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BluePilotPen | 2019-09-07 06:44:51 | 1,567,838,691 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | d0sq7k | true | null | 31 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d0sq7k/agreed_on_a_date_asked_her_today_if_shes_still/ | 11 | Hey guys, Matched with a girl this past week. Talked a little bit. Asked her out to brunch tomorrow. She agreed this past Wednesday. I asked to reconfirm if she was still down and she hasn’t responded. Do I still even show up? Her app might’ve malfunctioned? I know that’s a stretch but it would be nice to hear a respon... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Agreed on a date. Asked her today if she’s still good for tomorrow. No response. What do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d0sq7k/agreed_on_a_date_asked_her_today_if_shes_still/ |
pionell | 2022-07-17 04:34:33 | 1,658,032,473 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | w0z1g4 | true | I Need Advice | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w0z1g4/situationship_rant/ | 1 | So.. I’m Im a situationship with a girl that I really like and I wanted some opinions. I’ve been seeing this girl for about 3 months now. We’ve known eachother for 2 yeras now, but haven’t made contact because of external reasons for almost 2 years before we started seeing eachother again. Everything started slow, and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Situationship rant | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w0z1g4/situationship_rant/ |
Sadmam5541 | 2021-03-12 18:32:56 | 1,615,573,976 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | m3nvn1 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m3nvn1/is_this_girl_being_toxic_to_me/ | 2 | For a little bit of context I (19m) don’t have any experience when It comes to dating because I never dated anyone. Recently I installed Tinder out of boredom and matched with a girl who Is really into me. We talked a lot during the weekend but, because I’m with college, I told her that I had to study so I didn’t have ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this girl being toxic to me? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m3nvn1/is_this_girl_being_toxic_to_me/ |
ImaginaryArgument | 2019-10-27 18:10:13 | 1,572,199,813 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dnx6ty | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dnx6ty/hard_breakup/ | 1 | my bf (22m) and i (22f) broke up a few days ago. I'm really struggling. It was a mutual decision; We are too dependent upon each other and have some other toxic traits. He's my best friend. All i want to do is talk to him, and see him. But we agreed to give each other space to grow and become more independent. The plan... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hard breakup | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dnx6ty/hard_breakup/ |
Confidence_Low | 2020-08-28 22:52:05 | 1,598,655,125 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | iiheu8 | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iiheu8/i_just_want_to_hug_someone_at_night/ | 171 | I'm so fed up with being single. I have never been in a relationship, never been on a date, never had any intimacy and I'm so freakin tired of it. Obviously COVID has made it much more harder, but has also put into perspective how lonely I really am. How do I meet someone in these times? I have tried the usual dating a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I just want to hug someone at night | null | 0.98 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iiheu8/i_just_want_to_hug_someone_at_night/ |
skyhi11 | 2020-10-04 16:17:52 | 1,601,828,272 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | j51kl1 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/j51kl1/best_first_date/ | 1 | So I am a 23(F) who got out of a 4 year relationship a few months back and haven’t had much dating experience, the last few dates I’ve been on where meh and I did make it clear that I wasn’t ready for a relationship but just dating to see where it goes and they where all ok with that but I never hit it off with anyone ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best first date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j51kl1/best_first_date/ |
cnblure | 2022-02-25 17:38:44 | 1,645,810,724 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | t19ohw | true | null | 367 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/t19ohw/im_not_weird_but_i_just_dont_have_any_real/ | 677 | Does this describe anyone else? I’ve been working on my online dating profile recently, and common advice is to include a photo of yourself with friends. It makes sense, but it’s hard to do when you don’t have either. I’ve lived the last decade without really having any friends. It wasn’t intentional, but it’s just kin... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | I’m not weird. But I just don’t have any real friends. 32M | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/t19ohw/im_not_weird_but_i_just_dont_have_any_real/ |
ftalib8 | 2020-10-17 03:03:46 | 1,602,903,826 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | jcnril | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jcnril/how_do_i_go_about_asking_for_more_effort_from_bf/ | 1 | Ok so I (21F) have been dating this guy (23M) for like 3 months. He super liked me on tinder, v new age and romantic right. He’s my first bf after 4 years of being single and just having fun building my own independence. In the beginning of things he was like hardcore simping, putting in so much effort for the chase an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I go about asking for more effort from BF | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jcnril/how_do_i_go_about_asking_for_more_effort_from_bf/ |
quicklyhelp1 | 2015-03-28 00:59:38 | 1,427,504,378 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 30jzzb | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/30jzzb/met_her_on_tinder_not_met_she_needs_a_ride/ | 1 | She's been out drinking, we have yet to go out on a date. Should I pick her up? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met her on Tinder - not met - she needs a ride | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/30jzzb/met_her_on_tinder_not_met_she_needs_a_ride/ |
renren92 | 2014-08-20 01:41:17 | 1,408,498,877 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2e1hzw | null | null | 1 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2e1hzw/too_many_options_causes_problems/ | 0 | I'm a pretty big hit with the guys. I'm pretty attractive- I have a lot of compliments and a lot of guys trying to talk to me or get my number. When I tried online dating, my inbox was full of messages and I have a lot of guys on facebook messaging me or trying to add me all the time. I see my boyfriend as desperate so... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Too many options- Causes problems? | 0 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2e1hzw/too_many_options_causes_problems/ |
Phoenix00017 | 2023-10-08 15:46:28 | 1,696,779,988 | 0 | null | 0 | 1732dwa | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1732dwa/reset_timing_for_tinderbumble_premium/ | 1 | I’ve searched a lot for this and somehow just can’t find the answer. I have a subscription to Bumble and Tinder, each of which comes with 5 supers a week and one boost a month. My question is: when do these reset? I don’t want to waste supers by not using them in time, but I can’t tell what “per week” means. Is it Mond... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Reset timing for Tinder/Bumble premium weekly/monthly features? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1732dwa/reset_timing_for_tinderbumble_premium/ |
Internet_Validation | 2014-03-19 18:10:27 | 1,395,252,627 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 20txcn | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/20txcn/online_dating_site_recs_for_a_30something/ | 3 | Asking for a friend, nah, it's me. I'm separated after a decade+ marriage and am hoping to find a site that would work well for a 33 year old atheist, dog-lover, and serious-relationship-seeker. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating site recs for a 30-something separated/divorced woman? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/20txcn/online_dating_site_recs_for_a_30something/ |
simon_dateup | 2024-05-29 15:51:15 | 1,716,997,875 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d3fh8v | true | null | 158 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d3fh8v/why_arent_you_successful_at_meeting_people_in/ | 66 | It's a funny thing; we think technology will make everything easier, faster, and more efficient, but sometimes it just ends up creating more friction and frustration. In my case, I started using dating apps thinking they would be more time-efficient and useful. I ended up wasting more time and feeling lonelier and more... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why aren't you successful at meeting people in real life? | 66 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d3fh8v/why_arent_you_successful_at_meeting_people_in/ |
honey_ghosts | 2021-09-04 04:56:34 | 1,630,731,394 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | phl7rn | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/phl7rn/advice_for_a_late_bloomer_24f_who_feels_ready_to/ | 2 | I wish I had a better way to explain this but I'm 24F and am still a virgin. It was never a "waiting until marriage" thing but more of never got the opportunity to experience it type of thing. I was really uninvolved in the party scene or any social scene at high school or college. For whatever reason I never made any ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advice for a late bloomer [24F] who feels ready to lose their virginity? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/phl7rn/advice_for_a_late_bloomer_24f_who_feels_ready_to/ |
Kingreid1994 | 2023-08-01 15:57:42 | 1,690,905,462 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15fgk8f | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15fgk8f/i_dont_think_im_cut_out_for_a_relationship/ | 1 | I know that this is likely repeated often in this group. I’m [29M] getting to a point where I’m not sure if I’m mentally capable of dating. I’ve been in a single (bad) relationship and I didn’t handle the breakup well even though I was the person to end it. I want to be in a relationship, truly, but when I try to envis... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don’t think I’m cut out for a relationship | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15fgk8f/i_dont_think_im_cut_out_for_a_relationship/ |
CautiousAnywhere | 2019-07-07 01:42:20 | 1,562,463,740 | null | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | ca1gxr | true | Giving Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ca1gxr/a_guy_who_never_gave_me_a_chance_apologize_to_me/ | 0 | So this is more an uplifting post for people who have a hard time finding love. If I feel like it, I might post up the messages (I have to edit them first) but I explain what happened recently. So this guy was the guy that finally made me gave up on online dating. What happened was we only had one conversation but the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | A guy who never gave me a chance apologize to me recently: it really not you it's them. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ca1gxr/a_guy_who_never_gave_me_a_chance_apologize_to_me/ |
Tee1999 | 2020-03-24 20:54:21 | 1,585,083,261 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | focz21 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/focz21/feel_like_i_messed_up_things_really_bad_with_this/ | 1 | I( 21M) met this girl from tinder (19F) and we hit off pretty well. Had the same ideals and goals when it came to dating. The vibes were just right. We agreed to be FWB because she got out of a bad relationship 1 month before and was scared to get into another but she said once she feels that its right then we can date... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feel like I messed up things really bad with this girl | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/focz21/feel_like_i_messed_up_things_really_bad_with_this/ |
Cyknis | 2024-06-01 16:34:53 | 1,717,259,693 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d5qyo3 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d5qyo3/kind_of_new_to_dating/ | 1 | Hi all. Some backstory first. I was in a relationship with my for about 3.5 years, and we broke up about 4 months ago. We met through a dating app, talked for a week, had a date planned for a Sunday, ended up meeting up Friday instead, hit it off and spent the next 72 hours straight together. Became gf/bf 2 weeks after... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Kind of new to dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d5qyo3/kind_of_new_to_dating/ |
kimbrely_ab | 2023-01-17 21:16:09 | 1,673,990,169 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 10enshs | true | null | 135 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/10enshs/its_possible_to_find_real_companionship/ | 189 | It’s completely possible I just want to give all the lonely, annoyed with OLD, frustrated humans out there know that. My two cents though… be consistent, be truthful, be authentic and especially be true to yourself I’ve been a very happy person since I met my guy back in August and I hope everyone who wants to finds th... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | It’s possible to find real companionship, friendship and love… and I found it here! | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10enshs/its_possible_to_find_real_companionship/ |
chessman6500 | 2019-04-23 08:55:24 | 1,556,009,724 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'swipes', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'pof'] | 0 | bge3s0 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bge3s0/cannot_get_dates_to_save_my_life/ | 1 | I am a 27 year old Autistic male. I am having trouble when it comes to dating. I am actively using Tinder and Match, and have been going places to meet women irl, but nothing has worked. I have talked with the few girls I have matched with and messaged them on Tinder (I got 5 matches out of hundreds of swipes on Tinder... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Cannot Get Dates To Save My Life | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bge3s0/cannot_get_dates_to_save_my_life/ |
Picollo30 | 2016-06-24 00:18:41 | 1,466,727,521 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 4pjxtw | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/4pjxtw/ladies_why_am_i_incel_not_datable_material/ | 1 | ....and not wanted / despised by women? thought it was because i'm bald, but then i saw this and many many cases like this https://scontent.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t34.0-12/13521746_1149668455094921_161808724_n.jpg?_nc_ad=z-mandoh=acede7e983c847a00cdd2c14d6f45358andoe=576EEE13 https://scontent-mad1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t34.0-12/135... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Ladies why am i incel / not datable material? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/4pjxtw/ladies_why_am_i_incel_not_datable_material/ |
animey04 | 2020-01-07 18:46:26 | 1,578,422,786 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | elfq8n | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/elfq8n/what_are_your_thoughts_on_the_two_guys_im_dating/ | 0 | I’m (F/24) currently dating two guys off a dating app and am not exclusive with either. Let’s say A (M/26) and B (M/25) I have feelings for A, but he’s a newbie to dating and is still figuring himself out. So it feels like he might drop it one day saying he’s not ready for the dependent feeling he gets from dating lol.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What are your thoughts on the two guys I’m dating rn? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/elfq8n/what_are_your_thoughts_on_the_two_guys_im_dating/ |
CourtRevolutionary21 | 2024-04-06 23:05:43 | 1,712,444,743 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1bxp0bx | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxp0bx/i_33f_have_been_on_few_dates_with_a_guy_42m_who/ | 2 | I -33F- have met one guy from a dating app -42m-. I am a foreign in the country i live in while he is from the city. I liked him. We have been on 3 dates. The first 2 were asked by him and the third by me. The second that he arranged, he wrote me the same day to go out the night so it was a bit last minute but i accept... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (33f) have been on few dates with a guy (42m) who stopped contact with me and told me he saw a friendship only, right after sex. was he planning on this? | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxp0bx/i_33f_have_been_on_few_dates_with_a_guy_42m_who/ |
justforthis_321 | 2019-05-10 07:57:09 | 1,557,475,029 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | bmvjeq | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bmvjeq/should_i_feel_sceptical_and_be_less_available/ | 3 | I (32F) met a guy on hinge, we hit it off immediately and got flirty. He (29M) asked me out for a drink and we set a time and place. Night before he has to reschedule because he forgot he had plans, so we move it to one day later. Morning of the date (Thursday) he apologises and says he's sick and will likely be ill un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I feel sceptical and be less available over chat if he reschedules twice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bmvjeq/should_i_feel_sceptical_and_be_less_available/ |
AssistantSeveral5046 | 2024-06-17 13:53:08 | 1,718,632,388 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1dhymd0 | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1dhymd0/men_whats_the_reason_to_be_on_dating_apps_if/ | 1 | Help me understand the why | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men, what’s the reason to be on dating apps if you’re in a committed relationship? | 1 | 0.24 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1dhymd0/men_whats_the_reason_to_be_on_dating_apps_if/ |
HidingNShadows | 2021-09-28 17:24:23 | 1,632,849,863 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | pxb9lr | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/pxb9lr/any_advice_for_an_overweight_42_yo/ | 2 | I have been divorced for a bit over 10 years now and haven't been in a relationship in probably 5 years. I have had a few dates here and there, just nothing that has clicked. I haven't put a ton of effort in as I have not been in the best position, financially and emotionally. (who wants to date the broke guy that work... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any advice for an overweight 42 y/o? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pxb9lr/any_advice_for_an_overweight_42_yo/ |
johnny878 | 2011-10-11 04:10:33 | 1,318,306,233 | 2 | ['online dating'] | null | l7wa0 | null | null | 12 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/l7wa0/has_anyone_actually_gotten_a_long_term/ | 8 | i tried it, not as my only source of dating, but as a way to get dates when I'm not meeting them at bars. And i can meet girls off there really easy, so getting dates isnt the problem. but really, every girl ive met off there has ended in one of three ways 1) she hid being fat in her pics and i lost interest meeting he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | has anyone actually gotten a Long term relationship off online dating? | 10 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l7wa0/has_anyone_actually_gotten_a_long_term/ |
KiddoXV | 2022-08-02 18:28:35 | 1,659,464,915 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | wej7kl | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 81 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wej7kl/matched_with_a_girl_21f_on_tinder_we_talked_for/ | 128 | Hi everybody, So today I matched with a girl named B (Keep her name anon. for secirty purpos) and we've exchanged a few messages here and there for the last hour and now she asked me if I wanted to talk on the phone. Honestly I have no problem with this but at the same time when it comes to talking on the phone with a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Matched with a girl (21f) on Tinder, we talked for an hour and now she wants to talk on the phone with me (24m) | null | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wej7kl/matched_with_a_girl_21f_on_tinder_we_talked_for/ |
GeneJock85 | 2022-11-04 00:18:28 | 1,667,521,108 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | yljl3a | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/yljl3a/tinder_ban/ | 6 | So I thought I’d try to set up a Tinder account - I thought I was getting verified, I go back in and I’ve been permanently banned. I hadn’t even fully set up an account yet. I’ve seen lots of complaints about the site, but this one takes the cake. 😂 | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Tinder Ban | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/yljl3a/tinder_ban/ |
Cyb3rZom-B | 2023-12-18 00:05:34 | 1,702,857,934 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18kv7tw | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18kv7tw/using_tinder_in_miami_vs_everywhere_else/ | 1 | So I live in Miami, FL. I use dating apps like tinder. Obviously as a man you have a harder time, well at least I thought you do. I’ve rewritten my bio, change pictures, added instagram countless times etc etc. Haven’t had much success from it, just a bunch of people trying to grow their fan base.🙄 Anyway I went on se... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Using Tinder in Miami vs everywhere else | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18kv7tw/using_tinder_in_miami_vs_everywhere_else/ |
weirdfunny | 2022-05-10 20:50:07 | 1,652,215,807 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | umsexh | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/umsexh/end_things_now_or_later/ | 1 | I met a man on Hinge. We went on three dates. The first date went great, but I lost interest after the second date. I wanted to give him another chance so I agreed to a third date, however, I didn't enjoy it and am ready to end things. I can tell he's interested in me because he's talking about future dates. He's going... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | End Things Now or Later? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/umsexh/end_things_now_or_later/ |
Lower-Candidate-2534 | 2024-02-12 17:23:08 | 1,707,758,588 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ap5d4z | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ap5d4z/overcoming_dating_fatigue/ | 1 | So I’m 21F, I get dating fatigue basically any time I try dating. I’ve tried dating by meeting people in places like bars, concerts, coffee shops, gym and dating apps. I recently ended an 8 month break from using dating apps and started putting myself out there more. To explain myself, I’m finishing my masters degree s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Overcoming dating fatigue | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ap5d4z/overcoming_dating_fatigue/ |
Fit-Mycologist9825 | 2024-04-15 01:14:44 | 1,713,143,684 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1c49qhg | true | Question ❓ | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c49qhg/dating_apps/ | 3 | I have a serious question for all the MEN out there on dating apps. This has been a debate among friends. Do you ever disqualify yourself from a potential match and swipe left simply because you believe they’re out of your league, or do you just shoot your shot with anyone you’re interested in regardless? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c49qhg/dating_apps/ |
BoastBaloney | 2024-01-26 01:07:23 | 1,706,231,243 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1ab5r46 | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ab5r46/what_do_i_do_dumped_out_of_the_blue/ | 2 | So I started dating a girl from my gym. We matched on hinge and started speaking on Instagram for a couple of weeks. It was going really well. Speaking everyday, lenhy conversations. I organised our first date. I went in with level expectations but it went way better than I expected. We instantly hit it off, good chat,... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do I do? - dumped out of the blue | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ab5r46/what_do_i_do_dumped_out_of_the_blue/ |
Dagoru95 | 2020-05-04 01:45:35 | 1,588,556,735 | null | ['dating apps', 'dating platforms', 'tinder'] | 0 | gd2mu6 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gd2mu6/is_paying_tinder_gold_worth_it_during_lockdown/ | 1 | Hello, I'm not sure if this is the correct subreddit, if not please let me know. I need your advice regarding dating apps such as Tinder during lockdown. I mean, I guess people would have more time to talk so that would mean a higher chance of having an interesting conversation. The thing is, IDK if people will be usin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is paying Tinder Gold worth it during lockdown? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gd2mu6/is_paying_tinder_gold_worth_it_during_lockdown/ |
1eff5 | 2017-11-24 13:25:39 | 1,511,529,939 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 7f7ghg | false | null | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7f7ghg/how_do_you_all_stay_motivated/ | 21 | I'm getting out of a 10 year relationship (married 7 years) and I look at the dating landscape and it makes me want to be a hermit. I set up all the dating apps I could. Tried to find the best photos of me. Carefully crafted profiles and I'm getting nothing". I go out and I feel like a ham fisted oaf anytime I talk to ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | How do you all stay motivated? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7f7ghg/how_do_you_all_stay_motivated/ |
BeccaOX | 2023-03-22 01:26:47 | 1,679,448,407 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 11y26zq | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11y26zq/this_is_why_i_dont_date/ | 0 | I (34F INFJ) Met (38M ENTJ) on a MBTI dating app. On 1/1 He asked for 3-6 month commitment to try and get to know each other. I agreed. I was going on Vacation with my bestie 3/10-3/14. It was 4-5 hr drive from where he lives so I asked if he wanted to meet up. We made plans to meet 3/11 at 2pm - local town was having ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This is why I don’t date | null | 0.1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11y26zq/this_is_why_i_dont_date/ |
_Batnaan_ | 2023-08-05 21:13:22 | 1,691,270,002 | 0 | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15j6wrl | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15j6wrl/new_to_dating_getting_the_slow_fade_special/ | 1 | (26M)et a girl(25F) exactly my type on Bumble, went on 5 dates over 6 weeks, all were nice and each better than the last. After the last date we texted heavily for 2 days, she was initiating at least half of the conversations and I started seeing myself in a long term relationship with this girl then bam!, the next day... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New to dating, getting the slow fade special | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15j6wrl/new_to_dating_getting_the_slow_fade_special/ |
Pure_Anteater_5276 | 2024-09-08 00:52:04 | 1,725,756,724 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fblu36 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 16 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fblu36/hes_overweight_im_a_fitness_influencer_he_doesnt/ | 0 | I think he's afraid to meet me because he thinks I won't accept his body. So I matched with this guy on Hinge. We hit it off. Talking on the phone, even facetiming. But I've only ever seen him from his chest up. And I realize now it has been on purpose. I found his instagram (he doesn't know). And I realized that the p... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He's Overweight I'm A Fitness Influencer -- He Doesn't Know That I Know He's Using Old Pictures -He is afraid to meet? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fblu36/hes_overweight_im_a_fitness_influencer_he_doesnt/ |
aitadog1 | 2021-08-12 16:56:17 | 1,628,787,377 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | p33xu1 | true | I Need Advice | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/p33xu1/where_to_meet_a_girl_as_an_introvert/ | 1 | Dating apps obviously suck There are no clubs around me The bars around me are filled with… undateable people to say the least Please no “approach them” comments, yes I know you need to approach women (in a friendly and non-threatening way and wary of whether your presence is welcome) those comments are entirely unhelp... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where to meet a girl as an introvert | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/p33xu1/where_to_meet_a_girl_as_an_introvert/ |
_SineQuaNon_ | 2014-03-05 21:36:22 | 1,394,055,382 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 1zntbx | null | null | 23 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1zntbx/sex_for_the_first_time_what_can_i_do_to_make_the/ | 13 | I am 27(F) and a virgin. I don't necessarily value my virginity, so losing it doesn't seem like a big deal to me. However, I realize that I am a bit older than most folks when they finally cash in their V card, and as a result, this may present some complications. I've dated a bit but nothing serious. Most of my life t... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Sex for the first time: what can I do to make the experience pleasant for both of us? | 13 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1zntbx/sex_for_the_first_time_what_can_i_do_to_make_the/ |
eshook56 | 2024-04-04 16:44:49 | 1,712,249,089 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1bvs0t6 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bvs0t6/emotional_struggle_with_dating/ | 1 | This is my(28m) first time posting on this sub so I don’t know the demographic but I hope to hear from guys and girls alike. To the best of my ability these are the objective details about me: l’m a 6’3” blonde guy who works out and takes care of my grooming. My friends have rated me as 8-8.5/10 on the attractiveness s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Emotional struggle with dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bvs0t6/emotional_struggle_with_dating/ |
alienfranco | 2023-02-07 17:09:33 | 1,675,789,773 | null | null | 0 | 10w73tw | true | null | 74 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10w73tw/why_do_people_unmatch_so_quickly_on_dating_apps/ | 0 | Someone (Woman A) right swiped me back at like 2:35 AM Monday and sent me a message on Tinder. I found her attractive. But when I got the message, I was getting ready to start my day and work. And this other woman (Woman B) I had been seeing the past 3 weeks (but we're not exclusive) texted me this morning wanting me t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why do people unmatch so quickly on dating apps? | null | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10w73tw/why_do_people_unmatch_so_quickly_on_dating_apps/ |
vomer6 | 2024-03-14 20:46:30 | 1,710,449,190 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bevkqz | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bevkqz/initial_phone_talk/ | 1 | So a match happened and she suggested we go off the app. Okay after a couple of texts and a failed last minute date option she expressed a desire to talk on the phone first. So I called her but frankly I’ve never met her before and it was strained to me. I stopped the conversation as I was lost. A week later I contacte... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Initial phone talk | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bevkqz/initial_phone_talk/ |
Joel_Hirschorrn | 2024-07-07 11:07:18 | 1,720,350,438 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'OLD', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dxe1h4 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dxe1h4/i_quit_online_dating/ | 22 | I quit I (29m) have been on the apps for 5 years, had 1 semi-long term relationship and maybe a 6-7 short term relationships and a few first dates that didn’t work out sprinkled in over the past 5 years. I think every single date, relationship or hookup in my adult life has been from hinge. I had a decent profile/pics/... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I quit online dating | 22 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dxe1h4/i_quit_online_dating/ |
Nocapebaldy | 2021-04-06 13:57:09 | 1,617,717,429 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | mlc8iy | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mlc8iy/how_do_you_deal_with_not_being_attractive_when/ | 1 | Here's the thing, I came to the conclusion that im not attractive even tho' friends tell me i am and stuff but i feel like its pity ( Its like ,"listen, you are beautiful from the inside" or" you're charming"). Ive been on dating sites, tried to talk to girls ( I suck at it so much but I still try i swear) but nothing.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you deal with not being attractive when you want to have another significant one. | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mlc8iy/how_do_you_deal_with_not_being_attractive_when/ |
al95eng | 2019-10-02 12:59:21 | 1,570,021,161 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | dc9utx | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dc9utx/overthinking_my_next_date/ | 1 | I (23M) am going on a date with a girl (23F) from tinder. We've been messaging for a while now, and looks like we'll finally both have time to meet up. Some background. She has a history degree, and she's doing a program in this country doing some cultural stuff for her ethnic community. I'm a software engineer, but I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Overthinking my next date | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dc9utx/overthinking_my_next_date/ |
phaserranger | 2024-09-29 11:14:27 | 1,727,608,467 | 0 | ['dating app', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1fs20ql | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fs20ql/best_dating_app_for_basic_meet_ups/ | 2 | Hi I (28m) would like to test the waters on a dating app I've tried tinder before but found the format kind of off putting,hook up focused & didn't have a lot of success I more or less just want something to fill the gap of asking some one out in day to day life since for understandable reasons that's becomeing less ac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Best dating app for basic meet ups | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fs20ql/best_dating_app_for_basic_meet_ups/ |
ask_nae | 2023-11-11 17:39:56 | 1,699,724,396 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17szgga | true | Question ❓ | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17szgga/how_do_you_firmly_tell_men_you_will_not_go_to/ | 1 | I have been in awful situations back to back throughout my 20s when I’m ready to date again I want to prevent such situations especially because I was not even physically attracted to 4 of these men but one was just charming and confident and I’m not into them I was just lonely and irresponsible and was drinking heavil... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you firmly tell men you will not go to their house after a dinner date? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17szgga/how_do_you_firmly_tell_men_you_will_not_go_to/ |
hayl790 | 2022-08-18 20:49:57 | 1,660,855,797 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | wruf76 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/wruf76/should_i_reach_out/ | 1 | So, I matched with this guy on a dating app and we talked for about a month. He's 23 and I'm a 24 year old female. He lives about 2 hours from me so he agreed to come spend a weekend in my city so we could go on a date and spend some time together. We went to dinner and had a wonderful time. We ended up sleeping togeth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I reach out? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/wruf76/should_i_reach_out/ |
itsjustphe | 2020-09-24 06:14:31 | 1,600,928,071 | null | ['matched', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | iyru0o | true | Question | 30 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/iyru0o/how_to_cancel_a_date_nicely_after_i_already/ | 7 | I (26,F) matched with a guy (33,M) on Facebook dating 2 weeks ago. We started talking and realized we have lots in common and he is a great conversationalist. Date 1 fell flat because I had to study so he said to reschedule. Date 2 is approaching and I'm having lots of anxiety because the more I state at his pictures t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to cancel a date nicely after I already cancelled the first time? | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/iyru0o/how_to_cancel_a_date_nicely_after_i_already/ |
Thebrotherleftbehind | 2023-12-19 18:16:42 | 1,703,009,802 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18m8h4t | true | Discussion | 68 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/18m8h4t/ive_never_liked_taking_pictures_and_i_feel_stupid/ | 20 | I get WHY I need to have pictures for a dating profile, I’ve just I’ve always disliked taking them. I don’t like “posing” and it makes me feel disingenuous. Part of me wants to just take a bunch of funny selfies because really, that’s who I am, but I’m wondering if women will just think I’m a man child (and they would ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I’ve never liked taking pictures, and I feel stupid taking pictures for dating apps | 20 | 0.7 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/18m8h4t/ive_never_liked_taking_pictures_and_i_feel_stupid/ |
Miku_223 | 2021-01-25 02:25:45 | 1,611,541,545 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | l4ds00 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l4ds00/starting_online_dating/ | 3 | (17M) My 18th birthday is the 25th of January (less than 2 hours) and I'm gonna be making an account on a few dating apps to hopefully no longer be alone. I've used Yubo as training wheels to online dating but it didn't work out well for me. Is there any tips or suggestions for keeping a conversation going (I'm very ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Starting online dating | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l4ds00/starting_online_dating/ |
aknokny | 2024-06-21 18:17:29 | 1,718,993,849 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dlaqhh | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 393 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1dlaqhh/i_25f_am_sick_of_dating_apps/ | 203 | I’m really lucky in a way, I’m considered conventionally attractive, I’m still young-ish, and I’m very intelligent. However, I feel like the only guys on apps who are my equivalent (also attractive, a few inches taller than my 5’9, in a high paying job, 24-32 years old) are not looking for anything serious. This leads ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I (25F) am sick of dating apps | 203 | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dlaqhh/i_25f_am_sick_of_dating_apps/ |
Beansieee | 2020-01-12 02:37:52 | 1,578,796,672 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | enhm7v | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/enhm7v/panicked_and_assumed_she_wasnt_interested_is_it/ | 3 | So i met a girl on tinder and we hit it off really well. Spoke for a week then met for coffee (despite her being down with a cold) Super nice, sweet and cute girl. So date goes well, i text her let her know i had an awesome time. She says the same thing back Next week i try arranging a date but shes busy with work and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Panicked and assumed she wasnt interested. is it too late? did i fuck up? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/enhm7v/panicked_and_assumed_she_wasnt_interested_is_it/ |
LyuboslavAngelov | 2019-09-08 16:29:01 | 1,567,960,141 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'badoo', 'happn', 'okcupid'] | 0 | d1d583 | true | null | 375 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/d1d583/as_a_successful_uk_24m_whos_never_been_in_a/ | 2,245 | I literally have everything that I've ever wanted. I'm working the job I wanted to do since I was a teenager. I live in my own place. I can afford to buy things I want. I am building up savings. I have nothing to worry about in my day to day life anymore. So that's why all that has been on my mind for the past 6 months... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | As a successful UK 24M who's never been in a relationship, had sex or even kissed a girl. I can honestly say I have not been more miserable in my entire life and I don't know what to do | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/d1d583/as_a_successful_uk_24m_whos_never_been_in_a/ |
Bananadiu | 2021-10-14 13:07:57 | 1,634,216,877 | null | ['swiped', 'tinder'] | 0 | q7zd4l | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q7zd4l/weird_experience_came_up_in_my_mind/ | 1 | It happened before I met my bf so it was years ago but it suddenly came up in my mind so I thought I'd share... So I was talking to this guy I swiped right on Tinder and everything went well. We talked about sports, cars, favorite food etc, and decided to meet somewhere to grab a drink or something. The night before we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Weird experience came up in my mind... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q7zd4l/weird_experience_came_up_in_my_mind/ |
[deleted] | 2016-11-14 09:11:14 | 1,479,114,674 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 5cv36h | null | Venting | 5 | null | /r/dating/comments/5cv36h/anyone_else_about_ready_to_give_up_on_the/ | 3 | For whatever frustrating reason/s, are you about ready give up trying to spend ans waste time, money and stress with dealing with the chaos of dating? Ladies, a lot of you are good people all around, so please bear this in mind. But a lot of other others are fucking bitches that make me wish I was a gay man rather then... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Anyone else about ready to give up on the opposite sex? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5cv36h/anyone_else_about_ready_to_give_up_on_the/ |
upalnetwork | 2024-06-26 19:42:05 | 1,719,430,925 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dp7k12 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dp7k12/how_common_is_dating_occurs_via_couchsurfing_the/ | 1 | I like to collect some static information about online dating which occurs via Couchsurfing. I believe that this phenomenon is not uncommon, and this happens between people of different nationalities to individuals from the same country. Any further information about couchsurfing couples getting married with support fr... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How common is dating occurs via Couchsurfing, the traveller's website? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dp7k12/how_common_is_dating_occurs_via_couchsurfing_the/ |
MaverickActor | 2021-05-24 22:09:18 | 1,621,894,158 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | nk9sm2 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/nk9sm2/substance_use_is_really_popular/ | 1 | I hope that title isn't too clickbait-y, it just sounds really funny to me. Anyways, the bulk of things: I think that I realize that drinking, smoking/vaping (the devil's grass (ha) or otherwise), and some recreational drugs sprinkled here and there has always been an enjoyable pastime for people. I think a lot of peop... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Substance use is really popular? | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nk9sm2/substance_use_is_really_popular/ |
_What_2_do_ | 2024-05-27 23:49:30 | 1,716,853,770 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1d25vcu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d25vcu/missed_red_flags/ | 2 | I recently got out of a relationship and it has been devastating. With each failed relationship, I have more red flags to look out for, but they are usually obvious. I’m wondering if anyone else has a similar experience to mine and can share any insight into what happened? I met my now ex right before Christmas. He was... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Missed red flags? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d25vcu/missed_red_flags/ |
inbetweensound | 2022-10-17 16:44:46 | 1,666,025,086 | null | null | 0 | y6fzq5 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/y6fzq5/do_women_tend_to_like_or_message_others_or_just/ | 2 | I know this is anecdotal but I’m just curious - since I understand women tend to get a lot of messages/likes on the dating apps compared to men - do you tend to match that way or do you also proactively like/message on your own too? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Do women tend to like or message others or just go through who has messaged or liked them? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/y6fzq5/do_women_tend_to_like_or_message_others_or_just/ |
Charmanderpwns89 | 2015-09-21 22:53:45 | 1,442,876,025 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 3lv6nl | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3lv6nl/attraction_after_sex/ | 2 | I had sex with a girl that I met on Match.com. It was after our 2nd date, which is really fast for me. After we had sex, I feel strangely less attracted to her, both personality and physically. I'd like the opinions of guys and girls, though it would help if you said your gender. 1. In relationships like this where sex... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Attraction after sex | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3lv6nl/attraction_after_sex/ |
Throwawaytanzanite73 | 2022-09-02 10:12:17 | 1,662,113,537 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | x3xqqj | true | null | 235 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/x3xqqj/the_follow_up_to_the_follow_up/ | 36 | So it went to date 4 and we had sex. It was good, he talked about next time, chatted, kissed and cuddled for a couple of hours afterwards. Communication the next day seemed to go downhill as in sparse and after 2pm I had nothing till the morning. I have heard from him but again the energy seems low. Ok he may be a shit... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | The follow up to the follow up... | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/x3xqqj/the_follow_up_to_the_follow_up/ |
ohsoseriously | 2024-06-15 17:48:10 | 1,718,473,690 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1dgnfoc | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 43 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dgnfoc/i_cant_even_tell_my_friends_when_i_have_a_date/ | 158 | … because I’m constantly embarrassed by the outcome (or lack thereof). I was supposed to go on a brunch date today; it was our second date. We had some nice banter on Hinge, met up for drinks, which turned into dinner. He said he wanted to see me again, made plans and a reservation. I decided not to tell anyone. I didn... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I can’t even tell my friends when I have a date anymore … | 158 | 0.96 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dgnfoc/i_cant_even_tell_my_friends_when_i_have_a_date/ |
Bmolkun36 | 2023-12-15 19:16:36 | 1,702,667,796 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 18j7v23 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18j7v23/i_need_some_me_time/ | 2 | For context I am new to dating and have never been in a relationship before. I (20) have been talking to a girl (23) for almost a month. We match on a dating app, and she was and still is very responsive and keeps the conversation going. We've exchanged phone numbers, say good mornings/goodnights (I read that's a good ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | "I need some me time" | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18j7v23/i_need_some_me_time/ |
itscool83 | 2019-08-03 23:44:08 | 1,564,875,848 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | clpkkc | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/clpkkc/what_would_you_do_here/ | 1 | I exchanged a few messages with a lady i matched up with on a dating app. Last Tuesday she suggested meeting up for a drink to which i responded (same day) to let me know when she's free. i barely got a message today from her that shes free tomorrow. unfortunately i have plans already. on top of that she suggested meet... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What would you do here? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/clpkkc/what_would_you_do_here/ |
anabatista | 2013-05-27 16:33:04 | 1,369,672,384 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1f56ur | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating/comments/1f56ur/dating_that_works_no_subscription_fees/ | 1 | Online Dating Millionaire. Name Your Price for a First Date? First Date with Very Rich Men. http://cleverdate.com/lp/lp2/ Kindly click on the above ad or copy the below URL and paste it in your browser. http://cleverdate.com/lp/lp2/?ac_token=h1dURBtZpN6H1PNandcid=8andutk=X96OhzIFMwKVmZ | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating that works No Subscription Fees | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f56ur/dating_that_works_no_subscription_fees/ |
code_d24 | 2021-03-20 16:06:22 | 1,616,256,382 | null | null | 0 | m9a0ki | true | null | 35 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m9a0ki/took_a_chance_with_someone_who_i_thought_was/ | 43 | Recently, I've (31M) set a rule that, if the person I'm messaging doesn't reciprocate anything in three exchanges, I move on. I had recently matched with a girl, started chatting with her, and got minimal reciprocation. Not quite zero as I've had with others, but not enough to make me feel confident in her interest lev... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Took a chance with someone who I thought was potentially uninterested.... | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m9a0ki/took_a_chance_with_someone_who_i_thought_was/ |
NahNah80 | 2020-11-25 23:08:37 | 1,606,345,717 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | k13a6w | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/k13a6w/am_i_over_thinking_it/ | 3 | So first time poster on here; apologies if I post wrong. A few months ago I (39f) matched with someone 40(m) on Tinder in a city that I was only going to be in for couple of weeks (Which was made known). Anyways we chatted constantly every day for almost a week before we were able to lock a day in for a first date. He ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I over thinking it? | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/k13a6w/am_i_over_thinking_it/ |
razullinky | 2015-05-20 01:06:02 | 1,432,083,962 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 36keyk | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/36keyk/me_22m_going_on_date_4_with_no_kiss_yet_18f/ | 11 | Hello everyone, Quick background: I met this girl on tinder a last week, we got talking a bunch and then I snagged her number and hung out with her a few days after. The first date was awesome, we went to a board game/coffee spot and really touched based. She brought weed brownies and than we went back to my place and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | ME [22M] Going on date 4 with NO KISS yet [18F] | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/36keyk/me_22m_going_on_date_4_with_no_kiss_yet_18f/ |
Visible_Implement_80 | 2024-01-14 02:43:20 | 1,705,200,200 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1965dlv | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/1965dlv/anyone_had_success_with_the_bff_option_on_bumble/ | 16 | I am curious about experiences those here on DO50 have had because I value your opinions. So I am not asking on that subreddit. Thank you! | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Anyone had success with the BFF option on Bumble? | 16 | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/1965dlv/anyone_had_success_with_the_bff_option_on_bumble/ |
Herren117 | 2020-08-24 15:58:26 | 1,598,284,706 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ifrpin | true | I Need Advice | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ifrpin/i_just_realized_that_i_dont_know_how_to_meet_or/ | 15 | Since graduating school 9 years ago I've only ever met women on dating apps. I want to dump online dating it doesn't work, it causes self esteem issues and even more fear of rejection, being newly single after ending a 2 year relationship I'm ready to start practicing to meet women in real life. So where? Where do I go... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just realized that I don't know how to meet or interact with women that I want to date outside of dating apps, I need help! | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ifrpin/i_just_realized_that_i_dont_know_how_to_meet_or/ |
AdmirableFinish754 | 2023-07-22 22:21:12 | 1,690,064,472 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 156x4na | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/156x4na/are_women_on_dating_apps_perceived_as_easy/ | 1 | I’ve had potential dates ask if I was sleeping around with other men off the dating app. What’s going on? Are women on dating apps perceived as easy ? I’m never going to use dating apps ever again. I’m done | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are women on dating apps perceived as easy ? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/156x4na/are_women_on_dating_apps_perceived_as_easy/ |
tmps1993 | 2023-08-25 22:02:20 | 1,693,000,940 | 0 | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | 161cnku | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/161cnku/reddit_needs_to_add_a_dating_feature_would_be/ | 1 | Maybe similar to the Bumble speed dating concept. The women who post on here are 10,000x more down to earth than anyone on Bumble. If one of these women were even remotely close to my area I'd get dinner so damn fast. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Reddit needs to add a dating feature, would be most successful dating app | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/161cnku/reddit_needs_to_add_a_dating_feature_would_be/ |
EmmyLou205 | 2024-03-12 02:44:11 | 1,710,211,451 | 0 | null | 0 | 1bcmdz3 | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1bcmdz3/were_probably_mismatched_right/ | 16 | We've been texting for a week via Bumble. Today he got to the point and asked what kind of future I wanted, which I appreciated. When you're in your mid-late 30s, which we are, it's easier to get to the point. Anyway, I basically told him definitely marriage and MAYBE kids someday. Not tomorrow or anything. He said he ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | We're probably mismatched, right? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1bcmdz3/were_probably_mismatched_right/ |
tzvio | 2023-01-28 12:37:36 | 1,674,909,456 | null | ['matches', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 10ne42b | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10ne42b/profile_review/ | 1 | Hi, i want to know if it's ok. . I use the same profile on bumble, tinder and Meetic, But i still got few matches a week, even with boosting! i live in France, but I'm an expat. I don't know , if thats the way it goes , or there is need for improvement https://imgur.com/a/eZFGDM4 I'll put a rough translation of my desc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Profile review | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10ne42b/profile_review/ |
AeronauticPenguin | 2017-07-28 03:16:59 | 1,501,211,819 | null | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 6q15g6 | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/6q15g6/im_not_sure_whats_going_on_advice/ | 1 | So, I met this girl on okcupid back in January and we talked back and forth every so often for the next few months. We became good friends. We were trying to plan something to hang out during that time, but it fell through. She and I felt bad that work, school, and life were preventing that from happening. Fast forward... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm not sure what's going on. Advice? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/6q15g6/im_not_sure_whats_going_on_advice/ |
redisaac6 | 2023-06-04 13:20:58 | 1,685,884,858 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 140cwc9 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/140cwc9/now_what/ | 4 | I am a 40M, recently divorced and getting back into dating. I have a strong professional job and am youthful/athletic. A few weeks ago, a 30F found me on bumble and we started chatting and had a nice two hour call..good mix of laughs and deeper stuff, who we are etc..we ended the call agreeing to another call a few day... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Now what? | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/140cwc9/now_what/ |
itfloats12 | 2019-08-10 20:21:57 | 1,565,468,517 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | con3y0 | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/con3y0/i_dont_know_what_i_did_wrong_and_its_killing_me/ | 5 | So I met this guy online in December. He is 32 and I am 28F. I was instantly attracted to him, both by looks and personality, I thought he was the whole package. We went on 4 dates total and for the most part I felt like we a really good time together. But on a few of the dates and particularly the last one, I apparent... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t know what I did wrong and it’s killing me. Am I a terrible person? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/con3y0/i_dont_know_what_i_did_wrong_and_its_killing_me/ |
anonamouslyours | 2024-09-08 13:11:43 | 1,725,801,103 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fbxgbe | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fbxgbe/met_a_beautiful_cowgirl_at_a_music_festival_but/ | 0 | I was at this music festival, dressed as a cowboy, with this random chick I met. It was all vibes until I bump into this absolute ray of sunshine. She’s dressed as a cowgirl, and instantly, there’s this insane connection between us. The night keeps getting better, and eventually, she grabs my hand as we’re walking to a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met a Beautiful Cowgirl at a Music Festival, But Now I’m Not Sure What Happened Next… | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fbxgbe/met_a_beautiful_cowgirl_at_a_music_festival_but/ |
Sporckk | 2023-07-24 12:29:55 | 1,690,201,795 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 1589bhm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1589bhm/feelings_for_a_woman_in_an_open_polyamorous/ | 1 | So, I need to start this out with describing the situation the woman in question is in before going into the night we had together. Keep in mind this is a first for me. So, recently, I matched on a dating app with a woman I find very attractive. Of course, before matching and talking a bit, it had only been a physical ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feelings for a woman in an open, polyamorous relationship. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1589bhm/feelings_for_a_woman_in_an_open_polyamorous/ |
Upstairs_Character | 2023-03-30 22:10:04 | 1,680,214,204 | null | null | 0 | 1270wr2 | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1270wr2/question_for_women_on_this_page_if_youve_had_over/ | 0 | Specifically for dating apps: I ask because this isn't an abnormality; this is pretty much the standard for any mediocre to attractive girl on the app. The continuous stream of "we just weren't compatible." for the past 1,000+ matches, and 40+ dates, why would that all of the sudden change? The definition of insanity i... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Question for women on this page: If you've had over the past couple years... 1,000+ guys ask you out, 40+ first dates, and 0 relationships, what makes you think that you're ever going to actually get into a relationship? | null | 0.3 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1270wr2/question_for_women_on_this_page_if_youve_had_over/ |
ChewyOnTheInside | 2022-04-11 19:48:39 | 1,649,706,519 | null | null | 0 | u1fsz1 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u1fsz1/hey_guys_dont_be_afraid_to_increase_your_distance/ | 1 | I don't know if it's true across the board, but I find girls living in less populated areas much more responsive and forgiving. Less competition maybe? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Hey guys, don't be afraid to increase your distance range | null | 0.56 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u1fsz1/hey_guys_dont_be_afraid_to_increase_your_distance/ |
existentialist_ing | 2018-03-23 21:57:24 | 1,521,842,244 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 86ohzg | false | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/86ohzg/had_my_first_old_spark_now_what/ | 26 | Totally unexpected. Her pictures were grainy and her description read more like a warning, but every message we exchanged felt like I was talking to an old friend who shared the same interests. Maybe that's why I felt the spark. I was already expecting to be disappointed on our first date. I didn't even lookup when I h... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Had my first OLD spark. Now what? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/86ohzg/had_my_first_old_spark_now_what/ |
drowsy-god | 2024-07-10 15:33:35 | 1,720,625,615 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1dzyqs8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dzyqs8/i_really_like_this_guy_after_a_toxic_ltr_but_ive/ | 1 | So, I(25F) broke up with my boyfriend(28M) of 3 years2 months ago when I finally realized this relationship will never make me happy. This is after a long string of fights, lies and infidelity on his part. I used to think I would never get loving him, but turns out that’s not the case. 2 weeks ago, I met someone(28M) o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I really like this guy after a toxic ltr but I’ve forgotten how dating works | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dzyqs8/i_really_like_this_guy_after_a_toxic_ltr_but_ive/ |
manasia | 2023-05-07 13:55:15 | 1,683,467,715 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 13aod60 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/13aod60/old_site_elite_singles/ | 4 | Anyone ever use elite singles? I am on day 3 and it is not as elite as they claimed lol. | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD Site - Elite Singles | 4 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/13aod60/old_site_elite_singles/ |
4ourBangin | 2023-04-08 13:48:08 | 1,680,961,688 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 12fmn5t | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12fmn5t/help_me_not_sabotage_this_over_thinker_who_likes/ | 2 | Hello mystical reddit people, sorry longish post I need some advice, I (29M) matched with a (32F) on Monday. Had some really solid back and forth conversation. The odd time it would take her a while to reply, I even ended up sending her a double message at one point lol. Anyway got her phone number and tried to set up ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me not sabotage this (over thinker who likes to ruin new relationships) | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12fmn5t/help_me_not_sabotage_this_over_thinker_who_likes/ |
LexieDream | 2020-08-05 07:07:35 | 1,596,611,255 | null | ['dating app', 'bumble'] | 0 | i40o8w | true | Question | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/i40o8w/which_dating_app_do_you_prefer_and_why/ | 1 | I’ve used Bumble with zero results, and Coffee Meets Bagle with low results, and OKC with very mixed results (mostly sketchy people in my experience). WHat I hate most are the apps which only give users 24hr to respond to a match Especially if you pay, this limit isn’t reasonable IMO. So, wHich dating app would you rec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which dating app do you prefer, and why? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/i40o8w/which_dating_app_do_you_prefer_and_why/ |
ovenproofstorm | 2024-05-03 17:45:41 | 1,714,758,341 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cjerm7 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cjerm7/did_she_lose_interest_and_change_her_mind_or_am_i/ | 1 | I met a girl on a dating app last week and we chatted a bit with a lot of fun banter and I eventually asked if we could keep this conversation going over drinks. She enthusiastically replied yes and gave me her number and insta. We texted a little more(not much since it was late) and the next day I asked if she was fre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did she lose interest and change her mind or am I just overthinking it | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cjerm7/did_she_lose_interest_and_change_her_mind_or_am_i/ |
Omgimetim | 2017-03-17 17:31:56 | 1,489,771,916 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5zyzha | null | null | 6 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5zyzha/the_disappear_and_come_back/ | 1 | So I met this guy one time from online dating. Talked for too long (like two months) before we could meet. Met it was short and whatever but then after he says nothing past friends. That's fine lol, wasn't looking for much anyways just seeing what was out there. Anyways tried the small talk thing after and nothing came... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The disappear and come back?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5zyzha/the_disappear_and_come_back/ |
Biskit88 | 2022-11-21 02:38:24 | 1,668,998,304 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | z0n3o1 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z0n3o1/is_there_an_ok_way_to_ask_for_feedback_after/ | 1 | I am a single man and have been attempting online dating for the last 4 years. In that time I would estimate I've gone out with nearly 100 women so I don't have any huge issues getting a first date. The problem is that I often feel like I'm making a real connection but nearly always get rejected after 1-4 dates. Gettin... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is there an ok way to ask for feedback after rejection? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z0n3o1/is_there_an_ok_way_to_ask_for_feedback_after/ |
skorpeo72 | 2019-02-13 18:54:01 | 1,550,084,041 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | aqa02n | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/aqa02n/feeling_like_a_jerk/ | 1 | So basically I recently became single again and decided to join a dating site , I have been overwhelmed with responses and wonderful women. I literally have all my free time booked with dates in the upcoming days , The problem is these are all amazing women And all looking for happily ever after as am I and I feel like... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Feeling like a jerk | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/aqa02n/feeling_like_a_jerk/ |
andyy11 | 2023-04-05 22:44:05 | 1,680,734,645 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 12d0lr3 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/12d0lr3/dating_a_younger_man_25m_while_i_30f_want_to/ | 1 | I (30f) had a great first date with a man (25m) that is 5 years younger than me. I’ve never dated anyone this young. We’re from the same culture so it’s quite easy to find similarities between us. What I’m worried the most is that he seems to be in a quite different stage of life compared to me. I want to settle down a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a younger man (25m) while I (30f) want to start a family soon | 1 | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12d0lr3/dating_a_younger_man_25m_while_i_30f_want_to/ |
DPP-Ghost | 2024-09-20 15:16:12 | 1,726,845,372 | 0 | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | 1fleh3y | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fleh3y/discussion_this_is_a_friendly_reminder_that_youre/ | 2 | Hi everyone, Tonight I had a dinner with a good mate of mine. He confessed that online dating has ruined his self esteem. As experienced by most men, he's been struggling to get any matches, and it's making him feel undesirable. It was sad to see my friend so dejected. When in reality he's a fantastic guy, with a lot t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [Discussion] This is a friendly reminder that you're so much more than your online dating profile! | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fleh3y/discussion_this_is_a_friendly_reminder_that_youre/ |
StaticNocturne | 2023-09-07 05:59:06 | 1,694,066,346 | 0 | null | 0 | 16c7wyy | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/16c7wyy/people_seem_more_jaded_and_lazy_than_ever_right/ | 1 | Can hardly even get a response out of anybody and when they do it’s usually a short conversation killer. It wasn’t this bad even half a year ago, and my approach is the same as ever Maybe it’s because I’m chatting to more women in their later 20s and early 30s who have been fucked around too many times? It’s so boring ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | People seem more jaded and lazy than ever right now | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16c7wyy/people_seem_more_jaded_and_lazy_than_ever_right/ |
Yass_King | 2018-01-29 02:02:22 | 1,517,191,342 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7tp023 | false | null | 29 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/7tp023/finally_realized_what_women_mean_when_they_say/ | 40 | TL;DR: Dating experience has made me realize that when women say they want "adventure," they often don't mean literal adventure, but the thrill of great chemistry with someone new and exciting. _________________________ It used to annoy me when I'd see yet another woman's online dating profile blandly mention she likes... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Finally realized what women mean when they say they want "adventure" | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7tp023/finally_realized_what_women_mean_when_they_say/ |
Majestic_Indication5 | 2022-11-02 18:35:18 | 1,667,414,118 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ykd32a | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ykd32a/why_does_tinder_keep_showing_me_the_same_people/ | 1 | I have my miles set to 35 and my age group set and tinder keeps cycling me through the same people every time I open the app. Is this a glitch? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why does tinder keep showing me the same people? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ykd32a/why_does_tinder_keep_showing_me_the_same_people/ |
minniemargs | 2022-08-30 22:48:42 | 1,661,899,722 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | x1x04h | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/x1x04h/hes_confused/ | 0 | I (22f) met this guy (26m) on hinge and I on our first date I was so sure that this man is the one, he checked of all the boxes. Everything was going well until I felt him pulling away. Couple dates in, he confesses that there is another girl from his friend group that re appeared in his life and got him confused about... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | He’s confused? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x1x04h/hes_confused/ |
Darth_Anxious | 2022-06-12 10:10:17 | 1,655,028,617 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | vaixax | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/vaixax/rejecting_a_girl_because_im_not_attracted_to_her/ | 0 | I'm pretty new to the whole dating thing. Recently matched with a girl on tender and started talking to her. We get along pretty well and conversations flow pretty smoothly. Last night, she said she was in town and if I wanted to hang out. We joked about this possibly being a hook-up and both of us seems open to the id... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Rejecting a girl because I'm not attracted to her | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/vaixax/rejecting_a_girl_because_im_not_attracted_to_her/ |
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