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Teapot3900 | 2021-02-11 15:12:24 | 1,613,056,344 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | lhmovx | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lhmovx/advice_on_getting_back_into_dating_in_the_covid/ | 0 | So basically 2020 was a trainwreck for me (27m), I lost my job early on in the pandemic, my girlfriend at the time was the opposite of supportive and made me feel awful all the time. I broke up with her and she immediately started seeing someone else which was a bit of a kick in the nuts and left me in a miserable slum... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on getting back into dating in the Covid world! | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lhmovx/advice_on_getting_back_into_dating_in_the_covid/ |
joypeter69 | 2023-08-14 10:54:36 | 1,692,010,476 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 15qrduq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15qrduq/boyfriend_wants_to_enable_dating_mode_on_bumble/ | 1 | My boyfriend disabled the dating mode on bumble but kept the friends mode after we started dating. Now he wants to go back on the dating mode, he says he is only looking to make new friends but i find it weird and disrespectful. Am i overreacting? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | boyfriend wants to enable dating mode on bumble | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15qrduq/boyfriend_wants_to_enable_dating_mode_on_bumble/ |
SendMeYourPlantPics | 2022-09-11 19:27:07 | 1,662,924,427 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | xbr9pa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xbr9pa/how_much_interest_is_enough_but_not_too_much_when/ | 3 | I (30M) have plenty of friends, both men and women. I've also been interested in several women with varying levels of compatibility. We'd get along well and enjoy time together. There would sometimes be difficulty communicating, mismatched interests or lifestyles, personality differences, or something like that, but it... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How much interest is enough but not too much when taking it slowly? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xbr9pa/how_much_interest_is_enough_but_not_too_much_when/ |
PrincessZel | 2021-03-31 23:04:12 | 1,617,231,852 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mhi25g | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mhi25g/im_so_embarrassed/ | 2 | Omg what have I done. I'm a 28F and I'm still doing the same shit over and over again. When will I learn So I just came out of a short term relationship and straight away I was on tinder not expecting to find anyone. I ended up matching this guy and he was nearly perfect on paper. At first however I wasn't interested a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm so embarrassed | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mhi25g/im_so_embarrassed/ |
panoramic_peach | 2024-09-09 06:41:05 | 1,725,864,065 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fcj53e | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fcj53e/is_he_asking_me_to_be_his_gf/ | 3 | I (20F) have been talking to this guy for a little bit. If he says he loves spending time with me and ends with “I want you to be mine” is he asking me to be his girlfriend? We both are not seeing others and have deleted dating apps. I have a hard time with social cues when people aren’t very direct so I’m not really s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is he asking me to be his gf? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcj53e/is_he_asking_me_to_be_his_gf/ |
erixa82 | 2023-05-19 05:31:32 | 1,684,474,292 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13lm3lj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13lm3lj/tinder_match_ghost_should_i_double_text/ | 1 | ok so the title sounds bad. but hear me out we matched 4/30/23. that is a while ago immediately he said he wanted to meet me (like within the first five texts) and when i suggested that weekend, he said he couldnt bc of finals. we talked consistently since like every day, multiple times a day, u know how it is. we were... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | tinder match ghost .. should i double text ?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13lm3lj/tinder_match_ghost_should_i_double_text/ |
snaptectic | 2023-09-26 17:32:28 | 1,695,749,548 | 0 | null | 0 | 16suacj | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16suacj/my_online_dating_experience_across_two_decades/ | 1 | Hello everyone, M 41 here. Even though Reddit existed since a very long time, I came across it only a couple of years ago. Shame on me With this post I would like to share with the community my online dating experience across the last 23 years so, once you finish to read it, you can gather some suggestions and make you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My online dating experience across two decades | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16suacj/my_online_dating_experience_across_two_decades/ |
meemaws_beerchz | 2024-07-28 11:02:28 | 1,722,164,548 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ee4wpt | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ee4wpt/did_i_ruin_things_by_being_too_guarded/ | 0 | I’ve been seeing this guy that I met in a dating app back in January. at the time we started chatting, I was traveling and also had met someone else around the same time that I was a little more focused on, so I essentially ghosted him after a little while. fast forward to May, I had cut off the guy I was seeing and da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | did I ruin things by being too guarded? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ee4wpt/did_i_ruin_things_by_being_too_guarded/ |
[deleted] | 2019-01-12 22:50:38 | 1,547,333,438 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | afcqms | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/afcqms/swiping_right_on_people_you_know_in_real_life_on/ | 4 | I swipe right to people that I know in real life on tinder unless I work with them. If I went to school with them or have seen them before, I swipe right just so I can be weird. I think it's funny. Do you have a tinder and do you ever do this? | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Swiping right on people you know in real life on tinder. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/afcqms/swiping_right_on_people_you_know_in_real_life_on/ |
One_Imagination_2677 | 2024-08-29 15:01:19 | 1,724,943,679 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f44mvr | true | null | 168 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f44mvr/3_months_of_dating_but_wants_to_keep_options_open/ | 120 | I (30F) have been dating (29M) for the last 3 months. We met on hinge. We've been on a number of dates and it's been going well. Naturally the conversation around being exclusive came up, but he said that he felt that we hadn't been on enough dates/known each other long enough, to make a decision as to whether he wante... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 3 months of dating but wants to 'keep options open' | 120 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f44mvr/3_months_of_dating_but_wants_to_keep_options_open/ |
that_boy_ste | 2022-07-09 13:04:07 | 1,657,371,847 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | vv1aas | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vv1aas/is_being_clingy_a_red_flag/ | 34 | I (25m) downloaded bumble yesterday and got talking to this girl (24f) who seems super nice, pretty and funny. The only thing is– I'm noticing that she is kinda clingy (which she admits herself) and I'm wondering if it's worth cutting things off now before we go on a date or anything. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is being clingy a red flag? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vv1aas/is_being_clingy_a_red_flag/ |
Puzzleheaded-Alps822 | 2024-04-11 17:24:00 | 1,712,856,240 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1c1kriq | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c1kriq/how_long_do_you_chat_with_someone_via_online/ | 1 | How long is too long for you? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you chat with someone via online dating app before meeting up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c1kriq/how_long_do_you_chat_with_someone_via_online/ |
robotwind | 2019-11-19 00:00:48 | 1,574,121,648 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dyc0w0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dyc0w0/i_23m_may_have_missed_my_chance_by_many_months/ | 0 | So I was speaking to a girl (24F) on Tinder months ago (around March). I actually met her once in University and we know a couple people in common. I got her Instagram from her on Tinder with the assumption we'd both continue talking and meet up but we never did. I can't remember who actually stopped speaking to the ot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (23M) may have missed my chance by many months? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dyc0w0/i_23m_may_have_missed_my_chance_by_many_months/ |
Upset_Jury3148 | 2023-05-23 12:56:54 | 1,684,846,614 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 13pnren | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13pnren/am_i_too_judgemental/ | 1 | I (39F) was in a bad relationship for 6 years with a lying alcoholic. He ended up getting sober (after lying about that too) but the damage was done. Needless to say, i'm cautious about dating anyone with drinking flags now. I'm doing the online thing. I matched with a guy who had SOBER written in his profile which was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I too judgemental? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13pnren/am_i_too_judgemental/ |
Ashblp | 2019-09-06 12:58:04 | 1,567,774,684 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | d0gbh6 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d0gbh6/want_to_slow_it_down/ | 1 | I just started seeing this guy I met in an OLD site. It's been about 3 weeks now and we have seen each other at least twice a week as well as spending all of labor day weekend together. It's been lovely. I feel like I can really be myself and that we are really connecting on a deeper level. It's been many many years si... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Want to slow it down. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d0gbh6/want_to_slow_it_down/ |
ThisChickThinks | 2024-07-09 03:41:28 | 1,720,496,488 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dysonm | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dysonm/ever_experience_a_great_date_and_then_ghost_them/ | 18 | What was your reason? Let’s hear stories. (In no way do I condone ghosting) | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ever experience a great date and then ghost them? | 18 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dysonm/ever_experience_a_great_date_and_then_ghost_them/ |
dontmissmewhenimgone | 2020-10-02 19:34:08 | 1,601,667,248 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | j41bhm | true | null | 84 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j41bhm/does_anyone_else_notice_this_too_girls_that_have/ | 155 | So I don’t know if this is just pure coincidence but every single girl I am interested in find out that they already have a boyfriend. It’s not like they are “letting me down easy” or anything, it’s just I find out shortly after talking to her ranging from a couple minutes to the next few days after meeting her. I eith... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does anyone else notice this too? Girls that have boyfriends are way more open to talking than girls that are actually single? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j41bhm/does_anyone_else_notice_this_too_girls_that_have/ |
iamgettingaway | 2023-07-17 23:21:31 | 1,689,636,091 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 152hgqz | false | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/152hgqz/do_you_think_youre_attractive_but_not_enough_for/ | 1 | TDLR; to my crush I’m ugly, to a random stranger that’s not my type would think I’m pretty. WHY😭 On dating apps like Hinge, I’d get likes but majority are from men that I don’t find attractive. Which is why I send my own likes but rarely get matched. If we do match, men don’t typically start the conversation. The same... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think you’re attractive but not enough for your type of guys/girls? Bc this is my dilemma. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/152hgqz/do_you_think_youre_attractive_but_not_enough_for/ |
lil_kafka | 2024-01-18 20:05:27 | 1,705,608,327 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 199zcju | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/199zcju/how_often_do_you_go_on_dates/ | 1 | I have a different date for each day. Here's my schedule for today through Sunday: I had a realization earlier this morning— this is all rather insane and quite excessive, isn't it? But surely, there must be other men out there that are having fun dating around. After all, there are more men than women on dating apps.... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How often do you go on dates? | 1 | 0.2 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/199zcju/how_often_do_you_go_on_dates/ |
Evenstarz | 2021-02-12 19:38:40 | 1,613,158,720 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | liivsi | true | null | 91 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/liivsi/nyt_ml_article_what_would_you_have_chosen_in_her/ | 67 | New York Times Modern Love published a new today. Tl;dr is a husband had a midlife crisis and left his wife of 25 years to live separately and try dating apps. Cue her trauma as she faces an uncertain future that he might not return to. Then 3 months later he came back and wanted to make it work again, and the author ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | NYT ML article - What would you have chosen in her place? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/liivsi/nyt_ml_article_what_would_you_have_chosen_in_her/ |
ListNo9585 | 2022-06-21 09:47:10 | 1,655,804,830 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | vh9jyp | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vh9jyp/how_can_i_feel_secure_and_confident_in_myself/ | 1 | The title says it all I guess I just don’t see how a woman ( especially around my age 18-25) would chose someone average like me. Just going on a dating app and choosing the best of the best sounds like the best thing for a woman to do imo | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I feel secure and confident in myself when a woman can download any dating app and replace me for someone better? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vh9jyp/how_can_i_feel_secure_and_confident_in_myself/ |
BigSpareAccount69 | 2021-11-15 18:29:50 | 1,637,000,990 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | qumz2a | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/qumz2a/how_do_you_open_on_tinderdating_apps_with/ | 3 | I’m normally a pretty shy dude around people I don’t know, and I just barely got enough courage to make a dating profile about a week ago. A few matches started rolling in a couple days ago and I have yet to message them. I don’t have a problem having a convo but starting it has always been a nerve racking experience l... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you open on tinder/dating apps with strangers? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/qumz2a/how_do_you_open_on_tinderdating_apps_with/ |
EmmaKarl870 | 2022-04-26 22:42:42 | 1,651,012,962 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | ucotjr | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ucotjr/what_are_some_good_dating_sites_in_norway/ | 2 | Can someone please tell me a few dating sites in Norway, i moved in Oslo few months ago and I am looking to meet someone :) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some good dating sites in Norway? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ucotjr/what_are_some_good_dating_sites_in_norway/ |
zerkoy | 2019-08-24 08:46:02 | 1,566,636,362 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | cur06s | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cur06s/took_a_longer_break_from_dating_now_i_want_to_try/ | 4 | I am a male, but rather introverted/shy. Edit: I can provide more info if it helps | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Took a longer break from dating, now I want to try online dating again, which site is the best in your opinion? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cur06s/took_a_longer_break_from_dating_now_i_want_to_try/ |
auroraborelle | 2023-04-15 11:06:04 | 1,681,556,764 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12myojm | true | Seeking Advice | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/12myojm/coping/ | 44 | What’s your strategy to cope with those big waves of feelings, when dating (or relationships) disappoint you? I don’t mean your day-to-day self care stuff to cope with the slog of dating in general—what helps you when it’s fresh and you’re staggering and you have to keep going? I got dumped over something quite stupid ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Coping | 44 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/12myojm/coping/ |
SheHerMe2020 | 2020-11-17 00:36:55 | 1,605,573,415 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | jviz2t | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jviz2t/aggressive_chatters/ | 0 | I have never experienced this before but lately within the past few months I have had a few bad experiences with the chat functions on words with friends and the fitbit app. On words with friends I just want to play so I do not respond and the chatter will get upset and actually hold the game hostage if I don't respond... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Aggressive chatters | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jviz2t/aggressive_chatters/ |
NoMedium3005 | 2023-07-04 22:46:53 | 1,688,510,813 | 0 | null | 0 | 14qtdhf | false | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14qtdhf/upon_matching_and_starting_a_conversation_what_is/ | 2 | This is assuming that the conversation is consistent, messages are being exchanged daily, and maybe you've done a video chat/phone call at some point as well. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Upon matching and starting a conversation, what is a reasonable lenh of time before asking to meet? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14qtdhf/upon_matching_and_starting_a_conversation_what_is/ |
montg102 | 2021-12-11 06:11:41 | 1,639,203,101 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rdtb2r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rdtb2r/i_deleted_him_on_tinder_did_he_deserve_it/ | 0 | Here’s the scenario: I’m 40 and I am on Tinder (I know) and a cute younger man messages me, he’s a Jewish lawyer which is just my type so I get excited (I typically don’t get excited on Tinder). He asked me out and we plan to go out on Friday. Thursday comes and he messages me around 4 “do u want to do tonight instead?... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I deleted him on Tinder. Did he deserve it? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rdtb2r/i_deleted_him_on_tinder_did_he_deserve_it/ |
AffectionateCat3008 | 2023-10-29 22:41:35 | 1,698,619,295 | 0 | null | 0 | 17jeqk5 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17jeqk5/talking_stage_is_annoying_just_like_an_interview/ | 1 | So Ive (26 F) been talking to this guy (31M) for 1.5 months. I asked him what “are you exactly looking for in this talking stage?” He says “sense of humor. Im still searching from both of us.” I mean I guess. Our texts have been so dry lately.. like “what are you doing. How are you” BORING. He was interesting and talke... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Talking stage is annoying just like an interview | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17jeqk5/talking_stage_is_annoying_just_like_an_interview/ |
leafy2002 | 2024-07-25 20:53:06 | 1,721,940,786 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ec5pck | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ec5pck/did_everything_he_say_was_a_lie/ | 0 | Hey everyone, I’m feeling pretty lost right now and could use some advice. I’m a 20-year-old female, and I’ve been seeing a 23-year-old guy who’s in the Navy. We met through Tinder and, even though we weren’t officially in a long-term relationship, it felt like we were because he was away most of the time. We only got ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did everything he say was a lie? | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ec5pck/did_everything_he_say_was_a_lie/ |
ProofAsparagus3625 | 2023-10-09 16:39:41 | 1,696,869,581 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 173wer6 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/173wer6/confused_and_alone/ | 1 | I (f23) have been single my whole life. I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship but i’ve had crippling anxiety and self-worth issues ever since I was 13. I’ve tried dating apps but quickly learned that they’re not for me, i’m also not a big fan of hook-up culture. I know i’m still young but I feel like i’ve been missin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | confused and alone | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/173wer6/confused_and_alone/ |
Aujcxvjkncc | 2022-04-27 07:09:51 | 1,651,043,391 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ucxp94 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ucxp94/need_guys_perspective_on_a_guy_i_am_seeing/ | 1 | So I (27 F) met this guy (27M) on bumble in Jan and we chatted for like a month before we got to meet for some errands which also involved his friend and my friend. None of the friends had any idea on how we met and we just said we met through work. We were vibing through out and even went for dinner later just us two.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need guys’ perspective on a guy I am seeing. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ucxp94/need_guys_perspective_on_a_guy_i_am_seeing/ |
pocketriki | 2016-10-31 18:57:24 | 1,477,940,244 | 0 | ['tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 5ae6mq | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5ae6mq/i_really_like_a_girl_i_work_with_but_she_has_a/ | 1 | I've been doing a bit of dating here and there through Tinder. TBH I don't really meet a whole lot of girls that I am interested in that way. I moved from Toronto to the Southern US, girls here are just much different personality wise. I'm 27 and have been divorced for a year now, I have had about a dozen first dates a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really like a girl I work with, but she has a boyfriend | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5ae6mq/i_really_like_a_girl_i_work_with_but_she_has_a/ |
HeyNineteen96 | 2023-05-29 14:09:18 | 1,685,369,358 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 13uvzbh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13uvzbh/two_dates_in_and_its_hard_to_read_her/ | 2 | I (26 M) just had my 2nd date yesterday with a lovely gal (25 F) that I think is really cute. We've been talking for about 3 weeks and each week after the initial match on Hinge, we've seen each other. She's a very shy, reserved person, but very cute and interesting (she's an environmental engineer). Both of the dates,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Two Dates in and it's Hard to Read Her | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13uvzbh/two_dates_in_and_its_hard_to_read_her/ |
AchillesTheGod | 2024-07-23 13:45:48 | 1,721,742,348 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1ea888l | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ea888l/how_long_is_reasonable_to_wait_for_to_want_to_be/ | 1 | So im M 29. I’m currently seeing a F 22. We met on facebook dating a month. The first week she stayed at my place for a full week I was on PTO she was having a tooth ache so not working. During that week we had sex daily and went out and did things (swimming movie ect) since than every week she’s been coming over 2 tim... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long is reasonable to wait for to want to be official. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ea888l/how_long_is_reasonable_to_wait_for_to_want_to_be/ |
Mysterious-Cookie-64 | 2023-10-07 14:13:18 | 1,696,687,998 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1727csv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1727csv/advice/ | 1 | So i meet a great girl on tinder 3 weeks ago . We matched and started talking even exchanged number relative fast . We clicked instantly . We both wanted to meet up but we live in separate cities ( about 20 km away from each other so thats not much of a problem ) but we worked and were busy so we made a plan and freed ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1727csv/advice/ |
CheesePuffsforlife | 2021-11-19 16:47:23 | 1,637,340,443 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | qxk7m2 | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qxk7m2/men_or_women/ | 0 | Do dating apps benefit men or women more when it comes to actually finding a long term relationship? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men Or women? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qxk7m2/men_or_women/ |
thejonslaught | 2019-11-14 14:40:33 | 1,573,742,433 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | dwaeh3 | true | I Need Advice | 45 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dwaeh3/37_year_old_single_dad_feeling_like_i_am_at_the/ | 17 | A little over three years ago, I split from my wife when I discovered she was having an affair with one of her coworkers. Our relationship had been toxic for quite some time, but I guess it took being slapped in the face with how little she thought of me to get me to leave. Never stick together with an abusive partner ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 37 year old single dad, feeling like I am at the end. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dwaeh3/37_year_old_single_dad_feeling_like_i_am_at_the/ |
normajean521 | 2019-06-07 11:23:08 | 1,559,906,588 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | bxtfu0 | true | null | 96 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bxtfu0/i_deleted_all_the_dating_apps/ | 291 | I have been going back and forth for years reinstalling tinder, deleting it redowloading mostly I think because I would start to get lonely but then I realized, I need to be with myself before I can attempt to find someone by flipping through like a magazine. It sucks that we have come to this type or dating; sitting i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I deleted all the dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bxtfu0/i_deleted_all_the_dating_apps/ |
TyGunth | 2015-06-11 19:40:59 | 1,434,051,659 | 0 | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 39hljw | null | null | 54 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/39hljw/are_there_attractive_guys_who_get_incredibly_few/ | 0 | I know I'm not bad looking. I'd say I'm pretty decent looking. I've been approached by women numerous times at the bar or whatever. I've done pretty well with POF and OKC. Plenty of mutual matches and views and messages. Yet I hardly get any matches on Tinder desptr swiping right on every woman. I've had it and used it... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Are there attractive guys who get incredibly few tinder matches? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/39hljw/are_there_attractive_guys_who_get_incredibly_few/ |
otyler4 | 2022-10-25 22:43:12 | 1,666,737,792 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | ydhz3z | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ydhz3z/is_she_into_me/ | 1 | I’m a 28M. So I met this girl (27F) on hinge about 3 weeks ago, we had our first date this past weekend and it went really well, she told me she really enjoyed herself and loves being around me , asked me when I’m free next and we agreed to a second date this weekend. The problem is she takes forever to respond to a te... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she into me? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ydhz3z/is_she_into_me/ |
CaptainCharisma3 | 2021-09-18 02:30:04 | 1,631,932,204 | null | null | 0 | pqe25r | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/pqe25r/am_i_being_tested/ | 0 | 1. Is she testing me? 2. How should I word the rejection to her extremely late reply? So, I matched with this girl. She’s great. We’re compatible in a lot of ways. I won’t get into details but we chatted on the phone as a “first date” because meeting in person was difficult for both of us. I had just moved and hadn’t r... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I being “tested”? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pqe25r/am_i_being_tested/ |
MrPeacock18 | 2022-07-19 09:42:39 | 1,658,223,759 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | w2op2d | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w2op2d/to_speed_date_or_not_to_speed_date/ | 1 | I have read a lot of posts where people want to meet people outside of dating apps or OLD but they have no idea where or how. I have seen a lot of different suggestions but I have not seen people talking about Speed Dating. I am not sure why it is such a weird topic to talk about, yet we do dating apps and online datin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To Speed Date Or Not To Speed Date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w2op2d/to_speed_date_or_not_to_speed_date/ |
iwillhaveit | 2020-07-10 01:03:01 | 1,594,342,981 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | hoffan | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/hoffan/second_date/ | 6 | I matched with this guy on tinder two weeks ago and he chatted a lot. Our first date was 2 days ago and he has sent me few messages since. I liked him a lot and in my opinion our date was great, except for the kissing at the end. How long does it take you guys to schedule a second date when you’re interested? I know I ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Second date | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/hoffan/second_date/ |
JustaGuynamedGuy | 2022-06-15 23:43:17 | 1,655,336,597 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | vd83d4 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vd83d4/felt_a_connection_with_someone_but_shed_afraid_to/ | 1 | I’ll do my best to keep it short but basically I (25m) am currently living in another country and just got my masters degree. My plan was to stay and work for at least a year and then go from there. Unfortunately I have been suffering from back pain that makes it really painful for me to walk or sit for prolonged times... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Felt a connection with someone but she’d afraid to get hurt | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vd83d4/felt_a_connection_with_someone_but_shed_afraid_to/ |
Left-Ad8907 | 2024-07-15 04:02:18 | 1,721,016,138 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e3liq5 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e3liq5/any_good_teen_dating_apps/ | 1 | Looking for a good dating app to find someone but everything seems to be 18+ or really expensive. Any advice? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any good teen dating apps | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3liq5/any_good_teen_dating_apps/ |
mlowery611 | 2024-09-15 17:00:06 | 1,726,419,606 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fhhcp7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fhhcp7/46mdivorced_online_flirting/ | 0 | So…..What is the best cold opening for talking to someone online? I’ve got 3 kids and live in an area that there isn’t much opportunity to meet people. Can’t move. Online so about it. I’m not talking Tinder, I’m talking Facebook etc. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 46/M/Divorced - online flirting | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fhhcp7/46mdivorced_online_flirting/ |
salty_redhead | 2019-06-15 20:55:42 | 1,560,632,142 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | c120se | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c120se/when_youre_going_on_a_first_date_with_someone_you/ | 10 | I’ve been on three first dates lately. I had a great texting connection with all three of them, but only had physical chemistry with one. I’m going on another OLD first date tomorrow and I just realized that I’m more worried that I won’t be into them than I’m worried that they won’t be in to me, which I think is a new ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | When you’re going on a first date with someone you haven’t met, are you more concerned that you won’t be attracted to them or that they won’t be attracted to you? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c120se/when_youre_going_on_a_first_date_with_someone_you/ |
heyitshim99 | 2021-11-08 03:27:07 | 1,636,342,027 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qp4zyv | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qp4zyv/shy_or_introverted_guys_how_did_you_meet_your/ | 8 | I am a 40 year old single father. I used to be very outgoing and the life of most parties and always great with women. Unfortunately that was in my 20's. I was married to my son's mother for 8 years I have now been a single dad for 5 years. Since becoming a single father I have dated one person and that was 2 years ago... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shy or introverted guys how did you meet your girlfriend or significant other? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qp4zyv/shy_or_introverted_guys_how_did_you_meet_your/ |
chazzahancock | 2019-06-17 08:37:26 | 1,560,760,646 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c1l52l | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/c1l52l/whats_your_story_where_youve_been_mistaken_for/ | 111 | Matched with a woman on tinder last night who is interested in programming. In my bio it mentions I've worked in IT for 5 years and she has got the impression I do programming. Me being oblivious to this I've unknowingly gone along with it until she asked me to teach her, when it suddenly hit me what she was getting at... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What's your story where you've been mistaken for someone else and gone along with it? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/c1l52l/whats_your_story_where_youve_been_mistaken_for/ |
Evo-organic | 2021-12-21 20:47:10 | 1,640,119,630 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | rlnt4j | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rlnt4j/what_do_i_do_advice_for_a_guy_with_a_crush/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I [24m] have a crush [24f] I knew her in school and thought she is absolutely everything Sweet, kind, honest, down to earth etc. Naturally I developed a crush for her but was too stupid to do anything about it. It’s been 10 years I’ve bounced from relationship to relationship whilst this crush continues It... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do? Advice for a guy with a crush | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rlnt4j/what_do_i_do_advice_for_a_guy_with_a_crush/ |
BriefersRockMySocks | 2018-03-13 01:06:03 | 1,520,903,163 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 840aee | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/840aee/starting_out_but_unsure_what_to_do/ | 1 | Okay, this might be a long story, and this is my first time posting here, so I apologize if it seems weird. I've been thinking a long while on whether or not I want to date, and because I've been feeling alone and empty for a while, and I decided I'm ready. However, I'm kind of a shy person, which makes me wonder if I'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting Out But Unsure What To Do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/840aee/starting_out_but_unsure_what_to_do/ |
diamondeyes7 | 2021-08-12 14:20:42 | 1,628,778,042 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | p30t9x | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/p30t9x/men_who_met_their_longterm_partner_or_spouse/ | 4 | I need unbiased opinions from men. I'm struggling with how to word all my answers to show my personality and what I'm looking for, that also shows vulnerability. I feel like everything I write comes of like a bunch of random facts and isn't interesting to a potential romantic interest. I want to avoid coming off "co-wo... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who met their long-term partner or spouse using dating apps, what was on their profile that initially made you swipe right? Particularly the 'about me' section and the prompts, do you remember what kind of answers they had here? What about the answers piqued your interest? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/p30t9x/men_who_met_their_longterm_partner_or_spouse/ |
ThrowRAHornyGoff | 2023-03-27 22:16:10 | 1,679,955,370 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1242pkj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1242pkj/how_long_do_you_speak_to_someone_before_asking/ | 1 | Okay I know there is no right or wrong answers to the question but I would like opinions. I (26F) have been out of the dating scene a while because I was in a long term relationship. Been talking with a cute (23F) girl I matched with on Tinder (lol) and today I called her, we spoke on the phone for over an hour… first ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you speak to someone before asking them on a date? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1242pkj/how_long_do_you_speak_to_someone_before_asking/ |
TheVin_ | 2023-03-11 02:14:38 | 1,678,500,878 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 11o8236 | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11o8236/keep_your_head_up_yall_to_both_women_and_men/ | 4 | Hey everyone Hope you all had a great weekend I just wanted to share my recent experience. First and foremost, it feels great to just talk about it. And second, I’ve been through plenty of failed dates and relationships in the past, so I feel everyone’s unsuccessful stories as well I’ve been seeing and talking to this ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Keep your head up y’all! (To both women and men) | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11o8236/keep_your_head_up_yall_to_both_women_and_men/ |
ThrowRA_814 | 2024-04-24 06:40:21 | 1,713,940,821 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cbrk0f | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cbrk0f/matched_with_someone_i_met_online_before_should_i/ | 3 | A couple days back I matched with a woman on Tinder I'd previously met on a different website. Her main photo was not one I'd seen before but when I scrolled through the rest of the photos, I knew it was 100% the same person. We first met on Fetlife around 2 years ago, and she had wanted to meet up for something casual... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matched with someone I met online before, should I remind her? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cbrk0f/matched_with_someone_i_met_online_before_should_i/ |
Aphroditeisthatyou | 2022-09-12 22:04:29 | 1,663,020,269 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xcpmq6 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xcpmq6/how_to_tell_x_30_m_that_i_27f_no_longer_want_to/ | 1 | TLDR; How to nicely tell a guy I’ve been talking to for a few weeks that I’m not romantically interested or attracted to him? And looking for casual dating tips Background info: So like the title says. I’m new to casual dating even though I’m 27. I’ve always had a boyfriend but after breaking up with my child’s father ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to tell “X” (30 M) that I (27F) no longer want to continue getting to know him, or date at all due to no romantic attraction? General casual dating tips are welcomes and appreciated | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xcpmq6/how_to_tell_x_30_m_that_i_27f_no_longer_want_to/ |
Faithandfood | 2024-04-08 00:58:06 | 1,712,537,886 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bykr5i | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bykr5i/should_i_ask_if_he_is_seeing_others_or_is_it_just/ | 1 | So I met this guy on dating app in Dec. We started texting and chatting since Jan. We’ve had five dates so far, no sex yet. He told me from the get go he was looking for long term, which I’m looking for too. We had our fifth date this week & it was a good time. I asked him where he saw us going and he said potentially ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I ask if he is seeing others or is it just best to be friends? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bykr5i/should_i_ask_if_he_is_seeing_others_or_is_it_just/ |
ValentineVision2020 | 2023-01-10 01:24:01 | 1,673,313,841 | null | null | 0 | 107wi7d | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/107wi7d/i_hope_this_doesnt_sound_too_shallow/ | 0 | (37M) What I wanted to try and understand is women's pictures on their profiles and how they are taken. It seems as if we get these selections of poses: 1) Multiple Headshots (No Full body shots) 2) Mirror selfie half bent over and tongue out and peace sign 3) The overhead high up angled shot. 4) Grouped up with their ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I hope this doesn't sound too shallow 😅 | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/107wi7d/i_hope_this_doesnt_sound_too_shallow/ |
MeStanBaChewyChomp | 2021-05-13 18:44:33 | 1,620,931,473 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | nbo078 | true | I Need Advice | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nbo078/is_it_bad_to_say_i_like_to_give_backrubs_on_my/ | 5 | I'm a 29 year old guy and I'm not trying to come across as creepy, I am quite talented at them and I enjoy making a partner happy and relaxed. The prompt on bumble says: 'I'm known for' and I wanted to put that. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it bad to say I like to give backrubs on my dating profile? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nbo078/is_it_bad_to_say_i_like_to_give_backrubs_on_my/ |
NotHerAgain22 | 2021-11-05 01:38:54 | 1,636,076,334 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | qn09y6 | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/qn09y6/just_have_to_laugh_sometimes/ | 43 | From an OLD profile under I Value: “I don’t abuse or heart women, that is against what my father teached me, but I can defend her.” under Last Show I Binged: “I like outdoors activities, go to spend time walking in the park, near the sea,” etc. He graduated from Oxford and is working on a PhD. He lives in a city near m... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Just Have to Laugh Sometimes | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/qn09y6/just_have_to_laugh_sometimes/ |
CherryOctopus888 | 2023-12-18 00:38:38 | 1,702,859,918 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 18kvvf7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18kvvf7/how_to_potentially_end_things_with_my_fwb/ | 1 | So mr guy (M25) and I (F23) met back at the beginning of August on tinder. He's been driving an hour and a half to see me since then. We usually hook up, and do fun stuff like baking, he sleeps over. I mentioned that I'd probably be okay to be fwb for 6 months max, but I wouldn't want to be fwb longer than that (as it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to potentially end things with my fwb? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18kvvf7/how_to_potentially_end_things_with_my_fwb/ |
Marius1902 | 2023-02-19 19:29:58 | 1,676,834,998 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 116lndc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/116lndc/losing_interest_really_quickly/ | 1 | Hello I’m not sure if my problem fits in here,but I did not know a better subreddit,so I’ll give it a try. At this specific moment,I am looking for a serious relationship rather than having fun.The thing is,I mostly approach girls either by going out in clubs or using tinder,which might not be the best tools for what I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Losing interest really quickly | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/116lndc/losing_interest_really_quickly/ |
pocket-cucco | 2021-09-26 13:03:46 | 1,632,661,426 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | pvtfgf | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pvtfgf/moving_on_too_fast/ | 11 | I (36F) was dating a guy (43M) for 6 months. Met him on tinder where he implied he was working and then when I asked what he did he dodged the question until telling me that he’d been unemployed for three years due to caring for his parents. I gave him the benefit of the doubt but despite the fact I really like him and... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Moving on too fast? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pvtfgf/moving_on_too_fast/ |
proofredditt | 2022-03-08 05:33:01 | 1,646,717,581 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | t99mr3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t99mr3/nontraditional_apps_used_to_find_dateshookups_eg/ | 0 | Hi all, Has anyone ever met someone you’ve played with on WWF or other game apps? If so, how did it go? I’m asking because during my most recent games with two different guys, both have suggested staying in touch and meeting up some time. One doesn’t live in my area and has said he makes trips often to my area for work... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Non-traditional apps used to find dates/hook-ups e.g. Words With Friends (WWF) | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t99mr3/nontraditional_apps_used_to_find_dateshookups_eg/ |
Pizza_1234 | 2022-01-02 17:39:13 | 1,641,145,153 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | rueqmk | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rueqmk/things_not_progressing_with_tinder_match_not_sure/ | 1 | I matched with someone on tinder about 6 weeks ago and have been speaking everyday. All we’ve done is text though and send a few snapchats, I’ve tried to arrange a phone call but they said it makes them anxious so won’t do it basically. And they haven’t made any effort to ask me on a date. I just don’t know what to do ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Things not progressing with tinder match - not sure what to do | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rueqmk/things_not_progressing_with_tinder_match_not_sure/ |
Kogpoddle | 2022-08-26 00:52:10 | 1,661,475,130 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wxuuiz | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wxuuiz/i_feel_alone_however_i_also_dont_know_if_i_should/ | 1 | Just to start, had some messed up stuff in the past which I’m working on, also somewhat messed up in the head which I’m also working on. Both are going…yeah. I recently went on holiday with my family everyone else has their partners and me being single realised how alone I felt, not by their fault but through my own ob... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel alone, however I also don’t know if I should be looking for a relationship. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wxuuiz/i_feel_alone_however_i_also_dont_know_if_i_should/ |
skinnylove90 | 2022-02-19 00:34:53 | 1,645,230,893 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | svwxf5 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/svwxf5/just_got_kicked_out_of_a_facebook_dating_group/ | 3 | This group was dedicated to “the rules” which is a set of rules (described in a series of books) for women designed to weed out the time wasters and get engaged yesterday. Essentially it’s “don’t let him get to know the real you until you’re married”. One member posted a question about not keeping eye contact. Apparent... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Just got kicked out of a Facebook dating group | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/svwxf5/just_got_kicked_out_of_a_facebook_dating_group/ |
ZealousidealAward263 | 2024-02-10 23:34:17 | 1,707,608,057 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1antpel | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1antpel/online_dating_turning_into_marriage/ | 1 | Hello, i've been dating with this girl for almost a year now and since day one we both knew where we wanna go in the relationship, but we had a lot of hardships along the way and she lied to me on multiple occasions one of which she lied about having boys with her on a trip she went to with her girlfriends, i love the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | online dating turning into marriage | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1antpel/online_dating_turning_into_marriage/ |
Beneficial-Can6688 | 2023-03-27 03:27:11 | 1,679,887,631 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | 1239vax | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1239vax/am_i_in_the_wrong/ | 2 | I (42m) have been talking to a (30f) for about a month now. Mostly just idle chat till this last week she, this last Thursday she said she wanted to meet so i came up with a place, and asked her what time would be good, to which I got no reply. A few hours go by and still no response, I noticed she was on POF (yes I kn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I in the wrong? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1239vax/am_i_in_the_wrong/ |
ReformedWheeze | 2022-04-04 16:25:21 | 1,649,089,521 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | tw66ks | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tw66ks/asking_a_guy_to_hookup_again/ | 1 | we matched on tinder and talked briefly. we hooked up and it was great but we haven’t talked much since then. i want to hookup again but i feel bad bc we haven’t talked much the past few days. should i ask him or just let it go? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking a guy to hookup again | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tw66ks/asking_a_guy_to_hookup_again/ |
AfullDumpling | 2021-09-22 09:21:54 | 1,632,302,514 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pt3qyb | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pt3qyb/let_him_come_to_me_or_i_reach_out/ | 2 | Hello ! I'm (F27) in a dilemma with a guy (M27) I was dating (no exclusively) since June and we've been on 5 amazing dates each one lasted for at least 10 hours. On our last date which is about a month ago , we had sex and since then things haven't been the same. The following week of that date , he was still texting m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let him come to me or I reach out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pt3qyb/let_him_come_to_me_or_i_reach_out/ |
SwixSwax | 2021-04-14 11:10:56 | 1,618,398,656 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mqobm4 | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/mqobm4/your_hobbies_and_interests/ | 1 | I'm always curious as to what people out down as hobbies and interests when making online dating profiles. Obviously it's all about seeming interesting to people who view your profile, but let's be honest with ourselves: we're not all spending every second of our free time working out, snowboarding or volunteering. Wha... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Your hobbies and interests? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mqobm4/your_hobbies_and_interests/ |
2001exmuslim | 2023-07-23 22:10:19 | 1,690,150,219 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 157rxga | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/157rxga/i_f21think_this_guy_m21_im_dating_is_talking_to/ | 1 | Tl;dr: Guy I’ve been dating is possibly seeing my coworker (although idk for sure—they suddenly follow one another on social media) and it’s making me really insecure in us dating. I’m afraid he’ll drop me, and he’s one of the few guys I’ve been compatible with since like 2 years of dating. I know it’s pretty common es... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (F21)think this guy (m21) I’m dating is talking to someone I know. Not sure what to do… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/157rxga/i_f21think_this_guy_m21_im_dating_is_talking_to/ |
ThrowRAmorningdew | 2024-01-03 02:08:38 | 1,704,247,718 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18x7iya | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18x7iya/says_hes_51m_looking_for_love_but_sounds_more/ | 1 | Hey, any advice would be helpful at this point. I met this guy on a dating app two weeks ago and to my surprise he wanted to set up a date right away before the holidays. I agreed and feel like we had a good time. He asked if he would get a kiss before the night ends and I decided to go with it. We were a little touchy... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Says he’s (51M) looking for love, but sounds more like sex to me (37F) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18x7iya/says_hes_51m_looking_for_love_but_sounds_more/ |
StrandedInTheBed | 2022-04-30 10:03:22 | 1,651,313,002 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | uf826e | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uf826e/girl_said_she_cant_open_up_due_to_trauma_in_past/ | 1 | Hi guys, so I (M,25) need some help here with a girl I met through OLD. About her: 25, very mature, high quality women in many aspects, has not dated for the past 2 years, she also has not dated anyone else when I dated her About me: 25, fairly attractive (8-8.5), good physique, high level of education, still sometimes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl said she can't open up due to trauma in past relationship. I think she is worth it and want to keep her warm for when she had enough healing time. How to proceed? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uf826e/girl_said_she_cant_open_up_due_to_trauma_in_past/ |
c9d2c9d2 | 2023-03-20 15:21:39 | 1,679,325,699 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11wllvw | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11wllvw/25_years_old_andnot_a_good_feeling/ | 1 | I am a 25 years old guy, i had been single since the day i born until now, funny right? My friends are all getting coupled, I starting and honestly gonna tell you that, I am very scared of being single until 30 years old + (no offence). And the feelings starting to become stronger and stronger day over day (the feeling... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25 years old and…not a good feeling | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11wllvw/25_years_old_andnot_a_good_feeling/ |
UserNameTaken1998 | 2019-02-18 00:45:32 | 1,550,450,732 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | arr8br | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/arr8br/texting_a_lot_before_first_date/ | 1 | So I (21m) matched with this girl (19, 20?f) on Tinder. Actually I super-liked her after seeing her pictures and bio. So we have been messaging back and forth a bit and she seems REALLY cool! She appears pretty, and she sends really long responses to my novel-lenh messages lol. She seems really idealistic and sweet. So... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting a lot before first date???? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/arr8br/texting_a_lot_before_first_date/ |
VannatyReyne | 2019-12-14 20:19:24 | 1,576,354,764 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | eaoqt3 | true | Giving Advice | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eaoqt3/volunteering/ | 2 | I see people constantly asking where to meet girls outside of OLD, and upset that they aren't getting matches since there are a fraction the number of women compared to men on these apps. I was just volunteering. It was a lot of fun. One thing that was apparent to me after looking at this subreddit for a few weeks, was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Volunteering | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eaoqt3/volunteering/ |
kikokukake | 2024-05-22 13:29:31 | 1,716,384,571 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cy09io | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cy09io/guys_in_your_40s_do_you_ever_match_with_younger/ | 1 | I have my age settings set to 18-99 on most apps just to see what happens. Sometimes I match with university girls but they usually never reply to me or they unmatch after a while. But why do they match with me? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guys in your 40s - do you ever match with younger women | 1 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cy09io/guys_in_your_40s_do_you_ever_match_with_younger/ |
nwstrngme | 2017-09-11 10:11:08 | 1,505,124,668 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6zeh18 | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/6zeh18/how_do_i_weed_out_the_onenight_standers/ | 0 | I'm in my late 30s and I've been online dating for a while. I live in Europe and in my area there is only one popular dating app, Tinder, which means people use it for both hookups and something serious. As you can imagine the screening process is much harder this way. I'm hoping for a relationship so I decided to add ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I weed out the one-night standers? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/6zeh18/how_do_i_weed_out_the_onenight_standers/ |
Extremeageddon | 2018-01-31 04:10:42 | 1,517,371,842 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7u77br | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7u77br/so_shitty_at_dating_i_dont_know_how_to_describe/ | 6 | Preface: This is hard for me, like super hard. I'm the type of person who has always relied solely on themselves and would never ask people for help. Even through I know it is a fault my "self-sufficiency" and ability to carry everything on my shoulders regardless of what it was (school, emotional, physical, you name i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So shitty at dating I don't know how to describe it in the title | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7u77br/so_shitty_at_dating_i_dont_know_how_to_describe/ |
Clbull | 2018-11-09 20:00:10 | 1,541,793,610 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9vnq91 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9vnq91/photofeeler_has_killed_my_confidence_with_taking/ | 1 | In an attempt to get a view on how attractive I am and to improve my online dating profile. I've submitted four of my photos including two current profile photos, a past profile photo (back when I had long hair) and one shot in the third person of me reading a book. The ratings I've gotten have been horrendous (bear in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Photofeeler has killed my confidence with taking photos. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9vnq91/photofeeler_has_killed_my_confidence_with_taking/ |
skylinestar1986 | 2023-06-27 10:13:33 | 1,687,860,813 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14k9m7q | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14k9m7q/is_this_conversation_a_sign_of_failed_online/ | 1 | I'm just gonna give an example. (week 1) Me: aa She: aa (week 2) Me: kk She: kk (week 4) Me: xx She: xx It's always me who start a talk. This happens to all the online dates. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this conversation a sign of failed online dating? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14k9m7q/is_this_conversation_a_sign_of_failed_online/ |
buttercupknows | 2023-07-23 12:17:02 | 1,690,114,622 | 0 | null | 0 | 157ddfv | false | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/157ddfv/can_i_text_him_first/ | 1 | Long story short: are men out off if we text them first?” Had a lovely date with a guy and it turned into seeing eachother for 3 days. We had an instant connection. We are long distance but he’s coming back to my town (for work) in 2 weeks. He already made plans to see me. I get in my head a little about “texting a guy... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can I text him first? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/157ddfv/can_i_text_him_first/ |
OlleyfromIndi | 2022-03-06 21:15:47 | 1,646,601,347 | null | null | 0 | t88mbs | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t88mbs/is_getting_professional_help_with_a_dating/ | 20 | People who have paid to have a dating profile reviewed, tuned up, or ghostwritten, how was your experience? Did it help? Do you recommend it? If so, who would you recommend? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is getting professional help with a dating profile worth it? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t88mbs/is_getting_professional_help_with_a_dating/ |
Charles0nline | 2024-09-14 14:37:52 | 1,726,324,672 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fgnj1w | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fgnj1w/hit_it_off_with_a_girl_but_she_repeatedly/ | 0 | Hello, I (29M) matched with a (29F) on hinge about a month and a half ago. We hit it off right away and she seemed interested in me. We share a lot of the same values and opinions. She opened up a lot about her life, struggles, and her family. I asked her out a few times and she explained how she’s on a temporary weeke... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hit it off with a girl but, she repeatedly reschedules or goes silent | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fgnj1w/hit_it_off_with_a_girl_but_she_repeatedly/ |
EdgyDad | 2019-01-29 00:51:05 | 1,548,723,065 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | akuepv | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/akuepv/going_to_college_need_advice/ | 1 | I'm new at my college. Currently 20, I don't mean to sound vain, but I find I'm reasonably fit, and attractive. But in the social department I'm dead weight. Any ideas how I can meet girls, or new people? I keep thinking of just talking to cute strangers, but I feel like it'd be creepy? Dating apps aren't really my sty... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Going to college, need advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/akuepv/going_to_college_need_advice/ |
throwRA-dontknowwhy | 2022-12-28 14:36:07 | 1,672,238,167 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | zxb3h7 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/zxb3h7/what_do_you_think_when_you_see_somebody_laughing/ | 3 | To clarify, when they're swiping through these dating apps, and they start laughing at people's looks, picking out specific things and mocking them to their friends, but not the person themselves. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What do you think when you see somebody laughing at people's looks on tinder/bumble, etc. | null | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/zxb3h7/what_do_you_think_when_you_see_somebody_laughing/ |
Familiar_Egg8802 | 2023-05-11 01:43:06 | 1,683,769,386 | 0 | null | 0 | 13e9psm | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13e9psm/i_had_a_perfect_match_who_wanted_to_sleep_with_me/ | 10 | ....and then she tells me she has genital herpes. She's one of the few girls who I have met on OLD who seems to appreciate my personality. If I knew I was going to marry her I would overlook it but I have the impression she just wants casual. She also tried to make it seem like it wasn't a big deal...obviously it's a b... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I had a perfect match who wanted to sleep with me.... | 10 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13e9psm/i_had_a_perfect_match_who_wanted_to_sleep_with_me/ |
sluttybotch | 2023-10-21 17:29:00 | 1,697,909,340 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17d7qkj | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17d7qkj/is_it_weird_that_im_only_into_old_guys/ | 1 | I think I have daddy issues because I don’t date guys my own age I’m 19 and I only really date guys who are older than me. I dated 21 year old guys and it was fun cuz they can buy alcohol and we can get drunk together and we pregame and they take me to college sporting events I date a lot of guys who are in their late ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it weird that I’m only into old guys? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17d7qkj/is_it_weird_that_im_only_into_old_guys/ |
staasie_xx | 2023-09-05 14:49:18 | 1,693,925,358 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16aqaat | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16aqaat/no_phone_number_exchange_yet_is_this_weird/ | 1 | I have been talking to a guy for about 2 weeks. Had out first date Saturday which was long (almost 5 hours) and had a second date today. When we first started talking we switched from hinge to Instagram messaging which was fine - I totally get not wanting to exchange numbers at first. The first date he did mention oh y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No phone number exchange yet. Is this weird? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16aqaat/no_phone_number_exchange_yet_is_this_weird/ |
AlenSplico | 2019-08-13 21:04:28 | 1,565,730,268 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'badoo'] | 0 | cpzem7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cpzem7/using_dating_apps_with_premium_features/ | 0 | Do you get more matches when you use payed features on badoo, tinder? Want to know to see is it worth it. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Using dating apps with premium features? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cpzem7/using_dating_apps_with_premium_features/ |
ohnoyoufoundthis | 2024-06-04 03:09:01 | 1,717,470,541 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d7n6w7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d7n6w7/ulpt_how_to_lie_to_peers_other_students_and/ | 1 | If you're going to call me shizo for asking this, please just press reddit's block button. Hi, First, apologies to gay men for doing this. I just really love focusing and being private/lowkey, and as I try to improve myself, I don't want the wrong attention since it's ultimately discouraging. The issue is that if you s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | ULPT How to lie to peers (other students) and coworkers to make them believe I'm gay | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7n6w7/ulpt_how_to_lie_to_peers_other_students_and/ |
gothruthis | 2022-04-21 23:09:34 | 1,650,582,574 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | u90692 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u90692/list_of_places_where_unsolicited_pictures_are/ | 11 | Is there any international womens or legal org that has assembled a list of places where there are legal punishments of any type for sending unsolicited pnis pictures? If not can we start putting together such a list? As a woman trying navigate online dating this would be very helpful! | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | List of places where unsolicited pictures are banned? | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/u90692/list_of_places_where_unsolicited_pictures_are/ |
KrinklesMcGee | 2016-01-06 22:35:31 | 1,452,119,731 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3zs9uv | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3zs9uv/i_could_use_some_online_dating_advice_heres_my/ | 1 | I took the liberty to make a blog after how this Tinder date went. I'm looking for pointers - anything. I have a good idea who I am, and what to do for the most part date-wise. I just seem to flutter and never close. http://gigglesandsuch.com/always-the-big-spoon/ | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I could use some online dating advice, here's my story... | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3zs9uv/i_could_use_some_online_dating_advice_heres_my/ |
No-Honey8821 | 2024-05-02 20:51:35 | 1,714,683,095 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1ciqhvq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ciqhvq/friend_tells_me_to_lie_about_my_age/ | 1 | I am 30, but I look 23. I have a hard time on dating sites, because I look like a catfish. My friend told me " if everyone thinks you are 23 ...just be 23." I feel like I have a duty to tell people my age. But women my age think im too young and women 5 years younger think im too young. Is just be 23 good advice? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Friend tells me to lie about my age. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ciqhvq/friend_tells_me_to_lie_about_my_age/ |
starling132099 | 2023-09-19 21:13:25 | 1,695,158,005 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16n2mkp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16n2mkp/am_i_the_problem/ | 1 | So I've made my way back to the dating apps, and I'm currently talking to this guy ( he's pretty chill). However, he has straight up told me that he was a needy guy that craves affection. He also went into the whole "my love language is physical touch" and "will you cuddle with me" dialog. To me, this does not seem lik... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I the Problem | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16n2mkp/am_i_the_problem/ |
tchad78 | 2022-11-15 15:43:03 | 1,668,526,983 | null | null | 0 | yw0r9p | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yw0r9p/how_do_you_communicate_and_juggle_multiple_people/ | 10 | I've (43M) recently started OLD, And I've been lucky to get several ladies willing to talk with me. They've all kind of come in at once and they all seem very nice. Any advice on how to deal with not hurting anyone but also trying to find the person that is best for me? I don't want to miss out on a potentialForever pa... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | how do you communicate and juggle multiple people? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yw0r9p/how_do_you_communicate_and_juggle_multiple_people/ |
mattpursuit | 2023-08-06 07:02:22 | 1,691,305,342 | 0 | ['swipe', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15jiwc1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15jiwc1/do_some_women_only_see_guys_as_free_money/ | 1 | I'm asking this question because I'm on hinge and all I see are girls who say I want a guy with a lot of money and who is tall and that I want them to worship the ground I walk on how do I compete with these women do i just swipe left and try to find someone else more desirable or should I try to throw a submission in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do some women only see guys as free money? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15jiwc1/do_some_women_only_see_guys_as_free_money/ |
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