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InfinityScientist | 2023-02-16 01:29:13 | 1,676,510,953 | null | null | 0 | 113egi4 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/113egi4/this_is_a_poll_for_sociology_purposes_it_is_not/ | 0 | I like to explore the sociology of sex and interracial relationships have always been interesting to me. Plus sexpolls has been deleted. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | This is a poll for sociology purposes. It is not race-related or for my own enjoyment : Women, do you initially engage in casual sex with a black man due to the belief that he has a large phallus? | null | 0.07 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/113egi4/this_is_a_poll_for_sociology_purposes_it_is_not/ |
Jossula | 2022-01-15 10:16:51 | 1,642,241,811 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | s4hcsc | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s4hcsc/what_do_i_29m_get_a_girl_30f_for_her_birthday_if/ | 3 | We met on hinge and I really like her, I was thinking flowers but I'm overthinking it. We have a second date (dinner) planned for the day after her birthday so I'll give her them then. Thanks in advance | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do I (29m) get a girl (30f) for her birthday (if anything) considering we've only been on one date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s4hcsc/what_do_i_29m_get_a_girl_30f_for_her_birthday_if/ |
petitchoufleurxo | 2023-04-06 00:11:58 | 1,680,739,918 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12d2woo | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12d2woo/i_26f_want_to_shoot_my_shot_with_a_25m_in_need_of/ | 1 | I met this guy on a dating app a few months ago. We recently got back in contact, and had a couple of great dates. I met his friends and it feel like I fit right into his friendship group, they all thought I was lovely apparently. That rarely happens for me; we have the same sense of humor and everything I said was wel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [26F] want to shoot my shot with a [25M] in need of a little push | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12d2woo/i_26f_want_to_shoot_my_shot_with_a_25m_in_need_of/ |
AdMaximum9183 | 2023-05-23 15:00:56 | 1,684,854,056 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 13pr0rj | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13pr0rj/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I posted about this once before in another sub with my dating profile and I mostly got dragged for posting my selfies, so I’m trying again here lol. I, (25f), am so ready to start dating again. I’ve been single for a long time, and I have only ever had two relationships. I have tried putting myself back out there but 9... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What am I doing wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13pr0rj/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ |
TAyforLifestyle | 2022-12-31 00:52:01 | 1,672,447,921 | null | ['OLD', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | zzguqy | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zzguqy/looking_at_dating_like_a_job_search_is_reaching/ | 9 | I had my first post-divorce relationship this year-- went down in flames, but taught me a TON and really reminded me how much I enjoy having someone in my life. I met the person I dated on Facebook Dating and felt OK going out with him due to several mutual friends in common, the main one is a realtor and he and his wi... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Looking at Dating like a Job Search-- Is reaching out to your network creepy? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zzguqy/looking_at_dating_like_a_job_search_is_reaching/ |
Designer-Pass3410 | 2023-06-06 10:37:47 | 1,686,047,867 | 0 | null | 0 | 142bqkb | true | null | 273 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/142bqkb/to_be_honest_im_looking_to_have_fun/ | 113 | An average looking man said that to me in DM, but on his profile he says "looking for relationship". C'mon we all know you do that to get more matches to increase your chance to get laid. Being inconsistent in words is such a red flag. Update: My reply to him: "You already decided that I'm the DTF girl so I should have... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "To be honest I'm looking to have fun" | 113 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/142bqkb/to_be_honest_im_looking_to_have_fun/ |
YourMzFortune | 2018-10-24 15:10:58 | 1,540,393,858 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9r0j3y | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9r0j3y/true_tinder_horror_story_women_beware/ | 52 | I had lunch with old colleague last week. We exchanged dating stories. I told her about my "tinder horror story" which was just a guy trying to kiss me after I told him I wasn't interested. Hers was... holy shit. He drugged her and she was confused about what happened. She told her friend she could remember having sex ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | true tinder horror story - women beware | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9r0j3y/true_tinder_horror_story_women_beware/ |
splodgenessabounds | 2021-07-19 12:42:27 | 1,626,698,547 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | onda8v | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/onda8v/old_vs_selling_a_used_vehicle_online/ | 72 | "It's a marketplace people!" Well yes, yes it is (or so I'm told). Herewith etc.: For Sale or Lease Original 1960 English (RHD) bloke (geezer/ guy). Still in reasonable working order; a daily runner. Economical (relative to contemporary plusher variants), runs well when warmed up; versatile (given the age). Chassis: go... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | OLD vs. selling a used vehicle online | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/onda8v/old_vs_selling_a_used_vehicle_online/ |
3FtU | 2022-05-05 20:32:26 | 1,651,782,746 | null | null | 0 | uj6k77 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uj6k77/getting_back_in_the_swing/ | 5 | Hi all, I'm a 31yo male, have been single for 4 years now after a savage break up but I'm ready to meet someone new, however my game is now non existent. My conversations haven't gone any further than a few exchanges, and I can see why, I sound like a damn bot. I'm not flirtatious by nature. I'm more interested in gett... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting back in the swing.. | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uj6k77/getting_back_in_the_swing/ |
MFRobots | 2021-12-12 11:58:32 | 1,639,310,312 | null | null | 0 | renm6v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/renm6v/adding_someone_that_you_see_on_a_frequent_basis/ | 1 | When I was going to a former gym, I was a member for about a couple of years. One of my male friends was someone I knew long ago from an old martial arts class. We added each other on FB, then later, I'd start to see the faces of the ladies that work at said gym. Most of them worked front desk or would be trainers that... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Adding someone that you see on a frequent basis | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/renm6v/adding_someone_that_you_see_on_a_frequent_basis/ |
RideProof | 2021-03-04 01:51:13 | 1,614,822,673 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | lx9tvj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lx9tvj/what_do_you_do_or_talk_about_when_you_face_time_a/ | 1 | I (21m) Need some wisdom from y’all I used to be fat af 3 years ago was really insecure about it and never joined the dating game cuz I figured who would want me and I never had a gf before or any experience and now lost a ton of weight and got pretty fit. This girl matched with me and bumble and immediately starting t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you do or talk about when you face time a girl? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lx9tvj/what_do_you_do_or_talk_about_when_you_face_time_a/ |
Far-Operation2334 | 2024-06-30 03:29:10 | 1,719,718,150 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1drsefc | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1drsefc/am_i_being_breadcrumbed/ | 1 | I met this guy on hinge we had a great date, unfortunately we ended up having sex on the first date. Now I really didn’t want this to become a one night stand bc of our connection. The next day/morning was still great. We talked, he went to work then he kinda let me in he would be busy that evening. So 2days go by and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being breadcrumbed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1drsefc/am_i_being_breadcrumbed/ |
franckJPLF | 2022-10-15 12:35:00 | 1,665,837,300 | null | null | 0 | y4mtx3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y4mtx3/how_do_you_find_much_smarter_than_you/ | 0 | I really want to be blown away by someone but it never happened 😭. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you find much smarter than you? | null | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y4mtx3/how_do_you_find_much_smarter_than_you/ |
Derpazoid69 | 2024-09-06 14:09:08 | 1,725,631,748 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fag42u | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fag42u/normal_for_matches_to_never_respond_after/ | 21 | I've been using Facebook Dating for a little over 5 years. I've gotten 120-150 matches over that timeframe, not counting matches that have unmatched me. I match on the dating and the friendship feature, I have noticed that the vast majority of matches never respond after matching. In my case its probably 70-80%. It doe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Normal for matches to never respond after matching on Facebook Dating? | 21 | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fag42u/normal_for_matches_to_never_respond_after/ |
Responsible_Sector26 | 2023-02-23 01:14:56 | 1,677,114,896 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 119k4qj | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/119k4qj/whats_the_point_of_matching_if_youre_not_going_to/ | 5 | This goes for people I have a conversation with on the apps, but especially ones that never responded to your first message. Like... why. Besides, shouldn't most people try and limit themselves to 4-5 people anyway? Like if you have 80 matches, why even bother? It's not like you can give them all attention. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's the point of matching if you're not going to talk? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/119k4qj/whats_the_point_of_matching_if_youre_not_going_to/ |
shy_shawty | 2021-03-19 08:01:42 | 1,616,140,902 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | m8cbpk | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m8cbpk/talking_to_a_guy_for_6_months_without_meeting_him/ | 2 | He’s asked me out a couple of times but never pulled through, more like a “yeah we should set up something” and nothing ever happens. I’ve tried to ask him to hang but he just kinda brushes the conversation away. We’re getting pretty close and im afraid to get my feelings hurt. My friends always tell me to just leave, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking to a guy for 6 months without meeting him. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m8cbpk/talking_to_a_guy_for_6_months_without_meeting_him/ |
Intrepid_Key_8838 | 2024-09-08 12:24:46 | 1,725,798,286 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1fbwjtm | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fbwjtm/i_dont_understand_why_men_will_keep_trying_things/ | 0 | I matched with a guy on hinge he was 21m I was 22f. This was almost a year ago. He would always say “wyd” on text like a typical f boy but I found him attractive and wanted to cuddle so I made the mistake of going to his house. We kissed, cuddled and talked then I went home. He texted me after and wanted to see me agai... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t understand why men will keep trying things after I say no | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbwjtm/i_dont_understand_why_men_will_keep_trying_things/ |
steakandfruit | 2024-09-04 00:10:03 | 1,725,408,603 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f8fcnj | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f8fcnj/guys_are_so_confusing/ | 0 | I (24F) match with a guy (25) on hinge last week and we met each other in person this past weekend. He was really nice to talk to and spend the morning with When we were leaving we agreed that we’d like to see each other again and then we parted ways. He had texted me when he got home saying he had a great time (I did ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guys are so confusing | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f8fcnj/guys_are_so_confusing/ |
HahaNovice | 2023-02-13 03:12:36 | 1,676,257,956 | null | null | 0 | 110xw84 | true | null | 29 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/110xw84/opinion_dating_apps_should_allow_you_to_filter_by/ | 7 | Dating apps should make it so that if someone says they don't want to see people with some traits, then as well as not seeing these people, they won't be shown to those people either. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Opinion: Dating apps should allow you to filter by other users' preferences | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/110xw84/opinion_dating_apps_should_allow_you_to_filter_by/ |
Fun-Competition-3576 | 2024-09-01 15:54:38 | 1,725,206,078 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f6hrj3 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6hrj3/when_do_you_have_the_talk/ | 7 | When do you usually have the define the relationship talk? Been talking to a guy from hinge for a month, we’ve been on 3 dates. Is it too soon to tell him I want to see where things go with us and don’t want to talk to anyone else? I don’t want to scare him off but I also want him to know where I stand. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When do you have the talk | 7 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6hrj3/when_do_you_have_the_talk/ |
Disastrous_Emu_7869 | 2021-04-07 01:34:28 | 1,617,759,268 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | mlr68x | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mlr68x/dating_sites/ | 2 | What are some good dating sites? I’m a single mom so I’m def looking to find a stable relationship. And clearly tinder isn’t cutting it! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating sites | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mlr68x/dating_sites/ |
Dagovernator25 | 2020-05-11 03:39:12 | 1,589,168,352 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ghg1l8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ghg1l8/put_in_the_effort/ | 0 | If you're wondering why they didn't message or text you back, its probably because you weren't pulling your weight. I'm a 25M and I am tire of being ghosted and left with low effort texts. I don't know what to do with "ya, cool" or "hmm" or "...". I know I am not alone, and I can tell it's women who are mostly at fault... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Put in the effort | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ghg1l8/put_in_the_effort/ |
what-are-this | 2013-10-11 04:58:12 | 1,381,467,492 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1o77ze | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/1o77ze/single_redditors_what_is_your_online_dating/ | 1 | I know there has been a billion of these questions, but there is always a new story to tell. What is your online dating disaster? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Single redditors... What is your online dating disaster? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1o77ze/single_redditors_what_is_your_online_dating/ |
DroolingPuma | 2023-05-04 00:46:03 | 1,683,161,163 | 0 | null | 0 | 1374y5e | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1374y5e/44mive_witnessed_online_dating_get_worse/ | 65 | I have not been on an OLD platform in over 10+ years. I can say without a doubt it has become absolutely terrible. People ghost online and in person, bots just trying to exploit you, others just searching for validation. It was never perfect when I first tried it ages ago but now it's just a sea of online despair. If y... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | (44m)I've witnessed online dating get worse. | 65 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1374y5e/44mive_witnessed_online_dating_get_worse/ |
amy_higgins69 | 2021-05-07 03:36:55 | 1,620,358,615 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | n6pewf | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n6pewf/am_i_being_too_stalkerish/ | 0 | I feel like a crazy person but oh well. About three months ago I matched with a really hot guy on Bumble and we had a nice convo and agreed to exchange Instagram info. We had a conversation there which he initiated, and I think I talked too much and put my foot in my mouth and embarrassed myself. Still cringe thinking ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being too stalkerish? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n6pewf/am_i_being_too_stalkerish/ |
schellybean13 | 2021-05-28 21:08:09 | 1,622,236,089 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | nn7pgj | true | Question | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/nn7pgj/so_confused/ | 5 | Men of OLD what is up with the pics of you and your fish? Can I get a serious response to this question please? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | So confused | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/nn7pgj/so_confused/ |
blankslate_fullplate | 2021-03-12 12:04:12 | 1,615,550,652 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | m3g62n | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m3g62n/how_do_people_meet_people_for_dating/ | 1 | I don’t want to use dating apps for obvious reasons. My friend hooked me up for one date with one guy from her dating app and I went and it was ok but not much chemistry at all. We had a good chat but compared to a previous guy (I met at parkrun) I was with who I met naturally there were no sparks. I work in a female d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do people meet people for dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m3g62n/how_do_people_meet_people_for_dating/ |
lucidnightmares14 | 2018-11-05 02:05:29 | 1,541,383,529 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9u9hpm | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9u9hpm/first_date_in_over_10_years_feel_like_i_blew_it/ | 4 | TLDR first date in a long time, feel like I ruined it because of bad anxiety. Sorry of the wall of text :( I'm 27 and haven't been on a date since high school. Due to really bad anxiety and trust issues, I've isolated myself from social interaction as much as possible. About a year ago a couple friends convinced me to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date in over 10 years, feel like I blew it. Where to go from here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9u9hpm/first_date_in_over_10_years_feel_like_i_blew_it/ |
ddado2 | 2019-07-07 13:49:12 | 1,562,507,352 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | ca70ki | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ca70ki/shy_at_first/ | 1 | Ladies use this one a lot. It is tiring. Also, don’t do the “heart of gold” thing. It is seriously off putting. When a good looking girl who looks like she has a heart of gold describes herself as having a heart of gold, I swipe left. Fee free to yell at me but please share the male equivalent so I can check my profile... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | “Shy at first” | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ca70ki/shy_at_first/ |
Apart_Battle_5159 | 2024-03-13 07:44:02 | 1,710,315,842 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bdlr1h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bdlr1h/girl_im_dating_acting_strange/ | 1 | I’m 29 years old and I’m dating a 19 year old girl. We met at work and things have been going really well, but the age gap has been a bit of a point of contention. At first it bothered us both, but her more than me. Now I don’t really think about it, as I’m more interested in the person than the age and in recent conve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I’m dating acting strange | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdlr1h/girl_im_dating_acting_strange/ |
somuch_debt | 2021-02-06 13:49:13 | 1,612,619,353 | null | null | 0 | ldxyzx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ldxyzx/should_i_be_friends_with_him/ | 3 | Hey guys, Could use some opinions I matched with this guy online a few months ago and we really hit it off. Similar interests, sense of humor, flirting, etc. We went out on a date and it went really well. Ended up making out, getting a bit intimate but no sex. We both made it very clear we wanted to see each other agai... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I be friends with him? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ldxyzx/should_i_be_friends_with_him/ |
CZapped7564 | 2024-04-15 04:03:26 | 1,713,153,806 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1c4cz8h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c4cz8h/how_should_i_handle_my_feelings_for_a_guy_who_is/ | 1 | A little context, I’m a single gay male, who is on dating apps (you can probably get a lot from that). Anyways this post is about a weird, messed up situation I’m in and I don’t really know what to do. So a few weeks ago I started talking to/met a guy from a dating app, we’ll call him kyle. We went on a date the same d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I handle my feelings for a guy who is seeing someone else? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c4cz8h/how_should_i_handle_my_feelings_for_a_guy_who_is/ |
t7Saitama | 2023-07-03 13:21:26 | 1,688,390,486 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 14piw6s | false | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14piw6s/any_short_guys_out_here_who_basically_had_good/ | 2 | Pretty much the title. I heard someone said that over 70% of guys get rejected by 90% of the girls if they are below a certain height. Is it that brutal ? I'm 30. Height is 5'5 ish at best. Average here is around 5'9. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any short guys out here who basically had good amount of success on tinder and bumble and if you mentioned your height upfront ? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14piw6s/any_short_guys_out_here_who_basically_had_good/ |
StrongBubbleHugger | 2022-11-05 14:51:43 | 1,667,659,903 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ymw65c | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ymw65c/what_dating_apps_to_use/ | 1 | I (21M) living in sweden and just started trying to get into dating. Im gonna try finding things to do in person but i also wanna try dating apps just to get myself out there more. Im not intrested in just hooking up, actually wants to get to know someone and hopefully have a relationship with her. Whats the app best k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating apps to use? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ymw65c/what_dating_apps_to_use/ |
[deleted] | 2018-07-25 20:31:37 | 1,532,550,697 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 91vjz1 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/91vjz1/struggling_with_a_deal_breaker/ | 1 | TLDR at the bottom. I've been online dating on and off for quite a while now. I've had some success but due to various circumstances, nothing has lasted long-term. Set up: What I've noticed is that my deal breakers are developing/changing. Things that seemed important in my 20's, like someone's career choice or locatio... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Struggling with a deal breaker | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/91vjz1/struggling_with_a_deal_breaker/ |
SaltLeader3687 | 2021-10-06 08:36:53 | 1,633,509,413 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | q2gaqk | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q2gaqk/bumping_into_people_from_apps/ | 4 | In my city this happens a lot. I match with a girl on an app and she ignores my opener or the convo ends with her ignoring me and then a few weeks/months later I miraculously bump into her through a mutual friend. My question is, what do you guys do in these situations? Sometimes these girls remember me but usually not... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bumping into people from apps | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q2gaqk/bumping_into_people_from_apps/ |
lucyrosillo | 2019-11-27 10:11:21 | 1,574,849,481 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | e2e2yp | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e2e2yp/successful_tinder_story/ | 1 | Hello I am a F20 and my Fiance is M23 Let me start by saying that I had just gotten out of a very bad relationship and basically I was a mess and went out with a couple people who taught me that there is bad people out there. Anyways I downloaded Tinder and since I travel quite a bit I had purchased the plus so I could... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Successful Tinder Story! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e2e2yp/successful_tinder_story/ |
tdzygn | 2018-03-30 21:27:25 | 1,522,445,245 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 88dvvj | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/88dvvj/she_dont_text_much_or_not_at_all/ | 1 | Hi I am (24M ) and I met with this girl (23) two weeks ago . We had amazing first date and I asked her out again at the end of the first date . She agreed and we decided to do that on upcoming weekend. During second date, we talked a lot about our personal life and we both agreed that we are dating each other for serio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She don’t text much or not at all. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/88dvvj/she_dont_text_much_or_not_at_all/ |
Simple_Action195 | 2022-10-10 02:40:51 | 1,665,369,651 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | y03dlr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/y03dlr/dating_in_a_rural_area/ | 1 | I'm (26F) living in a rural area for the next year or so and have had a really hard time meeting guys that I can relate to. I work in healthcare and have a masters degree and I think guys here find that intimidating. I like enjoy going shooting, hiking, general outdoorsy stuff but I'm having a hard time finding anyone ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating in a rural area | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y03dlr/dating_in_a_rural_area/ |
error_dick_not_found | 2022-03-02 22:43:51 | 1,646,261,031 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | t5cbj8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t5cbj8/bad_breath/ | 1 | I (25F) met a guy on bumble a few weeks ago and we finally we're able to set up a date. I get there and see that he is cute and has a good body. From the title you know where this is going. As soon as I got close to him, his breath overtakes the air around me. I didnt know how to react so I still got coffee with him. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bad breath | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t5cbj8/bad_breath/ |
amonymus | 2021-07-27 19:53:21 | 1,627,415,601 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ostwwo | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ostwwo/old_bot_signals/ | 1 | So I'm new to OLD, and I know there are bots out there. How do you tell? This one woman claims to be a native English speaker, but she has a number of grammatical errors and wants to go to email to exchange pics and stuff. Some of her responses are long paragraphs that sound kind of scripted. Bot? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OLD bot signals | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ostwwo/old_bot_signals/ |
NotLivvyLivALittle | 2021-05-10 23:57:43 | 1,620,691,063 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | n9ju0z | true | Support | Trigger | 13 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/n9ju0z/im_not_the_same_person_i_was_before_i_was_raped_i/ | 148 | Writing that title feels weird as I’m still uncomfortable with the term rape. I know it applies as the sex wasn’t consensual but it was complicated so I feel weird. I was raped a little over three weeks ago, I got dumped out of the blue by my partner of 11 years and I just ended up finding a guy on tinder to use as a r... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I’m not the same person I was before I was raped, I hate who I am now. | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/n9ju0z/im_not_the_same_person_i_was_before_i_was_raped_i/ |
fromuklad | 2021-10-27 16:39:58 | 1,635,352,798 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qh0tb7 | true | I Need Advice | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qh0tb7/confidence_tips/ | 11 | Hi guys, Been out of the dating game for a few years, I’d like to get back into it and hopefully get a girlfriend. I’ve got a really bad hairline and am balding at the age of 22. This really knocks my confidence and prevents me from making any moves on girls. I don’t really see any girls in person due to my job so the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Confidence tips | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qh0tb7/confidence_tips/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-08 14:17:41 | 1,628,432,261 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'online daters', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | p0ffwg | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/p0ffwg/when_it_comes_to_online_dating_looks_and_bad/ | 0 | I am copying this from an article I just read concerning the problems with OLD right now. It mirrors much of what is discussed in these forums. I thought readers here might like it. Plus, it was written by a woman! Please don't blast me for such a long post. Phoebe Kirke - Feminist, activist, sister, but above all, hur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When It Comes to Online Dating, Looks and Bad Algorithms Are Everything | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p0ffwg/when_it_comes_to_online_dating_looks_and_bad/ |
reggieweezy | 2016-02-08 06:59:53 | 1,454,914,793 | 0 | null | 0 | 44ptxm | null | null | 5 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/44ptxm/am_i_being_catfished/ | 1 | I matched with a young lady on Tinder 3 and a half weeks ago. We exchanged several messages daily on Tinder, until she gave me her phone number, without me asking for it. Now we text each other several times a day. The first time I asked to meet, she was going out of town because her mother was sick. The second time I ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I being catfished | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/44ptxm/am_i_being_catfished/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-27 00:03:56 | 1,409,097,836 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2eof1j | null | null | 11 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2eof1j/in_regards_to_online_datingtinder_would_you_say/ | 2 | I should have worded this better. Does saying sexual stuff to a girl you haven't met mean that you have no intention of dating her? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | In regards to online dating/Tinder, would you say sexual things to a girl before meeting if you had no intention of dating her? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2eof1j/in_regards_to_online_datingtinder_would_you_say/ |
itscool83 | 2017-11-18 09:39:52 | 1,510,997,992 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 7drypn | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7drypn/gotta_love_women/ | 0 | They show interest initially then in a flash pull out the "im too busy" to make an effort to communicate. this is literally the third chick that pulled this on me. LOL. tells me shes going to take a break from looking and wanted to let me know incase i try to get to know her and she can't. i tell her thats a nice way o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gotta love women | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7drypn/gotta_love_women/ |
[deleted] | 2020-09-14 01:42:32 | 1,600,047,752 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | isbg3f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/isbg3f/should_ihow_do_i_confess_my_feelings_before/ | 1 | I met this guy through Tinder and we’ve been seeing each other for more than a month/5-6 dates now. I did make it clear from the beginning that I was looking for something serious and he said he was the same. He’s a very shy person and doesn’t seem to have a lot of experience in dating from what I can see. I really enj... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I/How do I confess my feelings before letting things go? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/isbg3f/should_ihow_do_i_confess_my_feelings_before/ |
bj83 | 2019-09-01 02:58:04 | 1,567,306,684 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | cy4t4y | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cy4t4y/rearranged_date_or_not/ | 1 | I'm a 36F who's been single for about 6 years, mostly due to severe health issues which are now cleared up. Prior to that, in a 10.5 yr relationship. Joined Bumble + Tinder recently. Started swiping. Got my first match about a week ago on Bumble. After a few messages, he said he'd like to meet. I suggested we meet this... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Rearranged date or not!? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cy4t4y/rearranged_date_or_not/ |
ElementG | 2017-03-12 11:26:03 | 1,489,317,963 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 5yy9h3 | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5yy9h3/awesome_date_with_a_girl_but_problems_occured/ | 1 | Hey, I am a 16 years old guy with not so much experiences in dating. However, I met a girl on one dating site and we immediately started chatting. Then I added her on Facebook, we talked for a while and then I encouraged myself to ask her out. She lives in the next city, 40 kilometres/26 miles away from me. So I hopped... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Awesome date with a girl but problems occured! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5yy9h3/awesome_date_with_a_girl_but_problems_occured/ |
Anxious-Wife | 2019-03-26 22:40:46 | 1,553,640,046 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b5wfep | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b5wfep/i_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong_and_im_tired_of/ | 1 | I'm frustrated. Like...seriously frustrated. I've been 'single' for around 8 months now. My husband left me back in August 2018 and I hopped on Tinder right away because I was lonely. Not gonna lie, I've wanted a relationship for a long time but all I ever find are hook ups. I don't mind because I'm on a hunt for somet... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don't know what I'm doing wrong and I'm tired of dating around... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b5wfep/i_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong_and_im_tired_of/ |
Pumpkinmuffins27 | 2024-08-26 17:42:37 | 1,724,694,157 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f1uayb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 2 | /r/dating/comments/1f1uayb/leading_me_on_or_just_taking_it_slow/ | 1 | Hi, so I’m an almost 23 y.o. female talking to a 27 y.o male. I have tons of relationship trauma, aka I just don’t trust that guys who I’m physically involved with can actually want me for more than that. I’m anxiously attached too, so I get so caught up in reading every little sign that it scares me. This guy I’ve sta... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Leading me on or just taking it slow | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f1uayb/leading_me_on_or_just_taking_it_slow/ |
Substantial-Bit8758 | 2024-01-02 15:37:28 | 1,704,209,848 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18ws77i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ws77i/is_it_normal_to_feel_like_dating_is_a_chore/ | 1 | I want a long term relationship. I really want to have a family. However, I feel very unenthusiastic on going on dates and meeting new people. I use dating apps, get matches, but I feel like am always searching for flaws on the new people I meet on those apps. For example: I get the impression that they are not that pr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal to feel like dating is a chore? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ws77i/is_it_normal_to_feel_like_dating_is_a_chore/ |
InterestingVanilla6 | 2024-02-13 01:24:38 | 1,707,787,478 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1aph0ln | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aph0ln/how_can_i_meet_new_girlsdates_if_i_live_in_the/ | 1 | Title. I'm an -almost- 28yo guy. This years is going to be the 6th year I've been single. Yes, I know, it's a goddam long time. Unfortunately, yeah, I'm really short (5'2") and that definetely plays a big part. Still, in those years, I'll admit, I haven't really tried that much. The first 2-3 years I've spent them with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I meet new girls/dates if I live in the middle of no-fucking-where. Need advice. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aph0ln/how_can_i_meet_new_girlsdates_if_i_live_in_the/ |
Piupiubanana | 2023-01-27 21:02:06 | 1,674,853,326 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10mvymp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10mvymp/im_not_normally_confused_or_uncertain_but_first/ | 1 | Sorry about the long text but I do need help. I’ve (F25) always been really good at reading people/ understanding their intentions, for example are they just in it for sex or are they romantically interested. Now I’ve met my match cos the guy (M30) that I’m seeing is giving me such mixed signals. We have been seeing ea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m not normally confused or uncertain but first time for everything I guess | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10mvymp/im_not_normally_confused_or_uncertain_but_first/ |
Imjusthereforthis123 | 2024-06-24 06:05:41 | 1,719,209,141 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dn6kde | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dn6kde/telling_potential_partners_im_a_virgin_24f/ | 1 | I’m a virgin – I was waiting for a relationship for a while and now I’m just waiting for someone I’m comfortable with. I hooked up with a guy tonight who I met off a dating app - we’ve already gone on a date and he told me he just wanted casual and I was fine with that. Beforehand I told him I’m a virgin, but that we c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Telling potential partners I’m a virgin? (24f) | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dn6kde/telling_potential_partners_im_a_virgin_24f/ |
painfulbenji | 2021-10-23 19:48:04 | 1,635,018,484 | null | null | 0 | qec2ap | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qec2ap/help_out_a_noob_to_onlinelong_distance_dating/ | 2 | So, for various reasons, i've sworn off dating probably like, almost a decade ago. I just don't feel like i'm worth anybody's time or energy due to various circumstances beyond my control. However, recently i stumbled into an online relationship with a girl from Poland. I really liked that we could care about each othe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help out a noob to online/long distance dating | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qec2ap/help_out_a_noob_to_onlinelong_distance_dating/ |
HarmonyTheConfuzzled | 2022-10-02 18:12:03 | 1,664,734,323 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xtvknm | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xtvknm/how_long_is_too_long_to_wait_for_a_response_on_a/ | 2 | Pretty new to the dating scene and my last partner might have taught me some bad habits about human interaction. So I gotta try to relearn everything. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long is too long to wait for a response on a dating app? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xtvknm/how_long_is_too_long_to_wait_for_a_response_on_a/ |
inmyheadidream | 2023-06-14 13:46:02 | 1,686,750,362 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1498b7m | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1498b7m/new_to_dating/ | 1 | (39F) I just got out of a long serious relationship a year ago and am starting to get back out there to date again. I find it so hard to actually approach someone irl. I never used to do it before but, frankly, dating sites are not for me. I look younger than my age and I feel like my higher maturity level offsets my i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New to Dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1498b7m/new_to_dating/ |
CaptnBangDingOw | 2019-11-24 20:47:41 | 1,574,628,461 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | e14e93 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e14e93/i_keep_getting_my_hopes_up/ | 7 | I’ve been trying to figure out how to word this for a bit. I’m 19 M (almost 20) and I’m a sophomore at Clemson. I’m really trying to get back into the dating game after my last relationship ended last fall. I’m really outgoing, involved in a lot of things, and have a job on campus. I’m decently fit, smart, funny, and h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I keep getting my hopes up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e14e93/i_keep_getting_my_hopes_up/ |
jennyjennyisland57 | 2024-09-01 16:46:37 | 1,725,209,197 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1f6izv7 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6izv7/was_i_overthinking/ | 1 | Hello I’m 29 F. I matched with this dude on Bumble like a week ago. We texted everyday since. We had good long convos. We finally went on a date this past Thursday. It was great. We went back to his place cuddled and we did end up having sex. He assured me it hasn’t ruined anything and he still wants to get to know me.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I overthinking? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6izv7/was_i_overthinking/ |
Mr_Jek | 2021-09-22 15:18:54 | 1,632,323,934 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | pt9qfi | true | Success! | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pt9qfi/things_are_going_really_well_with_a_tinder_match/ | 7 | So basically even though I’ve been out of school for a few years, i haven’t had any romantic success. I’m still young obviously, but have had unrequited crush after unrequited crush, fell really hard for my best friend for a long time, had other little flirtations after that that went nowhere, not really much attention... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Things are going really well with a tinder match and it’s so nice to know I’m still able to become infatuated with someone | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pt9qfi/things_are_going_really_well_with_a_tinder_match/ |
Wolffe229 | 2018-12-18 04:06:36 | 1,545,105,996 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | a77j4k | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a77j4k/need_advicem19/ | 3 | So I haven't had a girlfriend in around 7 years (I believe it was in middle school) I also have yet to have my first kiss and my longest relationship was under a month. I don't think I'm particularly unattractive (I workout consistently, take care of my self, and have good hygiene) but I just don't think I'm that datea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice(m19) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a77j4k/need_advicem19/ |
Satean12 | 2020-01-18 16:27:15 | 1,579,364,835 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | eqifdk | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eqifdk/how_do_i_approcah_dating_again_after_a_spell/ | 1 | So, I (M24) got out of my shell last year and really went to a dating app and just went on dates. Most went well but we never got to a second date. In May, I had romantic moment with a best friend but she left for another country and she is with someone else now. Since that,I went to another date with a girl but it end... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I approcah dating again after a spell? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eqifdk/how_do_i_approcah_dating_again_after_a_spell/ |
MJ2323Tron | 2021-12-12 14:08:20 | 1,639,318,100 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | repq04 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/repq04/is_this_girl_testing_me_or_ghosting_me/ | 1 | So I met this girl on hinge about three months ago and I just moved back to my hometown (close to where she lives, like 1H away). We were talking on and off and flirting whatever, and eventually she reached out after not talking for some time (she was traveling) about wanting to grab dinner. So for the last month or so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this girl testing me or ghosting me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/repq04/is_this_girl_testing_me_or_ghosting_me/ |
[deleted] | 2022-11-11 19:32:29 | 1,668,195,149 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | yski65 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yski65/how_to_meet_mature_older_or_whatever_women_in/ | 0 | Context/ I’m a 22F and bisexual. My attraction leans more towards women, but I struggle meeting them in person and not through some dumb app. Every time I try to scope the dating scene out through tinder and hinge and bumble, I’m not into the idea of meeting people through apps. All of the women I was interested and ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet mature (older or whatever) women in real life? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yski65/how_to_meet_mature_older_or_whatever_women_in/ |
DRK_RLM_MYSTRS | 2021-02-02 04:26:06 | 1,612,239,966 | null | null | 0 | lancu8 | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lancu8/shouldnt_online_dating_be_booming_right/ | 23 | I mean bars, restaurants, parties plus just wearing a gdamn mask in public. I figure every one is online,you find someone and they just come over for dinner. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Shouldn’t online dating be booming right now..because there is literally not too many places to meet people. | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lancu8/shouldnt_online_dating_be_booming_right/ |
hepburnfan2020 | 2023-04-25 17:09:43 | 1,682,442,583 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 12ypiuh | true | null | 106 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/12ypiuh/how_did_you_two_meet/ | 34 | I wanted to start a thread of how you have met significant others that did not involve OLD. I read a statistic saying that only 25% of long term relationships started from OLD and that a lot of people get caught up in OLD instead of getting out and living life. Tell me your stories - Some I have heard - mutual friends,... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How did you two meet | 34 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/12ypiuh/how_did_you_two_meet/ |
betelgeuseian | 2024-04-26 21:42:26 | 1,714,167,746 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cdxhn0 | true | Success Story 🎉 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cdxhn0/any_ai_help_with_dates/ | 1 | Long time lurker here! I (27m) recently used my friend's app (ropeway.ai, in case you are curious) to improve my conversations on tinder, which usually got dull after a while. It did improve the chats and I ended up with more dates that before. I am way better talking in-person than over text. So curious if there are a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any ai help with dates? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cdxhn0/any_ai_help_with_dates/ |
no_spoon | 2020-08-30 17:48:01 | 1,598,809,681 | null | null | 0 | ijgylw | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ijgylw/are_women_just_always_busy/ | 4 | I feel like women are in one of two camps: 1) They get a ton of messages and always have plans. 2) They don't get a lot of messages, but still always have plans. Personally, I feel like I don't have much of a social life. I'm 33 so most of my close friends are spread out, have families and whatnot. But the women I matc... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are women just always busy? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ijgylw/are_women_just_always_busy/ |
lovelife223 | 2021-08-08 06:48:10 | 1,628,405,290 | null | ['dating platforms', 'bumble', 'eharmony'] | 0 | p09u4c | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/p09u4c/needs_some_ideas/ | 4 | Okay my lovely redditors… I need some advice If you’ve had a look at some of my post the last couple months… I don’t seem to be having a lot of success in the love department. I don’t think it’s my age but I’m 38, but I’m really just running out of ideas where to find quality men. I am on dating platforms… match and eh... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Needs some ideas…? | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/p09u4c/needs_some_ideas/ |
DependentSpite7 | 2020-06-02 19:29:28 | 1,591,126,168 | null | ['plenty of fish', 'pof'] | 0 | gvdz4j | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gvdz4j/did_i_take_things_too_fardo_something_wrong/ | 1 | So I just was talking to someone on Plenty of Fish, and thats it. I just made a joke that he could do better than hi. He said something sexy and I jokingly called him a creep. then he got mad. Did I do something wrong here? This is UK POF by the way. https://imgur.com/a/jPiyDwo He is the black scribbles and i am the pu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I take things too far/do something wrong? Messages inside. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gvdz4j/did_i_take_things_too_fardo_something_wrong/ |
music5427 | 2019-05-31 19:29:05 | 1,559,330,945 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | bvbte8 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bvbte8/question_someone_please_help_me/ | 1 | I am talking to a guy and he seems very nice and hasn't once asked me about sex or anything like that. (To me is very surprising and uncommon) It has only been like 4 days and I was wondering if it is too soon to ask him out on a date? I'm also curious if guys usually talk to a lot of girls at the same time from Bumble... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Question, someone please help me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bvbte8/question_someone_please_help_me/ |
Frederick_Abila | 2024-05-28 22:34:19 | 1,716,935,659 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d2wom5 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d2wom5/online_dating/ | 1 | Most people literally get scammed through online dating. This is a huge vulnerability and I discovered this issue and came up with a solution So this is scam alert. A platform that provides resources that helps you avert scams and find solutions. We can discuss it if you want | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d2wom5/online_dating/ |
ThrowawayNL200 | 2024-03-14 13:56:14 | 1,710,424,574 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1belr5n | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1belr5n/what_to_say_when_you_dont_like_a_face_reveal/ | 1 | I use a few kinky dating apps where girls understably hide their identity. After a bit of chatting the question of they look like naturally comes up. I've had many times where I'm just not attracted to the face they reveal. What do I say? I typically say a simple: sorry you're not my type. But this must sting, especial... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to say when you don't like a face reveal? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1belr5n/what_to_say_when_you_dont_like_a_face_reveal/ |
Ok_Message6159 | 2024-06-09 10:50:12 | 1,717,930,212 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dbqzxm | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dbqzxm/a_date_made_me_realize_i_need_to_work_on_myself/ | 5 | I matched with a someone on an app and based on previous experiences, was not expecting much. I never have fun using dating apps. They stress me out, but at the same time, I like the convenience of them and theres a comfort to feeling like you have more and having rejection be silent. Also at my age (24 m), dating apps... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A date made me realize I need to work on myself | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dbqzxm/a_date_made_me_realize_i_need_to_work_on_myself/ |
Kindly_Appointment18 | 2024-01-13 21:01:27 | 1,705,179,687 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 195y2ym | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/195y2ym/how_can_i_handle_interacting_with_and_potentially/ | 1 | I am a loner type person, haven't hung out with anyone for years, and have never had a girlfriend at the age of 24. I had sex last at the age of 20. I met someone on a dating app. She goes to the college I just graduated from (near my house) and is on break, so we have been texting for a month (not super detailed texts... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I handle interacting with, and potentially dating someone, when I am a complete loner and comfortable with it | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/195y2ym/how_can_i_handle_interacting_with_and_potentially/ |
RedVelvetSkull | 2024-03-29 03:03:10 | 1,711,681,390 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bqesap | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bqesap/how_is_dating_supposed_to_work/ | 1 | I (30F) decided to give dating a chance. I fired up the good ol’ dating apps and I immediately hated it. Thankfully I found one person I feel like I connect to and we have a lot of the same interests. However, he’s overseas so we haven’t met yet. He is in the process of moving to my town in the next two months. We’re k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How is dating supposed to work? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bqesap/how_is_dating_supposed_to_work/ |
HiLex | 2020-05-01 22:56:10 | 1,588,373,770 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | gbsdap | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gbsdap/how_when_to_define_the_relationship_in_quarantine/ | 5 | Hello strangers of reddit Ok so I’m looking for advice about how and when to have the “defining the relationship” or “becoming official” whatever-you-want-to-call-it talk with the guy I’ve been dating for the last three months while in quarantine. We met on Hinge just before Valentine’s Day. Our first date was great, w... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How and when to define the relationship in quarantine? | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gbsdap/how_when_to_define_the_relationship_in_quarantine/ |
[deleted] | 2018-10-10 18:34:46 | 1,539,196,486 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9n25nu | true | Other | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9n25nu/different_ways_to_meet_a_significant_other/ | 5 | I'm done with online dating. I've read about meetups, taking classes, gym (which I have joined, woo!), work, and meeting someone randomly (when you least expect it...) Are there any other out-of-the-box ways to meet someone? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Different ways to meet a significant other | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9n25nu/different_ways_to_meet_a_significant_other/ |
Yovalove | 2023-01-05 10:46:41 | 1,672,915,601 | null | null | 0 | 103w0i0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/103w0i0/can_i_find_a_relationship_here/ | 0 | Am (23f) looking for a serious online relationship here. Can I find any guy here | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can i find a relationship here | null | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/103w0i0/can_i_find_a_relationship_here/ |
Generic_Account321 | 2021-08-21 03:14:12 | 1,629,515,652 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | p8jxpv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p8jxpv/i_30m_am_totally_falling_for_a_girl_28f_from/ | 2 | I'm pretty new to reddit so bear with me here. A couple weeks ago I began dating this amazing girl from Peru. We started communicating through a dating app. Our first date was great. We went to a restaurant, danced, sang, kissed...a lot, and the chemistry between us was amazing. Our second date we got lunch and by chan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (30M) am totally falling for a girl (28F) from another country. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p8jxpv/i_30m_am_totally_falling_for_a_girl_28f_from/ |
RedditCustomerCare | 2021-06-29 22:30:28 | 1,625,005,828 | null | null | 0 | oaj5dj | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oaj5dj/dont_give_up/ | 91 | (It’s a long read, but I think it’s worth it) After an almost 6 year relationship, it ended. Took a break, started online dating My first few were horrendous Is this all that’s left? I don’t know if I could do this. So, I took a break, then got back on then took a break and continued that for a while Met a few that I t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Don’t give up! | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oaj5dj/dont_give_up/ |
archie2012 | 2020-04-18 22:33:50 | 1,587,249,230 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | g3whwm | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g3whwm/how_do_you_know_if_a_woman_is_out_of_your_league/ | 2 | I really don't know if I'm attractive enough for better looking woman. When I do get matches online, sometimes they are good looking, sometimes they don't. Should you ask another befriend woman to give you a score? Should you message a woman without a match (yet)? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you know if a woman is out of your league? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g3whwm/how_do_you_know_if_a_woman_is_out_of_your_league/ |
polarisborealis | 2022-11-20 15:41:32 | 1,668,958,892 | null | null | 0 | z077r1 | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z077r1/whats_your_take_on_ldr/ | 5 | I’m talking a 2hr drive away. Some people say the right person won’t care, others that it’s an immediate deal breaker. As a woman, I have very few options around where I live and I actually want to move out, so it’s really not an issue for me, but what do you guys think? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s your take on LDR? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z077r1/whats_your_take_on_ldr/ |
t2689 | 2023-11-17 19:45:52 | 1,700,250,352 | 0 | null | 0 | 17xnb1p | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17xnb1p/texting_energy_overthinking/ | 3 | I (28M) matched with someone (29F) last week and we were initially exchanging long texts - big chunky paragraphs back and forth. The texts were quite flirty and then we moved to texting off Hinge. It was going well, we were still messaging a lot and she would send goodnight and good morning texts. Now, here's the plot ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Texting energy - overthinking? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17xnb1p/texting_energy_overthinking/ |
Substantial-Shop-266 | 2021-06-07 15:54:52 | 1,623,081,292 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nufxe7 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nufxe7/new_to_dating_where_to_start/ | 0 | So I’m (36F) new to the dating world after being married 13 years and I don’t know where to start or if I should do dating apps or be introduced by someone. I am not looking for anything serious but someone to hang out with and do new things with. Any suggestions or critiques would be appreciated. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to dating where to start? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nufxe7/new_to_dating_where_to_start/ |
AgileSeaworthiness20 | 2020-10-08 22:10:52 | 1,602,195,052 | null | null | 0 | j7mp52 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j7mp52/the_pushiness_of_some_is_amazing/ | 6 | Was chatting with a guy, he is a chef, he sells dinners, he says "I'm cooking now" "Let me send you something" It was a menu, of what days he serves what food. "I said do you sell dinners"? "No lunches, it's only 7 bucks" I say "nice" "looks good" "You won't be disappointed " He says I can meet you in xyz place. Then h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The pushiness of some is amazing. | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j7mp52/the_pushiness_of_some_is_amazing/ |
ivante77 | 2022-12-03 17:47:39 | 1,670,089,659 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | zbly2w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zbly2w/are_we_moving_too_fast_sonic_fast_mayhaps_not/ | 1 | I (28M) matched this gal (26F) on the beginning ofOctober. I think it’s important to mention that we both have adhd and anxiety so it’s almost scary how similar our brains work. She even told me it feels nice to not have to “mask” for me. I concur. We talked for a month online. This entailed a lot of FaceTiming…like a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are we moving too fast? Sonic fast mayhaps? (Not clickbait) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zbly2w/are_we_moving_too_fast_sonic_fast_mayhaps_not/ |
Nickerluz | 2018-04-12 23:19:05 | 1,523,575,145 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 8bumuy | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8bumuy/dateless_and_struggling_with_ongoing/ | 2 | Apologies if this isn’t exactly what this sub is for in advance. I’m 25 right now (soon to be approaching 26) and I’ve never had a date, needless to say this bothers me somewhat, I’d say I’ve been actively putting myself out there for the best part of 3 years now. I’ve tried numerous dating apps (tinder/pof/bumble/ehar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dateless and struggling with ongoing rejections/ghosting (M25) | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8bumuy/dateless_and_struggling_with_ongoing/ |
EnvironmentOk3683 | 2022-10-18 23:26:12 | 1,666,135,572 | null | ['matched', 'feeld'] | 0 | y7mbmw | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y7mbmw/girl_from_kazakhstan_and_boy_from_spain/ | 1 | I (28M) met a girl (28F) on Feeld that is from Kazakhstan and is now studying a master in London. She came to Barcelona for a workshop and on the weekend we matched on Feeld and decided to meet in person after an hour of texting. Our Saturday night and Sunday morning was fun. I showed her the city around, met other new... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl from Kazakhstan and boy from Spain | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y7mbmw/girl_from_kazakhstan_and_boy_from_spain/ |
Straight-Mongoose301 | 2024-08-21 04:15:50 | 1,724,213,750 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1exgdv2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1exgdv2/why_am_i_like_this/ | 2 | I get feelings fast , idk what to do, I was talking to this guy that we matches on hinge and we never got to go on a date since I was passing through his city when we matched and we live far. We don’t talk anymore but I kinda think about him , is this normal? He probably don’t even remember… I feel stupid! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why am I like this ? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1exgdv2/why_am_i_like_this/ |
powerslave118 | 2014-02-20 10:12:36 | 1,392,891,156 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1yfiam | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1yfiam/do_i_mention_im_interested_or_move_on_possible/ | 1 | I have a lady friend who i met through another friend (they don't know each other that well though). He introduced us as we had both come out of long term relationship in the year beforehand, and both lacking friends at the time. This was around xmas last year (two months ago). We hadn't met yet by new year, and i ende... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do i mention i'm interested or move on? (possible friend zone) [29M] | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1yfiam/do_i_mention_im_interested_or_move_on_possible/ |
dorfydorf3 | 2023-01-27 05:24:36 | 1,674,797,076 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10md3di | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10md3di/guy_seemed_interested_until_he_left_me_on_read/ | 0 | Matched with a guy on Hinge - but I've made the mistake of getting too excited. I thought he liked me too because we kept texting for two days, until he stopped replying to the message where I told him I like going to museums... He didn't open it for a day, and then left me on read when he did. It's the third day since... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy seemed interested until he left me on read, should I ask to hang out? How many days should I give it? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10md3di/guy_seemed_interested_until_he_left_me_on_read/ |
Ok_Extent_3352 | 2024-06-12 10:00:08 | 1,718,186,408 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1de2x8a | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1de2x8a/is_it_acceptable_to_swipe_on_tinder_after_3/ | 1 | Hi. I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We have had a really good time. We are both in our early 30s. We meet several times a week and have spent several weekends together. We have good chemistry, good conversations and laugh a lot together. On the days we are not together, we call/message each other. We talk a l... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it acceptable to swipe on Tinder after 3 months dating? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1de2x8a/is_it_acceptable_to_swipe_on_tinder_after_3/ |
BackInTheSea | 2010-03-10 22:09:51 | 1,268,258,991 | null | ['plentyoffish', 'okcupid'] | 0 | bbskq | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bbskq/ladies_what_are_your_thoughts_about_casual_sexual/ | 4 | ((XY, posting anonymously)) I'm 30 and exiting an 11 year relationship, 5 of which were in marriage. The reasons are mostly irrelevant; the only bit that would matter to this topic is to say that there was a certain level of sexual incompatibility. I'll be living alone soon, and I'm not sure how much contact I'll have ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Ladies, what are your thoughts about casual sexual relationships? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bbskq/ladies_what_are_your_thoughts_about_casual_sexual/ |
Jsumthing | 2019-07-29 01:42:40 | 1,564,364,560 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cj4lor | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cj4lor/any_dating_app_recommendations/ | 3 | I'm 28 still technically a virgin, and I've recently worked up the courage to date again. My last "relationship" was about 6 years ago and it was very fucked. I've never tried to get a date with someone I don't know beforehand, the whole friend of a friend thing. And dating apps seem to be the to do it nowadays. (God I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any dating app recommendations | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cj4lor/any_dating_app_recommendations/ |
[deleted] | 2021-11-14 20:39:55 | 1,636,922,395 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | qtyvwj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qtyvwj/1_month_of_dating_our_chemistry_is_great_and_i/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I (30yo M) been seeing this girl (27) for about a month now. I m extremely busy with work at the moment and really wasn’t expecting to meet someone I would have a crush on. I had been roaming dating sites for a while but usually only had ons with no tomorrows or fwb type interactions (this was my choice). ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 1 month of dating - our chemistry is great and i don’t want to let my old demons ruin everything | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qtyvwj/1_month_of_dating_our_chemistry_is_great_and_i/ |
Either-Hope-3035 | 2024-09-15 07:56:14 | 1,726,386,974 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fh7e3i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fh7e3i/what_does_this_mean/ | 1 | I matched with a girl on Hinge last year, but I shifted to another city, so we couldn’t meet. But we started chatting on Instagram and it went for a year and were good with each other. I recently came back to her city, and we met thrice in two weeks, and are comfortable with each other, like holding hands, drinking tog... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does this mean? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fh7e3i/what_does_this_mean/ |
Remiphillips87 | 2023-12-02 18:42:34 | 1,701,542,554 | 0 | null | 0 | 189a4rj | true | null | 116 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/189a4rj/i_started_a_dating_journal_10_years_ago_its/ | 164 | Ten years ago I got out of my last long term relationship and I started a dating journal. I was 26 at the time and have since kept track of every date I've been on. Today I went back and read through most of it and found it fascinating. I'm sure some of the changes were from my personality and preferences evolving over... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I started a dating journal 10 years ago, it's interesting to see how dating and sex has changed | 164 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/189a4rj/i_started_a_dating_journal_10_years_ago_its/ |
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