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North-Ad-6897
2021-09-10 00:45:03
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I am a 56 year old male and find myself wanting to meet a woman. Not just a hook up but a serious relationship. I have tried "the free dating apps" like right. Hey I was born at night but not last night. So what's the proper way or modern day dating advice for a boomer. Thank's in advance.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How to date in the year 2021
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/plahl0/how_to_date_in_the_year_2021/
phenixfleur
2022-10-08 07:43:53
1,665,215,033
null
['tinder']
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xympkc
true
null
1
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xympkc/developing_sexaversion_with_no_idea_why/
5
I hope this is the correct subreddit for this, please remove if not. I also don't post on Reddit very often, so it'll be fairly brief? Over the past year or so, I have gradually become more and more sex-averse in a way that has nothing to do with being demisexual. Granted, I haven't experienced genuine feelings of attr...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
Developing sex-aversion with no idea why
null
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/xympkc/developing_sexaversion_with_no_idea_why/
SoftwareMuted426
2022-02-01 06:37:02
1,643,697,422
null
['tinder']
0
shobw8
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/shobw8/if_you_think_youre_being_ghosted_do_you_reach_out/
2
Texting everyday is the norm for us until we met up on a date (tinder) and even though it went great and we talked about plans in the future (with no specific date) I havnt heard from him at all. I feel like because of the contact we had previously it should be a red flag which sucks
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
If you think you’re being ghosted, do you reach out once or just delete their number?
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/shobw8/if_you_think_youre_being_ghosted_do_you_reach_out/
axis1970
2023-08-23 19:23:27
1,692,818,607
0
['online dating']
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15zdr7r
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/15zdr7r/50_womens_expectation_for_online_dating/
1
I'm 53 and find that women's expectations for online dating are ridiculous. I'm not ugly, not good looking... somewhere in between. But most women i've contacted never respond to messages. For every 25 messages I send I get 1 reply and the lady puts very little effort into the response. Many women over 50 have some kin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
50+ Women's Expectation for Online Dating
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15zdr7r/50_womens_expectation_for_online_dating/
iDislikeSn0w
2020-06-10 12:20:05
1,591,791,605
null
['bumble']
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h09rg3
true
I Need Advice
8
0
/r/dating/comments/h09rg3/why_did_she_stop_talking_to_me_yet_still_views/
2
Hey there, So a short story of what happened before all of this: we met on Bumble 2,5 months ago, she told me right off the bat she has heavy commitment issues and a slew of other shit going on, so alright, I know what I was getting in for and didn't take it too seriously. It did get more serious though, and fast, to t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Why did she stop talking to me, yet still views all my Instagram and Snapchat stories, replies to them and likes and comments on new uploads of me on Instagram?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/h09rg3/why_did_she_stop_talking_to_me_yet_still_views/
Confident_Trainer448
2024-09-26 13:44:51
1,727,358,291
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1fpwjn4
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1fpwjn4/hot_cold/
1
I'm (23m) starting to get sick and tired of the hot and cold treatment with the girl i'm speaking with (27f) for 3 months now and i've been taking it slow with her since she recently got out of a relationship. I mean its so fkn confusing and i want to tell her but not in a harsh way but don't have a clue what to say wi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Hot & cold
1
0.99
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1fpwjn4/hot_cold/
ShampooMonK
2019-09-27 13:44:01
1,569,591,841
null
['tinder', 'pof']
0
da0lyk
true
Giving Advice
2
0
/r/dating/comments/da0lyk/just_wanted_to_share_some_thoughts_from_my/
10
Disclaimer: I am not a pro, I am pretty inexperienced. I am also not a PUA, nor do I claim to be. This is my Ted Talk. \_\_ I've been dealing with a few women who have been up and down, hot and cold, or just flakey. My advice? Women are going to always flake, even if they like the guy which is strange to me. In today's...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Just wanted to share some thoughts from my experience in dating women
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/da0lyk/just_wanted_to_share_some_thoughts_from_my/
m_art0
2023-05-11 11:29:17
1,683,804,557
0
['tinder']
0
13eklii
true
null
19
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/13eklii/he_29m_cut_me_23f_suddenly/
0
He (29M) cut me (23F) suddenly He (29M) cut me(23F) off suddenly I met him on tinder. We had been dating for less than 2 months. We had some mutual friends. Some of them warned me against him, as he used to take drugs, etc... But he was intelligent and charming, I loved dating him. The only problem was that he didn't r...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He (29M) cut me (23F) suddenly
0
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/13eklii/he_29m_cut_me_23f_suddenly/
throwawaydates69
2023-08-12 22:41:20
1,691,880,080
0
null
0
15phwkz
true
null
3
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/15phwkz/would_it_be_weird_to_have_include_1_pic_without/
1
So as my eyes have gotten worse i'm wearing my glasses more often. Mainly wear it when i'm outside but i don't wear it when i'm at home or when i eat. So should i include a pic of me without glasses or would it be weird? For example lets say i have like 4 photos of me with glasses and 1 photo with no glasses on my dati...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Would it be weird to have include 1 pic without glasses?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/15phwkz/would_it_be_weird_to_have_include_1_pic_without/
Berubara
2014-11-15 09:32:25
1,416,043,945
0
['tinder', 'okcupid']
0
2md9uq
null
null
7
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2md9uq/clueless_how_do_i_23f_get_a_boyfriend/
3
So I've reached the ripe age of 23 without having any boyfriends. I'm not completely inexperienced: I've dated people for a while, I've had sex partners, but nothing has ever led to a relationship. I also don't have much romantic social skills, I never know what to do or say and seem to get shy very easily in certain s...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Clueless: How do I (23f) get a boyfriend?
3
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2md9uq/clueless_how_do_i_23f_get_a_boyfriend/
Nicenap
2023-09-23 11:36:22
1,695,468,982
0
null
0
16q2938
true
null
24
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/16q2938/what_causes_a_woman_under_25_who_was_previously/
1
I will admit that I am not going out of my way to enthusiastically ask women out right away I have become more cautious and intentional with who I want to take out to save everyone some time. my replies to texts are once every few hours I mostly match their pace or whenever I get around to it when I'm not at work or cl...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What causes a woman under 25 who was previously enthusiastic to suddenly not respond?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/16q2938/what_causes_a_woman_under_25_who_was_previously/
_cAnswer
2022-04-01 10:39:32
1,648,809,572
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
ttnmir
true
null
354
0
/r/AskMen/comments/ttnmir/men_of_reddit_what_do_you_hate_the_most_about/
269
After a really bad relationship, I’ve decided to start dating again and have been looking to get into online dating. I’ve met a few people who’ve had tons of success on dating apps and ended up meeting “the one” while others have had nothing good to say about online dating. Just so I know what I’m getting myself in to ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Men of Reddit, what do you hate the most about dating apps?
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/ttnmir/men_of_reddit_what_do_you_hate_the_most_about/
Noloveloss33
2021-12-20 02:25:19
1,639,967,119
null
['online dating']
0
rkccjl
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/rkccjl/why_is_online_dating_this_way/
1
So after being single and working on my life for a couple years I decide last few months I would get back into the dating scene I'm not a very social person I don't go out with friends anymore I work really hard and study even harder I thought maybe online dating is the way to go I'm a very genuine person but it seems ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Why is online dating this way
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rkccjl/why_is_online_dating_this_way/
Conscious-Ad-3430
2021-01-26 07:19:12
1,611,645,552
null
['swiping', 'dating app']
0
l58sgw
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/l58sgw/an_adult_ig_account_follows_my_date_and_he/
0
Hi guys, this is my first time posting here, so there could be rules here I am not aware of. If there are, pls lmk. Background: I (24[F]) have been casually dating this guy (Guy A 24[M]) from a dating app for two months, and I know since it is only casual, I really don't get to say or do anything when he continues swip...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
An adult IG account follows my date and he follows back
null
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/l58sgw/an_adult_ig_account_follows_my_date_and_he/
SuperMeatBoi
2012-07-26 06:57:14
1,343,285,834
2
['online dating', 'okcupid']
null
x6fq8
null
null
2
null
/r/dating/comments/x6fq8/going_on_a_first_date_in_downtown_portland_oregon/
3
I've decided to stop sulking and get out and do something. Because I work from home, online dating made sense. Well, after mass messaging and using what little charm I have, two girls want to meet up for a date. The problem is, I have no idea where to take each of them I know nothing about downtown Portland, which is t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Going on a first date in Downtown Portland, Oregon with someone I met on OKCupid. I know absolutely nothing about downtown or places to go there. Help!
5
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/x6fq8/going_on_a_first_date_in_downtown_portland_oregon/
Beneficial-Royal-789
2024-06-27 14:31:06
1,719,498,666
0
['dating apps', 'dating site']
0
1dpsoyg
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dpsoyg/texting_anxiety/
1
I believe I may have some sort of texting anxiety/insecurity when it comes to matching with someone on a dating site. I (25M) haven't been in a relationship for like 3 years and have been dating actively for past 4-5 months. I've not had a great success apart from going on 4-5 dates but none of them led to a second one...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Texting anxiety
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dpsoyg/texting_anxiety/
telemachos90210
2023-01-23 00:46:36
1,674,434,796
null
['dating app', 'dating apps', 'bumble', 'hinge', 'okcupid']
0
10izd7j
true
Question ❓
25
0
/r/dating/comments/10izd7j/preferred_dating_app_site_for_college_professors/
0
I've been using dating apps for a while (Hinge, Bumble, Match, OKCupid) and have found that people with PhDs are few and far between. What is the dating app or site of choice for college professors?
dating
t5_2qhb1
Preferred dating app / site for college professors or people with PhDs?
null
0.47
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/10izd7j/preferred_dating_app_site_for_college_professors/
kindofaburneraccount
2018-08-10 20:44:47
1,533,933,887
null
['dating apps']
0
96aoey
true
null
3
0
/r/dating/comments/96aoey/flirting_on_snapchat_but_thats_it/
1
[M/23] This is kind of weird but it’s happened to me a lot lately so I wanted to vent about it.. I’ve had multiple girls that I met through dating apps send me pretty suggestive pictures without me asking, but then when I ask them if they want to make plans hang out sometime I get ghosted? I think it’s just a random th...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Flirting on Snapchat but that’s it?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/96aoey/flirting_on_snapchat_but_thats_it/
dayglow-orange
2021-11-09 10:45:14
1,636,454,714
null
['tinder']
0
qq12ac
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qq12ac/guy_23_i_23f_went_on_a_date_with_and_rejected_in/
6
A guy from Tinder I went on a date with followed me on Instagram and I begin to wonder if I may have made a mistake rejecting him. First of all, he was 40 minutes late. It wasn't his fault but I was upset he didn't seem to think it was that big of a deal. Other than that, the date went smoothly, we had a lot in common ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy (23) I (23f) went on a date with (and rejected) in June 2020 just followed me on Instagram
null
0.75
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qq12ac/guy_23_i_23f_went_on_a_date_with_and_rejected_in/
deanzino
2019-02-01 05:01:22
1,548,997,282
null
['tinder']
0
alyk22
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/alyk22/scared_to_meet_up_with_tinder_match/
3
So I've been talking to this guy since last September and I've just been brushing away the idea of meeting up with him. I honestly can't believe that we still contact each other but for the past few weeks or so, I've been the one to contact him. I'm positive that the reason why I'm so scared is that I'm afraid that I w...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Scared to meet up with Tinder Match
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/alyk22/scared_to_meet_up_with_tinder_match/
Chilloutpls
2023-12-08 16:20:03
1,702,052,403
0
['tinder']
0
18dqdhx
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18dqdhx/old_bf_23_from_kindergarten_and_i_23f_reunited/
4
(When I was kindergarten I “dated” this boy as much as a kindergartener does lol. I moved and we lost contact but I always remembered him.) Recently I moved back home and was on tinder and found him by chance. The only issue is we’ve been texting for a month and getting him to talk on the phone (bc fears it may be hard...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Old BF [23] from kindergarten and I [23F] reunited but he lies over little things and has a bunch of excuses. Is there any chance he could be candid or am I walking into a bad situation?
4
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18dqdhx/old_bf_23_from_kindergarten_and_i_23f_reunited/
Psychological_Oil542
2024-06-30 19:55:17
1,719,777,317
0
['matched']
0
1ds9zcd
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ds9zcd/boyfriend_with_depression/
1
I would like to know how to be less frustrated. I (35F) have been with my boyfriend (37M) for a little over a month. We recently matched online after having dated previously in 2018. It didn’t work out then due to issues not related to his depression that I will not be going into. That’s been settled. I like him very m...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Boyfriend with depression
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ds9zcd/boyfriend_with_depression/
TheAce5
2023-11-16 22:14:33
1,700,172,873
0
['hinge']
0
17wz2p0
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17wz2p0/she_31f_doesnt_feel_a_connection_with_me_30m/
6
We only went on 4 dates with her and we met on hinge. She’s a little different and I’m trying to figure out if she’s always like that or if she’s just excited around me. She is a doctor. At the end of date 1 she told me she was really liking me and had a great time. I was her first hinge date. Sweet I liked that. 2nd d...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
She (31f) doesn’t feel a connection with me (30m)
6
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17wz2p0/she_31f_doesnt_feel_a_connection_with_me_30m/
Nova_McGarden77
2024-07-16 02:53:20
1,721,098,400
0
['dating apps']
0
1e4dwms
true
null
10
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4dwms/how_do_i_meet_a_girl_that_wants_to_put_as_much/
1
So I'm an 18 y/o lesbian and demisexual, going into my first year of college in about 6 weeks, in another state 4 hours away. I doubt I can find someone in my freshman year, I'm way too antisocial. I tried dating apps but no one seems to pay attention to their accounts anymore because nothing happens when I message peo...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How do I meet a girl that wants to put as much effort into a relationship as I do
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4dwms/how_do_i_meet_a_girl_that_wants_to_put_as_much/
datfacedoe
2014-04-02 19:26:02
1,396,466,762
0
['tinder']
0
221djy
null
null
23
null
/r/AskMen/comments/221djy/am_i_a_bad_person_for_wanting_him_to_change/
1
so some background information, I was in a relationship for 5 years, engaged the last year. We broke up due to cheating on his part. I have been single since May. Due to my busy schedule I thought I'd give tinder a try, mostly for just hooking up but I found the most amazing man. It has only been a month at this point ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
Am I a bad person for wanting him to change? Advice Please.
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/221djy/am_i_a_bad_person_for_wanting_him_to_change/
Aneiki1987
2018-02-13 02:34:04
1,518,489,244
null
['dating apps']
0
7x689h
false
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7x689h/lonely_guy_venting/
2
I’m a 30 year old gay guy, I’m about 6”2 and I don’t think I’m completely unattractive. I’m a chubby guy, currently around 120kg - I’ve been overweight most of my life, I ended up getting down to 70kg when I was about 25, but I did it the wrong way and the weight came back. I’m trying again but it’s a slow process I’m ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Lonely guy venting
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7x689h/lonely_guy_venting/
roba2686
2018-12-04 14:28:15
1,543,933,695
null
['bumble']
0
a314ty
true
I Need Advice
12
0
/r/dating/comments/a314ty/invited_on_second_date_at_a_party_at_her_place/
1
Hey folks I had a first date (met on Bumble and have been chatting for a little over a week) last night that went really well. We went to a local brewery here in Raleigh, had a beer each, chatted for a couple of hours, hit it off really well, and kissed goodnight. She's invited me to an ugly Christmas sweater party at ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Invited on second date at a party at her place out of town. Hotel or no?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/a314ty/invited_on_second_date_at_a_party_at_her_place/
CardiacCatt
2023-09-01 14:35:24
1,693,578,924
0
['dating apps']
0
1678v64
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1678v64/what_can_i_do/
1
im going to jump to the point first: what else can i do to raise my self esteem/confidence? now before all those who read that spout the usual self-help stuff: (any advice is still appreciated) - yes ive done gym stuff, ive lost 15lbs but im not muscular or lean just average - yes ive cultivated my hobbies and things i...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
what can i do?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1678v64/what_can_i_do/
romicuoi
2024-02-20 17:57:56
1,708,451,876
0
['online dating']
0
1avo36i
true
I Need Advice 😩
47
0
/r/dating/comments/1avo36i/should_i_bother_dating_when_i_have_nothing/
17
I'm looking for a realistic perspective about my life. I'm 29 f and been single for a while. I was looking to date and find a partner but unfortunately I've been hit by the recent wave of layoffs so I'm not doing well financially and mentally because of the lack of a job. I'm feeling rather ashamed and at my age I feel...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Should I bother dating when I have nothing?
17
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1avo36i/should_i_bother_dating_when_i_have_nothing/
ThomasJ6274
2024-03-12 20:45:39
1,710,276,339
0
['dating apps']
0
1bd82c6
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1bd82c6/exchanging_numbers_before_meeting_up/
1
I was just wondering how everyone felt about exchanging numbers ? I have met up with many people from various dating apps. Before I have met up, I usually will exchange numbers and often give a call and talk on the phone. Normally this isn't an issue and there have been a few times where the phone call was eh and the c...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Exchanging numbers before meeting up ?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1bd82c6/exchanging_numbers_before_meeting_up/
getittogether88
2020-02-19 14:25:15
1,582,122,315
null
['dating apps']
0
f6bbzu
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/f6bbzu/do_i_not_have_a_date_or/
3
Fairly new to dating apps, and talked to a guy all day yesterday who piled on the compliments and witty repartee ending with us setting a place and time for meeting today, except I woke up in the morning and he unmatched me and is completely gone. This means the date’s cancelled, right?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Do I not have a date or...?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/f6bbzu/do_i_not_have_a_date_or/
beau2pro
2022-03-01 20:57:17
1,646,168,237
null
['dating app']
0
t4i55h
true
null
42
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/t4i55h/am_i_making_a_big_deal_about_my_date_overthinking/
40
Background: M(22) I met this girl a couple months ago on a dating app and we have met up once, it went well and we both agreed to meet again soon. Am I making a big deal of something that is natural in dating? This girl I've been talking to overthinks everything, and I mean everything. She has been in abusive relations...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Am I making a big deal about my date overthinking everything?
null
0.92
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/t4i55h/am_i_making_a_big_deal_about_my_date_overthinking/
BMAL-1
2021-02-10 13:57:48
1,612,965,468
null
['tinder']
0
lgu570
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/lgu570/advice_needed_on_how_to_end_what_i_interpret_as_a/
2
Hi everyone, Maybe this is a stupid post and perhaps the answer is very obvious (i.e. tell the truth). But here it goes, I'm (M27) looking for advice on how to end an implicitly casual relationship with a girl (F24, let's call her L) because I have met someone else (F27, let's call her M) recently who I want to focus f...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Advice needed on how to end what I interpret as a casual relationship
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/lgu570/advice_needed_on_how_to_end_what_i_interpret_as_a/
BlackberryAny7171
2023-07-26 00:21:37
1,690,330,897
0
['dating apps']
0
159q5ht
false
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/159q5ht/its_been_about_3_years_since_ive_had_sex_or_been/
1
Since it’s been so long I’ve kind of developed anxiety with pretty women now. I’ve never had this problem before. What can I do to get back in the game? There’s a few women at my job that like me but I can’t speak to them because I’m worried about what I say I mean I’m at work and it’s 2023 I’m not trying to get fired....
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
It’s been about 3 years since I’ve had sex or been in a relationship.
1
0.5
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/159q5ht/its_been_about_3_years_since_ive_had_sex_or_been/
mothermay0217
2021-03-07 23:03:20
1,615,158,200
null
['online dating']
0
m01zu5
true
I Need Advice
4
0
/r/dating/comments/m01zu5/i_just_want_to_find_love_again_and_be_happy/
2
I was in a terrible toxic and emotionally abusive relationship for 6 years with who I thought was (and probably is) the love of my life. He made me so happy, until he didn’t. I felt like the most beautiful person in the world with so much confidence, until he broke me down. I’m now a single mom and it fcking hurts. I m...
dating
t5_2qhb1
I just want to find love again and be happy, finally. Doesn’t feel like it will ever happen.
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/m01zu5/i_just_want_to_find_love_again_and_be_happy/
BigEnergy07
2023-09-03 03:52:41
1,693,713,161
0
['dating apps']
0
168mqp8
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/168mqp8/whats_better_right_now_go_out_and_find_a_women/
1
M27.. I don't mean purely hookup. But like short term dating.. Specifically EU
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What's better right now? Go out and find a women for sex or just try dating apps and fb and whatnot?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/168mqp8/whats_better_right_now_go_out_and_find_a_women/
[deleted]
2014-08-04 22:05:47
1,407,189,947
0
['dating site']
0
2cmopb
null
null
3
null
/r/dating_advice/comments/2cmopb/girl_goes_cold_on_me_for_no_reason/
1
I've been speaking to a girl from a dating site for a few weeks now, we went for our first date at the weekend, and ended up having an impromptu second date at my place the next day. Things seemed pretty good, she seemed very content to be with me, and there was a definite spark. We did fool around a little on the seco...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girl goes cold on me for no reason
1
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/2cmopb/girl_goes_cold_on_me_for_no_reason/
CirclingSiren
2021-05-17 23:37:43
1,621,294,663
null
['matched', 'tinder', 'bumble']
0
nevcjs
true
I Need Advice
13
0
/r/dating/comments/nevcjs/how_to_take_a_breath_after_a_date_that_went_too/
26
Yuh hi guys. I really need some advice. There's a tl;dr at the bottom. Yesterday I went on a wonderful date. Let's call him Tom. Tom is wonderful. Met him on Bumble but had to let him know I was pursuing something else (that fell through, hehe. Guy turned out to be jerk). I later matched with him on Tinder and we hit i...
dating
t5_2qhb1
How to take a breath after a date that went TOO well?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/nevcjs/how_to_take_a_breath_after_a_date_that_went_too/
DomnLee
2022-07-26 17:19:25
1,658,855,965
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
w8pg2y
true
null
27
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/w8pg2y/question_for_the_ladies_about_a_first_date_idea/
26
I matched with a girl on bumble and we hit it off pretty much immediately. We’ve spoke on the phone for a couple hours and have set up a first date. The thing is she wants to hang out after 11pm when she gets off work. She super into space and stars and she’s aware where I work which is in public safety and I really do...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Question for the ladies about a first date idea
null
0.93
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w8pg2y/question_for_the_ladies_about_a_first_date_idea/
Scuba_Illuminati
2022-03-27 20:23:46
1,648,412,626
null
['swiped', 'dating site', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'okcupid']
0
tpsced
true
Question
16
0
/r/dating/comments/tpsced/dating_is_now_a_competitive_sport/
0
So from what I understand, nowadays, dating is basically a sport, maybe even a hobby or career. Some things I've learned lately. These are honest to goodness questions I have, but seems to be the case and I've been told all of these by both men and women. You absolutely cannot be friends with someone first. A long time...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Dating is now a competitive sport.
null
0.42
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/tpsced/dating_is_now_a_competitive_sport/
whatishappening04
2022-02-22 11:59:24
1,645,531,164
null
['tinder']
0
sylvw2
true
I Need Advice
25
0
/r/dating/comments/sylvw2/what_do_guys_want_to_see_on_girls_tinder_profiles/
11
i made an accnt but don’t know what kind of stuff to put in my bio, i don’t want to give away too much abt myself but i also don’t want to seem boring i’m 18 and in college btw
dating
t5_2qhb1
What do guys want to see on girls tinder profiles?
null
0.83
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/sylvw2/what_do_guys_want_to_see_on_girls_tinder_profiles/
dkmjr
2022-10-06 20:46:07
1,665,089,167
null
['matches', 'matched']
0
xxftlp
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/xxftlp/i_matched_on_an_app_with_a_girl_who_i_found_out/
1
As the title says, this is my conundrum. Based on feedback from people IRL and online, I have decided to go forward with date plans. For background I don't get likes matches on the apps to begin with really, why, I'm not entirely sure. I matched with this girl, she seemed pretty attractive in her face, and in one group...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I matched on an app with a girl who I found out has a mobility disability. I am wondering how best to handle this as neither the pictures nor the bio alluded to this
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xxftlp/i_matched_on_an_app_with_a_girl_who_i_found_out/
Aggressive_Industry1
2021-04-24 05:48:03
1,619,243,283
null
['matches', 'swipe', 'OLD']
0
mxdoth
true
Question
135
0
/r/datingoverforty/comments/mxdoth/is_law_enforcement_an_auto_left_swipe/
26
I’m big on honesty with OLD profiles, age, relationship status, kids, etc. I’m just curious if stating I’m a cop on my profile is costing me matches with interesting women. I’m not ashamed of what I do, I love my job and the people I work with. I just don’t identify with most cops, don’t share most political view point...
datingoverforty
t5_su6ij
Is Law Enforcement an auto left swipe?
null
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/mxdoth/is_law_enforcement_an_auto_left_swipe/
aaaperolspritzzz
2024-01-18 18:53:04
1,705,603,984
0
['matches', 'swipe', 'tinder', 'bumble', 'hinge']
0
199xkne
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/199xkne/best_way_to_meet_people_in_midlate_20s/
1
i (26f) have struggled with dating and meeting guys my whole life. didn’t have my first kiss til i was 19, never been in a real relationship, etc etc. my luck with men is abysmal. i’m on hinge, tinder, and bumble; and i get very few likes and no matches. i go out quite frequently, sometimes alone, and no one approaches...
dating
t5_2qhb1
best way to meet people in mid/late 20s?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/199xkne/best_way_to_meet_people_in_midlate_20s/
rlfalcetta
2018-05-09 01:42:31
1,525,830,151
0
['tinder']
0
8i28h4
false
null
115
0
/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/8i28h4/this_sounds_silly_but_im_actually_tormented_by/
22
Hey folks! When I got a reddit, I quickly found out about the various incel communities. Ever since I originally went through the content, I’ve been becoming more and more paranoid. I keep coming across self proclaimed incels on reddit and get curious and read their post history. It hurts me so much to read what the sa...
TwoXChromosomes
t5_2r2jt
This sounds silly, but I’m actually tormented by this thought...
22
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/8i28h4/this_sounds_silly_but_im_actually_tormented_by/
animewhitewolf
2019-06-01 14:29:47
1,559,399,387
null
['tinder']
0
bvldm9
true
null
3
0
/r/dating/comments/bvldm9/dont_know_where_to_start/
1
So I've recently decided I want to try dating after some time off. I took a year off so I could work some stuff out. I now feel better and would like to try to meet someone nice, have some fun and get setious if the girl is right. I've tried Tinder, but it hasn't really worked out. I'm also a bit of an introvert, so I ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Don't Know Where To Start
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/bvldm9/dont_know_where_to_start/
notunphased
2024-01-10 05:35:24
1,704,864,924
0
['matched']
0
1930t98
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1930t98/got_a_date_but_messages_have_gotten_stale/
1
Hello, I (M24) have a date this Saturday (F22). We matched yesterday and had decent conversation getting to know each other (same school, both STEM, etc). Since we continued talking today, I asked her out and she agreed. Which is great and all but I cant help but notice that her responses are sometimes stale. I feel li...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Got a date, but messages have gotten stale…
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1930t98/got_a_date_but_messages_have_gotten_stale/
TeachTraditional5751
2024-02-02 18:59:01
1,706,900,341
0
['dating apps', 'bumble']
0
1ahb9iu
true
null
9
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ahb9iu/how_many_dating_apps_are_you_using_is_it/
1
I am going to be getting back onto the dating apps. I am wondering if I need to be on all of them or is say like just being on bumble good enough?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
How many dating apps are you using? Is it necessary to be on all of them?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ahb9iu/how_many_dating_apps_are_you_using_is_it/
mysterious_mistr-x
2018-02-09 05:07:59
1,518,152,879
null
['dating app']
0
7wb7ku
false
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/7wb7ku/should_i_send_her_something_for_valentines_day/
2
Hey Everyone Me(M22) Her (F19) So I met this girl on a dating app and we texted constantly for an entire week. To give some backstory about her, She just got out of a long term relationship with the only guy she has ever dated who ended up cheating on her about 2 months ago. We eventually went on a date and things went...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Should I send her something for Valentine's Day?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7wb7ku/should_i_send_her_something_for_valentines_day/
Anna45554
2020-05-28 05:41:24
1,590,644,484
null
['online dating']
0
gs0d1i
true
Other
4
0
/r/dating/comments/gs0d1i/may_i_share_my_story/
0
Weeks ago, I got out of a dating website. I had used it for months, and during the time of using it, I met quite many guys, and of course, none of them gave me the best interest that I wanted from a person. At that moment, I felt like this dating place is becoming useless for me, then all of a sudden, I met him. Let's ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
May I share my story?
null
0.25
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gs0d1i/may_i_share_my_story/
MariaAntonietta89
2020-10-22 15:02:02
1,603,378,922
null
['dating apps']
0
jg19f7
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/jg19f7/give_me_hope/
12
I know that ask for advice on the internet isn’t the best, but I’m in a limb. It’s been a while since I don’t date (or have sex) with anyone, for my personal choice to regain some self confidence and stabili (my last encounters were pretty toxic). Unfortunately, since one month, I’m severely craving for love and affect...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
give me hope
null
0.88
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/jg19f7/give_me_hope/
MalibuBarbie15
2024-05-02 16:28:47
1,714,667,327
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
1cik12n
true
I Need Advice 😩
10
0
/r/dating/comments/1cik12n/tinder_date_didnt_show_up/
2
I 33F matched with a 25M on Tinder. He started flirting with me right from the moment we matched. He asked for my number and we used to text every day. There was a great chemistry and he was very charming. I felt that thrill and excitement in my life with him. The date night was yesterday and he planned it 5 days in ad...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Tinder date didn’t show up
2
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1cik12n/tinder_date_didnt_show_up/
purplenurple67
2019-12-02 19:53:17
1,575,316,397
null
['swiped']
0
e54f1j
true
null
6
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/e54f1j/wife_is_probably_leaving_need_help/
1
I am new to reddit and I’m not sure if this is the best place to post this or not but I need some serious advice and am not sure where to turn. My wife and I have been married for almost 7 years. We have always had some bumps here and there, but generally have done well with each other. We have two kids together under ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Wife is probably leaving— need help
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/e54f1j/wife_is_probably_leaving_need_help/
BookWorm1004
2024-08-16 13:58:15
1,723,816,695
0
null
0
1etphoj
true
null
176
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1etphoj/what_are_your_immediate_noswipe_lefts/
26
No matter how deep or shallow the reason, what is something in people's pictures or bios that immediately makes you swipe left?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
What are your immediate no/swipe lefts?
26
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1etphoj/what_are_your_immediate_noswipe_lefts/
CherriesandWine15
2024-09-19 00:18:48
1,726,705,128
0
['bumble']
0
1fk7u6c
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1fk7u6c/when_to_ask_about_dating_other_people/
2
I (31F) started dating someone (33M) I met on Bumble about 3 weeks ago. We have date number 5 this weekend. I know it’s only been a few weeks and I absolutely do not want to rush into anything, but I’m wondering when it would be a good time to ask about dating other people/exclusivity? He got out of a 1-year relationsh...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
When to ask about dating other people?
2
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1fk7u6c/when_to_ask_about_dating_other_people/
galdutro
2019-02-21 17:45:47
1,550,771,147
null
['matched', 'tinder']
0
at61d4
true
null
5
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/at61d4/help_needed/
2
So... I am talking to this girl I matched on Tinder. She seems pretty cool and responds well to the mensagens I send her. But, every time I suggest that we should go out, she does not respond to that, even though she said once that she liked me and wanted to go out with me someday.
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Help needed.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/at61d4/help_needed/
singrp233
2024-07-16 17:39:03
1,721,151,543
0
['matched']
0
1e4usr3
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4usr3/havent_seen_her_in_a_month_but_still_cant_stop/
1
I matched with this girl on an app in March. She lives 2 hours away but we kept in touch occasionally sending each other messages. A month ago I was in her city and asked if she wanted to hang out so we met for dinner. We spent hours together laughing and talking that night. The chemistry was great. We just clicked ins...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Haven’t seen her in a month but still can’t stop thinking about her?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1e4usr3/havent_seen_her_in_a_month_but_still_cant_stop/
NoUserNameCameToMind
2019-08-15 01:05:29
1,565,831,129
null
['online dating', 'dating apps']
0
cqiwn8
true
null
11
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/cqiwn8/does_online_dating_work/
2
I don't mean dating apps, I mean meeting someone online and talking with them online before deciding to meet. Pretty much a LDR but in my case it is easier to meet because we live in the same country, around 500km apart, so I can afford to meet. How can it work though? Through continuous meeting? What about talking onl...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Does online dating work?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cqiwn8/does_online_dating_work/
singleAF_101
2017-10-24 05:47:05
1,508,824,025
null
['dating app']
0
78dt05
false
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/78dt05/i_m26_am_seeing_someone_older_f31_and_i_feel_lost/
1
I met her through a dating app and we've been on 2 dates so far. We are both super into travel and hiking and spent most of our two dates talking about our travel experiences. We had a great time and lost tracking time over both dates and ended up spending 3 hours just talking. Last sunday, she went cold out of the blu...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I (m26) am seeing someone older (f31) - And I feel lost !
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/78dt05/i_m26_am_seeing_someone_older_f31_and_i_feel_lost/
FirsToStrike
2020-10-10 13:43:21
1,602,337,401
null
['online dating', 'tinder', 'okcupid']
0
j8kpb1
true
Tinder/Online Dating
102
0
/r/dating/comments/j8kpb1/are_most_people_basic/
33
I have recently gone back on the "dating market" after 2 years of LDR with someone who was fairly likeminded, and the options I see on OKCupid are just appalling. I'm not talking about looks, there's many attractive girls out there, but personality- where exactly is it? Why so little of it? I can acknowledge an online ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Are most people basic?
null
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/j8kpb1/are_most_people_basic/
SeekedSwan
2024-01-06 16:32:34
1,704,558,754
0
['tinder']
0
1903rqa
true
I Need Advice 😩
2
0
/r/dating/comments/1903rqa/nearly_26_year_old_guy_and_no_serious/
5
So I’m approaching my 26th birthday and I’ve yet to have a serious relationship relationship. The only definable “relationships” I had were when I was 17 and 19 and were both three months. The rest of my sexual encounters have just been casual or ONS mainly at university with the exception of one tinder date since. A r...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Nearly 26 year old guy and no serious relationship but have dated/casual - advice needed!
5
0.78
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1903rqa/nearly_26_year_old_guy_and_no_serious/
R_m3adows
2022-09-14 23:15:48
1,663,197,348
null
['tinder']
0
xegfqt
true
I Need Advice 😩
4
0
/r/dating/comments/xegfqt/need_dating_advice_for_second_date/
1
So I (M22) have been speaking with someone (M24) that I met on tinder. He’s new to the whole same sex dating and I’ve been out of the game since I was 18 as I had a partner for 3 1/2 years. The conversation has been going smooth, similar interests, my type on paper for sure. We eventually went on a date 2 weeks ago and...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Need dating advice for second date
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/xegfqt/need_dating_advice_for_second_date/
hellothere564738
2022-01-12 06:04:49
1,641,967,489
null
['dating app']
0
s1z129
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/s1z129/please_help_i_cant_tell_if_this_guy_is_interested/
1
First off, I was never in a relationship and I have basically no experience flirting. So I (M 19) met this guy (M 18) through a dating app about 12 days ago. Honestly, he's everything I've always looked for. He's attractive, he has my same interests, my same sense of humor, which is very hard to find, especially among ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Please help, I can't tell if this guy is interested in me or not
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/s1z129/please_help_i_cant_tell_if_this_guy_is_interested/
carav3
2024-01-22 03:55:46
1,705,895,746
0
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
19cmllo
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/19cmllo/casual_into_serious/
1
I need some advice! So I met this guy on a dating app a while ago. We had one date, and then didn't talk much after, because he thought I was disinterested (I'm socially awkward at times so I understand why he thought this) but since I liked his personality, I reached out to him to see if he would want to get together ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Casual into serious
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/19cmllo/casual_into_serious/
nerd_cookie
2019-03-25 22:30:42
1,553,553,042
null
['dating apps', 'hinge']
0
b5hh7i
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Question
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/r/dating/comments/b5hh7i/have_i_been_making_this_mistake_this_whole_time/
5
Sort of long; bolded question at bottom. I've (27F) been seriously dating (or trying to) since about July/ August of last year. Like many, I'm using dating apps, primarily Hinge. I realized that conversations, within the app and through texting, tend to stop because of me. Almost 99% of the time it is because I start t...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Have I been making this mistake this whole time?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/b5hh7i/have_i_been_making_this_mistake_this_whole_time/
LadyMaryCrawley91
2018-09-19 12:59:27
1,537,361,967
null
['tinder']
0
9h4xcm
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/9h4xcm/i_want_to_date_this_guy/
2
A week ago I moved to a new city, and a guy I met a few years ago messaged me on Facebook to have brunch, go to the beach, and show me around the city. Of course I accepted. I was so glad he reached out to me, I had such a great time with him today, and I felt so comfortable around him. (Bonus, he is such a good lookin...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I want to date this guy
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9h4xcm/i_want_to_date_this_guy/
random45232
2023-10-30 23:28:42
1,698,708,522
0
null
0
17k6ywt
true
null
44
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/17k6ywt/feeling_so_lost_at_this_experience_what_went_wrong/
1
Went on a 4 hour date with a girl I've been talking to for 2 weeks (she texts me a lot, replies really quick and was interesting to talk to) I asked her on a date after 2 days but she had seemingly valid reasons to stall and she was fun to talk to so I figured whatever So the date comes, things go great, its a meal fol...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Feeling so lost at this experience, what went wrong?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17k6ywt/feeling_so_lost_at_this_experience_what_went_wrong/
Eliza03
2021-08-23 21:34:45
1,629,754,485
null
['online dating']
0
pa9e60
true
null
18
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/pa9e60/catching_feelings_for_a_guy_im_dating_who_is/
3
What do you think about dating guys who are going through a divorce or recently divorced? Has anyone you’ve known ended up in a successful relationship with a recent divorcée? I met this amazing man online (absolutely gorgeous inside and out)…so many characteristics of my dream guy He treats me really well, does not se...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Catching feelings for a guy I’m dating who is going through a divorce…advice needed.
null
0.81
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pa9e60/catching_feelings_for_a_guy_im_dating_who_is/
Human-Accident9911
2023-04-07 22:19:20
1,680,905,960
0
['swipe']
0
12f1kqw
true
null
4
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/12f1kqw/inexperience/
1
So I’ve been looking to start dating, (mainly been doing it online) I’ve only been on one date in the past year and it didn’t go so good. I can’t seem to get pretty much anyone to swipe right on me or communicate with me. Any advice?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Inexperience
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/12f1kqw/inexperience/
[deleted]
2015-02-10 00:57:52
1,423,529,872
0
['tinder']
0
2vd50w
null
null
7
null
/r/dating/comments/2vd50w/guy_im_dating_is_still_using_tinder/
2
I've been dating a guy for about 5 months now. We met on tinder (i know, I know...) but we hit it off and have had a great connection. He basically acts like my boyfriend (takes me out to nice dinners, brings me flowers, buys me nice presents for special occasions) and we have sleepovers at least once a week. We're bot...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Guy I'm dating is still using tinder...
2
null
http://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/2vd50w/guy_im_dating_is_still_using_tinder/
marsenelle
2020-03-14 16:09:02
1,584,202,142
null
['dating app']
0
fikoz0
true
I Need Advice
13
0
/r/dating/comments/fikoz0/never_dated_dont_know_where_to_begin_and_im/
0
I (24F) don't even know why I'm posting this...maybe to get some outside, perspectives. I've never been on a date. Never been kissed, never held hands, nothing. I've had crushes, but have always been too scared to say anything. My mom encouraged me to meet boys, go out and have fun. My dad had a shotgun on the wall and...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Never dated, don't know where to begin, and I'm nervous
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/fikoz0/never_dated_dont_know_where_to_begin_and_im/
TheOnlyOutLast
2023-02-26 21:49:25
1,677,448,165
null
['online dating']
0
11ctsyf
true
I Need Advice 😩
8
0
/r/dating/comments/11ctsyf/im_25_m_and_never_dated_a_woman_in_a_life_to_this/
6
Online dating sounds like a hassle and I try to find a lover naturally through my online friends, but they’re all long distance it seems. It’s hard for me to be happy these days, cause I don’t know if I’m worth the trouble. Any advice here?
dating
t5_2qhb1
I’m 25 (M) and never dated a woman in a life to this point.
null
0.8
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/11ctsyf/im_25_m_and_never_dated_a_woman_in_a_life_to_this/
passionatevirtuoso
2018-08-19 18:03:53
1,534,701,833
null
['bumble']
0
98m6cc
true
null
121
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/98m6cc/is_me_not_wanting_to_have_children_be_a_mom_the/
23
People have said to me quite often I'm a 'strong woman' or I'm intimidatingly smart (though I wonder sometimes it's more a reflection on their own life experiences/values, than a good description of me) Actually, I bumble my way through life figuring things out as I go along, usually landing on my feet more or less, an...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Is me not wanting to have children + be a mom the reason I've had difficulty finding guys who know how to adult? I'm 34F.
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/98m6cc/is_me_not_wanting_to_have_children_be_a_mom_the/
TDubstar
2017-04-07 14:54:36
1,491,576,876
null
['online dating']
0
640v9s
null
null
24
null
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/640v9s/how_to_reconnect/
6
So, I started online dating in the summer, after a pretty shitty breakup. I went on two dates with this amazing girl. I was totally in to her, and she seemed pretty in to me. She broke it off though, as she also recently broke up with someone and said she wasn't over it and wasn't ready to date. Fair enough, I got it, ...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How to re-connect
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/640v9s/how_to_reconnect/
Otherwise-Document63
2024-08-03 10:49:49
1,722,682,189
0
['matches', 'dating apps']
0
1ej0g8j
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1ej0g8j/dating_dilemma_compromises_commitment_and_my_ex/
1
I 27M/ Brahmin/vegetarian(Needed these details for context) and I’m feeling lost in my dating life. I was previously in a relationship where I made it clear from the start that I couldn’t commit because my parents were looking for a Brahmin bride. The relationship, which began based on mutual sexual urges, turned into ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Dating Dilemma – Compromises, Commitment, and My Ex
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1ej0g8j/dating_dilemma_compromises_commitment_and_my_ex/
Utah_CUtiger
2024-06-09 05:15:46
1,717,910,146
0
['bumble']
0
1dbm4r8
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/1dbm4r8/girls_why_would_a_girl_say_something_casual_but/
1
So I've gone on 3 dates with a girl who some years younger than me (she is 21). And she said "something casual" on bumble and even told me on the first date she has been dating people. But yet she also made several hints during the dates about potentially having things be more serious. Which I'm not opposed to actually...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Girls, why would a girl say “something casual” but then make insinuations in dates about more than that?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/1dbm4r8/girls_why_would_a_girl_say_something_casual_but/
nothing5630
2023-12-10 21:27:52
1,702,243,672
0
null
0
18fdvlj
true
null
22
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/18fdvlj/are_all_dating_websites_as_bad_as_tinder_for/
33
are all of them shit or is it just tinder for the average man in the west?
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Are all dating websites as bad as tinder for average men in western countries?
33
0.84
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/18fdvlj/are_all_dating_websites_as_bad_as_tinder_for/
letsgetitsolved201
2023-08-07 10:31:25
1,691,404,285
0
['tinder']
0
15kgtb0
false
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/15kgtb0/randomly_blocked_on_instagram_looking_for_an/
1
Let me preface that this was a casual holiday fling from a few months ago. But she seemed to specifically plan this block and it is causing me confusion, so I wanted to get a girls perspective. I met this girl on Tinder when travelling in a different continent a few months ago, she was from the country and visiting thi...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Randomly Blocked on Instagram, looking for an understanding
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/15kgtb0/randomly_blocked_on_instagram_looking_for_an/
levimarclaire
2019-12-05 04:30:43
1,575,520,243
null
['matched', 'bumble']
0
e6byfx
true
null
20
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e6byfx/how_long_is_too_long_to_text_before_asking_for_a/
5
Hi, looking for feedback and other opinions on this situation. Matched with a woman on Bumble about a month ago. We hit it off pretty well and started the usual conversation/questions. Spoke to her for a few days and indicated that as much as I enjoyed the phone conversation I would eventually want to meet her face-to-...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
How long is too long to text before asking for a date?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/e6byfx/how_long_is_too_long_to_text_before_asking_for_a/
LukeFloof
2024-02-15 20:49:28
1,708,030,168
0
['dating apps']
0
1arpt0d
true
Just Venting 😮‍💨
5
0
/r/dating/comments/1arpt0d/disappointed_by_a_situationship/
1
Surprise surprise. This is just a rant, because I have so many thoughts, and I want to pen them. I think I am disappointed. The guy I'm seeing wanted a fling, I wanted a long term relationship. I caved because I thought I could do a situationship. He was like, "Ok, I'm done meeting random girls, I will focus on you." H...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Disappointed by a situationship
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1arpt0d/disappointed_by_a_situationship/
Fancy-Cicada1894
2023-12-14 00:45:47
1,702,514,747
0
['matched', 'tinder']
0
18hw49w
true
null
14
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/18hw49w/is_he_just_not_interested/
1
So I(20f) matched with this guy on tinder and we’ve been texting for a couple days. I asked him if he wanted to go out and he responded “ I would love that but im currently broke😂i went xmas shopping😂…..” Is he just letting me down gently or?
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Is he just not interested?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/18hw49w/is_he_just_not_interested/
greengrass419
2023-09-07 22:40:00
1,694,126,400
0
['dating apps']
0
16csy77
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16csy77/im_a_f26_constantly_being_rejected_by_m27_after/
1
I am a 26 year old female f(26) that is about 80% of the time rejected by the m(27) guy after going on dates. I am looking for feedback on how to have a more successful dating outcome and how to not feel badly about this, as I am at the point where I don’t understand why I am constantly rejected. When I say rejected, I...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I’m a f(26) constantly being rejected by m(27) after dates. Is there a reason for this?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16csy77/im_a_f26_constantly_being_rejected_by_m27_after/
sc253
2019-02-16 01:23:37
1,550,280,217
null
['tinder']
0
ar3qp9
true
null
31
0
/r/dating/comments/ar3qp9/went_on_a_date_found_out_he_has_kids_how_do_i/
20
Went on a tinder date and guy seemed great but he has two kids (18mos and 3 yr old). Nothing in his profile stated that. He wants to go out on a second date but I’m hesitant because kids are a deal breaker. I’m 32, he’s 34, I don’t want kids and never have. I thought I could get past it but that’s all I kept thinking a...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Went on a date, found out he has kids. How do I tell him it’s a deal breaker?
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/ar3qp9/went_on_a_date_found_out_he_has_kids_how_do_i/
nahallgoodthanks
2019-10-21 12:23:55
1,571,660,635
null
['tinder']
0
dkzrcs
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/dkzrcs/ghosted/
1
Ok so a bit of backstory I’d been chatting with this guy on an app for a three weeks and one day we finally decided to meet up. I’ll have you know we were intoxicated (not to a worrying degree) and he came over and we just cuddled and kissed ONCE. But he was way more affectionate than I am used to. Towards the morning ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ghosted
null
null
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dkzrcs/ghosted/
jtfhjfjftitijf
2022-03-10 13:21:51
1,646,918,511
null
['online dating']
1
tayjdh
true
null
1,988
1
/r/AskMen/comments/tayjdh/how_do_you_not_feel_dehumanised_when_dating_im/
11,646
I’m really just exhausted of having to tick everyone’s arbitrary boxes when online dating and never really being on the receiving end of any initial gestures. I feel like there’s a huge push to prove that I’m not a creep and that I’m actually someone worth caring for and after a while it’s gotten to me. It’s made me a ...
AskMen
t5_2s30g
How do you not feel dehumanised when dating? I’m tired of proving I’m someone worth loving and not a creep or a loser
null
0.89
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/tayjdh/how_do_you_not_feel_dehumanised_when_dating_im/
Visibledoughnutt
2023-09-08 13:23:56
1,694,179,436
0
['dating app']
0
16dajq7
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/16dajq7/went_on_a_first_date_with_a_therapist_and_felt/
1
Went on a first date with a Therapist and it felt like an interview Recently, I (25M) went on my first date in years after talking to this girl (26F) on a dating app. We set a time for dinner and both arrived on time. The food was excellent… but I digress. We exchange pleasantries and a quick greeting hug. After being ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Went on a First Date with a Therapist and felt judged the whole time
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/16dajq7/went_on_a_first_date_with_a_therapist_and_felt/
ScaredPerson22
2023-02-06 21:33:41
1,675,719,221
null
['dating apps']
0
10vivyg
true
null
2
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/10vivyg/success_rate_of_first_dates/
1
Hello, I (M21) have been to 5 first dates in the past few months (through dating apps), with no further development (2nd,3rd etc. date). Most of the people I had the dates with (with one exception), I wanted to have further dates, but they didn't show any interest (at least I don't think so, I'm not sure). So I was won...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Success rate of first dates
null
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/10vivyg/success_rate_of_first_dates/
IndependentAd349
2023-11-06 01:37:32
1,699,234,652
0
['bumble']
0
17orkyv
true
null
3
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/17orkyv/text_response_time/
1
I met a girl on bumble. After a great first date, I gave her my number. Before, we were exclusively talking on the app. On the app she would take a while to respond, about 12 hours sometimes. Now that we’re texting, should I continue to match her response time? I am sure she is into me. I just don’t want to ruin anythi...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Text response time?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17orkyv/text_response_time/
neverend1ngcircles
2024-03-01 13:59:36
1,709,301,576
0
['matched']
0
1b3uwu0
true
Question ❓
1
0
/r/dating/comments/1b3uwu0/matched_by_oscar_does_anyone_have_experience_with/
2
I'm asking this on behalf of a friend- has anyone used this website? There is no information either way whether it is legitimate or not but there are a ton of red flags- so whilst it's unlikely, I'm wondering if anyone has any stories either way about this.
dating
t5_2qhb1
Matched by Oscar- does anyone have experience with this website?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1b3uwu0/matched_by_oscar_does_anyone_have_experience_with/
throwRA6186646993976
2020-06-06 19:40:24
1,591,472,424
null
['dating sites']
0
gxxkp6
true
null
7
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/gxxkp6/what_if_if22m_just_not_girlfriend_material_and/
10
Throwaway because at least one of the people I’m going to talk about uses reddit regularly. A little bit of a rant but also, in need of advice. I’ve never been in a real relationship. I’ve tried dating sites and it seems like everyone my age either doesn’t want a serious relationship or, they do, but not with me. Over ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
what if I(F22)’m just not girlfriend material? And why does it hurt so badly.
null
0.82
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gxxkp6/what_if_if22m_just_not_girlfriend_material_and/
NewWave93
2021-10-31 02:52:48
1,635,648,768
null
['swiped', 'dating apps']
0
qjgkdc
true
null
12
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/qjgkdc/ladies_and_gents_i_need_help_did_i_make_the_right/
1
Ill be perfectly honest here my dating life has been horrible, haven't seen anyone on the regular since 2019. Im a short average looking guy by short I'm 5'5. I'm also a 28 year old black male. I've been on multiple dating apps for years with little to no luck. I swiped this one girl who stays in my area, as a matter o...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Ladies and gents I need help, did I make the right decision?
null
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/qjgkdc/ladies_and_gents_i_need_help_did_i_make_the_right/
thr_wa_ay
2023-10-17 13:26:50
1,697,549,210
0
['dating app']
0
179yce4
true
null
1
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/179yce4/he_has_a_secret_that_could_destroy_our/
1
Hey everyone. To cut to the chase, I have been talking to a guy for about three weeks now. Met off of a dating app, for context. We attend the same school. I noticed, that he’s secretive, in a very subtle way. Last night, I found out why. He said he was stressed and I told him that he needs to find a way to alleviate h...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
He has a secret that could destroy our relationship. I’m gobsmacked.
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/179yce4/he_has_a_secret_that_could_destroy_our/
321ECRAB123
2022-11-05 23:40:22
1,667,691,622
null
['dating app', 'dating apps']
0
ynadmo
true
null
8
0
/r/dating_advice/comments/ynadmo/m19_how_do_you_ask_people_out_in_real_life/
5
Im using dating apps but i also want ti try to meet someone in real life as well but idk how. Im really shy and never talk to people i dont know. Im in college and live on campus so i see plent of people mind their own buisness and i see quite a few i think are cute. Idk the "steps" involved with this. Are you supposed...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
m19 how do you ask people out in real life?
null
0.86
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ynadmo/m19_how_do_you_ask_people_out_in_real_life/
Wolfy_892
2024-08-11 02:34:02
1,723,343,642
0
['matches', 'online dating', 'dating app']
0
1epa1ys
true
I Need Advice 😩
6
0
/r/dating/comments/1epa1ys/is_it_a_red_flag_if_someone_mentions_i_had_oral/
1
Hi, everyone A few months ago, I decided to install a dating app and ended up getting a lot of matches. I decided to go on a date with someone who seemed to be on the same page as me. We had a 5-hour date, but during the second hour, she told me in a very straightforward way that she considered herself a sexual person ...
dating
t5_2qhb1
Is it a red flag if someone mentions "I had oral sex with a stranger 2 weeks ago" during a serious date?
1
0.67
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1epa1ys/is_it_a_red_flag_if_someone_mentions_i_had_oral/
lestrangest
2023-09-23 12:53:04
1,695,473,584
0
['dating apps']
0
16q3sgf
true
I Need Advice 😩
1
0
/r/dating/comments/16q3sgf/why_cant_i_find_any_foreigners_to_date_in_delhi/
1
i'm an indian girl in delhi india 29F. grew up immersed in western and European culture and cant connect with indian men but can't find foreigners on dating apps where are they?
dating
t5_2qhb1
why cant i find any foreigners to date in delhi?
1
1
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/16q3sgf/why_cant_i_find_any_foreigners_to_date_in_delhi/
Short-Guy
2024-04-15 20:46:13
1,713,213,973
0
null
0
1c4x35z
true
null
20
0
/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4x35z/any_short_guys_here_under_54_have_success_with/
12
Alot of people have told me that online dating is useless for short guys. Being 5 feet tall, Ive had no luck with online dating. I alsocheard that the U.S is supposed to be the worst when it comes to online dating and height. I was wondering if it is just my height or if it is something else. Are there guys here around...
OnlineDating
t5_2qpe9
Any short guys here under 5'4" have success with online dating?
12
0.77
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/1c4x35z/any_short_guys_here_under_54_have_success_with/
wmb07
2018-06-10 23:54:36
1,528,674,876
null
['OLD']
0
8q5124
true
null
12
0
/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8q5124/meeting_a_guy_having_a_crush_everything_happening/
8
I can honestly say, I would take a once-in-a-blue-moon situation like I’m about to describe below over 100 crappy OLD experiences. I am a 33f that works in the road construction industry. I’m fairly attractive, fit, but since my field is heavily male dominated, I dress pretty conservatively in the field and on job site...
datingoverthirty
t5_34cyw
Meeting a guy and having a crush ... everything happening organically. Should I be excited?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/8q5124/meeting_a_guy_having_a_crush_everything_happening/
Top-Speed-673
2023-02-12 20:42:18
1,676,234,538
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110ppyf
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/r/dating_advice/comments/110ppyf/guy_27m_i_24f_dated_doesnt_want_to_put_as_much/
1
Hi, I'm self aware to understand my faults in this situation however I'm wondering if this is something worth pursuing again. Last December I matched with a guy on Hinge, we started talking right away and we both vibed so well. We have so much in common, our values aligned, he was funny, good looking and everything els...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
Guy (27M) I (24F) dated, doesn't want to put as much effort this time around.
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0.6
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/110ppyf/guy_27m_i_24f_dated_doesnt_want_to_put_as_much/
hkxh
2020-03-11 20:08:13
1,583,957,293
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fh3flr
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/r/dating_advice/comments/fh3flr/what_does_it_mean_when_a_male_gives_a_female_a/
7
There’s this guy I’ve been crushing on for a few months and I could feel he might like me too but neither of us makes any real moves towards a bf/gf relationship bc we work together and I may not be ready for a relationship since I wanted alone time and get pretty invested in relationships. We’ve hung out a few times (...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
What does it mean when a male gives a female a pebble?
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/fh3flr/what_does_it_mean_when_a_male_gives_a_female_a/
csali11
2022-01-01 06:44:28
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rtdmil
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/r/dating_advice/comments/rtdmil/i_think_i_experienced_racism_on_a_date_and_it/
0
Hey everyone, 30 Year Old Latina here. I met a guy off of Hinge and we exchanged instagrams. He had been wanting to meet up but I'd honestly been talking to other men. Randomly last night I had nothing to do and responded to his dms, so I went over to his place. We really connected and ended up cuddling and just being ...
dating_advice
t5_2s4kl
I think I experienced racism on a date and it hurts now that I think about it
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0.47
https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/rtdmil/i_think_i_experienced_racism_on_a_date_and_it/