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Own-Trainer108 | 2021-12-22 08:40:44 | 1,640,162,444 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rm0xk7 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rm0xk7/do_you_think_you_may_have_ended_it_too_early_with/ | 1 | Got back on dating apps and I’m finding it hard to decide whether to go on another date with the person if we ended with a so-so date. I do believe that building attraction takes time. Sometimes I think about some of my dates and wonder if I’m not giving them enough chances. How do you guys make that call? Edit: What i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think you may have ended it too early with people you’ve only gone 1-2 dates with? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rm0xk7/do_you_think_you_may_have_ended_it_too_early_with/ |
Pigeondrake | 2022-12-25 04:11:29 | 1,671,941,489 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | zuq9qv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zuq9qv/asking_out_someone_you_dont_have_a_crush_for_yet/ | 0 | Hi. I'm trying to actively get out of my singleness since about one year ago, rather than just relying on pure luck because I realized I would probably stay forever alone if I didn't actually try. I had almost no dating experience prior to that and I'm still trying to figure it out how to find dating opportunities so i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking out someone you don't have a crush for yet with the hope of developing one while dating? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zuq9qv/asking_out_someone_you_dont_have_a_crush_for_yet/ |
_TacoBelleoftheBall_ | 2022-05-23 19:18:47 | 1,653,333,527 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | uw7zlq | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uw7zlq/i_feel_like_i_dont_know_how_dating_works/ | 11 | I really don’t get dating lately. And I’m kind of at the point where I don’t want to do it anymore. Lol. Like, no one wants to put in effort. I’m always the one messaging guys on dating apps, and half the time, they don’t even respond. It’s like…why did you even match me?! Anyway. There is this guy I used to work with ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I feel like I don’t know how dating works anymore…do people still slide into people’s DMs? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uw7zlq/i_feel_like_i_dont_know_how_dating_works/ |
D0g_backwards3000 | 2024-07-08 03:04:29 | 1,720,407,869 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dxyhls | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dxyhls/dating_without_an_app/ | 1 | I’m a 23f living in NYC, moved here three years ago and I haven’t been on one actual date. I feel like I’m doing something wrong? I’ve had all the dating apps (I’ve deleted them all because they seem hopeless) and the guys I just meet off of them just want to hook up. Does anyone have any advice of where I should go or... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating without an app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dxyhls/dating_without_an_app/ |
Sea_Complaint_5313 | 2022-06-20 00:20:16 | 1,655,684,416 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vg8iz9 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vg8iz9/guy_just_met_met_and_states_hes_in_love/ | 1 | I matched with a guy on Match three weeks ago. We have been talking consistently everyday and have had lenhy conversations via text. Well over the weekend (Friday) we met for the first time in person. Not going to deny, I had a great time. He kept telling me I am everything he imagined and I made him feel so good. He s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy just met met and states he’s in love | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vg8iz9/guy_just_met_met_and_states_hes_in_love/ |
ThrowRAinstail | 2023-09-18 01:29:34 | 1,695,000,574 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 16li5bl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16li5bl/me18m_and_my_gf18f_have_this_one_recurring_issue/ | 1 | Me and my gf have been having this one recurring issue. From my point of view, it feels like she is more enthusiastic, engaged, and energetic in conversations with other people and in groups. But sometimes (not all the times) when she's with me, she's simply responding to what I'm saying and not really adding her own t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Me(18m) and my gf(18f) have this one recurring issue. Am I being irrational or is it a problem? If so, how do I deal with it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16li5bl/me18m_and_my_gf18f_have_this_one_recurring_issue/ |
floyd616 | 2020-08-27 14:01:45 | 1,598,536,905 | null | null | 0 | ihljx7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ihljx7/should_i_get_tinder_premium/ | 5 | Do you guys think it would be worth it to pay for Tinder premium? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I get Tinder premium? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ihljx7/should_i_get_tinder_premium/ |
shadowlarvitar | 2022-08-19 06:52:12 | 1,660,891,932 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ws71kt | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ws71kt/is_inexperience_a_turn_off_for_women/ | 0 | I know men don't care about it and love the idea of being the one to take a woman's virginity... but what do women feel about inexperienced men? I hate to ask but lately it's been a growing insecurity of mine. I've mentioned it on dating apps since y'know honesty is important and I want people to understand that I migh... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is inexperience a turn off for women? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ws71kt/is_inexperience_a_turn_off_for_women/ |
sweptawayfromyou | 2024-07-25 18:45:59 | 1,721,933,159 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1ec2l10 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ec2l10/i_m27_mostly_have_matches_that_actually_text_me/ | 17 | If you are like me, who thinks too much, realizing that was kinda depressing, because it sounded like I could be only really attractive to women, who are desperate to get a partner, or who just f around and will get into bed with nearly anyone, since they don’t really want anything serious anyways! Lol Also, are there ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (M27) mostly have matches (that actually text me), who are women in their 20s, who don’t want kids, and women in their 30s, who want to have kids immediately? Is this normal? | 17 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ec2l10/i_m27_mostly_have_matches_that_actually_text_me/ |
HoneyCoveredToes | 2023-09-14 00:45:07 | 1,694,652,307 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16i45ge | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16i45ge/best_apps_for_hookups/ | 1 | I'm not super into long relationships, I enjoy quick and dirty or if I can manage it, a fwb setup. Anywho, does anyone know what the best app for that sort of thing would be? Too many people on tinder want relationships. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best apps for hookups? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16i45ge/best_apps_for_hookups/ |
Agile-Paramedic-8408 | 2023-11-13 13:24:09 | 1,699,881,849 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17uajyn | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17uajyn/need_dating_app_advice_tried_tinder_and_hinge/ | 2 | So, I've been on the Tinder and Hinge train for a while now, and let's just say it's been a bit of a rollercoaster. I've swiped left, right, up, down – you name it, but no luck in finding that special connection. I'm beginning to wonder if my profile pic is cursed or something Anyway, I'm here to pick your brains and g... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need Dating App Advice – Tried Tinder and Hinge with No Luck, What's Next? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17uajyn/need_dating_app_advice_tried_tinder_and_hinge/ |
ablackwell93 | 2023-10-25 03:06:53 | 1,698,203,213 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17fv6xo | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17fv6xo/why_do_men_refuse_to_take_no_as_an_answer/ | 1 | Screenshots in the comments! So, I matched with this guy on Hinge. I told him I don’t really use Hinge, so he asked to follow me on Instagram. Sure, why not. He proceeded to send me a BARRAGE of memes and random reels, all completely whack (I don’t mind some random content but like you don’t even know me or my humour h... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Why do men refuse to take no as an answer?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17fv6xo/why_do_men_refuse_to_take_no_as_an_answer/ |
crystalscats | 2021-10-11 08:24:11 | 1,633,940,651 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | q5rayf | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/q5rayf/do_men_expect_women_to_be_more_forward_these_days/ | 0 | I guess I’m a bit old school but I still have that expectation that men kind of chase for dates in a way. I reconnected with an ex the other week. We were in a relationship for 6 mths and drifted apart. We matched up again on a dating app last year but we never met up until the other week. We went out for a meal and ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do men expect women to be more forward these days? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/q5rayf/do_men_expect_women_to_be_more_forward_these_days/ |
green_eye7 | 2021-06-19 07:02:13 | 1,624,086,133 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | o3aaaw | true | Venting | 29 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o3aaaw/feeling_lonely_while_trying_to_date/ | 21 | I am a 30 male trying my luck in online dating, had alot of disappointments and some were good experiences. I am a romantic, gentle, respectful, listener and introvert. I tried for over 2 years online dating and sometimes I ask myself where are the normal people, I don't like ONS because I want the emotional part that ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling lonely while trying to date | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o3aaaw/feeling_lonely_while_trying_to_date/ |
External-Narwhal5086 | 2024-05-28 12:49:19 | 1,716,900,559 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d2io1z | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d2io1z/hes_giving_mixed_signalsbeing_distant/ | 1 | I met this guy on a dating app over a month ago and we have talked every day (it wasn’t only me initiating). After our second date he began to become more distant but still keeping in contact through other platforms (like tiktok or snapchat but barely). He works a lot especially overtime and i dont know if its because ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hes giving mixed signals/being distant | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d2io1z/hes_giving_mixed_signalsbeing_distant/ |
tzRaptor | 2023-07-20 23:10:34 | 1,689,894,634 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1556fv8 | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1556fv8/were_to_meet_women_irl/ | 1 | I consider myself an extreme introvert and I really don't know how to meet women without dating apps lol. Any advice? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Were to meet women IRL? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1556fv8/were_to_meet_women_irl/ |
Acceptable_Brick1080 | 2023-01-23 03:25:18 | 1,674,444,318 | null | null | 0 | 10j2jno | true | null | 87 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10j2jno/men_explain_this_to_me/ | 19 | I have been OLD since about Oct '22 and I've noticed one very common thing with men. Most of them can NOT hold a conversation and its comes off looking lazy honestly. I try to keep the conversation going but when I only get replies like "haha" or "lol" repeatedly, I'm out. It feels like men in there barely want to do a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Men, explain this to me | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10j2jno/men_explain_this_to_me/ |
AdmiralTiberius | 2021-01-04 16:11:13 | 1,609,776,673 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | kqbqde | true | null | 388 | 1 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kqbqde/i_31m_think_i_just_discovered_an_analog_to_the/ | 1,123 | I’m downsizing for a move and posted a few items on Facebook marketplace for free. I don’t use Facebook, only have a placeholder account, and I live in a large city. Instant barrage of requests to take it from me. Like, a ridiculous number. Needy, casually dismissive, low effort, you name it. Hundreds of messages askin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I (31m) think I just discovered an analog to the female perspective of online dating | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kqbqde/i_31m_think_i_just_discovered_an_analog_to_the/ |
Old-Practice5308 | 2024-05-10 03:02:53 | 1,715,310,173 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1cofilt | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cofilt/why_is_it_bumble_only_matches_me_with_overweight/ | 1 | I don't get it I'm athletic and above the common height people want ..have pictures in tailored suits and some where I'm smiling not just looking like a criminal But after dojng those boost features I noticed I get tons of matches but they are all overweight woman lol What is up? Why does bumble do this? Lol | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it bumble only matches me with overweight people? | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cofilt/why_is_it_bumble_only_matches_me_with_overweight/ |
Tac0qvy | 2024-02-21 04:37:54 | 1,708,490,274 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1aw36y7 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aw36y7/do_i_have_attachment_issues_or_do_i_just_know/ | 1 | I've (32m) recently started talking to a girl (33F), going on 3 weeks now. (TL;DR at the bottom) We get along well and have a similar sense of humor, we also seem pretty compatible politically, religiously, and sexually. Unfortunately, I'm already starting to feel like she might not be for me, and I'm starting to think... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I have attachment issues or do I just know what I don't want? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aw36y7/do_i_have_attachment_issues_or_do_i_just_know/ |
DifferentCategory830 | 2024-06-15 06:25:35 | 1,718,432,735 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dgbmnm | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dgbmnm/new_to_dating_talking_stage/ | 4 | Hi everyone. I am in an unusual position. I am a 44 year old woman who has been in a long term relationship for 15 years and before that 11 years. So basically since I was young I was in a long term, serious relationship. I am now single. I have been single/ healing for a while and I’m now ready to date. Almost 2 month... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to dating/ talking stage | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dgbmnm/new_to_dating_talking_stage/ |
Wandering_soul88 | 2024-01-12 23:57:52 | 1,705,103,872 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 1959veu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1959veu/how_do_you_date_other_people/ | 1 | I've been talking to this guy 28m daily for like 3 months and we've gone on one date so far and talked about going on more. I was talking to another guy around the same time and it kinda fizzled out and I was ok with that cause I am really interested in this guy and I liked him so much that I took a break from my datin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you date other people? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1959veu/how_do_you_date_other_people/ |
Sweat_and_sunscreen | 2023-10-22 17:47:11 | 1,697,996,831 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17dyvzl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17dyvzl/res_flag_or_proceed_with_caution/ | 1 | TL;DR: I’m in a very new relationship with a guy. Last week he adopted the cat of the (dead) grandmother of one of his former casual flings. She comes over occasionally to see the cat and he plans on giving her the keys to his apartment so she can look after the cat when he’s away. I don’t know how to feel about this. ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Res flag or proceed with caution? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17dyvzl/res_flag_or_proceed_with_caution/ |
CochranVanRamstein | 2022-04-04 00:32:55 | 1,649,032,375 | null | null | 0 | tvoiwh | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/tvoiwh/women_who_match_but_then_never_reply_to_messages/ | 40 | (I’m sure there are men who also do this, but I wouldn’t know…) I wonder why ‘some’ women who are on dating apps will go to the trouble of swiping on someone but not reply to any messages. Is this a sign of a fake profile(s)? I’m genuinely curious… | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women who match but then never reply to messages - why? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/tvoiwh/women_who_match_but_then_never_reply_to_messages/ |
dogggmomm | 2023-07-31 01:08:24 | 1,690,765,704 | 0 | ['matched', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 15e23xe | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15e23xe/ending_the_talking_stage/ | 1 | So I’ve been talking to a (32m) who i matched with on Facebook dating (26f). We’ve been on several dates and talk everyday but recently i feel like it’s asking too much to hang out, by him waiting until I bring it up or he’s always “tired”. During the week he’s busy with work and the gym so we don’t hang during the wee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ending the talking stage | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15e23xe/ending_the_talking_stage/ |
hariunfiltered | 2023-09-11 03:13:43 | 1,694,402,023 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16fkdxh | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16fkdxh/online_dating_in_your_30s_survey/ | 1 | Am conducting a (short) online survey about people's experience w/ dating apps (and dating in general) in their 30s. Would anyone here be willing to participate? Thanks in advance. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating in your 30s survey | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16fkdxh/online_dating_in_your_30s_survey/ |
PrincipleRoyal1514 | 2024-08-21 10:16:19 | 1,724,235,379 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1exlxku | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1exlxku/question_to_men_is_it_me_or_why_do_the_men_i_like/ | 0 | Hi everyone I am in my early 20s (f) and I am sort of struggling in the dating field and could use some help. Im trying to at least figure out if its me that is doing something wrong and in what areas I can improve, so feel free to be brutally honest. I have noticed a pattern where I attract men that are my type (chara... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Question to men - is it me or why do the men I like fade away from me? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1exlxku/question_to_men_is_it_me_or_why_do_the_men_i_like/ |
Own_Fig_6477 | 2024-05-07 19:01:20 | 1,715,108,480 | 0 | null | 0 | 1cmjovz | true | null | 155 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmjovz/does_anyone_else_find_dating_apps_painfully/ | 88 | Every time I get a match, it goes nowhere or I get left on read. I don’t know if something is wrong with me or something but it’s hard to get a connection through just texting. Genuinely curious if I’m just bad at this or it’s hard for men. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Does anyone else find dating apps painfully difficult as a man? | 88 | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1cmjovz/does_anyone_else_find_dating_apps_painfully/ |
raiigiic | 2019-07-23 23:00:48 | 1,563,922,848 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cgzwlh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cgzwlh/talking_to_almost_strangers_and_asking_for_a_date/ | 1 | So I've met this girl maybe once... But I have friends who used to be friends with her (not anymore, naturally drifted). I haven't seen her in person in about 3 years but she is super cute. I recently saw she was single / on tinder and I wanted to message her. What would be the best way to approach this? I have her on ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking to "almost strangers" and asking for a date. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cgzwlh/talking_to_almost_strangers_and_asking_for_a_date/ |
menmasteduaa | 2015-06-14 19:22:16 | 1,434,309,736 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 39tz0c | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/39tz0c/successful_1st_date_keeping_it_alive_until_the_2nd/ | 2 | So I went on a 1st date with this girl I met on Tinder, and it turned out great (it went on for well over 4 hours at a bar/restaurant), and she did even say she had a great time as well when I told her I did. She also agreed to a 2nd date, but its gonna be a while (not sure what is really considered to be "a while" whe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Successful 1st date, keeping it "alive" until the 2nd? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/39tz0c/successful_1st_date_keeping_it_alive_until_the_2nd/ |
Latter_Interaction34 | 2023-06-21 10:13:16 | 1,687,342,396 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 14f3o4h | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14f3o4h/the_girl_im_talking_to_suddenly_changed_her_game/ | 1 | so i (F18) matched with this girl (F18) on tinder about a month ago and we hit it off really well. it’s been all giggles and butterflies, we talked to each other all day every day, sent each other photos, videos and voice messages and all that. since i’m a romantic person it comes naturally to me to do corny things (bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | the girl i’m talking to suddenly changed her game | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14f3o4h/the_girl_im_talking_to_suddenly_changed_her_game/ |
darkhorse2k | 2019-07-13 10:13:26 | 1,563,012,806 | null | null | 0 | ccnrmp | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ccnrmp/i_hate_serial_dating/ | 12 | 2 girls on the go Date confirmed tonight, another on Monday. In the past, would focus on one woman at a time, now keep 2 - 3 on the go in case I get let down by any. Girl 2 vibe is off, so I am glad I had girl 1 on the go. I hate it. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I hate serial dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ccnrmp/i_hate_serial_dating/ |
Knightly11 | 2024-06-28 18:22:12 | 1,719,598,932 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1dqqht2 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dqqht2/thoughts_on_starting_out_long_distance/ | 1 | I (M28) was talking to my best friend yesterday about this girl I matched with that is checking off a bunch of green flags for me. She lives 2 hours away is the only problem. My best friend made some good points in that starting a relationship, especially with my goal of wanting marriage and kids, through long distance... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on Starting Out Long Distance? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dqqht2/thoughts_on_starting_out_long_distance/ |
Goloid_Deity | 2017-12-16 23:02:15 | 1,513,465,335 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 7ka7zm | false | null | 38 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7ka7zm/whats_wrong_with_dating_websites/ | 7 | after getting tired of not finding anyone I tried a few dating websites lately and have quickly come to an unfortunate realisation: dating websites are for normal people and i am not a normal person. I would consider myself a very smart guy, i do art, music and improv, I like philosophy and autoanalytic psychology so i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | what's wrong with dating websites | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7ka7zm/whats_wrong_with_dating_websites/ |
Hot-Pudding3664 | 2023-05-22 00:40:16 | 1,684,716,016 | 0 | null | 0 | 13obgvp | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/13obgvp/girls_with_guys_in_their_pictures/ | 7 | What do you guys think of girls having pictures of guys with their arm around the girls in pictures? It makes me think she’s trying to allude to competition/she has options or being polygamous. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Girls with guys in their pictures | 7 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13obgvp/girls_with_guys_in_their_pictures/ |
DC-Wingman | 2022-06-13 22:24:51 | 1,655,159,091 | null | null | 0 | vbo80k | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/vbo80k/to_include_your_job_or_not/ | 2 | So I (30m)work as produce manager at a grocery store and don’t have any workplace mentioned in my profile. I admit it’s best to be straightforward about things, but I have had more than one or two matches either unmatch or stop talking once I say what I do. So when I don’t mention it at all I get more matches and conve... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | To include your job or not? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/vbo80k/to_include_your_job_or_not/ |
Annual_Class6876 | 2024-05-01 13:48:04 | 1,714,571,284 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1chmmki | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1chmmki/her_profile_says_key_to_my_heart_is_flowers_so/ | 2 | About to go on second date with Hinge match tomorrow. Her profile says “Key to my heart is Flowers!”, and in person she even mentioned she love gardening and flowers. So I generally won’t give flowers or gifts until a bit further along once in an actual relationship. But since she has said so much about it, I think it ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Her profile says “Key to my heart is Flowers”, so unsure if to give flowers on second date or not | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1chmmki/her_profile_says_key_to_my_heart_is_flowers_so/ |
Unnamed-31 | 2024-03-10 12:00:45 | 1,710,072,045 | 0 | ['swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bb8qrz | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bb8qrz/date_ghosted_me_after_sex_then_said_he_wasnt/ | 15 | Swiped right at this guy on bumble who seemed to be a really nice guy. We texted for a couple of days during which he was super sweet and made a lot of effort in keeping up the conversation and sending pics during the day, even when he was at work. He planned a date outdoors, but that somehow turned into a date back at... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Date ghosted me after sex, then said he wasn't available because his grandpa died. Is he lying? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bb8qrz/date_ghosted_me_after_sex_then_said_he_wasnt/ |
Aware-Fault6046 | 2024-07-13 09:31:12 | 1,720,863,072 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1e26ecg | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1e26ecg/when_do_i_go_from_here/ | 0 | Where do I start? So I (46M) matched with a woman (42F) on Bumble four weeks ago. Really nice messages from the outset. After about a week of messages, we agreed to have a video chat. That went really well. We both agreed to arrange a date ASAP as we both work shifts and share childcare with our Exes. The messages from... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | When do I go from here? | 0 | 0.48 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1e26ecg/when_do_i_go_from_here/ |
MMMsomethingintheway | 2024-09-13 20:26:22 | 1,726,259,182 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fg4lac | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fg4lac/blocked_for_setting_up_a_date/ | 16 | Hi everyone, I’m a 26M and recently had a situation on a dating app that I’m trying to understand. I had been chatting with someone for a few days, and we had many things in common, including similar interests and deep conversations. Everything seemed to be going well. Eventually, about a week into constantly talking t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Blocked for setting up a date. | 16 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fg4lac/blocked_for_setting_up_a_date/ |
simple_user_error | 2018-03-05 15:36:03 | 1,520,264,163 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 826rdp | false | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/826rdp/dating_is_hard_at_this_age_also_harder_with/ | 16 | It’s been a little over 3 years since I’ve started dating again. I found that I was getting too comfortable being alone. I thought I was ready to date. I met a guy on bumble. Went on 3 dates over the course of a month and it seems cool. It’s very slow which I’m okay with but lately I feel like my anxiety is getting out... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating is hard at this age. Also, harder with general anxiety disorder. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/826rdp/dating_is_hard_at_this_age_also_harder_with/ |
Apprehensive-Ad-8696 | 2023-08-16 14:40:43 | 1,692,196,843 | 0 | ['matched', 'swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15srqvg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15srqvg/i_21m_matched_with_someone_i_know_on_bumble_now/ | 1 | Hi all. I’m a uni student starting classes next week. At the end of last semester I was looking for a relationship so I made a bumble account, but didn’t have a lot of success and deleted the app. Over the summer, I matched with someone I know from academic-related events. We’re both really interested in our studies an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (21M) matched with someone I know on bumble. Now what? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15srqvg/i_21m_matched_with_someone_i_know_on_bumble_now/ |
ratgirlunlimited | 2020-05-20 08:41:31 | 1,589,964,091 | null | null | 0 | gn7px6 | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gn7px6/anyone_like_taking_it_super_slow/ | 39 | F26 here. Idk what it is but I really love the old-timey, slowly getting to know somebody feeling. For example, writing long letters to one another before meeting if it is not possible to meet irl (either distance or lockdown). I feel like this is so rare this day and age, and its rarity feels so precious. I do see dra... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone like taking it super slow? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gn7px6/anyone_like_taking_it_super_slow/ |
[deleted] | 2022-01-21 09:35:25 | 1,642,757,725 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | s971eb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s971eb/how_do_you_meet_people_in_a_small_town/ | 3 | Dating apps are pretty much dead for this area so thats a non starter. Anyone run into similar problems? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet people in a small town? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s971eb/how_do_you_meet_people_in_a_small_town/ |
MFRobots | 2020-03-07 13:27:11 | 1,583,587,631 | null | null | 0 | fev3tm | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/fev3tm/if_theres_no_click_online_you_can_never_have/ | 0 | Sometimes, I'd see women's profiles that express how they are open to both friendship, in case there's no romantic connection after you've met. Ive even seen it in profiles, "If it doesn't work out, you can never have enough friends, right?" One woman I met, we went out twice, however, there wasn't really a romantic co... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If there's no click online, you can never have enough friends, right? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/fev3tm/if_theres_no_click_online_you_can_never_have/ |
Creamdonut | 2016-03-03 01:54:38 | 1,456,970,078 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 48pr4x | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/48pr4x/how_do_i_reply_to_a_first_date/ | 3 | I met a girl on tinder and we had been talking for 2 weeks until I asked her out yesterday. the date was fun, we went ice skating and talked for like 3 hours, wasn't awkward at all. Good date, i know she's not the one I'm looking for and I really don't want to go on another date. We haven't texted anything about yester... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I reply to a first date? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/48pr4x/how_do_i_reply_to_a_first_date/ |
tofuvavofu | 2023-12-12 23:17:29 | 1,702,423,049 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18h09ln | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18h09ln/should_i_m25_tell_friend_f23_i_have_a_crush_on_her/ | 1 | I made a new friend about 5 months ago. She’s an au pair who will be here in the US for about a year more. We met through a church young adults group, a little ironically since neither of us were religious. At first I’d just see her once or twice a week at group events, then she started inviting me to other things with... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (M25) tell friend (F23) I have a crush on her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18h09ln/should_i_m25_tell_friend_f23_i_have_a_crush_on_her/ |
djbjgm | 2020-09-07 09:09:27 | 1,599,469,767 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | io4878 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/io4878/how_to_meet_givers_not_takers_in_old/ | 10 | In my marriage, I was the primary breadwinner and caretaker. I have similar relationships with friends. I've heard these personalities described as"givers" and "takers". I do not want this kind of one-sided romantic relationship again. This is a struggle with OLD because my natural tendency is to take the initiative. W... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to meet "givers" not "takers" in OLD? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/io4878/how_to_meet_givers_not_takers_in_old/ |
Fun_Leadership_8486 | 2024-08-15 19:09:17 | 1,723,748,957 | 0 | null | 0 | 1et3muu | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1et3muu/why_women_post_beautiful_pictures_and_no_reply/ | 0 | Just say Hi and then all the men just say Hi and then no matter what they don't say anything else | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why Women post beautiful pictures And no reply | 0 | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1et3muu/why_women_post_beautiful_pictures_and_no_reply/ |
rocketsneaker | 2024-02-26 21:20:21 | 1,708,982,421 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1b0t577 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b0t577/is_there_any_point_in_me_being_on_tinder_when_all/ | 3 | To clarify, I'm kind of a simple homely type of guy. I'll enjoy quality time together maybe on the couch watching TV or playing a game together. Going out to a restaurant or hobby place every now and then. The girls I see on tinder are constantly girls who are like Instagram models (or could be), like to drink, like to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there any point in me being on tinder when all I see are girls would would not be interested in me? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b0t577/is_there_any_point_in_me_being_on_tinder_when_all/ |
KnowYourRole96 | 2023-04-02 22:18:19 | 1,680,473,899 | 0 | null | 0 | 12a08n1 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12a08n1/if_i_see_someone_i_know_on_an_online_dating_app/ | 1 | So I’ve been using online apps lately , and I can across a profile of someone I went to high school with and always found attractive. So assuming they are now single , should I swip on their profile to match on the app or find another way such as Snapchat , or Instagram , texting them etc to attempt at a possible conne... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If I see someone I know on an online dating app that I find attractive and interested in, should I take my shot on the app or find another means ? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12a08n1/if_i_see_someone_i_know_on_an_online_dating_app/ |
ghost03080 | 2018-03-04 19:55:34 | 1,520,193,334 | null | ['dating site', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 8202kk | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8202kk/28_male_looking_for_dating_site_suggestions/ | 1 | So as the post says I'm 28 I've managed to go on a couple of dates but nothing serious. I've recently become a hermit and wanting to change that. I was partially on OkCupid but left when they required you to put in your real name not quite comfortable with that. I'll put in more information if I need to but not really ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 28 male looking for dating site suggestions | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8202kk/28_male_looking_for_dating_site_suggestions/ |
throwawaydates69 | 2023-08-13 09:31:30 | 1,691,919,090 | 0 | null | 0 | 15puh8i | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15puh8i/is_having_different_lighting_for_ur_photos_ok/ | 1 | So i notice that all my photos look different due to the lighting. Like specifically one picture it my face looks so white and smooth and then i have other pictures where my face is not as white and can see more shades of color of my face. Would this be an issue? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Is having different lighting for ur photos ok? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15puh8i/is_having_different_lighting_for_ur_photos_ok/ |
CarelessCatz | 2024-01-28 18:24:59 | 1,706,466,299 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1ad989j | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ad989j/i_want_to_ask_him_for_another_chance_is_this_a/ | 1 | I matched with an awesome guy back in October of 2023. I had a burnout between October and November. At the time I didn’t even know it was a burnout. I just left all conversations, isolated. We had a lot in common, exchanged podcasts of audios to each other. Now I feel better, and thought of texting him: “Hi, (name). N... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want to ask him for another chance, is this a good way? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ad989j/i_want_to_ask_him_for_another_chance_is_this_a/ |
noinnocentbystander | 2020-02-14 01:46:40 | 1,581,644,800 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | f3ku6r | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f3ku6r/whats_your_favorite_dating_app/ | 1 | About 4 years ago I used OK Cupid and it was awesome Now, you have to pay for it in order to even find anyone. I’m looking for one that doesn’t require payment to use the minimal features. The new okc sucks | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What’s your favorite dating app? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f3ku6r/whats_your_favorite_dating_app/ |
RegardingReddit | 2019-08-18 20:40:49 | 1,566,160,849 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cs6ro9 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cs6ro9/anybody/ | 0 | I rarely date. Maybe once every 5 years to see if I’ve changed my mind. So now I’m at another 5 years and went on dating apps to check things out. 24 hours killed it for me. Now every guy I see on the street, I think NOPE. HELL NO. Anybody else? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anybody? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cs6ro9/anybody/ |
Wwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwee | 2019-11-12 19:19:29 | 1,573,586,369 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dves4d | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dves4d/i_was_dumped_i_feel_like_i_cant_breathe_now/ | 0 | He had just said he wanted me to have his children, we should get married, and he loves me and now he's ghosting me. He ghosted me for a whole week and I messaged him again yesterday and he still hasn't replied today. I feel like it's over. I feel betrayed. I probably had hurt him last time we were messaging when i sai... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I was dumped i feel like i can't breathe now | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/dves4d/i_was_dumped_i_feel_like_i_cant_breathe_now/ |
AmericasBiggestNerd | 2023-05-08 02:04:19 | 1,683,511,459 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 13bagso | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13bagso/i_22m_have_been_talking_to_this_guy_20fm_i_met_on/ | 1 | Would getting ice cream be a better choice? What do you guys think? I am still new to this online dating thing, so please be kind about responses :). Also, I have been talking to her for two weeks but she takes a while to respond due to her having a job, I also have school so I sometimes do not respond right away. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [22M] have been talking to this guy [20FM] I met on a dating app for around two weeks now. She lives in Boston, I dont live too far away from there. She suggested she wanted to see me soon. I am wondering if asking her to come to the mall to get lunch, hangout and walk around is a bad first date. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13bagso/i_22m_have_been_talking_to_this_guy_20fm_i_met_on/ |
wantonthrow | 2016-01-01 07:54:25 | 1,451,634,865 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 3z00q9 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/3z00q9/dating_with_a_minor_disease/ | 2 | So about 4 years after a tough breakup, I decided to start dating again. Being that I'm in a new city and I'm kind of introverted, I decided to hit up OkCupid to try to find people who are into the same things as me. The problem is that I have a weird disease that I'm not at all sure how to tell people about. I just go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating with a minor disease | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3z00q9/dating_with_a_minor_disease/ |
anisquares | 2023-10-11 14:41:23 | 1,697,035,283 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 175fmik | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/175fmik/always_unmatched_or_ghosted_after_great/ | 1 | So here’s the deal. I'm a mid thirties female, straight. I have been single for almost 8 years. I short term dated a few guys in the first 4 but it didn’t stick. I’ve been on dates before covid and after I went on about 3, and then nearly all my matches ghost or unmatched before we get to making date plans. I want to g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Always unmatched or ghosted after great conversation. (f) | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/175fmik/always_unmatched_or_ghosted_after_great/ |
shnmchl61 | 2016-05-31 04:49:28 | 1,464,670,168 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 4ltjeu | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4ltjeu/ideas_for_how_to_meet_women/ | 1 | So I've tried several methods of meeting women with no luck. Are there any that I'm not thinking of or need to give a try? Here's what I've tried so far: The bar/club scene Meeting through work (gotta be careful with this one) Tinder Dating sites (POF, OK Cupid, Zoosk) Having friends/co-workers set me up School (althou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ideas for how to meet women? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4ltjeu/ideas_for_how_to_meet_women/ |
quitzx | 2016-05-03 11:55:35 | 1,462,276,535 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 4hmvsw | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/4hmvsw/getting_mixed_signals_after_3_months_dating_a_big/ | 1 | Hi, First off i apologize in advance for any broken english and/or sentences, also its quite a long post. I haven't been in a relationship for a good 2 years due to self improvement and a general lack of interest for dating. This Spring i started using a dating app. Met this girl, we live similar busy lifes but we have... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting mixed signals after 3 months dating. A big question mark. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4hmvsw/getting_mixed_signals_after_3_months_dating_a_big/ |
tryannick170 | 2020-01-05 07:03:17 | 1,578,207,797 | null | null | 0 | ek9mk3 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ek9mk3/a_question_for_tinder_plus_members/ | 2 | Do you find that the feature to have your profile only shown to people you've swiped right on is overall effective? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A question for Tinder Plus members | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ek9mk3/a_question_for_tinder_plus_members/ |
everdancing | 2018-06-13 16:47:19 | 1,528,908,439 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 8qtxzu | true | null | 202 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/8qtxzu/men_who_use_dating_apps_why_are_so_many_of_your/ | 280 | Edit// I'm sorry, I never had any intention of offending any of y'all. I actually enjoy fishing so this was not to hate on it, I just noticed the phenomenon and was curious about it. My girlfriends and I have discussed it a few times because, generally, the man is hard to see (y'all are in sunglasses and hats) in his f... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who use dating apps, why are so many of your profile pictures of fish you caught? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/8qtxzu/men_who_use_dating_apps_why_are_so_many_of_your/ |
Fijoza | 2024-03-07 08:36:27 | 1,709,800,587 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b8pq0c | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b8pq0c/i_have_a_theory_about_dating_apps_what_do_you/ | 1 | Hi, It's been some months I m trying dating apps as a 25M in France and I have noticed something which confirms all the videos youtube I watched about the algorithms of dating apps. The first days I m getting some likes and maybe matches, but after a week I get no more and I think paying a sub will change nothing, the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have a theory about dating apps what do you think ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b8pq0c/i_have_a_theory_about_dating_apps_what_do_you/ |
Fit-Tone-960 | 2024-08-03 06:28:00 | 1,722,666,480 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1eiwi8g | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eiwi8g/help_me_feel_better_about_this_its_going_to_sound/ | 6 | I (30 F) am very into the online dating/hook ups. I was scrolling on a dating app I am too ashamed to admit I use and I found one of the most attractive men I’ve seen on any dating app so far. Men usually don’t stick around for me so I really got desperate for this one to stick. We ended up matching and talking for abo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help me feel better about this. It’s going to sound like a lie | 6 | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eiwi8g/help_me_feel_better_about_this_its_going_to_sound/ |
piratepastfifty | 2022-03-11 14:16:38 | 1,647,008,198 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tbr33p | true | null | 215 | 1 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tbr33p/is_there_a_way_a_53m_is_supposed_to_act_am_i/ | 50 | I've been single for 6 years now. Had a go-round with an old GF, that did not work out. Now dipping my foot in OLD (match in this case). I'm 53. I love to travel and do stuff. I take 4-6 trips internationally a year (I live in the US). I love to scuba dive (and I teach it). I want to try living on a boat. I want to liv... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is there a way a 53M is supposed to act? Am I supposed to be distinguished? Or is it ok to have fun and be playful? (context: trying to meet people for dates) | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tbr33p/is_there_a_way_a_53m_is_supposed_to_act_am_i/ |
EthicalLiar | 2019-09-24 16:20:02 | 1,569,342,002 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app', 'dating site'] | 0 | d8pgue | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/d8pgue/whats_going_on/ | 5 | A spate of strange interactions (SI) on OLD have left me wondering and I would appreciate some input. SI 1: Guy (early 40s) initates and we begin texting on the dating app. I notice that he doesn't text frequently or in depth (In my experience if someone is interested, it is usually one or the other depending on whethe... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What's going on? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/d8pgue/whats_going_on/ |
Lolbak | 2019-09-25 04:55:25 | 1,569,387,325 | null | ['swiped'] | 0 | d8yl53 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d8yl53/already_cooling_down_again/ | 5 | So I (28M) have been seeing a lovely lady (32F) lately and we started off very well. We are now at our fifth date. Swiped right on the right moment.... ;-) The previous one we just relaxed a bit, as we both have full time jobs (she's a social worker, I'm a teacher) and that particular day we both had some rough cases. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Already cooling down (again...) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d8yl53/already_cooling_down_again/ |
typey_type | 2020-06-18 18:29:58 | 1,592,504,998 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hbk5ny | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hbk5ny/is_there_value_in_dating_someone_in_an_open/ | 1 | 26F here! I just had several of the best dates I've ever had with a dude I met from tinder. We both said upfront that we weren't looking for something serious. I clarified throughout our extensive conversing that while I am not eager to get into something serious just for the sake of having someone, I am open to slow p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there value in dating someone in an open relationship? If you have a first-hand experience I am very interested | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hbk5ny/is_there_value_in_dating_someone_in_an_open/ |
oamh42 | 2019-06-14 05:22:31 | 1,560,489,751 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | c0galp | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c0galp/best_dating_apps_for_long_distance_relationships/ | 3 | I know you can alter your location on Coffee Meets Bagel and on the Gold version of Tinder, but are there other dating apps where you can easily change the location where you want to look for potential dates? It seems like most dating apps have people that aren't looking for long distance relationships, so I'm also won... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best dating apps for long distance relationships? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c0galp/best_dating_apps_for_long_distance_relationships/ |
robs3ss3d | 2020-10-23 06:39:40 | 1,603,435,180 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jghv6z | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jghv6z/the_guy_i_like_is_unique/ | 2 | This is a long one....but please help me I've had a crush on him for a little over 2 years. But his body and verbal signals are so different than any other guy I've met. It's been impossible to tell if he does or doesn't like me back. Every time I say "no, he doesn't like me," my mind reminds me of this or that, which ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The guy I like is Unique... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jghv6z/the_guy_i_like_is_unique/ |
The_Archer2121 | 2021-12-22 00:19:59 | 1,640,132,399 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | rls74q | true | Support Needed | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rls74q/dont_want_to_become_bitter/ | 6 | It’s hard to not become bitter. I want sex with someone I love and vice versa. I just haven’t met anyone I care enough about. It’s that simple. The majority of people who take interest in me I don’t like in a romantic way. Online dating hasn’t worked. Not that it matters much anyway because the place for people with di... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Don’t want to become bitter | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rls74q/dont_want_to_become_bitter/ |
candy_blox | 2020-04-12 01:23:58 | 1,586,654,638 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fzncy5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fzncy5/stop_thinking_about_dating/ | 1 | To keep this short... I would describe myself as the type of girl who is always looking for a date or connection with a guy. Always on the dating apps or when I’m out with friends (obviously not now). The dating apps are the first I go to in the morning and the last I look at before bed. I don’t hate myself for being t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stop thinking about dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fzncy5/stop_thinking_about_dating/ |
FWBorMorelater | 2019-06-26 02:44:25 | 1,561,517,065 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | c5jwvx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/c5jwvx/how_accurate_are_mens_relationship_expectations/ | 1 | Ok. Guys. Lonime lurker (31 f) on throwaway. So. I am a tinder user. Recently deleted my account as I have found someone I dig (32 m) . He acts into me... Last date he said we looked like a married couple... Lots of PDA... Gross, I know but I loved it. Lots of natural chemistry. Intellectual match. Same sense of humor.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How accurate are men's relationship expectations posted on their Tinder profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/c5jwvx/how_accurate_are_mens_relationship_expectations/ |
Total_Connection4436 | 2024-09-13 11:24:00 | 1,726,226,640 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ffsagy | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffsagy/what_is_a_polite_way_to_cancel_date_plans/ | 7 | I made date plans with someone, but we continued to chat after firming up plans. Some of the new information that's come to light has dampened my enthusiasm. For one, she seems to have some very trad ideas of relationships and what men's responsibilities should be despite seeming very liberal on the surface. If someone... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What is a polite way to cancel date plans? | 7 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ffsagy/what_is_a_polite_way_to_cancel_date_plans/ |
Idkcatz | 2020-04-12 21:35:08 | 1,586,727,308 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | g05bo5 | true | Venting | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g05bo5/corona_virus_and_dating/ | 4 | In February I met this awesome guy on tinder. We went on one date and we were planning to have another one... UNTIL our state had a lock down. So, we've been texting everyday since then. Isn't it frustrating that people can't go date normally? I want to meet him and get to know him better. I know it's for the best beca... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Corona Virus and Dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g05bo5/corona_virus_and_dating/ |
Sudden_Hospital8568 | 2023-09-20 01:39:08 | 1,695,173,948 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16n8km3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16n8km3/2nd_hinge_date/ | 1 | Long story short I had an abusive relationship and didn’t have a great intimacy at all. My ex literally hurt me physically even during sex. Met this new guy via Hinge who I am so into. Our chemistry is 🔥. We had sex on the 2nd date, he’s always been a shitty replier like 48 hours on a stretch. He didn’t text me back w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 2nd hinge date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16n8km3/2nd_hinge_date/ |
THEVYVYD | 2023-02-01 00:48:41 | 1,675,212,521 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10qfuim | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10qfuim/is_it_normal_to_talk_and_plan_dates_with_multiple/ | 0 | I(F19,single) am completely new to the dating world. I've had a "long-distance relationship", but I have never gone on any type of date before. I started putting myself out there more, and now I suddenly have 3-4 really great guys who have expressed wanting to meet me. I already have one official date lined up this wee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it normal to talk and plan dates with multiple guys at once? | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10qfuim/is_it_normal_to_talk_and_plan_dates_with_multiple/ |
journeythrulife | 2022-02-08 03:59:49 | 1,644,292,789 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | snafba | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/snafba/free_location_passport_for_dating_apps_suggestion/ | 2 | I'm moving soon (across country) and don't wanna pay to change my location for dating apps. Is there an app that allows free location change when you're not located in that area? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Free Location Passport for Dating Apps Suggestion | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/snafba/free_location_passport_for_dating_apps_suggestion/ |
DelicateDream | 2017-03-09 21:39:02 | 1,489,095,542 | null | null | 0 | 5yhz47 | null | null | 7 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/5yhz47/when_do_you_take_down_your_profile/ | 1 | Specifically for men - at what point of dating someone you met online do you decide to not use OLD anymore? Women can answer too of course. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | When do you take down your profile? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/5yhz47/when_do_you_take_down_your_profile/ |
throwitaway6849 | 2020-01-04 15:03:26 | 1,578,150,206 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | ejxmxg | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ejxmxg/so_frustrating_how_few_matches_actually_start/ | 3 | I get excited when I match with someone who looks fun, interesting, attractive, etc and then it's crickets. I know we've all dealt with this, but particularly this go around, it seems worse than usual. In many cases I write first (and I always try to be clever or show I read their profile) and still nothing! So many ma... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So frustrating how few matches actually start convo or respond | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ejxmxg/so_frustrating_how_few_matches_actually_start/ |
MyNewNormal808 | 2021-02-22 05:54:23 | 1,613,973,263 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | lpghfy | true | Question | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/lpghfy/date_ideas_for_the_woman_who_has_done_everything/ | 9 | I matched with a woman who seems great and we’ve had great conversations over coffee and drinks. We are both outdoors active people. Generally for dates, I like to take them to do things that they haven’t done before. Well, this lady has done it all and then some. As we talked and I was asking if she did____, I realize... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Date Ideas for the Woman who has done Everything | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/lpghfy/date_ideas_for_the_woman_who_has_done_everything/ |
[deleted] | 2014-05-31 15:40:03 | 1,401,550,803 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 26ynff | null | null | 125 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/26ynff/what_are_you_on_tinder_for/ | 70 | I know usually a guy is on Tinder for sole purpose of 'hooking up'. What about women? Be honest! | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What are you on Tinder for? | 70 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/26ynff/what_are_you_on_tinder_for/ |
annonamois22 | 2022-01-21 09:01:03 | 1,642,755,663 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | s96jnh | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/s96jnh/went_on_a_date_last_week_what_do_you_make_of_this/ | 2 | I went on a date last week all went well I believe it did anyway. I knew beforehand the person was busy with school and has a big project due in for end of January. On Tuesday they text me saying after I asked if they were up for meeting again “I’m sure we will! Not sure when at the moment as my priority is my project ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Went on a date last week what do you make of this situation? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s96jnh/went_on_a_date_last_week_what_do_you_make_of_this/ |
calisthenicchicken | 2022-05-18 12:38:30 | 1,652,877,510 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | usbxmo | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/usbxmo/do_you_continue_chatting_when_you_carry_the_convo/ | 1 | I’ve had some matches (they liked me first), in my case with women, and most of them respond with really short answers and don’t ask back. I asked some trusted friends if my openers were cringy or if something was wrong with my chats but they said my openers were fun/witty and the general chat was OK. Do you continue c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you continue chatting when you carry the convo entirely? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/usbxmo/do_you_continue_chatting_when_you_carry_the_convo/ |
soberladd | 2023-11-19 07:03:47 | 1,700,377,427 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17yrcve | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17yrcve/dating_apps_feel_so_unnatural_to_me/ | 4 | Like how do people even use these. It feels so weird and uncomfortable to me. Feels more like applying for a job then trying to get to know a person. Then you get a match and get ghosted first message and im like what did i do wrong now why swipe me right in the first place? 🤦🏼♂️ Am i to boring? I dont know these pe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps feel so unnatural to me | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17yrcve/dating_apps_feel_so_unnatural_to_me/ |
aippersbachj | 2024-01-27 17:01:53 | 1,706,374,913 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1acfeaw | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1acfeaw/is_going_to_a_bar_to_find_someone_to_date_still/ | 2 | Male Age 24-33. USA What type of bar do you recommend to find someone around the same age range as me? The ones I’m aware of either have people in groups, too loud to talk, or just empty. Not familiar of any places where singles would go to solo. I know this may seem like common sense to some but after college, I’ve on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is going to a bar to find someone to date still relevant? What type? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1acfeaw/is_going_to_a_bar_to_find_someone_to_date_still/ |
[deleted] | 2019-05-06 19:45:03 | 1,557,171,903 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | blgosv | true | null | 45 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/blgosv/breadcrumbing_after_first_date/ | 0 | I have posted about this before, but it is still happening to me with nearly every guy. I don't know what to do. \-Meet guy from OLD for a first date \-He texts me after the date to say he had a great time. I respond in kind. \-He texts me the next day to chit chat. \-He texts me the day after that to ask how my day i... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Breadcrumbing after first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/blgosv/breadcrumbing_after_first_date/ |
Glad-Yam-8989 | 2023-08-19 15:57:00 | 1,692,460,620 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 15vjw4c | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15vjw4c/am_i_weird_for_focusing_on_one_person_at_a_time/ | 1 | I'm recently getting back into dating after being in a 1.5yr relationship. 1 year before that, I was in a longer relationship (5yrs) and adjusting to how this world works now is interesting. I've always focused my dating energies on one person at a time until it either works or doesnt and cannot wrap my head around tal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I weird for focusing on one person at a time when dating early on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15vjw4c/am_i_weird_for_focusing_on_one_person_at_a_time/ |
CalligrapherQuirky90 | 2022-08-21 15:37:07 | 1,661,096,227 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | wu2hll | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wu2hll/i_feel_like_the_last_girl_i_was_getting_to_know/ | 1 | (27M)So just wanna give a brief history of my dating. I really havent dated many people and have only had 2 girlfriend in my lifetime. First one when i was 19 and only lasted a year and she left be because she said she found someone better. I was hurt from that and stayed single for years. At 25 i ended up dating a gir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i feel like the last girl i was getting to know broke something inside of me emotionally | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wu2hll/i_feel_like_the_last_girl_i_was_getting_to_know/ |
IncreasePrestigious8 | 2021-04-21 16:42:19 | 1,619,023,339 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | mvjqhl | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvjqhl/need_advice_im_unsure/ | 1 | So I’m 21 M and I was talking to a 22F for a little over a month. We only saw each other 3 times in person, had sex twice, and met on bumble. She lives about an hr away and has driven to me everytime. She had been asking me subtly about making it official the last two times we saw each other, to which I said I didn’t w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice I’m unsure | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvjqhl/need_advice_im_unsure/ |
Meinmyownhead502 | 2022-09-10 15:20:03 | 1,662,823,203 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xarxmk | true | Question ❓ | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xarxmk/craziest_way_someone_called_you_out/ | 1 | I messaged this girl about what her favorite brewery was. She messaged me back and said I only did it to call you out about what you said. She spelled brewery wrong and called her favorite brewery a beer. Then promptly blocked me. I know because I got an email saying I got a message on a dating app. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Craziest way someone called you out? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xarxmk/craziest_way_someone_called_you_out/ |
DJH209 | 2023-11-11 11:58:31 | 1,699,703,911 | 0 | null | 0 | 17ssya6 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17ssya6/what_to_do_when_youre_banned_from_most_dating_apps/ | 1 | I am 22, and when I was 19 I was immature and got myself banned from tinder, bumble, hinge, and pof. I tried signing up for them again and I'm still banned from them years later. Is meeting people in real life my only option now? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What to do when you're banned from most dating apps? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17ssya6/what_to_do_when_youre_banned_from_most_dating_apps/ |
hustle-n-auntflow | 2012-12-27 05:20:47 | 1,356,585,647 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15i6zk | null | null | 13 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/15i6zk/alternatives_to_online_dating_and_the_meat_market/ | 5 | Just looking for advice on the best way to meet some single women (M, 29). TL;DR, a few months ago I ended another long term relationship (2nd relationship from online dating). My current office job and part-time job offers no chances to meet eligible bachelorettes (everyone is either a dude, old or married). Consideri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Alternatives to online dating and the 'meat market' known as the bar/club? | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15i6zk/alternatives_to_online_dating_and_the_meat_market/ |
imran_ripley | 2022-08-27 06:16:13 | 1,661,580,973 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wyve6c | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wyve6c/traumatized/ | 1 | I met this girl back in feb we met on tinder in my country then started long distance it was her idea to do long distance Things went well until she decided i was too into her and that made her say she didnt want to define things. And things went well we decided to meet in Mautitius but it didnt happen so she decided t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Traumatized | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wyve6c/traumatized/ |
donman311 | 2024-01-06 05:36:41 | 1,704,519,401 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18zsncb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18zsncb/ive_been_trying_everything_but_i_feel_like_im/ | 1 | I am a 5’3, 23(m), turning 24 this year. In the past I’ve struggled with being happy and I’ve made considerable progress, to the point where I am very happy with where I am in life. The only place that feels stuck in the past is my dating life. I’ve always sucked at meeting people I am romantically interested in, often... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’ve been trying everything but I feel like I’m going nowhere | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18zsncb/ive_been_trying_everything_but_i_feel_like_im/ |
Firefoxexplorer | 2021-02-19 05:09:10 | 1,613,711,350 | null | null | 0 | ln7h5k | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ln7h5k/new_to_online_dating_i_feel_really_uncomfortable/ | 25 | This might sound really annoying, I'm just new to this and I feel really really weird about it. I'm usually an hermit who focuses on my one partner if I have one and barely even talks to my friends so this OLD stuff is just overwhelming. I've met a couple guys who seem really cool, intelligent and genuine. We've been m... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | New to online dating- I feel really uncomfortable and guilty for interacting with multiple people at a time. | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ln7h5k/new_to_online_dating_i_feel_really_uncomfortable/ |
Tebo93 | 2016-12-14 17:38:41 | 1,481,737,121 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5ibxlg | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5ibxlg/meet_this_girl_on_tinder/ | 1 | so i meet this girl on tinder and we exchanged text. I told her i just want someone to hang out with for the time being. (shes in town on break from school), and gave her my number. she text me immediately. She agreed to meet up. what should we do? i suggested going to the mall because we can spend alot or alittle time... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Meet this girl on tinder... | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5ibxlg/meet_this_girl_on_tinder/ |
lh095509 | 2020-06-15 16:50:10 | 1,592,239,810 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | h9k0if | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h9k0if/liar_liar_my_pants_are_on_fire/ | 1 | First, I want to mention that I have been diagnosed with a personality disorder. This doesn't excuse my actions in the slightest but may help shed some light on my actions. I (20F) downloaded Tinder for the first time a few weeks ago. I’ve downloaded other dating apps in the past and haven't had much success; I started... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Liar Liar, My Pants Are On Fire | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h9k0if/liar_liar_my_pants_are_on_fire/ |
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