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[deleted] | 2022-10-28 04:42:52 | 1,666,932,172 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | yfe700 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yfe700/dating_as_a_poor_younger_guy_should_i_even_be/ | 1 | I’m 24 years old and live in LA in SoCal. I live day-to-day trying to make ends meet and it feels hopeless most of the time to even make an attempt at dating. I feel like every young woman my age I want to talk to on dating apps are either already in a relationship, just looking for something casual, want guys to add t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating as a poor younger guy. Should I even be trying? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yfe700/dating_as_a_poor_younger_guy_should_i_even_be/ |
suspishtime | 2021-03-21 01:09:37 | 1,616,288,977 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | m9kvhq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m9kvhq/met_on_okcupid/ | 3 | So about a month or so back I (27F)met someone (28 M) OkCupid, we’ve had so much in common and we haven’t met because of covid, trying to be safe. So we’ve been FaceTiming and talking on the phone. He brought up the subject about if I was talking to anyone else, I said no wasn’t I haven’t been, he said no as well becau... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met on OkCupid | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m9kvhq/met_on_okcupid/ |
Even-Manager4329 | 2023-08-24 19:05:00 | 1,692,903,900 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 160b02i | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/160b02i/is_it_a_good_decision_to_stay_with_my_ex/ | 1 | So I met last year and we dated for about six months and in January I told him I would be leaving India to move to the US to study, and I wanted to break up back in Jan itself because the long distance wouldn’t just make sense… but he insisted on making it work and ensured me how he will get a job there and he can shif... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it a good decision to stay with my ex boyfriend who cheated on me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/160b02i/is_it_a_good_decision_to_stay_with_my_ex/ |
Obscura616 | 2020-07-16 05:58:31 | 1,594,879,111 | null | null | 0 | hs4a60 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/hs4a60/worst_dating_story/ | 2 | Hello how is everyone doing.I'm really excited to present to you one of the worst dating experience I had in my life so far and problably the worst dating story a guy can go through.I know is long but stick to the end cause is going to be worth it and is an insane story with a 33 year old chick I dated who used me, bro... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Worst Dating Story | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/hs4a60/worst_dating_story/ |
fiddlefaddle1412 | 2019-09-11 03:29:16 | 1,568,172,556 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | d2jwl7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/d2jwl7/men_when_online_dating_what_is_the_best_way_to/ | 4 | I'm on tinder and bumble and am having conversations but they tend to fade or just not respond. How do I keep the conversation going and is there any better dating site? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men: when online dating what is the best way to keep interest? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/d2jwl7/men_when_online_dating_what_is_the_best_way_to/ |
AVGVSTVS_OPTIMVS | 2021-06-11 01:44:47 | 1,623,375,887 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nx4bxc | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nx4bxc/advice/ | 2 | I (m26) live alone and I am looking for a serious, long term relationship. My ex girlfriend, whom I was living with, recently moved out of state. We struggled in our relationship and I loved her deeply. I cherished her. But we were both unhappy with big things in our relationship. Our sex life was non existent and she ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | ADVICE- | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nx4bxc/advice/ |
xanman007 | 2020-02-12 08:43:56 | 1,581,497,036 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | f2oaix | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f2oaix/first_time_dating_advice_please/ | 1 | I (23 M) met this girl (22) on Bumble 4 days ago. We started chatting and hit it off well. Now with Valentines day approaching, I’ve been constantly pondering if I should ask her out on Feb 14th. I have not dated before so all this is new to me. Is it too much too soon? Should I wait it out? What should I do? Please ad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First time Dating advice please? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f2oaix/first_time_dating_advice_please/ |
sickofdating9 | 2019-05-05 17:08:55 | 1,557,076,135 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | bl07pc | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bl07pc/why_do_i_always_meet_men_who_are_taken_lie_on/ | 2 | I haven't online dated in awhile, but the last 10 or so men I met on dating sites and apps, all had a serious girlfriend. Some of them even had a girlfriend live with them in their house. All while implying and saying they are single and looking for something serious. Anyone else experience this? How can it be avoided?... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why Do I Always Meet Men Who Are Taken (and Lie) On Dating Sites? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bl07pc/why_do_i_always_meet_men_who_are_taken_lie_on/ |
vp0506 | 2018-12-25 18:47:21 | 1,545,763,641 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | a9h7oc | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a9h7oc/why_is_this/ | 4 | I'm a a fairly attractive female, a little on the heavier size and cute face. My annoyance is based on trying to date in this era of apps at 31. I honestly am a bit of an analyzer so I like to understand the reasoning. I have been on dating apps and have went on my fair share of dates. Yet something sticks out similarl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why is this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a9h7oc/why_is_this/ |
MFRobots | 2022-05-10 11:25:16 | 1,652,181,916 | null | null | 0 | umggd5 | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/umggd5/women_who_offer_friendship_if_it_isnt_a_match/ | 12 | One thing you shouldn't do, as a man on a dating site, is become friends with a woman if it's been decided (mostly in her case) that's it's not a match, but they follow it up with "but i'm always open to new friends!" Don't buy into this, because you weren't there for that. At one time, I went along with this person's ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women who offer friendship if it isn't a "match" | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/umggd5/women_who_offer_friendship_if_it_isnt_a_match/ |
kds0808 | 2019-08-13 19:09:33 | 1,565,723,373 | null | null | 0 | cpxsgd | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cpxsgd/struggling_with_openers_and_how_to_strike_up_good/ | 2 | So, I do pretty good at getting matches on most of the OLD apps I probably get 2 to 3 decent matches a week on bumble and and a few more on the other apps and can usually always get a girl to message me but I’m just having trouble getting the convo to spark. I spent almost 19 years married, separated for about 6 months... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Struggling with openers and how to strike up good conversations. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cpxsgd/struggling_with_openers_and_how_to_strike_up_good/ |
SolutionNo5653 | 2023-08-21 06:51:59 | 1,692,600,719 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15wzr68 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15wzr68/i_just_dont_know_what_men_wants/ | 1 | I have been single about four years now and I have been on some dating apps also but it seems a lot of here don’t want women with one kid already because anytime I meet someone and tells the person my story it goes wrong in some part I do know if I should hire my daughter in my story or what I don’t understand some men... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just don’t know what men wants… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15wzr68/i_just_dont_know_what_men_wants/ |
cyberpunk1Q84 | 2018-10-08 19:37:38 | 1,539,027,458 | null | null | 0 | 9mi4r0 | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/9mi4r0/i_dont_recommend_match_think_thrice_before/ | 11 | I screwed the pooch by using Match as my first online dating site/app. I wanted to be serious about dating and figured Match.com was made for that. Anyways, here are the two main reasons I kind of hate Match and don’t recommend: - You have to pay to read/send messages - There’s no indication of who’s a paid member and ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I don’t recommend Match. Think thrice before getting it. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/9mi4r0/i_dont_recommend_match_think_thrice_before/ |
blackaboo | 2018-09-05 06:53:16 | 1,536,130,396 | null | ['matched', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 9d3wr3 | true | Venting | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/9d3wr3/trying_to_date_in_the_the_early_years_of_college/ | 1 | I've never really looked into dating in high school because I wanted to focus on school, and now that I've just become a sophomore in college, dating has popped up on my radar. My friend and I have even put it on a list we want to complete in a year. Get a boyfriend or go on two dates, reasonable enough yeah? Not that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Trying to date in the the early years of college IMPOSSIBLE | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9d3wr3/trying_to_date_in_the_the_early_years_of_college/ |
ArnieMarney | 2023-03-07 05:55:07 | 1,678,168,507 | null | ['dating app', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 11kqvlh | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11kqvlh/need_help_with_facebook_dating_app/ | 1 | I've been on Facebook dating for almost two weeks now and I don't get ANY likes or match on there, even after liking other people.. Am I that horrible? What do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help with Facebook dating app | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11kqvlh/need_help_with_facebook_dating_app/ |
theboopmeister | 2019-08-15 01:41:31 | 1,565,833,291 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cqjbop | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cqjbop/how_do_i_meet_people/ | 0 | Alright so here’s the situation. I’m basically permanently away from home, I’ve been dating girls on and off from back home as well. I’m in the military and currently stationed 8 hours from home, and while there are plenty of people I’m interested in there, I’m not sure if driving all the way back home is for me. How d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I meet people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cqjbop/how_do_i_meet_people/ |
MFRobots | 2022-04-17 10:31:57 | 1,650,191,517 | null | null | 0 | u5ke0c | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u5ke0c/she_outed_herself/ | 1 | This is funny, saw this woman that had "No kids" in her stats, but she has a photo with a caption , "A pic with me and my kids and my grand kids". lol | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | She outed herself | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u5ke0c/she_outed_herself/ |
Repugnant_Subhuman | 2023-02-02 19:10:49 | 1,675,365,049 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 10rxzlp | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10rxzlp/most_of_us_are_disappointed_about_dating_because/ | 14 | If we don't get attached about the result we want, a relationship, a date, a specific person, etc and we just let the life flow we can eliminate the suffering instantly. In my case I have been 2 years single since my exgf dumped me (10 years relationship). I have never found a girl to go on a date with me. I tried dati... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Most of us are disappointed about dating because we are attached to obtain a result | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10rxzlp/most_of_us_are_disappointed_about_dating_because/ |
SpiritedAssumption3 | 2021-07-03 13:06:00 | 1,625,317,560 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ocxpud | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ocxpud/dating_app_insecurities/ | 12 | I am 23 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship or on a date with someone and I’m not actively pursuing that but I’m not totally turned off finding someone. I told myself that I was happy being alone and with the flings I sometimes find myself into with no strings attached, but after really reflecting in therap... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating App Insecurities | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ocxpud/dating_app_insecurities/ |
RuviMackinaw | 2021-05-19 07:44:26 | 1,621,410,266 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nfzfi6 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nfzfi6/the_woman_i_m34_date_has_a_depressive_episode_and/ | 1 | So I met a woman on tinder and she is really great and I never felt such a good connection before with any woman before her. I asked her yesterday how she is and she said not great she currently has a depressive episode. She seems to be very open about it but I am unsure how to proceed and how to properly behave now.I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The woman I (m34) date has a depressive episode and I don't know how to proceed | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nfzfi6/the_woman_i_m34_date_has_a_depressive_episode_and/ |
sonofsarkhan | 2023-07-13 13:17:29 | 1,689,254,249 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14ykncj | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14ykncj/girl_25f_ive26m_been_talking_to_since_april_keeps/ | 1 | So I've been talking to a girl I met on Hinge since April. We haven't gotten to meet yet though because she's in college and has two jobs on top of that, so she's quite busy all the time. So far, our solution has been calling each other to get to know each other better. We planned on finally meeting each other this mon... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl (25F) I've(26M) been talking to since April keeps going dark for legitimate reasons, but I still don't know what to do | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14ykncj/girl_25f_ive26m_been_talking_to_since_april_keeps/ |
RainRodriguez | 2022-09-07 13:05:25 | 1,662,555,925 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | x84nhi | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x84nhi/he_updated_his_dating_profile_after_a_great_date/ | 3 | We are in our 30's, been talking for over half a year and been in at least 10 dates, and some were intimate. Last month he stopped using dating app. We see each other more and during our last date he was different. He was more like a bf, gave me a gift, he was making moves and even intimacy seems like he was making lov... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He updated his dating profile after a great date, what should i do? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x84nhi/he_updated_his_dating_profile_after_a_great_date/ |
FrankAguilar151 | 2023-07-28 00:00:30 | 1,690,502,430 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 15bhqpo | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15bhqpo/should_i_ask_him_why_please_help/ | 1 | This man sent me an invitation to connect twice, but on different dating sites. Then he canceled his interest after I accepted his invitation & sent him a pre-written copy-paste message saying something like "Hello, I liked your profile too and would like to connect to get you know you more, please feel free to call/ t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask him why? 🙏 Please help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15bhqpo/should_i_ask_him_why_please_help/ |
THEBAESGOD | 2018-10-28 01:35:09 | 1,540,690,509 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9rzmkz | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9rzmkz/i_m24_had_my_first_nontinder_date_last_week_with/ | 11 | Context: I've been in a few relationships, but I haven't started a new one since high school, and I really don't know how to act as an adult in the dating scene. Also, the title is wrong she's 22 We share a couple classes together, a couple weeks ago she asked me to come to an off campus club. I sat next to her and we ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [M24] had my first non-tinder date(?) last week with a classmate [F24] where do I go from here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9rzmkz/i_m24_had_my_first_nontinder_date_last_week_with/ |
Whatevenislife94 | 2023-01-26 02:58:42 | 1,674,701,922 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 10lho7y | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10lho7y/girlfriend_and_old_fwb/ | 3 | My gf and I have been dating for 3 months,but hung out for 2 months prior without the label but made it clear we weren’t talking to anyone else. She had mentioned before we started officially dating that this guy name Ronald (fake name) also met on hinge last year, had a situationship for months, slept together that wh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girlfriend and old FWB | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10lho7y/girlfriend_and_old_fwb/ |
CoconutIndependent33 | 2024-07-26 15:28:48 | 1,722,007,728 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ecqyei | true | null | 135 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ecqyei/is_tinder_only_for_hookups/ | 44 | Both guys that i met expected a one night stand at first date ….. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is tinder only for hookups? | 44 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ecqyei/is_tinder_only_for_hookups/ |
wigglewaffles | 2024-01-30 21:13:49 | 1,706,649,229 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1aezjil | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aezjil/confusion_around_reconnecting_on_dating_app/ | 1 | I (35F) reconnected on Hinge with a guy (37M) I was friends with in college (2009ish). We went home together and made out once but always remained friends. We both weren’t looking for anything serious then… but I always had a little thing for him. After college, we lost touch but we pretty much picked things right back... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confusion around reconnecting on dating app?! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aezjil/confusion_around_reconnecting_on_dating_app/ |
itsmezeph | 2022-09-06 10:25:13 | 1,662,459,913 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | x77021 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x77021/rejected_by_my_date_23m_after_i_22f_met_him/ | 2 | Hi ppls, I met this guy through online dating app. He was pretty nice and our conversation went pretty smooth without any sexual topic. We were both busy and we finally found a time to meet up in person after 3 weeks on and off texting. I went to his city to meet him. Afternoon we had some coffee and took a walk by the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rejected by my date (23m) after I (22f) met him offline and had a wonderful date. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x77021/rejected_by_my_date_23m_after_i_22f_met_him/ |
klyleeee | 2019-02-01 03:56:17 | 1,548,993,377 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | aly0t3 | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aly0t3/meeting_up_with_a_girl_who_wants_to_date_me/ | 2 | This applies under the flair "I need advice" and "Tinder/Online Dating", Just before I ask my question, I have a back story and an issue. A really cute girl added me on snapchat the other day from my instagram page. She keeps calling me cute, we've talked a bunch and she seems really excited to meet up as she talks abo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Meeting up with a girl who wants to date me | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aly0t3/meeting_up_with_a_girl_who_wants_to_date_me/ |
[deleted] | 2018-05-15 19:39:24 | 1,526,413,164 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 8johkb | false | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8johkb/why_would_a_guy_you_met_on_pof_for_the_first_time/ | 0 | This guy on pof begged me for a week to hang out with him. Finally I said yes and picked him up from a parking lot. When he got into my car he said hello. Why would he do that? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why would a guy you met on pof for the first time say "hello" when he got into your car? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8johkb/why_would_a_guy_you_met_on_pof_for_the_first_time/ |
Melimelo3220 | 2023-10-29 17:38:06 | 1,698,601,086 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17j83ih | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17j83ih/liking_the_wrong_person_should_i_move_on/ | 1 | So basically I met him around 2 months ago on an dating app, I don’t sleep around and neither I don’t do hook ups, I have this idea sex needs to be done with some feelings… I really liked this guy to the point, my heart skipped a beat when I met him but after 2 months he never asked for exclusivity and last time he was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Liking the wrong person, should I move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17j83ih/liking_the_wrong_person_should_i_move_on/ |
okspreach | 2019-02-24 03:57:24 | 1,550,980,644 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | au425k | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/au425k/accidentally_swiped_right_on_a_guy_from_my_k12/ | 0 | Okay so I guess this is half confession, half looking for advice??? Title explains the gist of it, I accidentally swiped right on a guy I went to school with from K-12. We were friends, never super duper close but we hung out sometimes. He had a crush on me for as long as I can remember, he didn’t exactly hide it well ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Accidentally swiped right on a guy from my K-12 years | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/au425k/accidentally_swiped_right_on_a_guy_from_my_k12/ |
soreyes2020 | 2024-09-04 01:26:04 | 1,725,413,164 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1f8gzvm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 84 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f8gzvm/women_dont_like_coffee_dates/ | 0 | So I’m on OLD apps as a 40m. My problems is women don’t take me serious unless I take them out to dinner. I did this at the beginning and it started hurting my pockets. Each dinner date was costing me at least $100 or more to only find out that I’m not interested in the person or they have major red flags. Recently I t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women don’t like coffee dates. | 0 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f8gzvm/women_dont_like_coffee_dates/ |
jodiebysza | 2023-12-29 10:37:46 | 1,703,846,266 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 18tka58 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 148 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18tka58/i_called_out_a_guy_who_ghosted_me_in_person_and/ | 197 | I've been going to this place this guy works for three months, and he's been acting like he has a crush on me for awhile (always coming over to talk to me, looking at me, lingering around me even when it's busy), so I gave him a note with my number earlier this month. We arranged a date, which he cancelled because he s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I called out a guy who ghosted me in person, and now I feel bad. | 197 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18tka58/i_called_out_a_guy_who_ghosted_me_in_person_and/ |
Epehec | 2024-09-01 17:51:57 | 1,725,213,117 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f6kieb | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6kieb/am_i_shadowbanned_on_tinder/ | 2 | My account is pretty decent, and I was getting matches when I first started, however I haven’t gotten any likes in 2 weeks. I’m not sure what I could’ve done wrong | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I shadowbanned on tinder? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6kieb/am_i_shadowbanned_on_tinder/ |
owndagab | 2024-08-03 08:18:43 | 1,722,673,123 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1eiy6l9 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eiy6l9/questions_insecurities_and_venting/ | 1 | I know it would be a tirade but there I go. --- Some informations to start off : I've been in couple four time since I'm 14 (now 31). Everytime i've been kicked without being told what I am doing wrong and it's starting to get to me. My friends points me that I always date problematic women having "hero syndrome". I un... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Questions, insecurities and venting | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eiy6l9/questions_insecurities_and_venting/ |
No_Pumpkin_7532 | 2021-10-25 20:31:39 | 1,635,193,899 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | qfpoa7 | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qfpoa7/20f_going_on_first_date_ever_and_ive_never_been/ | 2 | Well, long story short, I met a guy on bumble and we're going on a date I guess. I don't know why but I guess I keep imagining the worst scenarios...like if I end up in a ditch or if he looks nothing like his photos. He's also a bit of an awkward texter...so I'm a bit worried it'll be an awkward conversation. Also...I'... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [20F] Going on first date ever and I've never been kissed | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qfpoa7/20f_going_on_first_date_ever_and_ive_never_been/ |
Commercial_Step3223 | 2024-07-17 09:38:12 | 1,721,209,092 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e5e1m0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e5e1m0/is_this_behavior_normal_in_early_dating/ | 1 | Yesterday, a woman (28) approached me (27) on a dating app. We introduced ourselves, and after some small talk we realized we had shared interests, we exchanged our numbers and continued the conversation on WhatsApp. We chatted there too. At that time, I was very busy, and after about an hour, she asked why I hadn't ad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this behavior normal in early dating? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e5e1m0/is_this_behavior_normal_in_early_dating/ |
Longmeatrazorback | 2019-02-09 17:04:28 | 1,549,731,868 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | aou5je | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/aou5je/long_winded_post_for_those_out_there_who_struggle/ | 4 | Hi All, I (M30) am somewhat new to the dating world after just getting out of a 6 year relationship. My ex broke up with me in October and I spent the next few months putting myself back together. Before that, I was in a 5 year relationship with a girl from my teenage years into my early 20s. So I haven't had a ton of ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Long winded post for those out there who struggle with OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/aou5je/long_winded_post_for_those_out_there_who_struggle/ |
mildy9090 | 2024-03-11 19:25:13 | 1,710,185,113 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bcbrg8 | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bcbrg8/what_does_mommy_mean/ | 20 | Why are men swiping up on my pictures or messaging me “mommy” or “mommy, sorry, mommy” ?? I am out of a three year relationship and I’ve had about 15+ men swipe up saying this. I am so confused I’m literally 24 I should know this stuff right?😂😭 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | what does mommy mean | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bcbrg8/what_does_mommy_mean/ |
Stunning_Rooster_819 | 2023-09-06 01:41:37 | 1,693,964,497 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16b72vz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16b72vz/i_got_catfished_by_a_prettier_girl/ | 1 | So I matched with a girl on Tinder. The profile was unverified so that should be a red flag for me, but we ended up texting a lot and getting to know each other. Until one day we decided to meet each other on a date. I was having hard time to find her until a chick tap me on the shoulder and said my name. I was confuse... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got catfished by a prettier girl. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16b72vz/i_got_catfished_by_a_prettier_girl/ |
AdeptReading | 2019-11-27 21:04:09 | 1,574,888,649 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | e2mruq | true | null | 108 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e2mruq/i_went_on_a_date_and_it_was_probably_the_most/ | 275 | I have using dating apps for close to 2 years and have only had 7 dates so far, it hasn't been easy, I'm 5'5" and I live in an area with nothing but tall people. I don't have the courage to approach women in real life because most of them are taller than me. So it came as a surprise to me when I got a message from a wo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I went on a date and it was probably the most humiliating experience. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e2mruq/i_went_on_a_date_and_it_was_probably_the_most/ |
[deleted] | 2013-11-08 17:45:10 | 1,383,932,710 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1q6tuu | null | Dating | 19 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1q6tuu/seriously_mixed_signals/ | 0 | I met this guy off a dating site and we've been on about seven dates. After our third date he kept asking me if I looked at his dating profile, that he added new pictures. I checked his profile and saw he didn't add new pictures, he had suspended it, good sign, right? I eventually did the same. On our last date he aske... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Seriously mixed signals | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1q6tuu/seriously_mixed_signals/ |
schoolboy__ | 2021-02-25 04:13:54 | 1,614,226,434 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | lrxv81 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lrxv81/how_do_i_stop_expecting_things_and_just_have_fun/ | 1 | I matched with them on Bumble yesterday. We snapchatted and spoke over the phone. She then didn’t respond to me for a whole day when I asked her a question. How do I have fun with this instead of expecting something? I’m getting my hopes up just to get popped. I’m also not sure when to talk to them about going on a dat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I stop expecting things and just have fun? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lrxv81/how_do_i_stop_expecting_things_and_just_have_fun/ |
LCthrows | 2020-12-04 03:19:21 | 1,607,051,961 | null | null | 0 | k6cmvg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/k6cmvg/am_i_ready_to_put_my_toe_in_the_water/ | 1 | I'm in my early forties, divorced a year ago, have half custody of my (older, but still at home) kids. I live in a college town and I kind of have a thing for professors (sorry if this offends you) (but if you ARE a professor, it's meant as a compliment!). I don't work for the college or anything though, so I don't hav... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I ready to put my toe in the water? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/k6cmvg/am_i_ready_to_put_my_toe_in_the_water/ |
NannersBoy | 2023-06-28 16:19:17 | 1,687,969,157 | 0 | null | 0 | 14ldtsh | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14ldtsh/getting_a_reply_after_she_stopped_responding/ | 1 | This isn’t a lenhy convo and I didn’t embarrass myself by being needy, she just dead stopped responding after I asked a boring question 3 messages in. A typical situation and one worth exploring how to remedy. What should I do to rekindle it? Any fun lines with a high chance of reply? I already know 1. Give it a few da... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Getting a reply after she stopped responding | 1 | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14ldtsh/getting_a_reply_after_she_stopped_responding/ |
Rainb0wUnic0rnz | 2020-06-21 06:37:47 | 1,592,721,467 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | hd27dx | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hd27dx/what_to_do_when_you_get_a_match_online_but_arent/ | 1 | Likey, when online dating, if you get a match and talk for a couple of hours or even days. However, you find out your not interested in the other person. Do you just stop responding to them? Ghost them? Explain to them why you want to stop talking? What do you do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do when you get a ‘match’ online, but aren’t interested anymore? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hd27dx/what_to_do_when_you_get_a_match_online_but_arent/ |
moisawesome | 2019-08-04 05:13:34 | 1,564,895,614 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | clsodg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/clsodg/how_to_overcome_appraoch_anxiety/ | 2 | Hi, I just wanted to ask you how do I avoid approach anxiety when it comes to going up and talking to women. I can generally talk to girls as friends. But those girls are like super friend-zoned so I don't even bother with them. I'm talking like a fresh new start. Some guys can just go up and pick up girls like its not... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to overcome appraoch anxiety? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/clsodg/how_to_overcome_appraoch_anxiety/ |
FuckUsernamesMan47 | 2020-03-06 17:19:38 | 1,583,515,178 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | fegpgg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fegpgg/the_girl_ive_been_dating_wants_to_take_a_break/ | 1 | I've never been in an actual relationship. The longest I dated someone was 2 months. So I have very little experience. This girl and I met on tinder about a month ago, and we've been talking and hung out a few times since. Well, shes going through a tough time with life in general, and after a lot of..bad communication... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The girl I've been dating wants to take a break due to a rough time in life. How should I proceed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fegpgg/the_girl_ive_been_dating_wants_to_take_a_break/ |
TPnHBFans | 2024-09-03 01:30:00 | 1,725,327,000 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1f7nqww | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1f7nqww/scammers/ | 8 | Is it just me? Or does it seem that most of the women I match with in Hinge (I’ve a couple of actual dates and several phone calls) end up being Asian/African scammers? WTF?? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Scammers | 8 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1f7nqww/scammers/ |
27_chainzz | 2023-12-27 10:23:17 | 1,703,672,597 | 0 | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 18rxndv | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18rxndv/any_relationship_helping_apps/ | 1 | We always see those apps for finding relationships such as tinder and bumble. But what if you’re in a relationship and are struggling to maintain it? Isn’t there an app that helps you do this? If anyone has the app for it could you let me know. I thought that people don’t really use it so it’s unheard of. And why isn’t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any relationship helping apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18rxndv/any_relationship_helping_apps/ |
AngusAberdeen | 2020-02-04 02:21:18 | 1,580,782,878 | null | null | 0 | eyio0l | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/eyio0l/question_for_women_who_never_suggest_a_date/ | 3 | Do you prefer the guy always plan what to do, or do you want him to ask you what you would like to do? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question for women who never suggest a date activity | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/eyio0l/question_for_women_who_never_suggest_a_date/ |
quikstringer | 2024-02-05 01:39:47 | 1,707,097,187 | 0 | null | 0 | 1aj4pcc | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1aj4pcc/dating_deception/ | 11 | Hey Reddit, 37F here with a dating saga that'll make your head spin. So, met this 34M on Bumble, sparks flew like crazy for a week. But plot twist: showed his pic to my girl gang, and one friend's eyes practically popped out. Apparently, he's the star of some cautionary posts from 10 weeks ago – ladies warning about hi... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Dating Deception | 11 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1aj4pcc/dating_deception/ |
stronghawk_1334 | 2022-03-24 02:44:38 | 1,648,089,878 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'online dating'] | 0 | tlvryn | true | Question | 70 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tlvryn/anyone_else_drowning_in_matches_now_that_everyone/ | 9 | I don’t know if it’s the area I’m in or what but I just started online dating again after like a year hiatus. This time I sprung for the paid version to spare myself all the unnecessary swiping and get straight to people that like me. Well I’ve had the app now for a few days and have almost 3,000 matches, this is WITH ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Anyone else drowning in matches now that everyone is remote? | null | 0.59 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tlvryn/anyone_else_drowning_in_matches_now_that_everyone/ |
bubblegumbeatle | 2024-09-12 01:05:13 | 1,726,103,113 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1feqcum | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1feqcum/getting_ghosted_for_his_ex_23f/ | 1 | As the title says, I was dating this guy for a while and everything seemed to be going amazing. We had said early on that we were both looking for a relationship and dating with intentions for exclusivity / relationships. He told me it was going so well that he deleted his dating apps. We had so much in common and ever... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | getting ghosted for his ex 23F | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1feqcum/getting_ghosted_for_his_ex_23f/ |
ElderEons | 2024-04-30 13:28:32 | 1,714,483,712 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1cgsutw | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1cgsutw/dating_profile_review_40m_updated/ | 37 | I removed some of the pictures people were telling me to take down & I replaced them with other ones. I implemented some of the suggestions I was given. A picture of me playing guitar, a pic of me smiling with teeth showing, and I changed the wording of the bland bio I had. After I made these few changes, I am getting ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Dating Profile Review 40M (Updated) | 31 | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1cgsutw/dating_profile_review_40m_updated/ |
Genesis198 | 2023-10-13 08:37:02 | 1,697,186,222 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 176u2h0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/176u2h0/are_there_any_dating_apps_worth_using_general/ | 1 | So I'm around 8 months out of my first relationship. I loved her to death and we got along amazingly, but she chose career over us and did not make any time for the relationship, it was long distance and I was getting progressively more miserable not being able to see her, so I ended it. Probably the most painful thing... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are there any dating apps worth using / general advice | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/176u2h0/are_there_any_dating_apps_worth_using_general/ |
Charming-Snow4943 | 2024-09-18 19:50:48 | 1,726,689,048 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1fk1ury | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 42 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fk1ury/my_impostor_syndrome_ruined_my_chance_with_a_woman/ | 49 | Not long ago, I started interacting with a girl I met through Facebook Dating. We talked for a while online and eventually met in person. In my eyes, she was very beautiful, and she laughed at all my jokes, showing a clear interest in me. She didn’t mind that I’m short and overweight (5'5" and 231 lbs), which made me f... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My impostor syndrome ruined my chance with a woman. | 49 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fk1ury/my_impostor_syndrome_ruined_my_chance_with_a_woman/ |
CautiousFlight | 2019-11-06 16:06:39 | 1,573,056,399 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dsidgo | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dsidgo/did_i_go_full_relationship_too_fast/ | 1 | Ok so a brief backstory.. Guy and I met awhile ago briefly at a bar. He found me on Tinder and we have gone on three or four dates before this weekend. Friday he invites me out for drinks. He and his coworkers got raises that day, so they had gone out before and we pushed our drinks date later in the evening. I arrive ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I go full relationship too fast? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dsidgo/did_i_go_full_relationship_too_fast/ |
Brad98570 | 2024-03-26 11:50:08 | 1,711,453,808 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1bo5xqk | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bo5xqk/42_single_dad_none_partier_or_public_more_so/ | 1 | Dating sites seem fake and horrible not sure how to connect with someone.. Approach in public? I live in a small town. So kinda difficult. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 42 single dad none partier or public. More so outdoorsy. Where would I find a similar lady? Haven’t had much luck. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bo5xqk/42_single_dad_none_partier_or_public_more_so/ |
ee8989 | 2023-08-10 21:39:11 | 1,691,703,551 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15np9u5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15np9u5/dating_a_sober_person/ | 1 | Curious to hear thoughts on this outside of a sub dedicated to sobriety. Would you date someone who doesn’t drink alcohol anymore? For reference, 34F, going on two years sober and have gotten to a place where alcohol just doesn’t bother me. I know I can’t drink it, but I don’t mind being around it or if someone else ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a sober person | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15np9u5/dating_a_sober_person/ |
Fruit-Marzipans | 2023-07-10 02:18:08 | 1,688,955,488 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 14vh1pt | false | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14vh1pt/why_do_men_ask_women_out_on_the_first_message_on/ | 1 | Im just genuinely curious. Why would you ask a total stranger out on the very first hinge message you send them. Wouldn't you want to at least talk to them for a few minutes? like at least exchange 20 or so messages to see if they're even a fit for you to meet up with? I understand that you get to know the person a lot... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why do men ask women out on the first message on dating apps? | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14vh1pt/why_do_men_ask_women_out_on_the_first_message_on/ |
Plane-Competition494 | 2020-08-25 10:25:46 | 1,598,351,146 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ig9hyc | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ig9hyc/she_is_still_using_tinder/ | 3 | I've (23M) been dating this girl (23F) for 2 months, we had sex and I even met her mother and we are even planning trips together (the expenses are split), she is still using Tinder though, I'm almost 100% sure she is not seeing anyone else, she doesn't really strike me like that kind of girl but the fact that she is s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She is still using Tinder?? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ig9hyc/she_is_still_using_tinder/ |
no_timportant | 2023-10-02 19:53:16 | 1,696,276,396 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 16y6h7b | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16y6h7b/ghosted_again/ | 1 | 29 F here, been ghosted a few times on dating app and once after a first date that I thought went well.. Any advice or just articles I could read up because obviously it's something about me that needs changing. And honestly why would a grown adult even ghost people instead of saying sorry I don't think this will work ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ghosted again.. | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16y6h7b/ghosted_again/ |
conorwhite_3 | 2024-06-14 02:04:17 | 1,718,330,657 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dffvlz | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dffvlz/not_sure_what_to_do/ | 2 | So I’ve been talking to a girl for about 3 months, firstly on tinder then to Snapchat which has been for about 2 months. We’ve gone on one date but have caught up twice while we’ve seen each other on a night out. She’s stayed over my place twice but haven’t even kissed yet only cuddled. At the start her replies were ve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what to do | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dffvlz/not_sure_what_to_do/ |
krustomer | 2020-06-18 02:31:07 | 1,592,447,467 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | hb5w5x | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hb5w5x/what_are_some_overwhelming_commonalities_in/ | 4 | Inspired by u/TheZoologist. Especially ones that grind your gears. I'm on Hinge, and 8/10 men have a response to "Overly competitive at..." and it's invariably "everything" Or "Let's debate this topic..." and it's either "Pineapple on pizza?" "___ is a sandwich/soup" or "The Office blah blah blah." While it helps me cu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What are some overwhelming commonalities in profiles? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hb5w5x/what_are_some_overwhelming_commonalities_in/ |
Critical_Serve2766 | 2022-09-23 04:03:01 | 1,663,905,781 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | xlmx0j | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xlmx0j/im_afraid_to_take_chances_with_relationships_and/ | 1 | I'm afraid to take chance. I'm 23 and working in aviation and going school. I recently got back into online dating, because my family is worried about me. I matches with this girl on the app, and we kicked it off we chatted for a couple of days, talking about our favorite movies and music and what not. It was going wel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm afraid to take chances with relationships and dating. | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xlmx0j/im_afraid_to_take_chances_with_relationships_and/ |
my_throw_awayyy | 2020-10-13 09:06:49 | 1,602,580,009 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | ja9rvk | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ja9rvk/how_do_im21_tell_a_potential_fwb_that_im_a_virgin/ | 1 | I'm at a point in life where I'm looking for a girl to chill with me and be a FWB. I also would occasionally like her to have sex with me (maybe 10% of the time) but I value the friendship even more. My problem is I have never dated anyone before and I have never had sex before . I know this may scare away a few girls ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I(M21) tell a potential FWB that I'm a virgin and have never had sex before ? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ja9rvk/how_do_im21_tell_a_potential_fwb_that_im_a_virgin/ |
cosh1313 | 2019-04-19 03:36:21 | 1,555,644,981 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | beuom5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/beuom5/i_am_so_confused/ | 1 | I'll try to summarize my situation the best I can. So I matched with a guy on tinder about 8 months ago, we talked for a bit on the app and then exchanged snaps. At the time he hadn't asked me out but would send me random snaps and I'd send him some back. In the last month he started to reply to some of my snap stories... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am so confused | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/beuom5/i_am_so_confused/ |
k-m-a- | 2018-02-18 22:02:00 | 1,518,991,320 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 7yhqpv | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7yhqpv/help_my_dating_life/ | 0 | Okay so here’s the deal: I’m 5’10 and a bbw, so my dating life has basically been nonexistent. I️m 21 and have never had a boyfriend. I’m wanting to explore that part of my life now that I’m going into the next stage of my life. I️ hate dating apps and i don’t like going out to places by myself. Any advice on how to me... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help my dating life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7yhqpv/help_my_dating_life/ |
Voodoo_Gumpthrie | 2022-06-07 02:29:09 | 1,654,568,949 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | v6k9eb | true | Support Needed | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/v6k9eb/i_feel_like_im_missing_something/ | 0 | Ive never had problems with the dating scene.. Ive considered myself blessed with all the beautiful women I’ve courted throughout the years.. Ive matured and likely the most handsome/attractive ill ever be ..I’m now 30 and I feel so lost in the dating world .. The women outnumber the men in the area of the city Im in a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like I’m missing something | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v6k9eb/i_feel_like_im_missing_something/ |
rainbow-pen | 2022-11-21 01:40:16 | 1,668,994,816 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | z0lupd | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z0lupd/i_am_34f_and_have_no_relationship_experience_what/ | 14 | There are many reasons why: 1. I have social anxiety and I'm very introverted. Socializing drains me. I want to work on being less nervous interacting with people. 2. I have a very low sex drive. I rarely think about sex. The last time I've done anything sexual with a person was a decade ago. I haven't kissed anyone in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I Am 34(F) and Have No Relationship Experience. What Should I Do? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z0lupd/i_am_34f_and_have_no_relationship_experience_what/ |
AffectionateTop8919 | 2024-04-05 19:43:47 | 1,712,346,227 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bwr3k6 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bwr3k6/wondering_if_ldr_works/ | 1 | met a guy on a dating app and we facetimed and talked for four hours. we agreed that we had so much in common. we realized the only issue is that we live 2 hours away. Would this become an issue down the line? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wondering if LDR works.. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bwr3k6/wondering_if_ldr_works/ |
The_Infinity_Paradox | 2023-08-11 13:25:24 | 1,691,760,324 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15o8w32 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15o8w32/how_to_ask_if_everything_is_ok/ | 1 | Hello, so I (31m) have been seeing this girl (28f) for around three months, we've gone out on many dates and see each other like once a week at least. She knows I want to be in a relationship, but she has stated that she wants to hang out more still before we make it official, which I'm completely fine with. Last week ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to ask if everything is ok? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15o8w32/how_to_ask_if_everything_is_ok/ |
Harama-rama | 2021-10-05 22:17:02 | 1,633,472,222 | null | null | 0 | q270px | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/q270px/lazy_or_not_interested/ | 4 | Sometimes I get matched with guys who I cant understand their messaging style. They answer all messages very quickly saying “haha” , “same” and “yes” “thank you” but would not ask any questions or give me anything to continue the conversation. Is it laziness or lack of interest? How many messages would you send before ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Lazy or not interested | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/q270px/lazy_or_not_interested/ |
BossLevel | 2019-06-28 22:11:58 | 1,561,759,918 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | c6qj5f | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c6qj5f/10_months_of_dating_failures/ | 1 | Analyzing failures is important to avoid mistakes. No matter if we're talking about history, engineering, or dating. On this note, I would kindly request feedback on my dating failures. Below is a brief synopsis of my past dating failures over the last 10 months as a 30M: (1) Met while travelling, 26F, super romantic a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 10 months of dating failures | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c6qj5f/10_months_of_dating_failures/ |
Maschinenherz | 2019-08-12 01:12:45 | 1,565,572,365 | null | null | 0 | cp5bc9 | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cp5bc9/received_my_first_dck_pictures_when_i_didnt_ask/ | 5 | I hope I am not sounding like a douche here, I try my best to \not\ sound overtly offended or arrogant or whatever bad intentions anyone could read into my text. I am just scared and I don't know how to handle situations like these. And I am incredibly sad right now. I don't know what to do, so I am asking you reddit p... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Received my first dck pictures when I didn't ask fo them today. Not amused. Feeling scared of blocking/reporting people for creepyness, dick pictures, insults. What do YOU do in cases like this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cp5bc9/received_my_first_dck_pictures_when_i_didnt_ask/ |
Motor_Selection8496 | 2023-07-22 17:02:37 | 1,690,045,357 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 156penm | false | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/156penm/last_time_i_cancelled_a_second_date_with_someone/ | 1 | To prove everyone wrong, that having good sex on the first date is instrumental in building a good relationship with someone, I went on another date this Thursday with a match I had from tinder. They looked really fit and I was very into that, also had a good job and matching interests in literature and cinema. We were... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Last time I cancelled a second date with someone because I felt our sexuality compatibility was off and the sex police came with their pitch forks, so I went on another date and it was great | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/156penm/last_time_i_cancelled_a_second_date_with_someone/ |
blondechloe | 2021-04-04 22:28:33 | 1,617,575,313 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mk6grc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mk6grc/how_do_you_find_interesting_people_that_are_not/ | 1 | I got out of a 3 year relationship at the last part of 2020. I have spent that time work on myself, morning and getting stable again. I feel as though I am ready to get out there and meet new people. I’m not even fussed if they end up being good friends, but how does one do this? I have no social media, dating apps or ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you find interesting people that are not just there to see your body | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mk6grc/how_do_you_find_interesting_people_that_are_not/ |
thisisnotrealhello | 2024-09-14 19:47:57 | 1,726,343,277 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fgub9p | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fgub9p/dating_girl_that_needs_permission_from_parents/ | 1 | So I met this girl on a dating app, and honestly I like her. I've been on tons of dates and it's pretty hard to find someone you feel compatible with, which I do with her. However, she still lives with her parents. I am 24, she is 22. I don't have issues with anyone living with their parents. However, she seems to need... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating girl that needs permission from parents for anything | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fgub9p/dating_girl_that_needs_permission_from_parents/ |
1990daddyk | 2022-01-27 16:24:06 | 1,643,300,646 | null | null | 0 | se26xo | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/se26xo/fb_dating/ | 0 | I recently matched with a girl yesterday and we having a great conversation but I just want know tips on how to skip small talk and avoid getting unmatched? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Fb dating | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/se26xo/fb_dating/ |
BlueRibbon998 | 2019-10-23 22:20:10 | 1,571,869,210 | null | null | 0 | dm6u6b | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/dm6u6b/a_cheesy_halloween_online_dating_joke/ | 33 | I happened to come across this cheesy, Halloween dad joke about online dating today and just wanted to share it here to lighten the mood a bit and hopefully give someone a smile who's struggling with the difficulties of online dating. "All these ghosts on dating apps and still no boo" 🎃👻 | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A Cheesy, Halloween Online Dating Joke | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/dm6u6b/a_cheesy_halloween_online_dating_joke/ |
usctrojan415 | 2019-04-09 21:01:38 | 1,554,843,698 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | bbdbs7 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/bbdbs7/what_are_your_thoughts_of_women_who_hire_an/ | 0 | I am not talking about portrait or headshot photographers but those that specialize in taking natural, candid photos (no photoshop). | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are your thoughts of women who hire an online dating photographer for their online dating profiles? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/bbdbs7/what_are_your_thoughts_of_women_who_hire_an/ |
Charm52 | 2020-02-21 21:53:19 | 1,582,321,999 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | f7idw6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f7idw6/hinge_or_not_to_hinge/ | 1 | Hello I’ve been on Hinge for a few days now and only had one person respond to me or like my profile. Has anyone else encountered this? I know I’m not some young bombshell but seriously??? Any thoughts, ideas, etc is greatly appreciated | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge or not to Hinge | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f7idw6/hinge_or_not_to_hinge/ |
Limabean1000 | 2022-09-05 08:05:43 | 1,662,365,143 | null | null | 0 | x6am7w | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x6am7w/why_do_people_do_this/ | 4 | Been seeing profiles where you can't even see a person's full face. In one profile the guy was far away in all his pictures. You can barely make out his facial features and can't even see his pupils. In another profile the guy had sunglasses on in every photo. I don't understand why people do this. Like would they even... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do people do this | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x6am7w/why_do_people_do_this/ |
NewFeel871 | 2021-12-09 23:15:20 | 1,639,091,720 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | rcu0gs | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rcu0gs/what_other_dating_apps_for_serious_relationships/ | 7 | Currently I'm having some matches leading to messages then leading towards number exchanges. This was way better than getting absolutely nothing on Tinder/Bumble. If you were to recommend another app alongside this that's as good as Hinge, what would it be? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What other dating apps for serious relationships should I use alongside Hinge? | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rcu0gs/what_other_dating_apps_for_serious_relationships/ |
Present-Success3804 | 2021-02-11 00:57:53 | 1,613,005,073 | null | null | 0 | lh8x4q | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/lh8x4q/revealing_the_secret_flirt_tool/ | 0 | Learn how to reveal the secret flirt tool. For more https://youtu.be/rWXit36vL_w | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Revealing the secret flirt tool | null | 0.1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/lh8x4q/revealing_the_secret_flirt_tool/ |
Human_Significance96 | 2024-07-18 15:28:45 | 1,721,316,525 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1e6e9q4 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e6e9q4/urgent/ | 1 | Urgent Please Help 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I have a crush on a boy who I matched on Bumble dating app 3 years ago. We just met for once but never met again . He talks to me sometimes , but not consistently and then disappears for months . Last year we started talking again after not talking for 6-7 months straight. I got to know he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | URGENT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e6e9q4/urgent/ |
RudeGood | 2022-12-15 22:36:15 | 1,671,143,775 | null | null | 0 | zmyg48 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zmyg48/why_dont_dating_apps_show_me_people_near_me/ | 1 | I'm very frustrated over how dating apps don't show me profiles of people near me but always show me profiles that are hundreds of kilometres far away. Even the profiles I get in the top picks are so far away. This isn't fair at all. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why don't dating apps show me people near me? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zmyg48/why_dont_dating_apps_show_me_people_near_me/ |
Cannibal_Specter | 2022-04-09 07:28:55 | 1,649,489,335 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tzo3xf | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tzo3xf/whats_your_old_opening_line/ | 2 | Question to other men. When you match with someone, what's your usual opening line? How often does it work? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What's your OLD opening line? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tzo3xf/whats_your_old_opening_line/ |
AudreysEvilTwin | 2023-04-06 22:26:45 | 1,680,820,005 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 12e09dj | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/12e09dj/dating_as_a_heterosexual_gender_nonconforming/ | 12 | It seems to me that most dating advice I ever read boils down to "epitomise your gender role and look for a partner who epitomises theirs", and honestly that's not for everyone. I'm not a very feminine woman and I'm not attracted to very manly men; it's completely unhelpful to me to get told, essentially, that I'm fund... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating as a heterosexual gender nonconforming person? | 12 | 0.55 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12e09dj/dating_as_a_heterosexual_gender_nonconforming/ |
PaddyStars | 2020-07-08 22:50:15 | 1,594,248,615 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hnrg1z | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hnrg1z/can_i_just_pay_for_the_hotel_or_is_that_a_no_no/ | 1 | is it acceptable for me to pay for the vacation? hi, sorry i’m on mobile. please don’t make fun of me for having caps off i’ll also put a TLDR at the end. anyway, i’ve been kinda seeing this guy since lockdown started. we actually met on tinder in march and just hit it off. we haven’t been able to meet until recently b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | can i just pay for the hotel or is that a no no? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hnrg1z/can_i_just_pay_for_the_hotel_or_is_that_a_no_no/ |
Outrageous_Flow1334 | 2024-03-19 22:05:12 | 1,710,885,912 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1biwtdm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1biwtdm/advice_needed_from_women_what_to_do_after_first/ | 2 | Hi Went on a hinge date with this guy last week. It was fun, I enjoyed our chats (he picked a wine bar in my neighbourhood and in the first instance asked me out). However post date he hasn’t reached out to me at all. He said he had a great time and gave me a peck on my lips (to my surprise). I’m not sure if I thanked ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice needed from women What to do after first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1biwtdm/advice_needed_from_women_what_to_do_after_first/ |
Conservationforhire | 2019-11-29 03:31:08 | 1,574,998,268 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | e3907h | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e3907h/actual_advice/ | 2 | Does anyone have any advice on actually getting yourself out there? I’m (20M) in college, I’ve tried one dating app, and I’ve asked some friends about their friends but nothing has clicked with anyone. It’s kind of disappointing because I want to actually talk with someone and connect, but it all just seems so superfic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Actual advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e3907h/actual_advice/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-05 16:57:02 | 1,407,257,822 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2cpbpo | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2cpbpo/need_some_advice_just_having_bad_luck_29_m/ | 1 | Hello everyone! This is my first time posting anything on Reddit, I'm usually just reading others posts but decided to finally make one myself about something that has frustrated me for a while. I'm a 29 year old male and single, and have had a difficult time with trying to date or find someone who will like me. I've d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need some advice, just having bad luck? (29, M) | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2cpbpo/need_some_advice_just_having_bad_luck_29_m/ |
BoredRedhead24 | 2022-02-21 03:14:55 | 1,645,413,295 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | sxj5va | true | Support Needed | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sxj5va/i_am_starting_to_think_that_i_am_just_not_dateable/ | 1 | Well, as the title says, I am starting to think I am simply not dateable. I have tried so much, going out to bars always falls on it's face as A) I don't drink and B) I have nobody to go with and even if I did, I do not hold up well in crowded areas. I tried dating apps, after tinder and bumble failed I tried Hinge, af... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am starting to think that I am just not dateable. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sxj5va/i_am_starting_to_think_that_i_am_just_not_dateable/ |
jazzhands1796 | 2022-04-05 09:37:14 | 1,649,151,434 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | twr2y6 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/twr2y6/need_desperate_help/ | 0 | I matched with a guy on bumble and it got pretty serious and was going well. A couple of days ago, a long lost friend messaged me asking me if I know the guy. I said yes. She said she matched with him on Bumble. And then she told me the details of their chat. The lingo used was very much like my guy’s. Even his Instagr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need desperate help | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/twr2y6/need_desperate_help/ |
Weak-Positive4377 | 2024-09-04 13:44:44 | 1,725,457,484 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1f8tpkm | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f8tpkm/where_can_i_as_a_white_canadian_meet_an_asian/ | 0 | For context I am from a small rural town in southern Ontario, the demographic is primarily Dutch with an I flux of Eastern Indian in the more new developments. I'm fairly new back in Ontario after having been in remote BC for work. I've come to the conclusion dating sites don't work for me. And I'm clueless otherwise. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where can I as a white Canadian meet an Asian woman? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f8tpkm/where_can_i_as_a_white_canadian_meet_an_asian/ |
Far_Tree_5200 | 2023-08-08 13:21:05 | 1,691,500,865 | 0 | null | 0 | 15li2kn | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15li2kn/any_tips_on_profile_pictures_or_bio/ | 1 | Bio: Hello, my name is Simon, I was born 97 and my hobbies are: cooking Italian/Asian food, watching sci-fi at cinema, training martial arts and building computers , I also play video games like apex legends and Skyrim I used to play a lot of (OW) now I’m more focused on training and being social Update: I’m unable to ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Any tips on profile pictures or bio? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15li2kn/any_tips_on_profile_pictures_or_bio/ |
collector344 | 2023-01-15 05:33:24 | 1,673,760,804 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10cbpth | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10cbpth/am_i_worth_it/ | 0 | Honestly, not sure if this is the right place to post this (feel free to refer me to somewhere more appropriate) I (30M) feel like I’m in a good place in life. I’m both an officer with a lucrative career in the National Guard and I’m in the corporate finance world as well, so I feel like my future is basically secured ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I worth it? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10cbpth/am_i_worth_it/ |
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