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White1962 | 2020-11-02 00:22:25 | 1,604,276,545 | null | null | 0 | jmddeh | true | null | 25 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/jmddeh/va_dc_md/ | 14 | Which app do you guys recommend? I tried match but dealt with player . I know players are in every dating app but don’t want to pay again for match . Thanks in advance | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | VA, DC , MD | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/jmddeh/va_dc_md/ |
macaronmelodies | 2024-06-07 09:45:08 | 1,717,753,508 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1da6qha | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1da6qha/dating_apps/ | 1 | How come the apps don’t work? I’ve only had horror stories of attempting to use them, considering I dated a love bomber and narcissist as well as, unfortunately, one time, someone with a foot fetish. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating Apps | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1da6qha/dating_apps/ |
Cormbot | 2015-01-11 15:02:21 | 1,420,988,541 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 2s2a7l | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2s2a7l/not_sure_if_our_third_date_was_a_success_and/ | 1 | Hi so I'm a 26 year old male and I've been dating a 24 year old girl I met on tinder. The first date went well we got to know each other a bit and she was up for having a second one. The second date was very nice. We went for a walk, then had a few drinks and played ping pong at a bar. We then went to another place to ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure if our third date was a success and worried she's losing interest | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2s2a7l/not_sure_if_our_third_date_was_a_success_and/ |
sharl6 | 2020-09-19 23:28:22 | 1,600,558,102 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | iw30db | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/iw30db/had_a_really_great_date_with_a_guy_he_ghosted_me/ | 13 | TLDR: I went on a really great date, the idea that he would not text me back never crossed my mind at all (he seemed really interested and not like someone to ghost), he ghosted me ( its been 1 week), I still keep thinking about him and want to text him again. I would 100% be ok with just going out as friends, I really... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Had a really great date with a guy, he ghosted me, I'm not sure what to do. (mostly venting, also looking for advice) | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/iw30db/had_a_really_great_date_with_a_guy_he_ghosted_me/ |
hersecretlover | 2023-10-13 12:31:02 | 1,697,200,262 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 176xnki | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/176xnki/is_this_too_early_to_date_again_after_a_breakup/ | 1 | So, context. In June I (M33) might a girl (my ex) that I fell in love with. We had an amazing summer. Early September she expressed some doubts, then September 23rd she blindsided me with a breakup and several problems she had never communicated before. I took it pretty hard. Especially because she was a bit cruel and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this too early to date again after a breakup? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/176xnki/is_this_too_early_to_date_again_after_a_breakup/ |
Drunk_Redneck | 2024-06-09 18:41:25 | 1,717,958,485 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1dc0tza | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dc0tza/what_dating_apps_actually_work_to_find_a_long_term/ | 1 | I'm considering joining a dating app What are your stories with finding long terms on the apps? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What dating apps actually work to find a long term? | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dc0tza/what_dating_apps_actually_work_to_find_a_long_term/ |
J-547 | 2021-12-10 20:06:14 | 1,639,166,774 | null | ['swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | rdhacv | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rdhacv/is_love_worth_the_risk_in_life_really_love_some/ | 1 | I'm not really sure about this but I guess I should speak up about it. Ever since my first and last "high school" date. I didn't come concerned about love or romance or dating. But it only resulted me to be alone and not actually going out there and finding new poeple. This has been going on for years on and ever since... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is love worth the risk in life? Really love some advice | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rdhacv/is_love_worth_the_risk_in_life_really_love_some/ |
[deleted] | 2022-02-17 23:18:24 | 1,645,139,904 | null | ['matches', 'swipe', 'dating apps'] | 0 | sv2emk | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sv2emk/how_to_date_after_college_20m/ | 1 | Dating in college has been pretty poor for me, and I don’t expect to meet many people. The problem is after college I don’t see any future. I get zero matches on dating apps, and I think I just don’t look good enough for them. No amount of changing swipe habits, bios, or pictures has made a difference. I’m decent looki... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to date after college (20M) | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sv2emk/how_to_date_after_college_20m/ |
hiding_in_de | 2020-09-15 13:57:45 | 1,600,178,265 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | it99yz | true | null | 65 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/it99yz/i_won_bumble/ | 370 | This got suuuuper long, sorry. After splitting with my ex (41M) of 16 1/2 years (where my heart had been breaking bit by bit for years) (2 daughters 9 and 12), and 6 months of focused "work," I (42F) decided as Covid was hitting that I should try my hand at online dating. I was hoping to meet a couple cool guys I could... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | I won Bumble! | null | 0.95 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/it99yz/i_won_bumble/ |
aandrisk | 2019-08-06 11:05:41 | 1,565,089,541 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | cmp63f | true | null | 20 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cmp63f/dating_multiple_people/ | 2 | Normally, when I match with someone on a dating app, I focus my attention on that one person until it fizzles out (because it always ends that way lol). I’ve never been one to have a ton of matches and have all these dates set up. However, over the weekend I matched with three different guys that have all shown interes... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating multiple people? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cmp63f/dating_multiple_people/ |
bula79 | 2017-07-14 00:47:22 | 1,499,993,242 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 6n5tiu | null | null | 3 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/6n5tiu/38m_living_with_family_how_to_date/ | 1 | I'm a 38 year old guy, have a full time job (but don't make a lot of money) and am living with my family. It will be a couple months before I'm able to get my own place. I want to start online dating now but am afraid that girls will reject me as soon as they hear my living situation. Would appreciate any advice. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [38M] living with family - how to date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/6n5tiu/38m_living_with_family_how_to_date/ |
NecroComicCon | 2017-09-01 23:36:10 | 1,504,308,970 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 6xid1j | false | null | 28 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6xid1j/dating_without_smartphone_hopeless/ | 12 | I had a drink recently with a guy I met in town (without the aid of the Internet). He's a customer at work and we'd been friendly with each other and seemed to have chemistry. The other day I saw him in town, and he got my number, friended me on facebook, and told me to stop by and have a drink anytime. He seemed very ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating Without Smartphone = Hopeless? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6xid1j/dating_without_smartphone_hopeless/ |
maryj6 | 2018-08-31 01:19:33 | 1,535,678,373 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 9bpbh3 | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9bpbh3/how_do_you_meet_people_in_college/ | 10 | I'm a 23F and I just transferred to a university. I want to get into a new relationship but I'm really shy and have only been in one so far. I'll see random people just sparking up conversations and I just can't seem to do that. I don't really know how to just start talking to guys because my classes are filled with on... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you meet people in college? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9bpbh3/how_do_you_meet_people_in_college/ |
[deleted] | 2014-10-31 09:30:43 | 1,414,747,843 | 0 | ['match.com'] | 0 | 2kvbpn | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/2kvbpn/update_23f_with_my_best_friend_24m_of_8_years/ | 16 | Original post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2jdekf/23f_with_my_best_friend_24m_of_almost_8_years/ After I posted this we went on vacation together. The last night we were there, we ended up getting drunk and hooking up. I really don't remember much of who initiated it or how we got to that point.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | UPDATE: 23F with my best friend 24M of 8 years... Wanted to have the "is this going to go further than friendship?" talk with him aaaand we hooked up. | 16 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2kvbpn/update_23f_with_my_best_friend_24m_of_8_years/ |
UnhappyFollowing4632 | 2024-06-16 18:30:10 | 1,718,562,610 | 0 | ['matches', 'matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 1dhdy6v | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dhdy6v/i_get_matches_then_they_unmatch/ | 1 | So I'll get into the story, I matched with a girl on Bumble. The conversation was fine but she was pretty slow at messaging me (usually around 9 PM central time) and it was casual conversation such as favorite movies, hobbies, etc. Due to her slow communication, I gave her my phone number and she never replied. Knowing... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I get matches then they unmatch | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dhdy6v/i_get_matches_then_they_unmatch/ |
innclosure | 2024-07-14 18:41:39 | 1,720,982,499 | 0 | null | 0 | 1e39nfh | true | null | 17 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1e39nfh/title_struggling_with_first_messages_on_dating/ | 2 | Hi everyone, I've been using dating apps for a while now, but I always seem to struggle with writing that first message. I never know what to say to stand out or how to start a conversation without sounding generic. Any tips or advice on crafting a great first message? Would love to hear your thoughts! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Title: Struggling with First Messages on Dating Apps | 2 | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1e39nfh/title_struggling_with_first_messages_on_dating/ |
staysteve-28 | 2023-06-28 01:30:16 | 1,687,915,816 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 14kvvqk | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14kvvqk/advice_32f35m/ | 1 | I (32f) matched with a wonderful man (35m) back in March and we’ve been chatting ever since. Unfortunately, we are 2 hours away from each other. First date he came to my side of town, second date I drove to him and third date, he drove to me. We’re planning our fourth date soon but I am not sure it’s a good idea or eve... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice 32f/35m | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14kvvqk/advice_32f35m/ |
bigblueshoes11 | 2017-01-19 22:22:23 | 1,484,864,543 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 5ozuj9 | null | null | 11 | null | /r/dating/comments/5ozuj9/getting_paranoid_over_no_response/ | 1 | Hi, I will try to not keep this too long but I have a lot I want to cover. I started using Tinder about 18 months ago and I'm using it to try and find a relationship and not only hookups. I know this is not what Tinder is really intended for but as a a shy 24 yo male virgin that never really dated I find it's one of fe... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting paranoid over no response | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5ozuj9/getting_paranoid_over_no_response/ |
SnooRecipes8360 | 2024-03-05 07:30:48 | 1,709,623,848 | 0 | ['dating platform'] | 0 | 1b6zk72 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1b6zk72/dating_platform_advise/ | 1 | Say if someone is going to build a dating platform taking advise from this community, what would be yours. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating platform advise | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1b6zk72/dating_platform_advise/ |
PRQT17 | 2021-04-11 23:46:52 | 1,618,184,812 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | mp2by3 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mp2by3/should_i_go_back_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | I am a female in my late 20s who has been single for years. I have been on several different dating apps over this long stretch of time. Nothing has seemed to stick. Of course I would like to meet people in person, but unfortunately we are in a pandemic. Looking for genuine answers from people with experience on this t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I go back on dating apps? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mp2by3/should_i_go_back_on_dating_apps/ |
[deleted] | 2015-08-24 23:43:44 | 1,440,459,824 | 0 | ['plenty of fish'] | 0 | 3i9lws | null | null | 1 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/3i9lws/tips_for_flirting_with_a_girl_you_met_on_facebook/ | 2 | So heres the short: Theres a girl I met on facebook through this group right. She added me a while ago and I always thought she was really cool and now she just broke up with her bf. Weve talked a little, like each others post, commented on them (her more so than I do hers) and she seems to like me a bit (most likely p... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tips for flirting with a girl you met on facebook? | 2 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/3i9lws/tips_for_flirting_with_a_girl_you_met_on_facebook/ |
astrobarbie666 | 2023-07-24 19:30:55 | 1,690,227,055 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 158kgd5 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/158kgd5/first_date_nerves_are_going_crazy_help/ | 1 | I’m going on a date with this guy I’ve been talking to from Hinge tomorrow night. He’s so sweet and is what I’m looking for in a partner. I want to meet him. I’ve even thought of bailing because of nerves but I don’t want to do that because I could be potentially missing a really good opportunity which would be dumb. I... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First date nerves are going CRAZY help | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/158kgd5/first_date_nerves_are_going_crazy_help/ |
YesManGL | 2021-12-10 02:26:26 | 1,639,103,186 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rcxsgv | true | null | 349 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rcxsgv/is_becoming_a_sugar_daddy_a_oneway_road_will_it/ | 365 | I'm a 29M who lives in a major city in the US. I've recently had a lot of issues in my dating life - specifically with attracting women. Definitely not an uncommon issue on this sub (or in general), but I think I'm in a less common position insomuch that I do a lot of things 'right'. I graduated from a top university a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is becoming a 'sugar daddy' a one-way road? Will it be difficult to date vanilla in the future? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rcxsgv/is_becoming_a_sugar_daddy_a_oneway_road_will_it/ |
Alternative_Pin5925 | 2023-11-06 23:19:56 | 1,699,312,796 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17pg94j | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17pg94j/a_question_for_the_ladies_on_tinder/ | 1 | What are your thoughts on men you find attractive who are not focused on dating or in a rush to meet someone or multiple women. Who is focused on his goals, physique, health, and wealth. Would you want to date a man like this? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A question for the ladies on tinder.. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17pg94j/a_question_for_the_ladies_on_tinder/ |
lilydeetee | 2022-04-03 18:42:39 | 1,649,011,359 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | tvgdly | true | Casual Conversation | 43 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/tvgdly/well_i_guess_i_took_it_too_slow/ | 37 | Feeling kinda flat and deflated. I posted last week how I finally met a guy that I feel really comfortable with but I really have fear of getting involved again as I’ve been through a lot of hurt and pain after making some terrible choices. I was taking it super slow - 3 dates no kissing / intimacy - whereas in the pas... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Well, I guess I took it too slow | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/tvgdly/well_i_guess_i_took_it_too_slow/ |
victory48 | 2019-08-23 04:00:18 | 1,566,532,818 | null | ['matches', 'online dating'] | 0 | cu8lkc | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/cu8lkc/online_dating/ | 1 | How? I don't really ever get matches and when I do they don't respond. I'm not sure what to do especially since there really isn't another way to meet anyone where I'm at. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Online dating | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cu8lkc/online_dating/ |
elvynne | 2019-06-27 05:22:52 | 1,561,612,972 | null | ['swiping', 'dating apps'] | 0 | c61hkv | true | Venting | 141 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/c61hkv/modern_dating_an_observation/ | 314 | To start off: I speak in “us”, “our” and “we” on occasion, because at the end of the day, we’re all in this together. Whether we want to accept it or not. Here are some things I’ve noticed about dating, and dating apps in general, that might be summarized best with a comment from a conversation I had with my dad: “The ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Modern Dating: an observation | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/c61hkv/modern_dating_an_observation/ |
uniqueanonymousname | 2023-06-03 17:12:53 | 1,685,812,373 | 0 | ['swipe', 'online dating', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 13zj3ko | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13zj3ko/how_do_homebody_humans_get_a_date_in_this_modern/ | 0 | I'm a homebody and an introvert. I want to date. But I have no idea how to go about finding people that I want to date and who want to date me. I'm an average-ish looking heterosexual male in my 30s. I've had one single date in the past year. I rely solely on online dating, use all the popular dating apps, swipe every ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do homebody humans get a date in this modern world?? (online dating 👎) | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13zj3ko/how_do_homebody_humans_get_a_date_in_this_modern/ |
kingtj1971 | 2021-10-04 22:12:30 | 1,633,385,550 | null | ['facebook dating'] | 0 | q1golj | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/q1golj/dating_feels_onesided_lately/ | 4 | It's been a good 10 years or so since I was last dating, but at age 50, this whole thing has been little more than an exercise in reminding myself why maybe it's just better to live single and alone. I've had text conversations with at least 10 women who shared a supposed mutual interest on Facebook dating, only to hav... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Dating feels one-sided lately .... | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/q1golj/dating_feels_onesided_lately/ |
Taenith | 2021-11-27 21:57:27 | 1,638,050,247 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | r3o0xi | true | I Need Advice | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/r3o0xi/30m_i_dont_really_know_what_to_put_without_it/ | 3 | Honestly, I know a lot of posts like these get deleted due to being repetitive or "use the search feature for your answer" and its like I can't find any dating sub reddit to get advice from. I'll just get to it I guess. I'm 30 year old male who has never dated or have any experience to really speak of. I've tried datin... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 30(M) I don't really know what to put without it getting deleted. | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/r3o0xi/30m_i_dont_really_know_what_to_put_without_it/ |
LordSoupSoup | 2018-11-06 04:21:20 | 1,541,478,080 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | 9ul8pi | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9ul8pi/advise_about_my_date_warning_kinda_long/ | 2 | Hey Reddit. I’d like to ask for some advise again. So as I’ve said in previous posts, I landed a date on Bumble with a girl, which in and of itself is amazing. We talked over the app for a day or so, and we met at a coffee shop tonight. Everything went great, there was little to no awkwardness, and we talked for a good... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Advise about my date (warning, kinda long) | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9ul8pi/advise_about_my_date_warning_kinda_long/ |
FishoutofLove | 2022-07-21 03:11:38 | 1,658,373,098 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | w45qf3 | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/w45qf3/never_dated_how_do_i_start/ | 9 | So, just putting this out there. I have never gone on a date. I haven’t been in a relationship since high school which was about almost…9 years ago. We were kids and couldn’t go on dates anyways. I have always been focusing on school since then and as much as I would like to say that was the reason I didn’t date while ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Never dated. How do I start? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/w45qf3/never_dated_how_do_i_start/ |
Kooky_Shock_1034 | 2022-03-28 01:50:35 | 1,648,432,235 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | tpyhjt | true | null | 3 | 1 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tpyhjt/nervous_person_or_catfish/ | 1 | I had posted on a Reddit dating page saying what I was looking for in a guy, and included my picture. A guy sent a message and picture on Reddit chat in response to it and we've been talking for about 6 weeks. He seems more reserved like I am and also doesn't like big crowds and hates small talk. We seemed to really cl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Nervous Person or Catfish? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tpyhjt/nervous_person_or_catfish/ |
Inevitable_Whole_770 | 2023-12-09 12:44:54 | 1,702,125,894 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18ecv6r | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18ecv6r/do_men_not_want_sex_anymore/ | 1 | I (26f) have been celibate for a few years to heal from my abusive ex, but now I’m ready to start meeting new people and be sexually active again. All I need is to meet a guy first to make sure he’s not a creep or a serial killer and I’d be fine sleeping with him but it’s like no guys even want to meet me. Like, how ar... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do men not want sex anymore? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18ecv6r/do_men_not_want_sex_anymore/ |
Bettyhound_ | 2024-07-30 03:10:57 | 1,722,309,057 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1efj199 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1efj199/are_we_moving_to_fast/ | 2 | I met a man that I really liked on a dating app; we just had our second date, and we agreed to be in a serious relationship, so we deleted the dating apps we were on. Not at the stage of calling each other boyfriend or girlfriend, but there is a level of commitment. We lost track of time talking to each other during th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Are We moving to fast? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1efj199/are_we_moving_to_fast/ |
RslWlsn3 | 2021-11-09 20:52:08 | 1,636,491,128 | null | ['swipe', 'dating app'] | 0 | qqczqr | true | Question | 38 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/qqczqr/dating_app_without_chatting_crazy_or_not/ | 0 | Goal: Have a dating app that promotes real connection over texting and discourages flaking. Features: - No chatting - After a match decide where and when to meet up by selecting/voting on options, the app then chooses for you based on mutual preferences and sets a date - Put $1-20 down as flake prevention (you get the ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating app without chatting. Crazy or not?🤔 | null | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/qqczqr/dating_app_without_chatting_crazy_or_not/ |
De_Chelonian_Mobile | 2023-10-25 15:22:58 | 1,698,247,378 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17g7a4r | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17g7a4r/how_do_i_bring_up_kids_with_new_date/ | 1 | I met a guy a couple of weeks ago, and we like each other. We've been texting a lot, having dates, and all that stuff. In his OLD profile, he had "not sure yet" regarding children, but the thing is, we are in our early thirties, so it's not like I have much time to lose. This is my first time dating since I was in an L... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I bring up kids with new date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17g7a4r/how_do_i_bring_up_kids_with_new_date/ |
YDoUNVMe | 2024-09-23 21:17:57 | 1,727,126,277 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fnvpgg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fnvpgg/etiquette_of_rescheduling_a_second_date/ | 1 | Backstory: I (36F) matched with a guy (39M) on Hinge and we talked/texted/called each other for 6 weeks prior to our first date (We live in different cities). First date was great We immediately made a plan to meet up again the following week. We live 3hrs apart so I agreed to drive up his way because my parents live n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Etiquette of rescheduling a second date? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fnvpgg/etiquette_of_rescheduling_a_second_date/ |
Budget-Tap-9713 | 2023-11-05 02:48:16 | 1,699,152,496 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 17o2lm8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17o2lm8/forever_single/ | 3 | I'm having a hard time finding a boyfriend or anyone to take me seriously. I've been single for almost 5 years. I've used my time alone working on bettering myself but I've always been a hopeless romantic. Normally I don't mind being single but lately I've been reflecting my past dating history and I only get used for ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Forever single | 3 | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17o2lm8/forever_single/ |
DumpsterFireDept | 2020-12-21 00:06:37 | 1,608,509,197 | null | ['OLD', 'online dating'] | 0 | kh5m6l | true | Question | 10 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/kh5m6l/has_your_old_experience_changed_your_preferences/ | 2 | I'm not sure if I'm just changing as I age and OLD made that more apparent, or if the OLD experience changed my preferences. I think I'm far more interested now in people with different views and philosophies than my own, I'm more open minded for the sake of casting a wider net, and because I'm more afraid of getting c... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Has your OLD experience changed your Preferences? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/kh5m6l/has_your_old_experience_changed_your_preferences/ |
DandyQ44 | 2023-12-23 13:37:37 | 1,703,338,657 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18p5ut5 | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18p5ut5/why_do_we_leave_a_queue_instead_of_unmatch/ | 1 | I'm on Hinge and I've noticed a growing number of hidden profiles. Most of them, we talked a bit and it led nowhere. Either one of us dropped off. Some are from when I visited another city, which they all knew I was visiting - in that group, one of us hooked up, another I asked to go out together to see the city and he... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Why do we leave a queue instead of unmatch? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18p5ut5/why_do_we_leave_a_queue_instead_of_unmatch/ |
JBurner182 | 2021-02-09 21:08:16 | 1,612,904,896 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | lgdiu4 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lgdiu4/hot_and_cold_signals_got_me_spinning_like_a/ | 3 | Okay, reddit. Story time. So, I matched with this girl on Tinder several months ago, who I've had a few classes with, and develeoped a massive crush on. After matching on tinder, we small-talked for a bit, but nothing really came of it. She is very attractive, so I'm sure she was not hurting for matches, so I just choc... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hot and Cold signals got me spinning like a cyclone | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lgdiu4/hot_and_cold_signals_got_me_spinning_like_a/ |
[deleted] | 2014-03-15 07:29:05 | 1,394,868,545 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 20gvar | null | null | 23 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/20gvar/fellow_women_do_the_men_you_know_have_more/ | 1 | Basically, I've noticed a trend that many of my male friends and tons of guys on online dating sites have a lot of experiences traveling around the world and doing things like white water rafting, hiking, mountain climbing, and backpacking through Europe. I feel like my female friends and I have very little to compare ... | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | Fellow women, do the men you know have more experiences with traveling and outdoor adventures than you? | 1 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/20gvar/fellow_women_do_the_men_you_know_have_more/ |
[deleted] | 2014-06-18 04:44:12 | 1,403,066,652 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 28fnor | null | null | 20 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/28fnor/25_f_hasnt_been_asked_on_a_date_in_forever/ | 11 | I am a hot blonde girl, multiple people have told me this. My best friend always gets pissed because when we are out in public she sees guys "eye fucking" me as she calls it. I also think I am a pretty good catch because I am working on my PhD and am fully independent with my own income/car/apartment etc. and I am an o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 25 f hasn't been asked on a date in forever. | 11 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/28fnor/25_f_hasnt_been_asked_on_a_date_in_forever/ |
Normal-Letterhead474 | 2024-04-25 20:01:19 | 1,714,075,279 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1cd12ch | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cd12ch/stuck_in_relationship_limbodestined_or_delulu/ | 1 | I (31f) have finally met someone M (35m) I can truly imagine a future with. Help me decide....is this destiny, or I am delusional? M & I met via a dating app two years ago in his hometown. I was abroad for a wedding, he was visiting his sister and new nephew at home. We instantly connected and quickly discovered we had... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Stuck in relationship limbo...destined or delulu? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cd12ch/stuck_in_relationship_limbodestined_or_delulu/ |
positivepeoplehater | 2019-01-12 15:48:58 | 1,547,308,138 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | af8is8 | true | null | 71 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/af8is8/how_many_of_you_in_committed_relationships_arent/ | 24 | I’m single and online dating, and often men say they’ve been married for a good number of years and haven’t had sex for a lot of it. Is this a real thing? Wondering if it’s just a line. Edit: They day they didn’t have sex the last x number of years. Like one said 12 years, and I’ve heard 2 and 5 years and prob a few mo... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | How many of you in committed relationships aren’t having sex? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/af8is8/how_many_of_you_in_committed_relationships_arent/ |
exitdot | 2023-11-18 15:01:09 | 1,700,319,669 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17y8a0a | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17y8a0a/attractive_and_unable_to_find_anyone_worthy/ | 1 | I'm a teenage guy on the attractive side. I've used Tinder, but I haven't found anyone looking for anything serious. I often don't like to approach girls on the streets because it feels unnatural to me. I don't want to be alone. I love myself, but I have no friends. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Attractive and unable to find anyone worthy | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17y8a0a/attractive_and_unable_to_find_anyone_worthy/ |
NoMedium3005 | 2023-08-09 04:47:08 | 1,691,556,428 | 0 | null | 0 | 15m55mn | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15m55mn/just_got_bnned_on_hnge_absolutely_no_freaking/ | 1 | My profile was removed off of Hinge tonight. I have absolutely no clue why. I've not been very active on the app over the last few weeks since I was on vacation, and the matches I did have were either talking to me normally (even had plans set up with one for later this week) or ones slowly leaving me on read. I haven'... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Just got bnned on Hnge. Absolutely no freaking clue why but all I know is that my main app has now been cut out from under me. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15m55mn/just_got_bnned_on_hnge_absolutely_no_freaking/ |
sneradicus | 2021-08-04 17:32:58 | 1,628,098,378 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | oxxswp | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oxxswp/what_kind_of_things_look_good_in_a_tinder_profile/ | 3 | For your respective sex. This is more just a question for fun, but I honestly am a bit curious as to what y’all have found successful or attractive. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What kind of things look good in a Tinder profile | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oxxswp/what_kind_of_things_look_good_in_a_tinder_profile/ |
Ok_Note_2609 | 2024-04-11 06:00:55 | 1,712,815,255 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1c17p9v | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1c17p9v/how_to_strike_a_girls_interest/ | 1 | 24M. Not in the best physical shape, bit of a dad bod, but I’ve been making the lifestyle changes to fix that. Even with it I’d say I’m at least average in terms of looks. I try to dress decent. Nothing too fancy but jeans and a decent collared shirt most days. I’ve been trying to meet people. Done the dating apps, can... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to strike a girl’s interest | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c17p9v/how_to_strike_a_girls_interest/ |
Worth-Huckleberry612 | 2023-05-27 10:32:40 | 1,685,183,560 | 0 | ['swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | 13t3ybb | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/13t3ybb/online_dating/ | 6 | I'm 27(F) and have never dated anyone before. My friends suggested trying online dating, but I'm scared no one will swipe right on me. I've always had self-confidence issues on my appearance so I also don't usually like taking photos of myself either. Can anyone give me advice on how I should start looking for anyone t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating | 6 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13t3ybb/online_dating/ |
NotYrAveJam | 2022-09-06 04:08:07 | 1,662,437,287 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | x70lwd | true | Discussion | 27 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/x70lwd/the_open_marriage_invitation/ | 1 | Sharing today's experience and I must say her presentation was pretty good She initiated with a superswipe on Bumble. A very attractive 42F. Tons of full body pictures nothing to crazy but she was definitely fit looking for something casual. I had the something is probably up but let's play along. The conversation was ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | The Open Marriage Invitation | null | 0.53 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/x70lwd/the_open_marriage_invitation/ |
jellybeanz21 | 2022-05-30 12:25:24 | 1,653,913,524 | null | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | v0z2e2 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/v0z2e2/guy_agrees_to_go_on_a_date_but_wont_set_a_date/ | 0 | Advice needed so 3 weeks I matched with this guys (21 M ) me (22 F) on a dating app. I didn’t recognise him at firsts but we started talking and then I realised I had been to some party’s he had when we were 15 ish it was a family friends party who is his auntie . So anyways we have been getting on really well he sugge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy agrees to go on a date but won’t set a date ? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/v0z2e2/guy_agrees_to_go_on_a_date_but_wont_set_a_date/ |
DabossKA | 2023-12-05 17:07:17 | 1,701,796,037 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating app'] | 0 | 18bgrjx | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18bgrjx/venting_about_my_latest_dating_experiences/ | 1 | I’ve been on OLD for almost a year now and I don’t have issues meeting people. I dated someone for a couple months and it was overall pretty healthy , we were just not compatible. I am just so overwhelmed. It seems like every person is great on paper and then when we start seeing them , it’s a complete shit show. I rec... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Venting about my latest dating experiences | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18bgrjx/venting_about_my_latest_dating_experiences/ |
AccomplishedText5474 | 2024-08-31 20:54:02 | 1,725,137,642 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f5xa43 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5xa43/how_do_i_date_people_as_an_anime_fan/ | 1 | As it says in the title. I'm aware the conventions are a good place to start and I do go to them it's just that I'm too socially awkward to even make friends there, much less try to find a future partner 😭 I'm not exactly attractive so edating on discord or any other app that won't show faces immediately will 100% be ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I date people as an anime fan... | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5xa43/how_do_i_date_people_as_an_anime_fan/ |
4thtimeacharm | 2022-10-31 08:48:59 | 1,667,206,139 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | yi5c3b | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yi5c3b/not_sure_what_to_think_of_my_relationship_need/ | 1 | I currently met my gf via bumble, we've known each other for 6 months, I asked her if she'd be interested in a ldr 2 months in and since then till now we've been together for 4 months. gf's close friend: I want him gf's close friend: But I don't wantt him gf's close friend: What is this? gf's close friend: I am tired o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Not sure what to think of my relationship, need some opinions please | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yi5c3b/not_sure_what_to_think_of_my_relationship_need/ |
CyOD125 | 2023-01-05 05:03:06 | 1,672,894,986 | null | null | 0 | 103q6aq | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/103q6aq/i_want_to_confess_my_feelings_to_my_coworkers/ | 0 | I heard she is seeing someone,they are getting serious and I want to make my move but don’t know how | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I want to confess my feelings to my coworkers | null | 0.1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/103q6aq/i_want_to_confess_my_feelings_to_my_coworkers/ |
Zoomer_Boomer2003 | 2023-12-12 15:19:46 | 1,702,394,386 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 18go91h | true | Success Story 🎉 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/18go91h/my_confidence_has_boosted_thanks_to_a_date_i_went/ | 11 | My first ever date was a disaster. I left after 20 minutes because she said some really hurtful and racist things to me. So my confidence was at an all time low and I was put off dating for a long time. But last night, I went out with someone I met on Hinge. We went bowling and grabbed dinner afterwards. When you meet ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My confidence has boosted thanks to a date I went on yesterday | 11 | 0.87 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18go91h/my_confidence_has_boosted_thanks_to_a_date_i_went/ |
Kindly_Benefit_7775 | 2024-04-30 17:56:23 | 1,714,499,783 | 0 | ['swipe'] | 0 | 1cgz6c8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 422 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cgz6c8/is_14_years_a_huge_gap/ | 128 | I am 37 and he is 51. Actually not someone I would swipe on but after a recent breakup , I thought I should let go of those limiting ideas. He is fun to talk to. But I am not sure, sometimes he love bombs . But it also could be my PTSD from the last break up. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is 14 years a huge gap? | 125 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cgz6c8/is_14_years_a_huge_gap/ |
Glucksburg | 2021-05-05 01:00:07 | 1,620,176,407 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | n53ctj | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n53ctj/if_you_are_going_to_use_a_mirror_selfie_in_your/ | 2 | I don't know how everyone else feels about this, but for me personally it's really frustrating to keep seeing people use mirror pics as their main photo and hide behind their phone. Many people I see doing this look really attractive in other photos, so I don't know why some think covering your face will make you look ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | If you are going to use a mirror selfie in your dating app profile, please do not cover your face with your phone. | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n53ctj/if_you_are_going_to_use_a_mirror_selfie_in_your/ |
babysloth3557 | 2022-01-01 12:14:50 | 1,641,039,290 | null | ['OLD', 'dating apps'] | 0 | rtib6k | true | Success! | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rtib6k/liberation_from_old/ | 6 | 2022 for me started with deleting my dating apps at midnight. It felt liberating I was wasting time scrolling, becoming disappointed, ever more judgemental and picky as these apps so frequently foster. I didn't want to be the person who rejects someone based off 3 lines of text and a few photos, but that's who I became... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Liberation from OLD | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rtib6k/liberation_from_old/ |
Banana_chips2021 | 2024-04-12 05:14:17 | 1,712,898,857 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1c20ynq | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c20ynq/should_i_double_text/ | 1 | I 22F met this 22M on a dating app and we have been texting for a week. We decided to have plans for Saturday. He seemed to be excited and was looking forward to the date. But it’s been a day and he hasn’t responded to my texts and in two days it will be the date. Should I text for a follow up with if we still have pla... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I double text? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c20ynq/should_i_double_text/ |
Alyctro | 2021-07-10 00:51:55 | 1,625,878,315 | null | ['dating app', 'dating apps', 'dating site', 'badoo'] | 0 | oh8mmy | true | Venting | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/oh8mmy/getting_sick_of_badoo_and_other_dating_apps/ | 2 | First of all, why are all the dating apps scamming the hell out of lonely men? I have tried every possible dating site or app, yet everywhere's the same. You can't literally do anything despite them saying you can. You need to pay for everything. 💰 Firstly, it's full of sketchy almost model like people with funny name... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Getting sick of badoo and other dating apps. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/oh8mmy/getting_sick_of_badoo_and_other_dating_apps/ |
Power_Strike92 | 2020-01-03 03:59:11 | 1,578,023,951 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | ej9ubi | true | I Need Advice | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/ej9ubi/does_this_girl_want_to_be_more_than_friend/ | 1 | Does this girl want to be more than friends? I went on this date a few weeks ago with a girl I met on Hinge. She was great and it was the best first date I’ve ever been on. We were both pretty mind blown about the chemistry we had and ended up making out before parting ways. The next day she tells me that she thought a... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does this girl want to be more than friend? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ej9ubi/does_this_girl_want_to_be_more_than_friend/ |
matutewittg | 2022-08-13 23:39:30 | 1,660,433,970 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | wnrw15 | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/wnrw15/cant_move_on_from_a_failed_talking_stage/ | 1 | Hello, im a 23M who has a difficult time connecting with people I date. Im not shy its just that I dont feel comfortable around people unless I get to know them over time. However sometimes im very charming, talktative and so on. Well, needless to say that i have not had any luck dating, no gf, just one night stand wit... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cant move on from a failed talking stage | null | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/wnrw15/cant_move_on_from_a_failed_talking_stage/ |
IceCreamChic | 2022-12-19 20:53:13 | 1,671,483,193 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | zq37k3 | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/zq37k3/am_i_the_problem/ | 1 | 3 partners in a row (including my current one) have flirted with other women or continued using dating sites while I'm in a realationship with them. I don't like this and it has caused major trust issues which in turn makes things worse. I can be a very paranoid person when I have reason to be. In these cases my partne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I the problem? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/zq37k3/am_i_the_problem/ |
the-superiorbitch | 2020-06-27 05:51:37 | 1,593,237,097 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hgo3z6 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hgo3z6/should_i_drop_him/ | 0 | So I met up w this guy from tinder today I’m F 18 and he’s M 19. I was already out with some of my friends and told him to pull up, I was more comfortable not meeting him alone. So he pulls up and we all chill out but he’s super quiet, looking at his phone the whole time, only answering yes or no questions just pretty ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I drop him? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hgo3z6/should_i_drop_him/ |
Everlast23 | 2022-08-07 19:24:43 | 1,659,900,283 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | winrl4 | true | null | 147 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/winrl4/a_few_things_ive_learned_online_dating_as_a_man_i/ | 474 | If I had a time machine to a year ago, here's what I would have told myself: 1) It's totally normal for most first dates to not go to 2nd dates. It's not necessarily a reflection of you. It's actually kind of rare for 2 strangers from the internet to click in person. Don't take it personally. 2) You have to make your o... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago: | null | 0.97 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/winrl4/a_few_things_ive_learned_online_dating_as_a_man_i/ |
givag327 | 2018-01-29 07:29:48 | 1,517,210,988 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | 7tqpzl | false | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/7tqpzl/igsc_on_swipe_apps/ | 3 | Maybe someone can help me understand this. If someone has their social media account on a swipe app, does that mean they prefer you to go there and add and message them through there? If the answer is yes, what is the best way to message someone while not sounding like a total stalker/creep? I find it weird, especially... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | IG/SC on Swipe Apps. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/7tqpzl/igsc_on_swipe_apps/ |
suzybishop26 | 2019-01-26 10:37:55 | 1,548,499,075 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | ajzvew | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ajzvew/dating_without_apps/ | 1 | I pretty much never date, and have been on a handful of dates in my entire life. I’d like to date, but I hate the idea of using Tinder, Bumble etc - I know it’s old fashioned but I’d way rather meet someone in a more organic way. Should I get over my fear of apps and use them? How do you meet people to date? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating without apps? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ajzvew/dating_without_apps/ |
TurboCapitalist666 | 2021-02-02 00:17:26 | 1,612,225,046 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'tinder'] | 0 | laik3s | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/laik3s/tinder_problems/ | 0 | I'm a guy in an area with somewhere between 30,000-40,000 people, and there's a lot of suburbia with a downtown urban center, but it's not like a major widely known city-town. I get a decent amount of matches within the first month of using it but I run into this repeated dilemma. I'm on Tinder for sex or fwb. For some... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Tinder Problems | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/laik3s/tinder_problems/ |
chockerz | 2017-11-01 04:11:57 | 1,509,509,517 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 7a1bx7 | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7a1bx7/still_no_phone_number_after_3_dates_fourth_coming/ | 1 | So I met up with a girl close to my age via online dating. After a string of messages and emails sent back and forth, we decided to do some voice chatting as per her request. Some might find this process a bit labourious, but I was patient and respected some people like to take time. We met up on a date and were chatti... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Still no phone number after 3 dates (fourth coming soon)... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7a1bx7/still_no_phone_number_after_3_dates_fourth_coming/ |
Creative-Candidate80 | 2024-01-12 03:20:38 | 1,705,029,638 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 194kxxr | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/194kxxr/what_is_the_best_way_to_let_a_man_know_politely/ | 3 | Just as the question says. I (23F) went on a date with a guy tonight, and it was fine. Got really boring, really quick. We hit it off on a dating app, but there's no spark or chemistry or even attraction in person. I stayed for ice cream, acted as polite and elegantly as I could, and hugged him when we departed. I don'... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What is the best way to let a man know politely that you're not interested in pursuing a relationship with him? | 3 | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/194kxxr/what_is_the_best_way_to_let_a_man_know_politely/ |
ShroveGrove | 2024-02-19 00:57:19 | 1,708,304,239 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge', 'feeld'] | 0 | 1auacmr | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1auacmr/its_only_been_four_dates_and_i_am_tired_of_dating/ | 2 | For context, I am 24F and have only recently entered the "adult dating world." I only use one dating app- Hinge. My LTR and I broke it off in August. I started dating in late November. Date one, I was very excited. I actually met this one on Feeld. I picked a restaurant nearby, and he drove down. We sat at a table and ... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | It's only been four dates, and I am tired of dating. | 2 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1auacmr/its_only_been_four_dates_and_i_am_tired_of_dating/ |
Master_Belial93 | 2023-05-02 16:09:01 | 1,683,043,741 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 135sb59 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/135sb59/dating_apps_not_tinder/ | 0 | I'm having a damnedest time with dating apps. It's not a lack of matches or likes, whatever they call em. I'm getting a few, it's just the.... Let's say... Quality isn't there.... 9/10 are overweight/obese. And myself am a fit individual. I'm not expecting my partner to be for lack of a better term... Hourglass... I li... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Apps (Not Tinder) | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/135sb59/dating_apps_not_tinder/ |
CookieCrispIsDope | 2021-05-23 04:37:36 | 1,621,744,656 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nj041p | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nj041p/dating_apps_and_phone_number_hesitancy/ | 3 | Maybe a dumb and ignorant question but I don’t understand the phone hesitancy - in other words if you’ve been talking even for a little bit and even agreed to meet somewhere through an app - I’ll usually at that point ask for a number to communicate easier , and sometimes I’m met with an overt “let’s just communicate t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating apps and phone number hesitancy | null | 0.72 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nj041p/dating_apps_and_phone_number_hesitancy/ |
Angels-havic | 2023-08-27 03:02:40 | 1,693,105,360 | 0 | ['dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 162etzo | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/162etzo/caught_my_boyfriend_on_dating_apps/ | 1 | So me and my boyfriend have been living together for a month due to his mother kicking him out & after only dating 2 months. Today a female sent me a dm on ig telling me how my boyfriend has bumble and was flirting with her then added her on instagram, liked all her posts then blocked her as soon as she said she was te... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Caught my boyfriend on dating apps.. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/162etzo/caught_my_boyfriend_on_dating_apps/ |
atetrack98 | 2021-04-09 00:06:25 | 1,617,926,785 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | mn5360 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mn5360/did_i_do_something_wrong/ | 1 | Hi all. I (M, 22) just confirmed a date with someone on a dating app. is a screenshot of our exchange. Did I do something wrong? Although she agreed to the date, to me a one-word answer with no punctuation is usually a bad thing. Am I overthinking this? Or did I make an error by telling her what time we should meet ins... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Did I do something wrong? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mn5360/did_i_do_something_wrong/ |
[deleted] | 2021-05-15 11:40:48 | 1,621,078,848 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | ncwyfv | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ncwyfv/how_do_you_date/ | 3 | Look i get how to date but i guess what im wondering is how do you meet people as an adult. Ive tried dating apps and they dont really seem to be working out. I dont have any friends so mutual friends are off the table. Like outside of work and what not how do you meet people. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you date | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ncwyfv/how_do_you_date/ |
No-Rush-4671 | 2024-03-13 05:18:12 | 1,710,307,092 | 0 | ['dating app', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1bdjjz1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bdjjz1/is_being_disloyal_to_the_talking_stage_considered/ | 1 | So I was talking to a girl a while back for 7-8 months long distance and she immediately said I love you the first week which pushed me back so I told her I got to see how she is in person first. I also was just feeling it out if I found someone closer in person. But 4th month she was pushing a title so I told her when... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is being disloyal to the talking stage considered cheating? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bdjjz1/is_being_disloyal_to_the_talking_stage_considered/ |
Naive-Standard-2579 | 2024-06-30 02:25:58 | 1,719,714,358 | 0 | ['feeld'] | 0 | 1drrahq | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1drrahq/should_i_move_on/ | 4 | I met someone via an app (Feeld, if it matters), who seemed interesting and interested, as we maintained conversation for a number of days consecutively. One day, a couple of weeks ago, she sent an unusually terse reply inquiring as to what could account for my writing style, which I admit can be rather stilted and ped... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I move on? | 4 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1drrahq/should_i_move_on/ |
Sherwood_eh | 2018-05-30 03:16:57 | 1,527,650,217 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 8n5axh | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8n5axh/tinder_first_date/ | 1 | So I matched with this girl on tinder the other day and hit it off pretty well. I got her snapchat and she even said that I was 'hot' however, when I asked her to meet up, she replied with 'maybeeee' how should I go about this? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder first date | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8n5axh/tinder_first_date/ |
Similar-Big-7324 | 2024-06-30 13:24:49 | 1,719,753,889 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1ds1fng | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ds1fng/dating_new_guy_with_eyebrow_piercing_end_things/ | 1 | I (30F) have been on 2 dates with a guy (32M) who has an eyebrow piercing. We met on a dating app & the piercing is not visible in any of the pics on his profile (it may be new). I’m really not into piercings on men & do not match with guys who have them. When he showed up with one on our first date, I immediately thou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating new guy with eyebrow piercing - end things or ask him if he’d be open to removing it? | 1 | 0.14 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ds1fng/dating_new_guy_with_eyebrow_piercing_end_things/ |
lonelydriverclubpres | 2020-10-19 23:05:39 | 1,603,148,739 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | jed5pa | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jed5pa/dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/ | 1 | I(19M) know it sounds like some incel type of shit but now I have no idea what I'm doing I've asked girls out everytime no I used to think i was kinda good looking but dating apps have made me wont to blow my brains out | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dont know what I'm doing wrong | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jed5pa/dont_know_what_im_doing_wrong/ |
sunkized | 2021-11-29 06:21:26 | 1,638,166,886 | null | ['swipe'] | 0 | r4pcv5 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/r4pcv5/really_you_have_to_do_all_this/ | 2 | In my lez group they were posting what they always left swipe on. If a girl has more than 1 car selfie = left swipe. If she has any pics with a motorcycle = left swipe. No group pics = left swipe. I have group pics with people I don't even talk to anymore. All this frauding just to get laid. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Really? You have to do all this? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/r4pcv5/really_you_have_to_do_all_this/ |
LostBasket2377 | 2024-09-06 19:06:24 | 1,725,649,584 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1fan6qf | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fan6qf/late_twenties_male_here_should_i_try_to_get/ | 1 | I’m 28 now and entering a time where many people look for a long term partner. But I’m honestly disillusioned and disgruntled with modern dating. I’ve had every relationship really you could have besides marriage. A serious girlfriend that I basically moved in with, short term relationships, just hooking up, and hell, ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Late twenties male here - should I try to get married and have a family? | 1 | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fan6qf/late_twenties_male_here_should_i_try_to_get/ |
okbeautiful | 2014-05-16 10:20:32 | 1,400,235,632 | 0 | ['okcupid'] | 0 | 25pa3i | null | null | 16 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/25pa3i/i_26m_had_an_excellent_date_with_a_24f_a_week_ago/ | 13 | I had a great date with her last week. We had the natural 'chemistry' and 'spark' that most of my first dates lack. We also got physical and did cute little things such as hold hands. At the end of the date she told me we'd hang out again, that she has a busy schedule this month but should have time to hang out, to cal... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (26/M) had an excellent date with a (24/f) a week ago. She told me we'd hang out again and has been elusive since. Question inside. | 13 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/25pa3i/i_26m_had_an_excellent_date_with_a_24f_a_week_ago/ |
weweres33ds | 2021-02-13 05:57:35 | 1,613,195,855 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | liujx9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/liujx9/how_do_you_ensure_nonsexual_compatibility/ | 3 | I (33M) have been dating someone (28F) I met on Tinder. She’s beautiful, sweet and a great communicator. We’re both interested in having a LTR. One concern I have is that most of the time when we’re together we’re just having sex or hanging out at the beach. While that’s very nice, I wonder if long term it’s going to t... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you ensure (non-sexual) compatibility? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/liujx9/how_do_you_ensure_nonsexual_compatibility/ |
ajf48h | 2024-05-15 22:48:34 | 1,715,813,314 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1csy4kp | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1csy4kp/how_to_improve_tinder_profile/ | 2 | I (22M) am looking to get into using dating apps. What are some tips and tricks to improve my chance of matches? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How to improve tinder profile | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1csy4kp/how_to_improve_tinder_profile/ |
princedune | 2023-01-21 17:25:23 | 1,674,321,923 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10hwebb | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 11 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10hwebb/how_can_i_get_the_opportunity_to_show_women_my/ | 4 | Hi, I am a physically unattractive person but I feel like I have a lot to give personality wise. My main problem with dating is that I never have the opportunity to show my good side, because my appearance turns people away before I can ever show them who I am. I have done as much as I can to improve my appearance outs... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How can I get the opportunity to show women my personality as an ugly guy? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10hwebb/how_can_i_get_the_opportunity_to_show_women_my/ |
IndependenceDue6879 | 2023-09-10 23:13:10 | 1,694,387,590 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 16fezlo | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16fezlo/dating_after_60_thoughts/ | 1 | Thoughts on dating after 60 appreciated (62M). Pretty normal guy, no experience with online dating, just looking for some thoughts/advice if possible. Many thanks in advance! | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating after 60 Thoughts | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16fezlo/dating_after_60_thoughts/ |
rawdogonlycrew | 2023-02-01 02:56:23 | 1,675,220,183 | null | null | 0 | 10qimy0 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/10qimy0/ai_porned_my_crush_done_with_dating_women_are/ | 0 | Peace out. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | ai porned my crush. done with dating. Women are OBSOLETE | null | 0.23 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/10qimy0/ai_porned_my_crush_done_with_dating_women_are/ |
narina445 | 2017-09-29 17:37:06 | 1,506,706,626 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 739ecj | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/739ecj/suggest_me_some_good_dating_apps/ | 2 | feeling alone just need someone | dating | t5_2qhb1 | suggest me some good dating apps | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/739ecj/suggest_me_some_good_dating_apps/ |
gpalyan | 2018-06-08 05:53:22 | 1,528,437,202 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 8phhv0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8phhv0/what_do_you_guys_think_about_matchmaking/ | 2 | A lot of my dates have been through online dating, but I've sort of given up on it. Lately, I was thinking of trying matchmaking companies. Do these companies that help setup dates for you actually work? Are there any that you recommend? I live in SoCAL if that helps. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you guys think about matchmaking companies? Any success stories/recommendations? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8phhv0/what_do_you_guys_think_about_matchmaking/ |
Timely_Owl_2786 | 2024-03-31 12:33:28 | 1,711,888,408 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1bs9dfn | true | Question ❓ | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bs9dfn/erm/ | 1 | So erm 18y girl. Erm so been homeschooled for a while so ofc I'm kinda introverted and it's kinda hard for me to socialise. So erm how do find someone on net except dating apps. Not even saying I only seek for romantic partner how do U even find friends. Not a really big fan of platforms like insta and twitter and Face... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Erm | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bs9dfn/erm/ |
huff-an-puff | 2024-02-19 17:16:46 | 1,708,363,006 | 0 | null | 0 | 1ausp1a | true | null | 38 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1ausp1a/should_you_go_on_a_date_with_someone_youre_not/ | 16 | Trying to get out there and meet people. Dating apps are rough. I struggle to make a connection with anyone, and just about every profile is not very interesting/not much in common. The conversations are not much better. Should I give it a chance for an in person date? I typically connect better with people in person. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Should you go on a date with someone you’re not excited about? | 16 | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1ausp1a/should_you_go_on_a_date_with_someone_youre_not/ |
maraim199 | 2023-07-30 21:07:51 | 1,690,751,271 | 0 | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 15dwjcb | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15dwjcb/first_bumble_experience_need_advice/ | 1 | So if I’ve download bumble a couple times here and there but I’ve never met anyone and briefly talked to a couple guys but I didn’t feel the vibe so unmatched and deleted it quickly after. Anyways, I downloaded bumble again a couple days ago and matched with this really cute guy We vibes right off the bat & had insane ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | First bumble experience! NEED ADVICE | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15dwjcb/first_bumble_experience_need_advice/ |
bigang99 | 2020-11-06 02:46:56 | 1,604,630,816 | null | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | jowviq | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/jowviq/i_26m_feel_like_i_should_be_killing_it_on_paper/ | 7 | I just dont know what more I need to do. I'm 6'5" got a degree, working in a field I'm passionate about, have a good friend group and make my own music. But it seems like I practically have to beg just for a girls attention. After college I started working fulltime as a freelance stagehand and spent 2 summers traveling... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (26m) feel like I should be killing it on paper but my dating life is just soul crushing | null | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jowviq/i_26m_feel_like_i_should_be_killing_it_on_paper/ |
dootdootpup101 | 2024-05-01 04:06:33 | 1,714,536,393 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1chcwga | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1chcwga/is_it_wrong_to_keep_dating_someone_you_know_you/ | 1 | I’ve (25f) been seeing a guy I met through bumble for about a month and while I enjoy going on dates with him I’m starting to feel guilty because I know I wouldn’t want him to be my boyfriend but I still want to hang out with him because the dates are always fun and thoughtfully planned. We have a natural chemistry and... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it wrong to keep dating someone you know you won’t get serious with? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1chcwga/is_it_wrong_to_keep_dating_someone_you_know_you/ |
sprucegoosestep | 2022-08-12 15:08:11 | 1,660,316,891 | null | ['online dating', 'dating app', 'dating apps', 'okcupid'] | 0 | wmnl9h | true | null | 265 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/wmnl9h/are_dating_apps_capable_of_a_comeback/ | 186 | Speaking as a 33 year-old single man, currently exploring dating prospects IRL and in the dating app circuit, the consensus among most of my friends (a decent mix of gender identities) is that dating apps suck. We've all shared out theories as to why they suck. I used to feel that online dating was marginally more frui... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Are dating apps capable of a comeback? | null | 0.83 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/wmnl9h/are_dating_apps_capable_of_a_comeback/ |
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