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dreamingforlove
2021-12-28 20:06:15
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0
edit with ages: me: f/24 him: m/27 We met in March 2018. We were off for a lot of this year, because I could no longer accept his fear of commitment. He said he didn’t want to make things official because if things were to go wrong he didn’t want me to get hurt so he said multiple times that he just rather not put a la...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He doesn’t want to “put a label on” it’s been years.
null
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rqoddw/he_doesnt_want_to_put_a_label_on_its_been_years/
One-Relation-1085
2021-06-30 20:29:09
1,625,084,949
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['matched', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'badoo', 'pof']
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ob5uhk
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ob5uhk/where_to_start/
1
I (20m) have bee using dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, Badoo, PoF, hinge and others) for just over 2 years now and have yet to go on a date with anybody I've met. I've not matched with many people and the few I have matched with seem to never reply to messages. People I've shown my profile to say that it's good, but I sti...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Where to start
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ob5uhk/where_to_start/
juliastyles01
2024-04-21 21:07:12
1,713,733,632
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['matches', 'online dating']
0
1c9sqq9
true
null
2
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/r/dating_advice/comments/1c9sqq9/why_is_nobody_messaging_me/
1
I (22F) get compliments quite a few times irl and i also have a lot of matches (and I am a very picky swiper) but barely any guys are texting me… is it because those are the prettiest guys that get all the matches? should i text them? but i dont want to sound needy bc i would not need online dating to find someone but ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is nobody messaging me?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c9sqq9/why_is_nobody_messaging_me/
seniorhandsomeman
2024-01-19 21:57:10
1,705,701,430
0
['dating site']
0
19auz2p
true
null
18
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/19auz2p/m54_i_havent_dated_for_so_long_because_i_have/
1
I consider myself to be quite sensitive and having not tried dating for several years, I haven’t had a woman reject me or not reciprocate a friendly approach. The last time I tried a dating site I met a lady and drove 5 hours to have a date with her and after talking for an hour it was obvious it wouldn’t work, I delet...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
(M54) I haven’t dated for so long because I have just not been up to asking anyone out. I consider myself to be quite good looking so it’s nothing to do with my appearance
1
0.57
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/19auz2p/m54_i_havent_dated_for_so_long_because_i_have/
rosecoloredshadess
2019-10-31 04:56:54
1,572,497,814
null
['tinder']
0
dpitdm
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dpitdm/how_can_i_slow_our_roll/
2
I (F21) and my boyfriend (M21) have been in a relationship for a couple of weeks now and before that we have talked consecutively for about 4 weeks and before THAT we talked here and there for about two weeks. Him and I hit it off after meeting IRL and things have been really cool. I just feel like maybe we may be goin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
how can I slow our roll
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dpitdm/how_can_i_slow_our_roll/
Szimplacurt
2024-03-30 19:32:07
1,711,827,127
0
['dating apps']
0
1brq5u1
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1brq5u1/since_becoming_single_women_have_asked_me_for_my/
55
...and I'm not sure what to do as dumb as it seems. I haven't been single in 12 years, have never been on dating apps and am just going out with friends here and there. 3 women have asked for my number none of which were prompted by me insinuating in any way if that makes sense. One girl in particular last night was ab...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Since becoming single, women have asked me for my number
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brq5u1/since_becoming_single_women_have_asked_me_for_my/
mtl-leo
2023-10-26 20:28:02
1,698,352,082
0
['online dating']
0
17h5t40
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/17h5t40/dating_in_montreal_as_a_guy_am_i_doing_something/
1
For context, I speak French so language is not the issue. I moved to Canada Montreal 10 years ago when I was 20 but dating has not been easy. I've had mild success at best, which I'll get into later. My background is Middle eastern christian. At first granted I was not in the best shape of my life and have fixed that (...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating in Montreal as a guy: am I doing something wrong?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17h5t40/dating_in_montreal_as_a_guy_am_i_doing_something/
Peaceminus1one
2021-10-25 22:27:50
1,635,200,870
null
['matched']
0
qfs3xq
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qfs3xq/should_i_let_it_go/
7
I (28M) is dating a 26 F. We have been dating for almost 2 months now. We’ve been intimate, having sex, etc. We try to meet once a week but on some week, we meet more. The problem is that I AM ALWAYS INITIATING. I initiate the hang out, I initiate sex, I initiate the interaction. If I do not initiate, we don’t talk. La...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I let it go?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qfs3xq/should_i_let_it_go/
Ok-Victory1932
2021-09-15 19:56:47
1,631,735,807
null
['online dating']
0
poxn00
true
Question
7
0
/r/dating/comments/poxn00/sexy_photos_post_breakup/
2
During the course of modern online dating, many of us will send and receive sexy photographs. A friend and I were discussing proper ethics and etiquette regarding what happens to these photos when the relationship is over. Assuming in all cases the privacy of all is respected, should these photos be deleted promptly, o...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Sexy photos post breakup
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/poxn00/sexy_photos_post_breakup/
BowDown2IZEN
2020-12-11 22:57:04
1,607,727,424
null
['online dating']
0
kbddqh
true
I Need Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/kbddqh/21f_scared_of_dating/
2
I haven't really started dating dating. I mean yeah I've dated people before but it was always someone I knew already. Rn I'm in a relationship with someone but I'm moving countries soon(Canada to America) so it will probably not work out. I'm scared to start dating with online apps and stuff cuz I feel like I'm a very...
dating
t5_2qhb1
21F Scared of Dating
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kbddqh/21f_scared_of_dating/
blahblahblah2596
2019-12-07 23:43:35
1,575,762,215
null
['tinder']
0
e7lxoi
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e7lxoi/does_she_like_me/
3
I met a girl on tinder on Monday I believe and since then we’ve been texting everyday. We would talk in the app but then asked if we wanted to instead text or continue in the so I took that opportunity to get her number. Now we text. Every morning she tells me good morning. We have long conversations all day. Originall...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does she like me?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e7lxoi/does_she_like_me/
stovant972
2019-09-30 18:54:58
1,569,869,698
null
['matched', 'swipe', 'tinder']
0
dbgbc0
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dbgbc0/should_i_invite_her_on_a_date_or_just_move_on/
1
So I matched with this girl on tinder. First and foremost this part is just my opinion she only had one picture and no bio. Typically I immediately swipe left on people who fit this criteria because I just feel that if you only upload one picture and, never take the time to say anything in your bio then you will put th...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I invite her on a date or just move on?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dbgbc0/should_i_invite_her_on_a_date_or_just_move_on/
antswithwiskers
2024-08-09 00:21:39
1,723,162,899
0
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'hinge']
0
1enltae
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
12
0
/r/dating/comments/1enltae/sick_over_the_fact_that_i_met_him_on_hinge/
1
I 23F met this amazing guy on hinge, and idk why but I feel “embarrassed” by that fact. I’m not sure what the word is, but it’s just so weird to say out loud. Him and I would have not crossed paths if I’m gonna be honest so I’m grateful for the app, but also feel like I’ve succumb to modern societies tech love story. I...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Sick over the fact that I met him on hinge
1
0.54
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1enltae/sick_over_the_fact_that_i_met_him_on_hinge/
SpareLingonberry4
2023-08-18 17:51:26
1,692,381,086
0
['bumble']
0
15urd7v
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15urd7v/why_did_he_ignore_me/
1
I met a guy a month ago on Bumble and we started chatting. He texted me everyday for the following week and basically asked how I was doing and what was going on and I felt like he was genuinely interested. We had some of the same hobbies and seemed to get on well. Our first date went really well, we got beers at a bre...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why did he ignore me?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15urd7v/why_did_he_ignore_me/
sexismyart
2018-10-04 16:52:28
1,538,671,948
null
['dating site']
0
9ldnxm
true
Tinder/Online Dating
2
0
/r/dating/comments/9ldnxm/moving_to_the_country_gonna_eat_me_a_lot_of/
1
I was going through some old posts on a sex blog that I have, and I found this gem, a message sent to me on a well-known dating site, totally unsolicited, "of coarse." Totally unedited, too, except for being split into paragraphs for easier readability. "I would like to go shopping and pick up some sliced peaches, or a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
"Moving to the country, gonna eat me a lot of peaches ???"
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/9ldnxm/moving_to_the_country_gonna_eat_me_a_lot_of/
Frozenspike
2019-10-24 18:03:17
1,571,940,197
null
['dating apps']
0
dmk5t0
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dmk5t0/20m_that_has_never_been_in_a_relationship/
1
I have never been in a relationship and now that i'm actually wanting one, i don't know how. Used to have really bad self confidence due to my weight and now after getting fit i think im ready for something. However since dating apps is really my only option because of where I live i'm strugling to get the hang of it. ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
20M that has never been in a relationship
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dmk5t0/20m_that_has_never_been_in_a_relationship/
TungstenShockcannon
2021-02-07 14:55:51
1,612,709,751
null
['dating apps']
0
lenxfs
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lenxfs/really_want_to_go_on_a_date/
1
Hi! im 22 and at around day 25 in NOFAP and lately i really wanna go on a date to find someone for me i never had a gf nor went on a date... i asked out 2 girls in my life both said no. i dont think dating apps are good for my self esteem (which is already low) can i get some advice for picking up at the beach/walks/wh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Really want to go on a date...
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lenxfs/really_want_to_go_on_a_date/
dailyshae
2024-03-06 15:13:43
1,709,738,023
0
['dating app']
0
1b8256o
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8256o/im_confused_on_if_he_sees_me_as_a_hookup_or_a/
1
Yes I know I need to just ask him. That will definitely be done by the next date, but for now I am just thinking over the situation. I met this guy on a dating app around late January. We decided to go on a date pretty quickly after talking, and it went well. Talked for a few hours, laughed, got to know each other. He ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’m confused on if he sees me as a hookup or a girlfriend potentially…
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b8256o/im_confused_on_if_he_sees_me_as_a_hookup_or_a/
Hulahooper100
2021-03-20 23:55:25
1,616,284,525
null
['OLD']
0
m9jhc1
true
Casual Conversation
11
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/m9jhc1/how_do_you_keep_someone_interested_in_old_it/
13
I start texting back and forth for a short time- occasionally with my messenger if I’m interested in meeting. It always does out. I ask questions, they seldom ask me anything. They aren’t interested in learning about the other person.
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How do you keep someone interested in OLD? It always dies out quick.
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/m9jhc1/how_do_you_keep_someone_interested_in_old_it/
RacerguyZ
2016-07-18 20:12:38
1,468,872,758
0
['online dating']
0
4th537
null
Story/Report/Update
8
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4th537/taking_a_break_possibly_giving_upm_41online/
8
So I was in a 5 year relationship w a lady who was a good person but suffered from depression, generally avoided people an had other issues stemming from her tough childhood. Shes one of these people that w flee the moment things get tough.. Friends that new of her new she would do this when i had got sick. So i jumped...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Taking a break possibly giving up..m 41--online dating has been wreck
8
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/4th537/taking_a_break_possibly_giving_upm_41online/
nbnb6596
2017-03-23 01:07:34
1,490,231,254
null
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
60yu0l
null
null
4
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/60yu0l/where_can_i_meet_guys_who_arent_just_looking_to/
1
Everyone I meet on Bumble, Tinder or any app for that matter seems to just want a quick fling. Can't find guys who actually stick around past the third date. Is dating on apps just a waste of time if you're looking for something more than a hook up?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Where can I meet guys who aren't just looking to hook up?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/60yu0l/where_can_i_meet_guys_who_arent_just_looking_to/
SufficientBass8393
2020-09-13 17:57:38
1,600,019,858
null
['matches', 'OLD']
0
is31q7
true
I Need Advice
6
0
/r/dating/comments/is31q7/dating_in_covid/
0
I'm going to try and keep this as short as I can. I just moved to a new city last year so didn't have enough time to meet people before March and my network of friends is limited to 2 people in this new city. I never had a problem dating or meeting women in person and I have had relationships that lasted around 2 years...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating in COVID
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/is31q7/dating_in_covid/
throwaway2344346674
2020-06-16 21:36:35
1,592,343,395
null
['plenty of fish']
0
hadd81
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/hadd81/if_theyre_not_ready/
8
You have just two options. Wait, support them in their time they need alone, work on yourself.... or move on. Especially if they’re not asking you to wait. Plenty of fish in the sea!
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If they’re not ready...
null
0.91
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hadd81/if_theyre_not_ready/
Satchel_Of_Richards7
2021-03-07 02:07:53
1,615,082,873
null
['matches', 'dating platform', 'dating site', 'tinder']
0
lzgsks
true
Question
3
0
/r/dating/comments/lzgsks/wherewhat_social_media_or_dating_platform_are_you/
1
Anyone sit down and tally up where they're having the most success meeting people? Tinder/Facebook/Instagram/etc? Doesn't have to necessarily be a dating platform. Tbh I've noticed tinder matches tend to fizzle out after we exchange numbers and try to meet. Actually met the majority of my dates just talking through Fac...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Where/what social media or dating platform are you finding the most success through?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/lzgsks/wherewhat_social_media_or_dating_platform_are_you/
BaselineHugger573
2018-12-31 02:46:43
1,546,224,403
null
['tinder']
0
ab2uwr
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ab2uwr/tinder_bio_help/
3
Hey guys, I (25M) have the following bio on my Tinder profile. Is it too boring, too forward? Looking for a second set of eyes! Engineer Introvert Traveler Let's grab coffee ☕
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Tinder bio help?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ab2uwr/tinder_bio_help/
imacommunistyaidiot
2020-06-06 17:15:44
1,591,463,744
null
['dating app']
0
gxuxos
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gxuxos/should_i_ask_him_if_were_exclusive/
1
we (F-M) met on a dating app, had 3 good dates, slept with each other, text everyday, and he got me a (small) gift for my birthday BUT he still has his dating app, said “he wasn’t looking for anything serious but isn’t closed to it”, says he is always moving for work, has had only long term relationships in the past (h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
should i ask him if we’re exclusive?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gxuxos/should_i_ask_him_if_were_exclusive/
Phoenix4425
2018-12-05 22:07:38
1,544,047,658
null
['online dating', 'online daters']
0
a3h6s5
true
null
44
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a3h6s5/the_agreed_date_ghosting_effect/
6
Just a question for those online daters out here. I’m in my mid 30s and have been online dating for 3 years. These last 10 months I’ve noticed a trend. I’m talking to women online and ask them out. They say yes. I suggest let’s switch let’s switch to text. Then I never hear from them again. That only started happening ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
The agreed date ghosting effect.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a3h6s5/the_agreed_date_ghosting_effect/
SirElstonIII
2021-03-31 01:43:28
1,617,155,008
null
['matched', 'hinge']
0
mgvays
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/mgvays/ill_let_you_know/
1
Recently matched with a girl on Hinge earlier this month and we hit it off well with an awesome phone chat. I mentioned towards the end of the phone chat that i’d like to meetup once I moved in which was April 3rd. She agreed and mentioned she hasnt participated in any social activities with her friends for a year due ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’ll let you know.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mgvays/ill_let_you_know/
mzzzzz9
2022-04-18 23:59:58
1,650,326,398
null
['matches']
0
u6rck7
true
null
17
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/u6rck7/when_should_i_bring_up_that_i_used_to_be_in_prison/
1
So I've never had a massive problem attracting women (except when I was fat, but I'm skinny again now) but they were all junkie types and we had messy relationships with lots of drama. I also used to hook up a lot just for the ego boost and I've slept with about 70 women, however I haven't had a relationship in two yea...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When should I bring up that I used to be in prison?
null
0.55
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/u6rck7/when_should_i_bring_up_that_i_used_to_be_in_prison/
shtiii
2021-07-31 19:02:11
1,627,758,131
null
['tinder']
0
ovcwmg
true
null
26
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ovcwmg/guy_texts_me_everyday_but_always_has_an_excuse/
10
Met this guy on Tinder about a month ago and felt like things were going pretty good. We saw each other a lot and messaged back and forth. Suddenly after we took a trip to the beach he got all weird and kind of distant. Nothing out of the ordinary happened on the trip. This was two weeks ago. He still messages me every...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy texts me everyday but always has an excuse not to hangout- I’m about to drop him
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ovcwmg/guy_texts_me_everyday_but_always_has_an_excuse/
No_Elk_2905
2022-01-21 03:27:35
1,642,735,655
null
['OLD']
0
s90vbq
true
null
31
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/s90vbq/amazes_me/
3
how some women can talk on OLD about how women and men snub them after a couple of talks and then you find the ones that complain about that are the ones doing it too. What is up with that? I had a couple of great conversations going then after updating some photos they drop you like a rock geeze
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Amazes me
null
0.61
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/s90vbq/amazes_me/
BrokenToeFoe
2024-07-13 17:35:41
1,720,892,141
0
['matches', 'bumble']
0
1e2g13x
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2g13x/app_dating_is_this_how_it_really_is/
1
So I (43M) downloaded bumble for the first time in 8 years. Met two seemingly cool women and traded a dozen messages with both of them. In both cases we’ve expressed interest in each other and enjoyed the exchange and banter. Naturally I mentioned meeting up for a drink at a cool little wine bar downtown to get to know...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
App dating: Is this how it really is?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e2g13x/app_dating_is_this_how_it_really_is/
[deleted]
2023-04-27 14:57:32
1,682,607,452
0
['hinge']
0
130pn0f
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/130pn0f/break_it_off_or_keep_trying/
1
Hey. For the past month I’ve been doing a LDR with a girl I met on Hinge. For context, I’m 30M she’s 39F. I’m from Des Moines Iowa and she’s from NYC. We met because she was here for a work assignment and we kicked it off very well on a hinge date. I’m ngl the dating scene in Iowa is complete trash. My last long term r...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Break it off or keep trying?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/130pn0f/break_it_off_or_keep_trying/
Bklover93
2020-05-05 01:11:38
1,588,641,098
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
gdoaa8
true
Giving Advice
3
0
/r/dating/comments/gdoaa8/taking_an_interest_in_latin_dancing_can_help_you/
1
Dating has been really hard for me as it is for most average men. I've been lucky enough to go on three dates with women that I view them as an 8 out of 10 in terms of physical attraction. Just to give you some background I feel that I'm at least 6-6.5 out of 10 in the looks department (pics of me). I have been using d...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Taking an interest in Latin Dancing can help you tremendously with your dating life coming from the perspective of a guy.
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gdoaa8/taking_an_interest_in_latin_dancing_can_help_you/
Forsaken_Wall8359
2023-10-18 16:06:24
1,697,645,184
0
['dating apps']
0
17aucpa
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17aucpa/should_i_start_editing_my_photos/
1
I hear a lot that most women find most men unattractive, for countless reasons. but one of them I'm curious about. I think we can all agree that women think men take bad photos of themselves. They say we should hire a professional photographer or have a friend take the photos. This leads me to believe that women don't ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I start editing my photos?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17aucpa/should_i_start_editing_my_photos/
itszulutime
2023-05-23 04:42:49
1,684,816,969
0
['matched', 'OLD']
0
13pe75w
true
Seeking Advice
59
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/13pe75w/how_to_pump_the_brakes_emotionally/
32
40M here. I was married for 12 years and then earlier this year ended a 2+ year relationship in which the woman and I matched perfectly in terms of escalation both physically and emotionally. After that relationship ended, I took some time for myself, then got back onto the OLD apps, went on some fun dates, but nothing...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
How to pump the brakes emotionally
32
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13pe75w/how_to_pump_the_brakes_emotionally/
Feeling-Donkey-8739
2024-05-11 16:05:14
1,715,443,514
0
['dating app']
0
1cpks56
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1cpks56/why_is_she_still_on_the_dating_app_we_met_through/
3
So I started messaging this girl a couple days ago and yesterday we exchanged contact info last night before I went to sleep. This morning I texted her number and things really escalated. After a while we sent each other nudes and sexted for a bit. She told me that she works second shift and won't get off until 10-11pm...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why is she still on the dating app we met through, but not texting me? How do I know if she’s not interested?
2
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cpks56/why_is_she_still_on_the_dating_app_we_met_through/
MajorFoxy56
2024-05-28 19:54:18
1,716,926,058
0
['tinder']
0
1d2sq7a
true
I Need Advice 😩
7
0
/r/dating/comments/1d2sq7a/i_honestly_dont_know_what_to_expect/
1
So, as the title makes it all the clearer, I genuinely have no clue what to expect in my pursuit for a girlfriend or any form of companionship. I have attempted to use Tinder but I do not fit any standard for the general public (mostly because I'm no model or such), and most spaces where one suggests to try and form ne...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I Honestly Don't Know What to Expect.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d2sq7a/i_honestly_dont_know_what_to_expect/
CacataCharta
2021-03-28 20:39:30
1,616,963,970
null
['matches']
0
mf9fc7
true
null
23
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/mf9fc7/dating_advice/
15
So ... am asking for input or thoughts. I am 61, trying to enter the dating life again. Have been on and off several sites for three years now. One major heartbreak. A couple of moderate ones. I think I dealt out a couple of heartbreaks myself. But anyway, I have done my best to write a good profile - unique, nothing o...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Dating Advice?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/mf9fc7/dating_advice/
kimbermall
2024-03-06 04:42:53
1,709,700,173
0
null
0
1b7qy5l
true
null
0
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b7qy5l/this_one_takes_the_cake_how_many_are_lining_up_i/
2
This hits all but one of my swipe left automatically buttons. He didn't have any kids in his pics. Meet Steve everyone: Please read whole profile and understand it all before messaging me no time for games on this. names Steve just moved back to Manistee now accepting submissive gf applications. I'm a Dom like my woman...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
This one takes the cake. How many are lining up I wonder?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1b7qy5l/this_one_takes_the_cake_how_many_are_lining_up_i/
TheFwkor
2024-06-08 04:49:45
1,717,822,185
0
['tinder']
0
1dauxxj
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1dauxxj/is_it_worth_asking_out_one_of_my_best_friends_or/
1
I'm quite a bit drunk so maybe this is just the alcohol talking but I've been thinking that maybe my best friend really is my best option for a partner. We get along pretty well together and we crack jokes together all the time. We're also relatively open with each other (well as open as I can be I'm not really great a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it worth asking out one of my best friends or is it just a terrible idea?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dauxxj/is_it_worth_asking_out_one_of_my_best_friends_or/
xlr8er365
2022-03-17 05:29:50
1,647,494,990
null
['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
tg2vni
true
Question
15
0
/r/dating/comments/tg2vni/any_way_to_tell_if_youre_shadowbanned_on/
1
Okay, so I hate taking pictures of myself so maybe my entire problem is all my pics suck, but I never get likes on bumble or tinder anymore. Again, maybe it’s me, but it feels statistically impossible that not even bots have liked my profile in like a year. I have a sneaking suspicion I was shadowbanned because I used ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Any way to tell if you’re shadowbanned on Tinder/Bumble?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tg2vni/any_way_to_tell_if_youre_shadowbanned_on/
paulamodersohn
2023-11-10 15:46:35
1,699,631,195
0
['dating app']
0
17s6sfp
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17s6sfp/weird_gut_feeling_should_i_meet_him_anyways/
1
Hey Peeps, I've been texting with a guy on a dating app for a week now. We want to meet tomorrow. Writing got a bit to much for me, so we havn't been texting since a few days, like I asked for. Alltho I enjoyed it kind of. Since today, I got all of the sudden a bad gut feeling regarding him. There are no obvious red fl...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Weird gut feeling, should I meet him anyways?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17s6sfp/weird_gut_feeling_should_i_meet_him_anyways/
Greendiamond_16
2022-10-31 03:40:59
1,667,187,659
null
['online dating']
0
yhzrcn
true
Question ❓
27
0
/r/dating/comments/yhzrcn/m_29_recovering_from_depression_never_dated/
11
Central florida USA A few years ago I started to try to be a more sociable person, I have dealt with some form of depression since I was a child. I turned things around a few years ago and now I feel like I have the confidence to try. Frankly i wouldn't want to date, but I have seen what becomes of people around here i...
dating
t5_2qhb1
M 29, recovering from depression, never dated before, I need perspective on the current scene
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yhzrcn/m_29_recovering_from_depression_never_dated/
FriendshipSwimming68
2022-06-08 07:23:50
1,654,673,030
null
['hinge']
0
v7jn9m
true
null
16
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/v7jn9m/first_hinge_date/
1
Hi all I decided to get Hinge just to try it out and I met this really cool guy. We’ve been talking/facetiming for a few months and he’s coming to visit soon bc he lives far from me. Im not hesitant to see him because of who he is as a person, but I’m nervous that he might not like how I look in real life or if somethi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First hinge date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v7jn9m/first_hinge_date/
averydayman
2024-01-13 09:45:57
1,705,139,157
0
['dating apps']
0
195kinu
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/195kinu/are_public_underwear_photos_a_red_flag_in_2024/
1
It seems that more and more dating apps and social media accounts have at least one photo in a bathing suit or underwear. Especially the latter used to be a red flag that the person is an attention seeker and objectifying themselves, but now it just seems like common behavior and proper self-advertising.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Are public underwear photos a red flag in 2024?
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/195kinu/are_public_underwear_photos_a_red_flag_in_2024/
BlindBardd
2024-05-23 17:03:40
1,716,483,820
0
['swipe', 'dating apps']
0
1cyxvkc
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
12
0
/r/dating/comments/1cyxvkc/m34_socal_i_am_frustrated_with_loweffort_profiles/
2
I don’t expect a novel or for someone to divulge all their secrets, aspirations, and dreams. I don’t expect to come away with a deep understanding of who and what they are as a person. But the amount of: - “Just ask/ask me” - “Don’t be weird” - “No boring conversations” is quite honestly absurd. Worse than even those, ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
M34 SoCal I am frustrated with low-effort profiles and app dating in general
2
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cyxvkc/m34_socal_i_am_frustrated_with_loweffort_profiles/
Sufficient-Ant-3991
2024-07-07 03:59:34
1,720,324,774
0
['dating app', 'hinge']
0
1dx7nv2
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dx7nv2/a_girl_told_me_that_im_too_good_for_her_and_she/
1
So this dates back to 6 months ago. But basically I was dating a girl last summer and everything was great until it wasn't. We met on hinge and I said all the right things to keep the relationship going. I plan dates weekly and I wasn't clingy or too nice. In fact I tease her alot that I had to apologize a few times be...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
A girl told me that "im too good for her" and she broke up with me
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dx7nv2/a_girl_told_me_that_im_too_good_for_her_and_she/
ThePierceIsRight
2018-01-09 21:07:59
1,515,532,079
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
7pa9ln
false
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7pa9ln/i_think_the_girl_im_seeing_has_a_drug_addiction/
1
All right so I matched with this girl on Tinder a few months ago, but we didn't meet until recently because I had a girlfriend for a while. After me and my girl broke up, I decided to reach out to her (lets call her M) because I had really been wanting to meet up. So I meet up with M over the weekend at a bar. I had so...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think the girl I'm seeing has a drug addiction. Help?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7pa9ln/i_think_the_girl_im_seeing_has_a_drug_addiction/
[deleted]
2014-05-27 12:36:52
1,401,194,212
0
['online dating']
0
26lmpb
null
null
5
null
/r/AskMen/comments/26lmpb/25m_looking_for_friendly_advice_from_my_fellow/
4
Hello AskMen. I'm a 25 year old newly single guy looking for some advice on meeting women out in the wild. I’m also looking for any general advice regarding my situation as a whole. I’m uncertain that this is the right subreddit, but I really like the community here and I’m genuinely interested in any feedback. I just ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
(25/M) Looking for friendly advice from my fellow men on moving on from a long term relationship and meeting women.
4
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/26lmpb/25m_looking_for_friendly_advice_from_my_fellow/
ThrowRASnitchbitch
2024-08-01 13:27:40
1,722,518,860
0
null
0
1ehgo0h
true
null
356
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ehgo0h/should_i_confront_the_guy_im_seeing_for_lying/
82
I’m a taller woman (5’8 or 173cm) so I tend to go for men who are at or around 6’0 or taller. I matched with the guy I’m seeing who had 6’0 in his profile. When we spoke on the phone he said he’s actually 5’11, but his therapist told him to list 6’0 for more matches. That annoyed me to hear. But when we met he was noti...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I confront the guy I’m seeing for lying about his height?
82
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ehgo0h/should_i_confront_the_guy_im_seeing_for_lying/
sheredpanda
2021-04-14 18:45:30
1,618,425,930
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
mqx411
true
Question
7
0
/r/dating/comments/mqx411/do_you_think_there_people_in_dating_apps_who_are/
1
I have been thinking for a reaaaallly long time whether I should make an account in a dating app or just wait for this Covid situation to get back to normal and meet people physically. Most of my friends are meeting people in dating apps but they don't really last long, which makes me feel like if I'd do it, I would ju...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Do you think there people in dating apps who are looking for long term relationships?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/mqx411/do_you_think_there_people_in_dating_apps_who_are/
Evrock44
2015-02-03 02:55:25
1,422,932,125
0
['tinder', 'okcupid']
0
2uldy0
null
null
8
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2uldy0/older_and_out_of_touch_feel_really_lost_a_little/
1
I think this is my first post ever on redit. I'd like to start out light and funny with a 600-word cry for help that strips my soul bare. I'm in my 40's now. Got divorced a few years ago. Ever since then I haven't really wanted to get entangled, even in a short-term relationship. Bunch of reasons why. But that's change...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Older and out of touch. Feel really lost, a little scared, need help. Women's and men's advice sought.
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2uldy0/older_and_out_of_touch_feel_really_lost_a_little/
Few-Professional1080
2023-12-10 23:39:59
1,702,251,599
0
['tinder', 'bumble']
0
18fgrk6
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18fgrk6/how_to_meet_people_in_person_as_someone_who_is/
1
The concept of meeting people in person is so foreign to me (23f). I’ve been dating for the past two years, but my experience has been almost exclusively through the apps (Tinder and Bumble specifically). I’ve had some great experiences, but it’s really difficult to find someone who is looking for something more seriou...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to meet people in person as someone who is chronically on the apps?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fgrk6/how_to_meet_people_in_person_as_someone_who_is/
badatdating28931
2021-01-23 03:14:08
1,611,371,648
null
['matches', 'dating app']
0
l33xca
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l33xca/guys_what_is_a_good_response_if_im_25f_not_ready/
2
I do get a few matches and a lot of guys want to move off the app really quickly, but most of these conversations fizzle out in a day or two (red flags, different priorities, looking for different things, etc) and I don't like the idea of a bunch of people I've never met having my number. I would prefer to get to know ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guys, what is a good response if I'm (25F) not ready yet to give my number on a dating app but I'm still interested in getting to know him more?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l33xca/guys_what_is_a_good_response_if_im_25f_not_ready/
Miller_1997
2017-12-04 03:01:21
1,512,356,481
null
['dating site']
0
7heix6
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7heix6/what_dating_site_you_used_to_go/
0
Is anyone the same as me? I always on www.bisexualsplayground.org
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
what dating site you used to go?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7heix6/what_dating_site_you_used_to_go/
dxy331
2024-02-04 06:13:30
1,707,027,210
0
null
0
1aih5pl
true
null
2
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1aih5pl/more_good_looking_and_wealthy_men_than_women/
1
It is very rare to find a woman with a graduate degree yet I am seeing plenty of good looking men with graduate degree. Where to find all the good looking women with graduate degree? Also why are men on average just better quality?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
More good looking and wealthy men than women
1
0.33
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1aih5pl/more_good_looking_and_wealthy_men_than_women/
Educational_Heat1217
2024-06-26 01:24:31
1,719,365,071
0
['hinge']
0
1domhbi
true
Question ❓
3
0
/r/dating/comments/1domhbi/does_not_initiating_texts_and_only_responding_to/
5
I met this guy on Hinge and immediately hit it off (both in our early 30s). We went on two dates, both of which lasted 10+ hours. I even went to his place, but there was no touching involved. We watched a movie, and he just dropped me off home at like 2am. When I asked about it later, he said he was trying to be respec...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Does not initiating texts and only responding to them a sign of disinterest?
5
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1domhbi/does_not_initiating_texts_and_only_responding_to/
TightBoysenberry_
2023-06-05 19:43:14
1,685,994,194
0
null
0
141pe92
true
null
40
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/141pe92/how_best_to_advertise_financial_lifestyle/
0
I'm a big DIY, buy used, and keep a budget person. Been this way my entire life and I'm proud of it. I don't buy anything at MSRP unless it's absolutely necessary, and I never impulse purchase. I fix stuff rather than throw it away, and I do my own repairs on my car, computer, furniture, clothes, and my home unless it'...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
How best to advertise financial lifestyle?
0
0.3
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/141pe92/how_best_to_advertise_financial_lifestyle/
cherrryemoji
2024-02-07 04:36:27
1,707,280,587
0
['bumble']
0
1akulwe
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1akulwe/29f_texting_issues_with_29m/
1
I (29f) have been dating a guy (29m) for 3.5 weeks. We’ve gone on 5 dates and I think we have a great connection. I’ve dated around a lot and am a veteran on the apps (with little success) but this guy seems to tick all my boxes and is someone I’m very very excited about. He plans really creative, fun dates and I felt ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[29F] Texting issues with [29M]
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1akulwe/29f_texting_issues_with_29m/
[deleted]
2015-03-10 19:20:40
1,426,015,240
0
['swiped', 'tinder']
0
2yl9sc
null
null
2
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2yl9sc/17m_been_talking_to_a_girl_a_lot_does_that_mean/
5
I met her on Tinder, so she obviously swiped right which means at least some attraction is there. We started talking a lot, but it wasn't really flirting at first, just talking as friends. Recently (past 3 days), we've been talking a lot. I'm talking 6-7 hours straight, every day. Its been mostly friendly conversation,...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
[17/m] Been talking to a girl a lot. Does that mean that she's interested?
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2yl9sc/17m_been_talking_to_a_girl_a_lot_does_that_mean/
wild4wonderful
2023-03-06 21:18:45
1,678,137,525
null
['OLD', 'online dating']
0
11kecwb
true
null
19
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/11kecwb/some_kids_at_school_today_were_asked_to_give_an/
40
their answer was "online dating." Fifth grade boys understand OLD.
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Some kids at school today were asked to give an example of cyberbullying . . .
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/11kecwb/some_kids_at_school_today_were_asked_to_give_an/
DiscosTurtles
2020-02-27 03:16:36
1,582,773,396
null
['bumble']
0
fa5nkh
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/fa5nkh/should_i_attempt_to_pursue_something_again/
1
Okay, let me explain. I, M19, originally met this awesome girl F19 on bumble a few months ago. We it hit it off amazing. We had so many things in common and had awesome convos. I ended up asking her out, and she happily accepted. (Was planned to do coffee) Thing is, about 3 days before the date, she had to cancel. She ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I attempt to pursue something again
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fa5nkh/should_i_attempt_to_pursue_something_again/
dept_of_samizdat
2019-04-21 18:39:46
1,555,871,986
null
['matches', 'swiping', 'OLD', 'online dating']
0
bfs1su
true
null
40
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bfs1su/do_algorithms_actually_matter_in_old/
11
I was talking to someone older recently about online dating and they mentioned something that I realize I rarely think about anymore: being chosen a match by an algorithm. That's an old concept by now, and the premise on which the Black Mirror "Hang the DJ" episode rests. It's the marketing hook that drove Match and OK...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Do algorithms actually matter in OLD?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/bfs1su/do_algorithms_actually_matter_in_old/
hankqueensmustache
2023-01-30 03:22:07
1,675,048,927
null
['online dating', 'dating app']
0
10orbzt
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10orbzt/why_cant_i_find_a_meaningful_relationship/
2
I was on an online dating app. A guy whom I used to hangout with messaged me on there. He asked if we could hangout and since I knew him I said yes. We have an outdoor movie theatre where I live so we went there to watch a movie. During it we started kissing and we ended up driving somewhere and had sex in his truck. A...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why can’t I find a meaningful relationship?
null
0.76
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10orbzt/why_cant_i_find_a_meaningful_relationship/
TerryTravis-DH
2016-01-19 17:47:49
1,453,225,669
0
['swipe', 'tinder']
0
41ps84
null
null
5
null
/r/dating/comments/41ps84/the_best_way_to_use_tinder/
19
Hey there, I wrote an article on the best way to use tinder I'll give a summary of the first part here: Pictures first Tinder is visual. I’ll repeat this. TINDER IS VISUAL. +90% of the time people swipe without looking further than the first picture. If this picture isn’t okay your others won’t be seen, neither will yo...
dating
t5_2qhb1
The best way to use Tinder
19
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/41ps84/the_best_way_to_use_tinder/
unbrokenfragments
2021-09-19 09:24:45
1,632,043,485
null
null
0
pr4qnf
true
null
14
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/pr4qnf/i_just_want_to_cry/
0
So after a year of trying on OKCupid and Tinder, I ran out of people in my area, so I tried Badoo again. My profile is funny, I'm good looking and I always send personalized messages. Girl friends have checked both my profile and messages. I've written to 89 people and 4 have responded... I can't do this, what's the po...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
I just want to cry...
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/pr4qnf/i_just_want_to_cry/
yarnsandcharms
2022-10-04 00:08:58
1,664,842,138
null
['online dating']
0
xuzt0g
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xuzt0g/should_i_keep_doing_online_dating_after_heartbreak/
1
I (22F) decided to give online dating a try about a month and a half ago. I met a guy online who was pursuing me really hard and I actually saw him at church too. I decided to match with him and we really hit it off. We had a fun date, I thought we had a connection, but afterwards he said he did not feel the spark and ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I keep doing online dating after heartbreak?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xuzt0g/should_i_keep_doing_online_dating_after_heartbreak/
Most_Archer2043
2024-03-05 23:21:04
1,709,680,864
0
['dating app']
0
1b7k0ny
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b7k0ny/i_dont_understand_how_to_date_a_quiet_guy/
1
So I 25F started seeing this guy 24M as we net through dating app. We met in end of January and it’s his first ever dating experience and he basically lost his virginity with me. He is clearly looking for a relationship and as for me I am taking my time because I have been traumatized because of my last relationships a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I don’t understand how to date a quiet guy…
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b7k0ny/i_dont_understand_how_to_date_a_quiet_guy/
Honest_Bank8890
2023-08-11 15:33:07
1,691,767,987
0
['matched', 'hinge']
0
15oc3ag
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15oc3ag/how_do_you_keep_a_conversation_going_without/
1
Was talking to this girl I matched with on hinge, talking for a few days thought it was going well but turns out she felt I was overwhelming her by the large amount of questions I was asking,.I apologized and we decided to go our separate ways, now I'm thinking how do I keep a conversation naturally without bombarding ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How do you keep a conversation going without overwhelming someone
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15oc3ag/how_do_you_keep_a_conversation_going_without/
mptv2010
2021-03-01 10:41:30
1,614,595,290
null
['swiping', 'dating app']
0
lv62jc
true
null
86
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lv62jc/anybody_else_ever_find_themselves_swiping_no_on_a/
211
I'm a 24yo male that's been single since I was 15. Never put much thought into dating for along time, but Ive been wanting a change, but I have no idea where to even start. I live in an extremely small town, and I'm not exactly known as the most socially outgoing person. But I find myself swiping no on someone I find a...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Anybody else ever find themselves swiping no on a dating app on someone you find attractive because you think " they're way too pretty/handsome"?
null
0.98
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lv62jc/anybody_else_ever_find_themselves_swiping_no_on_a/
sublocade9192
2022-06-10 18:01:07
1,654,884,067
null
['matched']
0
v9dncj
true
Tinder/Online Dating
199
0
/r/dating/comments/v9dncj/went_on_a_date_last_night_she_updated_her_profile/
379
Soo I’m very into fitness. Been lifting for 12 years. Matched with someone the other day who was also very into lifting. The date went very well. It extended beyond our original plans and we kissed at the end and told me to text her when I got home. Didn’t get any bad vibes at all. My phone notified me today that she u...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Went on a date last night. She updated her profile this morning saying ‘must be over 200lbs’
null
0.94
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/v9dncj/went_on_a_date_last_night_she_updated_her_profile/
SlayerOfBacons
2024-09-29 21:12:17
1,727,644,337
0
['swipe']
0
1fsewyo
true
null
30
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fsewyo/what_are_your_benign_dealbreakers/
0
When you find someone and almost 'like' or 'swipe-right' but change your mind and say 'oh dang it,' what is the reason? What would you consider to be NOT a 'red flag' but still an 'aw shoot' last-second dealbreaker?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What are your BENIGN dealbreakers?
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fsewyo/what_are_your_benign_dealbreakers/
Cantuckie
2022-11-20 20:11:12
1,668,975,072
null
['OLD']
0
z0dwws
true
null
133
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/z0dwws/pole_dance_photo_in_old_profile/
23
Currently not dating but think often about the process. In the last year I (49f) decided on a whim to take up pole dance and unexpectedly LOVE it. I'm very much a beginner, but yet have learned how to do some moves I never thought I'd be able to do. I feel really proud of myself and the strenh I've gained, even if I lo...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Pole dance photo in OLD profile?
null
0.66
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/z0dwws/pole_dance_photo_in_old_profile/
EpicDarkFantasyWrite
2017-04-15 22:10:55
1,492,294,255
null
['online dating']
0
65lrc5
null
null
23
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/65lrc5/how_to_stay_optimistic_in_the_face_of_massive/
24
I've been doing a fair amount of online dating and speed dating, and the occassional through life. And so far all I've gotten are some stray replies, one date that went nowhere, and lots of 'no thank you's'. Not for my lack of trying. so today I did an interesting experiment today. A good looking friend of mine and I d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to stay optimistic in the face of massive rejections?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/65lrc5/how_to_stay_optimistic_in_the_face_of_massive/
Plane_Friendship_423
2024-07-14 22:53:02
1,720,997,582
0
['tinder']
0
1e3fcww
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3fcww/will_he_come_back/
1
I met him on tinder 1.5 month ago, I was taking the stuff slow and he started to share about his life more and more, I went for a 2 weeks vacation and we never stopped messaging (he telling me that the city miss me and I should be back) came back, met again and after that he starting ghosting a little, I asked what was...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Will he come back?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e3fcww/will_he_come_back/
talili10
2022-01-05 23:00:41
1,641,423,641
null
['bumble']
0
rwzc86
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rwzc86/should_i_just_find_someone_else/
1
Met this guy off of bumble and we talked for a while. We had a ton in common so the convo was flowing very well. We met in person and it was just as good but then he brought up the fact that he only has one semester left and it sucks that he can’t get into anything serious. I then said That I do want something serious ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I just find someone else?
null
0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rwzc86/should_i_just_find_someone_else/
Various_Resident_666
2024-03-30 15:22:15
1,711,812,135
0
['tinder']
0
1brkcpu
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1brkcpu/girl_im_dating_suddenly_switched_off_with_me/
1
Hey everyone, so I met this girl on tinder about 3 weeks back, since then we've been out with her and her friends twice, the second time we had physical affection going on, we shared mutual feelings for eachother as well. The first few weeks with her texting me have been quite weird, she started by immediately respondi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl I'm dating suddenly switched off with me
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1brkcpu/girl_im_dating_suddenly_switched_off_with_me/
Active-Writer7243
2022-05-27 03:37:40
1,653,622,660
null
['hinge']
0
uyp5ze
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/uyp5ze/first_date_vibes_help_me_out_here/
1
So I had a wonderful first date with a guy I met on Hinge. We had a few drinks at a bar, then went across the street for some appetizers. This date lasted 6 hours…and I could’ve stayed out with him all night. It just felt effortless and easy. We laughed, talked about a few more serious things. This was probably the fir...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
First Date Vibes. Help me out here.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uyp5ze/first_date_vibes_help_me_out_here/
triedbone749
2020-10-30 03:42:27
1,604,029,347
null
['OLD', 'bumble']
0
jkpm1k
true
null
150
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jkpm1k/met_my_love_on_bumble/
451
I was so disenchanted after years of OLD. Never met anyone I truly clicked with and it was such a time zapper to go through so many potential guys. I saw a cute guy with "not great" pictures in the sense that they were simple and made him seem serious and distant. He was so cute in real life and we hit it off from the ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Met my love on Bumble
null
0.95
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jkpm1k/met_my_love_on_bumble/
stuckinamaze999
2022-07-08 15:46:39
1,657,295,199
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
vudrfw
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/vudrfw/dating_apps_can_be_gut_wrenching/
1
I’m a university student and often use dating apps. Every now and then I come across people I know or have met but usually don’t engage. Yesterday I found this girl who I had met in the first few weeks of freshman year on Hinge. The night we had met I felt a connection with her but I hadn’t talked to her since because ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating Apps can be gut wrenching
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vudrfw/dating_apps_can_be_gut_wrenching/
Radical_rat222
2024-07-13 19:15:42
1,720,898,142
0
['dating apps']
0
1e2ibwd
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/1e2ibwd/why_cant_i_find_my_partner/
1
I 19f, have never had any boyfriends. I have been through a lot in my life. I also just found out I was semi autistic recently. I have tried for as long as I could remember to find a partner. I guess I’m being too picky. I’m not the prettiest woman out there. My type is probably way out of my league. I’ve tried dating ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why can’t I find my partner?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e2ibwd/why_cant_i_find_my_partner/
Rockyyy_jojo
2019-08-02 02:29:33
1,564,712,973
null
['bumble']
0
cky3gp
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cky3gp/21f_i_met_a_guy_a_couple_weeks_ago_through_bumble/
6
I met a guy a couple weeks ago through Bumble, and things feel very jumbled up. I haven’t been in the dating scene for about four years, due to a very toxic relationship that traumatized me. So, when I was planning to meet (22M) I was so fucking scared because I didn’t know what to expect. However, when we met we bonde...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
(21F) I met a guy a couple weeks ago through Bumble, and now I’m a wreck.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cky3gp/21f_i_met_a_guy_a_couple_weeks_ago_through_bumble/
Suitable-Water-2268
2024-06-13 05:04:53
1,718,255,093
0
['hinge']
0
1der2f3
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1der2f3/updating_hinge_profile/
1
We’ve been on three short dates and he has updated his hinge profile after each of them. At what point (or after how many dates) does it become a red flag for him to continue updating his profile?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
updating hinge profile
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1der2f3/updating_hinge_profile/
peter_guevara
2016-08-07 22:13:57
1,470,608,037
0
['online dating']
0
4wn0em
null
null
7
null
/r/dating/comments/4wn0em/online_dating_whats_good_and_bad/
1
Everybody seems to be doing online dating these days, I personally have always believed on meeting people the old fashion way, but this has always been a fascinating topic for me, so I ask, what in your opinion is the good and the bad of online dating? What have you used and how would you make it better?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Online dating - what's good and bad?
1
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4wn0em/online_dating_whats_good_and_bad/
Big-Wolf7791
2022-12-28 01:18:21
1,672,190,301
null
['matches', 'bumble']
0
zww9lx
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
18
0
/r/dating/comments/zww9lx/this_is_exactly_why_i_wish_i_was_fit_and_good/
1
When I want someone to talk to I get on my catfish bumble profile and I get several matches. all the women are so talkative and they all comment how good looking “I” am. That’s the most common thing all the women point out. That’s the key to attract women. Just be physically good looking and you’re in. Hopefully one da...
dating
t5_2qhb1
This is exactly why I wish I was fit and good looking
null
0.53
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zww9lx/this_is_exactly_why_i_wish_i_was_fit_and_good/
ServiceKooky1323
2024-04-13 23:10:21
1,713,049,821
0
['matched', 'swiped', 'OLD']
0
1c3eya9
true
null
34
0
/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1c3eya9/talking_to_new_guy_old/
4
I found his profile and swiped right, about 3 days later he matched with me - that was yesterday - and then we exchanged some fun light hearted banter throughout the day. He then said - I’m getting ready to go out of town with my kids so if you don’t hear from me I’m not ghosting, I think you seem nice and want to lear...
datingoverfifty
t5_12ieog
Talking to new guy OLD
4
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1c3eya9/talking_to_new_guy_old/
eOxCatvV
2012-04-04 23:47:28
1,333,583,248
0
['online dating', 'dating sites', 'okcupid']
null
rtrwq
null
null
8
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/rtrwq/nerdgeek_25m_looking_for_dating_advice/
1
To give you a little background: I study CS at some central European university. I think, that I'm looking average. I dress clean, shower every day and change my t-shirt at least once a day. Around a year ago, I opened accounts on a couple of online dating sites (okcupid and a local one). I started messaging, got a few...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
nerd/geek [25m] looking for dating advice
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rtrwq/nerdgeek_25m_looking_for_dating_advice/
Capital-Car-9985
2024-04-27 03:11:57
1,714,187,517
0
['hinge']
0
1ce4es3
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ce4es3/im_f20_not_sure_if_i_should_cut_things_off_with/
1
Me and this guy I met through Hinge have been "unofficially" dating for two almost three months now. Since we started talking I haven't been super sure about him. Not necessarily because of him directly I just didn't and still don't feel I know enough about him to know for sure whether or not I like him. I kept talking...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Im (F20) not sure if I should cut things off with (M23) yet or not
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ce4es3/im_f20_not_sure_if_i_should_cut_things_off_with/
handletothegrave
2018-07-23 04:49:51
1,532,321,391
null
['matched', 'dating apps']
0
9146d4
true
null
0
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9146d4/how_do_i_date_in_2018/
1
I am trying to figure out dating in 2018. I'm 30 years old, divorced and a lesbian. I got married fairly young and so I've never used dating apps. I've joined and matched with a few people but I don't know how to keep the conversation interesting. I just want to meet someone in real life. There are meet up groups and n...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I date in 2018?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9146d4/how_do_i_date_in_2018/
Forgivemysins8119
2022-10-24 16:49:51
1,666,630,191
null
['dating app']
0
ycg9hh
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ycg9hh/was_i_in_the_wrong_to_tell_my_ex_that_i_slept/
4
Hey All. I need some advice regarding a situation that I am currently dealing with regarding my EX - who I am still dating but also not exclusive. We broke up in July, and it was a very nasty breakup not going to lie, we initiated NC for a bit until she reached out a month later. I asked her some personal questions whe...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Was I in the wrong to tell my EX that I slept with someone despite having feelings for her?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ycg9hh/was_i_in_the_wrong_to_tell_my_ex_that_i_slept/
forabotchedcivil
2024-02-27 19:02:41
1,709,060,561
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
1b1jxm8
true
null
30
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1jxm8/ghosted_on_dating_apps_after_a_few_days/
1
Straight male. Twenties. I usually start off well when I match with someone on dating apps. Ask questions, a few light hearted jokes, and subtle compliments. I usually find myself getting ghosted via chat after a few days. If I ask out on a date early, I often get told "not yet", and if, I try to hold a chat conversati...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted on Dating Apps after a Few Days
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b1jxm8/ghosted_on_dating_apps_after_a_few_days/
marioqw1
2023-07-23 00:42:46
1,690,072,966
0
['dating apps']
0
1570d6i
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1570d6i/what_do_you_think_of_dating_in_2023/
1
I feel like social media made everything worse in terms of expectations etc. I find it hard to find someone you can clearly see yourself with and build a family. I’m at a point where I want to give up but at the same time I almost have no choice but to use dating apps as I do not get the chance to meet new people due t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What do you think of dating in 2023?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1570d6i/what_do_you_think_of_dating_in_2023/
SyllabubMysterious12
2024-06-02 22:03:38
1,717,365,818
0
['dating app']
0
1d6opba
true
null
43
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1d6opba/seems_nice_but_i_think_he_just_wants_sex/
28
I met a guy on a dating app a few months ago. We’ve chatted via text pretty consistently since matching. We haven’t met yet due to weird schedules and life getting in the way. He seems like a nice guy but the majority of our convos are about sex. I asked him if he was only interested in casual sex with me and he said t...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Seems nice but I think he just wants sex
28
0.79
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d6opba/seems_nice_but_i_think_he_just_wants_sex/
throwawayacc55555788
2024-06-30 08:14:18
1,719,735,258
0
null
0
1drwo1b
true
null
24
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1drwo1b/feeling_horrible_after_a_bad_first_date/
14
Matched (28f) with this French guy (31m) on Friday. We exchanged a few messages - he seemed nice and that he had a few things in common. He suggested drinks on Saturday. So what happened? As soon as he saw me, he looked disinterested and like he didn’t want to be there. There were multiple awkward pauses in the convo. ...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Feeling horrible after a bad first date - confidence is 0
14
0.94
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1drwo1b/feeling_horrible_after_a_bad_first_date/
IRAn00b
2016-06-10 19:44:05
1,465,587,845
0
['online dating']
0
4ni2u7
null
null
46
null
/r/AskMen/comments/4ni2u7/what_are_some_good_dating_profile_tips/
20
Just realized that I have no idea what most guys put on there, as I only ever see women's profiles. Are you sincere and earnest? Or sarcastic and funny? Do you actually put a bunch of hobbies/interests and descriptions of yourself, or do you mostly just leave that part blank? And what about pictures? I swear I have fri...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
What are some good dating profile tips?
20
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/4ni2u7/what_are_some_good_dating_profile_tips/
snoop8k
2021-12-11 23:25:01
1,639,265,101
null
['online dating']
0
rebj72
true
null
32
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rebj72/online_girlfriend_asked_me_for_money/
0
I met this girl on a porn website in March( chaturbate). We chatted and hit it off straight away. She gave me her phone number and we started online dating each other. She quit working as a cam girl, and later this year, she started to work at a casino. She lives in Colombia, by the way. Her casino gig flopped, so she ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Online girlfriend asked me for money.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rebj72/online_girlfriend_asked_me_for_money/
Secure-Benefit2886
2024-08-03 14:55:19
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Casual Conversation
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I'm a 57yo male travel nurse in pretty good shape and financially in a good spot. My work radius is usually four hours from home and I do take travel contracts in the south for the winter. I've tried OLD without success and I'm not sure on my approach! My obvious problem is travel but I know I can overcome the hurdle w...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Where is she? How do I find her in this chaotic hyper-stimulated world!?
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0.46
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1ej58ur/where_is_she_how_do_i_find_her_in_this_chaotic/
spffourseven
2020-07-02 03:08:13
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The last relationship I had left me confused and hurt beyond words. I (F28) met this guy (M28) on dating apps two years ago. We had a relationship for two years. The relationship had its ups and downs, a lot of red flags and a lot of mistakes. Maybe some to name would be discovering he still was active on dating apps w...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Last relationship was a mess, left me confused and have struggles moving on. Any advice on that?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjp7iz/last_relationship_was_a_mess_left_me_confused_and/
throwawaydates69
2024-08-28 08:12:21
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I told myself I'd take things slow, but there's this one girl I've been seeing the most. We text all day, every day, and she flirts with me like crazy. She’s hinted multiple times that she wants to be my girlfriend, and I’m highly certain she’s waiting for me to make the move. If I asked her to be official right now, I...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Should I Make Things Official or Stick to Taking It Slow?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f34s0j/should_i_make_things_official_or_stick_to_taking/