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Thisismetooday | 2022-02-23 05:17:59 | 1,645,593,479 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | sz98hl | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/sz98hl/i_want_to_date_but_my_previous_heartbreak_blocks/ | 7 | I have been single for near on 18 months now after a crushing heartbreak. I want to date… I get to a point of feeling ready to meet somebody, I sign up to dating apps, I talk to somebody nice then bam out of nowhere I get anxious and scared and I back away again. I’ve been through this cycle a couple of times now. I’m ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I want to date but my previous heartbreak blocks me | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/sz98hl/i_want_to_date_but_my_previous_heartbreak_blocks/ |
Moxie-Lady | 2023-05-03 22:39:16 | 1,683,153,556 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1371zv5 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1371zv5/why_did_he_ghost_me_after_3_months/ | 0 | I started talking to a guy on Bumble three months ago. He was persistent from day 1 and he seemed like he was generally looking for something long term. We spent the first month texting only, as I was recovering from a minor surgery (which he knew about) and I was generally not rushing to jump into anything. We finally... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why did he ghost me after 3 months? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1371zv5/why_did_he_ghost_me_after_3_months/ |
Beren__ | 2020-08-08 16:00:01 | 1,596,902,401 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | i61hat | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/i61hat/developing_feelings_before_meeting_in_person/ | 4 | I met this guy (40s) on a dating app, and he lives 45 min away. He was married for 15 years, has great communication skills, very family oriented, and we have the same love languages (to the ones familiar with it, our top two are quality time and physical touch). We texted for a few days, then had a couple of phone cal... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Developing feelings before meeting in person | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i61hat/developing_feelings_before_meeting_in_person/ |
StoopSign | 2022-06-09 08:38:20 | 1,654,763,900 | null | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'dating site', 'pof'] | 0 | v8c8s9 | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v8c8s9/so_what_is_yalls_standard_process_for_online/ | 1 | Early 30s male. I'm confounded by online dating sometimes. I consider swiping and liking pics and profiles dehumanizing. I definitely prefer meeting people in person. Meetup.com is a great site for that. I've never had an Instagram or Facebook profile and I still don't quite understand why people have those. ----------... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So... What is y'all's standard process for online dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v8c8s9/so_what_is_yalls_standard_process_for_online/ |
ianmartinian | 2023-06-01 14:16:17 | 1,685,628,977 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 13xiqv4 | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13xiqv4/m48_one_datapoint_of_paying_for_old_apps/ | 37 | I thought I'd share my experiences of paying for the OLD apps in case anyone else finds the info useful. For context I live 25 minutes from the centre of London in the UK. OkCupid: they offered me a 50% discount and I paid for a month when I had over 60 likes in the queue. Over 40 of them were from women living in Keny... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | [M48] One datapoint of paying for OLD apps | 37 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13xiqv4/m48_one_datapoint_of_paying_for_old_apps/ |
PaleBlueDot9 | 2019-03-15 09:07:39 | 1,552,640,859 | null | null | 0 | b1cm6u | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/b1cm6u/ladies_how_much_trust_do_you_put_in_a_guys/ | 8 | In this day and age, I would think most women who are serious about dating take profiles with a grain of salt… You know a lot of guys are trying to market themselves, and well generally embellish to a point right? So if you know this, then why do women constantly talk about how they find a well written profile is more ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies… How much trust do you put in a guys profile when reading it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b1cm6u/ladies_how_much_trust_do_you_put_in_a_guys/ |
TMoney3991 | 2020-04-03 05:43:45 | 1,585,892,625 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fu2ppv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fu2ppv/dating_app_advice/ | 3 | (M26) When someone doesn't have any information on their page or say just "ask" how would go about sending a message since women rarely message first. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fu2ppv/dating_app_advice/ |
Nayners23 | 2019-05-15 18:15:51 | 1,557,944,151 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | bp1ep1 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bp1ep1/would_you_still_go_out_with_a_dating_app_match/ | 5 | I just started using a dating app this week (Bumble) and there are a few guys that I've had really good conversation with. I have a date lined up with one, if it goes well what's the best way of explaining to the others that I'm seeing where that goes but if it goes nowhere I'd love to reconnect? They seem like genuine... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you still go out with a dating app match that put you on hold until after they went on a date with an earlier match? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bp1ep1/would_you_still_go_out_with_a_dating_app_match/ |
astralv9 | 2023-04-30 16:52:42 | 1,682,873,562 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 133wxx5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/133wxx5/need_help_w_dating_apps/ | 1 | heyyy im a 19 year old virgin trying to lose it and gain sexual experience. I don't go out much to parties and things like that so it is pretty hard for me to find someone irl aside from maybe work? I work at a coffee shop. I've been told to use tinder if im just looking for sex or hookups and i tried but it's not work... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | need help w dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/133wxx5/need_help_w_dating_apps/ |
anonhungry332 | 2021-06-15 12:18:02 | 1,623,759,482 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o0d069 | true | Other | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o0d069/fckable_but_not_dateable/ | 4 | I’ve been having a pretty weird time lately with the dating game. I’ve had several ‘successful’ dates I guess you could say where I’ve met up with them multiple times and we genuinely get along very well. The one problem is that I get about four maybe five dates in and it goes from ‘your awesome and an amazing chick’ t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Fckable but not dateable ? | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o0d069/fckable_but_not_dateable/ |
icebeing13 | 2023-02-09 04:19:36 | 1,675,916,376 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 10xl5eo | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10xl5eo/18f_going_on_a_first_date_this_friday_with/ | 1 | We've been talking for a few months since I've been in the psych ward. I was talking to a bunch of guys online while I was in there but then he caught my attention and I very quickly started noticing myself getting very attached to this one. He volunteers, has a pretty good job, loves his family, is a body builder, ver... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 18f going on a first date this Friday with someone out of my league. How do i NOT MESS IT UP? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10xl5eo/18f_going_on_a_first_date_this_friday_with/ |
BlameItOnTheTeapots | 2024-08-07 16:23:45 | 1,723,047,825 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1emg7ot | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1emg7ot/m_23_f_23_friendship_that_is_clearly_far_more/ | 1 | Hi all, in a very confusing situation and could do with some advice. This is likely to be very long so the tl;dr is a long-time friend of mine, who I saw for a period last year, has moved back to the same city as me and although I've agreed to be friends with her despite still having lingering feelings (and genuinely d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M (23) F (23) 'friendship' that is clearly far more than one. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1emg7ot/m_23_f_23_friendship_that_is_clearly_far_more/ |
WIMC- | 2024-06-07 19:45:28 | 1,717,789,528 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dajvqp | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1dajvqp/why_is_it_so_hard_to_meet_men_from_tinder/ | 1 | I've had nice convos through out my single era. Everytime it seems to go well and we change snaps/numbers/Instagrams and continue talking, they almost never are up for a coffee. Yet they still continue the conversation? WHY? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why is it so hard to meet men from tinder? | 1 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1dajvqp/why_is_it_so_hard_to_meet_men_from_tinder/ |
WhitePillBlackman | 2023-06-21 19:42:07 | 1,687,376,527 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14fh8lk | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14fh8lk/cmv_ghosting_is_a_net_positive/ | 1 | Here me out, Wouldn’t you rather save time and money by going dates youre actually attracted to and have chemistry with? Of course, so why would you get mad about the fact that someone cuts the cord earlier on? As the ghostee: Ghosting is actually a blessing in disguise but it allows you to refocus your attention to pe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | CMV: ghosting is a net positive | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14fh8lk/cmv_ghosting_is_a_net_positive/ |
BlaqKoffee | 2021-03-14 20:38:34 | 1,615,754,314 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | m53o0u | true | Casual Conversation | 108 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/m53o0u/does_this_bother_you/ | 0 | This is more directed to Women because I think most of us men would be flattered than bothered but I could be wrong. So ladies, does it bother you when you raise a topic or comment on a topic about dating/being single and we men get on your DM's to talk privately about it, or introduce ourselves with the intention of g... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Does this bother you? | null | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/m53o0u/does_this_bother_you/ |
8BitSmart | 2018-07-15 04:14:19 | 1,531,628,059 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8yz4x2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8yz4x2/how_do_i_at_least_make_new_friends/ | 3 | Let me tell you guys about my situation and hopefully someone else who's been in my situation can help. I just got out of the military a few months ago and decided to stay in the area where I used to be stationed at. Decided to not go back home to Erie PA because a lot of my friends I fell out of touch with throughout ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I at least make new friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8yz4x2/how_do_i_at_least_make_new_friends/ |
fullsendZn | 2024-09-03 08:15:37 | 1,725,351,337 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1f7um5s | true | Question ❓ | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f7um5s/is_it_normal_to_be_put_off_by_gifts_on_the_first/ | 0 | I went on a first date with a woman I matched with on a dating app and when she and I met up, she gave me a blueberry muffin. I didn't really get it, but then she explained tjat she had made a batch the night before and figured she'd give me one because she thoight I'd like it.On my profile I wrote "the quickest way to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it normal to be put off by gifts on the first date? | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f7um5s/is_it_normal_to_be_put_off_by_gifts_on_the_first/ |
BuddhistChrist | 2024-04-09 02:56:16 | 1,712,631,376 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1bzhk9b | true | Discussion | 206 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bzhk9b/i_dont_chase_i_attract/ | 95 | I’ve (M40s) come across this on OLD. I don’t know why it rubs me the wrong way. Another quote from the same woman (paraphrasing), “I believe the person who belongs to me will come after me.” Maybe if I’ve never had therapy I wouldn’t find it so weird? What are your thoughts when you come across similar statements like ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | “I Don’t Chase, I Attract.” | 95 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bzhk9b/i_dont_chase_i_attract/ |
ajteitel | 2022-06-13 21:51:47 | 1,655,157,107 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | vbnhg2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vbnhg2/am_i_overanalyzing_or_do_should_i_stick_with_my/ | 1 | I admit that I (24) never had a relationship, though not through lack of effort. Been under a decade since I decided to change my anti-social ways and since then I have developed into a better, friendlier, more social person. Not perfect, still an introvert, but the work is ongoing. As for relationships both friend and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overanalyzing, or do should I stick with my values of communication? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vbnhg2/am_i_overanalyzing_or_do_should_i_stick_with_my/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-01 00:35:33 | 1,425,170,133 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2xiija | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/2xiija/what_are_your_thoughts_on_paid_online_dating_sites/ | 1 | Received the following tweet: 'do I have to pay on a site because I want to date a woman. Dating should be free.' Do you agree with this comment or disagree, and why. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are your thoughts on paid online dating sites? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2xiija/what_are_your_thoughts_on_paid_online_dating_sites/ |
ConsiderationOk6035 | 2023-03-17 01:44:14 | 1,679,017,454 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11tdjf0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11tdjf0/im_overthinking_did_i_mess_up/ | 1 | I’m overthinking. I feel like I did something wrong? I F(29) met guy M(34) on bumble. Never went out on dates, but we texted and video chatted for weeks. Connection was strong, but I decided to end things since he refused to speak on the phone with me. I felt like I was being strung along. We had never met in person or... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m overthinking. Did I mess up? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11tdjf0/im_overthinking_did_i_mess_up/ |
situationisgreat | 2020-04-05 00:54:03 | 1,586,048,043 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fv4xcs | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fv4xcs/should_i_move_on/ | 1 | Edit: forgot ages and genders im M24 and she is F25 I met this girl on a dating app about 5ish months ago. We went on 1 date initially which went okay but we didn't go back on a second one because she didn't feel there was really a romantic connection and she still didn't feel ready to try to jump into another relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I move on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fv4xcs/should_i_move_on/ |
Shitpaw100 | 2023-06-21 04:59:11 | 1,687,323,551 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 14exyca | true | null | 214 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/14exyca/condoms_for_everyone/ | 189 | I have HSV2 and I matched with a guy who also has it. We were both just looking for casual sex. He volunteered the information that he only uses condoms when having sex with people who DO NOT also have HSV2. I told him that was a deal breaker for me. That I only saw people who used condoms with every person that they h... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Condoms for Everyone | 189 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/14exyca/condoms_for_everyone/ |
ecarafxam | 2020-02-09 02:45:00 | 1,581,216,300 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f12bmw | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f12bmw/how_to_date_a_girl_that_was_in_an_abusive/ | 4 | I'm 21M she's 20F, and we met on Tinder. We started talking for a while and switched over to snapchat and have continued to talk on there. I had initially asked her if she wanted to crab coffee or lunch the first night after a bunch of back and forth messages and she said she wanted to get to know me better. We continu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to date a girl that was in an abusive relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f12bmw/how_to_date_a_girl_that_was_in_an_abusive/ |
Fubuki8 | 2024-09-01 17:50:27 | 1,725,213,027 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f6kh5u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6kh5u/was_there_anything_i_could_have_done_better/ | 1 | This is my first time writing something like this so I’d like to apologise in advance for any sloppy writing. Basically I (20M) met a girl (20F) on Hinge and we had a pretty decent starter convo going on, we talked about some common interests like travelling and it went to tele pretty quickly. We continued having back ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Was there anything I could have done better? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6kh5u/was_there_anything_i_could_have_done_better/ |
mannersrus | 2020-12-14 02:29:46 | 1,607,912,986 | null | null | 0 | kcom7q | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kcom7q/i_am_getting_a_lot_of_20_30_somethings_contacting/ | 0 | I am in my late 40's so this is very odd to me. I keep setting my preferences for 40+. Is there anything else I can do on Hinge to sort of narrow down the type of guys that contact me? I have not paid for a subscription. My account is free for now as I'm unsure if I want to pay for it or not. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I am getting a lot of 20 and 30 somethings contacting me on Hinge | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kcom7q/i_am_getting_a_lot_of_20_30_somethings_contacting/ |
throwawaybananapeel3 | 2024-05-14 09:39:47 | 1,715,679,587 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1cro44x | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cro44x/its_not_all_about_looks/ | 1 | Sorry I need to rant about my lack of social skills TLDR: I’m a good looking guy that can’t get a date/a girl interested in me to date long term. Seeking advice Just a little physical background about myself for reference: Male 6’2” (187cm) 170lbs (77kg) with virtually no body fat Blue eyes, brown wavy hair 21 y/o This... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It’s not all about looks | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cro44x/its_not_all_about_looks/ |
nkolaka | 2014-03-05 15:37:28 | 1,394,033,848 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1zmqz5 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/1zmqz5/how_to_get_a_yes_when_asking_for_a_first_date/ | 1 | Asking someone out on a date is not rocket science, but for some people it can be very overwhelming, especially when asking somebody out for the first time. By following the tips below you can help increase the odds of getting a YES when asking someone out on a date. 1. For starters you should wait for a relaxing envir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How To Get A Yes When Asking For A First Date | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1zmqz5/how_to_get_a_yes_when_asking_for_a_first_date/ |
Positive-Tough-5774 | 2024-08-30 12:18:05 | 1,725,020,285 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f4tt0c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f4tt0c/improving_dating_apps_and_need_your_help/ | 0 | Hey everyone 👋 I'm working on a project focused on improving dating apps, and I need your help I'm conducting a quick survey to gather feedback on your experiences with dating apps. Your input will be super valuable. Care to participate? It only takes a few minutes Thanks a ton for your time and insights 🙌 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Improving dating apps and need your help | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f4tt0c/improving_dating_apps_and_need_your_help/ |
Perseus_NL | 2019-11-15 14:04:10 | 1,573,826,650 | null | null | 0 | dwr7k2 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/dwr7k2/is_there_a_40_precipice_is_there_a_too_old_for_old/ | 1 | So I (44/m) did OLD for a while after divorce - I don't go out all that much in the evenings because of work, volunteer stuff I do, et cetera, so OLD was good way to see what's out there and be seen, I thought. It worked; I got a nice load of matches and dates, even had a few flings and FWBs and such. Then dropped it f... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is there a 40+ precipice? Is there a 'Too old for OLD'? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/dwr7k2/is_there_a_40_precipice_is_there_a_too_old_for_old/ |
klaus_schulze_fan | 2023-05-31 15:30:01 | 1,685,547,001 | 0 | null | 0 | 13wpddy | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13wpddy/some_evidence_of_what_ive_suspected_all_along/ | 7 | Yes, we love to hate apps. Yes, we love to say that the pre-Tinder era was some golden age. Well, I've always wondered about that. It was still hard for me to get a woman's attention even when OKCupid was good, and I always doubted I was alone in that opinion. Well, there's a very interesting comment to a about dating ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Some evidence of what I've suspected all along: online dating has always sucked | 7 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13wpddy/some_evidence_of_what_ive_suspected_all_along/ |
mox88101 | 2019-03-22 22:38:27 | 1,553,294,307 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | b4biya | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b4biya/guys_do_you_ever_get_envious_of_how_much_more/ | 0 | Imagine making a tinder profile getting 100s of matches and then having the convenience of choosing to talk to which ever ones you want | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys do you ever get envious of how much more attention girls get and how much easier dating is because of it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b4biya/guys_do_you_ever_get_envious_of_how_much_more/ |
chickenfinger128 | 2024-03-04 06:45:23 | 1,709,534,723 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1b64blk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b64blk/date_went_well_but_he_didnt_text_at_all_the_next/ | 1 | I (33F) went on a 3rd date with a guy (38M) that I met through OLD. He's in a very demanding field so the frequency (and amount) in which we've texted has always been very spotty. I didn't mind or notice in the beginning since I was busy as well and had been talking to other dates. However, by date 3 it became clear th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date went well but he didn't text at all the next day. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b64blk/date_went_well_but_he_didnt_text_at_all_the_next/ |
bubbly_belle | 2023-02-19 20:59:29 | 1,676,840,369 | null | null | 0 | 116nsq7 | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/116nsq7/why_would_you_ask_someone_out_to_dinner_in_a/ | 20 | Not sure what this is. Impatience to talk? Being forward? Just wanting to hook up? While I appreciate the forwardness I’d still like to talk for a bit first. It just feels odd to me. At the same time I don’t like it when a guy talks to me for longer than 2 weeks without asking to meet up. If you don’t want to meet up t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why would you ask someone out to dinner in a first message? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/116nsq7/why_would_you_ask_someone_out_to_dinner_in_a/ |
throwaway18749 | 2015-12-19 04:46:18 | 1,450,500,378 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3xfkj4 | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3xfkj4/hes_too_hot_for_me/ | 5 | So I consider myself really ugly. I've lost weight recently and started wearing make-up like a year ago, so I've definitely improved a LOT considering how awful I used to look, but I still can't see anything other than a horrible girl in the mirror. That's been confirmed by life itself since I've never had a boyfriend ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He's too hot for me. | 5 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3xfkj4/hes_too_hot_for_me/ |
No_Guard_5122 | 2023-08-22 00:34:31 | 1,692,664,471 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15xplap | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15xplap/ladies_how_would_you_feel_about_getting_a_guys/ | 1 | I just got out of a long term relationship a couple months ago and I've been struggling to find my self esteem and have some confidence in myself again. It really took it out of me and I've spent the past few weeks just trying to focus on myself and give myself time to heal. However, I had this weird surge of confidenc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ladies, how would you feel about getting a guys number at a bar? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15xplap/ladies_how_would_you_feel_about_getting_a_guys/ |
TheAgeOfPanic812 | 2024-08-01 00:38:13 | 1,722,472,693 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1eh3akv | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eh3akv/ghosted_after_sending_nudes/ | 0 | I (23 f) matched with a guy (32 m) on bumble a little over a month ago. He lives about an hour away and we have different schedules but we have hung out 3 times since then and text/call somewhat often. On Sunday we saw eachother and had sex. (This wasn’t the first time). We took some really good videos during. I asked ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted after sending nudes | 0 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eh3akv/ghosted_after_sending_nudes/ |
OrganicBanana6898 | 2024-06-04 00:54:26 | 1,717,462,466 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d7kl5v | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d7kl5v/i_dumped_him_via_text_because_of_his/ | 2 | I've been dating this man for 1.5 months. He represented himself as a good man that had good morals and went to church etc. Stated he was looking for a life partner. Well he lied about who he was. I noticed he has an abusive side to him. We'd be having a great time then all of a sudden he will say something extremely d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I dumped him via text because of his disrespectful remarks | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d7kl5v/i_dumped_him_via_text_because_of_his/ |
PotatoC570 | 2020-10-24 02:26:15 | 1,603,506,375 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | jh11my | true | Other | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jh11my/first_time_for_everything/ | 4 | I met this girl on hinge almost a month ago. We hit it off great as we snapchat back and forth and chat everyday throughout the day. We finally met and went on our first date on Tuesday. It was amazing and natural. She came back to my place and stayed almost to midnight watching Halloween movies and cuddling. Most of t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First time for everything. | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jh11my/first_time_for_everything/ |
Different-Buyer3393 | 2023-10-23 01:01:20 | 1,698,022,880 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 17e8ao9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17e8ao9/releasing_feelings_of_being_a_clown/ | 1 | 26F. I know I’m young, but for my age I feel like I’ve been around the block with dating. Had a plethora of experiences, positive, beautiful, healthy, neutral, messy, painful. I’ve been rejected and I have rejected, I got in relationships and I’ve been ghosted, everything in between ect ect ect. I took a break for a ye... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Releasing feelings of being a clown 🤡 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17e8ao9/releasing_feelings_of_being_a_clown/ |
CharlieOak86868686 | 2023-12-08 05:25:27 | 1,702,013,127 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18dfnh6 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18dfnh6/i_watch_online_videos_talk_to_women_use_dating/ | 1 | All for nothing. I feel like nothing i say will get anyone to talk to me. Women have matched with me. Ive matched with 5 this year. All of them eventually quit. They just stop saying anything. The problem im talking about is the lack of following through from people. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I watch online videos, talk to women use dating apps. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18dfnh6/i_watch_online_videos_talk_to_women_use_dating/ |
blackgold12 | 2020-03-25 18:18:29 | 1,585,160,309 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fov7te | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/fov7te/where_do_you_all_meet_women_besides_bars/ | 32 | Hi All, I was wondering where you all usually go to meet women as a late-20/early-30 male? I moved to a new city for my job, don't really know anybody, and am finding it really hard to meet women. I look terrible in pictures, so online dating is unfortunately a no go for me. The other part that sucks is I work in consu... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Where Do You All Meet Women Besides Bars? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/fov7te/where_do_you_all_meet_women_besides_bars/ |
mentors4 | 2014-08-01 19:30:41 | 1,406,921,441 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2cd22s | null | null | 55 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2cd22s/is_there_a_collapse_in_dating_for_a_majority/ | 6 | Hey askmen I am an Indian American and I came to America when I was in college and shortly after went back to India to marry my wife and bring her back to the USA. I don't have any experience in American style dating, all I have are my observations from TV and friends and reddit. From what I gathered a lot of the guys ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Is there a collapse in dating for a majority American men? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2cd22s/is_there_a_collapse_in_dating_for_a_majority/ |
Shurae | 2023-09-17 17:47:13 | 1,694,972,833 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 16l755f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16l755f/are_there_any_speed_dating_apps_similar_to_the/ | 1 | I'm M30 and recently single. Barely any luck on most apps because I don't want to pay so much. I'm also looking for a casual relationship so I have that in my bio which turns a bunch of women away I imagine. But today Bumble had some speed dating thing and I chattet with 5 women and even after telling them all that Im ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are there any "Speed Dating" apps similar to the bumble speed dating feature? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16l755f/are_there_any_speed_dating_apps_similar_to_the/ |
im_bananas_4_crack | 2023-02-19 23:05:38 | 1,676,847,938 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 116qv04 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/116qv04/ive_23m_been_keeping_a_secret_from_my_gf_19f_and/ | 1 | I’ve been dating this girl for 2 months. We initially met off of a dating app and really hit it off. Within a couple weeks she was my gf. My love grows for her every single day and I just did dinner with her parents. She’s told me she’s in love with me already and I am in love with her as well. The only caveat is I’ve ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’ve (23M) been keeping a secret from my gf (19F) and I need to come clean | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/116qv04/ive_23m_been_keeping_a_secret_from_my_gf_19f_and/ |
Adderallcrackrocks | 2023-06-28 23:21:29 | 1,687,994,489 | 0 | null | 0 | 14lohwe | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14lohwe/is_it_weird_to_reach_out_to_matches_youve_met_but/ | 12 | I’ve met a few women so far and for the most part, our dates were good but for one reason or another, they usually back off after a couple weeks. Nothing too unusual for online dating. I kinda wanna know if I’m doing anything wrong so I was wondering if it would be weird to straight up ask them? I mean I feel like I ha... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it weird to reach out to matches you’ve met but things didnt work out asking what went wrong? | 12 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14lohwe/is_it_weird_to_reach_out_to_matches_youve_met_but/ |
[deleted] | 2021-05-02 17:19:46 | 1,619,975,986 | null | ['swipe', 'bumble'] | 0 | n3b5o0 | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/n3b5o0/whats_your_experience_with_similar_and_dissimilar/ | 12 | Basically the title. As I'm about to drive my daughter around to look at prom dresses for her cancelled prom, I know she'll play her stuff the whole time, which is cool, I like most of it, but it has me thinking. Bumble has that Spotify feature, and I usually browse it to see what they listen to, I find if we listen to... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's your experience with similar and dissimilar musically tastes? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/n3b5o0/whats_your_experience_with_similar_and_dissimilar/ |
VanCleefTheMan | 2021-12-05 01:59:42 | 1,638,669,582 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | r94tq4 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r94tq4/i_am_unsure_whether_my_date_likes_me_or_not/ | 0 | This is a difficult one for me. I have been dating this girl for 1 and a half months and have been on 10 dates with her. Our dates are generally really good and she acts interested. She is the sweetest, most laid back lady I have met. I was thinking to myself this is too good to be true She likes to kiss me and we have... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am unsure whether my date likes me or not | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r94tq4/i_am_unsure_whether_my_date_likes_me_or_not/ |
notetonote19 | 2022-08-24 22:40:08 | 1,661,380,808 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | wwx2r3 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wwx2r3/talking_stage_f21/ | 8 | So I matched with this guy on hinge last night, he left this big message saying that he is a hopeless romantic which I one of the things I look for in a guy. So we started talking and didn’t stop talking till 4am, as soon as I woke up he was messaging me all day none stop. Is this normal, he keeps complimenting me in e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | talking stage F21 | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wwx2r3/talking_stage_f21/ |
greenisthecolour11 | 2020-09-21 01:23:41 | 1,600,651,421 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | iwqrqi | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iwqrqi/meet_someone_traditionally/ | 1 | Almost everyone I (34M) know is married. Their relationships with their partners seem to have started in two different ways: The relationship occurred after multiple natural group gatherings. They met in a bar or wherever and it became physical right away which then makes future contact less awkward. I’ve been single s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Meet Someone Traditionally | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iwqrqi/meet_someone_traditionally/ |
HeardyJunior2110 | 2020-03-13 06:42:59 | 1,584,081,779 | null | ['dating site', 'plentyoffish'] | 0 | fhvgg6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fhvgg6/i_met_this_girl_on_a_dating_site_and_ill_be_going/ | 1 | I met this girl on a dating site called PlentyOfFish.com and we have a lot of things in common: we were both treated like crap in our previous relationships, we're both into similar things when it comes to what we like in the bedroom, we live in the same city and we seem to have a lot of attraction towards one another.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I met this girl on a dating site and I'll be going on a coffee date tomorrow. Any tips? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fhvgg6/i_met_this_girl_on_a_dating_site_and_ill_be_going/ |
thrdimps | 2024-03-06 11:33:24 | 1,709,724,804 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b7xi8c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b7xi8c/offended_he_23_makes_comments_about_other_women/ | 1 | Hi all. I (25F) am wondering if I am thinking too much about the following: So I’m dating this guy (23M) for three months and we already had quite some up and downs within the three months. He talked to other women while claiming to love me, we broke up, he asked for a second chance and we’re back together a month afte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Offended he (23) makes comments about other women | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b7xi8c/offended_he_23_makes_comments_about_other_women/ |
Remote_Chemical1475 | 2024-03-13 21:03:23 | 1,710,363,803 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1be2qrm | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1be2qrm/first_date_hike/ | 1 | hey everyone. So I went on a date with this guy recently and we met on bumble. Our first date/hang out was at a park and we went hiking for a couple hours. During the hike, dating apps came up and this man said “I can say this because I am on one, but dating apps is full of desperate people.” And I didn’t think much of... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date hike | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1be2qrm/first_date_hike/ |
AmongstTheAnimals | 2022-01-17 05:54:48 | 1,642,398,888 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | s5wija | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/s5wija/person_frequently_viewing_my_profile_red_flag_or/ | 0 | I joined a dating app about a week and a half ago and have started a couple of conversations. I’ve come to realize I tend to message quiet lenhy responses and a couple of people I’m speaking to are similar. Because of the lenh of responses I’ll sometimes read the message and leave it to respond to later on when I’m not... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Person frequently viewing my profile. Red flag or am I jumping the gun? | null | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/s5wija/person_frequently_viewing_my_profile_red_flag_or/ |
Longjumping_Land7843 | 2024-07-04 18:42:02 | 1,720,118,522 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dve3vi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dve3vi/dont_know_what_to_do_after_a_date/ | 0 | So I had a date with a guy a few days ago. The date went just ok, we basically walked and chatted for a couple of hours (nothing special or romantic). At the end he hugged me and said ‘see you’, but we didn’t make any plans for a new date or anything. Overall, we had some interesting conversations, but it was mostly ju... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t know what to do after a date | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dve3vi/dont_know_what_to_do_after_a_date/ |
palmarni | 2020-08-22 05:39:26 | 1,598,074,766 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | ied2eu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ied2eu/try_again_or_nah/ | 1 | Hello. So last year I matched with this girl. We kinda hit it off on the first date. However I struggle with depression/anxiety (and possibly ADHD, still in diagnosis phase) and our second date could have gone better. In other words due to my symptoms I wasnt as reactive. We kissed but I just wasn't reciprocating the s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Try again or nah | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ied2eu/try_again_or_nah/ |
embarrassingaf123 | 2019-05-17 01:24:12 | 1,558,056,252 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | bpkyml | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bpkyml/an_important_thank_you_to_the_communitt_went_from/ | 4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bozpb4/19m_why_do_tinder_matches_never_answer_first/?utm_medium=android_appandutm_source=share This was the other day, I got at least 200 comments and learned a shit ton, including the fact that I need to reset and fix my energy. Was getting ready to delete Tinder, before... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | AN IMPORTANT THANK YOU TO THE COMMUNITT. Went from (link) to getting two phone numbers in one day! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bpkyml/an_important_thank_you_to_the_communitt_went_from/ |
Drozes2017 | 2016-12-24 04:37:41 | 1,482,554,261 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5k1eb1 | null | null | 22 | null | /r/dating/comments/5k1eb1/so_i_went_on_a_tinder_dateand_she_was_much_bigger/ | 9 | I show up and she was significantly bigger than her pictures indicated. I was cordial, but I was also completely turned off. I felt lied to. The question is this: What would you do? How would you react? Do you say anything? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So, I went on a tinder date...and she was much bigger in person. | 9 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5k1eb1/so_i_went_on_a_tinder_dateand_she_was_much_bigger/ |
VampireChef | 2014-11-07 04:08:02 | 1,415,333,282 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2ljr07 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ljr07/20m_recently_started_online_dating_and_met_a_nice/ | 2 | From kindergarten to graduation day I was pretty much an "outcast," and my friends were all outcasts as well. However, this somehow did not totally stunt my social skills, and I have no trouble making friends at the various places I've worked. Most people think I'm a funny guy, and I feel like I'm pretty approachable. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20M] recently started online dating and met a nice girl [19F], but have never had experience due to social alienation in school | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ljr07/20m_recently_started_online_dating_and_met_a_nice/ |
xmarketladyx | 2024-06-14 13:35:06 | 1,718,372,106 | 0 | ['online dating', 'pof'] | 0 | 1dfqzhb | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dfqzhb/how_im_able_to_expose_scammers_easily/ | 2 | Yeah, been doing the online dating thing a while. Tons of scammers especially on sites/apps like POF. I noticed a major uptick in male scammer profiles having dogs. You match, they say hi in atrocious English; then immediately ask them about the dog. They never answer even just to lie. They will keep up with their scri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How I'm able to expose scammers easily | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dfqzhb/how_im_able_to_expose_scammers_easily/ |
NobodyButMyself357 | 2024-04-20 15:46:12 | 1,713,627,972 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1c8t3ae | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c8t3ae/i_need_help_to_start_dating/ | 1 | I (30F) have never had a relationship with a man ever in my life. I thought I’ll give it a try now, at least for the experience so I opened a bumble account and matched with someone who super swiped me. He’s an okay person but I can’t really say much until I get to know him more. But the thing is, I’ve never been with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need help to start dating | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c8t3ae/i_need_help_to_start_dating/ |
Interesting_Passion | 2023-01-10 17:08:38 | 1,673,370,518 | null | null | 0 | 108ez9r | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/108ez9r/online_dating_is_disastrous_for_dating_and_for/ | 14 | "We are producing too many of the most dangerous person in society." I don't agree with everything said, but interesting comments nonetheless. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | "Online dating is disastrous for dating and for men." Scott Galloway on Real Time with Bill Maher | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/108ez9r/online_dating_is_disastrous_for_dating_and_for/ |
excrono | 2021-10-16 17:58:08 | 1,634,407,088 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | q9h23y | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q9h23y/coming_to_terms_with_a_toxic_breakup_and_looking/ | 2 | It's been almost a week since my "pseudo" girlfriend broke things off and cut me out of her life. I felt I genuinely was falling in love with her but through a series of poorly worded texts I ended up losing her forever... well I'm not sure, I do have one avenue for a follow-up (an e-mail she gave me when we were still... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Coming to Terms with a Toxic Breakup and Looking for Closure | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q9h23y/coming_to_terms_with_a_toxic_breakup_and_looking/ |
ambivalentbrain | 2020-11-21 04:37:59 | 1,605,933,479 | null | ['matches', 'swiping'] | 0 | jy4q85 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jy4q85/balancing_dating_and_other_commitments/ | 3 | Dating can seem like a full time job, even if you enjoy it. I recently started dating again after having a break up mid year. What I've found is if you let it, dating can take over your social life where you're busy most weeks meeting people. I'm trying to give my friends priority, be there for them because in the end ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Balancing dating and other commitments | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jy4q85/balancing_dating_and_other_commitments/ |
Runby_Fruiting | 2017-10-29 03:04:43 | 1,509,246,283 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 79ec8c | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/79ec8c/why_do_so_many_women_use_this_emoji_lately_what/ | 0 | I see the ✨ all over Bumble and Instagram. My ex gf would also use it with me all the time when we texted. Why? What does it mean? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Why do so many women use this ✨ emoji lately? What does it mean? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/79ec8c/why_do_so_many_women_use_this_emoji_lately_what/ |
2timex | 2021-01-27 16:58:09 | 1,611,766,689 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | l68x43 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l68x43/why_do_guys_want_pics_32f_talking_to_40m_from/ | 0 | Started talking to guy on dating app 2 nights ago. Nice, pleasant conversation via text. Was supposed to talk last night but we were both busy and rescheduled for tonight. This morning I get a text from him asking to exchange pics. sigh thankfully not nasty pics but pics...Honestly, this pissed me off. There's already ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do guys want pics? 32F talking to 40M from Dating app | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l68x43/why_do_guys_want_pics_32f_talking_to_40m_from/ |
kinkylesbi | 2020-07-25 00:47:53 | 1,595,638,073 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | hxdm1o | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hxdm1o/how_to_tell_if_its_going_well/ | 2 | I started talking to a woman from Bumble yesterday, she’s super sweet and we basically haven’t stopped messaging since we matched. What are some signs to tell if it’s going well? Or signs she’s just being nice? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to tell if it’s going well? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hxdm1o/how_to_tell_if_its_going_well/ |
lazylockie | 2018-11-18 01:13:57 | 1,542,503,637 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9y1wml | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9y1wml/what_is_the_moment_i_should_try_to_engage_more_on/ | 1 | There's two girls I've been talking to recently. One is from work, but since I'm currently on vacation we have been talking mostly through WhatsApp. We have some interests in common, the conversation seems okay, but doesn't seem to have that "spark". Maybe it's because the conversation doesn't really work on message ap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is the moment I should try to engage more on a conversation or just move on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9y1wml/what_is_the_moment_i_should_try_to_engage_more_on/ |
[deleted] | 2012-11-06 19:15:00 | 1,352,229,300 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 12qt59 | null | null | 149 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/12qt59/can_you_tell_if_a_guy_is_trying_too_hard_to_win/ | 69 | So here is my predicament. I've just started to date women, all of them through OKCupid. In the last 2 months, I have been on first dates with 18 different women. And only one of them has given me a second date. So I am wondering if I am trying too hard to make a positive impression on these women, and ignite that "spa... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Can you tell if a guy is trying too hard to win you over on a first date? | 69 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/12qt59/can_you_tell_if_a_guy_is_trying_too_hard_to_win/ |
devstar0 | 2024-06-26 16:37:01 | 1,719,419,821 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dp339a | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dp339a/im_taking_to_multiple_people_and_2_of_them_like_me/ | 1 | Sorry for any spelling but this is pretty long so it's about 1-2 weeks worth of info but if you're confused please feel free to ask. Ok so I'm 20 F and I've just recently started talking to multiple guys (3 to be exact) which I usually don't do since It makes me a lil anxious and I was scared of this happening but conv... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm taking to multiple people and 2 of them like me | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dp339a/im_taking_to_multiple_people_and_2_of_them_like_me/ |
Available-Many-5054 | 2024-06-10 23:37:49 | 1,718,062,669 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dd02v8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dd02v8/walking_red_flag_how_do_i_tell_him_im_not/ | 1 | I 28F have been speaking to a 35M from Hinge for just over a week now. We clicked right way, he seemed great to talk to, would spend hours talking on the phone and a few days into talking he mentioned he got fired from a job a few months ago for his attitude and was in the middle of getting fired from his current job..... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Walking red flag! How do I tell him I’m not interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dd02v8/walking_red_flag_how_do_i_tell_him_im_not/ |
Similar-Sentence786 | 2022-11-27 16:00:39 | 1,669,564,839 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | z64rq1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z64rq1/new_to_online_dating/ | 1 | Hi, I’m just made my profile on a dating app and I’m really confused about everything around it. I’m just using app for experience and stuff. Is there any tip about this kind of dating ? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z64rq1/new_to_online_dating/ |
Ill_Fondant4329 | 2024-03-06 23:51:59 | 1,709,769,119 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1b8fehq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b8fehq/am_i_overdramatizing_this_or_am_i_onto_something/ | 1 | Hey there :) As the title says, I’m looking for advice, whether I’m overdramatizing this situation or not. I really need your help So me (f22) and this guy (m25) have been seeing and kind of dating each other for around 4 months. We’ve met on bumble in November and started texting every day. From the beginning, we hit ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I overdramatizing this or am I onto something? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8fehq/am_i_overdramatizing_this_or_am_i_onto_something/ |
twartbenjamins | 2022-04-04 10:09:03 | 1,649,066,943 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | tvyf18 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tvyf18/how_to_know_if_a_girl_wants_to_hook_up/ | 0 | On one hand, most women frown upon hooking up publicly and say they're not interested in casual relationships. However, a lot of women also do want to hook up and act on that desire. I have had a few hookups in the past from Bumble and Hinge but all of them started off as a regular date. It wasn't very clear whether it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to know if a girl wants to hook up | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tvyf18/how_to_know_if_a_girl_wants_to_hook_up/ |
Sand_Complete | 2023-04-11 20:37:44 | 1,681,245,464 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 12iwskm | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12iwskm/am_i_wrong_to_be_disappointed_by_this/ | 1 | I (25f) met someone (31m) through bumble, we hit it off and decided to meet the next day for a coffee. He seemed very polite, funny, attentive and considerate. After our meet up, we always video call everyday and texting all the time. But during our first date he told me that he has some kind of fwb (A), and he told me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I wrong to be disappointed by this? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12iwskm/am_i_wrong_to_be_disappointed_by_this/ |
Lopsided_Ad_8320 | 2021-12-30 22:24:36 | 1,640,903,076 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rse06z | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rse06z/she_blocked_me_help/ | 1 | So i met this girl I tinder we met up and hangout out the night went well.We talked and got something to eat then next thing u know by the end of the night we’re making out(didn’t smash).The following days we were snap chatting everyday a lot and didn’t really notice any signs till the day before she blocked me she fla... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | SHE BLOCKED ME HELP | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rse06z/she_blocked_me_help/ |
underanewmoon | 2022-03-06 02:25:08 | 1,646,533,508 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | t7ov9u | true | null | 37 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/t7ov9u/advice_about_lat_and_young_children_before_i/ | 20 | Hi everyone I am a 41F and Mum to kids under 7. The last time I dated, online dating was still new and people wouldn't admit that they were using it, or that they had met their partner there. That was 12 years ago Eeeekkk After my marriage ended I waited 18 months before dating as I had a ton of trauma to unpack, and t... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Advice about LAT and young children before I venture into the wilds of OLD | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/t7ov9u/advice_about_lat_and_young_children_before_i/ |
fallleaves623 | 2018-10-16 18:20:32 | 1,539,714,032 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9oqa25 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9oqa25/should_i_meet_this_guy_in_person_that_i_matched/ | 9 | I matched with a guy yesterday. We ended up exchanging numbers and he mentioned that he was looking for a serious relationship (as am I). We were texting for most of the day and he was asking me questions about my hobbies, etc. Then he asked “what would you do to make your boyfriend happy”... huh? So I asked him what h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I meet this guy in person that I matched with on bumble even though he already gave me a bad vibe? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9oqa25/should_i_meet_this_guy_in_person_that_i_matched/ |
Oh-Fee-Fumbles | 2024-01-25 19:06:23 | 1,706,209,583 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 19fh0pp | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19fh0pp/thoughts_on_premium_services_in_dating_apps/ | 1 | Just want to know atleast a few people thoughts on these dating apps having premium services. In my hoenst opinion I kinda think they're a bit scummy especially when some of these apps have bots or dead/inactive accounts. It all just feel like you are paying for something essentially nothing just my opinion you are fre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on premium services in dating apps? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19fh0pp/thoughts_on_premium_services_in_dating_apps/ |
Virtual-Reporter2173 | 2022-07-19 05:41:28 | 1,658,209,288 | null | null | 0 | w2ky4g | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/w2ky4g/honest_dating_advice/ | 65 | 1.Worry less about if they like you, and more about if you even like them. 2. Rejection is not as personal as it feels. Liking someone or being liked is more about compatibility than inherent worth. 3. Stop choosing what isn't choosing you. If it's not mutual, why pursue it? 4.Ask yourself: Would you be friends with th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Honest Dating Advice | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/w2ky4g/honest_dating_advice/ |
leeyiman | 2022-05-17 21:36:04 | 1,652,823,364 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | urx1mq | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/urx1mq/what_do_your_think_about_the_appearance_is/ | 3 | I already tried to use Tinder and Grindr. - For T"nder, I just got some people likes my profile and no one wants chat me either, I tried chat them, but they ignored me. - For gr"ndr, I don't put my photo on my profile, but I always send my picture when texted them, after they saw my picture profile, they will automatic... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what do your think about the appearance is extremely important for dating? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/urx1mq/what_do_your_think_about_the_appearance_is/ |
Own_Zookeepergame432 | 2024-02-11 22:44:58 | 1,707,691,498 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1aokuai | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aokuai/fck_around_and_find_out/ | 1 | Last year a girl, let's call her B (27F), I (28M) used to see when I was around 15-16 texted me out of nowhere. We've kept in touch during the years but she was in a relationship so it was more of an old friend I liked to touch base on life with every year or two. But this time she texted me for a night drink and so I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | FCK around and Find out | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aokuai/fck_around_and_find_out/ |
unhinged_1 | 2021-04-02 13:57:25 | 1,617,371,845 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mikwhj | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mikwhj/dating_lessons_101_looking_for_the_realness/ | 17 | Here are a few things I've learned in online dating if you are searching for more than a "hook-up" that may help others out there. \- If someone states to you they are a "nice person" or "honest", they are in fact generally not a nice person or honest. I say this because anyone who has to convince you of their characte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Lessons 101: Looking for the realness | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mikwhj/dating_lessons_101_looking_for_the_realness/ |
bluealpacainthewild | 2023-05-01 17:22:10 | 1,682,961,730 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 134u4e6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/134u4e6/why_was_i_24f_able_to_get_more_tinder_matches/ | 1 | I’m not really sure what I did differently 6 months ago that got men to ask me out more. I still get a lot of matches, but barely anyone is actually reaching out and asking me on a date. What can I do to get men to actually ask me out? I’ve already tried messaging first, but I get no response every time. It’s just weir... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why was I (24F) able to get more tinder matches when I was emotionally unavailable as opposed to emotionally available? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/134u4e6/why_was_i_24f_able_to_get_more_tinder_matches/ |
mithu1108 | 2022-07-29 05:49:13 | 1,659,073,753 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | wawmoc | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wawmoc/why_am_i_finding_it_difficult_to_get_female/ | 2 | I used to approach women randomly and found that they are not interested in making friends or show any value to me. Am I doing something wrong? I have no friends who can introduce me to females, nor is online dating working. How do people meet? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why am I finding it difficult to get female friends | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wawmoc/why_am_i_finding_it_difficult_to_get_female/ |
cheeseMan579 | 2020-12-03 00:54:51 | 1,606,956,891 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | k5mrfg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k5mrfg/how_to_get_back_into_online_dating_again/ | 3 | Hi Reddit, so I’m a 24M and have been single for quite some time. I’ve had one serious relationship and I was the one who was broken up with. It kind of came out of the blue for me and it took me some time to mostly get over everything. I feel like I’m ready to date again but I don’t know if my confidence is totally th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get back into online dating again | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k5mrfg/how_to_get_back_into_online_dating_again/ |
alex_harold | 2019-06-19 17:42:36 | 1,560,966,156 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c2k4jw | true | Vent/Rant | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c2k4jw/just_need_to_vent/ | 6 | The genders and opposite what you might imagine... My first message to her on Tinder was that I’m not looking for a one night stand. The conversation takes off and we go on a date within a week (my first date after taking a year off). We hook up that night (my first time ever going home with a woman on a first date.) E... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just need to vent | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c2k4jw/just_need_to_vent/ |
xpssl | 2023-06-14 03:28:35 | 1,686,713,315 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 148xb13 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/148xb13/when_does_closure_need_to_be_given/ | 1 | This happened to me 6 months ago where a guy I saw a handful of times felt like he wanted more closure for why I didn’t want to keep seeing him. This guy, we have only met 4 times via a dating app but I’ve decided to accept that our lifestyle schedules do not align. We never exchange numbers or socials but I felt too b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When does closure need to be given? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/148xb13/when_does_closure_need_to_be_given/ |
bigmanpav | 2022-04-14 08:46:05 | 1,649,925,965 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | u3cqnb | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/u3cqnb/girl_i_dated_wants_to_be_friends_and_introduce_me/ | 1 | Hey guys, looking for advice on this situation. I went out with a girl I met on a dating app twice. We kissed on both occasions. The first date went really well and I felt we had a lot in common. On the second date, I was a little hungover and we went to a loud bar so I felt it didn't go as well as it could have. I fel... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl I dated wants to be friends and introduce me to her friends | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u3cqnb/girl_i_dated_wants_to_be_friends_and_introduce_me/ |
eatingpotatoesrn | 2020-12-26 18:43:54 | 1,609,008,234 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | kknhgd | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kknhgd/wtf_should_i_wear_on_a_first_bumble_date/ | 2 | I'm 21 female. I've never been on a date with someone I met online and I'm freaking out. We both work overnights and it's hard to find time, so we're going out for breakfast in the morning since we get off the same time. I nanny a kid so I'm usually dressed very comfortably, like in leggings or sweats. I don't want to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wtf should I wear on a first bumble date | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kknhgd/wtf_should_i_wear_on_a_first_bumble_date/ |
MySocialAlt | 2023-03-03 22:38:46 | 1,677,883,126 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11hhdm7 | true | Discussion | 3 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/11hhdm7/rules_recap_partial/ | 25 | It's not a place to push gendered agendas; it's not a place to talk about all the reasons not to date; it's not a place to talk about everything wrong with dating people over 40; and it's not a place to talk about everything that's wrong with your target gender. This is a sub that intends to be positive about dating, ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Rules Recap (partial) | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/11hhdm7/rules_recap_partial/ |
Alivelyrose43 | 2023-07-27 01:59:05 | 1,690,423,145 | 0 | null | 0 | 15aoqix | false | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15aoqix/would_you_be_offended_if_someone_called_you_a_bbw/ | 1 | How would that make you feel? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you be offended if someone called you a bbw on a dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15aoqix/would_you_be_offended_if_someone_called_you_a_bbw/ |
TheTinyToasterOven | 2022-12-18 19:08:10 | 1,671,390,490 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zp5pk8 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zp5pk8/those_who_have_been_in_the_game_for_a_while_is_it/ | 0 | Are dating apps supposed to be this hard? Is dating in real life supposed to be this hard? Is this normal? Ugh full disclosure I know this is about to sound very pick me but I don’t know of anywhere else to go where I can just get real feedback. I have come back into the dating game recently and it’s been a long, long ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Those who have been in the game for a while - is it supposed to be like this? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zp5pk8/those_who_have_been_in_the_game_for_a_while_is_it/ |
HighDrough | 2023-01-28 15:52:11 | 1,674,921,131 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 10ni6vf | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ni6vf/am_i_broken/ | 1 | am I broken? Years ago I was in a relationship with who I thought I'd marry, I left her and decided to move on. Recently, I decided I wanted to get back into the dating game , and I downloaded some apps. I have quiet a few matches and texting and talking is pretty easy with them however I can't seem to get past the scr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | am I broken? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ni6vf/am_i_broken/ |
okgodoremi | 2024-01-15 17:18:19 | 1,705,339,099 | 0 | ['OLD', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 197e2xv | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/197e2xv/no_luck_5mo_old/ | 25 | Venting here. I’ve done old apps like bumble, hinge and in September I opted to pay for six months of eHarmony. Only one date in five months, several fake profiles…and it’s so disheartening to see “you have no new likes” every day. I reach out to make conversation and it dies out. I don’t want to buy another six months... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | No luck, 5mo OLD | 25 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/197e2xv/no_luck_5mo_old/ |
nickhpdx | 2019-05-23 17:48:12 | 1,558,633,692 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | bs5zy8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bs5zy8/why_am_i_overthinking_texting_with_her/ | 3 | Right now I'm (23M) and met a so far goofy, fun, beautiful chica (21F) on OkCupid and we had the first date this last Sunday. That lasted for roughly 4 to 5 hours and she said she had a good time. A day or so later we were messaging about when to go out again and what to do. She said she wanted to go out for cheesecake... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why am I overthinking texting with her | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bs5zy8/why_am_i_overthinking_texting_with_her/ |
HebrewDude | 2017-07-11 18:12:58 | 1,499,796,778 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 6mo21d | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6mo21d/super_smooth_date_but_no_intentions_were_messaged/ | 3 | I dated as many girls as the fingers I have on my right hand, am 24 and two nights ago I've had my best date, hands-down with a lovely 25 y/o. I'll try to keep it as short and to the point as I could, met on OKcupid, didn't talk much, gave her my number, she messaged me but up until now she takes decades to answer, I d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Super smooth date, but no intentions were messaged | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6mo21d/super_smooth_date_but_no_intentions_were_messaged/ |
Frosty_Giraffe_7675 | 2024-01-16 16:36:55 | 1,705,423,015 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | 19875u4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19875u4/is_he_flaking_on_me/ | 2 | Met a guy on a dating app. he is (37M), I am (29F). We’ve been texting a lot for almost two weeks but he hasn’t asked me for my number nor did he call me. He finally set up a date two days ago tomorrow but texted me today on the app to postpone till next week and see our schedules then and he apologized. I replied okay... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he flaking on me? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19875u4/is_he_flaking_on_me/ |
justbecuz1 | 2021-01-13 17:06:09 | 1,610,557,569 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | kwkqpn | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kwkqpn/i_just_signed_up_for_tinder/ | 0 | I just got on Tinder. I recently got out of a marriage that was 9 years. I'm so new to this dating thing I don't even know how to talk to the opposite sex. I had a guy message be and I logged off. LOL. What are some tips that you can offer me? Also is tinder a good app? I guess for now I have want to build my confidenc... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I just signed up for Tinder | null | 0.41 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kwkqpn/i_just_signed_up_for_tinder/ |
ASuperNormalGuy | 2020-01-21 21:13:19 | 1,579,641,199 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | es15pn | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/es15pn/introverted_and_trying/ | 3 | Hey everyone, to start this is absolutely a throwaway account because I'm unsure of the reaction. It's a bit of a venting schpeal but I'd appreciate any advice. I'm 22-23(m) and I've hit a bit of a snag in the dating world. It's been about six months since my three year long distance relationship collapsed rather mutua... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Introverted and trying. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/es15pn/introverted_and_trying/ |
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