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Professional-Try-273 | 2023-09-07 15:33:32 | 1,694,100,812 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 16ciwdw | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/16ciwdw/how_do_you_organize_your_mindset_and_mental/ | 1 | I am currently finishing up school, finalizing my career change, and preparing to seriously start dating. I (33M) for the past three days was doing experiments on a dating app, and the results was super depressing, I understand this is expected, but still... After a few hundred swipes, I never got a match and had only ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you organize your mindset, and mental health when it comes to online dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16ciwdw/how_do_you_organize_your_mindset_and_mental/ |
Dangerous_Drama_7774 | 2024-08-08 10:57:02 | 1,723,114,622 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1en2y2v | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1en2y2v/hurting_over_a_10day_situationship_help/ | 2 | I (25F) met this guy (27M) on Hinge, and he initially showed me a lot of consistency, attention, care, and interest. We went on four amazing dates, and for the first time, I felt peaceful and at ease instead of my usual anxiety at the start of a romantic relationship. I was going with the flow, matching the pace he set... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hurting over a 10-day situationship, help :/ | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1en2y2v/hurting_over_a_10day_situationship_help/ |
blutiel | 2023-07-14 15:48:52 | 1,689,349,732 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14zjz2z | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14zjz2z/does_it_sound_like_this_guy_is_married/ | 1 | My sister went on a date and thought some of it was a bit “off”. I asked her supplemental questions and we think he’s married…maybe we are overreacting? Thoughts? -Approached her in the store, and later made the comment “I quit online dating years ago” -Asked her on a date, but just gave her a time to meet him. He didn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does it sound like this guy is married? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14zjz2z/does_it_sound_like_this_guy_is_married/ |
tyvmkindsirr | 2021-06-20 02:47:25 | 1,624,157,245 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | o3vvk2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o3vvk2/girl_cancelled_date_and_texting_habits_changed/ | 0 | So I met a girl on tinder, and we’ve been texting for about 2 months now. Due to covid restrictions we wanted to wait until places opened back up again before we went on our first date. So we finally planned the date and texting was going great. Then a week before we were supposed to go out, she texts me saying her aun... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl cancelled date and texting habits changed | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o3vvk2/girl_cancelled_date_and_texting_habits_changed/ |
weebitofwit | 2018-11-30 06:17:48 | 1,543,558,668 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | a1pw9s | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/a1pw9s/tell_me_im_not_the_idiot_here/ | 13 | I (28F) matched with this guy (30M) on a dating app, we messed back and forth and things were great. He gave me his number, I texted and he never responded. Fast forward a couple months I finally get a text back. I ignore it. A month later he messages me again saying he had just gotten out of a relationship (ex of 2 mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tell me I’m not the idiot here | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/a1pw9s/tell_me_im_not_the_idiot_here/ |
seduction_reaction | 2024-03-13 20:22:53 | 1,710,361,373 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1be1q6s | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1be1q6s/when_is_a_good_amount_of_time_to_ask_out_a_woman/ | 1 | When meeting people through dating apps , it's easier cause you are going on a date by default. However, people one meets through meetups or group events, assuming you had some conversation , when is a good time to ask them out on a low key date? If they seem super interested in you , then it's easier however, when it'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When is a good amount of time to ask out a woman you met at a group event / meetup | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1be1q6s/when_is_a_good_amount_of_time_to_ask_out_a_woman/ |
ManiacMysty | 2021-12-06 04:33:52 | 1,638,765,232 | null | null | 0 | r9ymo3 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r9ymo3/online_dating_for_either_asexual_or_with_sexual/ | 22 | I hope my title doesn’t offend anyone because I know that one has nothing to do with the other. Are there dating/relationship sites for people who want companionship, physical affection but not sex? Like the hired cuddlers but with genuine friendship, similar interests? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating for either asexual or with sexual performance issues | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r9ymo3/online_dating_for_either_asexual_or_with_sexual/ |
Thatch_man | 2013-02-17 01:21:56 | 1,361,064,116 | 0 | ['matches', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 18o1yd | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/18o1yd/attn_hetero_male_flight_attendants/ | 1 | If you are a guy, next time you are surfing matches on eharmony join me in this wonderful game... Guess in how many sentences it takes a girl to mention the word travel. (The over-under is currently two) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Attn: (hetero) Male Flight Attendants | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18o1yd/attn_hetero_male_flight_attendants/ |
mrb0mbastick | 2021-01-06 18:39:25 | 1,609,958,365 | null | ['matches', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | kru31e | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kru31e/m26_help_with_dating_sites/ | 2 | Do any guys here actually get much luck on these sites? I just started to go on them and only got a few matches on tinder in a week then I message and just get nothing back at all ? To any that get some luck what do you say to actually get a response :s | dating | t5_2qhb1 | (M26) help with dating sites ? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kru31e/m26_help_with_dating_sites/ |
John_Smith519 | 2024-04-07 02:04:10 | 1,712,455,450 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bxsss5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxsss5/how_does_casual_dating_work/ | 2 | I’ve been chatting with a girl whom I met on a dating app, and we’ve both admitted that we aren’t looking for anything serious right now. We’ve agreed to go on a date sometime next week, and I’m looking forward to it. I’m quite clueless because I’ve never dated outside of a serious relationship before, but does “not lo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How does “casual dating” work? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxsss5/how_does_casual_dating_work/ |
Minimal_Grime | 2020-08-07 17:03:29 | 1,596,819,809 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | i5hkxb | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i5hkxb/wow_tinder_kinda_works/ | 0 | So, I have like 20 likes, meaning there are 20 girls that are kinda interested in me(???), I think. Should I be proud, surprised...? What now? OMG, I hope I won't fuck up...🙏🙏🙏 | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wow, Tinder kinda works | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i5hkxb/wow_tinder_kinda_works/ |
Icanttelly0u | 2023-10-09 17:44:17 | 1,696,873,457 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 173y0co | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/173y0co/how_to_be_okay_being_single/ | 1 | Don't recommend "try dating apps" and "find new hobbies", please... Thank you! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to be okay being single? :) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/173y0co/how_to_be_okay_being_single/ |
elbuckle | 2020-04-05 03:48:30 | 1,586,058,510 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | fv7ct6 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fv7ct6/should_i_send_the_hey_stranger_text/ | 2 | I (24f) matched with him (26m) 5 months ago on OKC, and we went on a date shortly after. Dinner, drinks, a movie, making out, and talk of future plans (on his end). We texted semi regularly for 2 months after, I tried to schedule a date a couple of times but he wouldn’t commit because he was busy (which I believe, work... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I send the ‘hey stranger’ text | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fv7ct6/should_i_send_the_hey_stranger_text/ |
Royal-Reporter6664 | 2024-08-27 15:32:16 | 1,724,772,736 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f2k11j | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2k11j/very_interesting_podcast/ | 0 | Check out The Dating Doctor: "Start Dating Like It's Your Job", "Dating Apps Are Impacting Us More Than We Realise" from The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett on Amazon Music. https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/aeb6a5b8-62e7-491e-a862-48af9c82c1c0/episodes/b09d64a3-0230-4428-9806-a5799c58fc05/the-diary-of-a-ceo-with... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Very interesting podcast | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f2k11j/very_interesting_podcast/ |
paradispourmoi | 2022-01-03 17:44:08 | 1,641,231,848 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | rv7ctn | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rv7ctn/dating_guy_who_is_really_inconsistent_with/ | 2 | I’ve been talking to a guy I met off Hinge for almost 2 months now, we’ve gone on 2 dates during the time and I’ve spent the night at his both times, we haven’t slept together but cuddled and kissed until early morning. 3 weeks ago, after our second date, I went back to my home country for Christmas and he went back to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating guy who is really inconsistent with communication | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rv7ctn/dating_guy_who_is_really_inconsistent_with/ |
Dramatic-Wolf7091 | 2023-11-03 09:38:52 | 1,699,004,332 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17mra4j | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17mra4j/women_how_many_men_do_you_simultaneously_date/ | 1 | Hi all, So I [29M] don’t have much experience at all with dating. I’ve never really had any luck and only recently had my first kiss at the age of 29. I’ve been using dating apps like tinder, bumble, hinge for years now with little success, but over the last 2 months I’ve been on 5 dates with a girl I matched with. We ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women: how many men do you simultaneously date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17mra4j/women_how_many_men_do_you_simultaneously_date/ |
redheadinmo | 2018-07-09 19:19:21 | 1,531,163,961 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 8xf3st | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8xf3st/im_29_f_a_fat_woman_who_is_single_why_am_i_so/ | 6 | Hi, so I'm a 29-year-old female who is trying to make it through the dating minefield. I've used apps for several years, but I've realized lately I've been extremely sexualized on these apps by the men that use them. I've been called 'sexy' straight out of the gate. I've been told by men that they 'wish I was there wit... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm (29 F) a fat woman who is single. Why am I so sexualized on dating apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8xf3st/im_29_f_a_fat_woman_who_is_single_why_am_i_so/ |
Single-Mountain-1079 | 2023-12-07 19:05:12 | 1,701,975,912 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 18d2u4m | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18d2u4m/any_success_stories_from_quitting_old_for_good/ | 1 | I am 31M, work out every day, good job, always get decent amount of matches. Getting dates from OLD is never an issue. I’ve been using OLD since I was 28. So in about 3 years, I’ve gone on over 30 dates. 99% of the time, it ends after the first date for various reasons; I’m not into her, she’s not into me, just a bad d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any success stories from quitting OLD for good? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18d2u4m/any_success_stories_from_quitting_old_for_good/ |
Classic-Touch-1024 | 2023-05-20 06:04:41 | 1,684,562,681 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 13mjniy | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13mjniy/dating_app_survey/ | 0 | Hey all - we are conducting some research on dating apps It shouldn't take more that 5 minutes. We appreciate your help :) Also, will be picking the 100 best responses and sending some fun tech swag https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScHiADIooeOECVxh8fdXYp\_gztbyafiRZfnc96AmcphumcZpA/viewform | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App Survey | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13mjniy/dating_app_survey/ |
zellacra | 2022-05-08 22:42:20 | 1,652,049,740 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | uld5mg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uld5mg/feeding_my_ego_using_a_tinder_fkboy/ | 0 | My ex-boyfriend broke up with me in 2020, and I haven't dated anyone since. I'm in grad school, so I've been pretty busy the past 2 years, but I did briefly create a tinder account in March. I matched with a few guys, but it was uneventful. I deleted the app after a week, but there was this one guy who stuck around. Fr... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Feeding my ego using a tinder fkboy | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uld5mg/feeding_my_ego_using_a_tinder_fkboy/ |
quantizedself | 2021-03-07 21:54:14 | 1,615,154,054 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | m00nec | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m00nec/when_to_end_a_first_date_if_there_is_no_chemistry/ | 1 | When I meet for a first date, I can tell pretty quickly if there is no chemistry on my end. But, usually I carry through with the date mostly because I think it's a dick move to meet someone then immediately bail on them. After all, they are investing time into this just like you are. And it could still be a nice night... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | When to end a first date if there is no chemistry | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m00nec/when_to_end_a_first_date_if_there_is_no_chemistry/ |
Lumpy-Ad5945 | 2024-01-26 21:14:24 | 1,706,303,664 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1abt4us | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1abt4us/suggesting_exclusivity/ | 1 | Hi everyone, Would appreciate some advice, but for context I’m a 29 year old guy, and have been in a serious relationship for nearly 10 years. I’ve been dating a girl I met on hinge for nearly two months, who I really like. We’ve been on 7 dates with an 8th planned for this weekend. We’ve been intimate together, but no... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Suggesting exclusivity | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1abt4us/suggesting_exclusivity/ |
kami283 | 2020-10-25 06:32:21 | 1,603,607,541 | null | ['dating app', 'badoo'] | 0 | jhouv2 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jhouv2/having_a_nice_time_when_all_of_a_sudden_i_can_no/ | 1 | I have been chatting with this guy for a while now. Nothing serious though just having a good time sending memes back and forth to make us both laugh and such. But when I logged in this morning (I hadn't gotten a morning message from him) I see that there is no longer an account with his name. All this happened on Bado... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Having a nice time when all of a sudden I can no longer contact him, did I do something wrong? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jhouv2/having_a_nice_time_when_all_of_a_sudden_i_can_no/ |
Proof-Independent-12 | 2023-11-23 20:36:45 | 1,700,771,805 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 182ab6a | true | null | 338 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/182ab6a/hes_a_10_im_a_7/ | 313 | So guys, there's this guy I met on Hinge and we've been talking every day for over a month and we've finally got round to organising a date tomorrow. We get on really well but I'm worried he's too attractive. I think he's a solid 10, extremely handsome, intelligent and interesting. He's obviously the type to get a lot ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He’s a 10, I’m a 7 | 313 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/182ab6a/hes_a_10_im_a_7/ |
crazy-sarang | 2017-09-15 15:59:25 | 1,505,491,165 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 70ar9g | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/70ar9g/conversation_before_first_date/ | 1 | Hi guys , I met a girl on Tinder on Thursday , she goes to same university and we had a short conversation and I asked her if she wants to grab a coffee on Monday and she said yes. and then we add each other on snapchat and snapped each other and talked about random things and then our conversation slowed down because ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | conversation before first date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/70ar9g/conversation_before_first_date/ |
coli66 | 2021-05-16 18:54:47 | 1,621,191,287 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | ndv424 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ndv424/23f_i_cant_get_past_the_firstsecond_dates/ | 2 | I have been single for a few years now and I have been using Tinder and Bumble and Hinge and I have not had any luck being in a relationship. I am pretty clear with what I am looking for on the apps, always mentioning that I am looking for a relationship. I have a good steady job, I live in a nice apartment with a fema... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 23F, I can't get past the first/second dates?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ndv424/23f_i_cant_get_past_the_firstsecond_dates/ |
thwowawaw69 | 2024-06-13 17:49:15 | 1,718,300,955 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1df523g | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1df523g/is_it_normal_to_get_a_dopamine_hit_when_they_text/ | 1 | So i’m 23f and i’ve been on hinge for a while now. In the past.. and also present.. i have dealt with like anxiety issues lol regarding messaging men. When i really like a guy i’ll kind of get sad if they dont respond within a day or something. I’m a lot better now but like, i do still think about them during the day a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal to get a dopamine hit when they text you back | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1df523g/is_it_normal_to_get_a_dopamine_hit_when_they_text/ |
Resident_Turnover114 | 2022-08-26 13:10:47 | 1,661,519,447 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | wy8uhx | true | Discussion | 156 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/wy8uhx/what_are_your_thoughts_old_and_sexy/ | 73 | For some reason it’s always been a turn off when someone writes (in their profile or chatting) they’re looking for someone sexy. I’m not a prude by any means, I just feel like the definition of sexy depends on each person and it’s just weird to say that. Of course we all want to be attracted to our partner and to be de... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What are your thoughts OLD and “sexy”? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/wy8uhx/what_are_your_thoughts_old_and_sexy/ |
Elegantly_steamedbao | 2021-12-07 19:12:58 | 1,638,904,378 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | rb6z51 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rb6z51/random_but_should_i_text_him/ | 0 | We matched on a dating app and ended the texting 2 days ago after it went on for almost a week. I usually meet someone asap to get to know them firsthand, so this match is a little different because we've only been texting. We still got 2 days before we meet for the 1st time for a study date. He knows I have final asse... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Random but should I text him? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rb6z51/random_but_should_i_text_him/ |
[deleted] | 2014-12-30 05:08:32 | 1,419,916,112 | 0 | ['plenty of fish', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 2qsbvw | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2qsbvw/the_sexy_nerd_and_the_christmas_party/ | 3 | So I've never been a one to date a colleague. It's not like a steadfast rule for me or anything; I've just never worked with anyone that I had genuine interest in. Until now, of course. I just moved to this part of the country back in August and started working for this amazing, modern software company in the beginning... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The Sexy Nerd and the Christmas Party | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2qsbvw/the_sexy_nerd_and_the_christmas_party/ |
throwraFrequentRow2 | 2024-01-22 10:56:43 | 1,705,921,003 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 19ct1um | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/19ct1um/how_can_he_expect_romantic_feelings_to_develop/ | 1 | I was dating a guy from a dating app for the last 3 months. When we met he was very keen before the first date. We spent lunch together and I travelled to his town on the train. Amazing conversation, spark, but then he had to leave quite soon as apparently he had dinner with a friend. He didn’t text me to check I got h... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How can he expect romantic feelings to develop when dates were spaced out so far apart? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/19ct1um/how_can_he_expect_romantic_feelings_to_develop/ |
golem1991 | 2020-09-21 00:50:25 | 1,600,649,425 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iwq8zv | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iwq8zv/how_much_first_impressions_matter_to_you/ | 1 | Well, I just got back from a 2 day trip to another town. I met a sweet girl on tinder. We really did hit it off from the start and spent the last couple of weeks texting all the time, and she seemed really interested. In fact, she was the one that invited me and set the date and everything. Her town it's no too far fro... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How much first impressions matter to you? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iwq8zv/how_much_first_impressions_matter_to_you/ |
Beautiful-Bag4787 | 2024-09-21 14:38:50 | 1,726,929,530 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fm4i2i | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fm4i2i/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_said_maybe_we_can/ | 2 | I match this guy in a dating app. My sense of humor is funny and we have funny conversations and he asks my Instagram and continued talking there. He communicates consistently everyday and he replies fast but we live in different country. One day, he almost talked intimate things and I told him it's too early for that ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What does it mean when a guy said "maybe we can just be friends"? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fm4i2i/what_does_it_mean_when_a_guy_said_maybe_we_can/ |
TGINATOR1 | 2024-02-10 22:25:12 | 1,707,603,912 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ans5ye | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1ans5ye/where_do_i_meet_women_as_a_20m/ | 1 | Am I the only one who is having a hard time meeting women, let alone women who may be interested in you? It's like all the women my age are just staying at home. Maybe it's just me because I only really go to work, the gym and home so I don't really go out that often because my friend group isn't really that sociable a... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Where do I meet women as a 20M?? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1ans5ye/where_do_i_meet_women_as_a_20m/ |
Tialaflare | 2020-08-05 15:06:10 | 1,596,639,970 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | i46yx1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/i46yx1/issues_between_my_baby_stepson_mil_and_boyfriend/ | 1 | Ok so it’s kinda long I’m going to try to make it short as possible ATP IT FEELS LIKE IM ABOUT TO SNAP Everything was so perfect at first til we moved in together. Bf and I been together on and off for quite sometime but we both got our shit together and moved in together earlier this year. When I decided to move toget... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Issues between my baby stepson MIL and boyfriend! | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/i46yx1/issues_between_my_baby_stepson_mil_and_boyfriend/ |
[deleted] | 2023-05-17 20:37:23 | 1,684,355,843 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 13kdcf7 | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13kdcf7/can_a_loner_start_dating_and_how/ | 1 | I’m a loner I go to online college and my job is just me flying solo. Is there a way to meet the other sex without a dating app? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can a loner start dating and how? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13kdcf7/can_a_loner_start_dating_and_how/ |
Jon-987 | 2023-06-15 13:28:25 | 1,686,835,705 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 14a2gvd | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14a2gvd/how_do_i_be_interesting/ | 1 | So, I've matched with people on dating sites. Problem is, a mixture of ADHD, Aspergers, and a lack of social experience means that I really don't know how to message or what to say. Out conversations are usually very dry, just small talk cuz I legitimately have no idea how to really talk to people over messaging. How d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I be interesting? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14a2gvd/how_do_i_be_interesting/ |
Responsible-Cat-5055 | 2023-12-03 18:57:04 | 1,701,629,824 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18a0d8o | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18a0d8o/feeling_like_giving_up/ | 1 | i (21F) have been on and off dating apps for about two years now with no luck. the past 4 guys i have talked to for an extended period of time have all ended things with “i don’t think we’re looking for the same thing. i should’ve been more up front” literally like 4 guys in a row. i want to slam my head into a wall. i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | feeling like giving up | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18a0d8o/feeling_like_giving_up/ |
persephone151 | 2020-12-13 04:24:57 | 1,607,833,497 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | kc45kj | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kc45kj/graduating_university_as_a_21yearold_female/ | 22 | Ironically, I was really getting ready to start putting myself out there, but then the pandemic happened. Anyway, I've always had very bad social anxiety. I didn't date at all during high school and I did online schooling for 3 of the 4 years, which didn't help at all. During university, I've been asked out a handful o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Graduating university as a 21-year-old female kissless virgin. How to start dating? | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kc45kj/graduating_university_as_a_21yearold_female/ |
ben4221 | 2016-11-22 22:05:25 | 1,479,852,325 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 5edjk5 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5edjk5/need_a_little_guidance_folks/ | 3 | I finally got back into the dating world after about an 8 year hiatus, I had lost self-confidence and ended up gaining a bunch of weight (another confidence killer). 18 months ago I dug myself out of the hole and have grabbed life by the horns. Enough back story, I met this girl a month or so ago on Bumble and it seeme... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need a little guidance folks | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5edjk5/need_a_little_guidance_folks/ |
jalapenomeister | 2021-01-11 20:50:05 | 1,610,398,205 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kvbrko | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kvbrko/unsure_on_current_status_of_relationship/ | 1 | Hi all, I met this girl 5 weeks ago and we get along like a house on fire; similar-ish interests, able to talk about things rationally, both initiating contact and plans with each other. 5 weeks into knowing her I initiated a discussion to talk about the direction of the relationship, we were both pretty set on being e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unsure on current status of "relationship"? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kvbrko/unsure_on_current_status_of_relationship/ |
kiwikingx | 2022-05-16 04:46:07 | 1,652,676,367 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | uqnvr7 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uqnvr7/my_talking_stages_ex/ | 4 | First of all, I am bad with storytelling so bear with me. I had an on going self healing process that lets me heal and control myself for the past few years. Then one day I just thought that I have never tap into relationships since no bf since birth by choice. So I got into online dating, I had talked to a few guys bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My talking stage's Ex | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uqnvr7/my_talking_stages_ex/ |
kmaxx99774499 | 2023-06-29 15:17:02 | 1,688,051,822 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14m7o06 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14m7o06/48_m_getting_back_out_there/ | 1 | I haven't looked for a date or significant other in over 4 years. Just wondering what good dating apps are out there for us older folks? Thanks in advance | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 48 m getting back out there | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14m7o06/48_m_getting_back_out_there/ |
KANKERDANKERSANKE | 2019-07-26 21:23:36 | 1,564,176,216 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ci8pyt | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ci8pyt/if_women_approached_men_then_wouldnt_drown_women/ | 1 | You know, bridging the gap, instead of women being passive and men being proactive this would change to both being proactive thus solving a lot of issues with dating like the fact that women are effectively drowned with initiations from men on dating apps and irl while also making so that men would need to initiate les... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If women approached men then wouldn't drown women with initiations and approaches | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ci8pyt/if_women_approached_men_then_wouldnt_drown_women/ |
sharbix | 2020-03-10 04:56:02 | 1,583,816,162 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | fg8lhh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fg8lhh/how_long_do_you_pursue_something_casual_before/ | 1 | So I’ve probably fooled myself :( met this girl (22) about a week ago on a dating app (might be worth noting I’m a lesbian and 20 for context) , we discussed over a two hour middle of the night phone call what we were looking for and I said that while I’m always looking for some new friends, I’m ultimately hoping to fi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long do you pursue “something casual” before it’s a appropriate to ask for something more committed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fg8lhh/how_long_do_you_pursue_something_casual_before/ |
Top_Bumblebee_1618 | 2022-08-17 00:46:29 | 1,660,697,189 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | wqat2i | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wqat2i/weirdest_way_i_have_ever_been_ghosted/ | 2 | Any advice is invited but mostly this is going to be a rant. So I matched with a guy. Great guy showing just enough interest in me. We set a date and its amazing. We did hookup. He forgot an expensive watch at my place (This detail is going to be important later). We set another date (by his initiation) again thats ama... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Weirdest way I have ever been ghosted | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wqat2i/weirdest_way_i_have_ever_been_ghosted/ |
thatlittlequietguy | 2016-05-22 15:31:43 | 1,463,931,103 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4kj0gi | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4kj0gi/first_time_dating_an_older_woman_tomorrow_any/ | 1 | I'm 22 and she's 37. We met on Tinder pretty much randomly and started talking every now and then before the stopped replying. Last night I sent her a joke text and she replied saying that she had been on vacation but that she was back in town. We started talking, I asked for her number and we called on the phone for 3... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First time dating an older woman tomorrow. Any advice you can give me? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4kj0gi/first_time_dating_an_older_woman_tomorrow_any/ |
Konalinguess | 2024-08-20 16:03:00 | 1,724,169,780 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ewzedl | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewzedl/how_frowned_upon_is_it_to_put_the_wrong_age_on/ | 0 | For example, let’s say you want to match with younger women and you put your age as 20 on your profile but in the bio you write a note - Not 20 Or let’s say you want to match with older women only and you put your age as 45 on your profile but in the bio you write the same note style note stating you are not actually 4... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How frowned upon is it to put the wrong age on your dating profile? | 0 | 0.1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ewzedl/how_frowned_upon_is_it_to_put_the_wrong_age_on/ |
mr_piddleton | 2018-01-08 21:21:18 | 1,515,446,478 | null | ['swiped', 'online dating'] | 0 | 7p1u0f | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7p1u0f/fighting_culture_with_no_sign_of_light_on_the/ | 1 | Been single for the past year and change not really able to get more than a few dates here and there. I see my self as a solid 7 mixed average joe (white/black) and I get I could increase my frequency of replies on the online dating pool after losing a bit of weight. Though right now im not to affected by the sparsity ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Fighting culture with no sign of light on the other side. [28M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7p1u0f/fighting_culture_with_no_sign_of_light_on_the/ |
ChefOld6897 | 2024-09-17 12:38:04 | 1,726,576,684 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fiy3l0 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fiy3l0/i_cant_figure_out_why_im_not_getting_a/ | 1 | I (26 F) notice men do not remain consistent with me. For example, I meet men on dating apps. After the first date, they usually pull back. Less texting. In the past 4 months, I have been on 6 first dates. But only one man asked me on a second date. I think I have an ok personality. I have maybe above average intellige... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can’t figure out why I’m not getting a relationship. What matters: Looks, personality or lifestyle? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fiy3l0/i_cant_figure_out_why_im_not_getting_a/ |
nowhere_man_nowhere | 2022-12-28 23:14:28 | 1,672,269,268 | null | null | 0 | zxob65 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zxob65/how_to_flirt_irl_or_old/ | 4 | (24 M) never been flirted with in my life. Have no idea what signals are. Am extremely intimidated sexually by girls literally cannot interact on a sexual level. I can make friends with girls and speak to them no problem but for the life of me cannot “make a move” it honestly feels like I’m doing something morally wron... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to flirt irl or OLD? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zxob65/how_to_flirt_irl_or_old/ |
Juniperarrow2 | 2022-05-27 21:09:06 | 1,653,685,746 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | uz7w4x | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uz7w4x/good_second_or_further_date_to_first_date_ratio/ | 2 | I am new to OLD. What is a good ratio for how many second dates to first dates? Just wondering at what point do I start looking at how my actions (like shyness/anxiety) affect my ability to get a second or further date? I have no problems getting a first date if me and a match actually have similar interests and things... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good second (or further) date to first date ratio? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uz7w4x/good_second_or_further_date_to_first_date_ratio/ |
SmokiMonki | 2023-12-13 19:09:07 | 1,702,494,547 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18hogw3 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18hogw3/what_do_you_enjoy_seeing_on_dating_apps/ | 28 | From my last post about “what are you tired of seeing on dating apps,” I keep getting asked what one should post instead. Disclaimer, one can post anything one wishes, it’s your world. However, the reception will vary by person. I will start. 1. Pictures doing something you enjoy like playing a sport, at the shooting ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you enjoy seeing on dating apps? | 28 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18hogw3/what_do_you_enjoy_seeing_on_dating_apps/ |
throwitaway9912 | 2014-05-12 13:14:26 | 1,399,900,466 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 25cu5a | null | null | 83 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/25cu5a/am_i_being_unreasonable_to_be_bothered_by_the_guy/ | 75 | I need outside perspective if I'm making something out of nothing here. I met him through online dating about 3 weeks ago, and this past weekend he asked me to be exclusive. Around the same time we first started talking he was also talking to this other girl that he met online. They ended up going on a first date a wee... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Am I being unreasonable to be bothered by the guy I'm dating and his interaction with this girl? | 75 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/25cu5a/am_i_being_unreasonable_to_be_bothered_by_the_guy/ |
RacerguyZ | 2022-05-04 19:34:54 | 1,651,692,894 | null | null | 0 | uielvp | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/uielvp/im_thinking_of_cancelling_date/ | 2 | Ive been talking to someone for about 10 days now. I setup a date yesterday for next Friday. I thought that was a bit long out so i asked her about it. Well she said this week its her son's graduation and she has to drive down a few states away and stay the weekend. She did previoulsy mention the graduation. However, s... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Im thinking of cancelling date.. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/uielvp/im_thinking_of_cancelling_date/ |
Imsoscared87 | 2023-10-17 16:54:42 | 1,697,561,682 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17a2ww2 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17a2ww2/advice_needed/ | 1 | For context M21 met F19 on Hinge 2 weeks ago. The chat exchanges with F19 were 1 or 2 time a day, but she did ghost me for 4 days and proceeded to message back after I double texted her. We texted for a few days then I asked her on a date which was last Sunday. We met at 2pm and she mentioned she had to leave at 7 to m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice needed | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17a2ww2/advice_needed/ |
gigas_turtures | 2019-02-07 14:27:50 | 1,549,549,670 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | ao49fb | true | null | 85 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ao49fb/i_was_the_dumpster_fire/ | 22 | We've all heard people say that dating after 30 is like going to the dump and finding the least disgusting thing to keep for yourself. I'm sure we've all heard it and thought "Man, why are these people such disasters? Why can't they be normal like me?" Well, I used to think that too. Fast forward to a month ago and I f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I was the dumpster fire... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ao49fb/i_was_the_dumpster_fire/ |
Lex6124 | 2024-05-12 07:29:09 | 1,715,498,949 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 1cq2b84 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cq2b84/how_do_i_flirt/ | 6 | Don’t know if you’ve seen my other post on here, (it’s about a different topic), but I’m a newbie to not just dating, but also flirting and being flirted with. I’m a 19 year old female. I also have ASD, ADHD, and anxiety, so my social skills aren’t the best. I was wondering if I could get some advice on how to start co... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I flirt???? | 6 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cq2b84/how_do_i_flirt/ |
trianglechoke89 | 2021-01-10 03:27:38 | 1,610,249,258 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ku6e0d | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/ku6e0d/if_you_live_alone_how_often_does_your_family/ | 36 | I’ve been living alone just over a year. I have a close relationship with my parents but they’ve visited my place a grand total of 2 times since I’ve moved in (once when I first moved in, and the other a few weeks ago). My sister lives down the road with her husband and daughter, my parents are dropping in there all th... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | If you live alone, how often does your family visit your bachelor pad? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/ku6e0d/if_you_live_alone_how_often_does_your_family/ |
MrLustWander | 2019-08-14 20:57:03 | 1,565,816,223 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cqfs1b | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/cqfs1b/to_chase_or_not_to_chase/ | 8 | I am curious about fellow over 50 daters. A lot has changed in the world of dating over the course of our lifetimes but in some areas, the more things change the more they stay the same. When we first started we did not have mobile phones and dating apps. We had to ask people on dates in real life and suffer the risk o... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | To chase or not to chase. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/cqfs1b/to_chase_or_not_to_chase/ |
saenticr | 2020-12-16 04:23:08 | 1,608,092,588 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ke26w6 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ke26w6/lovehate_dating/ | 3 | A few months ago I gave up on dating apps and told myself that given the number of dates I’ve gone on (roughly 10 over the summer) and the consistent lack of connection, perhaps it was the universe telling me that that’s not where I’m gonna find love. I also just felt exhausted from trying - so I think I did put in the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love/Hate Dating | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ke26w6/lovehate_dating/ |
localminima773 | 2022-12-22 02:36:35 | 1,671,676,595 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping'] | 0 | zs9oma | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/zs9oma/what_to_make_of_people_who_change_their_minds_in/ | 55 | I participated in a matchmaking service four months ago. The matchmakers exchange your profiles with each other, and put you in contact if there's mutual interest. I said yes to talk to a guy, and I was told that he said no. Out of the blue about three months later, he emailed me asking for us to have the opportunity t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What to make of people who change their minds in extremely early stages | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/zs9oma/what_to_make_of_people_who_change_their_minds_in/ |
anonymouse9021000 | 2020-01-05 22:48:23 | 1,578,264,503 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | ekkdv3 | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekkdv3/met_someone_special_and_im_overthinking/ | 3 | So I (39F) went out on a date last night with a guy from Bumble. We met at a bar that has some music. We ended up dancing until 1am, then getting a burger at a local 24h diner because neither of us wanted it to end. When I texted him that I got home safe he told me he was still feeling “high” and gave me some amazing c... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Met someone special and I’m over-thinking... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ekkdv3/met_someone_special_and_im_overthinking/ |
throwing-it-away- | 2023-09-22 00:19:38 | 1,695,341,978 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 16ow0lt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16ow0lt/how_many_first_date_cancellations_are_too_many/ | 1 | Matched with him in July and have been talking on and off. Been talking to him every day since the end of sept. We were supposed to go on a date 2 weeks ago but he got really really sick (he told me earlier that week that he was feeling sick and that he’ll also update me the day of the date and he was still sick). We r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How many first date cancellations are too many? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16ow0lt/how_many_first_date_cancellations_are_too_many/ |
meowdown | 2014-03-24 17:49:20 | 1,395,683,360 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 218wf8 | null | null | 33 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/218wf8/do_you_guys_actually_have_any_success_on_tinder/ | 8 | I was wondering how men experiences are on Tinder. As a moderately attractive female, I find it to highly biased towards females. When I go on Tinder, I will match with almost every guy I swipe right. Within a few minutes, I'll have five messages. I've actually only met up with one guy off Tinder and that's because I h... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Do you guys actually have any success on Tinder? Care to elaborate? | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/218wf8/do_you_guys_actually_have_any_success_on_tinder/ |
throwawaygbdf | 2021-09-14 22:36:05 | 1,631,658,965 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | podc7b | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/podc7b/he_30m_ghosted_me_32f_just_wanted_to_get_it_off/ | 2 | We met on an app, went on two amazing dates, both times we chatted into the early hours and made out, the chemistry felt great. He asked me to come home with him both times but I said it felt a bit too fast. He was the one to suggest a second date, which happened on Friday. I texted him on Sunday asking how his weekend... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He (30m) ghosted me (32f). Just wanted to get it off my chest. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/podc7b/he_30m_ghosted_me_32f_just_wanted_to_get_it_off/ |
kittenlover27 | 2018-10-14 23:45:00 | 1,539,560,700 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 9o7kxz | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9o7kxz/which_apps_punish_indiscriminate_right_swiping/ | 3 | I right swipe without thinking everyone on bumble and okcupid, and j-swipe (im not Jewish, that's a different story) CMB, i use the app as intended, Hinge i put a huge effort in a well thought out message, i dont "like" any profile of someone I think i have 0% chance with, but i have noticed when i get matches, they st... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Which apps punish indiscriminate right swiping more than others? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9o7kxz/which_apps_punish_indiscriminate_right_swiping/ |
longhairedthrowawa | 2024-02-23 06:15:34 | 1,708,668,934 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1axtj0i | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1axtj0i/men_who_reach_out_6_months_a_year_two_years_after/ | 60 | i'm 27 and have had very very bad luck with dating in general - but this phenomenon is so just fucking insane to me. men will spontaneously reappear in my imessage or tinder or whatever we first connected on and just pretend like they didnt ghost me for that period of time or whatever. it never goes anywhere either the... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | men who reach out 6 months, a year, TWO years after ghosting... any of u other ladies have this a lot? | 60 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1axtj0i/men_who_reach_out_6_months_a_year_two_years_after/ |
[deleted] | 2020-10-19 14:56:47 | 1,603,119,407 | null | ['dating apps'] | 1 | je357i | true | null | 169 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/je357i/im_29f_wasting_my_life_and_i_dont_know_how_to/ | 2,610 | A little backstory, I grew up in a fundamentalist christian sect. There were short snippets of it that I remember fondly, but those moments were few and far between next to the stressfully high expectations and extreme rhetoric that effectively isolated you from anyone except that particular group of christians. Women ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm [29F] wasting my life, and I don't know how to reignite my excitement for living and find a loving partner. | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/je357i/im_29f_wasting_my_life_and_i_dont_know_how_to/ |
Gloomy-Jeweler-3719 | 2023-12-11 11:48:58 | 1,702,295,338 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18fss3k | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18fss3k/being_ghosted/ | 1 | So I’ve (M) been seeing a girl I met on a dating app, we’ve been talking about 4/5 weeks and been on 3 dates, which all seemed to go very well. We would stay out for hours, talking about everything and anything. We also texted everyday. It seemed like we both started to like each other a lot. She even organised our sec... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being Ghosted | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fss3k/being_ghosted/ |
Th_rowa_wa_y | 2023-12-04 15:41:50 | 1,701,704,510 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18amuo7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18amuo7/how_do_i_make_a_spark_happen_if_i_never_feel/ | 2 | 25M I've been using online dating for 6 years now, so far I've met/had a first "date" with 7 or 8 people, most of whom were in the last year or two -- all in-person advances either with people I was acquaintances with or just trying to meet people in public have been met with rejection. Every time I've met someone from... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I make a "spark" happen if I never feel "sparks"? | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18amuo7/how_do_i_make_a_spark_happen_if_i_never_feel/ |
nelatayinthewhey | 2024-05-01 18:04:31 | 1,714,586,671 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1chssac | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1chssac/should_i_tell_my_fwb_that_im_meeting_up_with_a/ | 4 | I'm new to dating. I wanted a relationship with my FWB, he didn't. He's still on dating apps. It feels like I'm cheating, meeting this other guy. I feel like I'm being deceptive but I'm worried that if I tell my FWB, he'll think I'm trying to make him jealous. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I tell my FWB that I'm meeting up with a guy who I've been chatting with? | 4 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1chssac/should_i_tell_my_fwb_that_im_meeting_up_with_a/ |
Royal_Comment_5027 | 2023-10-29 04:44:58 | 1,698,554,698 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17ivhqa | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17ivhqa/had_an_unexpectedly_good_first_date_no_response/ | 1 | Hey everyone, TLDR is at the bottom if you're so inclined. I [28M] met this girl [20F] on a dating app. I didn't have my age filter set that low, but I saw that she had liked my profile (via the premium subscription) and she seemed to have similar interests so I matched with her. We exchanged 5-6 messages and then agre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Had an unexpectedly good first date, no response yet when I asked for another date, what should I do? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17ivhqa/had_an_unexpectedly_good_first_date_no_response/ |
Imalittlestitious541 | 2023-03-31 19:09:18 | 1,680,289,758 | null | null | 0 | 127vq22 | true | null | 130 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/127vq22/facebook_are_we_dating_the_same_person_groups/ | 30 | So I came across a “are we dating the same guy” page on Facebook a while back where women can post pictures of men they met online to find out any safety concerns or if they are dating other people. There’s one for most bigger cities. I guess there’s now a “are we dating the same woman” one for men. My male friend that... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Facebook are we dating the same person groups | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/127vq22/facebook_are_we_dating_the_same_person_groups/ |
DegreePitiful7179 | 2023-10-11 05:21:24 | 1,697,001,684 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1756ecm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1756ecm/trying_to_get_over_a_guy_i_dated_for_a_month/ | 1 | I am an Indian living in the UK and I dated a guy from whom I met on a dating app for about a month. The reason I agreed to go out with him was that he was within my mutual friends' circle, and I had heard from them that he had recently gone through a breakup two months ago. At the outset, both of us were on the same p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to get over a guy I dated for a month. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1756ecm/trying_to_get_over_a_guy_i_dated_for_a_month/ |
Sea_Scallion8501 | 2022-12-15 19:38:32 | 1,671,133,112 | null | null | 0 | zmtyec | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zmtyec/dont_hold_her_word_watch_her_actions/ | 0 | To the fellas, I was thinking to myself the other day about when I had my first girlfriend and how I was completely naive to how women operated. I love women, and you should too. I believe we are equally important to this world, but I wouldn’t say we are the same. There were so many times I recall when she would tell m... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Don’t Hold her word, Watch her Actions | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zmtyec/dont_hold_her_word_watch_her_actions/ |
amendagolazo | 2017-11-30 13:17:07 | 1,512,047,827 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7gm95v | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7gm95v/how_do_i_f23_make_the_first_move_on_a_guy_m24/ | 1 | How to ask if the guy I've been seeing is into me? It's my first time in the dating field after a long three year relationship. When I was first dating my previous ex he was very forward and to the point immediately. This new guy I've been talking with is a little different. Not to mention from another state so perhaps... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I [F23] make the first move on a guy [M24]. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7gm95v/how_do_i_f23_make_the_first_move_on_a_guy_m24/ |
PTthrow95 | 2022-02-15 20:01:09 | 1,644,955,269 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | stbv9l | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/stbv9l/howwhere_to_even_get_started_dating/ | 1 | I am a 26m that is finally starting their career again over after suffering a moderate tbi. I have zero experience with dating as I was very ugly in high school, and just when I was starting to get attractive and beginning a career in IT I had an accident which left me having to relearn how to walk and other basic task... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How/where to even get started dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/stbv9l/howwhere_to_even_get_started_dating/ |
Golden_Pixel | 2015-12-03 04:02:16 | 1,449,115,336 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3v8kkt | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3v8kkt/long_distance_dating/ | 1 | So i recently started dating a girl who lives 2hours away and i'm worried that the distance between us will ruin what we have. We met on Tinder and have gone on 5 dates so far, everytime i have caught the train to go see her which i don't mind doing at all. But in a few days shes coming to see me and she doesnt seem ve... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Long distance dating | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3v8kkt/long_distance_dating/ |
DirkDiggler1991 | 2024-07-02 03:48:36 | 1,719,892,116 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1dtcivk | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dtcivk/restarting_a_text_conversation_after_6_months/ | 1 | Was cleaning out old texts and stumbled on a conversation I had with a woman off tinder. We had a ton in common and had a great conversation going. Right as we made plans to meet I got covid really badly and was sick for almost a month. The conversation died during that time and I guess I never reignited it. Would I be... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Restarting a text conversation after 6 months | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dtcivk/restarting_a_text_conversation_after_6_months/ |
MFRobots | 2021-04-30 15:12:47 | 1,619,795,567 | null | null | 0 | n1vy0d | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/n1vy0d/when_someone_is_having_a_bad_week_they_are_just/ | 5 | Ever met someone to try to date, be it online or off whatever, and you've been staying in touch either by phone or by text. The signs of the fade is a form of foreshadowing things to come. You say "Hi there how's your day going?" They respond, "Sorry I haven't responded, things have been really hectic, dramatic week. T... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When someone is "having a bad week", they are just trying to fade | null | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/n1vy0d/when_someone_is_having_a_bad_week_they_are_just/ |
MandibulofacialOat | 2017-12-10 15:26:26 | 1,512,919,586 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 7iugs4 | false | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7iugs4/he_is_texting_me_after_the_first_date_but_not/ | 1 | A week ago I had a decent first date with a guy I met on a dating app (me 32, him 35). There were a couple of awkward silences, but I enjoyed the date (the guy was engaging, could carry on a conversation, offered to pay, didn't ask to have sex or anything). It ended with a hug and "it was nice meeting you" -- to me, th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | He is texting me after the first date but not asking me out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7iugs4/he_is_texting_me_after_the_first_date_but_not/ |
theedang | 2013-03-13 00:37:44 | 1,363,135,064 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1a6n9l | null | null | 5 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1a6n9l/should_you_be_wary_of_random_online_hookups/ | 1 | I'm not really familiar with online dating, but my friend just told me that he received a message online (via some dating website) from a lady that was visiting the area for business. She was bored and wanted to get out of the hotel room and messaged him to "hang out." Do you think this is just a person looking for a b... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Should you be wary of random online hookups? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1a6n9l/should_you_be_wary_of_random_online_hookups/ |
tk338 | 2011-10-11 09:47:36 | 1,318,326,456 | 1 | ['matches'] | null | l84lj | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/l84lj/exs_conundrum/ | 0 | I am honestly not sure where this belongs, its not really any of the sub reddits for relationships yet I feel I'll get by far best advice here. I apologise if his is misplaced. Background: 20/M, I have had 3 girlfriends over the last 4 years, first and second a year and the third 6 months. The third one ended May? this... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ex's conundrum. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l84lj/exs_conundrum/ |
haircareshare | 2022-06-21 22:52:04 | 1,655,851,924 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vhpxs5 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vhpxs5/where_to_meet_women/ | 1 | So I don’t really use dating apps and I don’t drink or go to clubs so where else can I meet Women? My hobbies are movies,tv, gaming, cooking, 3d modelling, reading and music I’m 21 and in London UK | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where to meet women? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vhpxs5/where_to_meet_women/ |
MarvelousBastian | 2024-08-25 17:23:56 | 1,724,606,636 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1f11p3w | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f11p3w/matched_with_a_friend_on_tinder/ | 1 | I went on tinder this friday and the first profile i see is a guy that i know. I have never met him but we have been in snapping for about 2 years, sometimes its just a random snap but we snap most days. At first when we began snapping and talking, it was flirtatious and seemed to be going towards that direction, but t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | matched with a friend on tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f11p3w/matched_with_a_friend_on_tinder/ |
VirtualCapital2838 | 2023-10-17 02:19:08 | 1,697,509,148 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 179nmuv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/179nmuv/am_i_reaching_out_of_my_league_26m_only_been_on/ | 1 | I don’t like to believe in leagues but my lack of success has me questioning this. About me (sorry if I come across as douchey I don’t mean to): Physical/personality stuff: My friends say I’m confident, kind, funny, introspective, ambitious and well groomed/ dressed. They also say I’m good looking even though I think I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I reaching out of my league? (26M) only been on one date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/179nmuv/am_i_reaching_out_of_my_league_26m_only_been_on/ |
tushtushtui | 2020-02-18 03:42:37 | 1,581,997,357 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | f5lg51 | true | Question | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/f5lg51/after_a_series_of_failed_first_dates_ladies_how/ | 2 | I (F) am kinda asking steps to follow, things to do. I generally get asked out if a guy connects to me on the dating apps(hinge, coffee meets bagel), but havent scored a single second date. They explicitly tell me I am fun, more friendly than usually dates and makes sorta future plans with not calling me the next day. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | After a series of failed first dates, ladies how should I go about the entire dating scene. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f5lg51/after_a_series_of_failed_first_dates_ladies_how/ |
Fun_Ice802 | 2024-03-27 02:31:34 | 1,711,506,694 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1boqxuc | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1boqxuc/friend_31m_is_not_responsive_on_texts_to_me_32f/ | 1 | There's this guy at work who I hangout with for a bit everyday at work. We don't work together and I have the option to move to a different building whenever I want to so it wouldn't get in the way of work if things ended badly. In the past few months that we've known each other, the connection gradually built up, and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Friend [31M] is not responsive on texts to me [32F] but shows interest in person | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1boqxuc/friend_31m_is_not_responsive_on_texts_to_me_32f/ |
Gold-Pomegranate-406 | 2022-09-09 01:53:57 | 1,662,688,437 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | x9ihqx | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/x9ihqx/am_i_being_too_impatient_and_dating_app_questions/ | 1 | Hopefully this is the right subreddit for this. I'll try not to write a book but I do feel like I should give a little backstory about my situation. So, I'm a 23M who was in a relationship from the time I was 18, with the same girl, until last November, so just over 4 years, and this was the first girl I ever dated. Ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being too Impatient? (And dating app questions) | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/x9ihqx/am_i_being_too_impatient_and_dating_app_questions/ |
vidphoducer | 2021-07-06 20:24:31 | 1,625,603,071 | null | null | 0 | of3axv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/of3axv/your_opinion_on_whether_im_speaking_to_a/ | 1 | Moved off the online dating app to a multi messaging platform app to talk less than 24 hours from match lol. 1. This person tends to repeat the same lines like 1. xyz :o emoji 2. xyz xD emoji 3. "aww 3 emoji so sorry about that" which honestly didn't make sense at times when it was used lul 2. Good use of ghosting and ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Your opinion on whether I'm speaking to a scammer/cat fish/bot | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/of3axv/your_opinion_on_whether_im_speaking_to_a/ |
metallica11 | 2022-01-23 20:26:03 | 1,642,969,563 | null | ['dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | sb2ycs | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sb2ycs/women_what_makes_you_take_a_proactive_interest_in/ | 4 | Nowadays, women are increasingly moreso the gatekeepers of dating - men are given the signal to not approah women, and women have taken a more proactive role in attracting the men they want , whether it be approaching men more, using female centric dating apps such as bumble etc. So my question to women is - what catch... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women - what makes you take a proactive interest in approaching a man or signaling that he should approach? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sb2ycs/women_what_makes_you_take_a_proactive_interest_in/ |
kingtj1971 | 2021-09-17 23:29:45 | 1,631,921,385 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | pqbbjq | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pqbbjq/background_and_a_few_questions_after_a_first_date/ | 2 | Just as some general background? I just turned 50 and am recently divorced. (This is actually divorce 2 but was amicable. The ex got super involved in her religion, among other things, and it really wasn't anything I could deal with anymore. She changed a lot, knew it, and we had no interest in each other anymore. Firs... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Background and a few questions after a first date (long, so just warning you!)? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pqbbjq/background_and_a_few_questions_after_a_first_date/ |
l0ve2spl00ge | 2020-10-11 14:41:59 | 1,602,427,319 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | j96jzu | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j96jzu/dont_know_if_im_into_her/ | 2 | let me start off by saying I am/was a heavy porn addict. I’m talking 3-5 times a day. I recently have put serious effort into stopping and I really do feel better and see women in a healthier way. But I think I might have some lasting effects of “porn brain” as my therapist calls it. I matched with a girl on bumble. Sh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t know if I’m into her | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j96jzu/dont_know_if_im_into_her/ |
Embarrassed_Bird_630 | 2024-09-09 01:46:21 | 1,725,846,381 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fce5vi | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fce5vi/do_you_have_health_insurance/ | 7 | Has anyone ever been asked that by someone online I Google and can’t come up with anything. This is probably a huge red flag lol | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do you have health insurance? | 7 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fce5vi/do_you_have_health_insurance/ |
Martin_OH_01 | 2020-09-09 11:17:35 | 1,599,650,255 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | ipdyhz | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ipdyhz/why_does_some_get_girls_so_easily/ | 14 | I (m19) once went out on a dating site where you can jump into calls (something like discord) where you can talk with each other and also facetime. I have bad confidence in myself from bullying that started in kindergarten but i have lived with it nearly whole my life so i have managed to coope with it and i would say ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why does some get girls so easily? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ipdyhz/why_does_some_get_girls_so_easily/ |
1662nialpp | 2017-06-11 01:18:27 | 1,497,143,907 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6giuat | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating/comments/6giuat/tindering_with_tummy_tuck_scar/ | 6 | I have a tummy tuck scar that stretches hip to hip. It's not that bad of a scar. It's faded quite a bit but still red and still quite noticeable. It also cuts off the bottom part of a flower tattoo. I feel self conscious about it because when naked it looks like it cuts my body in half. I would really like to go on tin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tindering with tummy tuck scar | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6giuat/tindering_with_tummy_tuck_scar/ |
[deleted] | 2012-12-02 03:40:17 | 1,354,419,617 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 144vnx | null | null | 4 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/144vnx/someone_please_please_help_me_i_just_got_rejected/ | 2 | I am 29 years old. In May I was dumped by the guy I had been with since I was 25, and thought I was going to marry. It was a brutal, terrible breakup, we lived together and he ended up having sex with one of my best friends in the house while I was still living there, among a bunch of other horrific things. He was also... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Someone please, please help me. I just got rejected again and I don't know how to fix my life | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/144vnx/someone_please_please_help_me_i_just_got_rejected/ |
lettheriverrun123 | 2022-12-18 10:35:24 | 1,671,359,724 | null | null | 0 | zovqkq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zovqkq/why_do_his_pictures_look_so_different/ | 0 | I matched with this guy who has two different “sets” of photos - a couple pictures wearing glasses and where he’s clearly a redhead, versus a couple different pictures with no glasses, dark hair, scruffier looking and much less attractive. Is it just the lighting or were the first pictures potentially taken so long ago... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do his pictures look so different? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zovqkq/why_do_his_pictures_look_so_different/ |
Firm_Issue_1080 | 2024-07-07 03:33:28 | 1,720,323,208 | 0 | ['swiping', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1dx77u6 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dx77u6/says_hes_still_interested_but_was_busy/ | 7 | We were calling and texting daily and met up twice. But then after what I thought was a pretty good date that ended with some intimacy (non-sexual) and promises to meet again, he started communicating less and less over the week. I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first because I knew it was a busy week at work, bu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Says he's still interested but was busy | 7 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dx77u6/says_hes_still_interested_but_was_busy/ |
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