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"description": "freaking out when my best friend brought my ex around without my consent",
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} | AITA for freaking out when my best friend brought my ex around without my consent? | TL:DR below
Okay this is a complicated story so stay with me. I (31F) dated a guy, let’s call him J (26M). We dated for two years and had a horrible relationship. Don’t get me wrong, we had our good times. But he was basically verbally and emotionally abusing me. He was the king of gaslighting. He would call me a pie... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "braking up with my bf",
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} | AITA for braking up with my bf? | Am i the asshole for braking up with my bf?
Where to start? We met 3 years ago and quickly became a cupel. I was, and still am, struggling with anxiety and depression and he knew from the start. Stil he didn’t do anything to make my life easier. If I started crying I was a drama queen, and if I asked him to stop doing... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "combining my anniversary trip with my brothers birthday trip",
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} | AITA for combining my anniversary trip with my brothers birthday trip? | The title is a lot less detail oriented so hear me out.
My wife and I will have been married 5 years this summer and it falls on the 26th of the month. My brothers birthday is on the 1st of the following month and he is turning 30. His wife wants to do a surprise trip for him with my wife and I and my sister and her h... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting to give my nephews front line seats for a music festival ill be preforming at",
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} | AITA for not wanting to give my nephews front line seats for a music festival ill be preforming at? | AITA for not wanting my little nephews (11, 7 and 5 year olds who are pretty bratty and lack all sense of self control) to have the front seats to a smallish music festival where I will be presenting as a solo act for the first time? I have 2 sets of tickets, some on the front and some further back and I wanted to arra... | HISTORICAL | {
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Sf7kXk14UPJcVLfhb97BVElDYW555wqh | b9ddmm | {
"description": "telling my husband that his siblings only call for money",
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} | AITA for telling my husband that his siblings only call for money? | Don’t get me wrong, his siblings are great when they’re not trying to mooch off of us. Frankly, none of them have their shit together except one. They’re all 20-30. 3/4 of them have 1-4 kids. One of them was recently homeless, one quit his job, one refuses to try to get a job, and the other one has a job and a kid but ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "thinking about my own mental health over my boyfriend's disease",
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} | WIBTA for thinking about my own mental health over my boyfriend’s disease? | My boyfriend has been diagnosed with TB last month. He’s supposed to take around seven medicines every day which leaves him dizzy and numb headed. He also have several headaches, body itches, and chest pain.
Ever since the start of the relationship, I’ve been too caring. I wouldn’t sleep till he’s home, and now I’ve ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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c7FVrIGzDSVV6zqFpjAGSmKr00gUBqIC | b4u71l | {
"description": "teasing my gf in an online chat that she's rich",
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} | AITA for teasing my (29M) gf (34F) in an online chat that she’s rich? | We’ve been dating for 3 months. She’s an accomplished academician and was born very wealthy. I am an entrepreneur who is doing alright and looking to grow my business. She’s based in North America and I am based in Asia. A long distance relationship.
In the course of a casual late night chat over text, I was posed a q... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "shagging someone I know boyfriend doesn't approve of",
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} | AITA for shagging someone I know boyfriend doesn't approve of? | Ok first up we are non-monogamous, so shagging other people is legit and above board.
My (M37) boyfriend (M36) has a new relationship with this guy who lives 4 hours away. I don't like the new guy tbh, he gives me the creeps, and I think he takes advantage of my bf. But anyway my bf likes him so I guess I just have to... | HISTORICAL | {
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E1SMvqy0ooqvHoWcrW5FRuwQyi7g2JiG | azts05 | {
"description": "talking to a guy who haved match with me on Tinder one year ago and told to my boyfriend",
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} | AITA For talking to a guy who haved match with me on Tinder one year ago and told to my boyfriend? | So I have been with my boyfriend for the past year and before I meet him I have been on tinder and I stoped it because of bad experience. So I have on my different form of social media many guys who are from my tinder. Yesterday I talked to a guy who was to a famous party and I asked him how it was and we ended up chat... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "sending back my restaurant order because they lost my wife's",
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} | WIBTA to send back my restaurant order because they lost my wife's? | I absolutely hate it when at restaurants food comes out at different times. It ends up with 1 person sitting waiting to eat and the other one saying awkwardly, "please, get started." A lot of people just straight up won't eat until everyone has a dish.
My wife also has horrible luck at restaurants. For some reason, he... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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q5zm4xW0vtl96iIr3SZn46yxfh70jJQG | apdt6a | {
"description": "not transferring my havasu tickets",
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} | WIBTA if I didn't transfer my Havasu tickets? | My girlfriend, let's call her Alice, originally came to me with the idea of traveling to Havasu waterfall this year. It's on her bucket list of places to go to and she missed out on doing it last year. I'm a fairly outdoorsy person and it looks pretty cool so she's totally convinced me and I'm totally down to do this.... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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AuoEobkwMdQM3wh6Bxixryv3wHCSCNX7 | ajezni | {
"description": "moving to my wife's hometown instead of back home to mine",
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} | AITA for moving to my wife's hometown instead of back home to mine? | AITA? Background, I (M27) have lived about an hour and half drive away from hometown since I started college (8 years). I've gotten the guilt trips from my mom all the time to come home and visit more and call more even though she makes no effort to call me. I got married 2 years ago and my wife and I have been saving ... | HISTORICAL | {
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JBOrXxrlsNvGWIydKdstyxrtmMFmZDkl | b1xw67 | {
"description": "confronting my sister's mother-in-law for ruining my mural",
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} | WIBTA if I confronted my sister's mother-in-law for ruining my mural? | My sister is high-risk pregnant and just moved houses. Her baby is due in a few days, so when she asked me to paint a mural on the nursery it was go-time. She wanted [mountains](https://i.imgur.com/XosK7eI.jpg) on one wall, and birch trees on another. Now, my sister's mother-in-law(SMIL) normally is the go-to artist i... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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IqlPRtjjVY20Ev5WKRT4HKbFHs7TDXdK | aiav0g | {
"description": "getting angry that my best friend and ex girlfriend might date",
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} | AITA for getting angry that my best friend and ex girlfriend might date | This is a long one, so stay with me. Also my first post, so be gentle!
Background: I met a girl (referred to as Jane) in my last few weeks of college. Jane and I talked for about a month and a half and really hit it off. However, I broke things off for personal reasons (I was the asshole here). About a month after tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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e6qRJaBHjtQOmCOTyA1PZaK9K91L6PMg | at9vm4 | {
"description": "deliberately blocking a car while crossing the street",
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} | AITA for deliberately blocking a car while crossing the street? | I work in a crowded downtown district. Every day impatient motorists muscle their way into crosswalks while pedestrians are still crossing and come within a foot or less of hitting them while making a right turn. The traffic law where I am says you're supposed to yield to pedestrians in the crosswalk, regardless of if ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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dY8FP5Glic9gROk0e4dOsJKaA93snUAp | amf4fw | {
"description": "wanting to kick my roommate out",
"pronormative_score": 27,
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} | AITA for wanting to kick my roommate out? | So, I've been living with 2 friends as roommates... first mistake there, I know. One of them has been so frustrating to live with. My grandma owns the place so she rents it to us for 500 a month (pretty fucking good imo). That's only 170 a month and i'm really appreciative of this. The first battle that started, is how... | HISTORICAL | {
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FsooyHMkkjY7Cp6DkMMCq9p70DCTKIts | b6xiaa | {
"description": "telling the girl my boyfriend cheated on me about me",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | WIBTA for telling the girl my boyfriend cheated on me about me? | WIBTA if I told the girl my ex cheated on me with about me?
So I was with a guy for about 6 months, and it was going really great. We had a lot in common and similar goals and we saw each other every weekend and just generally things seemed to be going well. Unfortunately he said he lost feelings towards the end and ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"OTHER": 10,
"EVERYBODY": 0,
"NOBODY": 0,
"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 10,
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CQ0qS9m0LBuVzs5ywpf5rhPUurXkJS9T | aydbu1 | {
"description": "turning my brother in",
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} | AITA? For turning my brother in. | My brother was wanted on a warrant for refusing to stay in rehab. (Hard drug abuse)
My father's father wasn't doing so hot so a bunch of my family decided to head down to Texas to visit. I stayed home and took care of my dogs and other things my brother spent a few nights here aswell.
I came home from work not long a... | HISTORICAL | {
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UnRw8kATwkQVvylK7bkPtJ5kWN6J9RwD | amqx29 | {
"description": "telling my friend the only reason her twitch is more successful is because she is s girl? tl:DR",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for telling my friend the only reason her twitch is more successful is because she is s girl? TL:DR | If you don't know what twitch is it is a website where ppl broadcast themselves playing video games.
I've been streaming on twitch since 2014 first on my ps4 and about a month ago I built my own pc and started streaming on there so I could make it look better then it looks on the ps4. My reason for streaming on twitc... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 2,
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} | WRONG |
R1aIG5jGWjMcDITbM9VsVLVci4qUs16E | azr3rs | {
"description": "deleting people of Facebook because I'm sick of seeing posts about their babies",
"pronormative_score": 39,
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} | AITA for deleting people of Facebook because I'm sick of seeing posts about their babies? | My friends are definitely free to post whatever they want and I have never left a comment on their posts saying otherwise. But as the years go on, more and more people (from high school and old jobs) are starting families and every post they put up is about their children.
In my mind, I dont gaf if their baby had a 'p... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 39,
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} | RIGHT |
qOHQv8uPiQUseuKcxZq8ryPXByNHrcGV | ak7c4m | {
"description": "telling a kid with ADHD to shut up since he was making noise",
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} | AITA for telling a kid with ADHD to shut up since he was making noise? | Sorry for the clickbaity title, let me explain. We were taking midterms, and he kept on tapping his foot and singing to himself while everybody else was quiet. I told him to please be quiet the first time. He continued, and I told the teacher about it, then the teacher told him to be quiet. He continued to make noise, ... | HISTORICAL | {
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AVHTHvxcm4oP7ZCPhJSsj3ozTNMPemJb | 9we30i | null | AITA? Girlfriend is pissed at me over a holiday she wants to go on | So my girlfriend is pissed at me over a holiday she wants to go on.
She has lived in many places throughout her life and one of those places she’d like to visit again. She has ties and friends there and knows the place well. I’m not all that keen on going to this place, it’s not somewhere I’ve ever wanted to v... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | RIGHT |
t6GToBcibM8UHKzSFHBYY7nOehLjeVik | a7mngs | {
"description": "kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math",
"pronormative_score": 25,
"contranormative_score": 30
} | AITA for kicking a player out of our D&D group because they can't do math? | I'll try and keep this short. Quick context. I play D&D with a group of 6 guys. We meet each week, and the group is about 2 years old at this point. One of the players (Adam) invited a coworker (Sarah) to join us for a few games.
So in D&D there is a lot of math. Not difficult math, but a lot of it. Basi... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 2
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 25,
"WRONG": 30
} | WRONG |
RMaKcn9TTKB5NjvsjyEMydMbLXq3teYF | 9zo5ao | {
"description": "completely kicking someone out of my life",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for completely kicking someone out of my life? | So we were friends for about 1 year, where we became very close friends and she had snuck her way into my friend group. She decided to date one of my friends Long distance, despite protest from all other friends, and they didnt work out. That friend she dated hates me now and no longer talks to me. She talks to me abou... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
cfYtXs8vdc9PbvXK0nwcHjpU5Tyb0qHz | b0g5lw | null | AITA So I found a way to make my dog cringe | This is my first story on this subreddit. Ok. Hear me out. So I own a cute pug mix who’s more on the healthier side of pugs so he’s well built. Loves to lie around when he can, but he gets super excited whenever the time comes. One thing for sure he hates are baths or anything water related to his fur. When I’m washing... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 1,
"WRONG": 11
} | WRONG |
pL2TgpGhAGJFA2bxna9KMQnwJeowa97Z | akxdgr | {
"description": "\"cheating\" on my girlfriend of 2 years",
"pronormative_score": 21,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | AITA for “cheating” on my girlfriend of 2 years? | My girlfriend and I have been in an open relationship for 2 years, basically we have sex with 2-3 other people every week and then we openly share information and giggle and laugh about it.
I feel our bond is way deeper than anything I’ve felt before but that’s why we both agreed to an open relationship in the first p... | HISTORICAL | {
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"OTHER": 12,
"EVERYBODY": 2,
"NOBODY": 9,
"INFO": 1
} | OTHER | {
"RIGHT": 21,
"WRONG": 3
} | RIGHT |
715Vt62e3yCCQG9O7iCacenVqoyk9Czn | b9qcm9 | {
"description": "not learning italian",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | WIBTA for not learning italian? | My SO is half italian. Her close family speaks both english and italian, but many of her relatives and friends do not speak english well. We live in Scotland, but we will likely visit italy often in future as her family has a holiday home there. Especially if we have kids, as we intend to raise them bilingual.
I recen... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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} | NOBODY | {
"RIGHT": 7,
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} | RIGHT |
2l5PKoXx59I7hys3fuVkKpAqCBeyIlxa | ake160 | {
"description": "not covering shifts",
"pronormative_score": 6,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for not covering shifts? | (going to go ahead and apologize in advance for grammatical errors, English isn't my first language)
Hello, the title probably sounds bad alreadyso allow me to give some background info. I work at a very popular, green coffee shop. I don't work super often because I am in school right now (by that I mean I work 15-20h... | HISTORICAL | {
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mJI4Jtgvm4Wwh9ZE0W2YgYbIg8nz2DfE | afxfco | {
"description": "not buying 1 friend a gift if I bought another a gift",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 3
} | Aita if I didn't buy 1 friend a gift if I bought another a gift? | Both of my friends are interested in the same things and I bought 1(F1) a gift and my other(F2) is mad at me, claiming he bought gifts for me (he did) and f1 hasn't. I really bought the gift kinda because F1 was bugging me for it and didn't think about f2. I'm saving money to get a Pc and idk if I'm being stingy (it's ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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} | RIGHT |
petSp35GMQ487JXmUAp6KlTdSf4vCR5h | a0xgnl | {
"description": "showing up to hang out with friends when I wasn't invited",
"pronormative_score": 7,
"contranormative_score": 1
} | AITA for showing up to hang out with friends when I wasn’t invited? | A bit of background: For the first two months of college, i was really close with these friends. They’re really cool people and i genuinely like them. About a month ago, all of this started. I’m typing this up while eating lunch alone where we used to eat every single tuesday.
Recently, my friends have not been respo... | HISTORICAL | {
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7gBeYQyR7xcvx1BT3OwxSP9xiPbXhMgO | b15gd9 | {
"description": "yelling at a special needs student",
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} | AITA for yelling at a special needs student? | Background Info: 3 days ago I had to get my nose cauterized due to excessive nose bleeds.
So yesterday I was playing 4-square in the gym (He usual) one of the kids (Who I always thought was a bit odd) threw the basketball at face as a “joke”. When it hit the floodgates opened getting blood everywhere, my clothes the ... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | EVERYBODY | {
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} | WRONG |
Mzfq2vbo1CVgmMEH5TG4yPG2hZmaEuQY | aeyo6a | {
"description": "expecting to receive the insurance payout for my truck from my parents",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for expecting to receive the insurance payout for my truck from my parents? | Last week I totaled my truck due to some bad weather (I hit a patch of ice and lost control). Despite me driving the truck for 4 years, putting gas on it and covering maintenance, the title of the truck is still under my parent's name. The truck was given to me as a graduation gift. The only thing they currently pay fo... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | AUTHOR | {
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} | WRONG |
73FoLqzaRdmfozm9TeD6K85R3IeQCNf9 | a3us3r | {
"description": "not being willing to help a girl in class after being rejected",
"pronormative_score": 11,
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} | AITA for not being willing to help a girl in class after being rejected? | I've been in a ton of classes with a girl for 3 semesters now and I really like her and I help her with work a lot because I like her company. Well I asked her out. She wasn't down. I want some time alone to move on from this because it was a pretty major crush. She says I'm an asshole for not helping her just because ... | HISTORICAL | {
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uycO34rCy9g8DxNCjYeyQFcyaOOCCAzk | amxc2x | null | AITA for what I did to my friend who used me for university assignments? | I'm in university and happen to be a chemistry major. I don't have a lot of friends because I'm working a lot, but one friend in particular (we'll just call her friend for simplicity sake) shares lab class with me. We met in our chem lec because she just sat next to me and we started talking one day over something we d... | HISTORICAL | {
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ZoYoGqt5gRgZI97tmvhdbEIzvjTN5O1Z | ai9q2b | {
"description": "wanting to cut out my roommate from my friend group",
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} | AITA for wanting to cut out my roommate from my friend group? | It all started in September of 2018. My roommate and I have been friends since high school and are now in our second year of college together. We’ve got a group of friends up at our school and we were all pretty cool with one another until September.
So my roommate, I’ll use A to identify her from here on out, had be... | HISTORICAL | {
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R4dwR6q8dzeqzEkrKcMn7UlfoMsESuBa | ak0u9j | {
"description": "telling my RA about my roommates pissing problem",
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} | AITA for telling my RA about my roommates pissing problem? | Last semester, very first weeks in, my roommate was drunk one night and woke up & pissed on my laptop. I was super mad about it & the next day he went and bought me a new laptop. A few weeks after that, he had friends staying over and he drunkenly pissed on one of their bags.
That was the last incident of tha... | HISTORICAL | {
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EGCFl0M5TCnadgZreaA7SAhsFJNtW0jO | b7hhfw | {
"description": "booking a trip for my daughter and I when my parents didn't pay as much for I thought they would? now my wife is pissed. I had no idea they wouldn't give me half",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA because I booked a trip for my daughter and I when my parents didn't pay as much for I thought they would? Now my wife is pissed. I had no idea they wouldn't give me half. | My wife suggested earlier this year that my daughter and I visit my parents in August. My parents live in Malta (not really but I'd rather no one be able to ID me by chance).
In January, ticket prices were $1600ish for my daughter and I.
The prices shot up to $2000 because we didn't book. The trip was effectively ca... | HISTORICAL | {
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Hq5hZYkXrOiRKO1rykDgHzxkoGO0oF47 | a9lqzx | {
"description": "telling my GF which pornstar I was getting off to",
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} | AITA for telling my GF which pornstar I was getting off to? | Got into a useless fight with LDR GF (blames me for making my internet dc on webcam...), was on a discord phone call with her late night, got horny, found a picture of a pornstar online via Twitter, reversed it for scientific purposes..
​
Asks me in the morning, I heard you typing and looking up shit while... | HISTORICAL | {
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kVjEtUDC8ORppaT5CuYyQaPJyVGfvw8g | amnh85 | {
"description": "not wanting to talk about certain things with my family",
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} | AITA for not wanting to talk about certain things with my family. | So to give you some backstory. I have suffered from depression since summer 2017 when I was rejected from army service bc of a diagnose (which symptoms grew away with age). This was a major trauma in my life.
I have also ended up in unemployment and I have no drivers license which makes my life very difficult rn.
My ... | HISTORICAL | {
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5RgaDfGfjKAJmXSa47E31a7nLdGkitDi | addc8g | {
"description": "taking my son to a homeless shelter because he wouldn't get a job",
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} | AITA - I took my son to a homeless shelter because he wouldn't get a job | My son was 23 when this happened but I've always felt guilty about it. This was a few years ago.
My son was one of those kids who just wanted to lay around and pig out and play video games. He could never keep a job for very long. He had friends over every weekend and contributed nothing. Every time I tried to talk t... | HISTORICAL | {
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GheHxcvYVRfRJhYeDXmMrQtCByPHNd0y | aadbws | {
"description": "canceling plans with my bestfriend",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for canceling plans with my bestfriend? | I live in a studio apartment with my bestfriend, but we live on opposite schedules so we never see each other. The rare times we do have the same day off, she spends it with family or her girlfriend, which isn't a problem.
But this weekend we made plans, just us, to catch up and go to a bar we wanted to try, which I w... | HISTORICAL | {
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fdHia9pxfH2G7QxPTMp0BApdCwpbSGCb | adhkid | {
"description": "wanting my ex to also put in effort to make us work",
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} | AITA for wanting my ex to also put in effort to make us work | We have dated for 4 years and we are 20. I cheated on her 2 years ago because she didn't reciprocate love back to me. I only told her recently because I didn't want to lie to her anymore. Because things have been getting more serious. After I told her, we broke up.
We have been broken up for a few months now, and we b... | HISTORICAL | {
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RI4DGC4u8ziE7cQClQvhWw2FaXvGdWBs | anvgds | {
"description": "telling my so not take a trip to see her sick grandpa",
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} | AITA for telling my SO not take a trip to see her sick grandpa? | So my girlfriend found out her grandpa is sick in the hospital and tells me the same day she is driving 9 hours to go see him and will be gone a week. Apparently it is not looking good and no one knows for sure if he will recover. Normally I would tell her of course you gotta go but not now and here is why.
Firstly we... | HISTORICAL | {
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hxHrfx2IxNs4XGpYNItgfdAoTPdfVlgt | aijp5f | {
"description": "not backing down on a gendered perspective",
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} | AITA for not backing down on a gendered perspective | Sorry it's a little long, TLDR at the end.
My girlfriend and I have had a few rocky fights from time to time, usually nothing too big and over menial things that we both agree we shouldn't be fighting about. I still love her after the fights and I usually want them to be over and resolved as quickly as possible becaus... | HISTORICAL | {
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7QtYZ0gSTpBUydPCDlZfFrWptxdlnlDk | apofmd | {
"description": "not wanting to take our sick child to the mall",
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} | AITA for not wanting to take our sick child to the mall? | I (32f) have a child (1m) with my boyfriend (41m) of 7 years. Over the past four days or so, our son has been pretty sick with a respiratory illness -- not bad enough for the hospital, but bad enough to keep him home from daycare as he is coughing up massive amounts of phlegm and has been very listless and fussy.
Yest... | HISTORICAL | {
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jfwTWCjhQ4WUAkT0OYFV11XfHSnMt2vA | b4i7b8 | null | AITA In a Relationship | Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years and have been in distance relationship for last 6 months. Our relationship has it's up and down and we find our ways back to each other.
AITA asking my boyfriend to stay with me in a different city than his current location as he has a remote job ?
He mentions he has ... | HISTORICAL | {
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J0TDxXMFzogpjBsrbNLOvJHRleZnjj7z | awem8r | {
"description": "sending my ex back to live with her family",
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} | AITA for sending my ex back to live with her family | what happened was me and my ex girlfriend hand been living together for 3 months dating off and on for 9 months
over the months of us living together I slowly began to fall out of love with her.
honestly by February I was done but I gave it another shot anyways because I didn't want to be the bad lady that didn't g... | HISTORICAL | {
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GqZaA9aHmX13bdrMP92TTqgEQy6q5nb5 | b7o6ep | {
"description": "shutting down at a party and making it awkward",
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} | AITA for shutting down at a party and making it awkward | My wife and I were with good friends the other night, having drinks and playing games. Later in to the night the party unconsciously divides itself between the men and the women. The women were sitting down at a table talking, and I was watching March Madness with the guys. We’re all talking and laughing when one of th... | HISTORICAL | {
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5WxDoxalEg7ffNVntuADQEuVZs4vVgPs | adl53y | {
"description": "expecting my partner to be angrier with his best friend after she accused me of making false rape allegations against him",
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} | AITA for expecting my partner to be angrier with his best friend after she accused me of making false rape allegations against him? | Two years ago, he and I broke up after he was abusive toward me, and at one point I sent a message to our shared friend group explaining the situation and why I wouldn't be around anymore. (We're all late 20s.) Now, he's gone through therapy/anger management and we're giving it another shot.
His female best friend an... | HISTORICAL | {
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Kr2YOw6k3nsLbeDh4E9tT10DbfhIwPE7 | aye4re | {
"description": "snitching on someone whose vaping in class habits could cause us to lose my favorite class",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for snitching on someone whose vaping in class habits could cause us to lose my favorite class? | So recently our Video Production teacher learned of some students vaping habits in class, and decided to let the class know to tell him about anybody that Vaped. Well I decided to tell him about someone (privately) and now apparently other people think I was the one who started the whole ordeal and now our teacher is g... | HISTORICAL | {
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mwPFMrlx4EpegOLpN7u2zoAHGluGimqx | b29030 | {
"description": "not guiding a friend who is new to the city",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for not guiding a friend who is new to the city? | Me (F19) and some friends (about the same age) were meeting up to catch up on our lives. The plan was to get together at around 5pm at the subway station nearest to my appartment (roughly 30min walk). This was arranged by one friend, N (F18), so that I could guide her to the place and not get lost.
Most were already o... | HISTORICAL | {
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jwuzQSrlsGpvAX27Y2Iu4a32Oro24wVs | aau3br | {
"description": "not cooking dinner for my parents every single night they come home from work",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not cooking dinner for my parents every single night they come home from work? | For context, they work the same job at the same time and get home around 2am. They (Pretty much my dad 99.999% of the time) always expect me or someone in the household to constantly have food prepped and ready for them when they get home. Sure, I can make rice pretty quickly because I just have to rinse it and leave i... | HISTORICAL | {
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l4DaAJeM4qNQiaZ7955sIVxuoaK6GQou | aq80zy | {
"description": "not wanting to give money to extended relatives",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to give money to extended relatives? | So I am going back to my home country (third world) for a holiday soon and I’ve already told my parents and grandparents how much money I plan on spending whilst there.
My mum and nan seemed to be okay with the amount but as soon as I’d told my dad and grandad (living back home), they told me that it might not be suf... | HISTORICAL | {
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29MWH8e8Z1dRdL3kterkUrjEHBrk6K5H | 9v6b3x | {
"description": "being offended by my friends saying I'm cheating at my art",
"pronormative_score": 28,
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} | AITA for being offended by my friends saying I’m cheating at my art? | So I am planning on writing and drawing my own comic i want it to be fairly realistic in full color with painted backgrounds possibly some parts even being animated, it’s gonna be a bitch to make. So I came up with the idea of sculpting pose able models of my characters out of clay so that i could take pictures of them... | HISTORICAL | {
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32wPEWHDzpGoq6jgZFYZ2mGs639g86GG | b8pgod | {
"description": "telling my classmates the giant dog video they were watching was fake",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for telling my classmates the giant dog video they were watching was fake? | I (24F) overheard some fellow classmates today talking about a video I had seen on Facebook last night, which was basically a video complication of photoshopped pictures featuring a guy and his 450 pound dog. At first I thought they were just laughing about it, but then one of them started explaining the dog had “too m... | HISTORICAL | {
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XCqyVlyqrkMfgGvWnJRij6zPTkVaQdMC | aeqrr4 | {
"description": "telling my mother that I think she's being selfish for wanting to abandon her kids ASAP to persue other life interests",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for telling my mother that I think she's being selfish for wanting to abandon her kids ASAP to persue other life interests? | AITA for telling my mother that she was being selfish for wanting to abandon her kids ASAP to persue her other life interests?
Yesterday me(17M) and my mother(43F) were having a very real, very irritating conversation about her no longer wanting to live with me and take care of me anymore. My mother wants me to drop ... | HISTORICAL | {
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KedSEpMCXGTUnuQeBrYthssY7zeG4Z4R | ahz6fg | {
"description": "pulling my son out of daycare on a weeks notice",
"pronormative_score": 42,
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} | AITA for pulling my son out of daycare on a weeks notice? | I have a son (12 months old) that was scheduled to start daycare next week. We'd booked a spot half a year ago with a daycare and already submitted our first months schedule. A few days ago we learned through Facebook that the daycare provider got a one year old puppy (will not name the breed to prevent bias) that I ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"RIGHT": 42,
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fjuLPyPAHMUuRmB0bX6QF8UNHhD8Gk0g | anprls | {
"description": "abandoning my friend",
"pronormative_score": 3,
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} | AITA for abandoning my friend | So a couple months ago I cut ties with one of my friends (we will call her A) because I couldn't deal with how she would treat me.
For context, due to past experiences I tend to be closed and untrusting in person, this has led to me putting on a persona of a cocky joker, to an almost arrogant degree, in order to try a... | HISTORICAL | {
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vvcAQQzTH9lNt4HipPaxYOAMZuM0kPT3 | av8wup | {
"description": "throwing away a dying snail that a kid showed me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for throwing away a dying snail that a kid showed me? | I'll try to keep this brief. I think IATA in this situation but decided I should seek an official answer so I can finally rest easy either way.
​
I was on a mission trip and there was another family there including a young boy, maybe around age 10, whose parents I'd gotten to know. For part of the trip... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ti09i0XdoUDNltDxvMuysDtmUguzNukD | a4z1nb | {
"description": "not visiting my mentally ill sister",
"pronormative_score": 12,
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} | AITA for not visiting my mentally ill sister? | I'm asking because I genuinely have no idea whether I'm doing the right thing.
My sister has mental health issues that are particularly ill at evening and night-time. I've been there for her for months, but tonight I just didn't have the energy. She has called me a few times tonight and flat-out asked if I can come o... | HISTORICAL | {
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pS9lHIa2MSYLGsua2036GffdqDmTIUGu | ak6qli | {
"description": "being upset that I wasn't part of my brother's wedding",
"pronormative_score": 17,
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} | AITA for being upset that I wasn’t part of my brother’s wedding? | So my brother and I have always been fairly close (we have no other siblings), and a few years back, he told me he was going to propose to his long term girlfriend. I was ecstatic for him - I offered to go ring shopping with him (I’m female and he said he was clueless about rings), I jokingly asked to be best man or a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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GhH1Mz9fPCphYLIvAJSXziwxB7JabiXV | a3gnxx | {
"description": "not inviting a \"friend\" in friend group to a party",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not inviting a "friend" in friend group to a party? | So there's a girl from my old job who's in a group that keeps in touch with one another. I like everyone BUT this chick, and I'm the only one who calls her out on her crap. She's a very mean, douchey person who regularly makes others in my group of friends feel bad. She constantly criticizes people to their face or tal... | HISTORICAL | {
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OsxAqHlBWrBwEdLvYaxUiUHj4k9gFano | av62h9 | {
"description": "ghosting my gf",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for ghosting my gf | Usually I’m (24m) the one who tries to comfort my gf when she’s sad and be there when she needs me, but this time roles are reversed.
In my childhood i went through a pretty traumatic period that I haven‘t told anyone about. I just kind of suppressed it by holing up and and later started with bodybuilding to get my c... | HISTORICAL | {
"AUTHOR": 0,
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NTDvnuD2GMfqUo3umtwGU9RVmsXWoRFz | ausfcn | {
"description": "not wanting to draw for my friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | AITA For not wanting to draw for my friend? | First off, I'm on mobile, I know the formatting sucks. Second off, I am very young.
Not to suck my own nipple or anything, but I'm good at art. I know I am. And I have a really close friend (who is a year older than me) and she likes my art and compliments it very often. Nothing wrong with that, right?
The problem i... | HISTORICAL | {
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wsVUnUosoG3iQaEevfnM2kQqDfkLaMWj | awxso1 | {
"description": "contracting an STD in a long-distance, open relationship",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for contracting an STD in a long-distance, open relationship? | I (29M) was in a long distance relationship (26F) that was non-exclusive. We had great physical and emotional chemistry and fell in love fairly quickly. Since we were VERY far apart and both had healthy sex drives, we mutually decided to date/hook-up with other people until we were living in the same city, and then we ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"INFO": 1
} | AUTHOR | {
"RIGHT": 6,
"WRONG": 10
} | WRONG |
DjJ2F0CNgLhQ2frDLiG7fLjqKLC32TqU | asi1sd | {
"description": "having no ounce of love for my brother at a young age",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA For having no ounce of love for my brother at a young age? | This may sound like a typical run of the mill sibling rivalry, but I’m sick of everything and I can’t do much because I’m young.
Lets start off with my brother. Annoying, a druggie, high school drop out, and overall fucking jerk. 25 years old. Is “sick” and had/currently still has autism. My relationship with them is ... | HISTORICAL | {
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X1hvduDSMVERC26Kr7R134obYYJTjTy0 | 9vpg26 | {
"description": "getting pissed at my friend for",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for getting pissed at my friend for | Alright, so first I'd like to apologize for my english, as I'm not a native speaker.
Second, this is a throwaway account, as my friends know my usual tag.
Now, onto my story. Basically, we're 8-10 guys, who all know each other irl. Me and the server owner have known each other for around 10ish years, and we're ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "telling my Bestfriend's new girlfriend to go fuck herself",
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} | AITA for telling my Bestfriend’s new girlfriend to go fuck herself? | A couple of hours ago me and my wife went to dinner with my best friend to meet his new girlfriend for the first time. My buddy introduced her and greet each other and then immediately after she looks me up and down and tell me that the shirt I’m wearing is “hideous”.
Now I will not lie, I’m not a fan of flannels bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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aA224zbLxDGOP53RN2sNIjqZ9EnwACcw | 9z7ib4 | {
"description": "not apologizing after hitting someone with the door",
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} | AITA for not apologizing after hitting someone with the door? | AITA for hitting a co-worker with the door because she was hanging out on the other-side? How would I know she is standing there, when I can't see her? She does this all the time, and I have hit her with the door in the past a few times and apologized, and she looks at me like I'm an asshole for hitting her, like I did... | HISTORICAL | {
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L79z9EAP4jwXAxwkhbxVML2h2cHJkdi5 | b7l3g5 | {
"description": "bringing up a coworker/friend's social awkwardness in an attempt to be constructive",
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} | WIBTA if I brought up a coworker/friend’s social awkwardness in an attempt to be constructive? | For some context, I have a job in college with this other guy, let’s call him John. This job is relevant to the career field that we both want to get into. Getting into said career field is 99.99% about who you know. We both interned for this school job for 7 weeks and it was very intensive so we grew quite close, but ... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"description": "telling my mom if I invite my brother to my wedding for her sake she's responsible for his conduct",
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} | AITA for telling my mom if I invite my brother to my wedding for her sake she's responsible for his conduct? | I was not going to invite my oldest brother to my wedding. It has never been my plan to invite him.
He is 20 years older than me and lives in a different state. We have no relationship - he was out of the house by the time I was born and then moved across the country and then when he came back to the east coast he wa... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "wanting to sleep on my wife's side of the bed",
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} | AITA for wanting to sleep on my wife's side of the bed? | My wife and I have a good marriage. We have been married for 4 years. However, one of the things we sometimes argue about is where we sleep on the bed.
I sleep on the left side of the bed, and she sleeps on the right side. It's a queen bed. I'm 6ft, 180 lbs so it's not a size thing (and she's much smaller than me)... | HISTORICAL | {
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cN94zCGbnHv7jLB0UoJWAUijrtCmmC1i | b9s3xm | {
"description": "not wanting to write an animal watching review for my ex",
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} | AITA for not wanting to write an animal watching review for my ex? | TLDR @ bottom.
I [M30] broke up with my ex [F27] just before Valentine's day. We are on lease at a two bedroom apartment, and stay out of each other's way. It's basically come down to me moving in with my parents at the end of April and splitting my half of the rent so we can try to move on.
I've tried to keep thing ... | HISTORICAL | {
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AmiiVR2rnpVmnDGEIxDSyhHQMmG2cCjZ | awb2x9 | {
"description": "not wanting to date anyone with mental health issues",
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} | AITA for not wanting to date anyone with mental health issues? | My dad has suffered from depression for the last 30 years. He does nothing to help himself and expects my mother to make allowances for him. As I have grown older I feel like I have to make those allowances too. I have to be careful what I say around him because a throwaway comment can and has been used later on in an ... | HISTORICAL | {
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"description": "not wanting my girlfriend to bring her cat when she moves in",
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} | AITA if I don't want my girlfriend to bring her cat when she moves in? | It's safe to say that I am a dog person. I've always loved dogs and always had dogs, and my dog that I have now is my best bud. I love how social they are and how much they show love back to their humans, and that they are smart and trainable.
I definitely do not like cats. Lots of people love them and that's fine. Bu... | HISTORICAL | {
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Ja2jusjAo26D22CdNDj7KQ2T8xmH2nXt | b4f3og | {
"description": "returning my ex's love ring and purse",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for returning my ex’s love ring and purse? | So I had bought my ex girlfriend a Cartier love ring and and Chloe bag for her birthday as gifts. Quite expensive gifts for an average dude like myself. A week later I discover she’s been texting with an old friend of hers call him the love of her life. I broke up with her and returned the gifts I had gotten her for he... | HISTORICAL | {
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HErUL5jQN3Wv927mYXG8FAVMN9PccBhu | a6m1my | {
"description": "being angry that my bipolar brother is off his meds. again",
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} | AITA for being angry that my bipolar brother is off his meds. Again. | My bipolar brother who is heavily dependent on his medication revealed to me tonight that not only has he stopped taking his meds but that he also stopped seeing his therapist as far back as a month ago. And purposely kept it from everyone.
I LOVE my brother completely. We're four years apart but we've always shared... | HISTORICAL | {
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sghd8f4KyRt5aP76zMOunNK6x8qBFGAF | b4dt5k | {
"description": "fighting with my sister about something racist her boyfriend said/did in a public family gathering",
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} | AITA for fighting with my sister about something racist her boyfriend said/did in a public family gathering? | Just looking for some clarity on this situation because it is getting very muddy and convoluted and I can’t think straight about it anymore.
At my one sisters 18th bday party at a Japanese steakhouse, my whole family came out to celebrate. At the end of the meal the manager came by to say hello and that she hoped we’... | HISTORICAL | {
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q0f1vxQQ0KnRehTYkb7QtOdlkMURunNv | 9xi1iz | {
"description": "leaving a friend at a bar",
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} | AITA for leaving a friend at a bar? | Set up: I got out of the Army in July and started attending college on the west coast in the Fall. Most of my old Army buddies are in completely different areas of the country so I basically never see them and only stay in touch via text. About a month ago one of my best friends (let's call him Brian) from the Army com... | HISTORICAL | {
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ATljEN8y0Hx3pumyBRiHg8ppLMR6b6FA | a2ytmb | {
"description": "not paying my roommates part of the rent after she has to go back home",
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} | AITA for not paying my roommates part of the rent after she has to go back home? | A friend (no longer) and I decided we would rent a room together for the summer (2 months). In the middle of the second month she told me she was going back home and since she was leaving she was only going to pay for half the rent of the second month. She told me I had to pay the rest since I was going to have the roo... | HISTORICAL | {
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swmIvZBf05nYSoTDe0Q0fUdoaJxeqTrb | b7s2lc | {
"description": "not wanting to pay for lifts",
"pronormative_score": 1,
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} | AITA for not wanting to pay for lifts? | Disclaimer: writing this on behalf of my gf and from her perspective.
Occasionally I get a ride to work with my good friend and co-worker who lives near me, as I can't drive. However, every time I catch a lift, he charges me quite a bit of money. I think this is unfair, as we have the same destination, and where he dr... | HISTORICAL | {
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rzQ5DmE6PCX1b7Lw7IguJIuEYZQIXtIc | 9xat0q | {
"description": "not caring about my girlfriend's problems anymore",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA for not caring about my girlfriend's problems anymore | My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 4 years. I have helped her out a hell of a lot as she was having a hard time with her family, work, and friends. It was causing her a lot of stress.
During this time, she seemed to basically invent problems for herself, constantly operating at very high emotion, as if th... | HISTORICAL | {
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eRIHBUvrAbsFUcIlso1bPUN6XaKg00MO | 9ya758 | {
"description": "running a business competitor out of business",
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} | AITA for running a business competitor out of business? | First off some context.
I’m currently in school (Year 10 to be exact or 9th grade in America) and for the last 2 years I have been selling sweets in school. Bringing in a profit of roughly £50 a day average.
Recently a kid who is two years below me began selling stuff as well. Sensing a threat I began selling stuff c... | HISTORICAL | {
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Y8il6gUp6fQcJSNiQwrcQA7ZCl1xjR0G | b1qazb | {
"description": "being mad at my girlfriend for asking me if I'm gay again",
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} | AITA for being mad at my girlfriend for asking me if I’m gay again? | So I’m a heterosexual male and my girlfriend is a bisexual female. Throughout my life I’ve been asked if I’m gay several times, at school, at work, to friends. I don’t mind telling people that I’m straight, I guess I give off a vibe that I’m gay, it’s no big deal I don’t mind. Usually nobody questions it.
So I start... | HISTORICAL | {
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N09BSJ9aWhJkePGMMliTx9fXOkA6jZ9W | a55c57 | {
"description": "telling my long time friend and brother in law that his focus on my daughter is not ok thus ruining the relationship and my wife's with her sister",
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} | AITA for telling my long time friend and brother in law that his focus on my daughter is not ok thus ruining the relationship and my wife’s with her sister. | So my friend I have known since kindergarten ( I’m almost 40) married my wife’s sister. Over the past year he has developed what we perceive as an infatuation with my daughter. She is 3. Examples: calls her “my Betsy”, refers to himself as your uncle all creepily, a picture of her on his dash board, his phone screen s... | HISTORICAL | {
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Uq3zOXRi29xo7dmYurMJKV5FsqvGvi9U | ad0jqt | {
"description": "calling my sister retarded for not accepting our criminal relative's planned inheritance",
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} | AITA For calling my sister Retarded for not accepting our criminal relative's planned inheritance? | Throwaway acc for obvious reasons.
I have a relative who is very wealthy. The only problem is, he's a known pedophile.
He plans to give me and my sister 7 million dollars each when he dies. Now im not saying he is a good person but i will gladly take 7 mil from him even if hes done the horrible things he did.
She to... | HISTORICAL | {
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fu7L5yD7alQJuR0LHT6G4WJxMqsLBe3s | aktfai | {
"description": "filing a charge back against an artist who got my character wrong",
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} | AITA for filing a charge back against an artist who got my character wrong? | Commissioned an artist, send them *multiple* references (12-15) of my character and they STILL messed it up on the final product. I asked if they could fix it and they told me it would cost extra since its difficult to fix when it’s done and it’s not “their fault” if I didn’t say anything during the WIPS but I didn’t n... | HISTORICAL | {
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Eu0VBraZRGJgmIQAEVmQjitltcCTNAbq | b6r971 | {
"description": "calling out a girl for always trying to condescend me",
"pronormative_score": 4,
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} | AITA if I call out a girl for always trying to condescend me? | So I belong to an organization at school and know plenty of people there. We have our own “families” with people we share interests or whatever based on a survey. Anyways, I have a big “sister” and brother, some siblings and my own little. The big “sister” I was assigned last year has always treated me differently. I’v... | HISTORICAL | {
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GtHzdeDBeddevmfPwR5YGvcz6XVetdSN | b7k85t | {
"description": "cutting off my best friend",
"pronormative_score": 8,
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} | WIBTA if I cut off my best friend | OK so both of us are in high school and are seniors. Last year we were super close (hung out almost every day) and she was the first person I opened up to bout my depression. I thought our friendship was gonna last outside of school. But lately she has been very distant from me. She makes excuses that she can't hang ou... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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2vqJZEfS3EwoxccY9EaKygZHaf6g7U4Z | axtkgq | {
"description": "refusing my grandparents a funeral plot",
"pronormative_score": 10,
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} | AITA for refusing my grandparents a funeral plot? | I‘m a 22 and a caregiver paid by the state to care for my grandparents. With the paycheck I receive, I pay my bills and every now and then some of their bills or other miscellaneous purchases ($200+ one time because my grandmother saw a “free trial” for a back massager but didn’t know she’d have to pay after 20 days; s... | HISTORICAL | {
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} | OTHER | {
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SnPhOSucDPfHFpFPiw4DaLI1na1kuQu6 | b68tb2 | {
"description": "asking the cashier to excuse the extra penny",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for asking the cashier to excuse the extra penny? | I’m only 15. I went into a local sandwich shop where you order at one counter, they make your sandwich, then you pay at another counter. I grabbed a drink and chips as well and did the math in my head, happy I had enough money. Well, being a stupid 15 year old, I forgot tax was a thing. My total came out to exactly $12... | HISTORICAL | {
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j3DDyQTsMa5sBo3ITydvxY6FWn10h8ho | b9jj2z | {
"description": "thinking about unmatching this girl from a friends app because of this",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for thinking about unmatching this girl from a friends app because of this?? | So I’ve been using bumble BFF to get to know some new girls in the area and I matched this one girl and the convo started as normal she seemed nice. Complimented me too, which was nice and I did the same back. Asked me how I am etc and I replied
But then she said she was feeling ill with a sore throat and I said ooh I... | HISTORICAL | {
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injsKnyH3povztov0ChkJpz9gom35cMQ | 9u8l28 | {
"description": "not wanting to be part of the family gift exchange",
"pronormative_score": 6,
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} | AITA for not wanting to be part of the family gift exchange? | My family has done a gift exchange my entire life. Rather than include every member with a small gift, you "draw a name out of a hat" and get that person a larger gift. Historically you were expected to spend $50-75 USD. I've tried to opt out before, but my father convinced me to stay involved. An opportunity to le... | HISTORICAL | {
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gMxNdKsBs1XzugAA9ARQC2Jh3PaBDdFu | a58rb1 | {
"description": "not wanting to spend all of Christmas with my inlaws",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for not wanting to spend all of Christmas with my inlaws? | My inlaws (FIL, MIL, aunts, cousins, all much older than my husband and I) are a group of tight-knit, racist, classist, conservative Christians who identify their politics with their religion. I am a liberal, not racist or classist, second generation atheist, military brat who really doesn't care what they think or bel... | HISTORICAL | {
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HcaWHr6gYJOqaEEZYftIxk107Q8jybxc | arne07 | {
"description": "ghosting 2 different friends because their drunken behavior when they visit",
"pronormative_score": 2,
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} | AITA for ghosting 2 different friends because their drunken behavior when they visit? | I don't have many friends to begin with because I'm really not all that social, especially being married with kids and a busy work schedule. I treasure the few that I have, but in the last year, I got pretty fed up with what was my best friend of more than 20 years. I've always treated her and her family like my own f... | HISTORICAL | {
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judLUGRyu0zQ2aW0v6YDTIQZQO5zM90u | adzlox | {
"description": "kissing a girl at the club",
"pronormative_score": 7,
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} | AITA for kissing a girl at the club? | I went to the club last night with a couple friends, had some drinks, and met a girl I matched with on tinder. From even before I recognized her she looked like she was confused but she was with her friends and upon recognizing me she approached me. I asked if she would like to dance and she said yes. We danced for a ... | HISTORICAL | {
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rcAIcdlpzuDPbVpfCkMzJ5znTLCapoiZ | anqn7i | {
"description": "wanting to shoot my friend's annoying flatmate with a nerf gun whilst high",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | AITA for wanting to shoot my friend’s annoying flatmate with a nerf gun whilst high? | Throwaway account because my main account username is my real name.
This is more of a ‘Are we the assholes’ case than just myself.
Preface: The annoying flatmate recently broke up with her boyfriend of nearly 2 years and was already quite an eccentric and unstable person to begin with, so it doesn’t help that she w... | HISTORICAL | {
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xzi80KcQSgFiImV44aU64nPlkg8IBqnt | awqwte | {
"description": "wanting to message my abusers current gf",
"pronormative_score": 9,
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} | AITA for wanting to message my abusers current gf | I want to message my abusers current girlfriend. I seen that he had a new girlfriend and that she has 3 children. He abused me when I was a child and idk if it’s my place or not to say anything to her. I want her to know what kind of person she is with and I want to ensure the safety of her children. Am I overstepping ... | HISTORICAL | {
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TQ37dQ90LBuAXJurHhq2btNovXAfiNWj | a8ifmq | {
"description": "not get getting DH's mom's husband a gift that was only for him at Christmas",
"pronormative_score": 5,
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} | Aita for not get getting DH's mom's husband a gift that was only for him at Christmas? | For the last 9 years DH and I buy and prepare all the food for Thanksgiving and xmas (usually costs about $250 per meal). We also try to buy all of the family members that come over a gift and also have the kids make gifts, from them, to everyone. A few years ago DH and I were saving money to buy a house so we told eve... | HISTORICAL | {
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M1qRYqSf8gASX1I8wxllyeOVcE0IgZ5k | 9veus0 | {
"description": "texting my cousin that she hurt my feelings",
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} | WIBTA if I text my cousin that she hurt my feelings? | My mom told me my cousin was saying some pretty mean things about my boyfriend this past weekend at her birthday party. It has really upset me because she is talking about his looks and not his character and not only is saying mean things about him because my mom likes him. I want to text and her and let her know tha... | HYPOTHETICAL | {
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"INFO": 0
} | OTHER | {
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