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mayaskakti | 2023-03-30 13:57:53 | 1,680,184,673 | null | null | 0 | 126nyvi | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/126nyvi/date/ | 0 | Anyone up for dating | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Date? | null | 0.13 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/126nyvi/date/ |
Global_Divide_8188 | 2024-09-29 01:14:31 | 1,727,572,471 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1frt16i | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1frt16i/where_can_i_19m_meet_with_new_people_if_i_dont/ | 1 | Not necessarily for dating either, just where do you actually meet new people when you don't enjoy what most people do? I've always felt a bit out of the loop with people around me because I don't like what most others do so it's usually a bit hard to connect with others. I don't like parties or loud music or drinking ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Where can I (19M) meet with new people if I don't enjoy drinking or parties or any of the common stuff? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1frt16i/where_can_i_19m_meet_with_new_people_if_i_dont/ |
The-SpicyJuan | 2021-03-16 05:46:28 | 1,615,873,588 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | m624lg | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/m624lg/22m_i_met_a_girl_20f_on_bumble_and_im_really_into/ | 1 | I met this girl on bumble and we hit it off. I really think this girl is special. We have only been texting for 3 days, I know it’s not that long but I feel like this could lead somewhere great. I asked her about meeting up once the lockdown rules are lifted in a month or so and she said she would love to. I then sugge... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | [22M] I met a girl [20F] on bumble and I’m really into her. I’m worried about talking to her irl because I think she will hate my voice, looks and personality. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/m624lg/22m_i_met_a_girl_20f_on_bumble_and_im_really_into/ |
Brent-Blanchard | 2019-08-15 03:56:30 | 1,565,841,390 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | cqktkt | true | Question | 4 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/cqktkt/best_dating_website/ | 2 | Hello! What’s the most effective dating app there is that’s at least somewhat popular? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Best Dating Website | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/cqktkt/best_dating_website/ |
imirada | 2024-07-27 03:04:03 | 1,722,049,443 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1ed6dvi | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 12 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1ed6dvi/18f_needs_an_advice/ | 2 | Hey guys I want a relationship but most men in my country suck what should I do? I tried dating apps but I don’t like showing myself to strangers | dating | t5_2qhb1 | 18F needs an advice | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1ed6dvi/18f_needs_an_advice/ |
OppaiNa | 2024-06-03 14:40:41 | 1,717,425,641 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d762pq | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1d762pq/everytime_i_start_to_like_someone_they_ghost_me/ | 2 | I’m on the dating apps because I am feeling hella lonely. Everyone around me has someone and I just feel hella lonely. My best friend recently got a boyfriend and spends a lot of time with him. Don’t blame her. But I feel lonelier even though she lives with me. Anyway, I hop in the dating apps to find someone. But I sl... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Everytime I start to like someone, they ghost me. [ 26 F ] | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d762pq/everytime_i_start_to_like_someone_they_ghost_me/ |
Several_Shirt_551 | 2021-09-10 16:42:41 | 1,631,292,161 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | plopvs | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/plopvs/post_first_date_confusion/ | 0 | Had a fun first date. Met her (32F) off of bumble. Texted a lot on bumble. Long texts, very engaged. She eventually gave her phone number without me asking. Texted a little week before date, less than we did on bumble, maybe she got shy…I was working more this week so I communicated less. Finally met last night. Nice r... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Post First Date Confusion | null | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/plopvs/post_first_date_confusion/ |
Milday_de_Berry | 2012-08-17 13:13:02 | 1,345,209,182 | 6 | ['dating sites', 'pof'] | null | ydi69 | null | null | 36 | null | /r/dating/comments/ydi69/the_joys_of_internet_dating_i_like_fatties/ | 49 | Hey folks. I thought some might find this funny. Here is a transcript for last night's POF date. [Meet guy outside of random Irish Pub, Anywhere, USA] Me: Hi Guy: Oh, hi. Wow, you're much prettier than your pics, and thin. Me: Thanks. Yeah, I hate having my picture taken so most of the time my smile comes off more like... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | The Joys of Internet Dating - "I like fatties" | 55 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ydi69/the_joys_of_internet_dating_i_like_fatties/ |
PandaOTJ | 2021-12-28 18:53:02 | 1,640,717,582 | null | null | 0 | rqmry0 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/rqmry0/voicetext_apps/ | 2 | From 18 to 80... for reasons of safety and/or anonymity; do you mask your real phone number by using a service or or app that provides an alternative number you can change or delete when initiating contact from someone you just met online? | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Voice/Text Apps | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/rqmry0/voicetext_apps/ |
ZX75V | 2023-11-06 02:26:06 | 1,699,237,566 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 17osja8 | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/17osja8/my_31m_girlfriend_25f_send_me_confusing_signals/ | 1 | I met this girl a few months ago! We started as a short-term relationship without being serious about dating, but then both fell in love. Coming from a relationship where I was always told I am the bad guy, I wanted to treat her so special as I was the first one falling in love with her. I am posting this because I am ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My (31M) girlfriend (25F) send me confusing signals. what's the best way to end this relationship? | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17osja8/my_31m_girlfriend_25f_send_me_confusing_signals/ |
ToughReturn7490 | 2023-11-08 16:10:06 | 1,699,459,806 | 0 | ['OLD'] | 0 | 17qp0bh | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17qp0bh/when_is_the_time_to_put_a_label_on_how_do_you/ | 1 | I've been dating someone I met through OLD 6 weeks ago (both mid/late 30s). We met in person after two weeks of texting and right after the first date we've been meeting very often, every 1-2 days. After about 2 weeks of the intense dating he said to him it already feels like we've a couple but he understands that it's... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | When is the time to put a label on? How do you know when it's time to call it a "relationship"? | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17qp0bh/when_is_the_time_to_put_a_label_on_how_do_you/ |
robertfrostthrowaway | 2020-12-21 01:12:17 | 1,608,513,137 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | kh6rtb | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/kh6rtb/she_is_going_home_for_a_few_weeks_should_i_still/ | 1 | I (25M) met this beautiful, energetic girl (20M) from Hinge yesterday and we instantly hit it off. We first went for a walk to a waterfall, then we went to a tea shop and in total we spent 3.5 hours together on the first date itself. I didn't escalate much, tried to break the touch barrier but wasn't successful. But I ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | She is going home for a few weeks, should I still keep texting her? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/kh6rtb/she_is_going_home_for_a_few_weeks_should_i_still/ |
Willing-Basis-9096 | 2024-08-12 16:13:54 | 1,723,479,234 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eqhv08 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1eqhv08/thoughts_on_dating_someone_with_2_or_3_kids_who/ | 0 | On dating apps I would see people with the occasional one child but what about 2 or 3 all under the age of 8 with different moms? Is there a pattern here that you should avoid or should they be given a fair chance like everyone else | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Thoughts on dating someone with 2 or 3 kids who all have different moms? | 0 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1eqhv08/thoughts_on_dating_someone_with_2_or_3_kids_who/ |
BrilliantNo7957 | 2023-11-23 07:44:33 | 1,700,725,473 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 181vzku | true | Question ❓ | 6 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/181vzku/cold_approach/ | 2 | Lads how do you go about cold approaching say at a bar, what’s the trick to getting out of your head & just striking conversation with someone you find attractive. Been using dating apps as my primary means of trying to date but those honestly suck, Just moved to a new city & wanna try shooting my shot in person more o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Cold approach | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/181vzku/cold_approach/ |
Lupinthrope | 2019-04-13 16:24:11 | 1,555,172,651 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | bcs7zd | true | I Need Advice | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/bcs7zd/just_need_others_opinions_on_this/ | 1 | So I met this girl via tinder, only way to meet people these days it seems is via an app or website, anyway we plan a date out and I tell her to meet me infront of the comic book store, which was mostly for me if I got stood up I could at least go get a comic. So she shows up and we have, what I thought, was a fantasti... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Just need others opinions on this | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bcs7zd/just_need_others_opinions_on_this/ |
ReaperStuffing | 2021-02-28 05:04:51 | 1,614,488,691 | null | ['matches', 'dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | lu7143 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/lu7143/should_i_leave_off_dating_apps_that_i_am_divorced/ | 2 | When a woman sees that a man is divorced in a dating app profile I am concerned it is deterring prospective matches. Do women see this as a negative? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Should I leave off dating apps that I am divorced? | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lu7143/should_i_leave_off_dating_apps_that_i_am_divorced/ |
sharpknivesahead | 2022-03-09 06:54:28 | 1,646,808,868 | null | ['online dating', 'bumble'] | 0 | ta1zf8 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ta1zf8/give_me_advice_for_my_first_bumble_date_f21/ | 1 | I'm not new to the online dating world and have been on the apps since I turned 18, taking breaks on and off as I feel like it. I've only gotten close enough to want to meet someone in person one other time and he didn't want to because of COVID. I recently have been talking to M20 for like 3 ish weeks who goes to a ne... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | give me advice for my first bumble date (F21) | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ta1zf8/give_me_advice_for_my_first_bumble_date_f21/ |
Rogmatag | 2022-03-08 02:30:00 | 1,646,706,600 | null | null | 0 | t96ab5 | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/t96ab5/ghosting_story_thought_or_advice_appreciated/ | 13 | Hey Reddit, so it's been a LONG time since I've done any dating. Met my ex in college and we got married. Now that that relationship is well over, and not really knowing how to start putting myself back out there, I tried online dating. As a guy, it's frustratingly rare to get a match - let alone to feel like I'm hitti... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Ghosting story - thought or advice appreciated | null | 0.93 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/t96ab5/ghosting_story_thought_or_advice_appreciated/ |
RomanticLostInSpace | 2016-04-25 14:23:35 | 1,461,594,215 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'tinder'] | 0 | 4gdiw9 | null | Requesting Support | 22 | null | /r/dating/comments/4gdiw9/22m_i_give_up_i_cant_do_the_casual_thing_or_date/ | 9 | Sorry for the rant, I am just tired of it now... Dating sucks. Not just because I can't get anywhere with women, I just feel as though the "substance" that used to be so highly praised and wanted is gone. I feel the human connection that people say they crave is gone, until A, B, and C are met. I am a decent looking gu... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | [22/M] I give up... I cant do the casual thing, or date multiple people. I am getting worn out, and tired | 9 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/4gdiw9/22m_i_give_up_i_cant_do_the_casual_thing_or_date/ |
dating_throwaway_543 | 2018-05-25 22:20:07 | 1,527,286,807 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8m5mte | false | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8m5mte/is_it_creepy_to_compliment_a_girls_belly_button/ | 2 | Met this girl on Tinder and recently added her on Snap, things have been pretty chill, most conversations have been about our cats \(I know, chad af\) with just occasional small talk, sorta wanna show that I'm interested in her for more than her cat with out being too creepy, She recently just posted on her snap story ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is it creepy to compliment a girls belly button ring | 2 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8m5mte/is_it_creepy_to_compliment_a_girls_belly_button/ |
zac115 | 2018-11-23 01:45:35 | 1,542,937,535 | null | ['swipe', 'dating sites'] | 0 | 9zjzf1 | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9zjzf1/talking_to_brick_walls/ | 2 | What is up with people being brick walls on dating sites. Like if you swipe on some one do you not want to talk to them? Get to know them better? Why are you even here if you aren't going to say more then like 2 words pre sentence. Why are you wasting both your time and the other persons time? | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Talking to brick walls | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9zjzf1/talking_to_brick_walls/ |
Big_Whopper | 2018-10-07 19:12:38 | 1,538,939,558 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 9m7tde | true | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/9m7tde/tinder_date_lost_interest_need_tips_for_future/ | 2 | So I'll give you some background info. I tried tinder and managed to go on a date with a girl who was fairly attractive. We walked around for over an hour, I generally enjoyed it. Then several days later we went on a second date, I think it went fine. During that date we spoke about going to an event the following week... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder date lost interest - need tips for future | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9m7tde/tinder_date_lost_interest_need_tips_for_future/ |
AnotherInsecureGuy | 2023-11-23 15:23:40 | 1,700,753,020 | 0 | null | 0 | 1823igl | true | null | 21 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1823igl/break_up_first_thing_thanksgiving_morning_should/ | 6 | Hi everyone, without going into too much details, I am now single again. Short 6 month relationship, but it still hurts, but I know myself and the longer I am single, the more I romanticize and grieve the relationship. While I’m not going to just immediately download tinder/bumble/hinge, I am thinking about my future l... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Break up first thing Thanksgiving morning. Should go go back on the apps? | 6 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1823igl/break_up_first_thing_thanksgiving_morning_should/ |
weirdertimes2020 | 2021-06-15 20:11:31 | 1,623,787,891 | null | ['matched', 'OLD'] | 0 | o0nfva | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/o0nfva/online_dating_follow_up_sort_of_like_ubereats/ | 5 | There's so much anxiety after the first date. So if you met on OLD, shouldn't the app have a feature where you indicate that you matched with someone and are going on a date. Then after the date the app asks you for your feedback? Is there a feature like that on OLD apps now? The follow up could be like: How was the da... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | On-line Dating Follow Up -Sort of like UberEats | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/o0nfva/online_dating_follow_up_sort_of_like_ubereats/ |
DraxShadow23 | 2023-01-10 00:57:20 | 1,673,312,240 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 107vw6f | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/107vw6f/am_i_overthinking_it/ | 1 | I[22M] matched with this cute girl[20F] on Tinder a little over a week or so ago, and we went on our first date on Saturday morning. Before that we texted almost nonstop, talking about so much, and realizing we have a lot in common. I thought the date went well, minus me losing my train of thought a couple times. She i... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Am I overthinking it? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/107vw6f/am_i_overthinking_it/ |
RedditorsDoMeFavors | 2020-03-02 01:40:46 | 1,583,113,246 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | fc4i2y | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/fc4i2y/how_do_you_even_get_a_date_these_days/ | 2 | I've tried all the obvious things. I've tried dating apps, I've tried messaging women on Facebook/Instagram, I've tried parties, social gatherings in general, and I've tried meeting women through friends. Tinder takes me nowhere. I get a lot of matches, but I only dated one girl I met on Tinder in the last few years (s... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you even get a date these days? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fc4i2y/how_do_you_even_get_a_date_these_days/ |
jamariiiiiiii | 2024-04-24 22:34:06 | 1,713,998,046 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 1ccbr6m | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/1ccbr6m/how_fast_should_i_run/ | 2 | hey. so i matched with this guy on Tinder a few months ago, probably February. he lives decently far, like a two hour train ride away in New Jersey; i live in New York. i miss living in the suburbs, so i figure i can make it work. i'm 21, he's 29. we're both looking for the same thing, to become committed partners, whi... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | how fast should i run? | 2 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ccbr6m/how_fast_should_i_run/ |
Tall_Television_1694 | 2023-07-15 20:44:20 | 1,689,453,860 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 150mit9 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/150mit9/people_of_reddit_please_weigh_in_on_my_idiotic/ | 1 | I'm a 32f and he's a 34-35m I know I might be stupid asking this question as I'm almost 32. But, I matched with this guy on Tinder a month ago, FaceTimed for an hour and had a great chat. He even started texting me ❤️ emojis. I initially asked him out because it just so happened a date for an event got moved and my fri... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | People of Reddit, please weigh in on my idiotic (possibly) questions. Tinder men | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/150mit9/people_of_reddit_please_weigh_in_on_my_idiotic/ |
fixxerup22 | 2019-09-07 05:27:10 | 1,567,834,030 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | d0s3t9 | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/d0s3t9/how_do_i_get_a_date/ | 2 | I’m a 23 F in graduate school. I am always studying or locked up in my room or at a coffee shop.... studying. My class is small and I’m not interested in exploring my male peers in that way. I have yet to experience this thing that everyone in the world has experienced called “dating”. How do I get out there? I tried h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I get a date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/d0s3t9/how_do_i_get_a_date/ |
BrokenBlossom77 | 2022-11-13 17:37:59 | 1,668,361,079 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps'] | 0 | yu8bgo | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/yu8bgo/i_22f_feel_like_im_too_unremarkable_to_fall_in/ | 2 | I feel like I’m too unremarkable to be loved? It’s hard to explain. Friends have always come easy to me. I have several 10+ year friendships and I’ve been able to make friends pretty much wherever I go. I have loving and stable relationships with my nuclear and outside family….romantically things have never clicked for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I (22F) feel like I’m too unremarkable to fall in love with | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/yu8bgo/i_22f_feel_like_im_too_unremarkable_to_fall_in/ |
ellie1222 | 2017-02-20 08:48:27 | 1,487,580,507 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | 5v3jim | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/5v3jim/am_i_being_ghosted/ | 1 | Okay, I just want to start out by saying that I suffer from extreme depression as well as anxiety, and this current fucking situation has caused me to snap. I need some goddamn input on this, because I am losing my mind. So, several months ago I turned to lovely internet dating. I have never been involved in a relation... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I being Ghosted? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/5v3jim/am_i_being_ghosted/ |
LaCaipirinha | 2020-09-26 21:53:40 | 1,601,157,220 | null | ['OLD', 'tinder'] | 0 | j0ep8e | true | null | 36 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/j0ep8e/strange_dating_experience_at_the_beginning_of_the/ | 15 | 32M. At the beginning of the year when I was still relatively newly single I met a girl on Tinder. We hit it off immediately and she seemed to have all the same hobbies, interests and the chemistry was through the roof. Also very beautiful. Things progressed into a relationship quickly and she spent all the time she co... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Strange dating experience at the beginning of the year is messing things up for me | null | 0.86 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/j0ep8e/strange_dating_experience_at_the_beginning_of_the/ |
alfiemartin23 | 2023-02-16 18:08:03 | 1,676,570,883 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 113wxtk | true | Question ❓ | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/113wxtk/any_good_sub_reddits_to_find_someone/ | 1 | Hey im getting tired of silly dating apps think they are really shit. I like reddit as i feel in general the community is good and friendly. So anyone know some good subs for dating? Thanks | dating | t5_2qhb1 | any good sub reddits to find someone? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/113wxtk/any_good_sub_reddits_to_find_someone/ |
throwawayyyyyyy24601 | 2020-04-23 13:50:48 | 1,587,649,848 | null | ['matches', 'matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | g6mzh6 | true | I Need Advice | 197 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g6mzh6/first_tinder_match_came_back_around_after_i_lost/ | 517 | I started using tinder for the first time earlier this year after a pretty large amount of weight loss 50lbs. I was feeling confident for the first time in a long while and matched with some great guys as well as some not so great ones. The first guy I actually ended up sleeping with got really weird after the sex and ... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First tinder match came back around after I lost weight and now it's really shaken my confidence. I'm not sure how to get past it. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g6mzh6/first_tinder_match_came_back_around_after_i_lost/ |
NationalBluejay8836 | 2021-12-23 16:16:01 | 1,640,276,161 | null | ['online dating', 'dating site'] | 0 | rmz22v | true | null | 23 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/rmz22v/advice_needed_for_connecting_with_single_moms/ | 4 | I am relatively new to dating again. Both my children are on the older side which now gives me a bit more freedom. I truly understand where single parents are coming from. I understand their commitment is to their children their home their job and meeting someone from an online dating site is not in their top 10 things... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | Advice needed for connecting with single moms | null | 0.76 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/rmz22v/advice_needed_for_connecting_with_single_moms/ |
myneemo | 2023-05-17 20:58:03 | 1,684,357,083 | 0 | ['matched'] | 0 | 13kdvkm | true | null | 46 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/13kdvkm/ask_about_autistic_traits/ | 13 | Would it be insensitive or inappropriate? I matched with someone a while ago who shared with me that they are autistic. I am meeting with them for the first time on Saturday and I was thinking of asking them whether there are any ways that his autism presents that he thinks I should be aware of. I don't want him over t... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Ask about autistic traits? | 13 | 0.74 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/13kdvkm/ask_about_autistic_traits/ |
throwaway3902847 | 2024-02-18 00:02:16 | 1,708,214,536 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1atgccf | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1atgccf/online_dating/ | 1 | I seem to be very picky with online dating . I was curious if others are the same . For instance , if a dude has pictures with other people's faces scratched out , which I know is to protect privacy , it just irks me . It just says in my weird warped mind of mine the people he cared so much about capturing the image wi... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Online dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1atgccf/online_dating/ |
Cooler3481 | 2022-09-26 19:33:27 | 1,664,220,807 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | xot9ss | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/xot9ss/what_should_i_do/ | 1 | So I try to keep ot brief. I started dating a girl a few weeks ago. We both knew eachother for over a year now, but never met once on that time. Normally I really don't hang on to people who just ignore me or are not interested in talking, bit this time it was a bit different. When we first got to know eachother throug... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | What should I do? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xot9ss/what_should_i_do/ |
ZachTF | 2023-11-28 17:02:41 | 1,701,190,961 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1860vyg | true | Question ❓ | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1860vyg/this_is_how_i_feel_about_dating_apps/ | 1 | I don’t like them. I really prefer meeting people out in the wild. I’ve met some great people recently in person and you just have to be willing to put yourself out there. What are your thoughts on dating apps vs real life meeting? | dating | t5_2qhb1 | This is how I feel about dating apps. | 1 | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1860vyg/this_is_how_i_feel_about_dating_apps/ |
astroworld4490 | 2021-03-11 18:08:58 | 1,615,486,138 | null | null | 0 | m2wo3i | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/m2wo3i/online_dating_and_resilience/ | 4 | I wrote out a reflection on this past year of dating and just wanted to connect with this community and hopefully some of you can relate to this feeling. My (25F) dating process began January 2020 after being intentionally single for 3 years. The first guy I pursued ended up backing out after a couple months because he... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Online Dating and Resilience | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/m2wo3i/online_dating_and_resilience/ |
castawayed_ | 2020-04-23 00:47:07 | 1,587,602,827 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | g6d5rc | true | Tinder/Online Dating | 20 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/g6d5rc/how_do_i_18f_get_out_of_the_how_are_you_stage_on/ | 10 | It seems like no one is trying to spark up a decent conversation these days. Quarantine sucks and even if we weren't on lockdown, my depression has stripped me of my ability to go out and flirt/meet people like i used to. I cant even think back to how i got into my past relationships.. how does dating go again? where t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I [18F] get out of the "how are you" stage on dating apps.. this is draining | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/g6d5rc/how_do_i_18f_get_out_of_the_how_are_you_stage_on/ |
Certain-Scientist-14 | 2022-01-06 19:44:57 | 1,641,498,297 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | rxn4e2 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/rxn4e2/dating_advice_for_beginners/ | 1 | I'm fairly new to the online dating concept. I recently went out on my first date with a guy. Prior to the date, the communication was infrequent and very casual. Brief messages were exchanged every 2 to 4 days and usually at very unsocial hours which is always a red flag. Eventually he asked me out and we went on our ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Dating advice for beginners | null | 0.66 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rxn4e2/dating_advice_for_beginners/ |
Squidward7 | 2021-12-05 14:12:53 | 1,638,713,573 | null | null | 0 | r9gjns | true | null | 163 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/r9gjns/met_a_girl_on_hinge_and_we_had_our_first_date/ | 104 | Hi all I \[32M\] had a date with a girl \[26F\] yesterday. We chatted on Hinge all week. Judging by her photos, she was my type. However, we meet up at the coffee shop yesterday, and I BARELY could recognize her. She clearly used really old photos of herself. She must have put on 40-50 pounds since those photos were ta... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Met a girl on Hinge and we had our first date yesterday. She clearly used really old pictures of herself. Should I feel bad to not try to set up a second date? | null | 0.9 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/r9gjns/met_a_girl_on_hinge_and_we_had_our_first_date/ |
peli-lovin-potato | 2023-09-13 20:18:34 | 1,694,636,314 | 0 | ['online dating', 'dating app'] | 0 | 16hxm3l | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16hxm3l/the_guy_im_currently_seeing_has_been_inmight/ | 1 | I F (22) haven't really properly dated anyone or been in love with anyone. I haven't actively avoided it, but I haven't really ever actively sought it out either. It just never happened and I never felt like I needed to be in a relationship (past the one case of infactuation and puppy love in high school ofc); but rece... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | The guy I'm currently seeing has been in/might still be in love and I feel insecure about it. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16hxm3l/the_guy_im_currently_seeing_has_been_inmight/ |
Jdkeyes182 | 2015-11-09 01:17:42 | 1,447,031,862 | 0 | ['pof'] | 0 | 3s2qoe | null | null | 7 | null | /r/dating/comments/3s2qoe/any_pof_profile_advice/ | 3 | A bunch of my friends have had a lot of luck using the site (one doesn't even plan dates for events, he just counts on finding a girl on there), so I figured I'd try it. I've had a page for about a year now, and I've had exactly zero dates from it. This is even after sending what has to be thousands of messages now. Af... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Any PoF profile advice? | 3 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/3s2qoe/any_pof_profile_advice/ |
Fancy_Orchid | 2020-09-03 19:33:15 | 1,599,161,595 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | im0eh9 | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/im0eh9/how_would_you_like_to_find_out_your_fuck_buddy/ | 0 | So I am a squirter and am kinda embarrassed about it thus the throwaway/new account. And almost every time I cum I squirt at least a little, but sometimes, especially after working up to it, I squirt a lot. Some past partners have made me squirt very messy, very large puddles, sometimes even just masturbating I get wha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How would you like to find out your fuck buddy/ FWB is a squirter? | null | 0.33 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/im0eh9/how_would_you_like_to_find_out_your_fuck_buddy/ |
Tom_A_Haverford | 2019-12-27 15:41:27 | 1,577,461,287 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | egcm31 | true | null | 133 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/egcm31/38m_does_everyone_have_kids/ | 72 | I am freshly divorced, and was just curious as to what the OLD scene was like as I've been out of dating for the last 12 years. I am not interested in kids (either having them or dating anyone with them). I decided to put that into the filters, and holy crap the available numbers absolutely plummeted. For those that fe... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | 38m- Does everyone have kids? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/egcm31/38m_does_everyone_have_kids/ |
Catfish1942 | 2016-12-22 03:05:27 | 1,482,375,927 | 0 | ['dating sites', 'pof'] | 0 | 5jo95n | null | null | 4 | null | /r/dating/comments/5jo95n/closet_bdsm_how_to_find_my_special_one_online/ | 0 | Hey All, I need some advice! I'm 29, and pretty sure know what I want in a partner these days.. and although I am not full on 50 shades, I have practiced aspects of bdsm and have progressed to the point where if I'm going to date I want a submissive partner in my next relationship.. who either sees eye to eye with me o... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Closet BDSM, how to find my special one online? | 0 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/5jo95n/closet_bdsm_how_to_find_my_special_one_online/ |
DizzyLettuce | 2020-02-04 02:04:21 | 1,580,781,861 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | eyifnp | true | Venting | 2 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/eyifnp/dealing_with_the_fact_nothing_lasts_and_everyone/ | 5 | It seems like dating is an onslaught of disappointment. A lot of getting ghosted on online dating. I met several guys in real life, but there was no vibe. I met a guy at a party and I got to know him over several months, got excited there was something, only to be given the 'slow fade'. Another one invited me to someth... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Dealing with the fact nothing lasts and everyone disappears | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eyifnp/dealing_with_the_fact_nothing_lasts_and_everyone/ |
Ploikblah | 2020-01-10 12:29:49 | 1,578,659,389 | null | ['matches', 'dating sites'] | 0 | emqb4k | true | Question | 245 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/emqb4k/if_women_never_initiate_conversations_with_you/ | 274 | 22 year old virgin guy here. I have never in my life had a women start a conversation with me, unless it was a waitress asking me what I'd like to order. And even when I do initiate, I get one word answers and they walk off. Along with getting zero matches and replies on dating sites, is it safe for me to assume that I... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | If women never initiate conversations with you, does it mean you're facially unfortunate? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/emqb4k/if_women_never_initiate_conversations_with_you/ |
OpenLand | 2019-07-09 23:34:58 | 1,562,715,298 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | cb8qy2 | true | null | 32 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/cb8qy2/breaking_up_over_kids_no_kids/ | 8 | Hi y’all – I \[36/M\] just wanted to bounce something off the world, I guess... I split with my girlfriend \[39\] probably a little over a year ago, after which I moved almost 900 miles south of where we lived in something rather impulsive. Great job and location though, so I'm happy (live on the beach). I suppose you ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Breaking up over kids / no kids? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/cb8qy2/breaking_up_over_kids_no_kids/ |
Mistersunnyd | 2019-11-08 11:07:25 | 1,573,211,245 | null | ['hinge'] | 0 | dtdxew | true | Venting | 232 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/dtdxew/my_first_date_in_years_was_a_disaster/ | 1,308 | I recently took a break from working 80-90 hrs a week and just focused more on my health and life. I met this girl on Hinge, and while I wasn't super attracted to her, I also haven't gone on a date in many years. Thus, I said "what the hell" and went on a date with her. That was a big mistake. From the moment we sat do... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | My first date in years was a disaster | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/dtdxew/my_first_date_in_years_was_a_disaster/ |
rocknrollinmetalhead | 2021-02-16 15:57:04 | 1,613,491,024 | null | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | ll6s5z | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ll6s5z/good_dating_apps_to_use/ | 1 | Does anyone know any good dating apps to use besides Bumble, Hinge, Okcupid, FB dating, and Tinder that will actually give me luck? I'm a 18 year old guy thats about to turn 19 in March and I've been waiting and searching for the perfect women for me for almost 3 years and I still haven't found anyone for me. When I tu... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Good Dating apps to use | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ll6s5z/good_dating_apps_to_use/ |
Gooseberry_Sprig | 2021-03-28 22:42:42 | 1,616,971,362 | null | ['OLD'] | 0 | mfbvur | true | null | 15 | 0 | /r/datingoverfifty/comments/mfbvur/advice_on_profile_photos/ | 7 | Everyone on OLD (on-line dating) looks at profile photos. Tell us what you look for in profile photos. What are immediate turn-ons and turn-offs? What are the best and worst photos you've seen? | datingoverfifty | t5_12ieog | Advice on Profile Photos | null | 0.82 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverfifty/comments/mfbvur/advice_on_profile_photos/ |
CPThatemylife | 2023-10-15 23:02:45 | 1,697,410,965 | 0 | null | 0 | 178rn3c | true | null | 79 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/178rn3c/i_28m_am_so_sick_and_tired_of_these_are_we_dating/ | 1 | This is such horseshit. It's hard enough being a guy in the dating scene, just trying to navigate your way and get to know some different women, see how compatible you are with them etc. Do the dating thing you know? And then some stupid catty womanchildren get on their little gossip Facebook page and post your picture... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | I [28M] am so sick and tired of these "are we dating the same guy" Facebook pages and they need to be banned. | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/178rn3c/i_28m_am_so_sick_and_tired_of_these_are_we_dating/ |
Will_it_ever_matter | 2015-04-17 12:18:14 | 1,429,273,094 | 0 | ['matches', 'okcupid'] | 0 | 32wyv4 | null | null | 9 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/32wyv4/its_not_working_for_me/ | 8 | I’m only 18 and I don’t drink, don’t smoke, DON’T do drugs, and I am a pretty good person that’s funny (or so I’ve been told) and a loyal friend. I’ve lived in the same house since I was 2, so everyone around I’ve grown up with. I thought I had the right person in my life (I am certain we loved each other) but outside ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | It's not working for me... | 8 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/32wyv4/its_not_working_for_me/ |
sagarp133 | 2021-05-16 06:45:17 | 1,621,147,517 | null | ['dating site'] | 0 | ndifp7 | true | null | 18 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ndifp7/what_do_you_guys_generally_do_when_you_dont_find/ | 5 | So I’ve been talking to this girl on a dating site for a few days. Our chats were short and sweet and directly led to the meeting. We did one phone call on the first day only to judge the personalities. Later we exchanged insta profiles. During all this time I almost thought that this girl is the one who I may date ser... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What do you guys generally do when you don’t find the girl attractive enough on the first date? | null | 0.78 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ndifp7/what_do_you_guys_generally_do_when_you_dont_find/ |
[deleted] | 2014-02-20 15:23:06 | 1,392,909,786 | 0 | ['online dating'] | 0 | 1yg22v | null | null | 2 | null | /r/dating_advice/comments/1yg22v/m21_in_a_rut/ | 3 | Let me just start off an say that I have been single for about 4 years now. I was single all the way through college and I am currenty 21. I am also moving to a new area within a month and I am still terrified of being single for the rest of my life. Don't get me wrong, I've had some dates each year throughout college ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | M[21] in a rut. | 3 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1yg22v/m21_in_a_rut/ |
FrequentSurprise | 2019-03-25 14:36:07 | 1,553,524,567 | null | ['dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid'] | 0 | b5bfxi | true | null | 839 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/b5bfxi/can_we_all_just_agree_that/ | 4,223 | Dating nowadays fucking sucks. This new era where dating apps are how you meet people just really blows. Not to say you can't successfully meet someone off of them and be happy but I just find the whole concept so unnatural. This coming from a 23F who has tried almost all of them (tinder, bumble, hinge, okcupid), and a... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Can we all just agree that | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/b5bfxi/can_we_all_just_agree_that/ |
ActiveMuted2122 | 2023-05-16 11:36:53 | 1,684,237,013 | 0 | ['dating app'] | 0 | 13j2o34 | true | null | 29 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13j2o34/help_confused/ | 0 | I’ve been talking to this guy for 3 months, we met on a dating app and he texts me everyday but he NEVER ONCE has told me how he feels about me and we don’t even have deep conversations and basically it feels like it’s going nowhere. It’s like we’re just stuck in the “talking stage”. We’ve met a few times but it’s been... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Help?? Confused | 0 | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13j2o34/help_confused/ |
Plastic-Comment-3005 | 2023-12-23 10:21:13 | 1,703,326,873 | 0 | null | 0 | 18p2trc | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/18p2trc/our_chats_was_only_about_meeting/ | 2 | I'm new to OLD, and I got matched with a man 4 days ago. We exchanged few messages about career and then we decided to meet tomorrow. But within this 4 days, we haven't really talked about anything. No "good mornings" or "hi" and "hello". Our messages only consist of the time to meet or if someone has a change of plan ... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Our chats was only about meeting | 2 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18p2trc/our_chats_was_only_about_meeting/ |
KingCole361 | 2021-04-21 10:04:46 | 1,618,999,486 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | mvcf2q | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/mvcf2q/girl_is_definitely_interested_but_silenced_me/ | 1 | Aight so i been texting this girl we connected right away. 2 days ago i texted her and asked her a question she responded to my comment but didnt elaborate on the the question. Should i just message her again and ignore her silence? or just drop the match? Im kinda new to this online dating thing do any of yall have ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Girl is definitely interested but silenced me | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/mvcf2q/girl_is_definitely_interested_but_silenced_me/ |
pooepi | 2021-05-05 08:08:02 | 1,620,202,082 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | n5aqwj | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/n5aqwj/perplexed_and_nervous_about_asking_a_guy_out/ | 1 | I've been messaging this guy I met on Bumble back and forth for awhile, although it's always me initiating the conversation and him replying rather quickly. He finally brought up meeting in person and I agreed. We had an initially awkward meetup as I'm a little hostile when I'm nervous, but which turned pretty smooth i... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Perplexed and nervous about asking a guy out | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/n5aqwj/perplexed_and_nervous_about_asking_a_guy_out/ |
thrillerkid99 | 2023-07-28 22:34:42 | 1,690,583,682 | 0 | ['matched', 'hinge'] | 0 | 15cbdv0 | false | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/15cbdv0/f41_not_responding_on_snap_to_me_m24_so_should_i/ | 1 | I matched with an older woman on hinge about a week and a half ago. She will be turning 42 and I am 24. For her age she surprisingly attractive. Before anything I will also say that we both are aware of the age difference and we both are seeking something fun/something casual atm. We both agree that for a (serious) rel... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | (F41) Not responding on snap to me (M24) so should I message back on Hinge where we matched? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15cbdv0/f41_not_responding_on_snap_to_me_m24_so_should_i/ |
yung_leaf | 2018-04-13 04:14:52 | 1,523,592,892 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 8bwgex | false | null | 15 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/8bwgex/whats_your_thoughts_on_an_afternoon_lunch_date/ | 1 | I [20] asked a girl [19] out from tinder and suggested a Cajun style restaurant, but I started reading a lot of reddit posts that seem to think restaurants aren't great for first dates. Honestly I'm going to stick it out because I've already suggested it, so if you guys have any advice on what to do during the date, th... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Whats your thoughts on an afternoon lunch date for the first date? | 1 | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/8bwgex/whats_your_thoughts_on_an_afternoon_lunch_date/ |
RandomLurker9 | 2018-03-15 00:51:10 | 1,521,075,070 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | 84ijw1 | false | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/84ijw1/what_is_the_right_way_to_ask_for_a_girls_number/ | 1 | I want to get her off the app, but usually I give out my number first and say that she can text me instead of using the app. However, it really annoys me when I do this and she still communicates using the app, and doesn't actually text me. Feels like she's just not that interested... or should I just be more explicit ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | What is the right way to ask for a girl's number on dating app after she's agreed to go on a first date? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/84ijw1/what_is_the_right_way_to_ask_for_a_girls_number/ |
lclamon15 | 2019-10-03 21:13:13 | 1,570,137,193 | null | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | dcxb7m | true | null | 9 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/dcxb7m/tinder_match_question/ | 1 | Hi everyone, I (F18) matched with a guy near me (M18) and we talked on tinder for a day then moved over to Snapchat where most of our convos have been taking place, I’ve asked him to go out and he told me he’d see when he was free and then last night we got a lil more flirty in our convo and he was like “we should meet... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Tinder Match Question?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dcxb7m/tinder_match_question/ |
ComprehensiveTooth2 | 2021-06-12 19:17:19 | 1,623,525,439 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | nye498 | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/nye498/am_i_nitpicking_or_am_i_right/ | 1 | So I(M22) met this girl(23) on Bumble a week ago, we have been talking daily on instagram dms. We cannot meet yet due to some reasons out of our control. But I have noticed that she is too self centred. Please tell me if I'm right or wrong. For example, we got to talking about anxiety and to relate to her I talked abou... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Am I nitpicking or am I right? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/nye498/am_i_nitpicking_or_am_i_right/ |
puestadelsol | 2023-11-05 01:45:02 | 1,699,148,702 | 0 | null | 0 | 17o1ee2 | true | null | 58 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/17o1ee2/conventionally_attractive_women_do_men_ever_ask/ | 6 | So I’m a bigger girl, 24, 5’7 and I think I look fairly decent. I went out with a guy tonight 27 and the date was going well there was no sexual inklings he wanted to do more. As I leave in my car he texts me and asks me to stop by his house. I also went on a date last year where a guy took me out then the next day ins... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Conventionally attractive women - do men ever ask you to hang out at their place early on? | 6 | 0.62 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17o1ee2/conventionally_attractive_women_do_men_ever_ask/ |
Electrical_Session66 | 2022-12-20 07:00:02 | 1,671,519,602 | null | ['matched', 'swipe', 'online dating'] | 0 | zqhdc3 | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 624 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/zqhdc3/are_girls_like_us_extinct/ | 393 | Hey guys this is me ranting so I don’t go cry in a corner for half an hour. I’m 30 f, have a masters degree, a good career. I’ve been told I’m pretty and I have a normal average body. to be honest I’m really adventurous and kind of a goofball so I do end up making everyone laugh through out the whole night. NOW why the... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Are girls like us extinct? | null | 0.81 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/zqhdc3/are_girls_like_us_extinct/ |
Maleficent-Excuse290 | 2022-02-19 05:22:05 | 1,645,248,125 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | sw2d1q | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/sw2d1q/new_dating_scene/ | 2 | So I’m divorced, how the heck do you date now?. I know this has been asked again and again. I signed up for bumble but what other apps or service is a quality experience? What should I do? I’m in a small town so going out local is not really a thing in this town. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | New dating scene | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/sw2d1q/new_dating_scene/ |
NoAnt5675 | 2023-09-17 04:02:52 | 1,694,923,372 | 0 | ['tinder'] | 0 | 16kqysz | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/16kqysz/guy_looking_for_mate_and_a_friend_for_his_best/ | 1 | Title is pretty obvious. I saw this while on tinder. I kind of feel like this is a red flag. What if the guy likes the girl but the two girls don't get along? Does that mean he has to chose? I kind of feel sorry for the guy that he feel that he has to have his girl friend and best friend's girl be besties. | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Guy looking for mate and a friend for his best friend's girlfriend | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16kqysz/guy_looking_for_mate_and_a_friend_for_his_best/ |
bhuvi1991 | 2024-08-06 14:57:09 | 1,722,956,229 | 0 | ['dating sites'] | 0 | 1eljxoo | true | Question ❓ | 3 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eljxoo/should_i_use_photo_enhancers_like_remini_before/ | 1 | I think slight enhancing makes pictures more visually attractive | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Should I use photo enhancers like Remini before posting pics on matrimony and dating sites, or is it better to post unedited photos? I'm a male | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eljxoo/should_i_use_photo_enhancers_like_remini_before/ |
WhenIWas23 | 2021-04-17 08:45:18 | 1,618,649,118 | null | ['dating sites'] | 0 | msn6nk | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/msn6nk/date_needed/ | 1 | Quick quesrion-post: I became a widow in 2016. Married 19 yrs. Heavy grieving has subsided, but I occasionally get sad and I accept that as normal. I'm 52, but because of my slight build and (thankfully) good skin, I get mistaken for younger. Tried a few dating sites to test the waters. Men my age saw my photo and perv... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Date needed? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/msn6nk/date_needed/ |
caleb__crawdad | 2017-10-22 16:31:53 | 1,508,689,913 | null | ['dating app', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 7817nt | false | null | 10 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/7817nt/bumbletinder_success_stories/ | 1 | Just wondering if anyone has any positive dating app stories to share. I’ve done meet-ups before, but none of them ever really amounted to anything (just casual sex here and there). I met someone I really like on an app, and I’m excited to meet with him, but my expectations aren’t super high because I’ve never successf... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Bumble/Tinder success stories? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7817nt/bumbletinder_success_stories/ |
Draculalia | 2022-10-28 00:36:33 | 1,666,917,393 | null | null | 0 | yf8l0b | true | null | 7 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/yf8l0b/guy_seems_hilariously_dishonest_but_are_his_pics/ | 2 | Got a message from a guy which had a pic attached. He was pretty cute. (Am female, btw.) We started chatting and things quickly got hilarious when he started telling me that "many older women" wouldn't have any kind of sexual contact with him because his dick was too big. I pretended to play along and watched him try t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Guy seems hilariously dishonest, but are his pics? | null | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/yf8l0b/guy_seems_hilariously_dishonest_but_are_his_pics/ |
Large-Branch3642 | 2023-09-18 03:34:32 | 1,695,008,072 | 0 | ['matched', 'online dating', 'hinge'] | 0 | 16lkoed | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/16lkoed/first_big_ooft_my_poor_heart_moment_with_online/ | 1 | A pretty girl who's exactly my type liked a photo of mine on Hinge and i matched her back. We proceeded to talk a lot - about our family traditions, travel experiences and shared interest in history. She excuses herself from our chat at one point to have a call with an overseas relative and then tells me about it after... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | First big "ooft, my poor heart" moment with online dating | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16lkoed/first_big_ooft_my_poor_heart_moment_with_online/ |
realcodylehmann | 2024-08-10 16:20:54 | 1,723,306,854 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1eowxmi | true | Support Needed 🫂 | 9 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/1eowxmi/i_dont_enjoy_the_single_life/ | 10 | I’m M32 turning 33 in November. Just got out of a 3 year relationship that ended with her cheating and moving on to him roughly 9 months ago. Still struggling with it but slowly getting myself back out there. The older I get the more I’m feeling as if the dating pool is seriously closing in on me. I don’t click with an... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I don’t enjoy the single life. | 10 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1eowxmi/i_dont_enjoy_the_single_life/ |
MajesticRate1818 | 2024-05-13 22:57:22 | 1,715,641,042 | 0 | null | 0 | 1crd2q4 | true | null | 3 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/1crd2q4/need_date_ideas_for_a_girl_whos_travelling_to_see/ | 1 | She’s coming up to my city via train so it can’t be some quick date. What are some suggestions? She’s into: butterfly collecting, playing guitar, singing and playing piano, into d&d and hiking and going on walks. It will be during the day so I’m not sure what would be best whixh doesn’t feel like too much for a first t... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Need date ideas for a girl who’s travelling to see me | 1 | 0.67 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1crd2q4/need_date_ideas_for_a_girl_whos_travelling_to_see/ |
walkinginthestars | 2020-04-30 00:21:43 | 1,588,206,103 | null | ['online dating'] | 0 | gal8qq | true | null | 1 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/gal8qq/i_feel_i_am_not_enough_for_anyone/ | 2 | Romance has always been fascinating to me. But growing up, while everyone was having their first experience with the opposite gender, there was me. Through the years I just lived my life. I thought things will be better in the future and now I am in my mid twenties without any real experience in dating in real life, ea... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I feel I am not enough for anyone | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gal8qq/i_feel_i_am_not_enough_for_anyone/ |
peony27 | 2019-07-17 20:24:54 | 1,563,395,094 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | ceia8l | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/ceia8l/moving_too_fast_and_we_havent_met/ | 1 | So this is a strange one, I’ve (27F) been talking to this guy (M29) . We talk loads, texting, calls, FaceTime. We’ve consistently had a great time talking to each other. Lots of flirting and fun etc. Then tonight he tells me he thinks things are moving too fast. I told him that I totally understand and if there’s anyth... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Moving too fast and we haven’t met?? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ceia8l/moving_too_fast_and_we_havent_met/ |
Scarassem5 | 2023-01-16 20:07:09 | 1,673,899,629 | null | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 10dpxqn | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 5 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/10dpxqn/how_to_find_a_nice_person/ | 1 | Asking for a friend, genuinely My friend is amazing. He's the sweetest, kindest must loyal person any girl could hope to meet. He's a nice looking man, he's active and is an animal lover. He's 41m, and he's really struggling to find a decent person to date. He's constantly being ghosted, stood up and lied to by girls h... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How to find a nice person?? | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10dpxqn/how_to_find_a_nice_person/ |
yungbankgetter | 2022-05-28 17:54:54 | 1,653,760,494 | null | ['dating apps', 'hinge'] | 0 | uzsjza | true | I Need Advice | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/uzsjza/overwhelmed_by_nycpostcollege_dating_scene/ | 3 | Hi everyone, I moved to NYC about a year ago but was in a relationship until about a few months ago. I think I’m finally starting to feel ready to date again because now I’m out and about on my way to work and I think I fall in love about 100 times a day. There are just so many beautiful women out there and I want to t... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | Overwhelmed by NYC/post-college dating scene | null | 0.71 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/uzsjza/overwhelmed_by_nycpostcollege_dating_scene/ |
No_Research3744 | 2020-09-16 04:40:18 | 1,600,231,218 | null | ['matches', 'swiping', 'dating apps', 'tinder'] | 0 | itoytk | true | null | 49 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/itoytk/how_do_you_cope_with_missing_out_on_so_much_in/ | 7 | If I was a good looking man, I would be swiping on Tinder right now meeting and getting matches. I could send them individualized messages and some would actually reply. If I was lonely (and I am) I could invite one over and we could just spend time together and talk. We could eat dinner together. Watch a movie. Go for... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | How do you cope with missing out on so much in life because you're not good looking? | null | 0.63 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/itoytk/how_do_you_cope_with_missing_out_on_so_much_in/ |
Traditional-Act-2821 | 2022-03-23 06:57:51 | 1,648,018,671 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | tko3fz | true | null | 24 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/tko3fz/does_he_like_me_or_not_im_so_confused/ | 1 | so i met a guy on tinder and we start texting. we hit it off immediately, the conversation was amazing and i could tell he liked me in a non-sexual way because unfortunately most guys that come my way only see me in that way. eventually he’s like we should hang out and get sushi and drinks so i’m like bet. the date was... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | does he like me or not??? i’m so confused. | null | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/tko3fz/does_he_like_me_or_not_im_so_confused/ |
Patient-Hamster-6206 | 2023-07-27 18:22:08 | 1,690,482,128 | 0 | ['dating app', 'dating apps'] | 0 | 15b9a9r | false | null | 4 | 0 | /r/AskMen/comments/15b9a9r/what_are_the_rules_are_there_any_rules_of_being/ | 1 | I (23F) matched with this dude (26M) on a dating app and we hit off great. Similar interests and always fun energy/ vibes with each conversation. Unfortunately, we never get time to hang out because he is a busy medical student. He asked me to hang out one day, after making plans so many other times and canceling, and ... | AskMen | t5_2s30g | What are the rules / are there any rules of being just friends with someone after meeting on a dating app? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/15b9a9r/what_are_the_rules_are_there_any_rules_of_being/ |
anahatab | 2023-12-11 07:04:58 | 1,702,278,298 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 18fopw0 | true | null | 11 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/18fopw0/i_want_my_coworker/ | 2 | We work together a lot. Same team, same projects, all of it. I’ve wanted him since February 2023. I also don’t st where I eat. I’d get on dating apps and try to find someone else but I don’t want anyone else. The thought of dating also makes me physically nauseous. I only want him. What do I do? Do I get over him, and ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I want my coworker | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18fopw0/i_want_my_coworker/ |
Dopplerbark34 | 2020-07-28 03:28:02 | 1,595,906,882 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | hz76k0 | true | null | 4 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/hz76k0/finding_a_gf_as_a_career_driven_21_yo/ | 0 | First post, wish me luck. So I'm 21, I own and opporate a quickly growing business. I work 12 hours most days, and I like to take weekends to reset and get ready for the next week. I don't really drink or party since escaping the hospitality industry, I never went to university, my hobbies pretty much surounded by othe... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Finding a GF as a career driven 21 Y/O | null | 0.25 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/hz76k0/finding_a_gf_as_a_career_driven_21_yo/ |
SilverBot19 | 2022-12-01 05:51:28 | 1,669,873,888 | null | ['dating app'] | 0 | z9fza5 | true | null | 2 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/z9fza5/i_dont_know_how_to_talk_to_a_girl_ive_had_a_hook/ | 0 | I met a girl through a dating app and we had decided at some point to go on a date. We are both looking for nothing serious just something casual. Date went great, ended up going to my house and had sex. She had to go home quickly because she had to leave early in the next morning because she is going to another town f... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I don't know how to talk to a girl I've had a hook up with | null | 0.5 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/z9fza5/i_dont_know_how_to_talk_to_a_girl_ive_had_a_hook/ |
[deleted] | 2012-04-15 07:34:59 | 1,334,475,299 | 0 | ['dating site'] | null | sakc4 | null | null | 13 | null | /r/AskWomen/comments/sakc4/just_got_my_first_date_from_a_dating_site_in/ | 6 | First off, I am a guy and I'm meeting this girl for coffee. I have obviously had no physical interaction with her so I feel a hug would be weird, but anything else like a handshake seems too formal.... Women, what would be the least awkward way a semi-stranger going on a date could greet you? | AskWomen | t5_2rxrw | just got my first date from a dating site in about 12 hours, how should the greeting be handled? | 6 | null | http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/sakc4/just_got_my_first_date_from_a_dating_site_in/ |
Responsible-Fix-7094 | 2023-05-27 03:49:48 | 1,685,159,388 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 13sx6ml | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 196 | 2 | /r/dating/comments/13sx6ml/i_wish_dating_apps_would_disappear/ | 432 | People hide behind the apps now. They won't approach you in person. You spend weeks texting someone you don't know just for nothing to happen. I think dating apps are a cancer to society. I wish we could go back to times when people actually had to have real interactions. 😔 💔 | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I wish dating apps would disappear | 432 | 0.89 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13sx6ml/i_wish_dating_apps_would_disappear/ |
GrinkleDong | 2023-08-25 01:55:45 | 1,692,928,545 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'tinder', 'bumble'] | 0 | 160lm5g | true | I Need Advice 😩 | 1 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/160lm5g/how_do_i_put_myself_back_out_there/ | 1 | I (24m) just got out of a 8 year long relationship and I want to get myself back out there but I have no idea how aside from dating apps. I've been on bumble and tinder for 2 weeks now and I've yet to get a match I know I'm not the most attractive person but I also don't think I'm all that ugly. So I guess the question... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | How do I put myself back out there? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/160lm5g/how_do_i_put_myself_back_out_there/ |
kkwong01 | 2020-02-15 02:34:27 | 1,581,734,067 | null | ['matched', 'OLD', 'hinge'] | 0 | f434nf | true | null | 33 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/f434nf/got_ghosted_at_the_last_minute_by_an_old_match/ | 19 | I matched with a woman on Hinge last Wednesday. We were messaging each other everyday and things seemed to be going unbelievably well. We planned to meet up near her (about an hours drive away). We chatted about where we’d meet and what we’d do. Yesterday, when I went to ask what time, I noticed she had unmatched with ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Got ghosted at the last minute by an OLD match. | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/f434nf/got_ghosted_at_the_last_minute_by_an_old_match/ |
Quick-Faithlessness7 | 2023-05-24 23:56:32 | 1,684,972,592 | 0 | ['matched', 'tinder'] | 0 | 13r23xn | true | null | 30 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/13r23xn/i_got_dumped_today_m_25_f_24/ | 91 | This is a post about a state of mind that I think people should keep when dating. I say “dumped” because it wasn’t a relationship but she told me she doesn’t see thing going further. We matched on April 24th. We’ve had 4 dates. I thought things were going good until this weekend when things started feeling off. We had ... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | I got “dumped” today [M 25] [F 24] | 91 | 0.92 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13r23xn/i_got_dumped_today_m_25_f_24/ |
WolfmansGotNards2 | 2023-08-09 17:36:17 | 1,691,602,577 | 0 | null | 0 | 15mlx7j | true | null | 8 | 0 | /r/OnlineDating/comments/15mlx7j/would_you_subscribe_to_a_dating_app_if_it_were/ | 1 | Also, the likes would have to be more equal too. Women and men could send the same amount of likes, so men couldn't just swipe on everything. Make sure men and women have an even playing field on the apps, so women don't have to sift through thousands of likes, and men don't have to feel like there are hardly any women... | OnlineDating | t5_2qpe9 | Would you subscribe to a dating app if it were balanced by gender (didn't let more men sign up until more women did or men left), so it would be more equal? | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15mlx7j/would_you_subscribe_to_a_dating_app_if_it_were/ |
Substantial-Ant-4010 | 2024-09-06 19:34:21 | 1,725,651,261 | 0 | ['matches', 'OLD', 'tinder', 'hinge'] | 0 | 1fanuag | true | null | 5 | 0 | /r/datingoverforty/comments/1fanuag/old_apps_in_houston/ | 0 | I'm fairly new to the apps. I was on for a month in June, shut them down to work on myself some more, and am back on the apps. I 56m do ok ok Hinge, and Facebook, the matches are slow but steady. Tinder was a complete waste of time. For those of you in Houston, specifically in the NW part of town, what apps have worked... | datingoverforty | t5_su6ij | OLD apps in Houston | 0 | 0.4 | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1fanuag/old_apps_in_houston/ |
curious_coco98 | 2023-11-14 07:39:40 | 1,699,947,580 | 0 | ['matches', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge'] | 0 | 17ux7sb | true | null | 6 | 0 | /r/dating_advice/comments/17ux7sb/is_anyone_even_getting_matches/ | 2 | So recently installed dating apps (bumble and hinge) and one thing I've noticed, most of the women are actually very good looking and moreover they look more of instagram models these days than before. So ofc me average looking dude is not even getting a single match. Is the competition too tough or it's just people ha... | dating_advice | t5_2s4kl | Is anyone even getting matches | 2 | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17ux7sb/is_anyone_even_getting_matches/ |
whitewolf7602 | 2024-06-05 04:53:33 | 1,717,563,213 | 0 | ['dating apps'] | 0 | 1d8hr1t | true | Just Venting 😮💨 | 6 | 1 | /r/dating/comments/1d8hr1t/im_so_burned_out_on_dating/ | 1 | I had my heart broken about three months ago and have been trying to move past it but it’s been really hard! My therapist says it’s a good idea for me to get back out there and date again. So I downloaded the dating apps again, and I’ve been talking to quite a few people but i just don’t feel excited about seeing anybo... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I’m so burned out on dating! | 1 | 1 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1d8hr1t/im_so_burned_out_on_dating/ |
[deleted] | 2022-02-04 15:44:50 | 1,643,989,490 | null | ['tinder'] | 0 | skgd4a | true | Support Needed | 21 | 0 | /r/dating/comments/skgd4a/i_just_got_rejected_in_a_way_thats_leaving_my/ | 8 | I've been talking to this girl on tinder for about 5 days. Conversations were flowing perfectly. She liked my personality and thought I was handsome. We talked extensively, she instantly replied, which was an exceptionally good thing. At one point she said she can't wait to see me in person. Last night however, she ask... | dating | t5_2qhb1 | I just got rejected in a way that's leaving my self-esteem really bruised. I need advice on how to deal with rejection with grace and patience... | null | 0.75 | https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/skgd4a/i_just_got_rejected_in_a_way_thats_leaving_my/ |
ihusmrn | 2020-02-27 14:23:25 | 1,582,813,405 | null | ['bumble'] | 0 | facsg3 | true | null | 56 | 0 | /r/datingoverthirty/comments/facsg3/has_anyone_purposefully_dated_casually_for_a_bit/ | 11 | I’ve always wanted a committed, monogamous relationship where we can plan our future, but it’s just not happening. Hasn’t happened for 13 years of dating now. Following my latest short-term catastrophe, I’m considering dating with purely casual intent. I’d like to be able to have sex with a mutually respectful person, ... | datingoverthirty | t5_34cyw | Has anyone purposefully dated casually for a bit? How did it go? | null | null | https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/facsg3/has_anyone_purposefully_dated_casually_for_a_bit/ |
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