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Noobmaster698757
2024-09-07 22:29:02
1,725,748,142
0
null
0
1fbiz3n
true
null
9
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbiz3n/should_i_risk_it_with_her/
0
It’s about a friend of mine who i know for 6 month now. So far she was only a friend for me because i also wasn‘t really looking for a relationship with someone. When i met here, we exchanged phone numbers and all that but i also asked if she had facebook and she didn‘t, said that she doesn’t like facebook and she was ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should i risk it with her?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbiz3n/should_i_risk_it_with_her/
ruleer6767
2022-10-11 00:58:09
1,665,449,889
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
y0vb5n
true
Question ❓
23
0
/r/dating/comments/y0vb5n/how_do_you_get_matches_on_tinder/
2
how does one go about getting matches on tinder? I don't understand. I have a good pictures and I'm decent looking my bio is ok but not a single match. I've been on tinder for 11 months.
dating
t5_2qhb1
how do you get matches on tinder?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y0vb5n/how_do_you_get_matches_on_tinder/
gamerstoner91
2017-02-18 05:25:33
1,487,395,533
null
['plentyoffish', 'pof']
0
5ur0dh
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5ur0dh/need_a_little_advice_on_a_weird_situation/
1
I(M/25) was talking with this girl(F/23) on plentyoffish exchanging messages and we seemed to have a fun little conversation and she messaged me early this morning right as I'm about to head to work and we exchanged a couple of messages and she sent the last message on POF and it had her phone number, but they sent me ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need a little advice on a weird situation
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5ur0dh/need_a_little_advice_on_a_weird_situation/
4vstin
2024-08-04 21:35:48
1,722,807,348
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1ek6lzk
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ek6lzk/finding_someone_off_dating_app_while_sober/
1
Anyone have advice? I rarely go out because I don’t drink anymore, I do not smoke or party. I’m either at work or the skatepark, and I am beyond tired of dating apps.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Finding someone off dating app while sober
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ek6lzk/finding_someone_off_dating_app_while_sober/
marirenz
2020-10-27 04:05:07
1,603,771,507
null
['dating apps', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
jiubhb
true
Tinder/Online Dating
13
0
/r/dating/comments/jiubhb/why_do_men_post_pictures_of_kids_especially_if/
1
I've notice while on various dating apps tinder,bumble,hinge,etc... I've seen many guys post pictures of them with kids. I always thought it was strange to post pictures of kids on dating apps. Especially if they aren't yours. Even if I had a child I would probably just say I have a kid and if I got to know the person ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why do men post pictures of kids? Especially if they aren't yours?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jiubhb/why_do_men_post_pictures_of_kids_especially_if/
SkippyBluestockings
2018-10-21 14:15:07
1,540,131,307
null
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
9q3tch
true
null
28
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9q3tch/talking_about_an_ex_or_two/
4
On more than one occasion, including my date last night, I have been the very first date that someone has had off of OLD. On the one hand it can be very flattering thinking that wow, of all the people they could have chosen, they picked me! And on the other hand, you know that you could be the rebound or the test proje...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Talking about an ex (or two)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9q3tch/talking_about_an_ex_or_two/
pasto97
2020-07-01 14:50:43
1,593,615,043
null
['tinder']
0
hjboi4
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hjboi4/first_date_how_do_i_pick_up_a_girl_for_lunch/
3
Im 23M and I have my first date today with a girl I met on tinder. This is the first time we will be physically meeting over lunch. This is my fist date via tinder also so I don't want to be awkward. We are driving to a restaurant. Tinder says she lives less than a mile away so she's in my neighborhood. I'm assuming sh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First date - how do I pick up a girl for lunch?
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjboi4/first_date_how_do_i_pick_up_a_girl_for_lunch/
LifeIsntFairIsItEh
2023-02-05 01:38:58
1,675,561,138
null
['matches', 'matched', 'OLD']
0
10txjf2
true
null
20
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10txjf2/im_a_conventionally_attractive_girl_but_i_still/
0
I’m getting back into OLD. I guess I’m “conventionally attractive”- I workout, get lots of compliments on my appearance and features, and I get a lot of matches / asked out a fair amount both in real life and apps. So I do know I’m lucky for getting the opportunities with guys that I have had. However, the ghosting and...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’m a “conventionally attractive” girl but I still get ghosted all the friggin time on these apps. Tips to not take it personally?
null
0.48
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10txjf2/im_a_conventionally_attractive_girl_but_i_still/
Remarkable-Hyena8347
2021-03-19 19:02:31
1,616,180,551
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'tinder']
0
m8ofip
true
I Need Advice
12
0
/r/dating/comments/m8ofip/is_there_like_a_universal_way_to_tell_a_girl_that/
2
I don't want to sound rude and dismissive if I don't have to. This girl matched with me on tinder because I was doing the 'swipe everyone' strat. I unmatched her almost instantly, but she saw it, and decided to act on it. She just conveniently assumed that I deleted my tinder instead of unmatching her, and when I told ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is there like a universal way to tell a girl that I don't find her attractive without sounding blunt and mean?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m8ofip/is_there_like_a_universal_way_to_tell_a_girl_that/
walts_skank
2021-07-30 22:34:53
1,627,684,493
null
['online dating', 'dating site']
0
ouvhpd
true
null
3
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ouvhpd/something_that_rubbed_me_the_wrong_way_the_other/
12
So like most people in my generation, I use online dating to meet people. I have some success and some failures, like everyone. But this guy the other day. We matched on a dating site and we started texting. He asked me what I was doing and me being honest, I told him I was smoking weed on the patio with some friends w...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Something that rubbed me the wrong way the other day
null
0.73
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ouvhpd/something_that_rubbed_me_the_wrong_way_the_other/
Lord_Lucan7
2015-10-14 00:24:30
1,444,782,270
0
['tinder']
0
3onpqj
null
null
18
null
/r/AskWomen/comments/3onpqj/would_you_feel_more_comfortable_going_back_to_his/
0
For a one night stand/tinder date etc... EDIT: It seems to be bang on 50/50, maybe slightly in favour of going to the guys house.
AskWomen
t5_2rxrw
Would you feel more comfortable going back to his apartment or your own?
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3onpqj/would_you_feel_more_comfortable_going_back_to_his/
MrBurnsNostril
2024-01-23 20:05:41
1,706,040,341
0
['online dating']
0
19dxjuh
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/19dxjuh/new_relationship_when_to_talk_exclusivity/
2
So I (25M) met a girl (25F) using online dating, and we both seem to really like each other. We’ve been physical and have been texting everyday, and at one point she said she’d love to watch a TV series with me if I was up for rewatching it and that sounds like a ton of fun so obviously I said I’m up for that. The next...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
New Relationship, when to talk exclusivity
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19dxjuh/new_relationship_when_to_talk_exclusivity/
Jurneeka
2019-09-19 17:52:33
1,568,915,553
null
['dating app']
0
d6hnrd
true
Update
10
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/d6hnrd/this_weeks_best_dating_related_podcast_imo/
8
Really enjoyed this one This week's Dates and Mates with Damona Hoffman covers dating app do's and don't's that I found to be practical, commonsense, and useful. Plus she discusses FB Dating which is an interesting topic but I'm still not going back on FB https://damonahoffman.com/master-class-dating-app-dos-and-donts/...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
This week's best dating related podcast (IMO)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/d6hnrd/this_weeks_best_dating_related_podcast_imo/
Narrow_Escape140
2024-01-28 22:33:02
1,706,481,182
0
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1adf6tr
true
null
32
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1adf6tr/my_friend_showed_me_pics_of_the_guy_she_has_been/
1
My friend and I are in our late 30s, the guy is in his mid 40s; we’re all older/grown. She didn’t say they are exclusive but they are intimate and talk every day. He even called her when I was catching up with her last weekend. She spent a lot of our outing talking about him, how much they have in common, how much he a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My friend showed me pics of the guy she has been seeing for 3 months. Today I got a message from him on Hinge. Do I mention it to her?
1
0.29
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1adf6tr/my_friend_showed_me_pics_of_the_guy_she_has_been/
Scintils
2022-09-20 16:58:03
1,663,693,083
null
['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
xje552
true
Question ❓
11
0
/r/dating/comments/xje552/is_dating_in_real_life_the_same_of_online_dating/
1
Do you think it’s easier dating people that you met in real life rather than people from dating apps? What’s your experience? With easier I mean less gosthing and similar behaviours. Edit: What I mean is: do you think people act better when you meet them in real life (you know them from friends, at work, at the gym, et...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is dating in real life the same of online dating?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xje552/is_dating_in_real_life_the_same_of_online_dating/
AnyNeedleworker8286
2024-03-29 17:31:34
1,711,733,494
0
['hinge']
0
1bqv189
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1bqv189/no_physical_touch_so_many_dates_advice/
1
Hey I recently met a guy (39, never married , no kids) on hinge. I am (female 39 divorced, 1 kid) am wondering how many dates it takes to have any physical connection? Not even talking seggs, ANYTHING. This guy initiates all the dates ( insists on paying) texts 4-5 times a week to confirm plans or just chat. Our dates ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
No physical touch so many dates, advice?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bqv189/no_physical_touch_so_many_dates_advice/
random_fangirll
2023-09-21 19:29:08
1,695,324,548
0
['dating apps']
0
16oovp6
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16oovp6/am_i_really_bipan_or/
1
So I made a post on here the other day about how I don’t find rarely ever any man attractive. Many of the comments were saying “maybe your gay” well I wanted that post to be about why does there seem to not be many attractive men? What I didn’t mention was that I’ve considered myself pansexual for a few years now. I se...
dating
t5_2qhb1
am i really bi/pan? or?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16oovp6/am_i_really_bipan_or/
mannersrus
2021-01-15 18:48:37
1,610,736,517
null
null
0
ky0zok
true
null
16
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ky0zok/how_many_dating_apps_are_you_actively_on_at_any/
5
Did you find it challenging trying to balance all the apps at the same time?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How many dating apps are you actively on at any given time?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ky0zok/how_many_dating_apps_are_you_actively_on_at_any/
butiamawizard
2021-06-09 14:12:50
1,623,247,970
null
['bumble']
0
nvwwuf
true
null
40
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nvwwuf/possible_red_flag_on_a_second_date_was_i_too/
0
I (F) for dinner with a pretty lovely Bumble match (M) I had in the city I’m intending to move to, as soon as I can get a job down there (will be moving there finally as was planned before, for uni to attend more required in person stuff). All went pretty well - had plenty to talk about, no awkward silences, loads of o...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Possible red flag on a second date -was I too quick to forgive?
null
0.38
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/nvwwuf/possible_red_flag_on_a_second_date_was_i_too/
DaNoraIsy
2024-03-06 21:07:38
1,709,759,258
0
null
0
1b8ba4s
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b8ba4s/do_other_girls_like_me_also_scared_of_online/
4
Is it unusual to be scared of it?😭 Like I am terrified. Please tell me I am not alone in this😭😭😭
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Do other girls like me also scared of online dating or is it just me?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b8ba4s/do_other_girls_like_me_also_scared_of_online/
AlarmingDoubt
2018-05-28 01:03:32
1,527,469,412
0
['tinder']
0
8mm8n4
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8mm8n4/should_i_give_up_on_the_relationship/
1
Hi all! I \(21F\) started officially dating my SO \(25M\) over 3 months ago. We first met on Tinder and hit it off immediately. Our first date was amazing, we connected immediately, and have been best friends since. He has made it no secret that he can be "emotionally unavailable" and has "commitment issues" \(his exac...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I give up on the relationship?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8mm8n4/should_i_give_up_on_the_relationship/
VADER_7
2024-03-24 03:22:46
1,711,250,566
0
['dating apps']
0
1bmb2dq
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmb2dq/ghosted_because_of_intimidation_or_loss_of/
2
I (33M) met this girl (25F) and we've been talking probably in total for about a month. After about 2 weeks we finally had our first date, primarily because I was out of town at the time. Things went well and she said she enjoyed our time together afterwards. We quickly had a second date and I could feel that I really ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted because of Intimidation or Loss of Attraction?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmb2dq/ghosted_because_of_intimidation_or_loss_of/
Lushmelts
2021-06-01 08:44:53
1,622,537,093
null
['dating sites']
1
nppdaq
true
/r/all
1,035
1
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nppdaq/i_caught_my_worthless_husband_cheating_and_i_feel/
27,335
He’s been sexting with a coworker and they planned to meet up. He’s signed up with at least 4 dating sites. I woke up this morning with eyes so puffy they were almost swollen shut. Then I realized that I don’t have to put up with his constantly shitty mood anymore. I don’t have to do all the emotional labor. I don’t ha...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I caught my worthless husband cheating and I feel great
null
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nppdaq/i_caught_my_worthless_husband_cheating_and_i_feel/
kikiswirline456
2020-04-05 01:41:15
1,586,050,875
null
['tinder']
0
fv5lzt
true
Other
3
0
/r/dating/comments/fv5lzt/a_little_vulnerability_doesnt_hurt/
25
I met this guy on Tinder towards the end of March. Of course we can’t arrange a date now because of COVID but we’ve developed a connection, engaged in frequent texting, and even some light flirting. At first, I was trying too hard to play it cool about how happy I feel whenever I talk to him and how attracted I am to h...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A little vulnerability doesn’t hurt!
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fv5lzt/a_little_vulnerability_doesnt_hurt/
FaithInStrangers94
2021-01-19 16:33:55
1,611,074,035
null
['dating apps']
0
l0ndmx
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l0ndmx/psa_its_worth_hunting_down_the_social_media/
1
I decided to try to track down the sexy curvy blonde girl i was chatting with on Facebook... Lo and behold she’s in a relationship and her profile picture is her with her man. Side note: If you think that’s ok to go ahead and get in and out you’re a degenerate piece of shit no matter how much she might want it and how ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
PSA: it’s worth hunting down the social media profiles of people you’re chatting to on dating apps before you invest much time or energy into them
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l0ndmx/psa_its_worth_hunting_down_the_social_media/
Timthrowit0418
2020-06-16 02:09:16
1,592,273,356
null
['swipe', 'dating app']
0
h9ubjf
true
Venting
9
0
/r/dating/comments/h9ubjf/a_rant_on_modern_dating/
10
Just came here to vent about modern dating. I'm a pretty long-time (70?+ first dates) dating app user, who just had it broken off with a girl I liked after 4 dates. Main reason cited is inability to try "long distance". I'm about to move for a new job (medical residency, so demanding hours on top of everything else), w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
A rant on modern dating
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/h9ubjf/a_rant_on_modern_dating/
cash4owen
2021-09-14 00:13:01
1,631,578,381
null
['dating apps']
0
pnrqvu
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/pnrqvu/do_women_get_annoyed_when_approached_by_someone/
3
Hi! I’m (19m) freshman in college, just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years and to put it simply i don’t know how to flirt or approach people i find attractive without feeling guilty. I feel like ALOT of women get unwanted attention and it ruins there day or whatever and i just don’t want to be that, i hate that hon...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do women get annoyed when approached by someone they don’t find attractive
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pnrqvu/do_women_get_annoyed_when_approached_by_someone/
naixi123
2023-10-31 14:46:48
1,698,763,608
0
['tinder']
0
17kmqct
true
null
108
0
/r/AskMen/comments/17kmqct/my_best_friend_cant_get_a_date_because_of_her/
1
So my best friend (F/26) has never had a boyfriend. She really struggles with meeting guys and tends to catch feelings very easily based on looks. She believes her main issue with finding a boyfriend is that she is overweight. She is 168cm/5'6 and 100kg/220lb. While there are guys who are into bigger guys, here is the ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
My best friend can't get a date because of her double standards, how can I help her?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/17kmqct/my_best_friend_cant_get_a_date_because_of_her/
webby131
2021-04-26 22:43:07
1,619,476,987
null
null
0
mza5ox
true
null
5
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/mza5ox/do_i_have_to_get_a_photo_with_friends/
11
I'm a dude trying to build out my profile. For whatever reason I'm usually just kinda camera shy, and literally have almost no photos of myself from the last 5 years. I'm pretty secure in what I look like, and I kind of accept I got to get over it to have any success but I hear you got to have a photo with friends to a...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Do I have to get a photo with friends?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mza5ox/do_i_have_to_get_a_photo_with_friends/
breakfast1842
2024-02-22 19:16:30
1,708,629,390
0
null
0
1axex5w
true
null
112
1
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1axex5w/how_to_find_fat_women_to_date/
1
When I use Tinder, only top models are suggested to me and they are the only women who match me (thin waist, long blonde hair, etc.). I find fat women much more attractive and would like to have a fat girlfriend. However, you cannot set such preferences on Tinder. Now I wanted to ask whether you should write directly i...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How to find fat women to date
1
0.41
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1axex5w/how_to_find_fat_women_to_date/
laughingfaces
2019-12-10 07:06:59
1,575,961,619
null
['online dating']
0
e8nb1o
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e8nb1o/introspection_fear_then_depression/
3
(35M) Okay so I know right from the start the title alone will turn people away, but it's been eating at me and needed to just get it out. To start I've been single pretty much forever, not counting some long distance and locals that just dissolved. I know part of it was on me, my depression and anxiety kept me from be...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Introspection, fear, then depression
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e8nb1o/introspection_fear_then_depression/
CupcakeGlad4948
2024-08-10 00:16:13
1,723,248,973
0
['matched']
0
1eofgan
true
null
186
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1eofgan/so_i_matched_with_this_girl_online_annnd/
547
I noticed all her photos are of her in her yard. So I told her "it seems like you are always in your yard" No response Then I added "no worries I can relieve you of your gnome duties" Meaning I would take her out and away from her yard. I then became unmatched. Am I doing it wrong? Was she offended that I called her a ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
So I matched with this girl online annnd
547
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eofgan/so_i_matched_with_this_girl_online_annnd/
dougphisig
2019-05-14 19:42:57
1,557,862,977
null
['matches', 'dating sites']
0
bonj73
true
null
19
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bonj73/dating_in_smaller_towns/
2
38 Male here, last girlfriend was about 6 years ago at this point. I live in a smaller town in Kansas (i'm not a country boy or a hick to clarify), and just finding it hard to date period. It's hard to find local girls because it's a town of around 25,000, and I do go on dates on occasion with out of town girls an hour...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Dating in smaller towns.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bonj73/dating_in_smaller_towns/
Sensitive_Dare_4787
2023-12-18 13:20:19
1,702,905,619
0
['online dating', 'dating apps', 'bumble']
0
18l8ior
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
2
0
/r/dating/comments/18l8ior/online_dating_pop_therapy/
2
“Pop Therapy culture” is such a turn off for me nowadays. I’m a guy in his late 20s and I’ve had many conversations on Bumble in the last few months but honestly, almost all of them were driven with jokes of “huh that’s a redflag haha” or a lack of general understanding of how therapy works and how a strong, real relat...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online Dating & Pop Therapy
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18l8ior/online_dating_pop_therapy/
polapie
2024-04-14 09:08:22
1,713,085,702
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1c3pa98
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3pa98/4_months_of_talking_got_ghosted/
1
We've been talking for 4 months, I couldn't rly go out cuz I was hospitalized/had to stay indoors for those first 3 months when me matched on tinder but he kept talking to me even though I told him he doesnt need to wait for me. We finally met this month and went out on 2 dates, and we also had further date plans too. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
4 months of talking, got ghosted
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3pa98/4_months_of_talking_got_ghosted/
General-Push-2813
2023-09-04 18:20:33
1,693,851,633
0
['hinge']
0
169zjxz
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/169zjxz/i_need_your_thoughts/
1
Hey! I met a person on Hinge and he’s almost a decade older than me but he doesn’t look like at that age. We’re both legal. Anyway, I don’t know what should i feel because we went for drink (our first date) and we felt like we clicked really fast, and all of the connections has been actually good and we didn’t wanna le...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I need your thoughts
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/169zjxz/i_need_your_thoughts/
avicii86
2019-04-01 18:23:22
1,554,143,002
null
['matches', 'tinder', 'okcupid']
0
b86fta
true
null
41
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/b86fta/how_do_i_accept_that_i_am_unattractive_to_women/
18
I am a 29 year old Male with no steady job, hardly any money, live with my parents, and have less than average looks. Whenever I am with a friend i notice women checking them out and completely ignoring me. I get no matches on tinder or okcupid. I'm like invisible to women. I notice some of them give me dirty looks. It...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I accept that I am unattractive to women?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b86fta/how_do_i_accept_that_i_am_unattractive_to_women/
PenutButrJeliTime
2021-05-14 18:22:27
1,621,016,547
null
null
0
ncfbth
true
null
3
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/ncfbth/how_can_i_tell_if_i_should_go_on_more_dates/
2
I (30M) matched online with someone recently. We've gone on two dates and they went well, but I don't have much dating experience so I'm not sure what I should be feeling. I've met people before where I instantly knew I wanted to be with them, around them, or just talk to them. I haven't felt this yet with this person....
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How can I tell if I should go on more dates?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ncfbth/how_can_i_tell_if_i_should_go_on_more_dates/
Icy_Author_7306
2024-07-24 13:47:58
1,721,828,878
0
['bumble']
0
1eb1x9v
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1eb1x9v/after_not_wanting_to_date_anyone_at_all_just_had/
2
I recently met this beautiful European girl. She is from Latvia. We met via Bumble.(Hope she does not see this) This is the first time I have a date after a long time, i really got tired of dating and meaningless sex ( my dates usually ended in sex the 1st night) I’m not going to lie, this first date did not end like m...
dating
t5_2qhb1
After not wanting to date anyone at all. Just had the best date of my life.
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eb1x9v/after_not_wanting_to_date_anyone_at_all_just_had/
Capable-Ad-9380
2022-10-12 02:44:43
1,665,542,683
null
['bumble']
0
y1rztj
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/y1rztj/i_think_im_falling_for_my_hookup/
2
Yeah so I started talking to someone on bumble and we decided to meet like we met the same day we started talking, we met and drove around and went to a decent place and sat and talked, we’ve gone out a total of 3 times now and I’ve only known them for three days. We’ve hooked up twice at their place and i asked them t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think I’m falling for my hookup
null
0.58
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y1rztj/i_think_im_falling_for_my_hookup/
[deleted]
2014-05-15 22:38:05
1,400,193,485
0
['pof']
0
25nyfr
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/25nyfr/bringing_up_commitment_and_are_we_moving_to_fast/
5
I(28m) have no idea who to go about bringing up the idea of commitment with someone. I recently meet a girl and we've really connected, after our first date we both deleted our POF accounts(thats how we meet). Our second date was at a concert and after wards she went with a couple of her friends to a bar(I had work in ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Bringing up commitment and are we moving to fast.
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/25nyfr/bringing_up_commitment_and_are_we_moving_to_fast/
foreigndatr
2017-05-19 06:44:51
1,495,176,291
null
['tinder']
0
6c216t
null
null
30
null
/r/AskMen/comments/6c216t/if_a_girl_on_tinder_posts_alternate_social_media/
2
If she posts her other social media links (Snapchat, PSN, Instagram), should I follow her on them? Especially after I liked her profile? I understand this does sound creepy and weird. But, at least, I can have a friend to chill with (especially on PSN) if we don't end up dating or hooking up.
AskMen
t5_2s30g
If a girl on Tinder posts alternate social media links (Snapchat, Twitter, PSN, etc), what do you think of following them?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6c216t/if_a_girl_on_tinder_posts_alternate_social_media/
HighlySuspect_Me
2020-09-02 13:54:54
1,599,054,894
null
null
0
il77sb
true
null
13
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/il77sb/do_i_keep_the_communication_going/
2
I started some conversations with a couple of guys and they respond to my messages however they aren’t sending any messages back to me asking questions about myself. Does this mean they aren’t interested? Should I continue to message them?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Do I keep the communication going?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/il77sb/do_i_keep_the_communication_going/
Colonelwheel
2021-11-27 11:58:26
1,638,014,306
null
['tinder']
0
r3c5p4
true
null
24
0
/r/AskMen/comments/r3c5p4/disability_anxiety_and_datinghookups_may_i_have/
52
Sorry This post ended up being much longer than I expected, but I feel like it's all pretty important because I still have these issues/thoughts about anyone and everyone else that I'm interested in. And a lot of this sounds like you have to explain it to me like I'm a five year old, and I'd honestly prefer it if you d...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Disability, anxiety, and dating/hookups. May I have some advice on all fronts, no matter how much you can/can't relate please?
null
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/r3c5p4/disability_anxiety_and_datinghookups_may_i_have/
cherry_chocolate_
2021-09-28 07:40:00
1,632,814,800
null
['tinder']
0
px19g5
true
null
66
0
/r/AskMen/comments/px19g5/how_do_you_keep_yourself_safe_as_a_man_when_you/
66
All of my girl friends are super good at checking in with their friends and making sure they get home safe, knowing who they are hooking up with, etc. And I [21m] try do the same for my friends, whether they are a girl or a guy. However, it seems like everyone assumes that I will get home safe, just because I am a tall...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How do you keep yourself safe as a man when you are drunk, going out, etc?
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/px19g5/how_do_you_keep_yourself_safe_as_a_man_when_you/
Scared_Fruit_2675
2023-08-05 07:43:22
1,691,221,402
0
null
0
15ipb4j
true
null
2
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15ipb4j/men_should_pay_for_first_couple_of_dates/
1
I own a dating app. The number one problem we face is men swipe right on literally all women. I’m not talking just about mediocre men, even the best looking men. Basically men trying to sleep around. There are not many ways in which women can understand if someone is genuinely interested or just trying to sleep around....
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Men should pay for first couple of dates
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15ipb4j/men_should_pay_for_first_couple_of_dates/
swoleymoleywtf
2017-05-30 08:58:02
1,496,134,682
null
['tinder']
0
6e66o8
null
null
4
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/6e66o8/cynicism_over_love_redflag/
2
I'm 25/M. I met her over Tinder. She hit all the right buttons for me: She’s intelligent, funny, kind and physically attractive. I took the plunge after bantering for a week and invited her out two weeks ago for drinks. We had a good time and she enjoyed it, so I texted her after if she’d like dinner sometime last week...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Cynicism over Love (Redflag?)
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6e66o8/cynicism_over_love_redflag/
TheGrandGoldenKnight
2023-04-17 05:25:17
1,681,709,117
0
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
12p3hgz
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12p3hgz/need_advice_with_how_to_get_started/
1
I (19M) have debated with myself for a few days on trying out online dating. I’ve had 2 relationships in my life and they were during High School. I graduated just a little less than a year ago. Now I want to see what this will be like, but before I do go in I want to see what should I look out for during this? I have ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need advice with how to get started
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12p3hgz/need_advice_with_how_to_get_started/
KA-joy-seeker
2023-07-10 17:10:06
1,689,009,006
0
['online dating']
0
14vzwq1
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/14vzwq1/having_trouble_with_online_dating/
1
I'm 30m and there aren't many single ladies around my age( just a few divorced one) in my city, so when I go out looking for a suitable girl most of the options are about 10 years younger which is a deal breaker for me, online dating is also on the range now and although I am a great conversationalist face to face( I c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Having trouble with online dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14vzwq1/having_trouble_with_online_dating/
JustOneHitch
2019-08-05 15:03:20
1,565,017,400
null
['tinder']
0
cmc307
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cmc307/i_19m_met_a_girl_19f_at_a_potentially_awkward/
0
Okay so I stopped seeing a girl who was messing with my feelings at the end of april, and did what most people my age would do and got on tinder, out of curiosity. Ended up chatting to a girl at my university who lives only a few blocks down from me at my uni accommodation, we talk, agree to meet for coffee less than a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [19M] met a girl [19F] at a potentially awkward time, need some advice.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cmc307/i_19m_met_a_girl_19f_at_a_potentially_awkward/
darcybennet
2021-06-04 21:53:49
1,622,843,629
null
['online dating']
0
nsgjof
true
I Need Advice
15
0
/r/dating/comments/nsgjof/online_dating_are_my_expectations_weird/
4
I'm starting to try online dating, and sometimes the guys want to kiss or hold hands on the first or second date. My question is, how is that possible? They barely know me! I could be a serial killer for all they know, or we could have no chemistry, wildly different values, political beliefs, life goals, etc. Are some ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating: Are my expectations weird?
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nsgjof/online_dating_are_my_expectations_weird/
cornflower0530
2021-05-25 00:29:53
1,621,902,593
null
['online dating']
0
nkcmt7
true
null
21
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nkcmt7/anyone_else_hates_online_dating/
1
25F. I’ve tried it before and met maybe 7 or 8 guys in total. Great guys, but nothing happened. I really don’t like the dynamics between my date and I because the purpose of us being here in the first place becomes so clear when we meet through an app. I much more enjoy being chased and meeting guys organically. Am I n...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anyone else hates online dating?
null
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nkcmt7/anyone_else_hates_online_dating/
skullyblotnick
2018-12-20 04:04:58
1,545,278,698
null
['OLD']
0
a7u5li
true
null
56
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a7u5li/is_it_me_i_seriously_have_to_wonder/
6
So I am a little older at 52, but I don't look it, mid 40's at most is what I am told. I am in good shape, reasonably attractive (though told many times very handsome by my lady friends). I stick by the old standard of opening a door for ladies, and treating them with respect. My profile pictures are good, I have what ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Is it me? I seriously have to wonder?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a7u5li/is_it_me_i_seriously_have_to_wonder/
BestSatisfaction9329
2021-03-10 13:21:32
1,615,382,492
null
['online dating']
0
m1xbs9
true
I Need Advice
77
0
/r/dating/comments/m1xbs9/why_is_it_mostly_down_to_the_guy_to_intitiate_and/
62
Hey I'm male, 28, been trying online dating for a few months or so and I'm kinda fedup of it. With dating profiles I always make an effort to ignite a conversation about something I see that's interesting (a cool photo they have, their occupation etc) it's very rare when someone gives me more than just one word respons...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why is it mostly down to the guy to intitiate and maintain every conversation?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m1xbs9/why_is_it_mostly_down_to_the_guy_to_intitiate_and/
chestyCough94
2022-09-26 16:52:40
1,664,211,160
null
['matches', 'hinge']
0
xoouih
true
null
20
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xoouih/phone_calls_yay_or_nay/
0
Context, 27m using hinge and after some back and forth of messaging ill usually ask for a phone call. I even have a prompt saying that i will ask for a phone call just to warn off anyone who isnt into that. Reason i do this is, 1. to make sure the conversation flows before i invest time going on a date and 2, to make s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
phone calls: yay or nay
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xoouih/phone_calls_yay_or_nay/
ThatClosetedGayTeen
2023-06-19 09:45:15
1,687,167,915
0
null
0
14da011
true
null
14
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/14da011/to_all_my_young_peeps_please_be_careful_when/
1
So I (18M) talked to this guy for around 2 days and he seemed nice enough for the most part. He was very cute and seemed very attentive, though he was much older than me and said that he felt my bisexuality was a "preliminary to being gay". He also said that sending him nudes was fine and encouraged me to flaunt my bod...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
To all my young peeps, please be careful when online dating. DONT BE LIKE ME
1
0.42
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14da011/to_all_my_young_peeps_please_be_careful_when/
uhhhidkbro69
2023-07-03 12:58:00
1,688,389,080
0
['dating apps']
0
14pibdu
false
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/14pibdu/are_serious_relationships_dead/
1
Hi, I (19F) have been using dating apps for a couple of months. For added context, I am only interested in dating women. So far I have not had a single date. I met a girl on it but she didn’t seem like “wifey” material so now we are just friends. I feel like my problem is that I am only looking for a serious relationsh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are serious relationships dead?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14pibdu/are_serious_relationships_dead/
state_of_ok
2024-09-03 07:41:51
1,725,349,311
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1f7u4wj
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f7u4wj/should_i_ask_this_guy_if_its_ok_for_me_to_meet/
0
So, I (40f) matched with this guy (46m) on a dating app. We met twice. First was for coffee then the second, we went for a drive... And had sex (stupid, I know). The communication after that became less and sometimes, I needed to start with a 'good morning' text to keep any convo going. But basically dry. Now, should I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I ask this guy if it's ok for me to meet other guys?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f7u4wj/should_i_ask_this_guy_if_its_ok_for_me_to_meet/
Ok-Bumblebee-393
2024-04-08 04:15:52
1,712,549,752
0
['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
1byoq7r
true
Support Needed 🫂
47
0
/r/dating/comments/1byoq7r/dating_is_hard/
35
I 22f am having such a hard time trying to date. I find men who generally just want a hook up or ghost me after a week or two, or just quit replying before we get the chance to go do something. I’ve tried tinder but that was mainly just hookup culture, bumble (creepy experience made me quit that one) and hinge. My most...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating is hard
32
0.77
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1byoq7r/dating_is_hard/
Door_Number_Four
2018-05-07 03:49:56
1,525,664,996
0
['OLD']
0
8hkpjh
false
null
22
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8hkpjh/two_weeks_into_old/
47
40m, took the plunge two weeks ago. Things have been going swimmingly. Been honest about where I am with my divorce and dating timeline. Been on five first dates, only one where she flat out ghosted me afterwards. Three others where second dates have occurred or are planned. One is still on the fence. But one of these ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Two weeks into OLD
47
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8hkpjh/two_weeks_into_old/
ellejack123
2019-08-18 04:14:43
1,566,101,683
null
['matches', 'matched', 'tinder']
0
crwodi
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/crwodi/what_does_it_mean_when_a_tinder_match_unmatches/
1
I started Tinder 2 weeks ago and the first guy I matched with, we never messaged each other. I was still new to it and still a bit anxious about reaching out. He was still on my matches list though ...anyway, my friend said she had someone she’d like me to meet a few days ago and she showed me a photo. It’s the same gu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What does it mean when a Tinder match unmatches you but says they’re interested in meeting you to a mutual friend?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/crwodi/what_does_it_mean_when_a_tinder_match_unmatches/
sirfrancisdrake123
2023-07-29 19:01:39
1,690,657,299
0
['matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble']
0
15d00lh
false
Giving Advice 💌
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15d00lh/matched_someone_on_bumble_started_talking_we_have/
1
She hasn't let me know when she's free. Should I ask her out again in a few days? I don't really know what to do. She replies but takes ages and ngl I've had to double message twice already. Seems like she wants to get to know me. But I have no faith in the dating apps anymore. I honestly dont even want to move fast I ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Matched someone on bumble. Started talking we have similar interests conversation started off well. But then as usual she starts taking ages to reply. I've asked her out twice but she was busy both times.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15d00lh/matched_someone_on_bumble_started_talking_we_have/
BenekeFutures
2024-01-07 05:30:20
1,704,605,420
0
['matched', 'bumble']
0
190ks3x
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/190ks3x/i_cant_meet_up_with_the_girl_i_started_talking_to/
1
Yesterday I matched with a girl on bumble, we had a solid connection over text so I asked her out for coffee the weekend. She unfortunately has Covid, but did agree, and with my work schedule I won’t be free until next weekend. Continuing the conversation will most likely lead to us losing interest, but not messaging h...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I can’t meet up with the girl I started talking to for at least a week, what should I do
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/190ks3x/i_cant_meet_up_with_the_girl_i_started_talking_to/
CygnusBC
2022-09-01 03:30:45
1,662,003,045
null
['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
x2x3y9
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x2x3y9/dating_apps_make_me_feel_like_im_completely/
3
I’ve always tried to have success with dating apps, like bumble or tinder, even occasionally caving and buying things like boosts or like visibility (though Im not proud of it). Every time I use these apps though, of course; it’s a total ghost town. Im not the most attractive person, but I always thought I could be con...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps make me feel like I’m completely unloveable. What’s the alternative?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x2x3y9/dating_apps_make_me_feel_like_im_completely/
Mike9307
2024-08-23 15:30:20
1,724,427,020
0
null
0
1ezfovi
true
null
29
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ezfovi/redownloaded_hinge_got_8_matches_in_a_few_days/
5
i don’t understand how you can match with someone and send 3-4 messages and call it a day..idk why i thought things would be different this time but it’s crazy how a seemingly good conversation can just stop like that..idk if im doing something wrong but all the conversations (if you can call them conversations) seemed...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Redownloaded Hinge, got 8 matches in a few days and all stopped after max 6 messages
5
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ezfovi/redownloaded_hinge_got_8_matches_in_a_few_days/
thotseries
2020-08-09 16:47:44
1,596,991,664
null
['tinder']
0
i6mikb
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/i6mikb/what_should_i_do/
1
So I met a girl on tinder, I think it was February, so basically we talked about stuff and her problems and also mine, I asked for her number and she gave me, as we texted turns out we share a lot of things in common and it was fun texting her, until one day I asked her to go out on a date with me, she says yes. It's b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What should I do?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i6mikb/what_should_i_do/
_He_who_remains__
2024-02-05 23:17:07
1,707,175,027
0
['dating apps']
0
1ajus0e
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ajus0e/how_can_i_21m_boost_my_dating_prospects_from_zero/
1
Hey everyone, I'm a 21-year-old guy who recently graduated college, landed a great job, and has life sorted out. The catch? I've never been on a date or had a relationship. This is mostly because I started college at 15, focusing heavily on academics, and being a minor, I didn't actively pursue relationships. Fast forw...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How can I [21M] boost my dating prospects from zero?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ajus0e/how_can_i_21m_boost_my_dating_prospects_from_zero/
brn-half-grasshopper
2016-10-30 12:35:01
1,477,830,901
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
5a5tc1
null
null
0
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5a5tc1/girl_im_dating_22f_is_moving_away_until_the_end/
0
Hi guys, I matched with a lovely girl on tinder in august and we've been chatting, texting, and snapchatting on and off for the last two months. We've met up twice in the last month (patting dogs and cats at the local animal shelter)- I think we get on really well (lots of eye contact, smiles, similar sense of humour ,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl I'm 'dating' (22F) is moving away until the end of December. How can I (21M) keep her interested?
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5a5tc1/girl_im_dating_22f_is_moving_away_until_the_end/
LurelinVillage
2024-07-16 16:35:09
1,721,147,709
0
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
1e4t761
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1e4t761/confused_and_need_advice_when_liking_people_in/
1
I am a 34 female and I got out of a long term relationship a little under three months ago and was very new to the dating scene. I got on the apps about 3-4 weeks after my relationship ended. For context, my relationship ended well and felt I truly processed after. It was the best decision and felt excited to be dating...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Confused and need advice when liking people in general
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e4t761/confused_and_need_advice_when_liking_people_in/
jj121591
2023-01-06 10:24:49
1,673,000,689
null
['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
104qt8s
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/104qt8s/i_m31_have_been_dating_a_woman_f36_for_5_months/
1
hey all. I \[m/31\] have been dating a woman \[f/36\] since early august. we originally took things slow, but are at the point where we are seeing each other 3x per week and spent xmas and new year's together, exchanging gifts and all that. over the past few weeks we've had some great chats about what each of us values...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I [m/31] have been dating a woman [f/36] for 5 months and accidentally saw dating apps on her phone. how/should I ask her about it?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/104qt8s/i_m31_have_been_dating_a_woman_f36_for_5_months/
silvereddi
2019-09-02 20:55:06
1,567,457,706
null
['dating app']
0
cyuwb2
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cyuwb2/had_2_dates_with_a_girl_yet_no_intimate_contact/
1
TL:DR: Had 2 good dates with a girl, but she never initiates texting me or planning those dates. I did all of them. I tried to kiss her on the first date, she refused, yet went on a second date with me which was fun, but she did not touch me at all. After date she never texted me and neither did I. What's next: Should ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Had 2 Dates with a girl yet no intimate contact and no initiating texts from her
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cyuwb2/had_2_dates_with_a_girl_yet_no_intimate_contact/
papadash53
2021-05-28 16:09:43
1,622,218,183
null
['tinder']
0
nn17wr
true
null
42
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/nn17wr/should_you_kiss_on_the_first_date/
17
First date with a girl from tinder. Hypothetically say we’re vibing and having a great time is that the correct thing to at the end of the date or no? This my first date btw lol.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should you Kiss on the first date ?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nn17wr/should_you_kiss_on_the_first_date/
Aggressive_Bed9898
2023-10-05 20:38:53
1,696,538,333
0
['dating apps']
0
170so9a
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/170so9a/people_with_dating_anxiety_how_do_you_date_in/
1
As the title states. I have a lot of issues surrounding relationships due to past trauma so dating just anyone isn’t really an option for me. I really really dislike dating apps and find it impossible for me to grow a liking to anyone I meet on there. If we met organically, it would be a different story, but the sheer ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
People with dating anxiety, how do you date in current times?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/170so9a/people_with_dating_anxiety_how_do_you_date_in/
Emotional_Penalty
2022-11-22 23:31:31
1,669,159,891
null
['OLD', 'tinder']
0
z28u2s
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/z28u2s/how_do_you_get_female_attention/
1
No matter what I do, I (26m) can't even get a girl to talk to me for a prolonged period of time. Women just seem completly oblivious to me. It feels like all my friends get approached by girls from time to time, while I'm completely invisible. Even when I start talking to a girl on OLD I always get ghosted (and that is...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you get female attention?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z28u2s/how_do_you_get_female_attention/
LowStandards32
2024-07-11 17:56:23
1,720,720,583
0
['online dating']
0
1e0v77p
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e0v77p/is_everyone_online_dating_other_sites_broke/
0
I've been having a hard time wrapping my brain around this so this is just my luck. But for awhile now every time I've tried to meet someone they want gas fee. Ok I can understand that.. but claiming to be broke and not having any thing.. really? Okay I can understand maybe a few but hear me every single one I am talki...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is everyone online dating / other sites broke?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e0v77p/is_everyone_online_dating_other_sites_broke/
cutie_tita
2023-09-04 18:23:07
1,693,851,787
0
['tinder']
0
169zmet
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/169zmet/should_i_ask_to_hang_out_again/
1
I’m 21F and I went on a really long date with this guy (23M) this weekend. He showed me around the city (I’ve recently moved), we hung out all day and then went to a club together at night. Before we went to the club together we had sex and then we had sex again in the morning when I woke up at his place. After I left,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I ask to hang out again?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/169zmet/should_i_ask_to_hang_out_again/
Trash458
2022-09-06 03:15:35
1,662,434,135
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
x6zji7
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x6zji7/im_not_sure_if_this_girl_likes_me/
0
I (M19) matched with a girl (F18) on bumble a few (4) days ago. We seemed to hit it off so I asked for her snap and got it, and then asked to go on a date to a coffee shop. She said yes and seems genuinely excited/interested in it (2 days from now) but other than that she doesn't really message at all. Do you think she...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I'm not sure if this girl likes me
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x6zji7/im_not_sure_if_this_girl_likes_me/
wittlesparkles11
2022-11-10 03:46:17
1,668,051,977
null
['facebook dating']
0
yr4g2n
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/yr4g2n/does_he_just_want_a_sexual_relationship/
0
I met him on Facebook dating First date went good then the second date he started spanking and pinching my butt he told me he's a touchy guy so I told him you can touch me I held his hand then all sudden he grab my boob and started going underneath my bra and I told him no I started laughing because he was still touchi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does he just want a sexual relationship?
null
0.4
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yr4g2n/does_he_just_want_a_sexual_relationship/
GreasedLightning
2018-04-09 03:25:28
1,523,244,328
0
['tinder']
0
8avgoq
false
null
21
0
/r/AskMen/comments/8avgoq/from_your_experience_how_common_would_you_say/
1
I ask because the last few coworkers I've had clearly mess around a bit. "Wife" over here, "Girlfriend" over there. Not to mention the two worst jobs I've had were full to the brim with cheating. I'll also hop on Tinder to see "Single" women with 4/5 of their pictures showing them wearing a wedding ring and holding kid...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
From your experience, how common would you say infidelity is?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/8avgoq/from_your_experience_how_common_would_you_say/
suchascenicworld
2020-08-17 22:31:05
1,597,703,465
null
['OLD']
0
ibojh5
true
null
19
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ibojh5/i_really_want_to_start_dating_again_however_after/
16
Hey everyone, Years ago I decided to take a break from dating. This was because I was living in a different country (UK) and would move back to my own (US) as well as the stress involving finishing my PhD. In addition, I was dealing with some mental health issues (anxiety possibly to the stress as well as family issues...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
I really want to start dating again, however, after several years of not dating, I am kind of nervous about getting back into things. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
null
0.9
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ibojh5/i_really_want_to_start_dating_again_however_after/
PowerCookie808
2024-08-07 11:10:59
1,723,029,059
0
['matches', 'online dating']
0
1em9156
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1em9156/how_do_you_even_get_a_date_nowadays/
0
Seems that everyone talks about online dating. The women get massive attention and pick a guy from hundreds or thousands of DMs. Online-Dating as an average guy doesn't work. You won't even get matches. So whats the alternative here? I tried asking out girls at the gym, grocery store and other places. Didn't even get n...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do you even get a date nowadays?
0
0.43
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1em9156/how_do_you_even_get_a_date_nowadays/
Material-Emu-8732
2023-11-19 20:43:52
1,700,426,632
0
['dating app']
0
17z6g6y
true
Question ❓
15
0
/r/dating/comments/17z6g6y/guys_who_dont_confirm_date_specifics/
5
Background: Chatted online for 3 months (texting regularly every 2-3 days roughly) which is enough frequency of contact for me. I know it is unusual to talk this long, it is my longest dating app chat ever. Because we are both busy we scheduled a month in advance, to meet on a specific day. I figured I’d wait til the w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guys who don’t confirm date specifics
5
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17z6g6y/guys_who_dont_confirm_date_specifics/
Revk5
2019-09-04 05:30:30
1,567,575,030
null
['dating sites', 'tinder']
0
czglvt
true
Tinder/Online Dating
8
0
/r/dating/comments/czglvt/whats_so_different_about_tinder_as_to_finding/
0
My friend noted that since I've had virtually no interest in dating, I should try finding a fuck-buddy with Tinder. I don't quite understand how Tinder is different that would allow you to avoid the hoops of dating. My friend explained to me how Tinder works, and that it is "VERY different from" traditional dating site...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What's so different about Tinder as to finding fuck-buddies?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/czglvt/whats_so_different_about_tinder_as_to_finding/
online11guy
2015-12-27 21:22:35
1,451,251,355
0
['dating site']
0
3yfu05
null
null
6
null
/r/dating/comments/3yfu05/confused_i_could_use_some_adviceopinion_24m/
2
Hello everybody! The situation I'm about to describe may sound pathetic, but dating world is an enigma for me, as I have almost no experience. Every relationship I had, started in school/work and I had been at least acquainted with a girl before. I've never tried to get to know a total stranger until now. I met a girl ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Confused, I could use some advice/opinion. [24M]
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3yfu05/confused_i_could_use_some_adviceopinion_24m/
TheDude1009
2017-12-19 23:03:16
1,513,724,596
null
['online dating']
0
7kx1rt
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7kx1rt/what_do_you_do_to_meet_more_women/
1
I don't know enough women to be honest. The times I've met new women usually came out of circumstances like getting a new job, going to college, etc. Unfortunately for my career doesn't really have a lot of women. What do people do to meet more women? Does online dating really work? I'd rather just meet women offline, ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What do you do to meet more women?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7kx1rt/what_do_you_do_to_meet_more_women/
Fukyamaite
2018-02-03 20:39:33
1,517,690,373
null
['online dating']
0
7v1xh2
false
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7v1xh2/i_plan_to_commit_suicide_after_my_parents_die_and/
1
I'm 38 years old. Good career. Financially stable. Own my own home and car. Good family. Close friends. Well-liked by colleagues. I keep myself physically fit. I'm sensitive and interested in the arts when I'm not working. I feel like I deserve better. I feel like women should be interested in me. I know people like to...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I plan to commit suicide after my parents die and if I'm still single
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7v1xh2/i_plan_to_commit_suicide_after_my_parents_die_and/
Witcherhere
2021-08-02 16:38:42
1,627,922,322
null
['dating app', 'bumble']
0
owibp0
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/owibp0/can_someone_suggest_a_better_dating_app_than/
2
I have only used one dating app and that's bumble. I'd like to know if there are any other apps better than Bumble that I can explore.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can someone suggest a better dating app than Bumble?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/owibp0/can_someone_suggest_a_better_dating_app_than/
Future_Two_1413
2023-05-29 21:52:45
1,685,397,165
0
['online dating']
0
13v7q9i
true
Question ❓
5
0
/r/dating/comments/13v7q9i/how_long_so_i_talk_to_someone_before_setting_up_a/
2
(M26) I'm trying to get back into online dating ( I know it sucks, I know I should meet people organically but this is just another avenue I'm trying) typically when I match with a woman I like to message for like 3 ish (depending on how responsive she is) days to try and get to know here and see if we have common inte...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How long so I talk to someone before setting up a date?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13v7q9i/how_long_so_i_talk_to_someone_before_setting_up_a/
bsgirlsclub
2019-11-23 04:20:22
1,574,482,822
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
e0cx3v
true
null
31
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e0cx3v/howwhere_to_meet_men_40/
14
I'm (30f) attracted to men who are older (10+ years), but find it difficult to meet them. I don't have a real FB profile so I use apps like tinder, bumble, okc, hinge, but feel like there are mostly guys 35 and under. I'm also not interested in a sugar daddy situation. I like the idea of meeting someone organically (no...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
how/where to meet men 40+
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e0cx3v/howwhere_to_meet_men_40/
TomRiddlehasasecret
2023-09-11 12:58:50
1,694,437,130
0
['OLD']
0
16fumwi
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16fumwi/old_so_i_know_its_mostly_a_popularity_contest_but/
1
I always thought I didn’t know how to talk to people, but aside from women being super quick to judge and ghost, they absolutely do not know how to hold up a conversation. I shouldn’t have to end every single reply to you with a question. Figurately holding your hand through our first conversation. I suppose they’re do...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
OLD, so I know it’s mostly a popularity contest, but damn…
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16fumwi/old_so_i_know_its_mostly_a_popularity_contest_but/
sherryamy
2017-10-23 09:25:40
1,508,750,740
null
['dating app']
0
786kyq
false
null
21
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/786kyq/10_keys_to_a_successful_romantic_relationship/
190
In romantic relationships, as with so much else, it’s the little things that count. Just as a mis-spoken word or odd look can throw a couple into a weeks-long feud, small and seemingly insignificant gestures can help keep a relationship on track. A little gift, an off-hand compliment, a moment of physical contact can v...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
10 Keys to a Successful Romantic Relationship
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/786kyq/10_keys_to_a_successful_romantic_relationship/
Lazy_Fennel_5767
2023-09-06 23:27:19
1,694,042,839
0
['tinder']
0
16bzpsp
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16bzpsp/how_do_i_21m_approach_girl_in_my_class/
1
I (21m) am in college and this girl in my class is really cute. We have looked at each other a few times but never had said anything. How do I approach her? I’m kinda shy when it comes to approaching girls and can’t get over this fear. It’s been awhile since I’ve approached anyone since most girls I’ve been with have b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I (21m) approach girl in my class?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16bzpsp/how_do_i_21m_approach_girl_in_my_class/
Anti_mage2002
2021-11-18 18:34:26
1,637,260,466
null
null
0
qwwb7j
true
null
7
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/qwwb7j/okcupid/
0
Hey, I'm new to this online dating so I tried Okcupid but I'm not Shure if this work, Can someone give some advise to find a match for me in this app. Also has anyone meet your partner by using this app?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Okcupid
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qwwb7j/okcupid/
Common-Swim7234
2024-07-12 21:38:03
1,720,820,283
0
['online dating']
0
1e1tc5y
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1e1tc5y/does_anyone_know_of_good_online_dating_coaches/
3
Hey all. 20M autist. I'm wondering if anyone here knows of any actually good dating coaches that have online services? I'm...well you can look at my post history lol, it ain't great. I'm just looking for someone (I'd prefer female, long story why) who can just help me out of my hole. Idk if this is the right sub for th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does anyone know of good online dating coaches?
3
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e1tc5y/does_anyone_know_of_good_online_dating_coaches/
Lorddawg93
2020-10-27 07:13:52
1,603,782,832
null
['dating app']
0
jiwk1l
true
I Need Advice
0
0
/r/dating/comments/jiwk1l/my_best_guy_friend_of_7_years_told_me_he_loves_me/
1
So I went on vacation with my best friend of 7+ years, let’s call him Brett, and he finally admitted to me that he’s grown strong feelings for me since I moved to his city this year, and couldn’t keep it a secret anymore, and wants to date me exclusively. Caveat: he used to casually date my best girl friend in college ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
My best guy friend of 7 years told me he loves me but I’m scared
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jiwk1l/my_best_guy_friend_of_7_years_told_me_he_loves_me/
Snoo-11107
2020-06-28 23:40:06
1,593,387,606
null
['tinder']
0
hhp17n
true
null
62
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hhp17n/how_are_people_okay_with_hooking_up_without_a/
110
So, I \[21f\] got with a guy \[22M\] on tinder with the intention of hooking up and he asked if I was on birth control. I said no and that I wanted him to wear a condom. He was cool with that, but when he got here he tried to put the condom on but it wouldn't work and it was practically useless. He asked if I minded go...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How are people okay with hooking up without a condom?
null
0.96
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hhp17n/how_are_people_okay_with_hooking_up_without_a/
scottishfulldive
2021-06-24 09:22:56
1,624,526,576
null
['tinder']
0
o6xcwj
true
Venting
4
0
/r/dating/comments/o6xcwj/i_am_male_and_find_femininity_attractive_as_a/
1
Like, am I not allowed to have my likes and dislikes and attractions? As much as I dont directly identify as male, I am full male presenting with a well taken care of beard and a full Scottish accent, it is not possible for anyone to see me as anything but a stereotype which I think adds to the awkward moment I mention...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I am male and find femininity attractive as a whole, by this I mean a lot of NB and ALL woman (and any that fall between) fall into this matter. But cis women who find out I am attracted (actually VERY attracted) to MtF women think I am gross and not worth anytime
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o6xcwj/i_am_male_and_find_femininity_attractive_as_a/
Thursday-_-
2021-03-31 14:29:23
1,617,200,963
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
mh7bqn
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/mh7bqn/shy_19yearold_guy_struggling_with_relationships/
0
Hi everyone, hope your day is going okay I'm a 19-year-old guy from England and I really struggle to meet girls. I'm a pretty introverted person at first which I think was mainly due to me getting picked on as a kid for my looks because having red hair at school is a pretty easy target lol. Once people get to know me I...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Shy 19-Year-Old Guy Struggling with Relationships
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mh7bqn/shy_19yearold_guy_struggling_with_relationships/
BekymretBorger
2024-03-31 06:55:22
1,711,868,122
0
['dating apps']
0
1bs46qv
true
I Need Advice 😩
13
0
/r/dating/comments/1bs46qv/are_some_people_meant_to_be_single/
5
I've seen this question asked before, but not in the WAY I was thinking of asking it. Basically, is it okay to never date? Because I have had a strong feeling my whole life that I'm meant to be single. Not because I've always been single (though I have) but because I think the kind of person I am doesn't lend itself ve...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are some people meant to be single?
5
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bs46qv/are_some_people_meant_to_be_single/
PSS4Ely
2016-10-31 08:55:12
1,477,904,112
0
['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
5ab8rg
null
null
5
null
/r/dating/comments/5ab8rg/what_should_i_do_about_my_dating_life/
2
I'm 19 years old and after a few relationships I messed up in high school and after taking a couple of years off the dating scene, I now have an issue. I used to be surrounded by girls everyday (back in high school) but now I'm in a situation where there really isn't an girls to meet. I usually have around a range of 2...
dating
t5_2qhb1
What should I do about my dating life?
2
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5ab8rg/what_should_i_do_about_my_dating_life/