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priv8gram | 2023-10-24 01:34:10 | 1,698,111,250 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17f12f7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17f12f7/went_on_a_few_dates_with_2_different_girls_on/ | 1 | So the story goes like this … I’ve been on Hinge and went on a few dates with two different girls. The issue is ended up having sex consensually with both of them and I think they’re both really into me. I’m only into one of them not the other. how do I let the first girl that I had sex with that I don’t want to pursue... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a few dates with 2 different girls on hinge, how do I let one know that I’m no longer interested nicely? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17f12f7/went_on_a_few_dates_with_2_different_girls_on/ |
Phitoooo | 2023-11-03 08:14:32 | 1,698,999,272 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 17mq6ms | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17mq6ms/first_date_went_really_well_but_now_she_is_not/ | 4 | So I met this girl on Bumble, we spoke for a few days and then we set up a date. The date went very well, we really clicked, had great deep discussions, fun activities, opened up to each others, laughed, flirted, ... We ended up kissing and then she asked to come to my place. We then had really hot sensual sex and cudd... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First date went really well, but now she is not answering my messages anymore. | 4 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17mq6ms/first_date_went_really_well_but_now_she_is_not/ |
OneBluePenguin2000 | 2023-05-22 08:40:00 | 1,684,744,800 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 13ol0rw | true | null | 59 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13ol0rw/am_i_not_getting_something/ | 19 | Have been chatting to this guy for a couple of weeks now. Met on OLD but he’s away this month, back early June and has already asked me out to dinner when he’s back. We’ve had 2 phone calls and seem to connect great. We exchange messages daily. Last week, we tried to organise a call again - he left a WhatsApp voicemail... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Am I not getting something?.. | 19 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13ol0rw/am_i_not_getting_something/ |
alanka45 | 2021-03-30 02:48:16 | 1,617,072,496 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | mg661e | true | null | 126 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/mg661e/32f_should_i_bother_going_for_guys_younger_than/ | 77 | Keep in mind, I live in Los Angeles...one of the most age obsessed and vain cities. I recently got out of a 5 year relationship and got on Hinge. My dream is to start a family and I feel like I wasted a lot of precious time staying in my past relationship. I've matched with a few guys on Hinge, but I'm wondering...shou... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 32F, should I bother going for guys younger than 30? I'd like to start a family | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/mg661e/32f_should_i_bother_going_for_guys_younger_than/ |
Bob_TheToad | 2023-07-21 06:48:24 | 1,689,922,104 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 155fyz3 | false | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/155fyz3/how_to_start_dating_as_a_person_with_social/ | 1 | For context, I’ve never had a relationship and the longest fling I have ever had lasted a week (ended after the first date🫠). I am currently 22/F and have struggled with social anxiety for a majority of my life. It mostly affects my interactions with men and it makes me come off as emotionally unavailable. With women,... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to start dating as a person with social anxiety? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/155fyz3/how_to_start_dating_as_a_person_with_social/ |
SM3350 | 2019-06-15 20:15:24 | 1,560,629,724 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | c11lwq | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/c11lwq/bumble/ | 0 | Decided to take the plunge into Bumble. Any advice on how this works or is it really just another superficial dating app? | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Bumble? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/c11lwq/bumble/ |
CocosMumma | 2024-08-08 18:50:15 | 1,723,143,015 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ene06m | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ene06m/am_i_just_wasting_my_time/ | 6 | I've been on and off FB Dating for a few months. I thought I'd try again recently. Me and a guy matched, not my type at all but we, or should I say, I thought we got on well. Only this week it's been almost radio silence We don't live near eachother but we said we would both take it turns to travel to eachother. We spo... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I just wasting my time? | 6 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ene06m/am_i_just_wasting_my_time/ |
Forzato274 | 2023-02-14 14:59:30 | 1,676,386,770 | null | null | 0 | 1127ee0 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1127ee0/dont_fake_it_til_you_make_it_be_honest_with/ | 0 | In today's modern online dating world, it's easy to get caught up in presenting a perfect image of ourselves to potential partners. We filter out imperfections and advertise a false version of ourselves, but don't be surprised when your date ditches you. Instead of focusing on factors that are out of your control, focu... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Don't Fake It 'Til You Make It, Be Honest With Yourself | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1127ee0/dont_fake_it_til_you_make_it_be_honest_with/ |
collegebound771 | 2017-12-06 08:01:49 | 1,512,547,309 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7hwn1m | false | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7hwn1m/all_over_the_place/ | 1 | I'm a student at a top ten college. I never dated in high school and was looking forward to exploring my romantic options here. However, I developed feelings for a guy who ended up leaving a few weeks ago on medical leave for the rest of the school year. I feel like I never had the time I needed to see where this could... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | All Over The Place | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7hwn1m/all_over_the_place/ |
CommyO | 2021-01-26 21:15:29 | 1,611,695,729 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | l5nvp9 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l5nvp9/worth_following_up_on_coffee_date/ | 1 | I had a coffee date yesterday that went fine. Usual stuff: talked about goals, what we do for fun, had some laughs, sipped on each other's drinks, and had a few hugs. However, I went in for a kiss at the end and she basically dodged and said something like "we don't have to kiss right now". We ended the date sitting in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Worth following up on coffee date? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l5nvp9/worth_following_up_on_coffee_date/ |
GreenDoggo1 | 2024-07-05 21:11:23 | 1,720,213,883 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dw8lxw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dw8lxw/i_25m_get_left_on_read_95_of_the_time_and_i_dont/ | 1 | For the past 8 months i have only dated 3 girls out of 50+ i have matched with. 95% of the time i am left on read on the dating apps. 4% of the time i’ll get their number and i’ll still be left of read. 1% of the time i’ll date them. why are women like this? i’m a 25 year old guy, 6ft tall, long hair, successful career... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i (25M) get left on read 95% of the time and i don’t know why | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dw8lxw/i_25m_get_left_on_read_95_of_the_time_and_i_dont/ |
sandiegosomeday | 2019-11-05 23:27:53 | 1,572,996,473 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | ds7ifc | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ds7ifc/after_a_great_3rd_date/ | 1 | I (24F) matched with this guy (46M) on CMB. He’s from a similar background to me - got grad degrees and a good job. His profile says he’s traveling a lot but is now looking for something long term/meaningful. On first coffee date, I was interested in him but couldn’t read him, and he ended it after 30 mins to go back t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | After a great 3rd date... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ds7ifc/after_a_great_3rd_date/ |
rpatters2468 | 2022-08-17 18:47:37 | 1,660,762,057 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | wqwr79 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wqwr79/got_dropped_for_not_having_a_spark_but_actions/ | 0 | Met a girl old about a month and a half ago on bumble she's 27 I'm 32. We moved very fast to where our first date was a week in and we went to Dave and Busters and told me she would say yes if someone asked her to be their gf the first date. She said sex is very important to her and I told her I was inexperienced with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got dropped for not having a spark but actions may show otherwise? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wqwr79/got_dropped_for_not_having_a_spark_but_actions/ |
IndependentStop3453 | 2024-01-26 09:09:40 | 1,706,260,180 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1abe85t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 327 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1abe85t/men_constantly_turning_the_conversation_sexual/ | 156 | One thing I have noticed get progressively worse over the years is the amount of guys that try to turn the conversation sexual after talking for a little bit, whether it’s on the dating apps or someone I’ve met in person. We will be having a completely normal conversation and then bam they try to start dirty talking an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Men constantly turning the conversation sexual | 156 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1abe85t/men_constantly_turning_the_conversation_sexual/ |
Dude-123456 | 2019-01-29 15:06:52 | 1,548,774,412 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | al0vez | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/al0vez/i_m21_want_to_get_back_into_dating_but_dont_know/ | 1 | So I've been single for the last 4 od years now and didn't really have any romantic contact with a girl since then. Only had one girlfriend before and it took me a while after to even think about getting back into dating. The big question for me is how to get a start again. I've had tinder for a while and although I kn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M21) want to get back into dating but don't know how | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/al0vez/i_m21_want_to_get_back_into_dating_but_dont_know/ |
living_a_lie_222 | 2019-12-19 02:28:39 | 1,576,722,519 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ecmpfa | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecmpfa/gf_probs/ | 0 | She overuses feeling statements which I find annoying and incredibly selfish. She was glued to some stupid app when I took her out for an expensive dinner last Thursday then snapped at me when I made a comment about it. She continued being a btch at my apartment that night, it was already late, so I told her I’d sleep ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Gf probs | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ecmpfa/gf_probs/ |
stayup76 | 2023-06-12 02:58:57 | 1,686,538,737 | 0 | null | 0 | 147d6mo | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/147d6mo/serious_question_i_have_body_dysmorphia_and_have/ | 0 | https://imgur.com/a/DJmUf5q and https://imgur.com/a/fUuToxS and https://imgur.com/a/qwqes0X and https://imgur.com/a/gBhIY6L and https://imgur.com/a/3OksaeQ | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Serious question (I have body dysmorphia and have really felt bad abt my appearance): are no men attracted to me | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/147d6mo/serious_question_i_have_body_dysmorphia_and_have/ |
lookiamapollo | 2015-01-20 03:35:02 | 1,421,724,902 | 0 | null | 0 | 2t0h76 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/2t0h76/matchlcom_worth_the_cash/ | 1 | Looking to find chicks who are older and know how to have a good time. Seems like match is full of it? Any experiences? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Matchl.com worth the cash | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/2t0h76/matchlcom_worth_the_cash/ |
Fearlessgem8196 | 2021-08-14 00:45:27 | 1,628,901,927 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | p3y1zm | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p3y1zm/how_does_one_find_somebody/ | 1 | Probably been asked many times before but I'm new here :) 18yr old Male living in NZ here. I've always been a bit socially awkward, I struggle to make conversation and don't know how to interact with people I've never seen or spoken to. As a bit about me, I'm a student who started studying music this year, got a passio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does one find somebody? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p3y1zm/how_does_one_find_somebody/ |
GentalSoule | 2023-11-29 16:57:44 | 1,701,277,064 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 186u6i7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/186u6i7/navigating_mixed_messages/ | 2 | Good evening, As a non-native English speaker, I apologize in advance for any language shortcomings in this message. I am uncertain about the appropriateness of the title, but I find myself in a peculiar situation and would appreciate some guidance. Here's the scenario: I changed my university two months ago and decide... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Navigating Mixed Messages | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/186u6i7/navigating_mixed_messages/ |
awkwardSaul | 2018-01-23 03:22:13 | 1,516,677,733 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 7sbiyf | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7sbiyf/getting_online_conversation_going/ | 1 | I've been dating on okCupid recently and occasionally (like now) I'll have a match who just doesn't have much about her in her profile. I'd like to get a conversation started, but, whereas I'd normally play off of some info on her profile, there's just not much to work with. Any advice on breaking the ice with limited ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting Online Conversation Going | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7sbiyf/getting_online_conversation_going/ |
Teri_555 | 2023-12-12 21:37:05 | 1,702,417,025 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18gx44j | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 58 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18gx44j/guy_asking_me_to_go_to_his_house_after_like_20/ | 18 | We matched about an hour ago and started talking. We both have "looking for a serious relationship" in our profile. So far he seems interesting, but one thing kinda threw me off. He asked me if I wanted to come over for a movie like 15 min into the conversation, it was like 10pm. I told him that I wanted to get to know... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy asking me to go to his house after like 20 min chatting? | 18 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18gx44j/guy_asking_me_to_go_to_his_house_after_like_20/ |
femmepen | 2024-01-01 21:51:19 | 1,704,145,879 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18w7t8l | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18w7t8l/so_i_met_this_guy_but_need_insight_pls_help/ | 1 | On hinge. I don’t do dating apps but after 6 years, I decided to try to see what’s out there. On day 2 of me having the app we matched and chatted for about 5 days on and off and got along, had some banter and light testing to see what we were looking for. Both expressed we’re looking for the real deal and we’re cultur... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So I met this guy but need insight pls help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18w7t8l/so_i_met_this_guy_but_need_insight_pls_help/ |
JustasIthoughtTRASH | 2022-03-06 15:17:16 | 1,646,579,836 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | t80uc2 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/t80uc2/why_did_he_text_me_this/ | 1 | I am extremely confused. 30F, met a 31M on hinge at the beginning of February. We had great conversation chemistry from the start, we would text, voice message, and eventually FaceTime, but we could never transition it to in person. He asked me to meet one weekend but I couldn’t make it work. Ever since then, I’ve trie... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why did he text me this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t80uc2/why_did_he_text_me_this/ |
Cultural-Source4010 | 2021-05-01 16:12:30 | 1,619,885,550 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | n2lgte | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n2lgte/old_height_advice/ | 2 | Hey guys, I'm a 5'7 Asian 20 year old male and I get a decent number of matches (25 a month approx) and end up talking to quite a few girls on snap. I have gone on dates with a few of these girls as well and I have had a dilemma recently. My question is should I ask a girl how tall she is and tell her how tall I am bef... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | OLD Height Advice | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n2lgte/old_height_advice/ |
TheatreAS | 2023-09-01 22:30:14 | 1,693,607,414 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 167l7k1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/167l7k1/feeling_hopeless/ | 1 | I'm looking for advice, because apparently nobody around me has any clue on what to say or do. First and foremost, I'm on the Autism spectrum, although I am quite expressionate—unfortunately to the point where a lot of people assume that I'm gay even though I'm not. However, I honestly really like who I am. I like that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling hopeless | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/167l7k1/feeling_hopeless/ |
ThrowAwayAnywayAny | 2020-03-06 14:07:07 | 1,583,503,627 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | fedxrt | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fedxrt/did_i_32m_screw_up_by_asking_to_be_just_friends/ | 2 | I (32M) met a fantastic woman (35F) on OLD late last year. Admittedly, I wasn’t that active on OLD but she caught my attention because she was beautiful, clever and about something. We went on one date and afterwards kept talking via text because she was travelling for work. After she came back she invited me to her ho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I (32M) screw up by asking to be just friends? She’s (35F) ignoring me and I can’t handle it. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fedxrt/did_i_32m_screw_up_by_asking_to_be_just_friends/ |
Lilly_of_thevalley13 | 2024-03-24 21:43:28 | 1,711,316,608 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bmwduc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bmwduc/did_i_really_ruin_the_situation_here_or_am_i/ | 1 | I met K in November, at a dating app. K's profile relationship status was marked as "it's complicated". K asked what I was looking for. I told I was looking to date with the intention of a relationship. K told me the same. He would answer me every 7-8 hours at best, 1+ day sometimes, claiming he was busy. He also never... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I really ruin the situation here? Or am I getting gaslighted from my best friend too? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bmwduc/did_i_really_ruin_the_situation_here_or_am_i/ |
UnconcernedConcerner | 2024-05-09 19:49:23 | 1,715,284,163 | 0 | null | 0 | 1co65z7 | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1co65z7/red_flag_if_woman_agrees_to_meet_quickly_after_a/ | 1 | Is it a red flag if a match is happy to meet after like 2 questions about each other that answer nothing on a personal level? I mentioned a brewery and she liked the same place so off we go. In my experience, it takes some messaging to get to know each other and build some mutual trust before a date is set up. Not much... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Red Flag if Woman Agrees to Meet Quickly after a Few Messages with No Personal Info? | 1 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1co65z7/red_flag_if_woman_agrees_to_meet_quickly_after_a/ |
SelectionFuture8350 | 2024-02-22 02:22:22 | 1,708,568,542 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1awuwn0 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1awuwn0/new_to_reddit_and_looking_to_seek_relationship/ | 1 | Hello out there. New to this site and just joined. Typically i search google for relationship advice and most times i am redirected here so giving this a try. I am torn and I am really start to doubt my own self because of how back and forth my emotions are. I am 43 years old and have been a single mother since my daug... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New to Reddit and looking to seek relationship advice (exhausted all options) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1awuwn0/new_to_reddit_and_looking_to_seek_relationship/ |
Julz513 | 2020-03-17 03:01:46 | 1,584,414,106 | null | null | 0 | fjxx5a | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fjxx5a/what_reasons_would_someone_suddenly_hide_their/ | 0 | I asked this over on the POF reddit but it got downvoted a lot. ??? I asked my casual FWB of 5 months that I met on POF, who didn't know I was still on the site why he hid his pictures. I originally asked the question before asking him bc I didn't really want him to know I had gone back on there. I keep my profile hidd... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What reasons would someone suddenly hide their pictures on POF? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fjxx5a/what_reasons_would_someone_suddenly_hide_their/ |
DiscussionReader | 2021-09-17 18:49:30 | 1,631,904,570 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | pq677u | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/pq677u/why_do_straight_and_gay_men_have_such_low_looks/ | 3 | I'm your average straight guy who gets 0 likes, 0 matches and 0 dates on dating apps, I switched my preference to men to see how gay men have it and I was overwhelmed by likes, matches and cute messages from gay guys of all looks levels - including many handsome men. My match rate went from less than 0,05% to 30%, the ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why do straight and gay men have such low looks stanards compared to women on dating apps? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/pq677u/why_do_straight_and_gay_men_have_such_low_looks/ |
ImportanceEnough7971 | 2024-09-20 22:39:36 | 1,726,871,976 | 0 | ['coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 1flom9j | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1flom9j/when_do_you_just_say_bye/ | 1 | So I have been talking to this guy via online now text for probably 3+ weeks. Originally, We were talking on coffee meets bagel. He finally asked “would you wanna go out sometime?” I responded yes but then the next day the site was down for maintenance. I remembered that years ago I talked to him via text. So I texted ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When do you just say bye? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1flom9j/when_do_you_just_say_bye/ |
cobra872 | 2019-08-14 13:19:41 | 1,565,788,781 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | cq9kc7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cq9kc7/starting_talking_to_someone_and_they_remind_me_of/ | 1 | So, I just started talking to this one girl on Bumble. Seems very nice, I can already sense chemistry. Only problem is, she completely reminds me of my ex (we broke up 5 months ago). She’s the same ethnicity, just like her. She’s just visiting the country, similar to her when I met her. Everything seems similar, and I’... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting talking to someone and they remind me of my ex | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cq9kc7/starting_talking_to_someone_and_they_remind_me_of/ |
LaCaipirinha | 2021-01-03 06:08:42 | 1,609,654,122 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | kpf54o | true | null | 110 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kpf54o/i_was_naive_about_what_online_dating_has_become/ | 111 | It has taken me quite a while to get to this level of acceptance but here it is: the golden age of online dating is gone, it will never come back. 2015-2016 might not seem long ago but the dating culture and mentality of people in their 20s and 30s has completely changed in that time. Why? Instagram. To a lesser extent... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I was naive about what online dating has become | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kpf54o/i_was_naive_about_what_online_dating_has_become/ |
djddjjejd7383838 | 2024-02-26 23:24:06 | 1,708,989,846 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1b0waut | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b0waut/white_and_asian_women_are_not_interested_in/ | 1 | Hey NY Latino native here, So this might be a bit of a controversial topic, but this has been on my mind lately so I want to word my self to the best of my ability to negate all the “oh it’s just a you” thing or “it’s your shitty personality” comments. So I am in my very early thirties and I’m attractive, can dress, ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | White and Asian women are not interested in Latinos in NYC… | 1 | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b0waut/white_and_asian_women_are_not_interested_in/ |
alittlepixietoldme | 2016-12-14 15:15:40 | 1,481,728,540 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 5ib36f | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/5ib36f/lateblooming_heartbreak_grief/ | 1 | I dated a guy back in 2012 (4 yrs. ago) who I absolutely adored. He was a comedian, musically gifted on guitar/vocals, and I matched him with my vocal and piano talent. We sang together all the time. We both loved anime and nerdy things, and he accepted me for who I was. He thought I was beautiful and he treated me wel... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Late-Blooming Heartbreak and Grief? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5ib36f/lateblooming_heartbreak_grief/ |
Yosted | 2015-08-31 02:23:22 | 1,440,987,802 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 3j174b | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3j174b/how_to_get_datesmeet_people_27m/ | 12 | What's the best way to meet people? I have tried multiple dating sites with an extremely low success rate. I hardly ever get responses but have managed to get a date every now and again, even a second date once and a few others who claim there interested but never go on a second. Where else do you meet people? I'm not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to get dates/meet people? (27/m) | 12 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3j174b/how_to_get_datesmeet_people_27m/ |
babyn0n0 | 2022-08-17 04:02:24 | 1,660,708,944 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | wqeyh9 | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wqeyh9/dating_a_guy_with_trust_issues/ | 12 | So I’ve recently been talking to this guy from bumble for quite a while now and we’re developing into something serious. We’re still in the talking stage and it’s been around 3 weeks, and he told me he has trust issues. I didn’t realize his trust issues were this extreme. He wants our main form of communication to be t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a guy with trust issues | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wqeyh9/dating_a_guy_with_trust_issues/ |
johpad | 2018-07-14 04:36:33 | 1,531,542,993 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8yqr3w | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8yqr3w/texting_before_first_date/ | 1 | I (M23) just set up a first date with a girl (21) I met on Tinder. The earliest date we could agree on was next Wednesday. That’s a little longer wait time than I’m used to between asking a girl out and actually going on the date. I usually don’t text a girl between setting up a date and going on the date. Our conversa... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting before first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8yqr3w/texting_before_first_date/ |
Substantial_Tie6906 | 2022-08-20 22:50:56 | 1,661,035,856 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | wtjsj6 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wtjsj6/dating_a_good_person_but_still_no_intense/ | 4 | I have a dilemma and need your collective insight. So I've been dating a great person for roughly 3 months. Great in the sense that they are emotionally available, stable, we share plenty of interests as well as the same sense of humor. I need to stress that I also just feel really at ease with them, emotionally and ph... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a good person but still no intense feelings after 3 months of dating | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wtjsj6/dating_a_good_person_but_still_no_intense/ |
throwaway87335 | 2022-06-06 04:21:37 | 1,654,489,297 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | v5ujqf | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v5ujqf/for_those_who_use_hinge_why_dont_these_preference/ | 0 | This is my first time using a dating app... I'm 26/F asian and I have been filtering out my preferences mostly for ethnicity... But all I have been getting is white men ranging from 18-53 y/o but I literally filtered everything by age, race, and distance... Doesn't even work??? Any ideas? Literally impossible for me to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | For those who use Hinge... why don't these preference filters work??? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v5ujqf/for_those_who_use_hinge_why_dont_these_preference/ |
rsdlxv | 2022-05-01 07:29:08 | 1,651,390,148 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ufumwa | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ufumwa/contemplating_giving_up/ | 2 | I’ll make this as short and sweet as possible. I’m 24 years old and my dating life has been a complete shit show. I’ve only ever been in 1 relationship, every other “situation” I had failed due to numerous reasons such as; them just looking for sex, me getting ghosted, me being told a lie to cover up me getting ghosted... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | contemplating giving up | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ufumwa/contemplating_giving_up/ |
nicksbrunchattiffany | 2022-01-24 02:13:04 | 1,642,990,384 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | sbam3r | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/sbam3r/im_at_crossroads/ | 2 | I’m 25 F. Lecturer and grad student. I was thinking of giving online dating another chance. I commented this to a very good friend, who also happens to be a colleague. He advises me against opening a dating app profile, since we are back to in-site classes, since he fears it could be used by students to blackmail me or... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m at crossroads | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sbam3r/im_at_crossroads/ |
EnthusiasmMental1299 | 2023-07-10 23:48:31 | 1,689,032,911 | 0 | null | 0 | 14wajnj | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14wajnj/single_at_31_and_want_kids_how_do_i_not_freak_out/ | 1 | I am a single 30 year old woman (turning 31 in 6 weeks). I would like kids but realize my time is very limited. How do I not freak out about my age and relationship status? Even if I meet the right guy now, we would be years away from being able to have kids. If I waste any time with a man who turns out not to work out... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Single at 31 and want kids - how do I not freak out? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14wajnj/single_at_31_and_want_kids_how_do_i_not_freak_out/ |
xxsnowbunny97xx | 2020-01-22 02:04:02 | 1,579,658,642 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | es53v4 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/es53v4/im_tired_of_being_single_but_im_an_introvert/ | 3 | So im 23 years old, female and ive been single for almost 6 months and i hate it tbh. Im on all the well known dating apps and havent had much success. Im a huge introvert w barely any friends so i dont go out much. Im going back to college nexy week so maybe i could meet people there but im shy. How can i get into a r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Im tired of being single but im an introvert | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/es53v4/im_tired_of_being_single_but_im_an_introvert/ |
[deleted] | 2018-08-09 17:34:11 | 1,533,836,051 | null | null | 0 | 95yk2p | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/95yk2p/excited_one_day_dismissive_the_next/ | 2 | Hey, everyone. I thought I'd try and get some insight from some of you. I've recently started doing online dating, (this specific instance coming from POF, which I have dubbed POS,) and ran into an issue. I spoke with a girl for a few days and got to know her. We talked about our lives, ambitions, and values. The whole... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Excited one day - Dismissive the next | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/95yk2p/excited_one_day_dismissive_the_next/ |
Great-Supermarket780 | 2022-11-17 16:58:14 | 1,668,704,294 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | yxvbvn | true | null | 88 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/yxvbvn/getting_to_know_someone_as_friends_first/ | 65 | A couple weeks ago I went on a date with someone whom I didn't feel that initial "spark" with but who was really nice and also have quite a bit in common with. At this age I'm not about to throw in the towel right away, so I like to give someone at least two days, maybe three. We had our second date a few days ago and ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Getting to know someone "as friends" first? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/yxvbvn/getting_to_know_someone_as_friends_first/ |
No-Background-9457 | 2021-06-07 23:10:13 | 1,623,107,413 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nuqd4f | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nuqd4f/idk/ | 2 | bro how am i supposed to find someone without dating apps it's so hard but I'm so embarrassed to use them idk i want fwb with someone but i have no idea how to get that pls help me | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | idk | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nuqd4f/idk/ |
Jameriaa1 | 2019-07-17 21:01:11 | 1,563,397,271 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ceis9d | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ceis9d/early_signs_of_narcissism/ | 1 | Sooo I met this guy on tinder early May. For the first month and a half everything was going great, until the end of month two.. we kinda started to become more affectionate towards each other while we’d be texting, so I just basically went with the flow. Sooo one day, I had a really stressful day where someone basical... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Early signs of narcissism?! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ceis9d/early_signs_of_narcissism/ |
crushedfeelings | 2023-01-18 14:35:09 | 1,674,052,509 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 10f8u4z | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10f8u4z/are_these_red_flags/ | 1 | So I (41F) am trying to adopt healthy dating habits and have been in lots of therapy because I tend to always go for toxic men or ignore red flags. I matched with someone promising on tinder (52M) and we have been texting for a few days and have agreed to meet for lunch Friday. Since I’ve always been oblivious or ignor... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are these red flags? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10f8u4z/are_these_red_flags/ |
SyllabubIcy1446 | 2023-11-17 19:47:22 | 1,700,250,442 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17xnc9n | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17xnc9n/i_need_advice/ | 1 | 3years back I met a girl on tinder in Gurgaon,, before meeting her we exchanged our Instagram account (she looked pretty, but the images were a year or two year old). When I met her in real, she was overweight, only face was the one thing that matches with her profile. Few days after she told me that she doesn't have a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I need advice | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17xnc9n/i_need_advice/ |
ajejejebrazocrew | 2022-03-24 01:17:00 | 1,648,084,620 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | tlr9e3 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/tlr9e3/tinder_date_went_well_but_she_has_disappeared/ | 1 | I (m24) last Sunday accidentally met a girl (f 19) I had matched on tinder recently, she started following me and we set to see each other this evening. I asked if she wanted to grab a drink ( here you can drink at 18) in the main city and after a bit she told me that it would be more comfortable for her to stay at the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder date went well but she has disappeared from the site | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tlr9e3/tinder_date_went_well_but_she_has_disappeared/ |
ezi17 | 2024-07-12 21:36:05 | 1,720,820,165 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e1tahb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e1tahb/im_confused_about_what_happened_on_this_date/ | 2 | i went on a date last night to get coffee with a boy from a dating app. i apparently had ghosted him before but he sent me a like again, i apologized. we moved on and decided to go on a date. the date went pretty well overall i thought but i was noticing a couple red flags. he did say at one point that he has emotional... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | im confused about what happened on this date | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e1tahb/im_confused_about_what_happened_on_this_date/ |
jkillers1992 | 2020-06-16 00:17:24 | 1,592,266,644 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | h9se3g | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h9se3g/help_i_know_her_but_still_anxious_to_even_start_a/ | 1 | So, I'm on facebook dating. I saw a cute girl I went to h.s. with. (Mind you, it's been 9 years since I graduated, 10 for her) she still is cute as all hell. I had one or two classes with her, never really talked much. Idk of she remembers me, but my anxiety is getting the best of me. I honestly didnt think we would ma... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help! I know her, but still anxious to even start a convo. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h9se3g/help_i_know_her_but_still_anxious_to_even_start_a/ |
TheBitWizard | 2021-09-24 21:38:49 | 1,632,519,529 | null | ['swipe', 'swipes', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | put64w | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/put64w/whats_your_swipe_date_ratio/ | 2 | To those who use dating apps, I’d be curious to know how much time you spend swiping and what your success rate of getting that first date is. I’d be interested in knowing: - Number of swipes per day, or amount of time you spend swiping. - number of first dates you go on as a result of your swiping. I’m interested in m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s your swipe / date ratio? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/put64w/whats_your_swipe_date_ratio/ |
xmiriam_v | 2020-03-01 20:29:15 | 1,583,094,555 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | fc039s | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fc039s/am_i_the_booty_call/ | 2 | I matched with a guy 1 month ago. We went on a 1st date and it went really awesome we got along so well that we walked trough the city for hours, although I missed my last train home and he said I could sleep at his place ( kind of dumb I know but he seemed really genuine and nice ) We played table tennis at his place ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I the booty call? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fc039s/am_i_the_booty_call/ |
Vivid-Proposal-2384 | 2023-06-14 10:25:59 | 1,686,738,359 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1494ap2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1494ap2/i_want_to_date_but_rarely_find_someone_i_view/ | 1 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend in my life and as I get older, am slowly begining to think that the reason doesnt so much lie with my any obvious aspect of me personally (looks, personality etc.), but rather a peculiar apathy towards any form of intimate relationship with almost every woman I meet. I never dated in... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to date but rarely find someone I view that way | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1494ap2/i_want_to_date_but_rarely_find_someone_i_view/ |
ThoraninC | 2020-04-08 05:00:12 | 1,586,322,012 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | fx04pw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fx04pw/quarantine_destroy_my_abundance_mindset/ | 1 | It’s the one of great advice in dating “Keep the abundance mindset” “there are plenty of fish in the sea” Yes, maybe there are not that much fish in the sea or the sea is filling with garbage. But that mind set make people happy and confident enough to find a new love. I experienced that myself when I think that I can ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quarantine destroy my abundance mindset | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fx04pw/quarantine_destroy_my_abundance_mindset/ |
MythicalMicrowave | 2023-09-24 21:17:48 | 1,695,590,268 | 0 | null | 0 | 16r937x | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16r937x/are_disabilities_a_turn_off_for_women/ | 1 | I’ve been thinking of trying dating, but I have a disability(not physical) and I often think most people wouldn’t want to deal with me just because they think I might be “too much work to be around”. It’s not super serious or anything, but I’ve been bullied by people just because I tend to forget things. I’m a young pe... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Are disabilities a “turn off” for women? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16r937x/are_disabilities_a_turn_off_for_women/ |
_littlefluffyclouds | 2024-06-24 20:15:56 | 1,719,260,156 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dnn7ue | true | null | 42 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dnn7ue/starting_to_realize_speed_dating_aint_so_hot/ | 19 | Well! I just had another pleasant but fruitless speed dating event yesterday. The company is really quite good (they run a tight ship and the prices are reasonable) and the women have uniformly been pleasant to talk to. But I realized that 8 scrawny minutes with a person really isn't much better than a flat and puny pr... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Starting to realize speed dating ain't so hot either... | 14 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dnn7ue/starting_to_realize_speed_dating_aint_so_hot/ |
gizm05 | 2018-09-25 13:07:46 | 1,537,880,866 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9iryg2 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9iryg2/deleting_my_profile_and_starting_again/ | 3 | I had been dating a woman I met on Tinder for about 2 1/2 months. It was going great, we went on a short walking holiday together, had lovely conversations over the phone, it was very passionate and I was falling for her. Suddenly she put on the breaks, says she’s not feeling it and ends it. It hurts, but fair enough i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Deleting my profile and starting again? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9iryg2/deleting_my_profile_and_starting_again/ |
Lost_Clothes7243 | 2023-07-29 22:24:22 | 1,690,669,462 | 0 | null | 0 | 15d4rav | false | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15d4rav/can_someone_please_explain_online_dating_dating/ | 1 | 25M here - my last relationship ended 4 years ago while I was in college, so I've never dated as an adult living on my own with a regular job, etc. I'm on Hinge/Bumble looking for something long term, and I'm not sure how this works; I've never dated anyone I'm not good friends with already. For example: - is talking t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Can Someone Please Explain Online Dating Dating Etiquette? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15d4rav/can_someone_please_explain_online_dating_dating/ |
Bambootime | 2024-06-22 03:51:14 | 1,719,028,274 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dlmrg8 | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dlmrg8/seeking_honest_feedback_why_do_people_unmatch/ | 1 | I've noticed something weird on dating apps lately and I'm hoping to get a broader take on it. Whenever I mention that I'm a lawyer, conversations seem to fade away or matches unmatch pretty quickly. I'm genuinely interested in understanding why this happens. Are there stereotypes about lawyers that might be affecting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Seeking Honest Feedback: Why Do People Unmatch When They Find Out I'm a Lawyer? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dlmrg8/seeking_honest_feedback_why_do_people_unmatch/ |
Splatmate22 | 2022-07-16 13:30:37 | 1,657,978,237 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | w0gr21 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w0gr21/woman_of_24_years_old_why_do_i_keep_getting_such/ | 4 | Age 24, that is my experience with men's dating and some previous relationships. I live in town. I have nine ex-boyfriends. None of them were very good. Most of them were bad. I have tried online dating for both mainstream and disabled people. I still got very older men that kept liking me and matching with me. I am no... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | woman of 24 years old Why do I keep getting such a crappy start to my love life that I am trying to change at all? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w0gr21/woman_of_24_years_old_why_do_i_keep_getting_such/ |
Expert-Emphasis8520 | 2023-11-18 04:51:13 | 1,700,283,073 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17xyrvr | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17xyrvr/did_my_ex_love_bomb_me/ | 1 | long story short we had matched on hinge, and we quickly got to talking, facetiming, etc. so on our first date he was asking me my goals in life and genuinely seemed serious. he had just moved to my city recently and i thought that was a good thing, like he must have had a clear head. however after that date he kept pe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did my ex love bomb me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17xyrvr/did_my_ex_love_bomb_me/ |
throwa_way027412 | 2019-08-25 13:05:20 | 1,566,738,320 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | cv899g | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cv899g/if_you_arent_really_ready_to_date_even_just_for/ | 35 | I am not sure if the title makes sense of what I wanna say. I created a second tinder account a few weeks ago, putting myself there as someone who only looks for casual, even one time thing, because well yes I’ve been sexually depressed for a while and I’m too tired of all the dances from OLD, so I am, or was, or maybe... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | If you aren’t really ready to date, even just for casual, don’t put yourself out there just for the sake of it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cv899g/if_you_arent_really_ready_to_date_even_just_for/ |
BootyKallista | 2019-10-06 16:21:00 | 1,570,378,860 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | de5e5d | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/de5e5d/good_bye_kiddoes/ | 10 | I'm off OLD. And, frankly, I'm also off /Do30. Time to focus, and that thread was no longer sparking joy. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Good bye kiddoes | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/de5e5d/good_bye_kiddoes/ |
Playful-Opinion-3674 | 2023-10-18 21:10:21 | 1,697,663,421 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 17b1h4u | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17b1h4u/sorry_to_rant_but/ | 1 | Throwaway. Just need to vent. Im sure online dating is a total nightmare for everyone. But just let me vent a mo... Its exhausting, i see you, i match you, i want to get to know you.... Yet i see your message and i do not want to reply. Why? I dont have the energy. When i do muster up some energy and enthusiasm, the ot... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Sorry to rant but... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17b1h4u/sorry_to_rant_but/ |
SirenInAz513 | 2020-04-28 19:52:20 | 1,588,103,540 | null | ['dating app', 'pof'] | 0 | g9u7ke | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g9u7ke/mixed_actions_have_me_confusedhe_34_seems_to/ | 0 | We started talking on the dating app POF, only app anyone uses where we live (classy, right?), back in November. He came over and we started hanging out and having sex in December. I would classify us as a situationship at that point. We texted most days once or twice a day, sometimes a day or two went by in between. F... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Mixed actions have me confused...He (34) seems to really like me (42)...but he still messes with his dating app profile | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g9u7ke/mixed_actions_have_me_confusedhe_34_seems_to/ |
FrequentSilver1146 | 2024-09-15 07:13:14 | 1,726,384,394 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fh6sab | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fh6sab/is_asking_out_the_coworker_always_bad_27f_and_31m/ | 1 | Throwaway account because I’m a bit paranoid someone I know might see this. I’m a 27F who’s been working with this guy at my job, let’s call him “D,” (31M), for almost a year now. From the beginning, I’ve always thought he was a really cool guy — super intelligent, attractive, and we’ve had some of the best conversatio... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is asking out the coworker always bad? (27f and 31m) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fh6sab/is_asking_out_the_coworker_always_bad_27f_and_31m/ |
vohedriux | 2023-09-08 02:20:44 | 1,694,139,644 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16cy2gv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16cy2gv/when_to_ask_number/ | 1 | Hi! I met someone yesterday on Hinge and we have been even talking in voice memo. I have a question, when did you felt like giving phone number and when did you ask for a first date? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When to ask number? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16cy2gv/when_to_ask_number/ |
HeraBeara | 2017-10-02 19:50:18 | 1,506,973,818 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | 73v7fx | false | null | 169 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/73v7fx/ask_men_of_dot_what_do_you_wish_women_knew_when/ | 18 | - Guys what tips or tricks can you give us ladies who are having difficulty getting matches, messages, or moving from messaging to actually meeting guys? (Other than losing weight or getting better pictures.) - If we are messaging, what makes you pull the trigger to actually meet? - What are your reasons for not respon... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Ask Men of DOT: What do you wish women knew when dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/73v7fx/ask_men_of_dot_what_do_you_wish_women_knew_when/ |
VonMeansHope | 2022-12-24 06:55:08 | 1,671,864,908 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | zu441b | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zu441b/i_just_cant_shake_the_feeling_that_this_guy_i/ | 2 | I’m just going to describe the whole date from start to finish. It happened two weeks ago and I am still spiraling trying to figure out what the eff happened. Keep in mind I also have anxiety and OCD so I overanalyze everything to the point where my gut always screams ABORT MISSION. I matched with him on Hinge. Flirtin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just can't shake the feeling that this guy I went on a first date with might be a (Kerouac) narcissist. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zu441b/i_just_cant_shake_the_feeling_that_this_guy_i/ |
mizuki01 | 2020-09-26 04:48:08 | 1,601,095,688 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | izzkdi | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/izzkdi/bout_to_be_legal18_soon_any_advice_for_dating_apps/ | 3 | Like the title says, I'm turning 18 in 5 days and I'm looking for advice for dating/ dating apps. I'm specifically looking for WLW relationships. I'm relatively inexperienced (virgin, never made out or gotten a hickey) and I'm totally new to e-dating considering I was too young to join them before. Any advice would be ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bout to be legal[18] soon, any advice for dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/izzkdi/bout_to_be_legal18_soon_any_advice_for_dating_apps/ |
twentyfivebrookes | 2018-06-06 12:06:42 | 1,528,286,802 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8p028l | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8p028l/shall_i_tell_him_before_date_or_during_or_after/ | 2 | I (25F) have been separated from my ex husband for a year now. He ended things, I’m finally feeling ready to try out some dating again...or at least see how it goes. I matched with a cute guy (25M) over tinder a few days ago, and we seem to be getting along pretty well, I really like him so far. We are meeting up for c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Shall I tell him before date or during, or after? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8p028l/shall_i_tell_him_before_date_or_during_or_after/ |
Naive-Ad-8825 | 2022-01-17 09:44:44 | 1,642,412,684 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | s609o6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s609o6/help_me_out/ | 0 | So I've been talking to this girl from my college we matched on tinder and we going to meet in person and dona few movie marathons when we get back to college. Besides we've been talking about our favorite music and she asked me to send her a playlist of my favorite songs so I did and she loved it. Were still talking t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me out | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s609o6/help_me_out/ |
jfedtx | 2023-01-09 03:27:20 | 1,673,234,840 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1073bhr | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1073bhr/is_this_girl_interested/ | 1 | Matched with a girl on hinge and tried to set plans for drinks but she didn’t get back to me. Hinge shows she unmatched but I saw her profile again on Friday and it turns out she deleted the app due to a bad date but is trying again. Talked a bit more over text and asked if she wanted to get dinner this week a couple h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this girl interested? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1073bhr/is_this_girl_interested/ |
BriS314 | 2021-09-24 04:22:06 | 1,632,457,326 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | puc8yr | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/puc8yr/idk_what_to_make_of_this/ | 1 | So I (M22) had matched with a girl on Hinge a few weeks ago and we were hitting it off quite well. She recently moved to Brooklyn, NY for work from Florida and I asked her last week about getting together in person and she enthusiastically said “Yeah I’d love to! What about next weekend?” to which I said it sounds good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Idk what to make of this | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/puc8yr/idk_what_to_make_of_this/ |
charles165 | 2022-06-26 17:05:09 | 1,656,263,109 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vl9aro | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vl9aro/survey_dating_apps_vs_alternatives/ | 2 | Which method do you personally find the best way to get a first date? Post your Age, M/F, and method pls | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Survey: Dating Apps vs Alternatives | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vl9aro/survey_dating_apps_vs_alternatives/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-17 05:17:56 | 1,605,590,276 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | jvn99r | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jvn99r/can_physical_attraction_grow/ | 1 | I (30F) broke up w my boyfriend recently and have since been on several dates through Hinge. I’ve had some great and fun conversations with guys, but they’ve often felt platonic / I don’t feel physically or romantically inclined with them. Should I continue meeting up with them? Can physical attraction grow? Even thoug... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can physical attraction grow? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jvn99r/can_physical_attraction_grow/ |
kawaiidesne | 2024-01-23 02:15:50 | 1,705,976,150 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 19ddflx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/19ddflx/do_i_still_go_on_a_date_if_i_discovered_he/ | 3 | Hi everyone! I will really appreciate your advice. I don't have much online dating experience. I recently joined a local Russian-language telegram group for singles to find men near me with a similar background. One guy particularly stood out to me there. Based on his social media (Twitter& Instagram), he was very much... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I still go on a date if I discovered he follows a creepy "manosphere" influencer? When to ask him about it? | 3 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/19ddflx/do_i_still_go_on_a_date_if_i_discovered_he/ |
MikeB9830 | 2017-01-30 17:26:44 | 1,485,797,204 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | 5r254f | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5r254f/34m_and_never_been_in_a_serious_relationship/ | 5 | Hello. What advice can you offer someone who is 34 and never been in a relationship. I have dated several women but nothing lasted for over a month. The women who replied after say there is no chemistry, but most just disappear and never reply. I have tried every dating site there is, craigslist, speed dating, local ev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 34m and never been in a serious relationship | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5r254f/34m_and_never_been_in_a_serious_relationship/ |
dyyqzd | 2021-10-08 22:03:38 | 1,633,730,618 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | q47y55 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q47y55/guy_shows_interest_in_person_but_is_distant_via/ | 1 | So I’ve (26F) been texting/FT a guy (32M) I met on a dating app a couple of months ago and since the beginning he had been pretty serious about me and very excited about flying over to see me, which he finally did last week (we live in different countries). We’ve met twice so far, and after our first date I texted him ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy shows interest in person but is distant via text. Does he still like me or is he just being polite? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q47y55/guy_shows_interest_in_person_but_is_distant_via/ |
OkGold4318 | 2023-10-03 22:27:26 | 1,696,372,046 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16z5mo1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16z5mo1/should_i_warn_my_ex_boyfriend_that_his_older/ | 1 | I (26,F) was recently dumped by my ex boyfriend (25, M). Basically we were going to be long distance, had a turbulent relationship for the last year where none of our needs were being met. We broke up a month ago but ended on cordial terms. I was initially very upset because just the week prior to him breaking up with ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I warn my ex boyfriend that his older brother swiped right on my Tinder? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16z5mo1/should_i_warn_my_ex_boyfriend_that_his_older/ |
sandvmar | 2018-04-30 18:38:19 | 1,525,113,499 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 8g1rh5 | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8g1rh5/she_asked_for_a_second_date_but_the_first_was/ | 1 | I met this woman on a dating app (I'm a woman as well) and we started talking. We had a good conversation. There was never any flirting or anything involved so I just assumed that we were both seeking friendship because it's 2018 and how else are you supposed to make friends in a new city? She asked me out to a movie d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She asked for a second date but the first was painfully awkward | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8g1rh5/she_asked_for_a_second_date_but_the_first_was/ |
burgher153 | 2019-06-23 01:54:54 | 1,561,254,894 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | c3xpwn | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c3xpwn/too_much_interest_first_date_help/ | 1 | I have a first date with a guy I’ve been texting with for about a week after we met on a dating app. He seems nice, and I’m looking forward to seeing whether we have a connection in real life. But, I’m worried because we’ve been flirting pretty hard via text that I’ve indicated more interest in him than I have, and so ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Too much interest? First date help | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c3xpwn/too_much_interest_first_date_help/ |
Efficient-Fox9427 | 2024-06-02 17:05:44 | 1,717,347,944 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d6hxjj | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d6hxjj/says_he_likes_me_but_never_makes_plans/ | 1 | I am a 24yo F and have been talking to a 24yo M for about two months now. We met on a dating app and communication wasn't great but I assumed that was just because no one really checks dating apps consistently (at least I do not). He ended up ghosting me on the app for about two weeks and then out of the blue asked to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Says he likes me but never makes plans | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d6hxjj/says_he_likes_me_but_never_makes_plans/ |
jbusa14 | 2019-02-05 05:32:02 | 1,549,344,722 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | anb0m8 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/anb0m8/i_22m_was_dating_this_girl_20f_for_7_ish_weeks/ | 4 | So I can start by saying I post here a decent bit, and thanks everyone for commenting. ──────── So, I met this girl right after Christmas and we instantly hit it off. And since then we'd go on dates and hangout every Saturday, sometime Tuesday nights (she has a very hectic schedule). Now, I always knew she had an ex, a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [22M] was dating this girl [20F] for 7 ish weeks, everything seemed great... Then this | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/anb0m8/i_22m_was_dating_this_girl_20f_for_7_ish_weeks/ |
uranianaries | 2024-04-24 21:46:56 | 1,713,995,216 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1ccamqb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ccamqb/should_i_confess_my_feelings/ | 2 | Hi! I (20F) matched with a guy (22M) on a dating app last March. We stopped texting for a while, but we rematched in June and have texted basically everyday since. We met in person in September because we both go to the same college. Since then, we have gone to local concerts together essentially every weekend or every... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I confess my feelings? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ccamqb/should_i_confess_my_feelings/ |
ohnopinkblob18371 | 2018-09-26 00:07:36 | 1,537,920,456 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 9ixiaa | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ixiaa/what_to_do_after_second_date_23f_and_22m/ | 1 | (I’m the 23/F). Met the guy on OKCupid. We majored in the same thing in college, both enjoy similar sports teams, both have similar hobbies. He asked me out the day after we started talking and If was for a date that night. Went to a sports bar and enjoyed a football game and beers. We parted ways after a sweet kiss go... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do after second date [23/f and 22/m] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ixiaa/what_to_do_after_second_date_23f_and_22m/ |
dolphinonshrooms | 2024-01-04 09:47:05 | 1,704,361,625 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18y9ebw | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18y9ebw/my_friend_convinced_me_to_finally_get_on_a_dating/ | 1 | We're both using Hinge. We're also both on the premium sub for unlimited likes. He gets anywhere from 1 - 5 matches a week, and that usually results in 1 - 2 dates a month for him. He's also been using Hinge for a couple of years. I've been using it since Tuesday just casually swiping and being quite picky with my like... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My friend convinced me to finally get on a dating app, but now I’m worried he might feel some type of way when he sees the results I’ve been getting | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18y9ebw/my_friend_convinced_me_to_finally_get_on_a_dating/ |
sublimesam | 2019-07-09 17:08:16 | 1,562,692,096 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cb3nvd | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cb3nvd/video_chat_first_date/ | 92 | Probably one of the single most difficult parts of dating over 30 is logistics. I (34m) was struggling to find a time to meetup with a Tinder match (29f) so we did a video chat instead and virtually shared a glass of wine. I thought we would make awkward small talk for 20 minutes and then peace out but ended up chattin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Video chat first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cb3nvd/video_chat_first_date/ |
come-into-my-lifem | 2019-02-25 16:15:36 | 1,551,111,336 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | aumxhj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aumxhj/to_deep_too_fast/ | 3 | So I’m (F43) on a few dating sites and pretty much decided I would try first dates for awhile, and not go into instant serial monogamy again. Seems I might have learned my lesson, to just meet people and not try to control things (been reading 121 First Dates). And I’m keeping a journal too. So thing is, I am having so... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | To deep, too fast? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aumxhj/to_deep_too_fast/ |
provpsy498587 | 2024-01-04 09:25:45 | 1,704,360,345 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18y92wd | true | null | 316 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18y92wd/the_entitlement_of_some_nerdy_men/ | 1 | Just a mini rant to say I’m so sick of this “give nerds a chance” trope. I see SO many of these types of guys on Hinge and they literally put no effort into their appearance. Greasy hair, neck beard, ill-fitting/mismatched clothes, in poor shape, and they often don’t have 6 photos of themselves! Just random memes/irrel... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | The entitlement of some nerdy men… | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18y92wd/the_entitlement_of_some_nerdy_men/ |
LilSipOfCoffee | 2022-08-12 03:02:13 | 1,660,273,333 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | wma78h | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wma78h/dating_apps_suggestions/ | 2 | I read how some dating apps (such as Tinder) alert your contacts when you create an account. Are there any apps which do not notify your joining to your contacts? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Apps Suggestions? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wma78h/dating_apps_suggestions/ |
theethrowaway1234 | 2019-10-02 02:09:38 | 1,569,982,178 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | dc3u4w | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dc3u4w/single_af_23_yo_indian_guy_in_the_new_york_area/ | 5 | I've been single af for 99% of my entire life. Still a virgin. No kisses. I've went on a few dates through friends, CMB and OkCupid, but nothing has really worked out. I've probably matched with a shit ton of people on CMB, OkCupid, Tinder and Hinge, and most of them end up leaving before the first date. The three that... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single af, 23 y/o Indian guy in the New York area seeking advice. What do I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dc3u4w/single_af_23_yo_indian_guy_in_the_new_york_area/ |
Lonely_pregnant | 2020-08-05 23:30:29 | 1,596,670,229 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | i4gfrw | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i4gfrw/single_pregnant_ashamed_and_my_close_friends_live/ | 10 | Long story short last year I moved to a new city with my boyfriend and got a job but we broke up. I was lonely and got pregnant soon after that. It may have happened during a girls trip with my out of state friends but I'm not even sure. I decided to keep the baby but didn't realize how shameful I'd feel about how it h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single, pregnant, ashamed, and my close friends live in other states. I need a companion badly. (29F) | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i4gfrw/single_pregnant_ashamed_and_my_close_friends_live/ |
axe122 | 2020-05-01 01:38:17 | 1,588,297,097 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | gb92b9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gb92b9/texting_a_woman_all_day_everyday_is_not_a_sign/ | 1 | I’ve seen this post to many times and I don’t want to respond to them all. Texting a women all day every day is not a sign things are going good. If you meet online maybe the first week of that is cool cuz she has to feel comfortable meeting a stranger off the internet. Your only goal should be to get her out on a real... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting a woman all day everyday is not a sign things are going good. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gb92b9/texting_a_woman_all_day_everyday_is_not_a_sign/ |
nouseforaname888 | 2019-06-30 00:40:45 | 1,561,855,245 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | c76vyd | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c76vyd/online_dating_is_only_gonna_worsen_misogyny/ | 3 | Online dating- the platform where 90% of women you match with don’t respond, the other 10% are flaky, and maybe 1% meets up with you after a lot of tag along texts Men can only take so much rejection. Even the nicest guys that use online dating over time turn more and more misogynistic. With a platform rife with bitter... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating is only gonna worsen misogyny. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c76vyd/online_dating_is_only_gonna_worsen_misogyny/ |
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