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Kailmo | 2022-11-29 08:42:18 | 1,669,711,338 | null | null | 0 | z7o7fd | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/z7o7fd/i_went_on_a_date_with_a_guy_my_friend_went_on_a/ | 9 | Matched with this guy on Hinge. He looked familiar, but I thought maybe he had one of those faces. We'd been texting for a few weeks before we finally had time to meet. We meet the date is going well. We end up getting food and sharing dating horror stories. And I kept bringing up my friend (Betty). She's one of my bes... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I went on a date with a guy my friend went on a date with 5 years ago... | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/z7o7fd/i_went_on_a_date_with_a_guy_my_friend_went_on_a/ |
siirigirl | 2017-03-11 08:56:46 | 1,489,222,606 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5yru1d | null | null | 19 | null | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/5yru1d/urgent_tinder_date_how_do_i_greet_him/ | 5 | In my culture we don't kiss when we meet new people. Do you guys like it if a girl hugs you a bit? I'm going on a tinder date in few hours and nervous. I know he's also a shy introvert type. Would I be getting too close if I hug him gently when we meet? EDIT: thank you all for your comments Date just ended. It went rea... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Urgent. Tinder date, how do I greet him? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/5yru1d/urgent_tinder_date_how_do_i_greet_him/ |
Hungry-crossfitter | 2023-03-18 23:15:07 | 1,679,181,307 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 11v43ie | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11v43ie/best_app/ | 1 | So I’m gonna get one finally. Which is the best? Bumble? Tinder?? Lmk | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best app | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11v43ie/best_app/ |
t-mcmuffin | 2021-12-24 23:15:09 | 1,640,387,709 | null | ['tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | rnx78y | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rnx78y/getting_back_out_there/ | 0 | I (28m)haven’t dated since I was 18. I have no idea how to get out there and meet people. Back story without getting into much detail. I’m divorced moved several states away from home and a little over a year ago. I feel that Im ready to start meeting other people but I don’t know how to anymore. I have tried tinder, b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Getting back out there | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rnx78y/getting_back_out_there/ |
Distinct_Depth1690 | 2020-12-18 06:28:13 | 1,608,272,893 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kffu8g | true | null | 62 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kffu8g/height_and_weight_on_dating_apps/ | 34 | This is something that I've come across in real life and in this sub, where some guys put their height and weight in their dating profiles. I've personally always found that to be in poor taste and comparable to a woman putting her dress size/bra size on her profile. I feel it places you in a position where you only at... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Height and weight on dating apps | null | 0.77 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kffu8g/height_and_weight_on_dating_apps/ |
Princess_Butt_Kick | 2020-07-27 10:53:10 | 1,595,847,190 | null | ['matches', 'bumble'] | 0 | hyq3o5 | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hyq3o5/sometimes_i_feel_that_i_am_too_boring_to_date_and/ | 1 | I broke up with an Ex last October, so I had months by myself (including a full month of quarantine with no work). Since that time, I have grown to be very body positive. I bought a lot of new summer tops I can go braless in, got a new piercing, etc. So I would say that has been my biggest improvement. But over the pas... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Sometimes I feel that I am too boring to date, and other things. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hyq3o5/sometimes_i_feel_that_i_am_too_boring_to_date_and/ |
kaizenWM7 | 2024-03-07 18:04:16 | 1,709,834,656 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1b917n3 | true | Long Distance ✈️ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1b917n3/relationship/ | 1 | 23 M single / dm me if you looking for a partner ( am trynna use reddit as a dating app ) | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Relationship 👀 | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b917n3/relationship/ |
PointyNamekian | 2024-08-31 16:03:25 | 1,725,120,205 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1f5qphu | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1f5qphu/can_someone_help_me_pick_photos_for_my_tinder/ | 1 | 21F and not sure which to use. Also should I only use my best or also mid photos? I feel like catfishing if only using my best. I also cut my hair recently and it looks DREADFUL. I will add a picture of me and my new cut but would it be wrong to use old photos mostly? (I went from a lob to a bob and it made a huge nega... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can someone help me pick photos for my Tinder? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1f5qphu/can_someone_help_me_pick_photos_for_my_tinder/ |
Pixelektra | 2022-10-08 00:00:47 | 1,665,187,247 | null | ['swipe', 'OLD'] | 0 | xye5dq | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/xye5dq/about_those_old_guys_and_those_fancy_cars/ | 7 | A friend made this comment on Facebook. Though not surprising, I still found it interesting. Anyhow, anybody posing with an exotic car is an immediate left swipe for me. | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | About those OLD guys and those fancy cars… | null | 0.77 | |
MaleficentSand2798 | 2023-06-29 02:03:42 | 1,688,004,222 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 14ls32e | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14ls32e/i_dont_even_know_what_to_put_here/ | 1 | hi. so i am talking with this person, we’re both bisexuals. I always appreciate him, say that I’m always here for him and sh!t like that, we talk almost every time. long story short, we matched on a dating app and only met once (since we’re kinda far from each other). we agreed to be friends as a start off, but we do s... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t even know what to put here. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14ls32e/i_dont_even_know_what_to_put_here/ |
OrangecreamsodakinG | 2021-10-18 22:48:44 | 1,634,597,324 | null | null | 0 | qaxzuo | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/qaxzuo/im_quitting_online_dating/ | 15 | I'm on Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel and Tinder. Zero matches. ZERO. Not even a like for months. I get it, I'm not attractive right now. So I'm gonna quit them all, lose the rest of this weight, work out and just try to meet a nice woman in person. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I'm quitting online dating | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/qaxzuo/im_quitting_online_dating/ |
Cryz93 | 2024-09-17 08:46:34 | 1,726,562,794 | 0 | ['dating platform'] | 0 | 1fiu0nm | true | null | 156 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fiu0nm/dating_a_transwoman_as_hetero/ | 0 | I’m M(31) and I’ve met someone, W(21). I met her on a dating platform, and apparently, I overlooked that her profile mentioned she’s transgender, as you really wouldn’t notice at all. We got along well from the start, and it wasn’t until later in our chats that I realized she’s trans. By that point, we had already made... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating a Transwoman as Hetero | 0 | 0.47 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fiu0nm/dating_a_transwoman_as_hetero/ |
javia1492 | 2019-10-10 20:51:02 | 1,570,740,662 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | dg4cah | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dg4cah/2627m_need_dating_advice_for_working_professional/ | 5 | So i'm turning 27 on Monday October 14th (yaaay another year older and none the wiser! Wait...) I've gone the last few years without being in a relationship. Dabbled in a few FWB situations but they didnt last as I realized it's not for me. The girls I were with were wanting more attention that I would've thought was n... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [26-27M] Need Dating Advice for working professional | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dg4cah/2627m_need_dating_advice_for_working_professional/ |
SPEECHLESS-LONER | 2021-01-19 03:20:51 | 1,611,026,451 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | l0azh8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/l0azh8/is_my_life_ruined/ | 6 | Hey guys, this is a throwaway account since for personal reasons. So my name is Jake and i have a disability which is a speech impediment called Verbal Apraxia of speech with Stuttering . I am 26 years old and i work for a MMJ dispensary while i'm in online mortuary school to become a Funeral Director. Im writing this ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | IS MY LIFE RUINED?? | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l0azh8/is_my_life_ruined/ |
khl27 | 2016-11-08 01:33:26 | 1,478,568,806 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5bqcz1 | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5bqcz1/did_he_friend_zone_me_or_did_i_do_it_to_myself/ | 1 | I went out for drinks with this guy I connected with on tinder twice within the last 30 days, and right off the back I felt an instant connection with him. Because he is in a band and teaches music to kids, it's quite hard to pin down a day/night to get together for dinner or drinks. After the first the get together we... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | did he friend zone me or did I do it to myself? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5bqcz1/did_he_friend_zone_me_or_did_i_do_it_to_myself/ |
ShinyApple19 | 2021-10-03 16:48:51 | 1,633,279,731 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | q0lmdm | true | Support Needed | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/q0lmdm/its_best_to_focus_on_myself/ | 6 | After seeing someone for almost a year, I decided to jump back into the online dating world. I met a girl who was a year older than me. We chatted and seemed to have a lot in common. Found each other attractive and that but on the night we met, boy it didn't feel like a date. She knew I work a weed dispensary and nerve... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | It's Best To Focus On Myself | null | 0.8 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/q0lmdm/its_best_to_focus_on_myself/ |
Desertbro | 2018-02-23 01:53:37 | 1,519,350,817 | null | ['swipe', 'swiping', 'OLD'] | 0 | 7zkeuj | false | null | 19 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/7zkeuj/old_doublematch_age_shocker_best_strategy/ | 5 | I got a message from a woman on one OLD site, looked over her profile, thought - not all my prefs, but she sounds nice - so I wrote back to start a dialogue. Less than a day later (today) I'm swiping and see the very same woman, different AGE, different name, many of the same pics. Written profile very much the same, b... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | OLD Double-Match Age Shocker! Best Strategy? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/7zkeuj/old_doublematch_age_shocker_best_strategy/ |
ParkingAd5218 | 2023-01-08 19:14:49 | 1,673,205,289 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 106rh70 | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/106rh70/tinder_age_difference/ | 1 | Ladies, would you date a younger guy at all? Would you date an older guy? I’m 29. Trying to see what ladies see as “too old” or “too young” | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder age difference | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/106rh70/tinder_age_difference/ |
Mr-Throwaway1 | 2023-06-23 14:48:26 | 1,687,531,706 | 0 | ['swiped', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 14h0igu | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/14h0igu/im_falling_for_a_friend_but_i_dont_think_she/ | 1 | I (23M) have been friends with my friend (23F) for about 3 months now. We went to the same college and had a bunch of mutual friends, but never really connected or were put in the same room at the same time, so we never really spoke in college. But we were friends on insta from our first year there (from people just ad... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm falling for a friend, but I don't think she would feel the same way | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/14h0igu/im_falling_for_a_friend_but_i_dont_think_she/ |
Malfeasant_67 | 2023-04-06 15:16:27 | 1,680,794,187 | 0 | ['OLD', 'dating apps', 'bumble'] | 0 | 12dneve | true | null | 77 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/12dneve/question_do_you_use_old_to_honestly_find_a/ | 13 | I have to admit: I get caught between a rock and a hard place sometimes using OLD. I haven't had a serious relationship since 2017, and I have been just fine concentrating on the job, the life, the kid, you get the picture. Sure, it's disheartening sometimes being in groups of friends with all of their husbands and wiv... | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Question: do you use OLD to honestly find a partner? or something else? | 13 | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/12dneve/question_do_you_use_old_to_honestly_find_a/ |
throwawayyup2257 | 2021-05-20 10:33:07 | 1,621,506,787 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | ngwokw | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ngwokw/am_i_scared_because_im_not_used_to_being_treated/ | 0 | Last year I [31, F] came out of a long and exhausting mentally abusive relationship. He was a drug user so there was a lot of lies, manipulation, stealing etc. I’ve been in the dating pool for a couple of months and have been chatting on and off to a few guys and a few dates. I’ve recently been talking to someone new f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I scared because I’m not used to being treated well? | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ngwokw/am_i_scared_because_im_not_used_to_being_treated/ |
kvenzx | 2020-09-23 13:42:23 | 1,600,868,543 | null | null | 0 | iyac58 | true | null | 48 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/iyac58/my_mom_doesnt_understand_online_dating/ | 59 | Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I’m sure many of you can relate. I’m 26/F. Living at home. Of course because of the pandemic I haven’t been going out and being social, and even if things were normal I still don’t go out and meet people. She seems to think online dating is “meeting strangers on the... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | My mom doesn’t understand online dating | null | 0.94 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/iyac58/my_mom_doesnt_understand_online_dating/ |
CosmoRomano | 2024-04-28 04:15:58 | 1,714,277,758 | 0 | ['swipe', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1cexlo0 | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1cexlo0/does_every_dating_app_interactiontransaction/ | 1 | I've had a discussion with a friend who's heavily into the dating apps. She often asks me for advice about why the men she dates all seem to be duds. As a man who's pretty critical of my own gender demo, I can see both sides to a lot of her problems. Recently I told her, after she'd asked for some advice, that being on... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Does every dating app interaction/transaction impact you? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cexlo0/does_every_dating_app_interactiontransaction/ |
OkAssociation9102 | 2024-03-20 03:49:12 | 1,710,906,552 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1bj4eu4 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1bj4eu4/what_is_more_beneficial_for_me_form_an_fwb_or/ | 1 | Last week, I created a tinder profile w/ one purpose— to gain the sex experience and release the steam if yall know what i mean 👀. Due to how my life is complicated right now and am in THAT phase of my life where I feel lost and don't know what to do, I was with the goal of finding someone who would be down for a fwb ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is more beneficial for me– form an fwb or keep it in my pants? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bj4eu4/what_is_more_beneficial_for_me_form_an_fwb_or/ |
Reasonable_Ad_7275 | 2024-06-21 12:24:00 | 1,718,972,640 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dl2qf6 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1dl2qf6/if_a_woman_brought_you_a_gift_on_your_first_date/ | 2 | HELP! I’m going on my first official date with the guy I met on Bumble, he pre bought me flowers and planned the date completely on his own he just told me what to wear. I’m not used to this and I’m in awe, I’d really like to bring him A gift as well something light I don’t want to look crazy. I need ideas from A man o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If A woman brought you A gift on your first date what would you like it to be? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1dl2qf6/if_a_woman_brought_you_a_gift_on_your_first_date/ |
[deleted] | 2012-08-30 21:35:50 | 1,346,362,550 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | null | z3lqc | null | null | 18 | null | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/z3lqc/whats_your_opinionexperiences_with_internet_dating/ | 10 | So the other day I asked reddit about internet dating and I was told to post this on here. This is what I asked "Hey reddit. So this isn't urgent but I'm just curious. I've been using an online dating site and I've met with a few people and gone on dates and all that jazz - even came close to carrying a relationship. B... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | What's your opinion/experiences with internet dating? | 10 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/z3lqc/whats_your_opinionexperiences_with_internet_dating/ |
Bakedbeans5000 | 2022-10-03 03:19:03 | 1,664,767,143 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | xu82sk | true | null | 12 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/xu82sk/i_keep_getting_ghosted_how_do_i_deal_with_the_hurt/ | 1 | I’ve (28m) been on a few first dates in the last few months that all seemed to go great (at least to me). Good conversation, shared hobbies, genuine laughs, plans for a second date, no kisses but some goodbye hugs. In all of these instances, I’ve tried to arrange a second date but I’m soon met with radio silence. I don... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I keep getting ghosted.. how do I deal with the hurt? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xu82sk/i_keep_getting_ghosted_how_do_i_deal_with_the_hurt/ |
tbizlkit | 2021-05-10 13:47:23 | 1,620,654,443 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | n94u28 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n94u28/keeping_conversations_going/ | 2 | Hey guys! Hope everyone is doing well. I need some advice/guidance. I’m not sure if others are currently going through the same thing I currently am, but here goes nothing. I’m 31, I have my own condo, good job, no debts. I was with my ex for almost 7 years, married and divorced within a period of 9 months. So I’ve bee... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Keeping conversations going. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n94u28/keeping_conversations_going/ |
KingTevye | 2023-09-28 18:33:21 | 1,695,926,001 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16unoaw | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16unoaw/how_do_i_m23_meetapproach_nerdyalt_women/ | 1 | I have very little to no dating experience and I’m slowly realizing the kind of women I’m interested in aren’t likely to be found at a bar or dating apps. I’m into unapologetically Nerdy people or those interested by Alternative fashion. The only place to find these people are in public, like at Ren fair or nerd stores... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I (M23) meet/approach Nerdy/Alt women? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16unoaw/how_do_i_m23_meetapproach_nerdyalt_women/ |
Agile_Measurement_13 | 2024-09-30 20:17:38 | 1,727,727,458 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ft5ffu | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ft5ffu/asking_for_reassurance/ | 1 | I (21f) have been seeing this guy (22m) who I matched with one tinder. We matched mid August and have gone on two dates (about 1.5 weeks apart, a day after first starting to text). We’ve kissed and he’s stayed over but we’ve not had sex. We’ve texted every day since matching. We were supposed to go on another date abou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Asking for reassurance | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ft5ffu/asking_for_reassurance/ |
brixmiss | 2019-06-02 11:38:01 | 1,559,475,481 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bvwhlj | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bvwhlj/is_it_too_late_to_pull_it_back_a_bit/ | 1 | So, I met this guy on tinder and we chatted for a bit before we went on a date (drinks in a bar), and we ended up sleeping together on the first date. We went on a second date, and involved ordering takeaway food, at my place, and chatting for hours over some drinks, aaaaaand then he stayed the night...again. I quite l... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Is it too late to pull it back a bit? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bvwhlj/is_it_too_late_to_pull_it_back_a_bit/ |
Remiki19_93 | 2020-01-20 07:06:20 | 1,579,503,980 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | er9qk2 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/er9qk2/tinder_match_sent_message_and_deleted_acc/ | 1 | I met a girl and we had a good chat, then she said she is going to delete her acc and i asked where can we chat. She liked my message and sent 3 more but deleted acc and i could not read the messages. I checked via another acc and could not find her. She said she was new to Tinder so i guess she gave me her contacts an... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder match sent message and deleted acc | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/er9qk2/tinder_match_sent_message_and_deleted_acc/ |
iloveburgers99 | 2023-02-05 04:46:11 | 1,675,572,371 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 10u1xih | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 8 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10u1xih/busy_or_uninterested/ | 3 | Hi! I have been seeing this girl i met on a dating app for a little over a month. It’s been well except this past week. I know she is a busy lady with work and life. Her friends do not know i exist because of the dating app stigma (i dont think she wants to introduce me as someone she met online). Recently, I have been... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Busy or uninterested? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10u1xih/busy_or_uninterested/ |
pixelthoughtz | 2023-07-04 15:57:13 | 1,688,486,233 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 14qj0nv | false | Support Needed 🫂 | 14 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/14qj0nv/i_ghosted_my_boyfriend_was_it_the_right_thing/ | 1 | I(20) ghosted my narcissistic boyfriend(20) of 6 months because he was emotionally and verbally abusive, he also joked about hitting me and made out with a 14 year old while we were on a break, he cheats on me basically once a week not always physically but like downloading dating apps, talking to his ex etc. because w... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | i ghosted my boyfriend, was it the right thing? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14qj0nv/i_ghosted_my_boyfriend_was_it_the_right_thing/ |
PdlRN | 2020-12-30 05:16:05 | 1,609,305,365 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | kmvqdu | true | null | 44 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/kmvqdu/eharmony/ | 6 | Has anyone tried E-harmony? I’ve heard a lot about most other dating apps, and tried them myself, but I’ve not heard any reviews of E-harmony? Is it the same as the rest? Worse? Better? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | E-Harmony? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/kmvqdu/eharmony/ |
Latter_Stock7624 | 2023-09-16 20:00:18 | 1,694,894,418 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16kgiza | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16kgiza/how_do_i_date_outside_of_dating_apps/ | 1 | Im gonna be moving to a different state next month. I deleted all my dating apps for now. I found them to be a waste of time and too much energy. My social game is pretty good. I will probably live with roomates. I also dont really want a women who is into social media too much and obsessed with taking pictures everyda... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I date outside of dating apps? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16kgiza/how_do_i_date_outside_of_dating_apps/ |
Zealousideal_Tip3702 | 2023-10-09 16:46:39 | 1,696,869,999 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating app'] | 0 | 173wkum | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/173wkum/should_i_25f_tell_the_guy_26m_i_matched_on_dating/ | 1 | I’m not sure I’m overthinking this so please bare with me haha Some context: I dated S (32M) for approx 16 months and broke up with him in March this year. - There were many reasons but the main ones were he was meeting up with his ex girlfriend 1:1 behind my back often, calling me names, shouting at me etc - After I b... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I (25F) tell the guy (26M) I matched on dating app that I’m his friend’s (32M)ex girlfriend? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/173wkum/should_i_25f_tell_the_guy_26m_i_matched_on_dating/ |
beautysaidwhat | 2023-10-07 19:02:56 | 1,696,705,376 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 172e31i | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/172e31i/men_of_reddit_why_didnt_he_text_back/ | 1 | So, I started seeing this guy after meeting on a dating app a few weeks ago. We hit it off right away, and he asked be exclusive. All good! We normally text everyday. We had one last date Thursday before I left for an international trip early Friday. He said he had a great time and happy to see me before I go. Unfortun... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men of Reddit, why didn’t he text back? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/172e31i/men_of_reddit_why_didnt_he_text_back/ |
Clint08911 | 2021-11-07 01:55:01 | 1,636,250,101 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | qoem6q | true | Seeking Advice | 91 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/qoem6q/what_to_expect/ | 40 | So I am in the middle of a divorce, and I(41M) am a little nervous about what to expect being single at 41, and thinking I would never be single again. The whole thing seems nerve wracking as hell having not asked a girl out in 10 years, or been on a date in that long. I really don't want a relationship for a while, I ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | What to expect? | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/qoem6q/what_to_expect/ |
Elbaca73 | 2021-12-27 20:47:09 | 1,640,638,029 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | rpwwy4 | true | Question | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/rpwwy4/ladies_would_you_date_someone_shorter/ | 0 | Ok. So i am short. 5 foot 4 to be exact. And I. Person I do t have a hard time making friends or meeting people. But lately with Covid it’s obviously changed the dynamics and people are indoors more. So I tried dating apps, and I notice a lot of “I wish you were taller” responses. I’m in shape, not ugly, and have a gre... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Ladies, would you date someone shorter? | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/rpwwy4/ladies_would_you_date_someone_shorter/ |
tonymontana697 | 2021-03-17 01:10:18 | 1,615,943,418 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | m6og7b | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m6og7b/hinge_date_ended_in_raw_sex_what_to_do_now/ | 1 | Imma make this quick. Met this wonderful woman on Hinge, exchanged numbers, planned a date, she paid over $150 to Uber to the location since she lives a fair distance away. I knew this beforehand, so I went all out. We went to a super nice restaurant, stayed up all night drinking rum and, as the title states, we unexpe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Hinge Date ended in raw sex, what to do now | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m6og7b/hinge_date_ended_in_raw_sex_what_to_do_now/ |
buh12345678 | 2023-07-25 11:55:11 | 1,690,286,111 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1596ct3 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1596ct3/girl_28f_talks_to_me_28m_nonstop_but_keeps/ | 1 | So an extremely attractive girl matched with me on hinge about 3 weeks ago and we have been texting nonstop since, like literally 24/7 unless someone falls asleep. We send each other snaps and have talked on the phone multiple times. I would love to meet her IRL but she has rescheduled our first date three times now. T... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl (28f) talks to me (28m) nonstop but keeps rescheduling first date for reasons that appear legitimate | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1596ct3/girl_28f_talks_to_me_28m_nonstop_but_keeps/ |
NoPair8 | 2018-08-03 16:33:52 | 1,533,314,032 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | 94b3mb | true | null | 0 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/94b3mb/dating_advices/ | 1 | Looking for dating tips or dating advice? It can be difficult to find people in your life to date if you do not know where to look or how to go about it. Here are some things you can do to start a relationship with someone new today. Go Out Often One dating tip is to just go out often with friends to clubs and other pl... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating Advices | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/94b3mb/dating_advices/ |
johndoe060696 | 2019-10-01 06:38:27 | 1,569,911,907 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dbpc96 | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dbpc96/idk_what_to_put_here/ | 1 | I've been on tinder a few times, but it always seemed that I'd get either no matches, or just get tons of bots. I tried again and matched with about 30+ people, talked to a lot of them, went on a date with a few of them, but it dwindled down to I only continued talking to two of them. One I was intimate with. The first... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Idk what to put here | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dbpc96/idk_what_to_put_here/ |
More_Cod_1109 | 2024-04-24 03:09:13 | 1,713,928,153 | 0 | ['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1cbnyzb | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cbnyzb/need_help_and_advice_for_getting_tinder_matches/ | 1 | Can’t remember how long I’ve had tinder but it wasn’t that long but recently have been liking people that have similar interests and similar things in their profiles that I also have in mine (like animal person, long term goals, family plans, those types of things) but whenever I swipe right or super like on them I don... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need help and advice for getting tinder matches and likes | 1 | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cbnyzb/need_help_and_advice_for_getting_tinder_matches/ |
DeltaCKM | 2024-09-10 19:19:34 | 1,725,995,974 | 0 | ['swiping'] | 0 | 1fdqc70 | true | Question ❓ | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1fdqc70/how_does_auto_following_work_on_boo/ | 1 | So I'm swiping through profiles and every girl has 300+ followers... When someone likes me I have to like them back for them to count as my follower. So do all these girls have to like those guys back for followers? What toxic environment if this is true... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How does Auto following work on Boo | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fdqc70/how_does_auto_following_work_on_boo/ |
Equivalent_Ruin8670 | 2023-11-24 04:54:14 | 1,700,801,654 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 182jzhr | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/182jzhr/being_a_catfish_is_awesome/ | 1 | Being a catfish is awesome First off these ungrateful brainwashed women on dating apps think they are tens because million guys complainment them everyday saying they could be the next Ice Spice. When in reality they look like monkeys with makeup and wags that abused the snap filters. Now why i said being a catfish is ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Being a catfish is awesome😎 | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/182jzhr/being_a_catfish_is_awesome/ |
csilverbells | 2023-03-08 19:38:10 | 1,678,304,290 | null | null | 0 | 11m5tl3 | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/11m5tl3/how_do_you_screen_before_meeting_irl/ | 5 | Wondering if someone else has already figured out the quickest way to weed out the bad seeds. I don't want to wait forever before checking chemistry in person. Thanks in advance! | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | How do you screen before meeting IRL? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/11m5tl3/how_do_you_screen_before_meeting_irl/ |
cookiecatmonsterr | 2021-02-04 18:23:42 | 1,612,463,022 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | lcm7vi | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lcm7vi/im_not_happy_because_i_know_what_i_want/ | 1 | Im not english, my grammar may be bad. Maybe im (M) doing something wrong but i have troubles in dating because i know what i search for. And i dont mean it by looks, im not a picky pesron. I know some guys can go overbored with it but im not that kind. Example: If i feel the girls is just responding, and she never ask... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I'm not happy because i know what i want? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lcm7vi/im_not_happy_because_i_know_what_i_want/ |
Ozare223 | 2023-08-08 11:35:39 | 1,691,494,539 | 0 | null | 0 | 15lfn9z | true | null | 14 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15lfn9z/26m_needing_to_not_be_aggressive_in_love/ | 1 | finding a soulmate who can be with me For a while now I’ve been trying to find someone who is right for me and can be able to stick with me for a while but it’s been typical time. I’m not sure who actually would want to talk with me cause it’s been so hard. I’m opening myself to any type of conversation was in certain ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | 26M needing to not be aggressive in love | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15lfn9z/26m_needing_to_not_be_aggressive_in_love/ |
New_Bar_8164 | 2024-06-07 21:17:02 | 1,717,795,022 | 0 | ['swiped'] | 0 | 1dam2ok | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dam2ok/how_do_i_stop_feeling_this_way/ | 1 | I met a guy online and we hit it off pretty well. Crazy thing is that I swiped right on him because he's not the typical guy that I go for (my type is tall, gym goer, tattooed, obvious F-Boy lol). I thought his pictures were odd but his bio made me interested. After talking to him, I'm now so into him. He's such an ama... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do I stop feeling this way? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dam2ok/how_do_i_stop_feeling_this_way/ |
NoVelociraptors | 2018-10-14 20:51:55 | 1,539,550,315 | null | ['matched', 'bumble'] | 0 | 9o6963 | true | null | 16 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/9o6963/2nd_update_showing_underwhelming_interest/ | 8 | Guys, guys, guys...Something weird's going on lol. In my , I shared how I had a date lined up for today with a guy who seems great and was making SO much effort (which helped me feel pretty 'whatever' about being stood up for the first time in my life Friday). Conversation was effortless over text, tons in common, lots... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 2nd Update: Showing Underwhelming Interest | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/9o6963/2nd_update_showing_underwhelming_interest/ |
Competitive_Win_5537 | 2023-10-28 06:21:34 | 1,698,474,094 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 17i7m3w | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17i7m3w/do_u_think_this_girl_is_into_me/ | 1 | I (23M) met this girl on dating app and we dated once. We kept getting in touch. FYI, i have told her since day 1 that I just get out of long term relationships so I am not ready for anything and she said she isn’t looking for commitment as she isn’t ready for it either. So we went out for movie and dinner together(she... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Do u think this girl is into me?? | 1 | 0.99 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17i7m3w/do_u_think_this_girl_is_into_me/ |
Arjunherebro | 2024-04-09 18:18:59 | 1,712,686,739 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1bzz4yj | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 35 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1bzz4yj/she_deleted_her_bumble_but_i_found_her_on_insta/ | 1 | I met this sweet girl on bumble and we spoke for couple of days and it was such good conversations that I had with her, and we even planned on meeting soon. I don't know what happened but she suddenly stopped replying to messages and when I checked why she hasn't replied I saw that she deleted her bumble account. I met... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | SHE DELETED HER BUMBLE BUT I FOUND HER ON INSTA | 1 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1bzz4yj/she_deleted_her_bumble_but_i_found_her_on_insta/ |
BrewedForThought | 2024-01-28 22:20:17 | 1,706,480,417 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 1adew5t | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1adew5t/dating_apps_should_i/ | 1 | M, 24. Bit of context: since I started dating, I’ve been quite fortunate in that I’ve pretty organically found myself in relationships e.g., through mutual friends/ meeting at school/ university or just other in-person experiences. These relationships have varied in lenh from c. 6 months - 3 years. I’ve recently become... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating apps, should I…? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1adew5t/dating_apps_should_i/ |
startingfresh1120 | 2022-05-13 09:42:37 | 1,652,434,957 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | uoo1i2 | true | null | 53 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/uoo1i2/have_met_someone_and_feel_like_it_might_be_time/ | 2 | TL;DR: Been on/off with my FWB for the better part of the last year. We've agreed to just enjoy it while it lasts. Have re-connected and hit it off with a woman I had matched with on OLD last year and might possibly be looking at seeing where things might lead with her. Feel like something has been missing to stop me f... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Have met someone and feel like it might be time to end things with FWB | null | 0.54 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/uoo1i2/have_met_someone_and_feel_like_it_might_be_time/ |
HealthyTemporary9924 | 2024-06-20 03:02:31 | 1,718,852,551 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 1dk1jnx | true | null | 55 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1dk1jnx/enm/ | 1 | I need some pointers. Some must dos. I had been lightly chatting with an ENM guy I met on Bumble. Didn’t even know what it was. He has a partner, says they don’t have relations, they are raising a daughter together. They never married. They live together but date other people. He’s had long relationships with other wom... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | ENM | 1 | 0.42 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1dk1jnx/enm/ |
DolSparnur | 2022-08-28 21:33:11 | 1,661,722,391 | null | null | 0 | x06q76 | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/x06q76/i_went_from_matches_to_likes_to_no_likes_at_all/ | 1 | Hi everyone I (24M) know this gets posted here a lot but i am just not getting any like at all. Not on Tinder and not on Bumble. I'm a decent looking guy and have had matches in the past, about a year ago. Some very beautiful actually, two of which I went with on a date which led to hooking up (sadly nothing more). Fro... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I went from matches to likes to no likes at all, does my profile just not get shown anymore? | null | 0.57 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/x06q76/i_went_from_matches_to_likes_to_no_likes_at_all/ |
notanewbiedude | 2024-09-28 02:23:29 | 1,727,490,209 | 0 | null | 0 | 1fr4cvd | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1fr4cvd/whats_up_with_the_msg_and_terms_and_conditions/ | 1 | I've noticed on POF a handful of accounts that list a phone number in the short bio (in the format of "MSG 1 two 3 four 5 six 7 eight 9 zero"), and in the full description they have the text "I'm down for good time fun I have some terms and condition which you need to be aware of and also accept, then we set up where t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | What's up with the "MSG" and "terms and conditions" accounts? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1fr4cvd/whats_up_with_the_msg_and_terms_and_conditions/ |
Ok-Weather-6988 | 2023-11-23 11:52:47 | 1,700,740,367 | 0 | ['dating site'] | 0 | 181zkak | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/181zkak/met_an_older_woman_on_dating_site/ | 1 | I am 24m and she is in her 50s. She told me she likes younger men and i also have a thing for older women. But i am not sure if i want to go on a date. I am afraid it will be awkward due to the age gap and also i wouldnt like someone to see me. What should i do? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Met an older woman on dating site | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/181zkak/met_an_older_woman_on_dating_site/ |
worskeit | 2019-05-25 16:26:22 | 1,558,801,582 | null | ['tinder', 'pof'] | 0 | bswe1u | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/bswe1u/27f_i_cant_feel_beautiful_when_my_boyfriend_29m/ | 0 | I need help with my self-esteem, and badly. I know reddit isn't a place for therapy but I can't afford that. This is a long one so TLDR if you want to skip all this. Here's some background: Gained weight when I was relatively young, 12, and was bullied heavily for it. Lost all of my friends in one year. My family (fath... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [27F] I can’t feel beautiful when my boyfriend [29M] tells me I am | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/bswe1u/27f_i_cant_feel_beautiful_when_my_boyfriend_29m/ |
Naturejunkie88 | 2017-01-10 18:46:00 | 1,484,073,960 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 5n6tad | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/5n6tad/all_ive_had_so_far_on_online_dating_is_fat_girls/ | 0 | I am growing a bit disillusioned with online dating. I am fed up of it because all success I have is from fat women and gay guys (sad gay guys posing as women to be more precise). What else do I do? How do I make my profile exciting/interesting? My current profile is a couple of selfies top half with a nice leather jac... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | All I've had so far on online dating is fat girls and gay guys, and a few average looking women. Help me, guys... | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5n6tad/all_ive_had_so_far_on_online_dating_is_fat_girls/ |
yogagirl54 | 2018-07-12 02:43:43 | 1,531,363,423 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8y5ysu | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/8y5ysu/going_to_someones_place_as_a_first_date_is_it/ | 3 | So... this might have to do with the fact that I’ve used Tinder to meet guys (or it might not be the platform at all). But I am just randomly thinking.... and something I noticed is a lot of times, the guys I’m speaking to wants a first date at their place. It’s not that I have problems staying in, but being asked this... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Going to someone’s place as a first date? Is it really a date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/8y5ysu/going_to_someones_place_as_a_first_date_is_it/ |
Lostinthought50-80 | 2017-11-23 19:14:12 | 1,511,464,452 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 7f1txy | false | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7f1txy/need_advice_how_to_get_the_girl_i_met_from_tinder/ | 4 | So, a few days ago i had my first date with this girl from tinder. It went pretty well, we had a fun evening and she ended up sleeping at my place. We cuddled and kissed but we agreed on not doing more for the night. The past days she wrote me a few times that she would like to sleep together again but if I tell her to... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Need advice how to get the girl I met from Tinder | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7f1txy/need_advice_how_to_get_the_girl_i_met_from_tinder/ |
sexy_hobo77 | 2021-08-25 00:06:54 | 1,629,850,014 | null | ['matches', 'online dating', 'tinder', 'feeld'] | 0 | pazon8 | true | null | 40 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/pazon8/seeking_advice_about_approach_for_finding_fswb/ | 10 | Edit: Thanks for the feedback everyone. I feel like I've gotten some good and helpful insights. Even for the comments that weren't particularly helpful, I still appreciate you taking the time to read my long-ass messy rant and respond to it thoughtfully. There is so much context to all of this, but I will try to be as ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Seeking advice about approach for finding F(s)WB | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/pazon8/seeking_advice_about_approach_for_finding_fswb/ |
pizzabeerbooks | 2016-11-19 05:05:42 | 1,479,531,942 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 5dqzkb | null | null | 5 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5dqzkb/why_would_a_guy_25m_agree_to_go_out_on_a_date/ | 2 | I matched with a guy on Hinge and we began talking on the app and then moved to texting. I eventually asked if he would like to grab drinks sometime and he said yes, but when I asked when would work for him, he never replied. I just don't understand why he would even agree to the date in the first place. This was three... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Why would a guy [25M] agree to go out on a date with me [24F] but once I initiate making plans, completely stop replying? | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5dqzkb/why_would_a_guy_25m_agree_to_go_out_on_a_date/ |
randonquestions | 2022-01-20 03:03:28 | 1,642,647,808 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | s88f2l | true | I Need Advice | 39 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/s88f2l/dating_a_younger_woman/ | 0 | I'm almost 40 and recently divorced. I'm looking to date younger women so I can find someone who still wants to have kids. I'm horrible at the online dating crap. Is there any advice on how to meet younger women? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating a younger woman? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/s88f2l/dating_a_younger_woman/ |
NeonPenguin95 | 2020-06-23 16:39:52 | 1,592,930,392 | null | ['eharmony'] | 0 | hehzsl | true | I Need Advice | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/hehzsl/advice_on_how_to_proceed_for_a_hopeless_romantic/ | 1 | Hey yall 🙋🏽♂️ Long read but I really need some help from those patient enough to read through all of this Just a little context for starters. I(25m) met this guy(27m) on eHarmony (they got me with a personality test, and I am SUCKER for a personality test let me tell ya). We started messaging and the conversation we... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Advice on how to proceed for a hopeless romantic | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/hehzsl/advice_on_how_to_proceed_for_a_hopeless_romantic/ |
ethan_hunt_9549 | 2024-08-04 18:15:01 | 1,722,795,301 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 1ek1txm | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ek1txm/should_your_love_life_be_passionate_or_effortless/ | 1 | would you prefer meeting someone, seeing them, enjoying your time together until you're finally alone, and kissing and rounding up all the bases until the big home run. then calling back for more and more. until a year goes by and your just sitting down enjoying a nice movie with a nice blanket and warm popcorn; comple... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | should your love life be passionate or effortless? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ek1txm/should_your_love_life_be_passionate_or_effortless/ |
Ill-Photograph-9783 | 2021-06-16 12:26:37 | 1,623,846,397 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | o13ocs | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/o13ocs/how_do_you_get_over_feeling_anxious_in_a/ | 1 | I (20,f) have been dating this guy for half a year now and it’s going good, we haven’t officially put a label on it but there’s lots of hints it’s getting serious (he told me he deleted his dating apps, refers to us as a couple often etc.). My problem is that I can’t stop feeling insecure or anxious about the relations... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you get over feeling anxious in a relationship? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/o13ocs/how_do_you_get_over_feeling_anxious_in_a/ |
throwawaypkmntrainer | 2021-06-08 06:49:44 | 1,623,134,984 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | nuyh77 | true | Support | 2 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nuyh77/going_for_my_first_pap_test_later_today_and/ | 6 | I (24F) am getting my first pap test later today. I moved a lot and lived in rural areas for most of my life. Now that I live and work in a city, I recently decided to focus on my physical health and get myself checked out. I read about what actually happens during the procedure. I remember my doctor even saying that I... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | Going for my first pap test later today and really freaking out | null | 0.88 | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/nuyh77/going_for_my_first_pap_test_later_today_and/ |
_wGJLw_ | 2023-02-01 06:22:05 | 1,675,232,525 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | 10qmhif | true | Question ❓ | 7 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10qmhif/are_dating_apps_a_scam_or_am_i_just_playing_the/ | 1 | Story time, so a few weeks ago, I just got out of a serious but short-term (about 4ish months) relationship. Everything was perfect, but out of nowhere she ended it and i was naturally upset. Other shit happened and I had to move from that area and so I decided to try dating apps. I made some profiles on bumble, hinge ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | are dating apps a scam or am I just playing the game wrong | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10qmhif/are_dating_apps_a_scam_or_am_i_just_playing_the/ |
sidrox4425 | 2023-09-15 20:00:18 | 1,694,808,018 | 0 | ['matched', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 16jn7m9 | true | Discussion | 1 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/16jn7m9/its_all_the_same_people/ | 1 | I(40/m) just moved back to the NYC area and went back on the dating apps. I haven't lived her in almost 5 years. I'm somewhat shocked that the women on the app were the mostly the same from 5 years ago! I even went out with some that re-matched me recently. Maybe they forgot who I was etc. What gets to me is that some ... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | It's all the same people! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/16jn7m9/its_all_the_same_people/ |
Pure_KO | 2021-04-23 05:42:34 | 1,619,156,554 | null | null | 0 | mwofc8 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/mwofc8/finding_where_i_messed_up/ | 3 | I Found this girl online while gaming a few weeks ago, took it outside the game and talked intensively for 1 week and even made rough plans to possibly meet up and do something sometime in the summer even though we’re a 9 hour drive away. It was amazing and more, staying up all night just talking, telling each other ho... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Finding where I messed up | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/mwofc8/finding_where_i_messed_up/ |
Chisoftougher | 2024-02-13 03:29:05 | 1,707,794,945 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1apjlxz | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1apjlxz/cant_seem_to_catch_a_break/ | 1 | (37M) So I’ve been single for a little over a year now, 2022 ended pretty bad for me. I tried to enter 2023 with the old mindset of “best way to get over a woman was to get under another.” Well tried the dating sites and there’s a not a whole lot of options in my town with it being so small. Alot of the issues I’m havi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Can’t seem to catch a break | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1apjlxz/cant_seem_to_catch_a_break/ |
kikokukake | 2023-10-01 16:04:43 | 1,696,176,283 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'hinge', 'pof'] | 0 | 16x51us | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16x51us/which_dating_apps_are_not_owned_by_match/ | 1 | I'm getting sick and tired of Match dating apps. Hinge, Tinder and POF seem to give you a bunch of matches over a time period and then give you a dry spell with nothing in the hopes that you'll pay for their premium service ( which is well over-priced imo). But are there any decent alternative apps? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Which dating apps are not owned by Match? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16x51us/which_dating_apps_are_not_owned_by_match/ |
Deth_Troll | 2021-02-09 16:04:53 | 1,612,886,693 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | lg6i8t | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lg6i8t/i_feel_insecure_in_the_begging_of_knowing_each/ | 2 | So let's start. I 've meet girl that is great, we have things in common, we share sense of humor, she's pretty and also she's into me as well. Pretty simple start. We've talked about 2 months each day. We have planned our meeting(s) after she finish hard study time (in few days). Since she works, study and also is volu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel insecure in the begging of knowing each other even if I know I should not. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lg6i8t/i_feel_insecure_in_the_begging_of_knowing_each/ |
stem_3 | 2023-03-22 23:39:21 | 1,679,528,361 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 11z17n9 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/11z17n9/how_do_you_meet_people_anymore/ | 1 | I’m in university and I’m pretty introverted. I don’t have an issue talking to other people and I’m a part of lots of clubs on campus. I feel really discouraged when I think about trying to find a long term partner around campus. I just don’t like when people say “relationships happen when you least expect it,” I just ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do you meet people anymore | null | 0.6 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11z17n9/how_do_you_meet_people_anymore/ |
Brief-Bee-7315 | 2023-10-04 08:03:09 | 1,696,406,589 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 16zha3q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16zha3q/has_anyone_here_been_on_a_dating_hiatus_since/ | 1 | I dread dating apps so I wish a guy could just fall on my lap (figuratively lol) | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Has anyone here been on a dating hiatus since before covid and finding it difficult to get back into the dating pool? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16zha3q/has_anyone_here_been_on_a_dating_hiatus_since/ |
PhenolphthaleinX | 2018-09-23 18:34:39 | 1,537,727,679 | null | ['online dating', 'badoo', 'plenty of fish'] | 0 | 9iaol6 | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9iaol6/is_this_what_normal_online_dating_attitude_is/ | 2 | I [23F] just signed up to Plenty of Fish to give it a go because my friends recommended it. It seemed to be more like badoo where you can chat to anyone without matching with them first, except your profile is more elaborate. So naturally girls get more messages than guys - and we get contacted by guys we're not even i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is this what normal online dating attitude is like nowadays? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9iaol6/is_this_what_normal_online_dating_attitude_is/ |
Lucky_Negotiation117 | 2024-02-25 21:47:02 | 1,708,897,622 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1azzz04 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1azzz04/24f_went_on_a_date_with_23m_thought_i_was_trans/ | 1 | I 24(F) went on a first date with a 23(M) from tinder today and he thought I was trans. I just want to start off saying, I have no hate or prejudice towards trans people or the LGBTQI+ community. I think trans people are beautiful and personally know few people who have happily transitioned and quite frankly trans-wome... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | 24(F) went on a date with 23(M), thought I was trans after first date | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1azzz04/24f_went_on_a_date_with_23m_thought_i_was_trans/ |
Adorable-Ad6181 | 2024-04-17 00:56:52 | 1,713,315,412 | 0 | ['matches'] | 0 | 1c5wp1d | true | null | 43 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1c5wp1d/got_kind_of_stuck_on_a_sextor_i_met_on_reddit_am/ | 40 | Not necessarily DATING, but here goes… I am 18. I am kind of frisky. So I started messaging people on different subreddits— well, really I let them message me first. But this one guy I saw comment on a video and I messaged him. It was a stroke of luck because he was an amazing person. Super caring, nerdy, funny. Great ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Got Kind of Stuck on a Sextor I Met on Reddit— Am Sad lol | 40 | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1c5wp1d/got_kind_of_stuck_on_a_sextor_i_met_on_reddit_am/ |
A_nice_Redditor_ | 2021-06-10 18:44:59 | 1,623,350,699 | null | ['dating platforms'] | 0 | nwv5b4 | true | null | 19 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nwv5b4/how_important_is_it_to_find_your_datepartner/ | 2 | Just a little information about myself. I \[25M\] never had a relationship or something else, so I don't know how important that is. I've been long on online-dating platforms and never had success, until now. I chatted with a girl the last two days and I think if I don't block her, it definitely could go further. She i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How important is it to find your date/partner optically attractive, or could it also work if I don't "love" my opposites look? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nwv5b4/how_important_is_it_to_find_your_datepartner/ |
LivingstoneMcSimmons | 2022-12-21 20:04:31 | 1,671,653,071 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | zrz8dv | true | Question | 31 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/zrz8dv/id_like_some_thanks/ | 11 | Question for the ladies: How to interpret women age 45 indicating on their profile that they like some kids? 40/41 I can understand that you may still want to try to get children. But once you're going past 43 it seems rather unrealistic to find a man and start having kids, given the time you need for this. Should I in... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | "I'd like some, thanks" ? | null | 0.79 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/zrz8dv/id_like_some_thanks/ |
RevertPestilence | 2023-03-17 04:46:48 | 1,679,028,408 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | 11thcxo | true | null | 118 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11thcxo/the_worst_they_can_say_is_no/ | 22 | I finally found the confidence to cold approach a woman, at a concert type event, and let me tell you, the worst they can say is [without a doubt] NOT "no". I approached the woman, said a basic greeting (i.e. "Hi, my name's [insert name here]"]) and she responded with, "You're only talking to me, because I'm 'White Gir... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | "The Worst They Can Say Is No" | null | 0.69 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11thcxo/the_worst_they_can_say_is_no/ |
Serious_Hat_3002 | 2024-09-26 15:54:21 | 1,727,366,061 | 0 | ['hinge'] | 0 | 1fpzkhg | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1fpzkhg/how_often_do_you_text_between_the_first_and/ | 1 | Context: This was my first Hinge date so help a girl out please :( I (21F) went out with a guy (21M) a little less than a week ago and we instantly hit it off. We were laughing, telling stories, showing each other photos, and had a great time. We were together for over 3 hours and exchanged numbers at the end of the ni... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How often do you text between the first and second dates? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fpzkhg/how_often_do_you_text_between_the_first_and/ |
accidentinprogresss | 2017-08-16 03:03:29 | 1,502,852,609 | null | ['match.com'] | 0 | 6tza9h | false | null | 9 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/6tza9h/match_chat/ | 2 | Can anyone tell me where or if there's a chat feature on Match.com? If there is one, I can't find it on mobile or online on my laptop. | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Match chat | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/6tza9h/match_chat/ |
MartiNwithanM | 2020-02-28 23:18:01 | 1,582,931,881 | null | ['dating app', 'dating site', 'dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | fb3g3f | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fb3g3f/dating_sites/ | 1 | So I thought recently of creating a account on a dating website I don't something alongside tinder but I think tinder is too mainstream and its like not taken seriously or basically a therapy session for girls and basically you have to go waaay out of your way to get a girl there so I thought of getting a less known da... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dating sites | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fb3g3f/dating_sites/ |
Js2295 | 2023-03-13 03:56:38 | 1,678,679,798 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | 11pzeam | true | null | 13 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/11pzeam/what_would_you_do_in_this_situation/ | 1 | So I met a girl briefly at a social event early summer 2021. We spoke on Facebook a little bit but then things went cold and she went to teach/work in another country for a year and half. I hang out with her older brother(my age; 27) with a couple other guys from the same social group from time to time. A few weeks ago... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What would you do in this situation? | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/11pzeam/what_would_you_do_in_this_situation/ |
hotmessexpress92 | 2023-01-10 07:21:17 | 1,673,335,277 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 1083mey | true | Giving Advice 💌 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1083mey/i_want_to_hear_everyones_dating_app_horror_stories/ | 0 | Context- I wanted to do a tiktok series on horrible dates to kind of help people out with dating. I’ve studied a lot of psychological and have always had interest in doing this but I also feel like I don’t want to invade peoples privacy here. | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I want to hear everyone’s dating app horror stories. | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1083mey/i_want_to_hear_everyones_dating_app_horror_stories/ |
cavendaisy | 2018-09-18 07:54:37 | 1,537,257,277 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9gstra | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9gstra/how_can_i_get_over_my_inferiority_complex_towards/ | 14 | So a bit of background - I'm a mid 20s woman with a long history of depression which I've been treating since January. But there's one area I have barely improved on and it's the main thing which still gets me down. I can't get over the feeling that I'm less attractive and generally less appealing than other women. I'v... | TwoXChromosomes | t5_2r2jt | How can I get over my inferiority complex towards other women regarding attraction? It's holding me back and I'm tired of it | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/9gstra/how_can_i_get_over_my_inferiority_complex_towards/ |
Ice666White | 2022-04-14 14:58:27 | 1,649,948,307 | null | null | 0 | u3jg0w | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/u3jg0w/tinder_banned_certain_words/ | 2 | According to a Tinder employee () there are certain words banned by Tinder, such as 'rape'. Does anyone happen to know what other words are banned? I normally would write words like 'bullshit' in some messages. | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Tinder Banned Certain Words | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/u3jg0w/tinder_banned_certain_words/ |
LanaJDM | 2024-06-20 16:29:41 | 1,718,900,981 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 1dkfwzj | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1dkfwzj/location_trouble/ | 1 | Hi, My fiancé (25) and i (21) have been together for going on 4 years in august. we have been waiting until i was done with school and found my path of a career until we moved in together. we have finally decided we’re ready after all the money we have saved up but we cannot decide where to move. and this is the issue.... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Location trouble. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dkfwzj/location_trouble/ |
KingDarius1 | 2019-12-13 04:43:29 | 1,576,212,209 | null | ['matched', 'facebook dating'] | 0 | e9z9l8 | true | Question | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/e9z9l8/leagues_do_they_even_exist/ | 2 | I made a post on it on this very sub a couple days ago but I recently matched with a single mother on Facebook dating and received a lot of interest from her early on, interest that I jumped on because I usually don't get it a lot. We set up a date that I went on yesterday and as an update to my last post on here: it d... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Leagues - Do They Even Exist? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/e9z9l8/leagues_do_they_even_exist/ |
YesMan847 | 2023-06-23 12:19:42 | 1,687,522,782 | 0 | null | 0 | 14gx4cs | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/14gx4cs/fb_dating_age_range_preference/ | 2 | if you set an age range preference, do they show you only people who's own age preference includes your age? or do they show you people who's age preference doesnt include you then they never show them your likes? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | fb dating age range preference | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/14gx4cs/fb_dating_age_range_preference/ |
Nodnarb415 | 2020-03-05 18:39:34 | 1,583,433,574 | null | ['matched', 'online dating'] | 0 | fdzs79 | true | Venting | 67 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/fdzs79/date_hates_me_because_i_like_trump/ | 0 | Guess I am just here to vent. I have been trying online dating recently. Three months ago I matched with a girl and we planned to go on a date. However life happened and we couldn't meet up one weekend. She told me she would contact me the next time she was free. Anyway that never happened. Fast forward to today and I ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Date hates me because I like Trump | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fdzs79/date_hates_me_because_i_like_trump/ |
Necessary-North3062 | 2024-05-06 07:47:19 | 1,714,981,639 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 1cldf9u | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1cldf9u/love_bombing_on_first_date/ | 1 | I met a guy on tinder and we talked a bit before meeting, I thought he was excessively nice over text, complimenting me a lot etc, and always responding quickly. Which for me is quite strange I don’t usually text people much before meeting them, usually I just make plans with someone and then meet them in person to see... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Love bombing on first date ?? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1cldf9u/love_bombing_on_first_date/ |
Academic_Hawk4055 | 2022-06-26 16:49:54 | 1,656,262,194 | null | null | 0 | vl8yki | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/vl8yki/other_platform_usernames_on_dating_apps/ | 0 | On the dating apps I've been using so far there have been a lot of people with their Instagram or snap chat usernames in their bio, do I message them there? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Other platform usernames on dating apps | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/vl8yki/other_platform_usernames_on_dating_apps/ |
travelingratt | 2023-09-10 19:32:28 | 1,694,374,348 | 0 | ['bumble'] | 0 | 16f9a8e | true | null | 114 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/16f9a8e/men_who_have_tried_bumblebff_howd_it_go/ | 1 | Have you ever tried Bumble BFFs or met anyone on there? I have a pretty close girlfriend group that met each other mostly via Bumble BFF and I sorta joined after meeting one of them in person. I only ever hear success from woman...so men, have you tried it and met anyone? | AskMen | t5_2s30g | Men who have tried BumbleBFF, how'd it go? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/16f9a8e/men_who_have_tried_bumblebff_howd_it_go/ |
MaryJaneAintMyName | 2022-07-26 17:57:07 | 1,658,858,227 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | w8qefn | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/w8qefn/is_it_weird_to_date_someone_with_basically_the/ | 1 | OLD life lol | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it weird to date someone with basically the same name as you? Lol like in same sex relationships and people with unisex names? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w8qefn/is_it_weird_to_date_someone_with_basically_the/ |
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