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Dangerous-Crab863 | 2024-06-25 14:55:02 | 1,719,327,302 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1do7z36 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1do7z36/any_takers/ | 2 | I'm just going to shoot my shot here dating apps don't work I'm not old enough for bars or stuff like that and other than that it's pretty dead around here so: I'm 19M lm in Indiana I recently went through probably the hardest thing in my life so far but I'm getting through it I have a daughter who's 20 months her name... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any takers? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1do7z36/any_takers/ |
justagirl323 | 2024-08-03 05:24:58 | 1,722,662,698 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eivi2p | true | null | 190 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eivi2p/guy_on_tinder_just_told_me_he_swipes_on_every_girl/ | 63 | We matched, exchanged a few messages. I ended up not responding once I figured out we were looking for different things. He messaged me and said -I’m a guy, I swipe on every girl. Me swiping on you wasn’t intentional. Do men really do this? I literally have lost all hope in these stupid apps | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy on tinder just told me he swipes on every girl | 63 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eivi2p/guy_on_tinder_just_told_me_he_swipes_on_every_girl/ |
pinksuede12 | 2020-06-01 15:40:05 | 1,591,026,005 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | gumsu9 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gumsu9/he_looks_nothing_like_his_photos_how_do_i_tell_him/ | 1 | I’ve been chatting to a lovely person in lockdown from Hinge and we’re about to have a virtual date and he sent me a pic of himself in lockdown. He looks NOTHING like his photos, now he has a huge beard and long hair (which I understand) but there hasn’t been any effort. It’s kind of put me off but I want to move past ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He looks nothing like his photos, how do I tell him? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gumsu9/he_looks_nothing_like_his_photos_how_do_i_tell_him/ |
weallseekanswers | 2016-09-30 20:28:58 | 1,475,267,338 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'pof', 'match.com'] | 0 | 559wk1 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/559wk1/dating_roundtable_ask_you_to_read_and_share_on/ | 0 | Hello all, Grab a big cup of coffee, tea, wine, or keg, This is gonna be a little long. Recently, I wrote a response to anotherboring in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/542azr/wanting_to_quit/ and wanted to make this more of a full observational post of the problems I see with the current dating sce... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Roundtable : Ask you to read and share on your experiences... Checklists / Ghosting / Flaking / Online Dating or anything related | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/559wk1/dating_roundtable_ask_you_to_read_and_share_on/ |
Low-Ad6632 | 2022-08-18 02:38:00 | 1,660,790,280 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | wr7opw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wr7opw/standing_people_up_is_fine_if_youre_busy/ | 3 | I wanted to share this story because I am sure there are other women who have been in a similar situation and it feels awful to be stood up but it happens. I like to maintain the thought that most humans are respectful and decent people who make mistakes sometimes and most deserve a second chance, but definitely not a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Standing people up is fine if you’re busy | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wr7opw/standing_people_up_is_fine_if_youre_busy/ |
DCLANKING | 2022-03-11 00:49:10 | 1,646,959,750 | null | null | 0 | tbdspz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tbdspz/best_sites_for_bootycalls/ | 0 | What sites or platforms would any anyone recommend for one night stands/booty-calls?? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best sites for booty-calls?? | null | 0.23 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tbdspz/best_sites_for_bootycalls/ |
DellyBruh | 2018-09-29 23:30:38 | 1,538,263,838 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9k1ke3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9k1ke3/second_date_ideas/ | 1 | Met this girl on Tinder. We went out, had a good time and have been talking ever since. Now I wanna see her again and shes agreed. I need ideas for our second date. Thanks in advance. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Second Date Ideas | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9k1ke3/second_date_ideas/ |
limited_interest | 2024-08-19 23:19:39 | 1,724,109,579 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1ewgcsr | true | Seeking Advice | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1ewgcsr/old_how_to_stay_interesting_without_being_weird/ | 0 | I'll speak for myself, I am not interested in someone's favorite color. I can usually pepper a couple of days worth of questions to someone, but without seeing their reaction it is difficult to see how they're taking it. I am trying to make them comfortable, so they want to Facetime or talk on the phone. You try to be ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD: How to stay interesting without being weird? | 0 | 0.26 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ewgcsr/old_how_to_stay_interesting_without_being_weird/ |
soapylopey9 | 2021-07-19 02:09:24 | 1,626,660,564 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | on4o1d | true | Discussion | 117 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/on4o1d/how_many_of_you_just_gave_up_on_relationships_im/ | 171 | Trying to do OLD is so unappealing, so un comfortable yet I’m lonely. Can’t go through another dating/interview Process again. So tired. I have plenty of other things to do in my life I’m Busy but alone. For two years literally not really going out socially , calling anyone - I go alone. It’s just comfortable. Eat alon... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How many of you just gave up on relationships? I’m so tired of broken relationships and disappointment | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/on4o1d/how_many_of_you_just_gave_up_on_relationships_im/ |
strxwberryalice | 2023-10-25 13:56:22 | 1,698,242,182 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17g5ewg | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17g5ewg/why_do_guys_keep_ghosting_me_in_this_specific_way/ | 1 | i’m 22 and i use dating apps quite a bit. almost every time i get with someone they end up ghosting me or ending things with me for no apparent reason. it’s making me feel worthless and like there’s something deeply wrong with me. my ex girlfriend broke up with me after almost 2 years with pretty much no explanation. t... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | why do guys keep ghosting me in this specific way?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17g5ewg/why_do_guys_keep_ghosting_me_in_this_specific_way/ |
Rare-Plum9133 | 2023-04-09 08:34:26 | 1,681,029,266 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 12gdhhu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12gdhhu/is_it_too_late_for_a_26_year_old_to_find_someone/ | 10 | I am a 26 years old and I never had a girlfriend in my life. From a young age I was super shy even with making friends let alone approach girls. I was always fat and still am tbh , so finding someone was extremely hard for me including that I am also shy so it was impossible. Now days I think I am not that shy but stil... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it too late for a 26 year old to find someone? | 10 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12gdhhu/is_it_too_late_for_a_26_year_old_to_find_someone/ |
susaspence | 2019-11-01 16:38:40 | 1,572,626,320 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dq6qpj | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/dq6qpj/how_do_i_meet_women_while_working_in_a_male/ | 10 | Im 25 and I've been trying to meet new people for several years now, but I can't seem to make any connections with anyone. I work in industrial maintenance so my weeks are usually pretty busy, but I do get most weekends off. All of my coworkers are much older than me so when we do hang out together we don't go out, we ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I meet women while working in a Male dominated field | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/dq6qpj/how_do_i_meet_women_while_working_in_a_male/ |
AftertheUncharted | 2023-06-10 19:44:55 | 1,686,426,295 | 0 | null | 0 | 146974j | true | null | 251 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/146974j/why_cant_women_see_me_as_a_potential_candidate/ | 13 | You see, I've been using these apps for quite a while now and I've had one date in which I stooped only for sex. So I'll never do that again. I value women as a human being and I believe that's a good quality many lack, but I am a failure both online and offline. Is it too much to ask for just to have dates, get to kno... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why can't women see me as a potential candidate and always as a simple friend? | 13 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/146974j/why_cant_women_see_me_as_a_potential_candidate/ |
IronMagpie | 2024-07-21 16:36:35 | 1,721,579,795 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1e8qeku | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e8qeku/m26_struggling_to_find_someone_whos_even/ | 2 | For context, I’m a 26 year old guy who’s never really experienced what it’s like to be in a relationship. I’ve had dates and stuff in the past, but they’re not particularly common and very rarely is there a second. I’ve struggled with self-confidence in the past due largely to my weight issues. I was 170kg this time la... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | M26 - Struggling to find someone who’s even interested. Where do I go from here? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e8qeku/m26_struggling_to_find_someone_whos_even/ |
Chance_Suggestion160 | 2023-11-05 17:02:42 | 1,699,203,762 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17ogbki | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17ogbki/i_37m_tried_tawkify_a_matchmaking_service_here_is/ | 3 | Hello Reddit. I had grown a little jaded from the dating process, and as many of you know, the regular apps had become tired and annoying for me to use. So I decided to try Tawkify, a matchmaking service for a different approach. For those unfamiliar, Tawkify is an online only matchmaking service that bills itself as t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [37m] tried Tawkify, a matchmaking service. Here is my experience with it | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ogbki/i_37m_tried_tawkify_a_matchmaking_service_here_is/ |
Time_Rip7875 | 2021-09-26 04:12:49 | 1,632,629,569 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | pvmk0q | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pvmk0q/first_date/ | 2 | I'm going on my first date tomorrow with someone I matched with on hinge. I don't have much experience any tips? we're seeing a movie. Edit: we're meeting up an hour before the movie | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pvmk0q/first_date/ |
SecondSlap | 2018-01-07 09:57:03 | 1,515,319,023 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7optoi | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7optoi/should_i_21f_drive_5_hours_to_meet_my_tinder/ | 2 | We’ve been talking since we matched a few days ago and I was supposed to meet him for a drink last night but it got late so I didn’t go. It turned out to be his last night here and now he’s back in school. He invited me to come out and stay with him some weekend because he won’t be home again for another 5 to 6 months.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (21F) drive 5 hours to meet my tinder match(21M)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7optoi/should_i_21f_drive_5_hours_to_meet_my_tinder/ |
curryscentedsurgeon | 2018-08-16 01:14:48 | 1,534,382,088 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 97nxc0 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/97nxc0/chronic_overthinking_vs_gut_feeling/ | 1 | Hey guys! This is my first post here so I apologize in advance if my concerns are nauseatingly commonplace. Context: Have been talking to and seeing a guy from Tinder for over a month. When I say "talking to," I mean for hours everyday through messaging (provided we aren't at work/school/other commitments), and we basi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Chronic Overthinking vs. Gut Feeling | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/97nxc0/chronic_overthinking_vs_gut_feeling/ |
princessL1996 | 2020-07-24 08:04:30 | 1,595,577,870 | null | null | 0 | hwxvd9 | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hwxvd9/lying_abt_being_a_virgin/ | 26 | So a guy I met on a dating app we talked for a few months things didn’t work out we slept together and I went on the dating app again and he put that he was still a virgin. Why? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Lying abt being a virgin | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hwxvd9/lying_abt_being_a_virgin/ |
dkmon12 | 2023-09-05 00:40:21 | 1,693,874,421 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16a9du5 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16a9du5/so_im_dating_again_me_27f_him27m_and_we_were/ | 1 | So yeah, this time last year I was heartbroken from my fiance dumping me for someone who wasn't even real, a catfish. People say serves her right but I can't see it any other way then her developing feelings quite easily for someone who gave her the first attention that wasn't me. She told me after a week of talking to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So I'm dating again! Me [27f] him[27m] and we were friends first. My first real attraction after breaking up with my fiance [28f] | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16a9du5/so_im_dating_again_me_27f_him27m_and_we_were/ |
djbdjendhejbrb | 2020-09-26 15:47:01 | 1,601,135,221 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | j08c22 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j08c22/new_to_online_dating_need_some_simple_advice/ | 2 | Matched a girl on tinder Monday and really hit it off. We message back and forth for the rest of the night then I got her actual number. Tuesday I was horribly busy and did a bad job replying to her, taking a couple hours to respond a few times. Wednesday she texts me again in the morning, and followed me on Instagram.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New to online dating, need some simple advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j08c22/new_to_online_dating_need_some_simple_advice/ |
aprylzfool | 2022-07-07 19:00:16 | 1,657,220,416 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | vtq64s | true | Question | 80 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/vtq64s/has_anyone_successfully_slowed_their_roll_and/ | 14 | TL; DR at bottom. I (43F) just delved into the world of OLD (again). I went on a first date with someone recently (39M) which was my first 1st date in over 3 years - and I thought it went great. We had a ton in common, similar life views and all in all it went way better than I had expected. Awesome, right? Then he cal... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Has anyone successfully "slowed their roll" and found a good relationship dynamic? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vtq64s/has_anyone_successfully_slowed_their_roll_and/ |
Will-is-a-idiot | 2021-08-29 11:18:07 | 1,630,235,887 | null | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | pdtgh0 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pdtgh0/which_dating_sites_are_worth_trying_out/ | 3 | This isn't going to be a very long post; I'm thinking about getting back into dating, but I'm not sure where to start, I'm thinking about getting a account on a dating site, but I don't know which ones are any good... if you don't know any good dating sites, I'll gladly take suggestions for other places to meet people,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which dating sites are worth trying out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pdtgh0/which_dating_sites_are_worth_trying_out/ |
[deleted] | 2015-04-21 01:40:25 | 1,429,580,425 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 33b0yj | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/33b0yj/dating_sites_other_than_pof_okcupid_and_tinder/ | 1 | Honestly every dating site I've been on, and I mean every single one, has literally NO girls that are my type at all. For the ones that are they won't respond / deleted their accounts. I live in Canada so I was wondering if there was a dating site thats really popular besides the three sites in the title. I literally c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating sites other than POF, OkCupid and tinder? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/33b0yj/dating_sites_other_than_pof_okcupid_and_tinder/ |
Kibasuki | 2020-05-25 18:41:20 | 1,590,432,080 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | gqgkzy | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gqgkzy/any_advice_for_a_woman_trying_to_get_with_other/ | 1 | I am 21F and pansexual. The majority of my matches are cis men. But I would like to get with women (and basically anyone who is a non cis man). But it's very hard to match with a woman and even if we do match, I feel like I'm leading 90 percent of the conversation. I'll ask open ended questions trying to get to know th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice for a woman trying to get with other women on Tinder? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gqgkzy/any_advice_for_a_woman_trying_to_get_with_other/ |
Firm_Assistant_349 | 2024-03-03 12:36:03 | 1,709,469,363 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1b5g6sv | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b5g6sv/whats_the_point_of_dating/ | 1 | Online dating, never met, few months. Personally, I don't believe in love. Everytime after we hung out, I just think what is the point of this relationship. Yes I do have deep attachment to him, but it doesn't have to be him. Plus, he doesn't even hang out with me that much, maybe 4 hours a day max. I think I'm keeping... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's the point of dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b5g6sv/whats_the_point_of_dating/ |
Ashleyg268 | 2023-11-13 02:50:36 | 1,699,843,836 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17u12of | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17u12of/i_know_i_dont_have_time_to_date_but_im_craving_a/ | 1 | I haven’t been in a relationship over a year. I used to use dating apps but I realized they went good for me. I haven’t been with a man in a year. I work full time and go to school, so I know I don’t have time but as the school break is coming I think maybe I’ll have time now but I know it’s temporary. I’m accepting th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I know I don’t have time to date but I’m craving a relationship. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17u12of/i_know_i_dont_have_time_to_date_but_im_craving_a/ |
[deleted] | 2021-08-19 16:57:05 | 1,629,392,225 | null | null | 0 | p7itcg | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/p7itcg/psa_stay_away_from_eharmony_they_are_a_scam_with/ | 107 | I wanted to give people a PSA looking for a good online dating site. DO NOT use EHarmony, they are the worst. They make you pay to view matches. I used it about 6yrs ago and I signed up for 3 months. They kept sending me 90% of the same matches each day and most of them were either 400 miles away or they were no longer... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | PSA STAY AWAY from EHarmony, they are a scam with their billing practices and have been sued. | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/p7itcg/psa_stay_away_from_eharmony_they_are_a_scam_with/ |
DesignerPromise4418 | 2024-04-07 15:27:30 | 1,712,503,650 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1by74tr | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1by74tr/being_in_a_relationship_doesnt_mean_we_are_bfgf/ | 54 | I (female) met a French guy on dating app and we hanged out a few times. I was a virgin. We had some sex but no penetration. One day he asked me to stay at his place over the night and I said no, I wouldn’t do it unless we were in a serious relationship. The next time we met he asked to be in a serious relationship wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being in a relationship doesn’t mean we are bf/gf? | 54 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1by74tr/being_in_a_relationship_doesnt_mean_we_are_bfgf/ |
BoysenberryAwkward76 | 2022-12-10 01:14:43 | 1,670,634,883 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | zhesbr | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zhesbr/do_guys_who_banter_just_want_to_hook_up/ | 1 | I have a dilemma. I'm a woman, and on dating apps, but also irl, I feel like I’m sometimes drawn toward assholes because, before I even realize that they are, I like that their bio is kind of flirty or rogue-ish. Here’s the thing: I’d really like a boyfriend and a stable monogamous relationship. I don’t want hookups, w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do guys who banter just want to hook up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zhesbr/do_guys_who_banter_just_want_to_hook_up/ |
Soft-Knee-8267 | 2024-07-25 19:58:06 | 1,721,937,486 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1ec4cy0 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ec4cy0/how_to_ask_ex_for_nsa_sex/ | 14 | I (45 F) was involved in situationship with a man (52 M) that was pretty damn perfect until I fucked it up. We lived 2 hours apart, both had children at home, both did not want to be married again, both valued our independence, loved the same jam band/concert scene, had a blast partying together and was one of the best... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | How to Ask Ex for NSA Sex | 14 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1ec4cy0/how_to_ask_ex_for_nsa_sex/ |
Loves2spooge21 | 2021-10-09 22:06:29 | 1,633,817,189 | null | null | 0 | q4v5zm | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q4v5zm/my_recent_experience_with_online_dating/ | 5 | After a while of not using online dating I decided to see what is going on in that world. I made a tinder, okcupid, and a bumble account. First off I am a 28 M, decently good looking with a great career. I also live in the city of SmelLA Probably three or four years ago all these apps were awesome. I would get many mat... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My recent experience with online dating | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q4v5zm/my_recent_experience_with_online_dating/ |
EvilBacon_ | 2020-04-28 12:33:18 | 1,588,077,198 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | g9mc3h | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g9mc3h/i_am_losing_interest_or_is_it_lockdown_messing/ | 1 | Hello M(23) here, been on the dating apps for a fews months. I did delete them all last week, just because i thought i would wait till lockdown is over before trying again. But i am still talking to about 3 other ladies that i added on snap. Ngl i do hate this stage of 'talking' i would normally ask them out for a coff... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am losing interest or is it lockdown messing everything up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g9mc3h/i_am_losing_interest_or_is_it_lockdown_messing/ |
bvick88 | 2023-10-28 01:50:19 | 1,698,457,819 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17i3az5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17i3az5/need_date_ideas_cultural_differences/ | 1 | Hi there! I (29M) met a someone (32F) on Hinge. We texted back an forth for a week or so before meeting up. We had brunch, then drinks (kissed), then dinner at my place (more kissing). She is from China and has communicated she likes to take things slow. I haven't always done that in relationships, but we have a nice c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need date ideas, cultural differences | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17i3az5/need_date_ideas_cultural_differences/ |
casscass098 | 2021-11-14 05:15:04 | 1,636,866,904 | null | ['swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | qtiqdq | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qtiqdq/hopeless/ | 33 | Does anyone else hate dating these days? I don’t know if it’s just me, but I absolutely hate dating apps. It just feels so superficial, you know? Apart from the app and the pictures of each other, would we even like each other? I hate the idea of swiping on another person because they look nice. But meeting each other ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hopeless | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qtiqdq/hopeless/ |
Lazuli-shade | 2023-07-16 05:32:04 | 1,689,485,524 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 150xp7t | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/150xp7t/feeling_pretty_terminally_alone_right_now_and_in/ | 1 | I (25m) have never been on a date, have never even held a girl's hand and, as far as I know, have never even had someone be attracted to me. Anyone I've ever had a crush on has always gotten with someone else and just the other day a girl I was talking to had the "just friends" conversation with me, and tho I'm happy t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling pretty terminally alone right now and in need of advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/150xp7t/feeling_pretty_terminally_alone_right_now_and_in/ |
JumpMasterJay | 2020-02-09 23:33:00 | 1,581,291,180 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | f1h922 | true | Question | 56 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f1h922/do_women_find_it_offensive_if_a_man_tries_to_talk/ | 10 | I have gotten nowhere with apps and everyone on here says to talk to women IRL. I did that for years in bars and clubs and found most women seemed to react like they are either inconvenienced or insulted by the notion of me talking to them. I'm a pretty friendly guy but I don't look like a movie star. I'm not trying to... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do women find it offensive if a man tries to talk to them in a bar or nightclub? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f1h922/do_women_find_it_offensive_if_a_man_tries_to_talk/ |
Delicious_Ice1193 | 2024-07-21 12:43:33 | 1,721,565,813 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1e8lh59 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e8lh59/if_it_aint_broke_dont_fix_it/ | 0 | I'm a guy in his 30s and it's been a decade since giving dating a shot. My 20s were really rough mental health and life circumstance wise - I'm still amazed I made it our the other side - but things eventually stabilized, and for the past number of years I have felt really content. I still struggle with shyness, but I'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If it ain't broke don't fix it? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e8lh59/if_it_aint_broke_dont_fix_it/ |
hereblether | 2022-05-09 18:41:59 | 1,652,121,719 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | uly3dj | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uly3dj/stuck_in_a_limbo_with_this_guy_i_met_should_i/ | 0 | I (32f) met a guy (35 M) on Bumble around 2.5 months ago. The first few dates were great and on the fourth or fifth date, I was feeling really attracted to him so I kissed him. He responded and kissed me back then dropped me home. Next time I met him he said he wanted to talk about ‘us’ and then proceeded to tell me th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stuck in a limbo with this guy I met. Should I wait or move on? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uly3dj/stuck_in_a_limbo_with_this_guy_i_met_should_i/ |
Zeddy001 | 2019-12-13 23:26:35 | 1,576,279,595 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | eabs1j | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eabs1j/how_to_talk_to_someone_with_anxiety/ | 2 | So, basically, I matched with this girl on Bumble, we talked, she seems alright, however she doesn’t really reply to a convo with questions, but I can keep it going. And I found out that she has anxiety, so basically I said is she still up for it, and she said yes but not to rush anything or go to quick. I’m good with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to talk to someone with anxiety | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eabs1j/how_to_talk_to_someone_with_anxiety/ |
Heavy-Preference-756 | 2023-04-10 06:40:19 | 1,681,108,819 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 12h9tle | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12h9tle/is_it_me_or_is_it_weird/ | 4 | I've been talking to this guy, we started on the dating app then by phone via text. Last week we talked on the phone for the first time for 45 mins. That was the only time we have talked on the phone.We text alot due to our schedules. He sent me a text lastnight after trying to call me that he called a bit ago because ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it me or is it weird | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12h9tle/is_it_me_or_is_it_weird/ |
Melimelo3220 | 2024-06-25 01:53:27 | 1,719,280,407 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dnulpj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dnulpj/am_i_right_for_being_upset_every_time_he_tries_to/ | 1 | I(28f) met him(30) on a dating app, and initially I thought he was a really nice guy, respectful and kind, we have been in 5 dates and even tho we haven't had sex so far, we had messed around a couple of time, at the beginning we talk about what we were looking for and we both were looking for a serious relationship, b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I right for being upset every time he tries to ignore talking about our relationship/feeling | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dnulpj/am_i_right_for_being_upset_every_time_he_tries_to/ |
ellanaponders | 2019-10-31 19:41:48 | 1,572,550,908 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | dpsqq8 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dpsqq8/28f_suggesting_another_date_to_26m/ | 18 | I (28F) am talking to a 26M on a dating site and he suggested that we meet up and go hiking. I don’t think it’s a good idea for me to go hiking with a guy I’ve never met in real life before.....am I being overly cautious? How do I suggest we do another activity where we can meet in public and can be seen by other peopl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28F suggesting another date to 26M | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dpsqq8/28f_suggesting_another_date_to_26m/ |
emotional_tinkerbell | 2022-07-18 00:40:58 | 1,658,104,858 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | w1m11e | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w1m11e/how_to_start_a_conversation/ | 1 | Can anyone give an advice on how to start a conversation in bumble? I am new to using a dating app and I was advised bumble was good but I am having trouble starting a conversation. I get self conscious if I start asking something. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to start a conversation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w1m11e/how_to_start_a_conversation/ |
Kaelswa | 2018-04-07 11:23:22 | 1,523,100,202 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8ahg3v | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8ahg3v/m26_how_do_get_motivation_for_dating_after_many/ | 0 | I've never been in a relationship and it's obviously something i really want. It's the missing piece in my life. I used to be really shy and never hit on girls and didn't even dare to use tinder. I've improved a lot recent years and i've been using tinder quite a lot. I've been on dates and "dated", sort of, quite a fe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M26] How do get motivation for dating, after many unsuccessful attempts? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ahg3v/m26_how_do_get_motivation_for_dating_after_many/ |
thrwaccc1 | 2023-01-20 19:44:00 | 1,674,243,840 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10h67oe | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10h67oe/is_a_good_social_media_following_important/ | 6 | I (26M) been single for almost a year now after a relationship of 5,5years with whom I did a lot and most of my Instagram was pictures with her. After the breakup we both removed everything for obvious reasons. I've never been hard into social media and have like 177 followers on Instagram, 4 pictures and tagged in 1 p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is a good social media following important? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10h67oe/is_a_good_social_media_following_important/ |
just_another_clump | 2022-02-11 19:27:46 | 1,644,607,666 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | sq7fdu | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sq7fdu/love_lust_deceit_torment_do_i_get_back_together/ | 2 | Howdy Reddit Friends, This is gonna be a REALLY long story. I apologize in advance. I need some dating advice so I figured this was an appropriate location to get some good anonymous tips. So here’s the story so far: I (M25) met this wonderful girl (F23) roughly a year ago at a bar. Let’s call her B from now on. I love... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love, Lust, Deceit and Torment. Do I Get Back Together With My Ex? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sq7fdu/love_lust_deceit_torment_do_i_get_back_together/ |
KitKatBear90 | 2019-03-18 11:06:02 | 1,552,907,162 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | b2hcwz | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b2hcwz/29_female_string_of_unsuccessful_relationships/ | 29 | [Edit: I’ve read all the responses so far and want to thank everyone for taking the time to reply. It’s been really helpful and gives me an insight into what it’s like from the guys point of view. I just want to clarify that I don’t ignore messages at all, the issue is that I’m not starting the conversations often enou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 29, female, string of unsuccessful relationships and I had a thought as to why this is | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b2hcwz/29_female_string_of_unsuccessful_relationships/ |
lildepressjustvibes | 2023-08-21 18:51:12 | 1,692,643,872 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15xgekg | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15xgekg/overnight_blocking/ | 1 | At this point im not sure how many times this has happened to me. This is why ive quit dating apps because its so exhausting and disappointing. I’ll match with a guy, he’s very interested in me. i prefer texting so ill send them my number. we’ll text back and forth constantly, everything is great, we may have even made... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Overnight Blocking | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15xgekg/overnight_blocking/ |
girlwithamystery | 2024-01-09 13:06:28 | 1,704,805,588 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 192eae0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/192eae0/how_can_i_not_be_scared_of_compromise/ | 1 | This is related to my latest post. I'M SCARED of compromise. Of saying yes to a date offered by someone i know or work with. I go on dates with people from dating apps but I feel scared and panic when someone I know who is interested in me asks me out. I keep thinking about future events and how I will I be able to fac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I not be scared of compromise. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/192eae0/how_can_i_not_be_scared_of_compromise/ |
howsyourbread | 2020-04-25 08:22:21 | 1,587,802,941 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | g7q2yo | true | Venting | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g7q2yo/well_folks_im_officially_dumb_founded/ | 3 | I (25m) have been interested in a close school friend (22f) of mine for the better part of the last year. I won't go into crazy detail, but I guess our friendship is filled with things that I would qualify as more than friends behavior, and have been confirmed by outsiders looking in that I'd be stupid to think that th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Well folks, I'm officially dumb founded! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g7q2yo/well_folks_im_officially_dumb_founded/ |
Melodic-Bottle7293 | 2024-05-13 04:43:47 | 1,715,575,427 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1cqqzn2 | true | null | 68 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1cqqzn2/improve_socialdating_skills_or_focus_on_career/ | 3 | I have a job but it's boring and I don't really like it. I'm 44m and plan to work longer than most people my age want to. No way am I retiring at 60 or 65 so got a lot of working time left. Thinking of focusing on finding something that will be better for me and a substantial raise if I can land it. At the same time I ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Improve Social/Dating Skills or Focus on Career | 1 | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1cqqzn2/improve_socialdating_skills_or_focus_on_career/ |
micjohnson78 | 2015-10-09 11:09:48 | 1,444,388,988 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 3o35t8 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3o35t8/how_can_ordinary_people_find_a_wealthy_partner_on/ | 0 | I am an ordinary person and I have a desire to be treated like someone special. I want the shower of gifts and attention and love and of course the goodies. Now that we have moved from the conventional dating methods to online dating, it is easier for people like me to find someone who is wealthy and is looking for an ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can ordinary people find a wealthy partner on a millionaire dating sites? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3o35t8/how_can_ordinary_people_find_a_wealthy_partner_on/ |
Transcendent_Raccoon | 2023-11-14 06:45:22 | 1,699,944,322 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17uwgl8 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17uwgl8/women_and_dating_apps/ | 1 | As a man, I am genuinely 100% completely baffled by women on dating apps. Seriously folks, I, for one, don’t have that much of a criteria for who I find physically attractive, and it certainly isn’t the immature 20 somethings or 30 somethings or 40 somethings with their whole buttocks hanging out in all their pictures ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women and Dating Apps | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17uwgl8/women_and_dating_apps/ |
MentalIndication1 | 2023-02-12 21:57:47 | 1,676,239,067 | null | null | 0 | 110rh6z | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/110rh6z/how_to_setup_a_dating_profile/ | 2 | How does one setup a dating profile to look intriguing when you’ve spent about 5 years with no friends (so no recent outside photos, hanging out, doing hobbies etc) and essentially isolated from society so you can work on yourself. I want to get out there but I don’t know where to start… | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to setup a dating profile?? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/110rh6z/how_to_setup_a_dating_profile/ |
NoChallenge3078 | 2024-07-21 10:22:51 | 1,721,557,371 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1e8j7o6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e8j7o6/rare_diamond/ | 1 | Hello Reddit, I 35F have started dating again after a long time of staying out of it. I tried a dating app, I know not the best place however it was a start. I matched with this guy, we talked over the phone. He asked me out for dinner. At the end of the night stated he wasn’t looking for anything serious. If that isn’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rare Diamond? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e8j7o6/rare_diamond/ |
Blueiceberry99 | 2024-05-10 15:26:12 | 1,715,354,772 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cos83b | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cos83b/should_i_tell_him_how_i_feel_about_his_lack_of/ | 1 | I (24f) met him (25m) on bumble. We met 3 times. We don't write much between meetings, almost none at all, because according to him it's better to talk during a meeting (once a week). I scheduled two meetings because I like to have them scheduled slightly in advance (at least 4-2 days). He told me that it was natural f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell him how I feel about his lack of texting? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cos83b/should_i_tell_him_how_i_feel_about_his_lack_of/ |
[deleted] | 2014-02-14 02:28:58 | 1,392,344,938 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1xv1jw | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1xv1jw/do_i_continue_thinking_of_him_as_an_option/ | 3 | I'm a 24 yr old girl and hes 27, but we met on tinder. Based on my little experience on tinder it seems to be a hookup app..but I've been texting this guy for almost 3 months now. The majority of the conversations are started by me, but I stopped texting for a while and he definitely initiated after I stopped. It's rea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I continue thinking of him as an option? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1xv1jw/do_i_continue_thinking_of_him_as_an_option/ |
nealsulli | 2019-05-07 22:21:18 | 1,557,267,678 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | blx4ah | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/blx4ah/first_date_and_she_wants_to_meet_up_with_friends/ | 1 | I met a girl on Bumble and agreed to a date this Saturday. She is a program director and tour guide for a cruise company so has been away for a couple of weeks, we’ve been texting back n forth and the conversation is flowing and seem to be getting on. She lives in a city with lots of history, I know the place as she ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date and she wants to meet up with friends in the evening | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/blx4ah/first_date_and_she_wants_to_meet_up_with_friends/ |
Fungled | 2021-05-12 09:37:43 | 1,620,812,263 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | nakpjb | true | I Need Advice | 23 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nakpjb/someone_lovely_but_the_physical_attraction_is/ | 3 | Hi everyone, 40m, Europe. Somehow or another I'm trying to pick myself up and venture into dating (OLD, inevitably), in spite of everything that's going on. I am getting results, although it's far too soon to be able to say if anything will lead anywhere. I have already one difficult situation, which I want to ask abou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Someone lovely, but the physical attraction is definitely not there... | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nakpjb/someone_lovely_but_the_physical_attraction_is/ |
WandaHickeysBrother | 2018-10-19 13:31:04 | 1,539,955,864 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 9pjtwj | true | null | 133 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pjtwj/dating_site_pic_vs_real_life/ | 266 | noted this morning in my Facebook feed .... https://i.redd.it/okafxl93a5t11.png | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating site pic vs. real life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pjtwj/dating_site_pic_vs_real_life/ |
momohammedd | 2020-03-09 21:44:45 | 1,583,790,285 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | fg2hwf | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fg2hwf/dating_app/ | 1 | Hey! I [22M] want to know which is the best dating in app in Germany. I have tried using Tinder but I didn't have what I was hoping (maybe I didn't put a lot of time into setting up my profil). | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fg2hwf/dating_app/ |
Greenmind76 | 2022-07-03 20:37:10 | 1,656,880,630 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | vqqhbh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vqqhbh/do_any_women_actually_like_talking_about_crypto/ | 1 | No “dear” I do not want to talk about crypto… So tired of these scammers on dating sites asking about crypto. They talk to you for a few days then boom they become obsessed with crypto and the second you tell them you don’t give a fuck about it or money they ghost. I have never met a woman in real life that cared about... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do any women actually like talking about crypto? Lol | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vqqhbh/do_any_women_actually_like_talking_about_crypto/ |
bajrangi-bihari2 | 2018-09-24 21:42:01 | 1,537,825,321 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9im5nh | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9im5nh/what_percent_of_people_in_north_america_who_are/ | 1 | Had a guess-estimation bet with a buddy. Would like to know what is your estimate. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What percent of people in north America (who are between age 18-37) NEVER used any online dating service ? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9im5nh/what_percent_of_people_in_north_america_who_are/ |
Cubs311 | 2017-02-19 22:10:16 | 1,487,542,216 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5v0s5m | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5v0s5m/women_over_24_how_much_contact_do_you_like_with_a/ | 4 | I met a girl on Tinder 2 weeks ago. We hit it off right away and had a great first date. We went out again last night, and the spark is still there. I've had relationships in the past where I felt too clingy, and I also just got out of a relationship because she said I didn't talk to her enough. Looking for advice, how... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women over 24: how much contact do you like with a guy you just met. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5v0s5m/women_over_24_how_much_contact_do_you_like_with_a/ |
MissLissaxoxo | 2019-02-18 23:50:42 | 1,550,533,842 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | as3sua | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/as3sua/finding_a_matchmaker_or_a_wing_manwoman_for/ | 1 | Anyone tried this approach? I have did the in person approach which sometimes works better than OLD, but am considering on finding an actual wing man or woman to help with it. Match making services are too expensive, but that would be an option in the future. Dating apps/sites are just not doing it for me. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Finding a matchmaker or a wing man/woman for dating options. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/as3sua/finding_a_matchmaker_or_a_wing_manwoman_for/ |
Busy-Recording-1911 | 2021-09-21 20:15:23 | 1,632,255,323 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | psr0cd | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/psr0cd/matched_about_six_months_ago_and_its_great/ | 116 | I met a really great woman on Match about six months ago. Our first date was amazing Dinner that later turned to drinks and some dancing. We felt a connection and the next day we spent the entire day and much of the evening together Since then our relationship has evolved to something beautiful! She’s an amazing woman ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Matched about six months ago and it’s great! | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/psr0cd/matched_about_six_months_ago_and_its_great/ |
Igloo-Pincher | 2023-06-15 12:57:58 | 1,686,833,878 | 0 | null | 0 | 14a1s88 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14a1s88/the_whole_women_dont_owe_you_sex_narrative_is/ | 0 | This is yet another nonsense deflection made up by women to divert attention away from their delusional inflated self images and disproportionate standards. Most dudes would settle for their equivalent or even a little below. Most women feel entitled to dudes way more attractive than them. When guys call them out on th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness. | 0 | 0.31 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14a1s88/the_whole_women_dont_owe_you_sex_narrative_is/ |
arc0911 | 2014-04-02 20:44:51 | 1,396,471,491 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 221lnz | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/221lnz/dating_a_new_guyneed_a_guys_perspective_repost/ | 5 | Talked to a guy for a week before meeting for the first time on a Wednesday. First date was great Awesome conversation, no awkward moments, made out a little bit at the end. Texted me after saying that he didn't think it could have gone any better:) Went out that Sunday, another great time, another great make out sessi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a new guy...need a guys perspective! repost from /r/tinder | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/221lnz/dating_a_new_guyneed_a_guys_perspective_repost/ |
zenithnadirr | 2021-04-09 07:33:59 | 1,617,953,639 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | mnc349 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mnc349/please_tell_me_your_horror_dating_app_stories_so/ | 3 | I (F23) haven’t had good experiences with online dating in the past, but the last thing I had going with a guy just ended and I’m bored, so I’m considering it. For the love of god, convince me not to. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Please, tell me your horror dating app stories so I don’t redownload again | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mnc349/please_tell_me_your_horror_dating_app_stories_so/ |
Complete-Peak3388 | 2022-07-19 21:33:09 | 1,658,266,389 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | w346s0 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w346s0/is_using_pick_up_lines_important_in_online_dating/ | 1 | I haven't had any success in online dating and my friends keep telling me to use pick up lines. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is using pick up lines important in online dating? I text how I talk and it's hard for me to make up pick up lines | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w346s0/is_using_pick_up_lines_important_in_online_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2013-11-19 04:41:48 | 1,384,836,108 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1qye5v | null | Dating | 9 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1qye5v/need_a_little_help_letting_a_girl_down/ | 0 | Alright so, I have a little problem. I'll give you the short of it. If the short of it is too long, you can just skip it. I met a girl on Tinder, we got along okay. We decided to meet up at my place, watch a movie. She was relatively forward and we ended up making out for the rest of the evening until she had to leave ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Need a little help letting a girl down. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1qye5v/need_a_little_help_letting_a_girl_down/ |
yetie16 | 2024-01-10 14:03:52 | 1,704,895,432 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1938zkj | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1938zkj/am_i_asking_too_much/ | 2 | My biggest questions is how do I keep a guy interested. It’s always the first weeks or months they are super engaged then they get bored and it turns to me being to needy. ——- I have an anxious attachment style and met a guy on Tinder who I clicked with really well. However, after the start of the third week, he starte... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I asking too much? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1938zkj/am_i_asking_too_much/ |
huckster235 | 2019-10-03 22:27:09 | 1,570,141,629 | null | null | 0 | dcybnr | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/dcybnr/any_of_the_paid_sites_worth_it/ | 1 | So to preface, I live in the suburbs of a big city, but it's about a 2 hour drive to some parts of the city. The suburbs I live in are incredibly affluent, so women in my age bracket (25-36ish) are not common. So I find if I spend time browsing I end up seeing the same people over and over again. So after a few months ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any of the paid sites worth it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/dcybnr/any_of_the_paid_sites_worth_it/ |
margiiiwombok | 2021-04-05 13:04:15 | 1,617,627,855 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | mkk7fc | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mkk7fc/long_distance_old_advice/ | 4 | So I think I've met someone I've completely fallen for... I can't explain it, and I'm scared of how I feel in case it isn't reciprocated. HALP. I'm a 33F from Australia and he's a 29M from Germany so unfortunately there is no chance of being able to meet in person in the immediate future. We started speaking a few week... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Long distance OLD advice | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mkk7fc/long_distance_old_advice/ |
SinatraEsque | 2016-11-17 12:02:28 | 1,479,384,148 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5dfff9 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5dfff9/met_a_girl_online_she_disappeared_found_her_again/ | 2 | So after being on OkCupid for a while a girl who I hadn't seen on there before sent me a message which led to us talking for a number of hours that night. We ended up getting along really well, joking and flirting a little and it seemed to all be going well. when she just didn't message back at one point It was late so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a girl online, she disappeared, found her again. | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5dfff9/met_a_girl_online_she_disappeared_found_her_again/ |
Artemus19 | 2020-10-17 16:05:52 | 1,602,950,752 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | jcxscg | true | Question | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jcxscg/do_you_believe_the_pandemic_has_made_online/ | 2 | IMO the amount of bots and catfishing on Tinder, OKC and POF has skyrocketed lately. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you believe the pandemic has made online dating better or worse? Why or why not? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jcxscg/do_you_believe_the_pandemic_has_made_online/ |
BigHeartbutThisMouth | 2024-05-08 15:57:29 | 1,715,183,849 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cn82si | true | null | 122 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cn82si/sex_on_the_first_date/ | 63 | So not using my better judgement I slept with a first date last night. We talked for months on and off mostly about sex but thought had another connection other than just sex. He stated multiple times he doesn't do hookups and that he hadn't had sex in over a year. So I'm thinking he's being sincere about wanting more ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Sex on the first date | 63 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cn82si/sex_on_the_first_date/ |
Deven247 | 2017-09-17 02:54:52 | 1,505,616,892 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 70l5zv | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/70l5zv/where_do_i_find_women_if_theres_literally_nobody/ | 7 | I suck at dating sites. I suck at writing and barely know myself. My head is fried. UPDATE: Might write a better post than this. I was tired when I wrote this post. Anyway, I live in a hub town in Florida once owned by Disney, and outside of said hub town is a whole commercial slum full of shitty flea markets and drive... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Where do I find women if there's literally nobody within my vicinity whose single and without children? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/70l5zv/where_do_i_find_women_if_theres_literally_nobody/ |
FatRatYellow402 | 2023-11-17 00:21:10 | 1,700,180,470 | 0 | null | 0 | 17x1zoz | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17x1zoz/being_asked_to_swap_to_3rd_parties_apps_always_a/ | 5 | In my one year experience (zero dates so far), on 6 different apps, being asked to talk via snap or what’s app or chatterbox, has always ended up them asking me for money or getting ready to lead up to that point. I’ve been at the point for quite some time that I will automatically stop talking to anyone that either im... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Being asked to swap to 3rd parties apps. Always a red flag? | 5 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17x1zoz/being_asked_to_swap_to_3rd_parties_apps_always_a/ |
Truehearted | 2017-01-13 02:09:31 | 1,484,273,371 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5nnrl4 | null | null | 20 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/5nnrl4/how_to_not_overly_overtly_flirt_with_a_man_in_irl/ | 4 | I think I'm interested in a guy I work with. I'm in my late 30s and divorced. He's a widower and about 50. I can flirt with the best through guys I've met in online dating, but I turn into an awkward junior high girl with a guy I know or have met in real life. I go through the "I don't want him to think I like him" Fea... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How to not overly overtly flirt with a man in IRL? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/5nnrl4/how_to_not_overly_overtly_flirt_with_a_man_in_irl/ |
johnstamosfan63 | 2023-01-26 09:39:17 | 1,674,725,957 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 10lo5l6 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10lo5l6/randomly_blocked_by_girl_i_was_seeing_and_her/ | 1 | I (21M) recently matched with this girl (20F) on Hinge. I got her phone number pretty quickly, and she seemed really into me. The first time I asked her to grab lunch after class, her response was “EEEK YAYYYY” with a meme of an excited SpongeBob. So we get lunch, and she invites me to come hang out with all of her fri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Randomly blocked by girl I was seeing AND her friends | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10lo5l6/randomly_blocked_by_girl_i_was_seeing_and_her/ |
imtheelloworm | 2024-01-22 13:01:16 | 1,705,928,476 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19cv4gg | true | null | 157 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19cv4gg/what_do_i_respond_with_if_a_guy_on_a_dating_app/ | 22 | Pls pls help I have no idea what to respond with | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I respond with if a guy on a dating app ask “tell me something Spicey about yourself” | 22 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19cv4gg/what_do_i_respond_with_if_a_guy_on_a_dating_app/ |
theendisnie | 2019-10-03 07:52:53 | 1,570,089,173 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | dcnq9v | true | Question | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/dcnq9v/what_is_the_big_deal_with_ghosting/ | 8 | First things first, it appears there are several definitions of ghosting and I'm not sure all of them qualify as a big deal. For me personally, if I am on a dating app or it's a cold call dm off of a social media platform and the conversation goes cold then stops, I don't consider this alone as ghosting. If the convers... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What is the big deal with ghosting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/dcnq9v/what_is_the_big_deal_with_ghosting/ |
thetonytaylor | 2024-03-05 23:43:20 | 1,709,682,200 | 0 | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1b7kjny | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b7kjny/hinge_date/ | 2 | New to OLD, matched with this girl and had a few good messages back and forth, but they usually took like 12-24 hours to respond. She would always be super apologetic about it and say she doesn’t check the app much, which I could understand. After like 3 days of this, it just died down. Anyway, made a profile on a diff... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hinge date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b7kjny/hinge_date/ |
Ryze_and_shine_ | 2020-10-25 22:00:02 | 1,603,663,202 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ji25d5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ji25d5/idea_for_a_new_subreddit/ | 4 | I see all these good people feeling alone, and I cant help but feeling that it could be cool To have a subreddit for dating. Like you would post a text and pictures of yourself. I know it is the same thing as Tinder, but it would be with the community of reddit(wich as more people of quality than Tinder). I know it is ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Idea for a new subreddit | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ji25d5/idea_for_a_new_subreddit/ |
CarloUK21 | 2019-08-10 23:09:44 | 1,565,478,584 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cop475 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cop475/pre_first_date_texts_included/ | 2 | OK. We match on Tinder, text every other day - good for a couple hours, fizzles out. I text again after a couple days. We all set to meet. This happens https://imgur.com/a/FlakA8T I notice this was sent at midnight however, struck me as odd (Child Care for a dog?!) Anyways, knew the weather would be rubbish all day (he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Pre first date; Texts included | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cop475/pre_first_date_texts_included/ |
ParticularAd1361 | 2023-04-15 11:02:21 | 1,681,556,541 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12myldf | true | Long Distance ✈️ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12myldf/24m_college_student/ | 1 | Hey everyone, I don't use dating apps so I thought I'd post this here. I'm a 24 year old guy who is a senior in college. I study English, computer science, and just had my first novel published. I've never been married, but have been in a few long term relationships. Lately, I haven't been having any luck meeting anyon... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 24M college student | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12myldf/24m_college_student/ |
darkhorse2k | 2018-08-27 09:05:13 | 1,535,360,713 | null | null | 0 | 9andiw | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9andiw/after_all_that_effort_she_has_flaked/ | 7 | 2 week time period - Liked my profile first - long messages back and forth, asking many questions - Got her number, Whatsapped - She proposed date venue, I agreed, set up a date Then ON THE DAY (Today) - not confirmed, and gone quiet . Last spoke 2 days ago. What happened in the past 2 days? Met someone else? This is a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | After all that effort, she has flaked | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9andiw/after_all_that_effort_she_has_flaked/ |
YesterdayRoutine3247 | 2023-12-14 21:55:05 | 1,702,590,905 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18ijs8k | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18ijs8k/tinder_women_treat_me_poorly/ | 1 | I've (22M) had little flings with like 10 Tinder women (18F-25F) this year and don't speak anymore to any but one. I always felt disposable and they did in fact dispose of me carelessly over and over again after periods ranging from 4 days to a month. Is this to be expected from Tinder, or have I just gotten mostly bad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder Women Treat Me Poorly | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18ijs8k/tinder_women_treat_me_poorly/ |
FelipeRios_ | 2018-02-16 18:28:25 | 1,518,805,705 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7y0s8j | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7y0s8j/should_i_31m_approach_a_girl_26f_by_tinder_or/ | 1 | So here’s the story to make sense of the title. Been using Tinder for about a year now with so-so results, mostly just short flings or women who end up being good friends but nothing really serious. I live in a smaller population so I decided to try out a paid version of Tinder for a month where I can see who has swipe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (31M) approach a girl (26F) by Tinder or OKCupid? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7y0s8j/should_i_31m_approach_a_girl_26f_by_tinder_or/ |
Elmoxteros | 2018-02-04 13:31:10 | 1,517,751,070 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7v6q59 | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7v6q59/m_need_some_advice/ | 0 | I met this girl 2,5 months ago on tinder. We texted alot, had 2 dates but then we both had 1,5 month exams. Over this period we still texted like everyday, but near the end it was much less. She had made plans to go on a trip with one of her friends for a few days after she was done with her exams. When I was done with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (M) Need some advice... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7v6q59/m_need_some_advice/ |
green_tleaf | 2018-07-03 03:40:51 | 1,530,589,251 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 8vp1f9 | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8vp1f9/misses_his_ex/ | 41 | Tonight I (31F) had the third date with a guy (40M) that I met OLD. Our previous 2 dates have been great, we have a lot in common and while it wasn't fireworks it felt like it may have been a slow burn. Our date tonight was a 1.5 weeks from our last due to scheduling issues (he had his kid) but I confirmed beforehand a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Misses his ex | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8vp1f9/misses_his_ex/ |
pedrorhormes | 2019-09-23 03:12:51 | 1,569,208,371 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | d80uq0 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d80uq0/what_should_i_doexpect_on_my_relationship/ | 1 | Hi people, how are you guys? Hope everything is doing alright. Lately I’ve been feeling so depressed and sad about my relationship that I really don’t know what I can do to make things better or what to expect in the future, which is really destroying me from inside. So, I decided to write my situation over here, to ma... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do/expect on my relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d80uq0/what_should_i_doexpect_on_my_relationship/ |
SingleInSeattle87 | 2023-10-09 17:50:30 | 1,696,873,830 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 173y5th | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/173y5th/serious_why_is_there_such_a_negative_stereotype/ | 1 | So, generally speaking, if you have a high paying job...you'll have better success attracting women than if you have a low paying job. (Now before anyone replies defensively to that: understand what I am saying is that career status does help in attracting women who are looking for someone to settle down with: and for ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [Serious] Why is there such a negative stereotype for software engineers? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/173y5th/serious_why_is_there_such_a_negative_stereotype/ |
jswgasman | 2023-01-01 23:33:08 | 1,672,615,988 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 100wy6o | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/100wy6o/23m_how_to_get_over_an_obsession/ | 2 | Context: I met this girl in college 5 years ago, she is my sisters good friend and is 2 years older than me Basically from the day I met this girl, I was consumed by her and thought she was the best thing ever while I was in a year long relationship at that time (broke up about 6 weeks later after meeting her but I hon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 23M - How to get over an obsession? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/100wy6o/23m_how_to_get_over_an_obsession/ |
Plane-Requirement-44 | 2022-03-09 08:22:02 | 1,646,814,122 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ta38dh | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ta38dh/how_to_findhave_sex_for_some_serious_sexual/ | 0 | So I'm a guy and not one to brag about body count or really give that much of a crap about how much sex I get. But I haven't had sex in about 4 years and there are reasons why I want to get laid but for now I just want to know... how? Is it weird to snap a girl, better yet how do you guys even find women? I'm from Aust... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find/have sex for some serious sexual problems | null | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ta38dh/how_to_findhave_sex_for_some_serious_sexual/ |
MaybeThen2420 | 2024-09-05 19:16:28 | 1,725,563,788 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f9ut04 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f9ut04/i_21f_and_this_guy_25m_went_on_a_date_and_he/ | 3 | I matched with this guy on Tinder and we decided to meet up after a day texting. We went out to eat and walked around (let’s say in an hour). We were having a good time and good conversations (in my opinion). But after he drove me home, he didn’t text me anything. The morning after, I texted him, I said thanks for driv... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (21F) and this guy (25M) went on a date and he didn’t text me | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f9ut04/i_21f_and_this_guy_25m_went_on_a_date_and_he/ |
Secondacstar | 2021-06-29 22:05:45 | 1,625,004,345 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | oainnj | true | null | 132 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/oainnj/should_i_just_date_guys/ | 280 | Alright so I’m not sure how people will react to this post, but please refrain from homophobia. I (almost 20) F realized I was bisexual when I was 16. I recently just came out as I am proud of who I am. I haven’t dated someone since high school, but it was only guys. This year, I’ve been trying to put myself out there ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I just date guys? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oainnj/should_i_just_date_guys/ |
Arvin090592 | 2021-06-06 11:38:22 | 1,622,979,502 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ntjukx | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ntjukx/finding_self_improvement_and_still_i_cant_find/ | 2 | I improve myself alot dressing and improving my personality a lot but can't find love i tried to find a date online (Facebook, Reddit and Tinder) i did find one but its failing and didnt last long and recently i got fooled i started to lose interest on love, affection toward opposite sex they told me that it will come ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding, Self improvement and still i can't find love | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ntjukx/finding_self_improvement_and_still_i_cant_find/ |
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