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Neither-State6219 | 2023-08-20 23:20:03 | 1,692,573,603 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15wqcau | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15wqcau/21m_how_do_i_even_meet_women/ | 1 | So im not that dumb, i had a few girlfriends but i found them on dating apps and instagram, like texted a bit, went for a coffe and BOOM we start dating. But i never cold approached or something like that. My friends arent good with women and dont realy have any female friends, even this girl that i like hanging out wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (21M) HOW DO I EVEN MEET WOMEN?! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15wqcau/21m_how_do_i_even_meet_women/ |
atallnotrelevant | 2020-04-09 19:07:50 | 1,586,459,270 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fxyi8b | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fxyi8b/how_much_is_too_much_showing_interest/ | 5 | Hi everybody this is my first time posting in this subreddit and I would love some feedback on this problem that I've been having for quite some time. So basically, I want to know when someone like me who tends to show way too much interest needs to take a step back and let the other person also show if they are intere... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How much is too much showing interest? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fxyi8b/how_much_is_too_much_showing_interest/ |
date_advice11 | 2020-07-07 02:48:51 | 1,594,090,131 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hmm9x2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hmm9x2/m21_meeting_tinder_girlf22_for_the_first_time/ | 0 | hey, so I don't date much, ever have before; I've been in relationships but no real "dates" prior to getting into one, just casual hanging out and catching feelings. However, after my last relationship, I got tinder, and I met this wonderful girl and we've been talking for about a week now. We've been trying to set up ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M21 meeting Tinder girlF22 for the first time. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hmm9x2/m21_meeting_tinder_girlf22_for_the_first_time/ |
Infinite-Proof-3781 | 2022-02-27 22:24:37 | 1,646,000,677 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | t2zj9m | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/t2zj9m/verifying_a_dating_profile/ | 1 | Hey guys does anyone have a good way of verifying a dating profile on like bumble? They only have one picture, and not much else. What would you do? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Verifying A Dating Profile | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t2zj9m/verifying_a_dating_profile/ |
eookuro | 2018-03-06 17:20:26 | 1,520,356,826 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 82gre7 | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/82gre7/she_is_15_years_older/ | 1 | I met this woman on a dating app. We matched, she messaged me first and literally said we should meet up. No small talk nothing. I was like sure how about next week at this place. She countered that we should meet in here area, I live in West LA and she wanted to meet in the Valley. But she let me pick the place. I’m a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She is 15 years older | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/82gre7/she_is_15_years_older/ |
wragan17 | 2022-04-15 14:41:40 | 1,650,033,700 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | u49km3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/u49km3/31m_new_to_dating_apps_what_is_the_expected/ | 0 | I don’t have any desire to chase, but there is some one who’s caught my curiosity. What is the expected response time, and etiquette around pinging some one if they haven’t responded? This is on bumble, specifically. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 31M New to dating apps, what is the expected response time for messages? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u49km3/31m_new_to_dating_apps_what_is_the_expected/ |
krive-shield | 2021-02-15 06:05:59 | 1,613,369,159 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | lk78rq | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lk78rq/language_barrier_i_want_to_do_my_best_here/ | 1 | I matched with a really adorable girl that's here for college but came from Taiwan, she's got a good grasp of English and we've talked for a bit and even met in person to test the waters. she's open to going on a few dates but I have hearing issues that make it hard to tell some of what she's saying with all the backgr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | language barrier, I want to do my best here | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lk78rq/language_barrier_i_want_to_do_my_best_here/ |
solotravelthrueurope | 2019-06-09 20:41:52 | 1,560,112,912 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | byouaq | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/byouaq/profile_improvement_tips_and_some_general_dating/ | 117 | Hey everyone, lonime lurker here. I frequent the tinder/bumble/hinge forums and figured I would throw together a list of a few things that I have not seen mentioned much in terms of profile improvement/dating. Now I know these are just tips from my point of view (looking at mens profiles) but I think these could be app... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile improvement tips and some general dating advice from a 24/F | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/byouaq/profile_improvement_tips_and_some_general_dating/ |
therealpencilvester | 2016-04-25 23:46:10 | 1,461,627,970 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 4gg539 | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating/comments/4gg539/28m_should_i_let_women_know_up_front_that_i_have/ | 1 | A little back story here. I grew up in a fundamentalist group where I had believed that dating should only be for two people trying to get married. In my earlier twenties there were three women I felt that I could possibly marry, but none reciprocated my interest. I have since left the religion and no longer feel this ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [28M] Should I let women know up front that I have never been on a date? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4gg539/28m_should_i_let_women_know_up_front_that_i_have/ |
PlutoInSummer | 2023-09-13 23:35:12 | 1,694,648,112 | 0 | null | 0 | 16i2ktr | true | null | 90 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16i2ktr/what_alternatives_do_we_really_have_to_online/ | 1 | Just curious what you all think. Bars, coffee shops, etc? Other places online that aren't dating sites? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What Alternatives Do We Really Have to Online Dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16i2ktr/what_alternatives_do_we_really_have_to_online/ |
[deleted] | 2013-06-05 21:47:00 | 1,370,468,820 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1fqzp3 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fqzp3/online_dating_woes/ | 0 | I (23/m) have been using an online dating profile for a little while now. I have been vompletely unsuccessful in finding a date. I'm aftually an attractive guy. I'm fun to be around. And I am successful in my job. Yet none of this has done anything to help. What are some things that have helped you find a SO? Ladies an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating woes. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fqzp3/online_dating_woes/ |
saltyredbeard | 2021-12-30 04:05:36 | 1,640,837,136 | null | null | 0 | rrs043 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rrs043/whats_your_calculus_for_online_matches/ | 6 | When I browse through Bumble or FB dating or Hinge I do a sort of calculation in my head. I look at distance, physical attractiveness, hard and soft no's, potential red flags. Then I start making adjustments. The better looking she is, the softer my hard no's become and the more I'm willing to travel. That's how this a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's your calculus for online matches? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rrs043/whats_your_calculus_for_online_matches/ |
cletiw | 2019-12-17 15:54:23 | 1,576,598,063 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ebxjyn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ebxjyn/how_can_i_get_morr_comfortable_being_one_of_many/ | 1 | In the early stages of dating someone from an app, how do I get comfortable with seeing guys still active on the apps? I am accustomed to dating one man at a time but with the apps, It seems most people date around until they find someone they want to pursue a relationship with. I can’t hep but feel slight jealousy/wor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I get morr comfortable being “one of many” dates for a guy (online dating)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ebxjyn/how_can_i_get_morr_comfortable_being_one_of_many/ |
nothinghasapurpose | 2022-06-14 20:58:18 | 1,655,240,298 | null | ['swiped', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | vcdfoj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vcdfoj/the_girl_ive_been_seeingtalking_to_is_using/ | 2 | Hi folks. Here's the story. The Background: 1. We met online itself, and have been talking since April. During our first call itself, we hit it off really well, and during the convo we kinda admitted neither of us are very into dating apps and shit and found that both of us had already uninstalled Bumble etc. IIRC I'd ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The girl I've been seeing/talking to is using Bumble. Am I crazy to have a problem with that? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vcdfoj/the_girl_ive_been_seeingtalking_to_is_using/ |
csully2988 | 2021-09-15 22:49:12 | 1,631,746,152 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping'] | 0 | pp0wup | true | Giving Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pp0wup/my_experience_with_dating_and_why_it_doesnt_and/ | 0 | in 2021 we as a society support choosing a partner who is exactly the way we want them, okay, well anyone who has more than 2 days worth of studying psychology would say that's dumb, and here's why, dating is like a big sandwich that everyone has to share, simple wholesome, and healthy, until you start adding ingredien... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | my experience with dating and why it doesn't and can't work the way people think it does | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pp0wup/my_experience_with_dating_and_why_it_doesnt_and/ |
poitus | 2018-03-17 02:32:33 | 1,521,253,953 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 850vxv | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/850vxv/using_meetupcom_thoughts_and_request_for_advice/ | 2 | I've given up on online dating. It's like browsing Amazon for headphones. It can become something authentic, but online dating sites just don't really encourage authenticity. I've used them because I'm not great at reading subtle cues and I tend to second guess myself, but I've actually gotten better and feel more conf... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Using meetup.com: thoughts and request for advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/850vxv/using_meetupcom_thoughts_and_request_for_advice/ |
Laylaniibaby | 2022-04-07 07:23:52 | 1,649,316,232 | null | null | 1 | ty7l6h | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ty7l6h/i_didnt_mean_to_like_it/ | 0 | When I first started thinking about and getting into open online dating I was more doing it to please the people who would send to me to chat and send stuff. And as much as people talk down on girls like me, this truly did become something I enjoy. It’s not just “about the money”. I truly do care for and appreciate the... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I didn’t mean to like it… | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ty7l6h/i_didnt_mean_to_like_it/ |
1180111 | 2018-12-06 19:34:34 | 1,544,124,874 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | a3rdhf | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/a3rdhf/have_you_ever_done_the_fap_test_how_exactly_does/ | 5 | I never knew this was a thing until I heard it from some of guy friends recently. I still don't even know if it actually is a thing so I thought I'd ask. The "fap test" is when a guy jerks it to a girl before meeting her (like in a tinder situation), or before he decides to date her, and then how he feels about her aft... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Have you ever done the "fap test"? How exactly does it work? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/a3rdhf/have_you_ever_done_the_fap_test_how_exactly_does/ |
The_Zurgeon | 2018-01-25 16:00:28 | 1,516,896,028 | null | ['dating app', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7sx12i | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7sx12i/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_pansexual_people/ | 1 | I would like to know... Okcupid is okay for it but is there any others? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is the best dating app for Pansexual people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7sx12i/what_is_the_best_dating_app_for_pansexual_people/ |
Arsonicfrog | 2024-01-01 17:21:21 | 1,704,129,681 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18w1eyt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18w1eyt/should_i_confess_to_a_dude_ive_been_seeing_for_a/ | 1 | We met on bumble and at first it started pretty normal and platonic but we kind of hit it off quite well and we went on like 2 dates ( with the third one already planned), we flirted here and there and I think our chemistry is pretty good, heck I even talked about him to my friends and family and such. But I feel like ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I confess to a dude I've been seeing for a month? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18w1eyt/should_i_confess_to_a_dude_ive_been_seeing_for_a/ |
YamRevolutionary6193 | 2023-03-20 22:43:23 | 1,679,352,203 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 11wyosv | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11wyosv/facebook_dating_problem/ | 0 | hi, I would like to try facebook dating but the icon does not come out. how can i solve? I'm of legal age, living in a country where it's available, I've given all permissions and I'm set to single. pS: I also contacted facebook support but got no response. thanks a lot to whoever will help me. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Facebook dating problem | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11wyosv/facebook_dating_problem/ |
Original-Squash-9539 | 2021-08-05 07:03:39 | 1,628,147,019 | null | null | 0 | oyc7tk | true | null | 81 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/oyc7tk/where_you_work/ | 24 | Please stop asking women where they work when they say working. The last thing we want is for some rando showing up at our place of employment bothering us. We get breaks or we are bored and just needing to pass the time by. If we are interested we will give you our number so we could make a date and text. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "Where you work?" | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/oyc7tk/where_you_work/ |
MichaelJL77 | 2024-03-30 22:40:18 | 1,711,838,418 | 0 | null | 0 | 1brujzb | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1brujzb/the_reason_you_get_ghosted/ | 9 | The answer is plain and simple… It’s because either 1) she doesn’t have the heart to tell you she isn’t really interested. 2) there are tons of other men she is interested in and you are not completely eliminated as she knows you will be there as a backup plan. Women who read this: if you are not interested, please let... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The reason you get ghosted… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1brujzb/the_reason_you_get_ghosted/ |
The_KnewMe | 2019-06-15 01:44:56 | 1,560,563,096 | null | ['matches'] | 2 | c0s0qa | true | null | 141 | 5 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c0s0qa/if_youve_ever_been_painfully_rejection_read_this/ | 1,524 | Being rejected by the person you’re always thinking about truly hurts. I actually don’t think we put enough focus into how hurtful being rejected can feel. A lot of people are quick to give advice on how to overcome those painful feelings, and I plan to do the same, but first, I want you to understand something. andnbs... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If You've Ever Been Painfully Rejection, Read This. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c0s0qa/if_youve_ever_been_painfully_rejection_read_this/ |
No_Pangolin5894 | 2021-10-08 12:34:52 | 1,633,696,492 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | q3wu0a | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q3wu0a/should_i_date_someone_whose_divorce_isnt_final/ | 1 | Long story short: a married guy (39 M) I’ve (36 F) only been friends with through social media with for about 5-6 years asked for my number this past January. We’ve never met in real life, but he’s always seemed kind and cool from me our public interactions on Twitter. Over the years through Twitter and FB I’ve seen hi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I date someone whose divorce isn’t final? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q3wu0a/should_i_date_someone_whose_divorce_isnt_final/ |
DrummerDKS | 2018-03-12 14:04:37 | 1,520,863,477 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 83v66j | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/83v66j/im_sort_of_struggling_to_date_because_of_my_dog/ | 3 | I love my dog, giving him up isn't an option. The issue is mostly just availability. He's actually a great help on Bumble. Lol I live about 40ish minutes from a major city that I can actually have a social life and engage with people. I work about 30 minutes away from home. And my work is also about a 30 minutes from s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm sort of struggling to date because of my dog. [26M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/83v66j/im_sort_of_struggling_to_date_because_of_my_dog/ |
Trying_my_best_98 | 2024-07-10 15:22:01 | 1,720,624,921 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dzygb3 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dzygb3/how_do_you_know_when_youre_ready_to_datehook_up/ | 8 | I (26m) just got dumped because I was a sucky partner admittedly. I’m now starting to realize my ex (26f) wasn’t as perfect as I made her seem in my head but that doesn’t take away from all the wrongs I chose during the relationship because I know I severely hurt and betrayed her. Beyond that, though, it’s been about 2... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you know when you’re ready to date/hook up? | 8 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzygb3/how_do_you_know_when_youre_ready_to_datehook_up/ |
al_levantine | 2023-01-07 17:10:21 | 1,673,111,421 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 105u0ni | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/105u0ni/how_common_is_it_for_women_to_dig_up_a_guys/ | 1 | Recently was close to meeting up with a girl on hinge who I vibed with really well. Next day she just unmatched out of the blue. I feel like she may have reverse image searched me and found something she didn't like about me, but obviously I can't be sure. Is this common? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how common is it for women to dig up a guy's social media before going on a date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/105u0ni/how_common_is_it_for_women_to_dig_up_a_guys/ |
[deleted] | 2018-08-12 04:59:42 | 1,534,049,982 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 96mvuf | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/96mvuf/how_to_get_free_food_from_tinder_dates/ | 0 | Ok so I want to use tinder to go on dates with guys to get free food from them but my question is what can I say to make them pay for our food on the date? I don’t want to say “so around you paying?” Because that seems to obvious I need to be more secretive with it. So what should I say? And before anyone says I’m a ba... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get free food from tinder dates? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/96mvuf/how_to_get_free_food_from_tinder_dates/ |
DigitalCat1507 | 2024-08-03 14:58:38 | 1,722,697,118 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ej5bi3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ej5bi3/seeking_advice_on_mixed_signals_from_a_hinge/ | 2 | I (30F) had a guy (32) liking me. He wasn't really my type but he seemed sweet, so I matched with him the other day. We quickly moved to IG and the to WhatsApp. He initially said all the right compliments and was interested in getting to know me. He wanted to meet ASAP so we stayed that we would meet on Monday (so in 2... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeking advice on mixed signals from a Hinge match (30F, 32M) | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ej5bi3/seeking_advice_on_mixed_signals_from_a_hinge/ |
CardBoardBoxProcessr | 2015-09-29 02:21:48 | 1,443,493,308 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3ms70s | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating/comments/3ms70s/worried/ | 2 | SO I was talking to this girl on tinder. We had several spontaneous dates and I think we really liked each other. I moved out recently and after 3 dates she said she'd come over. SO we cuddled and had sex. She was not much into foreplay and she told me to finish real quick but she was real wet so I guess she was into i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Worried | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3ms70s/worried/ |
TommyDaComic | 2020-04-27 20:02:17 | 1,588,017,737 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | g986t0 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/g986t0/so_socially_undistancing/ | 53 | ( As I also posted as r/Bumble ) M58 - I ended a previous relationship at about the beginning of the year. As luck would have it, I joined Bumble, and 1 other OLD app, about the 19th March. A week later, the Ohio stay-at-home order was given. Much to my surprise, I started chatting with someone right away. We carried o... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | So...... Socially Un-Distancing | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/g986t0/so_socially_undistancing/ |
nickm538 | 2024-05-13 22:37:50 | 1,715,639,870 | 0 | null | 0 | 1crcmpa | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1crcmpa/has_anyone_else_experienced_out_of_all_the_main/ | 14 | I was wondering if anyone else had the same experience as I just seem to get more compatible and more frequent matches. Fewer bots. But also it doesn't really seems to take my preferences into consideration in terms of location. They are often far away. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has anyone else experienced out of all the main dating apps recently, that Facebook Dating is actually the best? | 14 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1crcmpa/has_anyone_else_experienced_out_of_all_the_main/ |
brithyst | 2020-12-03 03:28:31 | 1,606,966,111 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | k5pdui | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k5pdui/led_on/ | 2 | Was talking to someone on an online dating app. When I revealed more pictures of myself (eg. Unglams or whacky pictures that I was embarrassed to put on my profile), they at first complimented me. But a few texts later they started to hint that they no longer wanted what we were doing, saying that they were not ready. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Led on | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k5pdui/led_on/ |
[deleted] | 2013-06-22 13:24:26 | 1,371,907,466 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1gurpe | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1gurpe/i_28m_went_on_a_date_with_26f_sent_followup_text/ | 1 | I (28M) went on a date with a (F26) from OkCupid and thought we had a really good time. The date was three hours long and we racked up a hefty $70 bill. During the date we discussed potential ideas for our next date, and while the conversation was really strong for the first half it did start to stall toward the end wh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (28M) went on a date with (26F), sent follow-up text but no response | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1gurpe/i_28m_went_on_a_date_with_26f_sent_followup_text/ |
lilrayofsunshyn | 2021-11-11 18:50:58 | 1,636,656,658 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qrs3zn | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/qrs3zn/resilience_with_heart_breaks_and_taken_advantage/ | 30 | How exactly do you mentally and emotionally make yourself strong and resilient navigating though the dating world? I thought OLD was bad, but it seems like the crowd on OLD is also in real life and people act exactly the same despite the medium There was a post from a woman who hungout with this dude for 2 months, he s... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Resilience with heart breaks and taken advantage of? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qrs3zn/resilience_with_heart_breaks_and_taken_advantage/ |
paulyshoresoverrated | 2021-07-24 19:44:05 | 1,627,155,845 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | oqws1f | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oqws1f/burnt_out_on_old_already_after_rejoining_less/ | 7 | I've recently made some big adjustments in my life and am really feeling like I'm getting more of my shit together. As such, I figured now would be as good a time as any to "get back out there." Boy, was I wrong. Like, is this a me problem? I remember apps being fun when I first used them, but it immediately felt like ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Burnt out on OLD already after rejoining less than a week ago. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oqws1f/burnt_out_on_old_already_after_rejoining_less/ |
Commosense | 2021-04-29 17:45:39 | 1,619,718,339 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | n19utp | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n19utp/protip_as_awkward_as_it_sounds_check_their_id_on/ | 5 | Hi I have been witnessing this strange phenomenon more often recently: More and more men lie in their dating profile about their age in order to target younger women (although lying about height is still statistically being the most common one). Lying and disguising as someone you’re not is never okay, and is never eve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Protip: As awkward as it sounds, check their ID on the first date! | null | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n19utp/protip_as_awkward_as_it_sounds_check_their_id_on/ |
Cleo5patra | 2024-09-10 12:39:33 | 1,725,971,973 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fdgupd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fdgupd/he_says_he_wants_something_serious_but_doesnt/ | 1 | With “exclusive” I mean focusing on each other and stop dating other people. I (22F) met him (24M) on a dating app and started dating a little over 3 weeks ago. On the second date he told me he expects the other person to stop talking to others after about a month, which we will be hitting in a few days. We have seen e... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He says he wants something serious but doesn’t want to be exclusive after 1 month, am I wasting my time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fdgupd/he_says_he_wants_something_serious_but_doesnt/ |
Livid-Property1421 | 2024-07-09 12:30:10 | 1,720,528,210 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dz16gi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dz16gi/relationship_with_best_friend_now_feels_like_its/ | 1 | I (28f) met this guy (30m) a couple of years ago on a dating app and we had a few fun dates, slept together, but then it just sort of fizzled out and we were physical with each other anymore. We've kept in touch as friends in that time, but at the end of last year we started seeing a lot more of each other. For the las... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Relationship with best friend now feels like it's becoming the most uncomfortable throuple of all time. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dz16gi/relationship_with_best_friend_now_feels_like_its/ |
Vectarien | 2017-02-19 15:42:02 | 1,487,518,922 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5uyrnu | null | null | 39 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5uyrnu/m22_are_some_people_meant_to_be_alone/ | 34 | im 22 and have never had contact with the opposite sex, never kissed hold hands etc. I have had social anxiety all my life and the past few years i've turned into a hermit, when i was in school i was known as a funny guy among my classmates but i have never met someone that seems to be attracted to me. i finished schoo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M-22 are some people meant to be alone? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5uyrnu/m22_are_some_people_meant_to_be_alone/ |
GladConsequence1989 | 2020-09-13 12:50:05 | 1,600,001,405 | null | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | irxopb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/irxopb/need_an_advice_about_dating_sites/ | 1 | Hey) can u suggest me dating site, which will be free and with serious intentions. Not line tinder | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need an advice about dating sites | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/irxopb/need_an_advice_about_dating_sites/ |
Hour_Brick8636 | 2021-11-02 15:33:21 | 1,635,867,201 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | ql6ts4 | true | Support Needed | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ql6ts4/over_online_dating/ | 1 | Every time I use any of the apps. I actually end up hating them. I feel like I just want to meet people in person. I wish I could have some sort of platform for people, interview them myself and set up potential dates for people including myself! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Over online dating… | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ql6ts4/over_online_dating/ |
snapkitten | 2022-07-07 18:39:40 | 1,657,219,180 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vtpowd | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vtpowd/how_do_i_find_out_if_hes_still_interested_and_get/ | 1 | I was dating a guy I met on Tinder for 2 months up until I accidentally embarrassed him at a party. After it happened, he stayed over at my house and we spent the whole next day together. Then he started to become distant including not replying for a few days. Finally, I asked him what the issue was and he told me. Obv... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I find out if he’s still interested and get him to see me again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vtpowd/how_do_i_find_out_if_hes_still_interested_and_get/ |
fools_set_the_rules | 2022-12-28 06:28:02 | 1,672,208,882 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | zx2gvc | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zx2gvc/how_to_find_some_and_date_easilyquickly/ | 0 | tldr; Female here, not really ugly but only dated twice and both bfs tried to harm me. I am not a teen or early 20s either. I approached guys and they either ghosted me or went on a date with me and tried to have sex which I refused and they ghosted after. I have been trying online sites like Hinge and no luck, the ave... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How to find some and date easily/quickly? | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/zx2gvc/how_to_find_some_and_date_easilyquickly/ |
moneyisfreedom440 | 2024-08-07 00:19:14 | 1,722,989,954 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1elxric | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1elxric/feeling_pessimistic_about_dating/ | 1 | I (27M) have been single for about 9 months now. Had a casual thing for a few months during that time but it wasn’t love. I am craving emotional and physical intimacy so badly. I get almost no matches on dating apps, and when I do get the rare opportunity to meet somebody they simply aren’t interested in me (or it’s mu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling pessimistic about dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1elxric/feeling_pessimistic_about_dating/ |
TableNo1161 | 2024-09-14 00:34:44 | 1,726,274,084 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1fg9ybw | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fg9ybw/is_he_bisexual/ | 0 | I met a guy on bumble and we clicked. Our conversations have been really great however he posses some odd tendencies that makes me question his sexuality. Additionally, since we have been talking to each other he has gone to get an anal cleanse twice which followed up with him saying he went to visit a visit a "friend"... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he Bisexual?? | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fg9ybw/is_he_bisexual/ |
broadway114114 | 2020-10-24 19:16:28 | 1,603,566,988 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | jhesz2 | true | Question | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jhesz2/did_i_29m_move_too_fast_physically_with_a_girl/ | 4 | I matched with a girl on Hinge who seemed my (specific) type in terms of interests and looks. I was excited. Two weekends ago, we went for a 1st date: a 2.5-hour walk around town. (She’s new in town and doesn’t know anyone or the places, so she seemed happy to have a guide.) I thought it went very well. That evening, s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did I [29M] move too fast physically with a girl [30F] on Date 2? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jhesz2/did_i_29m_move_too_fast_physically_with_a_girl/ |
badchoices2018 | 2019-06-18 15:26:39 | 1,560,871,599 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | c23lmm | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c23lmm/how_can_i_meet_people_working_fridaysaturdaysunday/ | 3 | Taking a new job that requires every weekend- two split days off during the week, probably Monday/Wednesday for the most part. I haven't done this in years, and am very worried about meeting people- my small circle of friends does exclusively weekend trips, festivals, etc that I won't be able to attend anymore. Is ther... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I meet people working Friday/Saturday/Sunday? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c23lmm/how_can_i_meet_people_working_fridaysaturdaysunday/ |
CMB1876 | 2020-02-02 20:00:33 | 1,580,673,633 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | exu5m6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/exu5m6/let_it_go_or_ask_one_more_time/ | 1 | Hey guys So i am 31f went on a few dates with this guy, met online. he initiated all the dates and i think they went great. Now in thr beginning he seemed very nervous. Last week i thought i would reach out for the first time to meet again. He told at first he had no plans then texted me about other stuff some work pre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let it go or ask one more time? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/exu5m6/let_it_go_or_ask_one_more_time/ |
June_Evie | 2022-02-01 07:00:46 | 1,643,698,846 | null | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | shopzn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/shopzn/is_this_guy_still_interested_in_me_or_not/ | 0 | First of all, I would like to say I know I'm overthinking this. I just want to know if I should drop this guy now or not because I like him and I know it's going to be harder later if he's not interested. So I recently got a hinge and am not used to this whole online dating thing. To my surprise, we hit it off. We had ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this guy still interested in me or not? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/shopzn/is_this_guy_still_interested_in_me_or_not/ |
Narrow-Wolverine-373 | 2024-01-24 01:08:57 | 1,706,058,537 | 0 | null | 0 | 19e4kzs | true | null | 116 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/19e4kzs/younger_men_older_women/ | 1 | Ok… here is my question ye o’ wise Reddit community. Help a sister understand: I’m a conventionally attractive 42f, and do look young for my age. I have always maintained a tight age range on the lower end for dating apps, and haven’t really considered dating anyone much younger than myself… I have several single girlf... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Younger men older women? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/19e4kzs/younger_men_older_women/ |
l008com | 2019-06-19 15:34:17 | 1,560,958,457 | null | null | 0 | c2ijev | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/c2ijev/i_need_a_creative_bandcamp_joke/ | 0 | I matched with this gal on Hinge that went to band camp. When I messaged her about it, she said she really went to bandcamp, she played the flute, and she's heard all the jokes already. So i told her I'd come up with a new joke about it she hasn't heard yet :D That claim amused her, but I'm not much of a comedy writer.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I need a creative band-camp joke! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/c2ijev/i_need_a_creative_bandcamp_joke/ |
Mediocre_Wing8863 | 2024-07-10 23:56:57 | 1,720,655,817 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1e0ays0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e0ays0/i_feel_like_i_ruined_a_great_thing_5_years_ago/ | 2 | I’m not sure if this is the place in Reddit to post this, but I created this account just to hear from people… I’m beyond tired of all these unhealthy relationships I’ve been in since I was a bit younger, and threw away the best relationship I’ve ever experienced with a beautiful woman.. It’s been 5 whole years, and I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like I ruined a great thing… 5 years ago | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e0ays0/i_feel_like_i_ruined_a_great_thing_5_years_ago/ |
Royal-Reporter6664 | 2024-08-24 23:16:57 | 1,724,541,417 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f0ifil | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f0ifil/ladies_what_do_you_mean_by_open_to_children/ | 1 | I see many women use the open to children option on OLD. A lot will will declare they don't have any children so does "open to children" mean you are eventually looking to have your own ? Or you are open to dating someone with children? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies what do you mean by "open to children" | 1 | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f0ifil/ladies_what_do_you_mean_by_open_to_children/ |
[deleted] | 2022-03-02 11:31:56 | 1,646,220,716 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | t4y726 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t4y726/alternatives_to_dating_apps/ | 15 | Hi, I am a 20sM and have always been somewhat of a loner, never going to clubs, not drinking alcohol, basically not doing anything you'd expect your average Joe to have done by this time. Anyway, I joined dating apps hoping to find love after all, I just sit back and swipe. Problem is, this is emotionally draining. Cra... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Alternatives to dating apps | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t4y726/alternatives_to_dating_apps/ |
CorgiNice2745 | 2021-07-06 19:09:31 | 1,625,598,571 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | of1s2n | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/of1s2n/childish_like_not_immature_literally_acting_like/ | 2 | So I’ve been dating this person for a while now, we met on tinder. it’s been about three weeks we’ve been on a couple of dates and today we decided to go to build a bear as a date that’s fine build a bear because I’ve seen a lot of people go there for a date it’s a bit immature but Meh should be fun now the person that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Childish (Like not immature literally acting like a child) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/of1s2n/childish_like_not_immature_literally_acting_like/ |
Heavy-Put-2681 | 2024-04-16 06:05:52 | 1,713,247,552 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1c58vek | true | Question ❓ | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c58vek/never_getting_far_in_dating/ | 9 | I (25M) have been single all my life, and dating for a few years now. Although I think I’m able to attract girls in the first place, I never really get past 3 or 4 dates (ended by me in various cases as well). I’ve dated through dating apps, common friends, people I’ve met while going out, but none really tend to stick... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Never getting far in dating | 8 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c58vek/never_getting_far_in_dating/ |
psycth | 2024-09-24 21:41:11 | 1,727,214,071 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1foo7ti | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1foo7ti/29f_never_had_a_serious_relationship/ | 1 | I have never introduced anyone I’ve dated to my family/parents. I’ve dated guys and a lot of girls but my longest relationship was only a few months long. Any tips on how to meet people? I’m a pretty shy person who works night shift. I’ve been told I am “a catch” but for some reason I just haven’t found my person. The ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 29f never had a serious relationship | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1foo7ti/29f_never_had_a_serious_relationship/ |
Low_Advertising3384 | 2024-07-04 16:52:52 | 1,720,111,972 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dvbkq7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dvbkq7/loyalty_in_talking_stage/ | 1 | I have a habit of being loyal even in the talking stage..but he's on tinder and talking to other girls He talks to me on a regular basis and I think he likes but but he never said it clearly I feel jealous | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Loyalty in talking stage? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dvbkq7/loyalty_in_talking_stage/ |
PlumthePancake | 2022-02-26 18:51:33 | 1,645,901,493 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | t245v4 | true | Support Needed | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/t245v4/26m_feeling_hopeless_about_dating/ | 1 | I’ve never been in a long term relationship. Recently I had a one month thing with a girl I met on tinder and I fucked it up. This has been a part of a trend with me fucking up things with women. The issue is I don’t feel like what I’m doing right now is setting me up for success. Like I’m using OLD to extremely little... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 26(m) feeling hopeless about dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t245v4/26m_feeling_hopeless_about_dating/ |
sledder199 | 2021-10-13 04:32:20 | 1,634,099,540 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | q73kpi | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q73kpi/never_had_a_gf/ | 3 | I have never had a gf or been in a relationship. Im 21 and feel as i should have had one by now. Have tried dating apps but no success. Any tips or advice to get one? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Never had a gf | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q73kpi/never_had_a_gf/ |
PatientConfusion6341 | 2024-01-24 19:57:52 | 1,706,126,272 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 19epmct | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19epmct/did_i_miss_out_on_a_possible_connection_or_am_i/ | 2 | TL;DR: I possibly missed out on a good connection due to my communication but I also feel like I could just be chasing potential because, well, if he wanted to he would. for some backstory I (22F) had initially met this guy (24M) downtown a few months prior at a club one night and we were both pretty drunk, exchanged n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | did I miss out on a possible connection? or am I just chasing potential.. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19epmct/did_i_miss_out_on_a_possible_connection_or_am_i/ |
Throwaway7eaeb3a | 2019-08-11 04:05:50 | 1,565,496,350 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cos7th | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cos7th/a_first_date_went_to_far_i_dont_know_how_to/ | 3 | I (23M) met a (20F) on a dating app. I don't have much dating experience and I usually like to take things slowly. We decided to get dinner for our first date and had some good text conversations. The day before our date she sends me some revealing but non-nude pictures of her taking a bath and we went back and forth w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A first date went to far. I don't know how to respond. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cos7th/a_first_date_went_to_far_i_dont_know_how_to/ |
Eggplantsadness | 2023-02-04 03:14:25 | 1,675,480,465 | null | null | 0 | 10t3j1h | true | null | 371 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10t3j1h/i_hate_having_to_tell_guys_over_and_over_that_im/ | 116 | It’s in all my bios. In caps. It’s something I ask very early on. It’s something I mention multiple times. Then when they try to take my clothes off and I’m saying no, they ask why. And I tell them. Again. And I’m getting aggressive and petty with it. Are you gonna ask me to be your girlfriend right now? Are you gonna ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I hate having to tell guys over and over that I’m looking for a serious exclusive relationship. | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10t3j1h/i_hate_having_to_tell_guys_over_and_over_that_im/ |
iDislikeSn0w | 2020-12-07 19:15:38 | 1,607,368,538 | null | ['matched', 'swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | k8n9ao | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k8n9ao/girl_who_semighosted_me_months_ago_rematched_with/ | 2 | I met this girl last summer on Bumble who I get really close with, to the point of pretty much being a couple, but she has/had commitment issues so, contact suddenly dropped a bit and she admitted to that commitment phobia taking her over and that she was “sorry for wasting my time” and how I truly was “the only person... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl who semi-ghosted me months ago rematched with me on Bumble today...? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k8n9ao/girl_who_semighosted_me_months_ago_rematched_with/ |
TieMyHandsXO | 2024-09-02 23:22:58 | 1,725,319,378 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f7l47m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f7l47m/is_it_truly_a_bad_idea_to_ask_a_coworker_out_on_a/ | 2 | There is somebody at work that I'd like to ask out on a date, but I feel like you guys need to read the backstory below before telling me if it's a bad idea. We are both doctors (MDs) in a \70 person residency program at an academic hospital in the Northeast US. I am one of the senior residents and she is one of the fi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it truly a bad idea to ask a co-worker out on a date? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f7l47m/is_it_truly_a_bad_idea_to_ask_a_coworker_out_on_a/ |
kannenhead | 2022-03-29 11:48:16 | 1,648,554,496 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tqxyii | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tqxyii/not_interested_in_fwb_on_your_tinder_profile/ | 0 | Why is it that I've noticed more often that heavier set women (not trying to judge here at all) put on their dating bio, "not here for hookups or fwb" I just find it odd that of all women, you'd think the skinnier looking girls would be the ones that get asked that more often. But yet I rarely see that on their bios. S... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not interested in fwb on your tinder profile | null | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tqxyii/not_interested_in_fwb_on_your_tinder_profile/ |
lovethyself1 | 2021-05-12 04:25:19 | 1,620,793,519 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | nagbwv | true | Question | 293 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/nagbwv/ethical_non_monogamy_huh/ | 94 | So I occasionally see these profiles of men (only men) who engage in ethical non monogamy and I am confused by this. For me, I am looking for love and thinking it could happen w one man. If over time, it seems like non monogamy would make sense, and is mutually agreeable, then perhaps that could make sense for me and m... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Ethical non monogamy - huh? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/nagbwv/ethical_non_monogamy_huh/ |
CluelessDating123 | 2019-02-05 10:40:20 | 1,549,363,220 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ancwu4 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ancwu4/does_he_like_me/ | 0 | Hi I’m in a bit of a fix here and I know the obvious way is to ask, but I really don’t want to be presumptious and I can’t say with certainty whether I want more. I (25F) met said guy (28M) on a dating app. He had just moved to my country. We spend two whole nights (sat and sun) texting and quickly arrange to meet the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does he like me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ancwu4/does_he_like_me/ |
Uniqniqu | 2021-08-07 09:15:54 | 1,628,327,754 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ozq2v9 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ozq2v9/can_you_help_me_figure_out_this_potential_date/ | 0 | I was traveling earlier this year and I matched with a guy on my last day of the trip. We chatted afterwards and then moved onto video chats a couple of times. He seemed nice and sweet and had similar values like mine on the surface. After a few video calls, things got flirty and hot. He’s from a specific culture that ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Can you help me figure out this potential date? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ozq2v9/can_you_help_me_figure_out_this_potential_date/ |
SebastianPatel | 2021-06-10 23:21:45 | 1,623,367,305 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nx1jb6 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nx1jb6/has_anyone_found_that_paying_for_any_of_the/ | 1 | As a guy, it feels like to me that the women on these dating apps are so bombarded with guys going after them that they don't even see or read half their matches or messages. Has anyone that has purchased the monthly subscriptions felt that it was worth it and made a big improvement over the free version? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Has anyone found that paying for any of the dating app subscriptions, or VIP, has actually been worth it or led to better results? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nx1jb6/has_anyone_found_that_paying_for_any_of_the/ |
tattedbratbabe | 2023-04-23 02:37:23 | 1,682,217,443 | 0 | null | 0 | 12vsmg3 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12vsmg3/let_me_see_your_pretty_face/ | 9 | That one line has been in my head all day. Was chatting with my guy online last night. And what’s what he said to me. And it was such a happy thrill. I don’t think I’m pretty, I’m pretty basic and average, maybe. But just the comment alone that in that moment that’s what he may have felt about me has my head in the clo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | “Let me see your pretty face” | 9 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12vsmg3/let_me_see_your_pretty_face/ |
Zealousideal-Rip-247 | 2021-09-27 02:34:18 | 1,632,710,058 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | pw7xpq | true | Support Needed | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pw7xpq/messed_up_over_a_joke/ | 0 | Hi All, So I went on a date with this guy with whom I matched on bumble and it went really great. We were being sarcastic the whole time and laughing. Started with a boba drink and then went ahead to dinner. He was touchy throughout the date but not in an uncomfortable manner. I was okay with it. In the end, we hugged ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Messed up over a joke | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pw7xpq/messed_up_over_a_joke/ |
RandomStuffToAsk | 2024-04-07 21:22:54 | 1,712,524,974 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1byftze | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1byftze/what_is_typically_expected_when_being_approached/ | 2 | Okay so yesterday I (recently 21F college student) went to this pub near campus solo bc they had a chicken sandwich & fries deal for $6, and then decided to grab a drink too (thus kinda negating the savings I thought I'd make lol). For background, I have been trying out dating apps occasionally, but haven't been in a r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is typically expected when being approached by guys at pubs? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1byftze/what_is_typically_expected_when_being_approached/ |
unomonento | 2023-10-28 14:42:34 | 1,698,504,154 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | 17if7fm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17if7fm/how_to_move_forward_with_dating_after_illness/ | 1 | Advice needed I’ve (29F) recently tried to get back out on the dating scene after not dating for 5 years (I was diagnosed with cancer and had to take some time to recover from this). I matched with a guy (29M) on a dating site and had some incredible dates. All was going well until on a date it cropped up that at 24 I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to move forward with dating after illness? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17if7fm/how_to_move_forward_with_dating_after_illness/ |
[deleted] | 2015-05-14 04:52:19 | 1,431,579,139 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 35wx8g | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/35wx8g/how_to_produce_an_affective_online_dating_profile/ | 0 | Since my current area of work involves people and dating and seeing a lot of profiles in the process, I've come with just a few easy and very obvious things to be aware of on your profiles:) -Avoid excess amounts of group pictures and definitely do not put a group picture as your first picture. - The first picture you ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to produce an affective Online Dating Profile | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/35wx8g/how_to_produce_an_affective_online_dating_profile/ |
NewWave93 | 2020-12-04 05:01:54 | 1,607,058,114 | null | ['swiped', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | k6e9op | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k6e9op/so_maybe_i_should_go_ahead_and_delete_all_of_my/ | 1 | I'll be straight up with you guys.....I'm 5'5, bald, African American, and an average looking guy. Now before I get on the depressing side of things I will put this out there. I've never been actually called ugly, in fact I've been called "cute" more than a few times. I just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So maybe I should go ahead and delete all of my dating apps... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k6e9op/so_maybe_i_should_go_ahead_and_delete_all_of_my/ |
ahmulz | 2020-07-24 21:03:14 | 1,595,624,594 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | hxa1p1 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hxa1p1/to_me_ghosting_starts/ | 2 | To me, ghosting starts... ---- As a 27 year old person who has been single for a solid three years but is still subscribed to this sub because who knows, I should probably work at not dying alone... I'm a bit bewildered at the quantity and quality of these ghosting posts. Some people think it's the worst thing you can ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To me, ghosting starts... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hxa1p1/to_me_ghosting_starts/ |
Indystick | 2023-02-18 02:25:47 | 1,676,687,147 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1154ji4 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1154ji4/messages_a_coworker_on_old_lol/ | 13 | So I was on Hinge and matched with a coworker. We don’t work on the same department and run into each other infrequently, mainly just saying hello in the hallway. Anyway, I sent a message saying we could meet for a drink or dinner, and that even if we just became friends that would be okay. But if she’d rather not it w... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Messages a coworker on OLD LOL | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1154ji4/messages_a_coworker_on_old_lol/ |
Milkshaketurtle79 | 2021-03-08 03:27:10 | 1,615,174,030 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | m06pqq | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m06pqq/how_do_you_deal_with_being_the_ugly_friend/ | 8 | Both of my friends are good looking. And one of them specifically could be a model (and does do amateur modeling). She's so beautiful she can afford to have incredibly high standards when it comes to dating, and she's so humble about it. And she just doesn't understand that (for me) having confidence can't just land yo... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How do you deal with being the ugly friend? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/m06pqq/how_do_you_deal_with_being_the_ugly_friend/ |
xclam8ion | 2019-10-02 19:20:10 | 1,570,044,010 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dcez8i | true | Venting | 72 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/dcez8i/back_on_dating_apps_for_two_days_and/ | 70 | After dating someone for a bit, I’m back on the apps. And I swear 75% of the profiles contain 2-3 (or more) of these things. Fluent in Sarcasm Love Wine and Conversation Free Spirit Love to Go on Adventures Looking for a Gentleman Must Love Dogs The Beach is My Happy Place Drama Free I’m just Me... take it or leave it.... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Back on Dating Apps for two days, and... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/dcez8i/back_on_dating_apps_for_two_days_and/ |
tlw117 | 2020-03-14 23:38:24 | 1,584,229,104 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | firvnx | true | null | 69 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/firvnx/i_decided_to_end_communication_with_4_guys_i_was/ | 41 | I’m sorry for the delay in responding lately. I’ve been thinking a lot and I can’t continue our communication. I think you’d be a great friend but I am not interested in dating anyone. I appreciate your kindness and consistency. Right now I want to focus on me. Wish you the best. Edit: the message I sent actually said,... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I decided to end communication with 4 guys I was talking to from OLD. I very briefly contemplated ghosting but knew it wasn’t the right thing to do. I finally found the right words to say. Here it is: | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/firvnx/i_decided_to_end_communication_with_4_guys_i_was/ |
crisis_life33 | 2024-02-09 04:17:13 | 1,707,452,233 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1amfhmm | true | Question ❓ | 53 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1amfhmm/f33/ | 1 | I'm a married women from India. I want to experience friendship with other people but afraid of using dating app because of my relatives. How i solve out my issues | dating | t5_2qhb1 | F33 | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1amfhmm/f33/ |
RoyAshton11 | 2021-03-24 22:08:03 | 1,616,623,683 | null | null | 0 | mci3kx | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mci3kx/some_of_these_women_on_these_sites_are/ | 5 | Why are they even there? i bet is a right swipe fest for them and i doubt they even have their notifications activated or open the app.. hell there's no way they're single and not dating . Are they for real? then you have the normal people | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Some of these women on these sites are supermodels like they really are single? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mci3kx/some_of_these_women_on_these_sites_are/ |
Royal-Drop-6693 | 2024-03-13 17:58:18 | 1,710,352,698 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1bdy16v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bdy16v/guy_i_am_seeing_hasnt_deleted_his_dating_app/ | 49 | I am a 27F dating a 30M. We’ve been dating for 4 months now after meeting off of a dating app. After a month of us dating, he gave me a key to his apartment. So I’ve been there frequently for the past couple months and going back to my parents house when I want some space. This doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy his company, I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy I am seeing hasn’t deleted his dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdy16v/guy_i_am_seeing_hasnt_deleted_his_dating_app/ |
Usalwolves | 2021-04-02 07:52:42 | 1,617,349,962 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | mifllr | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mifllr/online_dating_without_tinder/ | 3 | So I'm in a loving relationship of 6 years. We're experimenting with opening the relationship for reasons for the next two weeks. On my side (28m), I'm mainly looking for no strings attached encounters. So, I downloaded tinder, but found my account is banned, without knowing why. Appeal didn't work. I'm into bumble now... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating without tinder | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mifllr/online_dating_without_tinder/ |
oneblindspy | 2024-03-24 21:28:40 | 1,711,315,720 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bmw0yc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bmw0yc/can_a_young_couple_actually_survive_infidelity/ | 1 | This post is a bit special. It is not about me, but someone I know. About a month ago, I meet a girl on a dating app (we're both 21). She was getting divorced and stated never wanting to get married again. The reason was infidelity, though I only learned that very recently. We end up getting on extremely well, and late... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can a young couple actually survive infidelity? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmw0yc/can_a_young_couple_actually_survive_infidelity/ |
Catpawcalypse | 2020-12-19 02:48:06 | 1,608,346,086 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | kfzoie | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kfzoie/can_somebody_tell_me_why_im_being_ghosted/ | 7 | I (22F) met a guy (31M) on a dating app and we messaged very briefly before grabbing coffee last weekend. The date was pretty mediocre, however we did make loose plans to hang out again later in the week and he seemed excited about that. That night he ended up inviting me over and I went ahead with it so that we wouldn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can somebody tell me why I’m being ghosted? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kfzoie/can_somebody_tell_me_why_im_being_ghosted/ |
michasivad | 2022-12-26 04:06:27 | 1,672,027,587 | null | null | 0 | zvem6e | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zvem6e/using_dating_apps_as_a_poc/ | 16 | Has anyone else who is a POC encountered a very serious number of people that say they don't date non-white people or just zero responses? At first I thought the experience was just me and i had bad luck, but i spoke to some other black and Asian men and they said they've experienced the same thing. So have any other m... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | using dating apps as a POC | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zvem6e/using_dating_apps_as_a_poc/ |
HourIntelligent775 | 2023-03-20 13:19:14 | 1,679,318,354 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11wioha | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11wioha/how_do_i_not_beat_myself_up_or_get_downdepressed/ | 1 | I tend to be very hard on myself when it comes to dating and talking to women. I have had anxiety and social anxiety my whole life and have had some insecurities about myself growing up and still do. Back story: I was very shy in high school and only spoke to my close friends. I never approached any girls. The girl I l... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I not beat myself up or get down/depressed about talking to women and dating? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11wioha/how_do_i_not_beat_myself_up_or_get_downdepressed/ |
jay-prakash | 2024-07-11 15:47:04 | 1,720,712,824 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1e0s3wb | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e0s3wb/27_single_and_sad_af/ | 1 | Wel, I am 27 yo male was in a short relationship, fair, and fairly handsome girl often do categorise me as attractive looking. So after my breakup I have really had not had chance to date, can someone just advice me anything that I can do to get back? I feel lost and very sad for myself, tinder doesn't seem to help and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27 single and sad af | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e0s3wb/27_single_and_sad_af/ |
Prestigious_Set_3096 | 2024-07-28 01:44:42 | 1,722,131,082 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1edwbnn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1edwbnn/advice_needed_and_welcomed/ | 0 | Can anyone recommend websites or dating apps that have actual people? ( not scammers ) I have tried soooo many of them, and still have not found a person who is who they claim to be. The people I've chatted with either throw up some major red flags, or try to get me to pay for their company ( which I refuse to do) I co... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice needed and welcomed | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1edwbnn/advice_needed_and_welcomed/ |
Feeliner | 2021-06-13 14:32:07 | 1,623,594,727 | null | null | 0 | nyxk30 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nyxk30/is_instagram_the_biggest_dating_app/ | 0 | Listen to a podcast that meantioned that dating apps aren't a thing for the majority of women. Instead they are using Instagram to "sell an image." High resolution images, possibilities for social vetting. And it leaves the door open for a better option to come along. (It would be hard to explain having Tinder when you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is Instagram the biggest dating app? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nyxk30/is_instagram_the_biggest_dating_app/ |
PocketPasser10 | 2021-01-27 20:56:05 | 1,611,780,965 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | l6e75h | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l6e75h/women_do_you_provide_your_instagram_handle_for_an/ | 1 | On dating apps like Bumble and Tinder there's a ton of girls who add their Instagram's for the flock of guys to follow. I'm wondering if you all actually include it to give a guy who you didn't come across/matched with yet an opportunity to DM you to shoot their shot or if its just really for the followers? Reason I'm ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women: Do you provide your instagram handle for an opportunity? Or just for "clout"? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l6e75h/women_do_you_provide_your_instagram_handle_for_an/ |
lbswimmer | 2020-10-08 16:59:56 | 1,602,176,396 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | j7gu2w | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j7gu2w/how_to_date_during_covid/ | 3 | I just started dating again so I’m not used to Covid adding another layer of awkwardness to an already awkward situation. I am on some dating apps and was asked to get drinks with a guy but I’m not sure what’s like “typical” now? How are people navigating this right now? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to date during Covid | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j7gu2w/how_to_date_during_covid/ |
savagesaucez | 2021-05-18 17:22:33 | 1,621,358,553 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | nfgj0m | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nfgj0m/ways_to_meet_someone_without_using_a_dating_app/ | 2 | Lately I’ve been wanting to put myself out into the dating world again but have been clueless on where to start going to talk to people and seek out a date. This has become more difficult since covid and I can’t think of much social events besides a bars but bars don’t usually work out for me as I tend to be more intro... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ways to meet someone without using a dating app? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nfgj0m/ways_to_meet_someone_without_using_a_dating_app/ |
charleysouls | 2019-10-12 19:42:26 | 1,570,909,346 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dgzutt | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dgzutt/just_turned_18/ | 1 | I recently turned 18 and since I’m still in high school my dating game changes a lot, of course I can’t date minors and I’ve been trying out different dating apps to find people of my age to get to know but I haven’t had any success. I’ve been always kind of an introvert, so most of the times my friends approached me f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just turned 18. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dgzutt/just_turned_18/ |
HKndM | 2024-06-22 10:05:04 | 1,719,050,704 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1dlsc6y | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dlsc6y/is_he_interested_or_am_i_friendzoned/ | 1 | Need a guy’s perspective: Is he interested, or am I friendzoned? BG: I’m 30/F Asian, he’s 40/M Canadian-Australian. Factors to consider: - Different cultural bg - Age gap Matched w this guy from an online dating app Feb 2024. Been sparingly speaking w him in the past 4 months. He mostly initiates messaging once to twic... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is he interested? Or am I friendzoned? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dlsc6y/is_he_interested_or_am_i_friendzoned/ |
ErikTheScientist | 2021-05-13 21:21:50 | 1,620,940,910 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nbrryg | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nbrryg/why_is_it_easier_to_find_a_room_mate_than_a_date/ | 4 | Hey, college student. Been talking to friends, using dating apps. Can anyone could explain why trying to find a room mate, who will be sleeping in the same unit as you, sharing space, talking every day, is a lot easier than getting a date? Is it the emotional side of things, expectations, or a whole new set of rules wh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is it easier to find a room mate than a date? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nbrryg/why_is_it_easier_to_find_a_room_mate_than_a_date/ |
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