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BluuDuud | 2024-03-04 04:45:15 | 1,709,527,515 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b6279k | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b6279k/girls_stop_responding_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | Anytime I (M 22) match with a girl on a dating app and they actually respond to me, they stop texting back either after the first few messages or after a week or so and it's just kind of frustrating. I don't know what I'm doing wrong or what I'm saying is wrong. I've heard people say that you should try to meet off the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girls stop responding on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b6279k/girls_stop_responding_on_dating_apps/ |
silam39 | 2016-05-14 20:35:16 | 1,463,258,116 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 4jd0of | null | null | 96 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4jd0of/im_about_to_have_my_first_date_ever_as_a_woman_my/ | 180 | I'm 22 years old, I'm MtF transgender, and have been living as myself for just under a year. Anyway, I made an account on okcupid on the long shot some guy would read the "I'm trans" sentence at the top and not care. I didn't really think it would work. Except... it did This one guy from my city messaged me. We chatted... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I'm About to Have My First Date Ever! (as a woman) My nerves are killing me | 180 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/4jd0of/im_about_to_have_my_first_date_ever_as_a_woman_my/ |
katchii93 | 2023-06-17 00:33:08 | 1,686,961,988 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14bcmhp | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14bcmhp/out_of_curiosity_how_many_dating_apps_have_you/ | 2 | Do you remember them all? Which ones did or do you like, if any? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Out of curiosity, how many dating apps have you tried? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14bcmhp/out_of_curiosity_how_many_dating_apps_have_you/ |
IDreamofLoki | 2019-10-14 14:46:21 | 1,571,064,381 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dhrk6y | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/dhrk6y/how_to_get_to_know_a_quietawkward_guy/ | 34 | Little background, I saw this guy a few times about a year and a half ago (met on Tinder) and he got super clingy super fast and I freaked out and called it quits. We have recently reconnected and started messaging again and he is very much interested in trying again and has been really good about putting the brakes on... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to get to know a quiet/awkward guy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/dhrk6y/how_to_get_to_know_a_quietawkward_guy/ |
ChipotleSauc3 | 2023-12-03 06:20:54 | 1,701,584,454 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 189ndun | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/189ndun/do_i_22m_stay_with_my_gf_22f/ | 1 | me (22m) and my gf (20f) have been together for almost a year. we both love each other but I have been so internally conflicted for the past couple months about wether or not I want to be in a relationship or not. I’ve had relationships in the past but all were very short and this is the first serious one and longest o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do I (22m) stay with my gf (22f)? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/189ndun/do_i_22m_stay_with_my_gf_22f/ |
Senior-Instruction23 | 2023-07-26 20:52:15 | 1,690,404,735 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15ahf5v | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15ahf5v/getting_no_matches_is_it_me/ | 1 | Changed my profile and photos multiple times to what I think is a good profile but still getting little to no matches? And who I do match with never evolved past surface level small talk? Is it something I'm doing wrong or? Thanks :) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting No Matches? Is it me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15ahf5v/getting_no_matches_is_it_me/ |
InitialComment | 2019-11-30 11:12:22 | 1,575,112,342 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | e3utbi | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e3utbi/psa_okcupid_is_useless_now_let_me_explain_why/ | 6 | You may have used OKC years ago when you could send message to everyone and was full of interesting people. Today is different. You can still send a message but it's NOT RECEIVED unless you match with them. In fact sometimes when you watch you immediately receive a message, evern wondered how this is possible? Because ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | PSA: OkCupid is useless now, let me explain why | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e3utbi/psa_okcupid_is_useless_now_let_me_explain_why/ |
xSimSimx | 2022-12-15 00:05:06 | 1,671,062,706 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | zm6jqc | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zm6jqc/ill_admit_i_was_wrong/ | 0 | I shut my Match and Hinge down a few weeks ago. Not because of one particular man, but because I had other things to do. Last night something happened.. The guy I had originally matched with and I had a lenhy conversation last night. I'm beyond confused. He asked me how I found him on Facebook. I told him we have mutua... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'll admit I was wrong. | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zm6jqc/ill_admit_i_was_wrong/ |
kasumixxz | 2024-08-01 08:44:19 | 1,722,501,859 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ehbqf0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ehbqf0/i_like_this_guy_and_idk_what_to_do/ | 1 | So this guy that I met off this dating app I have known him for more than a year now and is about to make two in December when we first started talking. We were talking every day for past couple of months as if we were talking remind you he doesn’t go to school in my state. He just visits every once in a while but when... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | i like this guy and idk what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ehbqf0/i_like_this_guy_and_idk_what_to_do/ |
absurdlivingghost | 2020-10-29 20:48:45 | 1,604,004,525 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | jkielj | true | Venting | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jkielj/why_is_all_dating_advice_so_useless/ | 13 | Working out does not help. Dressing better does not help. Getting better photos for dating apps does not help. Going out more does not help, having interests does not help, being funny does not help.... I can accept that change is gradual, and one shouldn't expect results right away, but in virtually every other area o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is all dating advice so useless? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jkielj/why_is_all_dating_advice_so_useless/ |
DrivewayCS | 2021-12-23 03:54:44 | 1,640,231,684 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | rmmfe0 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rmmfe0/dating_in_2021_is_not_fun/ | 1 | I’m an 18 year old male, and I’m watching as everyone else around me is seemingly finding someone with ease, while I’m struggling. I don’t smoke, drink, party, do drugs. I’m blonde and have blue eyes, I’m not close to being overweight, I’m not underweight, and I’m not super short. Meeting people in real life just doesn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in 2021 is not fun | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rmmfe0/dating_in_2021_is_not_fun/ |
DoomsdayDweeb | 2019-11-27 15:07:36 | 1,574,867,256 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | e2h9f3 | true | null | 104 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/e2h9f3/what_does_it_mean_with_online_dating_if_only_fat/ | 10 | I mean, I think I'm an okay looking dude = a 5 out of 10 I would rate myself. I'm at 16% bodyfat, 171lbs, 5ft10 which isn't bad for a 41 year old man, but I want to get down to 12%. I also look 10 years younger according to a lot of people thanks to a baby face. But anyway, the normal weight women won't give me the tim... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What does it mean with Online Dating if only fat women hit on me and thin/normal weight women ignore me? That I'm relatively unattractive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/e2h9f3/what_does_it_mean_with_online_dating_if_only_fat/ |
ClitWithATopHat | 2022-09-18 09:04:15 | 1,663,491,855 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | xhbr9i | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xhbr9i/am_i_overprotective_for_my_friend/ | 1 | This isnt about me (24f) but my close friend (34f). Im really concerned she’s set herself up for a heartbreak. Over the past year shes been jumping from one relationship to another (3 in total) and I thought she might take a break to heal after the last break up. But instead she met a guy (37m) on a dating site. At fir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I overprotective for my friend? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xhbr9i/am_i_overprotective_for_my_friend/ |
Outrageous-Rub-4070 | 2024-07-17 20:16:13 | 1,721,247,373 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e5s67k | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e5s67k/scared_of_intimacy/ | 2 | I have been talking to this guy I met on a dating app. We have been texting for a while and he's a good person and we have a lot in common. And up until so far I am into him. But when we went on our first date last week I was so nervous, that I didn't feel anything. Does that mean I don't like him? I feel safe around h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Scared of intimacy? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e5s67k/scared_of_intimacy/ |
Kingprincesssun | 2021-10-04 10:38:04 | 1,633,343,884 | null | null | 0 | q12v19 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q12v19/am_i_too_complicated/ | 1 | First try on OLD. I (25,F), after taking a break from dating after way too many bad experiences, have been convinced to give OLD a try by friends for whom it did work. I was aware of its unspoken rule and really not into FWB or ONS, I tried to screen those giving such vibes. had a couple date but none went that far cau... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I too complicated? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q12v19/am_i_too_complicated/ |
HealthyBoar | 2021-09-20 08:23:32 | 1,632,126,212 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | prqj4b | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/prqj4b/had_sex_how_to_proceed/ | 0 | Hey Boyz n girlz, I (m25) met a girl(22) on bumble. We we met at her area and had a nice first date. From that time we didn't text as much, since I always had to take the initiative. I thought she maybe isn't into me, so I stoped. After one week break she texted me and asked how I am. Since the weather is still good un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Had sex, how to proceed? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/prqj4b/had_sex_how_to_proceed/ |
sramarev | 2020-12-30 03:30:24 | 1,609,299,024 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | kmu05u | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kmu05u/feels_like_im_chasing_and_seem_desperate/ | 0 | I met this super cute guy back in November 2019 at a birthday dinner of one of my friends. I didn’t really talk to him bc I had a bf at the time and I just didn’t want to cause anything you know? I ended up breaking up with the bf I had in February and added the guy I met on social media like a month later but didn’t w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feels like I’m chasing and seem desperate?? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kmu05u/feels_like_im_chasing_and_seem_desperate/ |
seeyasucker | 2018-04-29 23:39:55 | 1,525,045,195 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 8fvayv | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8fvayv/how_to_relight_old_bumble_match/ | 0 | So i was talking to this girl from bumble for literally less than a week (only through texts) and life aka school just kind of took over and i let it fall off..whats the best way to reinitiate with her? Its been a bit over a month; i have her but not following her on any social medias. I feel like the ice breaker has t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to relight old bumble match? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8fvayv/how_to_relight_old_bumble_match/ |
Tosir | 2021-04-24 17:13:47 | 1,619,284,427 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mxoahe | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/mxoahe/how_do_i_get_over_a_one_night_stand/ | 42 | Hear me out. I find myself in an odd emotional predicament. First of all, let me say that we both knew why we were getting together. I was clear, direct and to the point... To "bump gentles". I met her on OLD, we struck up a nice conversation, again nothing deep, but I found her to be fun and able to carry a conversati... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I get over a one night stand? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/mxoahe/how_do_i_get_over_a_one_night_stand/ |
tpzsprkle | 2018-05-08 23:31:43 | 1,525,822,303 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 8i1d35 | false | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8i1d35/am_i_undateable/ | 10 | I need some honest feedback, for quite some time I have felt that I have no place dating because I feel like I have nothing to offer another person. I am an average looking woman in their early 30s, overweight and under average height (5'1"). When dealing with OLD, men tell me that I have beautiful eyes or a killer smi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Am I undateable? | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8i1d35/am_i_undateable/ |
vwj91 | 2020-08-08 18:58:43 | 1,596,913,123 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | i64n2w | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i64n2w/do_you_think_the_dynamics_of_dating_have_been/ | 24 | I feel like the average girl gets bombarded with so many guys and messages, that average guys no longer even exist on her radar Like if they're getting 100 DMs a month from 40 different guys, their standards go way up and the average guy no longer is able to compete Meanwhile the average guy is lucky if he gets even 1 ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you think the dynamics of dating have been turned on their head since the internet and dating apps/social media? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i64n2w/do_you_think_the_dynamics_of_dating_have_been/ |
lucent78 | 2018-08-06 22:56:20 | 1,533,596,180 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 9564aw | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9564aw/what_if_i_actually_really_do_like_hiking_and/ | 39 | This always seems to draw such strong feelings from people on here, lol. What do you suggest I put in my OLD profile as a "legit" hiker and traveler that won't get me automatically dismissed? Edit: I mean the answer is probably who cares about those people, but it just seems like there are so many! | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What if I actually really do like hiking and traveling? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9564aw/what_if_i_actually_really_do_like_hiking_and/ |
doingthisonawhim | 2023-02-21 23:54:24 | 1,677,023,664 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 118j5c4 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/118j5c4/been_unsuccessful_in_dating_for_all_my_life_22f/ | 1 | i’m a 22 year old poc female and i consider myself to be quite pretty and sociable, but i have struggled with dating my entire life. i’m going to be 23 in a few months and i still have never had a relationship in my entire life. i have put myself out there through dating apps, meeting friends, flirting, etc. but nothin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | been unsuccessful in dating for all my life (22f) | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/118j5c4/been_unsuccessful_in_dating_for_all_my_life_22f/ |
oqkitty | 2023-02-14 01:37:06 | 1,676,338,626 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 111qbs8 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/111qbs8/how_to_tell_a_guy_i_have_been_spending_time_with/ | 2 | I (26F) met a guy (21M) on Tinder after having misread his age. I was very close to canceling it but felt bad and thought we would have some fun together and we did, I really enjoyed myself! We have a lot in common and been spending a lot of time together since then but he has been asking a lot about the future and the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to tell a guy I have been spending time with that I don't see a relationship with him? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/111qbs8/how_to_tell_a_guy_i_have_been_spending_time_with/ |
Salty-Earth-1000 | 2024-02-25 22:41:37 | 1,708,900,897 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1b01cl6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b01cl6/need_a_little_bit_of_advice/ | 1 | Hi, very new to this forum. Please be kind. I left a very abusive relationship, and very much worked on myself, wasn’t interested in dating cause dating is scary. Anyways, this man came along, and I wasn’t expecting very much but it’s been going very well. Not rushed, very much enjoying it. We’ve maybe been seeing each... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need a little bit of advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b01cl6/need_a_little_bit_of_advice/ |
Infamous-Chapter-664 | 2023-09-04 22:06:08 | 1,693,865,168 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16a5nck | true | null | 63 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/16a5nck/ok_so_now_what/ | 1 | Not sure how to do this but here it goes. 54 BM…. I will date and pursue any attractive woman regardless of the skin color . I’ve never felt that it should matter. Of course we know that’s not the way a lot of people think. On the dating apps ,some women are vocal in their profile about it, some put tell tale signs tha... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Ok so now what? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16a5nck/ok_so_now_what/ |
starriafly | 2024-01-14 23:17:18 | 1,705,274,238 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 196tewg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/196tewg/we_havent_met_in_person_yet_but_he_wants_to_be/ | 1 | I (F23) met a guy (M24) on Bumble last month. Ever since, we’ve been texting A LOT every single day and we also flirt a lot. We’ve been talking for a month already. Talking to each other is just so easy. We expressed our interest towards each other a lot too. We haven’t met each other in person yet due to conflicting s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | we haven’t met in person yet but he wants to be exclusive | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/196tewg/we_havent_met_in_person_yet_but_he_wants_to_be/ |
unlikey_tinder_guy | 2020-10-27 00:56:41 | 1,603,760,201 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | jirfeu | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jirfeu/dating_question/ | 1 | I matched with a girl on tinder it seem like we hit it off we had a lot of the same hobbies there were a few messages on the app and we talked on the phone for a bit we agreed to go on a date for Mini golf but weather conditions got bad so we had to cancel, now she is kinda back down, and leaning on the fence about mee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating question | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jirfeu/dating_question/ |
this-is-ur-private-1 | 2021-05-08 19:28:40 | 1,620,502,120 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | n7wkva | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n7wkva/does_my_fwb_want_more/ | 0 | I (24f) matched a guy (28m) on Tinder a month ago. We really hit it off talking on the app, and on Whatsapp after exchanging numbers, texting all thoughout the day. I asked if he wanted to meet up for a walk. He enthousiastically agreed, but stated he wasn’t looking for anything serious since he just came out of a long... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does my fwb want more? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n7wkva/does_my_fwb_want_more/ |
Dracolo14007 | 2023-07-18 01:11:49 | 1,689,642,709 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 152k0di | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/152k0di/how_do_you_meet_people/ | 1 | How do you meet people? I tried online dating for 2 years and actually talked to like 3 people, and looooong story short I never even met any of them in person. I think the longest conversation was like a week. I tried looking into speed dating, but it’s all in bars and stuff and with my autism I get sensory overload a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/152k0di/how_do_you_meet_people/ |
VientoB | 2024-05-13 19:03:47 | 1,715,627,027 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cr7ex2 | true | null | 20 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cr7ex2/what_are_your_favourite_dating_apps/ | 1 | I like the design of Hinge but don't get many matches. Also a high percentage of matches are fake profiles. I like that Facebook Dating is free and get a lot of matches but sometimes nobody responds. I currently have 19 matches and it's like getting blood out of a stone with them. Tinder is similar to Hive (both owned ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are your favourite dating apps? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cr7ex2/what_are_your_favourite_dating_apps/ |
ThrowRA078965 | 2021-09-02 04:49:56 | 1,630,558,196 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | pgaz44 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/pgaz44/i_need_an_objective_perspective_of_whether_or_not/ | 8 | Throwaway because he’s on Reddit (but I highly doubt he’s on this sub, lol). I need an outside perspective because I’m afraid I’m the person in the wrong here, but my female intuition is hinting at me that I got out while I could and need to cut ties right now. Here are just the facts as objectively as I can state them... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I need an objective perspective of whether or not I handled this wrong | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/pgaz44/i_need_an_objective_perspective_of_whether_or_not/ |
FinishImportant2158 | 2024-08-12 06:16:03 | 1,723,443,363 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1eq6g7t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 24 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eq6g7t/hes_perfect_but_i_got_the_ick/ | 0 | so idk what about this makes me get the ick but I started dating this guy off tinder and we've gone out four times now. He called me beautiful after our first date and I liked that enough but it gave me a kind of mild ick I just don't like it- In my head I want that kind of affirmation but in practice I just get so Ick... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | he’s perfect but I got the ick | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eq6g7t/hes_perfect_but_i_got_the_ick/ |
JH7420 | 2021-02-14 22:55:46 | 1,613,343,346 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ljzjjd | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ljzjjd/how_do_you_actually_talk_to_someone_on_a_dating/ | 1 | I (21M) have never been in a relationship or had anyone be attracted to me, so I thought dating apps would help. The problem is that I have no idea how to talk to these women. How do I start a conversation? How do I keep a conversation going? How do I get them to like me? How do I get them to meet up? I'm literally clu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you actually talk to someone on a dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ljzjjd/how_do_you_actually_talk_to_someone_on_a_dating/ |
commeilfaut26 | 2023-09-30 15:13:15 | 1,696,086,795 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16w9eg3 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16w9eg3/when_should_one_ask_about_previous_marriage/ | 1 | Recently connected with a guy over bumble who is finalizing his divorce. He’s far away so we didn’t see each other in person but did have a long FaceTime. He seems healthy i.e. open, communicative, and welcoming a new connection. That said, I have no idea when the initial split happened/how long he’s been living alone ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When should one ask about previous marriage? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16w9eg3/when_should_one_ask_about_previous_marriage/ |
BeatInner | 2022-07-13 11:44:04 | 1,657,712,644 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vy17i8 | true | null | 221 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/vy17i8/emotional_reset_at_33/ | 144 | Where do I start.. I'm turning 34 in a few months, have been single for 5+ years and have never been more fearful about the possibility of not being able to find a life partner to settle down with. Friends tell me not to worry because my time will come, love will find me when I least expect it, and I should enjoy singl... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Emotional reset at 33 | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/vy17i8/emotional_reset_at_33/ |
usingreddittovent | 2022-08-31 06:43:41 | 1,661,928,221 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | x26iah | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x26iah/let_go_and_unmatched/ | 3 | Matched with a guy last week and exchanged a lot of extremely long texts throughout the week. I was even overwhelmed by some of these long texts but felt I had to answer/acknowledge whatever had been said or asked. We met up Sunday — had dinner and dessert. The conversations seemed to go well. There weren’t any awkward... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let go and unmatched | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x26iah/let_go_and_unmatched/ |
Vklo | 2024-05-20 00:05:15 | 1,716,163,515 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cw29l7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cw29l7/my_only_friend_i_go_out_with_multiple_times_a/ | 3 | We are more of evening butterflies, so most of the girls that we are meeting are during evening gatherings (bars, clubs, house parties). Thing is he met this girl a few weeks ago, and it might work out very well, I'm really happy for him and I hope it will work out, but I'm also thinking maybe soon he won't be able to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My only friend I go out with multiple times a week is probably about to enter a relationship | 3 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cw29l7/my_only_friend_i_go_out_with_multiple_times_a/ |
No-Entertainment605 | 2024-01-31 00:24:50 | 1,706,660,690 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1af44vp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1af44vp/datingbut_for_gamers/ | 1 | So this is really my first post on reddit ever, not sure if that's a good or bad thing, but I've been struggling to find that special someone ever since my ex broke up with me about a year ago. My life kind of revolves around video games if I'm being brutally honest with myself, which I have no idea if I should be asha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating...but for gamers | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1af44vp/datingbut_for_gamers/ |
EmpressShanny | 2021-03-07 21:52:40 | 1,615,153,960 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | m00mbv | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m00mbv/lets_be_real/ | 2 | Okay so I (27F) recently began dating (33M), it has been nine months. We met on a dating app. We are from two really different cultures (JAM) and he (ARM) always shares his parents expectations of how they only want to see him date someone of the same culture. When I met her, she was very cold shoulder -ish, I only got... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let's be real! | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m00mbv/lets_be_real/ |
MadRespect_96 | 2019-10-05 16:41:54 | 1,570,293,714 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ddpncq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ddpncq/need_opinionsadvice_on_how_to_progress_things_and/ | 1 | So I met this girl on tinder and when we first started talking conversation seemed to flow good between us. A week later I asked if she wanted to hangout and she said yes, but we only had 2 hours because she had to work. So it was a quick 2 hour date where we walked around and both nervously talked about stuff and even... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need opinions/advice on how to progress things and if I should try too. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ddpncq/need_opinionsadvice_on_how_to_progress_things_and/ |
kaii278 | 2023-04-13 10:59:23 | 1,681,383,563 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12kkxv0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12kkxv0/i_need_an_advice_pls/ | 0 | Sooo , I need some genuine help regarding this situation here's the context : I met this guy on a dating app I am 19f and he's 4 years older , it all started out nice and good and he studies in a different city so we match on this app, we vibe a lot ,like there was similarities in every thing, literally everything, it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I NEED AN ADVICE , PLS | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12kkxv0/i_need_an_advice_pls/ |
ManwithaTigerTattoo | 2019-04-28 14:38:06 | 1,556,462,286 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 7 | bibv6q | true | /r/all | 2,529 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bibv6q/my_boyfriend_keeps_provoking_arguments_that_he/ | 30,667 | My relationship is on its last legs. My boyfriend has gotten into this dynamic where he provokes arguments and then flips it against me blaming me for causing them. I feel I'm going crazy because it's a mindfuck, I literally do nothing and out of nowhere we're in the middle of a huge argument where I'm the bad one but ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | My boyfriend keeps provoking arguments that he blames on me and demands I give him bj's as the only way for him to forgive me. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bibv6q/my_boyfriend_keeps_provoking_arguments_that_he/ |
ImplementWeekly5335 | 2023-02-08 11:52:51 | 1,675,857,171 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 10wuqsx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10wuqsx/why_is_being_boring_bad/ | 3 | Recently a girl I really liked said behind my back that I was boring. People have commented that my dating profile appears boring which is causing me to get no matches. But tbh I don't see any issue with the way I'm living right now. I'm just doing activities that bring me joy. The activities that bring me joy are TV, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is being boring bad? | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10wuqsx/why_is_being_boring_bad/ |
Sufficient-Cry-9163 | 2023-12-07 11:25:48 | 1,701,948,348 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18ctkjq | true | Question ❓ | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ctkjq/my_neighbor_understand_me_on_tinder/ | 2 | I have a neighbor who I have matched 3 times in tinder. The first time I quickly unmatched. The second time I waited awhile for him to message and he didn't so I unmatched cause I was nervous. Then a few days ago we matched again and I texted him "Do you want to play a game?" And he immediately unmatched me. Do you thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My neighbor understand me on tinder | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ctkjq/my_neighbor_understand_me_on_tinder/ |
Jim4810 | 2020-05-19 17:42:19 | 1,589,910,139 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | gmtbxc | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gmtbxc/old_bio_text_advice/ | 3 | Hey all, I am in the closing stages of a divorce - 37M, married 12 years, 2 kids, 13 months since we filed. Whilst I am not quite at the stage of dating (due to lockdown and wanting to finalise divorce), a friend advised me to have a go at writing a bio for various dating sites (Tinder, Bumble etc), for when things nor... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD Bio Text Advice | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gmtbxc/old_bio_text_advice/ |
Eatdacatcat | 2023-10-25 14:56:00 | 1,698,245,760 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17g6oal | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17g6oal/how_to_flirt_with_a_guy_on_first_date/ | 1 | (21 F) I have a date in a couple of days with a guy who said he’s really into me. He was a hinge match and right when i was uninterested and wanting to delete it, i came across him. He seems pretty sweet but i don’t really want anything out of the date which i clearly told him. He’s been wanting to go out with me for a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to flirt with a guy on first date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17g6oal/how_to_flirt_with_a_guy_on_first_date/ |
goodietooshoes26 | 2022-02-14 16:11:36 | 1,644,855,096 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sse8ys | true | null | 123 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/sse8ys/left_my_garmin_at_his_house/ | 99 | Hey hey hey I met a guy on Hinge, who I was talking to for about 4 weeks. It didn’t work out, it seemed like he lost interest in me. I also noticed he became less available, which made me believe he found someone else. We haven’t talked in a week, but I know I left my Garmin watch at his place. I was hoping he’d offer ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Left my Garmin at his house | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/sse8ys/left_my_garmin_at_his_house/ |
sean7755 | 2017-05-21 19:44:15 | 1,495,395,855 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6cijcs | null | null | 40 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6cijcs/im_starting_to_realize_that_online_dating_might/ | 101 | Online, you never know if the person will message you back, you can't experience the chemistry of being with them when you're getting to know each other, and chances are you might not even wind up meeting. In real life, small talk is more interesting than small online, you're with the person, you can join clubs or acti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm starting to realize that online dating might actually be more difficult than meeting people in real life. Anyone else agree? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6cijcs/im_starting_to_realize_that_online_dating_might/ |
Minimum_Struggle_884 | 2024-04-25 12:04:18 | 1,714,046,658 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1ccq7mf | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ccq7mf/appropriate_age_gaps/ | 1 | I am on dating site and the have different ages it varies to 18 to 29 what is an appropriate age gap for me ( I’m 20). | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Appropriate age gaps | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ccq7mf/appropriate_age_gaps/ |
AlexDaGreat999 | 2020-02-15 19:45:25 | 1,581,795,925 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | f4ejqh | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f4ejqh/tinder_for_average_looking_guys/ | 8 | Should I, as an average looking guy, even bother making a Tinder? From personal experience and stats, I can confidently say that pretty much all online dating websites/apps are skewed towards the best looking men and average looking guys are significantly less successful. But I want to know if there is some way I can g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder for average looking guys | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f4ejqh/tinder_for_average_looking_guys/ |
LordSnuffleFerret | 2020-11-14 03:31:33 | 1,605,324,693 | null | null | 0 | jtuzem | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jtuzem/for_the_women_insta_links/ | 3 | Quick question, I notice on a couple dating sites, Okcupid, Tinder, Bumble, women are fond of leaving insta links. Fair enough, easy to contact and if you're on there more frequently it makes sense, but what intros are you expecting? Sometimes I ask something based on a profile ("how did you decide to get into sociolog... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | For the women - Insta links | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jtuzem/for_the_women_insta_links/ |
deathbyfractals | 2019-03-31 22:46:46 | 1,554,072,406 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | b7tv64 | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/b7tv64/i_quit_online_dating/ | 9 | I've been tapering off the usage of OLD/apps for the past 6 months or so, and today marks the expiration of my last "active" OLD profile. I've had Match for a little over 4 years and have gotten many dates off it, none particularly resulting in a long term relationship. The last date I got was maybe a couple of weeks ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I quit OnLine Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b7tv64/i_quit_online_dating/ |
Other-Solution-1518 | 2024-06-11 19:27:47 | 1,718,134,067 | 0 | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ddmrbm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1ddmrbm/thoughts_on_getting_recommendations_from_a/ | 1 | I'm thinking about arranging a general consultation with plastic surgeon for them to determine what my biggest flaws are. The main objective would be to become prettier so that I have better chances with men. Dating has been really difficult for me. I desire a LTR and eventually marriage but I keep ending up in situati... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Thoughts on getting recommendations from a plastic surgeon to improve attractiveness for dating prospects? | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddmrbm/thoughts_on_getting_recommendations_from_a/ |
gamer3445 | 2020-02-28 12:58:52 | 1,582,894,732 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | fauc72 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fauc72/trying_to_date_the_last_semester_of_high_school/ | 1 | So I’ve always been a real shy guy ( actually love to talk to people in groups but never really talked to them one on one) around girls in high school and really never wanted to date anyone until the last couple of months. Now I know I’m a little late in the game since most of my peers have decided on where are going t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to date the last semester of high school. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fauc72/trying_to_date_the_last_semester_of_high_school/ |
perigon | 2021-04-29 22:19:38 | 1,619,734,778 | null | null | 0 | n1ft2t | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n1ft2t/mutual_ghosting_vs_a_clear_rejection/ | 6 | I'm probably over thinking things here, but I've been wondering recently what's the best way to go about things when you don't want to continue seeing somebody after a date or two. In my experience a girl will always wait for me to text first after a date whether they are interested in continuing or not. So if neither ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "Mutual ghosting" Vs a clear "rejection"? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n1ft2t/mutual_ghosting_vs_a_clear_rejection/ |
Desperate-Drama491 | 2024-08-19 16:25:47 | 1,724,084,747 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1ew65ny | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ew65ny/chronically_single_do_i_settle/ | 0 | I 29f (soon to be 30 in a couple months), have never been in a long term relationship - actually truly any relationship for that matter. I'm conventionally attractive, educated, make 6 figures, live alone, financially stable, etc and I just don't know why it's not happening for me. I've really focused on dating for the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Chronically Single - do I settle? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ew65ny/chronically_single_do_i_settle/ |
Mean_Gazelle_5802 | 2024-06-09 22:56:40 | 1,717,973,800 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dc6r5y | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dc6r5y/is_there_a_filter_on_dating_apps_for_people_with/ | 1 | Is there a filter on dating apps for people with children? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is there a filter on dating apps for people with children? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dc6r5y/is_there_a_filter_on_dating_apps_for_people_with/ |
fireflygirl1013 | 2017-10-18 01:06:42 | 1,508,288,802 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | 77362f | false | null | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/77362f/okc_my_next_bumble/ | 6 | I seem to be having some bit of trouble with chats on OkC; whenever I like a guy first or the guy liked me first, and the match is reciprocated, the guy has NEVER initiated convo. I always do and I am not sure if you matched with me first, why wouldn't you be interested in initiating a convo? I am not sure if it's me o... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OKC = My Next Bumble 😩 | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/77362f/okc_my_next_bumble/ |
Lucianopavoracci | 2020-12-11 05:52:42 | 1,607,665,962 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kawyes | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kawyes/does_my_clinging_mean_i_have_lost_my_shot_with/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl. We started talking at the end of September really fun, hit it off quick, chemistry was great. We decided to meet up around a week later, at my place. We just talked and it was nice, and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. We keep on texting through snap. I keep asking her a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does my clinging mean I have lost my shot with this girl? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kawyes/does_my_clinging_mean_i_have_lost_my_shot_with/ |
Gibnez | 2023-07-13 20:51:40 | 1,689,281,500 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 14yw4m0 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14yw4m0/is_this_worth_pursuing/ | 1 | A girl at a concert I performed at asked me for my number. She kept saying I was really good and kept complimenting me. I asked if she just had Snapchat because I didn’t really want to give my number to someone I just met (maybe this was a mistake??). We exchanged Snapchats and had been Snapping back and fourth for a f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this worth pursuing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14yw4m0/is_this_worth_pursuing/ |
Longjumping_Twist511 | 2023-10-18 09:55:53 | 1,697,622,953 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 17amy0o | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/17amy0o/what_is_she_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I am 27F (turned a month ago), African currently doing my PhD. I live in a first world country. All my life I have only been in one serious relationship (18-22) to a guy who was 5yrs older and I am the one who made the first approach. To some extent I think he was with me out of pity coz I found out 4 months into the r... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What is she doing wrong? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/17amy0o/what_is_she_doing_wrong/ |
furryiswrong | 2023-12-01 14:40:16 | 1,701,441,616 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 188dh64 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/188dh64/why_do_some_women_claim_a_guy_to_be_boring_right/ | 1 | Been in weird situations where some women will only say hi as their message on dating apps/reddit, then if I say something like hi how are you? they deem it as the guy being boring/dry. It doesn't seem that fair like what am I supposed to do jump through hopes just because some girl tells me hi? that doesn't seem fair ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do some women claim a guy to be boring right away if they give a basic response to something as simple as saying hello back? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/188dh64/why_do_some_women_claim_a_guy_to_be_boring_right/ |
BroadClue8617 | 2023-12-14 15:37:17 | 1,702,568,237 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18ibast | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ibast/need_to_know_if_i_should_give_up_25m_23f/ | 1 | Need help. 25M and 23F Need advice and help I (25M) met this girl (23f) from hinge about 10 months ago. We texted and talked but shortly after I met someone else. Got into a 3 month relationship and it was okay but just not it. Right after I reconnected with the precious girl. We quickly went in a date. An amazing date... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need to know if I should give up. 25m 23f | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ibast/need_to_know_if_i_should_give_up_25m_23f/ |
TaborToss | 2020-01-06 04:36:54 | 1,578,285,414 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ekow56 | true | null | 98 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekow56/speed_dating_experience/ | 128 | UPDATE: I was selected by some participants but not by the women I listed. This isn’t a big surprise as I aimed a little high. I have been invited to a future session at no cost and plan to go if other opportunities haven’t worked out at that point. So I decided to try something new for 2020 and signed up for a Speed D... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Speed dating experience | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekow56/speed_dating_experience/ |
Soft-Management8227 | 2022-01-19 15:13:06 | 1,642,605,186 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s7sa8v | true | null | 179 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s7sa8v/he_told_me_he_love_me_already/ | 134 | so i met this guy on tinder.. we’ve been chatting for a week and decided to meet up. the date went well. we ate dinner and watched a movie. so far i haven’t sensed any red flags. the day after, he surprised me and brought me coffee coz i told him i’m wfh. after two days we met again and the date went well. the next day... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | he told me he love me already | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s7sa8v/he_told_me_he_love_me_already/ |
curiousjazmine | 2021-01-17 22:45:00 | 1,610,923,500 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | kzgyfx | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kzgyfx/on_the_fence_about_having_the_conversation_i_feel/ | 6 | Here’s a short summary; new man declares intentions when drunk, I’m unsure whether I follow up with a sober conversation about exclusivity/relationship and direction. I’m on the fence because I want more kids and he doesn’t. I’m in limbo because I don’t know if I can still be ethically keeping my options open by dating... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | On the fence about having “the conversation”... i feel that exclusivity is implied but unsure 😐 | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kzgyfx/on_the_fence_about_having_the_conversation_i_feel/ |
samshepp2000 | 2021-12-22 16:31:51 | 1,640,190,711 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | rm8vu6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rm8vu6/second_time_matching_with_girl_from_tinder/ | 1 | Hi so I’ve matched with this girl on tinder twice the first time around our conversation was going well and I got her Snapchat but after that unfortunately our conversation died out pretty quick. We’ve now matched a second time and the conversation appears to be going a lot better but we’ve both failed to acknowledge t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Second time matching with girl from tinder. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rm8vu6/second_time_matching_with_girl_from_tinder/ |
therealme1017 | 2022-01-24 01:31:38 | 1,642,987,898 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sb9rtz | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sb9rtz/what_does_he_want/ | 1 | I met this guy on hinge we went on our first date in the summer then we stopped texting as I was also dating someone else. He kept watching my stories these whole time we were not talking but texts me again a month ago asking to meet up. We went for a lovely dinner, I realised I actually really like him and after we ke... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What does he want??? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sb9rtz/what_does_he_want/ |
forget4 | 2019-02-19 02:27:51 | 1,550,543,271 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | as5ap2 | true | null | 148 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/as5ap2/how_to_stop_being_last_pick_or_should_i_just_give/ | 268 | Im 24 never had a girlfriend or had sex. Have had the worst dating experiences with girls leading me on and treating me like crap. One consistent thing that has happened to me is girls pick a different guy over me. I have gotten the "Im not ready for a relationship/not looking for one/etc." But then another guy shows u... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to stop being last pick or should I just give up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/as5ap2/how_to_stop_being_last_pick_or_should_i_just_give/ |
dudemic | 2015-06-26 22:17:01 | 1,435,357,021 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3b8tgp | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating/comments/3b8tgp/23m_advice_for_creating_my_online_dating_profile/ | 3 | As said in the title I am a 23 year old male who is looking to start an online dating profile and is looking for advice. I'm bisexual but have a preference for women so that's the prime source of advice I'm looking for. That being said I am open to all advice. I'm not the greatest at talking about myself and want to wa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [23/M] Advice for creating my online dating profile. (X-post r/relationship_advice) | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3b8tgp/23m_advice_for_creating_my_online_dating_profile/ |
Doncuneo | 2014-12-29 02:44:49 | 1,419,821,089 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 2qo93z | null | null | 56 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/2qo93z/women_who_have_met_their_sos_online_such_dating/ | 58 | Was the person local? regional? overseas? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Women who have met their SO's online such Dating sites, What was the experience like? would you recommend it and do you have any tips to share? | 58 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/2qo93z/women_who_have_met_their_sos_online_such_dating/ |
vapegod_420 | 2022-12-24 08:15:41 | 1,671,869,741 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | zu5cp4 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zu5cp4/man_this_month_has_been_rough_dating_wise_lol/ | 2 | I’ll keep things simple and give summaries. All these people are from hinge. Woman 1 We are taking for a bit I’d say 3-4 days. It’s going alright. Ask if they want to meet up. Ghosted. Woman 2 About 5 days after woman 1. We are texting and there is a good amount of texts being exchanged. I ask if they want to meet up a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Man this month has been rough dating wise lol. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zu5cp4/man_this_month_has_been_rough_dating_wise_lol/ |
babyybubbless | 2024-04-03 18:54:11 | 1,712,170,451 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1bv0tzs | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bv0tzs/matched_with_a_guy_and_he_deleted_his_profile/ | 1 | so for context, we chatted yesterday and today. also during the midst of us talking i did switch up a bunch of my pictures as we were talking today he said "can i have your number, i really wanna delete tinder and wanna keep talking to you." so we exchanged numbers, he text me and i checked to see if his profile was th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | matched with a guy and he deleted his profile after getting my number | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bv0tzs/matched_with_a_guy_and_he_deleted_his_profile/ |
paristravel2019 | 2023-12-29 22:15:38 | 1,703,888,138 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18tz1hu | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18tz1hu/32f_do_you_think_i_should_ask_out_my_gym_crush/ | 1 | I've been crushing on this guy who works at my gym for months. It's motivated me to go to the gym more & push myself in my workouts. Every time I go there, I get this rush of excitement hoping I'll see him. I know what hours he usually works but seems like he works there only part time. I don't always get to go there w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (32F) Do you think I should ask out my gym crush? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18tz1hu/32f_do_you_think_i_should_ask_out_my_gym_crush/ |
monkeyinheaven | 2022-03-25 17:58:02 | 1,648,231,082 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | tnttxy | true | I Need Advice | 95 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tnttxy/need_advice_on_how_to_help_our_autistic_son_start/ | 166 | I’m writing about our 27-year-old son. He’s autistic, but he’s also college educated, funny as hell and a great human being. We are trying to figure out a way for him to meet someone to have a long-term relationship. While his personality quirks keep him from being a high earner, he is employed and has insurance and a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice on how to help our autistic son start dating | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tnttxy/need_advice_on_how_to_help_our_autistic_son_start/ |
bacterialblob | 2022-07-02 18:56:25 | 1,656,788,185 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vpyjmp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vpyjmp/ended_a_potentially_toxic_situationship_feeling/ | 1 | I, 26f, recently ended a situationship with a guy I'd been seeing for 3 months. He was a tinder match and made his intention, which was just hookup and no relationship, clear from the start. I was okay with it since I wasn't looking for a relationship either, so went along. Before this guy, I'd had no experience dating... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ended a potentially toxic situationship, feeling like shit. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vpyjmp/ended_a_potentially_toxic_situationship_feeling/ |
xenanutnut | 2024-07-30 05:08:32 | 1,722,316,112 | 0 | null | 0 | 1efl5e6 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1efl5e6/what_do_you_think_about_profiles_saying_they_are/ | 17 | I've come across a lot of profiles' bios that say "I'm a kind person" or "I'm a nice guy" or "I'm the best person you'll meet" etc. Was just wondering what everyone's thoughts on this and whether this is a good reason to swipe left or not. Personally I feel a bit weird about them. I feel like those values should be eit... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What do you think about profiles saying they are "kind" or "nice" etc.? | 17 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1efl5e6/what_do_you_think_about_profiles_saying_they_are/ |
soopysoupysoop | 2023-09-06 17:39:46 | 1,694,021,986 | 0 | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16bqlcq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16bqlcq/online_dating_whats_the_smoothest_way_to_go_from/ | 1 | Got this girls number from hinge, and i'm confused how ill manage to pull this off. She is still in college, which is a 5 min drive from me. I graduated already, and we have similar interests and we're both sexy. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating... Whats the smoothest way to go from texting on imessage to being in bed? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16bqlcq/online_dating_whats_the_smoothest_way_to_go_from/ |
Basic-Function-8472 | 2023-07-30 12:28:01 | 1,690,720,081 | 0 | null | 0 | 15dkehy | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15dkehy/could_use_some_help_please/ | 1 | I know this is going to sound pretty pathetic...because it is and because that's how I feel right now. I was wondering if some kind, knowledgeable person would be willing to go over my profiles and photos and help me tweak them...or something? I'm getting absolutely nowhere and it's really killing me 😥 Hell, I'd even ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Could use some help please! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15dkehy/could_use_some_help_please/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-17 15:40:23 | 1,405,611,623 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2aympv | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2aympv/opening_lines_when_sending_a_message_on_online/ | 0 | Never sure what to say when writing a girl for the first time. I want to stand out but am not the best with words. Any ideas? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opening lines when sending a message on online dating sites? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2aympv/opening_lines_when_sending_a_message_on_online/ |
ShawnOfEons | 2022-06-30 23:25:46 | 1,656,631,546 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | vom0va | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vom0va/back_to_dating_for_a_week_now_and_i_am_already/ | 5 | Yeah I am getting dates, but I get women that are unreliable, I get messed with and time wasted. I met a woman, we went out a couple of times, she liked me at first, now she cares about me only as a "friend" because I am too nice. WTF I met another one, she said she is too busy for a relationship, but to this day conti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Back to dating for a week now, and I am already beyond frustrated! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vom0va/back_to_dating_for_a_week_now_and_i_am_already/ |
Bariete | 2023-12-19 19:40:06 | 1,703,014,806 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18mah9v | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18mah9v/im_confused_is_this_what_datings_like_newbie/ | 1 | Context - I 25m have never dated in the past and got out of a 4 year long relationship 8 months ago, I decided to get myself out there now that I have completely healed. I had been talking to a girl on a dating app and we share a lot of interests and hit it off over text. I asked her out and I went on my first ever dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm confused, is this what dating's like? (Newbie) | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18mah9v/im_confused_is_this_what_datings_like_newbie/ |
IncompletePenetrance | 2021-10-03 20:42:34 | 1,633,293,754 | null | ['hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 1 | q0qbou | true | /r/all | 547 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q0qbou/a_guy_pushed_me_for_casual_sex_on_hinge_i_asked/ | 13,269 | He blocked and deleted me, which was predictable. I'm just so frustrated with trying to date, using sites oriented more towards dating (Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel), making my wishes clear and still having guys push for FWB/casual sex. Not only have I made it clear that's not what I'm looking for, but as someone who live... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | A guy pushed me for casual sex on Hinge. I asked for a 10k security deposit for my uterus | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q0qbou/a_guy_pushed_me_for_casual_sex_on_hinge_i_asked/ |
Single-Father-Of-Two | 2022-01-17 03:11:55 | 1,642,389,115 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | s5tesy | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s5tesy/long_winded_question_about_how_to_begin_dating/ | 0 | I just recently got out of a 3 year marriage (I'm 28m she's 21f) and have sole custody of my 2 daughters (1 and 2). This is going to be a long post, so please bare with me as I give some back story to this. So, when I first met her, I was told a bunch of things from her, about her that at first didn't seem likely. Look... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Long winded question about how to begin dating | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s5tesy/long_winded_question_about_how_to_begin_dating/ |
Gullible_Cat1325 | 2023-11-02 18:14:55 | 1,698,948,895 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 17m9uk8 | true | Seeking Advice | 86 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17m9uk8/do_i_have_any_chance_of_a_relationship_left/ | 42 | I'm a 42 male and am still a child at heart. I love video games when I have free time, cartoons, anime and still just enjoying life like I was in my 20s. I have a wide variety of tastes in music, and movies. Aliens, ghosts, ancient civilizations, and space keep my head occupied a lot. I love art. Drawing, painting, cra... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Do I have any chance of a relationship left? | 42 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17m9uk8/do_i_have_any_chance_of_a_relationship_left/ |
redgreenblue80 | 2022-04-03 10:20:31 | 1,648,981,231 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tv66p5 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tv66p5/break_up_fog/ | 17 | I'm stealing this term from a thread I read earlier because I think it's the perfect term to describe what I'm going through and I need advice from total strangers to talk me out of making bad break-up fog decisions. Backstory is that I was in an on/off relationship for 3 years. There was deep love and passion there, h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Break up Fog? | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tv66p5/break_up_fog/ |
topknot78 | 2023-03-03 16:39:33 | 1,677,861,573 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11h59d5 | true | null | 72 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/11h59d5/these_are_the_people_in_your_neighborhood/ | 19 | I’m scrolling through the two apps I’m on (hinge and tinder) and I’m amazed at how many people I know or see regularly that are on here. A couple regulars from the bar I go to, the guy that did my septum piercing, a friend’s brother, people I went to high school with many moons ago, etc. Recently I chatted with a guy o... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | These are the people in your neighborhood! | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/11h59d5/these_are_the_people_in_your_neighborhood/ |
abc1399 | 2021-11-29 04:31:46 | 1,638,160,306 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r4ngrr | true | I Need Advice | 499 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r4ngrr/men_reject_me_at_25_vs_19/ | 458 | When I was 19 men on dating apps were all over me and really really wanted me. At 25, guys aren't as crazy about me. 2 guys wanted to hook up again, 2 guys ghosted me after meeting me, and one guy "fell asleep" but was clearly sleeping with another girl. Someone told me I'm less attractive now. My mom says I look the s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men reject me at 25 vs 19 | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r4ngrr/men_reject_me_at_25_vs_19/ |
TA12419 | 2019-10-09 23:12:07 | 1,570,662,727 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dfp5bh | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dfp5bh/with_online_dating_is_it_normal_to_meet_up_with_a/ | 1 | Every time I’ve (male, straight) looked for a relationship and started talking to someone, we always exchanged a handful of messages and didn’t meet in person until a few weeks of messaging first... But I changed my setting/status to looking for friends with benefits, started talking to someone also looking for FWB, an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | With online dating, is it normal to meet up with a FWB sooner than a potential romantic interest? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dfp5bh/with_online_dating_is_it_normal_to_meet_up_with_a/ |
Emotional_Train_2485 | 2023-07-10 22:19:50 | 1,689,027,590 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14w8clz | false | Seeking Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14w8clz/friends_without_benefits/ | 1 | M(44) As someone who gets easily attached and loves connection I often find myself using dating as a way of distracting from just being me and loving life. Part of the issue is a lack of real friends, so I pass time trying to meet and connect with women. How can I meet and develop healthy friendships without using dati... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Friends (without benefits) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14w8clz/friends_without_benefits/ |
tringlepatties | 2022-01-20 00:34:13 | 1,642,638,853 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | s85bol | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s85bol/how_do_i_start_dating/ | 1 | I’m 25, never been in a relationship and never been on a date with anyone. Farthest I’ve been are flirtationships with a few Tinder matches overseas during the past year. They said LDR would have been an issue that’s why i just ended up as friends with them (lol but they Tinder passported in the firstplace 🥴). I seldo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I start dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s85bol/how_do_i_start_dating/ |
jodar7 | 2015-11-02 04:01:00 | 1,446,436,860 | 0 | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 3r64fu | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3r64fu/what_can_i_26f_do_about_my_friendcrush_24f_who/ | 2 | I'm 26, my friend Jess is 24. I have social anxiety and never dated before so I don't know how to navigate the dating world but want nothing more than a loving serious relationship. Over the past 2 months Jess has been visiting my store almost weekly. We'll go through periods of texting and fb msging (usually she will ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What Can I (26/f) Do About My Friend/Crush (24/f) Who Touches Me Inappropriately When She's Drunk?? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3r64fu/what_can_i_26f_do_about_my_friendcrush_24f_who/ |
Throwawaytonowhere02 | 2022-06-18 19:57:54 | 1,655,582,274 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | vfdzp4 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vfdzp4/how_to_meet_girls/ | 2 | Hello, I am a 20 year old man from London. I do not have a circle of friends and so I feel trapped. I really want to meet a woman, I feel I am ready, having never had a relationship before. However, I am totally stuck on what to do? Where to go? It's not as easy as, go to a pub, go to a bar. What? On my own? I've never... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to meet girls? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vfdzp4/how_to_meet_girls/ |
[deleted] | 2019-11-04 13:59:01 | 1,572,875,941 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | drhyzv | true | Question | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/drhyzv/is_a_comment_based_on_her_profile_an_okay_opening/ | 2 | Basically instead of asking a question based on the profile or making a joke. For instance something similar to "oh, I see you like X, I also like X, because of Y" It shows you have something in common and then maybe that can lead to discussing it further or taking the subject to something similar? See, I'm becoming ap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is a comment based on her profile an okay opening message? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/drhyzv/is_a_comment_based_on_her_profile_an_okay_opening/ |
Morty051 | 2021-11-16 17:33:30 | 1,637,084,010 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qvd6jf | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qvd6jf/advice_needed/ | 3 | I (20m) have never used a dating app, and recently felt the urge to download one and try it out. I have never been in a relationship and tend to overthink asking girls out that I find interesting (gives me anxiety) so I think it might be good for me. On the other hand, I feel like dating someone that I met on an app mi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice needed | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qvd6jf/advice_needed/ |
SoggyConnection | 2018-08-31 13:44:03 | 1,535,723,043 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9btq24 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9btq24/how_do_i_tell_her_about_the_other_girl/ | 2 | I've never been successful in dating more so because i never really tried, i've had a few short term things that happened by chance and never had a serious relationship. Recently I decided to put more effort in and joined Tinder. I have been dating two girls who I get on with extremely well, I like each one equally but... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I tell her about the other girl? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9btq24/how_do_i_tell_her_about_the_other_girl/ |
Nomadsoul4u | 2022-02-12 01:05:46 | 1,644,627,946 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | sqewew | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sqewew/confused_after_amazing_connection/ | 1 | Met a guy on the dating app. We lived very close to each other and had amazing chemistry so we almost played house and met each other every day for a week. There didn’t seem to be any pretence and super comfortable and connection. He was also super into me with what how he was talking. Everything seemed to be going wel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused after amazing connection | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sqewew/confused_after_amazing_connection/ |
ComradeJagrad | 2021-08-13 03:33:58 | 1,628,825,638 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | p3fhxj | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p3fhxj/can_you_become_a_man_that_women_approach/ | 1 | I (38M) have never been the type to get hit on by women. I've never had a woman willingly give me her number or ask me out. I do terrible on dating apps. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'll never be a male model and that's fine. My question is: Is there a way to become a man who women approach or is it just something you'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can you become a man that women approach? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p3fhxj/can_you_become_a_man_that_women_approach/ |
zestlyboi | 2021-06-02 04:08:28 | 1,622,606,908 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | nqcz5k | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nqcz5k/if_and_how_should_i_m20_approach_this_girl_ive/ | 1 | It was a couple years ago, but when we were in high school together, I always had an interest in this girl. We were in a few of the same classes at school and shared some conversations, but never anything outside of class. I graduated and never really looked back (she is about a year younger than me). She posted on Ins... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If and how should I (M20) approach this girl I’ve had interest in for the longest time? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nqcz5k/if_and_how_should_i_m20_approach_this_girl_ive/ |
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