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juttaloop | 2019-11-08 20:51:22 | 1,573,246,282 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dtlly4 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dtlly4/was_i_wrong_for_this/ | 1 | Started talking to him on tinder, wasn't that attracted to him but he was funny. I lost respect for him because he was always asking me to send him nudes and was clearly only interested in sex. One day I asked him about what he thought of my throwback pics, and he implied that I was ugly and how I've definitely glowed ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was I wrong for this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dtlly4/was_i_wrong_for_this/ |
NannersBoy | 2023-06-25 21:27:29 | 1,687,728,449 | 0 | null | 0 | 14ixv7n | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14ixv7n/me_bantering_with_the_bartender_during_an_awkward/ | 1 | https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=p57zO97Gts8 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Me bantering with the bartender during an awkward silence with my date | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14ixv7n/me_bantering_with_the_bartender_during_an_awkward/ |
TheSaw95 | 2024-03-30 07:42:09 | 1,711,784,529 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1brcaio | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brcaio/dating_girls_at_work/ | 2 | 29 M and serial overthinker. Matched with a girl on a dating app and scheduled a first date at a coffee shop tomorrow. Ended up randomly seeing her on social media as a friend suggestion and come to find out she has a TON of friends from my job. In the past this would be no big deal to me, but I’m starting a new career... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating girls at work | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brcaio/dating_girls_at_work/ |
sassytheimpaler | 2019-05-06 01:13:09 | 1,557,105,189 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bl5n7e | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bl5n7e/trigger_warning_suicial_ideation_this_isnt/ | 1 | I (23F) have a friend (26M) who wants me to download tinder to build him a better profile. Problem is, I don't know this friend very well yet, and they're literally wanting me to log into their tinder to redo their profile. Not knowing them aside, here is my concern. He was talking about drinking himself to death. I di... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [trigger warning suicial ideation] This isn't actually my problem, but I don't know what to do about it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bl5n7e/trigger_warning_suicial_ideation_this_isnt/ |
ValentineVision2020 | 2023-03-09 14:36:21 | 1,678,372,581 | null | null | 0 | 11mtsn0 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11mtsn0/for_bumble_users_question/ | 1 | Male Bumble Users have you ever noticed on some women's profiles as their location it's set as whatever local airport is in your area. Why is that? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | For Bumble Users... Question | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11mtsn0/for_bumble_users_question/ |
Trill2022 | 2024-02-27 21:10:59 | 1,709,068,259 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b1n5mj | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b1n5mj/is_this_her_rejecting_me/ | 2 | I started speaking to this girl on a dating app.. I spoke for about 5 mins and cut straight to the chase.. Asked for her number and she told me, she’d rather speak on the app.. She was even open to speaking via voice call as the app has that feature.. We spoke for about 20 Mins and I told her I gotta go.. The conversat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this her rejecting me.. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b1n5mj/is_this_her_rejecting_me/ |
boringonpurpose | 2021-12-23 19:59:44 | 1,640,289,584 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rn3xq5 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/rn3xq5/tinder_stalking/ | 8 | This has happened to me three times now, and I'm curious to see what other people think of this. People will slide into my instagram DMs and either tell me straight up or wait till after I reply to say that they found my ig after seeing me on tinder (my instagram is NOT linked in my bio, they just find me because I hav... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Tinder Stalking? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/rn3xq5/tinder_stalking/ |
ChildhoodNo6451 | 2024-06-27 16:29:11 | 1,719,505,751 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dpvhuu | true | null | 156 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1dpvhuu/why_is_my_friend_unable_to_find_a_long_term/ | 1 | Asking for a friend, genuinely concerned for her as she's spiraling and constantly has anxiety over this matter. My friend is turning 32 this year, she has been single for over 6 years now. She had 2 serious relationships that each lasted about 1.5 years. The last 6 years she has been in situationships but she also too... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why is my friend unable to find a long term partner | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1dpvhuu/why_is_my_friend_unable_to_find_a_long_term/ |
feenox99 | 2019-07-10 05:44:06 | 1,562,737,446 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cbcpyd | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cbcpyd/ghosted_after_incredible_first_date/ | 3 | Met a girl from Tinder last friday, went to the movies, had a good time, pretty standard date. After the date we went back to my place and she ended up staying for 3 nights because of how amazing of a time we were having, i've honestly never had a date this spontaneous and passionate before, she told me i was amazing a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after incredible first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cbcpyd/ghosted_after_incredible_first_date/ |
Kind-Fan-5293 | 2024-05-01 06:25:06 | 1,714,544,706 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1chf67y | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1chf67y/is_posting_too_much_about_your_partner_clingy/ | 1 | Curious as to what people think about this: My friend got into a relationship at the end of February 2024, however was casually seeing this girl since September 2023 (but not exclusive between Sep - Feb due to the girl working overseas and he was dating/sleeping with other people during that time). In the last 7-days s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is Posting Too Much About Your Partner Clingy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1chf67y/is_posting_too_much_about_your_partner_clingy/ |
t3hmuffnman9000 | 2019-10-24 01:59:55 | 1,571,882,395 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dm9o7i | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dm9o7i/approaching_groups_while_alone/ | 0 | I'm a 33YO male whose longest relationship lasted slightly under a year, and I've been more or less alone for three years now. I relied mostly on Online Dating up until recently, but I've had nothing but bad luck on them and they're becoming detrimental to my self esteem and sanity. Recently, I've been trying to get aw... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Approaching groups while alone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dm9o7i/approaching_groups_while_alone/ |
OrangeBlossom2 | 2020-05-26 00:19:28 | 1,590,452,368 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | gqmkfc | true | null | 111 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/gqmkfc/would_you_pass_on_a_56f_whos_never_been_in_a/ | 20 | I'm a 56F trying to date for the very first time in her life. However, I'm wondering if it's just too late for me b/c I have no dating or relationship experience. Is that a universal red flag I cannot overcome? I've used a couple of dating sites over the last year and never had more than one date with four different gu... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Would you pass on a 56F who's never been in a relationship? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/gqmkfc/would_you_pass_on_a_56f_whos_never_been_in_a/ |
carrottop5555 | 2019-12-19 06:30:23 | 1,576,737,023 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | ecpe3y | true | Venting | 35 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ecpe3y/today_i_told_a_cheaters_gf_who_he_really_is/ | 20 | Today and this whole week has been pretty intense. This guy I’ve been talking to for 6+ months asked me to come see him and offered to pay for my flight there. Travel and Airbnb cost me nearly $900. Long story short, I never received the money for the flight. I also caught him using tinder by making a fake account. Not... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Today I told a cheater’s gf who he really is | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ecpe3y/today_i_told_a_cheaters_gf_who_he_really_is/ |
Odd_Celery_1491 | 2024-06-24 01:24:34 | 1,719,192,274 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dn1nci | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dn1nci/im_lonely_but_i_feel_lonelier_whenever_i_sign_up/ | 1 | I (F26) have NEVER had a serious relationship. Ever. I know people always say it’s not that big of a deal and I’m grateful for the time I have to get to know mysef. Older relatives always tell me “I’m still so young” and I have all the time to figure it out but sometimes, I feel like I’m not meant for it. Especially se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m lonely but I feel lonelier whenever I sign up for dating apps | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dn1nci/im_lonely_but_i_feel_lonelier_whenever_i_sign_up/ |
Mooidk123 | 2024-09-10 22:36:39 | 1,726,007,799 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fduz85 | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fduz85/tinder_email_notification_on_bfs_phone/ | 1 | Please help me - I saw an email notification from Tinder on my bf’s computer that said “Bad news your profile is hidden”. For context, we’ve been together for 2.5 years. We’ve been going through a rough patch since the beginning of the year but we still live together and are still trying to work things out, at least th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder email notification on bf’s phone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fduz85/tinder_email_notification_on_bfs_phone/ |
BlerdIsTheWord | 2018-07-22 02:59:05 | 1,532,228,345 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 90uts8 | true | Question | 35 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/90uts8/is_there_hope_for_geeky_black_chicks/ | 56 | I'm recently single and have never really dated conventionally. I usually dated guys who started out as friends. I'm 30 and going to start online dating soon, but I feel like Black women are one of the least desirable group of people in online dating. Have you all seen this? I want to be realistic with my expectations ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is There Hope for Geeky Black Chicks? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/90uts8/is_there_hope_for_geeky_black_chicks/ |
StriKeR_tB | 2024-03-25 14:16:03 | 1,711,376,163 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bnerdj | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1bnerdj/bachelor_party_what_survival_tasks_can_be_used_as/ | 1 | My brother isn't a big drinker and enjoys the outdoors. He asked there to be some competitive team games to play. Thought a survival theme would be fun but looking for ideas of tasks to complete that don't require much investment/material, and are beginner friendly. So far I have: Start a fire with flint and tinder. Hi... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Bachelor Party - What survival tasks can be used as games? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1bnerdj/bachelor_party_what_survival_tasks_can_be_used_as/ |
Immaslaywhatiwant | 2024-08-26 20:51:10 | 1,724,705,470 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f1yxi9 | true | Question ❓ | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f1yxi9/is_dating_multiple_people_during_the_early_stage/ | 0 | I never had an argument with a guy about this before, but it came up with a guy I haven't even seen once and he acted like I'm a bad person for it. So basically I matched with him on a dating app and being on dating apps, for me it was always the norm that I match with a bunch of people naturally after swiping for a bi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating multiple people during the early stage really that bad? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f1yxi9/is_dating_multiple_people_during_the_early_stage/ |
DB3rt11 | 2023-09-14 17:05:38 | 1,694,711,138 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16inu5c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16inu5c/are_there_any_good_dating_websitesapps/ | 1 | I'm 24m and live near Denver, Colorado. I recently downloaded "Upward" which us suppose to be a "Christian" dating app. I have no issues with the people that I see on the app. The issue that I have is: after looking up the top dating apps (Bumble, Hinge, Christian Mingle, Upward, etc.) I realize they're all money grabs... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are there any "good" dating websites/apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16inu5c/are_there_any_good_dating_websitesapps/ |
yearning_clam | 2021-11-29 17:00:41 | 1,638,205,241 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | r508nd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r508nd/how_do_i_respond_to_a_tinder_date_i_ran_from/ | 3 | Last night, I met up with this girl who I've been talking to on tinder for about a week. She said she was tired and would prefer if I just come over instead of meeting out for a drink. She said "it's a bit messy" but who the hell am I to judge? I totally get it. I said sounds good and picked up some drinks. I walked in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I respond to a tinder date I ran from? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r508nd/how_do_i_respond_to_a_tinder_date_i_ran_from/ |
hello_wanda | 2016-05-27 01:42:49 | 1,464,313,369 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 4l8mu0 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating/comments/4l8mu0/got_rejected_after_first_date_awesome_experience/ | 39 | I'm having warm thoughts, and I want to post this. I'm a nearly 25 guy, but I went on a first date ever (never dated before) with a girl I met online ever a month ago. Although, I got turned down for a second date, it made me feel pretty good. Prior to this I was always kind of pissy and angry about being alone, but th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Got rejected after first date - Awesome Experience | 39 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4l8mu0/got_rejected_after_first_date_awesome_experience/ |
gilise | 2019-08-08 13:10:26 | 1,565,269,826 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cnlk4c | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cnlk4c/should_you_go_out_on_a_date_if_youre_not_excited/ | 3 | So I've only recently started to get into online dating. I've been on a number of first dates but most of them have been pretty 'meh'. I know it's stupid to expect some amazing connection with someone you've only just met so often I agree to a second date if there is no red flags. However I find that when it comes to t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should you go out on a date if you're not excited about it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cnlk4c/should_you_go_out_on_a_date_if_youre_not_excited/ |
whatisabaggins55 | 2020-05-27 15:06:24 | 1,590,591,984 | null | null | 0 | grldx4 | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/grldx4/should_i_be_interacting_with_other_girls_if_im_on/ | 17 | I'm on Tinder, made a match just as the whole coronavirus thing kicked off and now I can't see her face to face until after quarantine. We have been messaging each other fairly regularly since March while we wait and have spoken online a few times, but I have no real way of knowing if things will truly kick off until a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I be interacting with other girls if I'm "on hold" with one already? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/grldx4/should_i_be_interacting_with_other_girls_if_im_on/ |
caithou | 2019-12-29 22:19:08 | 1,577,657,948 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ehci78 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ehci78/i_25f_am_worried_that_i_met_someone_just_like_my/ | 1 | I am (25F) and the guy I am about to talk about it (23M) So for a little backstory on my history with dating... I dated someone for 3 years, 3 years ago, and still to this day I have problems with trying to get into a relationship. He was emotionally abusive and would gaslight me. It was extreme without getting into de... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25F) am worried that I met someone just like my emotionally abusive ex. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ehci78/i_25f_am_worried_that_i_met_someone_just_like_my/ |
ashesandsparkles | 2023-12-13 22:53:00 | 1,702,507,980 | 0 | null | 0 | 18hto29 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18hto29/how_to_get_over_the_nervousness_to_actually_meet/ | 1 | I haven’t met anyone I was interested enough in to meet up with, until now. We’ve been talking for few weeks now and he’s really trying to plan a date soon. I want to, but I’m just so nervous about it. I’ve never met anyone from these apps. How do you get over the nerves and actually do it? I would hate to miss out on ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to get over the nervousness to actually meet up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18hto29/how_to_get_over_the_nervousness_to_actually_meet/ |
ThrowRAforamelon | 2020-09-13 17:35:55 | 1,600,018,555 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | is2m8j | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/is2m8j/i_20f_dont_know_how_to_feel_about_a_guy_ive_been/ | 1 | This is my first reddit post so excuse any dodgy formatting. I've been chatting to this guy online "Carl" that I matched with on a dating app, for the last half a year, and recently in the last couple of months have been on more face to face dates with him, with him starting to sleep over at my house in the last couple... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (20F) don't know how to feel about a guy I've been dating (23M) giving me mixed signals | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/is2m8j/i_20f_dont_know_how_to_feel_about_a_guy_ive_been/ |
katietakespictures | 2019-03-12 03:50:42 | 1,552,362,642 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | b035kr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b035kr/i_29_f_cant_stop_thinking_about_someone_32_m_who/ | 5 | Last year my fiance and I broke up. Not too long after I found myself on Tinder just looking for some people to chat with. I matched with a guy who I had a ton in common with and we talked nonstop for weeks. Eventually he asked if I would be willing to meet up. I had turned down other offers because I wasn't quite read... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [29, F] can't stop thinking about someone [32, M] who I used to see casually. Is it worth telling him or am I too late? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b035kr/i_29_f_cant_stop_thinking_about_someone_32_m_who/ |
Interesting-Wind-117 | 2024-02-27 09:27:01 | 1,709,026,021 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b17t8a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b17t8a/how_do_i_resolve_this_issue_for_myself/ | 1 | As the title says. Im 21m and had grown up with a girl that we knew each other probably for 6/7 years. 4 of them was the relationship, but she had cheated on me. Several times with nudes and physically. It’s been 2+ years after the break up, but i quiet can’t get the hang to be open to a relationship as my trust issues... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I resolve this issue for myself? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b17t8a/how_do_i_resolve_this_issue_for_myself/ |
Poweron_Panda | 2024-04-01 21:52:53 | 1,712,008,373 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1btgyqb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1btgyqb/how_muchoften_to_message_before_the_1st_date/ | 2 | I need some advice here, let's say you match with someone and get to the point where you exchange numbers to move off the dating app to directly message each other. How much a day would you say that you message before the 1st date ? The last person I talked to, we were exchanging messages for 1 to 2 hours a day for aro... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How much\often to message before the 1st date ? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1btgyqb/how_muchoften_to_message_before_the_1st_date/ |
bearboo3 | 2022-03-21 05:49:33 | 1,647,841,773 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tj4oss | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tj4oss/what_to_do/ | 1 | So I 20f met this guy 28m on tinder and we hooked up a couple times over the course of a few weeks. We both made it clear in the beginning that we didn’t want to have relationships and both agreed. All was well until I realized I have feelings for him, last time we hooked up which was a week ago. The thing is, he hasn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tj4oss/what_to_do/ |
CloutComputing | 2021-12-24 19:20:48 | 1,640,373,648 | null | null | 0 | rnsx6s | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rnsx6s/success_with_facebook_dating/ | 30 | In less than a week, I was able to get 5 matches on this platform with women I'd say I'm attracted to to some degree. I've probably only swiped right on less than 100 profiles. On Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, I had about 5 matches combined over 2 weeks. This is after sending out over 500 swipes right or likes. Take that f... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Success with Facebook Dating | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rnsx6s/success_with_facebook_dating/ |
Spiritual_Scratch_10 | 2022-04-01 10:15:09 | 1,648,808,109 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ttn9vb | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ttn9vb/i_dont_what_to_say_really_wanna_learn_the_dating/ | 6 | Ok. Here me out. 25 M here. Venting and need advice I am very frustrated with myself being single for my entire life. I am now improving my social skills and working out in my free time for the start of the year. I also quit porn too and started noFap to reduce my anxiety. To be fair, I don't have trouble making friend... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't what to say. Really wanna learn the dating game. | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ttn9vb/i_dont_what_to_say_really_wanna_learn_the_dating/ |
ShockWave324 | 2024-07-07 15:20:29 | 1,720,365,629 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dxixlq | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dxixlq/is_it_normal_to_get_scared_off_by_people/ | 13 | For example, Ive had a few instances like this after 1-2 dates 1. 1 girl asked to be exclusive after 1 week and 2 dates. Would also call me babe and plan stuff out months in advance when we weren’t even exclusive yet. 2. Some girl deleted her app after 1 date, would get super pushy about sex, and get upset when Id have... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it normal to get scared off by people pressuring you into relationships? | 13 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dxixlq/is_it_normal_to_get_scared_off_by_people/ |
GroundbreakingNet583 | 2022-08-14 03:10:32 | 1,660,446,632 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wnw0c2 | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/wnw0c2/just_realized_something/ | 15 | I just watched the video of the short guy in the bagel shop losing his shit because he can’t get women. In the world of OLD, short men=overweight women. They get about the same amount of attention. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Just realized something…. | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/wnw0c2/just_realized_something/ |
Parthas1 | 2022-12-11 17:20:59 | 1,670,779,259 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | zj0e6i | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 46 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zj0e6i/dating_apps_vs_matchmakers_vs_speed_dating/ | 13 | I (28M) am socially awkward (mild ASD/Asperger's). Until recently, I was not very interested in pursuing a romantic relationship. I struggled with depression and anxiety for a very long time. After years of therapy, hard work, and exercise, I now believe I am ready to pursue a relationship. When the holiday season is o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps vs matchmakers vs speed dating? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zj0e6i/dating_apps_vs_matchmakers_vs_speed_dating/ |
BurnerAccount79_ | 2023-07-29 23:24:47 | 1,690,673,087 | 0 | null | 0 | 15d63j4 | false | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15d63j4/my_experience_online_dating_from_2003_until_2023/ | 1 | My experience of online dating from 2003 until 2023 wasn't continuous. I would use the apps or sites for a bit delete them come back and this cycle repeated for twenty years. Over the years I had very little success. I've had maybe a couple handfuls of conversations and matches that weren't bots or scammers. I've never... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My experience online dating from 2003 until 2023. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15d63j4/my_experience_online_dating_from_2003_until_2023/ |
fakejusername | 2023-10-12 01:05:48 | 1,697,072,748 | 0 | null | 0 | 175uaf3 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/175uaf3/is_it_a_red_flag/ | 1 | I've been in LDR for month with this girl and we talk pretty much most of the day ane have fun. She is pretty shy so most of the conversation is pulled by me but recently she started to invest a bit more. Lot of times in our jokes she projects our future as married couple and so, mentioning kids, etc.. We had short bre... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it a red flag? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/175uaf3/is_it_a_red_flag/ |
Prestigious_Ad7442 | 2024-07-05 00:52:59 | 1,720,140,779 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dvltjd | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dvltjd/if_you_are_wondering_why_you_dont_get_matched/ | 1 | A picture of a man with shower background an his dating profile. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If you are wondering why you don't get matched. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dvltjd/if_you_are_wondering_why_you_dont_get_matched/ |
SelfImprovementHelp | 2017-02-16 04:44:28 | 1,487,220,268 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 5ucrix | null | null | 22 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5ucrix/im_finding_online_dating_depressing_and_kind_of/ | 9 | So I posted here on an alt before on advice for going on dates and I forgot the username. But anyway I've used Tinder/POF for around a few months now and haven't got anything out of it, I had worked on my opener game and it helped a lot. I generally made some reference to a mutual interest or a comment on something on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm finding online dating depressing and kind of just want to vent and get some discussion on it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5ucrix/im_finding_online_dating_depressing_and_kind_of/ |
GoddyofAus | 2021-04-15 00:05:51 | 1,618,445,151 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | mr3e8j | true | null | 442 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mr3e8j/dating_apps_like_bumbletinder_have_become_next_to/ | 444 | This is now my 4th attempt on dating apps, mostly bouncing between Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc, and once again it feels like I am just wasting my time and money. The latest attempt has been on Bumble, and getting any likes at all has been like pulling hens teeth. I've had one match in the last 4 days and it had to be a s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps like Bumble/Tinder have become next to useless for Men | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mr3e8j/dating_apps_like_bumbletinder_have_become_next_to/ |
Madden9494 | 2024-04-07 08:14:55 | 1,712,477,695 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bxz8lu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxz8lu/finding_success_with_dating_and_sex/ | 1 | I'm a 30 year old male who has very little success dating women. I haven't been in a relationship for more than 10 years and I hardly ever have sex. I'm physically fit and lean so I'm not really sure why I have such little success. I typically use dating apps like Hinge and tinder to meet women. I have interesting prom... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding success with dating and sex | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxz8lu/finding_success_with_dating_and_sex/ |
Flipping101 | 2020-04-10 19:28:31 | 1,586,546,911 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating site', 'tinder'] | 0 | fymstr | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 53 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fymstr/why_is_the_expectation_that_the_man_should_feel/ | 12 | Been a year since last relationship (29M) and am happily self employed but with a very small social circle so making organic connections with people isn't easy. For me I'm pretty self reliant and always have been so whether I have a relationship or don't isn't a huge deal to me and I find a lot of people predicate thei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is the expectation that the man should feel "lucky or fortunate" for the opportunity to date a woman and should be the pursuer? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fymstr/why_is_the_expectation_that_the_man_should_feel/ |
PM_US_UR_JELLY | 2021-06-25 23:09:18 | 1,624,662,558 | null | null | 0 | o7yufh | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/o7yufh/my_first_ever_match_where_i_super_swiped_someone/ | 1 | I don’t get a lot of matches as it is, so I was SUPER stoked to instantly match someone that super swiped/liked me back. What do you think is the deal with her not responding to me reaching out? My opener was specific to one of her listed activities if that helps. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My first ever match where I super swiped someone and they super swiped me but when I reached out they totally haven’t said anything. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/o7yufh/my_first_ever_match_where_i_super_swiped_someone/ |
bxste | 2024-01-14 21:23:18 | 1,705,267,398 | 0 | null | 0 | 196qnh0 | true | null | 47 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/196qnh0/whats_the_point/ | 1 | I continuously tried to date I get girls numbers on dating apps after I FaceTime them they all ghost me and never hear from them again talk to girls in real life in the street they all reject you and uninterested so I’m really ask what’s the point in it to keep trying. Just to keep going through the same thing over and... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What’s the point | 1 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/196qnh0/whats_the_point/ |
Beautiful_Bluejay198 | 2024-01-25 05:20:02 | 1,706,160,002 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 19f1tbd | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19f1tbd/do_you_find_it_weird_to_find_friendsclassmates_on/ | 2 | Like. When I see I person I went to school with on dating apps I just cringe. And I cringe at myself too for being in those apps. When I should be in a stable relationship by now | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you find it weird to find friends/classmates on dating apps? It’s so awkward for me | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19f1tbd/do_you_find_it_weird_to_find_friendsclassmates_on/ |
averagejoe12o | 2021-07-05 16:00:47 | 1,625,500,847 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | oeacdm | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oeacdm/im22_am_being_catfished_and_i_want_to_tell_the/ | 8 | I met her on tinder, her photos were cute and conversation was great. We hit it off and having been texting non stop for a week. It’s rare when women hold the conversation. She’s kept things interesting. Last night, I asked for her Instagram because her tinder photos were making me question her. In all of her photos on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(m22) am being cat-fished and I want to tell the girl(f21) that I’m no longer interested POLITELY. | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oeacdm/im22_am_being_catfished_and_i_want_to_tell_the/ |
RestlessDreamer32 | 2023-12-31 00:53:09 | 1,703,983,989 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'dating platform', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'pof'] | 0 | 18uuyjq | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18uuyjq/psa_for_men_delete_your_dating_apps_now/ | 1 | There are many men who are still not aware that this sort of thing exists over a year later, but there's no worse time to be a man on a dating platform. You can look it up if you don't believe me, but in just about every major city (especially in the Americas, Europe, etc) there are groups called "Are We Dating The Sam... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | PSA For Men: Delete your dating apps NOW | 1 | 0.17 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18uuyjq/psa_for_men_delete_your_dating_apps_now/ |
AubinMagnus | 2017-08-14 22:18:10 | 1,502,749,090 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 6tpx9g | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6tpx9g/feeling_lost_in_dating/ | 2 | I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing in OLD anymore. I have pictures of me doing various activities, pictures of me in the sun in Mexico, detailed profile written with wit and joy. I've asked friends what they'd say about me and included those tidbits. I haven't had a good date in months, and my last relationship ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Feeling Lost In Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6tpx9g/feeling_lost_in_dating/ |
Witty_Childhood | 2023-07-10 15:46:12 | 1,689,003,972 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14vxo5d | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14vxo5d/dating_multiple_girls_and_now_things_are_falling/ | 1 | A little bit of a backstory for me (26M). My ex broke up with me back in March and I was a bit blindsided. Although it was a short relationship (3 months), we did a ton in that short time and I was taken aback. Around the same time I was laid off, so I decided to clear my mind, travel a bit and take time off. Due to a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating multiple girls and now things are falling apart | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14vxo5d/dating_multiple_girls_and_now_things_are_falling/ |
Ursupremacy | 2024-01-08 06:36:21 | 1,704,695,781 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 191eqpm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/191eqpm/i_25f_never_had_a_boyfriend_and_im_feeling/ | 1 | I grew up in a catholic only girl school until I was 17. In highschool I was friends with a guy that continuously led me on, he even tried to kiss me but friend zoned me in the end. He continued appearing and disappearing of my life. I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 21 with a guy I met at a party and like 2 days... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25F) never had a boyfriend and I’m feeling hopeless | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191eqpm/i_25f_never_had_a_boyfriend_and_im_feeling/ |
Liza6077 | 2019-11-14 18:49:15 | 1,573,757,355 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | dwdwqt | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dwdwqt/opinion_on_moving_to_exclusive/ | 0 | HELP! Opinions on how much time should you spend “getting to know” each other before asking about dating exclusively? I am divorced and finally met someone I would consider having something long term with. It has been 6 weeks and we have seen each other since the start atleast 4 days a week. I totally don’t doubt that ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opinion on moving to exclusive | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dwdwqt/opinion_on_moving_to_exclusive/ |
lady_edith | 2019-08-07 10:15:01 | 1,565,172,901 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cn3y0m | true | I Need Advice | 58 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cn3y0m/afraid_of_putting_myself_out_there_because_im/ | 35 | I'm a 27 year old female and I never really dated anyone in my whole life, had a couple of crushes which I sort of ran away from because I'm really afraid of putting my self out there. This is mostly because I'm really short, below-average short, I'm only 140 cm tall/short (4'7') but otherwise completely normal-looking... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Afraid of putting myself out there because I'm short (27F) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cn3y0m/afraid_of_putting_myself_out_there_because_im/ |
xanniev | 2020-06-29 22:02:03 | 1,593,468,123 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | hi9x5u | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hi9x5u/why_hasnt_he_gotten_back_to_me_today_when_he/ | 0 | So I (F21) recently matched with this guy (M22) on Bumble. We met before actually, because he's my best guy friend's roommate so we were briefly introduced. It started off so well. We texted a bit, our humors align, and I felt so strongly about him. However, it seems like he's resorted to just snapping me after. We sna... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why hasn't he gotten back to me today when he expressed so much interest? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hi9x5u/why_hasnt_he_gotten_back_to_me_today_when_he/ |
Upset_Turnip960 | 2024-05-06 03:00:57 | 1,714,964,457 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cl8wjs | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cl8wjs/dating_app_recs/ | 1 | Hello lovely people What are the best dating apps for someone looking for something that’s a bit more serious? I’ve tried quite a few but it seems like everyone is just trying to hook up 🙄😒. At this point I’ve almost accepted the fact that I’m going to be single forever 😂😂😂. Please help 😂 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating App Recs | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cl8wjs/dating_app_recs/ |
Justme_au | 2018-12-17 01:14:29 | 1,545,009,269 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | a6uzs9 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a6uzs9/approaches_to_shortlisting_on_old/ | 0 | Hi all, First of all, I appreciate this is a 'problem' other people would like, sorry that is the case, but it doesn't minimize the need for those who suffer from it to have some strategies. So, I signed back up to OLD this weekend after a well needed hiatus and needless to say I am suffering a little from the torrent ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Approaches to shortlisting on OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a6uzs9/approaches_to_shortlisting_on_old/ |
icebreaker_throwaway | 2019-03-25 18:26:40 | 1,553,538,400 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | b5edow | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b5edow/am_i_a_dating_placeholder_or_am_i_being/ | 2 | Intro : So I met this girl on tinder and we had a relationship that lasted a few months. She said I was her first tinder date after trying to get back into dating. We broke up after she revealed she was dating someone else behind my back and I got upset over feeling used. Details : Recently, I dated someone who admitte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I a dating placeholder, or am I being oversensitive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b5edow/am_i_a_dating_placeholder_or_am_i_being/ |
DoomFist007 | 2020-01-02 19:24:03 | 1,577,993,043 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ej2t29 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 15 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/ej2t29/update_i_went_on_my_4th_date_with_a_girl_from/ | 2 | A few weeks ago I posted about a 4th date I went on with a girl I met on Tinder which ended badly, which is posted -- ( ). After that whole incident I stop contacting her for a good week, until last week she started messaging me again trying to start conversation. I was assuming everything blew over until last night. S... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Update: I went on my 4th date with a girl from Tinder which ended pretty bad. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ej2t29/update_i_went_on_my_4th_date_with_a_girl_from/ |
TransGoTa | 2021-12-19 22:30:19 | 1,639,953,019 | null | null | 0 | rk7k0n | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rk7k0n/people_with_excessive_and_random_pet_peeves_are/ | 20 | In theory, online dating is a great tool. At our fingertips, we have access to a pool of potential mates who are also single. Compare that to the pre-online dating world where you just had to sort of meet people and let nature do it’s thing. In theory, it sounds wonderful. But in practice, single people are doing worse... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | People with excessive and random pet peeves are very likely be alone forever… | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rk7k0n/people_with_excessive_and_random_pet_peeves_are/ |
RatwomanSF | 2016-05-25 18:43:53 | 1,464,201,833 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | 4l16nq | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4l16nq/need_online_dating_adviceperspective_from_men/ | 2 | I'm new to online dating, and need some male perspective on a few questions: 1. If I go on a first date (usually coffee) with someone and I don't want to go on a second date, should I specifically message them afterwards and tell them, nicely, that I'm not interested? There are a couple of different scenarios - A. I kn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need online dating advice/perspective from men | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4l16nq/need_online_dating_adviceperspective_from_men/ |
InstructionLucky414 | 2023-03-15 04:52:59 | 1,678,855,979 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 11rmhvg | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11rmhvg/advice_on_how_to_move_forward_and_advance_the/ | 1 | Roughly 2 weeks ago I matched with a girl on hinge. Thought she was gorgeous and got her snap, then she ghosted me. This weekend she happened to be a party I was at so I introduced myself to her and pretend not to recognize her. She said I seemed familiar. Night goes on and we make out multiple times. The next day I go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on how to move forward and advance the relationship | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11rmhvg/advice_on_how_to_move_forward_and_advance_the/ |
TheDuke4797 | 2018-05-01 06:51:37 | 1,525,157,497 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8g6hfz | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8g6hfz/starting_the_conversations/ | 3 | I've been wondering this for a while now. I've noticed whenever I talk with people I meet on Tinder or talk to online, I'm always the one to start the conversation. I'll test for a day or two without me starting a conversation and the other person won't say anything at all. Has anyone else experienced this? Not sure if... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Starting the conversations | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8g6hfz/starting_the_conversations/ |
Affectionate_Cap2129 | 2021-02-07 07:23:49 | 1,612,682,629 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lehu68 | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/lehu68/just_started_dating_a_new_girl_needing_some_advice/ | 3 | I 20M met this girl 20F off of tinder. Our first date was at a coffee shop, I feel like we hit it off well, there was no awkwardness and we got to know each other for a good hour and a half. I feel like she might be somewhat into me, since she was the one who texted me later, and the next day ended up asking when I was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just started dating a new girl, needing some advice | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lehu68/just_started_dating_a_new_girl_needing_some_advice/ |
BlackEclipse1998 | 2020-09-29 06:39:31 | 1,601,361,571 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | j1u0t1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j1u0t1/dont_know_where_i_stand/ | 1 | So I met this girl on bumble a few weeks ago and we text a lot and have ala lot in common. We met up twice and had really awesome dates together and we can be ourselves. Were not dating but not friends either it's weird. She doesn't want to have sex yet or make out full since I'm still new but here the problem. She's h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dont know where I stand | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j1u0t1/dont_know_where_i_stand/ |
StoicFrCanadian | 2024-04-02 08:52:41 | 1,712,047,961 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bttv28 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bttv28/this_is_wild/ | 1 | While I’m fairly new on the dating scene, I’m lucky so far by having multiples like/match a day. From the look of it not one yet to grow old with, but trying to know what I want in that second part of my life. So far I’ve ended 3 good match but not the woman I needed. I dont sleep around or at least I’m trying not to. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | This is wild | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bttv28/this_is_wild/ |
Greatlydislikeyou | 2019-08-30 20:08:29 | 1,567,195,709 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cxm6np | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/cxm6np/active_dating_app_users_how_would_you_respond_if/ | 1 | Edit: there will be other single women with her with similar likes, interests | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Active dating app users: how would you respond if a woman who has had several matches wanted to meet you and all others in a public setting at once? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/cxm6np/active_dating_app_users_how_would_you_respond_if/ |
Pragmatic_Hedonist | 2020-11-27 10:42:23 | 1,606,473,743 | null | null | 0 | k1yylp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/k1yylp/bumble_what_am_i_looking_for/ | 2 | I (54f) have been in tinder in my mid-Atlantic metro area off and on for about a year. I've met some great men; nothing stuck. (I know, tinder is known as a hookup app. Have found in my demographic, you can find everybody looking for everything.). Think I am getting a little "stale" on the tinder algorithm and want to ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bumble - what am I looking for? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/k1yylp/bumble_what_am_i_looking_for/ |
Expensive-Effort499 | 2022-07-03 01:42:15 | 1,656,812,535 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | vq6fbc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vq6fbc/how_can_i_as_a_introvert_meet_new_people/ | 1 | I (20m) never had a gf before and my experience so far with dating has been with dating apps like tinder. As you might expect, like the majority of man, I never had a lot of luck with those apps, but I still managed to find some girls who where interested in me, the problem is that most of the time I either end up not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I as a introvert meet new people | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vq6fbc/how_can_i_as_a_introvert_meet_new_people/ |
Even-Lavishness5251 | 2022-07-19 02:56:30 | 1,658,199,390 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | w2hvbp | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w2hvbp/how_do_i_stop_blushing_and_being_awkard_whenever/ | 2 | It has been going on since high school. And I have social anxiety all my life so that’s why. I go bright red, look around and get all awkward and can’t even talk to him I’m in my 20’s now. I thought I’d grow out of it, even tried meeting guys on dating apps for practise. Recently at my new job I overthought/analysed my... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I stop blushing and being awkard whenever I think I like a guy or find one good looking | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w2hvbp/how_do_i_stop_blushing_and_being_awkard_whenever/ |
Throwaway126572 | 2016-03-11 18:25:53 | 1,457,720,753 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 4a00ww | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/4a00ww/recently_single_no_idea_how_to_date/ | 1 | Let's get right to the point. I've been in a relationship for over 5 years, we both grew up in a small town so dating was more of a "get to know each other from school and date" type scenario. We graduated high school together, been together another 3 years after that. Shit went sideways with our career choices and dec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Recently single, no idea how to date. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4a00ww/recently_single_no_idea_how_to_date/ |
archer_stark | 2015-04-20 22:19:13 | 1,429,568,353 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 33abn8 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/33abn8/how_to_stand_out_on_dating_sites/ | 4 | I [27m] have tried online dating but have trouble actually getting to meet girls. I live somewhere that it's not as easy to meet people like it is in big cities so I wanted to try online dating. But i've seen how many creepy, weird messages a few female friends of mine get on these sites so my question is - how does a ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | How to stand out on dating sites? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/33abn8/how_to_stand_out_on_dating_sites/ |
Ranger0309 | 2024-06-10 12:24:55 | 1,718,022,295 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dck7zo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dck7zo/first_and_second_date/ | 1 | Well, where do I start? I found this woman on a dating app. An app I was about to delete and by coincidence she had just unpaused hers - and we liked each other. So we chat during the week, and the back and forwards of gentle ribbing, sarcasm and outright roasting was like nothing I've ever experienced before. Mixed in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First and Second Date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dck7zo/first_and_second_date/ |
fakezinhu666 | 2018-06-16 04:45:48 | 1,529,124,348 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8rh5m6 | true | Venting | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8rh5m6/worst_date_ever/ | 6 | hello guys, I wanna share something that happened with me today. So I met this girl on tinder and after texting a while, we went for a date today. Man.. it was extremely awkward, a complete cringeworthy show, a disaster. To start off she was a scam, very different to what she looked like in pictures, she was chubby as ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Worst date ever | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8rh5m6/worst_date_ever/ |
[deleted] | 2013-04-18 09:59:50 | 1,366,279,190 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1cliqw | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cliqw/met_someone_online/ | 1 | K so I've been mucking around on a dating site for a week or so and just so happened to actually meet someone super awesome and quiet cute. I'm a 23(M) and she says shes 21, anyways it started lastnight by me messaging her saying that i was into her. She ended up messaging back giving me her number and we hit it off re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met someone online | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cliqw/met_someone_online/ |
TheLazyYoshi | 2021-08-03 10:44:01 | 1,627,987,441 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ox0u1c | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ox0u1c/too_good_to_be_true/ | 6 | Three weeks back i matched with this girl on Tinder and added each other on snap a few days later. Talked for a while and learned a bit about each other through this medium. When she came back from holliday she initially wanted me to join a party, but I said that if we were gonna meet I don't want alcohol and party to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too good to be true | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ox0u1c/too_good_to_be_true/ |
RottenJoint | 2023-03-13 17:52:53 | 1,678,729,973 | null | null | 0 | 11qgg91 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11qgg91/probably_rejected_after_sharing_pictures/ | 0 | I've met a girl on a chat room and we texted every now and again since december. She was like hesitant sometimes and lately we started chatting more frequently and she told me that now she trusts me and she is pleased to chat with me. So she talk about her probablems and family, than we started to flirt more and more a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Probably rejected after sharing pictures | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11qgg91/probably_rejected_after_sharing_pictures/ |
mjp1981 | 2024-08-24 20:49:29 | 1,724,532,569 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f0f9an | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f0f9an/ladies_what_are_some_green_flags_you_would_like/ | 48 | I’m not just talking about physical traits or common interests. I mean the types of pictures that catch your attention, or things you wish we men would say in our description that will leave a good impression, etc. Anyone can just say they’re great, but I’m guessing how you say it or show it matters more. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies, what are some green flags you would like to see more often from men in their dating profiles? | 48 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f0f9an/ladies_what_are_some_green_flags_you_would_like/ |
jawest13 | 2024-02-05 17:44:05 | 1,707,155,045 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ajmi67 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajmi67/are_there_any_actually_free_dating_apps/ | 5 | Hi all, I got myself a free eHarmony account a couple weeks ago and now a Match account this past weekend. I tried sending a message to a girl through the latter and it told me I need to pay first. I get that these companies need to make a profit, but I'm kinda getting sick of sites offering free-but-really-you-can't-u... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are There ANY Actually Free Dating Apps? | 5 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ajmi67/are_there_any_actually_free_dating_apps/ |
[deleted] | 2017-04-27 20:25:44 | 1,493,324,744 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 67ybka | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/67ybka/how_do_i_get_over_someone/ | 0 | TL;DR There's hung up, and then there's me. I'll try to give you the brief, I met a girl through Tinder two years ago. Prior to this, I had been single for nearly 4 years after an extremely toxic relationship with a girl I dated during college, nobody was the good guy or the bad guy in that situation but it definitley ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How Do I Get Over Someone? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/67ybka/how_do_i_get_over_someone/ |
mypzi | 2020-03-28 06:49:47 | 1,585,378,187 | null | null | 0 | fqf4fd | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fqf4fd/from_okc_attempts_to_prove_i_should_sleep_with_him/ | 25 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | From OKC, Attempts To Prove I Should Sleep With Him | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fqf4fd/from_okc_attempts_to_prove_i_should_sleep_with_him/ | |
lkingz | 2023-04-30 04:39:36 | 1,682,829,576 | 0 | null | 0 | 133fwui | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/133fwui/silence_gf_moving_away/ | 1 | I have been dating a girl for four months now. We met online and have gradually went from meeting to spending weekends together. Four days a week to me staying with her five days a week. We celebrated Easter together our first holiday. My birthday shortly after that. We were together last weekend like normal. I was fix... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Silence GF (Moving Away) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/133fwui/silence_gf_moving_away/ |
jachep | 2021-04-11 21:51:53 | 1,618,177,913 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | mp0ae1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mp0ae1/girl_ghosted_me_after_saying_yes_how_ask_her_to/ | 1 | I met a girl on the dating app Bumble (in which women make the first contact after a match). We exchanged messages but she wasn't very active on Bumble. However, she put not using the app as an excuse and asked me for my phone number, although the thing didn't improve with WhatsApp. It felt that if I didn't message her... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl ghosted me after saying yes. How ask her to confirm it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mp0ae1/girl_ghosted_me_after_saying_yes_how_ask_her_to/ |
[deleted] | 2018-12-03 20:20:30 | 1,543,868,430 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | a2sjbe | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a2sjbe/women_who_have_used_bumble/ | 1 | How often did you get a reply? And do they tend to play the man game of waiting til last minute to reply so they don't seem keen? On every other app I have been inundated with messages. On this one I have sent a few messages and the time is nearly up. I'm not crucifying myself over it, it's just so different. I touch o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women who have used Bumble... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a2sjbe/women_who_have_used_bumble/ |
SanuAlt | 2019-10-12 23:49:58 | 1,570,924,198 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dh2xvl | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dh2xvl/when_heading_for_a_tinder_date_with_someone_whos/ | 0 | In the past I've often found myself in those drawn out discussions about all kinds of stuff, which in realising now could signal I'm not that interested in the women I was with, especially if they were looking for something casual. On the other hand all my life I tried to get as far as possible from the stereotype of m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When heading for a tinder date with someone who's looking for FWBs, how long would you expect the date to go on for before things either start getting sexual or you know it's not gonna work out? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dh2xvl/when_heading_for_a_tinder_date_with_someone_whos/ |
SnooOpinions2812 | 2021-04-10 20:12:08 | 1,618,085,528 | null | null | 0 | moc3af | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/moc3af/my_experience_is_horrible_on_hinge/ | 3 | Getting matches hasnt been hard, it just really annoys me how out of the 20 matches I've gotten, I've only had maybe 2 conversations past 5 messages. I can guarantee 12 or more of those never even messaged at all. And many of these were the girl liking first. So i mean, why are you gonna like, even go further and comme... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My experience is horrible on hinge | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/moc3af/my_experience_is_horrible_on_hinge/ |
Independent_Bad518 | 2021-07-27 18:39:10 | 1,627,411,150 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | osskm9 | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/osskm9/why_does_dating_feel_like_a_black_hole/ | 5 | Is there anyone who has found a person on a dating app and built a solid relationship and life? I know very few people that have had this experience. Dating can feel like a black hole where you keep cycling through these talking stages that end up going nowhere. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does dating feel like a black hole? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/osskm9/why_does_dating_feel_like_a_black_hole/ |
aseasong33363 | 2019-08-17 22:36:38 | 1,566,081,398 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | crt1yr | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/crt1yr/whats_your_thoughts_on_this_online_dating_guys/ | 0 | This guy and I have been talking about meeting up Sunday. I had a busy weekend,,, busy in that I’ve been talking to others but he’s always been in the back of my mind and I planned on getting back Yesterday he messaged me : Oh, I lived pretty close to that area before i bought my current house. And I do drink coffee (s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s your thoughts on this online dating guys message to me about setting up a date? Kind of annoyed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/crt1yr/whats_your_thoughts_on_this_online_dating_guys/ |
IHadTacosYesterday | 2024-07-25 17:33:24 | 1,721,928,804 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ec0sb1 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ec0sb1/people_that_unmatch_just_because_you_havent_used/ | 0 | So, I don't use dating apps every single day. Is this blasphemous or something? Reason I say this, is because I was checking my email the other day, and I noticed that I matched with a girl named "Jenny" on OK Cupid. However, I knew that I wouldn't be able to use my desktop computer for two days. (I exclusively use OK ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | People that unmatch just because you haven't used the app in two days.... da fuq? | 0 | 0.35 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ec0sb1/people_that_unmatch_just_because_you_havent_used/ |
Kava1298 | 2019-01-15 15:31:48 | 1,547,566,308 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ag9njn | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ag9njn/i_really_like_this_girl_and_need_advice_on_the/ | 3 | Hi - So i first met this girl on tinder about a month ago and we quickly arranged to get drinks at a bar and ended up having a great time and making out, but due to busy schedules we didn’t see eachother for over a month. Recently, I sent her a text basically saying do you want to just be friends or do u wanna see each... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really like this girl and need advice on the best way to pursue her without coming on too strong | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ag9njn/i_really_like_this_girl_and_need_advice_on_the/ |
iamflexx | 2019-05-28 05:42:44 | 1,559,022,164 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | btw9ip | true | I Need Advice | 45 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/btw9ip/i_met_a_girl_on_bumble_it_went_horribly_wrong_i/ | 20 | So today, I met a girl that I’ve chatted up for a little while on bumble. Don’t get me wrong, she’s nice and very pretty, but meeting her for the first time was a complete fucking nightmare. So, to start off we tried to keep the meeting together as held off as possible, so we agreed to meet each other at a Texas Roadho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I met a girl on bumble, it went horribly wrong. I want to tell her I’m not gonna be seeing her again but, idk how to. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/btw9ip/i_met_a_girl_on_bumble_it_went_horribly_wrong_i/ |
davey-jones0291 | 2021-02-12 17:43:07 | 1,613,151,787 | null | null | 0 | lig96z | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lig96z/m40_something_online_dating_noob_what_dont_i_know/ | 6 | So after at least 5 loveless affection and sexless years (of 20) I've drawn a line under my "relationship". I have absolutely no experience of online dating of any kind but would be looking for a long term relationship not hookups. Where's the best place to start looking and what are the pitfalls. Im not rushing in, ju... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | M40 something online dating noob. What dont i know, terrify me | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lig96z/m40_something_online_dating_noob_what_dont_i_know/ |
TypicalEngineer123 | 2020-05-13 00:24:50 | 1,589,329,490 | null | ['dating platform'] | 0 | gio184 | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/gio184/i_am_not_sure_how_to_handle_seemingly_low_effort/ | 5 | So far I have talked to a couple women online via various apps and the effort required to sustain a conversation has been painful. I told the first girl that we just weren't in sync and it felt like too much work for me at the moment and bid her fair well. It is happening again with another girl and am wondering if the... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I am not sure how to handle seemingly low effort conversations after a match. Am I missing something or is the obvious answer still the right one? | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/gio184/i_am_not_sure_how_to_handle_seemingly_low_effort/ |
mahhhthemeatloaf | 2023-06-24 11:15:18 | 1,687,605,318 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 14hqdmc | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14hqdmc/i_32_m_want_to_text_something_to_the_ghost_27f/ | 13 | Short background: I met her on Bumble and we've been on a few dates now and every single one was fantastic. She was always initiating holding my hand, she always gazed right into my eyes. Always told me how great I was, how much I made her smile, how she was grateful to have met me. At the end of our last date she told... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (32 m) want to text something to the ghost (27f) | 13 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14hqdmc/i_32_m_want_to_text_something_to_the_ghost_27f/ |
throwaway193715p | 2023-01-03 20:00:15 | 1,672,776,015 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 102hr3a | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/102hr3a/i_21m_nonbinary_femboy_am_finally_feeling_up_to/ | 1 | To preface, sorry this post is so long, but please bear with me. I've tried writing this post about 3 times now and unfortunately, I feel the details I've provided are necessary to getting help with my particular situation which I feel is somewhat unique. I'm worried if I leave out certain details, some solutions may s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (21m)- non-binary femboy, am finally feeling up to dating but I don't know how to start. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/102hr3a/i_21m_nonbinary_femboy_am_finally_feeling_up_to/ |
ramabak12 | 2019-08-01 12:53:31 | 1,564,664,011 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cknzw8 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cknzw8/everything_wrong_with_relationships_today/ | 5 | If you are currently struggling with your relationship, this is a post I wrote on my blog ( ) about relationships. Feel free to share your thoughts and if you find this information somehow helpful. We have all at one point developed different relationships with different people. Most people tend to seek a loving and ro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Everything Wrong With Relationships Today | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cknzw8/everything_wrong_with_relationships_today/ |
TheGodsBeCrazy | 2021-06-24 18:27:27 | 1,624,559,247 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | o76vxe | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o76vxe/35yrold_single_female_never_been_in_a_relationship/ | 1 | So yeah. I’ve never been in a relationship or dated anyone. Reason being it was a taboo to have a bf growing up. Anyway, I love my family. Both me and my sister are fiercely independent, but I never developed an healthy view of adult relationships. Sex before marriage is a big no-no. This warrants a whole other post, b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 35-yr-old Single female, Never been in a relationship | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o76vxe/35yrold_single_female_never_been_in_a_relationship/ |
FunctionOk4709 | 2023-12-27 21:37:29 | 1,703,713,049 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18sbxp9 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/18sbxp9/men_how_do_you_stop_giving_a_f_about_women_and/ | 1 | I’m gonna catch some shit for this post I’m sure. I’ll just start by saying that I am genetically blessed. My entire life, I have basically had girls come to me. I’ve never had to chase. I have always had a girl by my side since I was in 7th grade. I’m 30 now. I can’t even count how many girls I’ve dated at this point.... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men, how do you stop giving a F about women and focus on YOURSELF?! (30m) | 1 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/18sbxp9/men_how_do_you_stop_giving_a_f_about_women_and/ |
[deleted] | 2020-07-07 12:18:02 | 1,594,124,282 | null | null | 0 | hmtgyf | true | null | 189 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hmtgyf/if_someone_unmatches_you_on_one_site_and_you_see/ | 203 | A friend of mine matched with a guy on a swipe app and when they started talking about 10min into the convo she decided it wasn't going anywhere so she unmatched with him. about a minute later she gets a message from another dating site saying she has a message from a guy. When she goes to check the message its the guy... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If someone unmatches you on one site and you see them on another site don't message them asking why they unmatched you its creepy. | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hmtgyf/if_someone_unmatches_you_on_one_site_and_you_see/ |
surferdud3 | 2013-12-27 05:00:16 | 1,388,120,416 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1tscyo | null | null | 27 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/1tscyo/do_you_think_the_media_influences_your_ethnic/ | 16 | I recently came across article on how women prefer dating white men, with asian and black women preferring them "even more exclusively". One theory explaining this that I read in a different articles revolves around how the media (movies, advertisements, etc.) portrays white men as more desirable (better looking, weal... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Do you think the media influences your ethnic dating preference? | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1tscyo/do_you_think_the_media_influences_your_ethnic/ |
satanicseelie | 2020-02-01 05:32:44 | 1,580,535,164 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ex1i6v | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ex1i6v/i_love_when_men_on_dating_apps_get_mad_at_me_when/ | 35 | what is WRONG with you'se???!? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | i love when men on dating apps get mad at me when i don't tell them where I live whe n i've been speaking to them for five seconds | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ex1i6v/i_love_when_men_on_dating_apps_get_mad_at_me_when/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-17 13:59:36 | 1,629,208,776 | null | null | 0 | p64cam | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/p64cam/tinder_stats_for_24_yo_female_seeking_males/ | 45 | Hello ALL So, I have been using tinder for some weeks (19 days) now. And I finally had THE MOST fun with it: DATA ANALYSIS I downloaded the data from 'gottinder" and loaded it on python to gather some insights on my activities. I am not sure if this kind of information is available for female users, so here we go DISCL... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | TINDER STATS FOR 24 YO FEMALE SEEKING MALES | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/p64cam/tinder_stats_for_24_yo_female_seeking_males/ |
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