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SnooLentils7179 | 2024-08-11 12:47:01 | 1,723,380,421 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1epjz5k | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1epjz5k/dating_apps_conditions_in_india/ | 3 | Why it's almost impossible for boys to have a match on any dating apps exists in india? I have tried 4 to 5 dating apps including popular ones but it is not working for me. Infact not just me. I have asked many boys who are also have the same situation. I know few boys are lucky enough to have a fruitful result out of ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps conditions in india | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1epjz5k/dating_apps_conditions_in_india/ |
hardconversation | 2014-02-25 20:35:12 | 1,393,360,512 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1yx82u | null | null | 85 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/1yx82u/spinoff_question_re_what_do_you_think_about_trans/ | 16 | As of yesterdays concerning transwomen dating without disclosing their gender status, I'm convinced that my good friend (a 25M2F transwoman) needs to rethink her dating strategy. Ever since she began her transition, she's stuck to her guns about only wanting to date guys who aren't immediately aware that she was born... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Spinoff question re: "What do you think about Trans Women not telling their dates about being trans?" How to apply your advice to a transwoman friend who only wants to date average "straight" guys? | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1yx82u/spinoff_question_re_what_do_you_think_about_trans/ |
[deleted] | 2013-01-05 23:19:31 | 1,357,427,971 | 0 | ['online dating', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 16145q | null | null | 0 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/16145q/online_dating_profile_need_critique_and_advice/ | 1 | It's really awkward for me to post this here but I really need help. So far on OKCupid I haven't got anyone interested in me that I like. So far I'm only getting people who are one of the following: very serious about their religion, bisexual, transgenders, wheel-chair bound, obese and emotional, or someone with kids a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating profile, need critique and advice | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16145q/online_dating_profile_need_critique_and_advice/ |
Academic-Lie-6038 | 2023-01-07 05:25:29 | 1,673,069,129 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 105gtml | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/105gtml/why_are_we_still_single_and_can_we_help_ourselves/ | 0 | This is based on my experience on dating apps, friends trying to find a partner over a course of few years. Everyone is welcome to agree or disagree. Why are well placed, people with sane minds still single Scenario 1. A girl is 6. She wants a guy who is 7 because she has been conditioned to believe that because she is... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why are we still single and can we help ourselves? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/105gtml/why_are_we_still_single_and_can_we_help_ourselves/ |
rocksUnder_Chickens | 2018-10-22 19:39:50 | 1,540,237,190 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | 9qh8d0 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9qh8d0/tinder_opening/ | 1 | Hey all Just started on Tinder and had one or two matches so far. Any ideas of opening lines? I am not that great at dating (been 5 years since my last one). | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder opening | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9qh8d0/tinder_opening/ |
Space_L | 2024-04-28 11:13:16 | 1,714,302,796 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cf3yio | true | Question ❓ | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cf3yio/where_to_get_pictures_for_dating_apps_if_you_are/ | 9 | After several years of loneliness, I decided to give Tinder a chance again. The problem is photos, or rather the lack of them. How am I supposed to take them without basically having anyone to take them for me? I have one buddy, but because of her family, we meet either at his place or at my place. All my friends have ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Where to get pictures for dating apps if you are alone? | 9 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cf3yio/where_to_get_pictures_for_dating_apps_if_you_are/ |
pooey_canoe | 2024-08-31 19:43:59 | 1,725,133,439 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1f5vpl8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 44 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f5vpl8/im_always_peoples_first_date_after_they_leave_a/ | 39 | M age 37. Here is the pattern for all my dates (bar one) for the past three years: 1) Match and chat with a girl, go out on the date and have really good chats, occasionally hook up 2) Get a message saying they had a lovely time but it's "too soon to settle" or they're "not ready for dating" 3) They immediately meet so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I'm always people's first date after they leave a long term relationship and it's killing me | 39 | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f5vpl8/im_always_peoples_first_date_after_they_leave_a/ |
walkingonwires36 | 2019-11-12 03:54:12 | 1,573,530,852 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | dv4hc6 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/dv4hc6/trying_to_date_someone_who_doesnt_live_close/ | 1 | All I ever seem to get matched with are women who live an hour or so away. In the grand scheme of things that's not that far, but they still aren't close. How do you deal with this? Typically I like to see someone I'm dating at least two or three times a week, but with something like this I'm feeling it would be a lot ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Trying to date someone who doesn't live close... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/dv4hc6/trying_to_date_someone_who_doesnt_live_close/ |
unicornslayer786 | 2021-03-02 00:34:19 | 1,614,645,259 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | lvpf8n | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lvpf8n/in_need_of_a_serious_wake_up_call/ | 1 | Hi Everyone, About 5 months ago, I (F/22) started talking to this guy on a dating app (M/25) and very soon we planned a date for two weeks later. During the days leading up to the date, he would sometimes ignore my messages but would reply later. I did ask if the interest was fading away and he said no it’s still there... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | In need of a serious wake up call. | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lvpf8n/in_need_of_a_serious_wake_up_call/ |
Page88_Throwaway | 2022-08-15 04:58:12 | 1,660,539,492 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | woqpwi | true | null | 889 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/woqpwi/single_emotionally_available_men_where_do_you/ | 792 | Does anyone have any advice for meeting men in real life? Historically, I have met men on dating apps or Reddit. It always seemed easier that way. But lately it's just one disaster after another. I seem to attract men that have no idea what they want and end up wasting my time. I'm currently sitting in my living room, ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Single, emotionally available men... where do you hang out? | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/woqpwi/single_emotionally_available_men_where_do_you/ |
simplenyc | 2018-01-08 20:17:42 | 1,515,442,662 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7p1ceg | false | Question | 13 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7p1ceg/online_dating_is_ruining_us/ | 12 | Do you feel online dating is completely degrading our social abilities? Do you feel confident to go out to a bar or club or library and approach a woman or man, or would you prefer to do that online? Isn’t this “how it used to be”? I’m afraid for our generation, but more so generations to come... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online Dating is Ruining Us | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7p1ceg/online_dating_is_ruining_us/ |
d01357 | 2018-10-28 15:15:35 | 1,540,739,735 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9s3v6s | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9s3v6s/getting_ignored_at_tinder_and_other_web_apps/ | 1 | Sup doods. I don't know it's me or this happen too often. I was ignored for 100th time in web. Girls ignore my messages on Tinder on Instagram even on game portals. I don't write creepy stuff or something and I don't understand why. Girls ignore my after first or second message. Please explain me some1. I'ts getting on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting ignored at tinder and other web apps. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9s3v6s/getting_ignored_at_tinder_and_other_web_apps/ |
Experimentalphone | 2022-12-31 10:46:00 | 1,672,483,560 | null | null | 0 | zzresm | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/zzresm/most_if_not_all_women_stop_talking_to_me_after_a/ | 6 | Non-native English speaker here. I am a 32 year old guy from Bangladesh. I get some matches on Tinder and Bumble, but 90% of the time, the conversation stops after the first line from each of us. I have tried asking something witty, giving a compliment or even just saying Hi, What are you doing. None of them has helped... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Most if not all Women stop talking to me after a few lines of text. What are some free articles, books or resources to improve my texting skills? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/zzresm/most_if_not_all_women_stop_talking_to_me_after_a/ |
basil_lover | 2022-02-01 19:27:03 | 1,643,743,623 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | si38wg | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/si38wg/does_online_dating_really_work/ | 2 | I am tired of online dating after meeting a cheater on whom I wasted too much time. He is married and just wants to validate himself from the OLD apps. I’m losing my faith in OLD apps now.. Share your success stories if it worked for you! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Does Online Dating Really Work? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/si38wg/does_online_dating_really_work/ |
temporius | 2015-04-28 04:53:30 | 1,430,196,810 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 344c5a | null | Support | 26 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/344c5a/someone_used_photos_of_me_to_solicit_sex/ | 9 | I just found out about this from a random internet stranger. I'm still kinda shocked. Someone has been using photos from my okcupid profile to solicit sex with men. One of the people in one of my classes was interested and recognized me, and has started a rumor that I'm a megaslut. People have already started acting di... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Someone used photos of me to solicit sex | 9 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/344c5a/someone_used_photos_of_me_to_solicit_sex/ |
Thats_classified | 2020-06-24 21:51:32 | 1,593,035,492 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | hfaayb | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hfaayb/epiphany_when_exploring_mutual_feelings_with_a/ | 2 | TL;DR: Texting is a trash way to get to know someone, especially when there are (mutual) feelings involved like what I'm experiencing. There is so much opportunity to filter yourself, try to say what you think they want to hear, and obsession over timing. Reignite what brought you together in the first place and establ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Epiphany: When exploring mutual feelings with a new person, texting is only a supplement to growing closer, spending time in person is the means. Stop fretting over the texting game and call/make plans. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hfaayb/epiphany_when_exploring_mutual_feelings_with_a/ |
_wolfgod | 2024-04-06 19:49:48 | 1,712,432,988 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1bxkfz5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bxkfz5/guy_came_back_after_3_years_and_dating_someone/ | 1 | (Gay male for reference) So three years ago I was talking to this guy, we’ll name him Guy 1, and we talked for about two months. We only went on a handful of dates but the dates were pretty relationshipy because of Covid and some bars being closed still. We texted non-stop, sending photos of our days, voice notes, good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy came back after 3 years and dating someone else, who I also went on a date with after they broke up… Am I stupid lol | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bxkfz5/guy_came_back_after_3_years_and_dating_someone/ |
Saltymiester | 2019-12-21 07:04:45 | 1,576,911,885 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | edmt9m | true | Venting | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/edmt9m/why/ | 1 | Im a male and I'm 23. The biggest thing for me is I been wanting to date and be happy with someone but it never seems to work. I get my messages read on social media and dating sites and even from the women I meet in person. I get into relationship after relationship and they just always end. Ive been talking to a girl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/edmt9m/why/ |
spongekitty | 2014-11-27 03:04:50 | 1,417,057,490 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 2njjnz | null | null | 14 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2njjnz/opinions_on_tinder/ | 3 | I always waffle on dating sites and the like, because I think finding someone "in the wild" so to speak is more natural, but sometimes just finding someone to go have a good time with is fun too. Of XX'ers on Tinder, what have been your experiences? Lots of skeeze, or a pretty good response? Are guys mostly using it to... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Opinions on Tinder? | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2njjnz/opinions_on_tinder/ |
JETPACKCOW77 | 2024-02-19 02:45:21 | 1,708,310,721 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1aucjuq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1aucjuq/help/ | 1 | I'm a 22M. I have not dated someone since middle school and even that was questionable at best to be called a relationship. I barely talked to girls in high-school. I had a fling with a girl from tinder for about a week before college started, and thats all my intimate experience. And then the 4 years after that I was ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Help! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1aucjuq/help/ |
helpmeredditurmyhope | 2018-09-25 13:58:51 | 1,537,883,931 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 9iscp1 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9iscp1/help_me_reddit_youre_my_only_hope/ | 8 | Sorry for the corny Star Wars joke. I need some advice. Please don’t judge me. Last night, I (29 year old male) went on a date with a woman (31 years old) that I met from a dating app. To start, when I arrive I realize she is much bigger than her photos imply but I figure it could still be fun to get some food. So we m... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help me Reddit, You’re my only hope | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9iscp1/help_me_reddit_youre_my_only_hope/ |
pineapplecake12 | 2024-05-22 01:02:18 | 1,716,339,738 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1cxnymu | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 19 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cxnymu/dating_apps/ | 9 | Does anyone think that whenever someone asks for snap, it just ruins the mood? I feel like it’s all just come to that now :( Anyone else feel this way? Dating feels like it’s more casual flings and there’s not many chances to get to know someone first. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Apps | 8 | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cxnymu/dating_apps/ |
myhotneuron | 2017-10-09 15:35:19 | 1,507,563,319 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 759ujm | false | null | 52 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/759ujm/what_am_i_doing_wrong_how_do_i_start_finding/ | 23 | So. 28, female , perpetually single. Occasional friends with benefits flings. That's about it. Lately I've been using almost all of the online dating apps and websites and not really finding anyone that is of interest to me, both looks and "personality" wise (I mean, as much as you can get from a small bio). I don't kn... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What am I doing wrong? How do I start finding success in dating? 28 female | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/759ujm/what_am_i_doing_wrong_how_do_i_start_finding/ |
Lizzx3 | 2018-03-28 20:23:12 | 1,522,268,592 | null | ['matches', 'dating sites', 'tinder', 'pof', 'match.com'] | 0 | 87v85t | false | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/87v85t/i_am_picky_and_i_cant_change_the_way_i_am_it_is/ | 0 | I wondered why I never had a boyfriend in my whole life and I am 26, but I didn't always think about it. Once in a while, I thought of it so I wondered. There were several guys I had a crush on in my life, but I was uncertain about them and I was afraid of getting rejected though or worried if we won't work out. I neve... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I am picky, and I can't change the way I am. It is difficult for me to adapt. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/87v85t/i_am_picky_and_i_cant_change_the_way_i_am_it_is/ |
Formal_Bottle_4656 | 2024-06-22 21:54:30 | 1,719,093,270 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1dm6m5r | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dm6m5r/so_tired_of_overly_horny_men_on_the_apps/ | 7 | I(21f) matched with this guy off hinge. He gave me his number and we started texting. The conversation went well until he brung up nude beaches. He basically suggested we should go to one. He said ; “ I’m just planning on going soon. Don’t really wanna go alone but I will if I have too.” I basically told him wtf would ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | So tired of overly horny men on the apps | 7 | 0.61 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dm6m5r/so_tired_of_overly_horny_men_on_the_apps/ |
realneocanuck | 2024-08-03 14:22:43 | 1,722,694,963 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ej4ivm | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ej4ivm/i_seem_to_have_no_desire_to_date_anymore_and_its/ | 4 | Maybe wrong sub for this but hear me out. I got out of a loveless relationship in January, one of only two serious relationships I've had in my 26 years of life thus far, and since then I've had next to no love life to speak of. During spring, I went on a couple dates just to get myself out there again and they went so... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I seem to have no desire to date anymore and it's making me scared | 4 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ej4ivm/i_seem_to_have_no_desire_to_date_anymore_and_its/ |
sad1245 | 2019-08-07 20:08:46 | 1,565,208,526 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cnax0j | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cnax0j/how_do_guys_meet_women_tinder_isnt_working_anymore/ | 1 | I get 1 match every 3 months or so on tinder, so its not really working anymore What other apps do you guys use? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do guys meet women? Tinder isnt working anymore | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cnax0j/how_do_guys_meet_women_tinder_isnt_working_anymore/ |
ShoutAtThe_Devil | 2023-10-13 20:18:55 | 1,697,228,335 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1777ouu | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1777ouu/dated_a_girl_for_a_week_built_a_really_strong/ | 2 | Story time: We met over tinder and she seemed very careful at first. Her profile said looking for friends, which I assumed as FWBs. But I thought, if we go on a date and there is no sexual chemistry, yeah sure, I don't mind a new friend. So eventually I found a topic that helped her loosen up and after that our convers... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dated a girl for a week. Built a really strong connection. She even said she was falling in love. Then yesterday everything went to shit and we said goodbye. Now she seems really in pain. Should I talk to her again? | 2 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1777ouu/dated_a_girl_for_a_week_built_a_really_strong/ |
Due_Problem_3884 | 2023-11-22 01:26:18 | 1,700,616,378 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 180xbfn | true | Question ❓ | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/180xbfn/do_you_think_that_dating_is_fun/ | 1 | I (22f) signed up for dating apps around 4 months ago and have gone out on a few first dates with different guys. I only had a fun time with one guy but I ended it because we were not compatible in certain ways and saw these things as dealbreakers. Other than that, I have gone out on dates with four other guys. Two wer... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do you think that dating is fun? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/180xbfn/do_you_think_that_dating_is_fun/ |
voldemortsnipple1402 | 2024-02-24 18:49:11 | 1,708,800,551 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1az229i | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1az229i/do_i_take_the_risk_and_message_her/ | 1 | For context, I 26M went on a date with a girl 23F around November. I’ve been on hinge for about 1.5 years and she is still without a doubt the most amazing girl I have ever met on there, both inside and out. It was one of those situations where she actually liked my profile, then double messaged me first (which rarely ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Do I take the risk and message her? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1az229i/do_i_take_the_risk_and_message_her/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-29 07:37:48 | 1,409,297,868 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 2ewfnd | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2ewfnd/getting_mixed_signals_from_a_guy/ | 1 | There's a guy who I've chatted to casually when I'm out, he will usually touch me or do something to generally indicate interest before I leave. We spent the summer in different cities and now we're back and he invited me to coffee. During coffee we chatted a bit about dating and he suggested a name of a dating app. He... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting mixed signals from a guy. | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2ewfnd/getting_mixed_signals_from_a_guy/ |
AgitatedSalamander11 | 2023-02-01 09:09:25 | 1,675,242,565 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | 10qozc0 | true | null | 63 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/10qozc0/mismatched_communication_styles_on_old/ | 9 | I've been chatting with a lady on Match for about a month now. (But only got in the typical volume of conversation, one would expect in a couple of days at most) I'm aware that people have (very) busy lives, but, the lady I'm talking with, will reply, then I'll reply, then there is typically a 5 to 10 day gap, for the ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Mismatched communication styles on OLD | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/10qozc0/mismatched_communication_styles_on_old/ |
[deleted] | 2014-07-30 01:45:51 | 1,406,684,751 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 2c3nnx | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2c3nnx/had_a_short_amazing_intense_relationship_and_now/ | 3 | I haven't been on a date for the past three years, but have been on OkCupid for most of that time. I never ended up meeting anyone in person through the site until this girl. She sent me a message that really caught my attention as we had so much in common (and I have pretty unique tastes). There were no pics on her ac... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Had a short, amazing, intense relationship and now it's over and I could use other perspectives. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2c3nnx/had_a_short_amazing_intense_relationship_and_now/ |
BeesAndMist | 2023-02-10 14:57:50 | 1,676,041,070 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 10yu0qt | true | null | 163 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/10yu0qt/it_pays_to_do_your_homework/ | 124 | 56F Omg. That saying about something looking too good to be true? I was talking on bumble to a handsome man. Just intro conversation, mind you. He tells me what he does for a living so I plug his first name, town and profession into Google and one second later I know his name. Then I put that into the court system sear... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | It pays to do your homework... | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/10yu0qt/it_pays_to_do_your_homework/ |
squash-pumpkin | 2018-11-02 01:36:57 | 1,541,122,617 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | 9tfqgo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9tfqgo/what_to_do_about_guy_who_is_obsessive/ | 1 | I texted a guy on Match.com. We exchanged personal phone numbers and video chatted for maybe all of five minutes and we made small talk. The next day he texted me and requested to meet that evening. I declined and suggested alternative dates, and he proceeded to ask 3 more times to meet that evening. I told him no all ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What to do about guy who is obsessive ? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9tfqgo/what_to_do_about_guy_who_is_obsessive/ |
HardKnockRice | 2021-04-07 03:42:38 | 1,617,766,958 | null | ['matched'] | 0 | mltg8n | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mltg8n/new_girl_i_am_seeing_is_awesome_but_is_it_mutual/ | 1 | I am 26 and matched with a hottie, swooped in with a solid intro and we started back and forth. I asked her out, our first date was awesome. Drunk lady in a nearby party walked by and said how cute we were and recommend we kiss for her video she was recording, we obliged happily, I let her kiss me. Continued smoothly a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New girl I am seeing is awesome, but is it mutual? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mltg8n/new_girl_i_am_seeing_is_awesome_but_is_it_mutual/ |
Bandooooo | 2023-11-20 22:33:30 | 1,700,519,610 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'swiping'] | 0 | 18015zg | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 15 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18015zg/new_way_to_facilitate_platonic_andor_romantic/ | 3 | Hello everyone I'm in the process of developing an app that will aim to facilitate organic interaction in public to hopefully foster platonic and/or romantic relationships. Before I dump a bunch of time/resources into this, I'd like some feedback I want to ensure that the general public will be inclined to use such an ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | New way to facilitate platonic and/or romantic relationships? | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18015zg/new_way_to_facilitate_platonic_andor_romantic/ |
lisalovesmango | 2020-04-12 09:24:57 | 1,586,683,497 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | fztp9g | true | null | 115 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/fztp9g/why_do_all_these_men_keep_reappearing_in_my/ | 87 | I have noticed that especially during quarantine. I swipe a lot nowadays as I am a bit bored during the ninth Netflix show that I binge watch in a row. And I notice there are some guys who keep showing up every time I swipe. It doesn't matter whether I swipe right or left on them, we never match and they keep showing u... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Why do all these men keep reappearing in my Tinder stack? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/fztp9g/why_do_all_these_men_keep_reappearing_in_my/ |
h4cksforlife | 2018-09-25 17:28:29 | 1,537,896,509 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 9iu6u3 | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/9iu6u3/what_are_two_dating_apps_you_would_pay_for/ | 0 | If you guys had to subscribe and pay for two dating apps what would they be? I don't mind paying for one or two if it helps lead me to the right person. Just looking for your guys wisdom/experience paying or them and the results that came with it. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are two dating apps you would pay for? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/9iu6u3/what_are_two_dating_apps_you_would_pay_for/ |
JonBoah | 2024-09-17 08:14:22 | 1,726,560,862 | 0 | ['dating app', 'pof'] | 0 | 1fitjd3 | true | null | 22 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/1fitjd3/what_are_some_dating_websites_you_guys_recommend/ | 0 | Kind of like how cupid, match and POF used to be. I don't mind answering 100 questions on my profile, I want to actually meet someone, not subscribe to a game pretending it's a dating app. | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are some dating websites you guys recommend that don't involve swiping? | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1fitjd3/what_are_some_dating_websites_you_guys_recommend/ |
TheShaggyGamerGuy | 2018-03-29 05:06:24 | 1,522,299,984 | null | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 87yoqc | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/87yoqc/just_general_dating_advice/ | 2 | I've been out if the loop on dating for a while. Normally I'd have flings just to pass the time and try to feel normal. I'm a 20 year old male. Skinny, not bad looking, but not a complete steal. I just got out of a relationship with a girl who cheated numerous times and I kinda just forgot. How do I do this, can I trus... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just general dating advice. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/87yoqc/just_general_dating_advice/ |
WellThoughtUserName9 | 2021-08-13 19:07:05 | 1,628,881,625 | null | null | 0 | p3ru4q | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/p3ru4q/emotionally_unavailable_partners/ | 5 | Have you dated emotionally unavailable people? What was your experience like and what piece of advice would you like to share with others? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Emotionally unavailable partners | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/p3ru4q/emotionally_unavailable_partners/ |
tumeg142 | 2022-09-30 21:34:11 | 1,664,573,651 | null | null | 0 | xsdafh | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/xsdafh/results_on_different_apps/ | 2 | I'm using FB dating, hinge, and match. I get a ton of likes on FB, grant it most of them look pretty odd, I get a handful of likes on Match, and I usually get quite a few matches if I like someone first. But on Hinge literally no one has ever liked my profile, I met one person from there, and I hardly ever match with a... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | results on different apps | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/xsdafh/results_on_different_apps/ |
8thredditaccountlol | 2024-02-12 00:35:01 | 1,707,698,101 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1aon5yg | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1aon5yg/any_hope_for_me_if_im_not_the_most_social_person/ | 1 | I realized I'm not that social. I fucking hate going to bars. There's no way I'd be able to talk to anyone new there. If I'm at a party or a large group of people with friends I can't socialize, I just kinda stand there awkwardly unless someone starts the conversation. I could go on and on but I've been in a deep depre... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Any hope for me if I'm not the most social person? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1aon5yg/any_hope_for_me_if_im_not_the_most_social_person/ |
rambo_43 | 2023-07-10 22:22:49 | 1,689,027,769 | 0 | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14w8fh9 | false | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14w8fh9/one_serious_question_do_women_on_dating_apps_look/ | 1 | Or it's just me swiping left on everyone thinking she is out of league? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | One serious question... Do women on dating apps look the same in real life as they do on dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14w8fh9/one_serious_question_do_women_on_dating_apps_look/ |
idontgetit_too | 2016-09-18 18:44:25 | 1,474,224,265 | 0 | ['online dating', 'tinder'] | 0 | 53di1w | null | null | 37 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/53di1w/ladies_whats_the_thing_with_snapchat_filters/ | 0 | So as man that is not too much into selfies and probably a bit too old (in the 25 - 30 yo bracket -- shit am I not in anymore?), I don't really get the thing about snapchat filters. What do you like about it? But more than that, I really don't get why you use them on your online dating profile (not everyone but an awfu... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Ladies, what's the thing with snapchat filters? Specifically wrt online dating? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/53di1w/ladies_whats_the_thing_with_snapchat_filters/ |
Sea-Gur7375 | 2024-06-10 22:49:06 | 1,718,059,746 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1dcz130 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dcz130/what_is_a_good_way_for_introverts_to_know_more/ | 1 | (Not including online dating btw) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is a good way for introverts to know more people of opposite gender and find possible partners? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dcz130/what_is_a_good_way_for_introverts_to_know_more/ |
WittyMycologist9205 | 2024-09-28 17:53:50 | 1,727,546,030 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1frk08n | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1frk08n/single_late_twenties_female_a_mom_small_town/ | 1 | Hi Reddit, I’m a 29-year-old single mom living in a small town, and I’m feeling lost. I recently ended a 10+ year relationship with my ex, who I was engaged to and have a child with. It's been a year since we broke up, and at first, I was excited about being single. I got into dating apps, met new people, and things fe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Single. Late twenties. Female. A mom. Small town. | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1frk08n/single_late_twenties_female_a_mom_small_town/ |
Guilty_Lake529 | 2020-12-08 03:50:55 | 1,607,399,455 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | k8wtf3 | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/k8wtf3/what_should_i_do/ | 2 | Hello everyone. I have been talking to this girl for about a month now. Everything seems to be going great. We went on a date then we booked up on our second ( we didn’t have sex but we did have oral tho). Anyways it was going great and she seemed to be really into me. She brought me food twice , from thanksgiving. She... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/k8wtf3/what_should_i_do/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-31 14:58:05 | 1,627,743,485 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | ov8mc5 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ov8mc5/dating_apps_are_dumb/ | 0 | If you don’t have a stack of nice, high quality pics that happen to crop into the dating app’s format just right and make a good sale that you’re out doing cool things having an absolutely wonderful time all the time and looking quite attractive while you’re at it, it’s over. Anyone with resting dick face, with a ridic... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps are dumb | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ov8mc5/dating_apps_are_dumb/ |
engagedinthegame | 2019-10-21 05:10:04 | 1,571,634,604 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | dkvmtj | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dkvmtj/lets_have_a_conversationm/ | 3 | What's the biggest problem you have in regards to dating women? Whether that be approaching, dating, or catching up to the age of social media(dating sites). I think if we all talk to eachother, we can gain more value from eachothers experience. Much love guys, Enagedinthegame | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Let's have a conversation(M)! | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dkvmtj/lets_have_a_conversationm/ |
CovidThrowaway20 | 2020-04-20 12:54:22 | 1,587,387,262 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | g4s8ut | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/g4s8ut/23m_in_need_of_advice_during_lockdown/ | 1 | Hey everyone I'm in need of advice on what i should do.. So right before the whole corona thing started i (23M) matched with this girl (22F) on tinder. We found out that we actually have a lot of friends in common and got along really well. We went on a few Dates (Mostly for drinks and once for food at my place). Nothi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (23M) in need of advice during Lockdown | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/g4s8ut/23m_in_need_of_advice_during_lockdown/ |
Sunfishboy17 | 2023-03-09 15:54:21 | 1,678,377,261 | null | ['matches', 'swipes', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 11mvpib | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11mvpib/where_to_go_from_here/ | 1 | So when I turned 18, I decided to download some dating apps, because I was never good with women in High School. Well 2 years, countless swipes, and dozens of matches who ghosted me, I finally met a girl that I went on a date with last night. We’ve already planned our next date being Sunday, but what do I do in the mea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where to go from here | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11mvpib/where_to_go_from_here/ |
gottathrowaway1591 | 2020-02-16 00:47:07 | 1,581,814,027 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f4is67 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f4is67/asked_out_a_girl_couple_months_back_and_she_said/ | 1 | To keep it short as possible, I asked a girl, who I had met in my university’s orientation, out a couple months back (about November?) and she said “not yet” since she was trying to get back with her ex and that “she would let me know.” So, I thought that I still had maybe a chance with her, and we continued to hang ou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asked out a girl couple months back and she said “not yet”... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f4is67/asked_out_a_girl_couple_months_back_and_she_said/ |
toxicpaulution | 2012-11-12 04:35:11 | 1,352,694,911 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 131pqn | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating/comments/131pqn/20moklahoma_m4f/ | 4 | I just recently have moved to Oklahoma and lately have been feeling lonely. Is there any females here who are into gamers who skateboard. Septum pierced and ears. I'll send photos when requested. Just let me know :) I've never tried this online dating stuff and after a year and a half of being single I thought I'd try ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 20/m/Oklahoma m4f | 4 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/131pqn/20moklahoma_m4f/ |
Bolshyboys | 2021-06-30 21:55:03 | 1,625,090,103 | null | null | 0 | ob7jrj | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/ob7jrj/what_are_your_thoughts_on_my_old_tinder_profile/ | 4 | I'm wondering what people think of my Tinder dating profile? Pictures, and the order of them, and my bio? Photos are in the link below! If you can't see my bio, I've copy-pasted it in. "I'm usually scrambling mountain ridges around the English countryside, taking to the country lanes for long rides out on my bikes, and... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What are your thoughts on my OLD (Tinder) profile and pictures? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/ob7jrj/what_are_your_thoughts_on_my_old_tinder_profile/ |
bountyhunter101 | 2018-12-22 23:07:52 | 1,545,520,072 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | a8phqt | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/a8phqt/probably_the_first_bittersweet_i_tasted/ | 3 | I was never planning to post this on reddit but I think it could help me in some way. So I (M24) matched with this girl (21) on a dating app. We had a nice give and take. We matched in the morning and went out on our first date in the evening. It was a humble dinner. Mostly talked about how we got to where we are in ou... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Probably the first bittersweet I tasted | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a8phqt/probably_the_first_bittersweet_i_tasted/ |
Shezaam | 2021-03-10 06:33:14 | 1,615,357,994 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | m1raqw | true | null | 39 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/m1raqw/sighnot_420_friendly_means_just_that/ | 64 | I had a Tinder match and we met for coffee. Found out he is 50 and has an 8 year old by an exgf of 8 years that he describes as “drama”. Side note, it takes two to create drama. Red flag 1 My profile says, “I’m not 420 friendly”, which means I’m not interested in dating someone that uses marijuana. My choice. He tells ... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Sigh....not 420 friendly means just that. | null | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/m1raqw/sighnot_420_friendly_means_just_that/ |
curioustraveller1985 | 2017-02-27 03:43:02 | 1,488,166,982 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5wei1e | null | null | 10 | null | /r/dating/comments/5wei1e/at_what_point_does_online_dating_becomes_real/ | 0 | At what point does online dating becomes real dating? I am currently on OK Cupid right now; and still just doing some chatting. And that's it. Just chatting and exchanging minimal info about how the day was like. Nothing serious, no requests for meet-ups yet. Not even numbers were exchanged. it might change in the futu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | At what point does online dating becomes real dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5wei1e/at_what_point_does_online_dating_becomes_real/ |
mostlylunch | 2018-07-08 02:07:31 | 1,531,015,651 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | 8wyalq | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wyalq/feelings_without_meeting_yet_too_soon/ | 2 | So I've posted here about a couple things, usually whining about some crap about how new I am to this or whatever. So I'm wondering if anyone has had a stronger-than-normal feeling about someone after long chats and a fair amount of personal sharing. On top of the fact I'm very physically attracted to her and I find he... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Feelings without meeting yet (Too Soon?) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8wyalq/feelings_without_meeting_yet_too_soon/ |
hulksmashkeyboard | 2014-09-25 07:53:32 | 1,411,631,612 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2heuvc | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2heuvc/is_it_possible_to_not_miss_your_ex_but_still_miss/ | 5 | I want to start by saying, I’m 25yo male who lives in a smaller city in midwest america. It sounds silly, but my ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. She broke up with me because she said she just didn’t feel that special connection with me anymore. We dated for six months, but it was the most real relationship I’v... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it possible to not miss your ex but still miss what you had? my ex just got engaged with a guy she started dating days after we broke up. I'm pretty upset about the whole thing right now, feel like I'll be alone for the rest of my life | 5 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2heuvc/is_it_possible_to_not_miss_your_ex_but_still_miss/ |
throwawaycoucher | 2024-06-02 17:37:24 | 1,717,349,844 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1d6in5a | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1d6in5a/can_just_giving_off_autistic_vibes_be_a_major/ | 14 | (19M) I'm asking this as an autistic person who initially gets a lot of success on dating apps themselves, I get multiple matches daily & I click well enough with girls over texts I don't really have to deal with being turned down for dates. I'm assuming it has something to do with see how I am in person. After the fir... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can just giving off Autistic vibes be a major turn off on dates? | 14 | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1d6in5a/can_just_giving_off_autistic_vibes_be_a_major/ |
New_Weekend6460 | 2024-04-14 04:05:31 | 1,713,067,531 | 0 | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1c3kkje | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c3kkje/my_new_bumble_profile_how_do_you_like_it/ | 1 | So I decided to update my Bumble profile with new photos and details. I would love to hear feedback ,preferably from women, on my profile. I do not get very many matches so any help will be appreciated. Let me know. Link - | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | My NEW Bumble profile _How do you like it ? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c3kkje/my_new_bumble_profile_how_do_you_like_it/ |
[deleted] | 2014-08-08 02:03:08 | 1,407,463,388 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 2cxxjo | null | null | 1 | null | /r/AskMen/comments/2cxxjo/anyone_have_any_tips_for_online_dating_services/ | 1 | Pretty new to the whole scene and would like to know some of the dos and donts | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Anyone have any tips for online dating services? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2cxxjo/anyone_have_any_tips_for_online_dating_services/ |
Vast_Drawing6783 | 2023-11-16 02:55:03 | 1,700,103,303 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 17wc3j9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 42 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17wc3j9/i_agreed_to_go_on_a_date_with_a_guy_and_hes/ | 10 | Hi yall, I’m a 20 yo F, going on a date with a 27 year old man, in the military if that matters. Things were going well, we haven’t met yet but the vibes were there and I finally agreed to go out with him this weekend. Thennnn outta nowhere he calls me baby girl. Is this a red flag? And if so is it a big enough one to ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I agreed to go on a date with a guy and he’s already calling me baby girl?? | 10 | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17wc3j9/i_agreed_to_go_on_a_date_with_a_guy_and_hes/ |
Uncomfortable5776 | 2019-07-10 19:22:18 | 1,562,786,538 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | cbl574 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cbl574/ive_18m_just_cancelled_a_date_with_a_girl_18f/ | 9 | I hit her up yesterday, on Tinder, talked for a bit and she was the one who actually asked for my contacts. Thought that was pretty neat. Anyway, so we text for like an hour and everything's going great. She even had a tattoo of my favorite band. I thought I hit the jackpot. We planned a date on Friday. The next day (t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I've [18M] just cancelled a date with a girl [18F]. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cbl574/ive_18m_just_cancelled_a_date_with_a_girl_18f/ |
timtank788 | 2023-04-16 21:47:33 | 1,681,681,653 | 0 | null | 0 | 12oq9dz | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/12oq9dz/why_take_it_off_the_app/ | 8 | I’m just curious why do people request to take conversations off the app? I honestly don’t care what platform I use because to me it’s all just texting, so I’m just curious, what’s the benefit of taking it off the app? It doesn’t really make much of a difference does it? (I’m using hinge btw) | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why take it off the app? | 8 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/12oq9dz/why_take_it_off_the_app/ |
tookish3 | 2024-07-30 23:10:38 | 1,722,381,038 | 0 | ['dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1eg7qmh | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eg7qmh/i_f_liked_a_coworker_m_on_hinge_dating_site/ | 4 | I swiped right/ sent him a like. Hinge does not work in the way Tinder & Bumble do, so he will be able to see that I liked him and decide to match or pass on my profile. I did this on Saturday after a couple drinks. Saw him on Monday and we didn’t interact. He has not responded on Hinge, which means he has not seen tha... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | I (F) liked a coworker (M) on Hinge (dating site) | 4 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1eg7qmh/i_f_liked_a_coworker_m_on_hinge_dating_site/ |
detectivesnail77 | 2021-06-16 22:45:27 | 1,623,883,527 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o1hrk9 | true | I Need Advice | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/o1hrk9/how_to_find_people_during_the_landemic/ | 2 | i'm stuck. i'm turning 21 this year and i've never been in a serious relationship, apart from one semi serious one that lasted like 5 months in highschool and ended up with me being cheated on. i've tried after that, but with the pandemic i feel meeting new people is really hard! i since started uni and had a brief thi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | how to find people during the landemic | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/o1hrk9/how_to_find_people_during_the_landemic/ |
itsmisspretty | 2020-02-07 20:48:23 | 1,581,108,503 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | f0gn1m | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/f0gn1m/first_tinder_date_coming_up/ | 0 | And I’m not as excited as I should be. I’ve been talking to this guy for like a week and although I did like him at first, I find him a bit exhausting. I’m sure it’s just me but we text back and forth so often I find myself ignoring some texts just to get a breather. Early on in our conversations I mentioned that going... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First Tinder date coming up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f0gn1m/first_tinder_date_coming_up/ |
newayhome | 2018-10-30 22:12:51 | 1,540,937,571 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9ssnyb | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ssnyb/should_i_text_her_asking_when_shes_free_tourist/ | 1 | So I'm travelling right now and was chatting up this girl on tinder, who's also a tourist, and she seemed pretty cool. We had a date, just visit some places together, planned out yesterday. At first I said sunday but she said monday worked better and said ok She actually even texted me early yesterday to ask if we were... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I text her asking when she's free? Tourist dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ssnyb/should_i_text_her_asking_when_shes_free_tourist/ |
almondcreme25 | 2019-11-10 20:50:30 | 1,573,419,030 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | duh790 | true | null | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/duh790/finding_dating_to_be_very_difficult_and_looking/ | 3 | Hi All, So I know dating in general sucks for everyone. The process of finding someone you click with, and then dealing with rejection, etc. I have just been having the hardest time. Starting OLD two years ago. And I met someone about a year in but we didn’t really have the same religious beliefs so we didn’t pursue an... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Finding dating to be very difficult, and looking for support? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/duh790/finding_dating_to_be_very_difficult_and_looking/ |
tankutabi | 2017-03-21 23:44:20 | 1,490,139,860 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 60r88y | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/60r88y/i_25m_am_really_confused_by_her23_behaviors_what/ | 1 | I had a couple of dates with this girl I met on tinder, one really good, one really bad the others are normal. After that, I ask her out again, she first says yes then cancels on me and says she might have time on the weekend. I hit her up on the weekend, she says she'll be busy. Now I assume she's not interested, so I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (25/M) am really confused by her(23) behaviors. What should I do? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/60r88y/i_25m_am_really_confused_by_her23_behaviors_what/ |
Claymationdude07 | 2019-01-16 15:54:51 | 1,547,654,091 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | agmhd0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/agmhd0/i_am_handicap_and_on_disability_from_the/ | 1 | From a woman’s perspective, are either of these two things a deal breaker? I (27m) am not in a wheelchair or anything but there are many things I simply can’t do (like jog/run/carry anything with my right hand). And on a dating app, should I say these things on my profile? When we start a conversation? Wait until our f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I am handicap and on disability from the government. So I was wondering | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/agmhd0/i_am_handicap_and_on_disability_from_the/ |
Sufficient_Lemon8269 | 2024-08-29 21:34:27 | 1,724,967,267 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f4e77h | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1f4e77h/girl_not_responding_to_my_text_yesterday_should_i/ | 1 | So I’m girl as well and matched with her on hinge. We grabbed dinner on our first date and went to a bar and we kissed for a while. Then at the end I asked if she wants to come to my place next week? She said yes. I said would it be to far for you? She said no people stay out late all the time. I walked her to the stat... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Girl not responding to my text yesterday. Should I follow up or move on? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f4e77h/girl_not_responding_to_my_text_yesterday_should_i/ |
PresidentGoat | 2021-07-29 19:04:26 | 1,627,585,466 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | ou3yif | true | Venting | 67 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ou3yif/tall_men_who_exclusively_date_tall_women/ | 17 | with all the weekly posts about "why x height short girls only date x height tall guys" I have been wondering are there any tall men-6ft plus-who only date tall women, does it turn you off when a girl has some generic "if you are not tall swipe left" bs on their profile? for context I'm 6'3 and only date 5'9 and up. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tall men who exclusively date tall women | null | 0.91 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ou3yif/tall_men_who_exclusively_date_tall_women/ |
Aquaboobious | 2024-05-07 06:24:31 | 1,715,063,071 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1cm56vp | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1cm56vp/how_do_i_not_screw_this_up/ | 1 | I met a man OLD a few weeks ago. I realllly like him and he's showing all the signs that he's into me too. He sent me little flowers after our first date which I found to be really sweet. He's communicative, gentle and creative. All the things I like. We've had only 4 or 5 dates so farwhich isn't much but a couple have... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | How do I not screw this up? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1cm56vp/how_do_i_not_screw_this_up/ |
Flacker77 | 2019-01-10 02:13:17 | 1,547,086,397 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | aeebcx | true | Venting | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/aeebcx/she_never_showed_up/ | 0 | Ooof ouch owie my bones. So uhh where do i go from here? We hit it off on tinder pretty good and scheduled to meet at a local coffee shop but she never showed up. She had also unmatched me from tinder. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | She never showed up | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/aeebcx/she_never_showed_up/ |
agentchodeybanks | 2020-03-22 18:57:28 | 1,584,903,448 | null | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | fn4yhx | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fn4yhx/dont_put_up_with_narcissistic_abuse/ | 8 | There are plenty of fish in the ocean, and roughly one third of them appear to actually have a soul. Heal, scab, scar and then get back out there. This google drive folder is a collection of images, quotes and memes that helped me move on. https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/0B3ub3QHD3D3jVkJzVTBGSjBIb0k | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Don’t put up with narcissistic abuse | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fn4yhx/dont_put_up_with_narcissistic_abuse/ |
WalkerFan4 | 2023-04-29 01:19:31 | 1,682,731,171 | 0 | ['dating app', 'pof'] | 0 | 132fid1 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/132fid1/feeling_heart_broken/ | 1 | I talked to a woman I connected with pof dating app for a week, things seemed to be going well, we even talked on the phone for half an hour. But it turns out she just wants to push me to invest in some kinda stock site. I thought I had finally found my person. I feel just crushed. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Feeling heart broken | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/132fid1/feeling_heart_broken/ |
SoundProofHead | 2020-06-04 17:39:40 | 1,591,292,380 | null | null | 0 | gwm5a3 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/gwm5a3/generic_profiles_everywhere_what_kind_of_first/ | 23 | I can't find any inspiration for first messages anymore. Every profile is made of the same travel pictures and generic laconic descriptions. There's nothing to comment on when everyone "likes to travel" and "watch netflix". And if you ask "what's your favorite show?", you can be sure to be one of thousands of similar u... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Generic profiles everywhere. What kind of first message dop you send? | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gwm5a3/generic_profiles_everywhere_what_kind_of_first/ |
sojustanotheraccount | 2019-07-29 17:53:04 | 1,564,422,784 | null | ['matches', 'tinder'] | 0 | cjer4u | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cjer4u/it_feels_like_everyone_is_out_of_my_league_or/ | 1 | Just a bit of background before I get into the meat of my problem. In all I'd say I'm a pretty introverted, under-confident guy who's not all that charismatic and easily muddles up his words. These traits have ended up making me a pretty anti-social and anxious person who seems to be unable to create close relationship... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It feels like everyone is out of my league or maybe I'm just not ready for dating? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cjer4u/it_feels_like_everyone_is_out_of_my_league_or/ |
dogsgoborkbork | 2024-08-28 02:20:44 | 1,724,811,644 | 0 | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1f2z441 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1f2z441/i_feel_like_im_falling_behind/ | 3 | I am a female third-year college student and I have never been in a relationship not even a causal one. All of my friends are getting engaged or have been in serious relationships, and I honestly don't know what I am doing wrong. I try my best to meet people. I enjoy jazz so I go out to jazz clubs every now and then, I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I feel like I'm falling behind | 3 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1f2z441/i_feel_like_im_falling_behind/ |
StaticNocturne | 2023-06-19 23:46:37 | 1,687,218,397 | 0 | null | 0 | 14durbv | true | null | 186 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14durbv/why_the_fuck_do_i_bother/ | 62 | Online dating is like twisting a knife I’ve plunged into my own gut Most recently I matched with three women on Sunday afternoon, they messaged me seemed enthusiastic so I messaged them asking stuff about where they’re planning to travel next, their favourite cocktail etc depending on their profile and message to me an... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Why the fuck do I bother? | 62 | 0.84 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14durbv/why_the_fuck_do_i_bother/ |
[deleted] | 2021-07-14 21:41:16 | 1,626,298,876 | null | ['matches', 'hinge'] | 0 | okedpr | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/okedpr/delete_then_reactive_dating_profiles/ | 1 | Why do people (mostly guys I know) do this? In particular, hinge. Is it so you can rematch with someone the convo died with and you think they won’t remember? I know multiple guys that this has happened with and I don’t know how to approach it. It’s like they didn’t get enough matches so they remake a profile to get mo... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Delete then reactive dating profiles? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/okedpr/delete_then_reactive_dating_profiles/ |
Pookiemon99 | 2024-05-12 14:17:54 | 1,715,523,474 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 1cq8vph | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cq8vph/rotten_relationship_luck/ | 2 | I feel like I can't win in dating or relationships. My first gf cheated on me with her best friends boyfriend.I tried dating a girl after her, but she ended up just dating me to try and hook up with my sister. Another girl I dated thought everything was going well admitted feelings to her and she shot me down telling m... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Rotten Relationship luck | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cq8vph/rotten_relationship_luck/ |
Four_right_angles | 2017-10-08 23:14:58 | 1,507,504,498 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 75559q | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/75559q/how_can_i_get_some_good_profile_pictures_27_m/ | 5 | I don't enjoy taking selfies, and I don't have friends that take pictures either. I think I'm moderately attractive, I get decent responses in person, but online dating feels like a wasteland. Starting to think it's my pictures. What would you recommend for getting better pictures of myself? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I get some good profile pictures. [27 M] | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/75559q/how_can_i_get_some_good_profile_pictures_27_m/ |
[deleted] | 2020-11-07 04:24:30 | 1,604,723,070 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | jpkfyu | true | Giving Advice | 86 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/jpkfyu/multidating_is_not_antimonogamy_and_its_not/ | 39 | I’ve seen some posts where people bash multi-dating and describe it as cheating or a polyamory relationship. None of those are multi-dating because both of those involve being in a committed relationship(s). This style is not about sex, either. Added: You don’t have to be sexually intimate with anyone while multi-datin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Multi-dating is not anti-monogamy and it’s not polyamory | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/jpkfyu/multidating_is_not_antimonogamy_and_its_not/ |
great-liar | 2020-11-15 13:14:06 | 1,605,446,046 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | julovt | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/julovt/online_first_date_im_m27_planning_and_i_need/ | 0 | Tldr at the end This is my first date after a years of unsuccesful relationship and I feel like newbie. I (27) met this girl (21) at dating site, we clicked well, I'm making her laugh and she loves that. I feel something small in me that this could work. I felt it 3 times in my life so far and then I spent 1-6 years wi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online first date I'm (M27) planning and I need advices | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/julovt/online_first_date_im_m27_planning_and_i_need/ |
Colebruce31 | 2023-12-31 08:32:26 | 1,704,011,546 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 18v3e14 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18v3e14/tinder_crush/ | 1 | Matched with this girl on tinder who I had a pretty big crush on back in high school. 5/6 years ago. Had good banter on tinder and started to set up a date/got her number. Texted for a couple days then when I proposed an actual date night she ghosted. Been a week since, still matched on tinder. Haven’t double texted he... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder crush | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18v3e14/tinder_crush/ |
intravenousvx | 2021-06-03 00:17:49 | 1,622,679,469 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | nr0czq | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nr0czq/should_i_24f_continue_dating_him_27m_money/ | 2 | Hello I met this guy off tinder that attended the same university as me. So off rip, we hit it off and I really enjoy my time with him. Now the weird part: I’ve been very enthusiastic about my major (business) and he (artist) has poked jokes about “how I must rack in big bucks” or “I’m a boss lady” which I’ve laughed o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (24F) continue dating him (27M)? Money conflicting? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nr0czq/should_i_24f_continue_dating_him_27m_money/ |
RabbitHoleQueen | 2023-07-02 00:17:55 | 1,688,257,075 | 0 | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | 14oa2gu | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14oa2gu/is_this_normal_or_is_it_me/ | 2 | I (26F) started talking to a (27M) that I started talking to a week ago - we get on Facebook Dating and he loves 2-3 hours away, but we decided to proceed despite this. He and I really hit it off over text, our conversations ranged from fun, surface level, deep topics, etc. We found ourselves to be so similar & it was ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this normal or is it me? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14oa2gu/is_this_normal_or_is_it_me/ |
Sockmonster21 | 2020-05-07 17:14:08 | 1,588,871,648 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | gfapfo | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/gfapfo/how_do_i_talk_to_a_guy_you_met_online_about_more/ | 3 | I met this really cool guy through Tinder (ugh I know....) and we seem to have a lot in common. I just clicked with this guy straight away and want to get to know him better. So far we've just been discussing shows and video games. How do I ask him about other topics without coming across as push or random? Also is it... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How do I talk to a guy you met online about more substantial things? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/gfapfo/how_do_i_talk_to_a_guy_you_met_online_about_more/ |
sfuggito | 2023-11-11 23:59:55 | 1,699,747,195 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 17t7nzx | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17t7nzx/seeing_red_flags_should_i_end_this_now/ | 2 | I've (21M) gone on two dates with someone (23F) I've met from online dating apps but seeing some red flags and I don't know if I'm exaggerating and I should end it now, or I should give it a chance. On the first date she basically spent about half the date talking about her ex, and even showing me photos of him and his... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Seeing red flags - should I end this now? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17t7nzx/seeing_red_flags_should_i_end_this_now/ |
[deleted] | 2021-01-17 16:56:02 | 1,610,902,562 | null | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | kz9zkw | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kz9zkw/not_in_town_until_next_week/ | 1 | Hey. I matched with some girls in hinge and asked them out on a date. I’m not in town until next week though. Should I try to text them this week to keep things interesting? Any tips for what to talk about? Also, should I try to plan out a date or just wait until it gets closer to next week to see if they are still dow... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not in town until next week | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kz9zkw/not_in_town_until_next_week/ |
Pumpkinpatch12 | 2024-02-26 00:54:00 | 1,708,908,840 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1b04fmj | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b04fmj/is_there_a_place_specifically_meant_for_meeting/ | 1 | I've looked at all of the generic dating apps, and although demisexual is often an option you can select when you're indicating who and what you're looking for, it's never the primary focus. I absolutely need to build an emotional connection with a person prior to having sex with them. So, I was thinking how great it w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | is there a place specifically meant for meeting demisexual men? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b04fmj/is_there_a_place_specifically_meant_for_meeting/ |
capyluvr_21 | 2024-01-25 16:26:58 | 1,706,200,018 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 19fd7tb | true | Question ❓ | 44 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/19fd7tb/did_i_get_love_bombed_or_did_he_die/ | 29 | I've (21F) been texting this guy (28M) off of a dating app for 2 weeks now. We would text every single day. Nearly every hour and the first week we would text well into the night, there was a time we stayed up till 6am for it. The texting are both romantic and quite sexual in nature (we planned on meeting and having a ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Did I get love bombed or did he die? | 29 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19fd7tb/did_i_get_love_bombed_or_did_he_die/ |
BrianSerra | 2023-10-10 22:32:44 | 1,696,977,164 | 0 | null | 0 | 174y86w | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/174y86w/app_for_gamersgeeks_nerds_of_all_kinds/ | 1 | It just seems like the algorithms show me people I have no common interests with. Are we really that hard to find? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | App for gamers/geeks/ nerds of all kinds? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/174y86w/app_for_gamersgeeks_nerds_of_all_kinds/ |
Mission-Address-2462 | 2023-02-03 11:54:23 | 1,675,425,263 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 10sijti | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/10sijti/update_im_going_on_a_date_with_my_crush_after_i/ | 1 | I don't know if I did the right thing or not. To put you in context: we study at the same university and I (M23) spotted her (F20) like a year ago and along the way we made eye contact multiple times, until we started to speak on march this year. To my absolute surprise, she knew me because she read an interview the un... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [UPDATE] I'm going on a date with my crush after I superliked her! | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10sijti/update_im_going_on_a_date_with_my_crush_after_i/ |
Ciciwho09 | 2023-04-27 02:27:43 | 1,682,562,463 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1307815 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1307815/am_i_easy_to_cheat_on_how_do_i_fix_this/ | 1 | I (19f) have been in 2 relationships in my life, and they’ve both ended with me getting cheated on. The first one was more casual in high school, I was upset for a little bit but eventually got over it. The most recent one hurt a lot more, I’m in college and I really thought there was a future with this guy. We had bee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I easy to cheat on? How do I fix this | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1307815/am_i_easy_to_cheat_on_how_do_i_fix_this/ |
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