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Cultural-Pop-2423 | 2024-06-27 16:07:42 | 1,719,504,462 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dpuzbk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dpuzbk/i_dont_think_my_date_knew_that_im_asexual/ | 1 | I don’t really like to call it date, more like an outing because I have no romantic intentions. 21F here. This is the first ever “date” I’ve been on. I’ve been chatting with this guy on Hinge and we got along mainly bc of our similar music tastes. I made sure to clarify on my profile that I am asexual and not seeking a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t think my “date” knew that I’m asexual | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dpuzbk/i_dont_think_my_date_knew_that_im_asexual/ |
airinseoul | 2023-09-28 03:41:20 | 1,695,872,480 | 0 | null | 0 | 16u5g1y | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16u5g1y/ghosting_someone_after_texting_for_a_couple_days/ | 1 | Recently (three days ago) I matched with this guy on Hinge and we had some hobbies in common along with the fact that I enjoyed the conversation we were having. We moved to text/following each other on social pretty quick in the convo and since then have been texting pretty constantly. He always texts me good morning a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "Ghosting" someone after texting for a couple days | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16u5g1y/ghosting_someone_after_texting_for_a_couple_days/ |
Ice666White | 2021-04-18 18:13:30 | 1,618,769,610 | null | null | 0 | mti4i7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mti4i7/i_asked_a_tinder_employee_35_questions/ | 4 | We have been doing it wrong for years! See the questions and answers . Brief summary... Swiping: Tinder monitors your selectiveness when swiping Tinder monitors how you interact with each profile (Seeing photos) Do not swipe rapidly Swiping left on those who already liked you will give you a little boost Avoid rush hou... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I Asked A Tinder Employee 35 Questions | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mti4i7/i_asked_a_tinder_employee_35_questions/ |
smokesignals5 | 2024-05-05 16:38:12 | 1,714,927,092 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ckvcqh | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ckvcqh/ive_been_asked_out_after_having_suffered_a_lot/ | 1 | I've been asked out after having suffered a lot for love. Any advice on how to overcome my fears? Hey, I am a F26. I've never been in a relationship, I've just gone on dates with a few men, but I've never made paat the first two dates. One of these guys even gaslighted me and it was hard to get through that, since I re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've been asked out after having suffered a lot for love. Any advice on how to overcome my fears? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ckvcqh/ive_been_asked_out_after_having_suffered_a_lot/ |
ksquared98 | 2020-11-17 14:17:50 | 1,605,622,670 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | jvtpq8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jvtpq8/story_of_dating_apps/ | 1 | Hey guys, So after getting out of a 2.5 year relationship, I thought it would be a confident booster to get on tinder and talk to other people. I was not treated the best in my last relationship and should've ended it long long ago. ANYWAYS I talk to this one guy and I am like man he is a gentleman, kind, not creepy an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Story of dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jvtpq8/story_of_dating_apps/ |
jjm942 | 2021-09-05 19:35:04 | 1,630,870,504 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | pijoe0 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/pijoe0/what_do_you_do_when_youre_at_a_low_point/ | 9 | Lately I feel that I'm going through a bit of a low point in my life. Just a little background, I've begun to notice how flaky my friends tend to be, and it sometimes feels like they're my friends only it's convenient for them. I'm not entirely sure how and where to make new friends yet due to covid. I also haven't bee... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you do when you're at a low point? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/pijoe0/what_do_you_do_when_youre_at_a_low_point/ |
happiness0311 | 2022-01-30 10:04:40 | 1,643,537,080 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | sg621t | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sg621t/should_i_text_him_again_when_he_seems_to_only/ | 1 | Last year, I met a guy on a dating app. We talk a bit but we never see each other since we lived in different towns. He texted me again in november (10 months after we matched) because he just finded a job in my town and was going to move in in a few weeks so he wanted to finally meet me. Before seeing him IRL I asked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text him again when he seems to only care about my butt ? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sg621t/should_i_text_him_again_when_he_seems_to_only/ |
Nefarioushearts | 2024-03-14 13:39:49 | 1,710,423,589 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1beleln | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1beleln/got_unmatched_after_asking_a_question_where_did_i/ | 55 | So the last conversation I remember having with this girl was about traveling. She said she likes it but her wallet doesn't and that if she had a good amount of money she'd travel more. So I asked a scenario type of question to continue the conversation I asked: "Lets say you had a fixed budget, where are 5 places you'... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got unmatched after asking a question, where did I go wrong? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1beleln/got_unmatched_after_asking_a_question_where_did_i/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-04 11:46:41 | 1,401,882,401 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 27a8jz | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/27a8jz/so_after_meeting_two_separate_people_online_and/ | 5 | I'm fairly old fashioned, but it's my understanding that it's okay to see a few people at a time in the online dating world, until you become "exclusive" so to speak. So I've been getting to know two lovely people. I've felt myself falling for both of them... I could easily commit to either one. As far as I'm aware, th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So, after meeting two separate people online, and forming strong connections with both, what's a good way of gently letting "the other one" down? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/27a8jz/so_after_meeting_two_separate_people_online_and/ |
VividDouble8299 | 2024-03-01 06:47:43 | 1,709,275,663 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1b3nv7i | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b3nv7i/how_do_you_find_dates/ | 1 | I’m 37M, and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship or on a date, and I’m wondering how people my age go about this. I tried online dating for a few years but didn’t get any matches, and I’m not sure what else to do. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you find dates? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b3nv7i/how_do_you_find_dates/ |
Lallers96 | 2018-04-16 22:56:53 | 1,523,919,413 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8crud6 | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8crud6/how_to_reset_back_to_howtoact_at_the_beginning_of/ | 8 | Sorry if my title is confusing but I'm having difficulty/nerves when wanting to initiate physical contact with this girl I like. I think she likes me (I'll get to that) but I couldn't work up the courage to kiss her - even though I really wanted to. It's been bugging me and I don't want her thinking I'm not interested ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to "reset" back to how-to-act at the beginning of a new relationship? | 8 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8crud6/how_to_reset_back_to_howtoact_at_the_beginning_of/ |
chere1314 | 2019-04-06 21:38:49 | 1,554,586,729 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ba99p3 | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ba99p3/dating_in_los_angeles_hopeless/ | 12 | I’m a female living in LA. I know dating is hard everywhere, but it just feels hopeless here! Sure there are a lot of people, but soooo many people on the apps are in entertainment industry. That’s not my world and I tend to lead a much more boring lifestyle than people in the industry. I work a lot and have a corporat... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating in Los Angeles hopeless? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ba99p3/dating_in_los_angeles_hopeless/ |
purplepoppies- | 2023-08-30 22:19:19 | 1,693,433,959 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 165sm4s | true | null | 367 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/165sm4s/i_moved_back_to_florida_and_i_feel_like_a_second/ | 1 | Recently I left my college town up north and moved back to my hometown in Florida. It wasn't my choice (it's a long story,) but I'd just like to share some things with y'all because to say I'm having culture shock is an understatement. This state has completely changed since I was a kid no thanks to the conservative mo... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I moved back to Florida and I feel like a second class citizen | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/165sm4s/i_moved_back_to_florida_and_i_feel_like_a_second/ |
CrackTheSkye1990 | 2020-03-12 14:16:23 | 1,584,022,583 | null | null | 0 | fhgzsh | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fhgzsh/how_do_you_handle_people_who_lie_about_their/ | 24 | Let's say you go on a date and a person looks totally different from their pics. Like they lied about their weight, height, baldness or whatever and then you have no physical attraction. Do you be polite and carry on with the date or do you end it immediately? I've had this happen a couple times and it's been awkward. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you handle people who lie about their appearance? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fhgzsh/how_do_you_handle_people_who_lie_about_their/ |
PatrickCRVG | 2020-02-11 02:24:39 | 1,581,387,879 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f21ifd | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f21ifd/how_to_get_over_someone_you_were_talking_to_16/ | 6 | It's a long story. I (26M) have known this girl (26F) for over ten years. We went to high school together and then to the same college, but she entered one year later than me so we did not share the same classes. We were never too close in high school, although we had some friends in common so we were often hanging out... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get over someone you were talking to 16 hours a day for the last 6 months? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f21ifd/how_to_get_over_someone_you_were_talking_to_16/ |
crispydeluxx | 2021-01-21 05:34:34 | 1,611,207,274 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | l1s06q | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l1s06q/used_for_entertainment/ | 3 | So this just happened earlier this evening. So for context: There’s been this girl I’ve (23m) been into for about a year. A few months ago I ask her out, get her number and set up a date. We go out, date’s great. I ask her out again a couple days later and she says yes. We go out, I lay out my feelings for her, what I’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Used for entertainment? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l1s06q/used_for_entertainment/ |
Alternative_Beat2498 | 2024-05-21 12:17:57 | 1,716,293,877 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cx6h93 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cx6h93/how_to_let_a_girl_down_gently/ | 1 | I have been messaging a girl I met on a dating app for a long time, we had been messaging everyday for like three months before we met (its such a long time as we were both pretty busy and she lives a few hours away). When we met I didnt feel a spark and didnt feel a huge sense of attraction; We had a great day and had... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to let a girl down gently? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cx6h93/how_to_let_a_girl_down_gently/ |
IGNSolar7 | 2022-10-04 22:34:47 | 1,664,922,887 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | xvsvpn | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/xvsvpn/trying_to_get_back_into_dating_after_coming_off/ | 26 | I've made some posts here but to review: I recently fractured my pelvis, and on top of that, have a separate left leg condition. Because of this I had to spend three months not walking. I'm seeing my doctor for the left leg on Friday, and my pelvis should be healed enough to walk again in two weeks. So, I should be rel... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Trying to get back into dating after coming off of injury | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/xvsvpn/trying_to_get_back_into_dating_after_coming_off/ |
Natural_Bike8736 | 2022-09-13 18:01:47 | 1,663,092,107 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | xde0ao | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xde0ao/is_this_a_red_flag/ | 0 | I (f19) just got out of a relationship and haven’t been single for a year. I’m starting to get back into the dating world but since im older i now have a lot more freedom to go out with guys. I matched with this guy (m23) on bumble and the past 2 weeks we haven’t been able to go out because of conflicting schedules but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | is this a red flag? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xde0ao/is_this_a_red_flag/ |
Beginning_Ad_9273 | 2023-12-09 18:24:24 | 1,702,146,264 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18ejn5p | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ejn5p/why_do_i_get_bored_fast/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I need some advice. A little background: I (23F) am rather shy, and have developed some trust issues after being bullied in middle school. This has caused me to not be great at building friendship, even in high school - the trauma was still pretty fresh and, due to some bad friendship choices, I ended up n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do I get bored fast? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ejn5p/why_do_i_get_bored_fast/ |
zelkoo | 2020-03-07 08:57:20 | 1,583,571,440 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fesntg | true | null | 108 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/fesntg/most_of_the_women_on_tinder_dont_really_have_a/ | 59 | It seems like nost of them are dead inside or something because everytime I ask a women about her hobbies the response I get is similar to the in the title. How do you find interesting women on Tinder? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Most of the women on Tinder dont really have a personality. How do I meet women that have more hobbies than fitness, traveling, food and "vino"? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fesntg/most_of_the_women_on_tinder_dont_really_have_a/ |
canadevil | 2019-07-30 21:18:46 | 1,564,521,526 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cjy9j1 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cjy9j1/best_way_to_transition_from_messaging_on_dating/ | 1 | 36/M, So I am only a few days in using dating apps, I have had conversations with a few people, nothing really went anywhere. One girl asked if I wanted to go for a coffee next week, i didn't really know what to do so I asked if i should give her my number and she replied by giving me her email and said to text it? I s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best way to transition from messaging on dating apps to phone texting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cjy9j1/best_way_to_transition_from_messaging_on_dating/ |
burningbrasallday | 2024-06-13 17:56:11 | 1,718,301,371 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1df57y6 | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1df57y6/are_people_not_into_making_conversation_when/ | 20 | I (31F) have been running to a lot of matches that don’t seem to have much for conversation or a poor communicators, men and women both. Like either 1) they will participate in an interview type conversation where I ask all of the questions and it’s not reciprocated 2) they give short answers that don’t give the conver... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are people not into making conversation when matching on dating apps? | 20 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1df57y6/are_people_not_into_making_conversation_when/ |
Jamflo92 | 2020-06-16 13:55:21 | 1,592,315,721 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ha4gke | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ha4gke/frustrated/ | 4 | Do you ever get frustrated when people tell you just to focus on yourself rather than attempt to date? I’ve been single for close to five years, and I’ve grown a lot during this time period and have truly put myself first. I have a good group of friends, and I’m not lonely. Additionally, I’m not opposed to being single... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Frustrated | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ha4gke/frustrated/ |
[deleted] | 2020-10-16 04:52:35 | 1,602,823,955 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app'] | 0 | jc3kmw | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jc3kmw/is_there_a_dating_appsite_which_shows_you_just_a/ | 6 | Like a list of people with their bios, with age selfies hobbies etc, rather then the swipe method? Similar to discord servers with a "introduction" channel. If you've seen this post before, its because im a idiot and forgot my throwaway password so i made another one. Enjoy your day! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a dating app/site which shows you just a list? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jc3kmw/is_there_a_dating_appsite_which_shows_you_just_a/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-06 16:11:07 | 1,402,071,067 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 27h9c1 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/27h9c1/online_dating_question_for_women_giving_out_your/ | 1 | For those of you who are experienced with the online dating thing, I've a question for you. When a man asks for your number, do you give him a Google Voice number through which he can still contact you as a temporary until you feel you can really trust him, or is it really not that big of a deal and you just give him y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating Question for Women - Giving out your number | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/27h9c1/online_dating_question_for_women_giving_out_your/ |
espyrae2468 | 2022-06-13 12:07:25 | 1,655,122,045 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | vbaoco | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/vbaoco/anyone_else_noticing_anything_weird_on_social/ | 3 | Over the past week I’ve had multiple views and a couple add requests from out of state strangers on LinkedIn. I don’t usually accept unless there are connections or I recognize the name. I have googled a few of these and stand outs include a guy who was arrested for sex trafficking and a guy whose internet presence is ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Anyone else noticing anything weird on social media? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vbaoco/anyone_else_noticing_anything_weird_on_social/ |
that_one_Kirov | 2022-07-27 15:33:16 | 1,658,935,996 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w9htm6 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w9htm6/should_i18m_mention_that_i_want_fwbs_in_my_tinder/ | 3 | Basically, the question in the title. The problem is: when I mention it, I get zero likes at all, while if I don't, it's still possible to find FWBs(which was what I did...it ended, though, which is the reason I'm on tinder now). | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I(18M) mention that I want FWBs in my tinder bio? | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w9htm6/should_i18m_mention_that_i_want_fwbs_in_my_tinder/ |
Scarlet_hearts | 2019-12-27 21:11:56 | 1,577,481,116 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | eggz96 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eggz96/whats_the_best_time_to_ask_the_question/ | 2 | What would you guys consider the 'best' or 'right' time to bring up the exclusivity/"what are we?" question to a person you're dating? Context: I (23F) have been talking to and have gone on a few dates with a guy (25M). We've known of each other for a while (we've matched on tinder a few times in the last few years) bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Whats the best time to ask THE question? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eggz96/whats_the_best_time_to_ask_the_question/ |
love2bake999 | 2020-02-10 02:03:26 | 1,581,300,206 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | f1j8eh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f1j8eh/please_help_me_reconcile_this_in_my_head/ | 1 | I’m 60(f) was married 35 years, divorced for 2 and met a guy on Hinge a couple of months ago. We started seeing each other and he was sweet, patient (and lord knows I needed patience but that’s another part of Reddit lol) and there was loads of physical attraction. BUT...there were red flags (cigarette smoker....drank ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Please help me reconcile this in my head | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f1j8eh/please_help_me_reconcile_this_in_my_head/ |
Oooolah320 | 2017-04-19 06:37:22 | 1,492,583,842 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 668kj2 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/668kj2/back_at_it_again/ | 4 | This is my first thread on Reddit so be nice? haha Anyhow, I am recently single after a 4 month relationship that we both seemingly got into after being tired of dating, and not actually because we had a connection. (I know, glad we figured that out early) I am again realizing how much work dating seems to be now days.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Back at it again | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/668kj2/back_at_it_again/ |
brklynbby_ | 2024-04-05 07:08:44 | 1,712,300,924 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bwbr1o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bwbr1o/should_i_reach_out_to_my_fwb_for_the_second_time/ | 1 | I met this girl on tinder and we straight met just to have sex, it went well i guess, then i reached out back a week later asking if we could meet for a second time and she left me on seen, i double texted and she said she would be busy that week that’s why she didn’t reply, i didn’t reply to that text. it’s been a wee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out to my FWB for the second time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bwbr1o/should_i_reach_out_to_my_fwb_for_the_second_time/ |
TinyBusHome | 2021-09-06 18:29:08 | 1,630,952,948 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | pj5c64 | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/pj5c64/thinking_about_jumping_into_old_again/ | 14 | 58f. It's been a long while since I tried dating apps; I'm normally fairly content without company besides my dog and cat. However, I recently moved my Skoolie home to a wonderful, yet somewhat isolated property, and I find myself longing for connection. I'm not on Facebook (not a good fit for me) and circumstances pre... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Thinking about jumping into OLD again... | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/pj5c64/thinking_about_jumping_into_old_again/ |
tmps1993 | 2020-10-09 23:02:59 | 1,602,284,579 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'plenty of fish', 'okcupid'] | 0 | j89f43 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j89f43/whats_the_best_free_dating_apps/ | 1 | I’m on Bumble, Hinge, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish and Tinder. I almost never get replies. I think part of the problem is the damn swiping instead of being able to receive or send a message, probably missed out on a lot of matches because of that. There’s more apps that are labeled as “free” but a “free” app that won’t let ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What’s the best free dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j89f43/whats_the_best_free_dating_apps/ |
idontwannascrewitup | 2019-12-10 05:16:55 | 1,575,955,015 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e8m8gl | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e8m8gl/how_do_i_start_to_escalate_physically/ | 25 | I (20M) met this girl (19F) on tinder, and she's really great. We've been on 5 dates now and I still haven't had the nerves to even hold her hand. I've never dated anyone before so I don't really know what I'm doing. I have been too scared about making her uncomfortable that I haven't made any moves. Our next date is t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I start to escalate physically? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e8m8gl/how_do_i_start_to_escalate_physically/ |
Jdell168 | 2023-11-13 10:55:20 | 1,699,872,920 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 17u85l6 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17u85l6/have_you_tried_fb_dating/ | 6 | I have been divorced for almost 6 years. I have had a couple relationships. However most of that time I have been single and dating. I have tried bumble, hinge, match, pof, okcupid and recently FB dating. My experience tells me that FB dating is the best, mainly because it is free. It’s glitchy and shows me women from ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Have you tried FB dating? | 6 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17u85l6/have_you_tried_fb_dating/ |
throwawayy24724194 | 2021-06-18 12:08:52 | 1,624,018,132 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | o2nlwv | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o2nlwv/all_the_guys_ive_28f_dated_have_said_they_dont/ | 2 | As the question says, not sure if I'm making them insecure/doing something wrong or they're just insecure and not for me. For context, current guy I'm dating who recently said this, I shower with attention any chance I get, talk to him daily, booked a trip for his birthday in a few weeks, cook dinner for him, he crashe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | All the guys I've (28/F) dated have said they don't feel they meet my expectations or match up to my level. Is this their insecurities or my problem? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o2nlwv/all_the_guys_ive_28f_dated_have_said_they_dont/ |
HAHA009 | 2019-09-19 02:23:40 | 1,568,859,820 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | d67m5v | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d67m5v/so_me_and_this_girl_just_ended_suddenly_and_it/ | 0 | So I’ve been talking to this girl for 2 years but she lives in a different state and we started seeing each other last year in person after talking for months and months. She was on tinder and never really had a boy in her life treat her the way I did because her dad kept her locked away because of school etc. She ende... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So me and this girl just ended suddenly and it was completely out of nowhere. She just lashed out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d67m5v/so_me_and_this_girl_just_ended_suddenly_and_it/ |
passionlessDrone | 2018-07-07 01:49:22 | 1,530,928,162 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 8wpnde | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wpnde/stood_up_after_very_fun_texting/ | 2 | Matched a girl on CMB. We messaged through app, went to phone texting after she said she was pretty sure I wasn't psycho. Very fun conversation back and forth, this girl clearly has some style to her; witty repartee, clearly clever enough to get by, and sassy as fuck. We agree to meet the following night. (tonight) I'm... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Stood Up After Very Fun Texting | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wpnde/stood_up_after_very_fun_texting/ |
Demi76 | 2023-09-06 05:09:18 | 1,693,976,958 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16bbaau | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16bbaau/the_3_fs/ | 1 | Recently been dating, going out to clubs/bars, online, even if I just see a cute girl in the street I’ll talk to her etc. When it comes to dating I’ll have on and off days in general with Some interactions being entertaining some successful some unsuccessful and some (like the one I’m about to describe lmao) Just leave... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The 3 F’s | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16bbaau/the_3_fs/ |
google_certified13 | 2021-10-30 02:03:20 | 1,635,559,400 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | qirnto | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qirnto/omg_ive_been_lightly_talking_to_this_chick_for_a/ | 0 | So i met this chick on hinge. We talked super briefly but ended up exchanging numbers. A week goes by with light, hey how are you, oh plans canceled no big deal kinda thing. so we end up making plans to go have a drink and meet some friends. very casual. she calls me to tell me shes on her way, she then says on the pho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | omg i've been lightly talking to this chick for a few days and this is what she says ... | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qirnto/omg_ive_been_lightly_talking_to_this_chick_for_a/ |
bootyholeminer | 2017-10-19 22:52:26 | 1,508,453,546 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 77i1pu | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/77i1pu/okcupid_etiquette_when_she_hasnt_responded_but_i/ | 1 | I messaged (24f) with something funny and we exchanged about 5 messages each, felt like I made a good impression so asked for the date. Each time she replied quickly, but it's been a day so far and she has not responded to the date request and she was online a while when I sent her it. It was along the lines of: Are yo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OKcupid etiquette when she hasn't responded, but I got her attention | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/77i1pu/okcupid_etiquette_when_she_hasnt_responded_but_i/ |
Maximus_Decimus92 | 2016-07-07 21:09:35 | 1,467,925,775 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4rqxsi | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/4rqxsi/how_do_i_handle_this_situation/ | 2 | So there is this girl from Tinder. She is beautiful and geeky. We really had good vibes the first few nights texting. Then I would not hear back, and she'd say something like sorry I didn't have my phone on me. I texted her yesterday afternoon but haven't heard back since then. I don't want to seem needy. I want to set... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I handle this situation? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4rqxsi/how_do_i_handle_this_situation/ |
oog_ooog | 2024-08-04 20:23:25 | 1,722,803,005 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1ek4www | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ek4www/met_a_woman_on_facebook_dating_and_i_use/ | 1 | Met a woman off Facebook dating and I really like her. I use a different last name on Facebook. I just thought last night that she doesn’t know my real last name. I’ve been seeing her for 5 weeks now. Not sure how to tell her. I’m scared she’ll be upset over this. Any ideas on what to do? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Met a woman on Facebook dating and I use different name on Facebook | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ek4www/met_a_woman_on_facebook_dating_and_i_use/ |
mlb1998 | 2018-03-19 01:51:35 | 1,521,424,295 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 85g0hv | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/85g0hv/never_spoke_again/ | 1 | So 19M, matched with this girl on tinder about a month ago, chatted for a week, went and grabbed coffee and ended up talking for almost 5 hours (did not expect that). She was cute but I never felt crazily in love with her. Second date a week later for breakfast went well, conversation flowed well again. Awkward hug at ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never spoke again | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/85g0hv/never_spoke_again/ |
AlphA_97 | 2019-01-07 23:59:07 | 1,546,905,547 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ado100 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ado100/struggling_to_meet_girls/ | 2 | So I (21M) have never been in a relationship and seem to be pretty tragic when it comes to the whole dating thing. I've never had a girlfriend (Not from lack of trying, came close once or twice but just fizzled out). I'm at the point where I'd just like to meet someone to do stuff with that isn't my friend group. I don... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Struggling to meet girls | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ado100/struggling_to_meet_girls/ |
Cheap-Dream9497 | 2022-10-11 21:20:59 | 1,665,523,259 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | y1ksoo | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y1ksoo/should_i_date_an_early_20s_guy_who_has_2_kids_by/ | 0 | I met him on dating apps. His bio said "I am looking for a genuine person for relationships" We exchanged our instagrams which I usually do not do but talking to him on app gave me safe vibe from him. He only posts about his children on instagram and it just looks so wholesome. He always tries to go to see his children... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I date an early 20s guy who has 2 kids by 2 women? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y1ksoo/should_i_date_an_early_20s_guy_who_has_2_kids_by/ |
Due_Recognition4698 | 2022-09-07 23:09:14 | 1,662,592,154 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | x8jjc4 | true | Discussion | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/x8jjc4/when_do_you_ask_about_the_last_relationship/ | 23 | I (F 41) have been OLD for the past three months. It’s not my first rodeo, having done OLD in the late aughts. In fact, I met my ex partner and child’s dad through OK Cupid. That being said, I’m in a new stage of life and dating others who are, too, and the other party’s last relationship—specifically, its timeline—see... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | When do you ask about the last relationship? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/x8jjc4/when_do_you_ask_about_the_last_relationship/ |
nycdumpling | 2024-03-04 15:08:36 | 1,709,564,916 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1b6d6x6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b6d6x6/is_it_weird_when_people_ask_if_i_have_travel/ | 1 | I’m a single male in my 30’s and live in a big metro city. Looking to settle down and have a family. Ive done some small trips throughout the years but traveling isn’t really a priority for me as it requires constant planning and I like to just relax locally. Whenever I go on first dates, I’ll occasionally come across ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it weird when people ask if I have travel plans on a first date often? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b6d6x6/is_it_weird_when_people_ask_if_i_have_travel/ |
wtffellification | 2022-11-26 11:16:09 | 1,669,461,369 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | z555ju | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z555ju/i_28m_went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_from_russia_22/ | 2 | We matched on Bumble and met somewhere in Central Europe, where I'm from. There were some apparent cultural differences but we broke through the barrier and feel like we clicked. As we were walking, she was constantly bumping into me lightly and brushing against my arm so I felt like being close didn't bother her (alth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (28m) went on a date with a girl from Russia (22). In the middle of the date I asked if I can put my arm around her and she said she needs a long, LONG time for "that kind of thing". At the end of the date she hugged me. I'm not sure how to proceed or whether I should | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z555ju/i_28m_went_on_a_date_with_a_girl_from_russia_22/ |
Retrolancer0 | 2023-06-28 18:24:27 | 1,687,976,667 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14lh1dz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14lh1dz/my_ex_f27_came_back_into_my_m28_life_again/ | 1 | I don’t know if I’m being used or if I’m just overthinking it. My ex and I broke up in last week of February and she wanted to be friends. I agreed and during this time she told me about this new friend he and her did a hike and went out etc. She couldn’t tell me she found a new guy already and well I was right so I we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My ex F(27) came back into my M(28) life again | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14lh1dz/my_ex_f27_came_back_into_my_m28_life_again/ |
Snoo51291 | 2021-04-01 03:32:07 | 1,617,247,927 | null | null | 0 | mhmo8z | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mhmo8z/i_wish/ | 25 | 41 [F4M] IN, USA, I wish there was someone out there who- I was attracted to, that liked me back... Was into the same things as me, and liked me back... Was their best self, and liked me back... Appreciated me and knew my worth, and liked me back... Is encouraging, and liked me back... Was honest and genuine, and liked... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I wish... | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mhmo8z/i_wish/ |
Aj1286 | 2018-03-18 23:12:23 | 1,521,414,743 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 85f1cb | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/85f1cb/how_to_tell_a_guy_youre_not_interested_and_the/ | 3 | So I matched with this guy on Bumble yesterday. We chatted a bit. He said today that I'm too far away to meet, which I totally get. But then he said that he had a friend who may be interested. This guy takes it upon himself to send his friend my Bumble pictures and (granted I said fine because I have nothing to lose), ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to tell a guy you're not interested and the situation was awkward to begin with? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/85f1cb/how_to_tell_a_guy_youre_not_interested_and_the/ |
Dgb_iii | 2019-08-20 15:51:39 | 1,566,316,299 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | ct12v7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ct12v7/28m_i_feel_undatable_because_i_have_a_child/ | 1 | Hey everyone. I want to preface this by saying that I am not complaining about being a father, I love my son very much. His mother, who I thought I would marry, and I split up about a year ago. I am having an extremely difficult time processing the break up, while she has seemingly moved on very easily. I live 500 mile... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28M - I feel undatable because I have a child. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ct12v7/28m_i_feel_undatable_because_i_have_a_child/ |
susslifter | 2023-07-10 21:57:50 | 1,689,026,270 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 14w7rnn | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14w7rnn/messed_up_a_possible_third_date/ | 1 | Last night I (M:20) had really good second date with this cute woman (F:19) from tinder and on the same night she suggested we go out again in a couple of days to which I asked if she wanted to come by my place on Wednesday to which she responded with "I'll think about it :)". It's been close to a day and still no resp... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Messed up a possible third date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14w7rnn/messed_up_a_possible_third_date/ |
InvincibleSunglass | 2024-09-01 16:29:22 | 1,725,208,162 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f6il2k | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6il2k/need_college_tinder_advice/ | 0 | I’m a 20M Been messaging with someone for a week, wanna meet up. Two options I’ve decided on You free tonight? My buddy’s throwing a rager at [apartment complex] tonight, invited like 100 people. You can swing by, bring some friends, we can hang out? Or You doing anything on Labor Day tomorrow? Want to get lunch or som... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need college tinder advice | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6il2k/need_college_tinder_advice/ |
Mysterious_Tour_8106 | 2022-12-03 02:14:48 | 1,670,033,688 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | zb4zxb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zb4zxb/asked_me_how_much_i_pay_for_dating_site/ | 2 | A woman I met online asked me how much I pay for the dating site, I don’t want to respond to this because it’s TMI of course so how do I respond? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asked me how much I pay for dating site | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zb4zxb/asked_me_how_much_i_pay_for_dating_site/ |
misshortcake | 2019-02-12 07:23:18 | 1,549,956,198 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | apqs89 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/apqs89/it_happened_too_many_times_for_me/ | 3 | So I want to share this because it has happened to me couple times. I \[25F\] been using dating apps for awhile now and I noticed that some guys get on dating app just to get over their exes. Thats a huge red flag for me, cause that just tells you they are not on there looking for serious relationship. Like last weeken... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It happened too many times for me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/apqs89/it_happened_too_many_times_for_me/ |
[deleted] | 2015-02-12 21:21:05 | 1,423,776,065 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2voynr | null | null | 7 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2voynr/guy_ive_been_sort_of_into_just_nonchalantly/ | 0 | Hey all! So I just wanted to get this off my chest. This is the first time something like this happened to me and I'm all sorts of torn up. I dated some guy for a year. He moved away and I still harbored feelings. He told me in so many words he wasn't looking for commitment (not that big of a surprise since he's 2000+ ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Guy I've been sort of into just nonchalantly texted me he has kids... | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2voynr/guy_ive_been_sort_of_into_just_nonchalantly/ |
peter1187 | 2023-06-08 10:32:46 | 1,686,220,366 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1445kwl | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1445kwl/profile_help_32m/ | 1 | Hi I was wondering if I could get some advice on my profile what do you think I should amend or change to make it stand out a bit more. I realise due to my height OLD is always going to work against me but it’s always worth trying in combination with IPD. https://imgur.com/a/A1CGcl1 Any advice would be appreciated. Muc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile Help - (32M) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1445kwl/profile_help_32m/ |
nofriends-throwaway | 2023-03-15 01:14:10 | 1,678,842,850 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11rhflw | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11rhflw/how_do_you_bring_up_dates_while_using_dating_apps/ | 1 | It seems like currently when trying to use dating apps I try to steer conversations towards something actionable and finding an activity to do as a date, but every time I mention a date I end up getting ghosted. I try to get off the apps relatively soon because I dont want to waste either of our time by being pen pals ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you bring up dates while using dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11rhflw/how_do_you_bring_up_dates_while_using_dating_apps/ |
No-Veggies | 2022-05-16 02:25:02 | 1,652,667,902 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | uqlim3 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uqlim3/divorced_for_2_years_yet_to_find_the_enthusiasm/ | 2 | 29M - Long story short, had an ugly divorce 2 years ago, I’ve dated someone once who were a great person, yet I felt like I am still not ready to date. Now that 2 years have passed and another 4 years of marriage, a total of 6 years that my conversation with the opposite sex were minimal to none. I dislike any social m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Divorced for 2 years, yet to find the enthusiasm to daye | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uqlim3/divorced_for_2_years_yet_to_find_the_enthusiasm/ |
bluelemonparty | 2015-10-22 19:18:12 | 1,445,541,492 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3pt6h5 | null | null | 15 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3pt6h5/what_to_wear_for_first_date_as_a_guy/ | 2 | I am meeting a woman from Tinder in a few hours, but I'm not sure what to wear. I don't want to show up too fancy and falsely set the tone for further dates. We are both 26, and we agreed to meet at a local coffee shop. My dating experience comes from dating college girls, so this will be the first time I will be going... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to wear for first date as a guy? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3pt6h5/what_to_wear_for_first_date_as_a_guy/ |
throwaway_east-shock | 2024-01-22 21:21:47 | 1,705,958,507 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 19d6qvc | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19d6qvc/the_illusion_of_perfection_my_fivemonth_tinder/ | 1 | Chapter 1: Swipe Right into Confusion Our story begins on Reddit, where I shared my experience with Kelvin (name changed) , a man I met on Tinder. Kelvin a self-proclaimed fitness guru, pretty successful hosts of a podcast 'Fit Form Fellow' (name changed). He dazzled me with his charm and apparent dedication to health ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The Illusion of Perfection: My Five-Month Tinder Tale with the Fitness Podcaster | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19d6qvc/the_illusion_of_perfection_my_fivemonth_tinder/ |
[deleted] | 2021-12-27 23:54:31 | 1,640,649,271 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rq110u | true | Question | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rq110u/dating_in_the_21st_century/ | 1 | 35f How do people feel about dating in this day and age of technology? With dating apps and social media do you think its made dating easier or harder? My take on it is its made hooking up 10x easier but harder when it comes to finding love and something long term. Even if you find someone and begin a relationship, the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating in the 21st century... | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rq110u/dating_in_the_21st_century/ |
Girl720 | 2018-05-13 03:01:56 | 1,526,180,516 | 0 | ['swipe', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8j149o | false | Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8j149o/is_there_such_thing_as_coincidence/ | 3 | On Friday May 4th, at my new job, they introduced me to this guy who works on a different department, but same company nonetheless. I thought he was so handsome and had an instant crush on him. I kept thinking about him over the weekend, even looked him up on FB \(creepy lmao\) and I just confirmed his attractiveness. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there such thing as coincidence? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8j149o/is_there_such_thing_as_coincidence/ |
MilkUp08 | 2019-10-01 11:10:48 | 1,569,928,248 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | dbrt7d | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dbrt7d/4th_date_but_not_interested_in_me/ | 0 | Hey there I'm (25M) matched with this girl (25F) who's recently moved to the city I live in . Texting started interesting , looked like she finds me at least a bit attractive in some way so we changed numbers and had a date in a Thai restaurant. And then we had like 2 and a half hour walk and talk where mostly I talked... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 4th date , but not interested in me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dbrt7d/4th_date_but_not_interested_in_me/ |
[deleted] | 2018-12-19 19:51:35 | 1,545,249,095 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | a7pv6t | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a7pv6t/coping_strategies_to_help_me_25m_be_alone_while_i/ | 1 | Maybe one day I’ll be capable of meeting people or even eventually starting a lasting healthy relationship with someone. But until then it looks like I’m a wolf pack of one. I’m not capable of seeing people casually, and dating apps never worked for me, even after year of trying multiple apps on a daily basis. In the m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Coping strategies to help me [25M] be alone while I break from dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a7pv6t/coping_strategies_to_help_me_25m_be_alone_while_i/ |
BlueEyesDarkMagican | 2021-08-06 02:03:44 | 1,628,215,424 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | oyx73c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oyx73c/meeting_classmates/ | 1 | New semester starts and I'm attending on campous, last few were online. Decided to try dating again but online dating is getting me no where fast. Deciding to do things the old fashioned and talk in person, any good ways to break the ice. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting classmates. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oyx73c/meeting_classmates/ |
Ineedanewplaylist | 2022-07-31 14:21:01 | 1,659,277,261 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wcpuza | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/wcpuza/how_to_let_someone_down_easy/ | 19 | So I’ve jumped into the dating scene after being married many,many years (we are legally separated) I’m 47. I feel good. I look great and I’m ready I’ve gone out with 2 attractive men (off Tinder) Admittedly I didn’t feel that “spark” with either. I need that elusive spark of attraction for me to be into you. People ra... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to let someone down easy? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wcpuza/how_to_let_someone_down_easy/ |
Tasis2200 | 2023-10-28 18:22:36 | 1,698,517,356 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17ijqff | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17ijqff/i_fell_in_the_dating_apps_trap_i_cant_escape_from/ | 1 | 23M, I think I'm addicted to dating apps. Briefly, as of January 2023 I had only 3 experiences with girls, kind of short term (2-3 months max), that I met from school or university. For 22 years, months or years could pass by without any kind of relationship and sex and I didn't have too much problem with that. On febr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I fell in the dating apps trap, I can't escape from them | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17ijqff/i_fell_in_the_dating_apps_trap_i_cant_escape_from/ |
SpaceWithDiamonds | 2023-01-06 22:00:02 | 1,673,042,402 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1056vu5 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1056vu5/i_28f_got_ghosted_28m_and_im_just_a_little/ | 1 | Howdy, Redditors. I'm coming here mostly to vent. I recently started talking to someone, about a month ago, off Hinge. We got along immediately fantastically - great chemistry, similar philosophies, both on similar life paths. We originally planned on seeing each other after the holidays because we were both busy with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (28F) got ghosted (28M) and I'm just a little flabbergasted by it. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1056vu5/i_28f_got_ghosted_28m_and_im_just_a_little/ |
getsnackapp | 2021-11-08 22:28:27 | 1,636,410,507 | null | null | 0 | qpozc7 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qpozc7/what_do_you_wish_dating_apps_did_better/ | 4 | Is it the dating app or modern dating or both | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do you wish dating apps did better? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qpozc7/what_do_you_wish_dating_apps_did_better/ |
leroy_hoffenfeffer | 2019-09-09 07:10:33 | 1,568,013,033 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | d1nhxq | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d1nhxq/how_to_approach_women/ | 23 | This was a comment I made on another post related to why girls date "deuecebags". I have a question. So I'd like to think I'm a nice guy. I keep myself in what I consider to be great shape (box 4 times a week), have a great job that I love. I'd like to think I'm attractive. And I'd like to think that I'm confident in t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to approach women | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d1nhxq/how_to_approach_women/ |
angrygr33k | 2019-05-02 12:49:33 | 1,556,801,373 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | bjuk7n | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bjuk7n/how_to_make_a_proper_cold_opening/ | 4 | All, As most of us post-college folks know, the ladies disappear and I have no idea where to find them. So I have since tried match.com and it has only resulted in 1 message back from 20 sent out. I was hoping to figure out a good first message that doesn't leave me left on read or unread at all. My format as of now is... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to make a proper cold opening. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bjuk7n/how_to_make_a_proper_cold_opening/ |
post_plutom | 2022-04-06 07:40:41 | 1,649,230,841 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | txgs26 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/txgs26/single_women_2535_where_can_one_find_you/ | 2 | Exactly what it says on the title. Tinder has never been successful for me and I prefer meeting people organically, the trouble seems to be all I really meet through hobbies are married middle aged women or women already in relationships. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single women 25-35, where can one find you? | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/txgs26/single_women_2535_where_can_one_find_you/ |
uwantallofdis | 2023-11-15 15:04:16 | 1,700,060,656 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 17vvjpy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17vvjpy/is_it_normal_that_none_of_my_dates_come_from/ | 1 | So, a bit about me: I'm a guy in his 20s that just graduated from law school. I think I'm decent looking (not the best skin, but I'm a bit more than average height, have a good build, and dress well). The last year has had its ups and downs. Two summers ago, my first and only serious relationship ended. It had lasted a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal that none of my dates come from existing friends? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17vvjpy/is_it_normal_that_none_of_my_dates_come_from/ |
JammingScientist | 2023-10-08 14:31:35 | 1,696,775,495 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1730kg1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1730kg1/i_think_its_odd_that_men_on_here_act_like_women/ | 1 | When guys say that they'll go for any type of woman, they're only talking about a certain type of woman. Usually white or east Asian, thin, young. If you don't fit that category, you're out of luck and aren't even seen as an option. Men are only crying about WHITE or EA women not wanting them. The standards are much lo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think it's odd that men on here act like women have the craziest standards, and make it seem like they don't have these stupidly high standards too | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1730kg1/i_think_its_odd_that_men_on_here_act_like_women/ |
peepeepoopoo90 | 2022-06-05 22:30:53 | 1,654,468,253 | null | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | v5oas2 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v5oas2/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ | 1 | We met on a dating app. We’ve been talking for a month. We’ve been friendly. I flirted. He sent a heart then he started initiating the convo more for a week. But now it dried down. I think it’s my turn to start the convo?? Is it? Idk I’m overthinking and have no experience, I think he likes me but idk, he didn’t say an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m not sure what to do | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v5oas2/im_not_sure_what_to_do/ |
RandomUser4857 | 2023-07-26 14:28:39 | 1,690,381,719 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 15a7dac | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15a7dac/how_to_fix_myself/ | 1 | So I'm 33. I'm 6ft4, athletic build, into IT. Out of my whole life, I've dated 2 girls and been with 4. The 2 girls I've dated I wasn't attracted to and nearly cried wvery time we had sex but I knew I could never get any girls so I was happy I atleast had the girl at the time. I've only ever been with 1 girl (fwb) situ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to fix myself | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15a7dac/how_to_fix_myself/ |
zxreu | 2023-03-11 03:32:13 | 1,678,505,533 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 11o9lh1 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11o9lh1/is_he_interested_or_should_i_move_on/ | 3 | I have been getting to know a man 34, I’m 37 who is very busy with his career. On our first date he told me that March was going to be a really busy month for him. We’ve seen each other a total of three times and the times we’ve spent have gone well. We’ve both expressed interest in getting to know each other more and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he interested or should I move on? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11o9lh1/is_he_interested_or_should_i_move_on/ |
Bisjoux | 2022-09-27 08:36:25 | 1,664,267,785 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | xpax9i | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/xpax9i/what_i_hate_most_about_old_the_disappearing/ | 14 | Title says it all. Why do people do this? I appreciate it can happen when you’ve matched and there’s no real connection. I’ve had one though where we both said we felt a connection but then pfff gone. No warning at all. Not an app glitch either. I had a one of those on Tinder where I had one profile reset as if we were... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | What I hate most about OLD - the disappearing | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/xpax9i/what_i_hate_most_about_old_the_disappearing/ |
PastyChild | 2020-05-18 19:08:47 | 1,589,828,927 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gm7wjy | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gm7wjy/advice_for_dating_in_2020/ | 9 | Hey guys -- I live in London where we're currently allowed to see one person at a time who's not in our household (finally) so long as we keep 2m apart and stay outside. This is pretty exciting for me, as I was never exactly thrilled with the whole virtual dating idea, and now I'd love to get back out there after a few... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice for Dating in 2020 | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gm7wjy/advice_for_dating_in_2020/ |
Any-Daikon-1926 | 2024-04-23 02:45:31 | 1,713,840,331 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1catr31 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1catr31/should_i_respond/ | 1 | 30/F) been on 2 dates with a 36/M He was good on bio and paper and in real life. After second date, he had a work trip, both of us agreed to meet the week after he came back, since he had to catch up with work post trip. Felt him pulling away and when he came back, he didn’t text me. I felt I was being ghosted which su... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I respond? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1catr31/should_i_respond/ |
fuidfikekxxop | 2022-04-06 18:42:29 | 1,649,270,549 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | txt2vm | true | Question | 33 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/txt2vm/how_to_find_early_20s_women_to_marry/ | 0 | I’m a late 20’s M, professionally successful, own a home in a nice neighborhood near a major coastal city, in shape, and I want to start a family soon. Most of the women I see on dating apps are too old for me, like 30-35. I want to date women in the 20-25 age range and my goal is to be married and have 3-5 kids (which... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find early 20’s women to marry? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/txt2vm/how_to_find_early_20s_women_to_marry/ |
Dotsal | 2023-12-15 13:09:11 | 1,702,645,751 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18izpva | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18izpva/checking_boxes/ | 2 | Preface: Posting a few historic topics here, not everything in my post history is about one person before everyone tells me to move on. I'm 35, have been very actively dating the last couple of years. In the age if online dating the first 3 dates imo are what I call "bullshit dating" . It's just meeting someone to see ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Checking Boxes | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18izpva/checking_boxes/ |
chairmankim1 | 2020-11-06 21:43:28 | 1,604,699,008 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | jpe52r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jpe52r/what_was_your_initial_likes_when_you_first_opened/ | 1 | Having only 13 likes within 1 hour. Suppose they are bots being that there are no matches. This app similar to tinder/bumble? Anybody have any luck with dating app? This is the last dating app I am trying, if no luck then just meeting ladies in person. Guessing I’m in the below average bracket. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What was your initial likes when you first opened with OKCupid? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jpe52r/what_was_your_initial_likes_when_you_first_opened/ |
fufu1260 | 2024-06-04 12:53:03 | 1,717,505,583 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1d7wesu | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d7wesu/should_i_be_worried/ | 1 | Hi so I 20f started a FWB with 23m after being off and on for a while. So like. We met back February and we had sex (not our first times) together for the first time on my bday. And then went on and off for a while cause he wanted to find other people but didn’t. And so then in April we linked again. But then proceeded... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I be worried? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7wesu/should_i_be_worried/ |
amekooky | 2016-09-27 20:09:40 | 1,475,006,980 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 54sjnn | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/54sjnn/that_chemistry_though/ | 1 | I'm a single guy...So my roommate (female) has brought her sister around quite a bit, and its just been one of those weird things were we have slowly bonded everytime she comes over. I typically only pull average looking girls, with not much of a personality. This girl however is gorgeous, and full of personality. Now ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | that chemistry though. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/54sjnn/that_chemistry_though/ |
spookyghost123456 | 2020-05-28 11:22:21 | 1,590,664,941 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | gs4gnd | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gs4gnd/how_bad_is_it_that_i_didnt_offer_to_pay_on_the/ | 3 | For context I’m a 19 year old female, and he’s an 18 year old. We met on an online dating app and it was our first time dating someone we met on the internet. I’ve only been on a date once since I broke up with my ex a year and a half ago, so I’m pretty new to the dating scene. After we had finished our food we were st... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How bad is it that I didn’t offer to pay on the first date? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gs4gnd/how_bad_is_it_that_i_didnt_offer_to_pay_on_the/ |
masteele17 | 2023-11-05 00:18:45 | 1,699,143,525 | 0 | null | 0 | 17nzo1z | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17nzo1z/elusive_30_s_women/ | 1 | After I have a few more bad experiences with late 20s women I'm officially done trying to give these people a chance. (At least for the foreseeable future) I have no desire to have kids so l know that limits my choices. How do we find these 30s women or even early 40s. I know I can keep trying the local bars/pubs but a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Elusive 30" s women | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17nzo1z/elusive_30_s_women/ |
badmonkingpin | 2018-03-05 21:45:39 | 1,520,286,339 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 829nli | false | FEEEMAAALES | 163 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/829nli/when_you_go_out_for_a_drink_with_a_girl_for_the/ | 452 | I'm pretty new to actually going on "dates" with girls. I recently moved to a new city and I've gone out with about 4-5 girls now "for a drink" (met them all on Tinder) and every time the night has ended with the girl in my bed/me in the girls bed one way or another. Doesn't always end in sex but at least some sexual a... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | When you go "out for a drink" with a girl for the first time, do you expect it to end in sex/something sexual? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/829nli/when_you_go_out_for_a_drink_with_a_girl_for_the/ |
thenedione | 2018-12-09 19:01:41 | 1,544,382,101 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | a4nl45 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a4nl45/add_on_social_media_after_matching_but_before/ | 3 | I'm sitting here swiping and I see soooo many women put their Instagram handles on Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder. I'm pretty active on Instagram so I have to admit I'll search them real quick, but I'll get confused when the account is private. So it got me thinking... Have you ever followed someone after matching or swipin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Add on social media after matching but before first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a4nl45/add_on_social_media_after_matching_but_before/ |
solodsnake661 | 2024-06-02 01:34:41 | 1,717,292,081 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d628uq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d628uq/approaching_groups/ | 1 | So I've come to a shocking realization, online dating sucks, so I'm gonna have to actually go out and socialize I guess, however a question I have is as I understand women tend to go out in packs for added protection (very sensible btw men tend to suck) but that leads me to my question, should I address entire groups o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Approaching groups | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d628uq/approaching_groups/ |
jyourman24 | 2018-12-01 06:40:50 | 1,543,646,450 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | a20t24 | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a20t24/would_anyone_be_able_to_give_me_tips_on_my_dating/ | 13 | I don't get that many matches and the few that I get the woman usually never answer. I'm not upset but moreso just confused and would love to get some perspective on why this may be. Thanks in advance Ps: the link below has the pictures of my bumble and tinder pictures as well as my bio. Thanks again https://imgur.com/... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would anyone be able to give me tips on my dating profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a20t24/would_anyone_be_able_to_give_me_tips_on_my_dating/ |
Archonik1 | 2016-01-31 10:27:40 | 1,454,236,060 | 0 | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 43imgb | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/43imgb/tinder_vs_real_life/ | 2 | Do you think it's inherently difficult to match with/go out with attractive girls on tinder compared to asking girls out in real life? I know it's a lot easier to meet girls through tinder just due to the sheer volume of it and the lack of risk, but there's also the terrible guy to girl ratio disparity too. I feel like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder Vs. Real Life | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/43imgb/tinder_vs_real_life/ |
figosnypes | 2020-03-10 19:14:57 | 1,583,867,697 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | fgj824 | true | Question | 33 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fgj824/anyone_else_feel_like_age_matters_if_youre_a_man/ | 0 | It's weird because it's usually women feeling insecure about their age and it is widely believed that women like older men and men like younger women. But I actually feel things are reversed. If you're a woman, your age doesn't really matter as long as you look good. If anything, men actually prefer older women who loo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone else feel like age matters if you're a man but not a woman? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fgj824/anyone_else_feel_like_age_matters_if_youre_a_man/ |
BlackberryTop6388 | 2024-03-27 15:29:28 | 1,711,553,368 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bp4okx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bp4okx/31yo_f_looking_for_outside_advice_for_my_about_me/ | 1 | I think I’ve finally worked up the courage to ask for advice to write a good dating app bio. I’m hoping it’ll help cut down on people who are not looking for the same thing. (I know some still won’t read it.lol) If I should add, remove, or reword anything I’m open to hear it Here is what I currently have: I’m a 31yo la... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 31yo F Looking for outside advice for my “About me”! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bp4okx/31yo_f_looking_for_outside_advice_for_my_about_me/ |
eyelidglue | 2023-10-22 15:26:24 | 1,697,988,384 | 0 | null | 0 | 17dvsh8 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17dvsh8/would_you_ask_for_a_second_date_even_if_the_first/ | 1 | In the event that you were still quite interested in them, but they had given off kind of standoffish uncomfortable vibes? Or would you just wait to hear from them? I went out with someone the other day and had been in a bit of a bad mood so I’m thinking it’s possible they aren’t contacting me because they think I’m no... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you ask for a second date even if the first date was awkward and the other person seemed uninterested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17dvsh8/would_you_ask_for_a_second_date_even_if_the_first/ |
MammothProposal1902 | 2023-04-18 03:13:59 | 1,681,787,639 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12q8b5s | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12q8b5s/i_kind_of_want_to_date_a_girl_but_it_would_affect/ | 2 | I met a girl on Hinge 3 weeks ago and we’ve slept together three or four times. She’s not my usual type, but she’s cute, has great energy, and is super passionate and aggressive in bed. She’s successful, makes more money than me, has a house in a great town. She seems really grounded and cool, and we have the same view... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I kind of want to date a girl but it would affect my friendship with the girl next door | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12q8b5s/i_kind_of_want_to_date_a_girl_but_it_would_affect/ |
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