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Defiant-Cry9146 | 2024-08-01 17:48:52 | 1,722,534,532 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ehmzu0 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ehmzu0/would_i_be_crazy_to_do_this/ | 3 | Okay so I met this dude on a dating app and we talked for a while and planned to go on a date which i was excited for but a couple hours before the date, i went message him to confirm but his chat was gone- so obviously he either unmatched with me or deleted his account. It’s really weird because he seemed super excite... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Would i be crazy to do this??? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ehmzu0/would_i_be_crazy_to_do_this/ |
megb009 | 2020-12-03 20:07:02 | 1,607,026,022 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k651jt | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k651jt/does_he_want_more_than_sex/ | 3 | Does he like me for more than sex? So I got Tinder and met my first guy at a restaurant and at the end of the date he asked me if I would like to go out again. He is really cute and seems like he has his life together so I said yes. Now I really like him. We have been on three dates now and I did sleep with him on the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does he want more than sex? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k651jt/does_he_want_more_than_sex/ |
High_Societies | 2023-10-10 23:44:03 | 1,696,981,443 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 174zu0s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/174zu0s/whats_my_next_move/ | 1 | I have been talking with this girl on tinder for a little over a week. Conversation has been great so far we seem to share some common interests. Fast forward to today, I asked her out and she responded pretty quickly saying that she would be out of town tomorrow till sunday but said after she gets back yes. I’m inclin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s my next move? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/174zu0s/whats_my_next_move/ |
FT_nzxtgXEw | 2021-01-10 06:14:01 | 1,610,259,241 | null | ['matches', 'matched'] | 0 | ku9001 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ku9001/what_does_it_mean_when_you_match_with_someone_on/ | 3 | For context, I don't get a lot of matches, and ones that will actually talk are rarer still. It's our first conversation, happening on the app. I keep asking questions, to which she earnestly responds, but doesn't say anything that would continue the conversation unless I look really hard for it. I eventually got aroun... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does it mean when you match with someone on OKC and they are responsive but really passive in the conversation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ku9001/what_does_it_mean_when_you_match_with_someone_on/ |
cldnvrbhvn | 2017-12-27 23:41:52 | 1,514,418,112 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7mirkx | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7mirkx/does_he_even_want_anything_to_do_with_me/ | 1 | I (27F) matched with a guy (25M) on Tinder back at the end of October and we started texting every single day. We met up a few weeks in and fooled around in the backseat my car. The next morning he tells me he just got out of a relationship a few months ago, and wants to keep it to casual hookups. Fine, I agree. We kee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does he even want anything to do with me? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7mirkx/does_he_even_want_anything_to_do_with_me/ |
headstrong54 | 2017-02-11 10:26:15 | 1,486,808,775 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5tdem3 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5tdem3/19m_having_a_hard_time_reentering_the_dating/ | 1 | I started dating my long term girlfriend near the end of my first semester of high school, and we were heading to 3 1/2 years together when we separated due to distance (University). I am a pretty reserved person, and only through her have I become a more social and extroverted person. I have always used her as my cop ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [19M] Having a hard time re-entering the dating world after breaking off a long term relationship on good terms. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5tdem3/19m_having_a_hard_time_reentering_the_dating/ |
d3v0n_l1n | 2023-10-25 01:00:05 | 1,698,195,605 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17fsndt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17fsndt/should_i_send_her_a_text/ | 1 | Met this girl on tinder everything actually went pretty well we met up yesterday had a good time. Now I'm not sure whether to text her how her day was or something or just leave it for a day or so then ask if she wants to hang out again. Thoughts? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I send her a text? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17fsndt/should_i_send_her_a_text/ |
kunilemel | 2018-07-07 08:40:54 | 1,530,952,854 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8wrtwq | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8wrtwq/what_to_do_when_person_disappears_mid_convo_and/ | 0 | So, this is also a general discussion about the subject in addition to advice for me. Suppose you just met a girl(through online dating or irl) and got her number, and you already made plans to go out on a specific day and time. You started texting each other, and suddenly in the middle of the conversation(after you as... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to do when person disappears mid convo and then returns after more than day like nothing happend? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8wrtwq/what_to_do_when_person_disappears_mid_convo_and/ |
Ok-Marketing3828 | 2023-10-21 17:34:37 | 1,697,909,677 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17d7v3j | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17d7v3j/22f_never_had_a_relationship/ | 1 | I'm 22F and been told I'm good looking by quite a lot of guys. Yet, I am never ever to pull guys that are of my type ( confident, extroverted and career driven). I'm insecure about the fact that I never had a relationship, my starting pay will be lower than average, and I do not have a lot of friends (meaning my life c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 22F never had a relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17d7v3j/22f_never_had_a_relationship/ |
superfapper2000 | 2024-08-01 10:18:32 | 1,722,507,512 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ehd4zq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ehd4zq/what_do_i_do_if_a_girl_im_talking_to_is_always/ | 2 | So I met this girl through an dating app we shared numbers and it's been Iike a couple of weeks where we talked already. I personally don't feel like she's intrested in me or am I making a big deal out of nothing? Honestly all I want to do is talk over the phone and set up a date. 🙃🙃🙃 Idk is she playing with me? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What do I do if a girl I'm talking to is always busy or has a lot going on in her life? How do I know if she is serious or want's to waste my time? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ehd4zq/what_do_i_do_if_a_girl_im_talking_to_is_always/ |
Hibuddywazzsup | 2024-05-12 21:46:51 | 1,715,550,411 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cqiy9r | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cqiy9r/do_you_message_back_older_messages_on_dating_apps/ | 2 | I've been using FB dating for a few months and there are times when I get overwhelmed with messaging people, so naturally, some conversations just get put on the backburner. Do you think there is a rule of thumb on whether or not conversations "expire"? There are a good amount of people I started a conversation with an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you message back older messages on dating apps? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cqiy9r/do_you_message_back_older_messages_on_dating_apps/ |
Firstfrost1 | 2020-06-01 01:11:13 | 1,590,973,873 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gub33q | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gub33q/do_guys_care_about_your_situation_down_there_is/ | 4 | I am a 21 year old girl and about to have sex for the first time. I want to get my virginity out of the way, so I met someone off of Tinder and told him that I was a virgin and wanted to have sex. He was very accepting of the idea and we have planned a day to meet up. I shaved everything, but I have some razor burn bum... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do guys care about your situation "down there"? Is there a preference? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gub33q/do_guys_care_about_your_situation_down_there_is/ |
xSimSimx | 2022-11-27 20:46:12 | 1,669,581,972 | null | null | 0 | z6c3eh | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z6c3eh/help_with_my_profile/ | 1 | I'm getting hardly anything on my Match profile. Any tips for attracting or getting replies? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help with my profile? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z6c3eh/help_with_my_profile/ |
coolcat9990 | 2021-12-30 02:43:22 | 1,640,832,202 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | rrqb6m | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rrqb6m/guy_pointing_out_things_he_doesnt_like_about_me/ | 6 | I matched with a guy on a dating app. So far, we’ve just been texting, calling or setting up FaceTime dates due to the amount of covid going on right now. However, he keeps pointing out things that bother him like I should call or text more..then he said it would be a big problem if we’re in a relationship and I didn’t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy pointing out things he doesn’t like about me even though we haven’t met yet | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rrqb6m/guy_pointing_out_things_he_doesnt_like_about_me/ |
AAKurtz | 2023-03-16 04:52:08 | 1,678,942,328 | null | null | 0 | 11skj89 | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11skj89/im_just_done_with_the_abuse_how_do_you_meet_girls/ | 0 | I can't take it anymore. The foodie calls, the ghosting, the female entitlement, the low quality women, the dishonesty; I'm so finished. I'm not a drinker so bars are out. I'm at the gym 6 days a week, but the women there are either 60+ or teenagers. I go to cafes, but find it a difficult environment to approach people... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm just done with the abuse, how do you meet girls without OLD? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11skj89/im_just_done_with_the_abuse_how_do_you_meet_girls/ |
Happy_Sea3180 | 2024-01-22 07:12:51 | 1,705,907,571 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 19cpyty | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19cpyty/i_think_this_guy_i_met_on_bumble_might_be_using/ | 3 | I just met this guy from Nigeria and hes here as a student. He's a really nice guy, but he asked me the other day if I was a us citizen and if my parents are too. I thought that was an odd question. Is this concerning or am I overthinking it? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think this guy I met on Bumble might be using me for a green card. What are some signs he may be? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19cpyty/i_think_this_guy_i_met_on_bumble_might_be_using/ |
Counterclockwiselain | 2017-10-22 03:13:09 | 1,508,641,989 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 77xx42 | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/77xx42/should_i_date_my_widowed_neighbor/ | 20 | I recently took myself of all OLD apps. I'm going through a mild depression where I cry for at least an hour when my kids are at their dads house for the weekend. I've been divorced since January and have dated, but took myself off the apps, because I'm just not feeling like myself. My neighbor is 14 years older than m... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Should I date my widowed neighbor? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/77xx42/should_i_date_my_widowed_neighbor/ |
omissaaa | 2022-06-07 01:15:36 | 1,654,564,536 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | v6iua3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v6iua3/embarrassed_to_be_seen_in_public_with_me/ | 3 | I’ve been hooking up with this guy I met on Facebook dating. We go out to eat, shop, bars etc. i crave innocent physical touch. he doesn’t hold my hand ever. Last week we were at a bar and I asked if he’d kiss me and he straight up said no 😭 I was mortified and just changed the subject right away. The awful thought of... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Embarrassed to be seen in public with me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v6iua3/embarrassed_to_be_seen_in_public_with_me/ |
Milkbearchan | 2023-06-23 12:21:36 | 1,687,522,896 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | 14gx5vh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14gx5vh/do_people_use_snapchat_as_a_dating_app/ | 2 | I don’t use Snapchat but I’ve seen a couple of posts on here over time that mention the use of Snapchat especially on OLD profiles? Has anyone used Snapchat to find dates ? Or is it just for sending explicit photos behind the scenes lol | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do people use Snapchat as a dating app? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14gx5vh/do_people_use_snapchat_as_a_dating_app/ |
Aromatic-Road-9770 | 2024-09-18 15:29:14 | 1,726,673,354 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fjvmrw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fjvmrw/how_to_deal_with_loneliness_and_things/ | 1 | I'm an introvert and don’t like going out much because it’s exhausting. I’m a nice, genuine, and kind person with a lot of hobbies, which could be seen as boring or chill. I get insecure about myself a lot, and sometimes I don’t feel pretty enough in real life. I'm afraid that anyone I meet won’t like me because I’m no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to deal with loneliness and things | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fjvmrw/how_to_deal_with_loneliness_and_things/ |
throwawayunderscore | 2013-02-12 02:02:23 | 1,360,634,543 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 18clek | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/18clek/out_of_practice_and_perplexed_m28/ | 1 | Mostly just looking for advice. Let's just say that the last time I dated, AIM was the most prevalent way of online communication and Facebook was only for college students. Sorry for the wall 'o' text. I've been satisfied being single for the most part, but I finally took the jump and signed up for a couple online dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Out of practice and perplexed [M28] | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18clek/out_of_practice_and_perplexed_m28/ |
yofuckafucka69 | 2023-07-18 23:46:36 | 1,689,723,996 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 153ehg3 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/153ehg3/how_do_i_stop_attracting_future_serial_killers/ | 1 | i [21NB] been out of the dating scene for a while due to one of the most traumatic dates ive ever been on (thanks, tinder!). ive been to therapy for the past year and my therapist is encouraging me to get back out there. i limit the amount of apps i use but i go out more often. im not sure if this is an issue with me, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how do i stop attracting future serial killers? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/153ehg3/how_do_i_stop_attracting_future_serial_killers/ |
Alarming_Fix_39 | 2024-03-12 04:09:48 | 1,710,216,588 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bco49i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bco49i/pet_namesfeeling_overwhelmed_but_with_a_added/ | 1 | I (24F) started talking to this guy (24M) off of Hinge 2 weeks ago. We somewhat hit it off and he quickly asked for my number after a single text. I hesitated but gave him my number. He started calling me sunshine/beautiful/my heart within a week of talking. Constantly texting. As my profile says, I want to build a fri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Pet names/feeling overwhelmed but with a added layer | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bco49i/pet_namesfeeling_overwhelmed_but_with_a_added/ |
Brilliant_Otherwise | 2020-06-10 17:35:27 | 1,591,810,527 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | h0fqgc | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/h0fqgc/chinese_born_canadian_seeking_dating_advice/ | 1 | Hey everyone, i m an average looking Chinese born in Canada in my early 30s and i find online dating to be extremely difficult. My ideal type would be someone that shares western culture ie sports, similar tv shows, movies, music etc. But i find that i seem to come across either 1) girls who arent willing to date asian... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Chinese born Canadian seeking dating advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/h0fqgc/chinese_born_canadian_seeking_dating_advice/ |
cattywoods | 2019-03-06 00:26:07 | 1,551,831,967 | null | null | 0 | axsdr8 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/axsdr8/tips_for_scams/ | 3 | The OLD scams keep getting crazier, matched with someone who seemed real exchanged numbers then got to talking. After a bit of course it seemed odd when they said they wanted to meet at a hotel. So I asked how bout you send me a picture of you holding up my name written on paper. After I asked for that they stopped rep... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tips for scams | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/axsdr8/tips_for_scams/ |
[deleted] | 2019-12-04 21:32:21 | 1,575,495,141 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | e66bce | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e66bce/i_want_to_reach_out_but_i_dont_know_if_i_should/ | 1 | I’m sorry for the really long post, I just wanted to tell enough back story for it to make sense. If you read through it, thank you so much I’d be really grateful for any advice. I am a 20F. I went on a date with a guy (20M) the Saturday before thanksgiving break. We had been texting since that Thursday, we met on a da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want to reach out but I don’t know if I should. If I do, what should I say? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e66bce/i_want_to_reach_out_but_i_dont_know_if_i_should/ |
Aerowenn | 2017-07-23 00:01:07 | 1,500,768,067 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 6oybbb | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6oybbb/did_i_move_on_too_fast_or_is_the_universe_trying/ | 3 | Internet, I need your help... Back in February of this year, my wife and I of 7 years split up. We remained in the same house until May, when she could find a place of her own (financial reasons). During that time we discussed why we were splitting, and we both agreed that we got married too quick, without ever really ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I move on too fast... Or is the universe trying to tell me something... :) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6oybbb/did_i_move_on_too_fast_or_is_the_universe_trying/ |
CampbellSoup98 | 2022-04-16 23:26:01 | 1,650,151,561 | null | null | 0 | u5a001 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u5a001/matched_an_introvert_girl/ | 0 | I recently match with an introvert girl but I have a problem so far. Whenever I asked her questions such as what kind of bands/music she likes to listen too she responds but doesnt ask or seemed like she want to know something about me. How do I get her more engaged and possibly get her to go on a date with me? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matched an introvert girl | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u5a001/matched_an_introvert_girl/ |
jrise25 | 2019-05-27 00:59:21 | 1,558,918,761 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | btfp6a | true | Vent/Rant | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/btfp6a/need_to_vent_about_dating/ | 3 | I’ve been trying to date for a long time. I’m really getting frustrated and it’s bringing me down. I did go through a rough patch in my career the last year, but I came through better than before in some ways. I’ve taken care of myself very well and very stable for 30 years old. I’ve taken care of myself in ways that s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need to vent about dating... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/btfp6a/need_to_vent_about_dating/ |
DigitalCat1507 | 2024-06-03 20:00:28 | 1,717,444,828 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1d7dxvg | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d7dxvg/situationship_came_back_again_help/ | 1 | Last year in May, I (30F) downloaded Bumble, and I matched with this guy (33). We clicked immediately. Even though we didn't want the same thing, we still kept texting, which became sexting, which became hooking up. But then he ghosted me, pushing me into a spiral (I still remember the day he stopped replying to me). H... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Situationship came back again - help | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d7dxvg/situationship_came_back_again_help/ |
Hillergard | 2022-11-17 14:48:23 | 1,668,696,503 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yxs6ta | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/yxs6ta/tinder_or_real_life_dating_whats_better_from_a/ | 2 | so i am pretty new to this \[M25\], started 3 months ago more frequent with dating after i got my first date and kiss some weeks before that. after that it made a spark in me who ignited a fire which i still toss wood into, what drove me was the feeling of being alone and never taste that fruit again. I started going o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | tinder or real life dating - whats better from a beginner | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yxs6ta/tinder_or_real_life_dating_whats_better_from_a/ |
ngdav | 2014-01-22 01:57:13 | 1,390,355,833 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating site'] | 0 | 1vtcqw | null | null | 30 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1vtcqw/if_i_dont_approach_women_in_person_and_only_use/ | 2 | So far between a combination of a dating site, and two mobile apps, I've sent out somewhere around 300-350 message with 2 responses, in person would probably be pretty bad too so I stick to this | AskMen | t5_2s30g | If I don't approach women in person and only use online dating/dating apps, how screwed am I? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1vtcqw/if_i_dont_approach_women_in_person_and_only_use/ |
NoKarmaHalp | 2024-05-04 23:25:21 | 1,714,865,121 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1ckdi4y | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ckdi4y/feels_impossible_to_match_with_anyone_on_any/ | 1 | I use to get a decent amount of matches, but for whatever reason I stopped getting any. For example, I moved to a new state last year and have been able to meet 2 people in person. Ever since, nothing, can’t even find matches anymore. I figure the algorithm finally buried me (again). I have no idea how to actually find... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feels impossible to match with anyone on any dating app. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ckdi4y/feels_impossible_to_match_with_anyone_on_any/ |
sm8k | 2024-04-19 14:56:46 | 1,713,538,606 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c7yxls | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c7yxls/did_he_give_up_or_should_i_keep_trying/ | 1 | I met a guy on a dating app who lives 800 miles away from me. We talked online on and off without meeting for over a year, until he visited home and took me on a date, and the next time he came back we spent a bit of time together. We continued messaging and calling occasionally after, but the vibe was always that we w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did he give up or should I keep trying? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c7yxls/did_he_give_up_or_should_i_keep_trying/ |
samhain75 | 2023-02-24 20:36:18 | 1,677,270,978 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 11b1czb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11b1czb/inexperienced_at_dating_and_noticing_when_someone/ | 1 | I (36M) have never been in a serious relationship. (Not for the lack of trying.) I’ve always been to odd one out. Especially in my friend group’s (high school, college to present day with each one being a different ‘clique’.) When I do meet someone I’m good on the first date, but for me that’s as far as I get. I’m not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Inexperienced at dating and noticing when someone is into me. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11b1czb/inexperienced_at_dating_and_noticing_when_someone/ |
LaprasTransform35 | 2024-05-18 03:33:57 | 1,716,003,237 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1cuo5qq | true | null | 153 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1cuo5qq/what_are_some_unfair_expectations_you_seen_women/ | 124 | I knew a woman who shames men for opening with "hey" on dating apps. But she also thinks women opening with "hey" on Bumble is totally okay because in her view women are doing men a favor just having the women message them at all. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are some unfair expectations you seen women have? | 124 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1cuo5qq/what_are_some_unfair_expectations_you_seen_women/ |
lab-not0114 | 2024-08-11 15:09:47 | 1,723,388,987 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1epn130 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1epn130/im_so_sick_of_dating_apps/ | 2 | How do we meet people? I go to college, I work, i joined clubs and organizations, just to widen my network and to meet people but i don't find anyone i'm interested in or interested in me. This is hopelessssss | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm so sick of dating apps. | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1epn130/im_so_sick_of_dating_apps/ |
anewman1993 | 2014-03-06 22:33:08 | 1,394,145,188 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 1zrbep | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1zrbep/new_to_online_dating_so_i_decided_i_would_try/ | 2 | Basicly I'm 21, but Ive never dated, Ive had trouble meeting girls (i'm midly attactive , i'm not a troll lol) so I decided to try out this online things, what the worst that could happen right? Anyway, whats the best or "right" way to send a girl a message so I don't come of creepy lol . | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to online dating, so I decided I would try okcupid. Got questions ! | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1zrbep/new_to_online_dating_so_i_decided_i_would_try/ |
Norbert_Pattern | 2024-02-08 10:24:27 | 1,707,387,867 | 0 | null | 0 | 1alsnzw | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1alsnzw/she_said_promise_to_not_fall_in_love_on_second/ | 1 | I'm 30m, she's 30f. Met on a dating app. She asked if I want to come over for a coffee (just know noticed similarity to GTA:SA), stated beforehand that she's not interested in sex. First time we've met, we've talked for a while, drank coffee, and then she asked me for back massage, witch eventually turned into sex. (Do... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | she said 'promise to not fall in love' on second date - what's that mean? | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1alsnzw/she_said_promise_to_not_fall_in_love_on_second/ |
Kathy578 | 2024-09-22 22:56:48 | 1,727,045,808 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fn62oa | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fn62oa/dating_app/ | 0 | I'm (39F) on Hinge. A 32M liked my photo and commented "fuck I want you to ruin my life 🙏." Excuse my ignorance on latest slang, but was this a compliment or a red flag? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating app | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fn62oa/dating_app/ |
tryannick170 | 2019-06-23 00:30:17 | 1,561,249,817 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'pof'] | 0 | c3wwlk | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c3wwlk/thinking_of_giving_up/ | 10 | I’m at a loss and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I’ve now asked several women out in person. Every single one of them ended in them seeing someone else, not interested in dating, or completely blowing me off. Take my latest crush. I’ve known her for two years through school. I worked with her on school projects and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Thinking of Giving up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c3wwlk/thinking_of_giving_up/ |
kinglearybeardy | 2023-07-21 15:01:13 | 1,689,951,673 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 155qhbm | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/155qhbm/why_do_so_many_people_on_dating_apps_hide_the/ | 1 | What's the point? People will know what your true body size is on the first date and won't meet you again if it is a deal breaker. It is just a waste of everyone's time and effort. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do so many people on dating apps hide the fact they are overweight? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/155qhbm/why_do_so_many_people_on_dating_apps_hide_the/ |
grizzbeast | 2017-10-28 20:53:43 | 1,509,224,023 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 79cj43 | false | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/79cj43/is_she_interested_or_not/ | 1 | Hi there DOT, LTL, FTP. I appreciate this community and all the advice and insight I've gleaned, so thank you. So I'm a 33 year old guy, two kids, currently separated, divorce ongoing. Definitely no chance for reconciliation with the ex. Also, I'm trying to date, even though I'm not sure if I'm ready or not. Just some ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Is she interested or not?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/79cj43/is_she_interested_or_not/ |
throwaway_974940561 | 2021-06-20 20:04:13 | 1,624,219,453 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | o4dsqk | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o4dsqk/desperately_single_af/ | 3 | Hi, it's my first time posting here but I am at wit's end with myself and don't know who to talk to about this in real life, because I honestly feel super stupid. So, a few years ago, I met a guy on vacation in a bar. We hit it off and started kissing a few drinks in. We got along really well and I would've gone back t... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Desperately single af | null | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/o4dsqk/desperately_single_af/ |
Throwaway_guidance15 | 2021-05-08 18:19:54 | 1,620,497,994 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | n7v5rv | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n7v5rv/ghosted_after_sex_on_the_first_date/ | 1 | Please hear me out. I am extremely sad and I have no one to talk to. I appreciate everyone who takes the time to give me advice. I’m a female and I recently started online dating. I matched with this guy and we hit it off immediately. He’s exactly everything I’ve been looking for. We texted throughout the week, FaceTim... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after sex on the first date | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n7v5rv/ghosted_after_sex_on_the_first_date/ |
Right-Reveal-5695 | 2024-08-21 02:14:00 | 1,724,206,440 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1exdyby | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1exdyby/he_is_always_texting/ | 0 | Sorry you have to read this Long paragraph.... So I have been talking to this guy for about 2weeks We met on one of the dating apps. We have a lot in common actually but the issue I have is that he is texting me most of the times and I have communicated that I prefer calls. So I opened the door that I prefer call over ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He is always texting | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1exdyby/he_is_always_texting/ |
Plateau_rattler | 2023-01-10 23:10:25 | 1,673,392,225 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 108o8os | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/108o8os/how_are_27_year_olds_meeting_people/ | 1 | That weren’t through social media or dating apps. Now that I think about it every girlfriend I had outside of high school was through Instagram. Crazy to think about. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How are 27 year olds meeting people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/108o8os/how_are_27_year_olds_meeting_people/ |
Johns_Banana_____ | 2024-03-15 04:31:43 | 1,710,477,103 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bf5n57 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bf5n57/help/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I am hopeless. I am a 24(F). I have been single for a while now, and it was (and continues to be) a time of growth for me. I did lots of self-reflection and really just focused on myself and put myself first. Now I feel ready to be in a relationship again, as long as it is healthy and is good for me. Other... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bf5n57/help/ |
KratosnotCratos | 2024-01-24 00:47:50 | 1,706,057,270 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 19e452e | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19e452e/anyone_using_bumble_in_los_angeles/ | 3 | How much luck are you having? Any good stories or advice? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone using Bumble in Los Angeles? | 3 | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19e452e/anyone_using_bumble_in_los_angeles/ |
Legitimate_Top9819 | 2022-07-26 14:14:39 | 1,658,844,879 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w8kwj9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w8kwj9/why_the_lie/ | 0 | So, I am talking to this guy from dating app.. converstations are good so far..Yesterday he lied to me saying he was sleeping like a baby and forgot to reply me. When infact I found out through one of our mutual friends insta story he was out with other girls enjoying the night out....Don't know what to do?? Do I still... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why the lie..🤨 | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w8kwj9/why_the_lie/ |
framew0rk26 | 2018-09-30 05:31:05 | 1,538,285,465 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9k3vth | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9k3vth/does_tinder_absolutely_suck_for_anyone_else/ | 0 | I'd say I'm on the higher end of attractiveness as a guy. I work out a lot and have visible muscles, a strong jaw, plus I'm 6'4". I'm not trying to sound cocky but I put a lot of effort into my appearance for a reason (other than health benefits of course.) I love sex and I love women so I try and maintain the body for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does tinder absolutely suck for anyone else? (Somewhat of a rant) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9k3vth/does_tinder_absolutely_suck_for_anyone_else/ |
Educational_Quit_547 | 2024-03-15 07:32:10 | 1,710,487,930 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swipes', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1bf8dmj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bf8dmj/nothing_works/ | 1 | So I tried online dating for a few months inconsistently and it didn't work out. Didn't get any real swipes nor did I swipe on many people. Don't really find many people I come across irl attractive. When I do, I do not particularly find their personality attractive or I have gotten rejected or they are not available. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | nothing works | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bf8dmj/nothing_works/ |
abitbadvibes | 2021-12-08 22:42:38 | 1,639,003,358 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | rc303d | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rc303d/need_some_second_opinions_am_i_overthinking_if/ | 0 | I (M23) matched with this girl (F22) in mid Oct off Hinge. We've gone on 3 dates since and I feel they went pretty well I got some kisses after date 3. I proposed another date but she ended up saying she was busy for the next 2 weeks with transitioning into her new job (understandable) and said after that would be bett... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some second opinions, am I overthinking if she is still interested or not? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rc303d/need_some_second_opinions_am_i_overthinking_if/ |
[deleted] | 2021-09-27 04:06:15 | 1,632,715,575 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | pw9cy6 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/pw9cy6/60m_great_shape_look_45_financially_independent/ | 0 | What apps or sites do people use to meet people. I tried POF, Match, Tinder, Bumble. They all seem to be for younger crowd. I'm easy, no drink drug, active, well read, just need to find a way of meeting women in my target range. Any advice much appreciated. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | 60M, great shape, look 45, financially independent, needs app advice | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/pw9cy6/60m_great_shape_look_45_financially_independent/ |
simplicitea18 | 2024-02-26 19:45:11 | 1,708,976,711 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b0qogc | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b0qogc/how_did_you_learn_to_approach_peopleopen_yourself/ | 1 | I am absolutely against dating apps for myself because I find it so humiliating, demoralizing, depressing, etc. I'm fully supportive/jealous of anyone who uses them, successfully or not. I can't hack it for more than 4 days. So, I'm trying the old-fashioned concept of meeting someone irl. I have a full-time job, hobbie... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How did you learn to approach people/open yourself to being approached? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b0qogc/how_did_you_learn_to_approach_peopleopen_yourself/ |
ThinWing9019 | 2023-10-02 20:19:39 | 1,696,277,979 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16y76eg | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16y76eg/will_i_ever_have_romantic_feelings_again/ | 1 | I had a couple of really bad datinf experiences back to back. Online dating is hard already and I’m not really letting that get to me but when I do talk to someone that there’s potential with I find it really hard to develop feelings for anyone anymore and I just don’t know how to move forward and not feel stunted by p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Will I ever have romantic feelings again? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16y76eg/will_i_ever_have_romantic_feelings_again/ |
seconddateproblem | 2016-02-27 05:41:29 | 1,456,551,689 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 47tjlp | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/47tjlp/running_out_of_things_to_say_on_a_second_date/ | 1 | Today I had my first ever second date with a girl. The first date was coffee, we talked for nearly two hours and had a bit in common, but even as it ended I realised I wouldn't know what else to to talk about. We'd already shared most of the key stuff. I felt a bit down, but decided to invite her to rock climbing, sinc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Running out of things to say on a second date - does it imply an issue with me, or is it just incompatibility? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/47tjlp/running_out_of_things_to_say_on_a_second_date/ |
haveyoumetjean_ | 2024-07-30 17:32:28 | 1,722,360,748 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1efze57 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1efze57/how_to_flirt_again/ | 4 | Hola, 28F here 👋🏻 My almost 5 years of relationship had ended recently. Right now, I'd like to have fun and flirt with someone. The problem is, I spent so much time focusing on one man, I don't know how to talk to others, let alone flirt. I feel like I'm from another planet. Just wanna go out there and enjoy it while... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to flirt again? | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1efze57/how_to_flirt_again/ |
briogeosucks | 2024-03-23 17:11:40 | 1,711,213,900 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1blxb3x | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1blxb3x/i_dont_understand_if_he_actually_liked_me/ | 3 | I was talking to this guy for a few weeks. We met on a dating app. We never met in person, just texted. I told him I was looking for a serious relationship. He said he wasn’t trying to ‘date’ and wanted to be friends first and go from there. I was hesitant about doing that because I thought if a guy liked me enough he ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t understand if he actually liked me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1blxb3x/i_dont_understand_if_he_actually_liked_me/ |
sufjan123 | 2024-06-17 22:24:58 | 1,718,663,098 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1diav47 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1diav47/i_35m_feel_like_ill_never_meet_my_person_because/ | 1 | I have a pretty high sex drive. I'd consider myself a generous person in bed, and fairly open (if not leaning vanilla for my own tastes) -- I'm working with nice looking, decently sized equipment down there, but sex is a major stressor in my life. I've had long relationships with people I was sexually incompatible with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (35M) feel like I'll never meet my person because of my relationship with sex, can anyone relate?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1diav47/i_35m_feel_like_ill_never_meet_my_person_because/ |
Bisjoux | 2022-08-29 15:27:46 | 1,661,786,866 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | x0rl3z | true | null | 88 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/x0rl3z/sharing_information/ | 22 | What information do you share about yourself and when? I had a first date in my experience of online dating. I didn’t know the surname of my date before we met and he refused to tell me when I asked on the date. It’s the first time I’ve ever been on a date in my life and not known my date’s name. I don’t even know if t... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Sharing information | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/x0rl3z/sharing_information/ |
circusofsphinx | 2024-06-25 04:32:58 | 1,719,289,978 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dnxjfu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dnxjfu/what_do_i_even_do_in_this_situation/ | 1 | Hi, I don't even know what to title this so hopefully you can get the gist of it as quickly as I can type it. I (19 F/NB) met A (21M) (initial changed) on bumble a little while ago. We clicked well and stayed friends for a bit, before we started to decide dating back in April. He went to my graduation, he's met my frie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I even do in this situation? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dnxjfu/what_do_i_even_do_in_this_situation/ |
thiccvegan_ | 2020-05-07 00:04:52 | 1,588,809,892 | null | ['swiped', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | gevskm | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/gevskm/quarantine_hinge_success_story/ | 8 | Okay, so I downloaded Hinge this quarantine mainly because I had a lot of time on my hands and I had just gotten out of a long term relationship a couple of months ago. I figured I could chat with people and test the waters of online dating from the comfort of my own couch. I swiped on some guy, saw his cute puppy, and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Quarantine Hinge Success Story | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gevskm/quarantine_hinge_success_story/ |
avocadonut_1 | 2022-03-15 09:37:33 | 1,647,337,053 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | tel5yj | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tel5yj/female_late_20s_w_no_dating_experience_spiraling/ | 4 | I am a straight woman in her late 20s. I don't have any dating experience. I've never been on a date, held a guy's hand, been kissed or anything. You're probably wondering why. For boring reasons: When I was a teenager it was due to cultural reasons (I'm a first generation immigrant). I never "rebelled" I just listened... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Female, Late 20s w/ No Dating Experience. Spiraling and Would Appreciate Insight. | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tel5yj/female_late_20s_w_no_dating_experience_spiraling/ |
Askerz | 2023-02-04 14:21:18 | 1,675,520,478 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10thi54 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10thi54/i_feel_like_im_holding_myself_back_and_i_dont/ | 1 | Hey y’all, so I’m (22m) currently working a job I got during the pandemic. It’s a software engineer position that I’ve held for a little over 18 months. I’ve moved out from the house I grew up in since the job is in a different city and have been living alone for ten months. I feel like I may be experiencing a quarter ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel like I’m holding myself back and I don’t know why(22M) | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10thi54/i_feel_like_im_holding_myself_back_and_i_dont/ |
Veelasong | 2020-03-01 14:44:04 | 1,583,073,844 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fbuyak | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/fbuyak/new_match_inactive_tinder/ | 0 | I was snooping through my boyfriends phone. Yes I know this is unhealthy and wrong but I did it anyway. I downloaded the the tinder app because I had suspicions that he was deleting it and downloading it again. It says he has a new match from 1 week ago. He claims he hasn't used the app since we got back together in ja... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | New match inactive tinder? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/fbuyak/new_match_inactive_tinder/ |
plakio3 | 2022-03-26 02:02:25 | 1,648,260,145 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | tod11o | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tod11o/is_it_ok_to_go_on_date_just_to_get_dating/ | 0 | I(23M) am going on first date with a girl I matched on Hinge, whom I don't find too attractive (ok it's not like not at all since she's smart),. But I still said ok just so that I lose the fear of going on dates since I don't have any dating experience. I haven't told her that I am looking for relationship or anything ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it ok to go on date just to get dating experience, even if I don't find them attractive? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tod11o/is_it_ok_to_go_on_date_just_to_get_dating/ |
Illustrious_Note_711 | 2023-02-15 20:18:20 | 1,676,492,300 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1137g65 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1137g65/how_long_do_i_wait_after_a_breakup_to_date_again/ | 1 | So it's been over a month since my gf broke up with me, looking back at it now we were growing apart months ago due to our busy schedules never matching up and us only going on dates twice a month or at most maybe 3 times and not being intimate in almost a year. I feel comfortable getting out there and meeting people, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how long do I wait after a breakup to date again? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1137g65/how_long_do_i_wait_after_a_breakup_to_date_again/ |
Brenha1l | 2023-01-25 23:44:23 | 1,674,690,263 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10ldjf6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ldjf6/dating_apps_for_friendships/ | 0 | Ok so at the moment I'm not looking for romance or sex, but I want to find ways to connect with people in my area and just hang out, go on dates, and talk without some extra motive or promise of love and sex. So I was wondering if there are any dating apps that are reliable for meeting people and dating platonically? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps for friendships? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ldjf6/dating_apps_for_friendships/ |
s3ndhelp2me | 2022-07-05 10:36:27 | 1,657,017,387 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vruv37 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vruv37/how_to_not_be_awkward_about_dating/ | 3 | im new to the world of romance. i have never dated anyone before, only had intense crushes. but i’m trying to put myself out there more, due to the fact i am so interested in love and want to experience it ( or something close to it ) before one day it may be too late. i’ve tried the dating apps, but i’m so shy and too... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how to not be awkward about dating? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vruv37/how_to_not_be_awkward_about_dating/ |
starrynight1820 | 2019-08-06 01:07:18 | 1,565,053,638 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cmjur0 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cmjur0/advice_about_men_out_of_your_league/ | 4 | 24F I’m on a dating app and I’ve been talking to this guy for over a week now. This past Friday he gave me his phone number. He seems interested but I always have to initiate and lead the conversation. I thought he was really good looking in his photos like out of my league. When he gave me his phone number he also hav... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice about men out of your league? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cmjur0/advice_about_men_out_of_your_league/ |
ChemicalSugar1 | 2022-02-22 06:13:17 | 1,645,510,397 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | syga61 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/syga61/dating_someone_with_different_work_schedules/ | 1 | Last month I matched with this person on a dating app and we instantly hit it off. We met shortly afterwards and we had a great time and I felt there was a good connection between us. The only problem is they work most weekends and I have a typical 9-5 Mon-Fri schedule. Because of this, we still haven’t had a second da... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating someone with different work schedules? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/syga61/dating_someone_with_different_work_schedules/ |
CN122 | 2021-11-27 14:31:35 | 1,638,023,495 | null | null | 0 | r3ep5b | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r3ep5b/my_experience_with_the_major_online_dating_apps/ | 20 | I decided that I should start to use OLD back in June and wanted to give you guys my experience with each app that I've been on. I've been on 5 apps thus far and wanted to list my experiences with each one so you can determine which apps are a waste of time. Also, I should clarify that I'm on these apps looking for a l... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My experience with the major online dating apps (from the perspective of someone looking for a longe term relationship) | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r3ep5b/my_experience_with_the_major_online_dating_apps/ |
[deleted] | 2019-09-04 09:53:20 | 1,567,590,800 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cziple | true | null | 273 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cziple/yesterday_i_was_rejected_in_person_for_being_too/ | 428 | I met a girl from tinder after a week of mon stop chatting. She was fawning over me. In person, her first words to me was you're shorter than I expected despite me telling her my height on text and she saying she was fine with it. She told me she couldn't do this and doesn't want to waste her time and easy. She then ap... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Yesterday I was rejected in person for being too short | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cziple/yesterday_i_was_rejected_in_person_for_being_too/ |
faithinstrangers92 | 2021-02-08 14:43:34 | 1,612,795,414 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lfd7h2 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lfd7h2/everybody_likes_to_have_a_laughbut_sometimes_it/ | 4 | From 'entertain me' vibe of dating apps to the 'you better be more funny/interesting than the other 5 people I'm texting' to the 'I expect to laugh until my stomach hurts on this date and if there's more than 2 minutes gone by without a laugh I'm going to plan my get away' sort of expectation... I mean I actually consi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Everybody likes to have a laugh...but sometimes it feel like I need to be a literal comedian to land and have successful dates... | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lfd7h2/everybody_likes_to_have_a_laughbut_sometimes_it/ |
YouUsedRedditForThis | 2024-07-09 18:01:47 | 1,720,548,107 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dz929e | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dz929e/anyone_else_feel_like_online_dating_has_made_you/ | 3 | So I (M24) suppose I'm one of the lucky dudes who has no problem on dating apps. I get matches all the time, I go on about 1 date every other week. It took me a while to learn how to get good at it, but now I that I have it working for me I feel so weird because online dating is the only way I know how to date. I have ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone else feel like Online Dating has made you more awkward? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dz929e/anyone_else_feel_like_online_dating_has_made_you/ |
seriously_justno | 2019-04-14 00:35:51 | 1,555,202,151 | null | null | 0 | bcxawu | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bcxawu/bumble_stumbled/ | 5 | The last three guys I saw that I thought were really cute were married and “yes my wife knows I’m on here.” FML 🤦♀️ | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bumble stumbled | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bcxawu/bumble_stumbled/ |
[deleted] | 2017-11-12 15:59:16 | 1,510,502,356 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 7cg56g | false | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7cg56g/going_on_practice_dates/ | 53 | Lol, no, I'm not using a person as practice I just realized I'm always so nervous to do first meets from OLD for more than just the fact that I'll be hanging out with a stranger. It's that I never really leave my house to do anything. Just getting dressed nice to visit friends always feels weird/unusual for me. (I have... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Going on practice dates! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7cg56g/going_on_practice_dates/ |
wall-_-eve | 2020-02-23 17:06:38 | 1,582,477,598 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | f8c8jj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f8c8jj/dating_as_someone_with_asian_roots_in_europe_sucks/ | 0 | I‘m M21, 185cm (6'1) and I’d say looking fairly average. While all of my friends had at least one long lasting relationship since they were teenagers, I’m still looking for someone. Oh and high school crushes? Never happened. Most females see me as someone they should avoid or best case as a friend, but never as a poss... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating as someone with Asian roots in Europe sucks | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f8c8jj/dating_as_someone_with_asian_roots_in_europe_sucks/ |
TreadmillTreats | 2021-03-29 10:43:01 | 1,617,014,581 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | mfmqli | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mfmqli/the_dangers_of_online_dating/ | 0 | The dangers of online dating So this weekend I watched a show called The dangers of online dating on Prime. It's a pretty scary world out there for those of us who are single on the dating scene and on the dating site's. But here's the thing that I learned about watching this television show: so many of these women did... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The dangers of online dating | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mfmqli/the_dangers_of_online_dating/ |
sunset-shimmer- | 2017-10-10 16:21:13 | 1,507,652,473 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app', 'dating site', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 75i5o0 | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/75i5o0/dating_app_responses_and_meeting_people_in_general/ | 1 | I was hoping someone could please help me. I'm a lady trying to use "swipe apps" like Bumble to find a relationship. OKCupid and Match ended horribly (got a stalker on one, consistently harassed on the other) so I'm trying to stay away from them, and I had the best luck on Bumble. I will mutual match with someone, and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App Responses and meeting people in general | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/75i5o0/dating_app_responses_and_meeting_people_in_general/ |
ExpensiveDriver822 | 2024-04-21 18:11:07 | 1,713,723,067 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c9ohtj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c9ohtj/ghosted_after_second_date/ | 1 | Hey - (29 M) recently moved to a new city and changed my hinge profile a few weeks before I moved. Matched with this really cute girl (29 F) and we texted for a few weeks before I moved. Met up on the first Friday night I was there. I actually felt like the date wasn’t going very well (6/10) (we were both tired but she... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ghosted after Second date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c9ohtj/ghosted_after_second_date/ |
AceOfFlames | 2016-11-19 12:50:13 | 1,479,559,813 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5dsaya | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5dsaya/starting_to_panic_29m_with_zero_relationship/ | 2 | My birthday was yesterday and today I feel like an utter mess. So far I never had any sort of relationship experience, not even a kiss, no dates, nothing. I have been trying okcupid for quite some time and either don't get responses or they stop after a couple of questions (have tried to get my profile critiqued severa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting to panic (29M with zero relationship experience) | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5dsaya/starting_to_panic_29m_with_zero_relationship/ |
Similar_Conference20 | 2024-07-12 18:09:38 | 1,720,807,778 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1e1oe4u | true | Casual Conversation | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1e1oe4u/unmatched_before_date/ | 55 | We matched last week, set up a date for today, agreed to place and time and have been chatting all the way up until this morning. Around noon I realized he wasn't in my chat list anymore. It is entirely possible that I accidentally unmatched him, but I'm pretty confident I didn't. So, obviously he's either gotten cold ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Unmatched before date | 55 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e1oe4u/unmatched_before_date/ |
cregsy | 2019-07-01 23:32:37 | 1,562,023,957 | null | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | c81tf6 | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c81tf6/first_date_after_first_proper_breakup/ | 1 | Hey guy's I'm wondering if you can help me. My ex broke up with me about 10 months ago, at first it didn't hit me until about 6 months later when I broke no contact (don't do that!). I have since started to feel a whole lot better as I processed the relationship but I took it pretty bad to say the least. I do know that... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date after first proper breakup | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c81tf6/first_date_after_first_proper_breakup/ |
gritandgrace79 | 2019-06-10 21:55:49 | 1,560,203,749 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | bz3whp | true | Discussion | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/bz3whp/do_you_think_you_have_too_many_or_not_enough/ | 13 | I’ve been stepping way back from OLD in the past weeks due to the utter frustration of it all. I got a message from a handsome man who was actually very close geographically. I said WTH and answered his message. Two days of texting back and forth unraveled all his drama. He was staying in his best friend’s spare room b... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Do you think you have too many or not enough dealbreakers? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/bz3whp/do_you_think_you_have_too_many_or_not_enough/ |
ChandniSiddiqui | 2019-06-26 18:29:40 | 1,561,573,780 | null | ['dating platform', 'dating platforms'] | 0 | c5tknz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c5tknz/make_your_online_date_real_on_kaimzz/ | 0 | Introducing , an innovative dating platform based on real human interaction technology. Our vision is to create the most genuine profiles for people who are exclusively looking for a potential partner. It may be taking a long time but can assure you to provide one of the candid dating platforms you will ever experience... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Make Your Online Date Real on Kaimzz | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c5tknz/make_your_online_date_real_on_kaimzz/ |
HackerNinja | 2020-08-01 07:46:10 | 1,596,267,970 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | i1oh2p | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i1oh2p/should_i_even_bother_with_dating_anymore/ | 9 | So I am a 29 year old middle eastern man. I came to the U.S a few years back to study in college. I have been in the dating scene for a while but I am losing hope not because I can’t get dates but because it is getting ridiculous with all these nonsense grey areas. What do I mean by that? So I matched with this girl in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I even bother with dating anymore? | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i1oh2p/should_i_even_bother_with_dating_anymore/ |
Contest_me | 2018-08-31 07:59:08 | 1,535,702,348 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9brpzf | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9brpzf/advice_needed/ | 5 | Im a (26M) and I’ve been seeing this girl (23F) for about 3 months. She is gorgeous, smart and funny. All the qualities I want in a woman. Things were going well and began to escalate after our 4th date (we kissed). After our 6th date we started visiting each other’s houses. Then a day came when she came over to my pla... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice needed | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9brpzf/advice_needed/ |
Fukyamaite | 2018-08-10 03:31:42 | 1,533,871,902 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 963ff4 | true | null | 128 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/963ff4/sometimes_you_just_need_to_be_kind_to_yourself/ | 533 | Cause no one else will. Not even your friends or family. And definitely not people on reddit. In fact, the things they say may make you feel worse. At the end of the day, its impossible for other people to put themselves in your shoes. Sometimes they can be well-intentioned but their words/opinions end up hurting you m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Sometimes you just need to be kind to yourself | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/963ff4/sometimes_you_just_need_to_be_kind_to_yourself/ |
frankiefile | 2023-07-31 10:12:36 | 1,690,798,356 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 15ec1le | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15ec1le/the_dreaded_friend_zone/ | 1 | I (69m) “matched” with an attractive, successful woman (73f) before Covid. After 6 great dates, I suggested that she meet my friends. She ghosted me, later saying it was moving too fast. I was hurt and ended it amicably. A year and a half later, she called wanting to get together without necessarily giving the nature o... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | The Dreaded Friend Zone | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15ec1le/the_dreaded_friend_zone/ |
TerritorialTeddy | 2021-02-28 11:58:13 | 1,614,513,493 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | lueajw | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lueajw/how_to_put_myself_out_there/ | 1 | Hey everyone, i'm a 22 year old guy from Belgium. I've had a few relationships in the past, but my last one ended when i was 17, since then i really haven't had an active dating life. Sure, i've had feelings for a few people since my last relationship ended, but the feelings were never mutual. Or vice versa. I'm not re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to "put myself out there"? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lueajw/how_to_put_myself_out_there/ |
MyVermontAccount121 | 2023-03-27 19:26:01 | 1,679,945,161 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 123xgy6 | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/123xgy6/what_are_the_most_important_things_you_look_for/ | 1 | I’m looking to rethink dating apps and focus more on core aspects than swiping through hot people. I have a couple dozen things I feel are important for people but wanna make sure what people look for matches up with what I came up with. So when looking to date, what are the most important things you look for? What are... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are the most important things you look for in a potential partner? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/123xgy6/what_are_the_most_important_things_you_look_for/ |
Smart_Display | 2024-04-01 19:05:38 | 1,711,998,338 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1btcg74 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1btcg74/need_help_gauging_interest_or_lack_thereof/ | 6 | Helpful context - I (27M)am somewhat socially stunted. I went to an all boys high school, college was 97% men, and work in a male dominated field. I haven't had many friends, especially women, in fact, the below describes the longest interaction i've had with any woman. I have never dated before I moved about six month... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help gauging interest or lack thereof whether platonic or more | 6 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1btcg74/need_help_gauging_interest_or_lack_thereof/ |
astalane | 2023-07-04 16:28:54 | 1,688,488,134 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 14qjv07 | false | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14qjv07/need_advise_on_tinder_verification/ | 1 | I matched a guy the other day that looks a little too good, if you know what I mean. ;) His Tinder profile has a blue hook and he was very clear in his profile that he wants to call immediately after matching because he got scammed. Well, I messaged him and he got back to me a week later asking for a call. I agreed and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advise on Tinder verification | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14qjv07/need_advise_on_tinder_verification/ |
NevadaHiker91 | 2024-06-24 23:51:05 | 1,719,273,065 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dns621 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dns621/confused_by_ex_girlfriend/ | 1 | Hey everyone, I'll make this as brief as possible tldr; I dated a girl from age 24 to age 31 and we broke up in September 2022. We had shared a place, lived together, wasn't married yet, but working through a few issues. One day in September 2022, we got into a really bad fight, she called her dad over and I left the a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused By Ex GirlFriend | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dns621/confused_by_ex_girlfriend/ |
Agreeable_Ad_7815 | 2022-01-31 01:43:13 | 1,643,593,393 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | sgox9b | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sgox9b/friend_just_matched_and_talked_to_the_guy_ive/ | 1 | Been acting like a couple for maybe 5 weeks. Did talk multiple times about just seeing eachother but no label yet. Call eachother baby etc blah blah. Reality check me cause I really liked this one? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Friend just matched and talked to the guy I've been hooking up with for over a month on tinder. Let it go? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sgox9b/friend_just_matched_and_talked_to_the_guy_ive/ |
PresidentSlug | 2022-07-22 09:00:24 | 1,658,480,424 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w55rcr | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w55rcr/my_crush_rejected_me_should_i_turn_to_random/ | 0 | I’m depressed and have very low self esteem now, I know I will never find someone like her again, as everyone looks entirely boring and lifeless by comparison, and I’m not interested in settling into a relationship with someone I have no interest in. Should I pursue validation through flippant sex hookups and flings to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My crush rejected me, should I turn to random Tinder hookups instead? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w55rcr/my_crush_rejected_me_should_i_turn_to_random/ |
AlwaysBeTextin | 2017-01-31 16:23:22 | 1,485,879,802 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5r95dr | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5r95dr/dae_act_much_differently_when_dating_people_you/ | 1 | In the past five years or so, with one long relationship, and one shorter, sandwiched in between, I've mostly relied on online dating to meet people. Probably about 80% have come through the internet or apps, just 20% from meeting randomly. But, though I've had a little bit of luck online - occasional sex, a couple of ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | DAE act much differently when dating people you meet online vs organically? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5r95dr/dae_act_much_differently_when_dating_people_you/ |
shannothebest | 2018-02-02 01:38:50 | 1,517,535,530 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7unusy | false | null | 22 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7unusy/anyone_else_a_serial_ghoster/ | 8 | Ever since I started online dating, I've gotten into the terrible and guilt-ridden habit of ghosting. It's never anything personal, the connection just is never there and it eventually dies out. I had a guy confront me about it the other day on my college campus and I felt really bad, but also I feel like sometimes whe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone Else a Serial Ghoster? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7unusy/anyone_else_a_serial_ghoster/ |
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