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parkavenueprincesss
2023-02-20 22:55:14
1,676,933,714
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['bumble']
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117n9tk
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Question ❓
13
0
/r/dating/comments/117n9tk/best_pickup_linesopeners_for_bumble/
3
tired of saying ‘hiii’ and i figured there are many other things to say — what do people say on apps?
dating
t5_2qhb1
best pickup lines/openers for bumble?
null
0.72
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/117n9tk/best_pickup_linesopeners_for_bumble/
Prestigious-Half3817
2023-11-01 21:57:53
1,698,875,873
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
17lngn5
true
null
36
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/17lngn5/identifying_best_matches/
2
Hi Everyone, I'm a 45/f divorced for two years following a four-year separation due to my ex-husband having an affair and leaving my daughter and I for another woman. It's been a difficult and traumatic six years since he left. I've rebuilt much of my life but I haven't really dated. I've been the sole caretaker of my ...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Identifying best matches
2
0.62
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17lngn5/identifying_best_matches/
zeidmaschine
2024-08-08 17:10:31
1,723,137,031
0
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
1enbhu0
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1enbhu0/i_asked_her_to_be_exclusive_and_kinda_regret_it/
2
So this is kinda complicated. I’ve (M26) been dating this girl (F26) for six weeks now. We see each other multiple times per week, do lots of things together, have sex where I stay over and we click like with nobody else. She always says how similar we are in so many things. Two weeks ago we agreed to date casually, he...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I asked her to be exclusive and kinda regret it
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1enbhu0/i_asked_her_to_be_exclusive_and_kinda_regret_it/
Centurio_34
2021-03-31 12:46:09
1,617,194,769
null
['hinge']
0
mh5bx0
true
null
537
1
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mh5bx0/34m_hinge_profile_review/
255
I've been on Hinge for almost 10 years, but as a 34-year-old single guy, I'm freaking out, and I think I'm long overdue to a some brutal honesty with regards to my profile. While I feel like I'm doing everything I'm supposed to be doing - great career, hobbies, personality, taking care of myself, etc. - I live in a maj...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
[34/M] Hinge profile review
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mh5bx0/34m_hinge_profile_review/
rose1343
2024-06-12 04:10:47
1,718,165,447
0
['dating apps']
0
1ddxsq2
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1ddxsq2/where_to_meet_people_irl/
2
Anyone’s got any place they go and meet new people « organically » or naturally. I’ve tried dating apps but im kinda really bored from them. So if anyone has any suggestions as to where I could meet people in real life first let me know thanks! (I live in a small town if that counts for anything haha)
dating
t5_2qhb1
Where to meet people irl
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddxsq2/where_to_meet_people_irl/
Purdurhur
2018-12-05 18:28:59
1,544,034,539
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
a3f1ql
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/a3f1ql/people_who_have_a_more_serious_demeanor_how_do/
5
For me I'm quickly realizing that many of my dating issues stems from the stale, haphazard and facile culture surrounding a lot of dating. Some people call it "hook up culture". I think of it more as reducing sex and dating to just a physical process and removing purpose and spirituality from the whole experience which...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
People who have a more serious demeanor. How do you approach dating?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a3f1ql/people_who_have_a_more_serious_demeanor_how_do/
Curious_Skeptic7
2020-04-08 06:54:55
1,586,328,895
null
['OLD']
0
fx1l61
true
null
15
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fx1l61/how_to_initiate_a_casual_relationship_fwb/
1
34m. I've just started dating again after my decade-long relationship/marriage ended and I feel so out of my depth with how it works these days and what the etiquette is. I've been chatting to a bunch of girls on OLD which has been great but I need some advice on how and when to bring up what I'm looking for. Is this s...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How to initiate a casual relationship / FWB
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fx1l61/how_to_initiate_a_casual_relationship_fwb/
sooverwhelmed49
2023-09-03 00:22:20
1,693,700,540
0
['matched']
0
168ij0u
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/168ij0u/did_i_ask_for_a_date_too_soon_and_blow_this/
1
I had a great conversation with a girl yesterday and she seemed somewhat interested in me. This morning, I decided to ask her if she wanted to have dinner with me later in the week and I've been ghosted. I'm kicking myself over this even though I realize that there's nothing I could've done to prevent this. She mention...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I ask for a date too soon and blow this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/168ij0u/did_i_ask_for_a_date_too_soon_and_blow_this/
DistinctGold7446
2022-09-01 20:59:15
1,662,065,955
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
x3ifi7
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/x3ifi7/hinge_date/
3
I went on two dates with this guy from hinge. Our first date went really well and we kept in touch with text messages. He initiated second date and took me for nice dinner. We hung out after dinner at a bar and that was it. I texted him after I got home and the next day I texted him if he would like to go out for a thi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Hinge date
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x3ifi7/hinge_date/
anxient_throwaway
2024-02-20 12:59:05
1,708,433,945
0
['OLD']
0
1avh1vr
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1avh1vr/ladies_should_he_find_a_place_youre_happy_with_if/
1
A guy from OLD asked me out on a date. We live in different cities, about 45 mins away with train from each other. My city is a smaller city and his is a big city with lots to offer. He said he didn't mind coming to my city for our first date, but I actually wouldn't mind going somewhere different for once. I told him ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Ladies, should he find a place you're happy with if you're coming to his city for a first date?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1avh1vr/ladies_should_he_find_a_place_youre_happy_with_if/
DefJ456
2018-06-30 17:58:49
1,530,381,529
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
8v3nae
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8v3nae/i_didnt_do_anything_wrong_here_right/
2
Hello dating advice sub reddit! Have another question for yall. 25/m I matched with this girl on tinder about a week ago. We hit it off pretty good, chatted on app for a day, I got her number the next. We chatted for another day, I tried to set a first date up. She said she was busy until today. So we were texting last...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I didnt do anything wrong here right?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8v3nae/i_didnt_do_anything_wrong_here_right/
Onyx695
2023-05-06 02:03:34
1,683,338,614
0
['online dating']
0
1398qm4
true
Question ❓
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1398qm4/late_20s_early_30s_introverts_where_are_you/
1
My friend (m29) and I (m31) are both single and we were talking about where to meet women that we specifically might be interested in and we realized we genuinely don’t know. We are both single with similar interests and similar lifestyles now but very different body types due to different lifestyles previously. He is ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Late 20s - Early 30s introverts, Where are you?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1398qm4/late_20s_early_30s_introverts_where_are_you/
TexMexxx
2021-07-08 07:29:19
1,625,729,359
null
['matched']
0
og2cu2
true
null
12
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/og2cu2/cautious_date_how_to_proceed/
6
Hey there. Some weeks ago I (44m) matched with a woman (41f) and we had great talks (text and phone) for the first week till we met. She is very funny, likeable and attractive, I really like her. This friday we go on date number three but I can't really interpret her. She is very polite and friendly and made it clear t...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Cautious date, how to proceed...?
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/og2cu2/cautious_date_how_to_proceed/
njk345
2023-09-09 03:36:22
1,694,230,582
0
['dating apps']
0
16dv71c
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16dv71c/dating_as_v_shy_awkward_guy/
1
Ugh mostly venting but I’m M24 and feel like such a loser and hopeless in dating because I’m very shy and awkward. People say I’m cute, even hot sometimes, but I never seem to get anywhere with girls I’m actually interested in because I guess I don’t project confidence, or put myself out there enough, or take the lead ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating as v shy awkward guy
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dv71c/dating_as_v_shy_awkward_guy/
SourSweetUmami
2023-12-20 18:29:58
1,703,096,998
0
['dating app']
0
18n1kek
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/18n1kek/how_heavily_do_men_need_to_pursueinitiate_in_the/
1
Hi guys, Recently, I’ve been able to get first dates however I am noticing that after the dates the ladies stop texting or initiating any sort of conversation. Whereas before the date they would often reach out and text me or tell me about their day. This leaves me confused because I feel like the dates all go well; Pl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How heavily do men need to pursue/initiate in the beginning stages of dating?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18n1kek/how_heavily_do_men_need_to_pursueinitiate_in_the/
Shambala-3
2018-04-14 05:40:53
1,523,684,453
0
['bumble']
0
8c5n93
false
null
9
0
/r/dating/comments/8c5n93/why_do_people_do_this/
3
So I met a guy on Bumble and we hit it off pretty great. Unfortunately I was going through an emotional time and I needed to focus on myself for a bit. I let the guy know well before he drove to my place to pick me up. He was annoyed but glad I didn’t waste his time/gas. Fast forward two months. I’m in a much better pl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why do people do this?
3
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8c5n93/why_do_people_do_this/
FuturePlace6
2020-05-17 21:15:17
1,589,750,117
null
['tinder']
0
glnk7t
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/glnk7t/need_some_perspective_on_the_situation_long/
2
Bit of background first, I'm(22M) not really one for Tinder (tried it for a while with no success) nor am I one for clubnights/bars. I do enjoy raves though and the music I'm into doesn't really have a scene where I live, so most of my 'going out' is a minimum 2 hour trip and generally in a different country. This puts...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need some perspective on the situation (long)
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/glnk7t/need_some_perspective_on_the_situation_long/
ThrowRAmovinon
2024-05-02 04:15:54
1,714,623,354
0
['dating app']
0
1ci6jij
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1ci6jij/why_is_it_hard_to_find_someone_organically/
1
Is it hard to find someone organically? I’m 23f had one relationship where I got cheated on. I met this person through online gaming with no intentions of dating so that was the closest I got to meeting someone organically I realized definitely not cut out for ldr after that one but when looking to date I found meeting...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why is it hard to find someone organically?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ci6jij/why_is_it_hard_to_find_someone_organically/
WetBigSlap
2024-01-31 12:38:50
1,706,704,730
0
['dating app']
0
1afgwrb
true
null
83
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1afgwrb/currently_seeing_two_girls_one_with_great/
1
Girl 1: So after the course of a few months I managed to make my moves on a girl I was really interested in. She was part of my friend group that I’ve known for about 5 months and our chemistry is unmatched. Whenever I’m with her I always have a great time, our chemistry is as if we’ve known each other for 10 years alr...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Currently seeing two girls. One with great personality, other with great looks. Which one should I go for?
1
0.27
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1afgwrb/currently_seeing_two_girls_one_with_great/
Nutt18
2019-03-06 20:18:13
1,551,903,493
null
['dating apps']
0
ay3ds7
true
null
15
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ay3ds7/how_do_i_find_someone_interested_in_me/
3
Im (m24) (average build) (5’11”)So i keep my self clean and looking nice. I try to be as confident as i can but i dont brag. Ima nice guy but...iv been single for 4 years now. I just never can catch the eye of any woman or even on dating apps and sites. I just want to know what im doing wrong? Iv been told i try to har...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do i find someone interested in me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ay3ds7/how_do_i_find_someone_interested_in_me/
ericbarbaric5
2019-03-14 00:50:45
1,552,524,645
null
null
0
b0twkb
true
null
6
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/b0twkb/postponing_plans/
3
I have been talking with a girl I matched with all the way back on Jan 29th. We exchanged a few messages before she went AWOL for nearly a month. She came back and said she’s terrible with dating apps, I responded, and again she went missing. She had her IG profile linked so I made it a point to message her there and j...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Postponing plans
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b0twkb/postponing_plans/
peanutterbaby
2020-07-06 05:08:42
1,594,012,122
null
['matches']
0
hm1gt9
true
null
29
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hm1gt9/why_do_men_find_me_a_lot_more_attractive_when_my/
3
I’m 22F and I have really curly hair, think like Shakira or Zendaya curls. I’m pretty, I get my fair share of matches on apps and an occasional compliment from a strangers. But damn when I blow out my hair the attention I receive shoots up. I can easily get 50 matches in one sitting, I’ll get stares and compliments, an...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why do men find me a lot more attractive when my hair is straight?
null
0.71
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hm1gt9/why_do_men_find_me_a_lot_more_attractive_when_my/
[deleted]
2022-08-26 17:24:47
1,661,534,687
null
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
wyezo8
true
null
66
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/wyezo8/if_you_are_a_man_can_you_please_clarify_what/
3
EDIT : The title should have said 'casual relationship' not 'casual sex'. One of the commenters helped me describe it as FWB with exclusivity. Can't edit the title ! I am trying to figure out why men who want a casual sex realtionship end up not replying to my question of what 'casual sex relationship' is to them. I do...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If you are a man, can you please clarify what casual sex means to you ?
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wyezo8/if_you_are_a_man_can_you_please_clarify_what/
Dense-Bass1090
2024-03-14 09:22:29
1,710,408,149
0
['tinder']
0
1beh3e6
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1beh3e6/the_guy_im_talking_to_is_sending_such_mixed/
1
I met this guy on tinder roughly 6 months ago. We spoke for around 3 months until we finally met up. At first we both said we weren't looking for anything specific but he did mention he was inching more towards finding a relationship. We went on three dates that went really well and on the 4th one we slept together. Si...
dating
t5_2qhb1
The guy I'm talking to is sending such mixed messages.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1beh3e6/the_guy_im_talking_to_is_sending_such_mixed/
GlitteringPufferfish
2024-02-12 11:34:42
1,707,737,682
0
['dating site']
0
1aoxzsx
true
null
37
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1aoxzsx/am_i_too_boring/
5
I've been on dating site and get lots of likes on my profile pics, and often guys want to meet up. They usually like me and want to see me again, but after a few dates they ghost me and I have no idea why they do that. I don't ask them to take me to fancy restaurant, I don't text them 24/7, I don't ask them to be in a ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I too boring???
5
0.85
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aoxzsx/am_i_too_boring/
Fluffy_Employee_3120
2024-03-21 17:45:22
1,711,043,122
0
['matched', 'dating app']
0
1bkcjtr
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkcjtr/is_this_an_ai_or_something_else/
1
So I matched with this girl on a dating app. Seemed really friendly and everything. Seem to get along well. But something about the messages are super… off… one big thing I find odd is every day, the first text starts with “Hey _ my name _” Like… I feel like most people don’t do that. They just pick right back up on th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is this an AI or something else?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bkcjtr/is_this_an_ai_or_something_else/
leslie1124
2016-12-28 08:46:37
1,482,914,797
0
['dating app']
0
5kpapf
null
null
10
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/5kpapf/is_my_hookup_catching_feelings/
1
F(26) Ended a 5 year relationship in Dec 2015, I decided it was time to get back into the dating world in Feb 2016. Can't mope forever right? I met this guy Chris (35) via dating app. I know, dating app...I work 2 jobs and don't really have time to date like a normal person. Chris is 9 yrs older. Good looking, good job...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is my hookup catching feelings?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5kpapf/is_my_hookup_catching_feelings/
StationFormer1476
2024-08-24 20:48:06
1,724,532,486
0
['matches', 'tinder']
0
1f0f87r
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0f87r/unmatched_but_still_talking/
1
Is there any way a girl would disappear from my tinder matches other than unmatch or account deletion? I (M24) ve been talking to this girl (21F) now on a different chat app for a week. We ve also been on a date and later she also said she is interested in more. We are still chatting but I am mostly leading the convers...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Unmatched but still talking
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f0f87r/unmatched_but_still_talking/
Auraomega
2021-10-12 10:02:54
1,634,032,974
null
['hinge']
0
q6is1b
true
null
30
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/q6is1b/when_to_let_them_arrange_the_dates/
2
Thanks for all the comments, sometimes you just need someone to tell you that it's a dick move for you to realise it. I've arranged to see her again when I'm back home and I'll we'll have a chat about future dates. ---- I've been on 3 dates with someone (35f) I met on Hinge, I feel like there is a connection there. So ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
When to let them arrange the dates
null
0.56
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/q6is1b/when_to_let_them_arrange_the_dates/
javia1492
2019-04-11 21:56:26
1,555,019,786
null
['tinder']
0
bc5qq6
true
I Need Advice
10
0
/r/dating/comments/bc5qq6/terrible_at_flirting_in_personbeing_romantic/
11
\ From my perspective, I put in an effort to be very physical (touching, hugging, holding her hand), just didnt kiss her yet. Kinda bummed out since she was the first girl from Tinder i really liked and could see myself with, but not going to let it put me down. Any advice on how to be more flirty/romantic? I dont have...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Terrible at flirting in person/being romantic
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bc5qq6/terrible_at_flirting_in_personbeing_romantic/
calf-ogress0k
2022-02-23 10:52:43
1,645,613,563
null
['dating app']
0
szenjz
true
I Need Advice
13
0
/r/dating/comments/szenjz/male_mid_30s_dating_over_6_months_but_i_am_no/
2
Hi, So to be clear here, when I say not attracted, I am not repulsed by her, she is very hygienic, goes to the gym, eats healthy, I have no aversion towards lying next to her naked, but yet also I don't feel THAT pull of an attraction towards her. We do however have a really strong emotional connection, this is what fi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Male mid 30s, dating over 6 months but I am no longer attracted to her, I don't want to hurt her though, what do I do and or how do I do it
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/szenjz/male_mid_30s_dating_over_6_months_but_i_am_no/
KatieWoods
2014-02-07 12:31:34
1,391,776,294
0
['online dating', 'dating sites']
0
1x9n9g
null
null
0
null
/r/dating/comments/1x9n9g/how_to_find_best_online_dating_sites/
1
If you are looking for best dating services then just click on www.womendating.com.au it provides very great facilities to their members. It is also free.
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to Find Best Online Dating Sites
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1x9n9g/how_to_find_best_online_dating_sites/
SuperPresentation9
2022-10-01 11:06:10
1,664,622,370
null
['bumble']
0
xsskjb
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xsskjb/need_advice_what_should_my_final_message_be_to/
3
So I (m24) started talking to this girl (f25) from bumble about 2.5 weeks ago and we went on a date (just a casual after work/end of week drinks thing) last Friday (a week ago now). Overall, I had a great time and things went better than expected. She even said on the date that she’d want to do something again, kissed ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Need advice. What should my final message be to this girl?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xsskjb/need_advice_what_should_my_final_message_be_to/
Duderocks18
2019-11-23 16:24:28
1,574,526,268
null
['dating apps']
0
e0k0z2
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e0k0z2/21m_i_need_advice_for_putting_myself_in/
3
First, some background information. In every aspect of my life but social, I've "got my shit together," more or less. I've got a decent job for the time being, cooking healthy meals for myself, finding hobbies to pursue, and practice self-care. This semester and next, I just need to take 1 course at university to gradu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[21/M] I need advice for putting myself in situations where I can meet potential dates.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e0k0z2/21m_i_need_advice_for_putting_myself_in/
SaltLeader3687
2023-09-14 19:03:29
1,694,718,209
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
16iqug4
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16iqug4/did_i_30m_act_weird_or_did_she_28f/
1
I matched with a girl on hinge a couple of weeks ago, we exchanged instas, and ended up meeting for a drink a few days later. Overall the date went well but a few things stuck out. For one I learned that she just moved to my city 3 weeks earlier and that her new roommate is a woman I rejected 1.5 years ago. I think I r...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Did I (30m) act weird or did she (28F)
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16iqug4/did_i_30m_act_weird_or_did_she_28f/
Puzzled-Cranberry9
2024-09-01 03:45:39
1,725,162,339
0
['matches', 'dating app']
0
1f65dyi
true
Question ❓
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1f65dyi/figuring_out_how_to_avoid_situationships/
0
Recently I've been changing up my dating app profile to be more upfront about my expectations. In particular, I'm not really looking for anything online or based on texting and really prefer text/message to coordinate plans. I've noticed, since doing this, I've gotten less matches, BUT am actually going on more dates! ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Figuring out how to avoid situationships
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f65dyi/figuring_out_how_to_avoid_situationships/
sandybullet
2019-01-26 22:43:37
1,548,542,617
null
['tinder']
0
ak6005
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ak6005/can_i_be_in_love_with_someone_ive_never_met/
1
I [21F] met this guy through tinder a couple months ago. We talk a lot and FaceTime all the time, almost every day. I think I’m in love with him yet I’ve never met him in person. But he’s in love with someone else. This girl who doesn’t even want him or appreciate how great he is. He talks about it all the time and eve...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Can I be in love with someone I’ve never met?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ak6005/can_i_be_in_love_with_someone_ive_never_met/
Public_Measurement_5
2024-09-06 05:00:48
1,725,598,848
0
['tinder']
0
1fa76qu
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
10
0
/r/dating/comments/1fa76qu/guy_i_dated_lied_about_his_age_and_more/
0
I can’t believe this actually happened… hang on for this rollercoaster ride. So basically I met this guy on Tinder, he was “28 years old” and looked fun. He was tall and attractive and had plenty of normal looking pictures with friends. Fast forward I message him and we decide to go on a date, he takes me to play some ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy I dated lied about his age and more
0
0.45
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fa76qu/guy_i_dated_lied_about_his_age_and_more/
cavscout43
2022-03-10 17:17:13
1,646,932,633
null
['OLD', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
tb3m79
true
null
218
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/tb3m79/disposable_dating_culture_a_net_positive_or/
78
Generally there has been a lot of negative takes on OLD and how it made dating culture very ephemeral (everyone's looking for something better because of the options), and that's preventing people from settling down. Personally, I have the potentially unpopular opinion that it's overall a good thing. We're no longer in...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
"Disposable" dating culture: A net positive or negative?
null
0.74
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/tb3m79/disposable_dating_culture_a_net_positive_or/
badgeringhoney
2023-04-05 04:53:58
1,680,670,438
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
12c8vkn
true
null
61
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12c8vkn/unmatch_or_nah/
0
Edit: I decided to respond with my availability. I’m still feeling meh about it, but at least I’ll have given it a shot. I am trying to be more open-minded. I usually don’t even respond to such generic opening “What’s up” messages. I only overlooked that due to the guy’s profile. Me, 36F. I matched with a guy (late 30s...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Unmatch or nah?
0
0.47
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/12c8vkn/unmatch_or_nah/
SameAd9297
2024-08-15 01:13:20
1,723,684,400
0
['dating apps']
0
1esie2a
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1esie2a/is_this_a_red_flag_and_if_so_why/
0
I’m on a couple dating apps and two times now I’ve told women that I got out of a relationship 3 months ago and they both immediately ghosted me. That’s not even that recent. Are we supposed to wait forever before dating again? There’s a time limit or something? I don’t get why it’s such a red flag to have gotten out o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is this a red flag and if so why?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1esie2a/is_this_a_red_flag_and_if_so_why/
Esra8
2022-04-10 01:10:02
1,649,553,002
null
['dating app', 'tinder']
0
u06t5m
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u06t5m/how_long_should_i_wait_before_trying_dating_again/
1
I'm a 19(m) and about a month ago I was broken up with by my girlfriend of 5 years. Since then we have interacted through mutual friends and the way she has said and done things has made me feel like us breaking up was a good thing. (Overreactions lying etc) That being said there's still a part of me that I think will ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
how long should I wait before trying dating again
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u06t5m/how_long_should_i_wait_before_trying_dating_again/
Strikescarler51
2021-03-17 11:33:21
1,615,980,801
null
['matched']
0
m6ye07
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/m6ye07/a_guy_29_ghosted_me_nearly_a_year_ago_after/
2
Why would he do this?? Back when I was in the dating scene I matched with him, we hit it off quick, exchanged some lewds (not nude photos) and when I tried to continue the conversation he just instantly ghosted. That was back in May 2020. Fast forward to today I just saw he followed my account on Instagram and I genuin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A guy (29) ghosted me nearly a year ago after talking for 1 day and sending me (29) consensual lewds...then follows me on IG yesterday. Has this ever happened to anyone?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m6ye07/a_guy_29_ghosted_me_nearly_a_year_ago_after/
chrobbin
2024-05-31 18:32:36
1,717,180,356
0
['dating apps']
0
1d52nlc
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
25
0
/r/dating/comments/1d52nlc/gotta_laugh_sometimes_about_dating_apps/
32
Mid-conversation where it seems like things are clicking, back and forth, full sentences and not just 1-2 word replies. Then you go to check your messages and they’ve unmatched 😂 oh well, onward I guess.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Gotta laugh sometimes about dating apps
31
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d52nlc/gotta_laugh_sometimes_about_dating_apps/
Ramunesoda99
2022-02-28 21:15:24
1,646,082,924
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
t3q5hk
true
Long Distance
13
0
/r/dating/comments/t3q5hk/tinder_match_i_spoke_to_for_a_while_said_lets_be/
2
I was on study exchange in Sweden, matched with a girl and we spoke every day. Got on so well together. I had to go home to the UK when my Erasmus visa had an issue due to Brexit. We stayed in touch and spoke every day again. Once covid ended I promised to go see her. We planned it for weeks and I was super excited to ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tinder match I spoke to for a while said ‘let’s be friends’ after 6 months😔
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/t3q5hk/tinder_match_i_spoke_to_for_a_while_said_lets_be/
SafetyNo1972
2022-02-11 21:40:32
1,644,615,632
null
['online dating']
0
sqad95
true
Support Needed
17
0
/r/dating/comments/sqad95/why_do_people_start_online_dating_if_they_dont/
5
Yet again I'm told by someone I'm interested in that they definitely want to meet up again but they'll be "busy" with a 40 hour job for the forseeable future. So now I'm left waiting, wondering if I should just take their word for it. It's so depressing to know I'm not worth anyone's time unless I'm paying for it :(
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why do people start online dating if they don't have any time to commit to it?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sqad95/why_do_people_start_online_dating_if_they_dont/
Stillfiguringitout28
2019-07-28 04:56:06
1,564,289,766
null
['bumble']
0
cirtt1
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cirtt1/bumble_etiquette/
0
I've been on bumble for a week and had coffee with someone a few days ago. We hadnt really talked much so i didn't feel like i had much to be excited about, but my roommate prefers to meet up right away and see if a spark is there so i was game. It wasnt a disaster but i wasnt really feeling it. He suggested doing it a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Bumble etiquette
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cirtt1/bumble_etiquette/
Whats-In-A-Name00
2024-09-20 16:14:02
1,726,848,842
0
['dating app']
0
1flfudq
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1flfudq/i_need_some_perspective_on_an_encounter_im_not/
2
I met this guy on a dating app and from the moment we started talking we hit it off. I enjoyed talking to him and all the attention he gave me but to an extent it all felt really love bomb-y. I've had some pretty bad dating experiences with mental/emotional abuse and being manipulated. But I asked friends about his beh...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I need some perspective on an encounter I'm not sure how to interpret.
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1flfudq/i_need_some_perspective_on_an_encounter_im_not/
MrAnonymous2749
2024-02-09 12:35:33
1,707,482,133
0
['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1amn6g7
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1amn6g7/i_feel_lost_warning_very_very_very_long_post/
1
Honestly, that's not an amazing description, but I'd say it's the most accurate one that I can come up with, and it doesn't particularly feel like the best thing to be focusing on right now... anyway. I just don't know what to do, so many thoughts, feelings, fears, everything swirling around at once, and I wanted some ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I feel... lost (warning! very very very long post)
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1amn6g7/i_feel_lost_warning_very_very_very_long_post/
maybe-tuesday
2019-08-22 13:03:01
1,566,478,981
null
['tinder']
0
ctx4ta
true
Question
8
0
/r/dating/comments/ctx4ta/psychotic_question_when_dating_someone_how_long/
1
This will make me sound psychotic I know. I’ve been dating a guy, it’s still very very new so I’m not at all angry or even really hurt that he is still on tinder. But I can’t help but feel like maybe he isn’t that into me, or maybe he isn’t thinking I’m long term material or I dunno.... there’s a lot of questions I’m h...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Psychotic question: when dating someone how long before you stop logging into tinder?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ctx4ta/psychotic_question_when_dating_someone_how_long/
Exciting_Display7460
2022-12-01 00:49:02
1,669,855,742
null
['OLD']
0
z992sd
true
null
26
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/z992sd/i_see_alot_of_men_on_reddit_complaining_about/
177
I have a tendency to ghost people.... More than I should so here are a few stories of why I ghosted some guy friends First guy: We were online friends for quiet a while like over a year he had a gf so I never worried about him being flirty or weird but guess what I should've because at some point after we met irl he st...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
I see alot of men on reddit complaining about getting ghosted from girls all the time but never try to think of why they're getting ghosted
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/z992sd/i_see_alot_of_men_on_reddit_complaining_about/
Lanky-Lie-696
2024-04-28 00:28:52
1,714,264,132
0
['dating app']
0
1cetf8c
true
null
21
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1cetf8c/how_do_i_move_on_after_3_phenomenal_dates/
2
I met this guy on a dating app recently… and I felt like I manifested him. He was so intentional and caring in his pursuit of me. Super attractive. Smart and spiritual. And he checked off a lot of my other boxes. We had our first date about a week after connecting, and it was great. We spent like 3 hours talking and ge...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I move on after 3 phenomenal dates?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cetf8c/how_do_i_move_on_after_3_phenomenal_dates/
blossomdreamer
2023-07-28 15:42:15
1,690,558,935
0
['matched']
0
15c0yoq
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15c0yoq/am_i_closing_a_chapter_the_right_way/
1
hey guys, hope this reach some of you, any feedback is appreciated :) so a while ago i (M22) matched on a dating website with (F24) this beautiful, loving and almost unreachable girl with whom i made a very strong connection (or that's what i thought). Even though we didn't have many hobbies in common, i perceived a gr...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
am i closing a chapter the right way?
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15c0yoq/am_i_closing_a_chapter_the_right_way/
Ihaveno_Imagination
2021-03-26 02:15:43
1,616,724,943
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder']
0
mdefrk
true
null
13
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mdefrk/guys_who_swipe_right_on_a_tinder_profile_with_no/
6
So I downloaded Tinder out of boredom. However, I did not include my real name and no pictures of me either. The only veritable info on my profile was my age gender and sexual orientation. Now I am wondering how I got +100 likes and tons of matches. I also have guys initiating convos. I understand that they might just ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guys who swipe right on a Tinder profile with no pics, why?
null
0.87
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mdefrk/guys_who_swipe_right_on_a_tinder_profile_with_no/
throwaway01974291
2018-11-24 15:56:40
1,543,075,000
null
['bumble']
0
9zzj5i
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9zzj5i/exboyfriend_reaching_out_to_me_this_weekend/
2
I 24F just got a text from my ex, 26M. He is home for the holiday (as I saw his dating profile on bumble since he is in the area). He hasn't spoken to me since we broke up and the break up really hurt me. We broke up because he (eventually) told me he could never fully commit to me (but strung me along) and he took up ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ex-Boyfriend reaching out to me this weekend?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9zzj5i/exboyfriend_reaching_out_to_me_this_weekend/
hnelsontracey
2021-08-12 23:50:40
1,628,812,240
null
['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble']
0
p3bx1e
true
Tinder/Online Dating
8
0
/r/dating/comments/p3bx1e/is_there_a_noncreepy_way_to_message_someone_you/
2
The answer to this question might be a simple "no" and that's fine, but I figured it was still worth asking. On Bumble, there are a lot of people I see who put their Instagram handle and never check the app, and I realize that most of it is to grow their follower count, but if I were to message them there, is there a w...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is there a non-creepy way to message someone you don't know on Instagram who you saw on a dating app?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p3bx1e/is_there_a_noncreepy_way_to_message_someone_you/
janzoandwren
2022-09-30 03:44:23
1,664,509,463
null
['online dating']
0
xrrdal
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/xrrdal/how_do_you_ask_people_out/
2
Hey yall - awkward 27 year old checking in. I've given up online dating and am trying to focus on meeting women in real life. The problem is 90% of women are attractive at first sight and it's hard to pick the "right" one to go up to and talk to. I try to make eye contact with women at the grocery store but they are al...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do you ask people out?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xrrdal/how_do_you_ask_people_out/
[deleted]
2020-09-20 06:57:52
1,600,585,072
null
['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge']
0
iw912g
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/iw912g/dating_apps_making_me_question_if_i_am/
2
I am a very shy, reserved individual so it has taken me quite a while to come round to using dating apps. Nonetheless I have been on 3 dating apps lately. Tinder, is a little odd. Sometimes I get several matches at once and others I hear nothing for weeks. Maybe it’s just my location? I mean at university I got 60 like...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating apps making me question if I am unattractive!
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iw912g/dating_apps_making_me_question_if_i_am/
rusty75f250
2022-08-26 12:11:38
1,661,515,898
null
['online dating']
0
wy7k7d
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/wy7k7d/any_tips_ladys_and_gents/
0
Hey 18 and single and looking for tips on meeting girls in the country/small town iam a introvert in a different level and a homebody I tired online dating to no avail which is no surprise unless your a 10 out of 10 guy which iam not the odds are kinda against you I have always been single homeschooled and just moved a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Any tips lady’s and gents
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wy7k7d/any_tips_ladys_and_gents/
bumblebeeflowers1
2023-12-28 03:23:53
1,703,733,833
0
['dating app']
0
18sjqwo
true
I Need Advice 😩
12
0
/r/dating/comments/18sjqwo/is_it_normal_to_not_text_before_meeting_in_person/
2
I (23 F) have been messaging this guy (27 M) for a few days after matching on a dating app. We initially had plans to hangout tomorrow but I cancelled this morning because I’m really busy and I’m about to leave town for 3 weeks. He kept messaging me throughout the day, telling me about his day and everything, so I thou...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it normal to not text before meeting in person?
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18sjqwo/is_it_normal_to_not_text_before_meeting_in_person/
Equivalent_Name4643
2023-02-16 00:35:20
1,676,507,720
null
null
0
113dcat
true
null
8
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/113dcat/specific_questions_about_what_to_add_in_about_me/
2
Would the two items below be good things to add in the about me section? Hold dual citizenship / bilingual, should I specify the country? Own and operate a successful business.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Specific questions about what to add in About Me section on profile.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/113dcat/specific_questions_about_what_to_add_in_about_me/
Foreign-Nature-3519
2021-09-08 16:29:18
1,631,118,558
null
null
0
pkdxn1
true
null
74
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/pkdxn1/whats_with_all_the_fighting/
49
Hello, I'm an early 20's female. I deleted an app recently because the men kept trying to goat me into arguments? I don't have any social/political/economic/religious things in my bio. When I avoided loaded topics they would attack me for not fighting back... They've also tried to insult me but the insults never land b...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What's with all the fighting????
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pkdxn1/whats_with_all_the_fighting/
FuzzyReplacement8
2020-05-14 01:54:37
1,589,421,277
null
['dating app']
0
gjcy7t
true
Question
5
0
/r/dating/comments/gjcy7t/make_contact_or_leave_it_alone/
1
here is my dilemma. i met this girl on dating app and i been texting her daily till two weeks ago. i did not push to get her number or talk on the phone because i felt she did not like giving her number out. then we tried to communicate through different messaging app. i got her number since the messaging app is requir...
dating
t5_2qhb1
make contact or leave it alone.
null
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gjcy7t/make_contact_or_leave_it_alone/
Big_hero_106
2024-02-05 19:14:06
1,707,160,446
0
['matched', 'dating app', 'bumble']
0
1ajos9s
true
I Need Advice 😩
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1ajos9s/help_pless_i_am_bit_scared_of_a_girlahmedabad/
2
So long story short. Broke up with 5 years relationship. Went on bumble matched with few girls. But actually got like forn this girl started taking in just in an hour she asked me if u were free on Saturday as a men replyed yes. But due to the girl asking repeatedly asking will u be my date and other question and being...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Help pless. I am bit scared of a girl!(ahmedabad)
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ajos9s/help_pless_i_am_bit_scared_of_a_girlahmedabad/
boots_the_house_down
2024-01-13 06:23:12
1,705,126,992
0
['dating apps']
0
195hijs
true
I Need Advice 😩
3
0
/r/dating/comments/195hijs/advice_on_guy_i_met/
1
So, I met this guy on New Year's eve at a bar and we danced and he asked for my number before I left. Since that day we've been texting back and forth and we were able to meet last week (a week after we met) and we basically went on a date. The thing is I cannot get a read on this guy. I'm either very inexperienced abo...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Advice on guy I met
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/195hijs/advice_on_guy_i_met/
Urbanredneck2
2022-04-13 03:34:15
1,649,820,855
null
['dating apps']
0
u2h449
true
Question
17
0
/r/dating/comments/u2h449/would_you_attend_and_old_fashioned_singles_mixer/
19
Many people on r/dating complain about using dating apps so lets say you see an invitation to attend a singles mixer at a local community center. Their will be music, food, games, and such all designed to allow people of the opposite sex to mingle and meet. It would only be for people in a specific age range like say t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Would you attend and old fashioned singles mixer?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/u2h449/would_you_attend_and_old_fashioned_singles_mixer/
strawberry-raven
2024-01-08 09:58:56
1,704,707,936
0
['dating app']
0
191hru4
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/191hru4/is_it_too_soon_intense_to_ask_him_to_go_to_my/
1
I met this guy in a dating app about a month ago, and things are going really well. and things are going pretty awesome. We text a bunch, have these cool, long phone calls sometimes during the week, and recently, we finally met up for a date, which was amazing. He even suggested a second date, and we agreed on the day ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is it too soon/ intense to ask him to go to my college grad party?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191hru4/is_it_too_soon_intense_to_ask_him_to_go_to_my/
Accomplished_Map8806
2022-02-15 02:58:13
1,644,893,893
null
['online dating', 'dating app']
0
sssmbv
true
I Need Advice
5
0
/r/dating/comments/sssmbv/i_like_the_personality_of_a_guy_but_im_not/
3
I'm in my 20s and I've met this guy online who is in his 30s. He's 7 years older than me. So this guy, has a great personality, in the sense that he has amazing vibes. And we match musically. Which is strange, since most people don't get my taste of music... I feel like he understands me on a deeper level and his vibes...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I like the personality of a guy but I'm not attracted to him physically
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sssmbv/i_like_the_personality_of_a_guy_but_im_not/
Thnxredball
2021-08-05 14:59:17
1,628,175,557
null
['matches']
0
oyk4y9
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/oyk4y9/mia/
0
There is a match (32f) on my app, that I (32m) have interest in. We chatted a bit, she went MIA, then we exchanged numbers and chatted off platform. Chatted and set up a date, which I suggested we cancel since she wasn’t feeling well. Mia again…and I’ve sent a couple text here and there hoping she’s feeling better, so ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
MIA
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/oyk4y9/mia/
throwaway736284618
2024-09-30 01:43:42
1,727,660,622
0
['dating apps', 'tinder']
0
1fskems
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1fskems/guy_that_i_was_casually_seeing_follows_a_bunch_of/
1
So i was casually seeing him for quite some time. In the beginning i thought we would date and for it to lead to something serious but he played me. Long story short, i still have strong feelings for him, im taking a break from him right now. But im missing him so bad even though i now know he never wanted anything wit...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy That I was Casually Seeing Follows A Bunch of Girls and Women, IDK how to process it
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fskems/guy_that_i_was_casually_seeing_follows_a_bunch_of/
Short-Guy
2023-10-15 04:56:40
1,697,345,800
0
['online dating']
0
1787y2r
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1787y2r/are_matchmakers_worth_it_as_a_short_guy/
1
I am in my mid 30s and have had no luck with women whatsoever. Ive tried online dating, but being 5 feet tall has made that impossible. Ive tried meeting women at work and at my hobbies, but there are none that are single and available. Ive considered hiring a matchmaking service, but worry that they will be a waste of...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are Matchmakers worth it as a short guy?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1787y2r/are_matchmakers_worth_it_as_a_short_guy/
CurtisTheConqueror
2020-02-24 19:28:21
1,582,572,501
null
['dating app']
0
f8wl3p
true
null
10
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f8wl3p/best_dating_app/
5
What’s up y’all. I’m a (31m) looming to get back into dating after a long break. I got a divorce 5 years ago and have had a couple relationships since then but nothing has stuck. I’ve been contemplating jumping in the dating app world because I just don’t have to many places to meet people organically, my hobbies are c...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Best dating app?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f8wl3p/best_dating_app/
TheDarkHood
2019-11-28 06:31:03
1,574,922,663
null
['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
e2u07a
true
I Need Advice
16
0
/r/dating/comments/e2u07a/close_to_just_giving_up/
13
I'm pretty much done trying to look for someone at this point. I started looking for a relationship around 4 years ago and used all the usual channels from real life to tinder to bumble. I never put too much weight on the dating apps, I know that they're not the best place to look, but they are the easiest. I've gotten...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Close to Just Giving Up
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e2u07a/close_to_just_giving_up/
jounior56
2019-11-20 14:27:32
1,574,260,052
null
['online dating', 'okcupid']
0
dz2rk8
true
null
3
1
/r/dating_advice/comments/dz2rk8/ive_been_online_dating_a_cute_russian_guy_19m_but/
0
I meet this Russian guy on OkCupid about 3 months ago. We started talking and we have a lot in common and he makes me laugh. He has a great personality and we talk non-stop every day. We try to video chat at least 2 times a week and I plan on meeting him in January. About a week ago I meet this guy at the mall. he’s no...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’ve been online dating a cute Russian guy (19M) but I also have an emotional connection with a guy(19M) in my city
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dz2rk8/ive_been_online_dating_a_cute_russian_guy_19m_but/
Interesting-Ice-1061
2024-03-05 12:58:45
1,709,643,525
0
['dating app']
0
1b74lks
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b74lks/new_to_the_dating_app_scene_i_have_a_quick/
1
When a girl is interested to meet, do I now ask for her phone number? I hate going on the app to respond, so hopefully she’ll agree to that, just didn’t wanna push anything to fast- we’ve been talking for almost a week
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
New to the dating app scene, I have a quick question
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b74lks/new_to_the_dating_app_scene_i_have_a_quick/
Ubesobanoodle
2024-09-08 16:01:51
1,725,811,311
0
['hinge']
0
1fc17mh
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1fc17mh/please_help_i_dont_know_whether_or_not_to_confirm/
1
Male-25 I have not been dating over the past year since I went back to school. But recently decided to get back out there. I met this lady on hinge and things went great so we decided to move things to a date on Friday. It seemed as if we both had a great time. We had a lot in common it seemed to me. I really enjoyed t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Please help! I don’t know whether or not to confirm a potential date.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fc17mh/please_help_i_dont_know_whether_or_not_to_confirm/
forgetabout-this
2023-12-29 07:04:34
1,703,833,474
0
['tinder']
0
18th1p8
true
null
62
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18th1p8/tired_of_men_exaggerating_how_far_they_went/
692
For a little backstory, my fiancé (call him Tim) and I met about 3-4 years ago on Tinder. At the time, I had only been on Tinder for a few weeks and had gone on 2 dates before meeting Tim. Tonight, Tim mentioned that when we were getting to know each other, he heard through the grapevine about one of the men I had gone...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Tired of men exaggerating ‘how far they went’
692
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18th1p8/tired_of_men_exaggerating_how_far_they_went/
ThrowawayStruggles55
2015-07-30 14:04:30
1,438,265,070
0
['swipe', 'dating sites', 'tinder']
0
3f5tnn
null
null
5
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/3f5tnn/why_is_it_so_hard_to_meet_someone/
7
I was told my posts are well thought out and I should repost in less dead subs and this one was recommended. This is part 3 of a 10 post series. You don't need to read the previous post but if you want to . Finding/meeting a girl is hard. I used dating sites but for this post I'll be talking strictly about human intera...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is it so hard to meet someone?
7
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3f5tnn/why_is_it_so_hard_to_meet_someone/
Previous_Bluebird_69
2023-06-23 22:27:14
1,687,559,234
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
14hbrnt
true
I Need Advice 😩
8
0
/r/dating/comments/14hbrnt/i_26f_got_ghosted_by_a_guy_26m_i_matched_with_on/
2
We matched on hinge last week and he seemed super into me at first - flirting, asks for my number etc. And he asks me to go to a drive in movie and I agree. We text a bit for a day back and forth, mostly flirting, and then the next day I text him Hiii and a few hours go by and I say I hope that he has fun with family t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I (26f) got ghosted by a guy (26m) I matched with on hinge after we set up a date, should I follow up?
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14hbrnt/i_26f_got_ghosted_by_a_guy_26m_i_matched_with_on/
bouganassfury
2023-05-01 12:07:54
1,682,942,874
0
['swiped']
0
134kop3
true
Giving Advice 💌
1
0
/r/dating/comments/134kop3/romantic_love_is_not_something_we_deserve_it/
3
For a long time, I(M29) have chased Love. I was literally obsessed with it. When I was a student, I was unable to get a single date let alone a relationship. I remember vividly the feeling of inadequacy, the shame, the emptiness. Candidly, I thought that matters of the heart were fair. I hoped a bit of love(lust?) coul...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Romantic Love is not something we "deserve", it just...happens. How letting go improve your self-esteem and make you feel less lonely. The cherry, the cake and the weight of our expectations.
3
0.64
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/134kop3/romantic_love_is_not_something_we_deserve_it/
Upper_Assignment_285
2023-05-15 05:12:04
1,684,127,524
0
['dating app']
0
13hyfcf
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13hyfcf/how_do_i_meet_women/
0
I do haven't have enough money to go out dating app suck and the people at work are in relationships what do I do.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I meet women.
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13hyfcf/how_do_i_meet_women/
BillyLoIsDead
2022-03-01 03:02:59
1,646,103,779
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
t3xl5n
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/t3xl5n/how_to_not_come_off_as_totally_weird/
1
Ok long story short I (20F) met this guy (22F) at the beginning of last semester in early September. We matched on tinder and then found out that we were neighbors in our apartment complex. That started off pretty cool talking and hooking up for like 2 months, then he popped up with a girlfriend, and now they’re broken...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to not come off as totally weird?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t3xl5n/how_to_not_come_off_as_totally_weird/
Wrong-Option7709
2023-06-17 00:56:29
1,686,963,389
0
null
0
14bd48c
true
null
31
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/14bd48c/i_just_cant_do_it_anymore_m25/
13
I recently uninstalled all of my dating apps due to the sole purpose of it literally destroying my self-esteem. I found it to be constantly testing my ego and making myself feel more insecure about myself. I currently live in California in south Los Angeles and I am struggling to find someone. Every swipe just feels li...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I just can't do it anymore (M25)
13
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14bd48c/i_just_cant_do_it_anymore_m25/
Noneedtostalk
2023-09-30 19:25:28
1,696,101,928
0
['OLD']
0
16wfg53
true
null
64
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16wfg53/where_does_this_come_from/
1
The message feels gross and turns me off, but what is the mental state this is coming from? It's an OLD man I met in person one time. There are other messages that allude to sexual prowess. There's something not right, but I'm at a loss to define what it says about him. "I've had a few partners who would say exactly wh...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Where does this come from?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16wfg53/where_does_this_come_from/
Dragon-Trap3901
2021-10-10 01:22:43
1,633,828,963
null
['dating app']
0
q4yck8
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/q4yck8/what_should_i_do/
2
I’ve gone on a few of dates with a single mom (Child age 1) I met on a dating app. I also have a son (age 6). Things were good at first. She would ask questions, share flirty pics, and ask to go out. But as of late the conversation have less depth to them and turned into more snap streaks than talking. Last time I seen...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What should I do?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q4yck8/what_should_i_do/
sleepingempire
2024-04-09 07:12:54
1,712,646,774
0
['dating apps']
0
1bzlzq0
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bzlzq0/am_i_losing_feelings_or_being_avoidant_should_i/
1
Tldr; Am dating a man that i’ve met on the dating apps Talking stage - 1.5 months Dating/ going out - 2.5 months Initially, honeymoon phase was great. We bonded through alot of our similarities (interest, lifestyle habits, families, perspective are eerily aligned). I have never met someone who clicked so well, online a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am i losing feelings or being avoidant? Should I end this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bzlzq0/am_i_losing_feelings_or_being_avoidant_should_i/
Fit-Celery-7428
2024-06-06 21:19:29
1,717,708,769
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1d9tgd5
true
Support Needed 🫂
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1d9tgd5/turning_avoidant_after_being_abused_by_an_avoidant/
0
We all know how emotionally and verbally abusive avoidants are when they deactivate... I feel like I've turned into an avoidant monster myself now. (I was burned by bad past experiences before by the way) Now, the idea of love and relationships and even casual dating make me sick🤢 I don't wanna date anyone. I don't te...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Turning avoidant after being abused by an avoidant?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d9tgd5/turning_avoidant_after_being_abused_by_an_avoidant/
Xerxase
2021-08-18 23:15:56
1,629,328,556
null
['matches', 'tinder']
0
p72pns
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/p72pns/my_date_m22_and_i_m21_want_to_take_things_slowly/
2
He gave me a Superlike on Tinder last week and I liked him back. We texted a bit, told me that he plays the same games I've listed in my Bio so we started to play together. After 5h I suggested to met up because I have a lot of sympathy left for him. He agreed. We live 1h apart so we met in the middle of the way to go ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
My Date [M22] and I [M21] want to take things slowly but I dont know if it actually works the way we want to!
null
0.63
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p72pns/my_date_m22_and_i_m21_want_to_take_things_slowly/
kcl229
2018-05-20 06:09:02
1,526,796,542
0
['bumble']
0
8kqxim
false
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/8kqxim/i_was_ghosted_after_sleeping_with_someone_and_im/
0
Hi everyone. I’ve never posted on here before but struggling a bit right now and just wanted some advice/kind words of wisdom etc. So I met this guy on bumble about a month ago and we had been texting pretty regularly and gone on 5 dates (we go to different schools about an hour away from each other so it was hard to h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I was ghosted after sleeping with someone and I’m literally so confused.
0
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8kqxim/i_was_ghosted_after_sleeping_with_someone_and_im/
[deleted]
2011-11-19 20:56:31
1,321,736,191
2
['okcupid']
null
micj3
null
null
4
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/micj3/if_a_girl_postpones_a_date_am_i_supposed_to_make/
3
I'm a 24m that asked out a 23f after talking to her on OKCupid, IMing, and calling her for 2.5 weeks. She has a weird night schedule as a nurse where she works long hours for 5 days straight one week, then gets 5 days free the next. This has slowed down the process of meeting her. The day the date was supposed to happe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If a girl postpones a date, am I supposed to make the future plans?
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/micj3/if_a_girl_postpones_a_date_am_i_supposed_to_make/
darkhorse2k
2019-07-28 21:43:52
1,564,350,232
null
null
0
cj1vq2
true
null
40
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/cj1vq2/problems_with_this_sub/
8
- people without much in the field dating experience posting and giving advice - passive aggressive women who are accusing every man of misogyny when challenged (downvoting) - men that need help, not being correctly helped - women blaming men every time a date doesn’t work out - negative pathetic men who think that you...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Problems with this sub
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cj1vq2/problems_with_this_sub/
Brokentoy324
2024-02-02 02:40:31
1,706,841,631
0
['dating apps']
0
1agt52j
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1agt52j/transitioning_from_hook_up_habits_to_dating_long/
3
Somehow all my interactions with women I am interested or that interested in me become sexual in nature. I am on average going on 2 dates a week and many of these women I meet through friends, social outings and dating apps. Social outings make up the bulk. I had a good few years of hooking up but i miss having one per...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Transitioning from hook up habits to dating long term is so difficult. How do I get women to see my advances as romantic instead of sexual?
3
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1agt52j/transitioning_from_hook_up_habits_to_dating_long/
p53ud0nym42
2023-05-26 21:46:46
1,685,137,606
0
null
0
13spgmk
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/13spgmk/online_dating_has_a_steep_learning_curve_you_need/
3
I joined OLD this year in January and I had no idea how hard it is an average 29 year old male. Safe to say I got barely any Likes and no Matches. After some research I did find out that indeed, its pretty normal for guys. So I did like everything I could to optimize my Profile. 3-4 Months later, a hell of a lot trial ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Online Dating has a steep learning curve. You need to get good at it get any results.
3
0.59
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13spgmk/online_dating_has_a_steep_learning_curve_you_need/
SnoGem12
2019-07-15 20:30:42
1,563,222,642
null
['swipe', 'OLD']
0
cdn08y
true
null
6
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cdn08y/old_busy_people/
2
I recently met up w someone I met online (we had been talking a couple of weeks, including on phome) and we seemed to really click. For work he works for his family-owned business, which is seemingly keeping him quite busy. He told me he would be busy the upcoming weekend w a pre planned trip and a business thing the f...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
OLD and busy people
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cdn08y/old_busy_people/
espr-the-vr-lib
2021-04-21 00:58:00
1,618,966,680
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
mv4vbn
true
Venting
1
0
/r/dating/comments/mv4vbn/just_realized_i_have_no_worries_being_single/
1
But that doesn't mean I'm not enjoying "miss right now" . I'm tired of tinder and bumble is not popular as yet buttttttt I like the idea behind bumble. Women are in charge of starting the conversation. I usually date locals but most are boring or lazy mentally or they are busy studying the GRAMS (social media). Honestl...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Just realized I have no worries being single while keeping an eye out "miss right".
null
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mv4vbn/just_realized_i_have_no_worries_being_single/
mahoganyblueberry
2024-09-26 21:39:17
1,727,386,757
0
['online dating', 'hinge']
0
1fq7qtx
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fq7qtx/is_there_a_point_in_going_on_this_date_or_is_the/
1
situation which I’d like to share because I think I have no sense of “gut feeling” or intuition because I’m generally anxious as a person but I wanna gather the facts. To preface I can’t tell what to do but I know I was flakey as well. I’m currently in graduate school so maybe it’s not a good time to date, since I’ve b...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is there a point in going on this date or is the lack of messaging a sign?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fq7qtx/is_there_a_point_in_going_on_this_date_or_is_the/
1684217
2022-12-28 21:30:27
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Title. After 2-3 times talking, how else can I start conversations? What are some good things to talk about after the introductions and formalities are over? I think it’s too early to ask to meet yet, but I wanna work up to that..
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What to talk about after the initial first time texting
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zxlmjr/what_to_talk_about_after_the_initial_first_time/
OarlessBoating
2021-06-17 12:57:16
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o1wm04
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/r/dating_advice/comments/o1wm04/what_am_i_doing_wrong_with_my_second_dates/
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Hi r/datingadvice, 21 Asian M Here. Never been in a relationship but want to be in a long-term one, and actively trying out dating again in 2021 after some brief first dates in 2020. For this month, I got my first second dates with different girls ever (progress) All my dates have been so far on Hinge this year, if tha...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What am I doing wrong with my second dates?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o1wm04/what_am_i_doing_wrong_with_my_second_dates/
ambo549
2023-03-20 19:39:01
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11wtaye
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I Need Advice 😩
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/r/dating/comments/11wtaye/soul_mate_ghosted_possibly_died_what_now/
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I'm going through the worst struggle of my romantic life and I don't know how to keep putting myself out there, but also don't think I can handle being alone forever. Last year my partner of 7 years told me he was cheating and entering into a new relationship with one of the affairs. Obviously this was devastating, but...
dating
t5_2qhb1
"Soul Mate" Ghosted, Possibly Died, What Now?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11wtaye/soul_mate_ghosted_possibly_died_what_now/
[deleted]
2021-11-21 21:53:12
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qz5em9
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/r/OnlineDating/comments/qz5em9/whats_with_nearly_every_guy_on_dating_apps/
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Nearly every guy a) explains or mansplains it and b) insists on sharing exactly which cryptos he’s invested in. So weird. And cliche.
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What’s with nearly every guy on dating apps insisting on explaining cryptocurrency to women on day 1 or 2 of convo?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qz5em9/whats_with_nearly_every_guy_on_dating_apps/