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[deleted] | 2020-10-25 17:18:19 | 1,603,646,299 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | jhx2td | true | Sharing | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/jhx2td/absolute_butterflies/ | 160 | What an absolute whirlwind I've just come down from! Sparing the TMI details, TLDR: I recently matched with a woman on OKC and it almost immediately felt right. She messaged me first and our conversations were on-point from the start. I've posted here before about dealing with feelings of inadequacy and being self-cons... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Absolute Butterflies. | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/jhx2td/absolute_butterflies/ |
Wise_Homework2292 | 2024-01-22 01:26:41 | 1,705,886,801 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 19cjors | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19cjors/did_get_phone_number_after_date/ | 1 | I matched with a lady on a dating app two weeks ago and just met up for a date yesterday which she give me a hug at the very beginning, at the end of the date of two hours I asked if I could get her number and she said "I think I'll stay on the app." When she was leaving, she didn't give me a hug like she did when we f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did Get Phone Number After Date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19cjors/did_get_phone_number_after_date/ |
[deleted] | 2015-04-22 01:30:57 | 1,429,666,257 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 33faxk | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/33faxk/what_happened_here_22m20f/ | 4 | So I met this girl on tinder and we seemed to click pretty well. We'd chat back and forth all day and at the end of one day, she just gave me her number saying it would be easier to get a hold of her that way through text. So we text, I set up a coffee date for the weekend. I go pick her up (because of her school situa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What happened here? 22M/20F | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/33faxk/what_happened_here_22m20f/ |
Sandy_Koufax | 2023-06-26 02:17:31 | 1,687,745,851 | 0 | null | 0 | 14j4ghb | true | null | 148 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14j4ghb/guys_youre_probably_not_ugly_youre_just_2d/ | 103 | If you shower, shave/trim, have a BMI of under 30, and wear clothes from this decade that fit, you're already in the top 20-30% half of men. Me: 30 years old, 5'9, a little chubby at 155lb, white-ish, attorney. On a good week I would get a match or at most two. I used to think maybe I'm hideous and maybe I'm too soft-b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys, you're (probably) not ugly. You're just 2D. | 103 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14j4ghb/guys_youre_probably_not_ugly_youre_just_2d/ |
notagain_007 | 2023-09-21 13:40:44 | 1,695,303,644 | 0 | null | 0 | 16og8e6 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16og8e6/29_m4f_wisconsin_or_anywhere_seeking_a_connection/ | 1 | Hi there, I'm a 5'8" healthcare professional who finds solace in the beauty of nature through hiking, enjoys nurturing life in my garden, getting lost in the pages of a good book, and expanding my horizons with captivating podcasts. But most importantly, I'm in search of a genuine connection and a bit of distraction fr... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 29 [M4F] Wisconsin or anywhere- Seeking a Connection and Adventure with an Attractive Lady | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16og8e6/29_m4f_wisconsin_or_anywhere_seeking_a_connection/ |
CanadianGinger551 | 2024-03-30 11:43:28 | 1,711,799,008 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1brfwse | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1brfwse/need_opinions_on_the_situation_im_in/ | 2 | So I (25M) met this chick (26F) back in early January off tinder, we instantly clicked staying up all night talking and having a phone call the first night we met, went ona. Date a couple days later and it was great and then neither date happened not too long after the first but around shortly after valentines day her ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need opinions on the situation I'm in | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brfwse/need_opinions_on_the_situation_im_in/ |
Excellent-Heat-4232 | 2024-09-17 05:34:44 | 1,726,551,284 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fir29f | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fir29f/i_think_im_cooked_it_might_be_over_for_me/ | 1 | Im a 27 year old man, im not a virgin but ive never been in a relationship in my life. Im not ugly, I don't think so, Im 2 meters tall with dreads and a beard. Maybe im too black, who knows. Ive tried asking a few girls out, one ghosted me, one agreed to the first date but we havent dated since, ones not even consideri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I think im cooked it might be over for me. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fir29f/i_think_im_cooked_it_might_be_over_for_me/ |
AntiBullshyt | 2021-05-29 16:34:44 | 1,622,306,084 | null | null | 0 | nnr4ew | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nnr4ew/why_is_the_internet_so_shit_now/ | 0 | Why do people make the internet such a shit place? It's just pathetic. Fake, fake, fake. Fake apps trying to scam you, these pathetic scam/spam bots, these pathetic fake reviews (think Play Store), the sad spam bots that are everywhere, the sad scammers and bots on dating apps, every social media app. Everything is jus... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why is the internet so shit now? | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nnr4ew/why_is_the_internet_so_shit_now/ |
JuneBugRulez | 2020-07-16 08:23:00 | 1,594,887,780 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hs5vgw | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hs5vgw/first_date_advice/ | 1 | Hi guys, hope you're all keeping well during lockdown, So, I've got a first date tomorrow with a guy I met on Tinder. I didn't really expect anything but we got chatting and he seems nice. Being able to talk to someone who isn't looking for a quick hookup or someone who isn't capable of holding a conversation was a nic... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | First Date Advice | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hs5vgw/first_date_advice/ |
AppropriateDingo | 2020-05-03 00:02:58 | 1,588,464,178 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | gcgrst | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gcgrst/despite_putting_my_range_at_within_50_miles_on/ | 1 | I've been talking to someone recently, and I had no idea where the town was but I figured it was within the vicinity of 50 miles, because that's what I set the profile to. Unfortunately, the town is like on the other side of the state from me, which I have no fucking idea why it even gave me this person on my feed. Has... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Despite putting my range at within 50 miles on OKCupid, I matched with someone who is 115 miles away from where I live. Anyone have experience with this? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gcgrst/despite_putting_my_range_at_within_50_miles_on/ |
Artium99 | 2023-05-11 05:43:20 | 1,683,783,800 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 13ee9x3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13ee9x3/never_got_a_second_date_for_months_now/ | 1 | What am I doing wrong? I've been using these dating apps for months and I get matches here and there. But after the first date, I'll never go past the second date. They'll either ghost me or not arrange a second date with me. This has happened more than 10 times already. And also they'll refuse touching hands or kissin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Never got a second date for months now | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13ee9x3/never_got_a_second_date_for_months_now/ |
opossumlover444 | 2019-09-13 01:09:22 | 1,568,336,962 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | d3hnau | true | Question | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d3hnau/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_says_he_wants_to_take/ | 1 | (24F) met a guy (32M) from Bumble. We've had two really great, long dates. I told him I want to go slow sexually and he said he's fine with it because he likes me and is willing to wait. And then said he wanted to take things slow because he likes me, again, and said we should hang out soon and texts me to ask how my d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it a red flag if a guy says he wants to take things slow? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d3hnau/is_it_a_red_flag_if_a_guy_says_he_wants_to_take/ |
tst212 | 2021-10-30 19:41:28 | 1,635,622,888 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qj8xru | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/qj8xru/how_to_recover_and_go_out_on_dates_again/ | 32 | Broke up about 6 mo ago, pretty hurt, thought I found the one. Now I can’t go out on dates again. Can’t even force myself to log in dating apps and chat. My brain tells me I need to date, but my body just can’t make it. How do I overcome this? Oh also I recently became unemployed and it’s an understatement to say it’s ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to recover and go out on dates again? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/qj8xru/how_to_recover_and_go_out_on_dates_again/ |
_This_Side_Up_ | 2024-03-16 20:13:40 | 1,710,620,020 | 0 | ['hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1bgezt5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bgezt5/having_an_idea_of_what_you_want_for_your_life/ | 1 | Hey y’all 👋🏻 I (33 F) started dating again in November ‘23 after my marriage of 10 years ended earlier in the year. I live in a small town and so decided to dip my toes back into the dating pool online through Facebook dating and then, more recently, Hinge. I’ve met some really cool people and haven’t had many bad ex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having an idea of what you want for your life + relationship. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bgezt5/having_an_idea_of_what_you_want_for_your_life/ |
ittybittyme4u85 | 2022-07-17 12:22:06 | 1,658,060,526 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | w16858 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w16858/what_dating_apps_need/ | 0 | So I have been out of the dating game for over 16 years. Well actually I think the only real date I've ever been on was when I was 15, so sad. Anyway... I am about to finally be divorced and have been checking out dating apps. This is because all I do is go to work and go home. My "marriage" kept me from keeping and ma... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What dating apps need. | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w16858/what_dating_apps_need/ |
InexperiencedQ | 2022-05-14 18:57:45 | 1,652,554,665 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | upnuyu | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/upnuyu/please_rate_my_m_okcupid_bio_attempt_2/ | 0 | Thanks everyone for your input on my at an OkCupid profile. Below is my version 2.0. Looking forward to your feedback again. Thanks! (Occupation and such are in dedicated fields.) Main bio: A diehard optimist, INTJ, transhumanist. I enjoy running in the park, walks on the beach, and watching anime. Prefer fun dates lik... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please rate my (M) OkCupid bio, attempt 2 | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/upnuyu/please_rate_my_m_okcupid_bio_attempt_2/ |
summizzles | 2024-06-13 21:15:56 | 1,718,313,356 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1df9ypz | true | null | 104 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1df9ypz/why_do_so_many_guys_on_dating_apps_ask_if_you/ | 1 | I really don't understand this and would love some insight. I've been seeing this more and more. It seems like after a few messages sometimes even within the first couple minutes of chatting with a guy, he'll be like, "you seem cool, do you want to go to x place or meet up sometime?" Maybe this is just me, but I don't ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why do so many guys on dating apps ask if you want to meet up in person after only a couple of messages? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1df9ypz/why_do_so_many_guys_on_dating_apps_ask_if_you/ |
Striking_Ship3548 | 2024-09-10 12:42:33 | 1,725,972,153 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'dating sites', 'bumble', 'match.com'] | 0 | 1fdgwvt | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fdgwvt/dating_app_monopoly_problem_by_matchcom/ | 1 | A lack of competition is never good for consumers. I hate how match.com owns all the dating sites. If you're banned from one, you're banned from all the other 11 apps/sites they own. And they own all the major ones except Bumble, Ashley Madison and Fetlife and a few new ones that aren't traditional dating apps like PNK... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating App Monopoly problem by Match.com | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fdgwvt/dating_app_monopoly_problem_by_matchcom/ |
ToyStory123 | 2017-11-20 22:43:13 | 1,511,217,793 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7ecwb9 | false | null | 21 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/7ecwb9/what_do_you_make_of_a_girl_who_always_responds_to/ | 9 | I matched with a really cute girl on a dating app last week who I've been messaging since. I actually asked her out a few days after we matched and she said she would love to, but after Thanksgiving. So I've been actively trying to fill in the time by messaging her (i'll initiate a conversation every other day). She al... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you make of a girl who ALWAYS responds to texts but NEVER asks questions? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7ecwb9/what_do_you_make_of_a_girl_who_always_responds_to/ |
peterpoyas825 | 2023-07-24 00:14:32 | 1,690,157,672 | 0 | null | 0 | 157uthn | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/157uthn/m31_for_less_than_3_dates_do_you_prefer_to_get/ | 1 | I have recently had a couple experiences of going out with someone where the chemistry wasn't immediately there. I tend to find, at least for myself, that online dating has a weird energy and aim to go on dates with people 3 times before I decide anything. But, for some people 3 times is too many which I totally unders... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | (M31) For less than 3 dates, do you prefer to get ghosted or a delayed text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/157uthn/m31_for_less_than_3_dates_do_you_prefer_to_get/ |
FakeUOut22 | 2022-12-16 08:10:12 | 1,671,178,212 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | zn9lg7 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zn9lg7/i_22m_was_just_dropped_by_the_woman_i_was_talking/ | 0 | We matched 3 months ago and hit it off, got her number and snap and started talking there, she always had an excuse whenever I tried to ask her out on a date but she also told me multiple times she really liked me. We continued to talk everyday but about 2 weeks ago her responses started getting slower and dryer, I ask... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22M) was just dropped by the woman I was talking to for 3 months. | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zn9lg7/i_22m_was_just_dropped_by_the_woman_i_was_talking/ |
InvestigatorMean3935 | 2023-12-11 01:25:17 | 1,702,257,917 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18fiusv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18fiusv/post_grad_anxiety_22m/ | 1 | Finishing my last semester of undergrad and although I feel a great sense of accomplishment, there is also an underlying sense of anxiety. Biggest worry is around relationships. I feel as though it will be significantly harder to meet potential partners without the spontaneity of meeting people on campus, through schoo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Post Grad Anxiety (22M) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fiusv/post_grad_anxiety_22m/ |
ajr2319 | 2019-04-08 22:51:29 | 1,554,763,889 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | bb0c6u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bb0c6u/is_something_wrong_with_me/ | 0 | Matched with someone and we got to know each other. Added each other on Facebook and Snapchat. then eventually exchanged numbers. Said that I enjoyed the conversation and asked if they wanted to meet for coffee, but she suggested lunch. Arranged a date and time, and I expected to talk briefly until the time arrived. Bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is something wrong with me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bb0c6u/is_something_wrong_with_me/ |
pedrojdm2021 | 2023-03-23 05:07:58 | 1,679,548,078 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'badoo'] | 0 | 11z9ms4 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11z9ms4/please_dont_be_like_me_bad_online_dating/ | 0 | I'll try to explain everything as i can.. I 28M was trying to date a 23F girl from Badoo (tinder-like app) All this happened from the last 2 weeks: we started talking on the app, she was replying and everything seemed alright, i asked her to going out, she directly sent me her phone number and asked me if i could go ev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please don't be like me.... (bad online dating experience + bad impression to my ex-crush) | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11z9ms4/please_dont_be_like_me_bad_online_dating/ |
throaway1233qq3 | 2021-07-03 21:56:56 | 1,625,349,416 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | od795q | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/od795q/overthinking/ | 2 | So ive been dating this girl for the past 2 months. We met on bumble early march, talked for a few weeks and then went out on a date for breakfast. From then we’ve been going out at least once a week talking everyday through text. Our texting has slowed down a bit and that was expected since the beginning of the relati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Overthinking? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/od795q/overthinking/ |
Throwawaydecade31 | 2019-11-26 04:16:37 | 1,574,741,797 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | e1sl7k | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/e1sl7k/i_dont_know_why_am_i_still_single/ | 1 | How is it that everyone close to me is in a relationship, yet I (32M) am not and have never been? Sure, I have my shortcomings and personal issues that I am working on, the same as everyone else (as I am told). But people close to me who have found someone have either the same issues or even worse problems to deal with... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I don't know, why am I still single? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e1sl7k/i_dont_know_why_am_i_still_single/ |
msh008 | 2024-02-11 20:49:05 | 1,707,684,545 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1aoi4dq | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aoi4dq/how_to_go_from_kissing_to_sex/ | 11 | So I (21M) met this girl (21F) on tinder and we have been on 4 dates, two of them at her place where we have watched a movie and then started making out. But how does one go from kissing to sex when you are both on a couch? Can I get some specifics, I dont want to just ask? I dont know what to do. Thanks | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to go from kissing to sex? | 9 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aoi4dq/how_to_go_from_kissing_to_sex/ |
zenlikerafiki | 2023-01-06 06:33:32 | 1,672,986,812 | null | null | 0 | 104n23h | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/104n23h/is_online_dating_even_okay_for_our_mental_health/ | 11 | So I met a guy I liked who turned out to not be who he said he was. I took about a month off dating because I was going through some lows, but now I started swiping again and I’m going through highs. Makes me question if its better to feel the highs from chatting ( potentially meet up) or if I should continue to feel t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is online dating even okay for our mental health?😅 | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/104n23h/is_online_dating_even_okay_for_our_mental_health/ |
kjmas | 2015-01-21 19:03:38 | 1,421,867,018 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2t76vj | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2t76vj/survey_is_tinder_still_relevant_and_popular/ | 7 | Hi guys and gals, I'm doing some research for a course in regards to Social, Psychology, and Dating. I was wondering if you could help me out by taking a quick survey about Tinder? Thanks in advance! :D | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Survey: Is Tinder still relevant and popular? | 7 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2t76vj/survey_is_tinder_still_relevant_and_popular/ |
Sweetpeachlime | 2023-03-02 14:05:49 | 1,677,765,949 | null | null | 0 | 11g3m3x | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11g3m3x/so_i_may_have_messed_up/ | 2 | So I talk with this guy we met on Facebook dating. I 23F reverse image search him and he is real and willing to send photos and move platforms to make it easier for hin to get notifications. He is very kind, talks à lot with me and always compliments my photos. He even ask for more without getting too sexy which I appr... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | So I may have messed up | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11g3m3x/so_i_may_have_messed_up/ |
The_Catlike_Odin | 2023-09-06 20:23:52 | 1,694,031,832 | 0 | null | 0 | 16bux6h | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16bux6h/tinder_spotify_anthem_question/ | 1 | So one of my favorite's is heart of courage - TSFH. Would this be a bad or good thing to show on profile, on the part where it asks your spotify anthem? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder "spotify anthem" question | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16bux6h/tinder_spotify_anthem_question/ |
Josharoonie2004v2 | 2022-05-03 20:20:29 | 1,651,609,229 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | uhozq6 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uhozq6/need_advice_for_dating_apps/ | 1 | I am 18(in 5 days)M and I was homeschooled, quite sheltered and im a Christian. I am going to be doing a job where I'm alone most of the time and I will not be going to college for a while. So I will not have a chance to talk to people or make friends for a while. So, I was wondering if dating apps are a good way to me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice for dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uhozq6/need_advice_for_dating_apps/ |
Just-Educator982 | 2023-10-10 01:34:20 | 1,696,901,660 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17494kw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17494kw/shoud_just_i_let_the_things_shedid_slide/ | 1 | So basically, we act like we're boyfriend and girlfriend even though we still ain't, but what do ya'll think when she said she would reply to the messages you sent but didn't. (happened alot of times, like alot) and would brush it off and says "shes too lazy for a backread" but for the most part we're ok and our energy... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shoud just I let the things Shedid slide? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17494kw/shoud_just_i_let_the_things_shedid_slide/ |
CuriousRedditor98 | 2023-12-19 21:42:45 | 1,703,022,165 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18mde92 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18mde92/dating_app_etiquettequestion_help/ | 1 | So… I’m a dude, and I’m bi/curious. Only ever dated girls, but I want to try dating guys and see if I like it. I’m not out to my friends/family and will only choose to if I’m serious with someone (lot of risk with my family). That said, is it wrong to put preference as both male/female if I’m not out yet and haven’t ex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App Etiquette/question… help :) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18mde92/dating_app_etiquettequestion_help/ |
throwaway23452368 | 2024-07-30 18:17:48 | 1,722,363,468 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1eg0igg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eg0igg/am_i_being_gas_lit_or_was_i_always_a_backup_for/ | 1 | I'll try to keep it short. I \[25M\] matched with \[26F\] from another country about a month ago. She's insanely attractive and it turns out she's a former model. I'm an average looking guy. She was never a very good texter, and I'd say I put 80% of the effort into conversations. However, she works three jobs daily, so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being gas lit or was I always a backup for her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eg0igg/am_i_being_gas_lit_or_was_i_always_a_backup_for/ |
Hope1995x | 2023-03-24 04:08:57 | 1,679,630,937 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1208lmo | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1208lmo/red_flag_i_just_talked_to_this_girl_but_she_has_a/ | 1 | She was the one to bust the first move. She called me on Facebook dating with audio call. She has this very thick southern accent and she has a beautiful baby girl. I don't mind dating someone who has kids, but I just realized this kid is 6 months old. I dont want a baby daddy trying to fight me, but I also don't want ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [Red Flag?] I just talked to this girl, but she has a kid. Six months old... | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1208lmo/red_flag_i_just_talked_to_this_girl_but_she_has_a/ |
Curious_Kane | 2023-04-05 21:27:39 | 1,680,730,059 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12cyjp0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12cyjp0/29m_been_dating_this_girl_30f_for_2_weeks_two/ | 1 | Long story short I have been talking to this girl I met on a dating app for a little over a month and have been on two dates with her, will most likely go on a 3rd, we talk everyday. She recently just expressed she wasn’t feeling well because shes on her period so I had the idea to offer to have food delivered to her h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (29m) been dating this girl (30f) for 2 weeks (two dates total), speaking for more than a month - she told me she is on her period so I had this idea to make her feel better - is it to soon? | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12cyjp0/29m_been_dating_this_girl_30f_for_2_weeks_two/ |
Gerhern | 2014-08-14 03:08:31 | 1,407,985,711 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2di4nb | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2di4nb/ive_been_talking_to_a_lady_through_tinder_when_do/ | 1 | I'm pretty new to online dating and dating in general. When is it appropriate to ask to meet someone in person? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I've been talking to a lady through Tinder. When do I ask to meet in person? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2di4nb/ive_been_talking_to_a_lady_through_tinder_when_do/ |
NeitherTea2903 | 2024-06-24 13:34:02 | 1,719,236,042 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dndm4f | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dndm4f/boyfriend_doesnt_want_me_to_move_in_yet/ | 1 | My boyfriend (30) and I (27) have been together for almost 2 years. We get on really well and love each other a lot. Our relationship has been great and I'd say we're able to communicate with each other and have hard conversations when needed (albeit not all the time). Throughout our relationship, I've felt like I've b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Boyfriend doesnt want me to move in yet | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dndm4f/boyfriend_doesnt_want_me_to_move_in_yet/ |
KinfolkNotes | 2024-04-29 17:53:55 | 1,714,413,235 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cg5kx2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cg5kx2/nbsb_and_never_felst_so_alone/ | 1 | I'm a 32 y.o. woman who has never had a boyfriend EVER. I've gone on a double date once but I don't really count it as a date because the guy barely talked. I haven't done anything sexual with any guys except kissing one guy friend at a club. I'd like to think I'm not bad-looking, a few guys have expressed interest in ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | NBSB and never felst so alone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cg5kx2/nbsb_and_never_felst_so_alone/ |
letstalkaboutchex | 2021-05-18 00:06:22 | 1,621,296,382 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | nevxp2 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/nevxp2/matched_with_a_guy_long_distance_and_hes_getting/ | 9 | Matched a month or so ago, but he was only in town visiting. He lives in NYC, I'm west coast, and I don't have any plans to visit out there any time soon though I have the option to move that way next year for work. Anyways, he seems really smitten by me. Sending me good morning and good night texts, videos, calling. H... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Matched with a guy long distance and he's getting too attached without having met me | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nevxp2/matched_with_a_guy_long_distance_and_hes_getting/ |
SampleAltruistic5790 | 2021-12-31 02:39:11 | 1,640,918,351 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rsjanj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rsjanj/social_anxiety_ruining_my_dates/ | 1 | I’d been talking to a woman I met on a dating app for the past week and a half. We’d gotten on really well, we’re both looking for the same thing, and we had a deep conversation. When I met her on our first date, she told me that she could tell I was really nervous. I asked her for a second date and she said she would ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Social anxiety ruining my dates | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rsjanj/social_anxiety_ruining_my_dates/ |
RJBela | 2023-10-02 11:23:56 | 1,696,245,836 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16xu1w6 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16xu1w6/was_it_sa_and_how_to_deal_with_it/ | 1 | So I [20F] met a guy, let’s call him R, on bumble [24M] but once he started talking I found out I just really really didn’t like him. There was nothing there, he was coming off as too strong and I didn’t want to go along with anything. I am also just getting over a fling situation I had where I got really emotionally a... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Was it SA? And how to deal with it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16xu1w6/was_it_sa_and_how_to_deal_with_it/ |
No_Village_4635 | 2022-07-12 21:57:02 | 1,657,663,022 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | vxmsw1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vxmsw1/i_29m_really_like_her28f_but_i_feel_like_im/ | 1 | So a little bit of backstory is I found this girl on a dating app who I found incredibly attractive and based on her profile I assumed we'd have a lot in common. I messaged her but her inactivity on the app led to a brief convo over the span of several months. I had asked for her number as we talked about going out. Sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (29M) really like her(28F) but I feel like I'm chasing someone not interested | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vxmsw1/i_29m_really_like_her28f_but_i_feel_like_im/ |
dev-jjjjj | 2024-07-25 13:30:15 | 1,721,914,215 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ebuxgf | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ebuxgf/for_men_how_do_you_find_girls_younger_than_you/ | 0 | I'm m24 and all the women i know are either getting married or want to get married in a year (at age of 25). I don't like dating apps for multiple reasons, how do i find someone atleast 2 years younger than me? I've been to clubs, women there are either too old or too young. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | For men: how do you find girls younger than you? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ebuxgf/for_men_how_do_you_find_girls_younger_than_you/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-13 00:41:00 | 1,402,620,060 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 280g7t | null | null | 19 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/280g7t/how_can_i_date_through_tinder_without_initially/ | 0 | My friends convinced me to use the app because apparently they've heard of girls who've ended up in long term relationships with guys they've met through the app. However, I haven't done anything besides kiss a guy so I'm pretty nervous about meeting up with any of the guys who message me on the app. If a guy asks me o... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How can I date through tinder without initially hooking up? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/280g7t/how_can_i_date_through_tinder_without_initially/ |
Common-Extension2466 | 2024-06-21 18:29:39 | 1,718,994,579 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dlb0xf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dlb0xf/m20_never_dated/ | 1 | So title says it, through my teens never really had contact with girls, didnt really do anything outside of school where i couldve met girls either, i mostly played games and went out with friends (not partying), I never used instagram for "social stuff", just blank account for sending shit, so no interactions there ei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M20 never dated | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dlb0xf/m20_never_dated/ |
Curious_Cat_9182 | 2024-01-10 03:16:25 | 1,704,856,585 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 192y5yg | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/192y5yg/honest_thoughts_on_the_cost_of_dating/ | 2 | I'm a reporter working on a story about The Economics of Dating and looking for someone to interview about their dating experience. How much do you spend on a first date? Is inflation changing the way you date? I'd love to hear your take If you're someone who typically pays for your date and is a regular on dating apps... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Honest thoughts on the cost of dating? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/192y5yg/honest_thoughts_on_the_cost_of_dating/ |
Punishmenthascome | 2022-08-26 01:21:34 | 1,661,476,894 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wxvhzl | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wxvhzl/good_dating_apps_for_men/ | 3 | I'm talking about apps that aren't paywall or some other dumb stuff that says someone liked you but you need to pay to know Much thanks in advance | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good dating apps for men? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wxvhzl/good_dating_apps_for_men/ |
No_Philosopher_9826 | 2023-11-19 20:21:28 | 1,700,425,288 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17z5y3t | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17z5y3t/feeling_conflicted_ashamed_of_myself/ | 4 | I’m a woman in my late twenties. I have had very few relationships or sexual experiences in my life. A couple weeks ago, I met a guy (early thirties) on a dating app. We had coffee together and talked for hours. The next week, I went over to his house and we ended up giving each other oral, which was a great experience... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling conflicted (ashamed of myself?) | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17z5y3t/feeling_conflicted_ashamed_of_myself/ |
greyfox7 | 2014-01-14 02:32:59 | 1,389,666,779 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1v5qw1 | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1v5qw1/picking_up_a_lady_for_the_second_date_is_it/ | 0 | I went on a date with this girl I met through a dating app last week and it went pretty well. Good conversation, some laughs, and (I think) a pretty successful date overall....which is a rarity for me. Well, I am supposed to see her again tomorrow and this time I am picking her up at her place instead of meeting her at... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Picking up a lady for the second date, is it appropriate to bring flowers? (24/M) | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1v5qw1/picking_up_a_lady_for_the_second_date_is_it/ |
AshiyanaSY | 2021-01-26 03:21:05 | 1,611,631,265 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | l54zqr | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/l54zqr/dating_strategy/ | 11 | Hi all- i am hoping for some insights. Does anyone else feel like they sort of lose the thread on OLD? I typically have a reasonable amount (not tons) of new matches every few days )41F from NYC, never married, no kids). I determine which ones I feel would be a genuinely good fit, accept them and write or connect. Ever... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating Strategy | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/l54zqr/dating_strategy/ |
romankid19977 | 2024-08-05 22:26:43 | 1,722,896,803 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1el15dv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1el15dv/idk_if_i_should_contact_him_or_not_please_need/ | 1 | I met this guy on bumble, he asked me to meet him for drinks about three weeks ago. He was really nice and very confident. I had a good time with him. He kissed me and then dropped me home and told me to text him. I texted him the next day and he said he wants to see me again. We texted throughout the week. I met with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Idk if I should contact him or not , please need some advice. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1el15dv/idk_if_i_should_contact_him_or_not_please_need/ |
Puzzleheaded_Farm356 | 2024-05-04 08:02:10 | 1,714,809,730 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cjv6jc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cjv6jc/help_in_conversations/ | 3 | Hello, The questions I'm going to ask may seem stupid to some, but I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 29, and I have a lot of social problems getting to know people, or rather I'm generally a very quiet person who hardly talks, simply because I can never think of anything to talk about. And that's where my problem and... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help in conversations | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cjv6jc/help_in_conversations/ |
pasin78 | 2024-02-03 19:02:21 | 1,706,986,941 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ai3fdq | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ai3fdq/confused_help/ | 1 | I need advice. So I have a male colleague that makes intense eye contact with me almost everyday at lunchtime. We’ve exchanged pleasantries once or twice but nothing more. THEN, when I went on a dating app earlier he was on there (it’s a mutual feed app so I show up on his too). It’s been months and neither one of us h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Confused 😐 Help! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ai3fdq/confused_help/ |
0xF013 | 2012-11-12 07:43:10 | 1,352,706,190 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 131yin | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/131yin/dating_in_germany_as_a_foreigner/ | 4 | I am a 23 yo male foreign student in Germany (master program). Just broke up with my girlfriend and I have no idea how to start dating here. I am originally Russian and I only speak Russian, English (good level, I guess. Worked as a server in US) and Romanian (no German, I hope it's a "yet"). It wasn't easy making aqua... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating in Germany as a foreigner | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/131yin/dating_in_germany_as_a_foreigner/ |
blindfolds | 2016-06-30 06:45:26 | 1,467,269,126 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4qkbfa | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4qkbfa/24m_21f_is_this_disrespectful/ | 3 | Met a girl on tinder back in January. We dated until March when she ended it as it was purely sexual. I was fine with that. In April, she then wanted to meet up "for one drink" which turned into her coming over and having sex. We started dating again. For 6 weeks in May/June, I went traveling and we stayed in touch. Ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24M, 21F - Is this dis-respectful? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4qkbfa/24m_21f_is_this_disrespectful/ |
theearthlaughs | 2024-01-24 05:38:33 | 1,706,074,713 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 19e9u6o | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19e9u6o/need_some_dating_advice/ | 2 | I'm new to dating men (32F) After dating women my entire 20s I found myself at 30 and what truly I want in life. Now at 32 I have questions. I don't think I have a problem with being on dating apps been on bumble one and off for about a year. I mentioned to a male friend that conversations with my matches don't usually... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some dating advice | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19e9u6o/need_some_dating_advice/ |
psychgirl88 | 2012-01-15 19:32:23 | 1,326,655,943 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | oi8xz | null | null | 21 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/oi8xz/how_to_meet_people/ | 8 | So I'm ready to start dating again. I'm on okcupid and doing the word of mouth thing. How else can I meet people to date? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet people | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oi8xz/how_to_meet_people/ |
MissBasicallySoft | 2024-09-16 22:20:52 | 1,726,525,252 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fihv1h | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fihv1h/struggling_to_make_conversation_in_the_dating/ | 1 | I've never been that good at dating really, I'm quite shy and get a lot of anxiety around the whole concept and talking to people so you can imagine this makes dating people really difficult. I've been talking to this girl on Tinder, we've moved over to snapchat and met twice now which was alright, I felt it was ok and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Struggling to make conversation in the dating / talking period | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fihv1h/struggling_to_make_conversation_in_the_dating/ |
Gatorboy941 | 2020-09-30 18:50:50 | 1,601,491,850 | null | null | 0 | j2s6vw | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j2s6vw/do_you_have_to_have_a_social_media_to_get_into/ | 3 | 25m I am recently out of a 7 year relationship. Don’t love taking pictures of my self and don’t like social media. I have a burner Instagram account to mess around in when I’m bored but no pictures. Do I really have to make one? I am very active and decent looking just don’t like pictures, never have. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do you have to have a social media to get into online dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j2s6vw/do_you_have_to_have_a_social_media_to_get_into/ |
w0nd3rwh0o | 2023-05-08 07:24:30 | 1,683,530,670 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 13bhc87 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13bhc87/what_should_i_do_lol/ | 0 | I live in Asia (28F) and I connected with a guy (28M) in the UK via Bumble around 6 months ago. We started off quite quickly with him confessing he really liked me and was determined in looking for a relationship (regardless of it being long-distance, which I have been in a few before) as he was already going to fly to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do lol | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13bhc87/what_should_i_do_lol/ |
RepresentativeShow68 | 2024-03-22 10:48:56 | 1,711,104,536 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bkwckw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bkwckw/general_dating_advice_for_a_20_yr_old_male/ | 1 | Alright, so I’ve tried the dating apps and I don’t know if I take bad photos or what(maybe I’m just not attractive) but I don’t get any likes or if I do it’s one every now and then. I’m starting to lose hope and I’ll like some advice for meeting people in person or approaching women. I’m a larger dude but since I’m 6’3... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | General dating advice for a 20 yr old male | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bkwckw/general_dating_advice_for_a_20_yr_old_male/ |
tr1stxn7 | 2023-03-25 15:41:57 | 1,679,758,917 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 121pr43 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/121pr43/how_does_this_message_sound_so_the_girl_im/ | 1 | So a bit of background, I’m looking for something long term, so I feel like this message will kind of show my intention, but I wouldn’t mind short term or just hooking up, either way I don’t like playing games with people but I’ve had bad experiences with girls in the past so I don’t know if I want to send her this. I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does this message sound so the girl i’m texting doesn’t feel like i’m not interested by leaving her on read | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/121pr43/how_does_this_message_sound_so_the_girl_im/ |
LoadNo3335 | 2023-09-03 22:43:08 | 1,693,780,988 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 169aqzj | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/169aqzj/why_am_i_only_seeming_to_attract_one_race_of_men/ | 1 | On hinge, when I go through the people who like me, majority of the time I only see Hispanic/Latino men I’d probably say about 85-90% of the men that like me come from that demographic. I don’t mind any race of men, but I’m really curious why there’s such a majority of one race. I live in an area that is pretty diverse... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why am I only seeming to attract one race of men? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/169aqzj/why_am_i_only_seeming_to_attract_one_race_of_men/ |
True_Confesser | 2023-02-21 16:59:23 | 1,676,998,763 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1189xaq | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1189xaq/i_need_help_with_my_profile_for_old/ | 7 | Ok, I'm a big woman. And when I say big I mean big. I put BBW in my profile but it seems like people either never read that or they don't know what it means. Would it be helpful to put my stats in? Like I'm 5'0" and 280 lbs. I while I look big, I do not actually look 280 lbs. Like the doctors office when they weigh me ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | I need help with my profile for OLD | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1189xaq/i_need_help_with_my_profile_for_old/ |
R3D_Brain | 2021-06-26 19:52:21 | 1,624,737,141 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | o8hscq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o8hscq/messaging_problem_need_advice/ | 1 | I have some type of success when it comes to online dating as I get a few matches here and there as well as some conversations that lead to exchanging numbers. The problem I face is that after exchaning numbers I tend to chat with my matches for a very long time and overshare too many things. I usually talk with them f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Messaging Problem - Need Advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o8hscq/messaging_problem_need_advice/ |
girlwhoeatscake | 2019-04-09 14:57:04 | 1,554,821,824 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | bb8wyj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bb8wyj/fake_it_til_you_make_it/ | 17 | I’m not even sure if this is the correct subreddit, but I need to share that I’m no longer feeling lost. TL;DR at bottom. Last June my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, my boyfriend at the time pulled away, and I hit my rock bottom. I was counting pills to see if I could die. I wasn’t going to work, I’d crawl... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Fake it til you make it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/bb8wyj/fake_it_til_you_make_it/ |
slut4cheesecakeee | 2023-01-01 03:40:54 | 1,672,544,454 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 100b1tz | true | null | 277 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/100b1tz/i_27f_met_a_guy_33m_on_tinder_a_few_weeks_ago_and/ | 452 | title says it all, basically. we met on tinder and talked for a few weeks and I went to his house a few days ago and I had a great time and then we started fooling around and he quickly put it inside me without a condom (without my consent) and then I asked for him to put protection on and he did and the like two hours... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [27F] met a guy [33M] on tinder a few weeks ago, and we met a few days ago and when we hooked up he failed to mention he had herpes. What do I do? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/100b1tz/i_27f_met_a_guy_33m_on_tinder_a_few_weeks_ago_and/ |
dhmmm | 2018-11-17 23:51:41 | 1,542,498,701 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 9y1alh | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9y1alh/dating_apps_talkin_bout_cuddling/ | 11 | I'm a 27-year-old straight cis lady living in a big city and using Hinge. I have had a few guys occasionally make comments about cuddling in conversations over the years and on various dating apps, and it just happened again with a new guy I've been chatting with. Personally, I wouldn't ever bring that up unless I'd me... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps - talkin' 'bout cuddling | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9y1alh/dating_apps_talkin_bout_cuddling/ |
WhatsWith2sAndApples | 2019-05-02 00:50:54 | 1,556,758,254 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | bjouxl | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjouxl/i_have_to_make_her_laugh_first/ | 6 | Any recommendations for how to make someone laugh through text? I matched with her on Hinge but before meeting, she said I have to make her laugh first (I'm definitely going to make her return the favor). Normally, pre-date demands is a mild red flag for me but I have nothing better to do so why not why not play alon... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I have to make her laugh first | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bjouxl/i_have_to_make_her_laugh_first/ |
Unique-Ingenuity399 | 2023-11-28 21:34:24 | 1,701,207,264 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 1867fqp | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1867fqp/e_harmony_scam/ | 5 | Warning: Stay away from eharmony. They charge you for a full year in monthly charges even when you unsubscribe. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | E harmony scam | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1867fqp/e_harmony_scam/ |
Few-Flamingo-3326 | 2024-03-11 15:25:40 | 1,710,170,740 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bc5seh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bc5seh/was_i_being_lead_on_17m_17f/ | 1 | Let me give some background info,neither me or her have dated before,she’s liked other guys before and vice versa but it never got far. It all began when I met her through a mutual friend at the movies in the beginning of summer(June)I threw away her tub of popcorn and she was completely amazed by that because she saw ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was I being lead on? (17m) (17f) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bc5seh/was_i_being_lead_on_17m_17f/ |
poopoosquidward | 2022-01-14 21:19:41 | 1,642,195,181 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | s42wr0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s42wr0/this_guy_says_he_likes_me_but_disappears_for_days/ | 1 | so this guy (20) and i (18) have been friends since middle school. he visited in september and we had fun. we went on one date. however, he recently got out of a two-year relationship and was cheated on (?). he disappeared for almost two weeks at one point because of his mental health but i saw on his spotify a playlis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | this guy says he likes me but disappears for days | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s42wr0/this_guy_says_he_likes_me_but_disappears_for_days/ |
Midice | 2024-09-11 03:30:15 | 1,726,025,415 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fe0qqb | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fe0qqb/need_help_talking_to_women/ | 1 | Hi everyone, this is my first time posting about this kind of thing as I'm not really open to talking about my internal problems but I need to nip this in the bud before it's too late. So, I'm 31m and never in my life have had any kind of relationship or had sex with women. I have a good job, a homeowner and feel like ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help talking to women | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fe0qqb/need_help_talking_to_women/ |
AnomicAge | 2024-06-06 06:10:56 | 1,717,654,256 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d9bet6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d9bet6/what_the_hell_happened_to_online_dating/ | 1 | For what it's worth (a lot) I'm 29, 6'5, conventionally handsome, muscular. My photos showcase me engaging in a range of hobbies and travelling and hanging out with my dog. My bio is wholesome and my prompts are amusing blah blah blah I NEVER send effortless dogshit messages like 'hey wyd' and I NEVER send anything sex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What the hell happened to online dating? | 1 | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d9bet6/what_the_hell_happened_to_online_dating/ |
Informal-Cucumber130 | 2024-02-16 16:30:41 | 1,708,101,041 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1ascu9q | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ascu9q/profile_flags/ | 1 | Just a curious question for those who use Reddit or I suppose any dating sites that have profiles to find relationships. When it comes looking at a potential matches profile, what flags stick out to you? Whether they be green or red? Like for me for example, a red flag would be a very new profile with nothing on it. A ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Profile Flags | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ascu9q/profile_flags/ |
BikeRqck | 2022-08-09 22:53:12 | 1,660,085,592 | null | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | wkh7ot | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wkh7ot/i_asked_him_what_he_wants_between_us_and_he_said/ | 9 | Both 21. Ever since we started talking (4 months ago) he said he doesn’t know, even at that time I didn’t know either. But now I’m starting to like him so I told him and he said we need to talk more. Then 2 weeks later I asked him what he wants and he said “tbh idk. I have to get to know you more also I’m really busy” ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I asked him what he wants between us and he said he doesn’t know. Should I move on? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wkh7ot/i_asked_him_what_he_wants_between_us_and_he_said/ |
throw8024 | 2013-08-30 19:03:03 | 1,377,889,383 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1lf0u3 | null | null | 14 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1lf0u3/i_35m_met_a_girl_through_a_dating_site_she_said/ | 35 | We first made contact about two weeks ago, turns out we both are going to the same college. Her ad mentioned that she had a physical disability and needed a chair to get around. This didn't bother me. Our conversations via text were "ok," but I figured it was just hard to gauge her personality thru text. We agreed to h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (35m) met a girl through a dating site. She said she was disabled but... | 35 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1lf0u3/i_35m_met_a_girl_through_a_dating_site_she_said/ |
Far-Independence-251 | 2021-12-19 18:41:32 | 1,639,939,292 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | rk2tql | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rk2tql/getting_ghosted_past_1st_date/ | 7 | I’m (26M) noticing a pattern lately in dating. I start talking to a girl (generally on online dating apps or Instagram) and we agree to meet. We have our first date and it goes really well. We spend so much time talking, walking and laughing. The girl says she’s clearly satisfied of how the date went and would like to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | getting ghosted past 1st date | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rk2tql/getting_ghosted_past_1st_date/ |
Educational_Sand3524 | 2024-01-02 06:35:45 | 1,704,177,345 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18wiu7l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18wiu7l/how_do_i_find_someone_who_genuinely_is_looking_to/ | 1 | I (F20) am a second year college student having horrible luck with dating. This is an issue common with all of my friends and I think pretty universal among people my age regardless of what school they go to. I dated guys in high school and was planning on doing the same in college, but it has been impossible to find a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I find someone who genuinely is looking to date in college | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18wiu7l/how_do_i_find_someone_who_genuinely_is_looking_to/ |
[deleted] | 2019-09-26 19:39:52 | 1,569,526,792 | null | null | 0 | d9onwm | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/d9onwm/what_to_do_in_this_online_dating_situation_feel_i/ | 9 | Swiped right in the guy I am dating tinder profile. Met a guy 8 weeks ago. Met after the first week of constant texts. Hit it off and been seeing each other 1/2 times a week. He is busy with work, starting his own business and 50% childcare. I am also busy with hobbies and work, but no kids. My time is more flexible. D... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What to do in this online dating situation. feel I am an idiot. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/d9onwm/what_to_do_in_this_online_dating_situation_feel_i/ |
Antboi420 | 2020-03-22 21:30:27 | 1,584,912,627 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fn7n27 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fn7n27/i_got_two_girls_that_like_me_and_idk_what_to_do/ | 1 | Ok so basically I meet two girls off tinder, first one lives up North England and I've known for a month and talk like everyday but the promblem is I live in London and of course that's far and left me wanting, we sent eachother private photos but after awhile I wanted more now keep in mind we were just friends with be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got two girls that like me and idk what to do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fn7n27/i_got_two_girls_that_like_me_and_idk_what_to_do/ |
Eliza03 | 2020-07-12 00:05:30 | 1,594,512,330 | null | null | 0 | hpkq30 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hpkq30/guys_i_just_started_chatting_with_asks_the_last/ | 1 | I just started chatting with a guy a couple days ago on FB dating. He asked what I was looking for, when my last relationship was and last time I had sex. I hesitated to answer the last question, but figured I’d be honest. I told him my best friend of nearly 10 years is also my housemate. We’ve never dated and never be... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys I just started chatting with asks the last time I had sex and can’t handle the truth when I’m honest with him! | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hpkq30/guys_i_just_started_chatting_with_asks_the_last/ |
AskThatToThem | 2024-08-12 09:29:27 | 1,723,454,967 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1eq99ib | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eq99ib/i_want_to_ask_someone_out_help/ | 1 | Hi! I added someone on a social media recently (through a common hobby). I would like to ask for a coffee or something but I have no idea how to do it in a simple way. I was thinking to try something "This is maybe off topic but would you like to go for a coffee?" Context: We never met irl and just talked about aforeme... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want to ask someone out... Help? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eq99ib/i_want_to_ask_someone_out_help/ |
Round_Calligrapher32 | 2024-09-10 20:50:58 | 1,726,001,458 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1fdsjyq | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fdsjyq/anyone_who_met_their_significant_other_online/ | 2 | I keep hearing stories that started out with someone commenting on their Tiktok, or hanging out on their Twitch stream. And I do wonder, how does a romance develop in such an environment? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone who met their significant other online (excluding dating sites) what's your story and why do you think it worked? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fdsjyq/anyone_who_met_their_significant_other_online/ |
Lostwords13 | 2021-07-22 18:52:11 | 1,626,979,931 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | opkeg7 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/opkeg7/not_attracted_to_people_around_me/ | 0 | I (27f) was born and raised in one of the larger cities in my state (US). Lived here my whole life, and only left for a few years for college. As a kid, I was bullied really badly which had killed my confidence, especially when it comes to dating. Boys used to dare each other to ask me out due to my appearance and "wei... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not attracted to people around me? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/opkeg7/not_attracted_to_people_around_me/ |
DisGuyOberHere | 2016-10-20 02:16:30 | 1,476,929,790 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 58eefd | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/58eefd/i_dont_know_how_i_feel/ | 1 | Hi Reddit So I went out with a girl I met online. She's great Conversation was good and we both had a great time. There aren't any red flags, but I just don't know how I feel. I'm a guy in his mid 20s who has never really dated before. So this is all really new to me. I feel like I really care about moving forward with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know how I feel... | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/58eefd/i_dont_know_how_i_feel/ |
FaysOne | 2022-12-21 05:25:45 | 1,671,600,345 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | zrbcwn | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zrbcwn/my_2022_in_review/ | 8 | Barring one speed dating event that keeps chasing me from the ad spaces of Facebook, I'm ready to call it a year of dating and self-reflect on my journey to my next relationship. I'm a guy...29 7/12 years young by the way. The first six months were kinda meh. The few opportunities I had to date were mostly a continuati... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My 2022 in review | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zrbcwn/my_2022_in_review/ |
[deleted] | 2022-03-14 11:27:18 | 1,647,257,238 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | tdvbee | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tdvbee/disability_dating_sites/ | 1 | Have any noticed there aren't any good dating apps for people with disabilities? That's probably sad dont you agree? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | disability dating sites | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tdvbee/disability_dating_sites/ |
Gobboking | 2023-03-04 10:58:41 | 1,677,927,521 | null | null | 0 | 11hwmie | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11hwmie/i_revamped_my_profile_got_platinum_for_a_month/ | 3 | Edit: I saw this video, and I feel like it addressed what I was feeling about the situation pretty well. https://youtu.be/TEadDxJ6W58 ... almost all of the conversations have run dry, and I'm struggling to find anything interesting to say to most of the girls I match with. I can kind of tell from their look / vibe that... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I revamped my profile, got platinum for a month, and got 20+ matches already, but... | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11hwmie/i_revamped_my_profile_got_platinum_for_a_month/ |
Apprehensive-Egg7033 | 2023-09-26 21:50:03 | 1,695,765,003 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16t187n | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16t187n/is_modern_dating_doomed/ | 1 | man, all i’m seeing nowadays and hearing from people is how dating in this day and age sucks. and it’s hard to not feel hopeless about dating when you hear all that AND have had bad experiences in the past. if you have standards, then they’re “too high”, or people simply don’t tick your boxes, even if you think you hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | is modern dating doomed? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16t187n/is_modern_dating_doomed/ |
surviveyourtwenties | 2018-11-11 11:32:57 | 1,541,935,977 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 9w34mf | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/9w34mf/how_did_you_break_out_of_the_work_gym_sleep/ | 31 | Hi Reddit, I've recently got back onto the old online dating apps (toxic as they sometimes can be) after losing about 85lbs, and gaining some much needed confidence in the process. After getting to know a couple of people I realised that all I was doing was work, gym and sleep - which was great for when I weight loss w... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How did you break out of the "work, gym, sleep" routine? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/9w34mf/how_did_you_break_out_of_the_work_gym_sleep/ |
Character-Remote-179 | 2023-12-24 02:54:05 | 1,703,386,445 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18plt16 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18plt16/advice_for_meeting_people_these_days/ | 1 | Hey there, M26, having a hard time meeting new people. I don’t care much for the bar scene and haven’t found success in dating apps. Is there anything that has worked well for y’all and found success in? TIA :) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice for meeting people these days | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18plt16/advice_for_meeting_people_these_days/ |
p1x3lpush3r | 2023-07-05 03:28:34 | 1,688,527,714 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 14qyzix | false | null | 177 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14qyzix/i_feel_so_dumb_and_used_talked_to_a_lady_for_half/ | 230 | I seriously want to throw my fucking phone across the room and have it smash against the wall and never try to date again. Luckily I gave her a Google Voice number instead of my real because I was slightly suspicious since this SAME FUCKING SHIT HAPPENED LAST WEEK. &x200B; Is OLD just bots at this point? I'm too old f... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I feel so dumb and used. Talked to a lady for half the fucking day and then she throws in some cryptocurrency bullshit at the very end before saying goodnight i just want to %@$%$& | 230 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14qyzix/i_feel_so_dumb_and_used_talked_to_a_lady_for_half/ |
412lgp | 2020-07-27 21:28:13 | 1,595,885,293 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | hz1avu | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hz1avu/how_to_make_the_next_move/ | 1 | So I am recently out of a relationship, I kinda just wanted to move on as soon as possible so I started using tinder and bumble, neither are working for me. I know this girl but she doesn’t really know me all that well, we follow eachother on Instagram. I went on her profile, added her Snapchat and then went on about m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to make the next move. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hz1avu/how_to_make_the_next_move/ |
N_M_Rytes | 2024-02-25 13:11:31 | 1,708,866,691 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1aznkw2 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aznkw2/didnt_think_it_would_be_this_difficult_29_f/ | 4 | Got out of a long-term relationship about 8 months ago. Started dating soon after (\ 1 month later) (people I encountered both on- and offline). I did my homework before going in and read about attachment styles, identified my attachment style and previous dating/relationship patterns that weren't healthy for me, and m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Didn't think it would be this difficult [29 F] | 3 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aznkw2/didnt_think_it_would_be_this_difficult_29_f/ |
medusas-garden | 2024-03-11 04:47:32 | 1,710,132,452 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1bbv31f | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bbv31f/when_would_you_communicate_to_someone_that_youre/ | 1 | He (28M) told me this before I (22F) slept with him which I appreciate a lot but after we’d been talking almost every day for like two months. He didn’t even ask me out until three weeks after we matched so I just find it really weird that someone would spend so much time getting to know me, double texting me, sending ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When would you communicate to someone that you’re emotionally unavailable? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bbv31f/when_would_you_communicate_to_someone_that_youre/ |
Fair_Price_3140 | 2023-05-29 01:23:09 | 1,685,323,389 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 13uh0vf | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13uh0vf/he_cancelled_the_first_date/ | 1 | So I (25f) haven’t really dated much at all and made a Hinge account. I was speaking to a guy (26M) for about 6 days and we were speaking constantly, getting along well, and he even said so himself. The day before the date, which was suppose to be coffee at 9am, he cancelled and said he feels the vibe that we are prett... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He cancelled the first date | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13uh0vf/he_cancelled_the_first_date/ |
[deleted] | 2019-09-11 15:00:31 | 1,568,214,031 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | d2rhot | true | null | 220 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d2rhot/i_got_unmatched_for_the_best_reason_ever/ | 494 | I was chatting up this guy on a dating app and I am an artist and things seem to be going in a great direction and while I was talking to him, my cat jumped up on the table and knocked my coke over. So I said, "Hey, give me about 20 minutes - I just spilled a coke in my glitter bin." So I went and cleaned up gross stic... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I got unmatched for the best reason ever | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d2rhot/i_got_unmatched_for_the_best_reason_ever/ |
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