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sweet_girl_ray | 2018-08-01 05:18:13 | 1,533,100,693 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 93m40t | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/93m40t/im_i_wrong_for_using_my_charm/ | 0 | So I downloaded tinder not too long ago, I am 20(F).. surprisingly I got way more matches then I anticipated. But to be completely honest I got the app just to go on dates for free food.. I plan to stop till I find an interesting guy I like but till then looks like guys really get carried away with my looks and charm I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m I wrong for using my charm | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/93m40t/im_i_wrong_for_using_my_charm/ |
omen124 | 2015-05-09 20:10:26 | 1,431,202,226 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 35faqm | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/35faqm/stalled_game/ | 3 | A little back story on me. I'm close to 30 and never had a girlfriend so I panic a little about not knowing what to do, one of the major reasons is I haven't cared or been interested (find a girlfriend or start a relationship) till the last year or so. So I just got home from a rave that went from 7pm til 5am and I got... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stalled game | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/35faqm/stalled_game/ |
Doctype-htmm | 2024-02-24 16:03:11 | 1,708,790,591 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ayxznn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ayxznn/why_do_girls_keep_losing_interest_in_me_23m/ | 2 | I've been using dating apps for quite some time now both on and off, and frankly this isn't an issue i had before since i always managed to keep the conversation going and could even find a couple meaningful connections with some people through that. I downloaded one of those apps again last week, and although most the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do girls keep losing interest in me? (23M) | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ayxznn/why_do_girls_keep_losing_interest_in_me_23m/ |
meiniyy | 2022-11-11 05:29:14 | 1,668,144,554 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ys26ld | true | null | 469 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ys26ld/as_a_woman_why_is_it_so_hard_to_attract_other/ | 1,033 | i’m bisexual with a preference for girls, and i’ve had 0 luck finding any girls who will match with me on apps, but the second i switch to men, i get tons of matches. what can i do to get girls to like me back? is it because i’m a feminine girl? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | as a woman, why is it so hard to attract other girls, but i can easily attract men? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ys26ld/as_a_woman_why_is_it_so_hard_to_attract_other/ |
ChristianJetson | 2020-12-22 04:46:17 | 1,608,612,377 | null | ['matched', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | khybw2 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/khybw2/m18_unsure_where_to_go_from_here/ | 2 | Hey everybody, So I posted a pretty crazy story a while back about how I dated a girl 2 years ago, and I smothered her with affection and scared her off. Me being young and dumb I thought that was the way to handle a girl. But in recent events I actually found her on tinder and she swiped right on me so we matched and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M(18) Unsure where to go from here | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/khybw2/m18_unsure_where_to_go_from_here/ |
BrrrButtery | 2019-11-24 16:38:44 | 1,574,613,524 | null | null | 0 | e10rye | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/e10rye/asking_me_to_jeopardise_my_career_nine_messages/ | 7 | So. Been chatting away to a seemingly nice guy. All good. Articulate, friendly and seemingly interesting enough to hold a conversation. After a bit of back and fourth he asks what I do for a living and I say the incredibly broad area of my work - I intentionally don’t like to be specific. He then goes on to ask if I ca... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Asking me to jeopardise my career nine messages in? I think not. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/e10rye/asking_me_to_jeopardise_my_career_nine_messages/ |
chanmanlost | 2017-09-30 04:03:19 | 1,506,744,199 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 73cwux | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/73cwux/how_to_open_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I've been using OKC and CMB on and off for a while now and when I do get a match (not frequent) -- I usually just start with something along the lines of "Hey! How's it going?" unless they have some substance in their profile that I could go off of -- because that's what I would say if I was to approach a girl at a bar... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to open on dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/73cwux/how_to_open_on_dating_apps/ |
HuhWhatseriously | 2024-08-30 12:24:45 | 1,725,020,685 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 1f4txmh | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1f4txmh/zero_effort_zone/ | 0 | How many women are baffled by the millions of men who match on dating sites and cant be bothered to lift a finger to make conversation or ask you out on a first or a second date? I get more interest than I can handle time-wise but once Ive chosen about 10 or more men to continue conversation with after matching and the... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Zero Effort Zone | 0 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1f4txmh/zero_effort_zone/ |
majesty86 | 2019-01-26 22:20:15 | 1,548,541,215 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ak5s9f | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ak5s9f/ladies_using_old_what_do_you_mean_by_just_ask/ | 4 | “Ask me anything” meaning I’ll tell you what you want to know about me? Or just ask to sleep with me? Given OLD I wouldn’t be surprised - it’s just vague, that’s all. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Ladies using OLD: What do you mean by “just ask?” | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ak5s9f/ladies_using_old_what_do_you_mean_by_just_ask/ |
hyacinthinlocks | 2017-04-05 17:09:16 | 1,491,412,156 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 63mvxi | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/63mvxi/dae_only_try_to_match_on_tinder_on_thursdays/ | 7 | I feel like if you don't get out from Tinder to a real date fast you end up being ghosted. And since usually I'm only free on weekends I try to make things work by Thursday, because god knows how hard it is to keep someone interested and don't run out of things to text from Monday to Saturday. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | DAE only try to match on tinder on Thursdays? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63mvxi/dae_only_try_to_match_on_tinder_on_thursdays/ |
Jermaine119 | 2022-04-25 23:40:46 | 1,650,930,046 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ubyv7w | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ubyv7w/texting_but_avoiding_meeting_up/ | 2 | Why would someone do this? For context we met on a dating app. She’s very responsive and talkative but when I suggest meeting up I get a sense of hesitation/avoiding. Should I stop texting her and just quietly move on or call her out? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting but avoiding meeting up? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ubyv7w/texting_but_avoiding_meeting_up/ |
Stere0King | 2023-03-09 13:00:33 | 1,678,366,833 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11mrkxj | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11mrkxj/is_it_weird_to_inquire_about_professional_photos/ | 1 | I'm just going to sum it up short. Male 30 never been on date. Trying to change alot just to even accomplish that. I know I can't take a picture worth a damn. So I seen some ads floating around on fb for photography services. So far I've been hung up on and ignored via email talk. I guess nobody's interested in making ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it weird to inquire about professional photos done for dating apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11mrkxj/is_it_weird_to_inquire_about_professional_photos/ |
tomahawk145 | 2022-03-24 19:38:52 | 1,648,150,732 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | tmyulg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tmyulg/first_date_restaurant_too_exclusive/ | 1 | Hey guys, Im going on a first date on saturday(we matched on tinder). We both love sushi, so I thought it’s a good idea to try out that new sushi restaurant in our city. As it turns out, this restaurant is far more exclusive than I thought. It’s not too expensive, but it has a really classy ambiance. I don’t want to ch... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date restaurant too exclusive? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tmyulg/first_date_restaurant_too_exclusive/ |
Vemedetti | 2024-06-12 11:35:49 | 1,718,192,149 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1de4ha3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1de4ha3/me_has_not_looking_for_anything_serious_on_my/ | 1 | Lmao this is ridiculous the amount of times this keeps happening. On hinge and Tinder I explicitly state that and then they still ask me what my intentions are and ghost me when I tell me. Bro what 😭 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me: has not looking for anything serious on my profile, Girl: confused pikachu | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1de4ha3/me_has_not_looking_for_anything_serious_on_my/ |
guerillaPoster | 2018-11-09 00:45:21 | 1,541,724,321 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 9vfrod | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9vfrod/most_effective_way_to_find_a_partner_online/ | 3 | Hello, I am for the first time in a while proactively seeking a potential relationship. I just wanted to ask : what is your dating approach. How do you BEST use online dating apps to find and then filter your prospective list of potential partners? How do you schedule dating so that you get the best possible outcome in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Most effective way to find a partner online? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9vfrod/most_effective_way_to_find_a_partner_online/ |
TheAdamBomb92 | 2023-02-27 19:08:12 | 1,677,524,892 | null | null | 0 | 11djxfo | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11djxfo/no_i_dont_have_snapchat/ | 40 | What is it with women (I'm hetro so seeking a woman, I'm not labeling you all specifically, calm down) asking for my "snap" within the first 2 or 3 messages? And why are they put off when I say I don't have it? Firstly, I'm 31. What 31 year old man has Snapchat? They ask for Instagram too but it's literally just pictur... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | No, I don't have Snapchat. | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11djxfo/no_i_dont_have_snapchat/ |
Planet-Theta | 2023-02-05 21:19:41 | 1,675,631,981 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10unutr | true | Question ❓ | 24 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10unutr/is_vr_dating_an_option_you_would_consider/ | 1 | Would you ever consider using a VR dating app instead of a mobile dating app? Why or why not? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is VR Dating an option you would consider? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10unutr/is_vr_dating_an_option_you_would_consider/ |
RemoteSmallTownGuy | 2020-11-27 00:03:04 | 1,606,435,384 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | k1qerl | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k1qerl/i_m30_live_in_a_very_remote_small_town_and_am/ | 1 | Honestly, at this point I am so discouraged by my circumstances it is very difficult to communicate about what I'm dealing with and who I am, but I will do my best to reply About me- I am thirty years old, I dated a good friend of mine when I was a kid for a few weeks and she choose drugs over me and left me, and for a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (m30) live in a very remote small town and am seeking advice on dating women! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k1qerl/i_m30_live_in_a_very_remote_small_town_and_am/ |
AnhedoniaSonia | 2017-07-20 01:16:56 | 1,500,513,416 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 6od09t | null | null | 40 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6od09t/why_do_i_feel_a_little_panic_when_someone_ive/ | 6 | I mean, this seems to be a common thing to happen early on with me for OLD sites - sometimes before I even feel like there's a connection. It really rubs me the wrong way - is there a reason I'm feeling this way? I mean, it's probably a perfectly normal thing for people to want to verify they're talking to a human woma... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Why do I feel a little panic when someone I've swapped a few messages with wants to have a phone call? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6od09t/why_do_i_feel_a_little_panic_when_someone_ive/ |
permanentburner89 | 2024-02-13 17:08:48 | 1,707,844,128 | 0 | ['dating app', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1apylw2 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1apylw2/the_league_dating_app_anybody_with_experience/ | 1 | I made an OKCupid profile and a few days later was told that The League wanted me to join. I'm thinking they must be desperate for users because I'm unattractive and nothing about my profile indicates I am ambitious or successful. I never listed my salary but that's not impressive either. I sign up and they say I'm on ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The League dating app, anybody with experience? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1apylw2/the_league_dating_app_anybody_with_experience/ |
[deleted] | 2020-08-23 15:30:57 | 1,598,196,657 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | if55n5 | true | Question | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/if55n5/characteristics_of_the_perfect_dating_app/ | 3 | Well, I tried them all. All dating apps out there, and none fits my needs. Now, it happens that I am a developer. so in a ideal world, I would be able to make a dating app which is not commercial at all (since I have a fulltime job, I do not need the money). I just want to make sure everyone wins with it. So please, te... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Characteristics of the perfect dating app? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/if55n5/characteristics_of_the_perfect_dating_app/ |
sodumbilol | 2020-12-24 03:42:50 | 1,608,781,370 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | kj80mq | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/kj80mq/is_a_thumbs_up_a_good_sign/ | 3 | Brief history: was on Facebook dating. Matched with a guy. He said hi and we should go for a walking date (thanks covid). I responded yes with a bit more conversation. Then it went flat. Totally fine. I was busy and giving the OLD a break. Present day: he contacted me yesterday, another brief chat. Chat bled into today... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is a thumbs up a good sign?? | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/kj80mq/is_a_thumbs_up_a_good_sign/ |
kevin43633 | 2017-03-06 02:28:00 | 1,488,767,280 | null | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 5xqqm1 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/5xqqm1/online_dating_is_frustrating/ | 2 | I recently created an Okcupid profile and worked fairly hard to create a decent profile with developed summaries of myself as well as pictures. However, talking to women on that site is incredibly frustrating! I ask them about their interest and 90% of the time they reply with 1-3 word sentences. Is there any way to ci... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating is frustrating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5xqqm1/online_dating_is_frustrating/ |
[deleted] | 2017-04-26 02:37:17 | 1,493,174,237 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 67ld32 | null | null | 25 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/67ld32/what_is_there_to_look_forward_to_26_m/ | 8 | I'm spent. My adolescence and early 20s were painful. I'm still a virgin, and not sure how to dig myself out of this rut. I'm just not attractive to women. I'm accepting defeat. It's puzzling because I get matches on Tinder, I've been hit on.. I just have a lot of self loathing and anxiety. It's absolutely mind numbing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is there to look forward to? (26 M) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/67ld32/what_is_there_to_look_forward_to_26_m/ |
stakoverflo | 2017-09-12 19:55:45 | 1,505,246,145 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6zpg0r | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/6zpg0r/what_do_you_think_about_asking_strangers_for/ | 4 | I'm 26. Online dating sucks. Every woman I know is either married or in a long term relationship. I don't meet many women through my hobbies, and they're always seeing someone already. I can't always just "try new things" due to scheduling conflicts / cost. I got a dog recently, live downtown. She gets so much attentio... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you think about asking strangers for their phone numbers? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6zpg0r/what_do_you_think_about_asking_strangers_for/ |
FrankyD123 | 2021-01-27 08:30:42 | 1,611,736,242 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | l600ea | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l600ea/best_app_to_use_for_finding_a_gf/ | 1 | I have gone on a couple dates thanks to Tinder and Hinge but it doesn’t happen often. Is there another app I should use to have a better chance or maybe could someone review my hinge profile | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best app to use for finding a GF | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l600ea/best_app_to_use_for_finding_a_gf/ |
Wasting-Away-39 | 2023-10-18 02:00:55 | 1,697,594,455 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'OLD', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17afa8v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17afa8v/why_do_i_21m_only_seem_to_attract_overweight/ | 1 | So before I explain anything, I just want to clarify that I’m not trying to be fatphobic here. I’m just personally not sexually attracted to people who are overweight, at least to what appears to be an unhealthy degree. For context (it any of this is even relevant): I’m 21, white, 5’10”, relatively skinny, and (I’ve be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do I (21M) only seem to attract overweight women on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17afa8v/why_do_i_21m_only_seem_to_attract_overweight/ |
kosmoceratops1138 | 2022-10-17 00:38:17 | 1,665,967,097 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | y5wq62 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/y5wq62/so_whats_the_current_etiquette_with_instagram/ | 2 | It seems that the overwhelming majority of profiles I see on dating apps these days have insta profiles in their bios. Sometimes they'll say something like "not in here much message me on insert social media". I get that the majority are fishing for followers, but like, do people actually follow these profiles? Is anyo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So what's the current etiquette with Instagram profiles listed on dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/y5wq62/so_whats_the_current_etiquette_with_instagram/ |
micjohnson78 | 2016-02-06 10:04:15 | 1,454,753,055 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 44fn9b | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/44fn9b/interracial_relationships_black_women_looking_for/ | 0 | Black women are looking for white men to have a relationship with interracial singles on interracial dating sites, are trending enormously now a days with white and black singles are also showing their interest to date interracial singles to have interracial relationships online. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Interracial Relationships Black Women looking for white men | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/44fn9b/interracial_relationships_black_women_looking_for/ |
chicken_geeseman | 2023-04-21 22:21:01 | 1,682,115,661 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 12ukn05 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12ukn05/how_to_approach_girls_in_a_work_environment/ | 1 | Hey, 27M here. I recently started working in a really cool office space with tons of small companies and independent workers and I'm curious to understand what the best way is to approach girls whilst respecting its their place of work. I'm very social and friendly but I'm not someone to approach girls on nights outs o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to approach girls in a work environment | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12ukn05/how_to_approach_girls_in_a_work_environment/ |
JoeyPitlock | 2019-05-30 15:54:43 | 1,559,231,683 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | buuttn | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/buuttn/interested_in_an_old_tinder_match_but_no/ | 3 | Earlier in the year when I was using tinder (deleted now) I had matched with this pretty attractive girl. Like most Tinder matches, no response. I didn't say "hey or whats up" either I just commented on something relative to her profile. Anwyays I didn't dwell on it, but 6-7 months later I came across her on Instagram ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Interested in an old Tinder Match, but no communication. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/buuttn/interested_in_an_old_tinder_match_but_no/ |
[deleted] | 2012-04-14 18:40:27 | 1,334,428,827 | 1 | ['dating site'] | null | s9rld | null | null | 35 | null | /r/dating/comments/s9rld/for_the_women_what_kind_of_first_message_do_you/ | 11 | I don't ever feel like I am sending the right kind of messages during my 'first message.' What kind of greeting/hello do you enjoy getting that actually makes you excited to respond? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For the women, what kind of first message do you enjoy getting from a dating site? | 12 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s9rld/for_the_women_what_kind_of_first_message_do_you/ |
PuzzleheadedCrew9246 | 2021-03-29 09:15:16 | 1,617,009,316 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mflhf3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mflhf3/i_need_help/ | 1 | So I’ve been single for a while now and I want to get back in the game. I’ve tried dating apps but no luck and most of them are scammers. I know girls around me but overtime I see them different and don’t really want to start something with them. What other ways are out there for me ? Thx | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need help | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mflhf3/i_need_help/ |
BajaBlastard | 2023-07-31 23:11:12 | 1,690,845,072 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15ev7jo | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15ev7jo/are_dating_apps_worth_it/ | 1 | My last relationship ended a little over a year ago. Up until recently, i was content with working on myself and making progress in my personal life, but that sinking feeling of loneliness is creeping back again. I've always relied on dating apps since i don't really go out often, but i have a love/hate relationship wi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are dating apps worth it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15ev7jo/are_dating_apps_worth_it/ |
Mindbodysoul14 | 2023-07-13 00:50:25 | 1,689,209,425 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14y61n8 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14y61n8/do_women_not_want_to_do_phone_callsfacetimes_if/ | 1 | Or is it even viewed negatively in a way? I rely on making an impression that way for a few reasons Im of a foreign ethnicity and my attractiveness does show in images as much, yet in person I get the most over the top compliments, you look a model, GQ, I’ve been asked if I was pimping not making this stuff up. Online ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do women not want to do phone calls/FaceTimes if they can avoid it | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14y61n8/do_women_not_want_to_do_phone_callsfacetimes_if/ |
MFRobots | 2021-10-20 10:38:11 | 1,634,726,291 | null | null | 0 | qbxwgh | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qbxwgh/some_women_don_t_believe_my_stated_age/ | 0 | I had a couple of women tell me that they actually thought I looked OLDER than my stated age, even though my stated age is true. This one woman in my area, about a year older than me...both in our mid/late 40s, told me that she thought I looked 10 years older than her, and she's a year older than me. Quite rude. Of cou... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Some women don' t believe my stated age | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qbxwgh/some_women_don_t_believe_my_stated_age/ |
ElectricOne55 | 2021-12-03 18:37:24 | 1,638,556,644 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'badoo', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | r85w6q | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r85w6q/what_is_the_best_appapps_to_meet_women_2535_age/ | 2 | I noticed on a lot of dating apps especially okcupid, pof, and badoo there's hardly any women on there at all in my area. A lot of dating apps used to be a lot better before 2015. Okcupid used to be the best with all the questions, but now it feels like them along with everyone else is trying to copy tinder. Along with... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is the best app/apps to meet women 25-35 age range, it seems most of the dating apps are dead? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r85w6q/what_is_the_best_appapps_to_meet_women_2535_age/ |
nailback | 2022-11-11 00:22:15 | 1,668,126,135 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yrwatu | true | null | 175 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/yrwatu/old_all_of_his_sons_are_in_prison_red_flag/ | 100 | I am working on being less judgemental and not a stick in the mud but?? He has 4 sons, 2 are his ex wives that helped raise from a young age. Doing different crimes they've all ended up doing hard time in prison. I can see if they all got together and robbed a bank or something. But they are all separate stories. I don... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD: All of his sons are in prison. Red flag? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/yrwatu/old_all_of_his_sons_are_in_prison_red_flag/ |
Amaraevy | 2024-05-20 22:34:17 | 1,716,244,457 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1cwsi2c | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cwsi2c/why_did_he_stop_replying/ | 1 | So i had been talking to this guy (we met on a dating site), he would always send good morning texts ( he always texted first), asking How I slept, How my day was going ect, even tho he didnt always reply right away i understood that he was busy and that was fine. We recently went on a date and he drove 2 hours to come... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why Did he stop replying | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cwsi2c/why_did_he_stop_replying/ |
spazzahazza | 2021-08-05 18:04:57 | 1,628,186,697 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | oyo243 | true | Venting | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oyo243/both_girls_i_met_recently_went_back_to_their_exs/ | 4 | So I(29M) haven't had a relationship for a long time, So I'm trying to be the best me I can be, keeping trim, buying nicer clothes, learning guitar, decent job and just generally trying to focus on myself and putting myself out there on OLD. About 5/6 weeks ago I met a girl(24) who I instantly clicked with. Walked her ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Both girls I met recently went back to their ex's and I don't fucking get it. I'm probably overthinking it! | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oyo243/both_girls_i_met_recently_went_back_to_their_exs/ |
Kindly-Path-5897 | 2024-03-21 04:00:15 | 1,710,993,615 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bjxmvz | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bjxmvz/pursuing_someone_with_a_13_year_old_child/ | 1 | So I’m talking to the guy who checks off every box so far for what I’m looking for in a partner. However there’s one thing….he told me he has a child and was previously married (very short term).This usually a dealbreaker for me as I don’t have children and I’m in my 20s. But since he’s my ideal man in every other way,... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Pursuing someone with a 13 year old child | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bjxmvz/pursuing_someone_with_a_13_year_old_child/ |
JamesLaCheese | 2023-09-14 02:30:33 | 1,694,658,633 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16i6e0v | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16i6e0v/hot_and_cold/ | 1 | So for context: Met this guy through Tinder about a month ago. He started the conversation first, complimented me heaps, texted me a lot, etc. He was pretty interested in me. He works FIFO (Fly in, fly out) so I only see him at least twice a month. We had gone on a total of three dates and we had sex on the third date.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hot and cold | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16i6e0v/hot_and_cold/ |
Hopeful_Remote468 | 2024-08-26 17:03:45 | 1,724,691,825 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f1tcwo | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f1tcwo/girl_ive_been_dating_for_a_month_is_great_in/ | 1 | I (28M) have been out of the dating scene for a long while working on myself. In the last few months have gotten back on dating apps. Recently matched with a girl I really like. We’ve been on 3 dates now and hung out 5 times total. It’s been a little under a month total. Hit it off on the first date, had great sex afte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl I’ve been dating for a month is great in person, but a horrible texter. Red flag? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f1tcwo/girl_ive_been_dating_for_a_month_is_great_in/ |
xeverxsleepx | 2021-03-30 21:28:47 | 1,617,139,727 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mgqhtv | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mgqhtv/desperately_need_help_creating_online_tinder/ | 2 | This'll be a long post, so beware. I can't even tl;dr it properly. But basically: I'm an extremely undesirable loser with no friends and Tinder is my only way to socialize. So I guess I'll start with what I'm looking for: I am (mostly) asexual and looking for friends. I already tried other social outlets like MeetUp et... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Desperately need help creating online Tinder profile | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mgqhtv/desperately_need_help_creating_online_tinder/ |
Typhii | 2020-11-21 12:27:17 | 1,605,961,637 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | jy9x9a | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jy9x9a/28m_i_think_i_will_take_a_break_until_everything/ | 0 | I'm an average looking chubby guy and have been working on myself in the last year and managed to lose a lot of weight. So I decided to start dating again and notice quite fast that the online dating environment is at this moment garbage for both sides. Women have to deal with a lot more creeps which makes them picky a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 28M I think I will take a break until everything is back to normal. | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jy9x9a/28m_i_think_i_will_take_a_break_until_everything/ |
Cultural_Mongoose864 | 2023-09-03 00:07:41 | 1,693,699,661 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 168i7a0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/168i7a0/cant_go_on_a_date_until_probably_next_weekend_bc/ | 1 | We've been texting each other a decent amount, kind of sporadically throughout the day. How much is too much though? I don't want her to be annoyed but I also want her to know I'm still interested (we met on tinder after all), especially because she puts in effort asking me how my day was and shit. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can't go on a date until probably next weekend bc I'm sick. We met on tinder. How often do I text her to show her i'm still interested/how much is too much? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/168i7a0/cant_go_on_a_date_until_probably_next_weekend_bc/ |
flowersanschampagne | 2021-11-08 22:35:42 | 1,636,410,942 | null | null | 0 | qpp4x4 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qpp4x4/men_how_receptive_would_you_be_to_former_date/ | 0 | I (30f) went on two dates w a guy (31), let’s call him Matt, (one cocktails and second entire day (football game, state fair, etc)). I was late for both dates and also jumped the gun on asking to not see other people in the heat of the moment on the second date. I could tell by his facial reaction it was definitely not... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Men: how receptive would you be to former date reaching out? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qpp4x4/men_how_receptive_would_you_be_to_former_date/ |
cok890 | 2024-05-17 12:23:19 | 1,715,948,599 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cu3t0q | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cu3t0q/my_friend_20f_is_going_on_her_first_date/ | 1 | Hi everyone, so my friend is going on her first date on Monday. She met this dude(23M) on Tinder but for me he seems weird. He’s from Turkey and when they were talking she added him on instagram but he’s account is fake. He has a account as a girl. He told her that it is his friend account but it is strange because why... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My friend (20F) is going on her first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cu3t0q/my_friend_20f_is_going_on_her_first_date/ |
KW_ExpatEgg | 2022-03-17 01:51:43 | 1,647,481,903 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | tfz1te | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tfz1te/a_solution_to_olds_age_problems/ | 10 | Any angel investors out there? Let's circumvent age-entry mistakes and prove the "young for your age" people right/ wrong by creating a dating app which uses "how old are you" picture AI to state the approximate age of the person. 1) no real ages 2) no ages input by the user at all 3) "I look young for my age" can prov... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | A solution to OLD's age problems | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tfz1te/a_solution_to_olds_age_problems/ |
9279 | 2016-09-16 02:36:22 | 1,473,993,382 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 52zv5e | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating/comments/52zv5e/should_i_let_her_know_im_short_before_we_meet/ | 3 | I took some advice I got on /r/tinder with a grain of salt and altered my technique / approach and have a date tomorrow night. I'm only 5'4. I am not self conscious about it and it does not bother me, but all my adult life women have been put off by it. I just feel like it is false advertising or like she has a right t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I let her know I'm short before we meet? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/52zv5e/should_i_let_her_know_im_short_before_we_meet/ |
10petsnokids | 2020-09-10 17:20:45 | 1,599,758,445 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | iq7rmq | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/iq7rmq/impatience_or_anxious_attachment/ | 13 | Since a while before Covid-19, I had decided to do things differently. I have always been very forward expressing interest or asking men on the first date, and I decided to change that and not be the first to text or ask to meet (besides initial contact since I’ve been using Bumble). I have also always been good about ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Impatience or anxious attachment | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iq7rmq/impatience_or_anxious_attachment/ |
Outrageous-Evening13 | 2024-03-23 04:52:57 | 1,711,169,577 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 1blk2uv | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1blk2uv/do_progressive_indian_women_in_western_countries/ | 3 | I guess Im in the dating minority, but for context, I'm a 34(M) raised Catholic but never been religious, dont have traditional views, have never been into Bollywood and certainly not into arranged marriages. A lot of my interests are very progressive (metal concerts, raves, travel, gaming) and my circle of friends are... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do progressive indian women in western countries ever give indian men a chance? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1blk2uv/do_progressive_indian_women_in_western_countries/ |
[deleted] | 2013-08-06 12:53:01 | 1,375,793,581 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1jt3t7 | null | null | 59 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1jt3t7/how_can_i_tell_if_all_a_guy_wants_is_sex/ | 13 | Yesterday I was on OKCupid and this guy IM-ed me and we started talking about sex - which I normally don't do so early on b/c I've noticed once you talk sex with a guy, that's all they want to talk about...but he happened to catch me when I was particularly horny and I was like...wth, why not? I normally don't like the... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How can I tell if all a guy wants is sex? | 13 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1jt3t7/how_can_i_tell_if_all_a_guy_wants_is_sex/ |
unfollowmike | 2015-09-01 16:28:49 | 1,441,124,929 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3j8izf | null | null | 37 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3j8izf/is_it_ok_for_guys_to_wear_hats_on_a_first_date/ | 0 | I'm going on a Tinder date tonight and am curious what you ladies think about guys wearing hats on the first date.. | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Is it ok for guys to wear hats on a first date? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3j8izf/is_it_ok_for_guys_to_wear_hats_on_a_first_date/ |
EachAndEveryHighway | 2022-03-07 11:30:50 | 1,646,652,650 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | t8n88i | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t8n88i/guy_m28_constantly_using_dating_apps_while_on_a/ | 1 | I (F21) have been seeing this guy for 4 months, and we’re fwbs who are long distance because he travels to my area for work once a week every month. I know that since we’re not exclusive rn, I shouldn’t expect him to not be seeing other people or using dating apps. But is it rude of him to constantly be on his phone on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy (M28) constantly using dating apps while on a date with me (F21) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t8n88i/guy_m28_constantly_using_dating_apps_while_on_a/ |
rbalbontin | 2024-01-01 00:00:28 | 1,704,067,228 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18vkh5c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18vkh5c/where_to_meet_girls/ | 1 | So me M27 and my ex F29 had a rough second half of 2023. We ended things for good 2 weeks ago after a 3 month break. While I’m still not over her completely I’m at the point where I would like to meet more girls. I still live with my parents and dating apps suck where I live. I have access to a sports club but I always... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to meet girls? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18vkh5c/where_to_meet_girls/ |
Low-Signature-7808 | 2021-02-28 23:18:19 | 1,614,554,299 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | luti61 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/luti61/i_need_help_should_i_double_text_or_no/ | 1 | So like 2 weeks ago i matched with a girl that lives in the same area from me and went to the same university as me. We both had a good conversation flow during that time, talk about a lot stuff, even in the morning she will send a good morning text, and had a good response time. However, on Friday she told me she was ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need help, should i double text or no? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/luti61/i_need_help_should_i_double_text_or_no/ |
momofmax | 2020-10-29 11:46:00 | 1,603,971,960 | null | null | 0 | jk8ib1 | true | null | 89 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jk8ib1/best_old_app_for_57_yr_old_woman/ | 31 | I’m super tired of guys who say “I work out 447 times a week” and/or the grizzled “I haven’t touched a woman in a decade” look. That seems to be all I get. Yet I know plenty of professional good-looking (between marriages) guys have to be out there in my age range. Where are they?? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Best OLD app for 57 yr old woman? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jk8ib1/best_old_app_for_57_yr_old_woman/ |
oiuoiup | 2021-05-05 14:14:50 | 1,620,224,090 | null | null | 0 | n5gwqj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n5gwqj/uhm_what/ | 0 | so i recently created a profile on a gay dating apps. and there's a ton of ppl asking for a sex (like straight a way way) is this normal? coz i've been single so long that i felt out of touch with these dating playground. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | uhm what??! | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n5gwqj/uhm_what/ |
Quiet-Tax-4455 | 2023-02-13 12:15:30 | 1,676,290,530 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1116ucg | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1116ucg/i_do_not_understand_how_people_go_on_multiple/ | 68 | I did it using online dating last year and it was a lot. After months off the apps I got back on. I had decided I'd really not prioritize the apps. So like meeting one or two people a month. The first person I meet I felt neutral about but she jumped to wanting to see me again. So we had a 2nd date. I again felt a bit ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I do not understand how people go on multiple dates and aren't exhausted. 30m | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1116ucg/i_do_not_understand_how_people_go_on_multiple/ |
Kindly_Bowler4730 | 2024-04-17 12:39:03 | 1,713,357,543 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c68reu | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c68reu/did_i_f20_get_played_by_a_m24_from_a_dating_app/ | 1 | Hey guys im frm sg f(20), so I recently started talking to this guy who just moved to sg a few months ago for work m(24) and he seemed like he had his life t (dating was not a priority) and more of a “if it comes it comes” and that he’s open to a genuine connection if it comes along- that’s what he clarified with me wh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I, F(20) get played by a M(24) from a dating app after hooking up twice?? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c68reu/did_i_f20_get_played_by_a_m24_from_a_dating_app/ |
Chickaa18 | 2023-06-07 16:39:25 | 1,686,155,965 | 0 | null | 0 | 143i4t1 | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/143i4t1/men_stop_apologizing_read_post/ | 2 | Seriously, men. Stop apologizing about "not responding right away" in a dating app. I don't expect an IMMEDIATE response from messages in a dating app, and I don't think the majority of females will get mad if you HAVE A LIFE and don't respond immediately. As long as you respond within a day or 2, all is well. Everyone... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Men, stop apologizing (read post) | 2 | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/143i4t1/men_stop_apologizing_read_post/ |
red3416 | 2017-05-01 23:33:31 | 1,493,681,611 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 68plaj | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/68plaj/waited_too_long_to_make_a_move/ | 1 | So I came out of a 4 year long-term relationship about 3 months ago and I started going on Tinder. Met this real nice girl and we had chemistry on the first and second dates. I didn't go in for the kiss cause thoughts of my ex were in the back of my head (comparing, thinking it's too soon). I'm also really shy so I did... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Waited too long to make a move | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/68plaj/waited_too_long_to_make_a_move/ |
Wikidead | 2023-02-01 20:42:13 | 1,675,284,133 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 10r5jej | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10r5jej/how_do_you_even_date/ | 2 | 27m I had a series of bad relationships that lead to me not dating or even attempting to date for 4 years. But every major relationship I've been in was a consequence of where I was. Schoold and college specifically. Trying to put myself out there and attempting to meet people is bordering a mystery to me, especially o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you even date? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10r5jej/how_do_you_even_date/ |
Rach2877 | 2020-12-01 21:10:03 | 1,606,857,003 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k4u7el | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k4u7el/when_to_have_the_talk/ | 2 | I am a F(23) and have been seeing a guy i met off tinder M(23) for about a month and a half now. We go on a couple dates a week. We talk on the phone. He lives over an hour away and usually comes to where i live but i do make the effort and drive to him too. He’s met my family. I have not met his. Even before we went o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When to have the “talk” | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k4u7el/when_to_have_the_talk/ |
apophasisred | 2024-07-31 02:19:54 | 1,722,392,394 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1egbu0a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1egbu0a/dating_app_stats/ | 1 | null | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App Stats | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1egbu0a/dating_app_stats/ |
anonymoususer4ever | 2022-04-28 05:21:39 | 1,651,123,299 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | udnm6m | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/udnm6m/blocked_and_unmatched_someone_i_was_talking_to/ | 0 | Been single for going on 3 years so decided to download tinder. Started talking to some dude, moved to text, but he was giving me not so great vibes. Would double text if I didn’t respond right away and just kind of felt like he was moving way too fast. We have only been talking for at most 4 days. Anyway, I realized I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Blocked and unmatched someone I was talking to after 3-4 days. Is it considered ghosting? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/udnm6m/blocked_and_unmatched_someone_i_was_talking_to/ |
BrilliantFirst8879 | 2022-11-18 03:05:18 | 1,668,740,718 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | yy9g6t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yy9g6t/dating_app_to_instagram/ | 2 | Hi folks, We've been talking on a dating app and she deleted her account and asked to connect on Instagram. How should I proceed? Thanks | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app to instagram | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yy9g6t/dating_app_to_instagram/ |
shazyzie123 | 2019-03-08 02:50:52 | 1,552,013,452 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ayl8km | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ayl8km/what_is_a_good_old_application_for_a_long_term/ | 1 | Apologies for mobile formatting. I have tried several of the free apps, but it is full of bots, ego boosters, and hookup crowds. I am wondering what application everyone thinks is good for finding a real relationship. Either a paid app or free, all options are on the table. Also, if you could explain why you liked that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is a good OLD application for a long term relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ayl8km/what_is_a_good_old_application_for_a_long_term/ |
Twist_Different | 2020-09-24 06:00:08 | 1,600,927,208 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | iyrnc6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iyrnc6/bought_a_set_of_3_softboxes_lighting_rig_so_i_can/ | 2 | Simultaneously working out every day and eating like crazy to try to gain 30 lb of muscle. You need to be an amateur bodybuilder and a professional photographer to get dates now. What a world. My most recent Tinder profile got around 15 likes on the first day of which only 2-3 were fake. I was very proud of that. But t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bought a set of 3 softboxes (lighting rig) so I can take pictures for my online dating profiles | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iyrnc6/bought_a_set_of_3_softboxes_lighting_rig_so_i_can/ |
edfr93 | 2022-10-03 06:56:25 | 1,664,780,185 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xuc3lg | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xuc3lg/datig_after_breakup_when_should_i_tell_a_girl_im/ | 4 | I broke up recently a 10 year relationship (3 of which we lived together) and met this girl on Tinder. We're clicking and I'd like to invite her on a date but I want to keep things casual. It hasn't come up, so I'm not sure if bringing it up. Should I wait to see how a first date goes before telling her of should I dis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Datig after breakup. When should I tell a girl I'm not looking for anything serious | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xuc3lg/datig_after_breakup_when_should_i_tell_a_girl_im/ |
Sad_Potato45 | 2023-06-06 23:00:48 | 1,686,092,448 | 0 | ['swiped', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 142w7jr | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/142w7jr/finding_men_who_dont_smoke_do_drugs_or_drink/ | 2 | It's been challenging for me to find someone who doesn't have a drinking, smoking or drug habit. I've swiped left on every man who says they do it frequent or socially but it feels like there's an endless amount of men who fall under that category. And to make matters worst, almost every guy's profile seems to have pet... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding men who don't smoke, do drugs or drink | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/142w7jr/finding_men_who_dont_smoke_do_drugs_or_drink/ |
ObamnaStan | 2024-05-28 02:10:12 | 1,716,862,212 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1d28kid | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d28kid/need_help_dating_in_my_early_20s/ | 2 | I’ve been using the major apps for the past few years and have had limited success, nothing going past more than a few dates. I’m starting to think that online dating might not be for me. I don’t have many friends, I don’t work in a very social industry, and don’t have a lot of community oriented interests/hobbies. How... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need help dating in my early 20s. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d28kid/need_help_dating_in_my_early_20s/ |
RoadEnough763 | 2024-09-16 18:03:48 | 1,726,509,828 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fibffv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fibffv/urm/ | 0 | met a guy off tinder who lives in the same accomodation as me and we met after 2 hours and we smoked and went back to his and he was so awkward and i was like ok imma go home cuz im tired and he said “ur leaving me without a kiss” and we kissed and he used teeth and was straight up sucking my mouth and my teeth still h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | urm | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fibffv/urm/ |
Next_Iron_6150 | 2021-07-13 19:54:16 | 1,626,206,056 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ojnht2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ojnht2/rad_girls_on_same_wavelength_fade_away_after_nice/ | 1 | Been dating for 3 years (34 male), and I've learned a lot. I'm more confident about who I am, and what I need. The last two girls I've seen, in my mind were fantastic first dates. They went far over the planned introductory coffee or dinner and resulted in walking around or doing something else for 3-4 hours. Cracking ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rad girls on same wavelenh fade away after nice first date. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ojnht2/rad_girls_on_same_wavelength_fade_away_after_nice/ |
akotosinato | 2023-07-31 03:03:22 | 1,690,772,602 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15e4fvq | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15e4fvq/is_dating_app_legit/ | 1 | Any suggestion which dating app legit? I just want to meet and date a foreign woman. Btw I'm 28 (M) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is dating app legit? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15e4fvq/is_dating_app_legit/ |
Signal_Read_1730 | 2021-06-11 07:05:48 | 1,623,395,148 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | nx9r60 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nx9r60/female_in_30s_with_no_sex_experience/ | 1 | I am 30 years old female with no sex experience before and started OLD a few weeks ago. I am afraid it will become red flags in dating and effect on my confidence in dating. Any advice, please. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Female in 30s with no sex experience | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nx9r60/female_in_30s_with_no_sex_experience/ |
HoneydewOk5894 | 2023-08-13 19:07:37 | 1,691,953,657 | 0 | null | 0 | 15q7a3f | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15q7a3f/quick_rant/ | 1 | Sorry to break it to you boys, but it is not a compliment when you say I look exotic or am pretty for a mixed girl. Yes it is annoying when you ask me what I’m mixed with within the first two days of messaging me. Yes it is annoying when you tell me you only matched with me because you assumed I was a particular race a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Quick Rant | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15q7a3f/quick_rant/ |
Upstairs_Purple_989 | 2024-07-13 22:01:27 | 1,720,908,087 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1e2m1d7 | true | Question ❓ | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e2m1d7/what_are_some_reasons_women_would_unmatch_you_in/ | 1 | So I'm a guy in his mid 20s, currently using Hinge to find a long term prospect. I don't really have a problem getting matches and what not, and usually go on 1-2 dates a month, but every now and then I'll be talking to a girl who I think is pretty cool on the app, but then she'll just randomly unmatch me mid convo, ev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some reasons women would unmatch you in the middle of a normal conversation? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e2m1d7/what_are_some_reasons_women_would_unmatch_you_in/ |
PracticalCows | 2024-05-21 01:42:07 | 1,716,255,727 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cwwei5 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cwwei5/should_i_stay_here_and_give_up_a_job_offer_for_a/ | 1 | I've been trying to get a girlfriend for literal years. I've been on 50 Bumble dates, and I could never get anything going. I now have a 4th date lined up for this Friday with a woman. We get along super well and she's been extremely, extremely down to earth. She's from out of state, so she's much different than other ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I stay here and give up a job offer for a woman I'm dating? | 1 | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cwwei5/should_i_stay_here_and_give_up_a_job_offer_for_a/ |
[deleted] | 2014-04-27 00:17:20 | 1,398,557,840 | 0 | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 242h69 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/242h69/34f_have_you_ever_passed_someone_up_on_eharmony/ | 1 | This is mainly a question for people in my age group. I feel like I may have wasted my money on eHarmony. Guys don't respond to my messages. Then I read research by OKC that this is pretty much the norm for black women. Makes me want to cry. So I'm just wondering, 30-something guys out there. Not going to judge. Have y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [34/f] Have you ever passed someone up on eHarmony due solely on appearance? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/242h69/34f_have_you_ever_passed_someone_up_on_eharmony/ |
OnlyContribution2758 | 2023-02-28 09:48:34 | 1,677,577,714 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 11e250s | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11e250s/am_i_paranoid_or_im_just_his_backup_girl/ | 0 | So I met this guy on hinge. He is only 25 but had a 7 year relationship before and he puts “looking for life partner” on his profile. He told me he is looking for a wife instead of fucking around. Before we met he seemed really interested and spammed me with texts all day. Then we met, he seemed to like me but after th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I paranoid or I’m just his backup girl? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11e250s/am_i_paranoid_or_im_just_his_backup_girl/ |
throwaway736284618 | 2024-02-03 10:12:44 | 1,706,955,164 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1ahsz4g | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ahsz4g/im_giving_up_on_online_dating_here_are_my_reasons/ | 1 | MODS: If any other account of mine was banned from here, please just let me know and I’ll remove my post. I have no idea what account was banned from what at this point SO, yea, Im giving up online dating. Here are my reasons: 1. I barely get matches 2. The options are terrible 3. It goes nowhere with the people I do m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im giving up on online dating, here are my reasons + my new plan | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ahsz4g/im_giving_up_on_online_dating_here_are_my_reasons/ |
Lhun | 2023-10-15 22:15:53 | 1,697,408,153 | 0 | null | 0 | 178qn25 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/178qn25/ysk_facebook_dating_is_getting_more_popular_and/ | 1 | There's no fees or charges at this time. Unfortunately it has very little support for non-traditional relationships or friendships and tends to only cater to vanilla heteronormative or mainstream LGBTQIA+ relationships. Regardless, People are starting to realize it's the only dating app left with a reasonable number of... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ysk: Facebook Dating is getting more popular and it's -actually- free | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/178qn25/ysk_facebook_dating_is_getting_more_popular_and/ |
zxexl | 2021-06-10 21:20:52 | 1,623,360,052 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | nwyv11 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nwyv11/dating_apps_not_working_for_me_any_one_have_any/ | 0 | I swear the more I use hinge and tinder the more stupid it gets. I have no problem getting matches, but half of all my matches don’t even reply to my first message. Then it’s like the other half put no effort in the conversation what so ever and it’s like pulling teeth trying to talk to them and eventually setting up a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps not working for me :(. Any one have any tips or also struggle? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nwyv11/dating_apps_not_working_for_me_any_one_have_any/ |
Kamui_Amaterasu | 2023-09-17 00:51:56 | 1,694,911,916 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16kna0a | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16kna0a/advice_for_being_bald_young/ | 1 | I’m a 23M. Started to bald at 16 and I’ve been shaving by head for almost 2 years now. I feel like my dating life is over. I don’t get likes on dating apps, trying to approach women at clubs and bars is difficult for me cause I’m self conscious. Because of my lack of hair, I’ve been mistakened for someone older many ti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for being bald young? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16kna0a/advice_for_being_bald_young/ |
SinOfDream | 2021-10-09 00:06:21 | 1,633,737,981 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | q4a5g7 | true | I Need Advice | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q4a5g7/as_someone_who_has_double_chin_lets_be_honest_im/ | 8 | Some other stuff to add: 1.) I have zero dating experience; 2.) I'm always afraid of what other people might think of me; 3.) I have tried Tinder, but because I'm male and there most females expect for me to message first. I'm always afraid to do that when I mach with someone. 4.) Also if it makes any difference I'm fr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | As someone who has double chin (lets be honest I'm just fat) and in 3.5 years is about to reach the wizard status, and is introvert, how do you overcome your shortcomings? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q4a5g7/as_someone_who_has_double_chin_lets_be_honest_im/ |
CaptnBangDingOw | 2020-02-10 02:01:10 | 1,581,300,070 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | f1j79t | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f1j79t/need_help_telling_a_date_i_didnt_feel_chemistry/ | 1 | I need some help. I (20M) went on a date today with this girl (19M) I matched with on Bumble. We had some good text conversations before the date and had good conversations during the date as well. However, I just didn’t feel the chemistry as much as I thought I would. She’s a very fun person and I would like to contin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help telling a date I didn’t feel chemistry. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f1j79t/need_help_telling_a_date_i_didnt_feel_chemistry/ |
JaxMan_45 | 2022-07-25 06:00:24 | 1,658,728,824 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | w7h00j | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w7h00j/i_need_to_know/ | 1 | So I got dumped about 3 years ago by the first person I ever actually loved and it crushed me. It was shocking to be dumped out of nowhere by someone I completely trusted. Nowadays I have built up my confidence a bit, but I have no Idea how to approach women (and i refuse to use dating apps) because I've only ever been... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need to know | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w7h00j/i_need_to_know/ |
ajaroundtheblock | 2024-07-13 08:33:33 | 1,720,859,613 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1e25jl8 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e25jl8/should_i_still_go_on_a_date_with_him_after_all/ | 0 | I’m a 21F. I used to talk to this guy from my college last year and we kinda got close in a short period of time. I’ve never met him in person which might seem a little weird but let me explain: we matched on hinge, spoke on text for months and he made 6-7 reservations at different restaurants for dinner but I always k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I still go on a date with him after all this time? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e25jl8/should_i_still_go_on_a_date_with_him_after_all/ |
CookedCereal | 2020-06-11 00:08:53 | 1,591,834,133 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | h0nv34 | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/h0nv34/what_are_some_signs_of_a_low_effort_conversation/ | 3 | Hey everyone! It could just be the quarantine but lately I feel like I've been getting a pretty long string of conversations on dating apps that seem either one sided or that die pretty quick. Which got me thinking that maybe I have high expectations for conversation? I don't expect lines and lines of text by any means... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some signs of a low effort conversation? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/h0nv34/what_are_some_signs_of_a_low_effort_conversation/ |
Exotic-Ad-2988 | 2023-04-07 22:59:34 | 1,680,908,374 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12f2qgn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12f2qgn/dating_profile_tips/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I am on bumble but have no had a lot of matches. May someone help me with my dating profile? I will dm you it | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating profile tips | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12f2qgn/dating_profile_tips/ |
FaithlessnessReal981 | 2022-02-28 07:12:21 | 1,646,032,341 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | t39ogl | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/t39ogl/should_i_ask_if_hes_still_interested/ | 1 | Online dating question. So I (26 F) been dating online recently, new to online dating since I’m new to this state and used to meeting people casually. Been texting /Snapchatting this guy (30) for a couple weeks now. We’ve been wanting to meet and we both seemed equally interested and convo were great. He did get pretty... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I ask if he’s still interested? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t39ogl/should_i_ask_if_hes_still_interested/ |
TheManofBats10 | 2020-02-22 14:41:11 | 1,582,382,471 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f7tct5 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f7tct5/disasociation_with_females_after_breakup/ | 2 | So check it, it's been years I was with this girl for 2 years long years it's been a while since we been together and before all this I dont wanna say I was the man but I got girls before her and idk what happened in those 2 years but long story short I put my heart out there for once.....and she cheated... right... ni... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Disasociation with females after breakup | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f7tct5/disasociation_with_females_after_breakup/ |
TimmyTheOddBall | 2023-07-31 18:12:03 | 1,690,827,123 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15enj7g | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15enj7g/what_she_interested/ | 1 | I checked into a hotel the other day and there was a cute girl working the front. It was just her and I in the lobby and the computer was running slow so we made small talk while everything was happening. She starts talking about dating apps and eventually makes a joke about Hinge, something along the lines of “if it w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What she interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15enj7g/what_she_interested/ |
LaCaipirinha | 2023-03-06 05:47:30 | 1,678,081,650 | null | null | 0 | 11jpxmx | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11jpxmx/double_texting_current_thoughts_in_2023/ | 6 | So I have noticed over particularly the last 2-3 years, the rate of ghosting after chatting for a few days online, has increased enormously. I used to have very little trouble with online dating and was kind of renowned amongst my friends for getting lots of matches and dates, but the last 6 months I have only managed ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Double texting - current thoughts in 2023? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11jpxmx/double_texting_current_thoughts_in_2023/ |
MastodonNew343 | 2024-05-22 21:33:49 | 1,716,413,629 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cybzkj | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cybzkj/for_those_who_didnt_meet_their_so_on_a_dating_app/ | 3 | I’m over dating apps. I wanna hear some non dating app stories | dating | t5_2qhb1 | For those who didn’t meet their SO on a dating app, where’d you meet? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cybzkj/for_those_who_didnt_meet_their_so_on_a_dating_app/ |
pinkflamingo0102 | 2021-06-25 13:19:00 | 1,624,627,140 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o7njk0 | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o7njk0/how_to_figure_out_this_guys_intentions/ | 4 | 25F here. I've been friends with this guy that I met at an academic conference a few years ago, but at the time we lived in different cities. We kept in touch though. Not every single day but every now and then he'd text me or I'd text him. We would facetime maybe once every 1-2 months. Our conversation was not just ab... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to figure out this guy's intentions | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o7njk0/how_to_figure_out_this_guys_intentions/ |
AdamDrake21 | 2023-07-04 03:01:18 | 1,688,439,678 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14q2znh | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14q2znh/are_dating_apps_worth_it_to_find_somebody/ | 3 | I have no idea anymore where or how to find a partner. I rarely go out and have barely any people I can call friends to go out with. As I get older the more desperate I become for something meaningful. I am 30 years old, 6 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year because she started ghosting me. Well I can’t ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are dating apps worth it to find somebody? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14q2znh/are_dating_apps_worth_it_to_find_somebody/ |
Original_Director_46 | 2024-03-06 22:42:24 | 1,709,764,944 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b8dodj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b8dodj/i_22m_have_no_idea_how_to_date_whenever_i_start/ | 1 | I'm so frustrated not gonna lie. I absolutely loathe dating apps. My ex and I went on for atound a year, things aint work out so thats fine. and Recently I was dating someone but I don't really see it working out, I think we are looking for different things and that's also fine. But like, I'm social, I enjoy talking to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22m) have no idea how to date. Whenever I start dating someone I get anxious and end up ruining it, and I barely meet people. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8dodj/i_22m_have_no_idea_how_to_date_whenever_i_start/ |
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