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octoberelectrocute | 2022-03-31 17:29:35 | 1,648,747,775 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | tt4yrz | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/tt4yrz/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_i_told_a_man_to/ | 3 | Long story incoming! I know that Reddit has always been notoriously pro-choice and I respect people's ability to have different moral compasses. It is not my business to judge but for myself, I personally could never do it. In this situation I find myself in, even I, pro-life, cradle Catholic as I am considered abortio... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | For the first time in my life, I told a man to keep his sanctimonious nose out of my uterus. (x-post to r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide) | null | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/tt4yrz/for_the_first_time_in_my_life_i_told_a_man_to/ |
HarrayS_34 | 2022-12-25 04:08:02 | 1,671,941,282 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | zuq7t9 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zuq7t9/is_this_what_casual_dating_like/ | 0 | I went on the first date with this guy. He said he’s not looking for anything serious because his last relationship was toxic but he is opened for more if it does lead to that, I’m fine with it bc the sex was good. However he texts very little. He did told me after our date ends that for the upcoming weeks he’ll be sup... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this what casual dating like? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zuq7t9/is_this_what_casual_dating_like/ |
JD_Observe | 2021-03-18 13:24:23 | 1,616,073,863 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | m7qqb2 | true | Venting | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m7qqb2/beauty_is_relative/ | 1 | So I am a regular user of Tinder and Bumble, although I have to admit that I haven't really been too focussed on it recently as I am currently going through a bit of a self transformation, however I am very open about this on my profile and get a fair number of matches with some lovely people. I have never really had a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Beauty is relative | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m7qqb2/beauty_is_relative/ |
grunger1929 | 2021-07-29 15:21:29 | 1,627,572,089 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | otzjyu | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/otzjyu/why_keep_yourself_connected_through_social_media/ | 3 | I was out of the dating scene for a few years (was in a relationship, then took a couple years off after that for career/just not being ready to date). I dabbled very little in using dating apps before recently. I clicked with a guy, hooked up, caught feelings as we kept talking, but for him he felt that we couldn't be... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Why keep yourself connected through social media with a hook up you don't see a future with? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/otzjyu/why_keep_yourself_connected_through_social_media/ |
SunShine13367 | 2021-05-05 18:07:28 | 1,620,238,048 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | n5mf5u | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n5mf5u/what_the_best_dating_advice_for_singles_you_ever/ | 1 | When you are tired being single You hate dating apps You friends are busy | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What the best dating advice for singles you ever received? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n5mf5u/what_the_best_dating_advice_for_singles_you_ever/ |
angel_in_black | 2020-02-13 05:45:12 | 1,581,572,712 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | f359w3 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f359w3/cant_tell_what_im_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I’m almost thirty. Rough childhood filled with bullying, teenage years weren’t much better, twenties filled with attempts at a better life but all end in failure. Now the confusion comes from the fact that for all my self esteem problems, I DO NOT think I’m a loser. I try hard everyday to show ppl that there are still ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can’t tell what I’m doing wrong | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f359w3/cant_tell_what_im_doing_wrong/ |
amack8 | 2023-08-01 03:48:05 | 1,690,861,685 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15f1aw8 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15f1aw8/need_help_dont_know_what_went_wrong/ | 1 | So I (23 F) matched with a guy (23 M) on Hinge. We hit it off right away, we both have the same sense of humour, interests, and we got along really well. I am not a flirty type, I tend to joke around/chirp as a way of showing interest and he said he really liked that about me because he was the same. We talked and got ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help- don't know what went wrong... | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15f1aw8/need_help_dont_know_what_went_wrong/ |
Rig839 | 2024-09-27 16:04:36 | 1,727,453,076 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fqr9vs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fqr9vs/should_i_wait_for_her/ | 1 | I met a girl on tinder and we really hit it off, she told me at the start that she wasn't able to meet because of her living situation but it should be fixed soon. We kept chatting and moved to Instagram. The conversation got a bit sexual and she was very clear and explicit in her desire for me. She then let me know th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I Wait For Her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fqr9vs/should_i_wait_for_her/ |
Feisty_Mongoose4045 | 2023-07-14 04:14:17 | 1,689,308,057 | 0 | null | 0 | 14z5zz6 | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14z5zz6/finally_accepted_im_a_type/ | 1 | Accepted it for the next hour by 11pm I'll reject it. But yeah like the title says some girls will be into me some won't. I think I've has 3 girls hit on me in the past 48 hours but not like specific to me just like them sending out the hey I'm single and ready to mingle any takers? Cause I've listened to a girl say sh... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Finally accepted I'm a type | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14z5zz6/finally_accepted_im_a_type/ |
Myteddyis24 | 2017-03-27 18:43:25 | 1,490,640,205 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 61u2ej | null | null | 24 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/61u2ej/period_presents/ | 15 | Just wanted to share the story of my fiancé who R-E-S-P-E-C-T's the special parts of being a woman. We're not perfect but every month he gets me a period present. Once it was a lamp, sometimes bath stuff, hot water bottle, nice new shampoo/condition. Today it was an extra fancy bath gift. He says it's his way to make t... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Period presents | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/61u2ej/period_presents/ |
anonymouspiscesgirl | 2020-10-16 15:49:01 | 1,602,863,341 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | jcc9ko | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jcc9ko/anyone_realized_anything_after_a_series_of_online/ | 1 | For most, including me, modern dating really never turned out good and nothing progressed. I've been in online dating apps for about 3 years, met a number of guys, but no one really sticked around for long and honestly, I'm getting pretty sick and tired of it :/ | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Anyone realized anything after a series of online dating? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jcc9ko/anyone_realized_anything_after_a_series_of_online/ |
GoldenYoshi99 | 2024-06-12 02:47:37 | 1,718,160,457 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ddwb8v | true | Question ❓ | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ddwb8v/should_men_shave_stomachchest_hair/ | 1 | Matched with a woman on hinge. Pretty much first conversation we're making plans. So far we're gonna do a few things around town, then go on a lake trip together later. Let's assume I'm not about to be murdered and have my body dumped into a lake... should I shave my chest and stomach hair? Frankly I'm not REALLY a hai... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should men shave stomach/chest hair? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ddwb8v/should_men_shave_stomachchest_hair/ |
DoubleToothedNarwhal | 2022-08-27 15:09:39 | 1,661,612,979 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wz56sv | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wz56sv/dating_is_frustrating/ | 23 | I wanted to post here instead of relationship advice or something because I'm fairly certain the guy I'm seeing doesn't follow this sub. Also I know you all will tell me like it is. I've had horrible luck with dating lately, guys ghosting when I'm thinking things are going fine, people not respecting my boundaries, lyi... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Dating is frustrating | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/wz56sv/dating_is_frustrating/ |
KingRanter | 2012-10-18 00:09:58 | 1,350,518,998 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 11nsf3 | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/11nsf3/m20_im_afraid_my_recently_developed/ | 3 | I just got out of a relationship a little while ago. We met online, and when we decided to meet up we really hit it off. We were only dating for about a month and a half (although, with my luck, it was the longest I was ever able to last). We both liked to play video games, so whenever we got together, the activity of ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M/20] I'm afraid my recently developed close-mindedness is making me far too picky about dating. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11nsf3/m20_im_afraid_my_recently_developed/ |
babywarhead | 2024-09-14 00:17:11 | 1,726,273,031 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1fg9m27 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fg9m27/dating_through_grief/ | 1 | uh.. it’d be nice to maybe be on a dating app for people already exposed to the various relationships there are with grief? At least for me..specifically having recently lost my mom, who wast the best friend I could ever ask for and at 28 with not many people around dealing with that kind of thing… Dating is hard af an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating through grief……….. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fg9m27/dating_through_grief/ |
Radiant-Inevitable75 | 2024-07-15 21:56:13 | 1,721,080,573 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1e47gvr | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 26 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e47gvr/people_are_so_brutal_on_dating_apps/ | 13 | I’m on 3 dating apps rn and I’m kind of tired of when guys match with me and don’t make a move or ghost me when I do initiate the convo. So I started asking them politely why they ghosted or didn’t make the first move. Here are the reasons in order of most popular: 1. I was busy. I ask back, they didn’t seem too busy t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | People are so brutal on dating apps 🥲 | 13 | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e47gvr/people_are_so_brutal_on_dating_apps/ |
Interiorizer | 2021-05-08 19:45:31 | 1,620,503,131 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | n7wx0x | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n7wx0x/after_a_long_and_exceptionally_pleasant_time/ | 3 | tl;dr I (30m) met on Tinder a girl (27f), after hundreds of lighthearted and flirty messages she says she can’t meet because of her pushing away people and building walls between her and others. I’m dumbfounded and can’t stop thinking about it. Imagine you have met a person who you have an exquisitely aligned vibe: the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | After a long and exceptionally pleasant time texting she said she’s afraid of disappointing me. What’s that supposed to mean? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n7wx0x/after_a_long_and_exceptionally_pleasant_time/ |
justdontgiveadam | 2019-09-16 21:40:25 | 1,568,670,025 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | d574zb | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d574zb/texting_a_guy_i_have_yet_to_meet_hes_kind_of_mean/ | 2 | So I met a guy from a dating app. He was sarcastic and funny at first which is the type of humor I’m attracted to. He asked me out for sometime this week. We’ve been texting off the app now for a couple of days. He seemed cool at first, but now just says kind of mean things. I understand sarcasm doesn’t always translat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Texting a guy I have yet to meet. He’s kind of mean. Should I still meet up with him? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d574zb/texting_a_guy_i_have_yet_to_meet_hes_kind_of_mean/ |
Square-Statement-841 | 2024-09-15 17:48:43 | 1,726,422,523 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1fhiing | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fhiing/ive_28m_met_someone_22f_but_it_hurts/ | 1 | So I met her on Tinder, she showed me a lot of interest from the beginning and I'm very very attracted to her. We have been talking for a while and we had our first date last night, we ended up spending the night together. We kissed a lot during the date, first woman I've ever kissed she doesn't know that, and I know I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I've (28m) met someone (22f), but it hurts. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fhiing/ive_28m_met_someone_22f_but_it_hurts/ |
Sidd1dec | 2024-01-11 16:48:58 | 1,704,991,738 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 194671m | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/194671m/opinions_on_online_dating/ | 1 | Meeting someone who’s thousand of km away from you and then dating | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opinions on Online Dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/194671m/opinions_on_online_dating/ |
borealis_aurorae | 2022-12-17 02:35:31 | 1,671,244,531 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | znw2ht | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/znw2ht/on_the_not_so_recent_revival_of_company/ | 0 | Full disclosure, I didn’t have the privilege of seeing the show while it was playing, but I did have the pleasure of seeing the same sort of gender-bent casting that my college did a couple years ago. If you’re not familiar with the show, the plot centers around a man (Bobby) who is approaching his mid/late thirties an... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | On the (not so recent) revival of Company | null | 0.45 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/znw2ht/on_the_not_so_recent_revival_of_company/ |
Greatballsofcheese | 2014-12-10 23:00:30 | 1,418,252,430 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2oww8a | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/2oww8a/first_ever_date_what_do/ | 2 | So far I never managed to get a date with anyone. Now I started with online dating and managed to get a date with a girl. We have chatted for a couple of days, send some selfies and I have the impression it went quite well. Now the date is coming up and I'm not quite sure how to do stuff. We are going to meet in a cafe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First ever date. What do? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2oww8a/first_ever_date_what_do/ |
gracia23k | 2023-02-10 04:32:21 | 1,676,003,541 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10yg8ux | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10yg8ux/message_after_no_response_dating_app/ | 0 | Hey I'm Gracia hot 🔥🔥 girl 🥰🥰 add me snap gracia23k | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Message After No Response Dating App | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10yg8ux/message_after_no_response_dating_app/ |
CrystalSparroww | 2023-10-16 12:20:17 | 1,697,458,817 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1794od7 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1794od7/i_know_its_stupid_to_even_think_about_it_but/ | 1 | I was on first date with one guy this Friday. He is extremely busy, traveling between Europe and USA for his work etc. Usually he live in Europe tho, so it's shouldn't be a problem. I met him on Tinder. He gave me a lot of compliments, nothing intimate happened between us, but it was rather hugs and he was a gentleman.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I know it's stupid to even think about it, but.. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1794od7/i_know_its_stupid_to_even_think_about_it_but/ |
d8throwaway1005 | 2020-08-16 06:11:08 | 1,597,558,268 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ianhc7 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ianhc7/am_i_missing_out_on_something_great_because_my/ | 2 | So a couple months ago I (19F) started talking to this girl (21F) from tinder. We texted for around a month and went out twice (both texted for covid before and everything) and honestly, I’ve never had a connection that great with anyone before. She was just so easy to talk to, it was never awkward, and we got along in... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I missing out on something great because my standards are too high? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ianhc7/am_i_missing_out_on_something_great_because_my/ |
darth_cole | 2020-12-12 00:14:16 | 1,607,732,056 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | kbeqjz | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kbeqjz/matched_with_someone_on_bumble_any_good_date_ideas/ | 1 | Ive (23) been talking with this girl (25) ive matched with for a couple of days and have had really good conversation with her. I dont want to keep texting and possibly have either side lose interest because we havent met in person. Are there any in-person date idea recommendations you could give me while obviously bei... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Matched with someone on bumble... any good date ideas? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kbeqjz/matched_with_someone_on_bumble_any_good_date_ideas/ |
Glittering-Usual5261 | 2020-10-29 11:04:01 | 1,603,969,441 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped'] | 0 | jk7zfg | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jk7zfg/getting_into_a_relationship_because_they_chose/ | 7 | It occurred to me recently that I tend to fall into a relationship with someone (whether short or long) because they also "swiped" on me and not because they are someone I would actively pursue. Here's how this happens: We swipe on each other, have several short conversations back and forth, talk on the phone, (not ste... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting into a relationship because they chose you, not cause you like them | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jk7zfg/getting_into_a_relationship_because_they_chose/ |
unknown_orb10 | 2023-11-06 02:09:17 | 1,699,236,557 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17os764 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17os764/blocked_after_a_good_first_date/ | 1 | So I went on a first date Friday night with a girl I met on Tinder. We had a great time, she said she wanted adventure so we had dinner and did a night hike and saw a great view of city, talked at a beautiful park at night walked around and ended up back at my place and watched a movie. We hooked up and it was great, d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Blocked after a good first date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17os764/blocked_after_a_good_first_date/ |
Zealousideal-Set3058 | 2023-08-01 23:01:16 | 1,690,930,876 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15frpon | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15frpon/im_really_hurt_dont_understand_why_this_happened/ | 1 | Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/LDR/comments/144l9s8/what_have_your_experiences_been_like_getting_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 I met a guy online dating and we’ve been consistently talking with each other. we’ve talked about what we both want and are looking f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I’m really hurt: don’t understand why this happened? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15frpon/im_really_hurt_dont_understand_why_this_happened/ |
helojapes | 2021-07-12 13:12:23 | 1,626,095,543 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | oiqz0g | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/oiqz0g/which_do_ladies_prefer/ | 0 | Bumble, Tinder, Old, Hinge???? | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Which do ladies prefer? | null | 0.36 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/oiqz0g/which_do_ladies_prefer/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-07 02:13:13 | 1,625,623,993 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | of9k5f | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/of9k5f/women_and_dating_tribes_i_think_i_am_done_going/ | 1 | Ok so I have been on the dating game since forever and I have come to the conclusion that there are certain tribes that women belong to(and men too). I live in Canada and from my experience the traditional Canadian women on average will not accept easily a guy that looks like he does not belong to his tribe(if you're e... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Women and dating tribes. I think I am done going after the wrong ones. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/of9k5f/women_and_dating_tribes_i_think_i_am_done_going/ |
Esmond_Mutt2323 | 2021-08-18 18:17:17 | 1,629,310,637 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | p6wvvs | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/p6wvvs/match_events_ever_try_one/ | 1 | On a whim, I (M,45) signed up for a Match.com-sponsored event in my area. I had received an email alleging that "more women have signed up than men". I figured why not give it a shot, it sounds fun, plus I am kid-free on Sunday evening, which is rare. Obviously, it's an event where most are there to try to meet someone... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Match Events - ever try one? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/p6wvvs/match_events_ever_try_one/ |
absreim | 2015-09-11 21:20:45 | 1,442,006,445 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3klcc3 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3klcc3/do_any_of_have_trouble_getting_friends_to_go_out/ | 13 | Most guys I know flat out refuse to try anything other than online dating despite being single and miserable. The few who are willing are already in relationships and seem to have never had problems finding them throughout their lives, but aren't eligible wingmen because they are already attached. I've even had a frien... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Do any of have trouble getting friends to go out with you for the purpose of meeting girls? | 13 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3klcc3/do_any_of_have_trouble_getting_friends_to_go_out/ |
Gr33nBeanery | 2024-02-20 03:21:44 | 1,708,399,304 | 0 | null | 0 | 1av7i9l | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1av7i9l/got_ghosted_and_stoop_up_on_a_date_all_in_one_week/ | 37 | Omg, my self esteem is WRECKED. I just posted on here about getting ghosted by a dude who I def thought I was gonna see again. Well, onto the next right. This dude asked me out about a week ago but i already had other commitments. So today since I was free I asked if he wanted to grab a drink. Literally, so enthusiasti... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Got ghosted and stoop up on a date all in one week | 34 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1av7i9l/got_ghosted_and_stoop_up_on_a_date_all_in_one_week/ |
whyworkwhy | 2024-09-06 15:53:24 | 1,725,638,004 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1failib | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1failib/excessive_texting/ | 2 | I started texting this guy about two weeks ago after matching on a dating app. The first few days were great—interesting conversations, and we'd exchange texts maybe 1-2 times a day. But after that, things took a turn. He started texting a lot - like 5-6 times a day—and the conversations are very repetitive like "Good ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Excessive texting | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1failib/excessive_texting/ |
Deege-Ayy | 2024-03-28 04:51:38 | 1,711,601,498 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bpn7vz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bpn7vz/why_is_it_that_enmpolyamory_has_become_so_popular/ | 3 | I’m a single male, not necessarily looking to get into a relationship ASAP, but looking all the same… I’m on a handful of dating apps. On each I see a good majority of the profiles saying they are ENM/Polyamorous and dating separately. I really have no idea why this has become such a common thing nowadays. Is it just t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is it that ENM/Polyamory has become so popular in the dating world? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bpn7vz/why_is_it_that_enmpolyamory_has_become_so_popular/ |
AgileWater | 2019-04-09 13:50:37 | 1,554,817,837 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bb86bu | true | null | 51 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bb86bu/22_yr_old_virgin_sabotaging_my_only_chances_at/ | 2 | I'm 22 and have never kissed, never been on a date. I'm not entirely sure how it got to that point, but here I am. I have basically been badly self-sabotaging every chance I've had with a girl for 4 years. I have a deep fear of rejection and basically have used that as an excuse to never express interest in girls, even... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 22 yr old virgin sabotaging my only chances at relationships. How do I stop doing this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bb86bu/22_yr_old_virgin_sabotaging_my_only_chances_at/ |
TheBusyness101 | 2023-10-07 02:19:56 | 1,696,645,196 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 171utng | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/171utng/stuck_with_no_way_out_advice/ | 1 | Looking for any advice for a 28/M. Single with a few associates and friends. Looking to meet woman to settle down with. I walk around all the time and see men with attractive girlfriends. They just look so happy and I’m just like HOW? HOW DID YOU PULL THAT OFF? What do I need to do? I know I’m good looking and dress we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stuck with no way out (Advice) | 1 | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/171utng/stuck_with_no_way_out_advice/ |
ArkaStevey | 2017-05-05 11:12:57 | 1,493,982,777 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 69e1aj | null | null | 117 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/69e1aj/how_do_you_deal_with_feelings_of_loneliness_or/ | 155 | I'm studying for my final exams of university, probably the most important time of my life... and yet I can't help but feel romantically lonely on a daily basis, a pretty big distraction. I can't really resolve it too easily because i'm so busy, and the 'easy' methods such as Tinder aren't really working out for me at ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do you deal with feelings of loneliness or desperation? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/69e1aj/how_do_you_deal_with_feelings_of_loneliness_or/ |
Neopint15 | 2023-12-29 03:13:27 | 1,703,819,607 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 18tcqy2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18tcqy2/toxic_behaviour_by_women/ | 5 | Didn’t know what else to title this, but I’ll explain. I’ve become more careful with online dating as I have aged and moved to a new city. Part of this is scoping out those “Are we dating the same guy” groups to make sure I stay safe because I don’t have my friends around me like I once did. I posted one guy and it wen... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Toxic behaviour by women? | 5 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18tcqy2/toxic_behaviour_by_women/ |
TAKA-94 | 2020-07-02 09:28:16 | 1,593,682,096 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | hjtx0q | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hjtx0q/general_advice_needed/ | 4 | Hi everyone. First of all a few words to describe my situation. I'm 25/M and haven't had a girlfriend in my life. Didn't even kiss a girl. I'm tall but overweight, introvert and I have a low self esteem. I'm very shy around people I don't know, especially around girls. So I never asked anyone out. And I've never had th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | General advice needed | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hjtx0q/general_advice_needed/ |
[deleted] | 2012-03-25 17:45:26 | 1,332,697,526 | 0 | ['online dating'] | null | rcvt3 | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/rcvt3/single_guy_in_need_of_some_assistance_reddit_can/ | 1 | About 2 years ago I moved out of my apartment with my fiance with the intend of staying together. We had been together for about 7 years. Long story short. She broke my heart. In the time apart I have lost 87lbs, gained some muscle, moved in with one of my best friends, changed jobs and have made a lot of personal impr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Single guy in need of some assistance. Reddit can you please help me? 25M | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rcvt3/single_guy_in_need_of_some_assistance_reddit_can/ |
IcyWillingness2 | 2018-07-29 20:02:34 | 1,532,894,554 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 92xkdj | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/92xkdj/i_have_a_facial_scar_i_need_some_dating_advice/ | 2 | I posted on r/relationships but it got removed and suggested I post here I was in a car accident 18 months ago. My boyfriend (at the time) was driving. I got quite badly injured, including a large, deep cut on my face that only just missed my eye. It required major surgery and as a result I now have a big scar on my fa... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I have a facial scar. I need some dating advice | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/92xkdj/i_have_a_facial_scar_i_need_some_dating_advice/ |
kinkynulio | 2022-06-27 13:06:07 | 1,656,335,167 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | vlv355 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vlv355/third_date_ideas/ | 0 | we met on tinder, our first date was at a bar, second date at the restaurant he works and went for drinks with his coworkers. we’re gonna go out today but still haven’t figured out what to do. i suck at making plans and he’s super spontaneous so i’m not quite sure what to do. he’s also trying to come up with an idea. w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | third date ideas? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vlv355/third_date_ideas/ |
GFK96 | 2023-01-24 02:31:36 | 1,674,527,496 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10juv62 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10juv62/if_you_both_confess_that_youve_caught_feelings_do/ | 3 | Ok so I’ve been talking to this girl for 4 months now. We talk every day and have wonderful conversations and have really gotten into some deep and personal stuff and have built a meaningful connection. Initially when we met, it was as friends, not like through a dating app where there is a clear intention of it being ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If you both confess that you’ve caught feelings, do you expect sexual exclusivity? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10juv62/if_you_both_confess_that_youve_caught_feelings_do/ |
Bucketeer-715 | 2024-06-05 20:11:13 | 1,717,618,273 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1d8zl11 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d8zl11/wait_for_college_or_use_apps/ | 1 | I (19M) have never been in a relationship before but I’m home all summer. I was on a gap year so I didn’t get to date (traveling and other stuff) and I never dated in high school. I’ll be attending college this fall. I have been using hinge to potentially start dating but I’m wondering if it’s futile considering colleg... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Wait for college or use apps | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d8zl11/wait_for_college_or_use_apps/ |
DipMyDickInMyShit | 2019-02-04 20:18:46 | 1,549,311,526 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | an5t9r | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/an5t9r/matching_women_on_any_dating_app_or_website_when/ | 1 | I don’t know if anyone also experiences it this way, but whenever I go out to try and match women. I feel like I have it “extra difficult” to match women because I’m a minority. I feel like the one odd fish that doesn’t belong to any group in the vast ocean that’s the dating world. I’m a person of color (with an Asian ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matching women on any dating app or website, when you’re the (absolute) minority? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/an5t9r/matching_women_on_any_dating_app_or_website_when/ |
ayLotte | 2024-09-19 20:29:17 | 1,726,777,757 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fku9ai | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fku9ai/tinder_first_messages_no_read/ | 4 | First time using Tinder but not other apps. The last days I've matched with many men I liked (I liked them first, so we were both active this week). I sent 15 of them first messages but got 0 answers. I was confused, because these were men with whom I have a lot of not conventional things in common, etc. I'm ready to h... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder first messages "no read" | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fku9ai/tinder_first_messages_no_read/ |
FacelessSavant | 2023-04-14 20:08:20 | 1,681,502,900 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 12mbnje | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/12mbnje/am_i_boring_or_something_else/ | 2 | (26M) So... I finally matched, AND had a conversation with someone. The problem is, she responds like once a week. Except for Easter weekend. She was comparatively more responsive then. About 3 messages a day. I've literally never had this problem with anyone before. Family, friends, coworkers... everyone is always fai... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I boring or something else? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/12mbnje/am_i_boring_or_something_else/ |
colleencc123 | 2018-01-26 20:03:59 | 1,516,997,039 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7t789m | false | null | 28 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/7t789m/what_is_your_age_range_on_tinder/ | 0 | And how old are you? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What is your "age range" on tinder? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/7t789m/what_is_your_age_range_on_tinder/ |
[deleted] | 2019-05-30 12:19:25 | 1,559,218,765 | null | ['OLD', 'dating app', 'dating sites'] | 0 | busgq4 | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/busgq4/old_what_was_the_longest_you_waited_to_meetgo_on/ | 2 | (35m) Since my divorce 4 years ago, I have hit up some of the dating sites. I am a "strike while the iron is hot" type guy and 90% of the dates I have been on from OLD consisted of talking/texting for less than 48 hours before we made plans and met up. Making it quick avoids the awkward massaging for days type crap. No... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD: What was the longest you waited to meet/go on a date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/busgq4/old_what_was_the_longest_you_waited_to_meetgo_on/ |
Gillindor | 2021-06-09 19:55:52 | 1,623,268,552 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | nw4rsx | true | I Need Advice | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nw4rsx/feeling_like_im_carrying_the_convocation_way_too/ | 3 | So like most single guys in their early 20’s (23M) I’ve joined tinder. Really went into this not expecting much at all but was hoping for at least a decent chat with a few girls. I can honestly say that within 7 months of being on this dating app that I am really struggling to match with anyone who feels like they actu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling like I’m carrying the convocation way too much | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nw4rsx/feeling_like_im_carrying_the_convocation_way_too/ |
dbd00 | 2020-11-17 20:59:04 | 1,605,646,744 | null | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | jw1ca6 | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jw1ca6/so_if_online_dating_is_nearly_impossible_for_the/ | 4 | Was and it resonated with me so much. I've spent so much of the last 10 years improving myself and trying to justify myself so that a woman would atleast give me a chance to show her what kind of person I am and it's been exhausting I've been on online dating sites for attleast almost 10 years now with little to no suc... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | So if online dating is nearly impossible for the average guy, and in-person dating is even worse (especially now), then what? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jw1ca6/so_if_online_dating_is_nearly_impossible_for_the/ |
Ihatesquats_007 | 2021-05-28 17:59:39 | 1,622,224,779 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | nn3myw | true | Question | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nn3myw/hot_guy_matched_told_me_havent_had_sex_in_2_years/ | 0 | Have been chatting with this guy for abt a month, he is really hot and fit. Last night he told me he hasn’t had sex for 2 years???? I mean is it even possible? But then why would he lie abt this? 2 years no sex is a huge red flag for me, so I don’t understand the reason he is lying abt this either.... Thought guys?? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Hot guy matched told me haven’t had sex in 2 years, lie?? | null | 0.11 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nn3myw/hot_guy_matched_told_me_havent_had_sex_in_2_years/ |
lilfrosty808 | 2023-10-18 02:04:48 | 1,697,594,688 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 17afdb8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17afdb8/should_i_wait_it_out_or_just_move_on/ | 1 | I matched with this girl on Tinder and at first we really hit off. We went from talking on Snapchat, to Instagram, and then text messages. She’s the one that gave me her username/number first so I figured she’s interested. Through text messages we be flirting here and there but she goes like 12hrs plus without respondi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I wait it out or just move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17afdb8/should_i_wait_it_out_or_just_move_on/ |
Deep_Ferret3825 | 2022-12-04 05:06:13 | 1,670,130,373 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | zc13nl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zc13nl/think_im_done_with_dating_apps_want_to_start/ | 7 | For context I’ve had tinder, bumble, and hinge but haven’t gotten anything meaningful from them. Granted I haven’t been trying for a relationship but I think I would like to have one now (21 M, in college). Anything you all have done that is successful? Was just thinking about going for it | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Think I’m done with dating apps, want to start approaching women | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zc13nl/think_im_done_with_dating_apps_want_to_start/ |
These_Knowledge_129 | 2022-10-21 16:06:25 | 1,666,368,385 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | y9xiie | true | null | 89 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/y9xiie/anxiety_or_intuition_in_dating_and_how_can_i_tell/ | 41 | I (33F) am dating a man (30M) that I met on Tinder, since two months ago. We are both busy he works and is training, I work and go to Uni. Because of this we established to plan our dates ahead and be understanding of each other regarding our limited time. Things have gone well, and we managed to meet about 2x week in ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Anxiety or intuition in dating and how can I tell them apart | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/y9xiie/anxiety_or_intuition_in_dating_and_how_can_i_tell/ |
1985J | 2014-08-23 09:03:30 | 1,408,784,610 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 2ecr6b | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ecr6b/how_to_proceed_with_new_woman_after_first_date/ | 4 | I met a woman who is admittedly older than myself by a few years via plenty of fish. We spoke on the phone for around 2 weeks and both agreed we felt some kind of weird connection. She lives around an hours train journey from me and booked us a hotel for a 2 night stay. We met in person,Everything went amazingly well..... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How To Proceed With New Woman After First Date? | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ecr6b/how_to_proceed_with_new_woman_after_first_date/ |
kitsune-fox- | 2022-04-28 17:48:42 | 1,651,168,122 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | ue0tq4 | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ue0tq4/re_tinder_why_cant_i_see_convos_from_matches_who/ | 0 | Might seem a little odd or dumb question but I’ve matched and dated people over the past couple years (currently going on 4 months w someone I met there) and our conversation history is now completely unavailable / unsearchable where there are other people I connected to in the past who pop up at the top of my feed. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Re Tinder - Why can’t I see convos from matches who I’ve dated IRL on the app? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ue0tq4/re_tinder_why_cant_i_see_convos_from_matches_who/ |
jachod | 2021-01-12 22:12:00 | 1,610,489,520 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | kw2313 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kw2313/swipe_culture_venting_and_advice_maybe/ | 11 | So I’m back in the dating pool for, hopefully, the last time. I just turned 29 and I cannot tell y’all how frustrating I find swipe culture. I feel like I get about half of a second to impress someone, but I need more time than that. I grow on people. I’m not super in your face. It takes a little time for me to come ou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Swipe culture venting and advice maybe? | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kw2313/swipe_culture_venting_and_advice_maybe/ |
AdvancedCharcoal | 2022-07-10 18:45:06 | 1,657,478,706 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | vvy2yg | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/vvy2yg/a_lot_of_attractive_chinese_women_on_my_dating/ | 1 | It could just be there is a big exchange program or something in the universities near me, or perhaps my city is known for a huge migration of Chinese women, or some other environmental reason. I thought I would ask though if this is a trend others are in general experiencing. I saw something recently how China has war... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A lot of attractive Chinese women on my dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/vvy2yg/a_lot_of_attractive_chinese_women_on_my_dating/ |
bobbybotche | 2023-01-30 02:29:44 | 1,675,045,784 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 10oq8ga | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10oq8ga/how_to_meet_new_ppl/ | 1 | Ive been on tinder for around a year got plenty of match but non of them lead to a date (mainly cause i suck ass at texting) So i was wondering how do you meet new ppl (not necessarly for dating also make new friendship) without going on online dating or meeting app Cause most ppl say to me "go outside and talk to ppl"... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to meet new ppl? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10oq8ga/how_to_meet_new_ppl/ |
Fun_Branch_9614 | 2022-10-20 01:14:09 | 1,666,228,449 | null | null | 0 | y8k51a | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y8k51a/boredand_having_a_glass_of_wine/ | 1 | I’m bored and just scrolling here, having a glass of wine. Anyone want to chat? 43F Indiana if that matters. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bored….and having a glass of wine…. | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y8k51a/boredand_having_a_glass_of_wine/ |
TraditionalLeg5051 | 2023-10-16 03:11:36 | 1,697,425,896 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 178wga1 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/178wga1/dating_appsl_dont_understand_it/ | 1 | Why do men swipe right and never say anything? I don’t understand that bizarre behavior. dating datingapps | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps…l don’t understand it. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178wga1/dating_appsl_dont_understand_it/ |
Beezu999 | 2023-08-28 03:52:35 | 1,693,194,755 | 0 | ['dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 163bftt | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/163bftt/how_do_people_meet_in_2023/ | 1 | i have for the past decade lived a life alone, in isolation, i am M 41, looking for F 25 to 35 perhaps. but i have tried every dating site dumping thousands of dollars into them on coins and subscriptions that never go anywhere, they do not work, over 1000 profiles sent messages to. we rule out dating sites obviously. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how do people meet in 2023? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/163bftt/how_do_people_meet_in_2023/ |
Goddamitoutofnames | 2024-02-17 07:19:27 | 1,708,154,367 | 0 | null | 0 | 1asw5q9 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1asw5q9/this_is_starting_to_take_a_toll_on_me_m_21/ | 1 | I've been trying out different dating apps tinder, bumble, hinge, etc. But every match I get it seems its just some one that's really horny my last match was with some girl, she then wanted to move off the dating app I didn't mind so we did, we were going to start a video call until I realized that this girls face was ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | This is starting to take a toll on me (M 21) | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1asw5q9/this_is_starting_to_take_a_toll_on_me_m_21/ |
ppaulapple | 2021-05-27 07:17:19 | 1,622,099,839 | null | null | 0 | nm1vqh | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/nm1vqh/after_2_years_on_old_finally_found_the_person/ | 219 | After having divorced my narcissistic high school sweetheart, joining OLD and dating at 33, kissed a few fuckboys and frogs, ended up with an intense connection with someone who played games...all which I’ve had to REALLY heal from and learn from my mistakes. I’m now dating someone who is consistent, kind, thoughtful, ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | After 2 years on OLD, finally found the person that gave me no crumbs, he gave me the whole cake. | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/nm1vqh/after_2_years_on_old_finally_found_the_person/ |
Key-Swimmer7990 | 2021-09-24 01:49:48 | 1,632,448,188 | null | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | pu9rx8 | true | Question | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/pu9rx8/should_a_511_man_give_up_on_online_dating/ | 0 | Is a 5'11 man not tall enough to fit the standards of most women on Tinder/other apps etc? Does it have to be six feet or over? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should a 5'11 man give up on online dating? | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/pu9rx8/should_a_511_man_give_up_on_online_dating/ |
YMISleepy | 2024-01-02 19:25:41 | 1,704,223,541 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18wxt9k | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18wxt9k/shes_39f_giving_me_37f_mixed_signals/ | 1 | There's a woman at work I like. I’m 37F and she’s 39F. She approached me by giving me her number late October. We chatted and texted and things were going well. Backstory: she's divorced almost 2 yrs from an 16 yr relationship (married 8) with her ex husband and has 2 little boys. She just graduated last week and will ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She’s (39F) giving me (37F) mixed signals | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18wxt9k/shes_39f_giving_me_37f_mixed_signals/ |
Throwaway943020 | 2020-02-16 02:45:05 | 1,581,821,105 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | f4ka0z | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f4ka0z/dating_apps_sigh/ | 1 | Every single dating app i try needs me to pay in order to get a message sent out. Tinder is the only i don't necessarily have to pay for but this feels like a waste of time. I'm at a point in my life where I'm ready for a real relationship. Putting myself out there on these sites is a huge step for me too. But I'm not ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps.... sigh | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f4ka0z/dating_apps_sigh/ |
sKratchyIsLife | 2023-03-31 07:58:46 | 1,680,249,526 | null | null | 0 | 127e9uh | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/127e9uh/need_of_support_date_tonight/ | 6 | Downloaded the app last week. We have been chatting since Monday, got her on day one. The vibes are great, she’s intelligent and beautiful and I’m really into her. Its been a while since I’ve been back in the dating scene. We have a date tonight and I’m excited and a bit anxious. Please give me your best tips and exper... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need of support Date tonight | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/127e9uh/need_of_support_date_tonight/ |
[deleted] | 2015-01-15 20:10:52 | 1,421,352,652 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 2sjstw | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2sjstw/29m_what_is_expected_of_me/ | 1 | I have kept a profile up on different online dating sites for a few years though I haven't ever really dated I tended to just fall into relationships. I finally got my first date a few weeks ago and it seemed to be going really well right up to the end when it just seemed to fizzle out. My friend's interpretation was s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [29M] What is expected of me??? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2sjstw/29m_what_is_expected_of_me/ |
throwawayhelpme5555 | 2024-01-12 06:23:20 | 1,705,040,600 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 194oaei | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/194oaei/im_so_tired_of_this_shit/ | 1 | I've only dated two people, one serious and one just a couple dates. I've been on the dating apps and I'm tired of it. I've posted to trans dating subreddits (I'm trans looking for a trans partner) and all I get are cis dudes shoving themselves in anyway. My first partner was disappointing to say the least, and probabl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm so tired of this shit | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/194oaei/im_so_tired_of_this_shit/ |
noahtheboah36 | 2019-02-13 23:52:25 | 1,550,101,945 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | aqdbhi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aqdbhi/dating_apps_for_actual_romance/ | 1 | So, while I'm also pursusing real life things, the reality is I'm not what most girls my age are into. I'm a single guy looking for an actual romantic relationship, but it seems like all I can find in terms of dating apps are things for hookups, which I'm not particularly interested in and probably have low odds of get... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Apps for actual Romance? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aqdbhi/dating_apps_for_actual_romance/ |
cinders448 | 2014-01-24 18:18:05 | 1,390,587,485 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1w1tad | null | null | 3 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1w1tad/lonely_and_looking_for_advice/ | 0 | I'm not sure what I am looking for. Maybe some advice or something but I feel pretty out of my element asking for help on this level. I haven't had sex in a decade. I've been single for just as long and my dating life has been non-existent. I'm very lonely and want to make a change, but have become so complacent and us... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Lonely and looking for advice | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1w1tad/lonely_and_looking_for_advice/ |
UM21954 | 2017-05-19 06:33:28 | 1,495,175,608 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6c1zql | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6c1zql/help_with_this_fwb_clusterf/ | 1 | key facts: Seniors in HS -We dated for a year, she broke up with me abruptly breaking my heart -talks me into coming back because we're best friends: she then dated a lacrosse coach at a nearby school (23 year old teacher with 17 year old) while we were on off friends with benefits while she was fucking us both -we the... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | help with this FWB clusterf | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6c1zql/help_with_this_fwb_clusterf/ |
AdMuted3934 | 2024-04-13 01:12:09 | 1,712,970,729 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1c2ps9j | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c2ps9j/emotional_velcro/ | 3 | So I'm just at the very start of the divorce with my STBX as he has officially moved out and we're completely separated. I went on a work trip for a few days, i purposely went with the intention to have a fling just for fun as id never slept with anyone except my STBX. I figured I'd just make some stuff up and ended up... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Emotional Velcro | 3 | 0.64 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1c2ps9j/emotional_velcro/ |
ellejack123 | 2022-03-15 11:18:08 | 1,647,343,088 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | temnsd | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/temnsd/does_lack_of_texting_in_between_dates_indicate_a/ | 0 | I've (29F) been on 2 great dates with this guy (28M) from Tinder. Getting mixed signals and wanted opinions: Evidence that he's into me so far is: 1st date was 5 hours long and he invited me to a weekend getaway at his family's house 2 weeks in advance (but I couldn't go/thought that was too soon) I met some of his bes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does lack of texting in between dates indicate a guy isn't that interested? | null | 0.29 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/temnsd/does_lack_of_texting_in_between_dates_indicate_a/ |
Paris95_ | 2024-03-26 15:27:10 | 1,711,466,830 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1boan5o | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1boan5o/canceling_2nd_hook_up_because_he_didnt_use/ | 1 | I met a guy (27M) on a dating app. We went on a date, the chemistry was good, so I invited him back to my place. Before the date we discoussed possibility of a hook up. So things get heavy, he initiates. I suggested to move to the bedroom where I have condoms, but he prefers couch. Then he just sticks it in. Without ev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Canceling 2nd hook up because he didn’t use protection the first time? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1boan5o/canceling_2nd_hook_up_because_he_didnt_use/ |
mountorange | 2024-02-22 03:39:58 | 1,708,573,198 | 0 | ['dating site', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel'] | 0 | 1awwily | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1awwily/is_it_looked_down_upon_for_a_white_male_to_join_a/ | 1 | To preface, I am asking this in the most serious and well-meaning way possible. I know there are some trolls out there; I am not one of them! As a white male interested in dating South Asian girls, is it okay to join apps like Dil Mil? I keep getting ads for the app on TikTok and Instagram, but I wasn’t sure how often ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it looked down upon for a white male to join a South Asian dating site? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1awwily/is_it_looked_down_upon_for_a_white_male_to_join_a/ |
rococo78 | 2023-10-23 16:01:34 | 1,698,076,894 | 0 | ['swipe', 'swiping'] | 0 | 17enwf8 | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/17enwf8/would_you_ever_swipe_right_on_someone_you_know/ | 1 | I'm curious if there are any scenarios in which a person would right swipe on someone they already know. My guess is that it's an automatic 'no' but I'm wondering if there are some scenarios in which some one might swipe right. Perhaps it's some one you've seen around but never got to talk to much? Or someone you know ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Would you ever swipe right on someone you know? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/17enwf8/would_you_ever_swipe_right_on_someone_you_know/ |
YamiYugi23 | 2021-11-21 17:04:37 | 1,637,514,277 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qyzaah | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/qyzaah/should_i_double_text_this_girl_on_tinder_and_if/ | 0 | Should I double text/how to do it? Normally I don’t double text but this is the hottest match I’ve ever made on tinder and she’s so much hotter then all my crushes that I’ve had in real life so I want to make an expectation. She didn’t have a bio and she only has two photo. Her interest said fishing. So I started the c... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I double text this girl on tinder and if so what should I say | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qyzaah/should_i_double_text_this_girl_on_tinder_and_if/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-14 21:08:44 | 1,626,296,924 | null | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | okdqo0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/okdqo0/dating_app_life_what_happened_here/ | 1 | So I sent this Like to this chick who has a really nice profile. Shes quite attractive, low mid-30s, smart. Sounds serious, wants to get married, have kids, etc. Ive actually seen her on 2 other sites. Since Hinge lets you send a message I sent one based on what she wrote in her profile. Kind of a joking message that I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating App Life - what happened here? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/okdqo0/dating_app_life_what_happened_here/ |
Noreasontotrust49 | 2024-02-18 06:44:58 | 1,708,238,698 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1atntu3 | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1atntu3/would_you_or_would_you_not/ | 1 | So my question is this.... Let's say some years back, you met a set of twins , and one of them was interested in you , and the two of you hung out but never anything intimate..... The same twin passes away a couple years after and then five or so years later the other twin hits you on a dating app and is interested in ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you or would you not? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1atntu3/would_you_or_would_you_not/ |
HornyBoiii66 | 2024-02-25 23:58:08 | 1,708,905,488 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1b036gp | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b036gp/blocked_day_of_date_but_she_never_unmatched_with/ | 1 | 2 weeks of decent banter, both complimenting each other, for the day of the date to be blocked why do some women do this? Why is communication so hard to find these days | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Blocked day of date but she never unmatched with me on hinge | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b036gp/blocked_day_of_date_but_she_never_unmatched_with/ |
nightrun86 | 2020-07-31 18:39:04 | 1,596,220,744 | null | null | 0 | i1cyif | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/i1cyif/how_to_not_be_a_creep/ | 4 | I am a week into OLD. First time using it in my life, 33M about a year out from divorce. I Really would appreciate some advice: A girl I 'liked' on match and bumble messaged me on bumble. I replied back about 16hrs later because I didn't want to look like a creep bootycaller replying at like 11pm. I sent one response i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How to not be a creep | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/i1cyif/how_to_not_be_a_creep/ |
1mJust1mbtw | 2021-06-07 17:02:38 | 1,623,085,358 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nuhlro | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nuhlro/why_cant_i_talk_to_girls/ | 2 | I used to have 0 friends, totally alone. Now I got some, but I see most of the guys are with girls I can’t approach girls also because it’s considered creepy in my country ( my looks don’t really help me, cause i’m severely balding and i don’t think a shaved look would suit me ). What can i do? I’ve started going to th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why can’t i talk to girls? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nuhlro/why_cant_i_talk_to_girls/ |
Haxenfuch | 2023-12-01 08:16:00 | 1,701,418,560 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1886rhp | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1886rhp/today_im_about_to_meet_this_girl_i_met_in_a/ | 1 | I (20M) matched with her (20F) (not Tinder though, but similar) and since I opened a convo she started to text me, she herself asked for my Instagram and we moved our conversation to there... Now it's been a few days of just texting. She responds right away, she asked me multiple times if I'm still using the dating app... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Today I'm about to meet this girl I met in a dating app. I'm pretty nervous. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1886rhp/today_im_about_to_meet_this_girl_i_met_in_a/ |
princessL1996 | 2020-10-04 00:45:12 | 1,601,772,312 | null | null | 0 | j4q44y | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j4q44y/guy_opinion_not_initiating_conversation/ | 1 | Do guys usually expect you to message them first? I was talking to this guy a few nonths ago and he messaged me we should hangout i said yea we should then nothing. Today i come to find out i have been deleted on snapchat but not elsewhere. Was he waiting for me to set up the day? Or thought im not interested. I usuall... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy opinion not initiating conversation | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j4q44y/guy_opinion_not_initiating_conversation/ |
spicysenpai6 | 2021-03-07 23:55:37 | 1,615,161,337 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | m02yv1 | true | Venting | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/m02yv1/just_feeling_lonely_venting_28m/ | 2 | Title given. Just got out of a fling with a girl. Things ended kind of stale between us, but that’s it. I’ve been in a drought on bumble and tinder lately and it’s been getting me down. I just got in a good spot in life and I told myself I was ready for a relationship. I miss having someone around. I got back on Instag... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just feeling lonely, venting. [28M] | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m02yv1/just_feeling_lonely_venting_28m/ |
Good_Claim_5472 | 2023-11-29 02:58:40 | 1,701,226,720 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 186f08f | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/186f08f/is_getting_a_job_a_good_way_to_find_a_girlfriend/ | 37 | I’m 21M and am wondering ways to meet women, I don’t have much luck in dating apps and I would rather not go up to one in public when they most likely want to be left alone. Getting a job at a place where it’s more common for young adults to work and building relationships with everyone seems like a good starting point... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is getting a job a good way to find a girlfriend? | 37 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/186f08f/is_getting_a_job_a_good_way_to_find_a_girlfriend/ |
RICKYSPANISHYA | 2017-09-03 21:03:29 | 1,504,472,609 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 6xvs9k | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6xvs9k/want_to_let_go_but_its_hard/ | 1 | Had a match with this girl on tinder, we know eachother irl. Her friend was dating my best friend. So we had a match. I send her a few messages, she replied. After a week i asked her out. She ghosted me. No reply nothing. Few weeks later(last week) im at a party and run in to her. We partied with friends and it was fun... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Want to let go but its hard | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6xvs9k/want_to_let_go_but_its_hard/ |
[deleted] | 2021-06-20 22:18:32 | 1,624,227,512 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | o4gj8p | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/o4gj8p/not_sure_howif_i_should_keep_up_communication/ | 5 | Hi everyone. I recently moved to a new state for my career and I'm having a really hard time meeting men. I'm OLD and I rarely message with people. I finally did and I ended up really liking this guy after we talked (quite a lot) for a few days. I tried to move to meet, but he brought up friendship. I firmly, yet polit... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Not sure how/if I should keep up communication | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/o4gj8p/not_sure_howif_i_should_keep_up_communication/ |
enkoji | 2019-08-02 00:50:52 | 1,564,707,052 | null | ['swipes', 'swiping', 'online dating'] | 0 | ckx0yq | true | Venting | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ckx0yq/just_a_rant/ | 19 | I had a date set up tonight. We set it up about a week ago. Pretty girl, literate, interesting. I made arrangements. I shaved. I put off other things. My first red flag should have been when she would respond to polite questions... with pictures. My second red flag should have been when she told me she had never travel... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | just a rant. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ckx0yq/just_a_rant/ |
LongHairedKraut | 2017-01-18 23:37:56 | 1,484,782,676 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 5ot17u | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating/comments/5ot17u/almost_21_need_help_with_my_dating_life_long_post/ | 0 | For starters, I am 20 (21 in a few weeks), in college, and play in a rock band. In general my life is good, but there is one thing which continues to trouble me. To this day, I am still a virgin and have never really had a serious girlfriend, and I am sick and tired of it. I believe that I am becoming too old to still ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Almost 21, need help with my dating life (long post) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5ot17u/almost_21_need_help_with_my_dating_life_long_post/ |
nowrebooting | 2021-09-23 12:21:24 | 1,632,399,684 | null | ['matches', 'OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | ptu05e | true | null | 244 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ptu05e/after_years_of_failing_at_old_i_feel_like_i_never/ | 351 | I sometimes figure I must be on the autism spectrum or something because I don’t really get what women expect from me on online dating. I’m not even at a loss for matches, but conversations never really get off the ground or die after the first date. Now I’ll be the first to admit that I’m weird - I’m an extreme introv... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | After years of failing at OLD I feel like I never understood dating in the first place. | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ptu05e/after_years_of_failing_at_old_i_feel_like_i_never/ |
Head-Kangaroo-198 | 2023-08-04 17:15:03 | 1,691,169,303 | 0 | ['bumble', 'hinge', 'eharmony'] | 0 | 15i5wui | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/15i5wui/am_i_a_loser_for_still_being_a_virgin_and_never/ | 1 | I’m a 28 year old female who is still a virgin. I wasn’t confident in myself for a long time and didn’t put myself out there to meet guys. Instead, I focused on graduating from college, getting my master’s degree, moving across the country and getting a great job. I am finally putting myself out there to meet guys. I h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I a loser for still being a virgin and never having a boyfriend before? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15i5wui/am_i_a_loser_for_still_being_a_virgin_and_never/ |
ninak21 | 2019-07-24 19:05:44 | 1,563,995,144 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | chcgh3 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/chcgh3/the_person_m23_i_f20_have_been_seeing_is_ghosting/ | 8 | Almost two months ago I met this guy on a dating app. Right off the bat we clicked really well and we have great chemistry in real life too. We’ve been seeing each other at least once a week since our first date which was about a week after we started talking. About 3 weeks ago he suddenly started texting me a lot less... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The person (M23) I (F20) have been seeing is ghosting me (kind of) and it’s driving me insane | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/chcgh3/the_person_m23_i_f20_have_been_seeing_is_ghosting/ |
jangens1122 | 2024-01-30 07:46:21 | 1,706,600,781 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1aej2m7 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aej2m7/how_do_i_keep_her_interested/ | 1 | 19m here, I met this girl on a dating app, and we've been talking for the past few days, things are seeming to be going well, but I think she's starting to pull away a little bit, we scheduled a date for next week, but at this rate I'm afraid we won't make it to that point, I could just be over thinking everything as p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I keep her interested? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aej2m7/how_do_i_keep_her_interested/ |
Entire-Vegetable | 2020-04-08 23:28:31 | 1,586,388,511 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | fxhcew | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fxhcew/i_started_a_relationship_during_quarantine/ | 5 | I(25) matched with a guy(29) on Tinder about a week before the quarantine started and the whole world went into social isolation. Our initial conversations we so well, we started with the basics "where are you from? what do you do? what are you looking for on tinder?' questions and we decided to meet when we were both ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I started a "relationship" during quarantine. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fxhcew/i_started_a_relationship_during_quarantine/ |
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