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2021-01-10T18:42:43
Short and sweet update - reddit hive-mind helps lady, her cat, and her housemates get quit of loser boyfriend
null
[Original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ktzpfu/aita_for_showering_when_my_cat_is_in_the_bathroom/) to AITA by u/angrymouse567 # AITA for showering when my cat is in the bathroom as well? ​ I (18f) live in an appartment with my boyfriend (19m), 3 other roommates and my cat. We all ...
calmarespira
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2021-01-11T20:53:11
OP is maid of honour, but little sister threw a tantrum and now she is the maid of honour
r/weddingshaming
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/ic78rk/shaming_my_sister_whos_a_bridesmaid_for_demanding/) by u/swearingbridesmaid*   My (F26) older sister (F28) has made me maid of honour for her wedding in one month and half sister (F21) is throwing a fit. So for background my si...
bestupdator
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2021-01-13T00:24:08
"I (14F) have a friend online that’s older (21M) and I don’t understand why my sister (16F) hates him"
r/askwomenadvice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/askwomenadvice/comments/icg2c0/i_14f_have_a_friend_online_thats_older_21m_and_i/)*   [TW: Grooming]   I guess I’ve always been really quiet so I never really make many friends, so I ended up making some online. This guy has always been very nice to ...
bestupdator
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2021-01-13T02:30:11
I was intrigued and a little disgusted for OP. I wanted to shake her hubby and send my incontinent 15 yo dog to live with her BIL. After her updates I was actually concerned for her safety, luckily she has a great support system and is safe. Original post by u/Planetsahead
AITA
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2021-01-13T02:49:25
I was intrigued and a disgusted for OP. Original post by u/Planetsahead Link to original post https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kruv9w/aita_for_not_taking_in_my_bil_who_peed_on_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossm
AITA
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2021-01-13T05:59:00
I was intrigued and disgusted. Originally posted by u/Planetsahead
AITA
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2021-01-13T06:04:21
OP was asking if she should let her BIL who owed on her stuff and pretended it was her cat stay with her. Things took a dark turn
AITA
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2021-01-13T06:11:05
OP was asking if she should let her BIL who had peed on her stuff stay with her. It seemed weird then things took a dark turn.
AITA
Original post by u/Planetsahead Link to original post https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kruv9w/aita_for_not_taking_in_my_bil_who_peed_on_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossm Update 1: https://www.reddit.com/user/Planetsahead/comments/ktufit/peegate_update/?utm_source=share&am...
Staceyrt
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2021-01-15T18:54:35
"My (21F) brother (19M) opened up to me about his penis problems and I don’t know what to do"
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/i8ck5n/my_21f_brother_19m_opened_up_to_me_about_his/) by u/ThrowRA_AbbyCait*   We were having drinks out in the garden and got into some pretty deep conversations about life and love and stuff. At one point, I asked him why he can...
bestupdator
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2021-01-16T23:39:43
User r/DoubleRiver found a travel diary from 20+ years ago and managed to track down the owner.
Other
[https://www.reddit.com/r/australia/comments/kye7vk/update\_i\_found\_someones\_amazing\_travel\_journal/](https://www.reddit.com/r/australia/comments/kye7vk/update_i_found_someones_amazing_travel_journal/) Original Post by u/DoubleRiver OP: [https://www.reddit.com/r/australia/comments/ku9dq4/i\_found\_someones\_amaz...
smc642
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2021-01-17T21:02:50
"My (24M) girlfriend (26F) fully believes that she is a cat in a human’s body."
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/h7brue/my_24m_girlfriend_26f_fully_believes_that_she_is/) by user/ThrowRA20202004*   Tl;dr: gf now thinks she is an otherkin, a cat in a human's body and refuses to see anything wrong with the situation. The echo chamber she is no...
bestupdator
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/kzexpj/my_24m_girlfriend_26f_fully_believes_that_she_is/
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2021-01-18T18:33:39
OP's wife was fired from permanent position whilst on Maternity Leave
LegalAdvice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceUK/comments/jfynf9/wife_was_fired_from_permanent_position_whilst_on/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) by u/Rymundo88*   My wife is currently on maternity leave, she was in a full time role as a Quantity Surveyor that started in April 20...
bestupdator
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/l00ksc/ops_wife_was_fired_from_permanent_position_whilst/
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2021-01-18T18:52:44
OP's Wife Commits Voter Fraud
Relationship_Advice
OP: [u/ViciousRep](https://www.reddit.com/user/ViciousRep/) Large bit of backstory... Last year I decided early on that I didn't want to go out to the polls in November due to COVID-19. It's the first year I've ever requested an absentee ballot. I told my wife it was coming in the mail and asked her to check it c...
cherry5462
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2021-01-18T18:56:51
Updated SIL refuses to leave OP's house
Relationship_Advice
OG [u/Flow3rchild1234](https://www.reddit.com/u/Flow3rchild1234/) To give some context before hand, when my husband and I were building our new build, the house we currently own and reside in now, we had to stay with my in-laws. They were nice enough to ease that bit if a financial burden on us while our house was ...
cherry5462
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2021-01-19T09:41:51
my twin's SO is angry he is helping to raise my kids
AITA
OP: [u/AccordingAtmosphere0](https://www.reddit.com/user/AccordingAtmosphere0/) My twin and I (31M & F) have been very close as our parents both passed away early and we ended up living with my Uncle, who very clearly did not want us. Our lives were going relatively fine until I became a mother at 21, and dropp...
cherry5462
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2021-01-19T09:43:33
Today a guy (31) I've known since high school is telling me he'll buy nudes from me because he knows I'm down on my luck. I refuse, but it gets worse...!
Relationship_Advice
OP: [u/Puff-n-Stuff](https://www.reddit.com/user/Puff-n-Stuff/) What do you do when a dude you know keeps saying how much he is willing to buy lewds or nudes from you.... And they ALSO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND and have TOLD YOU about said girlfriend but he STILL keeps up the pressure? And before anyone asks, nope. I have...
cherry5462
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2021-01-19T20:34:00
My (17m) mom is mad with me because I won’t let her creepy sister (33f) around my baby
Relationship_Advice
Op: [u/fIyaway](https://www.reddit.com/user/fIyaway/) I (17m) have a three month old daughter. I knew beforehand to always wear a condom, and I would try to, but my mom (39f) would take them away each time I bought some more thinking me \& my girlfriend (18f) would stop having sex so I gave up and we just ...
cherry5462
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2021-01-20T18:59:48
"My antivax mom started crying after I said I didn't want to associate with anti-vax protesters and threatened not to help me pay for college if I got a flu shot."
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/i7zimx/my_antivax_mom_started_crying_after_i_said_i/) by u/ThrowRA_AntivaxMom*   So, to preface, I (17F) am an incoming freshman in college. I'm going to a UC (won't say which for obvious reasons), but I got into the school's semi...
bestupdator
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2021-01-21T22:01:40
OP's ex & mutual friends are happy she's moved on after break-up
r/JUSTNOMIL
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/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/l28xji/ops_ex_mutual_friends_are_happy_shes_moved_on/
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2021-01-21T22:03:17
OP's ex & mutual friends are not happy she's moved on after break-up
r/JUSTNOMIL
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/i876u7/leave_me_be/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/shibesanon*   This year I broke up with ex for what I hope to be the last time. We’ve been together on and off since we were 15/16 (now 21) and he was my...
bestupdator
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2021-01-22T22:15:02
OP is conflicted after his best friend helped a woman cheat on the father of her child
r/relationships
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/it2bwy/my_32m_best_friend_34m_helped_a_woman_24f_cheat/) by u/samurai5764*   Pretty much the title. My best friend of the last decade helped a girl cheat on the father of her 1 year old daughter and I'm having difficulty reconciling the...
bestupdator
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2021-01-24T21:20:12
OP's BF suddenly leaves to Finland for 2 months where his ex lives
r/relationships
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/jvy64f/bf_27m_suddenly_leaves_to_finland_where_his_ex/) by u/Probablover*   Me and Dan have been together for 3 months now and they haven't been very smooth. I often feel like I'm pulling the relationship forward by initiating almost al...
bestupdator
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2021-01-25T14:37:49
Mom on a crusade to get an ASL education for her deaf daughter prevails
IAmA
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/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/l4p2g4/mom_on_a_crusade_to_get_an_asl_education_for_her/
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2021-01-26T21:07:06
OP's cheating ex-husband feels entitled to another chance
r/relationships
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/gklndb/my_29m_soon_to_be_exhusband_seems_to_feel/) by u/throwaway246813572*   My husband and I have been together almost 8 years, married for 2 and half of those .Last May (2019) we seperated seemingly overnight. He left me and our todd...
bestupdator
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/l5nooy/ops_cheating_exhusband_feels_entitled_to_another/
l5nooy
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2021-01-27T19:36:48
OP wants his late wife’s daughter to move out so he can date
AITA
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/khvmzl/aita_for_making_my_late_wifes_daughter_move_out/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/movingon4*   My late wife passed away about a year ago. We were together 10 years but not married until she became...
bestupdator
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2021-01-27T21:50:35
OP wants her boyfriend to curl his eyelashes (featuring an update 5 years later)
Relationships
*repost, original* [*post*](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3hi08p/stupidest_question_ever_is_there_any_polite_way/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) *by* [*u/lkasjfsaldkfj*](https://www.reddit.com/user/lkasjfsaldkfj/) ​ I am 100% aware of how silly this is, and it's no b...
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2021-01-28T12:17:41
OPs husband wants to quit their job but OP is afraid for the future (with update)
Relationship_Advice
(This is my first time posting here but thought it was a nice story! Hope I didn't mess up lol) [ORIGINAL POST](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/gv6smn/my_husband_34m_wants_to_quit_his_job_without/) I’m not really sure if this is the right place for this, but here it goes. My (28F) husband (34M) has be...
RabbitsAmongUs
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2021-01-29T18:29:28
"How do I convince my sister that I don't want to fuck her fiance?"
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/euoyzn/how_do_i_24m_convince_my_sister_31f_that_i_dont/)*   I know the title sounds strange. I’ll try to be concise with all of the context. I [24m] have a sister [31F], and due to the age gap, we were never close. We grew up in t...
bestupdator
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2021-01-30T21:09:09
OP feels nervous about switching jobs and making life changes
r/hsp
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/hsp/comments/hmgbxk/dae_feel_nervous_to_switch_jobs_or_make_life/) by u/LionCubOfTerrasen*   DAE feel nervous to switch jobs or make life changes - even though you know it could benefit you greatly? Basically, I hate my job. I hate my boss. I’ve been there f...
bestupdator
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2021-01-31T18:17:19
"Mysterious bags of dog shit"
r/RBI
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/RBI/comments/l1358v/mysterious_bags_of_dog_shit/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/nevermind-me-ok*   I’m not sure if anyone will be able to give any insight on this one, but my gf and I are perplexed. She lives in a high end a...
bestupdator
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2021-02-01T18:21:00
OP's bf is mad that she left their hotel room to eat dinner
r/Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/l7g3e7/does_my_bf_have_the_right_to_be_mad_that_i_left/) by u/throwawaydinner12*   Me and my bf are currently on vacation and drove almost 25 hours without eating anything mostly because he didn't want to stop. We got to our hotel room at aro...
bestupdator
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2021-02-02T18:49:08
"Ex wife and I slept together for the first time in years while celebrating our late daughter’s b-day'
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/klz8pp/ex_wife_and_i_slept_together_for_the_first_time/) by /u/ThrowRAExWife_*   It happened Saturday night and I can’t stop thinking about it. My ex and I were young when she got pregnant. We were both only 19 and we were pressur...
bestupdator
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2021-02-03T08:44:39
”AITA for accusing my brother of being gay instead of studying all day?”
AITA
Repost, Original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/l87g0e/aita_for_accusing_my_brother_of_being_gay_instead/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/throwaway147021 I'm 14M, and my brother is 22M. We've always had a great relationship, he's the one I'm closest to all my ...
Downelius
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2021-02-04T18:21:30
"My (21f) coworker (?m) won’t leave me alone and I’m struggling to set boundaries"
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ikjmxt/my_21f_coworker_m_wont_leave_me_alone_and_im/) by u/throwraawkwardjob*   I’ve recently (within the last few months) started a new job working in a supermarket, and I’m struggling to set boundaries with a coworker. This is m...
bestupdator
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2021-02-05T20:09:14
Update : Gf told me I am going to die in 72 hours
null
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/lari2p/gf_told_me_i_am_going_to_die_in_72_hours/) by u/ThrowRA_Geologist* I (29/M) am with my gf (29/F) since 7 years. She is a lot into astrology, tarot card readings, crystals, mediums and numerology. It's not a big part of her life and ...
Strider_A
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2021-02-06T17:29:08
"book seller on south st"
r/philadelphia
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/philadelphia/comments/klkkiq/book_seller_on_south_st/) by u/reallyelainebenes*   every time i go to south street, there's always this one man selling books somewhere between 7th and 9th (ish?) on south. as far as i can tell, he's homeless. he always spreads t...
bestupdator
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2021-02-07T19:30:31
Congratulations r/BestofRedditorUpdates on 10,000 subscribers!!
META
We've reached 10,000 subscribers!   **Thanks to everyone** who has joined during the past year! We've been very selective in promoting the sub which has allowed a great community to grow.   **Special thanks** to all our commenters & contributors, especially u/Father-Son-HolyToast, for helpi...
bestupdator
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2021-02-08T16:53:52
When OP gently tells her long-term boyfriend that his constant scrutiny and criticisms make her feel bad, he responds there are "millions" of things she does wrong that he doesn't mention. [Posted 8 months ago]
Relationships
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/go2t88/when_i_34f_told_boyfriend_36m_i_frequently_feel/) is by /u/throwaway52120.* We are closing in on 2 years together. I’d say we spend 80% of our free time together. He still pays rent at his place but pretty much lives here. A...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-08T17:39:02
OP is a manager whose trans direct report keeps getting dead-named by a jerk coworker. [AskAManager blog]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost not from Reddit, but from AskAManager.org. [The original post is here](https://www.askamanager.org/2020/08/my-employee-keeps-getting-deadnamed-by-a-coworker.html). (The link is external to Reddit.)* **ORIGINAL LETTER** I have managed “John,” a transgender man, for about two years. John does not keep...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-09T17:52:53
OP is a paralegal working for a nightmare attorney, and they're at the end of their rope.
Relationships
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/j3bekh/i_28f_need_some_advice_on_how_to_cope_with_a/) is by /u/VintageRose.* I work in a law firm as a paralegal, and one of the attorneys massively gets on my nerves. I have strategies to deal with her so that I’m still able to get...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-09T20:02:10
OP figures out guardianship before he passes away from cancer
AITA
*This is a repost. Original Post made by* u/goodbyemyboy *TW: Cancer* Original Title - **AITAH for giving guardianship of my son to my aunt over my mother after I die of my terminal cancer** *This is a very heartfelt post and update. Just a heads up, I actually cried after reading it.* ​ [Original Post...
PNWNative1992
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2021-02-10T16:30:31
OP ghosts his longtime girlfriend, moving out of their shared apartment with no explanation, and then complains her frantic attempts to get in touch with him are "obsessive." 10 years later, OP finds out that the ex-girlfriend he treated so shabbily is going to be his new boss. [AskAManager blog]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost not from Reddit, but from AskAManager.org. [The original link is here.](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/08/i-ghosted-my-ex-and-shes-about-to-be-my-new-boss.html) (The link is external to Reddit.)* **ORIGINAL LETTER** I was hoping you would be able to help me with a conundrum I got myself into. I h...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-10T22:00:13
[AskAManager] "is the work environment I’ve created on my team too exclusive?"
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost not from Reddit, but from AskAManager.org. The original link is [here](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/07/is-the-work-environment-ive-created-on-my-team-too-exclusive.html). (The link is external to Reddit.)* **Original Letter** I’m writing this question based on feedback received from an exit inte...
coveredinbeeees
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2021-02-11T17:10:34
OP keeps getting turned down for the limited jobs in her dream niche industry. It turns out a girl she horribly bullied in high school grew up to be a rockstar in that industry, and has now blacklisted her. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost not from Reddit, but from AskAManager.org. [The original link is here.](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/04/i-didnt-get-a-job-because-i-was-a-bully-in-high-school.html) (Link is external to Reddit.)* **ORIGINAL LETTER** I’ve been trying to break into a niche industry (30-40 jobs in a city with a pop...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-11T18:43:27
The case of the mystery nightstand filled with old love letters, photos, and other 1940s/1950s memorabilia
RBI
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://old.reddit.com/r/RBI/comments/hvhla3/i_need_reddits_help_the_case_of_the_mystery/) is by /u/StevesMcQueenIsHere.* This is a strange story, and it's kind of long, so bear with me. Six years ago, my parents' neighbor bought a nightstand at a flea market. When she moved, sh...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-11T18:47:16
”AITA for pouring my Husband's Sweet Tea Down the Drain and Marching out?”
IAmA
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/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/lhrig0/aita_for_pouring_my_husbands_sweet_tea_down_the/
lhrig0
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2021-02-11T18:49:49
”AITA for pouring my Husband's Sweet Tea Down the Drain and Marching out?”
AITA
”AITA for pouring my Husband's Sweet Tea Down the Drain and Marching out?” This is a repost, [Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lc1zmn/aita_for_pouring_my_husbands_sweet_tea_down_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) post by u/frustratedanddone [AITA for pouring my ...
Downelius
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2021-02-12T15:32:27
Possibly the most infamous AskAManager letter of all time: a group of interns with complaints about the dress code majorly misstep out of ignorance about workplace norms, and are shaken by the consequences.
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost not from Reddit, but from AskAManager.org. [The original link is here.](https://www.askamanager.org/2016/06/i-was-fired-from-my-internship-for-writing-a-proposal-for-a-more-flexible-dress-code.html) (Link is external to Reddit.)* **ORIGINAL LETTER** I was able to get a summer internship at a company...
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2021-02-12T15:51:05
OP's landlord has taken to barging into his private rented flat at all hours, using his bathroom and leaving angry notes about OP's laundry and unmade bed.
LegalAdviceUK
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceUK/comments/kts96t/landlord_keeps_making_excuses_for_coming_into_my/) is by /u/OkSource2779.* I am at my wits end and am having mental health issues because of this. My landlord keeps coming into my flat. Almost everyday. I come home and he is ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-13T06:28:33
“AITA for telling my GF I’d like her to “dress up” more when we go out?”
AITA
AITA for telling my GF I’d like her to “dress up” more when we go out? Adding: Wow, am I glad I posted here. I’m a moron so it never occurred to me that this could be a mental health/weight gain/self esteem issue. I’m going to try to find a delicate way to talk to her about this. Thank you all so much. I (32m) be...
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2021-02-14T19:38:14
"I need to leave my marriage and feel so broken and scared."
r/MomForAMinute
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/MomForAMinute/comments/f0vtnc/mom_i_need_to_leave_my_marriage_and_feel_so/) in r/MomForAMinute by u/SaphoPotter*   I need to leave my marriage and feel so broken and scared. I have given him everything I have for the last 4 years, and I am at the end of my r...
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2021-02-14T21:34:31
Should I make my girlfriend a dozen origami roses for valentines?
Relationship_Advice
*originally posted by u/siwelsieman to r/relationship_advice* https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/lj5l7t/should_i_make_my_girlfriend_a_dozen_origami_roses/ "She knows I can do origami roses and due to Brexit stupidity flowers have been a pain to get shipped over here. It takes me ~30 min to make one...
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2021-02-15T08:07:35
Got my (50F) results back... Found my bio father!
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(This story originally from r/23andme posted by u/m0nkeyh0use) Freaked me the hell out, because I wasn't expecting much. AncestryDNA pulled up some distant cousins (meh), but nobody too close. This... was kinda hoped for, but I wasn't prepared for how much it'd whack me upside the head. Had to take some PTO just t...
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2021-02-15T17:03:07
AITA for telling my daughter (5F) that she would be getting a bob cut if she couldn't manage her own hair?
AITA
**This is a repost, just to be clear. It isn’t mine.** AITA for telling my daughter (5F) that she would be getting a bob cut if she couldn't manage her own hair? My wife - my daughter's mother - recently passed away. Before she passed away, my wife would always do our daughter's hair. She has long hair that goes d...
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2021-02-16T05:20:50
OP's best friend, who has spent 10 years begging her disinterested boyfriend to propose, suddenly ghosts OP when OP gets engaged.
Relationships
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/laksa7/my_best_friend_29_wont_speak_to_me_since_i_29f/) is by /u/thrownawayfriend91.* So as the title suggests, my best friend has not spoken to me since the beginning of December. Molly (name changed) and I met three years ago on ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-16T08:48:40
OP's(27f) boyfriend's (28m) best friend (28m) has been living with us and I don't like it.
Relationship_Advice
OP: [u/ThrowRA\_helloreddit](https://www.reddit.com/user/ThrowRA_helloreddit/) Hi! This is a throwaway because this is kind of personal. I've never made a post on this subreddit before, so let me know if I'm doing anything wrong. Sorry if this is long or for any grammatical mistakes. For background, I am a 27 yea...
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2021-02-16T17:09:07
Today in people inappropriately involving non-consenting others in their kink: OP's coworker is insisting that all her colleagues refer to her boyfriend as her "master." (AskAManager)
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
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2021-02-17T16:00:14
OP's father is dating OP's abusive boss--and it gets weird fast, including the "happy couple" demanding that OP join them in group therapy. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post is here](https://www.askamanager.org/2018/05/my-dad-is-dating-my-boss-and-they-want-me-to-go-to-couples-therapy-with-them.html) and is external to Reddit.* My dad started dating this woman (Jill) about two years ago, after he and my stepmom amicably divorced. As this was going on,...
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2021-02-17T21:42:05
AITA for snapping at my mum and running away from home, leaving my parents worrying with no knowledge of where I am and if I’m safe for three days?
AITA
[Original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lg99e9/aita_for_snapping_at_my_mum_and_running_away_from/): I know it sounds bad, but bear with me: my parents (45F&44M) and I (17F) have a complicated, strained sort of relationship where they only pay me attention when a) I’m in a life-threatenin...
hexebear
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2021-02-18T16:29:47
Very similar story to a recent post, but with a different ending: OP's landlord seems to be coming into their flat uninvited on a regular basis, and claims the lease bars OP from having nanny cams inside their own apartment.
RBI
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/RBI/comments/lfcom4/i_have_a_sneaking_suspicion_that_my_landlord_may/) is by /u/deilav.* Original title: I have a sneaking suspicion that my landlord may be inviting himself into my flat when I'm away at work. Please help me get some dirt on him without b...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-18T16:45:25
This is why you have to GTFO of toxic work environments before they infect your sense of normal: OP has bitten her coworker, and she did it on purpose. (Yes, you read that correctly.) [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post is from the AskAManager blog.](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/07/i-bit-my-coworker.html) (The link is external to Reddit.)* So I bit a coworker yesterday. Obviously, I’m mortified. I work in an incredibly dysfunctional office. The tone is set by our office manager. He’s in his ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-18T17:26:31
Man comes home early to find neighbor rubbing lotion on his pregnant wife’s stomach.
Relationship_Advice
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2021-02-19T15:54:10
OP is a server who has been scheduled to work a party of 135 guests all alone with a partner who's a brand-new server. [Posted pre-COVID]
TalesFromYourServer
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromYourServer/comments/d0wq64/tonight_might_be_the_night/) is by /u/ludicrousspeedg0.* Original title: Tonight might be the night... That I lose my shit and quit. If you've not read any of my previous posts of jackassery happening at my current pla...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-19T16:51:43
OP is in a competitive internship, essentially auditioning to be made full-time. However, after being rude to a woman on the train who turned out to be the CEO's wife, OP didn't get the job and is worrying that's why. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post is from the AskAManager blog.](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/07/ceos-wife-ruined-my-job-prospects.html) (Link is external to Reddit.)* I have been going through a very rigorous interviewing process for a permanent job in a firm where I have been undergoing a two-month post-coll...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-20T19:32:51
/r/LegalAdvice - I accidentally created an army of crow body guards. Am I liable if my murder attempts murder?
LegalAdvice
[Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/ki6fnd/oregon_i_accidentally_created_an_army_of_crow/?sort=top) by /u/cranne: To make a long story short, im a late 20 something living in portland oregon. I had a pretty intense emo/goth phase as a tween that i thought i had grown out of. A couple months ago, ...
miles_allan
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2021-02-21T05:31:27
OP is concerned about her partner's coworker, who cornered her at a party to demand what's so special about her that the boyfriend would choose OP over the coworker.
Relationship_Advice
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/l7j8a9/should_i_be_worried_about_my_partners_coworker/) is by /u/TA_am_i_paranoid.* Hoping to get an outside perspective to see if I'm reading too much into this. A bit of background: My partner (M30) and I (F32) have been to...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-21T05:44:16
A boss is unwilling to intervene in a situation where one employee is leading a bullying campaign against another, which culminated in the bully dressing as her target for Halloween. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post is from the AskAManager blog.](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/11/employee-dressed-up-as-coworker-for-halloween-to-mock-her-fending-off-a-colleagues-dinner-invitations-and-more.html) (Link is external to Reddit.)* My office had a costume contest on Halloween. Dressing up was enco...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-21T20:13:38
OP's husband shows favoritism toward youngest and almost ruins their family, but he is working on himself and making amends with his other children
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2021-02-21T21:30:58
OP's Step-Daughter tells him she hates him and wishes he'd get Covid so he "wouldn't be around anymore"
r/stepparents
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/stepparents/comments/kqy59e/stepdaughter_says_she_hates_me_and_wished_id_get/) by u/RaedwaldRex*   Sorry, long first post but want to get it off my chest So I have a stepdaughter who is 14. Ive been with her mother since she was 4, she doesn't see her biolog...
bestupdator
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2021-02-22T16:36:06
Five years after the tragic death of her husband, OP's deadbeat former in-laws are trying to sue her for her home and savings--and have contacted her work to demand they forward OP's paychecks to them.
LegalAdvice
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/kn8lv2/got_sued_this_morning_should_i_retaliate/) is by a since-deleted user.* background: my husband and daughter died a little over 5 years ago in a car crash (I don't say accident, because the guy who hit them was drunk and is stil...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-02-22T16:59:05
A multi-update story of white collar crime: OP racked up $20K of personal charges on their corporate credit card and has fallen into a vicious cycle of moving debt around to cover it while the total continues to grow. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2015/06/i-racked-up-20000-in-personal-charges-on-my-company-credit-card.html) appeared on the AskAManager blog. (Link is external to Reddit.)* The short version of the story is that I genuinely misunderstood the way my corporate credit card was to be u...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lpthij
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2021-02-23T03:29:51
Redditor gives up on a college scholarship to be with boyfriend of 3months. Regrets it.
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/7awaf0/my_best_friend_22f_is_giving_up_a_fullride/) by /u/terribleterriblewedd* > throwaway for anonymity reasons. My best friend has a full-ride scholarship (tuition, rent, books) from our university. She is a very book smart girl and has bee...
Willuknight
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lq81hb
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2021-02-23T17:51:42
All the women in an office are tacitly expected to clean their male coworkers' dishes, much to their frustration; a man in the office gets angry when he overhears two of the women acknowledging the situation.
AITA
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/dq5njd/aita_for_resenting_cleaning_up_after_the_office/) is by /u/KitchenWorkWoesThrow.* I work in a male-dominated industry, and my large department only has 5 women working in it. Our custodians do not wash dishes. The office poli...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lqofl1
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2021-02-23T19:43:46
Redditor and his girlfriend have a big fight over food
AITA
*This was posted on r/AmItheAsshole by u/theomelette_* **AITA for refusing to make anymore meals for my girlfriend after she kept complaining about my cooking?** Things have been great with my girlfriend for the most part. We (28F, 26M) have been together 4 years and living together for 2. Lately there’s been some ...
yannywreath
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2021-02-23T20:22:33
Couple issues with a happy ending
AITA
[removed]
cherrydollfacee
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2021-02-23T22:51:44
Redditor thinks she hates her roommate's dog
null
*This is a repost.* *This was originally posted on* /r/relationships *by* [*u/helpmewithmail/*](https://www.reddit.com/user/helpmewithmail/) [ORIGINAL](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/kfhw2j/i_24m_cannot_stand_my_boyfriends_roommates_26f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) ...
comfyninja
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2021-02-24T03:54:44
My (F27) Best Friend (F27) Says My Fiancé (M28) Admitted Feelings For Her, He Denies It + UPDATE
null
This post was made by u/throwra_pastatank ORIGINAL: So I've been with my fiancé since I was 17, 10 years together. And I've been best friends with my friend since we were 8. Generally they have gotten on fine throughout that time, until a few years ago when my friend picked me up after a few drinks one night (I had...
red_earaches
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lr30hx
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2021-02-24T15:06:15
A coworker assumes OP's children are adopted because they're brown and she's white. When politely corrected, she has a meltdown and accuses OP of being insulting to adoptive parents. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2020/11/my-coworker-thinks-i-insulted-adoptive-parents-am-i-embarrassing-my-boss-and-more.html) appeared on AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* I am a remote worker who recently started at a new company. Less than two weeks after I started, my team did a “br...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lrezje
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2021-02-24T21:20:58
Reddit does something kind.
TalesFromYourServer
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromYourServer/comments/k1c071/i_honestly_like_my_new_homeless_regular/) is by /u/KingOfArms.* Original title: I honestly like my new homeless regular. I'm going to ramble a while and I'm probably going to wind up deleting this, but I'm going to typ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/lrnm1e/reddit_does_something_kind/
lrnm1e
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2021-02-25T00:56:27
Me [35 M] with my sister [42 F], got a painful message from her regarding my professional behavior as a substitute k-12 teacher and don't know how to respond (5 year update!)
null
[Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3fnzui/me_35_m_with_my_sister_42_f_siblings_for_35_years/): Hello, relationships. This is long, so thanks to any who plow through it. Recently I got a really hurtful message from my oldest sister, and I'm not sure how to take it. I'll start with some backgrou...
hexebear
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lrsjo7
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2021-02-25T18:34:18
OP is in the weird position of managing an employee who was horribly abused in childhood by OP's estranged family. The employee has just now put 2+2 together about her and OP's connection and is showing a lot of stress. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/02/i-manage-someone-who-was-terribly-harmed-by-my-family-what-do-i-do.html) appeared on AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* **Content warning:** *This post deals with topics related to sexual abuse.* I am a director of a department. One of the supervis...
Father-Son-HolyToast
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/lsde9h/op_is_in_the_weird_position_of_managing_an/
lsde9h
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2021-02-25T20:01:54
A shitty small restaurant owner has started stealing all the tips that come in on online orders, leaving the servers making less than $8/hour.
TalesFromYourServer
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/TalesFromYourServer/comments/jygrfa/can_my_boss_keep_the_tips_from_online_orders/) is by /u/emzies56.* So I work at a very small restaurant. Most days we will just have 1 waitress who does all of the in house dining, phone orders, eatstreet orders, and on...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lsfg1e
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2021-02-27T17:52:48
OP works a great post-grad job at a company she loves, but her cousin just got a job there with her, and his extreme helicopter parents (OP's aunt and uncle) are ruining his career with their insane behavior, and damaging OP's standing in the process. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/02/my-aunt-and-uncle-are-extreme-helicopter-parents-and-i-work-with-their-son.html) appeared on AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* A reader writes: I graduated from college in 2015 and am currently working at my first post-graduation job in the area I...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lttf2g
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2021-02-27T17:55:17
Sister keeps showing off to OP's BF
Relationship_Advice
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/lem1t6/my_22f_sister_19f_keeps_showing_off_to_my_bf_28m/) by u/ThrowRAjellyGirl*   First, i've always been jealous of my sister. I work hard to keep fit and stuff but she's just naturally slim, tall, blonde and has E cup boobs. Sh...
bestupdator
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/lttgyd/sister_keeps_showing_off_to_ops_bf/
lttgyd
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2021-02-28T16:49:40
My [23F] boyfriend [25M] used the dog's savings for a computer
Relationship_Advice
[Original](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ic4aos/my_23f_boyfriend_25m_used_the_dogs_savings_for_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) I know the title is a little odd but it was the best way I could summarize what he's done. I have an 11-year old senior German Shepard. He was hit by a...
Greggs_VSausageRoll
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lukfr7
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2021-03-01T19:45:49
A strange but interesting little story: OP's friend has a bizarre fixation on cooking for her, and her exhaustion with dodging his terrible cooking has her dialing back the friendship.
Relationship_Advice
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/l5sss0/my_30f_friend_32m_always_wants_to_cook_for/) is by /u/throwaway452896.* About six months ago, I moved across the country to a new state where I have a lot of friends and family. I posted about my move on Facebook and *M...
Father-Son-HolyToast
/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/lvijd9/a_strange_but_interesting_little_story_ops_friend/
lvijd9
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2021-03-01T19:55:28
OP's boss suspended her without pay for wearing unprofessional clothing--on her impromptu midnight run to the airport to pick him up, which he woke her up to demand. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2016/11/im-in-trouble-for-what-i-wore-when-when-my-boss-made-me-pick-him-up-for-the-airport-in-the-middle-of-the-night.html) is from AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* I am working at my first job since I graduated university and I have learned a lot from r...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lvisec
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2021-03-01T22:41:23
Dad missed his daughter's birthday party and got them a shitty present.
AITA
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kw2o7z/aita_for_asking_my_dad_if_the_reason_he_missed_my/) by /u/birthdaypartypost* ###AITA for asking my dad if the reason he missed my birthday was to be with his other family My parents divorced 3 years ago because my dad had an affair and t...
Willuknight
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lvmtsa
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2021-03-02T02:08:45
Teen feels uncomfortable around his stepbrother
AITA
_The original post was made by u/throw_awaystepbro on r/AmItheAsshole_ **[AITA for not wanting to share room with step-brother anymore after he came out?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lpei30/aita_for_not_wanting_to_share_room_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)** My ...
yannywreath
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lvrdgu
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2021-03-02T18:19:13
OP "accidentally" calls her boss's 15-year-old daughter a "whore" to his face. Who among us hasn't been there, amirite? /s [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2017/04/i-accidentally-insulted-my-bosss-daughter.html) was posted on AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* I am a female employee in my late 20s working for a large Fortune 500 U.S. company. My boss is in his early 40s and is a father of two. His oldest is a ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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lw8r41
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2021-03-03T03:49:42
AITA Father seeks advice about his PJ rules
AITA
[Original Post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/kv7stv/aita_for_not_letting_my_kids_wear_pyjamas_around/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/backyardpond AITA for not letting my kids wear pyjamas around the house? I am a dad (43) to three kids (15F, 10F, 8M). I love them...
internetrabbithole
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lwkg5b
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2021-03-03T13:47:46
OP [41 M] with his bestfriend [28 F] friends for 3 years, has feelings for her, she seems to reciprocate.
Relationship_Advice
[**Original post**](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/lu33rz/me_41_m_with_my_bestfriend_28_f_friends_for_3/) by [u/BestFriendLoveTA](https://www.reddit.com/user/BestFriendLoveTA/) About three years ago, I took on a job at a new employer. I met this coworker (call her Jennifer), who would later become o...
RabbitsAmongUs
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2021-03-03T15:23:03
Continuing the recent update theme of helicopter parents inappropriately involving themselves in their adult offspring's job
AITA
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lez6yb/wibtah_if_i_fire_a_kid_because_his_mother_is/) is by /u/ykie.* Original title: WIBTAH if I fire a kid because his mother is harassing me? I (late 20s) run a department in a startup and hired a few student workers (17-21) to ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-03-03T21:11:56
Update- AITA for lying about my wife having fertility issues?
AITA
*This is a repost* OP is u/liedabtfertilityta [Original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/jvwnht/aita_for_lying_about_my_wife_having_fertility/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) My wife is trans and we met for the first time after she fully medically and surgically transitioned. Nobody...
BelligerentCoroner
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2021-03-04T01:54:27
Orange Sock Murders: User in r/UnresolvedMysteries posts an update 4yrs later
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2021-03-04T17:41:12
OP's "friend" is having her wedding on the 7-year anniversary of the day OP lost her whole family to a tragic accident, and she has forbidden OP from making her annual pilgrimage to their graves on HER special day.
AITA
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ljaump/aita_for_not_attending_my_friends_wedding_on_the/) is by /u/Warm_Blanket12.* Seven years ago, I (35F) lost my husband, daughter, and mother to a car accident. They were hit by a drunk driver that drove though a red light and ...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-03-04T17:46:47
A manager at OP's office has begun snidely referring to her as "baby momma" after her return from maternity leave. [AskAManager]
EXTERNAL: AskAManager
*This is a repost. [The original post](https://www.askamanager.org/2015/06/coworker-keeps-calling-me-baby-mama.html) appeared on AskAManager.org, not Reddit.* I work in a male-dominated field, and I’m used to guy jokes and language. My coworkers joke around with me often, and I’m never offended, as I know it is good-h...
Father-Son-HolyToast
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2021-03-05T00:14:59
OP is upset with S/O for being friendly with his HS bully
AITA
Original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lv6eo3/aita_for_being_upset_at_my_so_for_being_friendly/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/Individualcut_9249 on r/AmItheAsshole. AITA for being upset at my S/O for being friendly with my high school bully? VERDICT:NTA M...
internetrabbithole
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2021-03-06T23:36:25
OP angers wife, SIL, and the AITA crowd with his armchair diagnosis (short)
AITA
Original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lw9ywp/aita_for_telling_my_wife_i_think_shes_bipolar/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) by u/throwbipolarwifr AITA for telling my wife I think she’s bipolar? I tried to post about this before but it wasn’t right for this sub s...
internetrabbithole
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2021-03-08T21:08:55
Married for 11 years, OP suddenly can't stop thinking about a girl he dated for 1 month 16 years ago
r/relationships
*repost, original [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/lqpshq/me_36_m_married_to_my_wife_36_f_11_years_and_i/) by u/Thor442*   I have what I consider to be a good healthy relationship with my wife. For some reason though, I recently am unable to stop thinking about a girl I dated 16 years ...
bestupdator
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