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TheWarlockRises | 2018-12-10 17:48:09 | 1,544,464,089 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | a4xvus | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/a4xvus/men_of_the_metric_system_what_equivalent_do_you/ | 2 | I definitely don’t think there’s a majority of women doing this, but it happens a lot here in the United States, mostly on apps like Tinder. I’m 5’8”, so I don’t make the cut a lot of times, but I feel bad for the 5’11” bros who barely miss the cutoff even though there is not that much of a visual difference. If your h... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of the metric system, what equivalent do you all have for women having a cutoff height of at least 6 feet for dating prospects? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/a4xvus/men_of_the_metric_system_what_equivalent_do_you/ |
Fellkun15 | 2022-12-15 17:15:03 | 1,671,124,503 | null | null | 0 | zmqgko | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zmqgko/first_time_online_dating/ | 3 | I'm so nervous and I'm using hinge cause I've heard good thing about it | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | first time online dating | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zmqgko/first_time_online_dating/ |
punewoman172 | 2022-07-14 05:03:52 | 1,657,775,032 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vynof6 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vynof6/why_would_a_guy_want_to_be_exclusive_and_not/ | 3 | I matched this guy (29) few months ago, he lives in another city. Initially he would video call me every day, and although I'm not much of a caller, I'd talk to him. He came down to visit me and we spent a good amount of time together (2-3 days), and we also had sex. After he went back this continued. After a few weeks... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | why would a guy want to be exclusive and not reply to you? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vynof6/why_would_a_guy_want_to_be_exclusive_and_not/ |
PrestigiousEnough | 2024-08-02 00:48:44 | 1,722,559,724 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ehwv19 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ehwv19/fellas_why_do_you_post_a_photo_with_a_child_that/ | 51 | Lately on dating profiles I see men that claim to not have any children yet, they have photos which includes them with babies etc in a very affectionate way. I find this a little creepy. If it’s not your child, why are you posting with it? Am I the only one that notices this? I never swipe right on those profiles becau... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Fellas… why do you post a photo with a child that isn’t ’yours?’ | 51 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ehwv19/fellas_why_do_you_post_a_photo_with_a_child_that/ |
LaCaipirinha | 2021-01-05 23:52:16 | 1,609,890,736 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | krb6w6 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/krb6w6/reverting_to_casual_datinghookups/ | 7 | 32M. Has anyone in their 30s who is ultimately looking for a long term serious relationship given up and settled for a period of casual dating/hookups and found it beneficial? I find when looking for long term potential I end up dismissing quite a lot of people for some reason or other. Sometimes it's me being picky, s... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Reverting to casual dating/hookups? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/krb6w6/reverting_to_casual_datinghookups/ |
queen_barbaraaaa | 2024-08-24 20:38:39 | 1,724,531,919 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f0f0vr | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f0f0vr/am_i_crazy/ | 1 | So, I met this guy on Hinge and we dated for a month. He was my first boyfriend, and I was pretty naive. He love-bombed (he took my first time, took me to his co founder, told about me to his friends, treated me so nicely and it was all just a timepass for him) me and then suddenly said we should break up because he mi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I crazy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f0f0vr/am_i_crazy/ |
dudeguy555 | 2018-06-17 20:12:56 | 1,529,266,376 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 8rto38 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8rto38/when_to_ask_for_number/ | 1 | I have been talking with this girl on okcupid and we went on a date recently. Date went great and are still talking to each other through the site. Is it too soon to ask for her number? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to ask for number? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8rto38/when_to_ask_for_number/ |
LongersMcGee | 2020-01-16 09:43:25 | 1,579,167,805 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | eph7me | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/eph7me/gentle_let_down/ | 0 | I’ve been talking to two guys on an app and to be honest I’m not interested in either of them anymore - one barely responds with more than a sentence every few days and the other is a little intense (but funny, not necessarily an issue) but the main thing is he lives quite far from where I do and works even further whi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Gentle let down | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/eph7me/gentle_let_down/ |
AaronfromKY | 2017-06-02 02:56:21 | 1,496,372,181 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6ers8n | null | null | 33 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/6ers8n/im_getting_tired_of_getting_nowhere_with_online/ | 5 | Have only gone on one date from online dating in like 7+ years of trying. So I'm starting to think that other avenues may be better choices. What are some tips for meeting new people at local events? Any can't miss icebreakers? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | I'm getting tired of getting nowhere with online dating, what are some better ways to meet women? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6ers8n/im_getting_tired_of_getting_nowhere_with_online/ |
InYourBlank | 2020-03-26 05:51:41 | 1,585,201,901 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fp68kf | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fp68kf/got_her_number_from_tinder_now_what/ | 0 | She easily gave me her number via tinder. Any advice ? This girl is a baddie. We both are attractive and like to work out. Seen her at the gym but we matched on tinder. She texts back like once or twice throughout the day. She’s 20 I’m 24. Help. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got her number from tinder, now what ?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fp68kf/got_her_number_from_tinder_now_what/ |
Gold_Butterfly_4825 | 2024-01-27 07:05:33 | 1,706,339,133 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1ac50t1 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ac50t1/being_a_gentleman_vs_love_bombing_how_can_i_tell/ | 1 | So, I’m new to online dating and I’ve been talking to this guy recently and he’s very polite to me however, he keeps giving me piles upon piles of compliments, wanting to know everything about me etc. Is this genuine interest or am I being love bombed? When I say “recently” I mean less than two weeks plus we’ve not bee... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Being a gentleman vs Love bombing, how can I tell the difference? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ac50t1/being_a_gentleman_vs_love_bombing_how_can_i_tell/ |
goldengoat2 | 2020-09-16 02:23:34 | 1,600,223,014 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | itmwip | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/itmwip/why_is_this/ | 2 | Gonna probably sound like a big loser by this but my life sucks so whatever...so im using apps like hinge and tinder. I get some matches with a few girls. I always intiate the conversation and eventually as I try to progress it more after the girl responds to the intial message... i later get ghosted, why is this? Am i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is this?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/itmwip/why_is_this/ |
Peaceofmind07 | 2017-09-25 16:16:30 | 1,506,356,190 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 72dhg2 | false | null | 52 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/72dhg2/women_of_dot_old_and_safety/ | 9 | I'm new to OLD. My past relationships had all been initially through mutual friends, so I trusted them from the start. I went on my first date through an OLD app the other night, and texted my friend where I was going, who I was meeting, and that I'd also text her when I got home. She asked me if I did a background che... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Women of DOT: OLD and safety? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/72dhg2/women_of_dot_old_and_safety/ |
datfitsnorlax | 2020-03-30 20:37:32 | 1,585,600,652 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fryqvs | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fryqvs/why_not_just_be_honest/ | 1 | Okay at its most basic level Humans are like all Animals that are programmed to fuck to carry on the seed of the human species and to survive. This is my understanding of what nature is or what I feel it is. So does online dating make us more animals than human? Does online dating feel incredibly fake because of the sh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why not just be honest | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fryqvs/why_not_just_be_honest/ |
DiscombobulatedSalt2 | 2019-05-16 14:20:59 | 1,558,016,459 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | bpd59o | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/bpd59o/match_bursts_clustering_men_perspective/ | 6 | Hi, 34M, living 0.5 million city in Europe, with about 1 million people in the metro, and also quite a bit of turists / visitors. Over the years on online dating platforms, I noticed very strange phenomenon. I would have no matches or any meaningful conversation for months, then suddenly, out of the blue I will have 3 ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Match bursts / clustering, men perspective | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bpd59o/match_bursts_clustering_men_perspective/ |
Babybakes245 | 2023-04-18 20:22:18 | 1,681,849,338 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 12r30fu | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12r30fu/why_dont_men_like_speed_dating/ | 0 | I host several singles events a month both virtual and irl (meet & mingle and speed dating). Thought they would be a nice change to OLD. Women sign up with no problem. But men...no. And the virtual events are free. So, Guys can you give a clue as why you don't attend these social things? When I google speed dating, it ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why don't men like Speed Dating? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12r30fu/why_dont_men_like_speed_dating/ |
kekeprom | 2019-04-06 14:06:54 | 1,554,559,614 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | ba4mqw | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ba4mqw/guy_is_lying_about_his_age/ | 3 | Im currently 18 and i went on this dating site and met this guy.in the process i gave him my number and we began to text.we did become distant for a few months and randomly 2 weeks ago he messaged me again. Since it was a random number texting me i looked up his number on this website. I confirmed his name and his age ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy is lying about his age? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ba4mqw/guy_is_lying_about_his_age/ |
sensitivegangstah | 2022-06-05 23:08:42 | 1,654,470,522 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | v5p1jn | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v5p1jn/is_it_bad_to_only_focus_on_one_guy_at_a_time/ | 1 | Basically every time I find a guy who I find attractive and wanting to get to know and he feels the same way of course, I feel like I don’t want to talk to anybody other else romantically or at least I don’t search for it. For example I’m on tinder and I met this guy and we vibe really well and ever since then I’m not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it bad to only focus on one guy at a time? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v5p1jn/is_it_bad_to_only_focus_on_one_guy_at_a_time/ |
NickH30 | 2023-04-21 01:34:44 | 1,682,040,884 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 12tm7eq | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12tm7eq/matching_with_a_girl_i_know/ | 1 | There’s this girl I came across on tinder that I went to grade school with. I haven’t talked to her since; I feel like it would be awkward if I liked her, and if I did what would I say. I feel like you can’t just say something generic since I know who she is. Maybe it’s just me, but I just think it would be awkward. I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matching With A Girl I Know | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12tm7eq/matching_with_a_girl_i_know/ |
YesIDoIBelieve | 2013-10-18 21:03:49 | 1,382,130,229 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1oqmli | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1oqmli/25m_this_dating_thing_is_more_difficult_than_it/ | 2 | Throwaway here. A bit of background: I had a shitty childhood with loads of peer abuse, I met my first girlfriend (first girl to really pay any attention) at 17, stayed together for 2 years, met a new girl (the sixth one I asked out, out of my 20ish coursemates), dumped old one, stayed together for 6 years until early ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [25/m] This dating thing is more difficult than it appears.. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1oqmli/25m_this_dating_thing_is_more_difficult_than_it/ |
AgoSwift | 2018-09-12 00:12:01 | 1,536,711,121 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9f2te1 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9f2te1/need_help_pls_advice_newbie_here/ | 1 | hi, so i met a girl thu a dating app- we have been texting for 3 weeks and i will be going on a date next week.i spoke to her once and it lasted for one and a half hour. so i have some quetions.i have never really dated before 1. do i buy flowers? do i hug her when we first meet? 2. what the hell do i talk about? i hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | NEED HELP pls ADVICE NEWBIE HERE! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9f2te1/need_help_pls_advice_newbie_here/ |
AnitaP69 | 2024-07-10 11:18:40 | 1,720,610,320 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dzt8qn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dzt8qn/slowly_getting_ghosted/ | 1 | Hi guys, first time poster on this. But im wanting some advice as I am quite newish to dating, and dont normally have much luck. I (25m), watched with another guy on a dating app around a few weeks ago. I just want to note that he matched with me first (hinge). We've been talking for a few weeks mostly every day. Howev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Slowly getting ghosted? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzt8qn/slowly_getting_ghosted/ |
MermaidGangOli | 2022-05-18 21:35:21 | 1,652,909,721 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | usnfqp | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/usnfqp/very_confused_about_this_guy/ | 1 | So I’m gonna start this off with a background story because it would make more sense that way (I think). I (19F) met a guy (19M) while he was working we had small talk and I realized we were the same age and went to same school graduated same class I just never met him then. I found him rather attractive and the job he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Very confused about this guy | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/usnfqp/very_confused_about_this_guy/ |
Pretty-big-mess-rn | 2021-05-24 05:43:35 | 1,621,835,015 | null | null | 0 | njqowy | true | null | 97 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/njqowy/as_a_guy_with_pretty_good_luck_with_matches_i/ | 64 | The last time I deleted and made a new profile for the beginners boost I got about \100 matches within the first month. And as someone who struggled on tinder before, I can tell you honest to god more matches doesn't mean shit. It's just more ghosting, more basic ass people, more wasted time, more catching feelings for... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | As a guy with pretty good luck with matches, I just deleted tinder | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/njqowy/as_a_guy_with_pretty_good_luck_with_matches_i/ |
Educational-Rub-2463 | 2023-08-25 16:23:17 | 1,692,980,597 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1613v2o | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1613v2o/looking_for_an_older_guy/ | 1 | Hey guys, I dream of a man in his late 30s, ideally divorced and with his own kid or two. I feel like the man in this age range on Tinder are mostly trash. Where should I look to find such guy? I am a 25yo female. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Looking for an older guy | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1613v2o/looking_for_an_older_guy/ |
throwawaytimes101 | 2020-08-20 20:39:51 | 1,597,955,991 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | idieyq | true | null | 152 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/idieyq/unmatching_after_one_sided_conversationslow/ | 51 | This week I got quite a few matches with really attractive guys who seemed interesting. The problem was I noticed they just wanted to talk about themselves or make small talk, and barely asked me any questions or showed interest in things I mentioned that could lead to a conversation. In my experience, good chat or tex... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Unmatching after one sided conversations/low effort responses. Too harsh? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/idieyq/unmatching_after_one_sided_conversationslow/ |
helplol12345 | 2022-08-08 04:13:13 | 1,659,931,993 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | wiz6fb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wiz6fb/i_22f_started_dating_a_guy_23m_a_month_ago_who/ | 0 | I’ll keep this short, but we met on hinge and hit it off. We’ve both had other serious relationships in the past so it’s not like we were just jumping into something super serious. We have good sex, good conversation, and very comfortable with each other. It’s great. The other day he told me he’s falling in love with m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22f) started dating a guy (23m) a month ago who keeps future-casting | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wiz6fb/i_22f_started_dating_a_guy_23m_a_month_ago_who/ |
Ensign_Huberg | 2018-01-31 05:17:20 | 1,517,375,840 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7u7lm5 | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7u7lm5/how_fast_do_college_relationships_progress/ | 3 | I [M, college student] only just recently started focusing on dating(women) and my lack of experience leaves me at a loss. Mainly, I am unsure as to how fast (how many dates) it takes to progress a solid, romantic, and sexual relationship. Firstly, I am not really about that drinking/party life, so I don't keep bottles... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How fast do College relationships progress? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7u7lm5/how_fast_do_college_relationships_progress/ |
elscorcho91 | 2024-03-17 04:15:02 | 1,710,648,902 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bgoulw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bgoulw/having_second_thoughts_about_someone_ive_been/ | 1 | Actually, make that exes. I’m a bit of a mess, but I’ll get to that in a bit. I recently just got out of a long distance relationship with a girl I thought was my person, and it’s been super difficult being alone. We broke up several months ago, but still stayed in close contact until recently, and now we’re barely tal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having second thoughts about someone I’ve been seeing for a couple weeks…I think I’m not over my ex. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bgoulw/having_second_thoughts_about_someone_ive_been/ |
avocado_toastmaster | 2024-06-10 20:33:04 | 1,718,051,584 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1dcvt17 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dcvt17/questioning_whether_i_did_the_right_thing/ | 14 | Had a unique situation and I guess I am wondering if I saw the situation right or wrong. I (48M) matched online with someone (42F) and chatted for a few days. She lives a little over an hour away and we are both busy professionals so sometimes communication is hit or miss but when setting up a time she said Thursday an... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Questioning whether I did the right thing | 13 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dcvt17/questioning_whether_i_did_the_right_thing/ |
Radiant-Inevitable75 | 2024-04-13 20:37:28 | 1,713,040,648 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c3bj8k | true | Question ❓ | 59 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c3bj8k/guy_sends_me_a_rejection_text_when_we_never_even/ | 69 | A guy and I matched on a dating app and we got on phone call. Spoke for 2h. He interviewed the hell out of me and towards the end I was tired and asked if we could please hang up. After that I deleted his number and decided to not talk to him. I hate being interviewed. He didn’t text me either so I felt relieved. He no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy sends me a rejection text when we never even agreed to anything | 69 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c3bj8k/guy_sends_me_a_rejection_text_when_we_never_even/ |
NoPie2746 | 2024-09-09 07:37:12 | 1,725,867,432 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fcjvhr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fcjvhr/hotel_or_his_house/ | 1 | So i met this man on hinge and we wend on a date, it was a great date we talked about our lives and many other stuffs. I do like this man but i cannot trust this man wholly ofcourse, i only met him once. He is quite older than me so we both dont want serious thing. I do want to sleep with him he keeps calling me to his... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hotel or his house? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fcjvhr/hotel_or_his_house/ |
birds_in_my_piano | 2023-09-11 14:57:31 | 1,694,444,251 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16fxg4l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16fxg4l/should_i_remake_my_tinder_account/ | 1 | I have recently taken better photos and improved my bio. I believe that most people in my area have already swiped left on me though, which means that I’m even less likely to get any matches than before. Should I make a new account or will I get shadowbanned by the app? I would also like to get some advice on how to ge... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I remake my tinder account? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16fxg4l/should_i_remake_my_tinder_account/ |
to_mo_or_not_to_mo | 2021-11-30 14:54:15 | 1,638,284,055 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | r5oz29 | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r5oz29/met_a_woman_during_movember_now_not_sure_if_i/ | 1 | So I met up for a first date with a woman off hinge last week and she fuego so the next day I asked her out for date numero dos and she agreed, we're all set for Friday night (December 3rd) and here-in lies the dilemma. My hinge photos are from a few months back where I was either clean shaven or just light stubble all... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Met a woman during Movember, now not sure if I shave or not | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r5oz29/met_a_woman_during_movember_now_not_sure_if_i/ |
No_Rest_7357 | 2021-02-22 12:25:57 | 1,613,996,757 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | lpmtpn | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lpmtpn/after_first_tinder_date/ | 4 | Yo Guys and Girls , I have one situation, and want ask one advice from you. I think already lost that chance , but well want hear what think you too. So start from that , at end of January I installed a Tinder. From a start I already got some matches and some good conversation to. Also to have clearly though of local s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After first Tinder date | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lpmtpn/after_first_tinder_date/ |
VariousAttention | 2020-08-07 22:24:14 | 1,596,839,054 | null | ['OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | i5niqc | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/i5niqc/how_do_i_get_past_my_confidence_issues/ | 7 | Finally feel like I want to meet someone so have been cracking the OLD quite hard. I really feel like I need someone with a good, banter filled opener - I find the same dry “what have you been up to” conversations over and over again are draining. So have got bumble so I can open with something fun, flirty sometimes bu... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do I get past my confidence issues? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/i5niqc/how_do_i_get_past_my_confidence_issues/ |
Lvl99_EmoElder | 2023-11-02 20:12:00 | 1,698,955,920 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'feeld'] | 0 | 17mcio3 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17mcio3/nonbinary_experience_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I’m curious what the experience is like for other non-binary people on dating apps? For me, I feel like I see a lot less likes/matches compared to before I was out, and just presented as a cis man on them. Tinder obviously sucks for non-binary people because it still forces you to choose one of the binary pools to be p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Non-Binary experience on dating apps | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17mcio3/nonbinary_experience_on_dating_apps/ |
AT918 | 2019-08-13 17:54:30 | 1,565,718,870 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | cpwqpd | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cpwqpd/tips_for_dating_profiles/ | 1 | I am just curious as to if there may be any tips, or certain attention grabbers that people usually look for when they're swiping or scrolling? Like what will you be looking for, or what sort of things grabs your attention on even just 'average' looking people. Idk if it's because most dating apps have become just pret... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tips for dating profiles? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cpwqpd/tips_for_dating_profiles/ |
CestLaVie1115 | 2023-09-19 22:40:51 | 1,695,163,251 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16n4n9x | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16n4n9x/i_30f_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I always end up dating non-committal men and I'm unsure of what to do about it. I've been told that I'm conventionally attractive and that I could be a model. I'd like to think that I also have a good personality. People seem to enjoy my company and I have plenty friends. I'm educated and have a good career. I also try... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (30f) don't know what I'm doing wrong. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16n4n9x/i_30f_dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/ |
Dyemanic | 2020-10-02 01:49:40 | 1,601,603,380 | null | ['matched', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | j3lvf3 | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j3lvf3/just_got_back_into_the_dating_after_a_3year/ | 1 | I have mainly tried bumble and Hinge. It is drastically different now since 3 years ago and even then it was hard. My ex cheated on me after I spent 3 years pushing his potential. He was a guy with no money shelling out his cash to is family to keep them afloat while 4 siblings never worked their entire lives, two sist... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just Got Back Into the Dating after a 3-year relationship I could use some insight. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j3lvf3/just_got_back_into_the_dating_after_a_3year/ |
Apprehensive-Cod-556 | 2024-06-16 18:40:53 | 1,718,563,253 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dhe6pd | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dhe6pd/i_physically_need_to_see_him_again/ | 2 | I’m on dating apps to find fwb. I met this guy yesterday, he stayed for the night and the sx was incredible. As in I would really like to see him again literally tonight, but I don’t want to be annoying or look desperate or too eager. What should I do? It’s been 6 hours since he left and I haven’t had any news. He seem... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I physically need to see him again | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dhe6pd/i_physically_need_to_see_him_again/ |
Single_Equal_3614 | 2023-05-25 08:38:15 | 1,685,003,895 | 0 | null | 0 | 13rc3m3 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13rc3m3/red_flags_what_do_you_guys_think/ | 0 | Just contacted a guy over a dating site. Seemed normal in the picture. But certain things came up. I sent him a snap, he only said “haha”. I saw it and then didn’t send more since I asked a question first, didn’t get one back. 10 minutes later he said “nice talking to you”, he seemed passive aggressive since I didn’t s... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Red flags? What do you guys think | 0 | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13rc3m3/red_flags_what_do_you_guys_think/ |
speedynstressed | 2024-06-15 11:45:07 | 1,718,451,907 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dgg52o | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dgg52o/older_successful_attractive_man_yet_single_red/ | 1 | I (25F) am going on a date with a man (38M) I met on a dating app this week. His profile said he's looking for a long-term relationship and that he wants children but doesn't have any. The thing is, he is incredibly successful, incredibly attractive, as well as funny. Cool But how is he single? What would you assume is... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Older, successful, attractive man, yet single - red flag? | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgg52o/older_successful_attractive_man_yet_single_red/ |
naijagoddezz | 2021-10-10 19:17:29 | 1,633,893,449 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | q5eog6 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q5eog6/f22_i_am_not_romantically_attracted_or_sexually/ | 0 | So, there was this guy I met on tinder and I thought he was attractive at first glance. But after talking to him, seeing him in real time, I don’t really have that same WOW feeling for him. However, this guys is a nice guy- almost simp like. Anything I say, he’ll do it. Hell help me study, pay for a lot expensive thing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [F22] I am not romantically attracted or sexually attracted to a nice guy [M23], will I regret this? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q5eog6/f22_i_am_not_romantically_attracted_or_sexually/ |
LivingDisk4648 | 2023-10-03 04:58:42 | 1,696,309,122 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16yj0e0 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16yj0e0/im_tired/ | 1 | At the start of the year I ended a 3 year relationship. I’m a young guy (22) so that was a pretty big thing. It turned sour for like the last year of the relationship so for the first few weeks getting out of it was like a breath of fresh air. I started working on myself and had some pretty drastic lifestyle changes th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m tired | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16yj0e0/im_tired/ |
throwaway19_91 | 2015-02-18 22:30:31 | 1,424,298,631 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2wd2v0 | null | null | 24 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2wd2v0/i_m23_met_a_girl_f25_with_a_great_personality_but/ | 18 | Hey :) First of all, this post might sound a little bit selfish but I am going to show you the back story first. After new years eve I've met a girl over Tinder. She texted me first and the conversation went pretty well in the first place. She asked me what I was looking for. I want to be in a real relationship again a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [M23] met a girl [F25] with a great personality but with lack of physical appearance. Feel like an asshole. Any advice? | 18 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2wd2v0/i_m23_met_a_girl_f25_with_a_great_personality_but/ |
MsTerious_1 | 2019-10-25 23:41:06 | 1,572,046,866 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | dn5vkg | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dn5vkg/thoughts_on_settling_when_youre_really_struggling/ | 8 | Hi folks. Lately I've been feeling like I'm most likely going to end up alone. I don't want to make any of you despair, I actually do hope you all find love, but I'm thinking if I truly wanted to be in a relationship, I would be able to date someone kind hearted even when I'm not physically attracted to him. How much l... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Thoughts on settling when you're really struggling to find someone? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dn5vkg/thoughts_on_settling_when_youre_really_struggling/ |
Skinny_Ghoul | 2022-09-13 14:22:52 | 1,663,078,972 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | xd8wr2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xd8wr2/need_advice_if_i_35m_should_give_up_on_32f_after/ | 1 | First a little back story. She lost a child 2 years ago and has talked about it frequently. We met through an online dating app about 3 months ago. Conversations were great and deep. Started seeing each other after a month of constant communication. Dates felt like they went amazing. She always seemed excited about the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice if I (35M) should give up on (32F) after 3 months of talking. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xd8wr2/need_advice_if_i_35m_should_give_up_on_32f_after/ |
Maleficent-One-7780 | 2023-06-15 20:57:56 | 1,686,862,676 | 0 | null | 0 | 14ad7bu | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14ad7bu/is_sexting_before_you_even_meet_the_new_normal/ | 29 | So F50+ here, is it normal for every text convo, after matching,to devolve quickly to sexting? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is sexting before you even meet the new normal? | 29 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14ad7bu/is_sexting_before_you_even_meet_the_new_normal/ |
redditdude2017 | 2017-04-07 19:18:33 | 1,491,592,713 | null | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 642ici | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/642ici/is_she_still_interested_or_just_bad_at_texting/ | 1 | Kind of a trivial question but I just had this second date with a girl from coffee meets bagel. Honestly I thought the date went well just picking up from some cues like when she said she'd stay longer if she didn't have work early the next morning and when we parted she said see you next time. Idk mb I'm tripping but ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she still interested or just bad at texting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/642ici/is_she_still_interested_or_just_bad_at_texting/ |
Extension-Sea1475 | 2024-06-25 16:14:19 | 1,719,332,059 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1do9uxd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1do9uxd/its_harder_then_ever_to_get_into_the_dating_pool/ | 1 | Little bit about me I (27M) just don't really seem to get a second glance by anybody. I have a little bit of social anxiety as well as epilepsy which prevents me from getting a licence. It's one of those privileges that I feel has really affected my self confidence. I don't think I'm a particularly bad looking guy but ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It's harder then ever to get into the dating pool | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1do9uxd/its_harder_then_ever_to_get_into_the_dating_pool/ |
rainbow9123 | 2024-05-31 22:57:14 | 1,717,196,234 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d58n8y | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d58n8y/is_following_these_women_on_instagram_the_new/ | 9 | I need some advice. I recently started dating again and I often look through guy’s instagrams from dating apps to see if there’s any red flags. Basically every single guy on there is always following a bunch of OF type models on their instagram with exaggerated features and it makes me uncomfortable… is this just the n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is following these women on instagram the new norm with guys? Is it a red flag? | 9 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d58n8y/is_following_these_women_on_instagram_the_new/ |
Stand_Which | 2020-09-10 03:01:46 | 1,599,706,906 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ipv6xp | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ipv6xp/when_to_meet_up_online_dating/ | 5 | So I have been talking to a guy everyday for more than two weeks now. It’s my first time using dating apps so I don’t know when we should meet. I asked about when he usually meet up with people. He has been using the app from Jan and only met one girl. He said he usually talk for 2-3 months before actually meeting up. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to meet up? Online dating | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ipv6xp/when_to_meet_up_online_dating/ |
hornswoggle11 | 2023-03-01 07:40:12 | 1,677,656,412 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 11exoz8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11exoz8/dating_in_college/ | 0 | Recently shifted to USA from India to study, and its so fucking difficult to find someone to date. What is this brutal world 😂 Tried bumble, tinder and what not, but everything failed. No dates nothing. Still don't have the balls to directly go and approach, direct rejection will only make me low and low. Being single... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | dating in college | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11exoz8/dating_in_college/ |
FaithInStrangers94 | 2022-07-24 08:38:13 | 1,658,651,893 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | w6qyp2 | true | null | 312 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w6qyp2/getting_ghosted_by_a_63_girl_has_got_me_thinking/ | 1,076 | I’m 6’5 and matched with a cute girl who also happens to be the tallest I’ve ever come across at 6’3 - of course we had height related banter and she joked that I just made her height cut off and our kid wouldn’t be able to ride roller coasters then we spoke about travel, music etc and I realised we had some unique int... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting ghosted by a 6’3 girl has got me thinking | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w6qyp2/getting_ghosted_by_a_63_girl_has_got_me_thinking/ |
Pheromium | 2024-07-28 20:33:44 | 1,722,198,824 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eeh0n1 | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eeh0n1/getting_tired_of_dating_apps/ | 1 | Everyone's so boring and is either acting or is actually disinterested. It's so rare that I come across a person that is actually trying to keep a conversation going and it's usually because they're new to online dating. And I really can't blame anyone for being this way. It's the most dull way to meet a new person and... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting tired of dating apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eeh0n1/getting_tired_of_dating_apps/ |
welldressedpepe | 2024-03-02 01:18:27 | 1,709,342,307 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1b4bmq7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b4bmq7/wow_dating_scene_is_a_lot_different_now/ | 6 | Shit, I am male in his early 30s, coming out of divorce and haven't been in dating scene for almost a decade. I live in a city that I don't know anyone as I recently moved here less than a year ago so I decided I give online dating a shot. I was on Bumble and Tinder and was getting some interests, ended up going on few... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Wow, dating scene is a lot different now. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b4bmq7/wow_dating_scene_is_a_lot_different_now/ |
thway18f20 | 2020-02-18 15:10:18 | 1,582,038,618 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | f5t64x | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f5t64x/stuck_on_a_love_triangle_and_a_spiritual_pendulum/ | 1 | Good morning guys I hope you are all doing good So my best friend added me to a group about spirituality and inserted me to her best friends who could help me understand more about spiritualism. So i start talking to the group at the end of the day when i have more time and i clicked with one of her best friends. We're... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stuck on a love triangle and a spiritual pendulum. Should i let go or not? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f5t64x/stuck_on_a_love_triangle_and_a_spiritual_pendulum/ |
lashluv17 | 2020-08-03 04:32:17 | 1,596,429,137 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | i2qo11 | true | Seeking Advice | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/i2qo11/wait_until_i_lose_weight/ | 7 | I have a question to ask and would appreciate some feedback. So, I have gained some weight lately since Covid began and even before that after my divorce. I have been doing some stress relief eating (I am working on stopping this bad habit). Anyway, I am not what you would call a big girl, just some extra weight me and... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Wait until I lose weight? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/i2qo11/wait_until_i_lose_weight/ |
Serious-Web9288 | 2024-01-03 18:35:17 | 1,704,306,917 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18xqb6b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18xqb6b/dating_app_instagram/ | 1 | (F) Late 20s . When I’m on the dating app chatting , guys will ask for my Instagram . I have no problem giving it even though my page is private . I’ll accept them . Once they are accepted and look at my profile I never hear from them any more . My Instagram has less than 10 photos and are the same photos I have on my ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app —-> Instagram | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18xqb6b/dating_app_instagram/ |
HamsterEffective | 2023-10-13 05:14:59 | 1,697,174,099 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 176r4pj | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/176r4pj/best_first_date_stories/ | 2 | I'll start here about me and my gf. (there's a Tldr) I'll keep it simple. Talked to a girl on a dating app.. She was busy and unable to meet for a few weeks so I left her to it. Messaged her about a month later.. Got talking.. Having a laugh, bit of fun.. "oh I could do with a holiday"...."lol oh here me too, I seen fl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best first date stories? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/176r4pj/best_first_date_stories/ |
Ok-Cricket-33 | 2024-07-07 17:44:13 | 1,720,374,253 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dxm8ci | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dxm8ci/why_does_it_feel_like_dating_is_not_the_priority/ | 2 | New to the dating apps, and not having much luck. I’ve had friends help with profile pics, bio, etc. and they say nothing is wrong with my profile. I feel like I’m getting a decent amount of matches, and the conversations are pleasant to start, but things dissolve when it comes to actually planning dates. What gives? A... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why does it feel like ‘dating’ is not the priority on dating apps?! | 2 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dxm8ci/why_does_it_feel_like_dating_is_not_the_priority/ |
xneptunespear | 2024-01-01 02:44:21 | 1,704,077,061 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18vnbs6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18vnbs6/how_do_dating_apps_end_up_favoring_women_so_much/ | 1 | I consider myself fairly attractive and in college I used to go out clubbing with female friends who would wingman for me and I could usually pull a girl every few nights. tried tinder for around 5 months and got very few matches and any reply at all. Its even worse on bumble. My female friends say my profile is pretty... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do dating apps end up favoring women so much? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18vnbs6/how_do_dating_apps_end_up_favoring_women_so_much/ |
painislife4real | 2023-02-09 15:21:20 | 1,675,956,080 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 10xxcxb | true | null | 109 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/10xxcxb/would_this_be_a_red_flag_for_you/ | 40 | You are chatting with someone on OLD and that person says that the name listed on their profile is not their real name. The person does tell you their real name. Then the person gives you his or her phone number even though you did not ask for it but then follows up and says that the phone number given is not their rea... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Would this be a red flag for you? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/10xxcxb/would_this_be_a_red_flag_for_you/ |
HeftyLab7830 | 2021-02-01 09:26:23 | 1,612,171,583 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | l9zbbw | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l9zbbw/embarrassed_to_even_admit_i_was_physically/ | 0 | The title pretty much sums it up. To put into context: it’s true, I was hit by a Hinge date. And we decided to stay together. We matched while he was away for a job. Chatted and bonded pretty strongly after a few weeks. Then his work led him to my city. He moves here, starts work, has a boat to live on temporarily so b... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Embarrassed to even admit: I was physically assaulted by a Hinge date and I didn’t leave him | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l9zbbw/embarrassed_to_even_admit_i_was_physically/ |
awhiteasscrack | 2018-01-15 08:46:29 | 1,516,005,989 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7qih4m | false | Actual Question | 79 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/7qih4m/what_would_you_do_if_your_tinder_date_came_over/ | 29 | Friend just told me a story about how some chick came over to his apartment to bump uglies, and she was much “larger” than her snaps and images let on. What would y’all do? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What would you do if your tinder date came over to shag and they were much fluffier than there images and snapchats depicted? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/7qih4m/what_would_you_do_if_your_tinder_date_came_over/ |
OrdinaryJord | 2019-02-10 20:02:39 | 1,549,828,959 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ap7q5x | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ap7q5x/not_sure_if_i_did_the_right_thing/ | 3 | Firstly, sorry if this is a big read but I guess after writing it I kind of just realised that as well as ask for advice I really wanted to get it off my chest. I am 27M. This time last year I had been single for some time and met a girl who just stood out from the rest in ways I can't explain. We started seeing each o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if I did the right thing | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ap7q5x/not_sure_if_i_did_the_right_thing/ |
l008com | 2021-05-30 00:59:24 | 1,622,336,364 | null | null | 0 | no09sm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/no09sm/11x_boost_10/ | 11 | I got a free OKCupid "boost". When I click on it, it says "1.1x Boost" Does that mean it's only a 10% boost? So if I were going to get 5 views normally during that half hour, i'd only get an extra half a view? That's all? Or does the 1.1x mean something else? Because if it's just a 10% boost, that makes boost a laughab... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 1.1x Boost - 10%? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/no09sm/11x_boost_10/ |
Suspicious_Health_64 | 2022-01-18 13:02:13 | 1,642,510,933 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | s6x1lx | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s6x1lx/bumble/ | 1 | It is a good idea if I use bumble because its completely different to Tinder and there is a somewhat high success rate Good or Bad idea? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bumble | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s6x1lx/bumble/ |
Dogs-are-life-99 | 2022-02-14 00:30:23 | 1,644,798,623 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | srxb0c | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/srxb0c/im_28f_with_no_dating_experience_and_i_feel_like/ | 22 | Obviously I don't want to end up alone forever, but I feel like I try online dating and then the lack of dating experience becomes my identity when it shouldn't be and I think it shows that I don't know what i'm doing. I do offer more than that. But I've been alone for so long that now I'm use to it and I've become so ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm 28F with no dating experience and I feel like its become my identity and the reason I push guys away, what do I do? | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/srxb0c/im_28f_with_no_dating_experience_and_i_feel_like/ |
the_spies_knees | 2022-10-27 05:43:21 | 1,666,849,401 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | yejs00 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yejs00/i_think_i_caught_feelings_for_a_friend/ | 1 | For background info, we met in college when I was a junior and she was a freshman. She was your typical kinda cliquey sorority girl, but I saw her semi frequently since I was also in Greek life and her friend was dating a friend of mine. I actually thought she was pretty annoying at first looking back it it lol. Time w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I caught feelings for a friend | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yejs00/i_think_i_caught_feelings_for_a_friend/ |
deyman81 | 2019-10-31 00:58:44 | 1,572,483,524 | null | ['swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | dpg2ho | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dpg2ho/getting_to_the_second_date_if_possible/ | 3 | I'm in my late 30s and haven't dated in years. Just started OLD sites a month ago. This is only my second person on a date. I live in a pretty high end area with lots of city girls. I'm more into out doorsy girls that don't have a problem getting dirty. Found this one, came from out of state small town girl. Very indep... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Getting to the second date if possible | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dpg2ho/getting_to_the_second_date_if_possible/ |
drotter18 | 2018-01-23 05:19:14 | 1,516,684,754 | null | ['swipe', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7sc6wq | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7sc6wq/dating_help_where_do_i_go_from_here/ | 3 | Some background. I’m 26, never been in a committed relationship. They’ve always been an “it’s complicated” situation. The problem is I don’t really know what to do or where to go to try and meet or date anyone. I’ve tried dating apps. Honestly I’m an average looking guy. Meaning I probably rate a 5-6/10. I just don’t g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating help, where do I go from here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7sc6wq/dating_help_where_do_i_go_from_here/ |
1stalek | 2014-01-01 04:33:06 | 1,388,550,786 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1u52py | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/1u52py/russian_brides_photos_gallery/ | 1 | Happy new year 2014! Sign up for online dating, to do if You're Single on New Years Elena Ukraine single tender young woman 0nline dating for marriage | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Russian brides Photos gallery | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1u52py/russian_brides_photos_gallery/ |
BugPorker | 2017-10-02 16:08:55 | 1,506,960,535 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 73tqhf | false | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/73tqhf/went_on_a_date_this_saturday_and_it_was_a_disaster/ | 0 | So on Mothers behest I have been venturing into the world of dating. She wants me to get out of the house and meet a lady my own age. And last night I went on my first date with a lady I met off of okcupid. We had talked online for about a week and had seemed to hit it off. So my plan was to take her to my favorite Ita... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went on a date this Saturday and it was a disaster. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/73tqhf/went_on_a_date_this_saturday_and_it_was_a_disaster/ |
Short-Conflict-7029 | 2023-02-21 18:53:40 | 1,677,005,620 | null | null | 0 | 118crf1 | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/118crf1/being_upfront_not_settling/ | 27 | so recently I re-downloaded dating apps, and I decided that this time around I was going to stop accepting the bare minimum (snapchat instead of texting/calling, not settling for a casual thing like I did in years past) and it's crazy how quickly once you state what you want or are looking for, how many people actually... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Being upfront/ not settling | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/118crf1/being_upfront_not_settling/ |
makaydo | 2020-01-20 20:58:02 | 1,579,553,882 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | erjjwi | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/erjjwi/it_has_been_so_long_that_ive_been_genuinly/ | 3 | I was bored during the new years holidays so I went into OLD a bit with no real convinction and ended up on a girl I had a connection with, we went in one week from talking a bit to texting non stop to her coming to my birthday party and us walking, kissing and stuff. She told me she likes me and that I "said stuff she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It has been so long that i've been genuinly attracted to someone I'm both happy and scared | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/erjjwi/it_has_been_so_long_that_ive_been_genuinly/ |
polarisborealis | 2022-11-21 23:38:13 | 1,669,073,893 | null | null | 0 | z1e4pf | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z1e4pf/what_are_the_things_you_like_to_see_the_most_in_a/ | 19 | I am just trying to get an idea of what people like to see, since we sometimes focus too much on what we don’t wanna see. Personally, I love seeing these in the man’s profile: Pictures with grandma, Full body photos, photos of their pets, them in a suit, them at work, them with a cat! 👩🍳💋 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are the things you like to see the most in a person’s dating profile? | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z1e4pf/what_are_the_things_you_like_to_see_the_most_in_a/ |
Government-Intrepid | 2024-09-14 02:34:30 | 1,726,281,270 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fgc755 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fgc755/i_23f_recently_went_on_first_date_with_a_guy_26m/ | 1 | Hi reddit, I never post but I really just need advice because I listen to enough reddit story podcasts like Smosh or Two Hot Takes so I definitely know a bit of how it works and feel like people on reddit are generally honest which I like. I recently have gone on a date with this guy from Hinge. I knew him from Hinge b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [23F] recently went on first date with a guy [26M] who works at my client site and I am not sure what he wants… he’s terrible at communicating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fgc755/i_23f_recently_went_on_first_date_with_a_guy_26m/ |
Tokkolosh | 2019-12-21 05:13:02 | 1,576,905,182 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | edlpz8 | true | Venting | 193 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/edlpz8/crossed_state_lines_for_a_date_stood_up_and/ | 522 | So last week I (M29) started talking with a woman (23) on a dating app. She asked me if I was going to take her out for dinner sometime soon and since I had been trying to get myself back into dating after a failed, 3 year engagement which ended in January, I jumped at the chance. We had talked for the whole week (vide... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Crossed state lines for a date- stood up and ghosted. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/edlpz8/crossed_state_lines_for_a_date_stood_up_and/ |
chloemzzz | 2023-10-22 01:59:31 | 1,697,939,971 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17dihah | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17dihah/is_19f_and_33m_weird/ | 1 | i’ve been on dating apps for the past couple of months and i’ve come to find that as a 19 year old guys my age are incredibly annoying. the only men that i’ve been able to have good conversations with have been 25 and older. i just can’t figure out if it’s weird or not. i feel like it’s inherently creepy for a 33 year ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | is 19f and 33m weird? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17dihah/is_19f_and_33m_weird/ |
travelingwhilestupid | 2022-10-27 11:45:32 | 1,666,871,132 | null | null | 0 | yepssq | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yepssq/should_photos_with_sunglasses_be_banned/ | 0 | should photos with sunglasses be banned? the point of the photos is to see if there's a mutual attraction. you can't see the person when they're wearing their sunglasses. , so a photo with sunglasses is a dud photo | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | should photos with sunglasses be banned? | null | 0.23 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yepssq/should_photos_with_sunglasses_be_banned/ |
althem22 | 2017-02-12 17:24:36 | 1,486,920,276 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5tmmam | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5tmmam/tinder_how_do_i_go_from_chatting_to_asking_a_girl/ | 4 | Ok firstly, I know tinder is generally for hookups. I'm using a few dating apps and tinder is the only one that I'm getting matches on, but I'm not into one night stands; I'd like to actually get to know an interesting person. How do I go from chatting with a girl -- getting to to know her interests and sharing mine --... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder-- how do I go from chatting to asking a girl to go for coffee or something? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5tmmam/tinder_how_do_i_go_from_chatting_to_asking_a_girl/ |
No-Effort-6006 | 2023-08-03 20:53:19 | 1,691,095,999 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 15hfo8y | false | Discussion | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15hfo8y/men_who_move_slow/ | 1 | Unfortunately there’s the common perception in today’s society that if there hasn’t been intimacy by the third date that the other person isn’t interested. I’ve found that this goes for both genders. As a 48f who just recently re-entered the OLD world and is reasonably attractive, I’ve found the pressure to meet that e... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Men who move slow | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15hfo8y/men_who_move_slow/ |
yeeterteeter65 | 2021-12-09 04:30:25 | 1,639,024,225 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rc9nrv | true | Support Needed | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rc9nrv/conflicting_interest_for_a_woman/ | 5 | I met a woman on a dating app, and after a couple of days of chatting and hitting it off very well, she asks me what my height is mid convo. I tell her I’m 5’11 which she doesn’t have a problem with, and after that we continue our convo that was along sexual lines. She says some naughty shit out of the blue and I make ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Conflicting interest for a woman. | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rc9nrv/conflicting_interest_for_a_woman/ |
Clynester | 2023-04-28 15:58:01 | 1,682,697,481 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiping', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 131yqgq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/131yqgq/ghosted_then_matched/ | 1 | Hi all, I’m (28M) sure this is a common occurrence, but hasn’t happened to me before. I was talking to a girl(24F) I matched with on Hinge and we talked for a good few weeks but then she ghosted me. Now, six months later, I downloaded Bumble and within a day she’s liked me (me swiping right on her created the match). A... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted then matched | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/131yqgq/ghosted_then_matched/ |
tenorsax400 | 2021-12-08 15:02:02 | 1,638,975,722 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rbt89y | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rbt89y/is_this_a_red_flag_guy_lied_about_location_on/ | 1 | I (25F) have been on a few dates with a guy (29M) that I am starting to like a lot. Tbh, this is one of the first guys I actually feel a connection with that I have met online. So far, we have gone on dates close to me, which I didn't think much about because the dating app listed his location as 25 minutes away. While... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this a red flag? - Guy lied about location on dating app | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rbt89y/is_this_a_red_flag_guy_lied_about_location_on/ |
celxstez | 2018-08-01 06:11:54 | 1,533,103,914 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | 93mfqu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/93mfqu/what_are_his_intentions/ | 1 | So I was talking to this guy he had slid into my dms first it was cool we talked day to day for awhile but then the vibe started to change and the replies got shorter and the response time began to get longer so I just thought okay I get it maybe he’s not interested as much anymore so I kind of started playing into thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are his intentions? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/93mfqu/what_are_his_intentions/ |
astronaut1307 | 2020-04-15 17:00:57 | 1,586,970,057 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | g1vxmx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g1vxmx/24mgiving_up_on_relationships/ | 1 | Guess I'm incapable of being with someone; girls will always tell me I'm an 8 or a 9 but I'm constantly ghosted, never get matches on dating apps, and no one ever wants to hang out. Over time I came to the realization that it's probably an over stimulus from fapping my life away lol so I can't be mad at anyone but myse... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [24M]Giving up on relationships | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g1vxmx/24mgiving_up_on_relationships/ |
lalaland546 | 2017-01-26 22:42:42 | 1,485,470,562 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5qdehx | null | null | 35 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5qdehx/feel_bad_after_sex/ | 8 | EDIT: Shitty title I guess, should've been cannot wait for him to ask for another round after sex 😂 UPDATE: he just sent me a picture of him on trip. Guess we are all good Thanks everyone We met on tinder. Have been seeing each other for about 6 weeks, but only have been on three dates. Tuesday night, his place, thing... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Feel bad after sex | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5qdehx/feel_bad_after_sex/ |
QuoteExcellent4414 | 2024-03-03 11:02:24 | 1,709,463,744 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b5endb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b5endb/unsure_what_to_do_with_this_girl_honestly/ | 1 | So there's this girl that I met on a dating app two months ago. We've been texting every day ever since - we've sent each other Instagram reels, we laughed, we flirted with each other, had fun, got to know each other etc. Then we had our first (spontaneous) date, where we hugged (no kiss though), we played UNO, we got ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure what to do with this girl. Honestly. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b5endb/unsure_what_to_do_with_this_girl_honestly/ |
Jrw98burn | 2018-12-26 14:17:47 | 1,545,833,867 | null | ['matches', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'dating platform', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | a9ow4w | true | null | 72 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a9ow4w/this_feels_like_success/ | 371 | People say Tinder is a hookup app. They inevitably say this just after I tell them Tinder is where I met my girlfriend. “Well, I don’t disagree” I reply “but it’s a lot more than that.” I think tinder (and every other dating platform) helps people get what they want. If they want a hookup, the app can facilitate. I was... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | This feels like success | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a9ow4w/this_feels_like_success/ |
AutomaticAstronaut22 | 2024-08-09 17:23:28 | 1,723,224,208 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1eo5kfq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eo5kfq/bumble_or_hinge_is_better_in_nyc/ | 1 | Hey guys, I've been having a rough time on Hinge—barely getting any matches that i like. Maybe i am that unattractive? 😅 On Bumble, I matched with a lot of people, but most of the conversations fizzled out or I just wasn't feeling it. The few guys I met were either emotionally unavailable, not my type, or using old pi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bumble or Hinge is better in NYC? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eo5kfq/bumble_or_hinge_is_better_in_nyc/ |
Top_Law396 | 2024-05-10 16:22:04 | 1,715,358,124 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cotjfb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cotjfb/confused_about_date/ | 1 | Hey everyone sorry about this venting that’s gonna happen lol. Basically I (21m) met a girl on bumble (21f) we started chatting on there for about 3-4 days maybe a week she seemed interesting and maybe into me, so we moved to Snapchat to talk. Which we did for another like 2-3 days then we went on a date to a restauran... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused about date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cotjfb/confused_about_date/ |
goldroger12 | 2016-12-05 02:05:12 | 1,480,903,512 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5gj9t8 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5gj9t8/i_cant_find_any_woman_to_date_or_bang/ | 0 | I was heading to bang 1 but went I got there I think she was already fucking someone else drive was 30min very long and was raining. Other woman ask how big is my cock if not you wont handle my big ass. Tinder no matches some profile are fake | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I can't find any woman to date or bang | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5gj9t8/i_cant_find_any_woman_to_date_or_bang/ |
lastdonutotn | 2020-08-19 06:27:20 | 1,597,818,440 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | icih1e | true | Question | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/icih1e/how_has_this_year_changed_your_approach_to_dating/ | 1 | As a homebody who was just starting to put themselves out there right before everything went downhill, this year has been...not great. Personally I've never been big into dating apps for various reasons and always thought it would be more genuine to go out and meet people; however that feels 100x harder these days, esp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How has this year changed your approach to dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/icih1e/how_has_this_year_changed_your_approach_to_dating/ |
Dearly_beloved_1078 | 2021-12-31 21:53:33 | 1,640,987,613 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | rt48ah | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rt48ah/giving_up_is_so_freeing/ | 27 | Like a lot of pandemic singles I've been off and on the apps, but like a lot of those same singles it's a massive waste of time. I decided a while ago that I was never going to meet anyone I'd be interested in on a dating app. It just wasn't going to happen, so I just let it go. No more emotional turmoil, no more beati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Giving up is so freeing | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rt48ah/giving_up_is_so_freeing/ |
Ive_ComeToBargain | 2023-10-01 21:17:59 | 1,696,195,079 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16xd72d | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16xd72d/im_31_f_and_i_lost_hope_of_finding_someone_i/ | 10 | I tried it all. Dating apps but it sucked. People barely answer back or umatch or stuff. Going to events, parties, hanging out with people from various groups (friends, friends of friends etc) Changed jobs, for other reasons obvs, but never met anyone. I feel attraction rarely...and when I do I fail at it and pick wron... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Im 31 f and I lost hope of finding someone. I really need some hope. | 10 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16xd72d/im_31_f_and_i_lost_hope_of_finding_someone_i/ |
Pissounet | 2015-08-24 17:14:34 | 1,440,436,474 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3i81xb | null | null | 26 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3i81xb/do_you_find_dating_has_become_really_difficult/ | 1 | My thoughts: I (23, f) have observed that the older I get, the more complicated dating gets. No one ever wants to commit, people are all playing the "who cares less wins" game, everyone is seeing various people at the same time, people never ever give clear explanations, and the new ghosting trend is ridiculous. I thin... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Do you find dating has become really difficult? What is your approach regarding the dating situation today? Share your thoughts/stories! | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3i81xb/do_you_find_dating_has_become_really_difficult/ |
Lana343lana | 2024-05-21 09:17:31 | 1,716,283,051 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cx3lst | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 105 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cx3lst/following_underage_girls_he_is_almost_36/ | 43 | So I [26yo, F] met this guy [35yo,M] on bumble. We had been dating for a month, he brought up that he wants to get serious eventually. Long story short last night decided to look trough his IG. It can telll u a lot about the person. Idk why I didnt do that earlier. He is a good looking guy had a lot of girls on there w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Following underage girls? He is almost 36 | 43 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cx3lst/following_underage_girls_he_is_almost_36/ |
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