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xymememe | 2016-06-08 00:46:04 | 1,465,346,764 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4n2di6 | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4n2di6/getting_nowhere_on_cmb_despite_their_increase_in/ | 1 | 30m in big city. CMB changed their system, started getting some quick matches but they flaked on messages, now I've got no matches for days. I would think I'd be getting more. Maybe some women have stopped or Tinder is just way more popular? I'm surprised I can't get one like out of 50. I probably have some things list... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting nowhere on CMB despite their increase in matches. Am I alone or is my profile shit? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4n2di6/getting_nowhere_on_cmb_despite_their_increase_in/ |
zzzuluz | 2017-05-15 02:17:00 | 1,494,814,620 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6b7rwe | null | null | 28 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6b7rwe/so_yeah_this_happened_demirant/ | 12 | My sister, who is going to be 42 in 2 weeks has been out into the online dating scene in my city recently. About a week ago, she started talking with a guy who she said is 38 and has shared custody of his son that's of a similar age to my nephews. It moved to texting pretty quickly and on Saturday he told her that he'd... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | So, yeah, this happened. - (demi-rant) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6b7rwe/so_yeah_this_happened_demirant/ |
silverliningsearcher | 2017-12-12 18:06:32 | 1,513,101,992 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7jcmz4 | false | null | 38 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7jcmz4/would_you_date_a_woman_with_bad_skin/ | 9 | Interested in the perspective of the men in my general dating group ( age range 33 - 45 ish) ....I flat out have bad skin. Have for most of my life (late thirties now). I have scars from old breakouts and still get acne all the time from mild to moderately bad. Large pores, oily, pale...just a genetic lottery of crap. ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Would you date a woman with bad skin? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7jcmz4/would_you_date_a_woman_with_bad_skin/ |
usukjohn | 2020-02-11 08:52:41 | 1,581,411,161 | null | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | f25qd5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f25qd5/should_i_23f_make_a_move_on_him_25m/ | 0 | So, my \[23F\] long-time friend, Margot \[22F\], and her boyfriend, Mario \[26M\], have both repeatedly suggested I meet his brother, Alex \[25M\], to see if we hit it off. From hearing my friend talk, he’s my type and we have things in common and I know he’s looking for a relationship, like me. When I recently visited... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I [23F] Make a Move on Him [25M]? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f25qd5/should_i_23f_make_a_move_on_him_25m/ |
gtsjotting | 2021-07-25 21:02:03 | 1,627,246,923 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'dating app'] | 0 | orjx4q | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/orjx4q/ansxer_attitude_dating_app/ | 1 | Dear all my single vibes, let me introduce you with a brand new dating application « Ansxer » which has been launched in Thailand for almost 2 months and it has more than 10k users already. Here, my friend, who is the co-owner/developer of this application, just launched this in the U.S. so let me tell you why I’d love... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ansxer - Attitude Dating App | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/orjx4q/ansxer_attitude_dating_app/ |
Foxxxyyy626 | 2021-11-23 07:03:44 | 1,637,651,024 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | r07eu8 | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r07eu8/i_19f_dont_know_how_to_go_about_dating_can/ | 8 | Im trying to start dating but I don’t use any dating apps and I’d like to just meet someone in person like at the store or casual conversation. Ive been in a relationship before and I’m very friendly and a very open person but I’ve never actually gone on dates before. Im not sure how to go about it and all I keep heari... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (19F) don’t know how to go about dating can someone help? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r07eu8/i_19f_dont_know_how_to_go_about_dating_can/ |
MonkEnvironmental609 | 2023-11-30 23:03:28 | 1,701,385,408 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 187w070 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/187w070/should_i_reschedule/ | 1 | Just to preface this, I’ve spent the majority of my adult life in 2 long term relationships whom I met in real life. I’ve generally felt secure and confident with dating and never been ghosted before until this online dating period of my life, it triggers me to want to pursue them more. Matched with a girl on hinge, I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reschedule? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/187w070/should_i_reschedule/ |
LarryJones818 | 2024-06-02 17:01:17 | 1,717,347,677 | 0 | null | 0 | 1d6hu3j | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1d6hu3j/facebook_dating_app_crashes_every_time_i_send_a/ | 5 | So, I have Facebook Dating on my phone, and the app will crash anytime I send a message to somebody. What I mean is, I'll be looking at a profile, and I will click on one of the pictures and leave a message. Everything seems to work fine, then it shows me a new profile, but the app is frozen. I can't do anything. The o... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Facebook Dating app crashes every time I send a message. Wondering if messages are actually going anywhere | 5 | 0.73 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1d6hu3j/facebook_dating_app_crashes_every_time_i_send_a/ |
MFRobots | 2020-11-03 11:08:30 | 1,604,401,710 | null | null | 0 | jn8fzt | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jn8fzt/covid_attitude_dating_deal_breakers/ | 24 | I've been getting to know some women via online and I do keep an eye out for certain phrases and words they say that can be concerning during a pandemic. This one woman moved to my suburban down from AZ a few months back, moved in with her in-laws...until she can find a place of her own (She's an HR person of so many y... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Covid attitude: Dating deal breakers | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jn8fzt/covid_attitude_dating_deal_breakers/ |
stayup76 | 2023-06-27 01:24:57 | 1,687,829,097 | 0 | null | 0 | 14jzivo | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14jzivo/if_a_19yr_old_girls_boyfriend_in_eighth_grade/ | 1 | Her boyfriend was black. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | If a 19yr old girl’s boyfriend in eighth grade wanted her because he thought she was white does this mean she isn’t especially attractive | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14jzivo/if_a_19yr_old_girls_boyfriend_in_eighth_grade/ |
Regnaz123 | 2014-12-22 04:02:00 | 1,419,220,920 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2q1b3g | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2q1b3g/20m_what_should_i_do_now/ | 2 | So, this may potentially be weird. I'm a 20 year old that is currently in graduate school and working. I have never in my life kissed a girl or spoken more than 20 sentences (or so) to any girl. I'm kind of confused at this point as to what's next: I am fairly intelligent. I focused on my studies a lot during high scho... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [20M] What should I do now? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2q1b3g/20m_what_should_i_do_now/ |
PivotalPosture | 2023-01-16 10:29:13 | 1,673,864,953 | null | null | 0 | 10db82r | true | null | 66 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10db82r/ladies_of_old_is_your_inbox_constantly/ | 19 | To the ladies of Reddit, I need your help! Those who use Hinge, is your inbox typically flooded? How does one stand out in an inbox of many messages? Also, what is your average match rate per day? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ladies of OLD; Is your inbox constantly flooded/full? (Specifically Hinge) | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10db82r/ladies_of_old_is_your_inbox_constantly/ |
Front-Unable | 2023-10-15 12:15:07 | 1,697,372,107 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 178e426 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/178e426/ex_m22_betrayed_me_f22_then_gaslighted_me_into/ | 1 | broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years who I thought loves me and who told me he wants to be with me forever and that I’m the only one he wants etc etc. I actually believed all of this. Well I’ve had a weird gut feeling so I checked his phone and turns out he ‘cheated’ on me / what I mean here is not actual physical che... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Ex (M22) betrayed me (F22) then gaslighted me into thinking I am overrracting | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/178e426/ex_m22_betrayed_me_f22_then_gaslighted_me_into/ |
justjoxo | 2023-08-10 15:39:57 | 1,691,681,997 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 15nfv12 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15nfv12/i_dont_get_it/ | 1 | On Friday I started talking to a guy on dating app, it turned to sexting. Met up w him that night, but before hand on the app asked me what I was looking for, what he was wanting out of a relationship. He said he wasn't looking to jump into anything, he lives with his ex she moves out in a couple mths, I gave him oral ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't get it | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15nfv12/i_dont_get_it/ |
One_Priority_1889 | 2024-02-24 18:16:41 | 1,708,798,601 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1az19nx | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1az19nx/boyfriend_has_past_trauma_he_didnt_know_he_had_i/ | 1 | So basically the past couple days have been very emotional and honestly I just need some advice to get it off my chest. Two days ago we were talking about past dates and funny tinder moments, he (m20) told me (m19) about this guy who took him on a date to a weatherspoons which I found originally really funny but as I a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Boyfriend has past trauma he didn’t know he had, I need help ASAP | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1az19nx/boyfriend_has_past_trauma_he_didnt_know_he_had_i/ |
7CupcakeKisses | 2018-06-26 18:57:07 | 1,530,039,427 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8u2nfa | true | Trigger Warning | 39 | 0 | /r/AskWomen/comments/8u2nfa/what_is_your_worst_online_dating_story/ | 20 | What did you learn from it? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | What is your worst online dating story? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/8u2nfa/what_is_your_worst_online_dating_story/ |
Write-At-Home | 2022-03-23 19:38:56 | 1,648,064,336 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tl9tqk | true | null | 212 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tl9tqk/how_much_of_a_red_flag_is_it_that_im_a_40m_and/ | 115 | Made a few weeks ago on the general dating sub before finding this one. I'm mainly looking for opinions from women, but men are of course welcome to comment, too. Let's say we strike up a conversation, get along well, and you even agree to a date. If the subject of past relationships were to come up, and I said I basi... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How much of a red flag is it that I'm a 40M and never been in a relationship? Also, how do I even find somebody? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tl9tqk/how_much_of_a_red_flag_is_it_that_im_a_40m_and/ |
Foreign-Summer2072 | 2024-06-17 20:24:05 | 1,718,655,845 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1di7zrl | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1di7zrl/when_should_i_tell_matches_that_i_make_solo_of/ | 1 | I started to make content, solo only, and am unsure how I should tell women I match that are interesting in a possible relationship about it. I feel like it may be a huge red flag, but I’m hoping being honest about it helps make not such a red flag, but yeah…. Help! lol. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When should I tell matches that I make solo OF type of content as a side gig? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1di7zrl/when_should_i_tell_matches_that_i_make_solo_of/ |
al95eng | 2019-07-22 16:31:30 | 1,563,813,090 | null | null | 0 | cgffuj | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/cgffuj/what_to_do_with_these_two_matches/ | 3 | One is on tinder. I superliked her a couple days ago. Yesterday, we matched. She seemed like a nice person from her pics, and had an interesting profile, which is why I superliked her. She had her bio as a list of pros and cons about herself, which I thought was cute. One of her "cons" was that she's an animal lover. I... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What to do with these two matches | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/cgffuj/what_to_do_with_these_two_matches/ |
DueDrama8301 | 2024-09-13 19:32:52 | 1,726,255,972 | 0 | ['matched', 'swipe', 'swiped', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fg3cxe | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fg3cxe/the_problem_with_dating_apps/ | 1 | I get likes but the algorithms never show who you match with out of randomness. I get about an average of 3 likes on apps like Tinder, and Hinge which seem to be my average hits on people who swipe right. I swipe right on tons of people but the app almost never matchs you with the people who swiped right on you. And I’... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The problem with dating apps | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fg3cxe/the_problem_with_dating_apps/ |
helpthrowaway11223 | 2021-03-09 08:49:50 | 1,615,279,790 | null | null | 0 | m12hy5 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m12hy5/have_any_men_had_luck_on_cougar_dating_apps/ | 0 | I'm interested in finding a 30-40 year old cougar that wants to dominate me (I'm 21). I'm wondering what the best way to do this would be. Does anyone have experience with any apps for cougars? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Have any men had luck on cougar dating apps? | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m12hy5/have_any_men_had_luck_on_cougar_dating_apps/ |
No_Replacement_3774 | 2021-09-24 23:14:21 | 1,632,525,261 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | puus4m | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/puus4m/guy_cancelled_and_tinder_location_changed/ | 1 | So I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now (we’ve been on 10 dates or so) and today he cancelled on me last minute saying he was sick which I did not mind at all. However I got on tinder and nosily looked at his location and it changed to 50 miles away. I feel lied to but is there a good way to bring that up with him... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | guy cancelled and tinder location changed | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/puus4m/guy_cancelled_and_tinder_location_changed/ |
throwaway67566688 | 2021-04-14 13:36:21 | 1,618,407,381 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | mqqpvq | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mqqpvq/reddit_determines_what_i_do/ | 0 | So I matched with a girl in a dating app and have speaking online for a few weeks. We have never met and she recently invited me to her place for a friend's birthday party. Should I go?? https://strawpoll.com/rkre1847q | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Reddit determines what I do... | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mqqpvq/reddit_determines_what_i_do/ |
automcd | 2023-09-04 13:15:58 | 1,693,833,358 | 0 | ['matches', 'swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | 169rqna | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/169rqna/anyone_tried_a_professional_matching_service/ | 8 | I’m beyond frustrated. IRL I can’t find anyone I’m attracted to that’s actually available let alone interested in me. OLD has been a complete waste of time. Been swiping on people all summer long and have only managed a couple matches, no dates. Nearly every night I’ll go out somewhere to dinner hoping there will be so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone tried a professional matching service? | 8 | 0.85 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/169rqna/anyone_tried_a_professional_matching_service/ |
Skakakaa33 | 2023-09-18 17:10:09 | 1,695,057,009 | 0 | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 16m176t | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16m176t/no_matches_on_tinder/ | 1 | I recently broke up and wanted to run away from this chaotic feelings. I started tinder and used it for a while but there was no matches for me on tinder. I don't want to pay a penny them. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | No matches on tinder | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16m176t/no_matches_on_tinder/ |
[deleted] | 2013-03-23 21:17:05 | 1,364,073,425 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1avnmr | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1avnmr/should_i_21f_bring_it_up_with_him_28m_again_or/ | 3 | I've been seeing this guy since just after the new year (met on an online dating thing), and until the last couple weeks, he's initiated all of the dates and hang outs (usually every few days), but the past few weeks, we've only seen each other once a week. We text every day, though, and he's usually the one to initiat... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I [21f] bring it up with him [28M] again, or should I just start moving on? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1avnmr/should_i_21f_bring_it_up_with_him_28m_again_or/ |
Is_verydeep69_dawg | 2024-04-18 02:04:33 | 1,713,405,873 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1c6rv9h | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c6rv9h/my_friend_thought_i_liked_her_best_friend_but_i/ | 1 | Over the last summer, I was hanging out a lot with a friend (let’s say Jan 26F, who used to be in my class), and went to a vacation with her (and her then roommate Erin 27F) in Florida. Subsequently, Jan and I became close friends over the trip and hung out a lot. At the time, Jan was in a long-distance relationship fo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My friend thought I liked her best friend but I, in fact liked her (24M) HELP | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c6rv9h/my_friend_thought_i_liked_her_best_friend_but_i/ |
New-Cryptographer118 | 2021-10-05 04:06:59 | 1,633,406,819 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | q1n1ac | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q1n1ac/i_think_i_need_to_change_how_i_look_need_advice/ | 31 | I'm 28 and have alopecia. I don't have any hair on my head or face. For most of my life I just thought, it's fine, someone will eventually come along who loves me for who I am. Well, that never happened. And now I'm trying to do dating apps, but getting very few likes/matches and none from people who seem compatible. I... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I think I need to change how I look, need advice. | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/q1n1ac/i_think_i_need_to_change_how_i_look_need_advice/ |
Florescent_fireball | 2020-09-12 21:09:55 | 1,599,944,995 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | irkv1h | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/irkv1h/what_dating_apps_have_worked_for_you/ | 1 | I'm giving online dating a serious try. I'm a straight white male in his mid twenties. Please tell me your experiences and recommendations. Thanks ahead of time :) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating apps have worked for you? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/irkv1h/what_dating_apps_have_worked_for_you/ |
agentvinn | 2021-04-07 16:35:53 | 1,617,813,353 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | mm63td | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mm63td/met_the_girl_of_my_dreams_but_she_is_only_in_my/ | 2 | I \[M24\] recently met this girl \[F25\] on a dating app about 2 weeks ago and we really hit it off. The chemistry with this girl is unlike anything I've experienced, even better than my past relationships. It feels so natural in every way and we've both expressed that we really like each other. We seem to connect on e... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met the girl of my dreams, but she is only in my area for a few weeks. What do we do moving forward? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mm63td/met_the_girl_of_my_dreams_but_she_is_only_in_my/ |
throwitsofaraway007 | 2022-05-22 17:19:23 | 1,653,239,963 | null | ['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | uvfhwb | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/uvfhwb/am_i_23f_moving_on_too_quickly/ | 0 | Hi everyone. TLDR at the end for folks who don’t care for a bedtime story. Sorry if formatting is weird, I’m on mobile. I (23F) just got out of a two year relationship. I am a monogamous person who wants kids someday, and my ex (41M) came out and said that he didn’t want that, and he wanted to be poly but I had the “pr... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I (23F) moving on too quickly? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/uvfhwb/am_i_23f_moving_on_too_quickly/ |
Too_Caffinated | 2020-10-31 21:06:13 | 1,604,178,373 | null | null | 0 | jlq52h | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jlq52h/were_are_looking_for_something_long_term_with/ | 0 | [M]e and my wi[f]e have been together for 7 years. I’m straight, and she’s bisexual but she’s never been with a woman due to our relationship, and obviously doesn’t want to leave. We’re both at minimum semi attractive, 19 and 20 years old. So we discussed it and decided to try and find another woman to join into our re... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | We’re are looking for something long term with someone. Suggestions? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jlq52h/were_are_looking_for_something_long_term_with/ |
[deleted] | 2014-12-28 12:27:42 | 1,419,769,662 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2qm3fr | null | null | 27 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2qm3fr/first_date_at_the_guys_house_for_dinner_does_this/ | 14 | So I (21f) really hit it off with someone (23m) at a friend's house party. We chatted all night but there was minimal flirting, just your general get-to-know-the-other-person conversations and talking about mutual interests. Anywho, we got texting a few days after and after about two/three days of talking and a bit of ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date at the guy's house for dinner - does this mean sex? | 14 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2qm3fr/first_date_at_the_guys_house_for_dinner_does_this/ |
mira0505 | 2020-03-30 21:52:33 | 1,585,605,153 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | fs040q | true | null | 64 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fs040q/does_anyone_else_feel_like_they_are_loosing_time/ | 33 | I am 37(F), divorced (no kids), after 9 year relationship and was just getting back to myself and putting myself out there. I did went through inner journey quite some time, so i wouldnt bleed on other people for my past relationship and discovering myself and sitting with my own discomfort. Then bam corona happened. I... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone else feel like they are loosing time bec. of Covid? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fs040q/does_anyone_else_feel_like_they_are_loosing_time/ |
okbutsrslywtf | 2024-01-25 16:25:40 | 1,706,199,940 | 0 | null | 0 | 19fd6r1 | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/19fd6r1/inviting_a_person_back_to_your_place/ | 12 | So I’m (f33)new to online dating and I’m extremely careful, one of the girls my family used to babysit was murdered and met her murderer off tinder so I’m super sketched out anyway, but I met this guy one day and went to an arcade which was a blast, but now he wants to come to my house this weekend and it turned me off... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Inviting a person back to your place? | 12 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/19fd6r1/inviting_a_person_back_to_your_place/ |
ishanbh | 2021-11-30 06:30:16 | 1,638,253,816 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r5gvbw | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r5gvbw/how_to_approach_a_girl/ | 3 | I am struggling to date. Dating apps are not popular. Even when I made a profile, I got no likes. I am an average looking guy. I dont look too bad or too good. Recently, I have thought of being direct and putting myself out there in hopes I will find someone. (I am 19 and not allowed in bars yet) I want to know what is... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to approach a girl? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r5gvbw/how_to_approach_a_girl/ |
tree303 | 2019-10-28 12:11:31 | 1,572,264,691 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | do7yyw | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/do7yyw/most_common_online_dating_profiles/ | 10 | I feel like a lot of profile bucket lists open up with, "1. Ride a hot air baloon. 2. Fall in Love". Anybody else notice this? What are the most common statements you see on online profiles? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Most common online dating profiles... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/do7yyw/most_common_online_dating_profiles/ |
No_Mood_4413 | 2020-07-26 21:26:08 | 1,595,798,768 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hyf5lh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hyf5lh/we_connected_and_i_gave_her_my_number_she_hasnt/ | 1 | I met this girl at work. We were working at the same department for a month and side by side for four days at a hospital. We got to learn each other a lot. Started flirting and talked about personal things. We connected really well. She told me she was on tinder and dated. Though wasn’t interested at the guys she dated... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | We connected and i gave her my number. She hasnt texted me yet! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hyf5lh/we_connected_and_i_gave_her_my_number_she_hasnt/ |
modernbee | 2024-09-20 21:59:44 | 1,726,869,584 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 1flnrs6 | true | Seeking Advice | 121 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1flnrs6/facial_hair_preference_requests/ | 15 | Dating someone new, both in early 40s (I’m 41F, he’s F3M.) Met organically/unexpectedly and it’s going really well and moving really quickly (but with lots of communication and 100% green flags.) Buuuuut he has a goatee. I’m down with a full beard, and maybe even a moustache, but goatees and the like are real turn offs... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Facial Hair Preference Requests | 15 | 0.68 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1flnrs6/facial_hair_preference_requests/ |
LibbyGodd | 2024-09-30 18:05:43 | 1,727,719,543 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1ft27f6 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ft27f6/i_found_my_fiancés_past_tinder_emails/ | 0 | So here’s the story. Me and my fiancé have been together for coming up to 4 years. At the start of our relationship we had a few turbulences where my trust in him was a little low. Situation involving him going away on a lads holiday and retuning with 10+ new girl followers on Instagram and me finding out about a girl ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I found my fiancés past Tinder emails | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ft27f6/i_found_my_fiancés_past_tinder_emails/ |
Responsible_Pop_5350 | 2023-06-09 10:10:49 | 1,686,305,449 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 14518yn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14518yn/sexual_tension_off_the_charts/ | 4 | Hi I (22f) just met a guy (25m) on a dating app. I saw him for the first time two weeks ago and we had a really pleasant first date. He was traveling for the last two weeks but still planned our date right after leaving the airport. Then yesterday we had a second date. The sexual tension was off the charts. I couldn’t ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Sexual tension off the charts | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14518yn/sexual_tension_off_the_charts/ |
Affectionate_Alps698 | 2023-03-18 03:57:37 | 1,679,111,857 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 11udq1l | true | null | 41 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11udq1l/when_they_tell_you_theyre_a_bad_person/ | 24 | I'm meeting a person from bumble today. Yesterday we talked on call for the first time and he said- oh you haven't dated before ah I'm first. I see that's a bad choice. I'm a bad person. I was thinking, when they warn you at the beginning they're a bad person, should you leave them alone? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | when they tell you they're a bad person | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11udq1l/when_they_tell_you_theyre_a_bad_person/ |
FaithInStrangers94 | 2022-08-01 15:00:20 | 1,659,366,020 | null | null | 0 | wdjla9 | true | null | 244 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/wdjla9/the_mere_fact_that_there_are_so_many_attractive/ | 132 | Some of them I’ve seen on and off for a year or more. They’re attractive, apparently have good jobs, seem funny and smart enough in their bios. It goes against the old incel wisdom that attractive women can get a guy at the click of their fingers and don’t have a right to complain. They can get sex sure enough but clea... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | The mere fact that there are so many attractive seemingly well put together women looking for long term relationships on dating apps goes against the incel rhetoric | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/wdjla9/the_mere_fact_that_there_are_so_many_attractive/ |
MoistBacon29 | 2019-09-06 07:31:39 | 1,567,755,099 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | d0dfqq | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d0dfqq/i_just_had_to_face_this_hard_reality_about/ | 28 | (M22) Went on a tinder date with someone I was insanely attracted to (F21) a little over a week ago. Ive seen them before at a coffee shop but thought she was out of my league / has a boyfriend. We matched, had a great tinder convo, and a date insued. Had an amazing 4 hour conversation with them over an upscale bread a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just had to face this hard reality about rejection and ignorance and wanted to put it out here for others in the same boat | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d0dfqq/i_just_had_to_face_this_hard_reality_about/ |
thrownaway0000000 | 2013-02-21 03:18:25 | 1,361,416,705 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 18xj55 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18xj55/ran_into_something_questionable_regarding_my_so/ | 5 | So, I'll make this as quick as possible. My SO and I have been together for about a year now and we've gone through a few rough patches due to lack of honesty on both our parts. He admitted to me that he's been a cheater in the past but claims that he has grown past that and wants to cultivate a healthy and lasting rel... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Ran into something questionable regarding my SO, desperately need your opinions. | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18xj55/ran_into_something_questionable_regarding_my_so/ |
SomeMarbles | 2023-09-30 18:50:05 | 1,696,099,805 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16welv2 | true | null | 118 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/16welv2/havent_been_a_travelin_man/ | 1 | I've noticed a lot of women's profiles (across dating apps) where they have been on a lot of traveling adventures and want to continue to travel extensively. I have most often swiped left on these (despite finding them otherwise attractive) as I (58M) have not travelled very much, once out of the United States and a ha... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | (Haven't been) a travelin' man | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/16welv2/havent_been_a_travelin_man/ |
GingerCat4711 | 2019-07-12 18:31:24 | 1,562,956,284 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ccep1s | true | Requesting Advice | 20 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/ccep1s/old_dating_profile_help_to_widow_or_not_to_widow/ | 3 | Hey everyone - I am in the process of reworking my OkC profile. Should I add the following information to my profile: \-Widowed for 4 years \-Accounting is my profession \-Homeowner On one of my recent dates, I told that there are quite of few gold-diggers out there and it can be hard to weed them out. I don't need s... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD Dating Profile Help - To Widow or Not to Widow | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/ccep1s/old_dating_profile_help_to_widow_or_not_to_widow/ |
Glass-Statement2218 | 2023-12-28 05:07:24 | 1,703,740,044 | 0 | ['tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 18slq96 | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18slq96/assistance/ | 1 | If anybody needs any consultation for dating profiles, I did a friend of mines hinge and tinder profile which are both quite successful. Please DM me if you are interested. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Assistance | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18slq96/assistance/ |
Necessary-Command674 | 2024-02-10 00:33:24 | 1,707,525,204 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1an3bvw | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1an3bvw/found_out_the_guy_39m_ive_28f_been_seeing_was/ | 1 | We met on Tinder and I’ve been seeing him for three months. Things were going great but I just found out he’s married with two kids (we had the DTR/exclusivity talk early on and he lied and told me he wasn’t seeing anyone else). It was a huge shock to me and I haven’t let on that I know. We’ve been sleeping together an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Found out the guy (39M) I’ve (28F) been seeing was married, what next? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1an3bvw/found_out_the_guy_39m_ive_28f_been_seeing_was/ |
catwomaned | 2022-03-27 12:56:52 | 1,648,385,812 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | tpjdu0 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tpjdu0/i_hate_dating_and_i_feel_like_im_going_to_end_up/ | 1 | I (27F) have been single for 2 years. Prior to that, I was in a long term relationship that lasted 9 years before ending it (infidelity on his part). I didn't have much experience dating but I still had multiple dates during these last two years mostly through bumble and other apps. I don't have many friends (perks of ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I hate dating and I feel like i'm going to end up alone | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tpjdu0/i_hate_dating_and_i_feel_like_im_going_to_end_up/ |
strictparents23 | 2016-05-20 23:19:50 | 1,463,786,390 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 4kb033 | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4kb033/really_need_some_advice_on_dating_with_strict/ | 1 | I am 20F and recently started seeing a guy (23M) I met on tinder. We met up once at my school and it went great It felt like I was hanging out with a good friend (we even kissed). But now I have a problem. My guy friend wants to hang out more but I'm afraid to ask my parents. I'm an only child (also African-American if... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Really need some advice on dating with strict parents | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4kb033/really_need_some_advice_on_dating_with_strict/ |
margiiiwombok | 2021-12-27 10:55:44 | 1,640,602,544 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | rpl14x | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rpl14x/help_how_to_have_the_commitment_conversation_when/ | 2 | I (33F) started seeing this guy (27M) about 2 months ago, met on Tinder and wasn't expecting much (after all, it's Tinder). I did indicate on my profile I was looking for something more serious, not just ONS. I thought maybe FWBs or maybe casual dating, who knows where that goes... However I've been pleasantly surprise... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help! How to have the commitment conversation when someone might be moving long-distance? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rpl14x/help_how_to_have_the_commitment_conversation_when/ |
StaticCloud | 2023-07-04 23:39:18 | 1,688,513,958 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 14qui4a | false | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14qui4a/am_i_being_too_sensitive/ | 1 | So in online dating I'm really on alert for abusive or narcissistic types, as anyone should be. I have a series of red flag rules that I stand by. In the past I've ignored them giving guys the benefit if the doubt - nobody's judgement is always infallible, it might be overcautious, etc. However, in 99% of all cases, my... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being too sensitive? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14qui4a/am_i_being_too_sensitive/ |
ThrowawayInAFewDays1 | 2023-04-29 19:42:42 | 1,682,797,362 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1334ski | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1334ski/a_guy_i_matched_with_on_dating_apps_keeps_leaving/ | 0 | I've been texting this guy I met on the dating apps on Instagram, and he keeps leaving me on seen and then replies a few minutes to hours later. Why does he do that? or does that mean he's not interested in me? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A guy I matched with on Dating Apps keeps leaving me on read | 0 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1334ski/a_guy_i_matched_with_on_dating_apps_keeps_leaving/ |
Environmental-Ad5928 | 2023-04-11 17:31:41 | 1,681,234,301 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 12ir0zl | true | null | 50 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12ir0zl/thoughts_on_raya_app/ | 2 | Hinge is the only app I’m on and I was a paid member (my subscription ended last weekend and I didn’t renew it). I applied Raya for fun two weeks ago with no referrals. I got a notification from Raya that I got in and I was wondering if I should try Raya. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on Raya app | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12ir0zl/thoughts_on_raya_app/ |
Karuloup | 2018-05-14 12:33:38 | 1,526,301,218 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8jbvft | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8jbvft/finding_dates_and_love_besides_using_the_tinder/ | 0 | I am tired of Tinder. Is there a better way to find dates and love besides this app? I also heard that you can find love on instagram. What do you think? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding dates and love besides using the tinder app?? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8jbvft/finding_dates_and_love_besides_using_the_tinder/ |
XirodovX | 2024-08-24 18:50:13 | 1,724,525,413 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f0clbi | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f0clbi/how_to_cold_approach_someone/ | 1 | I'm an 18 year old guy and i dont wanna use dating apps so i thought i'd try cold approaching someone, haven't done it yet. Need some advice so i dont fumble bad. An introvert by the way | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to cold approach someone | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f0clbi/how_to_cold_approach_someone/ |
PigmySquidMotorcyle | 2023-01-11 02:43:36 | 1,673,405,016 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 108t979 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 57 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/108t979/dating_and_meeting_people_is/ | 32 | ...really strange to me. I'm a tall, pretty good looking guy, I think I have a pretty good personality, I'm smart, and I can make people laugh. Yet no one ever says, "let me introduce you to someone" or sets me up on a blind date. I get almost no replies on online dating (despite having vetted my profile with friends a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating and meeting people is... | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/108t979/dating_and_meeting_people_is/ |
cant_get_no_relief | 2019-12-22 18:43:23 | 1,577,040,203 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ee8hqa | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/ee8hqa/what_to_do_when_the_chemistry_is_amazing_but_it/ | 13 | So I met this girl on Tinder. I'm 32/M, she's 26/F. I've never dated someone this much younger than me but so far, the chemistry has just been insane. Our first date lasted for 6 hours, just talking over coffee and then drinks and dinner (we had only planned coffee). Second date was a few days later, went to a museum, ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | What to do when the chemistry is amazing but it seems like there's already an "expiration date" on the relationship? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ee8hqa/what_to_do_when_the_chemistry_is_amazing_but_it/ |
[deleted] | 2022-09-19 10:57:22 | 1,663,585,042 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xi8p26 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xi8p26/what_should_i_do_next/ | 2 | I've never posted anything on Reddit before, so I'm sorry if this post doesn't really belong here. I just want some advise from people that I've never met before, that's all. My life is going alright currently. Just started college, trying to see if engineering is something I want to do for the rest of my life lol. Bes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What should I do next? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xi8p26/what_should_i_do_next/ |
Bigbuckrocks | 2022-01-11 22:26:12 | 1,641,939,972 | null | ['swipe', 'swiped', 'swiping', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'coffee meets bagel', 'okcupid', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | s1pidl | true | Question | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s1pidl/are_hinge_match_coffee_meets_bagel_facebook/ | 1 | There are supposedly free versions of pretty much every dating app out there. In my (24M) experience, however, I have had to pay for pretty much all of them. However, this urge to pay may have stemmed from desperation to be in a relationship with somebody, and I guess I figured that if I pay, it will get me into a rela... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are Hinge, Match, Coffee Meets Bagel, and Facebook Dating the only dating apps where you don’t have to pay to see who likes you? Or are there others? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s1pidl/are_hinge_match_coffee_meets_bagel_facebook/ |
hellcat7077 | 2020-05-11 02:27:32 | 1,589,164,052 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ghezun | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ghezun/girl_distant_after_couple_dates/ | 2 | So I met this girl on tinder and we hit off and I took her on a date, we had dinner walked the beach and played some mini golf. It was a great date and I could definitely tell she was into me. We kept texting and snap chatting for a couple days until I asked her out again. This time i took her to a nice restaurant and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl distant after couple dates | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ghezun/girl_distant_after_couple_dates/ |
josephfrancis100 | 2020-10-23 06:07:20 | 1,603,433,240 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | jghgw1 | true | I Need Advice | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jghgw1/a_girl_im_dating_asked_me_for_advice_on_how_to/ | 1 | I haven’t met this girl. We matched and we have been talking for couple weeks now. I asked her out during the first week, but she can’t go out for an understandable reason. However, she said she can go on a near future. Today, while we were texting, she asked me for advice for dating in general (dos and don’ts). Then s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A girl I’m dating asked me for advice on how to date other guys | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jghgw1/a_girl_im_dating_asked_me_for_advice_on_how_to/ |
star_spinner | 2024-09-09 17:16:50 | 1,725,902,210 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fcuu6w | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fcuu6w/having_issues_with_selfdoubt_looking_for/ | 3 | Hi everyone Looking to get some perspective on a couple "dating" instances I've have recently (I put dating in quotations because we never actually made it to a date). I'm wondering if I did anything wrong or missed a mark somewhere in either of these situations. Context: I (29F) don't have a ton of dating experience. ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Having issues with self-doubt, looking for advice/perspective/reassurance | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fcuu6w/having_issues_with_selfdoubt_looking_for/ |
Icy-Butterfly-1979 | 2023-10-10 08:08:38 | 1,696,925,318 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 174ft5k | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/174ft5k/first_time_on_dating_app/ | 1 | This is the first time I want to join the dating app. But i am really scared that the people whom I know might jugde me for it. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First time on dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/174ft5k/first_time_on_dating_app/ |
[deleted] | 2013-11-26 04:01:40 | 1,385,438,500 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1rgzvh | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1rgzvh/i_m23_have_made_friends_with_a_girl_f18_weve_been/ | 2 | We met on a dating site, and we've been texting a bit. We met up last friday, where we had a very fun date, lots of laughing and just enjoying ourselves. Now I want to take this slow but, I invited her to my house and first thing I did was try and kiss her. She looked away, I said I was sorry, and we acted like nothing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I [M/23] have made friends with a girl [F/18]. We've been hanging out, I'm not sure what I'm doing here. | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1rgzvh/i_m23_have_made_friends_with_a_girl_f18_weve_been/ |
Throwaway-1993_2021 | 2021-07-13 13:20:46 | 1,626,182,446 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | ojffzj | true | I Need Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ojffzj/dating_a_extremely_slow_texter_29m_just_a_habit/ | 2 | Throwaway for obvious reasons. I've \[27F\] gone on a couple of really fun dates with a guy \[29M\] I met on Hinge. And although the dates are super fun and I really think we click, our communication between dates is making me doubt. There's a lot of chemistry, and we've had amazing sex so far. So, judging from the dat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating a extremely slow texter [29M] - just a habit or just not interested? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ojffzj/dating_a_extremely_slow_texter_29m_just_a_habit/ |
usctrojan415 | 2022-01-22 05:10:04 | 1,642,828,204 | null | null | 0 | s9us3t | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/s9us3t/man_struggled_to_find_love_despite_having_300/ | 0 | https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10423373/Man-struggled-love-despite-having-300-matches-Tinder.html | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Man struggled to find love despite having 300 matches on Tinder | null | 0.43 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/s9us3t/man_struggled_to_find_love_despite_having_300/ |
endless346 | 2023-03-07 03:54:43 | 1,678,161,283 | null | null | 0 | 11kobxb | true | null | 34 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11kobxb/anyone_else_struggle_to_connect_with_people_from/ | 14 | For some reason aside from texting anxiety, when I do manage to go on dates, there's nothing. No connection. No chemistry. No conversation flow. No this isn't because I got out of a relationship, I've never been in one. It all feels like a big waste of time, struggling to get dates and then boom, nothing. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Anyone else struggle to connect with people from Online Dating? | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11kobxb/anyone_else_struggle_to_connect_with_people_from/ |
holo46 | 2020-06-09 15:35:02 | 1,591,716,902 | null | null | 0 | gzpfvk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gzpfvk/opening_up_to_a_girl_i_really_likedating_during/ | 2 | Context: I (m24) matched with this girl (f24)--let's call her X-- around the end of March a little after confinement began. Since then, we went on several video dates and to this day, we are still texting on a daily basis. As I'm sure many of you are aware, online dating during COVID-19 is really, really challenging in... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Opening up to a girl I really like-Dating during COVID-19 | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gzpfvk/opening_up_to_a_girl_i_really_likedating_during/ |
AMBULO__ | 2023-06-11 21:01:39 | 1,686,517,299 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 14758yd | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14758yd/need_advice_on_navigating_financial_dynamics_in_a/ | 1 | Hey Reddit I (26F) recently started dating this amazing guy (27M) that I met on Hinge. We hit it off right away, had lenhy phone calls, and texted non-stop. However, there's something that has been bothering me, and I could really use your advice on how to handle it. A little background: I work part-time as a substitut... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice on navigating financial dynamics in a new relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14758yd/need_advice_on_navigating_financial_dynamics_in_a/ |
takemesheepy | 2018-04-29 20:17:15 | 1,525,033,035 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8ftz04 | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8ftz04/am_i_really_that_bad_at_reading_girls/ | 7 | So I met this girl on tinder. To sum things up we texted daily for two months, met up and stuff but then she ghosted. Hit her up two weeks later just to get a reason and try to stay friends cause I really thought she was a cool girl. We ended up texting again but it wasn't the same as before she ghosted. I knew she was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I really that bad at reading girls? | 7 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8ftz04/am_i_really_that_bad_at_reading_girls/ |
suchathrill | 2017-02-26 01:49:30 | 1,488,073,770 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 5w7rk9 | null | null | 5 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5w7rk9/security_alerturgent_and_importantplease_read_and/ | 26 | Hey, guys, so this nasty data breach on the Internet is going on, and it's called "cloudbleed." It potentially affects a LOT of major sites, including OKCupid (although they are saying they're safe), Uber, Yelp, Medium, Coinbase, Authy, Poloniex, Namecheap, etc. I just found out about it 20 minutes ago, so I'm just goi... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | SECURITY ALERT—Urgent and Important—please read and upvote | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5w7rk9/security_alerturgent_and_importantplease_read_and/ |
Porcelain-dolli | 2024-04-22 09:06:18 | 1,713,776,778 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ca62v6 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ca62v6/am_i_in_the_wrong/ | 2 | Hello people, didn't meet someone on the app for a while whom I found interesting. Then few days ago I did. He texted me all day for like 2 days. Then Friday night he was having dinner with a friend and texted in the night he'd get back to my texts properly the next day and he wishes me a good night. When I read that, ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Am I in the wrong? | 2 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ca62v6/am_i_in_the_wrong/ |
thedeadromantic | 2024-06-25 16:21:57 | 1,719,332,517 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1doa1jv | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1doa1jv/am_i_a_bad_friend/ | 2 | My friend met this guy on hinge and they went out two times before she invited him to a group thing. She told me he was a bad texter and that she wasn't really interested. They didn't talk for two weeks and then she invited him out again with us. After the outing I drove both of them home, and dropped her off first bec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I A Bad Friend? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1doa1jv/am_i_a_bad_friend/ |
tiredgirl23 | 2023-05-16 19:58:05 | 1,684,267,085 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 13jfggo | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13jfggo/need_advice_went_on_first_date_with_a_guy_from/ | 3 | so I (25f) met a guy (24m) on Hinge. We talked for a week and a half before he asked me out on a date. He drove almost an hour to come see me and we went to the movies together this past Saturday. We talked the whole time the previews were playing. During the movie he held my hand and put his head on my shoulder. He ki... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice: went on first date with a guy from hinge and haven’t heard since. Should I message him again or leave it be ? | 3 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13jfggo/need_advice_went_on_first_date_with_a_guy_from/ |
spicedmayonaise69 | 2022-07-17 18:35:26 | 1,658,082,926 | null | null | 0 | w1e26j | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/w1e26j/what_to_do/ | 2 | So i met a girl on tinder all good and well even way better then normal. Now i was asking her to go out but she cant she goes away for a week and she says im gonna be honest with u she has a complicated situation with another dude and she doesnt know what to do. But says that doesnt mean that i need to stop sending she... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | what to do | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/w1e26j/what_to_do/ |
vendingmachinecondom | 2023-12-04 15:25:46 | 1,701,703,546 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18amigd | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18amigd/am_i_just_anxious_or_is_this_weird/ | 1 | hi. i (24F) am on hinge and one of the people i'm talking to is 27M. he seems nice so far and really interested, but he's been asking me to hang out daily or if i can talk on the phone, sending good morning and good night texts, keep in mind we started talking last wednesday (11/29/2023) and it is now 12/4/2023. he's b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | am i just anxious or is this weird? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18amigd/am_i_just_anxious_or_is_this_weird/ |
Madssermand | 2022-02-15 06:13:29 | 1,644,905,609 | null | ['matched', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | ssw6np | true | Giving Advice | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ssw6np/i_23m_just_had_the_best_dating_experience_even/ | 6 | A little backstory is necessary for this one - I [23M] matched with a girl [23F] just before new year on Facebook dating. I put off texting her, as I was very busy, but when I got to it, we exchanged a few messages and I found out she was seeing someone else - fair enough, so I told her good luck and stopped texting he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I [23M] just had the best dating experience - even though it ended in rejection | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ssw6np/i_23m_just_had_the_best_dating_experience_even/ |
sideburns180 | 2017-04-03 05:21:03 | 1,491,196,863 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 634ten | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/634ten/third_party_perspectives_greatly_appreciated/ | 1 | To start, [25m] and [20f] and this is a long one please bare with it. So me and this gal have know each other for a couple of years now and started talking more once her toxic relationship with her nutty ex started dissapating. Being the guy to vent to.... (w/e no big). We would snap and chat often. Fastforward 5 month... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Third party perspectives greatly appreciated. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/634ten/third_party_perspectives_greatly_appreciated/ |
MadMaze14 | 2021-05-30 22:09:01 | 1,622,412,541 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | nolvlm | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nolvlm/online_datinglonely/ | 4 | Hi, I'm 23 yo, I've been alone for 5 years now with occasional dating. I've been focusing on my career and I feel like my standards have gotten so high that I feel like I'll never find someone who is at least a decent match for me - both physically and mentally. I'm at a stage where I feel the need to have a partner wh... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating/Lonely | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nolvlm/online_datinglonely/ |
ricosaturn | 2024-08-10 21:00:00 | 1,723,323,600 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ep38qi | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ep38qi/dating_as_a_genz_filipino_guy_in_the_us_am_i/ | 0 | Hello, I've decided to consult Reddit for my current dilemma, and would like some honest feedback and input-- please be kind. This is not a flex, humblebrag, or troll post either, just want to get others' opinions in an effort to better myself and healthily grow. I'm a 24 year old Filipino guy who's 5'10, 175\ lbs with... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating as a Gen-Z Filipino guy in the US - Am I cooked? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ep38qi/dating_as_a_genz_filipino_guy_in_the_us_am_i/ |
OilNational576 | 2024-07-13 11:14:20 | 1,720,869,260 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1e27z8n | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 40 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1e27z8n/yall_got_the_wrong_standards/ | 89 | The only standard you'll ever need is how someone makes you feel. Do they make you feel safe, loved, interesting, funny, sexy? Or do they make you feel anxious and afraid, ugly and stupid? I think y'all got things backward when you talk about standards, as if they're things like height, money, looks, etc. It leads peop... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Y'all got the wrong standards | 89 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1e27z8n/yall_got_the_wrong_standards/ |
Tagglit2022 | 2022-11-09 14:58:00 | 1,668,005,880 | null | null | 0 | yql9g3 | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yql9g3/insinsitive_questions_from_guys_you_havent_been/ | 0 | Im a lady in her late 40's Single zero kids and would like to try of kids. Its all in my profile. I get guys asking be very personal questions even before 1st date Making me very uncomforatble.. Like lets get to know each other and have coffee befor you ask me how I intend on having kids ?? My question is how would you... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Insinsitive questions from guys you havent been on a first date yet | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yql9g3/insinsitive_questions_from_guys_you_havent_been/ |
ThunderKittyMeows | 2018-12-07 06:04:21 | 1,544,162,661 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | a3x4fb | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a3x4fb/dating_while_disabled_can_have_its_struggles/ | 70 | I want to tell the story of one of my worst dates. We met on Plenty of fish. I am one of those people who does not leave important info out of my Bio. I mention my child, I mention that I am into Femdom. I also mention my disabilities. I also still ask for respect. So usually when I talk to someone and they say they re... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating while disabled can have it's struggles. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a3x4fb/dating_while_disabled_can_have_its_struggles/ |
purpleflowers55 | 2021-07-18 00:40:05 | 1,626,568,805 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | omg93b | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/omg93b/why_am_i_not_getting_anywhere_with_men_on_dating/ | 2 | I'm 30, african American female who is decent shape with a pretty face or what everyone tells me. I get tons of matches...I mean a LOT and mostly from black men. After matching I text and say hello and although many of them respond back and we get into conversation about 20 minutes in the conversation they just stop ta... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why am I not getting anywhere with men on dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/omg93b/why_am_i_not_getting_anywhere_with_men_on_dating/ |
somewhereonfullerton | 2024-07-09 02:34:24 | 1,720,492,464 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dyrf61 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dyrf61/went_on_one_date_with_a_girl_and_now_i_cant_stop/ | 0 | This might be a long one but I need to get this out there because my friends are all tired of me talking about it. Any advice would be appreciated. I (29M) matched with this girl (28F) on Hinge a couple of weeks ago. We talked for about a week before meeting up. I had little to no expectations (as we all should for fir... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Went on one date with a girl and now I can't stop thinking about her | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dyrf61/went_on_one_date_with_a_girl_and_now_i_cant_stop/ |
brodentein | 2023-01-08 16:50:49 | 1,673,196,649 | null | ['matches', 'OLD'] | 0 | 106nugm | true | null | 221 | 1 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/106nugm/does_anyone_else_have_trouble_dating_because/ | 462 | Yes, this is my counterpoint to t from yesterday. There is the advice given to people that as they get older and are bachelors/bachelorettes longer, they are less keen to want to change their lifestyles, and get stuck in their ways. For some, these may simply be bad habits or personality traits, but what I'm observing ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Does anyone else have trouble dating because other people's lives are too overbooked? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/106nugm/does_anyone_else_have_trouble_dating_because/ |
okc-profile | 2020-09-26 20:31:28 | 1,601,152,288 | null | null | 0 | j0d9gm | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/j0d9gm/women_who_call_themselves_thicc/ | 0 | This has become common in female profiles. What the hell does it mean? Is this another word for fat? Men are looking at your pics for your body type. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Women who call themselves thicc ? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/j0d9gm/women_who_call_themselves_thicc/ |
EarlOfBronze | 2020-10-30 19:10:11 | 1,604,085,011 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | jl33ls | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/jl33ls/single_parents_would_you_date_someone_who_shares/ | 1 | I don’t know where I stand on this, when I use OLD and see people who have the same name as one of my daughters I never know if it would be weird or not. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Single parents, would you date someone who shares the same name as your child? | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/jl33ls/single_parents_would_you_date_someone_who_shares/ |
Dylbob3 | 2024-07-08 15:22:27 | 1,720,452,147 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dyblpz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dyblpz/i_think_im_lowkey_becoming_a_narcissist_because/ | 2 | Im a 19m and right now I’ve been constantly seeking validation through the girls I talk to and it’s making me feel like shit. For the last few years I’ve gone from thinking I’d be in a serious relationship 5 times since freshman year of high school to using dating apps and hitting up girls I’m mutuals with to see if th... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I think I’m lowkey becoming a narcissist because of my last relationships | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dyblpz/i_think_im_lowkey_becoming_a_narcissist_because/ |
Pudd-Rock | 2020-06-02 04:26:28 | 1,591,071,988 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | gv0fx9 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gv0fx9/good_openers_for_online_dating/ | 1 | What messages do you send people that grabs their attention and gets you a response? I struggle with starting conversations in text but because I'm a guy it's usually expected that I message first. I never really have a problem carrying a convo once it's started but I suck at starting them in text. I'm much more charmi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good openers for online dating? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gv0fx9/good_openers_for_online_dating/ |
StrugglingBarnacle | 2024-03-13 16:24:38 | 1,710,347,078 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bdvnsv | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1bdvnsv/any_apps_which_use_more_detailinterests_and_not/ | 1 | Hi all, I'm tentatively looking into dating again and finding it to be a total horrorshow as far as the aspps are concerned- no surprise there Yes, they are all monetised nightmare algorithms designed to function about as well as a fruit machine in order to keep me paying & searching, aargh... but what I want to know i... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Any apps which use more detail/interests and not just mugshots? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1bdvnsv/any_apps_which_use_more_detailinterests_and_not/ |
Dizzy_Sorbet005 | 2020-08-23 02:21:36 | 1,598,149,296 | null | null | 0 | ievdgr | true | null | 61 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ievdgr/dating_app_burnout/ | 101 | does anyone else just feel super drained lately when it comes to dating apps? i think a lot of it has to do with covid and the fact that it’s not ideal to meet up with anyone right now, but the thought of getting to know someone is so exhausting. i’ve taken a step back from trying to match with anyone so i’m not wastin... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | dating app burnout | null | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ievdgr/dating_app_burnout/ |
NRG_Factor | 2019-10-05 16:34:19 | 1,570,293,259 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ddpjuz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ddpjuz/i_dont_even_know_where_to_start/ | 1 | never been in a relationship, never been on a date, swiped on bumble and tinder for the last year without success..... I know the best way to find a relationship is to out and about but like, that requires socializing in person and not being weird advice? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't even know where to start | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ddpjuz/i_dont_even_know_where_to_start/ |
linus_vanpelt_ | 2018-12-08 19:33:14 | 1,544,297,594 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | a4dqbx | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/a4dqbx/just_physical_what_if_you_want_that/ | 6 | I just read the post about “just physical.” It made me wonder, what if you do want want something that’s only physical? How do you indicate that? Do you include pictures? Only body pictures? Do you go out on a couple dates first? ETA: ok let me edit a bit. My last three questions were my main curiosity. Which no one is... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Just physical - what if you want that? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/a4dqbx/just_physical_what_if_you_want_that/ |
Unique_Salamander510 | 2024-08-04 02:54:34 | 1,722,740,074 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ejl3yk | true | Question ❓ | 25 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ejl3yk/girls_who_are_2427_would_you_date_a_guy_eight/ | 0 | This may be a weird question, but there are so many girls on dating apps this age. I’m just trying to get a general sense of thoughts on age gaps at this age. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girls who are 24-27: would you date a guy eight years older? | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ejl3yk/girls_who_are_2427_would_you_date_a_guy_eight/ |
ThrowRA171 | 2019-12-11 23:40:30 | 1,576,107,630 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | e9fbr2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/e9fbr2/stopped_pursuing_a_genuine_connection_for_a_fwb/ | 1 | It's taken me (M20) too long to realize that I have strong feelings for a girl and I'm afraid it might be too late. I met Sarah this year at the beginning of my college semester (September) through a bumble match, although we had known each other through mutual friends tinder last year, bumble was the definite catalyst... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Stopped pursuing a genuine connection for a FWB relationship that is not working out | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e9fbr2/stopped_pursuing_a_genuine_connection_for_a_fwb/ |
hollyp0pz | 2020-09-30 17:27:22 | 1,601,486,842 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | j2qkqs | true | Question | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j2qkqs/paying_on_the_first_date_as_a_girl/ | 7 | Guy asked me out from a dating app and I suggested bowling like an over 18 one cos I dunno I just like bowling ok, but you gotta book and pay beforehand, should I be paying or should he? I’m not an avid dater soooo I don’t really know. Do guys like it when girls pay for things? Especially first date scenarios Obviously... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Paying on the first date... as a girl | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j2qkqs/paying_on_the_first_date_as_a_girl/ |
Slight_Limit-S | 2020-11-28 23:32:08 | 1,606,606,328 | null | ['online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | k2y8nt | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k2y8nt/coming_on_too_strong_or_is_it_just_me/ | 2 | Hi all. So recently I had downloaded Hinge. It’s something that I haven’t ever done before so online dating is new to me. I had a match and was talking to the guy for about 30 minutes and he was asking to meet up. From what I’ve heard it’s usually a longer than 30 minutes process. I told the guy no and that I was busy ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Coming on too strong or is it just me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k2y8nt/coming_on_too_strong_or_is_it_just_me/ |
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