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Revolutionary_Set408 | 2022-08-08 17:15:00 | 1,659,978,900 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wjee8c | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/wjee8c/how_to_ask_him_about_his_past_relationships/ | 0 | I (F34) have been on 3 dates with this guy (M49). We have been talking for about 3 weeks. We have had deep convos about family, work, lifestyle, etc. but never about past relationships. He did mention once briefly a gf but never really elaborated much. I am new to OLD after 12 years in a LTR. Whats the best way to get ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to ask him about his past relationships? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wjee8c/how_to_ask_him_about_his_past_relationships/ |
Legitimate_Top9819 | 2022-03-31 08:34:55 | 1,648,715,695 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | tsv9k8 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tsv9k8/shall_i_text_him/ | 2 | I meet this guy on dating app.. went on few dates was going well.... he is university student and he said he is going to be very busy with exams and assignments.. So, like everytime I text him he would say he is busy studying. Its now three months since I have started talking and meeting him.. I am now left on seen for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shall i text him? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tsv9k8/shall_i_text_him/ |
TaiserRY | 2022-12-26 14:29:56 | 1,672,064,996 | null | null | 0 | zvo9oa | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zvo9oa/whenwhats_the_norm_for_asking_them_out_on_a_first/ | 2 | So I’ve (24M) started using Hinge again recently and although I don’t have issues with matches, I’m finding it hard to get to the date stage. In the UK I don’t know whether it’s different? Normally once I mention the idea of a date I don’t get a response or they respond saying they’re interested but don’t respond after... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When/What’s the norm for asking them out on a first date? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zvo9oa/whenwhats_the_norm_for_asking_them_out_on_a_first/ |
maiyu9 | 2023-08-30 23:36:16 | 1,693,438,576 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 165uhr6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/165uhr6/did_i_lie_too_much/ | 1 | So I downloaded a dating app and dun want any of my homies to find out. I used a fake name and no pictures. I been talkin and most of the shit I say is accurate to my personality but when it comes to things that might reveal what my real name is I lie. I lied about obvs my name, where I live, and if I knew someone they... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I lie too much? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/165uhr6/did_i_lie_too_much/ |
PdlRN | 2020-12-01 12:30:51 | 1,606,825,851 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | k4jyr0 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/k4jyr0/design_your_own_old/ | 18 | If you could design your own OLD site, what would it look like? I mean we all seem to hate the ones we’re stuck with so I wondered what we would go differently. Specific photo shots? Standard questions that must be answered? If I’m wishing, how about photos no older than 6 months to a year. Full body shots and head sho... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Design your own OLD | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/k4jyr0/design_your_own_old/ |
Business_Space_5584 | 2024-03-01 16:01:24 | 1,709,308,884 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b3xsyn | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b3xsyn/i_met_a_man/ | 1 | I met this man through a dating app, he was coming for a one week vacation to my country with his friends. We had been talking and facetiming before he arrived and then he finally landed and we met and yo lemme tell you something this man was finnnneee.. tall, chocolate skin, beard and everything. Can you believe he ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I met a MAN! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b3xsyn/i_met_a_man/ |
MikoMiso | 2017-07-11 08:17:19 | 1,499,761,039 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 6mkvkb | null | null | 33 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6mkvkb/curious/ | 17 | Is there anyone in this sub that's not using OLD or apps to meet people to date? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Curious... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6mkvkb/curious/ |
Andreas_RDX | 2022-06-21 05:53:33 | 1,655,790,813 | null | ['online dating', 'dating platform', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | vh65is | true | Question | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vh65is/what_do_you_wish_for_when_using_an_online_dating/ | 1 | There are thousands of online dating platforms. They offer high chances of success. But I would also like to have more support in finding and choosing a partner. For example, how I can quickly and easily see whether the other person really suits me. And what do you want from an online dating platform? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do you wish for when using an online dating platform? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vh65is/what_do_you_wish_for_when_using_an_online_dating/ |
Pitiful_Impression_8 | 2021-05-03 21:26:59 | 1,620,077,219 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | n47ud1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n47ud1/online_dating_triggering_my_anxiety/ | 3 | Hi there. Any advice on this would be extremely welcome. I'm dating by 3-4 months and am trying to meet a partner for a serious relationship. I'm 34f and ready to settle down. In a good place and have done a lot of healing work. Been on loads of tinder dates the past 3 months..20+ I've done a mix of approaches some I'v... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating triggering my anxiety? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n47ud1/online_dating_triggering_my_anxiety/ |
ladyoftheorb | 2022-07-17 05:19:49 | 1,658,035,189 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w0zrph | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w0zrph/he_hasnt_texted_me_back_in_4_days_should_i_be/ | 1 | So I’ve (24f) been talking to this guy (23m) for about two months. We met on tinder and started texting almost daily until now as friends because that’s what he was looking for. We finally met and hung out for the first time last weekend, which was great I went into the hang out expecting us to chill as friends, but ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He hasn’t texted me back in 4 days. Should I be worried? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w0zrph/he_hasnt_texted_me_back_in_4_days_should_i_be/ |
Dogs-are-life-99 | 2020-03-20 00:29:24 | 1,584,664,164 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fll7z2 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fll7z2/the_struggle_is_real/ | 1 | The struggle is real when your attracted to guys that solid 10's on the scale and your not a 10, because only guys that are a 10 date girls that are a 10...the struggle is real especially with online dating! :( | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The struggle is real! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fll7z2/the_struggle_is_real/ |
[deleted] | 2019-03-30 10:46:12 | 1,553,942,772 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | b79wni | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b79wni/is_this_a_red_flag_or_am_i_being_too_cautious/ | 6 | Guy I met on a dating app but haven’t met in person yet, been talking two days, keeps saying how I should cancel the account on the app cause I met him. Said it at least 3 times. Then saw I canceled it and I said yeah cause the people were annoying me and he says I thought you did it for me. Is this a red flag or am I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this a red flag or am I being too cautious? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b79wni/is_this_a_red_flag_or_am_i_being_too_cautious/ |
soupysurprises | 2024-06-10 03:21:05 | 1,717,989,665 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dcbx2u | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dcbx2u/how_to_feel_after_a_second_date_how_to_know_what/ | 1 | In summary I (24F) matched with this guy(26M) on hinge. We went on a first date and he was really respectful and we had a decent time. I was generally attracted to him even though he’s on the shorter side and I do prefer taller guys but I agreed to a second date. Second date went really good, I had a lot of fun and fel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to feel after a second date? How to know what to peruse? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dcbx2u/how_to_feel_after_a_second_date_how_to_know_what/ |
Corporate_Marsupial | 2016-01-10 08:00:12 | 1,452,412,812 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 40agp1 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/40agp1/can_somebody_give_me_some_insight_into_the_female/ | 1 | So, this is probably a pretty typical story but i just need some advice. I met a girl on tinder, talked for about an hour, decided to meet up for drinks at a local bar. From there, I'd say the date went pretty damn well, I think we really hit it off, made a lot of eye contact, laughed a lot. 3 hours and about 4 drinks ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can somebody give me some insight into the female brain? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/40agp1/can_somebody_give_me_some_insight_into_the_female/ |
sicklyhorse | 2024-04-16 04:57:28 | 1,713,243,448 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c57rc0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c57rc0/am_i_25f_moving_way_too_fast_with_this_guy_30m/ | 1 | So, context first, I (25F) just got out of a decade long on and off relationship after moving to a new place. I have no friends where I'm at and so I downloaded Hinge and Tinder. I met this guy (30M) on hinge and we had instant chemistry, completely undeniable. Talked for about three days nonstop before meeting up. We ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I (25F) moving way too fast with this guy (30M)? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c57rc0/am_i_25f_moving_way_too_fast_with_this_guy_30m/ |
Ok_Sun_7913 | 2022-03-20 17:34:48 | 1,647,797,688 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | tiq9rg | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tiq9rg/recently_single_but_struggling/ | 1 | I have no idea how to put myself out there. I don’t think I’m ready for anything serious but I need to get my mind off of my ex somehow. I’ve downloaded all the dating apps I know of (tinder, hinge, bumble). I was seeing someone for about a month, nothing serious just drinks and hanging out. But that’s looking like it’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Recently single but struggling | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tiq9rg/recently_single_but_struggling/ |
Hadrianus1988 | 2022-08-08 18:29:06 | 1,659,983,346 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | wjga0z | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wjga0z/how_to_keep_things_fresh_and_fun_while_away_on/ | 7 | I (34M) started seeing someone (31F) at the beginning of the summer. We hit it off over Hinge chat and we really wanted to meet before I left for vacation. So her and I went for drinks the evening before my early flight. Our date ended up lasting like six hours. As soon as I got home, she sent me her phone number and w... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How to keep things fresh and fun while away on vacation? | null | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wjga0z/how_to_keep_things_fresh_and_fun_while_away_on/ |
unknownsesu | 2022-08-19 23:31:33 | 1,660,951,893 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wssahw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wssahw/i_need_advice/ | 1 | So I recently started dating and found this guy on a dating app. He genuinely seems like a nice guy but my thing is he’s never been in a relationship before and doesn’t have experience in anything sexual or inmate. I’m 20 and he’s 22. And genuinely I do like him but I feel like he’s rushing a lot of things which is put... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need advice! | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wssahw/i_need_advice/ |
experllenial | 2023-06-06 05:40:28 | 1,686,030,028 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14257m3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14257m3/is_it_okay_to_go_up_to_someone_and_say_hello/ | 1 | I’m sorry—I’m sure that this question has been beat to death on this subreddit. But, I really would like to hear anyone’s thoughts on the matter. For most of my (M/26) life, I’ve been incredibly shy. I didn’t go on my first date until I was 20 and ever since then I’ve relied entirely on dating apps to meet women. I’ve ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it okay to go up to someone and say hello? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14257m3/is_it_okay_to_go_up_to_someone_and_say_hello/ |
Pepperspray24 | 2021-05-29 12:20:32 | 1,622,290,832 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nnmc5e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nnmc5e/what_in_the_actual_fuck/ | 9 | TL;DR at the bottom So there was a guy who added me on Snapchat we’ll call him L. He didn't know me but he was one of those guys who started out flirting and asking for pictures then backpedaling when I got mad like "oh yeah I do want to get to know you as a person" yeah...okay. He tried to convince me to talk to him a... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK!? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nnmc5e/what_in_the_actual_fuck/ |
BombinPotato | 2019-03-14 21:23:01 | 1,552,598,581 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | b160bk | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b160bk/17m_ive_never_had_a_girlfriend_and_im_really/ | 1 | Like the title says ive never had a girlfriend amd im really deppressed about being a virgin but i dont want a girlfriend for the sex (i know it sounds like i do but hear me out) i mean it would happen but i just want someone who sees me for me and for all the innocent things in a relationship like tje hand holding the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (17M) ive never had a girlfriend and im really deppressed about being a virgin | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b160bk/17m_ive_never_had_a_girlfriend_and_im_really/ |
Whitey98 | 2015-06-13 15:17:14 | 1,434,208,634 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | 39po5q | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/39po5q/out_of_my_league_or_out_of_my_mind/ | 2 | To be as succinct as possible, I'm a bigger guy. 6'2, heavily muscled but chubby. Used to be in better shape but years and life sort of got the best of me and currently having issues shedding the weight I'd like. Online dating seems to net me, what I would consider, really nice women that I'm not that attracted to. I u... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Out of my league or out of my mind? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/39po5q/out_of_my_league_or_out_of_my_mind/ |
alaska4evr | 2024-04-13 19:30:53 | 1,713,036,653 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c3a0gg | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c3a0gg/confused/ | 1 | Met this woman on tinder, been talking for a week and decided to meet up with her at her place and hookup. I get there, suggest we watch a movie and I try to make a move. We sit there talking random bullshit, while she’s texting her friend and I’m honestly bored at this point cause her body is kinda facing away like sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3a0gg/confused/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-27 22:33:57 | 1,609,108,437 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | kld3cd | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/kld3cd/how_can_i_get_back_into_dating/ | 0 | I posted a previous query about what to do since my boyfriend hasn't been responding to my messages (since November). I'm thinking about breaking it off. I message him and start getting sad when I don't get a response. I'm African-American and want a cute white or Asian boyfriend (or girlfriend). Thing is, I only dated... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How can I get back into dating? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/kld3cd/how_can_i_get_back_into_dating/ |
Misty-moors | 2023-06-07 07:20:14 | 1,686,122,414 | 0 | null | 0 | 1436br1 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1436br1/how_do_you_real_with_ghosting_after_intimacy/ | 5 | It’s happened to me a few times (three times). I honestly don’t know if there’s something wrong with me or if I’m getting with the wrong types of guys. But mostly I’m wondering how to heal from when that happens because my confidence is in the gutter. I’m 25f. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you real with ghosting after intimacy | 5 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1436br1/how_do_you_real_with_ghosting_after_intimacy/ |
imperfection101 | 2022-03-19 01:05:06 | 1,647,651,906 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | thk079 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/thk079/whats_the_right_time_and_how_to_start_dating/ | 3 | I (25) have been in a relationship with my long-term boyfriend (29) of 3.5 years. He's planning to move out of the country within the next two months for good and has no plans of ever coming back. I have no plans to go where he's going so the logical thing for us to do is break up once he leaves. We haven't had this co... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's the right time (and how) to start dating again after a long-term relationship ends? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/thk079/whats_the_right_time_and_how_to_start_dating/ |
sadpandashoemaker | 2020-11-06 21:02:46 | 1,604,696,566 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | jpde5c | true | Venting | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jpde5c/my_dating_history_current_situation/ | 4 | I \[28M\] just wanted to post my dating history and current situation. Venting here but would also love some advice if anyone has any! This is long. Really long. Sorry I have no TLDR. I will break everything down over four Acts. ACT 1. \- Enter highschool: Everything is new and exciting and I'm surrounded by the opposi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My Dating History and Current Situation | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jpde5c/my_dating_history_current_situation/ |
Ramses-Brye-Bey | 2021-10-12 23:00:12 | 1,634,079,612 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | q6xvt5 | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q6xvt5/how_can_i_get_ladies_to_date_me_you_know_since/ | 18 | I have been on dating apps for a while now and its not really going any way… i get rejected a lot. What should i do… I’m running out of idea. General advice will help very much | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can i get ladies to date me… you know… since dating apps don’t work | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q6xvt5/how_can_i_get_ladies_to_date_me_you_know_since/ |
Pristine-Drawing-546 | 2022-09-27 10:38:27 | 1,664,275,107 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xpd4aj | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xpd4aj/downloaded_dating_apps_today/ | 0 | So ypdate from my earlier post. Were broken up, im going to the gym, and now im downloading datings apps. Any recommendations and has the dating scene changed up at all in the past 4 years? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Downloaded dating apps today | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xpd4aj/downloaded_dating_apps_today/ |
susdimaddome69420 | 2022-07-20 23:30:48 | 1,658,359,848 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | w40y33 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w40y33/should_i_stop_using_dating_apps_if_i_like_a/ | 1 | I (23m) matched with the cutest girl and we went on a date. She says she liked it a lot and would like to go on another date and hang out again so great! But I've been continuing to use dating apps just to see what other options there are but mostly out if boredom. If we were actually officially dating and not just goi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I stop using dating apps if I like a person I matched with? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w40y33/should_i_stop_using_dating_apps_if_i_like_a/ |
MwahMwahKitteh | 2020-01-31 22:35:35 | 1,580,510,135 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eww9rl | true | Venting | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eww9rl/why_dont_guys_ever_listen/ | 3 | I put it right at the top of my profiles that I need to take things slow. But guys just never seem to listen. They ask me over to their place on the first couple of dates, propose sex even before meeting, just want to jump right into full on sex, etc. I'm not even on Tinder. And I don't think I'm wearing make up in mos... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why don't guys ever listen? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eww9rl/why_dont_guys_ever_listen/ |
Wi1dfir344321 | 2023-09-17 00:16:04 | 1,694,909,764 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 16kmioq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16kmioq/im_need_of_serious_advice_hold_the_judgment/ | 1 | I need serious advice and I'm desperate. I don't usually turn to a public forum but I need outside opinions that are unbiased. Just don't judge please, I've got enough shit going on. Anyways, here's my problem. I was on a few "dating sites" (and I use the term loosely) and I met this girl. We've been chatting for a cou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm need of serious advice (hold the judgment) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16kmioq/im_need_of_serious_advice_hold_the_judgment/ |
llucyys | 2024-06-01 00:32:17 | 1,717,201,937 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1d5al7p | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d5al7p/why_are_dating_apps_so_dreadful/ | 1 | I downloaded hinge because i wanted to meet new people, just something friendly or casual. No, the first guy i matched with asked what i was doing after 10pm tonight.. like really? Mind you i haven’t been on a dating app in several months and it just gave me the ick. I’d genuinely like to get to know someone and not ju... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why are dating apps so dreadful | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d5al7p/why_are_dating_apps_so_dreadful/ |
AnyaGoblessed | 2023-09-05 03:16:20 | 1,693,883,780 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16acqk6 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16acqk6/dealbreakers_top_5/ | 1 | Can you share your top 5 dealbreakers when it comes to a potential match? I am researching dating apps for a project and would appreciate any input. Thanks in advance! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dealbreakers: Top 5? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16acqk6/dealbreakers_top_5/ |
Ps4gal94 | 2020-01-21 20:56:23 | 1,579,640,183 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | es0wkg | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/es0wkg/are_dating_apps_a_good_way_to_go_about_meeting/ | 8 | I’ve tried a good chunk of them and have had no luck. Is there something wrong with me or are they known to not be helpful? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are dating apps a good way to go about meeting people if you’re introverted and have no friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/es0wkg/are_dating_apps_a_good_way_to_go_about_meeting/ |
CarpenterNo2040 | 2023-02-13 04:49:53 | 1,676,263,793 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 110zqo3 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/110zqo3/does_he_like_me/ | 0 | I went out on a date with a guy I met on tinder. We met everything was going well but we both still were or seemed very reserved. After some dinner we planned to go out for a movie. During the movie he pulled me closer and starting getting a little goofy. Kissing me, biting my hand lol and just being funny and cute. I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does he like me? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/110zqo3/does_he_like_me/ |
acoustictexter | 2017-11-18 13:19:09 | 1,511,011,149 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7dsuup | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7dsuup/is_it_possible_to_salvage_this_texting_f_up/ | 1 | I'm relatively new to the dating game so I'm just trying to get experience talking/meeting with girls. That said, I've been talking to a girl on a dating app for 2-3 days and while asking her questions she's been giving me short replies of not much substance. On the off chance that she might just hate texting I asked h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it possible to salvage this texting f up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7dsuup/is_it_possible_to_salvage_this_texting_f_up/ |
beach_boy0506 | 2019-07-20 07:15:02 | 1,563,606,902 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cfj2dg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/cfj2dg/men_who_have_ever_looked_for_a_one_night_stand_on/ | 2 | First of all, I'm sorry if this is too long and boring. I posted this on another subreddit before, and apparently many think I'm an asshole for wanting to hook up, but then got stood up, which I personally think is a dick move, whether you are looking for a one night stand only or a real date with conversation over din... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who have ever looked for a one night stand on Tinder only to be stood up later, what do you think about warning your friend about this girl who once stood you up nastily? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/cfj2dg/men_who_have_ever_looked_for_a_one_night_stand_on/ |
boypenius | 2024-02-23 02:33:55 | 1,708,655,635 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1axpcvr | true | null | 98 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1axpcvr/whats_the_best_way_to_tell_a_match_youre_not/ | 34 | I had a video call last night with a Hinge match. Going into it, I didn't really have the highest expectations because I sensed that beyond us both being single and somewhat local to one another, we really didn't share much in common for there to be a potential romantic connection. The conversation moved along well and... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What's the best way to tell a match you're not interested in meeting in person after you've already have a video call? | 34 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1axpcvr/whats_the_best_way_to_tell_a_match_youre_not/ |
BombinPotato | 2020-02-10 14:30:43 | 1,581,345,043 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | f1r2po | true | I Need Advice | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f1r2po/18m_i_want_a_relationship_but_have_no_idea_how_to/ | 18 | Ive lived a pretty sheltered life over the past 2-3 years due to previous mental health problems im all good now though i just dont know how to meet people who are serious about a relationship, im an attractive guy roughly about a 7-8/10 from what girls have told me. Ive tried online dating but its not for me judging p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (18m) i want a relationship but have no idea how to put myself out there | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f1r2po/18m_i_want_a_relationship_but_have_no_idea_how_to/ |
StaticNocturne | 2022-01-08 18:54:51 | 1,641,668,091 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rz6yzc | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rz6yzc/whats_the_most_gentle_way_to_end_things_if_you/ | 4 | Ideally you don't want them feeling like a hideous beast, however if you actually get on quite well it can be difficult to blame it on a lack of compatibility of chemistry. I've found myself just going with the old excuse that I've realised i'm not in the right headspace for dating right now, then hope they don't see m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What's the most gentle way to end things if you realize that you're not very physically attracted to them? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rz6yzc/whats_the_most_gentle_way_to_end_things_if_you/ |
beyondthisreality123 | 2022-08-18 19:11:44 | 1,660,849,904 | null | ['swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | wrrzze | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wrrzze/if_you_match_with_a_girl_mainly_on_tinder_and/ | 0 | What are some other possible reason? Thanks for any insight into this🙏🏼 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you match with a girl mainly on tinder (and other apps too), but they never even reply to a first “Hi” is it safe to assume they were just auto swiping right on everyone? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wrrzze/if_you_match_with_a_girl_mainly_on_tinder_and/ |
[deleted] | 2018-05-29 18:50:15 | 1,527,619,815 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8n1lkm | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8n1lkm/why_do_i_always_question_why_guys_would_like_me/ | 1 | I have a severe weight problem which I am very self conscious about. I have actually lost like 50ibs but still pretty big. I am very insecure about the way that I look and cry about it a lot. I hate it when guys tell me I'm pretty and beautiful and crap because I don't know if they're being sincere or not. I have just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do I always question why guys would like me? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8n1lkm/why_do_i_always_question_why_guys_would_like_me/ |
Historical_Curve_930 | 2023-03-27 01:29:09 | 1,679,880,549 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1236sf6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1236sf6/havent_heard_from_him_since_our_date/ | 1 | I (25f) went on my first date with a guy (25m) I met on bumble. We started talking a few days before I went on vacation for a week so we had been talking a little over 2 weeks when we finally met. We have been messaging all day every day in those 2 weeks. I thought the date went well but I don’t have a lot of experienc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Haven’t heard from him since our date | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1236sf6/havent_heard_from_him_since_our_date/ |
LawEqual8886 | 2024-02-12 16:07:32 | 1,707,754,052 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ap3h9e | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ap3h9e/im24funhappy_in_failing_relationshipits_probably/ | 1 | I caught him cheating, he was texting another girl after he promised to delete his dating apps and he’s just been acting weird asf. Like his texts have been slow or non existent and I feel like the effort isn’t there anymore. It’s like he’s no longer excited about me it seems to be interested in furthering the relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m(24f)unhappy in failing relationship..it’s probably over | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ap3h9e/im24funhappy_in_failing_relationshipits_probably/ |
godfollowing | 2023-10-17 00:02:39 | 1,697,500,959 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 179ksxa | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/179ksxa/cant_tell_if_im_friendzoned_too_scared_to_ruin/ | 1 | I met \[22\] a girl \[20\] on a dating app around 6 months ago. We went on a date and hit it off but nothing happened, apart from a hug and kiss goodbye. Few weeks later, she came over to my place. We drank, watched a movie etc. But I noticed that she tended to sit away from me (on the other side of the bed) which made... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can't tell if I'm friendzoned, too scared to ruin things | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/179ksxa/cant_tell_if_im_friendzoned_too_scared_to_ruin/ |
throwaway786829 | 2022-05-07 21:17:08 | 1,651,958,228 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ukmmir | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ukmmir/aita_in_this_situation/ | 1 | So I was talking to this girl off Tinder and we had a date set for last night at 7. We were talking on and off for about a week and then Tuesday she stops texting me. Friday morning (day of scheduled date) I text her in the morning asking if she was still down to go out. No response and I decide to do something else in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | AITA in this situation? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ukmmir/aita_in_this_situation/ |
BamzTheGoat | 2024-06-11 17:53:02 | 1,718,128,382 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ddkemw | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ddkemw/dating_super_sucks/ | 1 | Title is all. I’m a large fella, but I’m working on it by eating healthy and working in the gym (down 60lbs wooooohooo). But I just get no matches on dating apps and the ladies seem to not like being approached by me. When I do get matches and plan dates it usually results in a ghosting after or my personal favorite, j... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating super sucks | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddkemw/dating_super_sucks/ |
KMtchi19 | 2020-12-27 23:02:06 | 1,609,110,126 | null | null | 0 | kldlp3 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/kldlp3/has_covid_killed_online_dating/ | 2 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has COVID killed online dating? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/kldlp3/has_covid_killed_online_dating/ |
matk95 | 2016-05-23 17:39:45 | 1,464,025,185 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4kp56b | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4kp56b/she_likes_be_but_doenst_want_to_hang_out/ | 1 | Ok so hear me out, I matched with this girl on Tinder, we've been talking for a little while now. We talk a lot on facebook, she said a couple of times that she likes me, I said I like her as weell. The thing is, she never wants to go out. I told her a couple of times that we should do something together, go for a coff... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She likes be but doens't want to hang out. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4kp56b/she_likes_be_but_doenst_want_to_hang_out/ |
Dense_Nature_ | 2023-11-03 04:42:42 | 1,698,986,562 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17mn6m4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17mn6m4/how_can_introverted_guy_find_a_date_without/ | 1 | I am (25M) from Atlanta, Georgia and finding it a bit challenging to navigate the dating scene. I don't drink or smoke, and I haven't had much luck with dating apps, so I'm looking for some advice on alternative ways to meet new people and potentially find a date. I'm not very outgoing, so meeting new people in social ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can Introverted guy find a date without dating apps? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17mn6m4/how_can_introverted_guy_find_a_date_without/ |
[deleted] | 2020-03-26 19:10:33 | 1,585,249,833 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | fphl28 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fphl28/girls_what_does_cute_mean/ | 4 | [23M] From a girl’s perspective, what is the difference between hot, handsome, cute, attractive etc. when they tell this to a guy? Especially in online dating apps, the most common compliment I got from girls is that I am cute. Not sure what it means. I understand puppies are cute, but how does this translate on humans... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls, what does ‘cute’ mean? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fphl28/girls_what_does_cute_mean/ |
BestBrazilianGuy | 2023-10-31 00:16:21 | 1,698,711,381 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17k804a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17k804a/i_wanna_hangout_with_the_boss_of_a_match/ | 1 | I’ve met a match from Tinder in a bar. She was with her boss. At the first moment I’ve liked and spent the whole night with her boss. But I couldn’t just ask her boss to leave with me. Then I left her boss home by my car. And kept with the girl. We kept talking, and spent the night together. In reality I thought I woul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I wanna hangout with the boss of a match | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17k804a/i_wanna_hangout_with_the_boss_of_a_match/ |
jd_93-wtid | 2020-07-26 00:28:58 | 1,595,723,338 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | hxxdon | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hxxdon/how_to_find_a_partner_with_the_same_sexual/ | 2 | Hello. I’m just out a long term relationship mainly lasted due to having similar sexual kinks. However I admit the kinks involved are alone not normal so having the lust for at least the majority of them makes me think it will be difficult. (Hairy water sports and pegging to name a few) I no there’s dating sites out th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to find a partner with the same sexual appetite as me? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hxxdon/how_to_find_a_partner_with_the_same_sexual/ |
Ruby_Dalia | 2019-05-23 14:46:51 | 1,558,622,811 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | bs3u9t | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bs3u9t/unphotogenic/ | 28 | Are you ok looking in person but hideous in photos? I feel you. I am not a classic beauty by any means, but what I see in the mirror is alright, what I see on photo is terrible. I am regularly told by dudes I have met through OLD, "you look so much better than your photos" In a world where we all meet online, so the be... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Unphotogenic? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bs3u9t/unphotogenic/ |
daisies0812 | 2021-09-15 16:54:10 | 1,631,724,850 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | pou225 | true | I Need Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pou225/seeing_a_second_guy_worth_the_risk/ | 9 | I need some help. I started seeing this guy that I really really like. However, I can feel him pulling away. I broached the topic with him, but he said he didn't want out -- just said we need to get to know each other better before exclusivity. I'm not sure what's going on with him, so I started exploring OLD. I starte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Seeing a second guy -- worth the risk? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pou225/seeing_a_second_guy_worth_the_risk/ |
chatterfoxmed | 2023-10-18 23:10:28 | 1,697,670,628 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17b48ln | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17b48ln/what_happened_depression/ | 1 | Met a guy back in May, matched on Hinge in a city neither of us live in and met up once briefly while there. We went back to our respective states, discussed the distance and said we were cool with it (very common in our field), and continued to talk daily for almost 4 months. He asked early on what intentions were and... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What happened..? Depression? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17b48ln/what_happened_depression/ |
IrritatedMango | 2019-09-27 13:48:14 | 1,569,592,094 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | da0nt7 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/da0nt7/i_think_my_hookup_might_have_feelings_for_me_but/ | 1 | Hi, So long story short, met him on Tinder (he's 23M and I'm 21F) and we hit it off from the first conversation we had on there. We sleep together quite regularly but on top of that he's been doing these things \- Facetimes me 3-4 times a week for an hour before he goes to bed and we talk about basically anything. Same... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think my hookup might have feelings for me but he's in denial? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/da0nt7/i_think_my_hookup_might_have_feelings_for_me_but/ |
CocaCola13711 | 2020-04-20 09:18:01 | 1,587,374,281 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | g4pkxt | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g4pkxt/i_m24_am_going_on_a_first_date_in_vegas_but_i/ | 1 | I would like to preface this That this will be my very first date ever, I really don’t date people but me and this girl matched on tinder abs have been taking for about a week now and we already have talked about going on our first date. Unfortunately due to the coronavirus we’ve had a put it on pause for a little bit ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [m24] am going on a first date in Vegas but I don’t know what to do help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g4pkxt/i_m24_am_going_on_a_first_date_in_vegas_but_i/ |
cncrndctznofportland | 2022-08-21 02:38:12 | 1,661,049,492 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | wtog30 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wtog30/girls_keep_agreeing_to_dates_and_then_ghosting/ | 3 | I’m going crazy. On the apps. Literally the last 10 matches that I’ve had nice conversations with, after I’ve asked them out, and they’ve SAID YES, they’ve proceeded to ghost me when I’ve asked when they’re free. Has something changed in the air? I haven’t experienced this to such a high frequency in the past. To give ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls keep agreeing to dates and then ghosting | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wtog30/girls_keep_agreeing_to_dates_and_then_ghosting/ |
Mojojayjo | 2024-06-13 15:18:11 | 1,718,291,891 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1df1i0h | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1df1i0h/such_a_thing_as_too_good/ | 1 | I am dating for the first time in several years. Dating to find my person also. I matched with a guy and we have been on 4 dates. Every date, he has paid for. I have insisted on paying for things and he would not allow it. He is extremely polite. Walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street, opens car door f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Such a thing as TOO good? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1df1i0h/such_a_thing_as_too_good/ |
[deleted] | 2014-12-23 06:42:59 | 1,419,316,979 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2q5i89 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/2q5i89/online_dating_first_email/ | 1 | I have literally no experience with online dating. I go to college pursuing a highly technical degree and the vast majority of women I encounter are college chicks. Nothing wrong with that, but I wanted to meet some women outside of college. So, how does this sound for a first email: "Hi! [Insert some observation about... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating first email. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2q5i89/online_dating_first_email/ |
Peon-Flux | 2023-03-28 15:50:42 | 1,680,018,642 | null | null | 0 | 124t8re | true | null | 76 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/124t8re/if_women_were_as_horny_as_men_the_playing_field/ | 0 | The fact that idiots still deny that this is the root cause of every issue in dating is frightening, if they can deny this obvious reality what else are they willing to turn a blind eye to? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If women were as horny as men, the playing field would be level. Most men wouldn’t struggle and most women wouldn’t complain about harassment and being constantly hit on. | null | 0.27 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/124t8re/if_women_were_as_horny_as_men_the_playing_field/ |
oztraveling | 2024-08-22 12:32:50 | 1,724,329,970 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1eyi516 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eyi516/should_i_text_him/ | 0 | I went on a date with a guy last Friday that I’ve been talking to for 6 months. We met on hinge while I was living in the US and recently moved to his country (Uk) to travel and work remotely. Before I got to the uk, we talked on the phone a lot and he was usually pretty communicative. On Friday, I’ll admit the date wa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text him? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eyi516/should_i_text_him/ |
duenebula499 | 2024-03-29 16:43:18 | 1,711,730,598 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bqtuye | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bqtuye/where_are_some_good_placessites_to_meet_people/ | 1 | Hey all 23M here and I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask but I’m trying to actually get into the dating scene. I’ve been decently successful so far but because of that I’ve never actually had to ask anyone out or put myself out there, so I’m kind of at a loss for where to start. I’m looking to meet people wi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where are some good places/sites to meet people? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bqtuye/where_are_some_good_placessites_to_meet_people/ |
throwawayy225566 | 2020-07-01 23:52:52 | 1,593,647,572 | null | ['matched', 'okcupid'] | 0 | hjm5zk | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hjm5zk/girl_ghosted_me_after_i_asked_her_on_a_date/ | 4 | I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I thought dating was about meeting up and getting to know eachother and testing physical chemistry. In this situation, we matched on okcupid and I got her number- we texted for a few days and I thought she was cool so I asked her out. Been over 24 hours w no response. Her texts we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl ghosted me after I asked her on a date.. | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjm5zk/girl_ghosted_me_after_i_asked_her_on_a_date/ |
Adventurous_Lab1516 | 2024-06-10 23:13:04 | 1,718,061,184 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1dczkff | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dczkff/my_recent_terrible_dating_experience_how_can_i/ | 1 | I (30F) live in a foreign country, haven’t gone on a date with anyone for 8 months so I could focus on myself. 2 months ago, I met with a guy (36M) online. I overlooked a lot of red flags I don’t know why. Here’s the list of the weirdest things that happened, now I can’t stop overthinking and analyzing the situation I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My recent terrible dating experience, how can I get over this situation? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dczkff/my_recent_terrible_dating_experience_how_can_i/ |
nordicdatingmentor | 2020-09-14 19:13:23 | 1,600,110,803 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | isrr76 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/isrr76/the_truth_about_whether_dating_apps_are_good_or/ | 6 | I see so many people here discuss whether dating apps and online dating is bad or not. Well, even though I suspect many won't want to hear this, I feel it can spare many more tons of trouble and time if they finally realize the harsh truth, so here I go. Dating apps are good if you ALREADY are experienced, socially ade... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The truth about whether dating apps are good or not | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/isrr76/the_truth_about_whether_dating_apps_are_good_or/ |
flickin_the_bean | 2013-02-07 19:14:52 | 1,360,264,492 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 182wq0 | null | null | 17 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/182wq0/ladies_i_stepped_out_of_my_comfort_zone_last/ | 65 | Last night I went out for beers with a guy who I met OkCupid. It was the first time I went out with someone I have never met before I joined OkC to help me get out and meet guys outside my group of friends. I was so nervous because we hadn't messaged except to set up the date. All the rules were followed, public place,... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Ladies I stepped out of my comfort zone last night and I survived (just a share really) | 65 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/182wq0/ladies_i_stepped_out_of_my_comfort_zone_last/ |
Dry_Mortgage_8889 | 2020-10-27 23:04:03 | 1,603,839,843 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jjc687 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jjc687/scammers_rantold/ | 0 | So one guy I barely even got to talked to is asking me for money already, lol dude you just gave me your name. Block Lol 😂 So now it has been questioning the validity of this other guy I’ve been talking to..... the lonely widow . Wtf. What are some not so obvious red flags 🚩 J should be looking for ? Also the dude se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Scammers /rant/OLD | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jjc687/scammers_rantold/ |
VillageSmithyCellar | 2023-06-08 17:18:38 | 1,686,244,718 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 144f6p9 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/144f6p9/i_screwed_up_by_being_too_pushy_to_get_together/ | 3 | Meeting and first dates I (29m) met a woman (26f) on OkCupid. She's really pretty, and she makes these amazing cosplays. While I don't really have the time nor skills to make my own cosplays, I've always greatly admired them. I'm definitely an activity-oriented person, and I love doing stuff like board games, amusement... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I screwed up by being too pushy to get together, but maybe it's for the best? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/144f6p9/i_screwed_up_by_being_too_pushy_to_get_together/ |
redthrowawayfox | 2018-11-20 18:06:12 | 1,542,737,172 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 9yum2v | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9yum2v/need_advice_with_a_girl_i_met_online/ | 3 | So, I matched with this girl a few weeks ago and finally met her in person last week. It was kind of the third time I asked her since the past two she was too busy (basically doesn't have free time during the week due to work) but she always said she did want to meet sometime still. The date went great (I think), just ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice with a girl I met online | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9yum2v/need_advice_with_a_girl_i_met_online/ |
Alexcox95 | 2023-05-16 02:28:40 | 1,684,204,120 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13isefy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13isefy/how_does_one_even_date_anymore/ | 1 | I haven’t been on a date in over 3 years and honestly don’t even know how to meet people anymore. Dating apps are worthless and having social anxiety nothing ever happens when I go out. I wanted to ask my cities sub but they removed the post and said use Tinder. Lol what | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How does one even date anymore? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13isefy/how_does_one_even_date_anymore/ |
Oswaldjenkins555 | 2018-06-15 17:50:37 | 1,529,085,037 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8rcx4x | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8rcx4x/meeting_up_with_girl_i_use_to_hookup_with/ | 1 | This girl (23F) and I (24M) met on tinder last September and went on about 10-12 dates over the course of 2 months. We had sex on the first date and every ensuing date. She told me early on that she was 2 months removed from a breakup and also was seeing another guy that she was very interested in, but also wanted to k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meeting up with girl I use to hookup with tomorrow. Don’t know what to do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8rcx4x/meeting_up_with_girl_i_use_to_hookup_with/ |
[deleted] | 2021-01-24 18:23:44 | 1,611,512,624 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | l44szs | true | Question | 51 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/l44szs/is_online_dating_dead/ | 20 | I've been doing the online dating thing for 22 years now and I keep my profile up and dabble in it here and there and boy I'm not getting any responses or matches and I don't think my looks have extremely changed since about a year ago. Tinder and bumble and the like must be seeing some major drops in revenue because I... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is online dating dead? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/l44szs/is_online_dating_dead/ |
HungryAnswer1776 | 2023-01-10 01:53:22 | 1,673,315,602 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 107x5tp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/107x5tp/urgent_bumble_date_mishap_or_bad_luck_should_i/ | 1 | Two days ago I (23m) landed a date with another girl (21f) I matched with and she reached out, showing interest in me. We got to talking and proposed we could do something before I headed out of town once more on Friday. I proposed a place that was reputable. She accepted, but I found out that it was closed on Mondays ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | URGENT! Bumble date mishap or bad luck? Should I stay or should I go? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/107x5tp/urgent_bumble_date_mishap_or_bad_luck_should_i/ |
Georgist_Muddlehead | 2022-01-05 00:03:18 | 1,641,340,998 | null | null | 0 | rw8n59 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rw8n59/is_this_postponed_date_likely_to_go_ahead/ | 1 | A woman agreed in general to my suggestion to meet this week for lunch. Then I suggested a specific time and place on Wednesday. She explained she was busy Wednesday and Thursday, but said "Maybe Friday?" I said Friday is fine. I didn't receive a reply. I'll probably just check on Thursday evening, but do you think it'... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this postponed date likely to go ahead? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rw8n59/is_this_postponed_date_likely_to_go_ahead/ |
AmayaKurama | 2022-02-03 08:02:12 | 1,643,875,332 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | sjdnoi | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sjdnoi/was_i_too_harshhasty_in_cutting_contact/ | 1 | So I met a guy over tinder a few weeks ago. We seemed to click and after a few days of chatting, he asked me on a date. I agreed and we set a date. The day of, he cancelled, claiming he was anxious about going out in public with you-know going around (my town doesn’t even have any active cases and hasn’t for weeks but ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was I too harsh/hasty in cutting contact? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sjdnoi/was_i_too_harshhasty_in_cutting_contact/ |
anonymous_turtle7 | 2018-02-10 23:46:09 | 1,518,306,369 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 7wp73r | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7wp73r/he_asked_for_my_number_then_never_texted/ | 5 | I’ve been talking to a guy on bumble and we seemed to be getting along well, he complimented me and we had a decent conversation. Out of no where he asked for my number and I gave it to him. But now I haven’t heard from him since? He hasn’t sent another message on bumble or texted me. I’m confused, was this some sort o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He asked for my number then never texted? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7wp73r/he_asked_for_my_number_then_never_texted/ |
GavinSkulldrinker | 2017-11-01 19:26:41 | 1,509,564,401 | null | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7a5x4p | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7a5x4p/what_actually_constitutes_a_hint_signal_or/ | 3 | I've reached a point where no amount of positivity or "signals" from a woman can convince me that I won't get evaded or flaked on if I try to ask her out. A woman could be sticking her fingers in my mouth while her other hand is unbuckling my belt, but if I dare put my hand on her arm, she'd immediately recoil, saying ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What actually constitutes a Hint, Signal, or indication of Interest? Is anything sufficient to not be her "just being friendly?" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7a5x4p/what_actually_constitutes_a_hint_signal_or/ |
Brentlock | 2024-07-31 12:28:02 | 1,722,428,882 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1eglwiv | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eglwiv/plussized_friend_needs_help_finding_men_to_date/ | 0 | My wife and I have been friends with this person for a number of years. She stopped having sex about 3 years ago because she wasn’t having trouble getting laid but couldn’t find someone she was attracted to that actually wanted to date her. She is heavy but also just big in general, but definitely not unattractive. As ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Plus-sized friend needs help finding men to date who are specifically attracted to plus-sized women | 0 | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eglwiv/plussized_friend_needs_help_finding_men_to_date/ |
Coco_love6370 | 2023-06-06 16:43:37 | 1,686,069,817 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 142lxhs | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/142lxhs/why_do_guys_on_dating_apps_want_to_meet_you/ | 0 | On most of the dating apps I use, there are tons of scammers, and some who are always trying to ask me out, we are not familiar with it! Then something bad happens. what should I do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do guys on dating apps want to meet you instead of texting? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/142lxhs/why_do_guys_on_dating_apps_want_to_meet_you/ |
Puzzled-Pop-5721 | 2020-09-23 23:30:46 | 1,600,903,846 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iyluuo | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iyluuo/m22_should_i_keep_pursuing_girl_i_met_on_tinder/ | 1 | We both are 22 and both just moved to los angeles. I have lived here before so i know some people. She is brand new. We have hung out about 5-6 times in 3 weeks. Each one has honestly been a really good time. Recently she has been acting more distant. I have kept my space and dont really text her that much just occasio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (M22) Should i keep pursuing girl i met on tinder | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iyluuo/m22_should_i_keep_pursuing_girl_i_met_on_tinder/ |
bumble_bachelorette | 2019-03-02 20:32:23 | 1,551,558,743 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | awlzvc | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/awlzvc/i_22f_hacked_bumble_heres_how/ | 1 | Background Info: I had been dating my high school sweetheart for 6 years. We always thought we'd end up marrying each other, but ultimately broke up for a few reasons. Namely that I didn't want kids, and he did. I wanted to relocate, and his family was not okay with that. And finally, I wanted an open marriage or at le... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [22F] Hacked Bumble: Here's How | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/awlzvc/i_22f_hacked_bumble_heres_how/ |
Basic-Ad5182 | 2021-11-29 13:43:12 | 1,638,193,392 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | r4w4fl | true | I Need Advice | 67 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r4w4fl/should_i_even_respond_to_this_guy/ | 152 | I was texting this guy who I met on Tinder. We were talking about how we both liked art. And he said he had tickets to this art exhibit. I asked him who he was going with. He said he wasn't sure and would maybe give the tickets to his mom and boyfriend. So I said I think we should meet at the exhibit and he never repli... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I even respond to this guy? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r4w4fl/should_i_even_respond_to_this_guy/ |
Weary_Development257 | 2024-03-15 03:25:20 | 1,710,473,120 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bf4era | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bf4era/do_you_think_you_really_find_someone_when_you/ | 4 | I’m a 29F who got divorced two years ago. I’ve only had one relationship since then and honestly I have no interest in dating apps or any of that. Kind of riding on someone coming into my life when you least expect it 😂 what do you think? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think you really find someone when you least expect it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bf4era/do_you_think_you_really_find_someone_when_you/ |
Kaje26 | 2018-10-31 17:36:03 | 1,541,007,363 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9t0z8e | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9t0z8e/this_is_to_everyone_on_tinder/ | 15 | For God’s sake, if you talk to someone awhile on tinder and then realize you’re not into them anymore, would it really take too much of your time to just hit the un-match button? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This is to everyone on tinder. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9t0z8e/this_is_to_everyone_on_tinder/ |
CanOfCorn308 | 2022-07-24 02:12:06 | 1,658,628,726 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | w6kied | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w6kied/folks_how_did_you_meet_your_so_either_former_or/ | 1 | So I’m (19M) about a year out of Highschool and I’m in a position where I’m financially comfortable to start dating, however I don’t really know where to start when it comes to meeting people. I’ve met a couple women who I’ve had general interest in, but they’re all taken so I leave it as a friendship. I’m in a healthc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Folks, how did you meet your S/O, either former or current? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w6kied/folks_how_did_you_meet_your_so_either_former_or/ |
fatandsaggy | 2019-07-15 23:12:02 | 1,563,232,322 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cdoziy | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cdoziy/how_do_i_35f_market_myself_on_dating_apps_when/ | 1 | For a variety of reasons I haven't dated or had sex in a really really long time. I'm now at this point where I'm not sure if I want to have a relationship but I definitely want to have sex. Some big problems...I've gained a lot of weight over the years (working on losing it), I now have saggy breasts (nothing I can do... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How Do I [35F] Market Myself on Dating Apps When It's Been Ten Years Since Last Hook Up and I've Gotten Fat? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cdoziy/how_do_i_35f_market_myself_on_dating_apps_when/ |
AzraelXJM | 2015-08-01 00:37:24 | 1,438,389,444 | 0 | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 3fcvjd | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/3fcvjd/i_just_feel_more_and_more_alone/ | 4 | I'm 31/m/UK, and not been in a serious relationship. After university I moved around for work without settling for long. I wasn't happy in school and never felt I could ask anyone out, and I really stopped trying to meet anyone until about a year ago. This year I've tried to change things, I worked on my appearance, tr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just feel more and more alone | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3fcvjd/i_just_feel_more_and_more_alone/ |
Appropriate-Ad-5372 | 2023-11-09 23:27:45 | 1,699,572,465 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17rq89m | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 367 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17rq89m/hey_lmao/ | 332 | I see so many women complain about guys just say “hey” as an opener. But MY GOD do women use it like its gold on bumble 😂. Im not even mad at it, i just wanna understand it. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | “Hey” lmao 😂 | 332 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17rq89m/hey_lmao/ |
Wonderingwondererer | 2021-09-23 00:37:32 | 1,632,357,452 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ptjqz9 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ptjqz9/dating_is_a_special_kind_of_hell/ | 4 | Reddit, I need help. I (F) am single for the first time in 7 years, and I am having nothing but terrible dating experiences. I'm in my 30s, in a place where I don't know many people, and most of my friends are in relationships. It's been a year since the break up and I've gone to therapy, given myself time to feel the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating is a special kind of hell | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ptjqz9/dating_is_a_special_kind_of_hell/ |
Quirky-Feature-3394 | 2024-08-24 10:44:48 | 1,724,496,288 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f02dz1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 143 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1f02dz1/the_art_of_hookup/ | 140 | I(32f) am new to casual relationship. I matched with an interesting guy(43m) on tinder. His dating goal is ‘short term but open to long’ and I’m rather sure he is a fuckboy. I’m still trying to find my long term partner but he is probably still on his way to find me. Well I’m not a nun. I decided to enjoy the short ter... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The art of hookup | 140 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f02dz1/the_art_of_hookup/ |
yournamecannotbename | 2021-07-31 00:46:29 | 1,627,692,389 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | ouxkgg | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 90 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ouxkgg/why_dating_apps_are_evil/ | 0 | Dating apps have no incentive to actually produce results. As far as you know, they secretly don't match people who both swipe right on each other, artificially lowering match rates for men and not women arbitrarily simply to keep people on the app and trying to drive them to desperation. This is nothing like the old m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why Dating Apps Are Evil | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ouxkgg/why_dating_apps_are_evil/ |
ContestOrganic | 2023-12-14 22:12:12 | 1,702,591,932 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18ik6m1 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ik6m1/any_advice_on_getting_over_jealousy_when_your/ | 7 | I am not proud of myself at all. Today I went out with a friend who announced to me that she got engaged and by this point I can't even pretend to be happy. I want to say it's only because she was sharing with me such miserable things about her relationship, but I must admit I also just feel jealous that it's working o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice on getting over jealousy when your friends settle down? | 7 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ik6m1/any_advice_on_getting_over_jealousy_when_your/ |
Fiberdonkey5 | 2024-02-22 07:53:43 | 1,708,588,423 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ax0ysa | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ax0ysa/a_fee_questions_about_the_apps/ | 2 | I did OLD about 14 years ago and had some pretty good success with okcupid at the time. None of the other sites worked for me at all. Now I'm 41 and looking to get back into it so I downloaded all the popular ones to get a feel for which will be best. I see a lot of people saying that okcupid has gone to hell since the... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A fee questions about the apps. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ax0ysa/a_fee_questions_about_the_apps/ |
Fluid_Emu_3857 | 2023-12-09 13:43:32 | 1,702,129,412 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18edvy2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18edvy2/it_it_true_that_tinder_stops_showing_people_your/ | 1 | Cause my sister just found my bf on Tinder. I met him on there a little over a month ago and we've been pretty exclusive ever since. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It it true that Tinder stops showing people your profile if you haven't been active in the last 7 days? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18edvy2/it_it_true_that_tinder_stops_showing_people_your/ |
AceFromTexas | 2021-03-13 23:08:13 | 1,615,676,893 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | m4hxss | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m4hxss/when_should_i_ask_her_why_it_takes_so_long_for/ | 1 | I've been talking/dating a girl for four months. We're in an LDR, met on a dating app and are both over 30. We used to text everyday and have random calls but those have declined. Within the last few weeks she takes over a day to reply back to my messages, and they're always short replies. She also hasn't been calling ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When should I ask her why it takes so long for her to reply to text messages? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m4hxss/when_should_i_ask_her_why_it_takes_so_long_for/ |
Alugogirl9999 | 2023-04-09 16:32:06 | 1,681,057,926 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 12go68v | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 28 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12go68v/a_cute_guy_called_me_fugly_on_okcupid/ | 3 | My self esteem is shot. He messaged me first but I was busy and wasn't replying to his messages . I replied to them a couple times and I left him on seen eventually cause I was busy and he messaged me saying "your fugly anyways, I was just desperate and depressed." My Easter is ruined. Sorry I didn't know where else to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A cute guy called me fugly on okcupid | 3 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12go68v/a_cute_guy_called_me_fugly_on_okcupid/ |
ShortFormal | 2020-01-12 04:37:07 | 1,578,803,827 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | eniyux | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eniyux/successfully_warded_off_a_potential_sex_offender/ | 37 | Disclaimer: Graphic details about sexual experiences and past sexual abuse. Last night I went on a Bumble date for the first time with a guy. We’d had several phone conversations before the date and we both felt really comfortable with each other. Our sense of humor is identical. I noticed he seemed a little pushy and ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Successfully warded off a potential sex offender [NSFW] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/eniyux/successfully_warded_off_a_potential_sex_offender/ |
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