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ejjs0e
The girl next to me in art class found out about me cutting
1b
survey
2
As a little bit of background info, I’m a freshman in high school and I’ve been self harming for a while. I’d rather not say how long but due to it my arms look gnarly. This happened in art class. We were warming up with sketches and stuff, and there’s this girl who I’m friends with, but we aren’t close. We don’t real...
Big-Benis-Boi
369
0
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2020-01-03 18:50:43
selfharm
<es>As a little bit of background info, I’m a freshman in high school and I’ve been self harming for a while.<ee> <es>I’d rather not say how long but due to it my arms look gnarly.<ee> <es>This happened in art class.<ee> <es>We were warming up with sketches and stuff, and there’s this girl who I’m friends with, but we...
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env5d9
Dear T
1b
rant
3
Dear T, I miss you fucking much. The beginning of our relationship was wonderful. I hit the jackpot! A man that cares, helps around the house, makes sure I am ok, and most of all... the first time we kissed I felt a shift in my soul. I knew in that moment you would be the man I spent the rest of my life with. I fell m...
BrokenAshcraft
1
0
18
2020-01-12 23:04:35
addiction
Dear T, <efs>I miss you fucking much.<efe> <es>The beginning of our relationship was wonderful.<ee> <es>I hit the jackpot!<ee> <es>A man that cares, helps around the house, makes sure I am ok, and most of all... the first time we kissed I felt a shift in my soul.<ee> <es>I knew in that moment you would be the man I sp...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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eikose
How to Cope with Routines Changing?
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help-seeking
1
I have a habit of overdoing things. A few recent examples: I got a fitbit a few years ago and in the beginning I would have to walk 15,000 steps a day, the number changes every few months since then. I challenged myself to run more so for 5 days i ran 3 miles a day until i ended up spraining my quad muscle. Two mo...
ItsOnlyKaren
1
0
0
2020-01-01 17:13:10
mentalillness
<es>I have a habit of overdoing things.<ee> A few recent examples: I got a fitbit a few years ago and in the beginning I would have to walk 15,000 steps a day, the number changes every few months since then. <es>I challenged myself to run more so for 5 days i ran 3 miles a day until i ended up spraining my quad mus...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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how does the negative emotions make you feel
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eiw45t
I relate to this so much..
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chitchat
1
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Mysteriously7
1
0
48
2020-01-02 09:26:27
socialanxiety
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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random
true
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eigbr4
I’m struggling not to cut. Plz help
0
rant
4
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chelseakk6804
1
0
3
2020-01-01 08:55:26
selfharm
<es>I’m struggling not to cut.<ee> Plz help
1
0
0
Can you elaborate more on X ?
why you cut yourself
How did X make you feel?
not cutting yourself
What do you need help with now that X?
you struggling to control the urge to cut yourself
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true
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ejps2e
Feeling guilty for quitting new job after 2.5 months
1a
help-seeking
1
I am 27 and i gave my resignation letter for a job i started 2.5 months ago and now i am feeling really guilty. Since i started that job i never liked the day to day tasks , the systems were too manual and everything was very stressful. Now i am feeling really embarrassed and guilty being in the office these last 2 wee...
sport5411
2
0
4
2020-01-04 01:59:39
socialanxiety
<es>I am 27 and i gave my resignation letter for a job i started 2.5 months ago and now i am feeling really guilty.<ee> <es>Since i started that job i never liked the day to day tasks , the systems were too manual and everything was very stressful.<ee> <efs>Now i am feeling really embarrassed and guilty being in the of...
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febfef
Am hella overweight and depressed over a guy that didn’t love me and caused me many issues but...
1a
rant
1
Found the strength to look around for boxing gyms. Found one nearby and with solid ratings. Before I discovered how powerful love and co-dependency can be I was 14 and doing well, losing fat and boxing but then I somehow slipped into a deep depression and ate myself away after the dude I was with left me for an emo ins...
leenathompkinsquinn
1
0
0
2020-03-06 10:07:02
getting_over_it
<es> Am hella overweight and depressed over a guy that didn’t love me and caused me many issues but...<ee> <es>Found the strength to look around for boxing gyms.<ee> <es>Found one nearby and with solid ratings.<ee> <es>Before I discovered how powerful love and co-dependency can be I was 14 and doing well, losing fat an...
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how the guy not loving you back make you feel
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help you get out of depression
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eih07y
A lifestory and an ode to friendship
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chitchat
4
Just randomly writing down some thoughts that will turn into an ode about friendship. Forgive me for my crappy English at times. I've always been a loner. Ever since I was a kid I never really had friends. I would feel alone as a 7 year old during recess, wandering and wondering why nobody won't come and play with me....
ulyaoth13
1
0
0
2020-01-01 10:28:45
Anxiety
Just randomly writing down some thoughts that will turn into an ode about friendship. Forgive me for my crappy English at times. I've always been a loner. Ever since I was a kid I never really had friends. I would feel alone as a 7 year old during recess, wandering and wondering why nobody won't come and play with me....
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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eicjbl
When your poker face is so good even your own family doesn’t believe the extent of your depression lmao
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rant
1
Happy New Years and may it be my last
UPBOATS-4-U
1
0
54
2020-01-01 02:11:17
depression
<es>When your poker face is so good even your own family doesn’t believe the extent of your depression lmao<ee> Happy New Years and may it be my last
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Can you elaborate more on X ?
your depression
How did X make you feel?
derpression
What do you need help with now that X?
you have depression
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ejgya4
Never forget our favorite Jobros and Jojos....
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chitchat
2
1. Johnathan Joestar (Phantom Menace) 2. Caesar Zeppeli (Battle Tendency) 3. Speedwagon (Battle Tendency) 4. Von Stroheim (Battle Tendency) 5. Abdul (Stardust Crusaders) 6. Iggy (Stardust Crusaders) 7. Kakyoin Noriaki (Stardust Crusaders) 8. Shigechi (Diamond Is Unbreakable) 9. Abbacchio (Golden Wind) 10. Bruno (Golde...
Suicidal_Bisexual
3
0
2
2020-01-03 15:33:43
sad
1. Johnathan Joestar (Phantom Menace) 2. Caesar Zeppeli (Battle Tendency) 3. Speedwagon (Battle Tendency) 4. Von Stroheim (Battle Tendency) 5. Abdul (Stardust Crusaders) 6. Iggy (Stardust Crusaders) 7. Kakyoin Noriaki (Stardust Crusaders) 8. Shigechi (Diamond Is Unbreakable) 9. Abbacchio (Golden Wind) 10. Bruno (Golde...
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ejtygm
How Best to Switch from Oxynorm to Bupronorphine?
0
help-seeking
2
Hi folks - I would like to voluntarily shift from Oxynorm to Buprenorphine. I’ve presently tapered down from a very high intake 32x20mg Oxys a day to 8x20mg. This has taken over a year to do, but I am pleased with myself for persevering. But it’s been really difficult and I am possessed by cravings and the constant pe...
Riffton
1
0
25
2020-01-04 08:11:33
OpiatesRecovery
<es>Hi folks - I would like to voluntarily shift from Oxynorm to Buprenorphine.<ee> <es>I’ve presently tapered down from a very high intake 32x20mg Oxys a day to 8x20mg. <ee> <es>This has taken over a year to do, but I am pleased with myself for persevering.<ee> <efs>But it’s been really difficult and I am possessed by...
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oxynorm
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ei8ehk
I've had the worst new year ever
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rant
1
That's all. I've just had the worst new year ever.
imgonnabeoksoon
1
0
1
2019-12-31 20:31:50
depression
That's all. <es>I've just had the worst new year ever.<ee>
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0
0
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how was your new year bad
How did X make you feel?
the new year
What do you need help with now that X?
you have had a bad new year
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ei9fjw
ADHD New Years Epic Fail Bro
1a
chitchat
2
i saw some sparklers at the store and i thought wow this would be cute and fun to buy too bad I won’t have anything to use it for not like theres a celebration soon tHE DAY. BEFORE oUr NEW YEAR EVE PARTY WHAT THE F CU K SHDJDJSJ I KNEW the party was happening, I knew it was new years eve the next day, and that sparkl...
threatening-yogurt
1
0
0
2019-12-31 21:53:38
ADHD
<es> i saw some sparklers at the store and i thought wow this would be cute and fun to buy too bad I won’t have anything to use it for not like theres a celebration soon tHE DAY.<ee> <es>BEFORE oUr NEW YEAR EVE PARTY WHAT THE F CU K SHDJDJSJ<ee> <es>I KNEW the party was happening, I knew it was new years eve the next ...
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How did X make you feel?
seeing the sparklers in the shop
What do you need help with now that X?
you spaced out seeing the sparklers
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true
200
ejxegw
I'm not Jesus, please don't call me Jesus. He wasn't even white.[serious]
1b
rant
3
For some reason, people seem to think I look like the artists impression of Christ. Being logical about it, most "reasonable" people would know that Jesus was not a tall white guy with long flowing brown locks, he would have had much darker skin, &amp; likely black hair. Anyone who's actually read the bible would know ...
lovepiercedtitties
0
0
0
2020-01-04 14:42:58
mentalillness
For some reason, people seem to think I look like the artists impression of Christ. Being logical about it, most "reasonable" people would know that Jesus was not a tall white guy with long flowing brown locks, he would have had much darker skin, &amp; likely black hair. Anyone who's actually read the bible would know ...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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eq6svh
I don't know what to do.
1b
rant
1
I definitely want a drink. I've just learned they had to put my favorite dog in the world down last night. The girl i like is freindzoning me. Work doesn't seem to be looking up and my car won't start in -40°C. I just want to stay home and down a case of beer. I feel like the world is crapping on me. This seems like a...
Darth_Seiruhk
1
0
12
2020-01-17 21:28:03
alcoholicsanonymous
<es>I definitely want a drink.<ee> <es>I've just learned they had to put my favorite dog in the world down last night.<ee> <es>The girl i like is freindzoning me.<ee> <es>Work doesn't seem to be looking up and my car won't start in -40°C. <ee> <es>I just want to stay home and down a case of beer.<ee> <efs>I feel like t...
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2
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What do you need help with now that X?
you are feeling alone when your friends are drinking
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f2871y
frustrated all the time
1a
rant
1
not sure if this is the right place to post. i wouldnt say angry per se but im constantly annoyed. every little thing seems to set me off. then i start saying abusive things and pushing people away. taking it out on people. i end up isolating myself and feeling so lonely. but the moment someone tries to speak to me i j...
sp4cel0ver
1
0
15
2020-02-11 13:18:46
Anger
not sure if this is the right place to post. i wouldnt say angry per se but im constantly annoyed. every little thing seems to set me off. then i start saying abusive things and pushing people away. taking it out on people. i end up isolating myself and feeling so lonely. but the moment someone tries to speak to me i j...
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Can you elaborate more on X ?
what makes you annoyed
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What do you need help with now that X?
you feel lonely due to your anger
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true
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eurn9g
If You Start Believing Everyone Else Has it Better Than You, the Following Two-Part Exercise is a…
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chitchat
1
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Jackolantern646464
1
0
0
2020-01-27 18:03:36
selfhelp
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0
Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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ekgn5u
On my way to detox
0
chitchat
1
Wish me luck I’m done living this life
professorpounds420
1
0
25
2020-01-05 18:13:27
OpiatesRecovery
<rs>On my way to detox<re> <rs>Wish me luck I’m done living this life<re>
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What happened that you want X ?
to detox
Why are you wanting X ?
to get a detox
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elwzqu
Trying to get help. Thank God it's not bad.
1a
rant
2
I worry about people doing me wrong a little bit. I often fantasize murdering someone who would do me injustice, then end up going to prison and committing suicide. I used to be in love, but never had a girlfriend and now I'm 32 and I know that's no excuse. I'm afraid to fall in love because if I do and she cheats on m...
Pickleface32
1
0
32
2020-01-08 18:53:12
Anger
I worry about people doing me wrong a little bit. <es>I often fantasize murdering someone who would do me injustice, then end up going to prison and committing suicide.<ee> <es>I used to be in love, but never had a girlfriend and now I'm 32 and I know that's no excuse.<ee> <es>I'm afraid to fall in love because if I do...
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Can you elaborate more on X ?
the cause of your violent thoughts
How did X make you feel?
the violent thoughts
What do you need help with now that X?
you are afraid of hurting someone
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ek90n1
Exam questions triggered me (Sexual Assualt TW)
0
help-seeking
2
I just finished a human sexuality class that I am taking for my psych minor in school. I really enjoyed the class despite the hard work and the time crunch (it was an intersession class, so the whole 15 week course was condensed into 3 weeks). However, the other day I was doing a homework assignment that asked us to d...
sjhachman
17
0
8
2020-01-05 05:59:17
ptsd
<es>I just finished a human sexuality class that I am taking for my psych minor in school.<ee> <es>I really enjoyed the class despite the hard work and the time crunch (it was an intersession class, so the whole 15 week course was condensed into 3 weeks).<ee> <es>However, the other day I was doing a homework assignmen...
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elp73k
Gambling Problem PLEASE HELP
1a
help-seeking
3
Hello, I am just recently getting into gambling, about 5 months now, and have seem to gotten myself into a sticky situation. I am a 54 year old who lives in Nevada with a beautiful wife of 20 years and 2 kids. When I first got into gambling I understood that there was always the risk of becoming addicted, but I did not...
hgih420
1
0
6
2020-01-08 06:53:19
addiction
<es>Hello, I am just recently getting into gambling, about 5 months now, and have seem to gotten myself into a sticky situation.<ee> <es>I am a 54 year old who lives in Nevada with a beautiful wife of 20 years and 2 kids.<ee> <es>When I first got into gambling I understood that there was always the risk of becoming add...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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How did X make you feel?
gambling
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ei8r5h
How to deal with PTSD at the workplace
1a
help-seeking
1
I went through multiple traumatic events from age 22-23(f). I had to withdraw from school, move home with my parents, and was unable to work. I am now 24 and doing much better. I’m back at school Working towards my career goal, stopped isolating, and got a good part time job as a barista. The problem is I have change...
_Aud1out_
1
0
10
2019-12-31 20:59:18
ptsd
<es>I went through multiple traumatic events from age 22-23(f).<ee> <es>I had to withdraw from school, move home with my parents, and was unable to work.<ee> <es>I am now 24 and doing much better.<ee> <es>I’m back at school Working towards my career goal, stopped isolating, and got a good part time job as a barista. <e...
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eijba0
Happy new year?
1c
rant
2
I cannot find happiness in whatever is happening around me. In 2020 I really wanted to change and be less depressed, but it seems like my demons are still following me. I get angry over everything and everyone. I hate listening to people I hate when they advice me to be be happier. It's never easy ... At some point I ...
satan-n
1
0
5
2020-01-01 15:14:07
Anger
<es>I cannot find happiness in whatever is happening around me.<ee> <es>In 2020 I really wanted to change and be less depressed, but it seems like my demons are still following me.<ee> <es>I get angry over everything and everyone.<ee> <es>I hate listening to people I hate when they advice me to be be happier.<ee> It's ...
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0
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Can you elaborate more on X ?
why you were unhappy
How did X make you feel?
the suicide attempt
What do you need help with now that X?
feel unhappy and depressed
suicidal
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eqp5e1
2 days clean now
1a
help-seeking
2
Fuck, ive dealt with wd temporally in the past. But this is just horrible. Im glad i had been tapering (even with failer) weeks forehand. As this may have been worse. But god. Never did i think id be going clean without anything to assist it a week before I start a new job. Worst thing is i cant sleep the last day ish...
yeenspace
1
0
14
2020-01-19 00:35:41
OpiatesRecovery
<es>Fuck, ive dealt with wd temporally in the past.<ee> <es>But this is just horrible.<ee> <es>Im glad i had been tapering (even with failer) weeks forehand.<ee> <es>As this may have been worse.<ee> But god. <es>Never did i think id be going clean without anything to assist it a week before I start a new job.<ee> <efs...
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eiox1r
Anyone else have the urge to show people your cuts in certain situations?
1b
survey
1
I just argued with my mom and basically she just diminishes my feelings and problems And right then and there I just wanted to pull down my pants and be like "oh really? look at THIS then" and see if she'd even care yet the only thing stopping me from showing her was that I was planning on talking to a friend tonight...
glitter9931
1
0
27
2020-01-01 22:35:17
selfharm
<es>Anyone else have the urge to show people your cuts in certain situations?<ee> <es>I just argued with my mom and basically she just diminishes my feelings and problems<ee> <es>And right then and there I just wanted to pull down my pants and be like "oh really? look at THIS then" and see if she'd even care yet<ee> ...
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How did X make you feel?
your mom diminishing your feelings and problems
What do you need help with now that X?
you are having urge to show people your cuts
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ejmu6b
I am watching my sibling die/descend into madness and I feel like there is nothing I can do to stop it.
1b
help-seeking
3
I am watching my sibling die/descend into madness and I feel like there is nothing I can do to stop it. I need help understanding if there are any actions I can take in this situation. My sibling is bipolar and has not accepted any treatment since we've found out. She has been on a steep decent for the last \~2 years....
NeedsHelpWithSibling
1
0
5
2020-01-03 22:22:46
mentalillness
<efs>I am watching my sibling die/descend into madness and I feel like there is nothing I can do to stop it.<efe> <rs>I need help understanding if there are any actions I can take in this situation.<re> <es>My sibling is bipolar and has not accepted any treatment since we've found out.<ee> She has been on a steep dece...
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ej72eq
Have you ever voluntarily gone to the hospital?
0
survey
1
What made you go and commit yourself? How far did you have to get? What symptoms were you experiencing. Do you felt they helped or hindered.
_rc1989
1
0
2
2020-01-03 00:23:31
BPD
<rs>Have you ever voluntarily gone to the hospital?<re> <rs>What made you go and commit yourself?<re> <rs>How far did you have to get?<re> <rs>What symptoms were you experiencing.<re> <rs>Do you felt they helped or hindered.<re>
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What happened that you want X ?
go to the hospital
What caused you to need X ?
to voluntarily go to the hospital
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evorhw
Does anyone have any coping mechanisms to bring me down when angry?
1a
help-seeking
1
I have bipolar and pretty severe anger problems with an extended history of abuse from my former stepfather. Who I unfortunately picked up some bad characteristics from him regarding anger and control. All of this has left me as a bit of a messed up guy but I want to be better. I was a genuinely decent human being a ti...
Stonedmonkey420
1
0
7
2020-01-29 16:00:55
Anger
<es>I have bipolar and pretty severe anger problems with an extended history of abuse from my former stepfather.<ee> <es>Who I unfortunately picked up some bad characteristics from him regarding anger and control.<ee> <rs>All of this has left me as a bit of a messed up guy but I want to be better.<re> <efs>I was a genu...
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Can you elaborate more on X ?
the cause of your anger
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how you feel you are losing control over anger
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ejv0wf
Healing After Trauma
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help-seeking
2
I haven't found a good therapist around here- one made me feel stupid and the other made me feel bad for growing up white.... Looking for what things people have done to help heal and make sure you don't go back to an abusive relationship? I don't know what it is, but I keep finding myself attracting these relationship...
UnicornLaserHorn
3
0
14
2020-01-04 10:20:15
domesticviolence
<es>I haven't found a good therapist around here- one made me feel stupid and the other made me feel bad for growing up white....<ee> <rs>Looking for what things people have done to help heal and make sure you don't go back to an abusive relationship?<re> <es>I don't know what it is, but I keep finding myself attractin...
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enym3b
Put Dad on vent and trying to keep it together
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help-seeking
1
My dad has liver failure due to years of alcoholism. He finally quit, but the damage was done. I'm 4 days clean and no symptoms, but my emotions are so strong, I'm having a hard time not masking them with the devil pills. I'm a daddy's girl, and he's always been my soft spot. Where does your strength come from in time...
raisingwildflowers2
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0
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2020-01-13 03:40:22
OpiatesRecovery
<es>My dad has liver failure due to years of alcoholism.<ee> <es>He finally quit, but the damage was done.<ee> <efs>I'm 4 days clean and no symptoms but my emotions are so strong, I'm having a hard time not masking them with the devil pills.<efe> <es>I'm a daddy's girl, and he's always been my soft spot. <ee> <rs>Where...
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eias0z
Welcome to 2020
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rant
1
Still sad.
sjrsnickers123
1
0
0
2019-12-31 23:41:57
depression
<efs>Still sad.<efe>
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What made you feel X ?
sad
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how you feel
What can help you overcome X ?
the sadness
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esonm8
I have a weird relationship with my anger.
1a
help-seeking
2
I hope this is the right place to post this I just don’t know where else to go. So I’m a (18F) and I’ve had anger problems since I can remember. Within my first years of elementary school it became pretty obvious to me that my anger weighed heavier on me then my peers. Not saying I was the angriest kid in school ther...
SarAblue789
1
0
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2020-01-23 05:26:49
Anger
I hope this is the right place to post this I just don’t know where else to go. <es>So I’m a (18F) and I’ve had anger problems since I can remember.<ee> <es>Within my first years of elementary school it became pretty obvious to me that my anger weighed heavier on me then my peers.<ee> <es>Not saying I was the angries...
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your feelings while angry
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help in anger management
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ej9512
My Mom Took away my Blades
1a
rant
1
I don't know what to fucking do all can feel is this overwhelming sense of dread. I can't take this I need my blades back.
x-FeatherDust-x
1
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2020-01-03 03:03:10
selfharm
<es>My Mom Took away my Blades<ee> <efs>I don't know what to fucking do all can feel is this overwhelming sense of dread.<efe> <es>I can't take this I need my blades back.<ee>
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why you cut yourself
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the overwhelming sense of dread
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eiwyr6
I don't miss people and feel like a fraud
1a
help-seeking
3
So I've come to the realisation that I don't have the capacity to miss people, and that I've been pretending to feel like I do in order to fit in with social expectations. I get fixated on people and things and that consumes my brain for a bit, but it doesn't feel the same as missing them. Like if I were to never see a...
EVL6
1
0
93
2020-01-02 11:10:16
ADHD
S<es>o I've come to the realisation that I don't have the capacity to miss people, and that I've been pretending to feel like I do in order to fit in with social expectations.<ee> <es>I get fixated on people and things and that consumes my brain for a bit, but it doesn't feel the same as missing them.<ee> <es>Like if I...
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eij4xy
Best and worst time to sh:
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chitchat
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When drinking cause theres more blood
Bulbaboi
1
0
0
2020-01-01 14:57:23
selfharm
Best and worst time to sh: When drinking cause theres more blood
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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eohw45
Support
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survey
3
I can't find many sobriety chats so I'll try here. I've been on about a fifth every other day and a gram of coke a day. I decided to get back on the wagon tonight but the comedown is literal hell, and I just keep using more. Is anyone down to talk it out with me for a couple hours until I can get to detox in the morni...
tiredtooyoung
1
0
4
2020-01-14 07:06:44
addiction
I can't find many sobriety chats so I'll try here. <es>I've been on about a fifth every other day and a gram of coke a day.<ee> <efs>I decided to get back on the wagon tonight but the comedown is literal hell, and I just keep using more.<efe> <rs>Is anyone down to talk it out with me for a couple hours until I can get...
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why you took coke
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how stopping coke made you feel
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how you will detox
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evni5c
What is this??
1b
help-seeking
1
When my ex and I had sex sometimes it would be painful. So one time, I guess when it started happening, he was on top and I used my hands to press on his stomach to push him away from me. I'm sure I made a face too. He slows down and asks if he should stop, and he stops and asks why I'm doing that. I tell him I'm not s...
summerspring_
1
0
7
2020-01-29 14:22:36
rapecounseling
<es>When my ex and I had sex sometimes it would be painful.<ee> <es>So one time, I guess when it started happening, he was on top and I used my hands to press on his stomach to push him away from me.<ee> <es>I'm sure I made a face too.<ee> <es>He slows down and asks if he should stop, and he stops and asks why I'm doin...
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How did X make you feel?
your ex's assault
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help you deal with your ex
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ev6w3s
There is a mental block in my mind preventing me from getting help.
1a
help-seeking
1
Everytime I get close to calling a doctor I feel better and I start to tell myself that I am not feeling depressed or tired. And then the next day I think what the fuck why can't I do it. Then I will just make an excuse to not call them while I feel like shit. Then I get closer to calling, then the cycle repeats. How...
Slow_Beginnings_
1
0
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2020-01-28 15:19:05
getting_over_it
<es>Everytime I get close to calling a doctor I feel better and I start to tell myself that I am not feeling depressed or tired.<ee> <es>And then the next day I think what the fuck why can't I do it.<ee> <es>Then I will just make an excuse to not call them while I feel like shit.<ee> <es>Then I get closer to calling, t...
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your depression
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eoglcq
“Did this b%#?$ really just —?”
1b
rant
2
Ok, so many might think I’m overreacting but just try to understand me. One of my husband’s female friends has depression and has experienced sexual abuse from a distant relative of hers. He had told me that she was also taking medication or had taken in the past. I just got prescribed bupropion so I decided to ask i...
mariaj97
1
0
0
2020-01-14 04:57:47
mentalillness
Ok, so many might think I’m overreacting but just try to understand me. <es>One of my husband’s female friends has depression and has experienced sexual abuse from a distant relative of hers.<ee> <es>He had told me that she was also taking medication or had taken in the past.<ee> <es>I just got prescribed bupropion s...
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How did X make you feel?
her dismissive behaviour
What do you need help with now that X?
you feel upset about her dismissive words
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ej6yjk
How to plan escape
1a
help-seeking
1
I have a couple resources available to me, but cant even begin to grasp how to start planning this. I'm also afraid I wont have the family support I need. Most crushing, before I can even start planning this all, I am struggling with admitting that I'm in an abusive relationship, because I'm ashamed to admit that I le...
shark185
12
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2020-01-03 00:15:27
domesticviolence
<rs>How to plan escape<re> <es>I have a couple resources available to me, but cant even begin to grasp how to start planning this.<ee> <efs>I'm also afraid I wont have the family support I need. <efe> <es>Most crushing, before I can even start planning this all, I am struggling with admitting that I'm in an abusive rel...
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about your relationship
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how did your relationship make you feel
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help you escape
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emuagh
Rolplay rehab
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chitchat
2
There should be a rehab facility that is set up to give major simulation responsibilities to addicts that empower them and give them the taste of real responsibility. Maybe a tors could be involved and you give them the knowledge of the type of coordinator they will be for the day or week and others act as if it were r...
BatMelk
1
0
2
2020-01-10 17:37:22
addiction
There should be a rehab facility that is set up to give major simulation responsibilities to addicts that empower them and give them the taste of real responsibility. Maybe a tors could be involved and you give them the knowledge of the type of coordinator they will be for the day or week and others act as if it were r...
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el9r5s
Gonna put it out there, I hate the average person (but I don't wish harm on them)
1b
rant
1
In my mind, the average dude or woman on the street is so full of shit. The average man and his unwarranted insecurities and and average woman and her insecurities just mesh and it leaves people like me who have opinions and thoughts, but one more thing which everyone seems to forget that I have is feelings. Sometimes ...
cheese_monkey_92
1
0
0
2020-01-07 10:19:00
mentalillness
In my mind, the average dude or woman on the street is so full of shit. The average man and his unwarranted insecurities and and average woman and her insecurities just mesh and it leaves people like me who have opinions and thoughts, but one more thing which everyone seems to forget that I have is feelings. Sometimes ...
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eiyy2p
A song I made drawing from raw emotion. This is a way of expressing my thoughts.
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chitchat
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castienaterenian
1
0
0
2020-01-02 14:34:58
sad
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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eiflpw
Ocular migraine. The fuck.
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survey
1
Y’all doing this too? I’m p deep in therapy and whenever I “revert” or talk myself back in to “somebody could have implanted your memory” “memory isn’t even used in courts” it never happened” “your being a wuss” “wasn’t that bad Fuck you” I’m getting these. Like a electric dog collar. What do you see your getting them ...
Voldo_ate_my_sister
1
0
0
2020-01-01 07:23:30
ptsd
<es>Ocular migraine.<ee> <rs>Y’all doing this too?<re> <es>I’m p deep in therapy and whenever I “revert” or talk myself back in to “somebody could have implanted your memory” “memory isn’t even used in courts” it never happened” “your being a wuss” “wasn’t that bad Fuck you” I’m getting these.<ee> <es>Like a electric d...
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How did X make you feel?
the ocular migraine
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ex27kl
Rage Fantasies
1a
help-seeking
1
*Long time anger manager Ive grown more concerned with each passing day. My rage fantasies grow more vivid and more frequent. To be precise they are righteous rage fantasies not random commit die fantasies they are fantasies that serve a purpose like dispatching criminals or saving people. Sometimes they last second...
Biggy247365
1
0
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2020-02-01 06:44:36
Anger
*Long time anger manager <efs>Ive grown more concerned with each passing day. <efe> <es>My rage fantasies grow more vivid and more frequent. <ee> <es>To be precise they are righteous rage fantasies not random commit die fantasies they are fantasies that serve a purpose like dispatching criminals or saving people.<ee> ...
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what kind of advice would help overcome rage fantasies
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eokrdu
First time poster. New to Reddit. Struggling with two addictions. Losing all hope.
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rant
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Hi. I'm new here. This is going to be long. I'm currently struggling with a Binge Eating Disorder and an addiction to fizzy juice. But addiction/disorders are nothing new to me. At age 10 I was diagnosed with Trichtotillomania. I ended up with three bad patches on my head. I managed to stop somehow, but to this da...
__hellhound__
1
0
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2020-01-14 12:42:04
addiction
Hi. I'm new here. This is going to be long. <es>I'm currently struggling with a Binge Eating Disorder and an addiction to fizzy juice.<ee> <es>But addiction/disorders are nothing new to me.<ee> <es>At age 10 I was diagnosed with Trichtotillomania.<ee> <es>I ended up with three bad patches on my head.<ee> <es>I man...
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how binge eating makes you feel
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help you live a better life
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eihiwy
I had a party last night and didn't have any panick attack! I'm really proud of myself
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chitchat
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pray4thewickedd
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0
88
2020-01-01 11:41:18
Anxiety
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ekpqba
Why am I not better
1b
help-seeking
1
I told my sister about my cousin sexually abusing me. She was so understanding and compassionate. I felt a little better then but now I can’t sleep...I’m afraid to close my eyes for too long. Shouldn’t I be better?
lilblkbrat
1
0
3
2020-01-06 05:53:04
ptsd
<es>I told my sister about my cousin sexually abusing me.<ee> <es>She was so understanding and compassionate.<ee> <efs>I felt a little better then but now I can’t sleep...I’m afraid to close my eyes for too long. <efe> <rs>Shouldn’t I be better?<re>
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how you feel after telling your sister
Can you elaborate more on X ?
what would help you sleep
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eils83
Not having many friends
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rant
1
I first started having panic attacks at age 15 and then was diagnosed with panic disorder at 17. I really lost a lot of friends during this time because I really isolated myself. It wasn’t just the agoraphobia but also I felt guilty about making other people deal with my anxiety and fearing that they would just get ann...
ssonnl
1
0
4
2020-01-01 18:36:50
Anxiety
<es>I first started having panic attacks at age 15 and then was diagnosed with panic disorder at 17.<ee> <es>I really lost a lot of friends during this time because I really isolated myself.<ee> <efs>It wasn’t just the agoraphobia but also I felt guilty about making other people deal with my anxiety and fearing that th...
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what would help you make friends
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eiumi9
I survive (and still trying to survive) my worst heartbreak
1a
rant
4
I (22F) have this Favorite Person (FP). I adore him (perhaps i love him) for years. I've known him since middle school, I approached him and we were becoming friends at that time. I feels like i 'imprint' him? I really don't know why i like him in the first place. I just like him as a person? I don't know how to descri...
persona2626
1
0
0
2020-01-02 06:32:41
BPD
<es>I (22F) have this Favorite Person (FP).<ee> <es>I adore him (perhaps i love him) for years.<ee> <es>I've known him since middle school, I approached him and we were becoming friends at that time.<ee> <es>I feels like i 'imprint' him?<ee> <es>I really don't know why i like him in the first place.<ee> <es>I just like...
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What do you need help with now that X?
you still have feelings for him
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ej04vy
Advice on submitting an ADA act request at work for a "quiet space" to work
1b
help-seeking
2
I have been wondering if anyone has spoken with their HR and/or had any experience with their job accomodating them for their ADHD. Under the ADA, ADHD qualifies and i was wondering if anyone has any input on it...good or bad. Im a nurse so we do a lot of charting and every once in a while i will get a terrible shift w...
traumajunkie46
1
0
5
2020-01-02 16:10:58
ADHD
I have been wondering if anyone has spoken with their HR and/or had any experience with their job accomodating them for their ADHD. Under the ADA, ADHD qualifies and i was wondering if anyone has any input on it...good or bad. Im a nurse so we do a lot of charting and every once in a while i will get a terrible shift w...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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ei9k5s
Dry mouth
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help-seeking
2
Over the last month or so I've been making myself face my agoraphobia by walking outside. It helps there's a Pokémon GO stop a block over. Lately (maybe in the last week?) I've noticed my mouth feels dry when I'm out walking. I've been getting it at night sometimes, too. I know it's just my anxiety. It's still screwin...
madman42q
1
0
2
2019-12-31 22:04:00
Anxiety
<es>Over the last month or so I've been making myself face my agoraphobia by walking outside.<ee> <es>It helps there's a Pokémon GO stop a block over.<ee> <es>Lately (maybe in the last week?) I've noticed my mouth feels dry when I'm out walking.<ee> <es>I've been getting it at night sometimes, too.<ee> <es>I know it's...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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How did X make you feel?
your mouth getting dry
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epv7zi
Why am I like this?
1b
help-seeking
1
My partner and I have had an emotionally abusive/controlling relationship for a long time. It has escalated since September and now he is burning my stuff and destroying my property. A few nights ago he destroyed my stuff and struggled with me to take my phone because he wanted to burn it. This all happened in front of...
NotThis2020
1
0
31
2020-01-17 04:12:31
domesticviolence
<es>My partner and I have had an emotionally abusive/controlling relationship for a long time.<ee> <es>It has escalated since September and now he is burning my stuff and destroying my property.<ee> <es>A few nights ago he destroyed my stuff and struggled with me to take my phone because he wanted to burn it.<ee> <es>T...
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ejr2p7
A cringy letter from the friendzone
1a
rant
2
I'm about to say some things that I've been trying to say for the last little while, but haven't been able to for one reason or another. You're pretty fucking fantastic. My ideal woman, to a fucking T. I know I'm not your type, I know that I'm not ready for a relationship, (hell, you probably aren't either) but I still...
sadb0ithrow4way
2
0
2
2020-01-04 03:40:40
sad
I'm about to say some things that I've been trying to say for the last little while, but haven't been able to for one reason or another. You're pretty fucking fantastic. My ideal woman, to a fucking T. I know I'm not your type, I know that I'm not ready for a relationship, (hell, you probably aren't either) but I still...
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eoidux
NO WITHDRAWALS? Pregabalin (Lyrica) will make withdrawals subside almost completely
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chitchat
2
I detoxed from 80mg Methadone to 0mg in 14 days. I had will power, but I didn't control the will power, something stronger than me did this. As soon as a woke up this day I thought: "I need to get off methadone asafp" The best advice of all and not very known by many people. Get yourself some Lyrica (Pregabalin). You ...
silverfangme
1
0
10
2020-01-14 08:02:45
OpiatesRecovery
I detoxed from 80mg Methadone to 0mg in 14 days. I had will power, but I didn't control the will power, something stronger than me did this. As soon as a woke up this day I thought: "I need to get off methadone asafp" The best advice of all and not very known by many people. Get yourself some Lyrica (Pregabalin). You ...
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eqt7w0
Anyone knowledgeable of the physical effects of rape while unconscious-Advice wanted please! At 18, still don't know if it happened to me
1b
help-seeking
3
Okay, I appreciate anyone reading this, I've thought of posting for so long-- certain MeToo articles struck me, ESP where they talk about preventing the person from hurting others, so it's been nagging at me. Also because I was reading a book that made me think back to when I was 18. A part in "Come as you are" where...
kangarooace
1
0
0
2020-01-19 07:12:59
rapecounseling
<rs>Anyone knowledgeable of the physical effects of rape while unconscious-Advice wanted please!<re> <rs>At 18, still don't know if it happened to me<re> <es>Okay, I appreciate anyone reading this, I've thought of posting for so long-- certain MeToo articles struck me, ESP where they talk about preventing the person fr...
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ev7x1e
How do I deal with this?!
1b
help-seeking
2
So I am 18 and live with my family. I am currently a senior and I haven't been able to get a job yet. My issue is is that whenever it seems like I'm like actually interested in doing something or changing myself somehow my parents just seem to shut it down.. Like for instance I want to dye my hair green, or get the blu...
armadillo809
1
0
15
2020-01-28 16:46:15
selfhelp
<rs>How do I deal with this?!<re> <es>So I am 18 and live with my family.<ee> <es>I am currently a senior and I haven't been able to get a job yet.<ee> <es>My issue is is that whenever it seems like I'm like actually interested in doing something or changing myself somehow my parents just seem to shut it down..<ee> <es...
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How did X make you feel?
your parents putting you down all the time
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elp303
Am sad
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rant
1
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YourTextHere_Studios
1
0
0
2020-01-08 06:41:54
sad
<efs>Am sad<efe> nan
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What made you feel X ?
sad
Can you elaborate more on X ?
how you are feeling
What can help you overcome X ?
this feeling of sadness
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emat2x
I have a serious problem with alcohol
1a
help-seeking
2
I don’t have an addiction problem but i tend to binge drink like 85% of the time. In these blackouts i say insane things like i have told my parents i have smoked meth and i don’t know why and told my boyfriend i have cheated on him and i have not i truly do love my boyfriend like i have never loved anyone before. I sa...
foopa_
1
0
14
2020-01-09 15:03:38
selfhelp
<es>I don’t have an addiction problem but i tend to binge drink like 85% of the time.<ee> <es>In these blackouts i say insane things like i have told my parents i have smoked meth and i don’t know why and told my boyfriend i have cheated on him and i have not i truly do love my boyfriend like i have never loved anyone ...
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what will help you control your rage due to alcohol
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ewa7s2
How to stop subconscious jaw clenching from anger/stress
1a
help-seeking
1
Lately I’ve been very angry and very stressed for reasons not being discussed, but I literally can’t about the situations. Jaw clenching had never been an issue for me until now but it’s gotten to the point where all of my teeth hurt every time I try to eat. A lot of people say to chew gum but I can’t because I’m aller...
collegeinkhead
1
0
3
2020-01-30 18:50:02
Anger
<es>Lately I’ve been very angry and very stressed for reasons not being discussed, but I literally can’t about the situations.<ee> <efs>Jaw clenching had never been an issue for me until now but it’s gotten to the point where all of my teeth hurt every time I try to eat.<efe> <es>A lot of people say to chew gum but I c...
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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What do you need help with now that X?
jaw clenching is making your teeth hurt
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ekk2xf
You know that feeling?..
1b
rant
2
When you've had a relationship with someone.. and they break up with you, saying you aren't right for each other.. and they say they don't want to talk or see you again.. to protect you from further heartbreak and feelings.. And right now we haven't spoken for about 1,5 months.. and even though I hate it, it's fine, b...
Ruup_Cinacchi
1
0
0
2020-01-05 22:27:23
sad
<es>When you've had a relationship with someone.. and they break up with you, saying you aren't right for each other.. and they say they don't want to talk or see you again.. to protect you from further heartbreak and feelings.. <ee> <es>And right now we haven't spoken for about 1,5 months.. and even though I hate it, ...
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you miss your relationship with the girl
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f333iv
Ok so I need people’s opinions new here..
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help-seeking
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Ok this was a post I never wanted to make clearly but none the less here we go I guess most people question whether or not they were abused and I guess I am doing that Ok so I was pregnant (went through the entire thing if you’re wondering) And while I was pregnant I was told (and later confirmed with an std test) m...
sofiareii_
1
0
0
2020-02-13 02:51:12
domesticviolence
Ok this was a post I never wanted to make clearly but none the less here we go <es>I guess most people question whether or not they were abused and I guess I am doing that<ee> <es>Ok so I was pregnant (went through the entire thing if you’re wondering)<ee> <es>And while I was pregnant I was told (and later confirmed...
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eij6yx
New year
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rant
1
I was knew my new year gonna be horrible i felt it yesterday when i was watching all my friends partying or just generally being okay without me. Im not being negative its the honest truth, all of them having great time with new people in their lives and none of them try to even talk to me now. Maybe in this year i fi...
DemonicLolita
1
0
1
2020-01-01 15:02:54
BPD
<efs>I was knew my new year gonna be horrible i felt it yesterday when i was watching all my friends partying or just generally being okay without me.<efe> <es>Im not being negative its the honest truth, all of them having great time with new people in their lives and none of them try to even talk to me now.<ee> <efs>...
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why your friends are not talking to you
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you feel horrible seeing your friends enjoy without you
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exhzc6
first time poster, long time anger issues
1b
help-seeking
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Hello all, it is with great sadness that I reach out here. I apologize in advance for the length here but I have to write some of this out as some sort of therapy I suppose you could say. If anyone can read through it all and provide any advice I'd greatly appreciate it as I'm at my wits end and I feel like I have nowh...
Is2020myyear
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2020-02-02 03:15:58
Anger
Hello all, it is with great sadness that I reach out here. I apologize in advance for the length here but I have to write some of this out as some sort of therapy I suppose you could say. <rs>If anyone can read through it all and provide any advice I'd greatly appreciate it as I'm at my wits end and I feel like I have ...
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f3pmw4
apparently you’re supposed to feel better on medication ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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i guess i’ve been medicated incorrectly for the past two years. i was talking to my new doctor today about possibly upping my dose of effexor because i didn’t feel like it was working as well. well answering her question of how i knew with “well i’ve been having more depressive episodes than usual” is a bad answer. i...
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2020-02-14 09:05:35
getting_over_it
<es>i guess i’ve been medicated incorrectly for the past two years.<ee> <es>i was talking to my new doctor today about possibly upping my dose of effexor because i didn’t feel like it was working as well.<ee> <es>well answering her question of how i knew with “well i’ve been having more depressive episodes than usual”...
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eio4u9
How to deal with intense Anger and Anxiety with kids?
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Hey BPD people! I am new to this thread but have been dealing with this disorder for about 5 or 6 years. I am so so exhausted from the extreme emotional rollercoaster on a day to day basis and after dealing with BPD episodes I also have severe crippling anxiety disorder and depression along with PTSD. My husband and ...
Bimmergirl86
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2020-01-01 21:32:30
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<rs>How to deal with intense Anger and Anxiety with kids? <re> Hey BPD people! <es>I am new to this thread but have been dealing with this disorder for about 5 or 6 years.<ee> <es>I am so so exhausted from the extreme emotional rollercoaster on a day to day basis and after dealing with BPD episodes I also have severe ...
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ej1rtb
Problems with my FP
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so my current FP i havent had for a while (first one in a while too after a very messy end to my last one but i wont get into that) and he's pretty cool but hes also really dismissive to me and cold and i'm not sure if it's because he doesn't know me too well/isnt my friend but it's kind of extremely off putting and im...
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2020-01-02 18:10:53
BPD
<es>so my current FP i havent had for a while (first one in a while too after a very messy end to my last one but i wont get into that) and he's pretty cool but hes also really dismissive to me and cold.<ee> <efs>i'm not sure if it's because he doesn't know me too well/isnt my friend but it's kind of extremely off putt...
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elwc1a
Just over a week
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Hi all. I had my last drink on 27th December 2019 so I'm just over a week in now. This is the longest I've gone in a long time. Funny enough I didn't find the first couple of days too terrible but now I would kill for a drink. I'm really agitated and moody and I just can't picture myself without boozing. I wake up and ...
antonym1988
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2020-01-08 18:06:16
alcoholicsanonymous
Hi all. <es>I had my last drink on 27th December 2019 so I'm just over a week in now.<ee> <es>This is the longest I've gone in a long time.<ee> <efs>Funny enough I didn't find the first couple of days too terrible but now I would kill for a drink.<efe> <efs>I'm really agitated and moody and I just can't picture myself ...
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what would help you feel better
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ekkp6r
A rant feel free to join
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Ok so I don't know if this is rational or needy, but I've never really had a best friend no real reason just all the girls I like either hate me or are really toxic probably because I'm gay a nerd or because I'm a sucky needy theatre kid bitch but like I have friends I'm not a loner I just have a bunch of acquaintances...
Angry-kite697989
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2020-01-05 23:10:17
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<es>Ok so I don't know if this is rational or needy, but I've never really had a best friend no real reason just all the girls I like either hate me or are really toxic probably because I'm gay a nerd or because I'm a sucky needy theatre kid bitch but like I have friends I'm not a loner I just have a bunch of acquainta...
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not having friends
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you don't have a good best friend
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elya94
How To Start Thinking Only Positive Thoughts
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**How To Start Thinking Only Positive Thoughts** If you have a lot of negative thoughts, the problem is that you are being too hard on yourself, you are lacking self-love. The majority of people are being too hard on themselves. Media and social media constantly makes us feel that we are not enough. When we think w...
perfectaffirmations
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2020-01-08 20:24:27
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**How To Start Thinking Only Positive Thoughts** If you have a lot of negative thoughts, the problem is that you are being too hard on yourself, you are lacking self-love. The majority of people are being too hard on themselves. Media and social media constantly makes us feel that we are not enough. When we think w...
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eisr37
I guess one good thing about ADHD is that I can't even stay focused on my negative thoughts
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Besides anxiety and periodic depression (which are more permanent conditions) it is nice that I get distracted from negative feelings easily. Like if I'm stressed about something specific or something bad happens in my life I'll feel really bad for a while but then something else comes into my mind and I get a break fr...
abcerre
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2020-01-02 03:41:33
ADHD
<es>I guess one good thing about ADHD is that I can't even stay focused on my negative thoughts<ee> <es>Besides anxiety and periodic depression (which are more permanent conditions) it is nice that I get distracted from negative feelings easily.<ee> <es>Like if I'm stressed about something specific or something bad hap...
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not being able to stay focused on your thoughts
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you are unable to stay focused on your thoughts
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el6emz
More real "I love you"s
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That moment when your boyfriend says, "I love you" more sincerely than your entire family. That kinda hurt to realize...
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2020-01-07 04:39:07
sad
That moment when your boyfriend says, "I love you" more sincerely than your entire family. That kinda hurt to realize...
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why you feel hurt
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you are hurt that your family is not sincere enough
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ej3q1e
Feeling gaslit, not sure what to do
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I was seeing someone for about two months. Things moved fairly quickly and then started to slow down after the first fight we had. He has pretty bad OCD as well as ADHD but that is all he knows for sure. But he would always get so mad at the littlest things, and when I would try to help or explain my perspective to him...
emack_beezy
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2020-01-02 20:27:20
BPD
<es>I was seeing someone for about two months.<ee> <es>Things moved fairly quickly and then started to slow down after the first fight we had.<ee> <es>He has pretty bad OCD as well as ADHD but that is all he knows for sure.<ee> <es>But he would always get so mad at the littlest things, and when I would try to help or e...
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eldoij
10 Ways How to Fight Depression
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pinoyathletics
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2020-01-07 16:21:27
selfhelp
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eo2nqp
Just some old thing that helped me....
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So I was digging up old things I had that helped me when I quit the first time. I wrote a metaphorical kind of story which details the struggle my thoughts go through while drinking. From start to finish. It’s like a cycle. It is long so i apologize. This is what my brain shows me. Enjoy. THE SISYPHUS EFFECT- A JOURNE...
DuckyDuckerton
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2020-01-13 11:00:32
alcoholicsanonymous
So I was digging up old things I had that helped me when I quit the first time. I wrote a metaphorical kind of story which details the struggle my thoughts go through while drinking. From start to finish. It’s like a cycle. It is long so i apologize. This is what my brain shows me. Enjoy. THE SISYPHUS EFFECT- A JOURNE...
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eitfpl
Should I talk to my parents about medicine?
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So I was diagnosed in elementary school, then quit medicine my freshman year of high school. After spending a bit on this sub a lot of the problems that I’ve seen people talk about really sound like problems I currently have. Should I talk to my parents about starting medicine again?
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2020-01-02 04:41:54
ADHD
<es>So I was diagnosed in elementary school, then quit medicine my freshman year of high school.<ee> <es>After spending a bit on this sub a lot of the problems that I’ve seen people talk about really sound like problems I currently have.<ee> <rs>Should I talk to my parents about starting medicine again?<re>
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your ADHD
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your ADHD
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ekvjpl
Pushing an addictive personality from one to another
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Good afternoon, &amp;#x200B; this is my first post here ever - I have been looking at reddit for years and lately been trying to get my life back together. To give you a short overview, I am in my early twenties, good highschool diploma, top university business degree completed and currently interning with a consulti...
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2020-01-06 15:26:26
addiction
Good afternoon, &amp;#x200B; this is my first post here ever - I have been looking at reddit for years and lately been trying to get my life back together. To give you a short overview, I am in my early twenties, good highschool diploma, top university business degree completed and currently interning with a consulti...
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your addictions
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eqm41x
Im drunk tonight, but please help me stay sober tomorrow! Just need some one to talk to i guess... I dont drink often, but when i do, i drink Way to much.
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2020-01-18 20:48:56
alcoholicsanonymous
<es>Im drunk tonight.<ee> <rs>but please help me stay sober tomorrow!<re> <rs>Just need some one to talk to i guess...<re> <es>I dont drink often, but when i do, i drink Way to much.<ee>
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being drunk
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what would help you stay sober
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eiit57
The reason why it's so hard for people like me, with autism, to get a job in the healthcare field, despite license and a higher certification in my field, is because patients would be rioting if they learned how prejudice healthcare workers really are behind closed doors.
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\*Drops Mic and walks off stage\*
WarPigs01
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2020-01-01 14:23:06
Anger
<es>The reason why it's so hard for people like me, with autism, to get a job in the healthcare field, despite license and a higher certification in my field, is because patients would be rioting if they learned how prejudice healthcare workers really are behind closed doors.<ee> \*Drops Mic and walks off stage\*
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people with autism not getting jobs in healthcare
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it's hard for people with autism to get job in medicine
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eor4pm
Going to my first meeting tonight
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It’s been hard for me to admit that I have a problem with alcohol, I’m feeling very nervous about going to my first meeting, just not sure what to expect and how it works? Just wondering if anyone can share any experiences or give me more information. Thank you
LackingDatSkill
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2020-01-14 20:41:52
alcoholicsanonymous
<es>It’s been hard for me to admit that I have a problem with alcohol.<ee> <efs>I’m feeling very nervous about going to my first meeting.<efe> <es>just not sure what to expect and how it works?<ee> <rs>Just wondering if anyone can share any experiences or give me more information.<re> Thank you
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how you drinking makes you feel
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f64n25
MY FRIEND IS IN DANGER PLEASE HELP
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Idk what subreddit to post this on, sorry. Get ready to read a lot, I’m really concerned for my friends well being. She is a 13 y/o girl, whom we’ll call V. V has been talking to this man from a different country who we will call T, T is supposedly “15” y/o. They’ve only been talking for three days, he’s been saying r...
Shannonnnnb
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2020-02-19 03:39:28
domesticviolence
Idk what subreddit to post this on, sorry. <efs>Get ready to read a lot, I’m really concerned for my friends well being.<efe> <es>She is a 13 y/o girl, whom we’ll call V. V has been talking to this man from a different country who we will call T, T is supposedly “15” y/o.<ee> <es>They’ve only been talking for three da...
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eoig2m
Strained marital relations!?
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I'm 4 months sober now, and I am still loving it. However. I'm noticing a strain in my marriage - whereas before those little marital disagreements I could either shrug off, or drink off, now I'm working on being honest with my feelings, and not allowing resentment to build up, and I'm not drinking to ignore problems ...
multiformed
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2020-01-14 08:09:46
alcoholicsanonymous
<es>I'm 4 months sober now, and I am still loving it.<ee> <es>However.<ee> <es>I'm noticing a strain in my marriage - whereas before those little marital disagreements I could either shrug off, or drink off, now I'm working on being honest with my feelings, and not allowing resentment to build up, and I'm not drinking...
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el2va9
Less Known Groups: A transgender refugee woman experiencing posttraumatic stress disorder symptoms and homelessness
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* Transgender individuals experience high rates of violence, discrimination and homelessness. (An estimated 44% of transgender people have experienced violence or victimization) * Psychiatric disorders should be managed before or concurrent with medical transition for gender dysphoria. * Posttraumatic stress disorder...
BlueAzzure
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2020-01-07 00:05:10
ptsd
* Transgender individuals experience high rates of violence, discrimination and homelessness. (An estimated 44% of transgender people have experienced violence or victimization) * Psychiatric disorders should be managed before or concurrent with medical transition for gender dysphoria. * Posttraumatic stress disorder...
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eib4lk
I will probably end it when my mum isn't around anymore.
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I can say with certainty that I have tried hard to make my life one worth living but my ongoing depression is more present and crippling than ever recently. I would never do anything while my mum is still alive because I know she wouldn't cope. I'm her only daughter and we are very close. But I'm clueless as to how to...
Complete-meal
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2020-01-01 00:09:50
depression
<es>I can say with certainty that I have tried hard to make my life one worth living but my ongoing depression is more present and crippling than ever recently.<ee> I would never do anything while my mum is still alive because I know she wouldn't cope. I'm her only daughter and we are very close. <es>But I'm clueless ...
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the depression
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you feel the depression is increasing
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f6fgsl
Could this be a red flag for coercive control?
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Paying attention to how a person deals with large and small disappointments could go a long way in determining someone's emotional maturity. Just noted Justin Bieber yelling at his wife for losing a game to her. Poor loser? Or disgrace to his fragile self perception? Easily frustrated?Or anger at losing control? Maybe ...
builtbydetroit
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2020-02-19 19:00:27
domesticviolence
Paying attention to how a person deals with large and small disappointments could go a long way in determining someone's emotional maturity. Just noted Justin Bieber yelling at his wife for losing a game to her. Poor loser? Or disgrace to his fragile self perception? Easily frustrated?Or anger at losing control? Maybe ...
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et8p4h
I'm very angry and resentful towards EVERYONE that has done me wrong in life (TW)
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I don't know why but I've been feeling extra resentful lately of everyone who has mistreated me in my life. My ex who cheated on me, the guys who sexually assaulted me, my former bosses who didn't do shit when a male coworker was sexually harassing me, my sister for not minding her own business and trying to get me in ...
studylustre
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2020-01-24 10:39:25
Anger
<efs>I don't know why but I've been feeling extra resentful lately of everyone who has mistreated me in my life.<efe> <es>My ex who cheated on me, the guys who sexually assaulted me, my former bosses who didn't do shit when a male coworker was sexually harassing me, my sister for not minding her own business and trying...
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eiea3h
i need to quit my coke addiction
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it’s getting to a point now where i’m agitated and angry if i can’t access it or if i’m waiting around. i’m horrible to the people i love when i can’t get it. i feel paranoid and suicidal when i’m lying in bed with a comedown. i borrow money and leave myself in dept. i’m only really talkative and a nice person to be ar...
tarragon19
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2020-01-01 05:03:57
addiction
<es>i need to quit my coke addiction<ee> <efs>it’s getting to a point now where i’m agitated and angry if i can’t access it or if i’m waiting around.<efe> <efs>i’m horrible to the people i love when i can’t get it.<efe> <efs>i feel paranoid and suicidal when i’m lying in bed with a comedown.<efe> <es>i borrow money and...
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eqf9co
I want to be intimate again with my partner. Any suggestions on how to start and prevent triggering flashbacks / anxiety attacks?
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Apologies if this isn't the right place to ask this question. My (F28) partner (M26) has been incredibly patient, supportive and understanding. I've just had a bit of a PTSD come back. It's made it difficult for our sex life. Sometimes the thought of it makes me a bit sick, but sometimes I really want to try, but the...
bananamind
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2020-01-18 11:20:15
rapecounseling
Apologies if this isn't the right place to ask this question. <es>My (F28) partner (M26) has been incredibly patient, supportive and understanding.<ee> <es>I've just had a bit of a PTSD come back.<ee> <es>It's made it difficult for our sex life.<ee> <efs>Sometimes the thought of it makes me a bit sick, but sometimes ...
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eiao4p
My mother was murdered February 2017. I found her. I'm still struggling deeply and I feel like my life is spiraling out of control.
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I drink too much, and honestly at this point it's mostly a way to stop thinking about what happened. My brother killed my mother, and I'm stuck between trying to forgive him, and not wanting to ever hear his name again. My grandparents have tasked me with being the one to give him money in prison (he was convicted of...
Sleeping-With-Ghosts
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2019-12-31 23:33:24
depression
<es>My mother was murdered February 2017.<ee> I found her. <efs>I'm still struggling deeply and I feel like my life is spiraling out of control.<efe> <es>I drink too much, and honestly at this point it's mostly a way to stop thinking about what happened.<ee> <es>My brother killed my mother, and I'm stuck between tryin...
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epalsp
Apparently all it takes to trigger an existential crisis is looking in the cupboard to find what cereal I want to eat.... TOO MANY CHOICES
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MaxRation2672
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2020-01-15 23:39:09
mentalillness
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eiuh4d
nobody cares about me
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i hate myself honestly lol
birdsandcrustand
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2020-01-02 06:17:32
Anxiety
<efs>i hate myself honestly lol<efe>
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hate towards yourself
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how you feel about yourself
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this feeling of self hate
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en53ea
I was bullied horribly online, I can't let it go because the flashbacks and familiar negative train of thought since then keeps reoccurring on a regular basis.
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Last year online I had about 200 people write hate speech comments to which I read. (Stupid, idiot, dumbass, dumbf***, moron, re**** etc.). I can no longer watch any films involving attractive women and firearms. The amount of negative chemical emotion if I see an attractive lady to use a gun to kill a human being re...
cw9595cw
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2020-01-11 08:45:03
mentalillness
<es>I was bullied horribly online, I can't let it go because the flashbacks and familiar negative train of thought since then keeps reoccurring on a regular basis.<ee> <es>Last year online I had about 200 people write hate speech comments to which I read. (Stupid, idiot, dumbass, dumbf***, moron, re**** etc.).<ee> <e...
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the online bullying
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you are suffering from flashbacks of bullying
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ejm41k
This life.
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What is this life? Why? I've lost friends and family to heroin, I've been clean for years on end before. I'm on day 4 now. About 15 days ago, I tried to check out permanently. Fistfull of benzos and a bunch of booze. How did I survive? In the ensuing blackout I took a family members car, totaled it, stole money, and ba...
duckwinters
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2020-01-03 21:31:26
OpiatesRecovery
What is this life? Why? <es>I've lost friends and family to heroin, I've been clean for years on end before.<ee> <es>I'm on day 4 now.<ee> <es>About 15 days ago, I tried to check out permanently.<ee> <es>Fistfull of benzos and a bunch of booze.<ee> How did I survive? <es>In the ensuing blackout I took a family members ...
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el4u5k
My ptsd is getting worse again
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About four years ago I was diagnosed with ptsd. It was getting better the past two years but a couple of weeks ago I found something that brought a lot of memories back. It has affected me a lot and I feel like I'm back where I was four years ago. I'm in the middle of my exams (I'm in college) so I have to keep it toge...
belgianidiot
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2020-01-07 02:34:57
ptsd
<es>About four years ago I was diagnosed with ptsd.<ee> <es>It was getting better the past two years but a couple of weeks ago I found something that brought a lot of memories back.<ee> <efs>It has affected me a lot and I feel like I'm back where I was four years ago.<efe> <es>I'm in the middle of my exams (I'm in coll...
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Does anyone feel like their life is actually pretty good but they still have boiling rage inside them for no reason at all?
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I feel like anger usually comes from having a broken childhood, or life really tearing you down and things just generally not going well. For me I had a good childhood, had loving parents who spoiled me if anything, I got a good education, had lots of friends, and boyfriends. Now I’m grown up and have a loving husband,...
throwawayyyawayyy999
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2020-02-20 21:19:34
Anger
I feel like anger usually comes from having a broken childhood, or life really tearing you down and things just generally not going well. For me I had a good childhood, had loving parents who spoiled me if anything, I got a good education, had lots of friends, and boyfriends. Now I’m grown up and have a loving husband,...
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eyzu0r
Can a woman rape a man?
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is it possible for a woman to rape a man? Or does it mean he’s weak?
ThrowRA-kinl
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2020-02-04 23:59:22
rapecounseling
is it possible for a woman to rape a man? Or does it mean he’s weak?
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epgr0x
(TW blades/self harm) i’ve been seeing jewelry like this on social media lately and it upsets me. am i just being overly sensitive or does anyone agree with me? as someone who used to self harm with these tools it’s kinda angering. obviously these aren’t just “self harm tools” but idk. opinions?
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survey
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dumbb1tchalert
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2020-01-16 08:48:26
mentalillness
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the jewelry
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einfas
Im naked in the shower, covered in urine, and unable to deal with the outside world. It's slowly getting worse and I'm afraid of what might happen. I need help. What should i do?
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help-seeking
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I have bipolar and am currently climbing the wall.
princessluna3na
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2020-01-01 20:39:27
mentalillness
I have bipolar and am currently climbing the wall.
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Can you tell me what happened? You can be as specific as you like.
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how being bipolar makes you feel
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what would help you now that your condition is getting worse
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f6eom3
Black eye and years of DV
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help-seeking
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Hi there. Forgive me if this is long. I have cross posted to legal advice just in case. I’ve been married to a little over ten years to a narcissistic military service member. In years past, we have tried counseling to no avail as he would gaslight any and all issues pertaining to emotional, verbal and mental abuse....
allthedoubts
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2020-02-19 18:09:27
domesticviolence
Hi there. Forgive me if this is long. I have cross posted to legal advice just in case. <es>I’ve been married to a little over ten years to a narcissistic military service member.<ee> <es>In years past, we have tried counseling to no avail as he would gaslight any and all issues pertaining to emotional, verbal and m...
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enzg6w
Help
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So I’m currently really craving to drink.. I just currently went through withdrawal and it was the worst feeling ever.. but I’m still craving going downstairs and ( aka stealing) my roommates vodka.. can someone help and talk me through this craving?
rosegoldandstardust
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2020-01-13 04:55:41
alcoholicsanonymous
<efs>So I’m currently really craving to drink..<efe> <es>I just currently went through withdrawal and it was the worst feeling ever..<efe> but I’m still craving going downstairs and ( aka stealing) my roommates vodka..<efe> <rs>can someone help and talk me through this craving?<re>
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