as soon as I can, usually within the hour. But I don't get why she takes so long to reply between messages. Could it be she only opens it once every few days, or is replying to her many other messages? Or is she just being polite in respon...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I'm talking to a girl on Hinge and she only replies once every 3 4 days, what does this mean?
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/igcour/im_talking_to_a_girl_on_hinge_and_she_only/
howwespendourdays
2022-11-02 23:06:43
1,667,430,403
null
['swipe', 'dating app', 'okcupid', 'eharmony']
0
ykl0i0
true
Question ❓
11
0
/r/dating/comments/ykl0i0/is_there_a_dating_website_thats_like_amazon/
1
I don’t like the swipe mechanism of having to decide on people immediately in the moment, without knowing who else is out there. I feel like I’d rather scroll through a database of people, applying filters, and then message once I find the one I like best. Is there a dating app/website like this? EHarmony seems similar...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is there a dating website that’s like Amazon?
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ykl0i0/is_there_a_dating_website_thats_like_amazon/
__Dasha__01
2024-03-01 14:17:52
1,709,302,672
0
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
1b3vca5
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b3vca5/why_would_people_lie_about_their_age_on_dating/
22
I recently I found a guy I used to date a while ago on Tinder. He’s in his early 30´s, but his profile said he was 24. I am assuming it is so he can get younger girls? I find it quite interesting, cause if he were to start something serious with any of these girls, they would realize that he has been lying about his ag...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why would people lie about their age on dating apps?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b3vca5/why_would_people_lie_about_their_age_on_dating/
pipandmerry
2021-05-13 23:47:11
1,620,949,631
null
['matched', 'dating app']
0
nbuzib
true
Venting
688
1
/r/dating/comments/nbuzib/why_does_it_need_to_go_from_friendly_to_sexual/
915
I was just having a really nice chat with this guy from a dating app. We literally just matched. Started chatting about how we’re going to save the world by eating cookies, it’s cute and silly and I’m digging it. Then out of nowhere he says “I’m going to eat them off of you”...What?? Why????? I just met you, literally ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why does it need to go from friendly to sexual instantly?!?
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nbuzib/why_does_it_need_to_go_from_friendly_to_sexual/
North_Purple_2094
2024-09-26 22:03:33
1,727,388,213
0
['dating app']
0
1fq8aic
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fq8aic/unsure_how_the_first_date_went/
1
I was on a first date with a guy from a dating app and we talked about some very deep stuff. He told me about his personal issues and some very private things about himself, but also talked about how he's imagining his future life and family goals etc. He said he's looking for a long term relationship. The date went fo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Unsure how the first date went
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fq8aic/unsure_how_the_first_date_went/
Mcheetah2
2016-09-11 01:02:18
1,473,555,738
0
['dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid', 'match.com']
0
5266hy
null
null
9
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5266hy/question_are_there_any_dating_sites_out_there/
1
I'm seeking to meet serious women who want to hang out, see if there's any connection, rapport, or chemistry, and actually _date_ in a potential romantic relationship for the long term. But it seems like almost no one on dating sites has the actual mindset of _love and dating_, from my experiences on them. I've been on...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Question: Are there any dating sites out there that are actually GOOD and have serious people on them?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5266hy/question_are_there_any_dating_sites_out_there/
TheWolfReturned
2022-01-28 15:35:16
1,643,384,116
null
['swiping', 'dating app', 'bumble']
0
setgsa
true
null
31
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/setgsa/i_saw_my_friends_fiancée_on_a_dating_app_i_havent/
8
Hi all. I was swiping through Bumble last night and I was surprised to see my friend's fiancée pop up on my screen. She was verified through the app so I don't think it was a bot. Her post didn't mention anything about her being in an open relationship or anything like that. I just remember my friend posting something ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I saw my friend's fiancée on a dating app. I haven't talked to him a few years. Should I say something to him?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/setgsa/i_saw_my_friends_fiancée_on_a_dating_app_i_havent/
Objective-Rabbit4067
2024-06-16 04:07:26
1,718,510,846
0
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
1dgzct4
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgzct4/got_shot_down_by_my_guy_friend/
1
A couple of months ago I met this guy off of Hinge. Went on a date, the date went well. We were crying laughing and the date was 3 hours longer than expected and we both got parking tickets because we didn’t pay for 4 hours lol and we thought it was funny. We clicked instantly. So he asked for a second date. 2 hours be...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Got shot down by my guy “friend”
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgzct4/got_shot_down_by_my_guy_friend/
ki_ve
2023-03-04 18:41:21
1,677,955,281
null
['dating app']
0
11i9ig5
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/11i9ig5/date_canceled_twice_do_i_try_again_or_call_my/
1
I (21M) talked to this guy (24M) on a dating app, it was typical back and forth, and he asked to meet up pretty quickly. We agree to a time and place but morning of, he says he just left the hospital due to a flu and was apologetic. We don’t meet and I assume he isn’t interested anymore, but he texts me first a couple ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Date canceled twice, do I try again or call my losses?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11i9ig5/date_canceled_twice_do_i_try_again_or_call_my/
IrisTwaine
2012-10-08 15:56:26
1,349,711,786
0
['pof']
0
1154ny
null
null
35
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/1154ny/dont_people_work_anymore/
3
So I'm feeling a little put off. It seems like every nice guy I meet that I might be interested in going on a date with turns out to be unemployed. Most of these guys are coming from POF mind you but I'm on POF and I have a job. I know we're in an economic slump and the unemployment rate is high but there are some jobs...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Don't people work anymore?
3
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1154ny/dont_people_work_anymore/
Quantum-Connection
2022-08-14 23:54:20
1,660,521,260
null
['hinge']
0
wokhbx
true
Giving Advice 💌
248
0
/r/dating/comments/wokhbx/women_ask_men_out_if_youre_interested_in_them/
355
Unsolicited advice prompted by a recent experience. It is 2022, you don't need to abide by the societal norms from decades and decades ago. I have seen people here asking how to know if a guy is interested, how to push men towards dates, etc. Just ask a man out if you find him attractive and are interested in seeing th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Women, ask men out if you're interested in them.
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wokhbx/women_ask_men_out_if_youre_interested_in_them/
md99has
2023-01-17 20:46:41
1,673,988,401
null
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps']
0
10en0r1
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10en0r1/how_to_start_dating_at_an_older_age/
2
For some context, I'm a 25 yo man who has never ever dated in the past. The reason is that I was waay too focused on school, uni, career and such. There was a payoff: I have had a great education, I work a well-paid job that allows me so much free time that people can rarely understand. But as I grew older I found myse...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to start dating at an older age?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10en0r1/how_to_start_dating_at_an_older_age/
Somereddituser367
2020-09-07 06:57:50
1,599,461,870
null
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
io2rak
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/io2rak/decoding_in_person_datingflirtatious/
1
I’m a 18(M) in college. We’re still doing in person residential life (dormitories). Instead of using tinder or any other dating apps like I’ve done in the past (no great results). I’ve decided to be myself and push my comfort levels. I’m an aspiring stand up comedian and I’m already known as the “funny guy” on my floor...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Decoding in person dating/flirtatious conversations. Am I overthinking things or does this girl maybe have a thing for me?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/io2rak/decoding_in_person_datingflirtatious/
OzentheUnfazed
2020-03-06 00:30:52
1,583,454,652
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
fe537y
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fe537y/i_wanted_and_may_still_do_to_be_needed/
1
For a long time I’ve wanted to be in a relationship. The factors that play into the yearning I have to be in one boil down to insecurities from high school because I never was in a relationship when other people were. Now I feel like time is running out and I may never be able to find someone I’m supposed to be with. M...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I wanted and may still do to be needed
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fe537y/i_wanted_and_may_still_do_to_be_needed/
everyethan
2024-02-07 19:54:05
1,707,335,645
0
null
0
1albxgq
true
null
18
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1albxgq/hinge_is_the_worst/
5
I get way better conversations on tinder lowkey. Anyone I match with on hinge basically gives either one word replies then ghosts, or they talk for about a day before ghosting. And Im lucky to get 1 like every year on hinge, even if I have men and women turned on for discoverability. I only think I match through sendin...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Hinge is the worst
5
0.7
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1albxgq/hinge_is_the_worst/
throwitawayplease89
2019-04-25 17:29:37
1,556,213,377
null
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
bhbe36
true
null
61
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bhbe36/help_seeing_a_friends_significant_other_on_a/
13
Can someone please advise on what to do when you see your friends significant other on a dating app? This morning I came across my friend's boyfriend on Hinge. I am extremely hesitant to say anything to my friend as she is studying for a big exam next week. She is also very insecure in this relationship. They have been...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
HELP: Seeing a friend's significant other on a dating app
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bhbe36/help_seeing_a_friends_significant_other_on_a/
AshxInfernape
2023-07-01 21:44:04
1,688,247,844
0
null
0
14o6m7v
false
null
113
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/14o6m7v/a_lot_of_women_are_on_dating_apps_for_ages/
1
Is it boredom? Validation? Looking for the “perfect” guy? I know there are some shitty guys out there but if you have 1000 likes you should be able to find men who are genuine. If I was a woman I would be able to find a decent man within a few weeks. Just learn how to filter, have realistic standards and stop ignoring ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
A lot of women are on dating apps for ages
1
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14o6m7v/a_lot_of_women_are_on_dating_apps_for_ages/
musick12345
2023-04-26 16:10:24
1,682,525,424
0
['hinge']
0
12znq3r
true
Question ❓
26
0
/r/dating/comments/12znq3r/girl_asking_the_guy_out/
1
Been talking to a guy on hinge for a bit (week and a half ish) but he’s not initiating a date. Should I ask or just let it go bc if he wanted to he would?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Girl asking the guy out
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12znq3r/girl_asking_the_guy_out/
markips
2014-04-05 20:30:00
1,396,729,800
0
['online dating']
0
22amgf
null
null
8
null
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/22amgf/thinking_of_jumping_into_the_online_dating_pool/
4
What site do you ladies use? I've been reading about the spamming problems and what not, how many hours of searching did you do until you found someone worth talking to or quitting?
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Thinking of jumping into the online dating pool. Thoughts?
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/22amgf/thinking_of_jumping_into_the_online_dating_pool/
PainlessSauce
2022-11-13 16:36:22
1,668,357,382
null
['dating apps']
0
yu6p43
true
Question ❓
6
0
/r/dating/comments/yu6p43/how_do_i_get_off_the_dating_apps/
5
I'm sure this has been asked hundreds of times, but how do people do it? I just moved to a new town with not much to do and not a lot of people. It is a college town, but im a 24M engineer and not in school anymore. (Maybe some graduate students?) How do I meet women in real life? I go to work every day and come home w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do I get off the dating apps?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yu6p43/how_do_i_get_off_the_dating_apps/
Lost-Mountain6333
2021-09-19 17:44:43
1,632,073,483
null
['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
prco0s
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/prco0s/i_really_want_a_relationship_but_every_girl_i/
0
Im a 25 (M) heavy set dude and a father of 2. I talk to girls but most of them im really not that attracted to and the one i am attracted to always end up ghosting me, mostly because i simp over them for the fact that not a lot of good looking girls like me and when they do i fuck it up by being to interested. I know t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I really want a relationship but every girl i talk to doesn’t take me serious
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/prco0s/i_really_want_a_relationship_but_every_girl_i/
hhoo40
2024-03-05 18:04:43
1,709,661,883
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1b7bxqz
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7bxqz/how_to_have_empathy_for_women_who_complaining/
1
I barely get matches on dating apps and when i do they don't respond. While for women they get hundreds of matches and go with the most attractive men who also have options too. ofcourse he want to continue playing why he would commit that's why they ghosted. While men who wants to get a relationship have no matches at...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to have empathy for women who complaining about getting ghosted after sex while I don't get any matches at all
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7bxqz/how_to_have_empathy_for_women_who_complaining/
computersavvy1234
2018-07-09 13:17:24
1,531,142,244
null
['matched']
0
8xbi04
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8xbi04/how_do_i_ask_her_on_a_date_online/
0
I was all bored that time and I stumbled upon this matchmaking site online. Since it was for free and I had nothing else to do, I decided to click the link to try it out since I also got nothing to lose. Now, I know that at my age, they may call me a bit immature of what I did but at the moment, I just saw nothing wron...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I ask her on a date online?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8xbi04/how_do_i_ask_her_on_a_date_online/
AdPuzzleheaded2353
2022-06-28 01:30:02
1,656,379,802
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
vmb0hz
true
Tinder/Online Dating
1
0
/r/dating/comments/vmb0hz/tinder_dateshookups_red_flags/
4
how do you know the person you matched with isnt going to kidnap you or kill you? ive only met up with one tinder match and that was after months of talking and facetimes and background checks lol. i hate having to be so anxious. what are some solid red flags?
dating
t5_2qhb1
tinder dates/hookups red flags?
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vmb0hz/tinder_dateshookups_red_flags/
defdawg
2022-06-28 12:09:08
1,656,418,148
null
['swipe']
0
vmlqcd
true
null
382
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/vmlqcd/are_hearing_girls_afraid_of_deaf_guys/
164
I am 48. But I look real young. I have a good job. I live in the Midwest. I can take care of myself. I think I am easy on the eyes. I workout and am tall. Former college athlete. I own my own house and are independent. I think I am respectful and kind to gals and have been raised that way. I know what I want and I am a...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Are Hearing Girls afraid of Deaf Guys?
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vmlqcd/are_hearing_girls_afraid_of_deaf_guys/
ShevyBoi
2024-06-20 04:52:40
1,718,859,160
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1dk3gmn
true
I Need Advice 😩
8
0
/r/dating/comments/1dk3gmn/well_the_advice_worked/
2
I've been applying advice from reddit to my dating apps and it's been crazy effective. I maybe had a handful of matches in like almost a year of dating apps. After applying the advice of this sub reddit I've gotten over 10 in the last day and a half. Quite frankly I'm astonished. But therein lyes another problem what s...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Well the advice worked
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dk3gmn/well_the_advice_worked/
JusKeepinItReal
2016-04-24 20:05:39
1,461,528,339
0
['tinder']
0
4g9r8a
null
null
20
null
/r/AskMen/comments/4g9r8a/how_to_find_a_hook_up_in_a_night/
0
I really just need some sex right now and ive been rejected by every girl ive asked so far. Is there any free sites or apps that i can try (besides tinder) also im in europe if that helps UPDATE: So i didnt hook up with anyone but a girl hit me up saying she wants to talk so theres that i guess
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How to find a hook up in a night?
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4g9r8a/how_to_find_a_hook_up_in_a_night/
justbad22
2022-12-12 16:36:39
1,670,862,999
null
null
0
zk3z5a
true
null
50
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/zk3z5a/am_i_horrible_for_only_looking_for_hookups/
11
So I’m a 21 year old male who’s never been in a relationship. I’ve never been interested in dating since it always seemed like a hassle. I don’t know what it is that makes dating such a pain for me. I’m on tinder but no one seems to like me. I’m just curious
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Am I horrible for only looking for hookups?
null
0.66
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zk3z5a/am_i_horrible_for_only_looking_for_hookups/
losermonkey310
2016-11-28 02:49:28
1,480,301,368
0
['tinder']
0
5f99i9
null
null
33
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5f99i9/tinder_question/
9
I'm looking for something monogamous and exclusive and decided to give Tinder a try...what was I thinking?!? Anyways, I downloaded the app today and I'm sort of at a loss because at least when I was on OKC I could do a lot of my filtering based on the match % or even their lenhy profiles. Now I have nothing to go off o...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Tinder Question
9
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5f99i9/tinder_question/
plutodarling
2022-05-20 19:31:32
1,653,075,092
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'bumble']
0
uu5rzg
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/uu5rzg/out_of_the_game_too_long_and_not_playing_it_well/
1
It’s hard to explain without sounding stupid and involves a lot of things. As short and quick as I can make it I’m 29(f) now and have zero experience in anything romantic. Or I guess technically I was in a relationship ten years ago, but it was long distance, short lived, and kinda terrible. Since then I’ve barely trie...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
out of the game too long and not playing it well
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uu5rzg/out_of_the_game_too_long_and_not_playing_it_well/
Inside_Ad_7357
2023-05-22 22:06:01
1,684,793,161
0
['dating app']
0
13p50f4
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13p50f4/experiencing_retroactive_jealousy/
2
Of course I know everyone has a past, my partner and I included. My partner is from my hometown but he and I didn’t start dating until he was already living in another city. A few months before we reconnected when he finally moved out of his parents place, he did what most guys would: date around. I know he had a thing...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Experiencing Retroactive Jealousy
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13p50f4/experiencing_retroactive_jealousy/
CompetitiveSolid8155
2023-06-01 14:58:45
1,685,631,525
0
['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
13xjrpv
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13xjrpv/we_met_at_midnight_on_his_last_night_in_town_is/
1
I (29F) am usually not even going out on dates with men I match or text with at bumble/tinder because it’s just disappointing. But recently I matched with a guy (32M) that at first actually annoyed me. It turned out that we work in the same field and so we started a great series of banter back and forth on Friday night...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
We met at midnight on his last night in town- Is it worth the effort?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13xjrpv/we_met_at_midnight_on_his_last_night_in_town_is/
dank69420_
2024-01-10 22:49:47
1,704,926,987
0
['online dating']
0
193lq47
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
2
0
/r/dating/comments/193lq47/youre_a_great_guy_youll_find_someone_eventually/
1
My friends just don’t get it: you can’t learn emotional maturity without experience Had a night out with a few friends and the topic eventually turned to relationships. I’m the only single one so it was a bit hard to relate but essentially they told me that it’s not true that my lack of experience and emotional maturit...
dating
t5_2qhb1
“You’re a great guy, you’ll find someone eventually”
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/193lq47/youre_a_great_guy_youll_find_someone_eventually/
Odd-Bus3002
2022-08-27 06:49:45
1,661,582,985
null
['tinder']
0
wyvxt6
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/wyvxt6/i_didnt_tell_my_gf_what_i_wanted_in_the_beginning/
4
I(24M) starred dating this girl(22F) 3-4 months back. We met on tinder and had sex on our second date. I wanted a short term relationship ( maybe 6 month or a year). But I didn't say this to her at the beginning. Now it's been 4 months and she's into me a lot than I'm into her. Don't get me wrong she's a good girl but ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I didn't tell my gf what I wanted in the beginning.
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wyvxt6/i_didnt_tell_my_gf_what_i_wanted_in_the_beginning/
resetmyself
2019-03-17 03:25:43
1,552,793,143
null
['OLD', 'tinder']
0
b20zo1
true
null
56
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b20zo1/i_think_i_said_too_much/
0
So I messaged a tinder match several months ago. Didn’t get a reply until a few days ago. She messaged to meet up for coffee, I replied that I would prefer to do something more exciting. She asked what I meant, and I sent her a link to a go kart racing place near by. She was super enthusiastic to that idea. Afterwards ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
I think I said too much
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b20zo1/i_think_i_said_too_much/
AnaMayaa
2023-05-22 03:31:35
1,684,726,295
0
['dating apps']
0
13of6ym
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/13of6ym/im_a_woman_from_brazilian_and_id_like_to_meet/
0
I'd like to meet new people and open myself to new experiences with different people, can someone tell me a nice app to this?
dating
t5_2qhb1
I'm a woman from brazilian and i'd like to meet people of other nationalities, i'm looking for some nice dating apps, does anyone know any?
0
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13of6ym/im_a_woman_from_brazilian_and_id_like_to_meet/
Miku_223
2020-11-17 02:17:46
1,605,579,466
null
['dating apps']
0
jvkl38
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jvkl38/im_17_and_im_too_shy_to_talk_to_anyone/
1
Dating apps are limited to 18+ and I turn 18 in January, I haven't dated anyone in years so I'm really impatient to find someone. If you got any suggestions or opportunities it would help alot :)
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm 17 and I'm too shy to talk to anyone...
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jvkl38/im_17_and_im_too_shy_to_talk_to_anyone/
Remarkable-Will-1955
2021-02-09 02:06:18
1,612,836,378
null
['dating apps']
0
lfs0a4
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lfs0a4/addicted_to_dating_apps/
1
I deleted all my dating apps two weeks ago because I’m in AA and they say you can’t date for the first year of recovery. I didn’t realize that I’m also totally addicted to the gratification I get from connecting with people on dating apps (not even meeting them! Just matching gives me satisfaction.) I feel like I’m in ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Addicted to Dating Apps
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lfs0a4/addicted_to_dating_apps/
Stealthy_camper
2022-11-30 17:13:11
1,669,828,391
null
null
0
z8wztv
true
null
37
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/z8wztv/5_signs_youre_dating_a_covert_narcissist/
9
Many people have heard of narcissism. It's a topic that's definitely trending. But have you heard of "covert" narcissism, or more properly termed "vulnerable narcissism"? Here's a few signs you might be dealing with one. 1) They're depressed, sullen, feel like they missed their chance or that life hasn't been fair to t...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
5 signs you're dating a "covert" narcissist
null
0.69
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z8wztv/5_signs_youre_dating_a_covert_narcissist/
Archimed3z
2022-01-22 05:09:25
1,642,828,165
null
['tinder']
0
s9urqp
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/s9urqp/advice_needed/
1
So here’s what happened: I went out with a girl I met on Tinder, and it seemed to be going really well. We got food and then we went back to my apartment for a few hours and also had sex, and she seemed pretty enthusiastic about everything. Well, flash forward to today I texted her that I really liked spending time wit...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice needed.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s9urqp/advice_needed/
BerryCherryKoolAid
2022-03-31 19:07:16
1,648,753,636
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
tt74tp
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/tt74tp/why_is_dating_hard_i_am_feeling_more_stressed/
4
I downloaded Tinder one day, matched with a dude and we were a couple for half a year, we even lived together. Second dude I ever dated. After that I've dated 3 other men briefly, might start dating a woman soon. This isn't fun at all. I'm nearing 30. I already lived all my crazy years, had all the casual sex I ever wa...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why is dating hard? I am feeling more stressed than having fun
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tt74tp/why_is_dating_hard_i_am_feeling_more_stressed/
lavenderfrappe
2024-01-30 05:34:39
1,706,592,879
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
1aeh0ty
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1aeh0ty/completely_traumatized_from_last_relationship/
1
FYI please don't DM me about this as I'm posting this on behalf of a close friend who doesn't have a Reddit account. She has been to therapy a couple sessions for this but could not afford it any longer and is hoping she can get some reassurance or help as she still thinks she's a bad person from what happened. "29F. I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Completely Traumatized from Last Relationship
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aeh0ty/completely_traumatized_from_last_relationship/
Sea_Grocery_5236
2024-08-05 07:03:12
1,722,841,392
0
['dating apps']
0
1ekhfmx
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ekhfmx/red_flag_or_eager/
2
I’ve just started seeing this guy and by just started, I mean we’ve been on 1 date and had a few phonecalls/facetimes since. Normally when dating I do one date a week for the first month then if I really like them I might up it to 2 or 3 per week. I work full time and so my weekdays are pretty full, leaving me mainly w...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Red flag or eager?
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ekhfmx/red_flag_or_eager/
Skeletal_Fella
2021-02-15 16:32:49
1,613,406,769
null
['bumble']
0
lkh6to
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lkh6to/how_do_you_determine_if_a_romantic_interest_also/
1
I [M26] have been conversing with a Bumble match [F28] for the better part of a year. Because of the pandemic, we've been mostly restricted to talking, but have met up a few times. I'm interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, but having a difficult time determining if she feels the same way. I want to talk to he...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you determine if a romantic interest also wants to move a relationship forward?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lkh6to/how_do_you_determine_if_a_romantic_interest_also/
BigG1996
2019-12-24 11:38:58
1,577,187,538
null
['tinder']
0
ef0bb9
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/ef0bb9/is_this_girl_really_interested_in_me_or_am_i/
1
Me - M23 Her - F23 I met this girl on tinder we spoke on and off for about a week with texts taking like 8 hours to respond at a time. We ended up going on a first date and had a really good time together and we kissed. I spoke to her on the phone last night and now we have a second date set for Saturday. She's not a t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is this girl really interested in me? or am I chasing nothing?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ef0bb9/is_this_girl_really_interested_in_me_or_am_i/
foxinlaceysocks
2018-01-30 06:34:44
1,517,294,084
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
7tz4y9
false
null
26
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7tz4y9/met_a_cute_shy_guy_we_get_along_but_im_tryna_bang/
7
I matched with this cute guy on tinder over two weeks ago, and we've been talking a lot since then. We've hung out a few times, where he has brought weed for me to smoke and taken me out to dinner and driven me and my drunk friends around to go party hopping. I really want to get with him, and just have a casual thing....
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Met a cute shy guy and we get along but I'm tryna bang
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7tz4y9/met_a_cute_shy_guy_we_get_along_but_im_tryna_bang/
[deleted]
2022-02-22 20:36:36
1,645,562,196
null
['dating apps']
0
syxn78
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/syxn78/how_should_i_position_myself_in_dating/
1
I'm 27M and ideally want a serious relationship but would be happy meeting new people and having casual interactions as well The problem is as the guy is expected to take the lead, I'm not sure the best way to position myself. I don't want to scare off girls that may want something serious by being too flirty, but I al...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How should I position myself in dating?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/syxn78/how_should_i_position_myself_in_dating/
aloomis16
2019-09-26 16:51:31
1,569,516,691
null
['hinge']
0
d9mc04
true
null
91
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d9mc04/trying_to_figure_out_whats_going_on/
36
I started seeing someone about a month or so ago - we connected on Hinge, she sent me her number and met for drinks about a week later. So far so good. We had a good time on the date, 3-4 hours flew by, really great conversation. We learned a lot about each other. We live about 30 minutes apart, and I was in her neighb...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Trying to figure out what's going on
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d9mc04/trying_to_figure_out_whats_going_on/
blueC11
2019-11-20 16:55:22
1,574,268,922
null
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
dz4r98
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dz4r98/anyone_else_never_get_likes_on_bumble/
1
I get several likes on other dating apps but not Bumble 🤨 I’m an average male in terms of attractiveness, 5’11”, athletic... maybe my brain’s playing tricks and I’m actually hideous LOL. Or maybe it’s because I don’t have any shirtless beach photos 😅
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anyone else never get likes on Bumble?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dz4r98/anyone_else_never_get_likes_on_bumble/
mythrowawayletsplay
2018-11-10 23:25:09
1,541,892,309
null
['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
9vyyec
true
null
0
0
/r/dating/comments/9vyyec/looking_for_allies/
1
I'm going to speak very plainly. Tinder, Bumble, or whatever swipe app you find yourself spending time on have played the role of mustache twirly villain while love and romance lay tied to the tracks. Technology and dating can work, but the forms they are currently packaged in are fundementally contradictory to how tru...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Looking for allies
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9vyyec/looking_for_allies/
notthesmartest123-
2022-05-05 15:14:06
1,651,763,646
null
['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder']
0
uiznv7
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/uiznv7/by_stander_looking_for_help_i_messed_up_f26/
1
Hello dear world, I messed up. I have always been a bystander on reddit but even asking to some friends I think I messed up with a M25 I just met and so on. Need help and opinions. I don't usually use Dating Apps as I was fed up last year with stupid dates and such. Now I was matched with this guy a solid 6 or even 7. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
By stander looking for help (I messed up) F26
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uiznv7/by_stander_looking_for_help_i_messed_up_f26/
nycgalpal
2017-10-19 15:27:56
1,508,426,876
null
['tinder']
0
77f49f
false
null
52
0
/r/dating/comments/77f49f/guys_on_tinder_what_can_a_girl_do_to_make_her/
16
Working on research for an article. Would love honest answers to this question!
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys on Tinder: What can a girl do to make her profile stand out?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/77f49f/guys_on_tinder_what_can_a_girl_do_to_make_her/
stooges23
2021-04-13 15:37:21
1,618,328,241
null
null
0
mq4rpf
true
null
1
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/mq4rpf/hows_the_web_for_meeting_goes_close_by/
2
I don't have many friends; I can count them on one hand. Where does one go-to that isn't church and is worth the hdd space? Since I didn't know about parlar till the shut down. Most of the ones I have heard of bumble to eharmony aren't worth my time.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How's the web for meeting goes close by
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mq4rpf/hows_the_web_for_meeting_goes_close_by/
cream_of_slop
2022-11-27 01:21:45
1,669,512,105
null
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
z5nq1q
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/z5nq1q/how_do_i_start_actually_dating_22m/
1
Hi, I am a 22 year old guy. Been out of college for almost exactly 1 year now. I work from home as a software engineer and still live with my parents in the suburbs. The last time I "dated" anyone was in 2019 ... My first relationship which lasted 2yrs. I just went on 5 dates with this really cool (22f) woman that I me...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I start actually dating (22M)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z5nq1q/how_do_i_start_actually_dating_22m/
Fingerbob73
2020-06-16 20:45:34
1,592,340,334
null
['online dating']
0
haccnn
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/haccnn/balancing_act_low_positives_vs_high_negatives/
5
So, just to ask. Re online dating, do you feel happy when you make contact with someone or do you feel more unhappy with the larger number of people who view your profile but don't want to contact you?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Balancing act? Low positives vs high negatives?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/haccnn/balancing_act_low_positives_vs_high_negatives/
Born-Blank
2020-07-31 12:22:07
1,596,198,127
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
i16kjb
true
I Need Advice
12
0
/r/dating/comments/i16kjb/i_am_22m_who_got_out_of_a_relationship_and_am_now/
12
Okay so first post ever on reddit, but my sister recommended I try this. So I got out of a 4,5 year long relationship with my previous partner in March of 2020. We ended it as friends as we both just realized we were not right for each other. Since then I’ve tried online dating apps primarily, but whether it’s online o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I am 22M who got out of a relationship and am now having issues having a single conversation with a F
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i16kjb/i_am_22m_who_got_out_of_a_relationship_and_am_now/
Optimal_Actuary_5677
2023-11-12 09:59:39
1,699,783,179
0
['online dating', 'tinder']
0
17th5mv
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17th5mv/hot_girls_who_use_online_dating_do_you_ghost_a/
1
I have a theory that hot women have SO many hunks ready to date them at any opportunity that they become extremely picky on dates. If they aren’t sure about the hunk they just dated , why bother giving him a second date? Just go on a date with new hunk, maybe he’ll be the perfect one. I’m a great looking dude and I get...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Hot girls who use online dating. Do you ghost a lot after the first date?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17th5mv/hot_girls_who_use_online_dating_do_you_ghost_a/
BookCougar
2024-01-11 10:44:22
1,704,969,862
0
['online dating']
0
193yu3r
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/193yu3r/useful_information/
1
Dear Redditors, I stumbled upon (no pun intended) some information which may be useful to those of you who still use online dating. The site is Hope it's helpful - if you didn't already know about it.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Useful Information(?)
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/193yu3r/useful_information/
nouseforaname888
2020-10-02 05:21:04
1,601,616,064
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'swipes', 'swiping']
0
j3ormx
true
Tinder/Online Dating
3
0
/r/dating/comments/j3ormx/swiping_right_until_you_run_out_of_swipes_isnt/
9
You hear every other person say- swipe swipe and swipe. But here is why that’s not effective for you. Maybe once upon a time, you swiped at everyone until there were no cards left in the deck. Now, you get limited swipes. And that means that whoever you swipe right on encourages the algorithm to continue to show you pe...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Swiping right until you run out of swipes isn’t effective.
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j3ormx/swiping_right_until_you_run_out_of_swipes_isnt/
Dependent_External62
2023-09-29 06:46:58
1,695,970,018
0
['online dating', 'dating app']
0
16v4brt
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16v4brt/how_long_is_too_long_without_meeting_up_in_person/
1
I (28F) met this guy (32M) on a dating app about a month ago. We clicked and hit it off early and have been talking almost everyday since. I’ve been eager to meet him in person since the first week but we haven’t yet. Some fast facts about the situation: - We’ve already discussed going on a date and twice he’s told me ...
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t5_2s4kl
How long is too long without meeting up in person for online dating?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16v4brt/how_long_is_too_long_without_meeting_up_in_person/
GannicusVictor
2023-10-24 00:11:38
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17ezch2
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Support Needed 🫂
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/r/dating/comments/17ezch2/dating_apps_excessive_talking_stage_prior_to/
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Does anyone else get frustrated, and feel slightly depreciated and almost degraded by the hoops you have to jump through to ‘win’ a date (as it sometimes feels). Like the person I’ve been chatting to recently, some people prefer to message on the apps for several days and video chat multiple times in order to decide wh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating Apps - Excessive talking stage prior to meeting
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ezch2/dating_apps_excessive_talking_stage_prior_to/
ocharles
2016-09-10 19:16:12
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['matched', 'tinder']
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524n3o
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/r/dating/comments/524n3o/tinder_asked_for_coffee_got_no_response_reopening/
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Hello. Fairly new to Tinder, but found a nice match recently. We have music tastes in common along with outdoor pursuits. We got talking a bit right when I matched with her, and spoke about our shared interests and what we've recently been up to. It seemed like it was going well, but then the conversation just stopped....
dating
t5_2qhb1
(Tinder) Asked for coffee, got no response - reopening feels awkward
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/524n3o/tinder_asked_for_coffee_got_no_response_reopening/
yadonemesdup
2020-06-24 03:01:12
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heszm0
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/heszm0/prove_me_wrong/
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Online dating is a platform for socially awkward people and attention whores. About 5% of people on there actually get something out of it if they’re lucky. I’ve (M26) signed on and off all the big ones over the past 2 years - tinder, bumble, and hinge. Recently I gave bumble a try again. So far, it’s been very few mat...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Prove me wrong
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/heszm0/prove_me_wrong/