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But it wasn't just the intensity of Miguel's grief that confused his employers; it was the duration.
Ma non fu solo l'intensità della sofferenza di Miguel a confondere i suoi datori di lavoro, fu soprattutto la durata.
en-it
Miguel was confused by this as well and really quite embarrassed by it.
Auch Miguel war davon verwirrt und schämte sich regelrecht dafür.
en-de
"What's wrong with me?" he asked me in our session.
"ما هي مشكلتي؟"، سألني في جلسة لنا.
en-ar
"What adult spends almost a year getting over a one-year relationship?"
"کون عقلمند لوگ ایک سالہ تعلق کو بھلانے میں ایک سال لگا دیتے ہیں؟"
en-ur
Actually, many do.
တကယ်က အများအပြား ကြာကြပါတယ်။
en-my
Heartbreak shares all the hallmarks of traditional loss and grief: insomnia, intrusive thoughts, immune system dysfunction.
Slomljeno srce sadrži sve oznake tradicionalnog gubitka i bola: nesanica, nametljive misli, disfunkcija imunog sistema.
en-sr
Forty percent of people experience clinically measurable depression.
Il 40% della popolazione sviluppa una depressione clinicamente misurabile.
en-it
Heartbreak is a complex psychological injury.
Strto srce je zapletena psihološka poškodba.
en-sl
It impacts us in a multitude of ways.
Вона впливає на різні аспекти життя.
en-uk
For example, Sharon was both very social and very active.
예를들어, 샤론은 매우 사교적이고 활발한 사람이었습니다.
en-ko
She had dinners at the house every week.
Οργάνωνε δείπνα στο σπίτι της κάθε εβδομάδα.
en-el
She and Miguel went on camping trips with other couples.
미겔과 샤론은 다른 커플들과 어울려 캠핑을 가곤 했습니다.
en-ko
Although Miguel was not religious, he accompanied Sharon to church every Sunday, where he was welcomed into the congregation.
Apesar de o Miguel não ser religioso, ele acompanhava-a à igreja todos os domingos, onde era bem recebido pela congregação.
en-pt
Miguel didn't just lose his girlfriend; he lost his entire social life, the supportive community of Sharon's church.
میگوئل تنها دوست‌دخترش را از دست نداد؛ بلکه کل زندگی اجتماعی‌اش، و انجمن حمایت‌گر کلیسای شرون را هم از دست داد.
en-fa
He lost his identity as a couple.
Ông mất điểm nhận dạng là một cặp đôi.
en-vi
Now, Miguel recognized the breakup had left this huge void in his life, but what he failed to recognize is that it left far more than just one.
Мигел разбра, че раздялата остави тази голяма празнина в живота му, но това, което той не разбра, е, че празнината далеч не е само една.
en-bg
And that is crucial, not just because it explains why heartbreak could be so devastating, but because it tells us how to heal.
Bu çok önemli, kalp kırıklığının neden bu kadar yıkıcı olduğunu açıklamasının yanı sıra, nasıl iyileşeceğimizi de açıklıyor.
en-tr
To fix your broken heart, you have to identify these voids in your life and fill them, and I mean all of them.
იმისთვის რომ გაიმთელოთ გული, უნდა ამოიცნოთ ეს სიცარიელეები და შეავსოთ ისინი, თითოეული მათგანი.
en-ka
The voids in your identity: you have to reestablish who you are and what your life is about.
你身分中的空洞: 你得要重新建立你自己和你的生活。
en-zh-tw
The voids in your social life, the missing activities, even the empty spaces on the wall where pictures used to hang.
τα κενά στην κοινωνική σου ζωή, τις δραστηριότητες που χάνεις, ακόμα και τα κενά σημεία στον τοίχο όπου κρέμονταν φωτογραφίες.
en-el
But none of that will do any good unless you prevent the mistakes that can set you back, the unnecessary searches for explanations, idealizing your ex instead of focusing on how they were wrong for you, indulging thoughts and behaviors that still give them a starring role in this next chapter of your life when they shouldn't be an extra.
당신을 저지시켰던 실수를 막으려는 노력 없이는 어떤 것도 소용없습니다. 이별의 이유를 찾기위한 불필요한 탐색, 옛 애인이 얼마나 안 맞는 상대였는지에 대한 생각에 집중하는 대신 그들을 이상화하고 인생의 새로운 장에서도 주인공 역할을 부여하고 엑스트라로 만들지 않으려는 생각과 행동을 멈춰야 합니다.
en-ko
Getting over heartbreak is hard, but if you refuse to be misled by your mind and you take steps to heal, you can significantly minimize your suffering.
Είναι δύσκολο να ξεπερνάς έναν χωρισμό, αλλά αν αρνηθείς να παραπλανηθείς από το μυαλό σου και κάνεις βήματα για να γιατρευτείς, μπορείς να μειώσεις σημαντικά το πόσο υποφέρεις.
en-el
And it won't just be you who benefit from that.
受惠的不只有你。
en-zh-tw
You'll be more present with your friends, more engaged with your family, not to mention the billions of dollars of compromised productivity in the workplace that could be avoided.
Je zult meer aanwezig zijn met je vrienden, meer betrokken bij je familie, los van de biljoenen dollars van gecompromitteerde productiviteit op de werkplek die vermeden kunnen worden.
en-nl
So if you know someone who is heartbroken, have compassion, because social support has been found to be important for their recovery.
如果你知道有谁心碎了, 要心怀同情, 因为社会的支持被证实 对他们的复原非常重要。
en-zh-cn
And have patience, because it's going to take them longer to move on than you think it should.
Και να έχετε υπομονή, γιατί θα τους πάρει περισσότερο χρόνο για να προχωρήσουν απ' ό,τι εσείς νομίζετε.
en-el
And if you're hurting, know this: it's difficult, it is a battle within your own mind, and you have to be diligent to win.
A pokud se trápíte vy, vězte tohle: je to obtížné, je to bitva uvnitř vaší vlastní mysli a musíte být důslední, abyste vyhráli.
en-cs
But you do have weapons.
무기는 당신에게 있습니다.
en-ko
You can fight.
אתם יכולים להילחם.
en-he
And you will heal.
اور آپ شفا یاب ہوں گے۔
en-ur
For me, it was not being invited to a friend's wedding.
有一次,我的一个朋友 没有邀请我参加他的婚礼。
en-zh-cn
At first, I didn't really mind.
في البداية، لم يهمني الأمر حقًا.
en-ar
I thought he was having a small reception.
소규모 결혼식을 한다고 생각했죠.
en-ko
But then I kept meeting people who were going to the same wedding, and they weren't as close to the groom as I was ...
اما بعد از آن، چندین نفر را دیدم که به همان مراسم می‌رفتند، در حالی که به اندازه من به داماد نزدیک نبودند ...
en-fa
and I felt left out.
و من احساس طرد شدن پیدا کردم.
en-fa
That really sucked.
وهذا أمرٌ مرعجٌ حقًا.
en-ar
It felt really unfair.
Adaletsiz hissettirdi.
en-tr
For my daughters, Lipsi and Greta, it was last week.
Dla moich córek, Lipsi i Grety, to był zeszły tydzień.
en-pl
They were taking turns massaging their mom's back with a toy for back rubs, and then one of the girls felt that the other girl had a longer go.
她们正在轮流用一个按摩棒 给妈妈按摩后背。 一个女孩儿感觉另一个 按摩的时间长了一点,
en-zh-cn
That's when I walk into the room to find Greta in a rage, shouting, "That's not fair!"
İşte bu noktada odaya girdim ve Greta'yı öfkeyle "Bu adil değil!" diye bağırırken buldum,
en-tr
and Lipsi in tears, and my wife holding a stopwatch to make sure that each girl had precisely one minute on the toy.
a Lipsi u suzama, dok moja žena drži štopericu kako bi merila po tačno jedan minut za svaku devojčicu.
en-sr
So if you're anything like me or my girls, the last thing that upset you probably also had to do with unfairness.
如果你是我和我女儿这样的人, 最近一次让你心烦的事, 很可能也跟不公平有关。
en-zh-cn
That's because unfairness triggers us so strongly that we can't think straight.
Denn Ungerechtigkeit reizt uns so stark, dass wir nicht mehr klar denken können.
en-de
We become afraid and suspicious.
Somos presa del temor y de la sospecha.
en-es
Our unfairness antennae stick up.
Adaletsizlik antenimiz çıkıveriyor.
en-tr
We feel pain, and we walk away.
我們感到痛苦,我們一走了之。
en-zh-tw
Unfairness is one of the defining issues of our society, it's one of the root causes of polarization, and it's bad news for business.
불공평은 우리 사회에 강력하게 영향을 미치는 요소 중 하나입니다. 불공평은 양극화의 근본적인 요인 중 하나입니다. 기업에도 악영향을 줍니다.
en-ko
At work, unfairness makes people defensive and disengaged.
در کار، بی‌عدالتی کارمندان را تدافعی و بی‌مسئولیت می‌کند.
en-fa
A study shows that 70 percent of workers in the US are disengaged, and this is costing the companies 550 billion dollars a year every year.
Um estudo mostra que 70% dos profissionais nos EUA estão descomprometidos, e isso custa às empresas US$ 550 bilhões por ano, todos os anos.
en-pt-br
This is, like, half the total spent on education in the US.
Sarebbe come dire, metà della spesa per l'educazione negli Stati Uniti.
en-it
This is the size of the GDP of a country like Austria.
ou encore le PIB d'un pays comme l'Autriche.
en-fr
So removing unfairness and promoting fairness should be our priority.
Tako da uklanjanje nepravde i promovisanje pravičnosti treba da bude prioritet.
en-sr
Is it about more rules? Is it about systems?
هل هو حول المزيد من القواعد؟ وعن الأنظمة؟
en-ar
Is it about equality?
آیا به معنی ایجاد برابری است؟
en-fa
Well, partly, but fairness is more interesting than rules and equality.
Nun, zum Teil, aber Gerechtigkeit ist mehr als nur Regeln und Gleichwertigkeit.
en-de
Fairness works in surprising ways.
Adalet beklenmedik yollarla çalışır.
en-tr
15 years ago, I left a US investment bank to join a large Italian state-owned oil company.
Há 15 anos, eu saí de um banco de investimento nos EUA para entrar numa grande empresa petrolífera estatal italiana.
en-pt
It was a different world.
آنجا دنیای متفاوتی بود.
en-fa
I thought the key to getting the best performance was a risk-reward system where you could give the high performers bonuses and promotions and give the underperformers something to worry about.
اعتقدت أن جوهر الحصول على أفضل أداء كان نظام المخاطرة-المكافأة حيث يمكنكم منح ذوي الأداء العالي العلاوات والترقيات ومنح ذوي الأداء الضعيف شيئًا يدعو للقلق.
en-ar
But in this company, we had fixed salaries and lifelong jobs.
Но в этой компании у нас была фиксированная зарплата и работа на всю жизнь.
en-ru
Careers were set, so my toolkit wasn't very effective, and I was frustrated.
Le carriere erano auuomatiche, quindi il mio metodo non era molto valido, e io ero frustrato.
en-it
But then I saw that this company was producing some pockets of excellence, areas in which they beat the competition in very tough, competitive sectors.
하지만 이 회사가 아주 경쟁이 치열한 분야에서 모든 경쟁을 이기고 뛰어난 우수성을 보이는 것을 발견했습니다.
en-ko
This was true in trading, in project management -- it was very true in exploration.
C'était vrai dans le négoce, la gestion de projets et encore plus dans l'exploration.
en-fr
Our exploration team was finding more oil and gas than any other company in the world.
Naš istraživački tim je nalazio više nafte i gasa od bilo koje druge kompanije na svetu.
en-sr
It was a phenomenon.
놀라운 일이었습니다.
en-ko
Everyone was trying to figure out how this was possible.
Herkes bunun nasıl mümkün olduğunu çözmeye çaşıyordu.
en-tr
I thought it was luck, but after each new discovery, that became less and less likely.
Pensavo fosse fortuna, ma dopo ogni scoperta, diventava sempre meno probabile.
en-it
So did we have a special tool? No.
¿Teníamos, entonces, alguna herramienta especial?
en-es
Did we have a killer application that no one else had? No.
Não. Tínhamos um aplicativo especial que ninguém mais tinha?
en-pt-br
Was it one genius who was finding oil for the whole team?
아니요. 회사의 천재 한 명이 모든 석유를 다 발견하고 다녀서일까요?
en-ko
No, we hadn't hired a senior guy in years.
No. Hacía años que no se contrataban empleados expertos.
en-es
So what was our secret sauce?
Was war also das Geheimnis?
en-de
I started looking at them really carefully.
بدأتُ في الحقيقة أنظرُ إليهم بدقة.
en-ar
I looked at my friend, who drilled seven dry wells, writing off more than a billion dollars for the company, and found oil on the eighth.
yedi kuru kuyu kazan -şirkete bir milyar dolardan fazlaya mal oldu- ve sekizincisinde petrol bulan arkadaşıma dönüp baktım.
en-tr
I was nervous for him ...
Ero nervoso per lui.
en-it
but he was so relaxed.
Ma lui non poteva essere più rilassato.
en-it
I mean, these guys knew what they were doing.
Ces types savaient ce qu’ils faisaient.
en-fr
And then it hit me: it was about fairness.
Daí me dei conta: tinha a ver com justiça.
en-pt-br
These guys were working in a company where they didn't need to worry about short-term results.
Aquelas pessoas trabalhavam numa empresa onde não precisavam de se preocupar com resultados a curto-prazo.
en-pt
They weren't going to be penalized for bad luck or for an honest mistake.
ولن يتم عقابهم للحظ السيء أو لخطأ غيرمقصود.
en-ar
They knew they were valued for what they were trying to do, not the outcome.
Ils savaient qu’ils étaient valorisés pour ce qu’ils essayaient de faire, pas pour le revenu généré.
en-fr
They were valued as human beings. They were part of a community.
تم تقييمهم كبشر، وكانوا جزءًا من المجتمع.
en-ar
Whatever happened, the company would stand by them.
Ne olursa olsun şirket onların yanındaydı.
en-tr
And for me, this is the definition of fairness.
Dla mnie to jest właśnie definicja sprawiedliwości.
en-pl
It's when you can lower those unfairness antennae, put them at rest.
當你可以收起偵測 不公平的天線,讓它們休息。
en-zh-tw
Then great things follow.
Отсюда следует много хорошего.
en-ru
These guys could be true to their purpose, which was finding oil and gas.
يمكنُ أن يكون هؤلاء الأشخص أوفياء لهدفهم الدي هو إيجاد النفط والغاز.
en-ar
They didn't have to worry about company politics or greed or fear.
Им не приходилось беспокоиться о политике компании, о жадности, о страхе.
en-ru
They could be good risk-takers, because they weren't too defensive and they weren't gambling to take huge rewards.
Potevano specializzarsi a correre dei rischi, perché non dovevano stare sulla difensiva o giocare d'azzardo per avere un'enorme ricompensa.
en-it
And they were excellent team workers.
同時,他們是出色的團隊工作者。
en-zh-tw
They could trust their colleagues.
Confiaron en sus colegas.
en-es
They didn't need to look behind their backs.
No les fue necesario mirar detrás de sus espaldas.
en-es
And they were basically having fun.
Et tout simplement, ils passaient du bon temps.
en-fr
They were having so much fun, one guy even confessed that he was having more fun at the company Christmas dinner than at his own Christmas dinner.
O kadar çok eğleniyorlardı ki biri, şirketin noel yemeğinde kendi evindeki noel yemeğinden daha çok eğlendiğini itiraf etti.
en-tr
(Laughter) But these guys, essentially, were working in a fair system where they could do what they felt was right instead of what's selfish, what's quick, what's convenient, and to be able to do what we feel is right is a key ingredient for fairness, but it is also a great motivator.
(Kahkahalar) Öncelikli olarak bu insanlar bencil, hızlı ya da pratik olan yerine onlara doğru hissettireni yapabilecekleri adaletli bir sistemde çalışıyorlardı. Bize doğru hissettireni yapabilmemiz adaletin ana bileşenlerinden biri ayrıca çok iyi bir motivasyon.
en-tr
And it wasn't just explorers who were doing the right thing.
不仅仅是这些勘探者们 在做正确的事情。
en-zh-cn
There was an HR director who proposed that I hire someone internally and give him a managerial job.
Una vez un director de RR. HH. me propuso dar a un empleado de la empresa un cargo gerencial.
en-es
This guy was very good, but he didn't finish high school, so formally, he had no qualifications.
Mój kandydat był świetny, ale nie skończył szkoły średniej, więc formalnie nie miał odpowiednich kwalifikacji.
en-pl
But he was so good, it made sense, and so we gave him the job.
اما او به قدری خوب بود که این کار منطقی به نظر می‌رسید و او استخدام شد.
en-fa
Or the other guy, who asked me for a budget to build a cheese factory next to our plant in Ecuador, in the village.
Oder der Kollege, der mich um die Finanzierung einer Käsefabrik bat; im Dorf neben unser Fabrik in Ecuador.
en-de