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OptimisticByChoice | 2023-10-23 16:22:17 | 1,698,078,137 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17eoeh7 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17eoeh7/girls_how_often_do_you_check_instagram_profiles/ | 1 | I don’t have one and a friend told me she uses it to make sure matches are real people first. Fear of first date creeps 🫠 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girls, how often do you check instagram profiles before matching? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17eoeh7/girls_how_often_do_you_check_instagram_profiles/ |
Adventurous-Cake5557 | 2022-07-20 19:54:15 | 1,658,346,855 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | w3vrtu | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w3vrtu/help_i_need_to_let_a_man_down_but_i_dont_know_how/ | 1 | OK. So about 2 weeks ago. I was on a dating app. And started talking to a very nice guy. We texted back and forth for several days. Things were going well. So we met and I just didn't seem to feel any chemistry. Our meeting place was a but odd and maybe I just felt uncomfortable but I just couldn't get past it. Well we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help. I need to let a man down but I don't know how. | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w3vrtu/help_i_need_to_let_a_man_down_but_i_dont_know_how/ |
zbasel | 2020-05-11 22:47:57 | 1,589,237,277 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid'] | 0 | ghycus | true | Venting | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ghycus/my_2020_online_dating_experience_the_ugly/ | 3 | Hey, I've been out of the country working abroad for the past 5 years and have just recently transitioned back to the states about a month ago. I am almost 28, male, single, currently living in Ohio, frequent gym-goer, have a decent savings/debt ratio, have been fully employed for 5+ years and have almost finished my M... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My 2020 Online Dating Experience - The Ugly | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ghycus/my_2020_online_dating_experience_the_ugly/ |
BurzumSpetsnaz | 2015-12-11 01:25:43 | 1,449,797,143 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 3wb5c9 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3wb5c9/21m_never_even_been_on_a_date_need_serious_help/ | 2 | So basically, I'm a 21 year old guy. I've never been on a date before and I feel like it's getting to the point where I should change that because to be honest, I'm going to be 22 in a few months and it's fucking weird to be this inexperienced at this age. There's a few problems with this. I don't know how to flirt, I'... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [21M] Never even been on a date, need serious help | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3wb5c9/21m_never_even_been_on_a_date_need_serious_help/ |
kadabra2020 | 2021-05-07 18:23:48 | 1,620,411,828 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | n759b1 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n759b1/is_it_me_28m_or_is_my_hinge_27f_match_moving_way/ | 3 | I've recently matched with a girl on Hinge last week. She is really pretty and nice, but I'm starting to believe that she's moving way too fast. She sends me good morning texts usually before I wake up. Whenever I get the time to text her, she replies immediately. She also wants to FaceTime, or talk on the phone every ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it me, [28M] or is my Hinge [27F] match moving way too fast? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n759b1/is_it_me_28m_or_is_my_hinge_27f_match_moving_way/ |
Mini_Couper | 2018-06-12 22:39:52 | 1,528,843,192 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 8qnd02 | true | null | 70 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8qnd02/you_see_someone_on_tinderbumble_who_is/ | 3 | You note things about that this person that are particularly "your thing". The odds are you will not match with this random person you happened upon. But if you had the opportunity to chat with this person and they knew that you shared their interest in 9th century BC horticultural and animal husbandry practices then y... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | You see someone on Tinder/Bumble who is particularly "your type"... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8qnd02/you_see_someone_on_tinderbumble_who_is/ |
tmps1993 | 2023-09-01 03:57:51 | 1,693,540,671 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 166wla8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/166wla8/possible_first_date_imminent_any_tips_on/ | 1 | Turned on a 24 hour spotlight on Hinge and a woman liked my profile. She was a little out of the mileage I usually search in but cute so I matched her back. Quickly hit it off on the app, got her number and moved to texting. Texts are hitting and things seem to be headed in a positive direction. We come from similar ba... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Possible first date imminent. Any tips on overcoming dating anxiety? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/166wla8/possible_first_date_imminent_any_tips_on/ |
MyHeadIsFullOfGhosts | 2016-01-26 23:32:36 | 1,453,851,156 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 42ufoq | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating/comments/42ufoq/why_does_nearly_every_woman_online_just_ignore/ | 3 | I'm an engineer in his late twenties, who's been on some form of dating site for (geez) six years now. I'd say that, easily, less than 1 percent of my messages are answered, despite being read nearly every time. It just makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong, if anything, or if I should just keep at the grind? I don't be... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does nearly every woman online just ignore messages? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/42ufoq/why_does_nearly_every_woman_online_just_ignore/ |
DeeDeeDancer | 2023-02-24 15:01:29 | 1,677,250,889 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11atfbp | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 0 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11atfbp/guy_really_likes_you_but_doesnt_want_to_see_you/ | 1 | \[details of the situation are also in my last post to this reddit thread\] Met this guy on a dating app. We had a phone call then a video "date", then an actual date that led to staying overnight at his place. Most texts in the beginning were initiated by him. Then later his responses got slower. I asked if we could t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guy really likes you but doesn't want to see you b/c of personal issues. Truth or lie? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11atfbp/guy_really_likes_you_but_doesnt_want_to_see_you/ |
doggy-dad | 2024-09-01 23:12:33 | 1,725,232,353 | 0 | null | 0 | 1f6rzxr | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6rzxr/how_long_should_your_first_message_be/ | 2 | Just like the title says how long should the initial message be? One sentence too brief? Should it be full intro? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How long should your first message be? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1f6rzxr/how_long_should_your_first_message_be/ |
Twilight_Zone_13 | 2024-08-09 09:43:13 | 1,723,196,593 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1envl56 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1envl56/should_i_shoot_my_shot/ | 1 | I have been messaging with a girl I matched with on a dating app and it has gone very well so far. We have only been messaging back and forth for the past 5 days. She has been willing to share some things about her and when I message her we have a bit of a conversation. We both enjoy messaging with each other. She live... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I shoot my shot? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1envl56/should_i_shoot_my_shot/ |
thetravelingchris1 | 2024-03-09 19:07:12 | 1,710,011,232 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1bapesv | true | Seeking Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bapesv/do_i_give_them_a_ride_to_the_first_date/ | 71 | Met a guy thru OLD whom I’ve never met in person. He wants a ride to our first date: drinks. It immediately made me uncomfortable and I want to cancel the date and never meet up with him. I recognize that is a bit extreme, but… is this a red or orange flag? Demographics: I’m a guy in his 40s, metropolitan area over 1 m... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Do I give them a ride to the first date? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bapesv/do_i_give_them_a_ride_to_the_first_date/ |
segbedji | 2022-10-05 16:36:30 | 1,664,987,790 | null | ['swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | xwff0s | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xwff0s/would_you_use_an_aboutdotme_but_for_single_people/ | 1 | There is an idea that has been in my head for a while and I can't get rid of it. Would a site like about\[dot\]me, but created specifically for people who are single, be a good idea? Basically, imagine a site where you can put basic information about yourself (age, height, orientation, industry, bio, personality, likes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would you use an "about[dot]me", but for single people? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xwff0s/would_you_use_an_aboutdotme_but_for_single_people/ |
chaoth1cc | 2022-03-22 16:50:06 | 1,647,967,806 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tk7d4h | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tk7d4h/is_it_weird_i_want_to_communicate_with_this_person/ | 1 | i (21f) made tinder profile not long ago and a few days later, on my 2nd acc on instagram, i had a dm asking if who they saw was really me (since it was just a nickname that i had written for my name) and if it was they said good luck for my examinations or whatsoever. the account is obviously a dummy account, no post,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | is it weird i want to communicate with this person | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tk7d4h/is_it_weird_i_want_to_communicate_with_this_person/ |
Jokewagon | 2023-06-13 14:05:15 | 1,686,665,115 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 148g8eq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/148g8eq/would_appreciate_advice_for_selfesteem_and_in/ | 1 | Hello. I am a 28 male looking to meet women in person. I have took time away from dating to improve myself. My shape, look, hygiene, outlook on life, letting go of emotional baggage. I have done and am still currently trying to improve myself as I believe I needed to self-reflect to find success in a long term, meaning... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Would appreciate advice for self-esteem and in person flirting. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/148g8eq/would_appreciate_advice_for_selfesteem_and_in/ |
Bus_Expensive | 2022-10-19 06:31:59 | 1,666,161,119 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | y7v1u1 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/y7v1u1/first_date_im_confused_asf/ | 1 | I downloaded tinder a few hours ago and I matched with this girl who agreed to go on a ice cream date with me. The only problem is I don’t know where the hell im supposed to go get ice cream for a date? We’re both 21 so is it weird if I take her to the mall or smth (isn’t that kind of childish, but there’s a arcade the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First Date- I’m confused asf🫤 | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/y7v1u1/first_date_im_confused_asf/ |
Parking-Bake-6691 | 2022-08-18 20:02:06 | 1,660,852,926 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wrt8kl | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wrt8kl/advice_on_this_girl_ive_met/ | 7 | Me (19M) I’ve meet this girl (20F) on tinder, we got on very well, we FaceTimed the same night we added each other and talked for hours. We got along very well had very similar interest. We agreed to met the next day and we met We meet and we had a lot of conversations about our past relationships and we were very unde... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice on this girl I’ve met | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wrt8kl/advice_on_this_girl_ive_met/ |
Herr_von_und_zu | 2020-06-27 11:53:37 | 1,593,258,817 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | hgs9a8 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hgs9a8/how_long_to_wait_for_replies_after_matching_on/ | 1 | When using online dating apps I have noticed I can't concentrate on more than one match at a time. If I'm writing with multiple girls, I always compare them and think the other one I'm writing with is better. Also I sometimes get confused with who said what. Therfore once I have a match I stop swiping and text with onl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How long to wait for replies after matching on dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hgs9a8/how_long_to_wait_for_replies_after_matching_on/ |
andreanugentt | 2019-05-06 21:07:35 | 1,557,176,855 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | blhpl3 | true | Venting | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/blhpl3/im_scared_of_dying_alone/ | 23 | Dying alone might be a little bit dramatic, but it's the only phrase I could think of to describe what I'm scared about lol. Anyway, a few months ago, I was diagnosed with ADHD-PI (I'm a 16 year old girl), and ever since, I haven't been able to shake the fear that I might never be in a long-term relationship again (I d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm Scared of Dying Alone | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/blhpl3/im_scared_of_dying_alone/ |
Accomplished-Ad6168 | 2021-02-17 02:10:03 | 1,613,527,803 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | lljjsy | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lljjsy/am_i_ever_going_to_get_over_him/ | 6 | Honestly, the reason why i can't stop thinking about him is because i don't think i will ever meet someone like him. He shared exactly the same values as me (which are pretty unpopular), shared a very similar personality with very similar humor (which is rare), amazingly talented, so kindhearted and sweet, incredibly g... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am i ever going to get over him.. | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lljjsy/am_i_ever_going_to_get_over_him/ |
Nona_Suomi | 2023-12-29 07:58:19 | 1,703,836,699 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18thvmz | true | Question ❓ | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18thvmz/demisexual_men_how_have_you_dated_successfully/ | 1 | Of the very minimal success I've had going out with people through dating apps, they've all been women that immediately escalated physically and seemed very sex-driven. On the other hand, the time it takes me to fall for someone seems to be beyond the point where most people will have already compartmentalized you as n... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Demisexual men, how have you dated successfully? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18thvmz/demisexual_men_how_have_you_dated_successfully/ |
Charming_Plan4233 | 2024-05-17 11:19:57 | 1,715,944,797 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1cu2obj | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cu2obj/sporty_gym_bros_do_you_have_any_interest_in_nerdy/ | 1 | Guys who's main interest is working out and sports, do you have any interest is women with more nerdy/geeky interests? A lot of the Hinge profiles I see of sporty/gym dudes seem like they are mainly interested in finding a fellow sporty/gym dude that happens to be a woman. I get wanting share your interests with your p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Sporty Gym Bros, do you have any interest in nerdy women? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cu2obj/sporty_gym_bros_do_you_have_any_interest_in_nerdy/ |
icextears | 2024-04-17 05:28:19 | 1,713,331,699 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c61xfh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1c61xfh/what_could_this_guy_be_doing/ | 1 | I (20F) recently met a guy (22M) on a dating app and we started dating for a while. I had never done anything with a man before him, or even explored romance/relationships (only a few dates but nothing intimate). The dates we have been on have been great and i enjoyed talking to him; he usually pays but I’ve aways offe... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | what could this guy be doing? | 1 | 0.38 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1c61xfh/what_could_this_guy_be_doing/ |
germasiano | 2020-01-27 17:22:02 | 1,580,145,722 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | euqzul | true | I Need Advice | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/euqzul/i_27f_rejected_him_he_31m_rejected_me_now_we_are/ | 3 | I went on a date with John (31M) in December. We met through Hinge and I was quite new to the app and in some ways using it to get out there again after my four year relationship ended in September. I wasn’t necessarily looking for anything serious, but I was curious. Anyways, he came on really really strong during our... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (27f) rejected him, he (31m) rejected me, now we are trying to be friends but I feel bothered | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/euqzul/i_27f_rejected_him_he_31m_rejected_me_now_we_are/ |
lyzah314 | 2023-08-08 21:56:34 | 1,691,531,794 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 15lvs78 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/15lvs78/do_you_take_a_break_from_dating/ | 1 | I've been out in the online dating world since March. I started off dating just exclusively for a few months and that did not work out. Now I'm starting to multi date and had back to back dates with 2 different men this past weekend. Date 1 was OK but there will be no 2nd date. Date 2 was better but still trying to fig... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Do you take a break from dating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/15lvs78/do_you_take_a_break_from_dating/ |
_hitek | 2023-10-01 01:29:13 | 1,696,123,753 | 0 | null | 0 | 16wo1he | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16wo1he/i_got_textdumped_while_i_was_at_my_friends_funeral/ | 1 | That’s all. It was a few weeks of hanging and way too much texting. But the timing is rough | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | i got text-dumped while I was at my friend’s funeral | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16wo1he/i_got_textdumped_while_i_was_at_my_friends_funeral/ |
breezy1975 | 2018-10-19 19:43:46 | 1,539,978,226 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | 9pn86h | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pn86h/how_do_you_determine_if_someone_is_fake/ | 5 | Matched with a man on OKC... we have been messaging but some thing just feels off to me. It wasn’t until he told me that he was deployed that I got a bad feeling. Then last night when I asked him what he does for fun when he’s home, he copied and pasted his profile text as a response, which I found incredibly weird. Ho... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How Do You Determine if Someone is “Fake”? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9pn86h/how_do_you_determine_if_someone_is_fake/ |
learnactreform | 2019-05-14 20:09:56 | 1,557,864,596 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | bonvi5 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bonvi5/considering_ending_a_potential_relationship/ | 1 | I (31M) don't have a ton of dating experience as I've been in mostly LTRs since I was pretty young. My last relationship was 4 years long and it ended 3 years ago. It was a good relationship overall, I'd like to think, but we had our issues, mostly around me not liking the lack of communication when she was traveling a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Considering ending a potential relationship; friends say I should give it more time. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bonvi5/considering_ending_a_potential_relationship/ |
Ok_Needleworker4386 | 2023-09-12 18:05:41 | 1,694,541,941 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16gyekv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16gyekv/dating_apps_crush_my_m28_confidence_is_that/ | 1 | I’ve always assumed I was mid level attractive. Like 6.5-7 out of 10. I don’t really have girls hit on me, maybe like 8 times in my life, mostly in college. I’ve only pursued girls that I genuinely was attracted to and it’s gone pretty well when I initiate and ask for dates etc. Most want to go on a date/give a number.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps crush my (M28) confidence. Is that normal for guys? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16gyekv/dating_apps_crush_my_m28_confidence_is_that/ |
aruiz1017 | 2024-01-30 02:58:20 | 1,706,583,500 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1aee3gh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aee3gh/i_think_my_28f_bf_32m_is_hiding_things_from_me/ | 1 | I (28F) and my boyfriend (32M) have been together for a little bit over a year. We met on bumble. Since I met him, he has only taken me on a handful of dates and only ever wants to come to my house. I have only been to his house 3 times. Furthermore, I still haven't been introduced to his parents or any of his family a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I think my (28F) bf (32M) is hiding things from me | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aee3gh/i_think_my_28f_bf_32m_is_hiding_things_from_me/ |
paul_reuben | 2021-01-12 15:15:19 | 1,610,464,519 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | kvtj9o | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kvtj9o/profile_advice_and_feedback/ | 1 | Is there a way to get profile advice and feedback without making everything public on Reddit? I'm not really sure where I can improve and would really appreciate the help. I will say I seem to get a lot of matches but no one really responds after my first text (I always try to say something creative in response to the ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile advice and feedback | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kvtj9o/profile_advice_and_feedback/ |
[deleted] | 2019-12-01 14:57:58 | 1,575,212,278 | null | null | 0 | e4ie6n | true | null | 28 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/e4ie6n/tired_of_online_dating/ | 35 | Is anyone else really tired of online dating? It’s really exhausting... I feel like I am always getting my hopes up about a guy only to be disappointed. :( | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tired of online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/e4ie6n/tired_of_online_dating/ |
sweetsesame | 2018-01-05 19:34:39 | 1,515,180,879 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 7odn29 | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7odn29/why_am_i_terrified_to_datemeet_up_with/ | 3 | i’m a 25 y/o female with some experience dating, but more experience hooking up. i moved out of my parents house to get my independence and start dating. but anytime i get the chance to date i freak out and stop wanting to. i have lonely moments but i’m scared to change the life i have but i want to so bad. i don’t hav... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | why am i terrified to date/meet up with okcupid/tinder matches? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7odn29/why_am_i_terrified_to_datemeet_up_with/ |
djking1200 | 2022-01-29 18:20:00 | 1,643,480,400 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | sfo3na | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/sfo3na/how_to_begin/ | 4 | Before things got pandemic different, I used to go out a lot in social situations. I was a DJ for 15 years and through my own gigs or with my fellow crew memebers, there was always an event or way to be out and socialise. Now everyone should be avoiding those situations for awhile and I am home just working on myself o... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How to begin? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/sfo3na/how_to_begin/ |
WarmAge9940 | 2024-05-27 15:35:38 | 1,716,824,138 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d1ub9o | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 4 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1d1ub9o/i_want_to_put_myself_out_there_again_how_can_i/ | 1 | I am 26 female and a lesbian. I have been single for almost 2 years and would like to put myself out there again. I have had some luck with online dating in the past but for the most part it’s just makes me feel discouraged from dating entirely. There isn’t a huge lesbian scene in my city and the girls at bars are neve... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to put myself out there again. How can I prevent myself feeling discouraged each time I return to dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d1ub9o/i_want_to_put_myself_out_there_again_how_can_i/ |
swanthewarrior | 2015-11-23 16:10:52 | 1,448,295,052 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 3tye6x | null | null | 23 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/3tye6x/two_questions_canhow_can_i_recover_from_coming_on/ | 27 | Hey /r/AskMen I think a recent bout of "coming on too fast" is being caused by my loneliness. I didn't see this question in the FAQ or quite this question in searching so here goes: I'm a 26 year old teacher and last September I moved into a new town to be closer to my school. The new town is a beach town in New Jersey... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Two questions: Can/How can I recover from coming on too fast? How can I get rid of what I think is the underlying reason? | 27 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/3tye6x/two_questions_canhow_can_i_recover_from_coming_on/ |
ex-oh | 2020-12-21 22:39:02 | 1,608,590,342 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | khs2x2 | true | null | 78 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/khs2x2/what_the_best_thing_youve_seen_in_an_old_profile/ | 13 | I'm just curious if anyone has read something that really stood out to them, or if you're talking to someone now and they have a great "about me". What has "worked" for you in someone else's profile? (more interested in written content than photographic) | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What the best thing you've seen in an OLD profile? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/khs2x2/what_the_best_thing_youve_seen_in_an_old_profile/ |
BPDromeo95 | 2019-08-09 06:56:14 | 1,565,333,774 | null | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | cnyp58 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cnyp58/online_dating_manifesto/ | 3 | My friend (25m) has been having a very hard time on OKCupid. He's a bit old fashioned, and also a sufferer of Borderline Personality Disorder (our interactions are always an emotional roller coaster). Recently he wrote a sort of terms and conditions document for when a girl gives him her number. I can't tell it it's br... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online Dating Manifesto | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cnyp58/online_dating_manifesto/ |
Kernal_Murix | 2022-01-16 21:58:59 | 1,642,370,339 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | s5mrrl | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s5mrrl/need_advicehelp/ | 1 | I'm 24, male, and have never been in a relationship. I constantly feel inadequate because I am unusual and have niche hobbies and interests. I'm a little overweight but I try to stay in shape, and people say that I am not exactly ugly either. But I can't seem to hit it off with anyone as whomever I end up talking to on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Need advice/help | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s5mrrl/need_advicehelp/ |
Slap367 | 2020-10-12 05:46:20 | 1,602,481,580 | null | ['swipes', 'dating apps'] | 0 | j9lafi | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/j9lafi/not_sure_if_its_them_or_me/ | 1 | Hi everyone, so I started to get onto the dating bandwagen again after 8 months from my last relationship for dating apps and I noticed that I don't really get alot of swipes right. Not sure if it is this whole COVID thing even before I rarely got any swipes. What should I do? What are your recommendations. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if its them or me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/j9lafi/not_sure_if_its_them_or_me/ |
RockyBiscuit1024 | 2022-01-26 12:26:47 | 1,643,200,007 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | sd4tpl | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sd4tpl/m23_need_advice_on_getting_back_into_dating/ | 3 | So long story short I [M23] have been in a 3 year relationship which was only my 2nd ever relationship and now I'm single and trying to get back into dating, however I dont know where I can meet girls since I dont really have any friends at the moment and I'm not the type of guy to hang out in pubs/clubs. Where would y... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [M23] Need advice on getting back into dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sd4tpl/m23_need_advice_on_getting_back_into_dating/ |
drftordie | 2020-10-06 15:04:35 | 1,601,996,675 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | j66nel | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/j66nel/date_set_now_what/ | 5 | Hello, I have a date set with a lovely lady. But it is not for a few days. I am very new to this OLD stuff. Gosh I feel old, even though I am still young. So my question is do I continue to talk with her? Or do I wait till we meet and keep it mysterious? I am so confused, I like to have conversations and it feels weird... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Date set, now what? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j66nel/date_set_now_what/ |
edm_spamurai | 2024-05-06 14:36:15 | 1,715,006,175 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1clklq0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1clklq0/36m_cant_get_passed_talking_stage/ | 1 | I’m only on Hinge. I get matches daily but after sending the first chat, I either don’t get a reply or she does reply, but only once. My first message are things like: What got you into clinical work? Why did you choose to move to [city]? What’s number one on your bucket list? I know we’re not supposed to interview eac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 36m - Can’t get passed talking stage | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1clklq0/36m_cant_get_passed_talking_stage/ |
loppsy4552 | 2023-12-31 07:08:22 | 1,704,006,502 | 0 | ['swipe'] | 0 | 18v24am | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18v24am/exs_are_the_worst/ | 2 | I(F) have been talking to this guy(M) for about 7 months now, and I’m really into him. We’ve slept together multiple times(I feel like that’s where my first mistake was) and about 2 months into talking to him I found out he was still hooked on his ex(he was posting about her). Every time we both tried to stop talking t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ex’s are the worst | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18v24am/exs_are_the_worst/ |
Far_Measurement7728 | 2024-03-31 19:25:22 | 1,711,913,122 | 0 | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1bsiimo | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bsiimo/is_it_worth_texting_my_ex_to_confirm_if_he_got/ | 1 | I think my ex might've gotten back onto Bumble before we even broke up. I got on it day 5 after we broke up and he didn't have the “New Label”. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it worth texting my ex to confirm if he got back onto a dating app before we broke up? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bsiimo/is_it_worth_texting_my_ex_to_confirm_if_he_got/ |
SaberXqt | 2021-01-15 20:48:09 | 1,610,743,689 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | ky3hgb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ky3hgb/help_mesorry_spelling_im_high_and_typing_on_a/ | 1 | Good evening all this is my first time here so be gentle. Im 21 yo male with a dissability( In short a muscle reduction in my arms)and this made me feel like an outsider when i try to talk with girls. Two years back i actually got a girl we met made out and two months later we broke up. Now im on a dating app trying to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me(sorry spelling im high and typing on a phone | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ky3hgb/help_mesorry_spelling_im_high_and_typing_on_a/ |
jkskabe | 2023-03-03 07:36:55 | 1,677,829,015 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 11guomn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11guomn/i_gave_up_cause_she_has_mental_issues/ | 0 | Matched with a girl on bumble. Found her on Instagram and me chatted during a time frame of one year. (Not the whole year bit from time to time 3 months than 2 months break) After I asked her on August for a date and she rejected me again (she had no "time") I insulted her deeply and said really nasty stuff. Contact of... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I gave up cause she has mental issues | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11guomn/i_gave_up_cause_she_has_mental_issues/ |
fly9007 | 2020-05-02 17:33:58 | 1,588,440,838 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps', 'dating site'] | 0 | gcadev | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gcadev/do_you_think_social_media_has_messed_up_how_one/ | 2 | I was on dating site and I have talked to some women. I noticed that people specially on online dating apps tend to focus on making assumption about a person based on what their lifestyle looks like on social media such as instagram, tiktok, etc. For example, I was talking to this woman recently and we were in the begi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you think social media has messed up how one perceive when it comes to online dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gcadev/do_you_think_social_media_has_messed_up_how_one/ |
croatianstation | 2020-01-17 11:23:14 | 1,579,260,194 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | epz4lg | true | Venting | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/epz4lg/not_over_someone_i_was_never_really_with_please/ | 1 | Hey reddit dating family To be frank , I don't really know what I'm looking for, maybe consolation, or just a place to vent. so I was seeing this dude last year, we met on Tinder. I live in his hometown and he lives faraway, he comes down for holidays. Now, I wasn't really expecting anything like a commitment, because ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Not over someone I was never really with , please help! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/epz4lg/not_over_someone_i_was_never_really_with_please/ |
rainbownapkin | 2020-06-19 00:47:05 | 1,592,527,625 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | hbqrqd | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hbqrqd/god_damn_why_are_guys_so_much_more_likely_to/ | 10 | I get women are the "sexual selector" and all, but as a Bi man I swear to god I get like a ratio of 20:1 men to women liking me. It's absurd. Is there some glaring flaw that these women see in me from a tinder profile I can't see after tons of introspection? I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if it's just the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | God damn why are guys so much more likely to swipe right? | null | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hbqrqd/god_damn_why_are_guys_so_much_more_likely_to/ |
muteberlin | 2019-07-12 12:43:24 | 1,562,935,404 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ccad8b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ccad8b/debating_reigniting_an_old_flame/ | 2 | Reddit, I need your advice. I (M[23]) have known this girl (F[23]) for 4 years. We met on tinder when we were 19 and had a really good thing going for about a month. We never "officially" dated, but in every sense of the word- we did. This went on for a couple of months, and it was, sincerely, the happiest I had ever b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Debating re-igniting an old flame..? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ccad8b/debating_reigniting_an_old_flame/ |
vzdhkufbjj | 2023-09-02 15:23:46 | 1,693,668,226 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16859pf | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16859pf/how_are_men_in_their_late_30s_on_dating_apps_not/ | 1 | Like I don’t understand how you can be that grown and not know whether you want kids or not. It’s not even asking like “do you want kids right now”, but just at all. Like how can you not even know if you ever want to have kids?? Like, I knew when I was 18 I’m not saying everyone has to figure out that early, but some o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How are men in their late 30s on dating apps “not sure” if they want kids??! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16859pf/how_are_men_in_their_late_30s_on_dating_apps_not/ |
EnchantingMollusk | 2018-08-26 23:34:15 | 1,535,326,455 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9ak237 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ak237/do_you_talk_much_after_setting_up_a_date_with_a/ | 2 | I'm wondering how much you actually get to know your date before going out with them. For someone I just met on tinder, do you chat a little here and there beforehand? I'm not much of a texter but I'm scared she'll lose interest if our date is like 2-3 days away. I've had girls flake on my last minute even tho they all... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do you talk much after setting up a date with a girl? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ak237/do_you_talk_much_after_setting_up_a_date_with_a/ |
jsbach123 | 2024-01-25 21:36:48 | 1,706,218,608 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 19fkjwj | true | Success Story 🎉 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19fkjwj/i_want_to_share_my_experience_dating_while_being/ | 3 | I'm a short Asian-American guy in his 40s and in a relationship that seems headed towards marriage. Lately, I've been thinking about how to pop the question. Not to be arrogant, but I think she'll say YES since it was her who broached the subject a while back. Poking in here, I often read about short Asian guys having ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to share my experience dating while being a short Asian guy -- and also impart some advice + encouragement to others in my situation. I wish I knew twenty years ago what I'm about to tell you. | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19fkjwj/i_want_to_share_my_experience_dating_while_being/ |
Curious-Lynx-6814 | 2024-05-15 06:02:08 | 1,715,752,928 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1csduan | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1csduan/i22m_dont_know_what_to_do_now_after_she23f/ | 2 | We both met at a house party 2 years ago, we didn’t interact much at that time but we bonded a month or two later after meeting on a dating app over the fact that we both felt out of place at the house party. For the next 7-8 months we bonded a lot over the same music taste, humour etc. I was going through a tough phas... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I(22m) don’t know what to do now after she(23f) rejected me. I never anticipated a rejection | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1csduan/i22m_dont_know_what_to_do_now_after_she23f/ |
Internal-Banana2442 | 2024-03-31 16:51:36 | 1,711,903,896 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bsezjv | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bsezjv/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_people_in_this/ | 1 | I 21F am really struggling to meet other people my age. I’ve never really been in a real relationship before, only talking stages that have lead nowhere and a toxic situationship. My school is predominantly female and most guys I see are already in relationships. I always try to look my best when I go out anywhere in h... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the best way to meet people in this generation. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bsezjv/what_is_the_best_way_to_meet_people_in_this/ |
throwaway3795279 | 2017-08-02 03:04:25 | 1,501,643,065 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 6r1e12 | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/6r1e12/need_to_figure_out_why_i_cant_get_past_a_few/ | 3 | So I haven't gotten past 4 dates with a girl in almost 2 years and I really need help figuring out why I keep getting rejected. I mostly use dating apps and I have no problem having great text conversations with pretty great looking girls and getting dates, but recently it seems to almost always fall apart soon after t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need to figure out why I can't get past a few dates with girls | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6r1e12/need_to_figure_out_why_i_cant_get_past_a_few/ |
scuba_steve94 | 2015-09-22 14:38:38 | 1,442,932,718 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3lxvhx | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3lxvhx/stage_5_clinger_help/ | 0 | Been talking to this tinder girl for a couple of days. We "netflix and chilled".. But I'm not looking for a relationship or to date her. I've been hinting at my un-interestedness over text, but she can't pick up any of the hints. She won't stop texting me, and I feel bad because I don't want to lead her on. I just want... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stage 5 clinger... HELP? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3lxvhx/stage_5_clinger_help/ |
_Tarrabyte | 2019-03-22 13:17:42 | 1,553,260,662 | null | ['pof'] | 0 | b44yx2 | true | Venting | 49 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/b44yx2/dating_my_own_age_honestly_is_annoying/ | 0 | The minute I say I only date white girls I'm racist. The minute I say I only date girls my own size, I'm an asshole. 1. Fuck you because I only wish to date white girls. I have nothing against any other race, I just do not wish to date anyone but my own kind. If you wish to date outside your race, more power to you. 2.... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | dating my own age honestly is annoying | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b44yx2/dating_my_own_age_honestly_is_annoying/ |
wolflord4 | 2023-11-14 20:34:47 | 1,699,994,087 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 17vbidl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17vbidl/im_thinking_about_ending_things_with_a_girl_but_i/ | 1 | Few weeks ago I met this girl on hinge we both hit it off and we seem to have a lot in common but over time it seems like I'm starting to lose a bit of that feeling for her I know it makes me sound like a shitty person because she didn't do anything wrong this is all on me. She clearly likes me a lot and would be open ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm thinking about ending things with a girl but I don't know how to go about it and I still feel like a bad person. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17vbidl/im_thinking_about_ending_things_with_a_girl_but_i/ |
SuperNobbs | 2022-01-14 01:54:28 | 1,642,125,268 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | s3g1u5 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s3g1u5/we_both_had_a_great_time_apparently_i_think/ | 1 | I need to put this somewhere because I haven't been able to shift it from my mind and it's just bleh. So rewind to last Monday. Matched with an absolutely amazing lass. She's beautiful, quirky, funny, smart. We go for a date that involves ice skating and dinner. We both have a great time, we talk loads, we laugh, it's ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | We both had a great time apparently? I think? Apparently not? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s3g1u5/we_both_had_a_great_time_apparently_i_think/ |
SarahF327 | 2024-05-08 16:27:10 | 1,715,185,630 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1cn8t1o | true | null | 101 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cn8t1o/body_shots/ | 6 | Does anyone have suggestions for how to get someone to post / text body photos in OLD? I know this is shallow, but I don't want to waste my time with people who can't do sports with me or to whom I am not physically attracted. I've seen the men talk about how many women don't post body photos. There are also a lot of m... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Body shots | 6 | 0.58 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1cn8t1o/body_shots/ |
Mets_CS11 | 2024-09-01 09:25:55 | 1,725,182,755 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f6afrs | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f6afrs/i_want_to_find_a_date_to_a_sporting_event_in_just/ | 1 | Hello, 31M and single. I am introverted and don’t get out much. Most of my friends are dudes and online. I had a brief relationship that ended cordially but it wasn’t a match. Anyways, I happen to have an extra ticket to an NFL game coming up and for some reason I feel the desire to bring a girl as a date (or even as a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want to find a date to a sporting event in just a few weeks | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f6afrs/i_want_to_find_a_date_to_a_sporting_event_in_just/ |
roughdeath | 2021-05-01 07:32:32 | 1,619,854,352 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | n2dkf9 | true | I Need Advice | 32 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/n2dkf9/he_stopped_responding_should_i_message_him_again/ | 4 | Along story short, there’s this guy I knew from a group I was involved with in college. I didn’t know him well at all back then, but I had some feelings for him. I matched with him on bumble, and he seemed happy to talk. After a few interactions back and forth, he stopped responding. I’m trying to decide if it’s worth ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He stopped responding, should I message him again? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/n2dkf9/he_stopped_responding_should_i_message_him_again/ |
The_Pale_Blue_Dot | 2013-11-13 19:13:27 | 1,384,370,007 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 1qjzji | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1qjzji/second_date_not_sure_how_to_proceed/ | 1 | There's a girl from OkCupid I went on a date with about 2 weeks ago. We're having our second date this Saturday, going to the cinema. Last time we went for a meal, but nothing physical happened. No hand holding or even hugging: I didn't want to get too presumptuous, considering we didn't even know each other properly. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Second date, not sure how to proceed | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1qjzji/second_date_not_sure_how_to_proceed/ |
ColdCole8 | 2019-11-04 10:43:46 | 1,572,864,226 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | drfxjz | true | I Need Advice | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/drfxjz/3_girls_1_guy/ | 1 | I dated a girl a few months ago, three dates in she text me and said that she didn't think this would work and ended things. Couple of months later she messaged me and said she wanted to date but for me there is no excitement or chemistry. I went on two dates with another girl and we hit it off so I was going to end it... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 3 girls 1 guy | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/drfxjz/3_girls_1_guy/ |
ThrowRA-worrying | 2021-07-06 16:23:38 | 1,625,588,618 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | oeyd05 | true | I Need Advice | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oeyd05/i_want_to_date_but_i_dont_find_anyone_attractive/ | 6 | 33F here. I guess this is going to be more of a vent, but if anyone else feels this way and might have some advice, it’d be appreciated. The title sums it up: I want a relationship. I want to experience what it’s like having your other half. I want to enjoy physical intimacy. I want emotional intimacy, but I feel stuck... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to date but I don’t find anyone attractive. | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oeyd05/i_want_to_date_but_i_dont_find_anyone_attractive/ |
Googlealphabetno | 2017-10-21 01:47:05 | 1,508,550,425 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 77qob3 | false | null | 127 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/77qob3/to_what_extent_is_it_fucked_up_to_end_a_tinder/ | 441 | I'm a college student and matched with this girl on tinder. It was obvious we both wanted to hook up. I ask her if she wants to come over and we meet in front of my building. It turns out she is a 3/10, instead of a 7/10 as her pictures suggest, so I avoid having her come into my dorm by saying, "I wanna get pizza." Wh... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | To what extent is it fucked up to end a tinder date prematurely? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/77qob3/to_what_extent_is_it_fucked_up_to_end_a_tinder/ |
My_Bipolar_Account | 2016-05-27 05:11:17 | 1,464,325,877 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating', 'badoo'] | 0 | 4l9b3j | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4l9b3j/i_have_been_using_online_dating_for_one_year_i/ | 1 | I am 24, male, 5'6", 240 lbs. I'm a university student and I am going to graduate in 11 months. I go for women who are the same size as me. My reply rate isn't very high, but I have managed to date about 1 or 2 women a month over the past year. I have dated about 15 women all together I think. I only got laid once, alm... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I have been using online dating for one year. I still don't have a girlfriend. | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4l9b3j/i_have_been_using_online_dating_for_one_year_i/ |
wildnsweet420 | 2019-11-05 11:37:59 | 1,572,953,879 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating platforms', 'dating site', 'dating sites'] | 0 | drxyr7 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/drxyr7/what_to_look_when_searching_for_a_partner_on_an/ | 0 | Online dating platforms will show you user profiles that closely match with what you described earlier. If you still have trouble deciding which ones to go forward with, the following tips might come in handy. Make sure the person’s photograph matches the age mentioned. Many people, despite being honest with their age,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to look when searching for a partner on an online dating site? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/drxyr7/what_to_look_when_searching_for_a_partner_on_an/ |
Bananaghost07 | 2023-08-25 22:02:26 | 1,693,000,946 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 161cnof | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/161cnof/7_years_of_online_dating_still_single/ | 1 | This is mostly a rant 32F. Honestly idk if at this point im just crazy to keep trying. Ive had so many bad experiences with multiple dating sites and even tried speed dating. Ive had my profiles looked at by my friends and edited as needed. Im not ugly at all. I actually have the confidence to say im cute, ive been tol... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 7 years of online dating. Still single | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/161cnof/7_years_of_online_dating_still_single/ |
lexxxq1 | 2024-03-13 16:16:18 | 1,710,346,578 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bdvggf | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bdvggf/i_feel_so_hopeless/ | 5 | I'm 24m and i'm gonna be 25 in april. I currently work and my everyday is basically going to work or watching youtube at home or playing games but i have no one to play with 😭. I used to have a few friends long ago but we no longer talked and now I feel so alone and that i'm gonna be forever alone.. you can say i'm an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel so hopeless.. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bdvggf/i_feel_so_hopeless/ |
lascia_ste | 2023-01-03 22:19:50 | 1,672,784,390 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 102ldor | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/102ldor/are_you_more_or_less_likely_to_get_serious_with/ | 2 | How much does the “how you met” influence your general feeling towards a person you started to date? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are you more or less likely to get serious with someone depending on weather you met in real life or via dating apps? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/102ldor/are_you_more_or_less_likely_to_get_serious_with/ |
Ploikblah | 2019-11-26 11:46:34 | 1,574,768,794 | null | ['matches', 'dating site'] | 0 | e1wve3 | true | I Need Advice | 180 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e1wve3/guys_who_were_late_bloomers_how_did_you_manage_to/ | 204 | 22 year old virgin guy here, never been on a date. I've tried every dating site under the sun but never got any matches or replies. Been clubbing numerous times but no girls were interested. When I was at college I joined the drama club to get out of my comfort zone and perhaps meet some like minded women. Made guy fri... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you manage to get your first date/kiss? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e1wve3/guys_who_were_late_bloomers_how_did_you_manage_to/ |
AmsR97 | 2019-12-30 13:51:30 | 1,577,713,890 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | ehm9wc | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ehm9wc/in_dating_is_there_still_a_game_to_be_played/ | 2 | I’m new to online dating (I’m using Bumble) and honestly, I’ve realized that I do not really understand how to date with a purpose. You see, I’ve taken a sort of hiatus from dating, so I’m not too sure how this works. I’ve had my “fun” within this hiatus, but now I’m looking for something that can possibly be serious, ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In dating, is there still a game to be played? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ehm9wc/in_dating_is_there_still_a_game_to_be_played/ |
vimlife | 2021-09-25 21:41:48 | 1,632,606,108 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | pvg7eg | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pvg7eg/23m_feeling_stuck_how_to_start_dating/ | 1 | My situation: I'm a 23 year old male about a 1.5 years out of college. I have a good job, not really conventionally attractive, I've been described as somewhat awkward, and my hobbies tend to be solitary or on the nerdier side. I've been on two first dates total (both through Tinder over the course of three years). Nev... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [23M] Feeling stuck. How to start dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pvg7eg/23m_feeling_stuck_how_to_start_dating/ |
Legitimate_Top9819 | 2023-01-01 03:30:43 | 1,672,543,843 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 100avvo | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/100avvo/opinion/ | 1 | So, I matched with a guy on hinge and we have been talking for like few weeks now.. and finally last week we decided to meet.. so we went on a date to winter wonderland.... I texted him when I reached home and he did reply to me next day.. but after that day he just stopped replying me.. so what do I do text him back o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Opinion | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/100avvo/opinion/ |
Exact-Sea | 2023-11-06 19:55:31 | 1,699,300,531 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17pbf5a | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17pbf5a/breaking_things_off_with_guy_who_has_no_job_not/ | 1 | Tldr: I met a very nice guy through OLD and we had two dates together, but I broke it off with him in part because he told me he wasn't confident he wanted kids, and also because he doesn't have a job. I feel guilty about this decision, because I liked him as a person, but need a gut check. About me: I (27 F) have acti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Breaking Things Off With Guy Who Has No Job/ Not Sure About Kids | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17pbf5a/breaking_things_off_with_guy_who_has_no_job_not/ |
22062013 | 2021-05-23 20:01:59 | 1,621,800,119 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | njfu07 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/njfu07/i_wish_hed_like_to_see_me_more/ | 2 | I (28F) met a guy (28M) from Tinder three weeks ago. We’re getting along very well, already snuggling, kissing and having sex. We both want a serious relationship with one another. Thing is, he doesn’t want to see me much. Well he didn’t say it, but almost anytime I ask if he wants to hang out he’s not up for it. I’ve ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I wish he’d like to see me more | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/njfu07/i_wish_hed_like_to_see_me_more/ |
mussugana | 2024-03-09 03:06:33 | 1,709,953,593 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ba7gi5 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ba7gi5/has_anyone_went_on_date_online_of_someone_without/ | 7 | If so . how did it go? Was there a good reason to not show a picture? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Has anyone went on date online of someone without a picture? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ba7gi5/has_anyone_went_on_date_online_of_someone_without/ |
XxSandWraithxX | 2019-08-13 18:44:46 | 1,565,721,886 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | cpxfze | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cpxfze/quality_of_conversation/ | 1 | How do you guys compare texting (or other electronic messaging not including dating apps) to face to face conversation (including FaceTime etc)? I (20m) hesitate to get too personal or ask a girl out over text since I feel it may be taken as insensitive or too forward without sufficient time together. I'm on break betw... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Quality of Conversation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cpxfze/quality_of_conversation/ |
tigrequeen | 2020-06-16 21:18:39 | 1,592,342,319 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | had0b6 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/had0b6/nonold_dating_help/ | 0 | Long time lurker first time poster I have a date with a guy coming up who I was set up with via mutual friends. We met briefly a few weeks ago at a bbq but didn’t get to talk much bc there was a bunch of people around. He hit me up on FB, we exchanged s, then he came over a friends place (double date ish) this past Sat... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Non-OLD Dating help! | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/had0b6/nonold_dating_help/ |
sullyrocks95 | 2017-06-09 08:44:15 | 1,496,997,855 | null | ['matched', 'dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 6g77b3 | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/6g77b3/was_i_expecting_more_out_of_this/ | 1 | So earlier this week I [22m] matched with a girl [20f] on a dating app (not tinder, one of the ones that is more detailed about personalities). We hit it off pretty well, I think within about 15 messages over the course of an hour and a half she sent me her and I didn't ask for it. We texted for the rest of the day pre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Was I expecting more out of this? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6g77b3/was_i_expecting_more_out_of_this/ |
Prettyschoolpsych | 2022-12-27 20:27:43 | 1,672,172,863 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | zwp7m3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zwp7m3/im_feeling_like_i_should_just_block_and_move_on/ | 1 | I (26F) planned for a date with a guy I met on Hinge (29M), however, I haven’t heard from him in 4 days (since we discussed meeting up). I understand the holiday weekend just passed and people have been very busy with family stuff and quite frankly just trying to get through a stressful weekend. A friend of mine convin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m feeling like I should just block and move on | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zwp7m3/im_feeling_like_i_should_just_block_and_move_on/ |
Entirely-inperson | 2023-05-10 04:33:40 | 1,683,693,220 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | 13dg9g3 | true | Question ❓ | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13dg9g3/dating_is_dead_old_is_dead_lets_do_one_social/ | 4 | Every girl on here should do a social experiment of making a guy dating app putting a guys pictures and talk to girls on the matches you get. (Then everyone would understand what is going on with OLD, all the vices would be uncovered ) Comment after you get results 😃 I guess this would be fun! | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating is dead , OLD is dead! Lets do one social experiment together to make world a happy place ? | 4 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13dg9g3/dating_is_dead_old_is_dead_lets_do_one_social/ |
24jac | 2019-06-03 02:56:14 | 1,559,530,574 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bw5rsb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bw5rsb/how_do_i_keep_this_thing_going/ | 2 | I (19 f) met a guy (22 m) on tinder a few weeks ago and I really fucking like him so far. I was originally just looking for a hookup (I'll explain why in a bit) but something sparked and I don't want to let it go. My problem: There's only a few weeks left of school and then I'm headed back home (about a 4 hour drive fr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I keep this thing going? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bw5rsb/how_do_i_keep_this_thing_going/ |
OldTurnover9381 | 2024-03-05 13:23:17 | 1,709,644,997 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1b7533w | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b7533w/what_to_actually_say/ | 2 | Look I’ll start by saying dating is new thing to me at 25 years old. Had really bad mental health but now I want to date. Because of this I feel like I lack some of the skills that I feel everyone else knows? I feel so incredibly lost with this past the initial few messages and whatever I do say feels wrong? Anyways I’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What to actually say? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b7533w/what_to_actually_say/ |
Low-Detective-2977 | 2024-04-01 16:47:27 | 1,711,990,047 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bt8ryt | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bt8ryt/worst_date_ever/ | 1 | I thought I went through enough bad dates but today was another experience. We had a dinner date, and since I was out and had things to before meeting him and flexible we decided to meet somewhere close to him. He shows up and says he prefers walking first a bit before going to the restaurant. It is cold outside, but I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Worst date ever | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bt8ryt/worst_date_ever/ |
Grouchy-Cup1305 | 2024-09-09 01:06:56 | 1,725,844,016 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1fcdetb | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fcdetb/26m_i_want_to_start_approaching_women_for_the/ | 1 | I'm coming to year of being single (the longest period in my adult life) and I want to start approaching more women in person as I finally feel I am at a stage in my life where I both have the opportunity to 'date around' and overcome what I can only describe as a fear of women I'm attracted to. My question comes from ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 26M I want to start approaching women for the first time in a while but I'm always uncertain on signals and cues from women in public | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcdetb/26m_i_want_to_start_approaching_women_for_the/ |
Mr_Curious_Cat | 2019-10-02 11:39:08 | 1,570,016,348 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | dc8zfe | true | Question | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dc8zfe/just_curious_how_to_properly_express_this/ | 1 | I'm at a point in my life where I'm neither looking for a serious relationship or casual sex. Casual sex to my great dismay has never appealed to me, I wish it did, I've heard wonderful things but honestly when you step beyond fantasy into reality the idea of sticking my dick in someone I barely know disturbs me. I'm a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just curious how to properly express this | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dc8zfe/just_curious_how_to_properly_express_this/ |
Feeling-Parsley7348 | 2021-06-25 00:14:12 | 1,624,580,052 | null | null | 0 | o7ce8o | true | null | 26 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/o7ce8o/bumble/ | 10 | Why is it that I get 1-5 connections a day, yet about only ten percent actually message me before time runs out? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Bumble | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/o7ce8o/bumble/ |
Good_Apple6042 | 2023-12-31 18:35:12 | 1,704,047,712 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 18vdyro | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18vdyro/boyfriend_might_dump_me_over_a_text_i_sent_before/ | 1 | I [F24] have been dating my boyfriend [M27] since the start of August. Things have been going great, we have a very passionate and loving relationship. Last night I fell asleep, and my boyfriend decided to go through my phone (something he’s never done before). He woke me up and was obviously upset, so I asked what was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Boyfriend might dump me over a text I sent before I met him. | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18vdyro/boyfriend_might_dump_me_over_a_text_i_sent_before/ |
Quokka_Quokka_ | 2016-11-02 04:39:13 | 1,478,061,553 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5ao2ba | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5ao2ba/why_is_dating_so_difficult_and_am_i_doing_it/ | 2 | So a bit of back story. I was in a relationship for a long time from high school into my sophomore year of college and now I'm single. I have been for about a year (gave myself some breathing time after the last relationship) and I'm ready to get back out there but I'm finding it difficult. I tried a bit of online dati... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why is dating so difficult and am I doing it correctly? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5ao2ba/why_is_dating_so_difficult_and_am_i_doing_it/ |
Soul240 | 2024-01-08 12:06:50 | 1,704,715,610 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 191jrwj | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/191jrwj/how_to_meet_girls/ | 1 | I (23M) was looking for ways to meet up girls. Long story short, I am single, don't really have many friends and I live in UK. I tried going to clubs and all that, but I don't really like the atmosphere. I'm still working on myself on approaching girls in social situations, but yeah my main problem is how I meet them a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to meet girls | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/191jrwj/how_to_meet_girls/ |
sunbuns | 2015-07-26 20:02:05 | 1,437,940,925 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 3eovxp | null | null | 20 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/3eovxp/ladies_have_you_ever_entered_a_relationship_soon/ | 1 | Hopefully I'm allowed to ask this here, but I really want other ladies' perspectives. It's not so much a relationship question as it is a "what are your stories" question. I am 4 months out of a 3 year relationship. About 1.5 months after we broke up I started sleeping with another guy. It was a purely fwb situation. I... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Ladies, have you ever entered a relationship soon after the end of a previous one? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3eovxp/ladies_have_you_ever_entered_a_relationship_soon/ |
Barbie-Girl5682 | 2022-07-26 01:01:39 | 1,658,797,299 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | w85qrv | true | Long Distance | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w85qrv/long_distance_relationships_online/ | 2 | So am I the only person who doesn’t have a problem with a online relationship I’m a needy person and I found that most people don’t want a relationship they want negative things same things with dating apps I just wish I could find someone like me That wanted the same someone in There 20s I always get messages from old... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Long distance relationships online | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w85qrv/long_distance_relationships_online/ |
TheMissingGlove | 2020-12-08 09:38:54 | 1,607,420,334 | null | ['matches'] | 0 | k91d3m | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k91d3m/cannot_for_the_life_me_escalate_a_date_from/ | 11 | 28M I’m a pretty introverted, kind of live in my own head kind of guy, I barely socialize. I’ve basically regressed back to a virgin since I haven’t dated or asked out anyone in years now. Online apps are my only salvation i guess. Now I get a lot of matches, which makes me accept that I’m probably not ugly, maybe even... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Cannot for the life me escalate a date from normal conversation and build chemistry/ sexual tension. End up friendzoning myself. | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k91d3m/cannot_for_the_life_me_escalate_a_date_from/ |
StarRevoir | 2021-07-10 04:04:12 | 1,625,889,852 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ohbkwg | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ohbkwg/should_i_confess_to_a_friend/ | 3 | I (26F/nb) an in love with a friend of mine (30m) who has some issues. Does not have a problem with going on first dates with tinder but is very cynical about it. He has told me numerous times he is fine to be wanted around but when he's needed he leaves out. Like he's compared me to his exes saying that it's nice to j... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I confess to a friend? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ohbkwg/should_i_confess_to_a_friend/ |
leon27607 | 2020-03-17 03:10:55 | 1,584,414,655 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | fjy1uh | true | I Need Advice | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fjy1uh/am_i_being_too_shallow_or_pessimistic/ | 4 | Yes, I know it hasn’t been a long period of time, but recently I decided to start trying out some dating apps(about 1 week ago). This is considering I’m 30 going on 31 this year and I’ve never been in a real relationship. I thought now would be a good time because I’ve finally managed to land a stable job that I actual... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I being too shallow or pessimistic? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fjy1uh/am_i_being_too_shallow_or_pessimistic/ |
Winter_Control8702 | 2024-06-10 16:35:37 | 1,718,037,337 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating platform', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1dcpwh5 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dcpwh5/99flavoers/ | 1 | 99Flavors is an online dating platform that offers a wide range of services to people seeking casual sexual encounters, hookups, and other types of adult interactions in the Swingers niche. The program was created 1996 and has since grown to become one of the largest adult dating sites in the world, with over 80 millio... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 99flavoers | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dcpwh5/99flavoers/ |
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