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Organically_Wrong | 2019-11-06 17:33:54 | 1,573,061,634 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | dsjmv3 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dsjmv3/i_have_no_idea_what_im_doing_i_need_help/ | 1 | I (24/M) haven’t dated anyone in almost 2 years, and I’ve wanted to change that for a while now. I work nights at my job, and to be honest, Before being single I had been in a string of bad relationships that ended terribly. I don’t really go out much, except for the occasional movie. I don’t have all that many friends... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have no idea what I’m doing. I need help. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dsjmv3/i_have_no_idea_what_im_doing_i_need_help/ |
BlessedAlternative | 2023-12-15 16:07:00 | 1,702,656,420 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18j3ife | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18j3ife/is_this_weird/ | 1 | Let me start off by saying that one, I’ve never been in a relationship at all, and two, this is probably going to be an obvious answer, but I want to make sure I’m not over thinking. So I (27F) started talking to someone (30 something M) on a dating app, and for the most part the convo has been great. It’s just that ev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is this weird | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18j3ife/is_this_weird/ |
wollyboi | 2020-08-16 22:53:37 | 1,597,618,417 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ib2bkw | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ib2bkw/struggling_to_find_the_right_match/ | 1 | Hi I'm a M18 and never really been in a relationship before and thought I would put myself out there a little more than I normally have, I've signed up to tinder and a few other things and nothing good has come out, every girl I speak to it seems like I'm pissing them off or doing something wrong. I'm by no means rushi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Struggling to find the right match | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ib2bkw/struggling_to_find_the_right_match/ |
[deleted] | 2015-03-22 11:10:12 | 1,427,022,612 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 2zw81a | null | null | 8 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2zw81a/so_this_has_turned_out_to_be_the_most_unusual/ | 3 | tldr: Read the bullet points about my date. I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, we met on Plenty of Fish. There's a 2 year age difference between us, I'm 27m she's 25f, and share many interests/hobbies/same sense of humour. So personality wise, she's easy to talk to - topics/conversation don't feel forced... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So this has turned out to be the most unusual date... ever [27m/25f] | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2zw81a/so_this_has_turned_out_to_be_the_most_unusual/ |
fuck-coyotes | 2024-06-04 13:06:22 | 1,717,506,382 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1d7wouh | true | Success Story 🎉 | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d7wouh/met_a_girl_on_tinder_talked_for_a_few_days/ | 5 | She's not a big texter, I usually always start the text volleys, but anyway she texted me this morning, "the people" (her friends) want to know what my birthday is because they're betting on what my sign is. (I think signs are BS but whatevs) This is a very good sign, yes? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Met a girl on tinder, talked for a few days... | 5 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d7wouh/met_a_girl_on_tinder_talked_for_a_few_days/ |
Nuke_1568 | 2023-10-17 16:48:13 | 1,697,561,293 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17a2rk4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17a2rk4/how_have_men_approached_you_that_ended_well/ | 1 | I've seen a lot of horror stories here (and stepped in on a few I've witnessed) about women being approached by men. But, as a guy who's ready to get back into dating, I have this impression that it's almost a fruitless endeavor to try and approach women that I don't already know - which sorta makes it difficult to mee... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How have men approached you that ended well? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17a2rk4/how_have_men_approached_you_that_ended_well/ |
Ok-Property6209 | 2024-07-13 08:33:03 | 1,720,859,583 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e25jb5 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1e25jb5/not_sure_what_to_do_next/ | 1 | I went on a first date last night, we drank and talked for hours. I enjoyed the conversation and he paid for the bill which wasn’t cheap. I was prepared/expecting to split it but he just paid which I thanked him for. We then decided to go to another bar and we made out on the walk there but the kiss completely killed i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what to do next | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e25jb5/not_sure_what_to_do_next/ |
ILYbabygroot | 2020-06-28 23:40:41 | 1,593,387,641 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating sites'] | 0 | hhp1ix | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hhp1ix/got_ghosted_again_whats_the_issue/ | 4 | Im 24f and I like to think im pretty good looking (picture on my profile if you're curious) I get a good amount of matches on dating sites, I have my own place and I am a nurse so im not a terrible catch i dont think . Recently I got ghosted twice in 3 months. The first guy let's call him John, and I talked for like a ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got ghosted AGAIN. whats the issue? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hhp1ix/got_ghosted_again_whats_the_issue/ |
realgirl123 | 2019-06-01 13:42:47 | 1,559,396,567 | null | null | 0 | bvkx8q | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/bvkx8q/help_i_need_a_reframe/ | 2 | So I like this guy online. We've talked once by phone, but he has not been pro-active about making time to get together. His last message was 'yes, I want to get together, but it depends on if I'm going to drive to see my family today or not'... That was hours ago. Argh. My go-to interpretation is 'this guy is not maki... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Help - I need a reframe... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/bvkx8q/help_i_need_a_reframe/ |
hinch_worm | 2020-03-29 06:13:48 | 1,585,462,428 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | fr16n4 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fr16n4/im_was_done_with_dating_apps/ | 1 | I have been trying to find someone on those stupid dating apps but after actual years I only got a few dates and nothing ever lasted long. So i deleted it a few months back but due to all this quarantine stuff its siren song is calling me back. If I did download the app again, is there anything I do could do differentl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm was done with dating apps... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fr16n4/im_was_done_with_dating_apps/ |
SubaruToyotaFan1986 | 2019-12-12 20:18:44 | 1,576,181,924 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | e9szey | true | I Need Advice | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e9szey/new_to_gay_dating_other_than_hookup_apps_etc_and/ | 0 | I realize this sounds like an /r/NoStupidQuestions question but will ask anyway. I'm 33, male, from the United Kingdom. I'm attracted mainly to women, I do have some attraction to men which is smaller than it is to women, but I want to explore it and avoid the hookup culture etc. This technically makes me heteroflexibl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New to gay dating, other than hookup apps etc. and gay bars where are good places to meet single men, and also, what should I be aware of in the gay dating scene? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e9szey/new_to_gay_dating_other_than_hookup_apps_etc_and/ |
tyvmkindsirr | 2021-08-16 14:07:33 | 1,629,122,853 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | p5grqj | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p5grqj/girl_agreed_to_date_but_hasnt_replied_since/ | 1 | So last week I matched with a girl on hinge, and we messaged a few times throughout the week. She would take about a day to reply to my messages, but she wasn’t dry or anything. We were talking about ice cream and so I then asked her if she wanted to go out sometime and get ice cream together. She said “Yes I’m so down... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl agreed to date but hasn’t replied since? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p5grqj/girl_agreed_to_date_but_hasnt_replied_since/ |
dubstar2000 | 2020-12-27 17:36:32 | 1,609,090,592 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kl7mkz | true | null | 121 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/kl7mkz/how_do_you_stop_beating_yourself_up_over_fucking/ | 61 | Hi all. She broke up with me back in May, as I was pushing her away and being difficult to be around. This seems to be how I eventually operate once the honeymoon period is over. As soon as she pulled the plug of course I immediately realised what I was doing and how stupid I had been. So it's 7 months now and still pr... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you stop beating yourself up over fucking things up with an ex? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kl7mkz/how_do_you_stop_beating_yourself_up_over_fucking/ |
siyans | 2024-06-19 16:44:04 | 1,718,815,444 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1djnrwq | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1djnrwq/unmatched_quickly_after_match_what_wrong/ | 2 | I'm a man in is 40's trying to match with women between 30 and 45 I recently restarted to use some of the dating app and with updated and better photo, I casually get one match here and there. Its start just basic, with usual chit chat and nothing too direct, cringe or whatever, although I always get unmatched quite qu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Unmatched quickly after match, what wrong? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1djnrwq/unmatched_quickly_after_match_what_wrong/ |
my_throw_awayyy | 2021-03-22 10:11:22 | 1,616,407,882 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | mak04m | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mak04m/women_of_reddit_what_goes_through_your_mind_when/ | 3 | In my(M22) personal experience, I have probably messaged over 150 (I personally know about 50 girls irl) through social media and sadly only 5 girls responded . So when you do the math, there is a 3% chance that a girl will actually look at the message I sent and take the time to respond back . Of those 5 girls that re... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Women of reddit , what goes through your mind when you notice a guy trying to shoot their shot though social media (i.e Facebook, snapchat, instagram, ect)? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mak04m/women_of_reddit_what_goes_through_your_mind_when/ |
bacon4brainz | 2022-05-03 14:33:12 | 1,651,588,392 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | uhhgdk | true | null | 203 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/uhhgdk/er_what/ | 303 | I'm a 42 yr/f. Relatively new to the dating scene. I wanted to wait a year/for my divorce to be finalized and I'm glad I did. I was talking with this guy for over month. We got a long great. So I agreed to a date. 1st one was awesome. 2nd date was fantastic (nothing more than hand holding happened). He was talking some... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | er what? | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/uhhgdk/er_what/ |
Naman19911 | 2022-12-01 23:44:11 | 1,669,938,251 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | za48dx | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/za48dx/confused_as_hell_at_this_girl/ | 1 | Hey all! As the title says. Been talking to this girl on hinge for a couple weeks. We talked for a couple days everyday. It was pretty solid conversation etc. She then went quiet for 4-5 days so I offered her my number askinf if she wants a date then I'd love that but if not, all good as I appreciate people get busy. S... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Confused as hell at this girl! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/za48dx/confused_as_hell_at_this_girl/ |
fordeathsaidshe | 2022-11-19 17:03:31 | 1,668,877,411 | null | null | 0 | yzgl1p | true | null | 52 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yzgl1p/how_can_i_stop_chatting_with_so_many_people_on/ | 13 | I have picked up the advice on dating/chatting with multiple people because I have been burned before when I was only focusing on one. I now feel that I am on a day-long shift. I am an introvert and I need time to myself. Cannot stand to chat with so many people. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How can I stop chatting with so many people on online dating? It is draining me and I feel that I have no time left for myself. | null | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yzgl1p/how_can_i_stop_chatting_with_so_many_people_on/ |
ThisIsBojackHorseman | 2024-06-06 08:56:32 | 1,717,664,192 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'feeld'] | 0 | 1d9do6v | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d9do6v/online_dating_is_rough_my_guys/ | 1 | Average dude (36) in an open relationship here. I am completely baffled how anyone does well finding dates for hookups and FWB through apps. Recently thought that I'd give it a shot as an addition to my in-person game and oh boy I am on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge and Feeld and there's nothing. I am reasonably tall, fit but ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating is rough my guys | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d9do6v/online_dating_is_rough_my_guys/ |
ChaosEst | 2021-07-11 19:55:47 | 1,626,033,347 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | oibe3x | true | Giving Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oibe3x/old_fashioned_dating_will_keep_trending_no_matter/ | 0 | Simply put, no matter how strong willed or amazing a woman is, chasing a man wasnt ' trendy ' before and will not be trendy. So lets just get over it. In fact, the concepts of feminine energy, leaning back and letting men do the heavy lifting in relationships will continue to gather mainstream attention, given how unsu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Old fashioned dating will keep trending no matter what | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oibe3x/old_fashioned_dating_will_keep_trending_no_matter/ |
throwawayornot1515 | 2023-11-21 00:21:39 | 1,700,526,099 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1803nrr | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1803nrr/dating_apps_and_confidence/ | 1 | I got out of a long term relationship about 4 months ago. I think most people would say my ex was attractive, I would for sure. What I can’t stand is how hit and miss each app is, and they seem streaky? I get consistently good looking matches on Hinge, but tinder/bumble aren’t really the same story.. like at all. I’ve ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps and confidence | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1803nrr/dating_apps_and_confidence/ |
StuartSmiles | 2015-10-23 21:55:02 | 1,445,637,302 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3pykig | null | null | 13 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3pykig/what_do_you_do_when_you_see_someone_you_know_on/ | 0 | edit: would you reach out over another communication platform? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | what do you do when you see someone you know on tinder? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3pykig/what_do_you_do_when_you_see_someone_you_know_on/ |
goyourownwaymaybe | 2022-08-29 07:41:21 | 1,661,758,881 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | x0iq70 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x0iq70/meeting_people_in_bars_and_clubs_doesnt_seem_that/ | 3 | I was online dating for a while but haven’t used the apps for quite a while now after meeting someone. It’s nothing serious or official but we’re dating and I’m seeing how things go, but I digress. Over the weekend I went out with one of my friends who is also single. He’s a lot more confident than I am… but honestly, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Meeting people in bars and clubs doesn’t seem that effective | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x0iq70/meeting_people_in_bars_and_clubs_doesnt_seem_that/ |
Nines72 | 2023-06-03 06:34:27 | 1,685,774,067 | 0 | ['swiped', 'bumble'] | 0 | 13z3j5y | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 17 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13z3j5y/found_best_friends_fiancée_on_bumble/ | 1 | My best friend (28M) and his (now) fiancée (28F) have been together since the last 9 years. He's my childhood friend and over the years, she has become a good friend as well. They recently got engaged and plan to get married in the near future. I was in my hometown last week and had downloaded Bumble to find a date. As... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Found Best Friend's Fiancée On Bumble | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13z3j5y/found_best_friends_fiancée_on_bumble/ |
rosyfrecks | 2020-11-11 22:25:28 | 1,605,133,528 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jshzds | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jshzds/right_guy_wrong_timing_holding_onto_hope_idk/ | 3 | So In September I started dating this guy I met through Tinder. Our connection was very quick and intense but not too rushed or overly intimate. We talked each day, and went on dates twice a week for 1,5 month. I didn't want to rush this connection I had with him, I truly wanted to get to know him, and get to know myse... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Right guy wrong timing? Holding onto hope? Idk | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jshzds/right_guy_wrong_timing_holding_onto_hope_idk/ |
ohhai12632 | 2015-04-23 22:44:55 | 1,429,829,095 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | 33ncrn | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/33ncrn/had_a_great_first_date_and_she_stopped_replying/ | 1 | So I met a girl on POF over the weekend (I'm 29 and she is 26) and after a day or so of texting, I asked if she wanted to get a drink with me. She agreed and we ended up meeting on Tuesday night. I had to work the next day and she did not. She didn't tell me that she had the next day off until about 11. We ended up sta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Had a great first date and she stopped replying | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/33ncrn/had_a_great_first_date_and_she_stopped_replying/ |
Highlander_77 | 2024-01-15 20:23:26 | 1,705,350,206 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 197itwc | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/197itwc/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_say_i_love_you/ | 1 | So, a brief bit of backstory here. I've been making sporadic attempts at dating for the past \5 years, with varying degrees of success...but mostly not much that's really gone anywhere, in large part because my heart wasn't really in it (went through almost a decade of a toxic marriage, that ended disastrously and left... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How soon is too soon to say "I love you"? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/197itwc/how_soon_is_too_soon_to_say_i_love_you/ |
akerz90 | 2019-03-15 12:38:34 | 1,552,653,514 | null | null | 0 | b1eftg | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/b1eftg/eharmony_what_a_huge_waste_of_money/ | 8 | Just wanted to throw out my thoughts on eharmony After having years of zero luck on free dating sites tride a paid one what huge waste of money it was paid extra as well to be a top match still get very little matches and the ones that I do get are not grate at all or are way way out of my distance preference Then ther... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Eharmony what a huge waste of money | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/b1eftg/eharmony_what_a_huge_waste_of_money/ |
thecrazyclm | 2020-06-29 10:09:08 | 1,593,425,348 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | hhx89f | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hhx89f/tinder_gurl/ | 0 | BEFORE STARTING THIS, THANKS FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO HELP ME! I APPRECIATE IT A LOT Okay so i (19M) have a tinder but i never used it to text someone. I was just there to swipe(idk why lol). But this one time, this girl texted me(let u know i dont respond back usually) but i responded. My goal was to chat with her a li... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | TINDER GURL | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hhx89f/tinder_gurl/ |
MaterialMinimum9840 | 2024-07-21 21:02:07 | 1,721,595,727 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1e8wj4o | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e8wj4o/being_too_responsible/ | 0 | 26M) Don't normally talk about these kind of problems online. But I figure this'll be an exception. Came from a loving family and a small town in CA. Love to Read, Sketch, Play Guitar, Do Voices (VA), and Play at the Arcades. Most of the time I spent was around adults and parental friends. The only times I had people t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Being too responsible | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e8wj4o/being_too_responsible/ |
JC556 | 2020-06-11 18:00:10 | 1,591,898,410 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | h14drd | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/h14drd/i_got_stood_up_today_and_im_pretty_hurt_about_it/ | 3 | I had a date today with this girl I met on OkCupid. She is not my ideal type being she had a 4 year old child. It didn't really bother me that much. I'm just trying to get out there and meet new people and see what happens. She also has depression and anxiety which i could relate with and could look past. We talked las... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I Got Stood Up Today and I'm pretty Hurt about it | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/h14drd/i_got_stood_up_today_and_im_pretty_hurt_about_it/ |
Dangerous-Bear-4789 | 2023-03-13 05:19:48 | 1,678,684,788 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 11q0zeg | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11q0zeg/should_i_try_dating_apps_again/ | 1 | So, along time ago, I started to do different dating apps. I tried hinge, tinder, bumble, plus size and I even tried Facebook dating. I have no luck and most apps ask you to pay to see who likes you. So I eventually deleted those apps because I got more depressed about my self-esteem. Now I feel more lonely and I don’t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I try dating apps again? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11q0zeg/should_i_try_dating_apps_again/ |
athenawasrobbed | 2017-11-15 03:06:07 | 1,510,715,167 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 7d15x1 | false | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7d15x1/newbie_at_tinder_how_to_sort_matches/ | 6 | What's the best way to sort through all my matches on Tinder? I bought Gold and had a backlog of "likes" and after going through them all I have about 300 mutual. Some guys have messaged me, the very vast majority have not. Also, any tips or tricks for this app? I am mid 30s/female. My bio also clearly states I'm looki... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Newbie at Tinder - how to sort matches? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7d15x1/newbie_at_tinder_how_to_sort_matches/ |
ChickenWingFat | 2024-05-07 19:13:36 | 1,715,109,216 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cmjzlc | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cmjzlc/good_lowcost_first_dates_for_someone_you_met_on_a/ | 1 | I just started getting back into dating after being out of the dating game for 15+ years. I have a few women interested in meeting up, but I hate dinner dates. It costs way too much to wine and dine every potential match, and there is no point in blowing 60+ bucks on every date. I don't mind spending money, just not on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good, low-cost first dates for someone you met on a dating app? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cmjzlc/good_lowcost_first_dates_for_someone_you_met_on_a/ |
Thatdudefromthex | 2020-12-30 19:06:56 | 1,609,355,216 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | kn8gwg | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kn8gwg/should_i_ask_her/ | 3 | I’ve been seeing this girl I met on a dating app for almost 2 months now. She claims to like me and had told me how I’m different from other guys etc. at first we used to hang out more often , now we barely hang out. Like once every 2 weeks... and one time when I told her “ hey let’s hang out next weekend “ she’s like ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I ask her? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kn8gwg/should_i_ask_her/ |
InfamouslyJuniper | 2024-09-15 06:02:33 | 1,726,380,153 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fh5ski | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1fh5ski/is_inability_to_set_a_date_an_automatic_next_why/ | 1 | So talked to this guy on a dating app, he was out of town, then he asked to meet up. He didn’t message me while he was gone so I thought he forgot about it, irrelevant maybe but he liked my social media post (we don’t follow one another) then texted me he’s back- asked about a Friday. I was doing something, forgot to r... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Is inability to set a date an automatic next, why? Who should try to set it? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fh5ski/is_inability_to_set_a_date_an_automatic_next_why/ |
wavesabovethesun | 2023-10-21 17:09:22 | 1,697,908,162 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17d7bbj | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17d7bbj/27m_how_do_people_start_dating_again/ | 1 | I’m 27, I had a 3.5 year relationship end a year ago next week. It was the most pain I’d ever felt but it needed to happen and in hindsight I’m really glad they made the decision to walk awat because it was what needed to happen for both of us. It took over six months to even entertain the idea of dating again but lite... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 27M How do people “start” dating again? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17d7bbj/27m_how_do_people_start_dating_again/ |
queerjaguar | 2023-06-10 16:16:06 | 1,686,413,766 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 14648i0 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14648i0/did_i_f_up/ | 1 | basically that question, in addition to the context as follows: i(21f) went on a second date with this one guy(20). he's cool and i really enjoy spending time w him. we met on bumble, and have been contacting each other thru the same. today, in the middle of one of the episodes that we were watching in my dorm, i asked... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | did i f up? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14648i0/did_i_f_up/ |
imthatspinch | 2021-07-04 07:54:27 | 1,625,385,267 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | odfutv | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/odfutv/is_he_truly_interested_or_is_he_trying_to_pull_a/ | 4 | So I met this guy thru OLD and we’ve been texting almost daily for about 3 months now. We have a lot of the same interests, and i've been slowly getting more invested in him. Things have been going pretty slow, but we’ve discussed that we’re both not in a rush for a relationship, so it’s been ok with me. So far, we hav... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is he truly interested or is he trying to pull a slow fade on me? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/odfutv/is_he_truly_interested_or_is_he_trying_to_pull_a/ |
Hunt_distance8995 | 2023-01-13 07:09:01 | 1,673,593,741 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 10ao3v8 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/10ao3v8/is_google_chat_safe/ | 0 | I was on OLD app and a guy found me and sent me a message. We began send forward and back on the messages few days ago. I saw his pic on profile, and no video but soon will on Google chat. He sent me his Gmail email to talk more than on that OLD app. I know there some scammer. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Is Google chat safe? | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10ao3v8/is_google_chat_safe/ |
idk_idaho | 2023-04-27 18:34:34 | 1,682,620,474 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1311j7a | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1311j7a/how_should_a_22f_ask_a_guy_out_and_where_can_one/ | 6 | I’m a 22F with average looks. I’ve had decent success on dating apps in regards to receiving a fair amount of likes. A lot of the time, I (respectfully) cut things off with a guy after the first date because something feels off. I’m starting to give up on dating apps and try meeting people more organically. A few pictu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How should a 22F ask a guy out and where can one find good quality guys? | 6 | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1311j7a/how_should_a_22f_ask_a_guy_out_and_where_can_one/ |
bk55902 | 2022-09-19 02:22:00 | 1,663,554,120 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | xhz928 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xhz928/where_do_people_in_there_20s_find_people_to_go_on/ | 10 | I’m a male in my mid 20s been single for about 4-5 years now and I find it almost impossible to find people around my area, I live in a small town next to a big city and I regularly hangout in both places so most people recognize me or associate with me. I go to bars and clubs but I dont look for dates there because th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where do people in there 20s find people to go on dates minus dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xhz928/where_do_people_in_there_20s_find_people_to_go_on/ |
MEG0518A | 2023-10-21 03:49:31 | 1,697,860,171 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17ctq8f | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17ctq8f/i_think_im_spiraling/ | 1 | So this past week I redownloaded Hinge - new profile and everything. The next day I woke up to a message from someone I dated 10 months ago. I really liked him then but things ended when he left me waiting around repeatedly and I got tired of it and said something. He said something shitty back and I literally just cut... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think I’m spiraling | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17ctq8f/i_think_im_spiraling/ |
OerllydSaethwr | 2021-01-05 08:04:21 | 1,609,833,861 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | kqtrhu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kqtrhu/how_do_i_fix_this_22m/ | 2 | There's this girl I've known since high school. We've been friends since, not very close but we would talk every now and then. I asked her out recently and we went on a date, which was fun and we ended up making out. Now the thing is that this girl has a couple of other guys texting her and she told me explicitly she d... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I fix this? 22M | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kqtrhu/how_do_i_fix_this_22m/ |
agal-withquestions | 2023-09-15 02:03:46 | 1,694,743,426 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 16j0qc0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16j0qc0/how_soon_after_going_on_dates_do_you_have_sex/ | 1 | I (23F) started talking to this guy (23M) on hinge about a month now, and we had our first date/meet up about a week ago. I like him and we have a lot in common and I’m excited to see where this goes, but this is my first real relationship. Last week was my first date EVER and the only relationships I’ve been in is FWB... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How soon after going on dates do you have sex? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16j0qc0/how_soon_after_going_on_dates_do_you_have_sex/ |
rocknrollinmetalhead | 2021-07-28 21:57:28 | 1,627,509,448 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | otk17m | true | Question | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/otk17m/are_women_not_interested_in_me_because_im_autistic/ | 9 | On my bumble account I still haven't gotten any likes yet and I've just made it a week ago. I know my bio doesn't sound boring and I put different pictures in my profile. I'm not sure if bumble is not showing my profile or I'm just a uninteresting guy that woman are not interested in. The only thing I want out of it is... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are women not interested in me because I'm autistic? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/otk17m/are_women_not_interested_in_me_because_im_autistic/ |
ShitIcantsayinpublic | 2021-11-08 14:16:14 | 1,636,380,974 | null | null | 0 | qpej5e | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qpej5e/online_dating_in_socal_is_garbage_anyone_else/ | 1 | I travel a lot for work for long periods and often jump on all the sites... when I'm not in SoCal I end up having GREAT dates with very interesting people and have even had a few romances that we both tried to make work long distance. But in SoCal, every single match is just garbage... and not what a non-socal person w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online dating in SoCal is garbage -- anyone else have this experience? | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qpej5e/online_dating_in_socal_is_garbage_anyone_else/ |
FitMap1523 | 2024-02-13 12:30:40 | 1,707,827,440 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1apsby4 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1apsby4/what_is_preventing_me_from_finding_a_partner/ | 1 | I’ve always wondered why I can’t really find someone who actually interests me. From third grade until college…I had the biggest crush on this one girl…and I think I devoted most of my energy to her. To me she was the one. Something about her was different, and I can’t explain it. Unfortunately, she was just a crush…bu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is preventing me from finding a partner? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1apsby4/what_is_preventing_me_from_finding_a_partner/ |
tripleg2137 | 2020-04-08 04:12:51 | 1,586,319,171 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | fwzioh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fwzioh/i_dont_know_what_to_do_anymore/ | 3 | I have no idea what is wrong with me. I’m a 22 year old female and I’m quiet but I don’t think I’m that bad, but I’ve never dated anyone. I’ve only ever hooked up with guys and it’s getting old. I really want something more but it seems useless. The guys I come into contact with all seem to be uninterested/unavailable ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t know what to do anymore. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fwzioh/i_dont_know_what_to_do_anymore/ |
ShallowGlass | 2022-10-26 23:59:21 | 1,666,828,761 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | yecywr | true | null | 143 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/yecywr/being_plus_size_how_to_deal_with_the_elephant_in/ | 40 | In the age of online dating, how are plus size people broaching the subject with potential dates? I'm a relatively confident person, but I am a plus size girl who has has confidence issues with my body. I always try to be upfront and honest about being plus size, but it's a difficult conversation. I'm aware this is som... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Being plus size - how to deal with the elephant in the room | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/yecywr/being_plus_size_how_to_deal_with_the_elephant_in/ |
MisterJose | 2019-08-31 05:28:49 | 1,567,229,329 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | cxs7ey | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cxs7ey/do_we_sometimes_wrongly_make_dating_an_eitheror/ | 1 | I tweak my dating profile text pretty regularly. These are the two paragraphs I was just inspired to jot down and feel like adding: Something I've learned, and something I want women to understand: There are 200 conversations I've had in the past about smalltalk and family and job and other shit that made NO impression... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do we sometimes wrongly make dating an either/or scenario (thinking about my dating profile)? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cxs7ey/do_we_sometimes_wrongly_make_dating_an_eitheror/ |
PackFormer2929 | 2024-01-30 12:10:32 | 1,706,616,632 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1aemys1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1aemys1/where_do_guys_in_their_late_20searly_30s_meet/ | 1 | It seems like everyone uses dating apps and me being an average guy it doesn't work at all and besides i would like to meet someone organically As the title suggests where do yall meet young women organically? I have tried activities that i like such as volleyball, dance, and might try climbing but it seems like there ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do guys in their late 20s/early 30s meet young women in london? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aemys1/where_do_guys_in_their_late_20searly_30s_meet/ |
TwitchySphere53 | 2023-06-01 22:07:44 | 1,685,657,264 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13xuw54 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13xuw54/trying_to_help_a_friend/ | 6 | Hi all, I am hoping this is the right sub to post this to but here is what is going on. I have a friend who is struggling with dating. He is a guy in his late 20's and trying to find a girlfriend. His situation though is a little more difficult than your average dating problems. First off he had many health issues when... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Trying to Help a Friend | 6 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13xuw54/trying_to_help_a_friend/ |
ilovepickles1999 | 2024-03-01 06:53:41 | 1,709,276,021 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1b3nyrh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b3nyrh/why_would_he_lie_to_me_about_his_brother_dying/ | 1 | I went on a date with this guy I met on Hinge and I thought it went quite well! We texted a lot the following week, often until bedtime. He invited me to tag along on a day trip the next weekend, but canceled because of work. He said he would still like to hangout anyway that weekend. So come Saturday I texted to ask w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why would he lie to me about his brother dying and then ghost me? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b3nyrh/why_would_he_lie_to_me_about_his_brother_dying/ |
intothevoidfromme | 2023-12-27 11:10:49 | 1,703,675,449 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18rydux | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18rydux/should_i_push_through_with_this_date/ | 1 | This guy is a tourist from America. When we matched and talked, he just landed here, so I entertained his questions (where to go, what to eat, etc). He also joked a little about me taking him to a date, to which I replied. We started off ok until he slowed down chatting. He told me the next day that it was his 1st time... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I push through with this date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18rydux/should_i_push_through_with_this_date/ |
EpicMudbud | 2019-02-03 23:11:43 | 1,549,235,503 | null | null | 0 | amvbh7 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/amvbh7/how_to_i_keep_a_conversation_interesting/ | 1 | I've been using a few dating apps and Ive updated my bio and profiles a lot. I get a decent amount of matches but the conversations are so dull. I feel like it's a mix of my fault and theirs, but I want to increase my odds of having a good conversation or getting to know someone. A good majority of the people I match w... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to i keep a conversation interesting? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/amvbh7/how_to_i_keep_a_conversation_interesting/ |
Brennana_Bread | 2019-07-15 13:25:04 | 1,563,197,104 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | cdhfrn | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cdhfrn/is_it_worth_it_currently/ | 1 | Hey r/dating So I got a relatively simple question but one that I am having a hard time coming to a conclusion on. So, I (M 26) am currently in my last year of a college program in my hometown, I plan to continue my education and get a degree in another city, which is 12 hours away from my hometown, next year and it sh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it worth it currently? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cdhfrn/is_it_worth_it_currently/ |
amibeingused | 2014-03-14 22:43:51 | 1,394,837,031 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 20fu6n | null | null | 23 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/20fu6n/am_i_being_used/ | 8 | I met this guy on an online dating site. We went on about 4 dates. I am 20 and he is 22. On the third date, he asked me to be in a relationship with him. I said we should just see where this goes. Fast-forward to pass the fourth date, he says he just wants to be friends. Okay, fine with that I guess. We hadn't really k... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being used? | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/20fu6n/am_i_being_used/ |
Morgz789 | 2019-08-16 06:23:17 | 1,565,936,597 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | cr2fmp | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cr2fmp/first_time_meeting_someone_from_old/ | 11 | I rarely go on "dates." I usually meet people through a group, a similar interest (such as team sports) or through friends. After getting along in the "safety of the group" I tend to sometimes gravitate more to one person if we hit it off and things go from there, we'll start hanging out more, one on one, and sometimes... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | First time meeting someone from OLD | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cr2fmp/first_time_meeting_someone_from_old/ |
zavijava11 | 2023-02-03 18:41:19 | 1,675,449,679 | null | null | 0 | 10srpqf | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10srpqf/match_is_a_slow_communicatorshould_i_cancel_a/ | 29 | Hi everyone, I am a Female and other person is a Male. He usually takes around 24+ hours to reply to a message. This has been going on for about 2 weeks, but I've been patient and understanding that people may be busy with their lives. However, I would be the one to usually bring up topics to discuss/questions to ask, ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Match is a slow communicator...should I cancel a meeting? | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10srpqf/match_is_a_slow_communicatorshould_i_cancel_a/ |
Flan_man | 2015-07-28 19:33:51 | 1,438,112,031 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3exq5d | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3exq5d/is_she_actually_busy_or_was_she_just_trying_to_be/ | 3 | I matched on Tinder with a girl from high school (graduated 3 years ago) that I knew but wasn't close friends with. We've been on 3 dates. I'm kind of awkward/shy but I thought the 3 dates went well and we both had a nice time. When I asked her out this time, she kind of deflected it. I couldn't tell if she was actuall... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is she actually busy or was she just trying to be nice? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3exq5d/is_she_actually_busy_or_was_she_just_trying_to_be/ |
Thrownawaytoday1313 | 2022-07-28 16:45:44 | 1,659,026,744 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | waesdr | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/waesdr/dating_a_long_time_friend/ | 1 | I have been penpals with this person for a long time and recently we met up for the first time because they are moving to my city. They stayed with me for a week and we just sort of spent time with each other and went on trips to see things and show them the city. I kind of realised in the week I spent with them that m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a long time friend? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/waesdr/dating_a_long_time_friend/ |
[deleted] | 2013-08-26 05:16:38 | 1,377,494,198 | 0 | null | 0 | 1l3mnp | null | null | 0 | null | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1l3mnp/need_to_vent_about_just_one_thing_girls_suddenly/ | 1 | So everything's going good it seems, and it seems you're headed in the right direction, but then BAM. She just ignores you. ...I don't really understand. I understand that they may realize that they are not really interested anymore. Maybe they think you're boring. But why the hell do they have to just say nothing? How... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need to vent about just one thing: girls suddenly not replying | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1l3mnp/need_to_vent_about_just_one_thing_girls_suddenly/ |
ODB95 | 2023-02-17 01:41:42 | 1,676,598,102 | null | null | 0 | 1147ccy | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1147ccy/should_i_ask_this_girl_if_shes_just_looking_for/ | 0 | So basically sometime early last month I matched with this girl on hinge, I replied to one of her bio picks and she matched with me with a response. After my response after that she quit responding. Couple weeks go by and I try out this hookup dating app and low and behold I see her, it showed that she viewed my profil... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should I ask this girl if she’s just looking for something casual? | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1147ccy/should_i_ask_this_girl_if_shes_just_looking_for/ |
Avocado-Antique | 2023-12-02 02:59:28 | 1,701,485,968 | 0 | null | 0 | 188tyg0 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/188tyg0/badoo_scammers/ | 8 | I joined badoo this week and two of the guys I ended up talking to tried to get me into trading... anyone else experienced this? It was fuckong weird. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Badoo scammers? | 8 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/188tyg0/badoo_scammers/ |
AproposofNothing35 | 2019-12-14 18:45:39 | 1,576,349,139 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | eanisw | true | null | 60 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/eanisw/wednesday_night_tinder_date_30m_having_coffee/ | 0 | I had a fantastic tinder date Wednesday night in an amazing jazz club neither one of us had been to before. We talked for 3 1/2 hours about absurdism, philosophy, literature, etc and sat in my car for 30 mins outside the bar afterwards talking and kissing. I grab coffee today at noon and there he is, front and center t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Wednesday night Tinder date (30m) having coffee with another girl (not me 38f) today (Saturday) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/eanisw/wednesday_night_tinder_date_30m_having_coffee/ |
NerdyGirl614 | 2021-11-14 22:20:38 | 1,636,928,438 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | qu11xr | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qu11xr/i_shot_my_shot_now_im_in_anxious_limbo/ | 4 | I (37F) had been happily dating a man (38M) for a couple months and it felt easy, calm, comfortable. He initiated the exclusive talk, he sent lots of happy texts and would call me regularly in between dates, and it felt solid because of deep talks about anxiety and therapy and growth. We fell into a natural rhythm toge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I shot my shot! Now I’m in anxious limbo | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qu11xr/i_shot_my_shot_now_im_in_anxious_limbo/ |
mikewulberg | 2024-06-04 21:17:59 | 1,717,535,879 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d88gwb | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d88gwb/a_question_for_women_regarding_when_they_are_the/ | 2 | I (26M) been talking with someone (27F) that has a son, we've been talking every single day for 2 months and we met on Facebook dating. So given the amount of time we've been talking, the things we shared personally(nothing sexual), of course I made sure she was real and around other things that would indicate everythi... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | A question for women regarding when they are the ones that come up for the day of the date | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d88gwb/a_question_for_women_regarding_when_they_are_the/ |
Laughviathan | 2017-02-04 20:32:10 | 1,486,240,330 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5s2vx5 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5s2vx5/help_ya_boy_get_himself_a_man/ | 1 | I'm a gay man who derped his way out of the closet two years ago come spring break, and I'm trying to not be as single as I've been for the past 22 years (girls don't like guys who don't want girls, who would have thunk it). After striking out on Tinder and Grindr (ew), I'm resorting to the old-fashioned "finding peopl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help ya boy get himself a man | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5s2vx5/help_ya_boy_get_himself_a_man/ |
Calm_Steak_25 | 2023-12-12 10:58:48 | 1,702,378,728 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18gjcs4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18gjcs4/doubting_dates/ | 1 | I am almost 100% sure I have a disorganized attachment style and it's very difficult for me. I want to be intimate but I also am VERY fearful of it. However when I do feel I want a relationship and go on dates, I go on dating apps and talk to men. But then when I have these full on conversations for a week or 2 I'm sta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Doubting dates | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18gjcs4/doubting_dates/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-16 22:14:37 | 1,626,473,677 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | olrcrm | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/olrcrm/if_i_get_back_into_online_dating_should_i_shave/ | 1 | Is it always a turnoff? I have gray hair and so, gray beard. I’m sorry, I’m too shy to post a pic here. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If I get back into online dating should I shave my beard? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/olrcrm/if_i_get_back_into_online_dating_should_i_shave/ |
AlaskanMidnight | 2019-10-13 14:39:52 | 1,570,977,592 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dhbe3n | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dhbe3n/getting_back_into_dating_after_being_single/ | 3 | Hi 22F here. Little about myself. I've been single for over a year, my last relationship ended in disaster and only lasted a month, the relationship before that was a long term relationship where we met in highschool. I'm shy and socially anxious, I identify as demisexial (don't have sexual desires until an emotional r... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting back into dating after being single | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dhbe3n/getting_back_into_dating_after_being_single/ |
athabascagrizzly | 2024-09-27 18:31:08 | 1,727,461,868 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fqun59 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fqun59/regret_about_lack_of_crush_at_start_of/ | 0 | I absolutely love my partner and I am so happy. We've been together about 3 years and are both definitely in it for the long haul. But I have this wistful sadness about the fact that we met on Tinder so there wasn't much tension/excitement of a crush at the beginning. We were both very crush oriented people so I know i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Regret about lack of "crush" at start of relationship due to meeting on Tinder | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fqun59/regret_about_lack_of_crush_at_start_of/ |
throwawaylololool | 2014-05-08 14:26:24 | 1,399,559,184 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 251k8s | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/251k8s/what_to_do_in_this_case_29m/ | 4 | Hello dating_advice. I'm looking for advice on what to do in this situation. A while ago I met this cute girl on Tinder, and we hit it off. We're both 29. We talked for a bit and then we moved to BBM. There I asked her out on a date, she said absolutely. The day we were supposed to go out, she messaged me and said she ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do in this case? (29M) | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/251k8s/what_to_do_in_this_case_29m/ |
Bulky_Community_1720 | 2023-12-26 16:31:52 | 1,703,608,312 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18rbx7k | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18rbx7k/i_no_longer_feel_any_desire_to_date_or_meet_women/ | 1 | 29M, Since my breakup around 9 months ago, my desire for dating has become slim to none, and what's strange is that the trajectory has been reversed, meaning people usually tell you that right after a BU you'd have no desire to date and then it slowly increases, which was the case after my previous relationships, but a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I no longer feel any desire to date or meet women | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18rbx7k/i_no_longer_feel_any_desire_to_date_or_meet_women/ |
Grey_Mandy | 2024-01-22 17:56:24 | 1,705,946,184 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 19d1qhm | true | Seeking Advice | 49 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/19d1qhm/should_i_tell_the_guy_ive_only_met_three_times/ | 16 | I signed up the event in November and then met this guy on Hinge a few weeks ago. He told me that he is not talking or meeting with anyone else on the app, and I believe he is being honest with me. However, we have not made our relationship exclusive at this point, and I am not 100% sure about his feelings towards me. ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Should I tell the guy I've only met three times that I am attending a speed dating event? | 16 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/19d1qhm/should_i_tell_the_guy_ive_only_met_three_times/ |
rainflower02 | 2021-06-24 02:11:42 | 1,624,500,702 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | o6rdws | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o6rdws/lonesome_and_struggling_to_find_dates/ | 1 | Hello, I am a 37 yo transwoman, interested in men or women. Despite being a bit along in my transition and looking really cute and getting a lot of compliments, I struggle to find real dates and partners. I have tried dating apps (Tinder, OK Cupid, Plenty of Fish) and while the attention is flattering, they either just... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Lonesome and struggling to find dates | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o6rdws/lonesome_and_struggling_to_find_dates/ |
No-Upstairs5280 | 2023-01-20 17:30:47 | 1,674,235,847 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10h2uf8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10h2uf8/i_just_ended_a_relationship_and_im_afraid_i_did/ | 1 | To make a quick summary, I(27m) met this girl(27f) via tinder, she is Russian and lives in Spain, our relationship was supposed to be only for the 2 months she was in France but feelings (to tell the truth, it is the most beautiful relationship I've had in my life so far) quickly arrived and our plans changed , we deci... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just ended a relationship and I'm afraid I did something stupid | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10h2uf8/i_just_ended_a_relationship_and_im_afraid_i_did/ |
[deleted] | 2011-10-04 12:25:45 | 1,317,731,145 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | null | l0fwp | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/l0fwp/you_meet_someone_from_online_and_their_pictures/ | 1 | I've been on OKCupid for a little while now, and I've had a couple instances where I've met up with a girl to find that her pictures looked nothing like she actually does. I understand putting your best side forward in pictures, but I'm talking 40-50 pounds and prominent tattoos difference. Both times this has happened... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | You meet someone from online and their pictures were... inaccurate. What do you do? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/l0fwp/you_meet_someone_from_online_and_their_pictures/ |
Cloakydokibit | 2024-02-19 18:38:13 | 1,708,367,893 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1auutcd | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1auutcd/feeling_lonely_and_left_out/ | 2 | M20 here. Been single since I graduated from high school around three years ago and almost all my friends are dating or getting married. I guess just feel kind of jealous really. It's hard for me to find anyone. I have pretty bad social anxiety and awkwardness when meeting new people especially if they seem like my typ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling lonely and left out | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1auutcd/feeling_lonely_and_left_out/ |
ElectronicNuka | 2024-04-20 19:26:49 | 1,713,641,209 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1c8y8wh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c8y8wh/single/ | 2 | Hey guys, I am 27 years old. I work at a hospital. I love the outdoors I love traveling I love animals I’m very much country goth, I’m tired of being single I’m tired of using dating apps like Tinder, where guys act interested and then when you finally give them your time of day, they ghost you I just want to meet a ni... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Single | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c8y8wh/single/ |
littlensillybaby | 2023-01-19 23:37:32 | 1,674,171,452 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10ggy33 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ggy33/what_are_the_first_steps_to_moving_on_in_your/ | 1 | I've never been dumped - until now. I (22F) was the one to call my two relationships off because I felt they weren't working out, and though it sucked for a little bit, I was mostly checked out already and felt like moving on and meeting other people was easy. Then I met someone, fell in love, and was ghosted. I'm havi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are the first steps to moving on, in your experience? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ggy33/what_are_the_first_steps_to_moving_on_in_your/ |
LibertyJoel99 | 2021-07-08 12:41:50 | 1,625,748,110 | null | null | 0 | og6ezi | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/og6ezi/tinder_my_noob_boost_ran_out_half_of_them/ | 3 | I live in a low population area so I'm relying on single figures. I'm also on another app and plan to join more others over time so tinder isnt my only option Basically since I joined on Saturday: • I got 7 likes total • The number decreased by 3 so presumably they're deleted accounts, so basically I lost half of my re... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | [Tinder] My noob boost ran out, half of them disappeared (deleted accounts?) and the other half have been ghosts. I live in a low population area and have 0 likes left. Should I delete my account and restart 3 months later? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/og6ezi/tinder_my_noob_boost_ran_out_half_of_them/ |
Cold-Dust-Girl | 2024-05-30 05:07:16 | 1,717,045,636 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1d3wals | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d3wals/am_i_too_oldfashioned_andor_sensitive/ | 11 | I met a guy on Bumble and we really seemed to hit it off from the get go. Over the course of a month, we texted each other daily, pretty much all throughout the day, and we also went out on 5 dates during this time. He told me multiple times how much he liked me, how glad he was to have met me, and that he thought I wa... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Am I too old-fashioned and/or sensitive? | 9 | 0.65 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d3wals/am_i_too_oldfashioned_andor_sensitive/ |
Shycho1 | 2023-12-08 01:36:06 | 1,701,999,366 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 18dbdn0 | true | Question ❓ | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18dbdn0/where_do_people_meet_nowadays/ | 1 | Besides dating apps and going to the bar, how do you meet new people? The only instances I meet someone new is because of work or a friend of a friend. And my hobbies are things that I can stay in the house for. After my last relationship I don’t want to use a dating app, but in this day and age what other way is there... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where do people meet nowadays?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18dbdn0/where_do_people_meet_nowadays/ |
throwRAtumbleweed12 | 2023-11-10 15:31:31 | 1,699,630,291 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating app'] | 0 | 17s6ghy | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17s6ghy/7_hour_date_then_he_broke_it_off_after/ | 2 | A few months ago I met someone on an app. We hopped onto a call and immediately got along great. Each of our calls would last hours at a time. We were compatible in values, future plans and had so much in common. We were very compatible and I remember thinking that I’m glad everyone before him didn’t work out because I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 7 hour date then he broke it off after | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17s6ghy/7_hour_date_then_he_broke_it_off_after/ |
bountyhunterxx | 2024-04-12 13:30:13 | 1,712,928,613 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1c2978m | true | null | 138 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c2978m/i_go_to_dates_but_women_always_see_a_friend_vibe/ | 146 | This thing happened to me four times this month. I am really pissed. I get decent matches on Tinder and set up dates with women I also find attractive. We talk over text for a week and have couple phone calls and we both seem into each other. Once we meet in real life they always get the friend vibe?? What could be the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I go to dates but women always see a “friend vibe” | 146 | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c2978m/i_go_to_dates_but_women_always_see_a_friend_vibe/ |
[deleted] | 2020-10-12 14:25:45 | 1,602,512,745 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | j9rtgu | true | null | 162 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/j9rtgu/any_genuine_dating_advice_for_a_short_ethnic_man/ | 181 | note: Reposting from another subreddit because I would like advice from an older demographic. A little about me - I'm a 5'4" brown man with Asperger's syndrome in his early 30s who lives in a large, diverse metro area. Professionally and personally I feel like I have a life I can be proud of - I'm a professional who ma... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Any genuine dating advice for a short ethnic man on the autistic spectrum? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j9rtgu/any_genuine_dating_advice_for_a_short_ethnic_man/ |
ResponsibleGoat4930 | 2021-06-20 14:59:18 | 1,624,201,158 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | o47ikk | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o47ikk/how_have_people_met_significant_others/ | 1 | Just curious if people have met more in the online dating realm or just by simply going out and shooting a shot. Blessed day all ❤️. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How have people met significant others? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o47ikk/how_have_people_met_significant_others/ |
tooshytoaskyou | 2020-10-29 04:26:02 | 1,603,945,562 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'OLD', 'bumble'] | 0 | jk3l75 | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/jk3l75/about_old_apps/ | 4 | I've read here and other subs like r/Bumble and r/datingoverforty that men have a harder time matching on the swipe style apps. Is that true? Or maybe true for younger men? I was on bumble for 3 weeks and only got 1 match (at the end of wk 3). And that was a terrible match (not similar in any of our bio's drinking/reli... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | About OLD apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/jk3l75/about_old_apps/ |
anged16 | 2022-12-06 07:56:52 | 1,670,313,412 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | zdzupp | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zdzupp/on_hinge_should_i_be_wary_of_someone_who_matched/ | 0 | Just seems a bit odd that they’d come back to my match a month later | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | On Hinge should I be wary of someone who matched with me today when I liked their response a month before? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zdzupp/on_hinge_should_i_be_wary_of_someone_who_matched/ |
DarkSeeker_Jinx | 2022-05-18 10:39:29 | 1,652,870,369 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | us9x8e | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/us9x8e/so_what_to_do/ | 2 | I am a 19m who has never really been in the dating game, and I want to start trying. I do online college, currently looking for a job, and don't go out much except for longboarding and archery. I have no idea on how to go out and meet people, let alone trying to have potential relationships with people. (Please don't r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So what to do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/us9x8e/so_what_to_do/ |
Pane502 | 2018-12-16 06:44:33 | 1,544,942,673 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | a6n18k | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a6n18k/recently_divorced_and_sucked_at_dating_my_entire/ | 3 | After a bad divorce, I've been free for 2 months. While trying to get back on the scene with all the online dating apps and bar hopping I've been greatly dissapointed. Online dating: I've tried plenty of fish, Match and Tinder. I recieved no bites from woman under 250lbs.... so then.. I've been bar hopping, and flirted... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Recently divorced and sucked at dating my entire life, how can I get better at 30? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a6n18k/recently_divorced_and_sucked_at_dating_my_entire/ |
throwaway_RA_surg | 2022-04-24 20:17:07 | 1,650,831,427 | null | ['matched', 'dating site'] | 0 | ub3arh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ub3arh/is_this_a_terrible_idea/ | 0 | Ok so I (23F) recently matched with a guy (24M) on a dating site and he’s like super hot. Like he looks like Henry Cavil sort of, level of hot. The issue is that I’m like objectively not that cute, like if I was to rate myself I’d give myself a 5-6 and say I’m ok but nothing special to look at. Honestly the main thing ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this a terrible idea?? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ub3arh/is_this_a_terrible_idea/ |
Endersnap | 2022-02-04 09:30:04 | 1,643,967,004 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | sk988h | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sk988h/dating_advice_needed_after_a_long_break_from_the/ | 1 | Hello everyone. So I am 23 year old Indian British born male who has been in two relationships in the past. After the first one ended I went on a 5 year hiatus on relationships to improve myself socially, physically, mentally etc. This also at some point meant that I didn't pursue some women who were interested in me w... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice needed after a long break from the scene | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sk988h/dating_advice_needed_after_a_long_break_from_the/ |
sweatypeet | 2020-07-21 18:33:27 | 1,595,356,407 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | hvcydw | true | Venting | 42 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hvcydw/who_said_looks_arent_everything/ | 16 | Hello everyone.. i’m sorry in advance for the long depressing thing I’m about to write.. this topic touches my heart in a bad way.. it makes me cry and sad.. i’m not a wimp I always present myself as a strong guy so keep this in mind.. i’m a 23 year old dentistry student With above average income.. let’s say I have nev... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Who said looks aren't everything? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hvcydw/who_said_looks_arent_everything/ |
Cwktjes | 2018-07-19 07:19:08 | 1,531,984,748 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 903oc2 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/903oc2/coworker_f_is_interested_i_m_was_too_briefly_but/ | 6 | I like to think I'm fairly apt at communication in dating, but I'm throwing this one to you guys. I'm bad a keeping things brief but at least this'll provide ample context: A new co-worker came in our department several months ago. We hit it of in a friendly manner, but it was obvious she was interested. I was a bit ta... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Co-worker (F) is interested. I (M) was too, briefly, but am now dating someone else. How to proceed? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/903oc2/coworker_f_is_interested_i_m_was_too_briefly_but/ |
warflak | 2022-09-05 21:58:31 | 1,662,415,111 | null | null | 0 | x6sl62 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x6sl62/what_is_the_dating_scene_like_in_the_philippines/ | 0 | I’m American and have been on every major dating app, and have noted a great deal of foreigners,if not hailing from Mexico or China end up being from the Philippines(looking at OKC, tinder and bumble). Mexico’s scene tends to lean to hookups and China seems more serious/long term. What’s the Philippines like? There’s a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What is the dating scene like in the Philippines? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x6sl62/what_is_the_dating_scene_like_in_the_philippines/ |
dizzy_dunkan | 2024-09-02 02:31:52 | 1,725,244,312 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1f6vxfx | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6vxfx/anyone_feel_they_arent_attracted_enough_to_date/ | 0 | Hi I'm a 30 year old man and never had a girlfriend. Anyway, there's zero women interested in me. I'm not terrible looking, I get expensive haircuts, I wear nice, brand name clothes that are good quality but express casualness. I workout, eat healthy, have a low bodyfat, take care of my skin, eyebrows, probably far mor... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone feel they aren't attracted enough to date anyone? | 0 | 0.44 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6vxfx/anyone_feel_they_arent_attracted_enough_to_date/ |
Mental_Complaint2200 | 2021-11-10 05:48:11 | 1,636,523,291 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | qqne22 | true | Question | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qqne22/do_you_really_enjoy_online_dating/ | 5 | For reference I(25 F) have never online dated in this new scene of Hinge, Tinder, Bumble ect. I just know about it through my friends and my siblings. I met my BF in high school and we started talking though Facebook and funny enough 11 years later there is now Facebook dating.. I am just so curious as to if people rea... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you really enjoy online dating? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qqne22/do_you_really_enjoy_online_dating/ |
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