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Practical_Line5401 | 2023-02-21 09:31:55 | 1,676,971,915 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 117zfl3 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/117zfl3/i_24m_in_need_of_some_advice_on_how_to_proceed/ | 1 | Hi there reddit, I'm currently in need of some advice. So I (24M) recently got on Tinder again and started talking with this girl (23F), about 1.5 months ago. We got along incredibly well and had a amazing vibe all together chatting via Tinder before we moved things to further to text. After talking for about two weeks... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (24M) in need of some advice on how to proceed with this girl i'm dating (23F) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/117zfl3/i_24m_in_need_of_some_advice_on_how_to_proceed/ |
pomjuice | 2013-10-31 09:51:07 | 1,383,213,067 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1plscn | null | null | 21 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1plscn/i_feel_awful/ | 10 | Here's the story, I'll try and keep it brief. So I messaged a girl on OKCupid, and we got to talking, and I got her number. We planned a first date for drinks on a Tuesday. Then the Sunday before I was mentioning how I want to watch the Walking Dead, and she invited me over to watch it. Even though we hadn't met in per... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel awful... | 10 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1plscn/i_feel_awful/ |
RemarkableAnybody822 | 2024-04-08 01:32:41 | 1,712,539,961 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bylha3 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bylha3/found_out_my_31f_bf_37m_was_on_hinge_while_away/ | 1 | My new boyfriend who I met through his matchmaker of 1.5 months went away on a trip to Japan with his guy friend at the end of Feb. This trip was planned before he met me. There were a couple of nights he didn’t message me while he was on the trip. It’s now beginning of April and the relationship has been great. Today,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found out my (31F) bf (37M) was on hinge while away in Japan | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bylha3/found_out_my_31f_bf_37m_was_on_hinge_while_away/ |
eveneveronlyeither | 2018-09-19 00:42:21 | 1,537,317,741 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9h0hyb | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9h0hyb/i_shouldnt_be_dating_anyone_yet_right/ | 3 | I keep going on Tinder and matching with people but ghosting them mid-chat because I can’t face up to answering their totally reasonable questions. I ended a very bad ten-year relationship almost a year ago. I had a very long and very difficult manic episode and learned I was bipolar. I was unemployed for five months, ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I shouldn’t be dating anyone yet, right? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9h0hyb/i_shouldnt_be_dating_anyone_yet_right/ |
aquariex24 | 2023-06-19 04:04:10 | 1,687,147,450 | 0 | null | 0 | 14d3ymu | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14d3ymu/can_any_females_provide_a_datesai_refferal_code/ | 1 | Just tried to sign up but it says to keep the ratio at 50:50 I need a referral from a verified female. I can also share my link if any female wants to sign up. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can any females provide a Dates.ai refferal code? | 1 | 0.08 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14d3ymu/can_any_females_provide_a_datesai_refferal_code/ |
f4stmuffin | 2023-09-07 00:52:56 | 1,694,047,976 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16c1px9 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16c1px9/is_this_concerning_or_have_i_found_the_one/ | 1 | I F24 met a guy 30M on bumble. We instantly clicked and talked about stuff in common. The conversation was unlike any other id had before. We ended up exchanging numbers and talking over voice note and text for about a few days short of a month prior to our first date. In that period we did get to know we are incredibl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this concerning or have I found the one ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16c1px9/is_this_concerning_or_have_i_found_the_one/ |
metisviking | 2020-01-17 21:37:11 | 1,579,297,031 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | eq6xi0 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/eq6xi0/for_men_ad_women_3045_who_is_your_ideal_partner/ | 0 | I am 31, and not into dating or sex whatsoever right now. Sex just keeps being a hit or miss mediocre event that does not steadily progress with the same partner even if I try to commit to them, so I am taking a break on that, even though I am still trying to meet guys just to see who is out there. I feel a need to get... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | For men ad women 30-45: Who is your ideal partner? Who are you looking to date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/eq6xi0/for_men_ad_women_3045_who_is_your_ideal_partner/ |
Excitement-Charming | 2023-03-28 17:28:07 | 1,680,024,487 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 124w0il | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/124w0il/need_advice_for_online_dating/ | 1 | I am on Tinder and Bumble. I’m in my forties but I have only gotten matches from men in their 20s and 30s. I swipe on the same type of men I have dated in real life but somehow it doesn’t work in my forties. Can someone help me figure out how to find men in my age category online? I have my parameters set for 38-58. My... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice for online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/124w0il/need_advice_for_online_dating/ |
LOTSAarti | 2023-04-10 20:44:43 | 1,681,159,483 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12hvlt0 | true | null | 161 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/12hvlt0/32f_hinge_profile_reviewfeedback/ | 197 | First of all, so grateful to this community for all the amazing discussion and advice. I’m a lurker on my other account but using this as my throwaway. I keep hearing about how great Hinge is but I have zero luck on there. Can you guys help me improve my profile? Thanks so much! https://imgur.com/a/pqqpxwr Bonus q: sho... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 32F Hinge profile review/feedback? | 197 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12hvlt0/32f_hinge_profile_reviewfeedback/ |
Rosechristina | 2016-01-14 02:29:02 | 1,452,738,542 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 40vjg9 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/40vjg9/would_you_like_dating_sexy_girls_or_rich_men/ | 0 | Hi boys and girls,if you want to date a sexy girl or a rich man i have one best dating site which calls :) :) 3 Datingrichmen . org 3 :) :)there are many sexy girls and rich men who are looking for their love,just come for them! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would you like dating sexy girls or rich men? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/40vjg9/would_you_like_dating_sexy_girls_or_rich_men/ |
halfwaysteamy95 | 2022-02-28 22:49:38 | 1,646,088,578 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | t3sb0q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t3sb0q/taking_things_slow_but_how_do_i_tell_when_things/ | 1 | We met off bumble and have been talking for about a month and a half. We've gone on 3 dates and this Friday will make the fourth. I really don't have anything to complain on but it just feels weird that I've actually met someone who communicates really well. I talk to her just about everyday and we always have those ca... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Taking things slow but how do I tell when things start to heat up??? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t3sb0q/taking_things_slow_but_how_do_i_tell_when_things/ |
fro-postin | 2023-04-11 09:32:27 | 1,681,205,547 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 12iedzp | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12iedzp/how_to_keep_it_interesting_over_text/ | 2 | Matched with Tinder girl and we seemingly enjoy eachother's company. But we won't be able to me face to face unitl next month because turns out we have conflicting schedules this month. That means keeping the "connection" alive via texts. We're both admittedly better in person and I'm a little worried abouy conversatio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to keep it interesting over text? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12iedzp/how_to_keep_it_interesting_over_text/ |
MIDusa98 | 2021-02-18 06:41:26 | 1,613,630,486 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | lmg27q | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lmg27q/new_to_casual_sex_how_do_i_proceed/ | 6 | This is my first casual sex relationship and I don’t know how to interact with the guy ... please help I (F23) met this guy (M25) through OLD. When we started talking he asked what I was looking for and I said I want to keep things casual ( I go to school and work full time) which he said he was okay with. The first ti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to casual sex, how do I proceed? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lmg27q/new_to_casual_sex_how_do_i_proceed/ |
an_exhausted_soul | 2020-06-23 05:39:20 | 1,592,890,760 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'OLD', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | he8v73 | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/he8v73/what_to_expect_400_swipes_later_mockery_or_the/ | 2 | I hope the title isn't too confusing or ambiguous. After a long sabbatical from using dating apps for a while, me a KFV decided to give OLD a shot, again and downloaded 4 dating apps to conduct an experiment (me obviously being a guinea pig😅😂) to see if I still got no matches after using apps for 5+ years or to see 9... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to expect 400 swipes later? Mockery or the truth! | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/he8v73/what_to_expect_400_swipes_later_mockery_or_the/ |
1989et | 2018-06-28 13:01:21 | 1,530,190,881 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8uj6gk | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8uj6gk/i_28m_had_two_great_dates_with_her_30f_now_no/ | 13 | I'm sure this forum sees this pop up all the time but wanted to see if my plan was the right way to go. I met a woman off Tinder who is a med school student and after some brief chatting (she just responded almost right away to setting up a first date) I got her phone number and we had our first date. It went awesome, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (28M) had two great dates with her (30F), now no response from text and she unmatched me from Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8uj6gk/i_28m_had_two_great_dates_with_her_30f_now_no/ |
mperlaky | 2021-01-04 16:16:13 | 1,609,776,973 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | kqbtro | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kqbtro/first_date_after_years_went_kind_of_ok_should_i/ | 1 | Yesterday I had my first date after a couple of years of hiatus (I was hung up on a girl and needed to get myself together), I am 24M, slim, not really toned body, handsome but kind of a baby faced person. I matched with this girl, very beautiful, kind but seemed kind of boring, anyway I wanted to see it out so we were... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date after years went kind of OK, should I continue or we're just not compatible? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kqbtro/first_date_after_years_went_kind_of_ok_should_i/ |
tangdraws | 2021-05-04 14:25:35 | 1,620,138,335 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | n4pm0i | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n4pm0i/is_it_ethical_to_put_a_slightly_older_age_on_your/ | 0 | I’m currently a 24 year old student and I don’t want to have anyone in school seeing my tinder profile (most of the guys in school are around the same age as me or 1-2 years younger/older). I initially thought that by putting the age range between 27-33 I wouldn’t have to see anyone’s profile from school or vice versa ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ethical to put a slightly older age on your dating profile but state your real age in your bio? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n4pm0i/is_it_ethical_to_put_a_slightly_older_age_on_your/ |
chompchomp789 | 2018-12-30 17:27:19 | 1,546,190,839 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | aaxres | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aaxres/closest_friend_is_unnecessarily_critical_of_the/ | 2 | I (21 F) am seeing someone (23 M) I met a few months back on a dating app. He’s a great guy and someone who treats me significantly better than my last partner. We’re taking things really slow, and I have no issue with the pace of our “relationship”, considering the varying emotions I’ve felt throughout our time spent ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Closest friend is unnecessarily critical of the guy I’m seeing, and I’m over it. Anyone else experience this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aaxres/closest_friend_is_unnecessarily_critical_of_the/ |
Vanilla_rush177 | 2022-09-22 02:49:48 | 1,663,814,988 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | xkp9cq | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xkp9cq/why_is_he_trying_to_get_back_in_touch_with_me/ | 6 | So back early in the year, I (24F) met this guy on bumble (24M). We talked for weeks, went on an amazing first date, then a few more dates after. I really fell for this guy but as time went on I kind of felt like maybe he was not as interested in me. Starting in May, we went from talking everyday to only once a week. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is he trying to get back in touch with me again? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xkp9cq/why_is_he_trying_to_get_back_in_touch_with_me/ |
innerknightmare | 2021-03-20 12:37:17 | 1,616,243,837 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | m967l5 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m967l5/girl_never_texts_first/ | 3 | I, M (25) met a girl on a dating site and we've talked for like two days straight and she gave me her number. Everything is good, right? So, I initiate the conversations and we end up texting each other for hours on end. This has been going on for a while. We have a lot in common and the convo flows very smoothly. My o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl never texts first | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m967l5/girl_never_texts_first/ |
CioccolatoAlBiscotto | 2024-05-26 10:45:32 | 1,716,720,332 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d0yp2v | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d0yp2v/i_20m_am_too_shy_when_i_date_someone/ | 1 | Hello everyone. As title say I'm very shy when it comes to date. Don't get me wrong, it's not like social anxiety. I don't have any problems talking to people in general. But when it comes to date woman, I'm like really bad at communicating. Last week I had like my best first date. I've met her on a dating app and afte... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (20M) am too shy when I date someone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d0yp2v/i_20m_am_too_shy_when_i_date_someone/ |
aintnothnbutathang | 2014-12-27 17:23:38 | 1,419,701,018 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2qjkvg | null | null | 27 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2qjkvg/can_we_have_more_minority_male_role_models/ | 0 | I'm tired of every main character in a TV show or movie being a white male, and the subtle ways it reinforces our culture of white male superiority: http://www.bunchecenter.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/2014-Hollywood-Diversity-Report-2-12-14.pdf I think that culture has a lot of benefits to white men, at the exp... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Can we have more minority male role models? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2qjkvg/can_we_have_more_minority_male_role_models/ |
Hot_Loss6969 | 2024-04-07 22:51:07 | 1,712,530,267 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1byhymk | true | null | 120 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1byhymk/i_am_so_incredibly_lonely_f29/ | 167 | I am so lonely. Like so fucking lonely. I am writing this post from the gym change room while crying. I don’t really know why I am so lonely. I am blessed with a big family but I wish I had friends and a boyfriend I really crave having a partner yet I can’t seem to make that part of my life work There is nothing really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am so incredibly lonely (f/29) | 167 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1byhymk/i_am_so_incredibly_lonely_f29/ |
RealUncleWeasel | 2019-08-13 01:09:42 | 1,565,658,582 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cplqj3 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cplqj3/22m_i_just_dont_get_dating_apps/ | 7 | Alright so I can't tell if I'm autistic or behind the times or what but I straight up don't understand the appeal of dating apps. Like did everyone contract social anxiety all at once and then decide that it would be easier to spend time with someone you only know from a few photos and a 120-character bio, and then gho... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 22M, I just don't GET dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cplqj3/22m_i_just_dont_get_dating_apps/ |
SuddenGlass | 2020-02-07 00:37:04 | 1,581,035,824 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | f028i6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f028i6/m33_nobodys_ever_interested_in_me/ | 11 | I keep putting myself out there and it’s always the same result. I’ve done tinder, bumble, Instagram lol, meeting people at events. People are either in a relationship or not interested. Being past 30 and seeing everyone else in relationships or married doesn’t make it any easier. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M33] Nobody’s ever interested in me 😪 | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f028i6/m33_nobodys_ever_interested_in_me/ |
calcifer0573 | 2024-07-08 00:55:12 | 1,720,400,112 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dxvyu1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dxvyu1/i_f21_got_love_bombed_for_the_second_time_now/ | 1 | I’m pretty new to dating, never had a bf before. A lot of guys from dating apps tell me i’m pretty and are sexually attracted to me, we talk for few weeks to couple months and when the conversation goes sexual, they lose interest after sexting me (usually they make it sexual, i have once too). These aren’t specifically... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (F21) got love bombed for the second time now | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dxvyu1/i_f21_got_love_bombed_for_the_second_time_now/ |
2moondrop | 2018-12-27 23:03:37 | 1,545,951,817 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | aa4a4i | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aa4a4i/introvert_and_dating_24f/ | 1 | Any dating advice for an introverted shy lady in todays age? I would like to meet someone organically, not online. Ive tried the dating apps and really nothing good has come from it. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Introvert and dating [24f] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aa4a4i/introvert_and_dating_24f/ |
Tiny_C | 2018-10-12 15:30:56 | 1,539,358,256 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 9nl97j | true | null | 99 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9nl97j/second_date_gone_wayyyy_wrong/ | 790 | I matched with this guy through a dating app about two months ago. We tried to meet up several times but due to scheduling conflicts we couldn’t. Finally last Saturday we were able to coordinate and meet. We met for drinks, had great convo, ended the night on a positive note. We made plans for the following week to mee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Second date gone wayyyy wrong | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9nl97j/second_date_gone_wayyyy_wrong/ |
TheRebelGreaser1955 | 2023-03-31 10:03:11 | 1,680,256,991 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 127gem7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/127gem7/im_really_into_tomboys_but_i_dont_know_where_to/ | 0 | Hi everyone I need some advice I'm really into females that are tomboys like almost exclusively because for me personally they have the best qualities for me and I just don't know where to look dating sites are practically a no go because practically every single one of them you have to pay for. The few that I've talke... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm really into tomboys but I don't know where to find them. | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/127gem7/im_really_into_tomboys_but_i_dont_know_where_to/ |
[deleted] | 2020-12-02 07:33:58 | 1,606,894,438 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k54uiy | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k54uiy/former_love_interest_says_shes_giving_closure_for/ | 2 | So this is an unusual situation. This summer I (30M) met this girl (24) on Tinder, she lives in another country but I was planning to visit/move there next year. We talked for two months and really hit it off. Unfortunately we lost touch for some time and when finally reconnected (I texted her on her phone) she had a b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (Former) love interest says she's giving closure for me to move on, is incredibly ambiguous to the point of making me think she's still into me. What should I do? (convo inside) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k54uiy/former_love_interest_says_shes_giving_closure_for/ |
Scmanyd | 2024-03-22 18:56:04 | 1,711,133,764 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1bl6zti | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bl6zti/she_isnt_ready_but_theres_still_a_good/ | 2 | Met a girl through OLD. Everything was really good, except that I never had a feeling that she was ready to date. With this in mind, I continued to pursue and see what happened. It was fun and flirty and there was a really good connection. Well eventually she told me that she wasn’t ready to date as she was just coming... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She isn’t ready but there’s still a good relationship. How do these things go? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bl6zti/she_isnt_ready_but_theres_still_a_good/ |
sero007 | 2024-04-12 19:53:07 | 1,712,951,587 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c2ijdy | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c2ijdy/confused_after_a_great_date_a_lot_of_chemistry/ | 1 | Welp, the subject sums it up pretty much. We matched a week ago and liked each other right off the bat. we talked on the phone, seemed to have a lot of values in common etc. we agreed on meeting and drink something etc. we met and she was nervous, so was I. we had a great time. we laughed, talked and we started to touc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused. After a great date, a lot of chemistry and attraction on both sides she tells me "she feels no chemistry". I don't get it | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c2ijdy/confused_after_a_great_date_a_lot_of_chemistry/ |
Frostymex | 2022-12-27 03:32:07 | 1,672,111,927 | null | ['OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | zw5gta | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zw5gta/hinge_catfishing/ | 2 | Have you encountered a lot of catfishing? In the last three days, I’ve had 5 profiles that I have had to report due to catfishing.. how do I know? American names, from foreign countries (I’m in US), absolutely lovebombed within 5 minutes and already asking for my number. I do not believe in penpals when OLD, but this w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge - catfishing | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zw5gta/hinge_catfishing/ |
2022user | 2023-12-31 22:13:17 | 1,704,060,797 | 0 | null | 0 | 18vignc | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18vignc/liked_his_profile_4_weeks_ago_he_visited_my/ | 1 | Hi , I am a bit confused as to what's going on in a man's head lol. I liked this guy's profile about a month ago. He visited mine right after. I thought he swiped left because I am not his type or whatever. But within the span of 4 weeks , he re-visited my profile multiple times. In my opinion, if I am not his type , w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Liked his profile 4 weeks ago, he visited my profile multiple times in between. Only matches now? | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18vignc/liked_his_profile_4_weeks_ago_he_visited_my/ |
Linduskainen | 2019-05-13 11:00:14 | 1,557,745,214 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bo20eg | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bo20eg/ghosting_or_not_seen_a_guy_twice_what_to_expect/ | 1 | Long story short: I met a guy through a dating app a week ago (he is living both, in Finland and in Germany: so traveling a lot between these two countries), and we saw few days later. We went for few drinks - and kissed in the end. Next day we met at my place and had some wine, spent a lot of time talking, but also ha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosting or not - seen a guy twice, what to expect after this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bo20eg/ghosting_or_not_seen_a_guy_twice_what_to_expect/ |
InvokeMeWell | 2023-08-15 16:25:44 | 1,692,116,744 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15rxd0r | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15rxd0r/seeking_advice_dating_apps_to_meet_women_in/ | 1 | Hello, I have been for many years out of touch with dating, I have installed bumble for 1 week but not luck . My plan was/is because I know a lot of greco-roman history and hopefully to find someone which will want a mini tour of Athens like Acropolis, National Museum. (I am generally a fit guy, like mountain bike or s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeking advice dating apps to meet Women in Athens, Greece | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15rxd0r/seeking_advice_dating_apps_to_meet_women_in/ |
Dull_Buyer767 | 2021-01-21 13:31:22 | 1,611,235,882 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | l1yhfk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l1yhfk/how_to_approach_women_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | It’s really easy for me to approach them in a physical scenario because i can create conversation about the things around us, but i’m really struggling to find a way to keep the conversation going on a dating app, any advice?? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to approach women on dating apps?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l1yhfk/how_to_approach_women_on_dating_apps/ |
Smarf_Starkgaryen | 2024-04-23 14:27:07 | 1,713,882,427 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cb60va | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cb60va/is_this_a_good_message_to_say/ | 2 | Matched with a girl on Bumble and been taking a bit and she has an amazing and mysterious smile. Is this a good line to use? Or would it be better to give a nice and simple compliment on her smile in person during a date? “[Girls’s name here], your enigmatic smile is absolutely stunning! It's as though you hold the key... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is this a good message to say? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cb60va/is_this_a_good_message_to_say/ |
IllustratorOk3235 | 2024-07-12 16:44:31 | 1,720,802,671 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1e1mbpm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e1mbpm/how_to_get_myself_out_there/ | 1 | I’m now entering college and I want to put myself in the dating scene :) but idk where to start or how to even start hahaha. I used dating apps before but I found that I prefer meeting people in real life and know them before jumping in. Any advices? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to get myself out there? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e1mbpm/how_to_get_myself_out_there/ |
Regular-Ad-6011 | 2023-07-21 00:38:08 | 1,689,899,888 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1558j8h | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1558j8h/should_i_reconnect_with_my_first_love_20_years/ | 1 | In college, I fell in love with someone my junior year. We had a great and loving relationship. He was of a different religion and my father threatened to disown me, so I ended it though I didn’t want to. It crushed both of us, and life went on. I always thought of him as my first, true and deep love and only recently ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reconnect with my first love? (20 years later) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1558j8h/should_i_reconnect_with_my_first_love_20_years/ |
Celtic_Caterpillar_7 | 2024-05-05 18:31:32 | 1,714,933,892 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ckxx1r | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1ckxx1r/how_would_an_anonymous_rating_system_work_on/ | 1 | I'm not dating and unlikely to do so any time soon but I read a shit ton of torturous behaviour by dating app customers both online and irl. Would or coukd such a thing be useful so folk aren't taken advantage of by attention and meal ticket seekers? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How would an anonymous rating system work on dating apps such as the Google, Trustpilot etc.? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1ckxx1r/how_would_an_anonymous_rating_system_work_on/ |
jennamimi | 2022-02-27 00:09:18 | 1,645,920,558 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | t2ayj6 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t2ayj6/are_we_moving_too_fast/ | 2 | I matched with this guy from tinder and we met last night. It was amazing we had an amazing connection. It was very sweet he kept blushing and kept calling me “cute and pretty”. We held hands, hugged, cuddled, and we even made out. We seem to have an amazing connection. We’re planning our next date. But I’m worried wha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are we moving too fast? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t2ayj6/are_we_moving_too_fast/ |
Freshflowersandhoney | 2023-12-16 21:39:34 | 1,702,762,774 | 0 | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18k1c3h | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18k1c3h/dating_is_hard/ | 16 | Hey all, this is probably a popular sentiment everyone conveys but dating really is hard. So, for the past 6 to 7 months I started resorting to dating the people in my real life instead of online dating after being heavily manipulated by a guy I knew from high school and reconnected through bumble. I felt meeting peopl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating is hard | 16 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18k1c3h/dating_is_hard/ |
soccerfan637292 | 2024-03-18 23:53:56 | 1,710,806,036 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bi63jn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bi63jn/whats_my_next_move/ | 1 | I (23M) just moved to a new city, met a girl on hinge, and have gone on 4 dates with her. The dates always go really well, we have a lot in common, and we have kissed. My concern is that I have initiated all the dates so far and almost always have to text her first after we hangout, even tho we end up texting a lot aft... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Whats my next move? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bi63jn/whats_my_next_move/ |
Detective_Organic | 2021-03-29 01:51:35 | 1,616,982,695 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mff5rd | true | Question | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mff5rd/does_my_tinder_fb_want_to_actually_date/ | 1 | I am 43 f and he is 40 m. We met on Tinder and hung out a few times now, had sex twice. I told him I'm ok having a fling with him. He didn't say what he wants. Last time we got together he invited me to go wine tasting with him, in two weeks. This will be an all day long date thing. This confused me because it doesn't ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does my Tinder FB want to actually date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mff5rd/does_my_tinder_fb_want_to_actually_date/ |
NationalBluejay8836 | 2021-12-12 16:43:37 | 1,639,327,417 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ress0g | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/ress0g/when_someone_is_into_you_more_then_you_are_into/ | 20 | I connected with a woman in early November. We have been on 4 dates. She tells me she is into me, I am everything she wants etc. I just feel to much to soon, I am still on OLD sites and she requested I take them down. I like her but I am not ready to give 100 percent commitment to her nor am I ready to plan a future. I... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | When someone is into you more then you are into them. They already planning the future. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ress0g/when_someone_is_into_you_more_then_you_are_into/ |
Dsg1116 | 2019-01-17 02:52:58 | 1,547,693,578 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | agt8n0 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/agt8n0/why_do_i_have_such_bad_luck_with_love/ | 1 | People tend to think I’m over exaggerating or being unrealistic with my expectations towards men. I CANNOT find a long term relationship to save my life. It just never works out with guys. I’ve only dated someone short term and have been on several dating sites. I find it hard to meet people because of my trust issues ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do I have such bad luck with love? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/agt8n0/why_do_i_have_such_bad_luck_with_love/ |
steven-gos | 2019-11-10 00:18:04 | 1,573,345,084 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | du46a4 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/du46a4/methods_to_overcome_camera_shy_attitude_in/ | 1 | disclaimer: apologies if this is the wrong community to ask this so, I'm not "camera shy" in the sense that I refuse to have pictures taken of me, but more in the sense that I suck at taking selfies lol. but, y'know, photos are rather necessary because duh. I feel like it's a weird compromise to ask someone for however... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | methods to overcome "camera shy" attitude in regards to dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/du46a4/methods_to_overcome_camera_shy_attitude_in/ |
robmak3 | 2023-11-16 15:12:25 | 1,700,147,545 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 17wp7j2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17wp7j2/is_real_world_dating_basically_just_online_dating/ | 1 | Suppose you meet someone at a bar, coffee shop, or group. They're going to look for your Instagram or if they really liked you, snapchat, if they didn't get enough of you that night. Yeah, you can have a deep conversation with them to make up for it. If everyone's blasted, the bar is loud, you're with your friends, it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is real world dating basically just online dating? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17wp7j2/is_real_world_dating_basically_just_online_dating/ |
PacoMahogany | 2018-08-22 05:06:04 | 1,534,914,364 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 99ajdn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/99ajdn/update_single_dad_win/ | 14 | This is an update from my post about approaching a nice woman in the grocery story and giving her my number. We scheduled to have lunch together while she was on her lunch break from work (she works at the grocery store where we met). That gave me a real unassuming and down to earth vibe since she was dressed for work ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Update: Single Dad Win! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/99ajdn/update_single_dad_win/ |
tiredandtiredand | 2023-12-07 02:09:17 | 1,701,914,957 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18ckrs3 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ckrs3/crushing_liking_my_stories_and_posts/ | 1 | I matched with a cute guy from Wien while on holiday there. He asked me out for coffee but I politely declined as I'm about to leave (and also I'm very shy)...so bla bla bla. We followed each other on IG, he sometimes likes my stories/post..sometimes we have brief conversations about holidays in Wien (there is one time... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Crushing liking my stories and posts | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ckrs3/crushing_liking_my_stories_and_posts/ |
Delicious-Two-7640 | 2024-06-23 20:43:04 | 1,719,175,384 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dmvrbb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dmvrbb/messaging_an_ex_on_a_dating_app/ | 1 | I(M22) found my ex(F22) on my Hinge feed as my "Most Compatible" and debating whether I should send her a platonic "long time no see, how have you been". We've known each other since 3rd grade and have always had this weird dynamic between us. Always somewhat interested in each other and actively talked and then someth... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Messaging an ex on a dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dmvrbb/messaging_an_ex_on_a_dating_app/ |
MwahMwahKitteh | 2021-12-20 05:33:33 | 1,639,978,413 | null | null | 0 | rkfqbw | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rkfqbw/hating_on_serial_dating/ | 4 | First off, I guess it matters wtf this means when people are using it. What do you think it means? Do it mean that they go on dates with more than one person until there's a monogamous commitment? Or does it mean that they go on dates with more than one person even after that? (Which just seems like cheating?) Or do th... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hating on "serial dating"? | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rkfqbw/hating_on_serial_dating/ |
obliqueciti | 2023-12-26 04:29:50 | 1,703,564,990 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18qzoxk | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18qzoxk/downloading_a_dating_app_while_dating_someone/ | 1 | Thoughts on me downloading a dating app while already dating someone?? Advice from men would be appreciated. I’m in school living on campus and I found someone who I like and he likes me too (or so he says). We’ve been talking every single day for 2 months but he hasn’t talked at all about being exclusive. Nothing abou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Downloading a dating app while dating someone? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18qzoxk/downloading_a_dating_app_while_dating_someone/ |
polarisborealis | 2023-07-13 01:32:36 | 1,689,211,956 | 0 | null | 0 | 14y6xiu | false | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14y6xiu/men_do_you_have_pictures_of_your_car_on_your/ | 1 | null | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Men, do you have pictures of your car on your dating profile? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14y6xiu/men_do_you_have_pictures_of_your_car_on_your/ |
cw9241 | 2022-07-12 16:36:51 | 1,657,643,811 | null | null | 0 | vxfi26 | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/vxfi26/is_it_me_or_does_hardly_anyone_ever_have_any/ | 54 | It’s incredibly frustrating. I’m bubbly and outgoing and that’s very evident through my messages. But I hardly EVER receive that same energy back. Just a whole bunch of “hey”s and “wyd”s at the top of every hour. I’ll make a joke and get a measly “lol”. There’s like zero intentionality with most people. Imagine getting... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is it me or does hardly anyone ever have any personality when they date online? | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/vxfi26/is_it_me_or_does_hardly_anyone_ever_have_any/ |
Houseonthehill44 | 2023-10-02 05:41:10 | 1,696,225,270 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16xoeqr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16xoeqr/should_i_send_him_this_after_the_date/ | 1 | I (24F) went on a date last week that was really supposed to a “rebound” after a longer situationship ended. He (25M) is from the US but on a solo Europe trip, and we agreed to meet up when he was in my country. I wasn’t expecting much - or I was expecting him to be the very typical social, outgoing, talkative American... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I send him this after the date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16xoeqr/should_i_send_him_this_after_the_date/ |
Uncle-Buckwild | 2021-03-17 16:27:54 | 1,615,998,474 | null | null | 0 | m74a4b | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m74a4b/guys_how_sick_are_you_of_girls_hiding_their/ | 0 | This is no different than catfishing and should be forbidden on dating sites. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys - how sick are you of girls hiding their bodies in all of their pics by only posting close ups of their face/weird angles? | null | 0.46 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m74a4b/guys_how_sick_are_you_of_girls_hiding_their/ |
crossdm | 2024-06-29 02:33:29 | 1,719,628,409 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1dr0z2o | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1dr0z2o/happy_friday/ | 37 | Hope everyone had a good week! I’m trying to focus on the good things in my life. Staying off the OLD apps for now. Just trying to find peace with myself | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Happy Friday | 37 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1dr0z2o/happy_friday/ |
leialola234 | 2020-04-19 00:44:09 | 1,587,257,049 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | g3yhyz | true | Question | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g3yhyz/ghost/ | 1 | Wow for once someone ghosted me. Lol. We were suppose to hang out today but I rescheduled bc I didn’t want to hang out at my house. Our plan was to meet at the park but it was going to snow. So he said let’s meet there and if it’s too cold we can do plan b and go to your House. I said “next week :p” And he said ok:) ca... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghost | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g3yhyz/ghost/ |
winterene | 2021-01-28 01:35:56 | 1,611,797,756 | null | null | 0 | l6kiw3 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/l6kiw3/any_luck_with_facebook_dating/ | 6 | Have any of you all had any luck with Facebook dating? I quickly abandoned it when it became apparent that the site did not seem to be making an effort to match on common interests. I still receive likes, but I don't even bother to look anymore--not worth my time. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any Luck with Facebook Dating? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/l6kiw3/any_luck_with_facebook_dating/ |
No_Tomatillo_4672 | 2021-06-16 16:45:58 | 1,623,861,958 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | o19a19 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o19a19/what_changed/ | 1 | This is more of a what happened rather than asking for advice. Met a girl on bumble and we seemed to hit it off pretty quickly. Exchanged numbers within a day or two and were texting nonstop for about 3-4 days. We FaceTimed once before our date to make sure we are who we said we were lol. I met her at her place we went... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What changed? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o19a19/what_changed/ |
imprvne | 2020-09-19 15:13:12 | 1,600,528,392 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ivub5t | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ivub5t/a_girl_f22_ive_m24_been_messaging_hit_me_with_a/ | 1 | Earlier in the week, I matched with a girl on tinder. We exchanged a few messages over 2 days. The conversation went well, wit, chill and challenging statements on my end, with enough time in between messages to not appear needy. She hinted at meeting me in person, after a bit of back and forth, I asked for her schedul... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A girl (F22) I've (M24) been messaging, hit me with a "I'll let you know" after I set plans up | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ivub5t/a_girl_f22_ive_m24_been_messaging_hit_me_with_a/ |
beaconposher1 | 2023-06-27 21:45:43 | 1,687,902,343 | 0 | ['swiping', 'bumble'] | 0 | 14kqkrd | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/14kqkrd/if_this_isnt_the_most_dof_thing_ever/ | 103 | I just saw my orthopedic surgeon on Bumble. I’m thinking of swiping right. He’s kind of hot, and he’s seen the inside of my shoulder, so I figure we’ve already established some sort of intimacy, y’know? 😂 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | If this isn’t the most DOF thing ever… | 103 | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/14kqkrd/if_this_isnt_the_most_dof_thing_ever/ |
MFRobots | 2020-04-12 10:07:38 | 1,586,686,058 | null | null | 0 | fzu6s8 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fzu6s8/a_lot_of_false_starts_in_online_dating/ | 2 | Not to sound like I'm singling out women specifically. But I had posted something in the past about the TRUE intention of women when they do online dating and what percentage are actually on there to legitimately meet men and not just to stroke their egos. I wanted to mention that some of the women I had dated, serious... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A lot of false starts in online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fzu6s8/a_lot_of_false_starts_in_online_dating/ |
Temporary_Nothing992 | 2021-04-11 00:32:42 | 1,618,101,162 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mogmou | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mogmou/what_greeting_are_you_most_comfortable_with_when/ | 1 | Hello Having been out of the dating pool for a while, I'm curious what is considered the norm and what most women are comfortable with when being greeted for the first time on a date? Considering a lot of introductions now are happening through online dating, it can be a bit awkward when seeing someone in person for th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What greeting are you most comfortable with when meeting for a first date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mogmou/what_greeting_are_you_most_comfortable_with_when/ |
annstvincent | 2015-07-07 15:31:39 | 1,436,283,099 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 3cfoh6 | null | null | 77 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3cfoh6/men_of_reddit_what_happens_to_your_brains/ | 3 | Here's an example of a general pattern... Woman meets a guy on an online dating site, and his profile says he is looking for a relationship and his information seems to support it. They message on the dating site then move to texting. While the messages can sometimes be flirty, they aren't sexually explicit. In other w... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of Reddit: what happens to your brains and attitudes once a woman tells you she loves sex - a lot? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3cfoh6/men_of_reddit_what_happens_to_your_brains/ |
throwfaraway898989 | 2024-09-08 15:45:02 | 1,725,810,302 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fc0t9v | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fc0t9v/so_disappears_for_23_hours_am_i_right_to_be/ | 0 | I’ve been talking to a girl I met on a language learning app for 2 months. We’ve been planning a trip as soon as my passport is renewed. We talk all day, morning to night, with replies 5-30 minutes. Sometimes though, she doesn’t reply for 2-3 hours, and often she’ll be like ‘sorry I was at the hair salon’ or stuff like... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | SO Disappears for 2-3 Hours, Am I Right to Be Concerned? | 0 | 0.21 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fc0t9v/so_disappears_for_23_hours_am_i_right_to_be/ |
BlueFHS | 2024-02-01 21:06:22 | 1,706,821,582 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1aglnk8 | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aglnk8/is_it_weird_to_ask_someone_if_they_want_kids/ | 1 | So, I (21M) was talking to another person (23M) for a couple days. We hadn’t met in person yet, but we had talked about dating and stuff, and it seemed we were pretty well aligned in what we wanted in terms of relationships. I consider myself really practical and direct in some ways, and I recently decided to get back ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it weird to ask someone if they want kids during the talking stage? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aglnk8/is_it_weird_to_ask_someone_if_they_want_kids/ |
Specialist-Ebb7606 | 2021-08-25 05:39:49 | 1,629,869,989 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | pb4xqv | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pb4xqv/girls_are_honestly_better_conversationalists/ | 0 | ...I've matched with 2 girls, both held and continued conversations with me while actually devoting interest in me ..I've matched with 999+ guys, the ones that do talk maybe like 2% of them can hold a conversation for a bit then it dies out ....just an interesting thing to notice like what do you think makes it so much... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girls are honestly better conversationalists | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pb4xqv/girls_are_honestly_better_conversationalists/ |
Defttone | 2023-03-18 05:28:47 | 1,679,117,327 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11uffxz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11uffxz/are_the_premium_versions_of_the_dating_apps/ | 2 | Ive had some small nibbles here and there but over all dating apps have been primarily catfish and bots and a whole lot of wasted time and effort. I dont go out much right now just the gym and to get groceries. I know a person isnt a purpose for more but I dont currently have friends where I am and my days have been me... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are the 'premium' versions of the dating apps actually worth it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11uffxz/are_the_premium_versions_of_the_dating_apps/ |
walter_mandle | 2015-08-12 16:36:56 | 1,439,397,416 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 3gqng4 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3gqng4/when_do_i_21m_tell_her_19f_i_like_her/ | 2 | So I met a girl on OkCupid in June and have been talking to her all summer long. I'm recently out of a relationship and have fallen extremely hard for her. We've gone on 4 dates, and every time we do it's been amazing. All of our dates end in kissing or making out. I really want to tell her how much I like her but I do... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When do I [21M] tell her [19F] I like her? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3gqng4/when_do_i_21m_tell_her_19f_i_like_her/ |
Drewbd1 | 2022-10-18 08:56:55 | 1,666,083,415 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | y71ir8 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/y71ir8/5_months_down_the_drain/ | 1 | I 23(M) just recently moved to a completely new place for my job. I’m isolated from friends, family, and anyone I knew previously. The only dating I did was in college and they never lasted or were usually hookups but they never really happened that often. I’ve always been kind of a loner. When I got here I met a nice ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 5 months down the drain | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y71ir8/5_months_down_the_drain/ |
jedzy | 2019-07-23 21:27:50 | 1,563,917,270 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | cgyrqc | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgyrqc/another_stats_post/ | 9 | So yet another stats post... Some info about the stats and my filters I have not really been on Tinder for a couple of years - I have been in a long term monogamous relationship with someone I met on a different site. I live in a small city in the UK - population around 240k. This does not show the whole story - I have... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Another Stats post | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cgyrqc/another_stats_post/ |
bit_hobo | 2024-01-23 00:15:03 | 1,705,968,903 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19daw80 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19daw80/32_virgin_multiple_rejection_in_a_week_i_think/ | 1 | Hello I'm 32, virgin, 5'8", average in the face , have a 6 pack, i treat my body as a temple because of my childhood medical traumas. Any girl who has approached me or that i have approached and went on a date had rejected me on my first date after hearing that what i work as . I make money through porn games which as ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 32 virgin , Multiple rejection in a week, i think it's over for me | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19daw80/32_virgin_multiple_rejection_in_a_week_i_think/ |
NormalTruck | 2020-12-25 04:03:02 | 1,608,868,982 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof', 'okcupid'] | 0 | kjspyz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kjspyz/i_19m_and_going_on_my_first_date_since_i_broke_up/ | 1 | This is going to be long, I'll add a tl;dr in the bottom. Back in 2017, I dated a girl 6 hours away from me. I met her once during those three years in November of 2019. I ended things in April. I took a chance on several sites; tinder, bumble, okcupid, upward, pof, meetme, and skout. I had matches on all of them, but ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [19m] and going on my first date since I broke up with my LDR back in April. Help please! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kjspyz/i_19m_and_going_on_my_first_date_since_i_broke_up/ |
Melon-15 | 2023-08-02 07:10:17 | 1,690,960,217 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipes', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15g1pza | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15g1pza/i_cant_get_over_this_guy_when_i_know_i_need_to/ | 1 | Okay so I (26F) have been casually seeing a man (29M) for about 5 months now. Only I didn’t know it was casual for the first 2 months. We matched on bumble about a year after we matched on tinder so we already had each other on Snapchat. He had no memory of me. Our tinder match never led to anything other than a few sn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can’t get over this guy when I KNOW I need to WALK AWAY | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15g1pza/i_cant_get_over_this_guy_when_i_know_i_need_to/ |
Repulsive_Mixture_14 | 2023-08-16 21:01:37 | 1,692,219,697 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 15t1yg6 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15t1yg6/i_looked_at_my_women_friends_matches_i_dont_think/ | 1 | I read posts here and see guys asking the same questions and receiving the same answers. The ones I see often are involve working on yourself, being fit and grooming, listening to women. I followed all of this advice as well. I have 3 I know all of them really well so asking them for dating advice wouldn't be weird or ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I looked at my women friends matches. I don't think I have a chance. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15t1yg6/i_looked_at_my_women_friends_matches_i_dont_think/ |
Fragrant_Honeydew_51 | 2023-12-11 20:01:38 | 1,702,324,898 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18g2mzs | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18g2mzs/at_what_point_do_you_give_up_26m/ | 1 | I am in a lucky position where I get consistent matches on hinge. It doesn’t make it easier to find people I am compatible or can build connection with but I know how hard it can be for some people so I want to start off by saying I feel privledged. When I was really into it I was going on around 2 dates a week and mee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | At what point do you give up? 26M | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18g2mzs/at_what_point_do_you_give_up_26m/ |
guudguyseriously | 2019-01-29 11:27:33 | 1,548,761,253 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | akz48f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/akz48f/no_clue_what_im_doing_26m/ | 0 | Hey folks so i just got out of a 10 year relationship, 2 years married, and i have no idea what dating is these days. I made a tinder after using advise from the r/tinder sub but running a bit dry and jest feel weird about online dating and interactions. My former wife and I cutout all of our friends for multiple reaso... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No clue what im doing 26m | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/akz48f/no_clue_what_im_doing_26m/ |
[deleted] | 2011-02-24 08:17:25 | 1,298,535,445 | 3 | ['okcupid'] | null | frocd | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/frocd/crossposta_girl_on_okcupid_has_been_sending/ | 2 | I originally posted here http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/frnag/a_girl_on_okcupid_has_been_sending_interesting/ What do you guys think? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [Crosspost]A girl on OKcupid has been sending interesting messages. Please read them for me and tell me what you think and how you would react. | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/frocd/crossposta_girl_on_okcupid_has_been_sending/ |
Visitorfrompleides | 2024-01-04 10:15:49 | 1,704,363,349 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18y9tw7 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18y9tw7/never_thought_i_would_be_doing_this/ | 1 | I am completing my profile on one of the online dating apps. Age in the 60's. Looking for a best friend who I thought I had in a failed marriage. Can I get a "shout out" from those that had been in what they thought was a forever relationship and the other half of the relationship had other ideas. This is totally new t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Never Thought I Would Be doing This,,,,, | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18y9tw7/never_thought_i_would_be_doing_this/ |
Ill-Owl-8999 | 2021-12-03 16:52:26 | 1,638,550,346 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | r83hdb | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r83hdb/she_invited_me_over_for_dinner_what_should_i_take/ | 1 | Soo i’ve been seeing this girl met through OLD, this is our 4th time meeting and she invited me over for dinner. Should I take flowers, or chocolates or bottle of wine? Or nothing?? I remember she told me she loves drinking wine soo I was thinking about that, but I rarely drink alcohol soo don’t know which brand/type o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She invited me over for dinner, what should I take with me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r83hdb/she_invited_me_over_for_dinner_what_should_i_take/ |
Marbles244 | 2023-04-16 06:54:50 | 1,681,628,090 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12nywt9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12nywt9/is_it_too_late_to_message_him/ | 1 | Hello I matched with someone on bumble back in 2019. We talked for a bit but nothing serious ever happened, we never met. I want to message him now to see if he would be interested in talking again, but I don’t want it to come across as weird. Is there a way to do this where it’s not weird. Thank you | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it too late to message him? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12nywt9/is_it_too_late_to_message_him/ |
studentinquiries | 2024-06-20 04:33:45 | 1,718,858,025 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dk35mx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dk35mx/struggling_to_see_if_i_should_cut_things_off_with/ | 2 | Basically I (23F) have been seeing this guy (25M) for 3 months. We’ve been exclusive for the past month, but I’ve been thinking about ending things for around a week. Pros. 1. Very kind and generous. A sweet person, the kind of person you take home to your parents. 2. Stable. Has a stable job, has a stable grip on his ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Struggling to see if I should cut things off with a guy | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dk35mx/struggling_to_see_if_i_should_cut_things_off_with/ |
Uncultured_Swine56 | 2023-09-14 20:53:23 | 1,694,724,803 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16itlby | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16itlby/i_need_help/ | 1 | I haven't gone on a date or been in a relationship for a while now(about 3 years) I don't know how to get back into talking to people or going on dates and just meeting people. I'm so tired of just swiping on tinder or other dating sites and nothing coming out of it. I don't know how to get back to being a romantic per... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I need help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16itlby/i_need_help/ |
theoriginalj99 | 2023-12-11 01:04:10 | 1,702,256,650 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18figa4 | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18figa4/how_can_i_be_more_successful_in_dating_as_a_short/ | 1 | I’m a 24 year old male that is unfortunately short (5’8”) and unattractive( you can look at my ugly face in my profile if you want to). I’ve had zero luck on dating apps the last four months as I’m just too short and unattractive. Is it over for me or are dating apps just not it? I feel like that’s how everyone dates n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How can I be more successful in dating as a short unattractive man? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18figa4/how_can_i_be_more_successful_in_dating_as_a_short/ |
MidTierMusubi | 2023-04-30 21:24:13 | 1,682,889,853 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1343ftd | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 94 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1343ftd/so_annoyed_about_my_situationship/ | 257 | I (22F) met him (26M) on hinge a couple of months ago. Everything was amazing, although we were very different it was so easy to be with him and he would often tell me how nice it is that he can just be himself around me. We would go on dates almost every weekend (we were both usually too tired to plan things after wor... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So annoyed about my “situationship” | 257 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1343ftd/so_annoyed_about_my_situationship/ |
Nielsnl4 | 2023-07-21 21:08:41 | 1,689,973,721 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15609qv | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15609qv/i_22m_want_to_start_dating_for_the_first_time_and/ | 1 | I 22M have had a pretty rough past with feelings so much to the point I’ve completely shut myself off to relationships and dating 3 years ago cause of how hurt i was. I recently met a girl when going out on vacation that surprisingly came from the same city i come from and had a great night with her. Now this was not t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I 22M want to start dating for the first time and have some questions. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15609qv/i_22m_want_to_start_dating_for_the_first_time_and/ |
serenityseekingg | 2024-07-18 21:57:46 | 1,721,339,866 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1e6ne92 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e6ne92/am_i_being_used/ | 1 | Been seeing this guy for 4 consistent months now. We see eachother at least 1-2x a week and practically act like we are dating (he’s met my friends AND family) but we’ve been taking things one step at a time mainly because he got out of a relationship a little over a year ago because he was cheated on. Nothing is offic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being used?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e6ne92/am_i_being_used/ |
Business_Mud_1971 | 2024-02-22 16:19:25 | 1,708,618,765 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1axade7 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1axade7/met_this_guy_on_reddit_he_treats_me_so_nicely_but/ | 1 | I 21F met him 25M on reddit he is so nice to me but has crush on someone else So I met this boy in dec 2023 on reddit after that we started talking he helps me a lot, He wakes up at 8-8:15 but I've to wake up at 7 so he everyday calls me at 7 just to wake me up and then he again go to sleep. I mean why would anyone do ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Met this guy on reddit, he treats me so nicely but has crush on someone else | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1axade7/met_this_guy_on_reddit_he_treats_me_so_nicely_but/ |
Much-Search-4074 | 2022-09-01 01:32:39 | 1,661,995,959 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | x2uo32 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x2uo32/2nd_date_but_different_love_languages/ | 0 | So I (30M) matched someone on Hinge, texted a few times and we met up. The first date went pretty well Friday evening She thanked me for the date and looked forward to doing it again some time. She then asked how my day was going on Sunday afternoon and we spontaneously went on a second date for 3 hours for a walk and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 2nd date, but different love languages? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x2uo32/2nd_date_but_different_love_languages/ |
Daringdasher5000 | 2023-03-19 09:55:27 | 1,679,219,727 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 11vh5p4 | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11vh5p4/29m_soon_to_be_30_never_had_a_girlfriend/ | 4 | Hey everyone, I know that there's a few different dating subreddits and hopefully this is posted to the right one. I'm turning 30 this summer and I have never had a girlfriend, and yes it does make me depressed pretty often. I have only been on one date and that was 8 years ago, I hooked up with that girl and that is t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 29M soon to be 30 never had a girlfriend | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11vh5p4/29m_soon_to_be_30_never_had_a_girlfriend/ |
clowdofsorrow | 2022-12-30 11:40:59 | 1,672,400,459 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | zyyj52 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zyyj52/dating_advise/ | 6 | I’m not online dating as for me It lacks a connection I need to feel. (M43) Luckily I have meet a few women IRL, I’ve been meeting up with a (W44) on and off for several months,day trips, coffees, walks and jogs. last month we got down to it and I stayed over at hers. Since that evening, talking with her about ‘us’, sh... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating advise | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zyyj52/dating_advise/ |
Both_Cow_5560 | 2024-09-08 02:17:36 | 1,725,761,856 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fbne39 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fbne39/18f_do_you_believe_if_you_decide_to_get_a_partner/ | 1 | I grew up around the type of women that would say “oh just go get a boyfriend” or “you can just get a guy anytime. There are also a sub section of men online who believe dating is incredibly easy for women. I think I’m a decently attractive woman but I can’t even get a date. In fact I haven’t been on a date in over a y... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 18F Do you believe if you decide to get a partner you can fairly quickly? Am I the only one who can’t seem to get a date at all? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fbne39/18f_do_you_believe_if_you_decide_to_get_a_partner/ |
stv99101 | 2020-07-14 15:43:03 | 1,594,741,383 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hr3u49 | true | I Need Advice | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hr3u49/any_tips_for_a_mostly_introverted_guy_in_his_late/ | 1 | I’m graduated from university and in high school and university I never really had any girls interested in me atleast not that I noticed and trust me I was looking for signs I highly dislike bars and clubs and the like, I’m not a party person I’ve had some luck on online dating with a handful of dates and hookups but t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any tips for a mostly introverted guy in his late 20s?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hr3u49/any_tips_for_a_mostly_introverted_guy_in_his_late/ |
Riccy_Rocks | 2024-02-08 03:05:03 | 1,707,361,503 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1allo5e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1allo5e/ladies_did_i_fumble_this_date/ | 1 | I (18M) and this girl (19F) matched and have been texting back and forth for days, we shared many similarities (Music taste, MBTI, upbringing) and she felt very easy and fun to talk to and was not dry at all and always replied quickly. So we decided to go out on a date last night at this restaurant that I had booked, t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies, did I fumble this date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1allo5e/ladies_did_i_fumble_this_date/ |
Charming_Ad8988 | 2022-11-13 11:45:19 | 1,668,339,919 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ytzcke | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ytzcke/first_date_ideas/ | 3 | I've recently joined tinder, so I've got a few first dates to plan, but I'm tired of the usual drinks. What could I suggest doing? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date ideas? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ytzcke/first_date_ideas/ |
fueledbymochis | 2022-05-25 22:22:54 | 1,653,517,374 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | uxsrle | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uxsrle/so_ive_been_seeing_this_guy/ | 0 | We’ve told each other we are into/and like each other, and we’ve told each other that we aren’t really talking to other people and want to see where things go with us. We FT everyday, and during the first week we met we hung out nearly everyday because we couldn’t wait to see each other again. I moved back home and he ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So I’ve been seeing this guy… | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uxsrle/so_ive_been_seeing_this_guy/ |
MindlessSuccotash629 | 2024-05-20 01:19:09 | 1,716,167,949 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cw3o7h | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cw3o7h/dating_disabled/ | 1 | I'm disabled I have CMT disease that messes up my hands and feet. People told me to use disabled dating apps. Do people think that I'm going to use those | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating disabled | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cw3o7h/dating_disabled/ |
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