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crispydeluxx | 2022-05-19 00:38:07 | 1,652,920,687 | null | ['online dater'] | 0 | usr3pb | true | Support Needed | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/usr3pb/ghosted/ | 1 | To preface, I’m not looking for advice, more just venting my experience I guess. So I met this girl, S, a few weeks ago who was in town with with a mutual friend. Mutual friend introduces us and I show them around my city because S has never been there before. I spend the whole day showing S and my friend around the co... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/usr3pb/ghosted/ |
Indoorplantwetter | 2024-08-11 04:08:41 | 1,723,349,321 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1epbsrx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1epbsrx/i_35m_need_help_with_online_dating_i_have_no_idea/ | 1 | What would you find attractive in a dating profile? I’m terrible at writing them and not sure what to even do with them to be honest. I had been out of the dating game for ten years and after working on myself, decided to get back into it but I feel kind of out of place. I got married early so I don’t have tons of expe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (35M) need help with online dating. I have no idea how to write a profile. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1epbsrx/i_35m_need_help_with_online_dating_i_have_no_idea/ |
PixieDust0617 | 2024-09-24 15:42:01 | 1,727,192,521 | 0 | ['swiping'] | 0 | 1fofl8l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fofl8l/he_27m_keeps_canceling_dates_with_me_27f_that_he/ | 0 | Him and I were going on dates for two months at the beginning of the summer before he back away and told me that with his summer classes starting up and having a full time job he couldn’t give me the relationship I deserved as he barely even had time for himself. About a month and a half later and him constantly swipin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He (27M) keeps canceling dates with me (27F) that he initiated the day of? Need advice/support! | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fofl8l/he_27m_keeps_canceling_dates_with_me_27f_that_he/ |
infinitestomach | 2020-04-08 19:57:37 | 1,586,375,857 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | fxdknf | true | null | 67 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fxdknf/profile_review_request_35musa_back_on_the_scene/ | 55 | 35/M - Took a break for a while – wasn’t getting any matches and OLD kind of ruined my self-esteem. That being said – I’m almost ready to try again once this quarantine is over. I’d like to come across as someone who has traveled the world, loves their job, generally tries to see the good in people, has a big appetite ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Profile Review Request: 35/M/USA - back on the scene after taking a long break. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fxdknf/profile_review_request_35musa_back_on_the_scene/ |
ohiocolumbus23 | 2022-06-15 19:35:02 | 1,655,321,702 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | vd2put | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/vd2put/matched_on_old/ | 20 | Woman came out and said “you’re pretty hot.” It’s a trap, right? UPDATE she’s actually a nice, normal person, far as I can tell. We’ll see where this goes… | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Matched on OLD | null | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/vd2put/matched_on_old/ |
ShockWave324 | 2024-07-30 04:22:20 | 1,722,313,340 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1efkcf6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1efkcf6/unmatched_for_suggesting_another_location_for/ | 0 | So a few days ago I matched with this girl from France on bumble and we talked quite a bit and then I asked her to meet up for a drink today. She agreed and then mentioned getting coffee somewhere and suggested a place and gave a location/address. I said yeah that works, otherwise there's this location too which is the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unmatched for suggesting another location for getting coffee? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1efkcf6/unmatched_for_suggesting_another_location_for/ |
AlecHeroes | 2019-09-14 18:53:55 | 1,568,487,235 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | d49c34 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d49c34/im_22_and_have_no_friends_can_i_get_a_girlfriend/ | 2 | I occasionally play about with dating apps and I see all these girls often younger than me that have done so much with their lives already. Makes me feel pathetic and I guess I am, I've done nothing, havve no friends, never had a gf, live with my parents, etc. If I started going out with a girl it'd be like 'how come y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm 22 and have no friends. Can I get a girlfriend? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d49c34/im_22_and_have_no_friends_can_i_get_a_girlfriend/ |
Aniolel1 | 2022-10-15 14:02:25 | 1,665,842,545 | null | null | 0 | y4orit | true | null | 50 | 1 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y4orit/women_how_important_is_bodymuscle_is_to_you_when/ | 18 | Please elaborate on your on your answer: | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | [Women]: How important is body/muscle is to you when you screen a profile | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y4orit/women_how_important_is_bodymuscle_is_to_you_when/ |
Th3T1nyViking | 2020-02-17 06:33:20 | 1,581,921,200 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | f54lcx | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f54lcx/first_time_using_app_for_dating_m19/ | 1 | So I have only ever dated someone from work and had a girl who I was good friends with lead me on for a while. It has been almost a year since my last relationship and I really have been wanting to get back into one recently but my last 2 was with someone who I already knew. I like in a kind of rural are and I dont rea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First time using app for dating (M19) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f54lcx/first_time_using_app_for_dating_m19/ |
SimoneRose101 | 2024-07-02 10:23:13 | 1,719,915,793 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dtigkp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dtigkp/why_is_my_27f_ex_36m_still_trying_to_emotionally/ | 1 | TLDR: why would a 36 year old man still be trying to emotionally manipulate a 27 year old woman after 3 years of not being together? We dated almost 3 years ago and he honestly ruined it by being insecure. He needed a constant string of women as fall-back options because he didn’t believe I could actually love and be i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is my (27f) ex (36m) still trying to emotionally manipulate me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dtigkp/why_is_my_27f_ex_36m_still_trying_to_emotionally/ |
DTrXdeniz | 2019-12-18 08:16:24 | 1,576,656,984 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ec9trr | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ec9trr/advice_on_girl_who_i_thought_had_feelings_for_me/ | 2 | So I (22M) started talking to this girl(21F) that I matched with online earlier this month and from the bat there was a chemistry. Quickly I found myself having feelings for her. We quickly go on a date, then to a second, then a third one, etc. everything seems to be going perfect. She claimed on multiple times how she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on Girl who I thought had feelings for me all of a sudden Ghosting me. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ec9trr/advice_on_girl_who_i_thought_had_feelings_for_me/ |
pumpkinspice627 | 2020-08-15 23:56:44 | 1,597,535,804 | null | ['hinge', 'match.com'] | 0 | iaiagl | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/iaiagl/considering_paying_for_matchcom/ | 4 | Hinge just is not working for me. I’m not ready to sign up immediately, but want to be prepared for when I am. Any experiences to share with match? Or advice? Do you recommend another option? Figured I would ask this wonderful community first! | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Considering paying for match.com | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/iaiagl/considering_paying_for_matchcom/ |
sadatnoon | 2020-10-19 16:29:56 | 1,603,124,996 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | je4z66 | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/je4z66/i_miss_having_a_boyfriend_and_physical_affection/ | 2 | ive been feeling exhausted lately with school and work… ive been single for over a year. (i know not that long, but still i haven’t gone on any dates or seen anyone since.) and have healed from past relationships, worked on myself, and am so emotionally available and ready to date. i miss having someone to cuddle with ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i miss having a boyfriend and physical affection | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/je4z66/i_miss_having_a_boyfriend_and_physical_affection/ |
posidonking | 2019-12-30 09:47:34 | 1,577,699,254 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'badoo', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | ehk49n | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ehk49n/i_feel_exhausted/ | 1 | I have essentially never been in a relationship (unless you count when I was 11 and saying that I "Like, Like" someone). So I thought I would give online dating a try since I'm incredibly shy around girls and people in general, and so far...nothing. I've tried Tinder, Badoo, Bumble, The new Facebook dating thing, and n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I Feel Exhausted | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ehk49n/i_feel_exhausted/ |
Future_Impression_31 | 2022-03-27 08:12:48 | 1,648,368,768 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | tpfhim | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tpfhim/in_a_dating_rut_feeling_undesirable_what_do_i_do/ | 3 | So I have been actively seeking a relation now but boy has it been an attack on my self confidence. I’ve tried online dating pof and tinder and I NEVER get any responses. It’s more than ”hey how ya doing” I read the profiles and make sure to comment on important things they mentioned no luck. h” . i try to speak to peo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In a dating rut, feeling undesirable. What do I do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tpfhim/in_a_dating_rut_feeling_undesirable_what_do_i_do/ |
Porcelain-dolli | 2023-07-26 06:36:24 | 1,690,353,384 | 0 | null | 0 | 159xt1u | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/159xt1u/difference_between_matches_this_feels_weird/ | 1 | I've (F24) figured that matches in my location (where I live) keep texting me but also take loong time to ask me out for a date or never ask (no idea why). Now, I put a different location (more far away where I spend a lot of time and soon gonna be again) and we shortly text (one to 3 days) and they will ask me out. Wh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Difference between Matches - This feels weird | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/159xt1u/difference_between_matches_this_feels_weird/ |
Possible-Parsley-516 | 2024-04-14 12:57:51 | 1,713,099,471 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1c3t02x | true | null | 86 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1c3t02x/i_need_advice/ | 68 | I’ve been divorced for a bit over six months now and I thought I was ready to date. So I met a woman on Tinder and we met for coffee yesterday. She’s very nice, funny and very enthusiastic about life. Then she asked me about my divorce and I over shared. I went into about my divorce and only seeing my kids on the weeke... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I need advice. | 68 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1c3t02x/i_need_advice/ |
HomeworkHistorical18 | 2022-07-20 04:59:27 | 1,658,293,167 | null | ['swiping'] | 0 | w3dnsx | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w3dnsx/gf_told_me_i_couldnt_understand/ | 2 | So she (22) and I (25) we've been dating for abt 1.5 years now. There's this thing about her and instagram stories (let me finish). So when she posts stories she would actively seek who's viewing her stories. I personally never bothered who views my stories (and i rarely do IG stories) and I just know that whenever i p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | GF Told me I couldn't understand | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w3dnsx/gf_told_me_i_couldnt_understand/ |
Nervous_Support_3161 | 2024-04-02 20:09:05 | 1,712,088,545 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 1bu8q7y | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bu8q7y/i_feel_like_am_losing/ | 1 | I [M25] met this girl [ 20] on POF, we dated for 5 months. Before I met her she was dating another guy and she got pregnant but had a miscarriage. When I met her she told me the doctors said she can’t get pregnant since the miscarriage affected her fertility. She always complain about the fact that she can’t have a bab... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like am losing. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bu8q7y/i_feel_like_am_losing/ |
PronatorTeres00 | 2024-08-28 08:09:14 | 1,724,832,554 | 0 | ['online dating', 'match.com'] | 0 | 1f34qfd | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f34qfd/psa_about_matchcom/ | 2 | Hi Reddit, If you're doing the online dating thing, do NOT do Match.com. I joined and purchased a subscription yesterday evening, logged out, and then saw my account was blocked this morning 🙄 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | PSA about Match.com | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f34qfd/psa_about_matchcom/ |
arrrrrrrrrrmatey10 | 2014-06-11 10:04:59 | 1,402,481,099 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 27v5vi | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/27v5vi/need_some_insightadvice_on_a_girl_im_dating/ | 1 | Hi Let me give you some insight on the current situation. i'm a (M22). I've met this girl (F20) on a dating app but apparently we had common friends so it was fairly easy to break the ice with her. After about 2 weeks i manned up, asked her out. We went on a casual date, had some drinks, talked about intresting topics ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need some insight/advice on a girl I'm dating! | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/27v5vi/need_some_insightadvice_on_a_girl_im_dating/ |
Jtorrez | 2019-04-09 18:57:05 | 1,554,836,225 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bbbsz8 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bbbsz8/cant_seem_to_hold_onto_anyone/ | 1 | So I've had a recent rejection from this girl I had been seeing who I met on tinder and I'm not sure what I did wrong. So what she told me was that I'm a really good guy but her life is just too hectic right now to get anymore serious. I was ok with this cause it could be somewhat believable.... Then 2 weeks from then ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Cant seem to hold onto anyone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bbbsz8/cant_seem_to_hold_onto_anyone/ |
sendingUamicro_wave | 2024-06-26 06:23:07 | 1,719,382,987 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dorsp5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dorsp5/my_looks_dont_seem_to_match_my_personality/ | 1 | Hi all, I appreciate this might sound like a first world problem and even a bit obnoxious. My looks don’t seem to match my personality specially on dating apps and I’m attracting the wrong (for me) type of man. I’ve realised I’m most attracted to men that I have stimulated conversations with. Doesn’t mean intellectuall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My looks don’t seem to match my personality. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dorsp5/my_looks_dont_seem_to_match_my_personality/ |
Medical_File | 2020-06-01 15:19:47 | 1,591,024,787 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | gumh74 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gumh74/am_i_being_strung_along/ | 1 | I (25F) hooked up with this guy (28M) I met in Hinge a couple weeks ago. Leading up to it he was very persistent, texted me frequently and seemed genuinely interested. We hadn’t planned to have sex, but it just kinda ended up there. The week following that, he was pretty distant. I asked if he was no longer interested ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being strung along? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gumh74/am_i_being_strung_along/ |
ragingriver666 | 2021-03-09 20:50:28 | 1,615,323,028 | null | ['matched', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | m1fyin | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m1fyin/i_only_feel_a_connection_with_people_im_sexually/ | 2 | Sooo last year I (29f) got out of a 6-year relationship. Before that I had been in a 4-year relationship. I was single for a year between the two relationships and I didn’t date or sleep with anyone else in that time. Since July last year I’ve been single for the first time in six years and I’ve been enjoying it. I’ve ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I only feel a connection with people I’m sexually attracted to | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m1fyin/i_only_feel_a_connection_with_people_im_sexually/ |
No_Tie_6820 | 2023-08-27 10:31:46 | 1,693,132,306 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 162mvmn | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/162mvmn/need_advice/ | 1 | Meet a girl on a dating site. We started talking for a little bit thru the site. Then she asked me to move to google chat. We exchanged a picture or two. We are ready to meet and now she says I need to pay her boss 150. I thought maybe a pimp. Stupidly I paid. Now her boss is asking for another 220 for insurance. My he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/162mvmn/need_advice/ |
critical_raspberry_0 | 2020-07-08 20:17:44 | 1,594,239,464 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | hnon85 | true | Venting | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hnon85/trying_to_make_sense_of_what_our_relationship_was/ | 1 | So my now ex bf moved to my town at the beginning of the year, escaping a rut he found himself in for the previous 6 months after finding out his ex had been cheating on him. We met on bumble and hit it off with banter and cheeky talk right off the bat. One date turned in to two and onward and texting became everyday. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to make sense of what our relationship was | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hnon85/trying_to_make_sense_of_what_our_relationship_was/ |
myADDthoughts | 2023-08-13 18:18:08 | 1,691,950,688 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15q627c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15q627c/im_in_a_situationship_and_i_think_i_want_out/ | 1 | Ok let’s start with the facts (21f and 22m). I’ve been taking to this guy for about 8 months. We met on the dating apps and actually have a lot in common espically in regard to our families. We see each other at least once a week and keep in touch on days we don’t. We recently had a talk about where we are at and what ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m in a situationship and I think I want out | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15q627c/im_in_a_situationship_and_i_think_i_want_out/ |
GnosticMonk | 2022-11-10 22:32:50 | 1,668,119,570 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | yrtv2b | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yrtv2b/is_it_unpractical_for_me_to_date_right_now_or_am/ | 1 | I am a 25yo straight male and I currently live with my parents and don't make much money as I am starting a business full time. I don't know if it's relevant but I am very inexperienced with dating/relationships and still a virgin. I really want to expand my social circle and make deeper connections, especially with wo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it unpractical for me to date right now, or am I overthinking? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yrtv2b/is_it_unpractical_for_me_to_date_right_now_or_am/ |
selfpotato123 | 2019-12-19 19:39:23 | 1,576,784,363 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ecy75a | true | null | 54 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecy75a/online_dating_apps_and_texting/ | 5 | After I've had a couple interesting and in depth conversations with someone over about a week, I will ask them to text me directly. That way, I dont have to keep opening a dating app to chat. Some people seem hesitant to that idea. Can you help me understand why? I'm honestly coming at it from I dont want to keep openi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Online dating apps and texting | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecy75a/online_dating_apps_and_texting/ |
just_cause_throwaway | 2020-09-21 16:36:43 | 1,600,706,203 | null | null | 0 | ix3x3g | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ix3x3g/questions_about_girls_who_list_snap_and_ig_on/ | 5 | I understand some chicks are building their social/porn media profiles and not really looking to date. But I'm curious if anyone has managed (and what's the success rate) to get a date and start a real relationship by adding them on Snap or IG. So far I only added 3 girls on Snapchat and 3 girls on Instagram to abismal... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Questions about Girls who list Snap and IG on their profiles | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ix3x3g/questions_about_girls_who_list_snap_and_ig_on/ |
Felle885 | 2021-04-01 17:32:25 | 1,617,298,345 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mi0ga6 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mi0ga6/how_often_do_you_text_after_the_first_date/ | 3 | So I went on a date yesterday with this girl from Tinder. I think we have been chatting on snapchat for about 2 weeks before the date but our chats mostly consisted of a bit of flirting, when we should meet and what we are doing and stuff. Yesterday, we went on a picnic date, and I could really feel a connection. We ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How often do you text after the first date without coming off as clingy or uninterested | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mi0ga6/how_often_do_you_text_after_the_first_date/ |
Rocketeer-Raccoon | 2017-01-01 01:24:06 | 1,483,233,846 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 5lcu0c | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5lcu0c/which_dating_websites_actually_work_and_how_do/ | 2 | I've used dating website before and I can never seem to get anywhere with them. I reckon I'm doing something wrong, whether I had been using the wrong website or the more likely one being the profile itself. So which websites actually work? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Which Dating Websites actually work and how do you make a presentable profile to guarantee matches? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5lcu0c/which_dating_websites_actually_work_and_how_do/ |
[deleted] | 2014-09-15 15:14:11 | 1,410,794,051 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2ggqxu | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ggqxu/need_help_deciding_between_two_possible_dates/ | 1 | Option 1: Is a girl I've been on three dates with. We have good chemistry but I have some concerns about her as a serious match. I tried to break up with her after the third date but we talked on the phone and I agreed to keep seeing her. We were planning for her to come over Saturday and cook/sleep over and she still ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help deciding between two possible dates this Saturday | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ggqxu/need_help_deciding_between_two_possible_dates/ |
chemmistress | 2018-11-20 11:43:53 | 1,542,714,233 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9yrfyn | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9yrfyn/predicament/ | 1 | As chance/sheer dumb luck would have it I have unwittingly found myself with two men wanting to take me to the same ticketed event. I am dating neither, though if we have to define what it is possibly "talking," as the kids say, may be closer to it? Met one at a party (quite unintentionally) hosted within a social medi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Predicament? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9yrfyn/predicament/ |
VInTheFog | 2020-01-22 02:09:41 | 1,579,658,981 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | es56kb | true | Seeking Advice | 91 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/es56kb/whats_a_girl_to_do/ | 43 | What’s a girl to do? In my 40s, living in northern CA, divorced (some time now) and wondering what it takes these days to find Mr. Right. I am intelligent, have my life together, in reasonable shape and somewhat attractive. I have met people and dated along the way but nothing lasting. The guys on dating sites don’t se... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What’s a girl to do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/es56kb/whats_a_girl_to_do/ |
Special_Conclusion30 | 2023-06-01 02:28:33 | 1,685,586,513 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 13x5sr4 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13x5sr4/i_26m_got_attached_too_fast_to_my_bumble_date_27f/ | 2 | I met this girl on Bumble and we went to a date. It was the best date of my life. We went to this coffee shop located on a pretty nice area and sat down for hours. After that, we walked around and talked about a lot of things. On the second date, we kissed multiple times and hold hands, etc. We’ve now planned a third d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (26M) got attached too fast to my Bumble date (27F) | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13x5sr4/i_26m_got_attached_too_fast_to_my_bumble_date_27f/ |
scotfyscate | 2020-04-18 06:14:15 | 1,587,190,455 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | g3isdw | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g3isdw/how_matches_you_get_on_dating_apps/ | 0 | How many matches you get on dating app YS.Lt or tinder? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How matches you get on dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g3isdw/how_matches_you_get_on_dating_apps/ |
AlJumjuma83 | 2019-02-06 02:13:41 | 1,549,419,221 | null | ['dating site', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | anlrcf | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/anlrcf/an_odd_day_a_great_conversation/ | 16 | I've (35m) been single for almost a year and a half, and haven't really been actively looking for dates. I'm active on Tinder and POF, but haven't really been looking for anything other than decent conversation. And I've struggled to find that. Last week I went out to dinner with my sister and kept trying to get me to ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | An odd day, a great conversation. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/anlrcf/an_odd_day_a_great_conversation/ |
freda1997 | 2021-04-29 02:18:38 | 1,619,662,718 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | n0uord | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n0uord/how_should_i_deal_with_this_matter/ | 1 | I met a boy on an online dating site. We were very happy during the chat. His words and opinions were always consistent with mine. The longer I chatted, I began to feel dependent on him. If I didn’t chat for a day, I felt very uneasy and felt like a "broken relationship". On the other hand, I kept telling myself that t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How should I deal with this matter? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n0uord/how_should_i_deal_with_this_matter/ |
throwitaway0403 | 2018-12-29 19:06:04 | 1,546,110,364 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | aanx5f | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aanx5f/im_terrified_of_initiating_anything/ | 0 | I (18f) have never had a boyfriend yet. I feel really down about it sometimes. I posted to some subs on here and got mostly 7-8 so I am not a model but I’m not horrifically ugly either. I am about a size 5, short, but kind of curvy (busty, and I kind of have a big butt). The thing is, I’m just kind of awkward socially ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m terrified of initiating anything | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aanx5f/im_terrified_of_initiating_anything/ |
krigstian96 | 2024-07-23 02:36:50 | 1,721,702,210 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1e9wunk | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e9wunk/i_need_help_about_a_tinder_conversation/ | 1 | Hi all I had this conversation with a f26 on tinder that went like this Me: so, you take me seriously enough to meet for a beer? Her: Hehe, I guess I will, as long as I can drink something other than beer Me: Hehe, we can easily fix that Me what do you like to drink? Her: Great! I actually prefer non-alcoholic drinks, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need help about a tinder conversation | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e9wunk/i_need_help_about_a_tinder_conversation/ |
Fumitan | 2024-08-22 19:11:40 | 1,724,353,900 | 0 | null | 0 | 1eyrtoo | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1eyrtoo/should_i_ask_straight_up_if_hes_interested/ | 1 | I (F18) have been talking to a guy (M20) for the past week and he’s giving really mixed signals. He was the one who texted me first, but he’s also been kinda slow to text back, sometimes taking up to 20h to respond. But when we actually have a proper conversation we talk for hours and he seems to be putting in effort. ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I ask straight up if he’s interested? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1eyrtoo/should_i_ask_straight_up_if_hes_interested/ |
shiokaraii | 2021-11-22 09:11:05 | 1,637,572,265 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | qzhes6 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/qzhes6/how_can_i_tell_my_parents_im_going_to_a_guys/ | 2 | i'm 22. i started talking to this guy i met on a dating app but we're not dating yet. i've never dated before so just seeing a guy is a whole new thing to me and my parents. they're already pretty weird about the whole thing i know they want to ask questions about us but they won't. my parents are pretty protective i g... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | how can i tell my parents i'm going to a guys place without them thinking i'm going to get pregnant | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/qzhes6/how_can_i_tell_my_parents_im_going_to_a_guys/ |
TopYasNA | 2024-08-12 00:47:41 | 1,723,423,661 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1eq0ew9 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eq0ew9/when_should_i_ask_more_serious_relationship/ | 1 | For some background I just went on a first date with this girl I met on Bumble. She is very cute and we had an amazing first date, we laughed alot, cuddled, and kissed a couple times. She said she wants to go on another date, we chose a time already. My question is when is it a good time to start asking her more seriou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When should I ask more serious relationship questions? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eq0ew9/when_should_i_ask_more_serious_relationship/ |
NewsworthyHeadset | 2017-12-27 05:22:01 | 1,514,352,121 | null | ['swipe', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 7md2db | false | null | 26 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7md2db/tinder_best_approach_for_someone_female_looking/ | 9 | Hey all, Late-20s female here, looking to date and eventually develop something long-term. I got out of an LTR earlier this year and am fairly new to swipe apps, but it seems that meeting guys in person is a little more difficult now than it used to be. I downloaded Bumble at the beginning of December and have had a bi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder - Best approach for someone (female) looking to date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7md2db/tinder_best_approach_for_someone_female_looking/ |
harrythehamsterl | 2024-03-25 19:09:19 | 1,711,393,759 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bnlzsa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bnlzsa/boyfriend_broke_up_with_me_ot_of_nowhere_reason/ | 2 | Hello there, I'm having a situation with a guy I actually met on Tinder. I know, stupid to get so attached to someone from such an app but oh well, I couldn't help it. Life happens. When we first started talking, he was the more active one. He kept complimenting me and texting me, saying that he actually wants to meet ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Boyfriend broke up with me ot of nowhere. Reason was I reminded him of his ex way too much. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bnlzsa/boyfriend_broke_up_with_me_ot_of_nowhere_reason/ |
Retro_Me | 2019-09-16 05:37:45 | 1,568,612,265 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | d4wdq1 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d4wdq1/dating_apps_18m/ | 5 | So I've always been a little weird about dating apps, I kind of feel uncomfortable about them. I've read stories about people hooking up and never speaking again, and I mean that's sort of normal when it comes to using these apps. Lately I've been contemplating on using a dating app to meet some people and see how it g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Apps? (18m) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d4wdq1/dating_apps_18m/ |
feelinglost1407 | 2021-10-09 12:31:42 | 1,633,782,702 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | q4kej5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q4kej5/not_sure_what_he_wants/ | 1 | So I came to know this guy from a dating app. Been talking for months since the beginning of the year but have not met due to lockdown etc. We chat on and off and finally meet about a month ago. And have been meeting once a week since then. The thing is when I'm with him I felt so good. He kissed me, gets touchy, hugs ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what he wants | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q4kej5/not_sure_what_he_wants/ |
go_pet_a_dog | 2024-02-02 16:43:24 | 1,706,892,204 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1ah81o5 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ah81o5/making_manic_plans_only_to_wake_up_unmotivated/ | 2 | TLDR: Does anyone else get manic and hopeful, make plans, only to wake up the next day wanting to live alone on an island and foster animals? Was on the apps for a couple months, took a couple months off, went back yesterday and enthusiastically matched with a ton of people and even scheduled a date for this weekend. P... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Making manic plans only to wake up unmotivated again | 2 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ah81o5/making_manic_plans_only_to_wake_up_unmotivated/ |
UTLonghorns3 | 2024-05-28 19:29:15 | 1,716,924,555 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1d2s2wz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d2s2wz/things_keep_ending_similarly/ | 1 | Looking for some advice as I'm in a situation where I feel like I'm doing something wrong but am kind of clueless as to what it is. Currently 28M, have been dating on and off over the last 6-8 months. Feel like I have a decent amount of things going for me. Have my own place and a good job. Don't typically have any iss... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Things keep ending similarly | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d2s2wz/things_keep_ending_similarly/ |
DrStinson | 2014-10-02 06:15:53 | 1,412,230,553 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2i2hl0 | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2i2hl0/no_matches_on_tinder_try_this/ | 0 | Be honest with yourself, is it realistic to only right-swipe models? Have friends help you objectively rate your profile. This is the main reason why men get no matches on Tinder. Give yourself a score out of 10 for looks and one out of 10 for the value you manage to display on your pictures (perceived wealth, style, s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | No matches on Tinder? Try this | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2i2hl0/no_matches_on_tinder_try_this/ |
Sir_Blinklot | 2020-03-08 22:06:00 | 1,583,705,160 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ffk2ab | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ffk2ab/are_there_other_ways_can_we_change_it/ | 3 | I've been feeling like I have been a seasonal object that gets some traction for a quarter, and after that, I'm just chillin on the shelf. For a few months, I was going on multiple 1st dates, and after a while, I started to feel the grind from OLD. There would be the text messaging and first date, but it doesn't contin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Are There Other Ways? Can We Change It? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ffk2ab/are_there_other_ways_can_we_change_it/ |
MFRobots | 2020-05-18 10:54:17 | 1,589,799,257 | null | null | 0 | glzah4 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/glzah4/why_women_dont_include_their_men_or_husbands_on/ | 1 | Ever wonder why women will include only their children and their friends, but none of their boyfriends or even husband on Facebook? Are they deliberately trying to keep their relationship status a secret? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why women don't include their men or husbands on Facebook? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/glzah4/why_women_dont_include_their_men_or_husbands_on/ |
Reborub | 2019-10-28 18:24:17 | 1,572,287,057 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | docv0m | true | Question | 95 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/docv0m/is_it_shallow_to_be_put_off_by_men_who_cant_drive/ | 49 | I’ve been in a couple of relationships where I was the only one who drove and I remember it got extremely frustrating. Couldn’t share road trips, always having to be the sober one, they couldn’t pick me up if I was stuck somewhere, no chance of them being able to do the weekly shop without me. And I remember it also ma... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is it shallow to be put off by men who can’t drive? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/docv0m/is_it_shallow_to_be_put_off_by_men_who_cant_drive/ |
twomisery | 2019-11-04 11:17:24 | 1,572,866,244 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | drg87s | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/drg87s/bbwplus_size_dating/ | 2 | Are there any plus size/bbw dating sites that are not just for fetishes. I have found what I have looked at to be just for play. I'm looking for something more. Any advice would be stellar. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Bbw/plus size dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/drg87s/bbwplus_size_dating/ |
Inside-Cantaloupe501 | 2023-05-08 13:08:32 | 1,683,551,312 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13boma0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 42 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13boma0/feeling_hopeless/ | 20 | I 31(m) have been trying to date for the last 10 months, since my wife (the only woman I’ve slept slept / been with) cheated on me and left me. I’ve been on all of the dating apps, and I go out with friends every weekend. Im yet to even have casual sex, or find a relationship. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.. I’ve g... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling hopeless | 20 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13boma0/feeling_hopeless/ |
ThaPlymouth | 2024-02-14 00:28:37 | 1,707,870,517 | 0 | null | 0 | 1aq9duu | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1aq9duu/problem_determining_compatibility_with_woman_from/ | 3 | So an acquaintance of mine introduced me to his Filipina sister-inlaw (I’m American). We’ve been officially “dating” for a little over a month now, and we’ve been chatting daily since November. Before her, I haven’t really dated in years simply because—well frankly, I just haven’t felt like dealing with other people ha... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Problem determining compatibility with woman from another country? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1aq9duu/problem_determining_compatibility_with_woman_from/ |
softbluelighting | 2020-05-03 23:19:45 | 1,588,547,985 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gd0fkh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gd0fkh/do_guys_like_being_messaged_first_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I’m a 26 F and I always hesitate to message first on dating apps because to me if the guy isn’t messaging me first then I always think he isn’t interested enough to reach out. I know guys are probably saying the same thing about girls. But I’ve just always thought “if he really is interested he’ll make a move or put in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do guys like being messaged first on dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gd0fkh/do_guys_like_being_messaged_first_on_dating_apps/ |
Effective_Treacle_81 | 2023-12-18 12:21:14 | 1,702,902,074 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18l7e7j | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18l7e7j/any_advice_here/ | 2 | So I have been seeing this girl for almost a year, and we have been really good but I’m in abit of a fix here. The relationship is good we met off of a dating app but it lags in one part, the sex part. I just don’t know why but she doesn’t like head and it’s quite frustrating cause I love it. At some point she doesn’t ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice here | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18l7e7j/any_advice_here/ |
SOG_CHAOS | 2015-09-14 04:10:52 | 1,442,203,852 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 3kvaal | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3kvaal/trying_to_get_started_18m_just_a_bit_of_a_rant/ | 2 | I was married at age 16, went on my technical first date with her on our 6 month wedding anniversary. In other words I hit the relationship head on, and went with it. Due to my overly protective parents I was never able to go out on Friday nights, or anything along those lines. life consisted of school, football, and s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to get started 18M (just a bit of a rant from time to time) | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3kvaal/trying_to_get_started_18m_just_a_bit_of_a_rant/ |
Lil-Uzi-biVert | 2020-11-22 12:00:09 | 1,606,046,409 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jyukbu | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jyukbu/i_just_turned_20_and_ive_still_never_had_a/ | 1 | 20M here, I just started my third decade of life, and I’ve never had so much as a second date. I know I’m not the best looking guy in the world, or even of my friends, but I still have enough going for me that I’ve been able to get girls’ numbers and have been on a handful of dates. I started off when I was in highscho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just turned 20 and I’ve still never had a girlfriend | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jyukbu/i_just_turned_20_and_ive_still_never_had_a/ |
Mainaccnt22 | 2022-11-01 00:58:58 | 1,667,264,338 | null | ['swiped', 'hinge'] | 0 | yiudgn | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yiudgn/i_just_downloaded_hinge_and_swiped_through_about/ | 0 | I just made my account yesterday and I like to think I am a 7. Has the Hinge algorithm already rated me this low when I just made my account? I don't even see people this unattractive in real life. No idea what is going on. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just downloaded Hinge and swiped through about 200 of the least attractive people I have ever seen? I don't claim to be a model but most of these people were 3s at best | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yiudgn/i_just_downloaded_hinge_and_swiped_through_about/ |
Commercial-Land4702 | 2024-03-06 04:25:54 | 1,709,699,154 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b7qm5p | true | Question ❓ | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b7qm5p/sassy_men_apocalypse/ | 1 | Had a date with a guy last Saturday, let’s just say it’s the first and last date with him. Not even 30 mins into a date, he mentioned: - He can get any girl he wants - He’s busy and currently prioritizing his career - He also calls his girl friends baby (I told him I had a problem with him calling me pet names since we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Sassy men apocalypse | 1 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b7qm5p/sassy_men_apocalypse/ |
CorellianBadaboom | 2017-11-07 20:51:33 | 1,510,087,893 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7bg556 | false | null | 35 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7bg556/lying_about_age_in_profile/ | 9 | I’m F35. My career is very important to me, but I work in an ageist industry. I started out later than my peers. While many of them are currently upper level executives, if not outright running their own companies, I’m only a junior executive struggling to maintain my footing. I’m certain I’ve been passed over for cert... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Lying about age in profile | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7bg556/lying_about_age_in_profile/ |
Successful_Knee_1207 | 2022-03-14 10:53:20 | 1,647,255,200 | null | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | tdursf | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/tdursf/37m_bumble_profile_help/ | 10 | Hey, any advice is welcome on my profile. I think I’m just okay looking, pretty good shape. Run and play tennis, good cook, play an instrument, good job, pilot license, dog owner. Not really getting many matches or dates that go anywhere. I am generally very quiet and a bit shy which may not help. Thanks all! https://i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 37m bumble profile help | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/tdursf/37m_bumble_profile_help/ |
MFP3492 | 2023-03-09 22:56:44 | 1,678,402,604 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 11n6rmj | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11n6rmj/what_is_with_this_strange_phenomenon_of_receiving/ | 1 | So, this just happened to me today, but it has happened before a few times and I'm just very curious what the mindset is of a person doing it. Today for instance, I matched with someone on Tinder, we messaged back and forth only like 4x, she said hi first, then I asked her how to pronounce her name, she mentioned that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What is with this strange phenomenon of receiving message notifications but getting unmatched before you can read them? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11n6rmj/what_is_with_this_strange_phenomenon_of_receiving/ |
No-Kangaroo-682 | 2024-02-15 01:48:40 | 1,707,961,720 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ar456u | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ar456u/feeling_guilty_about_dating_2_different_girls/ | 1 | Some important context: - I’m 22 - I’ve got absolutely 0 relationship experience - Only ever slept with one girl and it was a drunk hookup. - I used to be extremely introverted and antisocial until about a year ago (lol I also think my physical appearance improved recently too, started going to the gym and paying more ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling guilty about dating 2 different girls | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ar456u/feeling_guilty_about_dating_2_different_girls/ |
96suluman | 2023-05-29 20:25:18 | 1,685,391,918 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 13v5ile | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13v5ile/what_would_the_best_intros_on_hinge_be/ | 1 | On hinge they allow you to do intros when you are liking someone. In addition after they like you back you can also do an intro. How would you do a good intro to get their attention and response? And if you are wondering I am on the autism spectrum | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What would the best intros on hinge be? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13v5ile/what_would_the_best_intros_on_hinge_be/ |
phuzzy1deep | 2016-04-13 15:18:20 | 1,460,560,700 | 0 | ['plenty of fish', 'pof'] | 0 | 4em135 | null | null | 22 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/4em135/plenty_of_fish_is_full_of_women_with_kids/ | 2 | I'm pushing 35 and I have no kids. I'm looking for a woman with no kids. I'm using POF app and I've had one date (disaster). I fear I may never find a woman with no kids ready to have a family at my age. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Plenty Of Fish is full of women with kids! | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4em135/plenty_of_fish_is_full_of_women_with_kids/ |
softIover | 2024-08-27 16:06:00 | 1,724,774,760 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f2ku3s | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f2ku3s/tired_of_dating_apps_but_this_fear_of_never/ | 1 | F21 i get a lot of matches on dating apps but it just never feels authentic to me, and i fear I've also developed a dislike towards them since my last serious rel was with someone from a dating app. As someone who's grown up reading a ton of romance books I just want to meet someone irl. Heck it doesn't even have to be... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tired of dating apps but this fear of never finding anyone irl ruins me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f2ku3s/tired_of_dating_apps_but_this_fear_of_never/ |
Cymbal_Monkey | 2016-08-08 22:49:36 | 1,470,696,576 | 0 | ['tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 4wsztx | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating/comments/4wsztx/23m_and_worried_ive_missed_the_boat_on_starting/ | 10 | I'm 23, male, I've never really dated before. Not even the casual 15-16 year old series of mistakes it seems everyone makes. I'm worried I'm getting to the point where no woman can be reasonably expected to tolerate that I don't really understand what a date should look like, and that I'll be making all the same stupid... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 23m and worried I've missed the boat on "starting dating" | 10 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4wsztx/23m_and_worried_ive_missed_the_boat_on_starting/ |
CoatNo5939 | 2024-05-03 05:36:33 | 1,714,714,593 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1cj139l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cj139l/does_he_29m_actually_like_me24f_or_just_wants_a/ | 1 | Last year, I (24 F) was talking to a guy (29M) I met off Bumble for a few weeks. Due to scheduling issues, it took a long time for us to find a day to hangout but over the time we had great conversations daily (both call/text) and vibes were immaculate. I have never had a boyfriend before and he was the first guy I cou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does he (29M) actually like me(24F) or just wants a backup etc? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cj139l/does_he_29m_actually_like_me24f_or_just_wants_a/ |
ShawshankSeashells | 2018-12-02 15:17:42 | 1,543,763,862 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | a2dzqn | true | I Need Advice | 22 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a2dzqn/im_about_to_ghost_after_the_first_date/ | 3 | So I met a girl from a dating app whom I've chatted for close to two weeks before the meeting. She looked nothing like her pictures. Is way more chubbier than described. She also speaks and sound way different compared to when she left me voice messages where she sounded eloquent. The only thing similar was she's as di... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm about to ghost after the first date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a2dzqn/im_about_to_ghost_after_the_first_date/ |
rafjaj | 2017-10-05 00:51:35 | 1,507,164,695 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 74ckj3 | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/74ckj3/dating_calendartools/ | 1 | So for various reasons I've decided to take a break from seeking monogamous relationships for a while and am starting on a Tinder Bender (Is that a term? If not I declare it so, and coin it). Not doing just random hookups since that just kind of ends up with mediocre sex where you don't know what each other likes. That... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating calendar/tools | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/74ckj3/dating_calendartools/ |
Impressive_Choice734 | 2023-12-31 21:29:27 | 1,704,058,167 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18vhlnj | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18vhlnj/where_do_i_find_girls_who_want_a_serious/ | 1 | So I'm a 24M who has been single for the last 5 years (working on myself and mental health after a messy breakup) and I'm finally ready to try for another relationship. I've tried dating apps and going out to bars but they both tend to only have girls that don't want a serious commitment. They either want hookups or ju... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do I find girls who want a serious relationship? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18vhlnj/where_do_i_find_girls_who_want_a_serious/ |
weinermobilez | 2024-04-27 04:25:32 | 1,714,191,932 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched'] | 0 | 1ce5qfe | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ce5qfe/profile_advice/ | 1 | Not that I am an expert (clearly), but sometimes I feel the urge to give advice to guys on their dating profiles. Sometimes I won’t be interested in a guy but I feel like I could help them fix up their profile to help them get more matches. Guys, would you be offended if a girl matched with you just to tell you some ti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile advice?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ce5qfe/profile_advice/ |
welcometochicago26 | 2016-10-28 05:01:32 | 1,477,630,892 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 59srel | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/59srel/i_feel_like_i_just_cant_catch_a_break_20_m/ | 3 | I've been technically single for quite a few years now, and since I generally lack the confidence needed to just approach a girl at my school, I have been using tinder to try and meet people. Anyway, I finally matched with a girl that I was interested in who seemed to be interested in me as well. We hit it off great th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like I just can't catch a break (20 M) | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/59srel/i_feel_like_i_just_cant_catch_a_break_20_m/ |
Appius246 | 2017-12-28 17:55:38 | 1,514,483,738 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7mo5c2 | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7mo5c2/online_dating/ | 1 | I am a 26 year old male and I was just wondering if anyone had trips for dating. I have been single for 4 years so I am finding it difficult to get back into dating. I also don't drive so I can not travel to dates easily, kind of feel like a bump if the woman drives all the time. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7mo5c2/online_dating/ |
Hopeful-minihorse | 2023-04-12 13:11:34 | 1,681,305,094 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 12jltt0 | true | Question ❓ | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12jltt0/ive_never_been_in_a_long_term_serious_relationship/ | 2 | How do men generally feel if they find out that a woman has never been in a long term/serious relationship before? I'm 29F, turning 30 in a couple of weeks, and the longest "relationship " I've ever been in was 3 months. Dated 2 men (separate times), each lasting only about 3 months. There was a third man I dated. We w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I've never been in a long term, serious relationship | 2 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12jltt0/ive_never_been_in_a_long_term_serious_relationship/ |
robow556 | 2022-09-12 16:57:31 | 1,663,001,851 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xci15u | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xci15u/when_to_stop_texting/ | 2 | I have this habit that if I’m texting someone I won’t text twice in a row. If I send a message or respond to a message I won’t message them again until they do. I don’t want to be a bother to people, but I’m starting to think I’m screwing my self on dating apps. Is it ok to try and restart a conversation after a day or... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When to stop texting | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xci15u/when_to_stop_texting/ |
penumbra93 | 2021-10-17 14:41:06 | 1,634,481,666 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | qa00q8 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qa00q8/guys_are_so_ambiguous/ | 3 | I matched with this quite attractive guy on Tinder this week, he literally responds to me messages within minutes or seconds. We hit it off pretty well. We talked about our life, our interests and the travel experiences. And we exchanged numbers in the end when it’s past midnight and time to sleep. The next day, I init... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guys are so ambiguous | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qa00q8/guys_are_so_ambiguous/ |
Minute_Pianist9644 | 2020-08-30 12:16:19 | 1,598,789,779 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ijbrwm | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ijbrwm/would_like_some_advice_about_how_to_properly_put/ | 1 | Me (20) and my ex girlfriend(21) met about a year ago on tinder, during our first few months we had a great time together and enjoyed each other's company quite well despite growing up in 2 different cultures. However, as time passed by we both started to realized more and more about each other and our differences star... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would like some advice about how to properly put someone’s needs above your own. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ijbrwm/would_like_some_advice_about_how_to_properly_put/ |
SilentSamurai | 2022-03-30 03:45:02 | 1,648,611,902 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | trxj02 | true | Success! | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/trxj02/it_happened/ | 9 | I thought I knew what love was, and then I met her. A month later and things are wonderful. I can see this being it, so I wanted to post and celebrate 😁 For those of you still looking, frustrated, and thinking of giving up hope: Keep your heads up. It took me 3 years of dating to get here. Plenty of ghosting, bad date... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It happened 🥳 | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/trxj02/it_happened/ |
[deleted] | 2012-07-08 08:38:21 | 1,341,736,701 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | null | w7s5q | null | null | 0 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/w7s5q/dating_sites_are_only_for_dating_people_am_i_the/ | 1 | I'm just bored, not being able to sleep and I see on r/atheism a thread about a atheist dating website. Like with most eerily specific dating sites, I HAVE to check out who in my town is signed up on them. In the middle of clicking through different browsing options my BF speaks to me on skype. Being the honest and sha... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | "Dating sites are only for dating people!" Am i the only one who makes temp accounts out of curiosity about who's in my area? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/w7s5q/dating_sites_are_only_for_dating_people_am_i_the/ |
simdogmillionair | 2018-10-08 07:13:20 | 1,538,982,800 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9mcq43 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9mcq43/did_you_ever_stay_friends/ | 1 | so i wanted to ask all of you a question or maybe 2 as im currently going through this. so a girl that i have been seeing decided that we currently live different lives. i study during the week and work weekends and she works during the week full time and is free weekends. apparently this was a big factor in our breaku... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | did you ever stay friends? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9mcq43/did_you_ever_stay_friends/ |
skylinesay_bahhh | 2021-01-24 21:38:09 | 1,611,524,289 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | l48aeh | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/l48aeh/when_to_have_the_talk_about_intentions/ | 1 | Hey reddit, so I (21F) have been dating around the past four months, meeting guys from tinder (more or less within covid rules), and I’ve been wondering about people’s thoughts on WHEN you owe it to someone to talk and be transparent about your intentions. There’s this guy I met a month and a half ago, we got along rea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When to have the talk about intentions, exclusivity, etc? Is it wrong of me to be going on a date (maybe more) with someone else and to not mention it to him? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l48aeh/when_to_have_the_talk_about_intentions/ |
blueandblackandblue | 2020-04-23 18:00:05 | 1,587,664,805 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | g6rgpg | true | Other | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g6rgpg/my_matches_seem_like_nice_people_but_i_dont_feel/ | 1 | Over the last several months since moving, I've been using online dating more seriously, and slowly but surely have more success with it. I feel confident enough saying I have the ability to get the occasional quality matches (I still fall prey to the occasional lull...), but after we end up chatting, I realize that mo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My matches seem like nice people, but I don't feel much more than that ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g6rgpg/my_matches_seem_like_nice_people_but_i_dont_feel/ |
zebra0817 | 2022-08-29 03:54:32 | 1,661,745,272 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | x0eu70 | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/x0eu70/only_fans_on_profile/ | 8 | I matched with a much younger guy on OLD only to discover he’s promoting his Only Fans content. Says it right on his profile. I was blown away. Needless to say I unmatched with him. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Only Fans on Profile | null | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/x0eu70/only_fans_on_profile/ |
cityncountry | 2013-08-30 03:09:38 | 1,377,832,178 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ldkz1 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ldkz1/what_onlineapp_dating_sites_are_best_for_people/ | 0 | I'm 37, divorced and a mom. I have a pretty good dating record, lately having a lot of fun. I'm a few months out of a relationship (someone I met on OKC who happened to be leaving the country.) I'm looking for something a little more serious now, or at least with long term potential, though still laid back about it. It... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What online/app dating sites are best for people in their 30's in NYC. | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ldkz1/what_onlineapp_dating_sites_are_best_for_people/ |
AngelDelight510 | 2020-11-11 02:02:17 | 1,605,060,137 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | jrz029 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jrz029/right_age_range_for_me/ | 6 | The right age range for me? Hi, first time poster here. I’m 33F and am embarking on a MD/PhD program. I switched my major a few times in college and decided on a degree on biochem. I haven’t had much success with dating apps, I use tinder, bumble, and okCupid. I wonder if it’s been part due to me not having the right a... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Right age range for me? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jrz029/right_age_range_for_me/ |
Tszemix | 2023-02-13 19:41:55 | 1,676,317,315 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 111hyg9 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 34 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/111hyg9/tinder_is_like_the_meteor_that_killed_the/ | 67 | Except the dinosaurs in this case is the dating life of bald men | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder is like the meteor that killed the dinosaurs | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/111hyg9/tinder_is_like_the_meteor_that_killed_the/ |
mynameisbetter_ | 2021-09-05 20:31:38 | 1,630,873,898 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | pikq8v | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pikq8v/what_advice_would_you_give_to_someone_who_is/ | 1 | Just getting back into the dating scene and WOW, a lot has changed since the last time I was single, mainly the introduction of apps. What advice would you give to someone who is a little rusty and has NO experience of using online dating apps. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What advice would you give to someone who is dating for the first time in a decade. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pikq8v/what_advice_would_you_give_to_someone_who_is/ |
treppverter | 2024-03-20 02:52:47 | 1,710,903,167 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bj3btq | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bj3btq/just_received_a_short_message_from_a_guy_on/ | 1 | I've been messaging this guy on Tinder since Sunday (he messaged first). He's been replying very fast and being engaging, asking me questions and giving thoughtful responses to mine. We've mostly just been talking about movies; the Oscars and what we've recently seen. Tonight I asked him if he had a favorite movie. He ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just received a short message from a guy on Tinder. Should I move on or come up with a new convo topic? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bj3btq/just_received_a_short_message_from_a_guy_on/ |
Prestigious_Hat1794 | 2024-09-08 13:16:55 | 1,725,801,415 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fbxk4l | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbxk4l/when_and_how_is_it_appropriate_to_ask_about/ | 8 | I'm 27M in case it matters. I'm looking for and have always been interested only in LTR, I've had 2 so far (16-19, 21-26) and that's it, no hookups etc. It's important for me that my partner has always been a LTR-minded woman too, but I think asking this directly or writing it in my profile bio will land the wrong way.... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When and how is it appropriate to ask about someone's past dating experience? | 8 | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fbxk4l/when_and_how_is_it_appropriate_to_ask_about/ |
rwilkz | 2019-06-26 14:02:46 | 1,561,557,766 | null | ['OLD', 'dating site'] | 0 | c5q714 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c5q714/old_pet_peeves_pics_edition/ | 9 | Hey All, So I've spied a few OLD pet peeve posts lately, but most of them focused on the text portion of the profile without mentioning much about pics I had a good laugh at the other post, and learnt a little along the way, so thought I'd make this one so we can swap common bug bears and tips regarding pics Here are m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD Pet Peeves - Pics Edition! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c5q714/old_pet_peeves_pics_edition/ |
TrippyMcGuire556 | 2024-07-09 08:28:51 | 1,720,513,731 | 0 | null | 0 | 1dyx9v3 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1dyx9v3/banned_from_hinge_update/ | 7 | Well, I heard back from hinge support. Apparently they support the AI detection software that my picture of my cat climbing out of a box was offensive and illegal content for animal cruelty. So yeah. Don't post animal pics unless you include a full body pic. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Banned from hinge update | 7 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1dyx9v3/banned_from_hinge_update/ |
lamealtaccountname | 2022-03-19 16:38:11 | 1,647,707,891 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | thz33h | true | Question | 71 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/thz33h/tips_on_dating_profiles/ | 6 | I know it's all so individual, but I also suspect it's different in our 40s than it was in our 20s. I've seen plenty of posts about giving up on OLD, but I'll have plenty of time to quit when I'm dead so I may as well try a bit longer. I doubt pix of college parties is the way to go at my age so I need tips, I'm rusty.... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Tips on dating profiles | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/thz33h/tips_on_dating_profiles/ |
JustBrowsingAgain- | 2023-08-20 20:44:10 | 1,692,564,250 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15wme9c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15wme9c/i_feel_completely_alone_how_do_i_get_rid_of_these/ | 1 | I don’t really know how to write this but I’ll do my best. Basically I just turned 30 years old, I’m single and never even had a girlfriend before let alone a long term relationship. I have absolutely no idea what it’s like to feel wanted or have someone interested in me. I work a lot with people for my job and so the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel completely alone, how do I get rid of these feelings as a single guy? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15wme9c/i_feel_completely_alone_how_do_i_get_rid_of_these/ |
throwaway98864468 | 2018-12-23 02:42:51 | 1,545,532,971 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | a8r4ec | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a8r4ec/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_be_on_a_dating_app_after/ | 1 | If someone is over the relationship immediately after the breakup, how soon would it be socially acceptable to join an app like Tinder without it being looked down upon for being “too soon”? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How soon is too soon to be on a dating app after a breakup? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a8r4ec/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_be_on_a_dating_app_after/ |
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